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Happy June & Happy Pride Month! I want to thank Momma Ashley Rose for talking with us and sharing her story. She is also a contributing writer this month, thank you so much. We reached out to Polk Pride and got an update about Pride week this year, hopefully I’ll see you at Pride in the Park later this month. I’d also like to thank Gabriella FavilliVigoreaux for being another contributing writer this month. She and Gio have organized the Big Love Bake Sale. Gabby writes about the inspiration behind it and why it’s so important right now.

Our Top Ten lists will keep you busy this month. Keep tagging your FB and IG posts with #lkldhaven and you might find it in the next issue of LKLD. Happy Father’s Day to all the dads, grandpas, and father-like figures out there!

Have a great month, I hope to see you around town!

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LOCAL NEWS

LAKELANDMOM.COM A SUCCESS

If you’re raising kids in Lakeland, chances are you’ve visited lakelandmom.com, founded by April Mucci in 2015. That’s when her youngest was four years old and she had a hard time finding a list of summer camp options for him. It dawned on her to create a central website to help moms in Lakeland find everything in town related to children. Now the website covers topics from which schools to choose to kid-friendly outings. The website has more than 2 million page views per year, 36,000 followers on its Facebook page and almost 10,000 members in the Facebook group. Mucci is 43, has two sons and she lives on Lakeland’s south side. She moved to Lakeland as an infant when her parents returned to her mother’s hometown to open and run the Family Fun Center. Mucci is a graduate of George Jenkins High School, Furman University, and Florida State University. She has worked for state Sen. Paula Dockery and Polk Vision’s Leadership Polk program.

LPD AND LFP EMPHASIZE IMPORTANCE OF MENTAL HEALTH

Lakeland Police Officer Mike Lewis, Assistant Police Chief Steven Pacheco and Fire Rescue Chief Shane Reynolds have worked for the last several years to change the culture for Lakeland first responders regarding getting help and make it easier to do so. Pacheco recently signed up the department for a new cellphone app – Lighthouse Health and Wellness. All employees have “easy/confidential” access to all health and wellness resources via the app. Through the app, they can be connected to one of the four providers experienced in working with first responders and vetted by the agency. Use of the counseling can be anonymous and free for first responders, both active and retired, and their families. There are assessments on the app for: depression, alcohol abuse, work-life balance, anxiety and distress, and caffeine consumption. Users can also utilize the app to track personal wellness, physical fitness and health, substance use and addiction, and financial fitness.

LAKE CRAGO PARK IS GROWING

A $3 million expansion to Lake Crago Park near I-4 and Lakeland Hills Boulevard has been approved, with Lakeland’s Rodda Construction tapped to do the work. The expansion will include three multi-purpose sports fields for soccer, football and lacrosse, including sports field lighting, restrooms, parking, landscaping and irrigation. There are also plans for a concession stand and a playground. Lake Crago Park encompasses 119 acres and currently has a dog park, restroom, boat ramp, recreation and event center, boathouse and fishing dock. The playing fields will be built beyond the event center. Baseball and softball fields will be built in a future phase.

SCHOOL RESOURCE OFFICERS

Polk County Public Schools Superintendent Frederick Heid is moving ahead with his plan to transition city police officers out of school resource officer positions and move in Polk County Sheriff’s deputies. Lakeland High School is in the first round of changes. Currently, there are eight different law enforcement jurisdictions providing officers to schools. With the change, there would only be one – the sheriff’s office – simplifying the command structure. Heid told School Board members at a recent meeting that it will be a twoyear process, starting in August, and that after working out the details “we found that all of the municipalities had a willingness to transition.”

GRADUATION

Polk County high schools have sent graduates on their way. Approximately 5,800 seniors received their diplomas in ceremonies at their schools or the RP Funding Center starting in midMay. Students with special needs from the Doris Sanders, Jean O’Dell and Karen Siegel Learning Centers kicked off this year’s celebrations on a Saturday morning at the Lake Region High School auditorium. In all, there were 23 graduation ceremonies for Polk County Public Schools, 14 of them at the RP Funding Center. If you missed the pomp and circumstance, you can tune into the PCPS YouTube channel to watch recordings of the ceremonies.

PUBLIX PHASING OUT GREENWISE STORES

The Ledger reported that Publix plans to convert all eight of its GreenWise-branded markets into traditional Publix stores, including the one on South Florida Avenue. The supermarket giant is once again stepping back from a specialized organic grocery segment inhabited by chains such as Whole Foods, Fresh Market and Trader Joe’s. Publix had announced in 2019 it would expand its GreenWise concept by three locations not long after Amazon had announced it had purchased Whole Foods, one of the first grocers to target consumers interested in nutritious and organic foods, the Ledger previously reported. It was the first expansion since the GreenWise stores were introduced in 2007. Prior to the expansion, GreenWise-branded products had slowly appeared on traditional Publix store shelves. The Tampa Bay Business Journal first reported Publix’s plans.

LPD GETTING ALL-BLACK PATROL VEHICLES

The Lakeland Police Department’s uniformed patrol vehicles are going to look a little different soon. As the current black-and-white cars reach the end of their service lives, they’ll be replaced with all-black vehicles with modernized graphics. Police Chief Sam Taylor told the City Commission recently that Lakeland can save about $3,000 per vehicle by having the cars be a solid color. Taylor said the department had been leaning toward all-white vehicles, but then an opportunity arose when a sheriff’s office in Georgia had to cancel its order. With supply chain issues still plaguing the auto industry, it was too good a deal to pass up. Working with city Finance Director Mike Brossart, the department was able to find the funds to buy the vehicles a bit earlier than planned.

LAKELAND REAL ESTATE A GREAT INVESTMENT

According to yahoofinance, Lakeland is one of the top real estate markets in the country to invest in a home in order to get the top dollar resale value in 10 years. To determine which cities are the most attractive cities in which to buy real estate over the coming decade, GOBankingRates looked at homes that are currently priced below the national median of $333,910 with anticipated growth rates in excess of the projected 1.7% national rate. Lakeland ranked number 13. In March, home values here averaged $312,534. The 2033 Projected Home Value is $403,991. You’ll have to wait eight years for homes in Lakeland to reach the national average price, but you’ll pay more than $20,000 below the current national average if you buy now.

UNEMPLOYMENT IN POLK REMAINS LOW

The Ledger reported that the unemployment rate in Polk County was 2.8% percent in April, which is 0.4% lower than the region’s year over year rate of 3.2%, according to numbers released in mid-May by the Florida Department of Economic Opportunity. As part of overall record-setting growth in Florida’s tourism sector, Polk County leisure and hospitality jobs gained the most of all job categories with 1,400 positions. The region’s April 2023 unemployment rate was 0.5% higher than the state rate of 2.3%, the FDEO said. The Florida rate was the lowest rate among the top 10 largest states in the U.S. In Polk County, the labor force was 345,793, up 9,881 or 2.9% higher than last year. There were 9,706 unemployed residents in the region.

MAYFAIRE WINNERS ANNOUNCED

Nathan Miller – a wildlife and figurative artist from Tampa, now living in Covington, Georgia – took Best of Show honors at the 2023 Mayfaire-by-theLake, held on Mother’s Day weekend. Miller’s depiction of nature’s flora and fauna in oil and acrylic paints captured the judge’s eyes and earned him a $5,000 prize. Other 2023 winners are: Awards of Excellence, $2,000 each: Nicola Barsaleau of LaCrosse and Valerie Walchek of Ocoee. Awards of Distinction, $1,000 each: Dominice Gilbert of St. Petersburg; Blair Petersen Updike of Lake Wales; Alex Lanier of Tallahassee; and Jacqui Aguilar of Cape Coral. Merit Awards, $500 each: Cheri Kudja Rhodig of Lakeland; Glenn Woods of Palm Harbor; Zhiyong Ye of Leesburg; Susan Currier of Sebastian; Caitlin Albritton of Tampa; and Mike Duflo of Vero Beach. Honorable Mention Awards, $200 each: Marcia Morse Mullins of Lakeland; George Rhodes of Plantation; Wendy Foreman of Ormond Beach; Vicki Cooley of Sarasota; and Andrew Dorset of Valrico. The fine art festival is the annual major fundraiser for The Polk Museum of Art at Florida Southern College each year. Citizens Bank & Trust was Mayfaire’s major sponsor this year.

FLYING TIGERS

Our local Minor League Baseball team, the Lakeland Flying Tigers plays at home 16 times in June! With special promotions at almost every game, you have a chance to let the kids run the bases, play “Baseball Bingo” or choose the “All-You-CanEat” games. Schedule online. milb.com/lakeland

POLK TOP 10

RELAY FOR LIFE

June 2, 6 pm at the Frances Langford Promenade in Lakeland. This is a fundraiser for the American Cancer Society. A luminaria ceremony with lighted bags honoring those who are fighting and those we have lost to cancer will start at 8:30 pm. RelayForLife.org/PolkFL

SYMPHONY STORYTIME

June 3, 9:30 – 10:30 am at Bok Tower Gardens in Lake Wales. Enjoy music from the Orlando Philharmonic Orchestra featuring the tale of Carnival of the Animals. Enjoy live music for young children, ages three to seven, along with narration. Register in advance. boktowergardens.org

BIG LOVE BAKE SALE

June 4, noon – 3 pm at ART/ifact in Lakeland. Together with over 15 local bakers and makers, Bandidas & Rose Dynasty Foundation will be slinging pastries, coffee and more! See Live performances from Rose Dynasty and friends, and raffles! Family-friendly fundraiser. More info on FB @BandidasLKLD

THE SANDLOT

June 9, 2 pm at the Gem Theater in Mulberry. In the summer of 1962, a new kid in town is taken under the wing of a young baseball prodigy and his rowdy team, resulting in many adventures. Outside concessions are permitted. Only $2! centralfloridatix.com

LKLD SHUFFLE

June 9, 6 – 8 pm at the Lakeland Shuffleboard Club at 820 E Robson St. In Lake Parker Park. All equipment provided, no experience necessary. Ages 10+, wear closed toe shoes. Snacks available for purchase. Club memberships available. centralfloridatix.com

MOMMA & FRIENDS PRIDE SHOW

June 11, 2 – 4 pm at ART/ifact. Join Momma Ashley Rose, Miss Rose Dynasty 2023 Juno Vibranz, and the contestants of Miss Rose Dynasty 2023 pageant Mistah Aphrodite (Adam Reuther), Keirra Ka’oir Summers, and Jessa Belle Light for a great show! Tickets are on sale now. rosedynasty.org/brunch

FINDING NEMO JR

June 16 – 25 at the Lakeland Community Theatre. A musical adaptation of the 2003 Pixar movie Finding Nemo, with new music by award-winning songwriting team Kristen Anderson-Lopez and Robert Lopez. lakelandcommunitytheatre.com

PRIDE IN THE PARK

June 17, 10 am – 3 pm at Munn Park in Lakeland. Hundreds of LGBTQ+ owned/ally vendors will fill the park, and the main stage will keep you entertained throughout the day. This is the largest annual pride event, it attracts thousands every year. More info on FB @PolkPrideFL.

