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welcome …to the third issue of our exclusive ‘Weddings in the South’ magazine, Dorset and Hampshire edition. Our stunning Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa and Kings Arms venues have teamed up to fill these pages with inspiration for every aspect of your wedding day.

Whether it’s a coastal backdrop, with glistening harbour views, or a whimsical wedding set in the heart of Christchurch, both venues offer a truly unique setting for your perfect day. Packed full of great features, our latest edition offers a fabulous guide for every couple planning a Christchurch wedding. From picking the perfect dress to keeping your guests entertained and choosing the perfect menu to suit your style, your wedding will be a flawless day to remember. This third edition is full of fantastic ideas to help you plan your wonderful wedding. ‘Pretty Petals’ is the perfect feature to help you pick your wedding flowers and ‘The Finer Details’ is full of all those little details that make your wedding unique. In Christchurch we’re blessed with a spectacular corner of the country – we’re sure you’ll instantly fall for the romance of a Christchurch wedding, from the moment you turn the first page... Please don’t hesitate to get in touch. We’d love to show you what a wedding at each of our spectacular venues can offer to you and your day of dreams. We look forward to hearing from you soon.

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what’s inside

what’s inside Weddings in the South Magazine, Dorset & Hampshire Edition No. 3

christchurch harbour hotel & spa

more than just a day

fun & games

Perfectly positioned to indulge in sweeping harbour views and a truly idyllic venue for your wedding celebration

A few ideas to make your big day into a ‘big weekend’

Make sure your wedding is the event of the year, by keeping your guests entertained from the ‘I dos,’ until the last dancer retreats from the floor

petal pretty

the kings arms Set in the heart of Christchurch, The Kings Arms seamlessly blends tradition with exquisite contemporary style

the kings pavilion Opposite The Kings Arms, this traditional bowling pavilion has been lovingly transformed into a beautiful New England style wedding venue

delectable dining Award winning Chef Patron Alex Aitken creates delectable menus for both venues, with a focus on fresh ingredients bursting with flavour

Dress your day with fantastic flowers that accentuate your colour palette and theme

the look of love

the finer details Consider the intricate details that will make your wedding day perfectly personal

pamper & polish

Getting married is one of the biggest and most exciting times of a girl’s life and finding the perfect dress is one of the top priorities.

Relax into your big day, as you make the most of our luxury Harbour Spa

your wedding guide

diamonds are forever

The date, the venue, the decorations, the food, the guest list… there’s plenty to consider in the run up to your wedding

Choosing the ring that will represent your union is an exciting but sometimes daunting task

your wedding, your way

raise a toast… A professional Toastmaster will ensure you are stress-free to savour every precious second of your big day

We ask four couples about their big days and find out if there are any secrets to success...

photography kindly supplied by… Anna Allan Photography Anna Morgan Photography Courtenay Photography

Amanda Clay Photography BH13 Photography Barry Whitcher Photography Nick Rutter Photography

Emma Hurley Photography Peppermint Love Photography Reid Photography Taylor Made Photography

Christchurch front cover image courtesy of Nick Rutter Photography | Kings front cover image courtesy of Peppermint Love Photography 5

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christchurch harbour hotel & spa

Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa is perfectly positioned to indulge in sweeping harbour views. A truly idyllic venue for your wedding celebration â&#x20AC;&#x201C; harbour life bustles by as you sip Champagne on the terrace and take your vows against an unbeatable backdrop.

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A grade II listed Georgian building sat on the water’s edge, the hotel complements the surrounding natural beauty with elegant and contemporary décor. Guests are offered the option of staying in one of the many bedrooms– perfect to relax in luxury before and after the celebrations. And with so much to discover in the local area, from exploring the coastline with the hotel’s very own kayaks and paddle-boards, to walking in the nearby New Forest, extending their stay over a few days will mean your wedding is a real event for friends and family.

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waterford suite With the spectacular Christchurch Harbour as a panoramic backdrop, the Waterford Suite is the perfect setting to take your vows and host your wedding breakfast. Chic and stylish, this sun-drenched venue is licensed for up to 100 people to share in the most important moment of your life. Like the glistening sea, chandeliers sparkle in the sunlight, which pours into this room. Light and airy, the room leads out onto its own private wedding terrace, complete with Champagne Beach Hut Bar for a relaxed drinks reception to toast the newlyweds.

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private wedding terrace Our wide and beautifully decked exclusive wedding terrace overlooks the stunning harbour views, with a number of beautiful backdrops for photographs. Also featured within the grounds is our unique wooden swing, ideal for picture perfect moments on the water’s edge. Pictures of the couple or fun group shots of the whole wedding party are accentuated by the unrivalled and glorious setting of Christchurch Harbour. When considering your drinks reception, the terrace’s Champagne Beach Hut Bar is a great addition to the reception and after ceremony drinks. Perfect for beach-themed celebrations, guests can stroll down to the water’s edge with Champagne in hand, as they enjoy the view. To complement your al fresco reception, a BBQ wedding breakfast is a wonderful option to incorporate the stunning outdoors that makes this venue so special. What better way to celebrate your union than a glass of bubbly, whilst gazing over sparkling azure waters?

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lower deck As the final embers of the sun sink below the horizon, the chic Lower Deck awaits to welcome your guests for your evening celebrations. Private yet spacious, the room is ideal to let your hair down at the end of a perfect day. The use of your own exclusive bar will keep the drinks flowing into the night, and a large dance floor means there is plenty of room to dance the night away. Away from the dance moves, the raised far end of the room can be set up with a buffet and sociable seating. This relaxed space complements the high-spirited energy of the dance floor as a place to socialise at the end of a blissful day, and enjoy the party atmosphere.

mouth-watering menus Alex Aitken is the award-winning Chef Patron at the Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa. With an emphasis on fresh, locally sourced food combined with a passion for perfection, Alex will work with you to create your delicious wedding breakfast.

