MANAGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR EX-PARTNER
It is a very tough job to manage your relationship between your ex-partner after your divorce or separation. This presentation consists of few tips which can make this task easier.
REDEFINE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Although your relationship has ended, but your relationship with the children has not ended. Handle the situation with a business like attitude. Don’t address personal and old issues to avoid conflict. Sometimes it is helpful if you think how would you feel if the situation was reversed.
ADDRESS THE ISSUES
Find an appropriate way to address the issues. It is always good to express the problems rather than keeping them inside. Moving on is beneficial for both of you. If you are having difficulties, seek expert help.
TALK TO OTHER PARENT IN A RESPECTFUL MANNER
Even though you had a bad relation, respect the other parent as the parent of your children.
Don’t address old issues and avoid blaming each other for the divorce or separation.
DO NOT ARGUE IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILDREN
Arguing in front of your children hurt them psychologically. It is also not good for their self confidence. It is best to talk about your separation or divorce when your children are not around. You can arrange time for phone conversations or decide a meeting point.
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