ROCK FOR PAWS

June 24, 7 – 10 pm at Bonnet Springs Park in Lakeland. This fundraiser for SPCA Florida will have delicious food, cash bar, raffles, concert t-shirts, and dancing. Go back to the 80s, the decade that made big hair & spandex famous. spcaflorida.org/rockforpaws

ORLANDO TOP 10

BITE 30

June 1 – July 9 at participating restaurants in Orlando. Restaurants will offer a special prix fixe menu with multi-course dinners at a set price of $35. You can try several restaurants at a very reasonable price. Use the hashtag #Bite30 and #PublixAprons for your chance to win restaurant gift certificates. bite30.com

COMMUNITY RAINBOW RUN

June 3, 7 am at Wadeview Park or virtually. The run, Kids Fun Run, and the CommUNITY Festival benefit The onePULSE Foundation and the National Pulse Memorial & Museum. All participants will receive an official run t-shirt, tote bag, runner’s bib, and commemorative run medal. communityrainbowrun.com

INTO THE WOODS

June 6 – 11 at the Dr. Phillips Center. Direct from Broadway, this is the only Florida engagement for this show. The musical follows a baker and his wife who want to have a child, Cinderella who wishes to go the King’s Festival, and Jack who wishes his cow would give some milk. drphillipscenter.org

FREE FAMILY FUNDAY

June 11, Noon – 4:30 pm at the Mennello Museum of American Art. Free admission all day, plus a fine art project based on the artists of the current exhibition, their subject matter, and their methods. On the 2nd Sunday of each month, free. mennellomuseum.org

7-YEAR REMEMBERANCE

June 12, 7 – 8 pm, the onePULSE Foundation holds an annual Remembrance Ceremony at the site of the Pulse nightclub, bringing together the families of those whose lives were tragically taken and honoring all who survived, the first responders and trauma teams. onepulsefoundation.org

DIXIE’S TUPPERWARE PARTY

June 15 – 17 at the Garden Theatre in Winter Garden. Dixie Longate is the fast-talking, gum chewing, gingerhaired Alabama gal who is bringing your grandma’s Tupperware party into the 21st century.

Filled with outrageously funny tales, heartfelt accounts, and audience participation. Ages 18+ only. gardentheatre.org

HARRY POTTER LIVE

June 16 & 17 at the Dr. Phillips Center. Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince is projected onto a giant screen and accompanied by the Orlando Philharmonic Orchestra performing the score live. Purchase tickets in advance. drphillipscenter.org

FATHER’S DAY AT LEU

June 18, 9 am – 5 pm, free admission just for Dads at Leu Gardens. Explore the 50-acre gardens including the current Dinosaurs! Exhibit, the butterfly garden, rose garden and tropical stream garden. Last admission is at 4 pm, no picnics or pets allowed. leugardens.org

BAILAORA, THIS IS MY VOICE

June 22, 8 pm at the Dr. Phillips Center. Siudy Garrido is one of the most exciting international flamenco performers today. Siudy and company blend contemporary dance influences and traditional dance elements over original flamenco compositions. drphillipscenter.org

PINEAPPLE FESTIVAL

June 24, 4 – 10 pm at the Lake Nona Town Center. This is a Puerto Ricanthemed street festival inspired by the Festival De La Piña Paradisíaca with live music, authentic food, live entertainment, and a kid’s zone. Event entry is free and open to the public. boxiparklakenona.com

TAMPA TOP 10

GULP COAST PASSPORT

This is your guide to St. Pete/ Clearwater’s craft beer scene, and enjoy deals and discounts along the way. Your passport will be instantly delivered to your phone via text and email and is ready to use immediately. visitstpeteclearwater. com/eat-drink/gulp-coast-craftbrewery-passport

BIG JOHN

Visit with Big John, the world’s largest triceratops, at the Glazer Children’s Museum. Roughly the size of an RV, the exhibit will include tunnels with clear domes, where guests can pop up and see the 66-million-year-old skeleton from underneath. Reserve a time in advance. glazermuseum.org

SUMMER NIGHTS

Explore Busch Gardens after dark with extended hours every night. Dance at themed party zones throughout the park, take on the rides in the dark and enjoy entertainment throughout the night, including a fireworks display on the weekends. Buschgardens.com

FRESH MARKET

June 4, 10 am – 3 pm at Hyde Park Village on the first Sunday of the month. Fresh Market is a monthly farmers market featuring local vendors including produce, handcrafted goods, plants, live music and more. Pet friendly. tampabaymarkets.com

SUMMER CLASSICS

Every Sunday, 3 pm at the Tampa Theatre. Experience your favorite movies on the big screen this summer. Watch Mrs. Doubtfire on June 4, Vertigo on June 11, The Flying Ace on June 18, and Fantasia on June 25. Purchase tickets in advance. tampatheatre.org

ANNIE

June 6 – 11 at the Straz Center. This is the Annie we all know and love. She has reminded generations of theatergoers that sunshine is always right around the corner, and now the best-loved musical of all time will return in a new production. strazcenter.org

DAY OF DISCOVERY

June 10, 8 – 9:30 am at Zoo Tampa. In partnership with the Center for Autism & Related Disabilities at USF, Zoo Tampa is hosting a low-sensory morning tailored for individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorder and their families. Get tickets in advance. zootampa.org

THE BIG RUN 5K

June 10, 7:30 am at Al Lopez Park. Celebrate Global Running Day with a chip-timed 5K! Run, walk, or stroll in person or virtually. Donations are being collected for Girls on the Run Greater Tampa Bay, the official charity partner. runsignup.com/ Race/FL/Tampa/TheBigRun5k2023

JUNETEENTH FESTIVAL

June 17, 3 pm – 9 pm at Raymond James Stadium. This cultural event includes live music, entertainment, food trucks, shopping, a job fair, health clinic, kids’ zone and more for the entire family and community. roctheblock.com

ALICIA KEYS

June. 30, 8 pm at Amalie Arena. The Keys to the Summer Tour is a completely reimagined concert experience and set list. The tour will feature Keys in a 360-degree, “in the round” production setup which will allow fans to experience her live performance in an entirely new way. amaliearena.com

Rose Dynasty Foundation

Mistah Aphrodite & Momma Ashley Rose

Eight years ago, Jason DeShazo sat in the crowd of a Dixie Longate drag show. “I don’t think I laughed and cried so much in one sitting outside of church ever,” he said. In her affected southern drawl, Dixie, America’s own Tupperware queen, told a simple story about “bumping a duck.” It goes something like this. There’s a duck in the middle of a calm lake. If you throw a stone into the lake, it ripples and bumps the duck. “If you can just be one stone to bump a duck, to cause a reaction, what kind of difference could you make in the world,” DeShazo said. “It immediately changed my life.” That’s when DeShazo, who performs as Momma Ashley Rose, moved forward with starting the charitable organization, Rose Dynasty Foundation.

Born in Plant City and raised in Okeechobee, “I grew up in a very conservative home,” DeShazo said. The family attended church several days a week. “I’ve always known I was gay.” Coming out in the early 80s amid the AIDS epidemic was a dangerous time for anyone, he said. “There was a lot of fear instilled already.” In his teens, DeShazo endured conversion therapy. “It just wasn’t going to work,” he said. “I did everything I knew I could do to try to change what I thought, and what I was being told, was not right.” In true Momma Ashley Rose fashion, DeShazo found humor in the midst of pain, joking, “It gave me three things: It gave me my therapist, it made me gayer, and it made me a drag queen.”

DeShazo was involved in both mainstream and LGBTQ+ churches for many years. After serving in the ministry, he found something to be missing. “There was more to what I believed in my life that needed to be done,” he said.

Loved, Accepted, and Wanted

For the duration of this story, I will refer to DeShazo as she and her because, really, my interview wasn’t with DeShazo – it was with Momma.

A dynasty, by definition, is a family, and the Rose Dynasty Foundation is no different. Momma started the organization with her husband, Scott DeShazo. Rose Dynasty Vice President Scott DeShazo, who performs as Amanduh

Rose, said, “Every great person needs a good backbone.” Together for 15 years, Scott also makes all of Momma’s costumes, including the patchwork dress she wore that day, made with her great-grandmother’s hand-stitched material. She completed the look with a pair of rhinestone sneakers.

Momma Ashley Rose started experimenting with drag in 2000 when a local drag queen painted her for a Halloween Party. “I loved it. I absolutely loved it,” she said. This persona was someone she wanted to bring to the world. “I never wanted to be the stereotypical queen.” When she first started performing as Momma, she was a bit “churchy” and even did a few gospel shows. Her drag changed and sometimes stopped entirely for a year or two before finding her way back to it. “Every time I evolved and really made a change of growing into what ‘Momma’ and this organization is now.”

“I believed that what I needed to do was establish a safe space for all people,” Momma said. More important than the flashy costumes, elaborate makeup, and side-splitting one-liners is her message, “You are loved, accepted, and wanted,” something she intones at every event. “We’ve all felt that, whether you’re Queer or not. We’ve all felt unloved, unwanted, or unaccepted at some point in our life. Any human being has felt that way. I knew it was a message that people needed to hear, including myself.”

The organization has been a safe space for folks like 19-year-old Florida Southern College student Adam Reuther. Reuther, who performs as Mistah Aphrodite, started doing drag two years ago. Their first performance was at a charity event with Rose Dynasty. The versatility and art – horror, camp, glamour, across the gender spectrum – drew them to performing. “There’s so much to explore,” they said. “Doing good while performing, raising money, is a very satisfying feeling because I’m doing something I love, and I’m making the world better.”

Working with the organization has given the music education major a new understanding of how the world works “in both good ways and bad.” They said, “It’s disheartening to see that there are people out there trying to crush

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someone’s individual spirit for just existing.” Locally, Mistah Aphrodite says they’ve been surrounded by support for their art from family, friends, and fellow students. “What’s most shocking about Polk County is the love is so much more outspoken than the hate.”

Rose Dynasty Foundation provides a safe space and entertainment for all ages while raising money for charities across Polk County, Central Florida, and beyond. They host events to raise funds for organizations like CampOUT, Florida’s first LGBTQ+ summer camp, and the FitzLane Project, which provides funding to underprivileged transgender youth for LGBTQIA+ specialized therapeutic services at the mental health provider of their choice.

“We focus on the small charities that don’t get the government funding that are still making a difference,” Momma said. The Polk County Bully Project, Red Tent Initiative, It Takes a Village feeding families during Covid, Art Crawl, domestic violence shelters, autism, children’s hospitals, and cancer research are just some of the 70 charitable efforts for which they’ve raised hundreds of thousands of dollars over the years. The organization’s primary fundraiser is Miss Rose Dynasty, the world’s only family-friendly charity-based drag pageant. This year they raised $28K for five charities.

Their goal is to one day have a community center in town. Momma envisions a space that offers food, life skills classes, therapy, a venue for events, and a safe space for the Queer community.

Some oppose their family-friendly philanthropic events, calling them ‘adult’ and ‘inappropriate.’ “I encourage people to come to our events and see what’s happening. If you don’t leave with your mind changed, that’s something that you need to deal with,” Momma said.

She cited classic movies and television shows like “Mrs. Doubtfire” and “I Love Lucy,” in which drag was predominantly featured as comedic relief for the whole family. While there are undoubtedly adult drag performers, that is not what Rose Dynasty promotes. “This has been around for a long time, and if it’s being sexualized, it’s not by the drag queens. It’s by the people that are closedminded looking in,” Momma said. “A child, when they walk up to me, they see the same thing as when they see Cinderella. They see any other princess, any other character. They just see someone that they feel safe with that has a positive message that’s sparkly, and glittery, and shiny.”

Hate Won’t Win

On December 3rd last year, at a family-friendly drag and art show, a hate group protested the event. Some dozen Neo-Nazis, covering their faces, turned up at ART/ifact Studio in Lakeland to disrupt the fundraising efforts.

Momma Ashley Rose noted they’d held events for six years at the venue and never once had a protestor make a scene. “I knew one day it was coming,” she said. “But I had no clue it was going to be Nazis.”

About an hour before the event, as Queer artists from around the county geared up to sell their artwork to raise money for CampOUT, Momma got a phone call. A concerned parent contacted her from a parking lot down the road to say they were scared because they’d seen protestors with Nazi signs outside the gallery. They immediately locked down the venue to make sure everyone was safe, and the Lakeland Police Department arrived on the scene.