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the kings arms

Set in the heart of Christchurch, The Kings Arms seamlessly blends tradition with exquisite contemporary style.

the kings arms

This part of Christchurch is steeped in history, with the famous priory attracting visitors from all over the world, and Christchurchâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s 12th century castle still devotedly watching over the town. The Kings Arms itself is perfectly positioned to absorb the townâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s unique ambience. The hotel has fantastic views opposite its own bowling green and Pavilion. With the Avon River flowing idly at its border and views of the Pavilion, Christchurch Castle and Christchurch Priory, this is an ideal location

for spring and summer outdoor celebrations. Imagine strolling over the lawns as newlyweds, with a drink in hand at your sun-kissed champagne reception, or joining friends and family in giant lawn games after the ceremony. The relaxed and picturesque bowling green provides an enchanting setting to chat to your guests or share in the laughter as giant Jenga tumbles! This venue is also perfect for beautiful wedding photographs with unrivalled surroundings for inspiration.

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the kings priory Sunlight drenches The Kings Priory â&#x20AC;&#x201C; a private reception venue within The Kings. Perfectly positioned to drink in unique views over the bowling green, Pavilion and Christchurch Castle ruins, the room offers a stunning backdrop for your wedding breakfast, with the capacity for up to 96 guests.

The Kings Priory even features its own private bar and spacious dance floor, as guests move downstairs for the evening reception and party. Licenced for civil ceremonies too, the room offers an inspiring canvas to create the day of your dreams.

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the kings pavilion Recently restored to become a beautiful New England style venue, The Kings Pavilion offers an undeniably distinctive setting for any special occasion. Below the ruins of Christchurch Castle, with the Avon River flowing by its border, it is as though time stands still in this tranquil corner of a bustling Dorset town.

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alex aitken at the kings Dedicated to delivering the wedding of your dreams, the awardwinning Kings Arms Restaurant team, headed up by Chef Patron Alex Aitken, will create a tailor-made menu for your special day. Having been awarded a Michelin Bib Gourmand for two consecutive years, the team are dedicated to sourcing the very best fresh, seasonal and local ingredients, ensuring that you and your guests are served the highest quality food, bursting with flavour. Described by The Mail on Sunday as a â&#x20AC;&#x153;jewel on the Dorset coastlineâ&#x20AC;?, The Kings Arms is the ideal place for guests to stay for your wedding. Within this boutique hotel, all of the bedrooms have been restored in luxurious Georgian style. Perfectly situated to explore historic Christchurch and the local area, there are limitless activities for all tastes to make staying a few extra days a very tempting possibility.

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the kings pavilion

Opposite The Kings Arms, this traditional bowling pavilion has been lovingly transformed into a beautiful New England style wedding venue. With its panoramic views of the landscaped grounds â&#x20AC;&#x201C; it is the perfect setting for your special day.

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the kings pavilion

Hold an unforgettable civil ceremony for up to 80 guests in a bright and airy setting, tastefully decorated in neutral colours to accent the beautiful surroundings. Why not leave the French doors open onto the private, full length veranda, to let glorious sunlight flood the room as you take your vows?

border, it is as though time stands still in this secluded corner of a bustling coastal retreat.

An undeniably distinctive venue, The Kings Pavilion and its bowling green radiate a pastoral ambiance. Below the ruins of Christchurch Castle, with the Avon River flowing serenely at its

After your ceremony, step out onto the lush green grass of the manicured bowling green and make your way as newlyweds for private photographs at the riverâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s edge or in front of the

With mature trees fringing the green itself, your wedding celebrations feel rural and intimate, as inquisitive birds sing along to the excitement of your day.

Castle. Enjoy an al fresco canapĂŠ and champagne reception with friends and family, before moving into The Kings Priory for your wedding breakfast. Alternatively, host your reception at the Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa to take in the sea air for the rest of your special day. Your wedding ceremony at The Kings Pavilion will be unforgettable, one which your guests will be talking about for years to come.

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delectable dining

delectable dining Award winning Chef Patron Alex Aitken creates delectable menus for both venues, with a focus on fresh ingredients bursting with flavour: “We have a very simple food philosophy; keep it fresh, seasonal and local.”

Understanding that your wedding breakfast is no ordinary meal, Alex explains it’s a journey from inception to service: “We work closely with each couple to create the perfect menu for their special day. Your wedding day is a journey over several months, we aim to make each step fun, building up to a glorious event.” Alex recommends that “your wedding breakfast should be a reflection of you as a couple, with food that mirrors your style and the tone of the day.” At both The Kings Arms and Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa, you can be certain that your wedding breakfast will be delectably tailored to you and your day; with both teams dedicated to delivering the wedding of your dreams. From discussing themes and décor, to the food and wine and pre decision

tastings, we work closely with each couple to create a wonderful day. Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa and The Kings Arms also offer delicious dining for guests who stay a little longer. Upper Deck Bar & Restaurant at Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa features stylish yacht chic décor against the backdrop of spectacular harbour views. Drifting out onto a recently restyled alfresco terrace, with seamless glass to drink in the views, indulge in fresh seafood, all whilst enjoying the panoramic coastal vista. Also perched within the grounds of the Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa is the multiple award-winning Jetty restaurant. Having recently been announced as runner-up for The Cater and Seafish UK’s ‘2016 Restaurant of the Year’ The Jetty offers exceptional waterside dining.

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delectable dining

Awarded a prestigious Michelin Bib Gourmand for two consecutive years, The Kings Arms restaurant prides itself on offering great local food at great value. Dine from the popular ’15 Mile Menu’, or enjoy ‘Friday Fizz ‘n’ Chips’. The Kings Arms has also recently introduced ‘The Bar’, a vibrant and modern venue that boasts an exciting 15 Mile Cocktail Menu alongside relaxed stylish furnishings and sleek lighting.

