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2 Publisher’s Letter 4 Out & About 6 Local School News 8 News from the Developer 48 Sabreal Holiday Season Contacts
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The Implications of the New Sectional Title Act Fit Pit Launch & Ladies Night Loftus Park Development Hazeldean Square Shoppers Guide Festive Fun at Santa’s Warehouse Hazeldean Office Park Welcomes New Tenants
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Latest in Lifestyle Pretoria Stay-cation Guide Fun Festive Crafts Home Security for the Holidays Tackling Toxic Relationships Indulgent Christmas Recipes Festive Financial Planning
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t’s finally holiday time, and most of us are looking forward to a nice relaxing break away from everyday life. This also means you will probably be leaving your house empty. On page 32 of our Summer Issue we look at safety measures you can take to ensure you return to your home the way you left it. For those preferring to stay home for the holidays, our Stay-cation guide on page 26 will give you plenty of ideas to keep busy, and our article on Festive Foods will get you in the mood for good food and relaxation. Tackling a more serious issue in this edition, we unpack the new sectional title act and what it means for existing owners and prospective buyers of sectional title properties. Read the full article on page 10. Hazeldean Times and the developers of the Hazeldean community wish you all a wonderful and blessed festive season and are looking forward to a prosperous 2017.
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Festive events and holiday happenings that will make your December break!
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The Nickel Xmas Market was started in 2000, to raise much needed funding for the Kungwini Welfare Organisation. The market is their biggest annual fundraising event and this year they are celebrating their 16th anniversary. The Nickel Xmas Market is situated at Kungwini Welfare Organisation in Zwavelpoort at Plot 214, Graham Road. For more information, visit www.nickelmarket.co.za.
16 DEC NOW 30 DEC
1 HIT WONDERS at the Barnyard
1 Hit Wonders is a tribute to recording artists who only had one hit song, and then disappeared into obscurity, never to be heard of again – until now. The Barnyard’s 1 Hit Wonders features a talented 10-piece cast who will perform over sixty hits. You will remember them not just as tracks that were one-hit wonders, but songs that you partied and danced to till you dropped. Visit www.barnyeardtheatres.co.za for more information and tickets.
SAT SUN
COWHOUSE MARKET
Just around the corner, every weekend, is Hazeldean’s own market in residence – the Cowhouse Market! Held on Saturdays and Sundays from 10h00 – 16h00, the market offers free parking, entertainment and a large children’s play area along with delicious food on offer at the stalls. Visit www.cowhousemarket.co.za for more information. 4
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JAKARANDA KINDERHUIS LIGGIEFEES
Die Pretoria Jakaranda Kinderhuis personeel, kinders en donateurs versier 21 huise en die terrein by die Kinderhuis met miljoene kersliggies, en maak dan die terrein oop vir die publiek om dit te kom besigtig oor die feestyd. Daar word ook ’n verskeidenheid van vermaaklikheid aangebied soos straatmusikante, sangers, orkeste, laser vertonings en verskeie ander gebeure gedurende die maand. Die “Liggie Roete” strek oor ongeveer 800 meter en skep ‘n fantasie wêreld en ’n familie vriendelike omgewing met veilige parkering. Hulle vra ’n klein donasie by die hek as toegang fooi en lok jaarliks duisende besoekers na die terrein. Vir inligting, besoek www.jacarandachildren.co.za.
NIKEL CHRISTMAS MARKET
SPCA STALL
at the Melrose Market
This is a great opportunity for all collectors from Pretoria to visit some of the best exhibitors in South Africa and find sought after items. With a selection of approximately 15 – 20 exhibitors, the fair is intimate and allows all collectors to get to know them and their stock. All collectors are welcome to bring items for valuation as well.
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SAFARI NURSERY CHRISTMAS MARKET
Die Geskenke Trommel presents their annual Christmas Market at Safari Nursery! Bring your family along for a fun-filled day at the best nursery in Pretoria. Visit Die Geskenke Trommel in the Kudu Hall to buy all your Christmas gifts for the season. For more information, call 012 807 0009 or 012 807 4545.
IMPORTANT DATES FOR HAZELDEAN RESIDENTS Curro Hazeldean Primary and College close on 7 December 2016 and reopen on 9 January 2017. The Sabreals office will be closed from 23 December to 3 January. See page 48 for a list of handy contact numbers that you might need while they are closed!
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US U N L O O SK
ONDERWYSERSWEEK Onderwysersweek 2016 het van 17-21 Oktober plaasgevind. Melene Badenhorst, Curro Hazeldean Laerskool se hoofdogter en Leane Faure, Laerskool Garsfontein se hoofdogter, het besluit om hul hoofde in onderwysersweek te bederf met ‘n “Principal’s survival kit”. Hierdie boks bevat alles wat ‘n skool hoof in 'n noodgeval sal benodig. Van ‘n sepie om teleurstellings af te was, gom vir gebroke harte, tot ‘n Kit Kat om ‘n breuk te vat! Op die foto van links na regs is Melene, Dr Rheeders, die hoof van Curro Hazeldean Laerskool, Mnr Snyman, die hoof van Laerskool Garsfontein en Leane. Die vier het na die oorhandiging heerlik saam tee gedrink en so bietjie gekuier.
CURRO KOLLEGE HAZELDEAN RUGBY SPELER VAN DIE JAAR 2016
CURRO KOLLEGE HAZELDEAN HOKKIE SPELER VAN DIE JAAR 2016
CURRO KOLLEGE HAZELDEAN TENNIS SPELER VAN DIE JAAR 2016
Anele Mkhwanazi
Emi Dreckmeyr
Renee van Wyk
BESTUURSAKADEMIE BEKENDSTELLING Curro College Hazeldean in samewerking met We Buy Cars is baie opgewonde oor die nuwe Bestuursakademie. Curro leerders en ander leerders kan nou hul lisensies met gerief op die skoolterrein verkry. Agter: Robin Mokoena Voor: Mia Groeneveld en Henri Groeneveld.
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GOSPEL REVUE
2016
IN CONJUNCTION WITH ONBESKAAMD
The first word that comes to mind is humility. After an event like this with all the dreaming, planning, hours of hard work, practice and belief, we can only feel humble for what has been accomplished. We wanted to create an event where we could involve all our learners and touch people’s lives through Christianity. You could hear children humming and singing gospel songs for weeks on end. We are so proud of each and every one who took part in this year’s Gospel Revue. Die groep Onbeskaamd het van die begin af ‘n duidelike boodskap gehad wat hulle wou oordra deur middel van lofprysing: maak nie saak wat gebeur nie ons sal nogtans in die Here glo en ons sal nogtans glo in ‘n toekoms vir ons land en ons kinders. Drie aande in ‘n ry het ons die skoolsaal vol gepak en heel aan die einde het almal, leerders en ouers, saam die Oorwinningslied gesing – so kragtig.