“Lakeland Police Department did really well. I believe they did the best of their

“What’s most shocking about Polk County is the love is so much more outspoken than the hate.”

ability,” Momma said. “They made sure we were protected, that the doors were sealed, that no one came in unless we let them. They stayed until we were done.”

Mistah Aphrodite was there that day too. “I was angry. I was pissed off because I’m here dedicating my time and energy to raise money for people in need. We have children here who want to showcase their art, who want to do something they love, and there are people outside screaming curse words, screaming slurs,” they said.

The protesters blocked the window with a 20-foot sign and projected offensive things onto the side of the building. They held antisemitic signs and yelled “things that no child should have to hear” at kids as they walked with their parents into the event. “Rose Dynasty has helped me manage my own reactions,” Mistah Aphrodite said. “It’s taught me to be composed on the outside, so I didn’t do anything rash. I stayed inside and made sure everyone else was doing okay, everyone else was safe.”

Despite the disruption, the event went on. “We’re not going to let hate win,” Momma said.

The incident did shake the organization, though. They now have to spend hundreds of dollars for security at every event. It’s another weight on the philanthropist’s shoulders. “We’re working on active shooter training, on how to handle protestors. We’re trying to get as prepared as we can for the ‘what ifs,’” Momma said. She lost several friends in the Pulse nightclub shooting. This hits close to home. “It’s scary,” she said.

“Drag queens are supposedly causing harm to children when our children are having to do active shooter drills in school,” Momma added. “And here we are raising hundreds of thousands of dollars for charity, helping the community, and we’re having to think about active shooter training. […] We shouldn’t have to think about that, and it all stems from the hate that we have allowed to come into our country in the last several years.”

Speaking Out

Momma Ashley Rose spoke both in and out of drag against SB 1438. The Florida chapter of the ACLU described SB 1438 as “a bill that grants state agencies the power to target LGBTQ+ friendly businesses by giving the Department of Business and Professional Regulation discretionary authority to fine, revoke liquor licenses, and even shut down establishments. Additionally, it makes it a crime to admit young people to any performance, exhibit, play, or show that the state deems inappropriate, even if the child’s parents think it is appropriate for their family.”

The bill, introduced by Florida Republican Senators Clay Yarborough and Keith Perry, passed 82 to 32 on April 19.

“At face value, it shouldn’t affect us,” Momma said. But it has given them pause to consider how they run the organization. “Do we rename it? Do I stop doing drag? I don’t want to, and I’m not planning on it. It’s going to cost legal services. It’s going to risk going to jail. It’s going to risk losing venues – which we have already.”

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“It’s a blatant attack on the Queer community,” she went on. “It’s a blatant attack on the drag community. It’s a distraction from something else, from something bigger. […] When you look at the people making these accusations, they’re deflecting something, and it’s sad. […] Our suicide rate in our LGBTQ+ community is skyrocketing again, and it’s because of this fearmongering that’s happening.”

Out of the emotions Mistah Aphrodite feels about the bill, fear is not one of them. “I think the bill is just a thinly veiled attack on the Queer community as a whole because people have been entertained by drag for centuries, if not eons,” they said. “Dating back to ancient Greece, you would have men playing female roles on stage. You have all these classic TV shows and cartoons of characters in drag, and it was never a problem then. There are photos of past political leaders doing drag, and I’ve heard the excuse, ‘It was just in good fun.’ Well, what are we doing? Are we not having fun?”

Rose Dynasty may now have to find more creative ways to raise funds for charity. They’ve already lost thousands of dollars a month in donations from businesses having to choose between continuing to host their drag events or risk losing their business. “It puts fear and more stress on entertainers. Not just myself but my brothers and sisters who are drag performers. What are they going to do? The restaurants are already canceling. The brunches are already closing. It not only puts a damper on the entertainment industry, it puts a damper on people’s income and for the charities we raise money for.”

“The people backing these laws will never set foot in one of our events, and I’ve invited them,” Momma said. “They want to believe the hate they believe.”

To counter the hate and anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric and legislation, “Be an action ally,” Momma urges. “People claim to be allies, but if you’re sitting and not doing anything and you’re not helping, you’re not being an ally. If you’re being quiet and not having conversations, not donating, you’re not an action ally. We really need action allies.”

“Use your voice to amplify ours,” said Mistah Aphrodite.

A Ripple

Momma is a fighter. Sitting for dozens of interviews, speaking in front of the Florida senate, and continuing to be outspoken on Queer issues have garnered her hateful messages and death threats. Asked why she carries on, her husband spoke up, “Who else is going to do it?”

Momma’s eyes welled up with tears as she said, “Who else? I wish I had somebody like me when I was young. We all wish we had somebody like ourselves. Who else is going to fight? Who else is going to stand up for these people? Who else is going to stand up for the community?”

She hopes, if not a multitude, at least one person will be changed by her words. “If nothing else, it’s shown us that people are watching, and people are listening, and it’s giving people hope. That’s why I do what I do. That’s why I spread this message of love and acceptance,” she said. “If it stops somebody from ending their life. If it stops somebody from feeling hurt, distraught – it would be worth it.”

Scott DeShazo added in a hopeful tone, “It just takes a ripple.”

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Polk Pride 2023

It’s time to celebrate, affirm, and stand beside our LGBTQ+ friends, family, and community members in the week-long celebration, Polk Pride. Asked if there was anything new or exciting with Pride this year, founder Scott Guira replied, “The most exciting thing is that we’re going to continue to have it despite the things going on out there.”

Guira created Polk Pride in 2015 to foster a community in Polk County where LGBTQ+ folks of all ages could feel welcome. Discussing the organization in 2021, Guira said, “I know this community has grown. I know that it is an outstanding place to live, to work, to play. I grew up here, and I’ve seen the community change. I want to make sure that the next generation of young people coming up and people moving to the area see that this is a place for them, this is a place for everybody.”

Despite a slew of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation, Guira, and his team are moving forward to create the same safe, loving space he sought to forge in 2015. “We think that at a time like this, it’s more important than ever that we be out, we be vocal, and that our allies are part of our events,” he said.

Polk Pride isn’t just being vocal. In April, the organization donated to the Drag2Talle initiative. “Drag2Talle was an opportunity for not only drag queens but trans people and our allies to go up to Tallahassee and make our voice heard that drag is not a crime. Drag is an art,” Guira said. “This is considered an attack on the entire LGBTQ+ community, and it was important for us to be part of a larger contingency of people from across the state who went to make sure our legislators, and so the public could see, that LGBTQ+ people are everywhere and that we are just as much a part of the community as they are.”

Also under the Polk Pride umbrella are Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) and the Lakeland Youth Alliance (LYA), and they, too, are raising their voices. On November 4, students participated in the state-wide “Don’t Say Gay’’ walkout as the Florida Board of Education unanimously voted to expand the “Don’t Say Gay” law. On March 31, they held an LGBTQ+ rights protest at the entrance of Lake Bonny Park. The bills they protested included HB 999, HB 254, and HB 1223. “I don’t know that they make much of an impact on the people in Tallahassee, but I know it makes a huge impact to the kids. It’s important that their voices be heard,” said LYA and Polk PFLAG President Kerri McCoy.

Most LYA students are middle school-aged and have used words like “unfair” and “government control” to describe the bills. Of HB 999, McCoy said,

“Some of them will now have to reshape what they’re thinking as far as their future goes, as far as what they’re going to study.” Trans youth have asked, “What’s going to happen to us?”

McCoy said, “We have seen the tides turn before. It’s going to be a matter of electing the right people, and we can see change again. If we all just stick together, eventually, we will get through this. I feel like there’s a rainbow at the end.”

To support Polk Pride, folks can become a sponsor, volunteer, donate, or join their initiatives. Those interested in volunteering or donating can do so on their website. “It’s important that we have our allies as part of our Pride celebration,” Guira said. “If people can share our events [on social media] […] or by word of mouth, whatever they need to do to get the word out that this event is happening and that it is important to everyone in Polk County.”

As an ally, Kerri McCoy advised finding LGBTQ+ resources in the community and becoming part of a group. “If you know someone who is LGBTQ+, ask, ‘What can I do to support you? How can I help? What can I do to make a difference?’”

“Pride was born out of a necessity,” Guira said. “We celebrate Pride now, but when Pride started, it began as a protest against people who were holding LGBTQ+ people back from living safe lives. Now, it’s just as important, if not more important than it’s been the last several years because of our legislation and the changing political climate, to make sure our voice is heard and let people know we’re not going to stand by and let this decision be made without our speaking up.”

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P OLK PRIDE 2023 JUNE 10-17

PRIDE ON TAP

Polk Pride 2023 Begins

Swan Brewing

115 W Pine St, Lakeland

Saturday 6/10 2-5 pm

PRIDE FOR YOUTH

Lakeland Youth Alliance Pride Party

Ages 11-17 Location TBD

Wednesday 6/14 6:30 pm

PRIDE IN FAITH

An Interfaith Celebration of Pride

Beacon Hill Fellowship

220 W Beacon Rd, Lakeland

Thursday 6/15 7 pm

PRIDE KICKOFF

Drinks, Dancing, and Drag

The Parrot

1030 E Main St, Lakeland

Friday 6/16 9 pm - 2 am

PRIDE IN THE PARK

Celebration of Pride for the Whole Family

Munn Park | Downtown

201 E Main St, Lakeland

Saturday 6/17 10 am - 3 pm

PRIDE AF TER DARK

Pride After Party | Drag Show

LKLD Live @ Rec Room

202 N Massachusetts Ave, Lakeland

Saturday 6/17 9 pm - 2 am

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Golden Wild Florals

Beauty and love are intertwined for Golden Wild Florals Owner and Head Designer Bethany Lynam. Since starting her woman-, Queer-owned floral company in 2020, Golden Wild has blossomed. “I think because we care so much, and people respond to that,” Lynam said. Her business is seeded in connection and “heart-forward” designs.

Lynam moved from South Tampa after taking a visual arts teaching position in Lakeland in 2016. Lynam studied the philosophy of beauty with a concentration in fine arts. “I’ve always been creative,” she said. Working with flowers came out of left field for the artist. “I kind of got burnt out teaching.” She thought flowers would be a good temporary job.

Lynam already knew the elements of art, like shape, texture, and color. So, she tried her hand in the floral industry, working at a flower shop in Tampa. “It was really hard,” she said. “I was a very late bloomer (pun intended). It took me a while to build confidence. […] Then I fell in love with it.”

“Around that time, I was actually coming out – I realized my sexuality. They were really tied together because flowers are varied, and they have so much nuance in them, and they teach a lot of lessons about flexibility.” She found the work to be meditative and healing in her journey. “I would love to do something in the future with a type of floral meditation with people for that reason,” said Lynam.

On the weekends, she would travel to Jacksonville to work as a wedding florist with her mentor and now best friend, Sarah Boyce, with The Wild Thistle. Lynam described event floristry as “fast-paced, intense, big work.” “The event work is where everything came together where I felt like, ‘I can do this,’” she said. The shop was good for a healing space because she could focus on herself and the work, but “Long-term it was dissatisfying because I love people and I couldn’t see if they were actually enjoying them.”

“When the world stopped in 2020, I had time,” she said. She put together a logo, website, and portfolio and tapped into her marketing and art background to launch her business, Golden Wild Florals. Using the word ‘wild’ “was harking to how much [Sarah] invested in me, and I really liked the clientele she attracted,” Lynam said. “I’m not a materialistic person, so I knew if I started a business or I branded it in some way, it would have to be authentic to me. It would have to be very heart-forward, or else I would lose interest in it.”

Her creative process starts with a casual, personable client consultation over Zoom. “My cat’s butt is usually in the frame,” she said, smiling.