Beautiful Bespoke Wedding Cakes by Helen Shaw

07812 115525 www.vanillapink.info helenshaw@live.co.uk VanillaPink

FANTASIA MUSIC Live Music for Events

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PROFESSIONAL MUSIC FOR YOUR WEDDING Allow us to orgainise the music for your ceremony, reception and evening party

Bands • String Quartets • Jazz • Pop • Harpists • Pianists • Soul Latin • Classical • Jazz Quartets • Salsa • Ceilidh • Guitarists Steel Bands • Pipers • Discotheques • Dixieland • Swing

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more than just a day

more than just a day Your wedding is more than just one day, with a growing trend towards ‘wedding weekends’ it can be a great idea to offer a number of opt-in activities across a few days. This not only gives you more time to spend with your guests, but gives them the chance to get to know each other too. From private dining or a cocktail masterclass the night before, to a sumptuous Dorset afternoon tea before you depart; here are a few ideas…

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1. With most guests arriving the night before, it can be a good idea to host a private dinner or welcome drinks, allowing them to mingle and get to know each other before the big day. From our exclusive alfresco dining options at Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa, to our recently refurbished Kings Arms private dining room, our teams can stage a truly memorable event.

2. Or why not get them interacting with a fun cocktail masterclass at The Bar? With our expert mixologists and delicious cocktail menus, guests can learn how to mix their favourite tipple against the backdrop of The Kings Armsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; stylish new Bar â&#x20AC;&#x201C; setting the mood for the day ahead!

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3. A sumptuous Dorset afternoon tea is the perfect idea for the day after your wedding, giving guests a chance to relax and make use of the facilities before gathering together for this traditional favourite. To be enjoyed in one of our exclusive function rooms, or alfresco on The Kings Arms Bowling Green or Upper Deck terrace, we can host a fabulous farewell.

4. At our Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa you can make use of the hotel’s very own kayaks, paddle-boards or dinghies, as you explore the stunning Harbour; or alternatively we can put you in touch with one of our fantastic local partners to provide great on the water activities too – including our popular ‘Catch it, Cook it, Eat it’ fishing trips.

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5. Enjoy an evening cruise with our exclusive yacht charter partner, â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;Harbour Yachtingâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;, as you and your guests take in the spectacular scenery on-board a luxury motor or sailing yacht. A fantastic experience for all, this is certain to create everlasting memories for both you and your wedding party.

For those making a weekend of it you may want to consider a wedding website too, with all of the activities listed out for people to enjoy. Arrival goody bags can be fun, with local activity guides, a schedule of events and any wedding themed props!

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pretty petals

pretty petals Fresh and fragrant, symbolic of youth, beauty and happiness, dress your day beautifully with fantastic flowers that accentuate your colour palette and theme.

When it comes to wedding flowers, brides are baffled by the variety of beautiful blooms. But with a little help from a friendly florist, you are ensured breathtaking décor and fantastic photos. With such a wide variety available, we take a look at some options when considering the flowers for your big day… Match your flowers to your theme for perfectly pretty décor. Vintage is a popular trend, with dresses finished with lace, pastel colour palettes and hand finished decorations. Choose subtle ivories, soft textures and muted tones, accentuated by deep greens for eye-catching contrast. Coral roses and freesias are perfect for the bride’s bouquet, or lavender for something more unusual with a delicate colour and scent. Why not accessorise with leftover lace from your dress fitting, or soft white feathers that will catch in the breeze? For your coastal wedding with a seaside theme, blue flowers will instantly convey tranquil waters.

Soft blue hydrangeas, nigella and cornflowers are all stunning for your arrangements. A striking alternative is to choose pretty white petals and arrange your flowers with blue ribbon around the stems or vase, reminiscent of pure white foam atop crashing waves. Accessories such as shells and ropes are also fun and effective to incorporate into your coastal decor. If your idea of wedding day bliss is one surrounded by the simple beauty of a country garden, choose a selection of soft pinks, greens and creams. Great flowers for this theme are lilies, ammi majus, gerbera, alstroemeria and fragrant narcissi. Or if you dream in bold, bright colours, tulips are widely available, versatile and eyecatching. But why not make use of the exotic colours in statement stems, such as bird of paradise flowers or orange anthurium? They are also perfect for a tropical theme.

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Remember, although brides are lucky that many flowers are now grown in greenhouses and available all year round, it is often wise to consider the seasons when choosing your flowers. Seasonal blooms will often look best and complement the time of year that you wed. Out of season stocks, although available, may be more expensive than their in-season counterparts. In spring, peonies, sweet peas, daffodils and freesias are in season and perfectly pretty. And, for a summer wedding, there is plenty of choice; from romantic roses in shades of white, pink and red, to blousy peonies and joyful yellow sunflowers – design your day bursting with colour. Autumn offers warm shades of dahlia and aramanthus, which look fantastic against dark, forest greens. Then winter with its red amaryllis, berried ivy and fluffy pussy willow can offer some very striking displays. With such variety throughout the year, take inspiration from nature and consider seasonal blooms for your wedding day. 38

Once you have chosen your colour palette of petals, don’t forget all the opportunities you have to show off your beautiful flowers. Of course you will carry a bouquet down the aisle, but will you choose a simple hand-tied bunch of your favourites, or a cascading bouquet with flowing flowers? Other options include teardrop designs, a basket of freshly cut stems, an arm bouquet or a simple, single stem accentuated by beads, diamante or ribbon. As you choose, consider your theme, the overall ‘look’ you wish to achieve and, perhaps most importantly, what will make you feel the most comfortable as you walk to meet your soon-to-be husband.

full of flowers, and smaller displays for the ends of pews or rows of chairs, which dresses the room beautifully. Remember that your flowers can always be moved to the reception venue, so that you can make the very most of your perfectly designed displays.

Match your own bouquet to those of your bridesmaids and the bridal party, not forgetting the buttonholes. And then think about the flowers you would like at your wedding venue. A dramatic arch of flowers around the door that you enter through gives a stunning first impression for your friends and family (and your future husband if he turns around to look!). Many brides also choose big vases

Flowers can be incorporated into every aspect of your day; with your hairstyle, wedding car, thank you bouquets and even adorning your cake. So make the most of your beautiful blooms for a fantastically floral celebration.