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DEVELOPMENT NEWS
PEBBLE LANE
As mentioned in the previous edition of Hazeldean Times, we are very excited about the launch of Pebble Lane. Pebble Lane offers you the perfect start with units starting from R899 000. There are 94 duplex units in the complex and all units come with a double garage, open patios and gardens. Units are moving fast with 45 offers already made. Civil works are due to start in January 2017 with the construction of the units set for March/April 2017. For more information please visit www.hazeldeannode.co.za, or send an email to info@sablehomes.co.za.
THE RETREAT
The Retreat phase six is nearing completion and units are selling fast. There are only a few units left for sale in this phase. In 2017 we look forward to adding a new product to The Retreat with a refreshed look and feel that is sure to impress. This offering will be rolled out in the remaining construction phases. 8
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BUILDING A LIFE TOGETHER!
Congratulations to Channon Cloete, (Hazeldean Estate Manager) and his beautiful wife, Gillian Cloete who got married on the 16th of July at Galagos Country Estate. We wish you both a lifetime of happiness and wonderful memories together.
SABREAL
THE RIDGE
Phase two of The Ridge is now selling with stands starting from R890 000. The Ridge offers you all the space you need to build your dream home in a secure and tranquil environment. For more information on how you can start building your own dream home contact Liza on 084 548 2830 or email info@sablehomes.co.za
Sabreal has had another successful year managing various developments within the node as well as the greater Gauteng region and they look forward to expanding their services within the node in 2017. Sabreal will be closed from the 23rd of December until the 3rd of January but Estate Managers will be available for any emergencies or queries you might have. If you have any properties you would like managed by their expert team please email info@sabreal.co.za.
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UNPACKING THE
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any cash-strapped South Africans are already buckling under the pressure of spiralling consumer inflation and shrinking budgets, but scores of sectional title property owners are now also faced with hefty levy hikes if their body corporates haven’t made provision for the requirements of new legislation gazetted in October. One of the new stipulations of the Sectional Titles Schemes Management Act is that schemes are now required to have a reserve fund, implied by the regulations to be maintained equal to 25% of the scheme’s total annual levy budget. Although the amendment to the Sectional Titles Schemes Management Act was signed into law this month, it was approved way back in 2011 and efficient, well-established body corporates will have taken advantage of the five-year gap to get ahead and begin accumulating the necessary surplus. The aim of this portion of the legislation amendment is to ensure schemes create “rainy day” funds and shield home owners from the 10
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special levies that body corporates demand from time to time when major repairs or refurbishments take place. Once-off special levies are usually hefty and aren’t in most cash-strapped home owners’ budgets, often plunging households into debt to service them. While numerous developments have already created their required level of reserves or are well on the way to doing so, there are also many schemes that have not used the grace period to add small top-up increases to annual levies and home owners in those schemes now face the prospect of substantial levy hikes next year while Trustees play administrative catch-up.
IN REAL TERMS, WHAT DOES THIS MEAN FOR EXISTING OWNERS AND PROSPECTIVE BUYERS OF SECTIONAL TITLE PROPERTIES?
Specialist Conveyancing Attorney, Peet van Rooyen, of Dykes Van Heerden Inc explains: “The reality is that property
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New legislation that was gazetted last month has major implications for the budgets and administration of sectional title schemes. Find out how they will affect you. Article courtesy of Private Property
owners could see their levies increase by up to 25% initially until adequate reserves have been accumulated. This is in addition to the standard fixed annual increases required to cover the rising costs of maintaining the development. Once the reserve fund has been adequately established, provision has been made for lower contributions but owners can expect reserve fund levies to be charged unless the value of the reserve fund is equal to 100% of the scheme’s total levy budget. “Regulation 2 of the act also stipulates that, if the reserve fund is less than 25% of the previous year’s maintenance contributions, at the start of a new financial year, the owners in the scheme must add 15% to their total levy budget for the coming year as a contribution to bolster the reserve fund.” Van Rooyen adds that if, at the end of the financial year, the remaining reserve funds are less than 100% but more than 25% of the value of the past year’s administration fund contributions, then the contribution to this fund must be at least equal to the
repair and maintenance budget which has been formulated for the coming financial year. Lew Geffen, Chairman of Lew Geffen Sotheby’s International Realty, says that while the intent of the new regulations are laudable, their implementation and management require a whole new level of administration and accountability, and trustees will have to raise their game considerably to achieve and maintain compliance. “Not only are separate records, budgets and bank accounts mandatory for the general levy and the reserve fund; they must be independently audited every year by an impartial person or company not involved in the scheme’s financial administration. Trustees must also prepare a detailed written 10-year plan for the use of the reserve fund, and report back to owners annually on its progress and implementation and more often than not, this document will have to be prepared by an outside consultant with the necessary expertise at an additional cost to owners.” Geffen adds that the complexities of implementing the new 2016 / 2017 • HAZELDEAN TIMES • www.hazeldeannode.co.za
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requirements are compounded by a very short window of 90 days in which to meet seven of the key requirements. “These include registering the scheme and lodging all governance documentation with the Community Schemes Ombud Service (CSOS), establishing a reserve fund and opening a separate bank account as well as compiling and submitting the new fund’s budget and financial statements. Many of these steps are time-consuming and involve reams of documentation as well as a level of expertise that smaller schemes with more simply structured body corporates will struggle to complete in time.” Arnold Maritz, Cape Town Southern Suburbs Co-Principal for Lew Geffen Sotheby’s International Realty, stresses that it is now essential for prospective buyers to add scheme management to their list of priorities when choosing property, especially investors with budget restrictions. “Sectional title levies cover various expenses such as insurance, administrative fees and the maintenance costs of the common property and on-site facilities, and it must be remembered that the more amenities there are and the larger the grounds, the higher the levy.” “First-time buyers on a tight budget should therefore look for low maintenance schemes that are well run and maintained, and whose financial statements are in good order. Request a copy of the financial statements, and look for the presence of a reserve fund as well as any adverse figures for non-payment by other owners in the complex. “Sectional title properties will remain the more affordable option and they will continue to attract first-time buyers. However, it is essential that prospective buyers don’t just look at the property and the purchase price.” “They have to take the new Act and its financial implications into consideration when calculating their budgets and decide what they can afford in the long run, including any substantial levy increases. There is a very apt Afrikaans phrase that applies here, which is that sometimes goedkoop is duurkoop – or directly translated, buying cheap initially doesn’t always cost less long term.”