These consultations are one of the most joyous parts of her job. “I love when the consultation is flowing, and I feel like I get them as a person, and they appreciate what I’m trying to do,” Lynam said. “I like bonding with the client that way.” From this conversation, she creates a mood board for them.

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As the event or wedding day arrives, Lynam picks flowers based on her client’s aesthetic, the season, and what’s affordable to them. She prides herself in using her creativity as an artist first and florist second to stick to a budget. “I have the mindset of making something little into something big, and that’s allowed me to honor budgets well.”

“The creative process is the easy part.” She does the bulk of the design independently in her studio space at ART/ifact. During the inquiry process, she’ll ask the client’s favorite song and make their bouquet to that song. “I’m over-the-top sentimental about it,” she said. “It keeps it joyful because it’s a lot of really hard work, and there’s a lot of steps and late nights.”

The team comes together on the event day to construct the vision. “We all have different strengths and jobs,” she said. “All the other girls that help me are creatives as well.” The energy is palpable, and she finally meets her client in person and presents her labor of love to them.

After a long day of hard work, when the team is collectively exhausted, they come together for a meal. “That’s my favorite part of the creative process is at the end when we’re eating pizza like, ‘I can’t believe we built that thing in an hour!’”

People come to Lynam when they want something out of the ordinary. Her aesthetic is personalized, and she can create styles across the spectrum. “What they all have in common is they show a lot of movement, and they’re very loose and bloom-heavy. I like big fluffy blooms, and a lot of it is very organic.”

Lynam markets herself for large-scale pieces, primarily for weddings. She’s done other events, including corporate functions and the Bonnet Springs Park grand opening. For the last two years, Lynam has put on the “With All Our Hearts: Remembering the 49” event in Lakeland after being hired to make the 49 floral heart arrangements by onePULSE Foundation for the

“National Remembrance Ceremony” on-site at Pulse in Orlando. The first year she participated, feeling “a sense of urgency and shock that no one locally acknowledges the event,” with last year’s event more upbeat. “It was much larger and was intended to be more joyful, inviting a larger group of Queer allies and entrepreneurs,” she said. Some heart arrangements were presented to families, with others left at the site in memory of the Pulse Angels.

“It was a very important event and a lot bigger than me and a lot bigger than Golden Wild,” she said. Though she won’t be doing it this year, Lynam hopes to find another way to honor Pride. To come together as a community and make a cohesive arrangement.

Connecting with people is where Lynam draws inspiration. “Beauty is a very broad thing for me. I feel like flowers are physically beautiful,” she said. Her mantra and email signoff is ‘Love Brings the Beauty.’ “Connecting those two things, that’s what inspires me.[…] It’s made me lean into a heart for Queer people, or wanting to do events that are more on the activist side, or being very connected to my clientele because part of the beauty is the connection and love there.”

“That’s how I found my way to flowers,” she said. “I was connecting with myself, and I made great friends that way. They helped me connect to a deeper beauty in myself with my sexuality, with other people, with mental health. Like anything in nature, they’re symbols. They’re teachers of a lot of beautiful things.”

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Big Love Bake Sale

When pondering the grassroots potential of the bake sale, it’s hard not to think of Georgia Gilmore, the woman who fed and funded the Montgomery Bus Boycott in 1955. Gilmore formed The Club From Nowhere, a secret civil rights kitchen where she sold pies and pound cakes to raise funds for the 381-day resistance. It’s also hard to not think of Paola Velez, the DC chef who cofounded Bakers Against Racism, a massive bake sale movement that began as a pop-up in 2020 and has raised over 2.5 million dollars for social justice causes worldwide. Bake sales are nostalgic, collaborative by design, cheap to produce, and, as proven by Gilmore and Velez, can be true conduits for social change. This is what inspired us to start the Big Love Bake Sale.

With minimal fundraising experience, we figured the best place to start was by choosing a cause that was timely and personal to us, ideally in our own neighborhood. With Pride month upon us, we are reminded of the Stonewall Riots of 1969. We are reminded that it was the drag community and trans people of color who led the rebellion that spawned the Gay Rights Movement. In recent weeks, we’ve seen a major rise in anti-drag legislation in our home state. We’ve seen how this has caused a surge in transphobia and opened more doors for harassment and hateful speech against the LGBTQ+ community. It’s tough to ignore in general, but especially as a Queer-owned business operating in a state where things like that are happening.

Gio and I started our pop-up bakery, Bandidas, a couple years ago and it’s been a rollercoaster to say the least. Food trends come and go, but one thing that hasn’t changed is our mantra of “community as a compass.” How can we create a safe space for the Queer community without a physical location to call our own? For us, the answer is to hold more events like Big Love Bake Sale where we can raise awareness, drive donations and share valuable information.

With the safety and livelihood of the drag community at stake, it seemed like a no-brainer to choose The Rose Dynasty Foundation as the organization we

wanted to benefit from with the bake sale. Not only do they provide mentoring for LGBTQ+ youth, but they are committed to creating safe spaces for our Queer community, all while spreading their positive mantra that everyone is “loved, accepted and wanted.” They work nonstop to raise funds for numerous organizations like the Polk County Bully Project and The Rent Tent Initiative, by producing family-friendly drag and variety shows, proving that drag can be, and IS, safe for people of all ages.

Once we chose an organization, our next step was to secure the dough, quite literally. We emailed and reached out to a bunch of local bakers and businesses on Instagram for pastry donations. Our ask was 25 to 50 pastries, whatever they felt comfortable with. An overwhelming majority agreed to participate, and it was really heartening to see how the cause resonated with so many people. It was important to us that we included a mix of bakers and businesses we knew, as well as some new friends we’d been pining to work with. Some have a brick-and-mortar; most are pop-ups, and a few are avid home-bakers who are passionate about the cause. A huge driving force behind the bake sale was our desire to meet other people in our industry and collaborate with them on something meaningful. Many of us operate as popups, and it’s rare that we get the chance to participate in the same markets, since most of them have quotas for how many pastry vendors can participate in a single event.

Our goal is to make the Big Love Bake Sale a regular occurrence and to get it down to a science so we can replicate it to raise funds for other local organizations that matter to us. Creating community around food is our love language and sometimes that message gets lost in the chaos of running a small food business. Many fundraisers are centered around fancy galas or benefit dinners, which are great, but we wanted something small scale and accessible to everyone in the community. You can come to our bake sale with five dollars and walk away with something delicious, knowing you supported an amazing cause.

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What can you expect to eat at the bake sale? To name a few: Pinoy Cravings will be serving up their signature Filipino bibingka, a chewy coconut rice cake. Winter Haven’s Honeycomb bakery will be providing classic croissants and pain au chocolate and Lakeland’s Born + Bread Bakehouse will have “Love Is Love” twice-baked croissants stuffed with cake batter frangipane and rainbow sprinkles. Citrus lovers will swoon for the mojito and key lime pie cupcakes by From Beverly Bakery (the latter is GF and vegan!). Vegetation Plant Food, who recently opened their brick-and-mortar in Lakeland, will also be serving vegan delights. DOU Bakehouse will be bringing their financier cake pops (that’s an almond and brown butter cake dipped in chocolate!) and Baking Brewer will be on site with her beloved beer-infused triple chocolate brownies. Beyond baked goods, there will also be some fun beverages from Lakeland pop-ups Glizzy Gal and La Sirena who will be serving vegan cold brew creations and agua frescas, respectively. There will be ice cream and popsicles from Purple Panda to cool down on what will surely be a June scorcher (don’t worry, the event is indoors). Last but not least, there will be raffles and live performances from The Rose Dynasty Foundation and friends!

If you made it this far, we hope you are hungry and as excited as we are for this event. Big Love Bake Sale is family-friendly and free to attend. It will take place on June 4th at ART/ifact Studio in Lakeland from 12 to 3pm. Tickets will be available at the door to redeem for baked goods and beverages. Each ticket is $5 and is good for one item of your choosing. We can’t thank our participating bakers and makers enough for offering up their talents. Special thanks to ART/ifact for providing us with a space to hold all this love (and sugar) and of course to the Rose Dynasty Foundation for everything they do for our community. See you all on the 4th!

Big Love Bake Sale

June 4, 12 pm – 3 pm

ART/ifact

820 N. Massachusetts Ave. Lakeland, Florida 33801

Mojito

5 mint leaves

2 ounces white rum

1 ounce fresh lime juice

.5 ounce simply syrup club soda

extra mint for garnish

In a cocktail shaker, lightly muddle the mint until aromatic. Add the rum, lime juice, simple syrup, a handful of ice and shake. Strain into a glass filled with ice. Top with a splash of club soda and garnish with mint. Please drink responsibly, ages 21+

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Momma Knows Best: Drag is an Art

The art of drag has a long history. It is nothing new to society, dating back centuries when men often dressed as women for entertainment and other events. The term “drag” itself is thought to have originated in the theater world in the early 20th century, when male actors would wear women’s clothing to play female roles. For a time in history, it was illegal for women to perform on stage.

While “art” is subjective and can vary from person to person, drag can certainly be considered an art form. Drag involves using costume, makeup, and performance to create a persona that is often exaggerated or larger-thanlife. Drag performers often use their art to explore issues related to gender identity, sexuality, social norms, and beyond. Drag can consist of Kings, Queens, and anything in between. It can be an expression of gender, genderbending, cosplay, and more. Whether you are a male dressing as a female, a female dressing as a male, or even expressing your own gender or none at all, this is one of the amazing parts of the art form.

Many drag performers also use their art to express themselves creatively and entertain audiences. Whether through lip-syncing, dance, comedy, singing live, playing musical instruments, or drama, drag performers often use their talents to create a memorable and impactful performance that leaves a lasting impression on their audience. Drag is a form of performance and visual art. As I stated before, the term “larger-than-life” is a good way to explain the look. Whether it’s a drag Queen, King, or anything in between, everyone has a chance to show off their art in a creative way. Utilizing makeup, wigs, costumes, and props, drag performers often spend time getting into character before a performance. This may involve practicing their mannerisms and movements to create a convincing and entertaining performance. Like any performance, drag requires a lot of practice and preparation. Drag performers may rehearse their lip-syncing, live singing, dance moves, comedy routines, and more to ensure their performance is polished and entertaining.

Drag can have the power to challenge societal norms and provoke thought about issues related to gender identity and expression. This can open up so much for people to understand and even provide a safe space for others. There can be so much inspiration and empowerment for others through art.

The drag transformation for me can be a lot of work – shaving my facial hair off to have a smooth face to create the look of a female and using stage makeup of all sorts. My base is a thick cream foundation used in many theaters and television shows, along with special effects makeup and large amounts of

setting powder. Bright colors for my eyes and contour to change the look of the shape of my face. False lashes that are huge! Wearing a big-styled wig, large rhinestone jewelry, and elaborate dresses covered in rhinestones, it can take me up to two hours to become Momma.

Over the last 23 years, my makeup and costumes have evolved, as do many artists. I have had the chance to learn and grow in my skills. I have learned from other makeup artists, makeup classes, YouTube, and more.

In my over two decades of doing drag, I have had the chance to watch so many lives change. I have raised hundreds of thousands of dollars for charities. I have spread the message that everyone is loved, accepted, and wanted, no matter who they are.

I have seen families come together to celebrate so many things, including the love they have for their children, family, and friends. To me, the power behind drag is and can be life changing. On days when I am tired or don’t feel like taking the time to “transform” into Momma, I look in the mirror and think of the lives we have helped change through this art. I think of the kids whose smiles light up the room when I walk out and sing or read them stories. I think of the families I see come together to celebrate each other. I think of the community we built by raising money and awareness for so many charities. That is the reason I do what I do. That is the reason I believe drag is an art and drag is life-changing and brings joy and love!