Table centres can be tailored to your exact wishes from elegant and tall vases to fish bowls with floating petals. Big displays make a grand statement, but remember that it will be difficult for your guests to talk through them. And make sure you don’t block out the view of the top table, as all eyes will be on the blissful newlyweds!

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Flowers by Design Dedicated to supplying high quality flowers, stocking only the best grades available, Flowers By Design deliver beautiful bouquets and displays every time. With florists trained in the design and making of both traditional and contemporary arrangements, they have many years of experience in wedding floristry. You can be sure of the perfect flowers for your day. TOP TIP: “Many brides choose cheap flowers because they think they’re getting a bargain, but are disappointed on the day. Your wedding flowers are a really important part of your décor, so pick a recommended florist that you get on with and trust.”

Beyond the Gate Whether you want to decorate a beach wedding, a traditional church service or a civil service with a funky twist, Beyond the Gate Florist can help you choose the right types of flowers. Diane and Olwen are more than happy to meet with brides-to-be to discuss their plans and requirements; using their wealth of expertise to create beautiful floral designs that will fit any budget and enhance your special day. TOP TIP: “When booking a consultation with your Florist try to give her an idea of your choice of flower and colour scheme and even email any photographs of possible design choices. A good Florist will pre-order some seasonal blooms in especially for you to see, touch and smell. At the consultation you will then be able to make a more informed decision about your flower choice.”

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Jules Florist Based locally, and florist for Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa, Jules Florist are perfectly positioned to advise on floral arrangements for your Christchurch wedding. They cater for all sizes of celebration, designing beautiful arrangements for every aspect of your day including bouquets and buttonholes, ceremony arrangements, table centres and car decoration. TOP TIP: “Simple and soft flowers are currently in vogue and perfect for a romantic wedding. They also work beautifully with a vintage theme, where less is often more.”

Simply Flower Your wedding is one of the most special and magical days in your life. Simply Flower want to make it even more special be realising your vision. The service they provide is a personalised one, offering a free consultation in the comfort of your home or at their studio in Christchurch. They can make choosing your flowers a pleasure to do, looking at everything in great detail and focusing on the style you want to create. TOP TIP: “Cue your wedding day by designing an eye catching ceremony space to provide that sense of occasion. Ask your floral designer to ensure the scene is set, as this is the picture that you and your guests will never forget.”

Bespoke floral designs for

blue sky and rainy days Located in Christchurch Diane and Olwen are happy to meet with all their brides to discuss their requirements for their special day. We will draw upon our experience, knowledge and expertise to reflect the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s dreams and personality with totally unique, exquisite and utterly beautiful wedding flower designs. We offer competitive prices whilst providing quality flowers in many varieties, colours, textures and styles.

Tel: 01202 470272 148 Barrack Road, Christchurch, Dorset BH23 2BD

enquiries@beyondthegateflorist.co.uk

www.beyondthegateflorist.co.uk

Thanks to John Paine Photography and Carrie Bugg Photography

FLOWERS BY DESIGN

Your Wedding is one of the most important days of your life and it deserves careful attention and planning. At Flowers By Design, we aim to deliver a quality wedding service with a fresh, inspirational and very personal approach. Our florists are trained in the design and making of both traditional and contemporary arrangements. Whether you require a full wedding service or want a simpler wedding flowers, we will ensure that all your needs are catered for.

t. 01425 278 811 e. info@flowersby-design.com w. flowersby-design.com 370 Lymington Road, Highcliffe, Christchurch, Dorset BH23 5EZ FlowersByDesign.wedding

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the look of love

Cherished Bridal wear understand that getting married is one of the biggest and most exciting times of a girl’s life and finding the perfect dress is one of the top priorities. They are proud to work with Alfred Angelo on offering a selection of stunning gowns, from an array of bridal collections; with more than 8o years’ experience in creating beautiful wedding dresses, you’re sure to find the perfect one for you! Here a just a few of their gorgeous gowns…

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the look of love

T. 01202 489621

www.gibbmenswear.co.uk 62a Bargates, Christchurch, Dorset BH23 1QL

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your wedding guide He’s popped the question! After the tears of joy, screams of delight as you tell your best friends, and dizzying daydreams of your big day, it’s time to think about the details. The date, the venue, the decorations, the food, the guest list… there’s plenty to consider in the run up to your wedding.

the wedding planner

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Both the Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa and The Kings Arms have experienced in-house wedding co-ordinators, perfectly positioned to give advice and help make arrangements for your wedding day. With years of valuable experience specific to each venue, they can recommend trusted suppliers, help you make the most of every aspect of the venue, and suggest options you may never have considered!

Your initial meeting is the perfect opportunity to establish how much or little you would like your planner to help with. From there she will help keep your plans on track to deliver your dream day. Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve put together the following helpful wedding guide to ensure a stress-free build up to the big day!

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do it now… • Pick a date and pay your deposit. This secures your chosen package, guideline number of guests and evening food choice • Confirm wedding date and ceremony time with the local registrar or minister • Make a first draft of your guests list • Inform your wedding co-ordinator if you may require some family rooms to be held at the Hotel for your wedding night

6-12 months before the big day • Send out your save the date cards • Book your photographer and videographer • Start thinking about your cake • Order any invitations and other stationery e.g. chair covers • If you are having your ceremony elsewhere start to think about your wedding car • Choose your florist and discuss ideas

6 months to go… • Pay your interim deposit • Ensure all wedding invitations are ready to be sent out

3 months to go… • Meet with your wedding co-ordinator to confirm final details… menu choice, chair covers flowers, photographer, cake, place cards, table names/ numbers, table plan, reception drinks, prosecco or rosé sparkling wine for the toast

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6-8 weeks and counting… • Finalise number of guests and pay your final balance • Start to gather your stationery together, ready to hand over for the big day! • Collect some shoe boxes (1 per table) so that all stationery can be kept together (place cards, favours, menu cards, table name, scatter pieces etc). • You may wish to take a picture of how you want to have your tables set up

3 weeks to go… • Keep your wedding co-ordinator informed of any last minute changes and arrange a stationery handover

5 working days prior… • Sign and return the final copy of your details to your wedding co-ordinator

the day before! • Meet with your wedding coordinator and operations manager, who will be running the day, to talk through your timeline in full • Finally, get a good night’s sleep…relax, enjoy and have a fantastic wedding day!

