Connections - Fall 2020 Issue by Holy Cross H.S.

FALL 2020

A Prayer for Unity by Tyler Parks ’23 BOARD & SCHOOL OFFICERS 2020-2021 LISTING BOARD OF CORPORATE MEMBERS Br. Donald Blauvelt, CSC Br. James Branigan, CSC Br. Thomas Dziekan, CSC Br. Richard Critz, CSC

Lord, we revisit you once again, in mourning and humbleness. Loving God, you have blessed us in our diversity and also our common dignity. Those blessings have sparked friendships, relationships and memories that will last far beyond the constructs of time. In contrast, we have suffered greatly, liberties have been taken from our own brothers and sisters. We have been stripped of our dignity, of our human rights and our trust has been broken so many times by those who choose to hate and lie and take the lives of innocent people, whose loving souls have found their way to you, and that you have welcomed them to your glorious kingdom with open arms.

BOARD OF DIRECTORS Atty. Kevin McSherry ’75, Chair Todd Genovese ’88, Vice-Chair Bernie Dzinski, Jr. ’81, Treasurer Barbara Diorio Germak ’83, Secretary John Burrus ’81 Eileen Cornacchia Robert Fazo ’76 Msgr. Thomas Ginty ’76 Patricia Lenti-Crane Raymond Lynch Dr. Philip Mongelluzzo ’90 Atty. Gina Petrokaitis ’85 Atty. Julie Porzio ’81 Salvatore Porzio ’79 Jason Rizk ’08 Br. George Schmitz, CSC Heidi Shea Ball ’87 Brian Zaccagnini Ta-Quon Zimmerman ’09

We pray that in times like this, when men and women of color are afraid that their lives may be in danger and that they might not have a future, we call upon you to show them there is hope.

ADMINISTRATION Dr. Thomas Pellegrino, President Thomas Pompei, Principal

We call upon you to settle the great unrest that lasted for hundreds of years so this nation will no longer be one that is always split in two, but united as your children.

ADMISSIONS Terri Ann Parks, Director of Enrollment Management tparks@holycrosshs-ct.com

Lord, we ask that you bless those protestors that risk their lives in the midst of so much hate and violence to have their voices heard by local governments.

ADVANCEMENT Dr. Thomas C. Pellegrino, President tpellegrino@holycrosshs-ct.com

We pray their voices are as loud as they once were for the walls of Jericho, and also pray these peaceful protestor’s voices break down spiritual barriers of fear and mistrust that are replaced with love and unity.

CONNECTIONS Todd Santa Maria ’94, Director of Communications & Marketing, Editor, Connections Magazine tsantamaria@holycrosshs-ct.com

We pray that our politicians and law enforcement stand with us and fight for us as we mourn and march for justice. Open our hearts to a spirit of cooperation in order to establish greater social justice.

PHOTOGRAPHERS Lifetouch Photography Phil Dutton, Todd Santa Maria Derek Ward, Cassidy Williams ’21

Lord most of all, in these very trying times, we pray that we can and will stand together in honor of George Floyd and all other innocent lives that have been taken unjustly.

DESIGN & PRODUCTION CEH Design, Bethel, CT

We thank you, loving God, for the individuals who have fought for civil rights before, who are fighting for them now and who will continue to lead in your steps. Amen.

PRINTING GHP Printing

PRESIDENT

A Message from the President,

Thomas C.

Pellegrino

rowing up, I used to think time capsules were pretty cool things. Imagine opening up a box buried away long ago like some kind of treasure chest. You would uncover items and artifacts from a time long since passed, getting a glimpse into what life was like when the capsule was created. Reflecting on today, I can appreciate the fact that many of us would just as soon not create a time capsule for 2020. Certainly, it has been a year of unprecedented challenge, hardship and unrest. The desire to “get back to the way things were” has been a common and understandable refrain. If you are like me, you are left to wonder what to make of these times we find ourselves in. Recently, I read a story about a father and son and there was a line in the story from the father that struck me. He said that he found it important to remind himself that moments do not make people—people make moments. I was struck by the import and the wisdom of this statement.