While not everyone may consider drag an art form, it certainly has many elements of traditional art forms. Executing successfully requires a great deal of skill, creativity, and talent.

There has been a lot of talk about drag being harmful to people. There are no proven facts that drag has harmed anyone. In fact, history has shown drag performers have always created a safe space for people and helped raise money and awareness for many social and political issues. There are many types of drag, as there are different types of TV, music, and stage shows. You have adult TV, radio, and entertainment, and you have those that are safe for all ages. Drag is and can be the same. Not all drag is for adults only. As with any art form, the show and entertainer can adjust the content to make it safer for all ages. Drag is not a crime; Drag is NOT harmful; Drag is love; Drag is community; Drag is art, and we are not going anywhere.

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REAL LIFE

By Brandon Taylor

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THE CELEBRANTS

By Steven Rowley

Reuniting in Big Sur to honor a decades-old pact to throw each other living “funerals,” celebrations to remind themselves life is worth living, and living well, five friends find their pact upended when one of them reveals a shocking secret.

HERE COMES THE SUN

By Nicole Dennis-Benn

Sisters Margot and Thandi are both striving for a better life than the one they’ve been conditioned to live on the fringes of opulence. When an outside threat to their community forces both sisters into action, Margot wonders if she’ll finally have the chance to admit her secret love for another woman.

Wallace is Black, Queer and in pursuit of a BioChem degree at his Midwestern university, surrounded by a group of friends who sometimes feel as distant to him as his family back home in Alabama. When inter-friend group attraction begins to ferment amongst some unlikely candidates, Wallace finds himself forced to reckon with his own vulnerability and desire.

YERBA BUENA

By Nina LaCour

Sara and Emilie lead parallel lives, until their fated meeting at the Yerba Buena restaurant. Both deal with trauma and loss, always feeling left behind. But once they connect, it’s almost as if they are the missing piece that each has been waiting for.

THE SECRET LIVES OF COUNTRY GENTLEMEN

By KJ Charles

Bridgerton meets Poldark in this sweeping Regency romance of smugglers, adventure, mystery, and life-changing love. The leader of the Doomsday smuggling clan, Joss Doomsday, is unable to stay away from well-mannered gentleman Gareth Inglis, and the danger and mystery he brings.

SORRY, BRO

By Taleen Voskuni

To appease her Armenian mother, Nar participates in a series of events in San Francisco where, instead of meeting a mom-approved man, she meets Erebuni, a woman who gives her the courage to come out as bisexual and proudly be herself for the first time in her life.

LESS

By Andrew Sean Greer

Arthur Less, a middle-aged failed author, decides to travel the world to various (and questionable) literary events rather than accept an invitation to attend his ex-boyfriend’s wedding. Thus begins an around-theworld-in-eighty-days fantasia that will put thousands of miles between him and the problems he refuses to face. What could possibly go wrong?

WITH TEETH

By Kristen Arnett

If she’s being honest, Sammie Lucas is scared of her son as he grows from feral toddler to surly teenage, and increasingly resentful of Monika, her confident but absent wife. When her son’s hostility finally spills over into physical aggression, Sammie must confront her role in the mess. A thought-provoking portrait of the delicate fabric of family-and the many ways it can be torn apart.

LAVENDER HOUSE

By Lev AC Rosen

While investigating the mysterious death of matriarch Irene Lamontaine, head of a famous soap empire, Andy Mills is seduced by the safety and freedom found in Lavender House, where a Queer family lives honestly and openly, until he becomes a pawn in their deadly game.

SOME DESPERATE GLORY

By Emily Tesh

One of the best warriors of her generation, Kyr, when Command relegates her to Nursery to bear sons until she dies trying, takes humanity’s revenge into her own hands, escaping into a universe far more complicated than she was taught and far more wondrous than she could have imagined.

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The Urban Heat Island Effect: A Growing Challenge in Florida’s Urban Areas

As an Extension Agent, a significant part of my daily work involves talking about our environment with folks from all walks of life. A topic that has recently been on everyone’s lips in the realm of urban forestry and community health is the urban heat island effect. It’s an issue that has far-reaching implications for our cities and the people who live in them.

Now that summer feels like it is officially here, and hurricane season is upon us, I feel like everyone’s conversation has turned to how hot the weather has been. And while the season’s hottest weather is yet to come, you may have noticed it doesn’t feel equally hot everywhere in Polk County. This is especially true when you compare the evening temperatures in our more rural or natural areas to our cities like Lakeland, Winter Haven, Bartow, and Lake Wales. We can all thank the urban heat island effect for this heat disparity.

So, what is the urban heat island effect?

Essentially, it refers to urban or metropolitan areas that are significantly warmer than their surrounding rural regions. This temperature difference is primarily due to human activities. Cities and towns are full of buildings, roads, parking lots, and other structures made of materials like asphalt and concrete that absorb sunlight during the day and release it slowly at night, leading to an overall increase in temperature.

However, the heat island effect isn’t just a daytime phenomenon. Unlike rural areas, which cool down considerably after sunset, urban areas don’t experience the same temperature drop. The heat stored

in buildings and roads keep cities warm even after the sun goes down, creating a 24/7 cycle of increased temperatures. In winter, this can feel a bit nice. While the countryside in Polk may experience freezing temperatures, it will likely stay a few degrees warmer in the cities.

In areas with a lot of water, like Lakeland and Winter Haven, this effect can be compounded by the insulating effect large waterbodies have on the surrounding lands. Even at a statewide level, this is noticeable. It’s why Florida will look bright orange on the weather map when every other state is experiencing freezing temperatures. And, although it may seem counterintuitive, the water can have the same insulating effect in summer. When states to the north are experiencing heat waves into the triple digits, it is rarer to see those temperatures in Florida. There isn’t a lot of research about how the urban heat island effect and the insulating effects of large waterbodies work in cities with both phenomena, but hopefully, there will be in the future.

Unfortunately, the implications of the urban heat island effect are complex, and wide-ranging, and go beyond simple discomfort. For instance, as temperatures rise, so does our reliance on air conditioning, leading to increased energy consumption. Furthermore, hotter temperatures elevate the emissions of air pollutants and greenhouse gases, contributing to climate change. From a human health perspective, heat islands can lead to heat stress and other heat-related illnesses. Even our wildlife isn’t spared, as some creatures are drawn to the warmth of the roads, leading to an unfortunate increase in roadkill incidents.

As Polk County continues to urbanize, we must tackle the heat island effect head-on. But what can we do on an individual level? There are several strategies we can all take part in.

First and foremost, plant more trees. Trees are nature’s air conditioners. They absorb sunlight, provide shade, and cool the air through a process called transpiration. Additionally, trees provide a multitude of other benefits, from filtering pollutants out of the air to capturing stormwater runoff.

However, planting a tree isn’t as simple as just digging a hole and dropping in a seedling. You need to consider where to plant it for maximum shading effect. For instance, planting a tree on the east, west, or south sides of your house can provide the most shade. If you’re unsure what type of tree to plant or how to plant it, call our office in Bartow. Your local Polk County extension office is staffed with trained master gardener volunteers who are always ready to provide personalized advice for your yard.

Beyond planting trees, we can also turn to green infrastructure. This includes initiatives like green roofs, cool pavements, and strategically planned city growth. These mimic natural systems and bring the benefits of nature into our built environments. These projects can be more expensive up front but are often less expensive in the long run when we consider energy efficiency, stormwater management, and mitigation of traditional capital projects.

Last, but by no means least, is the power of civic engagement. Let your local government know you value trees and support

measures that protect and enhance our urban forests (also known as community forests). You can do this by sending an email, making a call, or attending community meetings. Every voice counts and public support for these less-traditional solutions is critical.

As we work to mitigate the urban heat island effect, it’s essential to remember that community trees and forest canopy aren’t just about cooling our cities. There’s a growing body of research showing that being around trees can lower stress levels and reduce the risk of heart disease. In short, trees make us happier and healthier. And, as new research continues to be released, I’m confident that this relationship with community trees will only get stronger.

In conclusion, combating the urban heat island effect is a complex and collective effort. We all have a part to play in planting trees, supporting green infrastructure, and championing urban and community forestry. By doing so, we can help make our cities more livable, improve public health, and protect Florida’s natural beauty.

If you’re interested in learning more about the urban heat island effect, consider listening to the Naturally Florida podcast episode on this topic at https://link.chtbl.com/HAVENreaders. It’s episode one of season two, “Is It Getting Hotter in Our Cities? It’s the Urban Heat Island Effect!”

If you have any questions, feel free to contact me at scarnevale@ufl.edu.

JUNE 2023 ADD YOUR EVENT

FIRST DAY OF HURRICANE SEASON

June 1, 2023

FLYING TIGERS VS JUPITER HAMMERHEADS

Jun 1, 2023, 6:30 PM

Publix Field at Joker Marchant Stadium

2301 Lakeland Hills Blvd, Lakeland

Fans are invited wear pink, the event benefits the Breast Cancer Foundation of Central Florida, which strives to ease the financial worries of local, Central Florida breast cancer patients and their families. A special ticket package is available that includes a donation to the Breast Cancer Foundation of Central Florida. The first 300 Strike Out Cancer ticket package buyers will receive a complimentary tote bag. milb.com/lakeland

TRIVIA NIGHT

Jun 1, 2023, 7:00 PM

Barrel 239, 239 3rd Street SW, Winter Haven

Every Thursday, free to play.

BINGO WITH MOMMA & FRIENDS

Jun 1, 2023, 8:00 PM

Quinteassence Kava Bar

839 North Massachusetts Ave, Lakeland

Every Thursday with Momma Ashley Rose and the Rose Dynasty Foundation Inc.! All ages are welcome to attend. $15 to play with the proceeds going to a different local charity each week.

RELAY FOR LIFE OF POLK COUNTY

Jun 2, 2023, 6:00 PM

Frances Langford Promenade, Lakeland

Fundraiser for the American Cancer Society with a luminaria ceremony honoring those who are fighting and those who have lost to cancer at 8:30 pm. RelayForLife.org/PolkFL

IMPROV COMEDY SHOW

Jun 2, 2023, 7:30 PM & 9:30 PM

Rec Room

202 North Massachusetts Ave, Lakeland

Two show times, 7:30 is the Family Friendly Show and 9:30 is the 21+ Show. It is $10 per show or $15 for both. They are a 6-year-old team with the best improvisers in all of Polk County. swancityimprov. com

LAKELAND DOWNTOWN FARMERS CURB MARKET

Jun 3, 2023, 8:00 AM

Downtown Lakeland, 117 N Kentucky Ave

YOGA IN THE GARDENS

Jun 3, 2023, 9:00 AM

Bok Tower Gardens

1151 Tower Blvd, Lake Wales

This inclusive class includes gentle yoga movements, breathing techniques, and extended relaxation. All levels welcome. Register in advance. 863-734-1222 boktowergardens.org

WINTER HAVEN FARMERS MARKET

*SUMMER SEASON*

Jun 3, 2023, 9:00 AM

250 Magnolia Ave, Winter Haven

Shop artisan food vendors, plants, food trucks, and more while supporting a healthy & connected community. We are across from Grove Roots on the NE corner of 3rd St. & Ave C SW in the old BB&T parking lot in downtown Winter Haven every Saturday.