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Maritz adds that it’s also a good idea to compare the levy for the subject property with those in similar complexes nearby on a “per square metre” basis as this will help to establish a balance between the lowest levy payable versus the expected capital return on the investment. Matthew Raubach, Sectional Title and Area Specialist for Lew Geffen Sotheby’s International Realty between Wynberg and Lakeside says: “We have been lucky enough to predominantly sell property in blocks that have been well-managed and that already have established reserve funds with a healthy balance. What this has highlighted for us is how beneficial effective management is to sectional title schemes, not only in the short term but also to the value of owners’ investments. It is now even more critical and smaller schemes without the necessary resources or expertise would benefit by appointing an experienced managing agent.” Shaun Groves, Gauteng Rental Manager for Lew Geffen Sotheby’s International Realty, believes that many Johannesburg sectional title owners are in for a nasty surprise. “From what I have seen, it appears that the majority of schemes have not planned accordingly and I have no doubt that many owners are going to feel the pain of increased levies which will compound the struggle to realise yields in a notably subdued rental market. This year has been particularly tough as yields have come under severe pressure and any increase in the operating cost of a property will have a direct impact on net profits. Landlords may look to offset this by increasing rentals, therefore pushing prices up and putting even more pressure on consumers.” The rental market in Cape Town is much stronger and in the more soughtafter areas, demand in the lower to middle markets now exceeds supply. However, rental prices have dropped this year in response to the continued economic downturn, with tenants also becoming increasingly educated about the market and aware of current pricing. This is according to Lorraine-Marie Dellbridge, Rental Manager for Lew Geffen Sotheby’s International Realty in Cape
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Hazeldean Node SECTIONAL TITLE COMPLEXES
Within the Hazeldean Node there are four sectional title complexes, Oukraal Bachelors, Oukraal Houses, Hazelmeadow and Pebble Lane. Oukraal is an existing development and Pebble Lane is currently in its launch phase with construction set to start early in 2017.
PEBBLE LANE 2 Bed 2 Bath Double Garage Duplexes from R899 000 3 Bed 2 Bath Double Garage Duplexes from R1 099 000 The Pebble Lane development offers you the perfect start, whether you’re looking to enter the property market or settle down as a young family. Pebble Lane is the latest offering in full circle living at a price you won’t find anywhere else. A total of 94 duplex units are available giving you the choice between 2 and 3 bedroom units with 2 bathrooms. All units come with the ultimate luxury of a double garage, open patios and gardens, giving you that extra space where you need it. Future amenities will include a communal swimming pool, braai area and lapa.
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Town’s Southern Suburbs who adds: “I have seen a number of leases including clauses that if levies or rates increase the landlord may adjust the rental accordingly but I would advise against it as a blanket practice, especially if they risk losing stable and reliable tenants. Not only will the landlord have to go through the onerous process of finding a suitable new tenant, it could be costly if the house stands empty which is a real possibility if the increase prices the property out of its current market.” Van Rooyen concludes: “While it may be daunting, especially for schemes that have only just begun the process, it must be borne in mind that the home owners are members of the body corporate and in terms of their governing rules as prescribed by the new regulations, they have to approve the annual administration and reserve fund budgets. So whilst increases may be unavoidable for many schemes, the trustees cannot just increase the levies arbitrarily. Home owners are not entirely powerless here; they do have a voice.”
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FIT PIT is a training centre situated in Silver Lakes and focuses on group format training. This already wellknown gym launched an exciting 2nd floor in November. This newly expanded facility now offers full gym facilities along with 3 stateof-the-art airconditioned training studios allowing for spinning, pole fitness and dance-fit classes.
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he official launch was held in the form of a ‘Ladies Only’ event, complete with professional dance performances, workshops in Pole Fitness, DanceFit and chair dancing. The evening included wine and canapés for the ladies to re-fuel before gym members and dance students took the stage to showcase what they have learnt in class over the last 3 months. FIT PIT owner, head coach and SA Kickboxing Champ, Schalk Labuschagne, hosted 30 ladies to an evening of fun and fitness. Female guests ranging from 16 – 85 years of age were able to challenge themselves in the non-traditional fitness workshops. “We want to do away with the concept of an impersonal gym, and it is through these kinds of events that
we get to know our members better, and gain a better understanding of their fitness needs,” says Labuschagne. What sets this fitness facility apart from corporate gym franchises is the fact that not only are members offered an opportunity to join specialised group training classes, but access to the gym offers use of all training equipment and the Le Fera Health Restaurant along with luxurious locker rooms and facilities like a MMA fighting cage, boxing lessons, kids anti-bullying classes and a sports massage therapist. If you’re interested in finding out more about FIT PIT, the class schedule and the membership packages offered, please visit www.fitpit.co.za or call the gym on 012 111 0794. 2016 / 2017 • HAZELDEAN TIMES • www.hazeldeannode.co.za
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LOFTUS PARK
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Abland’s commercial development attracts top restaurants, steak houses, coffee shops and other select retail outlets.
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onstruction is progressing well on Abland’s R1, 45 billion project in collaboration with the Blue Bulls, adjacent to the legendary Loftus Versfeld Stadium. After completion of the earth works (8 months and 33 800 truckloads of soil later), the entire first level, and 60% of the second level of a massive scale super basement has been completed. This accounts for around 500 of the 2000+ parking bays that will be provided when Loftus Park opens its doors. The ground floor level will accommodate seven restaurants, steakhouses, and coffee shops surrounding an open air Piazza. Big names such as Motherland, Turn ‘n Tender, RocoMamas, Salsa and Spur have been signed up while an Italian restaurant, as well as a coffee shop are on the cards. Checkers will be opening a premium store with an exciting new approach and a
renowned pharmacy and several famous sports brands are also underway. Abland’s project manager, Hannes Kleynhans explains that 15000 m³ of concrete (no less than 2145 truckloads) has been poured to date with more than 1300 tons of steel reinforcement. “The works proceeded according to plan and the opening date in March 2018 is achievable. Early next year we will commence with the Virgin Active gym, the retail outlets and the hotel. Midway into 2017 the office towers will start going up” says Kleynhans. Phase two will feature a Sport Rehabilitation Centre of Excellence with a hospital where top specialists will treat sports injuries, An attractive feature of the development will be the Piazza itself. Apart from a few prize works of art presently being specified and procured, Abland is creating an actual park landscape atmosphere. Thus
numerous fully grown trees will be planted in huge concrete cavities under the floor slab. This lovely shaded park will provide a safe play space for children in full view of their parents seated at the restaurants. Open air gatherings will also be hosted and negotiations are underway with top ensembles for lunch hour concerts and music recitals, while artists and art students will be invited to paint and exhibit their work on the Piazza. State of the art security goes without saying and internationally renowned advisors were contracted to assist with the planning and implementation thereof. The focus is on sustainability with green building methods that will provide energy savings for tenants, and, needless to say, state of the art connectivity. Visit www. Abland.co.za for more information and enquiries.
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Bellair yogurt coated mango curls, Monatgu, R30 Bellair carob coated cashew, Montagu, R44
3 in 1 Shower gel, Sorbet Man, R40
CND Vinylux, Sorbet, R228
Front Runner Expander Chair, TJM Equipped, R1100 Madkon 600S Braai with grid, TJM Equipped, R3800
FESTIVE GIFTS FOR
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The latest must have products and goodies available at Hazeldean Square!