Moments do not make us. We make moments. In this issue of Holy Cross Connections you will undoubtedly see people making moments. They are not time capsules reflecting on a long gone past, however. These moments are harbingers of our future. Moments of building a robust and forward-thinking

reopening plan for our school. Moments of giving back to our community through service and welcoming new members to our school community. Moments of extraordinary philanthropy by alumni. Moments when we reflect on equity and injustice. Moments where we embrace the uncomfortable—and the unknown—in order to take action and create a better Holy Cross. We move forward then, informed by experience, strengthened in spirit, and mindful that our educational mission is more important than ever before. Time capsules are fine and they have their place. But we are a community of action, of resilience, of love and of hope. We make moments each and every day for our students that will ensure a better tomorrow. Be hopeful, be well, be Holy Cross.

Thomas C. Pellegrino, J.D., Ph.D President

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stories of In challenging times, our Crusaders shine brighter than ever.

Jenna Hulstrunk ’21

CRUSADER CARAVAN Holy Cross administrators, faculty and staff caravanned to the homes of the senior class students to celebrate their accomplishments. “At that time, they couldn’t come to Holy Cross for proper end-of-year celebrations,” said Megan Dwyer ’05, Director of Student Life. “So, we brought Holy Cross to them.”

Sam Henderlite ’20 & Michelle Morcey Henderlite ’84

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LEARNING MORE ABOUT COVID-19 Jenna Hulstunk ’21 entered the Break Through College Challenge. In this competition, students are challenged to explain a scientific idea in Physics, Life Sciences or Mathematics with a short video. Jenna chose COVID-19 because she wanted to better understand the science behind how it works. Through weeks of research, she learned about COVID-19 prevention and the different symptoms that can occur in different people. She then spent a week filming and creating her video. Winners will be announced in November and the winner will receive a $250,000 post-secondary scholarship. Jenna plans to major in Nursing when she goes to college.

S T OR I E S OF HOP E

Erik Lanese 1

A TEACHER HONORED

HELPING OTHERS Students and faculty members lead community service projects for various local organizations. Many of which were independently initiated by the students themselves. 1

Weekly, Michael Keating ’17 along with Nick Hernandez ’17, Matthew Keating ’21, Tanner Linhard ’21, Robert Anchini ’21, and friends collected bottles to help the less fortunate through the “Step by Step” program. Also, over the summer, Matthew became a certified EMT. aquel Rosa ’21 made Easter Cards R for the residents at the Cheshire House.

Several students returned to campus and collected canned goods for the Contactless Food Drive to Benefit St. Vincent DePaul under the leadership of Kendall Maisto ’23. This drive was co-hosted by Holy Cross High School and Party Plus.

Jack Paulin ’20 and Sam Hernderlite ’20 volunteered to work with the Brass City Harvest.

Science Department Head and Athletic Trainer, Erik Lanese received the Donald Bagnall Secondary School Athletic Trainer of the Year Award by the Connecticut Athletic Trainers’ Association (CATA). This award is voted by peers and presented annually to a CATA member for their outstanding contributions in the secondary school setting. Mr. Lanese received emails, texts and phone calls from people he hadn’t spoken to in years after the news broke that he won this award. “Most of these were from former students,” said Mr. Lanese. “They shared how I impacted them in a positive light. That makes me very happy. If you go into teaching, you do it because you follow a moral compass. I don’t need the recognition but it is nice to get from time to time.” continued on next page F A L L 2 02 0

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CELEBRATING SOME OF OUR CRUSADER HEROES “I would like to acknowledge Meghan Nonamaker ’13 and Kathy Baker Breidenbach ’80. Meghan is the Administrator of Apple Rehab Chesterfields and Kathy is the Social worker at Lutheran Home. They both work tirelessly caring for the most vulnerable. I am so proud of these two Frontline Workers.” – Rhonda Nonamaker ’82 “I am acknowledging Lissa Lovetere Stone ’86 for her service and dedication to our town as a licensed Funeral Director. During this crisis, the funeral homes had to prepare for potentially catastrophic conditions while keeping families and the community calm and at peace. They constantly put themselves and staff at risk during usual funeral preparations. They had come up with new ways to allow families to grieve and have closure during this difficult time.” – Jane Porter Girgasky ’93

Meghan Nonamaker ’13

“My daughter Caitlin Villano ’15 graduated in May 2019 from Fairfield University School of Nursing. She is a RN in New York City at New York Presbyterian working the front lines of this coronavirus pandemic. She has been working on a unit that is 100% COVID-19 afflicted patients.