SYMPHONY STORYTIME: CARNIVAL OF THE ANIMALS

Jun 3, 2023, 9:30 AM

Bok Tower Gardens

1151 Tower Boulevard, Lake Wales

A timeless classic brought to you by the Orlando Philharmonic Orchestra’s Woodwind Quintet. Live music for young children, ages three to seven. Register in advance. 863-734-1222 boktowergardens.org

SOUND BATH AND YOGA FLOW

Jun 3, 2023, 10:00 AM

Bok Tower Gardens

1151 Tower Boulevard, Lake Wales

Healing and soothing singing bowls will be played throughout this all-levels yoga class. From beginner to experienced, all are welcome. Register in advance. 863-734-1222 boktowergardens.org

Join OakLee, a local country band for a night of fun and music! Special guest, Derrick Flowers will open starting at 6:30PM, followed by OakLee starting at 8PM. A full bar and lite concessions will be available for sale. centralfloridatix.com

game weather permitting. milb.com/lakeland

ACOUSTIC OPEN MIC NIGHT

Jun 5, 2023, 6:00 PM

Gram Parsons Derry Down

297 5th Street NW, Winter Haven

All Acoustic Open Mic Night happens the first Monday night of the month. Sign up to perform up to 3 songs. No cost to attend. More info on FB @gramparsonsderrydown. Musicians of all ages are invited to play in this historic venue.

LIVE TRIVIA

Jun 5, 2023, 7:30 PM

Cob & Pen 1221 Florida Ave S, Lakeland

Live trivia every Monday. Tons of fun with your friends are in store with a huge craft beer selection, unique craft cocktails, and an amazing food menu. Quarterly prizes given.

Every Saturday 8 am - 1 pm, shop local, handmade, produce, plants, artisan gifts, pastries, breads, specialty foods, and more! Enjoy live entertainment most Saturdays. Every Saturday in downtown Lakeland.

teers will lead a one-mile stroll along our accessible

STAR WARS: A NEW HOPE

Jun 3, 2023, 7:00 PM

Gem Theater, 110 NW 1st Avenue, Mulberry

We are kicking off summer with one of the biggest blockbusters ever! Luke Skywalker joins forces with a Jedi Knight, a cocky pilot, a Wookiee, and two droids to save the galaxy from the Empire’s world-destroying battle station. Tickets are $5.00, and doors open thirty minutes prior. Outside concessions are permitted. centralfloridatix.com

BIG LOVE BAKE SALE

Jun 4, 2023, 12:00 PM

ART/ifact

820 North Massachusetts Ave, Lakeland Bake sale from noon - 3 pm to raise funds for Rose Dynasty Foundation. Together with over 15 local bakers and makers, Bandidas & Rose Dynasty Foundation will be slinging pastries, coffee and more! See Live performances from Rose Dynasty and friends, and raffles!! Come out, bring your friends, eat some cake, and celebrate our Queer community! This is a FAMILY-FRIENDLY event and only love will be tolerated. More info on FB @BandidasLKLD. Tickets will be available at the door. Each ticket is $5.00 and is good for 1 item of your choosing.

FLYING TIGERS VS JUPITER HAMMERHEADS

Jun 4, 2023, 1:00 PM

Publix Field at Joker Marchant Stadium

UAW MID FLORIDA RETIREE COUNCIL DROP-IN CENTER

Jun 6, 2023, 9:00 AM

209 Avenue O SW, Winter Haven

The UAW Mid Florida Retiree Council’s drop-in center in Winter Haven is open every Tuesday and Thursday from 9:00 a.m. until 1:00 p.m. Please contact us at (863) 293-5556 or drop by with any problems you have with your benefits. All UAW retired members are welcome to take advantage of this drop-in center. Please bring all pertinent paperwork in order to resolve any problems. There will be no monthly meetings for the months of June, July and August. We are always looking for suggestions for guest speakers. If you have any suggestions, please call us at the drop-in center. Please pass this info along to any UAW retired members who may not get this publication.

BUSY BEES SPORTS EXPLORERS!

Jun 6, 2023, 10:00 AM

Medulla Resource Center and Park

1049 Parker Road, Lakeland

Every Tuesday, kids 3-6 are invited to learn the basics of a new monthly sport. To attend, please RSVP by e-mail to Cherry Alston at cherryalston@ polk-county.net. Must be accompanied by an adult

CAMEO WRITERS

Jun 6, 2023, 2:00 PM

Winter Haven Public Library

325 Avenue A NW, Winter Haven

OAKLEE ALBUM “OUR TIME” RELEASE PARTY

Jun 3, 2023, 6:30 PM

Historic Ritz Theatre

263 West Central Ave, Winter Haven

2301 Lakeland Hills Blvd, Lakeland

Young Flying Tigers fans can enjoy kids’ zones with multiple activities during the game, including face painting, balloon artists and bounce houses. All kids ages 12 and under may run the bases after the

Receive knowledgeable, appreciative support and encouragement. Questions please contact Beverly Lerner at bevlerner@aol.com. CW meets on the first Tuesday of each month. 863-291-5880.

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Cameo Writers welcomes writers of varying ability, genre, and experience.

KNIT & CROCHET NIGHT

Jun 6, 2023, 5:00 PM

The Union Taproom

245 West Central Ave, Winter Haven

Every Tuesday! Bring your Knit or Crochet project and join us for Hoppy Hour at Union Taproom. Enjoy 20% off Beer, Cider, Wine, Craft Soda, Non-Alcoholic Beer, and Hoppy Water.

FLYING TIGERS VS TAMPA TARPONS

Jun 6, 2023, 6:30 PM

Publix Field at Joker Marchant Stadium

2301 Lakeland Hills Blvd, Lakeland

All fans will receive a bingo card as they enter the gates, with a chance to win prizes from local area restaurants and attractions. Baseball Bingo takes place during every Flying Tigers at bat beginning in the bottom of the 1st inning. The fun ends once 10 winning fans have been announced. milb.com/ lakeland

TRIVIA TUESDAYS

Jun 6, 2023, 6:30 PM

Grove Roots Brewing Company

302 3rd Street SW, Winter Haven

Play trivia every Tuesday with Triviosity! Free to play.

CHAIR YOGA

Jun 7, 2023, 10:00 AM

Bok Tower Gardens

1151 Tower Blvd, Lake Wales

Now you can practice yoga from your chair. This class is appropriate for beginners, anyone with limited mobility, those recovering from injury, and anyone who has wanted to try yoga but felt intimidated. You can use a provided chair or your own chair, and wheelchairs are always welcome. Registration required. boktowergardens.org

863-734-1222

FLYING TIGERS VS TAMPA TARPONS

Jun 7, 2023, 6:30 PM

Publix Field at Joker Marchant Stadium

2301 Lakeland Hills Blvd, Lakeland

This all-inclusive package includes your game ticket and all-you-can-eat for one price! Enjoy unlimited hamburgers, hot dogs, nachos, popcorn, pretzels, and fountain soda from 5:30 - 8:30pm. milb.com/lakeland

WINTER HAVEN WRITERS

Jun 8, 2023, 12:30 PM

Winter Haven Public Library

325 Avenue A NW, Winter Haven

This group shares work, writing ideas, and encour-

age fellow writers. Interested writers can email ellenedits4u@gmail.com or call 863-456-9831 for more info. www.mywinterhaven.com.

The Winter Haven Writers meet every second and fourth Thursday from 12:30 to 2:30 pm, at the Winter Haven library in the large conference room. (only 2nd Thursday in Nov. & Dec.)

FLYING TIGERS VS TAMPA TARPONS

Jun 8, 2023, 5:30 PM

Publix Field at Joker Marchant Stadium

2301 Lakeland Hills Blvd, Lakeland

Don’t miss the annual TigerTown Chili Throwdown as various Lakeland Fire Departments compete for the best chili in town. Fans can enjoy chili samples from 5:30-7:00 p.m. followed by the Flying Tigers game at 6:30 p.m. with the purchase of a Chili Throwdown package. A portion of the proceeds benefit the Florida Children’s Museum. milb.com/lakeland

LAKELAND FOOD TRUCK RALLY

Jun 8, 2023, 6:00 PM

Munn Park, 210 East Main Street, Lakeland Head to Munn Park on the second Thursday of every month!

TRIVIA NIGHT

Jun 8, 2023, 7:00 PM

Barrel 239, 239 3rd Street SW, Winter Haven Trivia everyThursday, free to play.

BINGO WITH MOMMA & FRIENDS

Jun 8, 2023, 8:00 PM

Quinteassence Kava Bar

839 North Massachusetts Ave, Lakeland

Every Thursday with Momma Ashley Rose and the Rose Dynasty Foundation Inc.! All ages are welcome to attend. $15 to play with the proceeds going to a different local charity each week.

PULSE NIGHTCLUB MASS SHOOTING

June 12, 2016

Stanley Almodovar III, Amanda L. Alvear, Oscar A. Aracena Montero, Rodolfo Ayala Ayala, Antonio Davon Brown, Darryl Roman Burt II, Angel Candelario-Padro, Juan Chavez Martinez, Luis Daniel Conde, Cory James Connell, Tevin Eugene Crosby, Deonka Deidra Drayton, Simón Adrian Carrillo Fernández, Leroy Valentin Fernandez, Mercedez Marisol

Flores, Peter Ommy Gonzalez Cruz, Juan Ramon Guerrero, Paul Terrell Henry, Frank Hernandez, Miguel Angel Honorato, Javier Jorge Reyes, Jason Benjamin Josaphat, Eddie Jamoldroy Justice, Anthony Luis Laureano Disla, Christopher Andrew Leinonen, Alejandro Barrios Martinez, Brenda Marquez McCool, Gilberto R. Silva Menendez, Kimberly Jean Morris, Akyra Monet Murray, Luis Omar Ocasio Capo, Geraldo A. Ortiz Jimenez, Eric Ivan Ortiz-Rivera, Joel Rayon Paniagua, Jean Carlos Mendez Perez, Enrique L. Rios, Jr., Jean Carlos Nieves Rodríguez, Xavier Emmanuel Serrano-Rosado, Christopher Joseph Sanfeliz, Yilmary Rodríguez Solivan, Edward Sotomayor Jr., Shane Evan Tomlinson, Martin Benitez Torres, Jonathan A. Camuy Vega, Juan Pablo Rivera Velázquez, Luis Sergio Vielma, Franky Jimmy DeJesus Velázquez, Luis Daniel Wilson-Leon, Jerald Arthur Wright.

THE SANDLOT

Jun 9, 2023, 2:00 PM

Gem Theater, 110 Northwest 1st Ave, Mulberry

This classic summer family feature will only be a $2.00 admission charge. In the summer of 1962, a new kid in town is taken under the wing of a young baseball prodigy and his rowdy team, resulting in many adventures. Outside concessions are permitted. centralfloridatix.com

LAKELAND DOWNTOWN FARMERS CURB MARKET

Jun 10, 2023, 8:00 AM

Downtown Lakeland

117 N Kentucky Ave , Lakeland

Every Saturday 8 am - 1 pm

Local, handmade, produce, plants, artisan gifts, pastries, breads, specialty foods, and more! Enjoy live entertainment most Saturdays. Every Saturday in downtown Lakeland.