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raise a toast

let’s all raise a toast to the ‘perfect day’ Your wedding will be the most important day of your lives: a hazy blur of vows, smiles, laughter, love, and a few tears, the services of a professional Toastmaster or Master of Ceremonies will ensure you are stress-free to savour every precious second.

His role on the day is to always be on hand, keeping an eye on the important little details so you don’t have to, explains Michael Judd; the preferred Toastmaster of both the Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa and The Kings. You will usually meet your Toastmaster, a professional at keeping things running smoothly, six weeks before the big day. This is an opportunity to get to know one another, discuss your plans, and offer professional advice. Michael takes us through the important role of the Toastmaster from this point forward… With all your arrangements confirmed, I coordinate your special day. While the bridal party are excitedly getting ready, my responsibilities as Toastmaster have already begun. At the venue, liaison with the Hotel team is essential, ensuring all your meticulous planning has come together. Talking to the florists ensuring the decorations are in place,

before confirming that the ceremony, drinks reception and wedding breakfast music is ready to play. If you are having live music, I help the musicians to prepare and set up so that everything is ready for your arrival. Then I turn my attention to the little, but equally important details: the gifts are ready for the bridegroom’s speech; the microphone is connected and tested; the guestbook is in place and a knife is by the cake. There is nothing to distract you from enjoying your day, as everything is carefully prepared. As the ‘I do’ moment draws near, I help the ushers with the seating plan and welcome your guests. Being relaxed, my presence creates a real sense of occasion as everyone arrives to join your celebration, checking with the registrar that the readers are ready; the relevant interviews have taken place, and then help to arrange the bridal processional party for their headturning entrance.

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After the ceremony, it’s time for the bubbles; greeting you as blissful newlyweds, with a glass of Champagne to enjoy your drinks reception. The gifts and cards from guests if appropriate are collected on your behalf, circulate the guest book and canapés are served with Champagne, so that you and your guests are completely free to share this magical moment together.

While your guests are entertained and mingling, confirming with hotel management and the catering team that all is prepared, I take you both to see your wedding breakfast room for the first time. It is a moment to pause together during your whirlwind day, and if any changes need to be made, I make sure they happen before your guests are welcomed to the receiving line.

To make sure that you have a wedding album bursting with beautiful photos, if required assist the photographer to coordinate all of the photographs you have requested. Announcing the family and friends required for each shot, and make sure everyone is present, so you will be stress-free and beaming in every picture.

Once they are seated, I announce you as a married couple to a rapturous standing ovation from your family and friends. During the wedding breakfast, I announce the iconic cutting of the cake, and when it’s time for the speeches, introduce each speaker individually. To ensure this fun and often emotional part of your

celebration is seamless, I am on hand throughout to assist the bridegroom and the bride when presenting flowers and gifts. After the best man’s finale speech, drawing proceedings to an official close, my role as Toastmaster is about to finish as I gather your guests and welcome you both for the first dance of the evening. I then leave you on the dance floor, celebrating with your friends and family as newlyweds at the end of your perfect wedding day. Michael Judd Professional Toastmaster David Tilt Associate T. 02380 282702 M. 0777 9274172 E. mike.judd@sky.com www.mikejudd.co.uk

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fun & games Make sure your wedding is the event of the year, by keeping your guests entertained from the â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;I dos,â&#x20AC;&#x2122; until the last dancer retreats from the floor. Consider these ideas to keep everyone smiling all day long, and snap some fantastic fun photos at the same timeâ&#x20AC;Ś

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The Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa and The Kings Arms are each blessed with unique and beautiful surroundings. Why not make the most of the idyllic outdoors, and invite your guests outside to play giant garden games? On the champagne terrace beside the sea at the Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa, or during Pimms on the Green at The Kings Arms, games are a fantastic way to get your guests mingling during your drinks reception. From chess and Jenga to Connect 4 and quoits, all available in giant form, everyone is sure to join

in the fun and enjoy your stunning wedding location. At the Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa you will enjoy use of your very own Champagne Beach Hut Bar, on the exclusive outdoor wedding terrace. A completely unique setting to serve drinks to your guests to your guests, the Beach Hut is the perfect focal point for your outdoor entertainment. When itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s time for your wedding breakfast, there is often plenty of time between courses as diners finish and plates are cleared. A professional magician can make

this time memorable as he mingles and entertains speedy eaters. For those guests sitting together who have never met, table-top magic is a fantastic way of breaking the ice. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s also brilliant entertainment for otherwise distracted children during the sometimes lengthy speeches. A real talking point as your guests marvel at the mystery, a magician is certain to get everyone into the party mood. To carry on the joyful atmosphere, Viva Las Vegas specialises in fun casinos for special occasions, great for evening celebrations.

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Perfect for weddings with a difference, this recommended company will print customised bank notes with your photo, names, date and venue of your wedding, which make funky favours for guests. Their full sized luxury gaming tables and professional croupiers will make you feel like you’re at the real thing. You will want to remember every moment of your wedding day and a photo booth is a quirky way of not only snapping priceless pics, but entertaining your guests at the same time. Have a booth set up at your reception and invite friends

and family to jump in and pull a face! Why not ask friends and family to stick a picture in your guestbook with their well wishes, for a totally unique memento? And then, of course, it’s time for the dancing. Nothing gets people up and showing off their moves like a disco. With music for everyone to recognise and enjoy, our recommended DJs – The Ultimate Disco and Party Dexx – have a unique talent of bringing people together under disco lights.