Stockists: Sorbet: 012 809 4347/079 166 2532 PnA: 012 809 4028
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Montagu: 012 809 0087 Body Sculpting: 012 809 4126 TJM: 012 809 0090
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Body Lotion, Sorbet Man, R40
Triple Layer Biltong Tower from biltong@za, price on request
Salon skin night recovery cream, Sorbet, R200
Salon skin night 3 in 1 cleansing oil, Sorbet, R220
Wildebraam Strawberry extra fruit jam, Montagu, R54
Glass Water Bottle, PnA, R199.90
The art of skin resurfacing PH formula, Nimue Skin Technology at Body Sculpting Vita A, R1140 Vita B, R 800 Vita C, R 965
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FESTIVE FUN at
e s u o h e r a W s ’ a t San From a humble beginning in 2002 , Santa’s Warehouse has grown to become the largest year round Christmas shop in Pretoria. 20
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hen you walk into Santa’s Warehouse, you instantly feel the magic of Christmas. Many customers visit the store to feel the true joy of Christmas and to be filled with inspiration for their own homes. The company was started by Max and Desiré le Cointre. Each year they search for local and overseas suppliers for the best range and quality of products. The range is extensive with quality and variety combined. This is truly a one-stop-shop with a wide selection of trees, lights, motifs, baubles, wreaths, garlands, trinkets and lots more. What makes Santa’s Warehouse unique? It is not just a warehouse but a beautiful 300m² Showroom with over 35 000 LED lights twinkling round the store. The meticulous attention to detail makes each display a stunning visual treat. But the most wonderful thing in their store is the friendly elves who are always there to assist and to share their knowledge of the products. The question that you might be asking yourself by now is probably ‘what do they do for the rest of the year?’ Well if you have a special function, wedding or party and you need decorative fairy lights and table lights – they stock an amazingly wide variety to choose from. Christmas is only once a year and with the help of Santa’s Warehouse you can make it a very memorable one this year! Santa’s warehouse is located at 5 Graham Road, Shere, Pretoria. Contact them on 086 999 0440 or visit www.santaswarehouse. co.za for more information. 2016 / 2017 • HAZELDEAN TIMES • www.hazeldeannode.co.za
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Welcomes HAZELDEAN OFFICE PARK
NEW TENANTS
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bland would like to extend a big warm welcome to the new tenants who recently moved into Hazeldean Office Park. The new tenants include; the BCE Institute, Tugela Group, Ad Care and ORD Capital. There are now only three stands left in this beautiful park, with the other seven buildings completed and occupied. The stands all come with office rights in place for three storeys and a basement and they have been proclaimed. Price per developable square metre of land is priced at R1, 875.00. Developer Abland also offers a comprehensive turnkey development service tailored to suit your needs from design to occupation, and can even develop for tenants to let. The Hazeldean Office Park is located within a scenic three hectare wetlands area and boasts stunning architecture alongside a long list of nearby amenities including nearby schools, churches, clinics and a Virgin Active Gym. Landscaping within the office park has been well thought through to accommodate the birdlife in the area and includes the wetlands which add a unique feature to the park. For enquiries, contact Leroy la Grange on 082 442 6691 or send an email to Leroy.lagrange@abland.co.za. 2016 / 2017 • HAZELDEAN TIMES • www.hazeldeannode.co.za
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GIVE THE GIFT OF
COMFORT THIS CHRISTMAS
Looking for the ideal Christmas gift for the person who has it all? Why not consider giving them the gift of comfort and relaxation by gifting them a La-Z-Boy recliner? La-Z-Boy offers a number of stylish recliners that will make the perfect gift for any member of the family. With a wide range of styles and colours to choose from, there is a La-Z-Boy recliner to match every space and person. What’s more, is that a recliner will offer years of comfort and relaxation – making it a gift that just keeps on giving! Traditionally, recliners were most commonly known as a ‘man’s chair’, but La-Z-Boy recliners have been making inroads to change this stereotype. From fun colours for your children’s game room, to slick white recliners to match a tranquil, minimalist space, to classic brown leather for the more traditional interiors, and even the motion lounge suites, today there’s a La-Z-Boy to suit everybody’s individual taste preferences. La-Z-Boy recliners boast a number of health benefits and customisable features, making it the ideal gift for that special someone that you would really like to spoil. It’s almost too good to believe that there is a La-Z-Boy recliner for back pain sufferers, breastfeeding moms, avid gamers and committed TV viewers, the elderly or anyone looking for some high-end, inhome relaxation. Visit www.la-z-boy.co.za to browse their wide range of recliners, incliners and motion suites.
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One of South Africa’s most popular gifting options, Pandora jewellery are lending a hand in helping you to choose the perfect presents with their gift guide! To find the perfect gift easily, simply browse the gift finder at pandorashop.co.za. Pandora’s experts suggest that when looking for a gift for that special person you should ask yourself a few questions about the woman who will wear the jewellery. What is her personality like, what is her style; does she like colours, silver or gold? Also, does she have any existing jewellery or a particular outfit that you would like to match? Taking all of this into account will make your gift personal, timeless and relevant too. Pandora jewellery can be mixed and matched with designs from past and present collections which make gifting even easier!
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FITFLOP LOOSH LEATHER SLIDE SANDALS The New FitFlop Leather Loosh Slide is a ‘must pack’ if your holiday-wear needs to span fashion and function – but not forgetting comfort! These supercomfortable sporty-gorgeous leather slides have lightly padded upper straps and an ultra-comfortable underfoot, so they tick the trend-setting ‘athleisure’ box, without sacrificing your soles. Pair these with a sleek pair of distressed jeans and a tee for a chilled date or a flirty summer dress for a shopping day out. These are a must have this holiday, trust them with their built-in arch contour and amazing Microwobbleboard midsoles that will have you in comfort everyday all season. The FitFlop Leather Loosh Slide will be available in leading independent footwear stores and selected boutiques nationwide. For stockist information, call (021) 510 4428 or email sales@reviva.co.za.
SPARKLING LEMONADE WITH HEART Peachee, is a new, uplifting sparkling peach flavoured lemonade with a big heart and the promise of pure summer refreshment for the whole family. Blended with real lemon juice and 25% less sugar than regular soft drinks, new Peachee is the ultimate thirst quencher for the modern family. Its lower sugar content and unique peach flavour make Peachee the responsible choice for long balmy afternoons by the pool. It’s your fizzy, alcohol free answer to the famous Bellini! A refreshing burst of sparkling peach flavour is not all you can expect from new Peachee as it’s the responsible soft drink with heart. A percentage of Peachee sales is donated to Living Legends, the Stellenbosch based organisation empowering South African youth and their communities through sport and life skills training. New Peachee is available in vibrant 330ml slim cans at leading outlets country-wide selling at around R7, 99.