WINTER HAVEN FARMERS MARKET

*SUMMER SEASON*

Jun 10, 2023, 9:00 AM

250 Magnolia Avenue, Winter Haven

Shop artisan food vendors, plants, food trucks, and more while supporting a healthy & connected community. We are across from Grove Roots on the NE corner of 3rd St. & Ave C SW in the old BB&T parking lot in downtown Winter Haven every Saturday. winterhavenfarmersmarket.com

NATURE NARRATOR

Jun 10, 2023, 10:00 AM

Bonnet Springs Park

400 Bonnet Springs Blvd, Lakeland

Storytime will begin at 10am followed by a fun activity. Seating will be at the Outdoor Classroom and families are encouraged to use our tiered bench seating. bonnetspringspark.com

PRIDE ON TAP

Jun 10, 2023, 2:00 PM

Swan Brewing

115 West Pine Street, Lakeland

Kick-off pride week at Pride on Tap, hosted by Swan Brewing! More info on FB @PolkPrideFL

LKLD SHUFFLE

Jun 9, 2023, 6:00 PM

Lakeland Shuffleboard Club

820 East Robson St, Lakeland

On the second Friday of every month from 6-8 PM, all equipment provided by the Shuffleboard Club, but feel free to bring your own if you have it. We’ll provide instruction and get you started if you haven’t played before. It’s a very simple game to get the hang of, no athletic skills needed! Shuffleboard is a great sport for people of all abilities (suggested age 10 and up). Closed-toe shoes required. Snacks will be available for purchase on-site. centralfloridatix.com

NOT YOUR AVERAGE ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE

Jun 9, 2023, 7:30 PM

Lake Wales Little Theatre

411 North 3rd Street, Lake Wales

June 9 – 18. This is a teen production. After a science fair project goes awry, zombies begin to take over Eastdale High. lwlt.org/shows

FLYING TIGERS VS TAMPA TARPONS

Jun 10, 2023, 5:00 PM

Publix Field at Joker Marchant Stadium

2301 Lakeland Hills Blvd, Lakeland

The Flying Tigers will light up the night with a fireworks show following the game, weather permitting. milb.com/lakeland

FLYING TIGERS VS TAMPA TARPONS

Jun 11, 2023, 1:00 PM

Publix Field at Joker Marchant Stadium

2301 Lakeland Hills Blvd, Lakeland

Young Flying Tigers fans can enjoy kids’ zones with multiple activities during the game, including face painting, balloon artists and bounce houses. All kids ages 12 and under may run the bases after the game weather permitting. milb.com/lakeland

MOMMA AND FRIENDS PRIDE SHOW

Jun 11, 2023, 2:00 PM

ART/ifact

820 North Massachusetts Ave, Lakeland

Join Momma Ashley Rose, Miss Rose Dynasty

2023 Juno Vibranz, and the contestants of Miss Rose Dynasty 2023 pageant Mistah Aphrodite (Adam Reuther), Keirra Ka’oir Summers, and Jessa Belle Light for a great show! Tickets are on sale now! www.rosedynasty.org/brunch

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and an amazing food menu. Quarterly prizes given.

TRIVIA TUESDAYS

Jun 13, 2023, 6:30 PM

Grove Roots Brewing Company

302 3rd Street SW, Winter Haven

Play trivia every Tuesday with Triviosity! Free to play.

MORNING BOOK CLUB

Jun 14, 2023, 10:00 AM

Winter Haven Public Library

325 Avenue A NW, Winter Haven

Discuss “Indian Horse” by Richard Wagamese. Meets on the 2nd Wednesday of the month. mywinterhaven.com

PRIDE FOR YOUTH

Jun 14, 2023, 6:30 PM

Skate World Lakeland

911 N Lake Parker Avenue, Lakeland

Ages 11-17 & their parents are invited for a chaperoned youth event. Meet Polk Pride, Lakeland Youth Alliance, and PFLAG of Polk County. More info on FB @PolkPrideFL

TRIVIA NIGHT

Jun 15, 2023, 7:00 PM

Barrel 239

239 3rd Street SW, Winter Haven Trivia everyThursday, free to play.

MONTHLY SACRED STILLNESS: MEDITATION + PRAYER

Jun 11, 2023, 3:00 PM

Ignite the Fire Inside Wellness Studio

140 SE Plaza Road, Winter Haven

Join us for a special afternoon meditation, prayer & sound bath to wrap up the year in community. This monthly Sacred Stillness experience is held the 2nd Sunday of each month to provide a safe space to reflect, meditate, pray + encourage one another. Feel free to invite a friend but do RSVP as space is limited. Email Lupita@ ignitethefireinside.com for more information. centralfloridatix.com

CRYSTAL BOWL SOUND BATH

Jun 11, 2023, 5:00 PM

Inside Out Yoga

219 5th Street SW, Winter Haven

Join Cosmic Sound Healer, Buffy La Roux. Register online to save your place. Please bring your own mat and equipment. This is a high-vibratory journey of sound through time and space. During this deeply meditative and transformative experience, Buffy guides us inward through a sound bath of deeply shifting vocal toning, singing, frequencies and quartz crystal singing bowls. 863-224-2311

ioyogastudio.com

LIVE TRIVIA

Jun 12, 2023, 7:30 PM

Cob & Pen

1221 Florida Avenue S, Lakeland

Tons of fun with your friends are in store with a huge craft beer selection, unique craft cocktails,

JUNETEENTH: IT’S HISTORY, IMPACT, & SIGNIFICANCE TODAY

Jun 15, 2023, 6:00 PM

Winter Haven Recreational & Cultural Center 801 Martin Luther King Blvd , Winter Haven Learn about the history of Juneteenth. Come and learn more about the history of Juneteenth and how it affects our communities today in this town hall event. mywinterhaven.com

FILM: INDIANA JONES AND RAIDERS OF THE LOST ARK (1981)

Jun 15, 2023, 7:00 PM

Historic Ritz Theatre

263 West Central Ave, Winter Haven

Enter Indiana Jones; an archeologist and adventurer searching for a storied lost relic while battling histories most notorious villains. Enjoy specialty drinks, cocktails, beer, wine, and light snacks for sale at before and during the movie in The Ritz Lounge on the first floor. centralfloridatix.com

PRIDE IN FAITH

Jun 15, 2023, 7:00 PM

Beacon Hill Fellowship

220 West Beacon Road, Lakeland

An interfaith gathering where you’ll hear from local leaders of several faiths as well as other guest speakers. More info on FB @PolkPrideFL

BINGO WITH MOMMA & FRIENDS

Jun 15, 2023, 8:00 PM

Quinteassence Kava Bar

839 North Massachusetts Ave, Lakeland

Every Thursday with Momma Ashley Rose and the Rose Dynasty Foundation Inc.! All ages are welcome to attend. $15 to play with the proceeds going to a different local charity each week.

FLASHBACK FRIDAY: THE GOONIES

Jun 16, 2023, 7:00 PM

Gem Theater

110 NW 1st Avenue, Mulberry

Have a classic summer Friday night enjoying The Goonies. The Goonies is the tale of a group of misfit kids trying to save their hometown by uncovering lost pirate treasure. Outside refreshments are welcome. centralfloridatix.com

BLUES BROTHERS

Jun 15, 2023, 6:00 PM

Balmoral Event Center

116 Kenny Blvd, Haines City

You’ve seen these guys on TV, seen them on stage in Las Vegas, Myrtle Beach, and on cruise ships around the world. This is an action-pack show from start to finish. They will have the crowd on their feet singing, dancing, clapping, and laughing, with dinner included! centralfloridatix.com

DISNEY’S FINDING NEMO JR.

Jun 16, 2023

Lakeland Community Theatre

121 S Lake Avenue, Lakeland

June 16 - 25. A musical adaptation of the 2003 Pixar movie Finding Nemo, with new music by award-winning songwriting team Kristen Anderson-Lopez and Robert Lopez. lakelandcommunitytheatre.com

SACRED HARMONY: SOUND & AROMATHERAPY

Jun 16, 2023, 7:30 PM

Ignite the Fire Inside Wellness Studio

140 SE Plaza Road, Winter Haven

This monthly Sacred Harmony experience is held the 3rd Friday of each month to provide a safe space to rest, tap into our senses & rejuvenate. Specific Essential oils will be used which are aligned with the focus of the session. Do RSVP as space is limited. More info online. centralfloridatix.com

MOVIES AT THE MAUDE

Jun 16, 2023, 8:00 PM

Lake Maude Recreation Park

1751 7th Street NW, Winter Haven

Watch the award-winning 2007 film, “The Great Debaters,” featuring Denzel Washington as he depicts Professor Melvin B. Tolson, who recruits

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the first black debate team to challenge Harvard’s prestigious debate champions. Please bring your own chairs and blankets. There will be popcorn and other light concessions for sale. mywinterhaven.com

PRIDE WEEKEND KICKOFF

Jun 16, 2023, 9:00 PM

The Parrot, 1030 E Main Street, Lakeland

Kick-off Pride weekend at none other than a pillar within Polk’s LGBTQ+ community, The Parrot! More info on FB @PolkPrideFL

LAKELAND DOWNTOWN FARMERS CURB MARKET

Jun 17, 2023, 8:00 AM

Downtown Lakeland, 117 N Kentucky Ave , Lakeland

Every Saturday 8 am - 1 pm shop local, handmade, produce, plants, artisan gifts, pastries, breads, specialty foods, and more! Enjoy live entertainment most Saturdays.

WINTER HAVEN FARMERS MARKET

*SUMMER SEASON*

Jun 17, 2023, 9:00 AM

250 Magnolia Avenue, Winter Haven

Shop artisan food vendors, plants, food trucks, and more while supporting a healthy & connected community. We are across from Grove Roots on the NE corner of 3rd St. & Ave C SW in the old BB&T parking lot in downtown Winter Haven every Saturday.

winterhavenfarmersmarket.com

PRIDE IN THE PARK

Jun 17, 2023, 10:00 AM

Munn Park, 210 E Main Street, Lakeland

Hundreds of LGBTQ+ owned/ally vendors will fill the park, and the main stage will keep you entertained throughout the day. More info on FB @PolkPrideFL.

DISCOVERY BAGS

Jun 17, 2023, 10:00 AM

Bonnet Springs Park

400 Bonnet Springs Blvd, Lakeland

Stop by the GiveWell Community Foundation

Nature Center Classroom to check out a Discovery Bag from a BSP representative. Guests may check out a Discovery Bag by leaving their contact information and a Driver’s License or other government-issued ID card. All Discovery Bags must be returned by 3:00pm.

JUNETEENTH CELEBRATION

Jun 17, 2023, 11:00 AM

Lake Maude Recreation Park

1751 7th Street NW, Winter Haven

The festival will promote and provide an abun-

dance of education and health resources. Additionally, this event will enhance each attendee’s understanding of African American culture. enjoying influential jazz and R&B musical acts. mywinterhaven.com

Tons of fun with your friends are in store with a huge craft beer selection, unique craft cocktails, and an amazing food menu. Quarterly prizes given.

TUESDAY BOOK CLUB

Jun 20, 2023, 4:00 PM

Winter Haven Public Library

325 Avenue A NW, Winter Haven

Discuss “The Thursday Murder Club” by Richard Osman. Club meets on the thrid Tuesday every month. mywinterhaven.com

FLYING TIGERS VS BRADENTON MARAUDERS

Jun 20, 2023, 6:30 PM

Publix Field at Joker Marchant Stadium

2301 Lakeland Hills Blvd, Lakeland

FILM: INDIANA JONES AND THE TEMPLE OF DOOM (1984)

Jun 22, 2023, 7:00 PM

FAMILY FLICKS: MARY POPPINS

Jun 17, 2023, 2:00 PM

Gem Theater

110 NW 1st Ave, Mulberry

Beat the summer heat with the family at the Gem Theater with a Family Flicks screening of Mary Poppins. This family-friendly treat will have an admission price of only $2.00. Outside concessions are welcome. centralfloridatix.com

COMPLIMENTARY FATHER’S DAY

PHOTOS AT LAKESIDE VILLAGE

Jun 17, 2023, 5:00 PM

Lakeside Village

1479 Town Center Drive, Lakeland

Enjoy complimentary photos on The Lawn with a stunning backdrop on June 17 from 5-7 PM captured by our talented photographers, the Lagrones. Please note that the availability of the Father’s Day complimentary photos is weather dependent. You can download the images from Facebook within a week after the photoshoot date. Appointments are not required, but spaces are limited. Pets are welcome too!