Guests can make requests and you can even discuss setting a playlist of your favourite songs before the night. This is always a great way to let your hair down with friends and family at the end of a perfect day. Live music is a great addition to your wedding, from string Quartets to accompany your Champagne reception, to Jazz and Wedding Bands to get the party started. Live music specialists, Fantasia Music can offer a range of options for your big day.

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the finer details Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve set the date, booked the venue and bought the dress. But have you considered the intricate details that will make your wedding day perfectly personal?

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The finer details make a wedding extra special – a day that will stay in the memories of your guests long after the confetti settles. From the perfect chair covers that tie into your scheme, to chauffeured transport that makes you feel like royalty, you have limitless choices to create an utterly bespoke celebration. Have a look at these ideas for inspiration… ‘Save the date’ cards and invitations are the very first glimpse your guests will have

of your magical day. You want to make a great impression and stunning stationery can say just as much as the message it delivers. Co-ordinating invitations with orders of service, menus and thank you cards, evokes understated sophistication and allows you as a couple to communicate your style and personality throughout the day (and beyond!). Your wedding gown is the princess-dress from your dreams, so on your wedding day make sure you feel every inch the

Cinderella-bride. Glow from topto-toe with pampered tresses adorned with a tiara, flowers or gleaming pearls. With your hair curled and perfectly pinned, your dress laced up and flower girls ready, it’s time to travel in style to meet your soon-to-be husband. Choose transport that matches your theme and makes your day magical - be that a sleek red and roaring Ferrari or classic and vintage Rolls-Royce.

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The wheels you choose have the power to turn heads and get your guests talking, so some couples choose something a little less conventional – why not arrive in a vintage VW camper van? The perfect arrival for these relaxed coastal settings. If you really want to wow your guests when they enter your reception chair covers add instant elegance and luxury, transforming the humble chair from a practical place to sit, to an important part of your décor. Use organza or taffeta sashes to transform

the venue into your own wedding wonderland, incorporating your chosen colour into every aspect of the decoration. Once your guests have cleared their plates, the cutting of the cake is a photo album favourite, and the cake itself the grand finale of your wedding breakfast. Although classically elegant white-icing tiers are ever popular and beautiful; many couples opt for cupcakes or even cakepops to carry their personality and theme through.

If you’re inviting children to your wedding you may want to consider a wedding crèche – keeping the kids entertained and avoiding any spoilt speeches and spilt drinks! The perfect solution, you can relax as they enjoy themselves under the supervision of expert childcare. We are lucky to have a host of fantastic suppliers on our doorstep here in Christchurch, with all of the finishing touches to make your day truly original.

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Creators and decorators of fine cakes for all occasions, Sweet Serenity offers quite the selection of wedding cakes. They can help you design an outstanding centre piece to perfectly complement your theme and day.

Linen & Lace is a Dorset based business who specialise in all aspects of venue decoration, including chair covers, centrepieces, table linen and lots of other beautiful additional items to hire across the South of England for any special occasion.

Offering a successful wedding crèche service, Tinies are at the forefront of the UK childcare industry, providing the perfect solution to taking care of your little guests in the day.

Christchurch Wedding Cars offer a full range of chauffeured cars from classic vintage to modern or novelty. Make the most of your princess-fora-day wheels and take a romantic ‘champagne run’ or ‘sunset drive’ along Christchurch’s seafront for some stunning private photographs as newlyweds.

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For the finest in fashionable seating, talk to Beautifully Seated about their range of seat covers and high quality sashes. As a mother and daughter partnership they offer a personal service from start to finish and love working with our customers to design their dream day.

With a passion for baking and design, Helen Shaw has been able to bring the two together to create beautiful, tasty cakes. Offering a range of bespoke wedding cakes, Helen and the team will work closely with you to design a stunning cake, perfect for your day. Your wedding cake will be delivered and set up by the team to ensure its displayed beautifully for your special day.

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The Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa is not only blessed with a stunning harbour location, unbeatable views and fantastic fine dining, but also indulges in its very own spaâ&#x20AC;Ś

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Make sure you are every inch the beaming bride with picture perfect makeup that will last all day. The Christchurch Harbour Hotelâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s own Harbour Spa team are makeup professionals. At a trial session, lasting 55 minutes, the therapist will talk through any ideas you may already have and make suggestions for creating your beautifully bridal look. She will then give you a full makeup trial, ensuring you are completely happy with your big day choice of blushes, shadows and shades.

On the day of your wedding, your therapist will recreate your look so you can glow with confidence knowing that your makeup is exactly as you dreamed. If you are staying at the Hotel, on the morning of your wedding the therapist will happily come to your room, so you can get ready in complete relaxation. And why not have a perfectly pretty bridal procession by booking makeup sessions for your bridesmaids and mother of the bride too? Getting ready together will be a real event in itself and the smiles in your photos will last a lifetime.

The Harbour Spa and its experienced team can also offer a number of wonderful pre-wedding experiences; from a girlâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s night in, to an exclusive use spa evening or one of our refreshing spa days. Your hair requires as much care and attention as your make-up too, our friends at South Hair offer a variety of styles and advise for you and your bridal party; ensuring that you have the perfect do on the big day.

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Picture Perfect Makeup Trial wedding makeup £50 Wedding makeup on the day £50 Additional makeup on the day £40 per person

Girl’s Night In Calm those pre wedding jitters with an evening of pampering in your room – packages for a maximum of four people, including the bride. Girl’s night in package includes: Mini manicure with application of your chosen colour or hand and arm pamper File and polish to toes of a foot and leg pamper Shoulder and scalp massage £60 per person

Exclusive Use Spa Evening Enjoy a spa evening with your friends with our exclusive use packages – to include use of the swimming pool, hydrotherapy pool, sauna, steam room, salt grotto and relaxation area, exclusive use can be booked on a Friday, Saturday or Sunday evening from 8.15pm10.30pm subject to availability. Packages prices start from £50.00 per person, subject to a minimum of 10 people

Rest & Refresh Before Your Big Day Come for a relaxing day with up to 5 friends with one of our exclusive spa packages… from just £65 per person For further information on any of our packages, please visit www.christchurchharbour-hotel.co.uk/spa or contact our spa reception on 01202 400955.