Lissa Lovetere Stone ’86

I am so proud of her for her devotion to her patients.” – Delores Villano, Holy Cross Faculty Member “We want to thank our younger brother Danny ’18 who is working as a Nurses’ Aid in Massachusetts.” – Katherine ’17 & Brendan Flaherty ’15

WORDS OF COMFORT WITH SISTER PAT

ister Patricia Jamele, C.N.D. is the heart of the Holy Cross High School community. Our Crusaders know her as a teacher, a guidance counselor, a spiritual advisor, and most importantly, a friend. What was your first reaction when you first heard about the COVID-19 outbreak? It was absolute denial and yet in that denial, I knew this information was accurate. I set an attitude in myself to deal with this situation and everything it entails. What has gotten you through the last few months? Prayer and my faith have been important. I also believe that we, as human beings, can’t just rely on that. We have to do the very best to deal with the situation that we have been given. We must continue to love, help and support one another in prayer, in service, and in any way we possibly can. An uplifting word can make the biggest difference to someone else.

THE 2020-2021 SCHOOL YEAR BEGINS

he academic experience and daily schedule balances thoughtful pedagogy and creativity with a well-paced mode of learning. Our educational structures are rooted in our typical school procedures with changes that will ensure all of our students, faculty, and staff can return back to campus safely,” said Principal Tommy Pompei. “We will maintain our eight period, rotating schedule, but, in order to incorporate all safety and health protocols, we are immersed in a blended learning model.

How did your way of life change? Like everyone else, we didn’t go shopping. We ordered food online. Two of us went to pick it up in the car. During those first few months, we didn’t go anywhere else. Prayer increased in our home. We participated with the Mass on TV. We have a chapel in our house so we were still able to receive Holy Communion. Many of our sisters also made phone calls and kept in contact with others in our local community. I was able to walk outside and greet people. It was so wonderful to see others and say things like, “Good morning. How are you? Stay safe. Nice to see you.”

What words of comfort can you give to others who are having a difficult time during this challenging time? God is in control. Our God is a loving God, and He is with us always. I ask all believers and nonbelievers to look to the beyond. Look at the sunsets. Look at the beauty that surrounds us. When you can do good for others, whatever that is, do it. In doing good things, you will give others a spark of hope. You will also have the realization of your importance. You carry that divine life. The goodness within you is there. Finally, always remember, I am smiling behind the mask. I hope you see it in my eyes.

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GRADUATION

The students of Holy Cross High School’s Class of 2020 were celebrated at the 49th Annual Commencement Exercises on

Thursday, August 13, 2020. Administration, faculty, students and parents were in attendance for the ceremony, which took place in the school’s parking lot. The ceremony was open to a limited number of guests to adhere with social distancing guidelines. Diplomas and academic achievement awards were distributed to the graduating seniors. 5

MATRICULATION LISTING for the CLASS OF 2020 Albertus Magnus College Assumption College University of Bridgeport Broward College University of California, Davis University of California, San Diego

Central Connecticut State University (3) Chaminade University of Honolulu Coastal Carolina University Colgate University College of Our Lady of the Elms

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University of Connecticut (9) Fairfield University (7) Fairleigh Dickinson Fordham University Goldsmiths, University of London University of Hartford (2)

Iona College John Jay College of Criminal Justice King’s College (2) Lee Academy Manhattan College Marist College University of Maryland