FIZZY FESTIVE SEASON FUN
Put the fizz into the festive season with Steenberg’s frisky Sparkling Sauvignon Blanc – the fashion forward summer bubbly that is fresh, fruity and fun. Crafted in the time honoured French tradition of creating the sparkle in the bottle during a second fermentation, Steenberg Sparkling Sauvignon Blanc is no ordinary bubbly. Its youthful style, from spending less time on the lees than a more classic Méthode Cap Classique, makes it ultra-crisp, lively and refreshing. With fabulous good looks sporting modish packaging, you’ll want to be seen in the company of this dazzling summer muse. The Steenberg Sparkling Sauvignon Blanc is available at selected wine shops and sells for R115 at the cellar door in Constantia. For more information visit, www.steenbergfarm.com. 2016 / 2017 • HAZELDEAN TIMES • www.hazeldeannode.co.za
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Staycation PRETORIA
Staying at home this December? That’s a good thing because there is loads to do right in your backyard!
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TAKE THE KIDS TO MAKE THEIR OWN PIZZA AT PAPACHINOS Known for its child friendly environment, Papachinos has become one of the most popular restaurants in the Hazeldean area. With a large covered outside dining area, moms can make the most of the sunny December weather while being close enough to watch over the kids as they enjoy themselves in the huge playground. The best part for the kids though is the child height counter near the stone-baked pizza oven where they can sit and create their own pizza with help from the friendly Papachinos staff. The kids get to roll their own pizza crust and add the toppings of their choice and then within a few minutes their pizza is served! Papachinos is located on Silverlakes Road, opposite Hazeldean Square Shopping Centre and is open Monday to Sunday from 08:30 to 21:00.
VISIT THE PRETORIA ZOO
EXPLORE THE HAZELDEAN VALLEY TRAILS The Hazeldean Valley Mountain Biking and Trail Running Trails are ideally situated within riding distance from Silver Lakes and surrounds. The trails are well designed so that everyone can enjoy them, from beginner to advanced rider level. Following the recent expansion, there is now 36km of well-designed single track to be enjoyed and different route distances to choose from. Further extensions and additions to the trails are in progress. Parking and ticketing is at the Cowhouse from where you can follow the coloured arrows to the trails. There is also a free kiddies bike park at the Cowhouse. The trails also provide a perfect venue for various events. Follow their Facebook page to keep up to date.
The National Zoological Gardens, more commonly known as the Pretoria Zoo, is the largest zoo in South Africa and the only one which has a national status. It is also rated as one of the top zoos in the world. The zoo was established in 1899 but only officially became the National Zoo in 1916, and now hosts in excess of 600 000 visitors every year. There is so much more to the zoo than just a collection of caged animals – it actually plays a vital part in the conservation of threatened species. There is a lot of importance placed on providing the animals with a natural environment to live in, and for this reason, a large number of enclosures have been revamped or modernised in recent years. Some special enclosures include a large walk-through aviary and a specially air-conditioned Australia section. The zoo also has the largest inland aquarium in the country with a large reptile park. There are many ways to get around the zoo. For those who don't feel like walking the 6km of walkways that meander through the zoo, there are golf carts and children's pushcars for hire. A 7 minute cable car ride is also available which takes visitors up to the top of the mountain and provides a beautiful view over both the zoo and the city. There are also many children's rides on offer, including a zoo train. Restaurants and kiosks are scattered around the zoo to provide refreshments, braai and picnic facilities are also available. The Zoo is open 7 days a week, 365 days a year!
TAKE A HOT AIR BALLOON RIDE IN MAGALIESBERG For an experience that the whole family will never forget, take a hot air balloon ride and watch the spectacular South African sunrise over the Magaliesberg and Hartbeespoort area. Occasionally skimming treetops or simply drifting peacefully across the skies, hot air ballooning is a must for everyone, from the daring adventurer through to the romantic connoisseur. Revel in the endless views and excitement of soaring higher and higher with this activity that is enjoyed by enthusiasts across the world and known to be the purest and safest form of flight. In the area, AirVentures Hot Air Ballooning offers daily balloon flights, all year round, over the Cradle of Humankind, Magaliesberg, and selected game reserves. Bill Harrop Balloon Safaris offers breathtaking flights over Hartbeespoort. Flights can be customised to provide fun and excitement for anyone. 2016 / 2017 • HAZELDEAN TIMES • www.hazeldeannode.co.za
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STROLL THROUGH THE PRETORIA BOTANICAL GARDENS Embark on a floral journey of discovery at the Pretoria National Botanical Garden, a treasure chest of South African flowering plant species and trees and definitely among the more beautiful of the tourist attractions in Pretoria. The Garden is separated into two sections by a 35m high quartzite outcrop, resulting in two seemingly different worlds: a frosty northfacing section and a sun kissed section that is much warmer. The nature trail gives ideal access to the natural vegetation. The botanical gardens are open Monday to Sunday from 08:00 to 18:00. Entrance fees are R25 for adults, R15 for students and R10 for kids. Kids under 6 and pensioners who present their ID books enter for free.
TAKE A TIME OUT WITH HAZELDEAN BREWING COMPANY Inspired by the heritage of the Hazeldean farm, Hazeldean Valley’s resident brewery is set up in the classic old barn dating back to the 1940s. Hazeldean Brewing is a regular feature at the Cowhouse Market offering a range of beers to choose from including the very popular Vienna Lager, Premium Pilsner, Amber Weissbeer and Milkstout. They also feature a beer from a local guest brewer every month to help grow the craft beer industry and to provide a marketing platform for up and coming breweries. For market goers who aren’t keen on beer, there is a Rooibos Wooded Cider from Windermere or the popular Hazeldean Radler Shandy: a refreshing mix of Pilsner and homemade lemonade. The brewery includes a tasting room where visitors can learn all about the brewing process. For more information, visit www.hazeldeanbrewing.co.za.
INDULGE AT ROCOMAMAS RocoMamas Hazeldean is officially the most commended burger joint in Gauteng, as chosen by the Eat Out community! Use some of your precious time off to head down there and see what everyone is raving about. Could it be their mouth-watering gourmet ‘Smashburgers’, crispy chicken wings, fall-off-the bone ribs? Or perhaps their discerning selection of craft beers, homemade Belgian waffles, G-Shakes or monstrous ‘Freakshakes’? Situated in Hazeldean Square, this relaxed, vibey joint is ideal for burger lovers of all ages – also perfect for a birthday celebration or some good old fashioned holiday indulgence. For enquiries or take away orders, call 012 996 3021. 28
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SHOP AND EAT AT THE COWHOUSE MARKET The Cowhouse Market was founded by James Waugh, William Waugh and Louis Venter, inspired by a passion for food and good times. After working as market traders in the Western Cape, they realised there was a need for a different type of market concept in Pretoria that would cater for the needs of families: the need to break away from the hustle and bustle of city life without having to drive too far. The market provides gourmet market food, beverages, crafts, a safe kid’s play area, live entertainment and more. Entry is free. Trading hours are every Saturday and Sunday from 10h00 to 16h00 and there is also a night market every last Saturday of the month. For more information, follow the Cowhouse Market on Facebook or visit www.cowhousemarket.co.za.