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Choosing the perfect gift to thank the loved ones who have helped on your big day is essential too. Charles Nobel and Allum and Sidaway offer an eclectic mix of fine jewellery and branded ranges, from Pandora bracelets with a charm to match the colour scheme make gorgeous gifts for bridesmaids to cuffllinks for the best man and groomsmen, there is sure to be something for everyone. With over 40 years of providing advice in choosing the perfect piece of jewellery, Charles Nobel retain their core values of

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offering beautiful jewellery at exceptional value. With a focus on diamond set jewellery, Charles Nobel even offers its own range of exclusive diamond designs from the CN Bridal collection; made up of individually selected pieces of exquisite jewellery, rarely seen on the high-street. Each item in all of their ranges is selected based on the quality of manufacture, stunning gems and, of course, value for money. An award-winning independent family jewelers, established in 1942, Allum and Sidaway boast five exceptional stores,

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your wedding, your way Planning your perfect wedding is fun and exciting, but it can be a little daunting! We ask four couples about their big days and find out if there are any secrets to success...

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your wedding, your way

jade & dean

the caribbean in christchurch Photographs by Nick Rutter Photography

How did you meet? We met at work, working for Townends Estate Agents. It was another member of Staffs leaving party. How did you propose? Dean proposed in the Grand Bahamas. We were on holiday and the whole family was in on it. We went out for a date night whilst the rest of the family set up the proposal ready for when we got back. Dean had planned it all but when we got back a heart had been drawn in the sand filled with candles and inside was written ‘Marry Me’ with 2 deck chairs and a bottle of champagne. Why did you choose the venue? We did initially want to get married abroad but we also wanted all our friends and family to be there, which we thought wouldn’t happen if we went abroad so we decided to do it by the sea. We go down to the Christchurch area quite a lot so decided to look at the Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa and we instantly fell in love with the hotel and the view. We thought it still had the holiday feel with the sea but wasn’t too far from home. We had a Caribbean theme throughout the day because of the location of the proposal. What did you do for entertainment? We had a Caribbean band for the reception drinks due to the theme we had. We had casino tables in the evening as we went to the casino a lot in the Grand Bahamas and we just had a DJ.

What food did you choose? This was the only part that wasn’t Caribbean. We had Scotch egg with duck confit for starter as this is one of my favourites, pork belly for main and banana crème Brule for dessert as again this is my favourite. We had a BBQ in the evening which was fantastic and bacon baps at midnight! Any surprises on the day? We had imported Sands beer all the way from the Bahamas for the guests and made Bahama Mamas for cocktails. Sands has only been into the UK once before so it took a long time but was well worth it for guests to try a new beer! What was the best part of the day? All of it! It is very hard to choose one thing! For me I loved the evening once the music had started as I knew I could fully relax by this point. I really couldn’t choose a best part because I really did love every minute of the day. Where did you go for honeymoon? As we have our little boy and didn’t want to leave him he did come with us so it was more of a family holiday. We went to Disneyland Paris for 3 nights and then flew on to Portugal for 10 days. We will be doing a honeymoon in the New Year when he has started school. What is your advice for couples planning their own wedding? Enjoy every second, the day just flies by.

For more information: www.nickrutterphotography.co.uk

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natalie & john

relaxed coastal elegance Photographs by BH13 Photography How did you meet? We met quite randomly through friends; we are from different towns so it was a fluke encounter. Natalie went out one night and bumped into John’s friends, who were down in Sandbanks for a special dinner. Natalie got chatting to them and met John eventually through them. How did you propose? John proposed at Simon Cowell’s local, very beautiful restaurant, ‘Daphne’s’ in Barbados. Why did you choose the venue? We wanted a classy wedding that was relaxed so Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa seemed the perfect venue. We loved the fact it was also on the water and the views it had. What did you do for entertainment? It was a relaxed day, so had nothing over the top at all for entertainment. The entertainment was the venue itself. Everyone relaxed and felt as if they were on holiday! Most people said it was the best wedding they had ever been too. The evening do was a blast. Had a fantastic well known DJ Jay Rachet who kept the party going and even at the end of the night everyone chanted for ‘one more song’ – so was never a dull moment.

and roasted tomatoes for main and a chocolate dish to die for, for dessert. The food was fantastic and the service was class too. As noticed by everyone. Also all the canapés were delicious. Any surprises on the day? Not to my knowledge! The sun shone! What was the best part of the day? This is a hard question, because we literally enjoyed every minute! Probably enjoying the beautiful grounds and views and drinking champagne with all my family and friends after saying I do! And the evening party was absolutely fantastic! Where did you go for Honeymoon? We were lucky enough to have two honeymoons! A weekend in Paris straight after the wedding then two months later we had our real honeymoon in the Kuramathi Island in the Maldives. 10 days of absolute heaven on earth. What is your advice for couples planning their own wedding? Our advice is to be organised, but relax! Book your venue and registrar before anything else, but most of all don’t get stressed out just before and wish it was all over before you’re even married! Enjoy every minute as will be a day you’ll cherish forever! Ours was!

What food did you choose? We chose the smoked salmon to start, lamb with dauphinoise potatoes

For more information: www.bh13photography.co.uk

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your wedding, your way

olivia & gary

sunshine sweethearts Photographs by Amanda Clay Photography How did you meet? It was about 8 years ago and we were in a nightclub… not the most romantic meeting! But a few years ago we discovered that Gary was in the background of some of the photos my friend and I had taken of ourselves earlier that night, before Gary and I had even met. That confirmed our belief that we were meant to be together!

requirements. The food we had was excellent and many of the guests also commented on how good the food was. We had Smoked Salmon to start, then Lamb with dauphinois potatoes and our desert was an Eton mess cheesecake (a combination of our two favourite deserts). Any surprises on the day? Beautiful weather and how fast the day went!