PRIDE AFTER DARK

Jun 17, 2023, 9:00 PM

202 North Massachusetts Ave, Lakeland

A night of drinks, drag, and dancing at Pride After Dark! Enter through LKLD Live next to the Rec Room. More info on FB @PolkPrideFL

FATHER’S DAY

Jun 18, 2023

LIVE TRIVIA

Jun 19, 2023, 7:30 PM

Cob & Pen, 1221 Florida Ave S, Lakeland

All fans will receive a bingo card as they enter the gates, with a chance to win prizes from local area restaurants and attractions. Baseball Bingo takes place during every Flying Tigers at bat beginning in the bottom of the 1st inning. The fun ends once 10 winning fans have been announced. milb.com/ lakeland

TRIVIA TUESDAYS

Jun 20, 2023, 6:30 PM

Grove Roots Brewing Company

302 3rd Street SW, Winter Haven

Play trivia every Tuesday with Triviosity! Free to play.

FIRST DAY OF SUMMER

June 21, 2023

FLYING TIGERS VS BRADENTON MARAUDERS

Jun 21, 2023, 6:00 PM

Publix Field at Joker Marchant Stadium

2301 Lakeland Hills Blvd, Lakeland

This all-inclusive package includes your game ticket and all-you-can-eat for one price! Enjoy unlimited hamburgers, hot dogs, nachos, popcorn, pretzels, and fountain soda from 5:30 - 8:30pm. milb.com/lakeland

WINTER HAVEN WRITERS

Jun 22, 2023, 12:30 PM

Winter Haven Public Library

325 Avenue A NW, Winter Haven

This group shares work, writing ideas, and encourage fellow writers. Interested writers can email ellenedits4u@gmail.com or call 863-456-9831 for more info. www.mywinterhaven.com. Meets twice a month. (only 2nd Thursday in Nov. & Dec.)

TRIVIA NIGHT

Jun 22, 2023, 7:00 PM

Barrel 239

239 3rd Street SW, Winter Haven Trivia everyT

Historic Ritz Theatre

263 West Central Ave, Winter Haven

Indy, his sidekick Short Round and nightclub singer Willie Scott go from high-flying action above the Himalayas to a spine-tingling escape from a fortress-like mine in India. Enjoy specialty drinks, cocktails, beer, wine, and light snacks for sale at before and during the movie in The Ritz Lounge on the first floor. centralfloridatix.com

BARTOW UNCORKED

Jun 23, 2023, 5:00 PM

Front Page Brewing Company

190 South Florida Avenue, Bartow

Visit 30 downtown shops, businesses & restaurants for a sampling of wines paired with bites at each stop. Purchase tickets in advance. More info on FB @MainStreetBartow

NOCHE DE SAN JUAN - POOL PARTY

Jun 23, 2023, 7:00 PM

Balmoral Bar & Grill

124 Kenny Boulevard, Haines City

We will provide music & entertainment with DJ Miguel, and a special Hispanic food menu.

OUT OF THE BOX IMPROV

Jun 23, 2023, 7:00 PM

Historic Ritz Theatre

263 West Central Avenue, Winter Haven

A cast of talented young actors create ‘slice of life’ theatre based on the audience’s script scenarios. centralfloridatix.com

LAKELAND DOWNTOWN FARMERS CURB MARKET

Jun 24, 2023, 8:00 AM

Downtown Lakeland

117 N Kentucky Ave , Lakeland

Every Saturday 8 am - 1 pm, shop local, handmade, produce, plants, artisan gifts, pastries, breads, specialty foods, and more! Enjoy live entertainment most Saturdays. Every Saturday in downtown Lakeland.

WINTER HAVEN FARMERS MARKET *SUMMER SEASON*

Jun 24, 2023, 9:00 AM

250 Magnolia Avenue, Winter Haven

Shop artisan food vendors, plants, food trucks, and more while supporting a healthy & connected community. We are across from Grove Roots on the NE corner of 3rd St. & Ave C SW in the old BB&T parking lot in downtown Winter Haven every Saturday.

winterhavenfarmersmarket.com

ADD YOUR EVENT

The Lodge, 332 Avenue B SW, Winter Haven

During this EXCLUSIVE in-person workshop limited to ONLY 12 attendees, we will cover areas around Business Strategies, Finding Your Ideal Client, Mindset, Goal-Setting, Managing Your Time, & Even Taking that Vacation! centralfloridatix.com

STEM IN THE PARK

Jun 24, 2023, 10:00 AM

Bonnet Springs Park

400 Bonnet Springs Blvd, Lakeland

Explore topics in Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math! Each month will have a new and engaging activity fit for a wide range of learners. bonnetspringspark.com

ROCK FOR PAWS

Jun 24, 2023, 7:00 PM

Bonnet Springs Park

400 Bonnet Springs Blvd, Lakeland

A benefit concert event for SPCA Florida

Delicious food, cash bar, raffles, concert T-shirts, and dancing. We will Take You Back to the 80s - when we were ‘livin’ on a prayer’ and inspired to ‘don’t stop believin’. The decade that made big hair, spandex, leg warmers, headbands, fingerless gloves, neon shades, bright make-up, and parachute pants look good! spcaflorida.org/ rockforpaws

LAID BACK COUNTRY PICKER

Jun 24, 2023, 8:00 PM

Artcade, 1149 1st Street S, Winter Haven

The band consists of singer/guitarist “LB”, and drummer, “Honey.” The sound incorporates elements of blues, rock, and country; complete with slide guitar. Their debut album “Go West” could be considered a tribute to their musical influences, yet showcasing their own unique style. $25 Tickets on eventbrite by Artcade.

FLYING TIGERS VS BRADENTON MARAUDERS

Jun 25, 2023, 1:00 PM

Publix Field at Joker Marchant Stadium

2301 Lakeland Hills Blvd, Lakeland

Young Flying Tigers fans can enjoy kids’ zones with multiple activities during the game, including face painting, balloon artists and bounce houses. All kids ages 12 and under may run the bases after the game weather permitting. milb.com/lakeland

LIVE TRIVIA

Jun 26, 2023, 7:30 PM

Cob & Pen

1221 Florida Avenue S, Lakeland

Tons of fun with your friends are in store with a huge craft beer selection, unique craft cocktails, and an amazing food menu. Quarterly prizes given.

THE DEMOCRATIC WOMEN’S CLUB OF EAST POLK/RIDGE

Jun 27, 2023, 5:30 PM

35523 US Highway 27, Haines City

The club meets on the 4th Tuesday at the R-Place Eatery Restaurant. All Democratic women are welcome to join the club, where we discuss shared political views and volunteer for activities that help elect fellow Democrats. Contact: Anne Huffman, Club President (863-242-3230) and annehuffman01@gmail.com

TRIVIA TUESDAYS

Jun 27, 2023, 6:30 PM

Grove Roots Brewing Company

TRIVIA NIGHT

Jun 29, 2023, 7:00 PM

Barrel 239

239 3rd Street Southwest, Winter Haven Trivia every Thursday, free to play.

BECOMING FEARLESS IN BUSINESS (INTERACTIVE WORKSHOP)

Jun 24, 2023, 10:00 AM

FIL LORENZ ORCHESTRA - BIG BAND JAZZ

Jun 24, 2023, 7:00 PM

Historic Ritz Theatre

263 West Central Avenue, Winter Haven

The Fil Lorenz Orchestra is a big band jazz and swing show featuring vocalist, Walt Andrus. Join us for this high-voltage, crowd-pleasing big band born of the blues, with a sound defined by a searing, relentless horn section. Enjoy specialty drinks, cocktails, beer, wine, and light snacks for sale at The Ritz Lounge before and during the concert. centralfloridatix.com

302 3rd Street SW, Winter Haven

Play trivia every Tuesday with Triviosity! Free to play.

WAWA SUMMER FUN DAYS

Jun 29, 2023, 8:00 AM

Bok Tower Gardens

1151 Tower Blvd, Lake Wales

Wawa and Bok Tower Gardens are teaming up again to offer Wawa Summer Fun Days featuring complimentary admission on the last Thursday and Friday of May through September. Pre-registration is required for this complimentary offer. Visitors can register at boktowergardens.org.

FILM: Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade (1989)

Jun 29, 2023, 7:00 PM

Historic Ritz Theatre

263 West Central Avenue, Winter Haven

Despite his attempts for a quieter life, Indiana Jones is thrust back into action when his father mysteriously disappears while on a quest for the Holy Grail. Enjoy specialty drinks, cocktails, beer, wine, and light snacks for sale at before and during the movie in The Ritz Lounge on the first floor. centralfloridatix.com

BINGO WITH MOMMA & FRIENDS

Jun 29, 2023, 8:00 PM

Quinteassence Kava Bar

839 North Massachusetts Ave, Lakeland

Every Thursday with Momma Ashley Rose and the Rose Dynasty Foundation Inc.! All ages are welcome to attend. $15 to play with the proceeds going to a different local charity each week.

WAWA SUMMER FUN DAYS

Jun 30, 2023, 8:00 AM

Bok Tower Gardens

1151 Tower Boulevard, Lake Wales

Wawa and Bok Tower Gardens are teaming up again to offer Wawa Summer Fun Days featuring complimentary admission on the last Thursday and Friday of May through September. Pre-registration is required for this complimentary offer. Visitors can register at boktowergardens.org.

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ARIES

March 21 - April 19

This month, you may feel a desire to take on new challenges and explore new opportunities. Trust your instincts and don’t be afraid to take risks. You may also experience some positive changes in your personal relationships during the middle of the month.

TAURUS

April 20 - May 20

June is a great time for you to focus on your personal growth and development. You may have an opportunity to take on a new challenge around the middle of the month. Be careful not to let your stubbornness cloud your decision making. Ask for advice.

GEMINI

May 21 - June 20

Happy birthday, Gemini! This month, you may feel a surge of energy and creativity. Use this power to explore new opportunities. You may also receive some positive news related to your career or finances.

CANCER

June 21 - July 22

You will find yourself feeling more introspective and reflective. You may also have an opportunity to deepen your connections with loved ones. Travel is in your near future.

LEO

July 23 - August 22

June is a great time for you to focus on your relationships and connections with others. You may also receive some positive news related to your career or finances at the end of the month. Just be careful not to let your desire for attention or recognition overshadow your personal life and relationships.

VIRGO

August 23 - September 22

This month, you may find yourself feeling more inspired than usual. Use this energy to pursue your passions and hobbies. Don’t let the words and actions of others bring you down, stay on your path and you will find success.

LIBRA

September 23 - October 22

A new energy might enter your life around the middle of the month. You may also experience some positive changes in your personal relationships. The more positive you are in your everyday life; the more positive energies will enter. The opposite is true, too.

SCORPIO

October 23 - November 21

This month, you may find yourself feeling more confident and assertive in your personal and professional relationships. Use this energy to pursue your goals and advocate for yourself. You may also have an opportunity to deepen your connections with loved ones.

SAGITTARIUS

November 22 - December 21

June is a great time for you to focus on your finances and budgeting for the second half of the year. You may also experience some unexpected financial gains in the middle of the month. Be careful not to overspend or take on too much debt.

CAPRICORN

December 22 - January 19

This month, you may feel a desire to take a break and recharge. Use this time to focus on self-care and prioritize your mental and physical health. Don’t be tempted to do things the same old way, try a new path. Your mornings may feel chaotic this month, so take it slow.

AQUARIUS

January 20 - February 18

June is a great time for you to focus on your career. You may receive recognition for your hard work or even a promotion. There may have been issues with co-workers in the past, use this month’s good energy to help put closure on those relationships.

PISCES

February 19 - March 20

Embrace the unknown and seek out spontaneity this month. These events will add much needed color to your life which will help you succeed in work and personal relationships. Be kind to those bringing the negative energy, they need it the most.

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