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FUN Festive Crafts!
The real joy we feel from the festive season comes from the activities we do during this time – making special food, decorating the house, wrapping presents…and the biggest stress we feel during this time usually comes from shopping! Save yourself the trouble this year by making some of your decorations yourself instead of heading to shops to buy them. Our fun festive crafts are best paired with carols and roping the kids in to join the fun.
NO-SEW, FABRIC GARLAND
ITEMS YOU WILL NEED: 1. Sturdy twine or ribbon 2. Scissors 3. Your choice of scrap fabric cut into strips 4. Ribbon of your choice
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Follow the pattern below or create your own pattern using a variety of widths and textures of ribbon and fabric. Repeat the pattern until your desired length for your garland is reached. We created a short garland fit for a fireplace. You can use these same steps with long strips to create a ribbon backdrop for a larger space
Loosely tie the fabric and ribbon to the thick twine. Leave a few inches of length at the top. By tying the fabric loosely, you will be able to adjust the strips as needed.
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DIY WREATH ITEMS YOU WILL NEED: 1. Wreath frame 2. Ribbon 3. Scissors 4. Wire and wire cutters 5. Pine cones, accent greenery, and evergreen branches
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Bunch Greenery Clip your evergreen branches with your wire cutters into short lengths as seen above. Layer about five branches on top of each other and tie your wire around the centre of the bunch. Twist the wire in the back of the bunch to hold the branches together. Attach the branches to the wire frame by twisting the wire around the frame.
Add Accents Add accent greenery and decorative items such as ribbon, box wood, and pine cones as you attach the pine branches to the frame. If you wait until the end to add these items, the accent pieces lay on top of the pine branches instead of within them. It creates a more layered look to add the decorative items as you go. Attach your accent items in the same way you attached the pine branches with wire. Try to use an odd number of accent items. We used five pine cones and three ribbons for our wreath.
Trim the Pine Needles Continue this process until you have completed your wreath. Lastly, take scissors and trim the extra pine needles to create a clean edge around the wreath.
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GIFT WRAPPING IDEAS WE LOVE
1. Off-Center Bow Not every present has to have a typical bow placed directly in the centre of the box. Consider placing your bow in the top quarter of the gift to give it a unique and very striking look. Add a vintage gift tag for a personalized touch!
2. Burlap and Ribbon For this look, you can try using wired, burlap ribbon layered with strips of ripped fabric in your favourite pattern. We added a bit of greenery for a fun, textured look.
By combining plaid, burlap, and satin-red ribbon, you can take a simple box wrapped in craft paper to a whole new level! We also added some adorable vintage name tags from our favourite local craft and stationery shops and pieces of greenery for a pop of colour. Grab your favourite ribbon and join us as we show you how to achieve the adorable looks below!
3. Plaid Galore! Plaid and flannel are so in this year, and you will have fun incorporating it into these gifts! You can find wired, plaid ribbon at almost any craft or stationery shop as we get near to the festive season.
4. Jingle All the Way! You’ll know when the kids are rattling the presents with this design! Jingle bells make the perfect accent for any gift.
5. Fabric Wrapped Boxes You can use fabric and hot glue for the base, and tulle, tissue paper, and foil paper for the cute gathering at the top. Layers of ribbon with various patterns add depth and style resulting in wrapping that anyone will love just as much as the gift inside!
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COMING HOME TO A
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It’s holiday time again! The December holidays are upon us and for most of us this month long break over the festive season is the perfect excuse to get away for a while – which means leaving your house empty. It’s important to take safety measures to make sure that you return to your home the way you left it.
don’t have an alarm system, fake it. Have fake armed response signs made and put them up outside your house. You can also put ‘Beware of the Dog’ signs on your gate, whether you have a dog or not. Leave a few large dog bowls visible outside and thieves won’t dare go inside. Put away any visible ladders or garden equipment that can be used as tools to break in.
BEFORE YOU LEAVE
Call your insurance company and make sure what is and isn’t covered in your policy and that your account is up to date. If anything should happen, you need to know what you can claim and what you can’t. If you are leaving any vehicles at home,
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he most ideal scenario would be to have a family member or close friend that you trust stay in your house while you are away. A person best suited for this would be someone who has little responsibility at their own home, such as pets etc., so that they are not leaving their own house vulnerable. If you don’t know anyone who can help you, don’t worry. There are a few things you can do to ensure the safety of your house. These can be divided into three categories: before you go away, right before you leave and while you are away.
BEFORE YOU GO AWAY
It is important to contact your security company, if you have one. Inform them that your house will be empty and they should respond to any alarm signals. Ask to have your system tested as well. Don’t wait until the last minute for this; leave enough time to have any repairs done if needed. If you
contact your tracking company and inform them that you will be away and to respond to any alarm signals. Have your units tested, also giving enough time to have any repairs done if needed. Take any valuable or irreplaceable items to a friend or family member for safekeeping, just in case.
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Ask a friend or neighbour you can trust to keep an eye on your house. Ask them to water your lawn and plants while you are away, nothing says “The owners aren’t here” like a brown dried out lawn when the neighbours all have perfectly green grass. Ask them to pick up any mail and flyers outside, as a full mailbox is also a signal to burglars. If your car is normally parked outside and will be while you are away, ask your friend to drive it around a few times so that it doesn’t gather dust and cobwebs, which is another sign that nobody’s home. Show your friend how all the doors and windows are locked and fastened and ask them to check every day for signs of tampering. Take your friend around your house and show them what things normally look like so that they can notice if something is different or if anything looks strange. Take note of things like where any pot plants stay so they will notice if any have been moved; plants around your fence or wall so that they can see if any have been trampled or cut out for any reason and what will and won’t be outside and around the house so that they will know if anything has been left there by strangers. Right before you leave, make sure you have locked and fastened all windows and doors. Don’t rush in your haste to leave, it is worth taking an extra few minutes to make sure it is done right. Arrange a time to give your friend or neighbour your keys, don’t leave them under a mat or somewhere obvious, thieves know where to look. Make sure your alarm system is set properly and that no pets can set it off unnecessarily.