How did you propose? I came home from work one evening and Gary was cooking dinner, which was lovely. I went upstairs to have a bath and he came up a few minutes later and the next thing I knew he was down on one knee asking me to marry him! It was perfect and just right for us.

What was the best part of the day? The whole day was amazing so it is really hard to choose… but two really special moments were walking down the aisle towards Gary with ‘Songbird’ playing and having a glass of champagne together straight after the ceremony.

Why did you choose the venue? We had stayed at the hotel earlier in the year and had such a lovely weekend. We both love being by the sea and the thought of being married over looking the sea was very appealing to us.

Where did you go for honeymoon? We went to Thailand 3 days after our wedding. We began in Bangkok and then went to Elephant Hills for a 3day/ 2 night elephant and lake experience. Then we spent 10 days relaxing in Koh Samui. It was absolutely wonderful!!

What did you do for entertainment? We had an acoustic guitarist playing on the wedding terrace after the wedding breakfast and then we had a live band playing during the evening party. It worked really well in the room downstairs in the hotel as if people wanted to dance they could, but if they wanted to drink and chat they could stay in the bar area. What food did you choose? We had canapés during the drinks reception and then a three course wedding breakfast. I have a few food intolerances and the hotel was very accommodating to my dietary

What is your advice for couples planning their own wedding? Think carefully about your photographer, as they will be your wedding day memories for the rest of your lives! You think you will remember the day but it goes so quickly and there is so much to take in that the photos really help you to capture the day afterwards. We wanted to focus more on the informal photos than the formal ones and that is why we chose Amanda as our photographer. Both her formal and informal photos are fantastic. She was lovely to work with and fitted right in with our guests.

For more information: www.clayphotography.co.uk

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your wedding, your way

lauren & paul

love & laughter on the lawn Photographs by Barry Whitcher How did you meet? We met through mutual friends at a pub in Paul’s home town in Southampton. A lot of travelling between London and Southampton followed before we finally moved in together in 2012. How did you propose? Paul: We were in Granada, Spain with a group of friends celebrating my birthday. I had planned it for a while and I got down on one knee at the Alhambra in front of one of the arched windows overlooking the old town. Lauren: The proposal was certainly romantic - the fact that we had to celebrate in a not so romantic Irish bar so that Paul could watch the football gave me a good indication of what married life would be like. Why did you choose the venue? We found the Kings Arms through an Internet search and after one short visit, and meeting the team, we knew that it was perfect. The surrounding area is so picturesque and the venue was able to support exactly the informal, family friendly day we were after. What did you do for entertainment? We spent the afternoon on the green and had a number of garden games for the children to play with. Opting for a later wedding breakfast we didn’t need evening entertainment and instead enjoyed a leisurely meal with our own playlist playing in the background.

What food did you choose? The chef was very accommodating and allowed us to design our own menu. We went with the salmon starter from the menu suggestions and requested the family favourite of toad in the hole for the main course, followed by a chocolate and cherry dessert. It was all delicious and beautifully presented. Any surprises on the day? None - everything went exactly as planned. What was the best part of the day? Lauren: Celebrating with our guests over champagne after the ceremony. Paul: The sausages! Where did you go for honeymoon? We have booked a break to Langkawi for March next year and can’t wait. What is your advice for couples planning their own wedding? Don’t panic about the small things - We spent countless hours planning the minutest of details which we barely noticed on the day. And most importantly try to relax - the team at the King’s really do make sure that everything is taken care of.

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weddings in the south magazine // dorset & hampshire edition

richard & jane

seaside serenity Photographs by Taylor Made Photography How did you meet? We me through work: Jane’s employer was one of my employer’s clients. How did he propose? It was in August 2010 when we were on the beach in Playa Del Carmen in Mexico. Richard got down on one knee to pop the question. Did you have a theme? We chose a ‘seaside’ theme as much as possible to reflect the stunning location. What were your flowers like? We chose bright bouquets which were mainly hot pink and purple. We also had a trail of flowers to decorate the wedding cake. What catering did you choose for your wedding? The Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa’s catering team took care of this for us. We’d eaten in the restaurant on previous occasions and loved the food. Everything was perfect on the day. We chose a traditional chicken roast dinner as it was a Sunday. Later, we had an evening buffet which was also fantastic. Why did you choose Christchurch for your venue? Jane’s family have a very special tie to Christchurch as she has always visited regularly with her parents and grandparents. Also, we wanted a wedding close to the sea. The location couldn’t have been more perfect. We visited the Hotel one evening in October and it was a beautiful day with the most amazing views and a fantastic sunset. We just fell in love with the place.

What did you choose for your entertainment? We used Richard Welsh from Party Nights Out. He was excellent – engaging the crowd perfectly and choosing music that was spot on. Were there any special touches on the day? Jane’s parents surprised Jane and me with a white starlit dance floor for the evening, which looked absolutely amazing. What was your favourite moment? The whole day was amazing for us… I can’t even try to choose a favourite moment! Where did you go for your honeymoon? As we have children, we stayed in the Dorset area for the week after the wedding. We went to Naish Holiday Park, a few miles from Christchurch, and stayed in a cabin there. What is your advice for couples planning their own wedding? Go with your heart, shop around, make purchases and place orders via a credit card to give you extra cover if things do go wrong – our first choice photographer and videographer went bust a year before the wedding and we’d paid the full amount in advance, so luckily the credit card company covered us for that. Also, we’d absolutely recommend Christchurch Harbour Hotel & Spa as a venue because they helped everything go perfectly.

For more information: www.taylor-made-photography.co.uk

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