WHILE YOU ARE AWAY
Contact your security company every few days to make sure no signals have been received from your house, especially if you will be away for a long time. Keep in touch with the friend or neighbour you asked to keep an eye on your house so that you know that everything is fine. Remind them of any details they may have forgotten. There are a lot of things to remember but if you make sure to leave your house as secure as possible, the only thing left for you to do is enjoy your holiday. 34
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Many people are in unhealthy relationships without realizing it. Some might have a toxic relationship at home with a partner, child, parent or sibling – some might have a bad relationship with colleagues or their boss. It is important to understand what an unhealthy relationship entails, why we are in unhealthy relationships and how we can change this. By: Andrea Kellerman
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ften unhealthy relationships are connected to a low emotional maturity of one or both of the people in the relationship, boundary setting issues and conflict management problems. Such relationships can make you feel unhappy, destroy your self-esteem and increase physical and psychological problems as they start to get more and more under your skin. If you are married to or work with someone who is emotionally immature you probably face great challenges in dealing with this person’s moods and behaviours. I am sure you came across a boss, colleague or friend who tends to try to control the world around them rather than to accept it for what it is and work toward positive change. This belief is a strong indicator of self-centeredness or narcissism. Selfcenteredness and self-importance are normally traits of children. Children demand special treatment, make little real contributions themselves, and complain that life isn’t meeting their needs. Overcoming this mind-set is a normal and a vital part of growing-up. When those characteristics manifest in an adult, they are indications that that person is not in fact a mature, responsive adult, but rather still reacting out of their selfcentred child view. The person may look mature, and have many adult responsibilities, but emotionally, they are still a child. Instead of taking responsibility for how they feel, they expect others in their life to see their points of view. They try to control others, which
is something you cannot control! A mature individual does not lose control and succumb to irrational thoughts simply because they haven’t gotten their way. Insecure and emotionally immature people are often bullies and employ many techniques to get their way. Bullies and harassers have the emotional age of a young child and will exhibit temper tantrums, deceit, lying and manipulation, not speaking to you, making you feel that you are not worthy or not including you when you should be part of something to avoid exposure of their true nature and to evade accountability.
BELOW ARE SOME SIGNS OF PEOPLE WHO ARE EMOTIONALLY IMMATURE: • When things go wrong, they always feel that it is someone else’s fault. • They are highly sensitive to things done to them, but are blind to the things they do to others. • Feeling that they are the victims – bad things happen to them but in their view, their poor choices play no part. • Their relationships are often short lived. These are only a few signs that someone is emotionally immature. While you may have compassion for such people, it’s important that you recognize that you are dealing with someone with emotional issues. It is not always
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you who is at fault or who should take the blame. You may feel that you can fix this person or the situation. But in reality, the issues are often deeply seeded, and you may find it highly challenging to have a fair and balanced relationship, work relationship or friendship with someone who is emotionally immature. You need to be able to see this for what it is and set boundaries. This means that you need to be able to stand up for yourself, say “no” if you feel bullied, be assertive and don’t shy away from conflict. I see many people in my practice who dislike conflicts greatly and try to avoid them at all cost. The problem is when avoiding conflicts, we can develop anxiety, sleeping problems and depression because we are not solving those issues and other people who bully us might always get their way.
THE TYPES OF DIFFERENT BEHAVIOURS PEOPLE USE WHEN BEING CONFRONTED WITH A CONFLICT INCLUDE:
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Collaborating/problem-solving Trying to resolve conflicts in a way that both sides are happy with and can achieve their goals.
Which one do you choose? Is it the best way to solve your conflicts? If not, have you asked yourself why you are avoiding conflicts, not facing them head on or feel irritated and angry in conflicting situations? The above listed behaviours can lead to possible negative outcomes and might not get you what you want out of the situation. 38
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THESE NEGATIVE OUTCOMES ARE:
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Withdrawing This might mean that you give up on personal goals and relationships. Competing Others will shy away from you as you are too forceful. Accommodating You will not achieve your own goals and have self-respect as you put others first. Compromising Not achieving the goals completely.
Conflict situations are an important aspect of our everyday life. Often, a conflict presents opportunities for improvement and personal growth. In a conflicting situation we need to make sure that we stay calm and assertive. Assertiveness means that we respect ourselves and the other person we are talking to. If the other person is very upset, allow him to vent first. This will take the steam out of the situation. As a second step, show the other person that you understood the point that 40
was made. This does not mean that you agree with him/her, but you signal to them that you understood the frustration and irritation they are going through. This will help them to feel that you understand them and will calm them down. As a last step you can either agree that there has been a mistake made and it will not happen again or, if no mistake was made, you can try to find a solution to the problem to avoid any further unhappiness. Those steps work very well in most situations. You need to be aware of how you feel about the conflicting topic. If you feel strongly about it, use the above mentioned techniques to get to a solution. If you do not feel strongly about the conflicting situation it is sometimes wise to walk away and leave the situation behind. Being aware of having a toxic relationship at home or at work is the first step to change and feeling happier within yourself. Once you have identified the problem, whether it is emotional immaturity, a problem setting boundaries or not being able to handle conflict well, you can start to work on those issues and implement the above mentioned points. It is important that you feel content, can be your true self and feel in control over your emotions and reactions in life. This is your life and you deserve to be happy!
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Andrea Kellerman has studied Human Movement Science, Biokinetics, Psychology, Hypnotherapy and Neurofeedback Therapy, and works in schools, colleges, universities, hospitals and private practice. Currently, she is working in private practice in Westville and specialises in anxiety, depression, stress, concentration problems, insomnia, eating disorders and ADD/ADHD, as well as people who needed to stop smoking, lose weight and reduce phobias. She helps a lot of people to achieve their goals and lead a happier life. Furthermore, Andrea has helped many athletes to increase their sporting performance, achieving great success. Apart from counselling, Andrea uses hypnotherapy and neurofeedback to assist her clients. If you need help with finding the right balance in your life, visit Andrea Kellerman’s website www.eq-advantedge. co.za to learn more about this topic. Contact Andrea by calling 031 266 8563.
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THE ULTIMATE
Summer Berry Pavlova INGREDIENTS
6 egg whites 350 g castor sugar 1 tablespoon vinegar 1 tablespoon cornflour (or corn starch), sifted ⅓ cup (50 g) icing sugar, sifted 600ml thickened cream 500 g mixed berries
SALTED CARAMEL
2½ cups (550 g) castor sugar 300ml thickened cream (at room temperature) 1 teaspoon sea salt flakes, to taste
INSTRUCTIONS
No idea of what to serve for Christmas lunch this year? There's no need to agonise over this or spend hours in front of the stove. These delicious dishes are sure crowd pleaser's and easy to prepare too!
1. Preheat the oven to 150°C. Line a large baking tray with baking paper. 2. Place the egg whites in the clean, dry bowl of an electric mixer and whisk on high speed for 3-4 minutes until soft peaks form. 3. Add castor sugar, 1 tablespoon at a time, allowing each spoon to be incorporated before adding the next. Keep whisking until all the sugar has been added and the mixture is glossy. 4. Reduce the speed to low, then add in vinegar, cornflour and icing sugar, until combined. 5. Spread the mixture over the baking paper in a round, rectangle or wreath shape, making a slight indent in the centre to allow for the toppings. 6. Reduce oven to 130°C and bake meringue for around 1 hour. 7. Meanwhile, for the salted caramel, combine sugar with ½ cup (125ml) water in a saucepan over low heat, stirring until the sugar dissolves. 8. Increase heat to medium and cook, without stirring, occasionally brushing down the sides of the pan with a damp pastry brush, for 8-10 minutes until a golden caramel forms. 9. Remove the caramel from heat and pour in the cream. Be careful here, as the mixture will bubble and then seize. Return the pan to low heat, add salt to taste and cook, stirring the caramel, for 1-2 minutes until smooth. 10. When the meringue is cooked, turn off the oven and leave the meringue inside, with the door ajar, for 1-2 hours until cooled completely. 11. To serve, remove the meringue from the oven and place on a platter or serving board. Whisk cream to soft peaks then spread over meringue. Scatter over berries and drizzle with salted caramel. 12. Serving suggestion: for a pretty garnish, consider sprinkling some edible petals on top just before serving. 2016 / 2017 • HAZELDEAN TIMES • www.hazeldeannode.co.za
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INDULGENT
Glazed Roast Gammon INGREDIENTS
1 deboned uncooked gammon of about 2.5kg 1 onion halved Cloves 2 sticks celery Water
GLAZE
50g butter 75g dark brown sugar 1 tablespoon mustard
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INSTRUCTIONS
1. Clean out the pot, place the gammon back into the pot and fill with water. 2. Stud the onion halves with 2 cloves and add to the pot. Bring to the boil, reduce the heat and simmer on low for 2 1/2 hours. 3. Take the pot off the heat and set aside allowing the gammon to cool in the liquid. 4. When cool remove from the water, the skin will be easy to remove. Remove the skin and score the fat diagonally into diamond shapes. 5. Melt the butter in a pot over a low heat, add the sugar and mustard and mix until well combined. 6. Brush the gammon with glaze and stud with cloves then place it in a 200°C preheated oven for about 40 minutes until nicely brown. Remove and brush with the rest of the glaze.
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SARAH’S SUPER EASY
Christmas Cocktail
INGREDIENTS
1 litre cranberry juice 1 litre apple juice 2 bottles of sparkling wine Mint leaves Green apples Blue Berries Ice
INSTRUCTIONS
1. Mix the juices and sparkling wine together. 2. Decorate the drinks with the chopped-up apples, mint leaves and blue berries. 3. Add crushed ice for a refreshing Christmas cocktail.
THANK YOU TO SARAH FROM THE THE RETREAT FOR THIS REFRESHING RECIPE!
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So how often is it that we can easily decide to take our year-end bonus money and invest it, only to reap the rewards five years from now? Or is it easier to use the money now and actually see where it’s going and just be content that it came and left?
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any people get intimidated when you mention the word invest because they have always believed that the only people who invested were those with money. This is not true, as over the years many companies have developed a variety of options and portfolios which allow anyone – even low income earners – to invest. People have different reasons for investing and as a result will invest differently. Once a person establishes why they want to invest, it is then easier to sit down and look at the best plan to invest in and for advisers this means advising on what will be suitable for your needs. Besides investments, there are few smart ways to put your end year bonus to good use.
Create wealth Planning for your children’s education Save money for a rainy day To reach a personal goal like going on holiday or buying property To just get into the habit of putting money away
what to expect when it’s time to reap your reward at the end of the term. This depends entirely on your needs and affordability. This will also determine whether you invest for the short term, medium term or long term. One option is a lump sum investment. These vary in terms of the investment period which ranges from three to five years or even 10 years depending on your needs. There are portfolios which have a minimum lump sum of R1000, R12 500, R25 000 or even up to R250 000 – once again depending on your needs. Within these lump sum investments, you do get those that have the flexibility of having a certain percentage of the initial consideration accessible in the event of an emergency, whereas the other remaining percentage would remain inaccessible until the minimum term of the investment is complete. Another option to look at is a debit order investment. This is where there is a debit order arrangement of say a minimum amount of R500 per month for the duration of the investment. Then at the end of the term there is an option to withdraw the funds, withdraw only some of the funds or even continue to keep the money in there until such time you feel you’d like to access the funds.
CLEARING YOUR DEBTS A RAINY DAY FUND
Every budget should have a ‘rainy day’ fund for unexpected expenses like a geyser bursting, car problems or unexpected medical expenses. This would be a perfect place for your bonus or part of your bonus to go as you never know when you might need some extra cash. Most financial experts recommend putting at least 50% of your bonus into a savings account. Also keep in mind that the ideal position to be in is to have three to six month’s salary stashed away in case of emergencies.
MAKE AN INVESTMENT
It’s important to know why you are investing and what you want to achieve in the end. In that way you have an idea of
Have a look at what your most expensive debt is (e.g. where you are paying the highest interest) and pay a portion of your bonus to reduce or clear this. It will save interest, shorten the outstanding debt period and free cash up sooner which is being used on debt repayments which you can then channel towards saving. The cumulative effect of a number of debts is going to prevent you from enjoying financial freedom.
SCHOOL FEES UPFRONT
It might be a good idea to pay your school fees in advance, while you have the money. You will normally receive a discount and could end up paying for only ten of the twelve months. So check what discount you can get and consider clearing the school fees deck for the year.
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EMERGENCY NUMBERS
Please note that the Sabreal office will be closed from 23 December 2016 to 3 January 2017. Please have the numbers below at hand during the December 2016 Closure. SECURITY GUARDHOUSE:
079 306 2588
ACCON SECURITY / RESPONSE:
081 501 2249 / 081 794 8666
BOSCHKOP POLICE STATION:
10111 / 012 802 1087 / 012 802 8200
FIRE BRIGADE / AMBULANCE SERVICES (TSHWANE):
101 77 / 012 310 6400
TSHWANE MUNICIPALITY (WATER & ELEC ACCOUNTS/PROBLEMS):
012 358 2111 / 012 358 2405 / 080 111 1556
AMBULANCE:
082 809 (Netcare) 084 124 (ER24)
WILGERS HOSPITAL:
012 807 8100
INTERCARE :
012 809 6000
ESTATE OFFICE:
Jean Jonker : 074 613 2381 Carli Steenberg : 081 554 0006 Marianne Botes : 083 456 0312 Shannon Cloete : 082 442 5399
PLUMBER:
Mgb Plumbers : 082 049 7291 The Drain Surgeon : 0861 758 623
ELECTRICIAN:
Atterbury Elec : 071 546 7735 Sheer Elec : 079 449 4473 / 074 8121 994 Electro Surgeon : 0861 758 623
JAPIE FROM THE ABREAL OFFICE WILL BE AVAILABLE TO ATTEND TO EMERGENCIES THROUGHOUT THE DECEMBER HOLIDAYS. YOU CAN REACH HIM ON 072 134 2097.
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