ACADEMICS

1 Brandi McIntosh delivers the

Commencement Speech

2 J ohn Savage, Arthur Pappas

& Shawn Austin

3 Jenna Mowad, Sabrina

Santopietro & Carina Cornacchia

4 Matt Mullen & Jason Lin 5 Nate Erdtmann 6 C ameron Rivers, Alex

Castillo & Jahmeeka Thompson

7 Julia Petrokaitis, Billy

D’Avino & Natalie Kirby

8 S tudents during the

ceremony

University of Miami Michigan State University University of Minnesota Mount Saint Mary College (2) Naugatuck Valley Community College (3) University of New Hampshire

University of New Haven (3) Nichols College Nova Southeastern University Quinnipiac University (3) University of Rhode Island (2) Rider University

Rochester Institute of Technology Roger Williams University Sacred Heart University (3) University of Saint Joseph (5) Salve Regina University Sarah Lawrence College Springfield College

Saint Edward’s University The University of Tampa The New School U.S. Air Force West Virginia University (2) Wheaton College

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Q &A Valedictorian and Salutatorian

ACAD E M IC S

with our

We recently sat down with Tara Garden (TG) and Christopher Christiano (CC), Valedictorian and Salutatorian for the Class of 2020 respectively. They shared some of their Crusader experiences and commented on what Holy Cross meant to them.

Tara and Christopher were named Summa Scholars by the Office of Catholic Schools along with classmates, Katelyn Honegger, Nicholas Frappier, Omofolade Olusanya and Nathan Erdtmann

How did it feel to earn this great recognition? CC: It felt like all my hard work over the last four years paid off. After Freshmen year when the ranks came in, I made it my goal to be first or second in my class. That really motivated me. TG: I was really happy especially after all the work I put in over the last four years. What was your academic experience like at Holy Cross High School? CC: I took all AP and honors classes throughout my four years here. It was a great way to prepare for college. The course loads are harder. I also took all of the advanced science classes including AP Biology, Neuroscience, Physics, Chemistry, AP Psychology, Anatomy & Physiology. How were you able to balance your school work with your extra-curricular activities? TG: I utilized Community Period and study halls. I got my work done on the day it was assigned. I also did homework on the weekends especially Sundays. I was in cheerleading for my first 10

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three years and had practice every night. It was all about time management. Where are you going to college? CC: I am going to major in Science at Mount Saint Mary College. TG: I am going to the University of Miami to major in Health Science and minor in Spanish and Business. What are you taking away from your Holy Cross experience? TG: I came from a public school. The academics were good there, but Holy Cross took it to a whole new level. I always got 100s on my assignments in middle school. I got an 80 on my first assignment here. The teachers really pushed me. CC: The teachers had a huge impact on me. They formed me into the person I am today. I was also lucky to be in a school community where everyone truly cares for each other. This is more than just a school. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a family. Everyone donated their time so that the seniors received a great send off.

S T UDE N TACADEMICS HIGHLIGHT

Amber Bromley ’20 is Air Force Bound

mber Bromley ’20 followed in the footsteps of her uncle, cousin and friends and entered the world of the United States Air Force. Her ship date was August 18, 2020.

sophomore and didn’t know anyone. I had to learn and rely on social skills to meet new people and make new friends. I’m definitely taking those skills with me. You definitely need a buddy in boot camp.”

Amber met with a recruiter in November 2019. She received information about the program which further fueled her passion to join. “I officially enlisted on February 6, 2020,” she said. “I signed my contract and entered into the Delayed Entry Program (DEP).”

Amber doesn’t regret leaving her hometown high school and the people she grew up with. She was also carrying on a family tradition by attending Holy Cross. “My sister and cousin are Crusaders,” she said. “I also felt like Holy Cross would give me better opportunities. The academics and athletics are better here, and everyone is so warm and welcoming.”

Amber credits one key moment in helping her adjust to her new reality. “I was a transfer student into Holy Cross High School,” she said. “I entered as a

Nathan DiMatteo ’23 Receives Gymnastics Honor

athan DiMatteo ’23 was introduced to the gymnastics world at a very early age. His mother, Paula, brought him to USA Gymnastics in Watertown, Connecticut when he was three years old, and there was no turning back. A lover of tumbling and flipping at an early age, Nate was invited to participate on USA Gymnastics’ team in the first grade. He has stuck with it ever since. Over the years, he worked very hard at this physically and mentally demanding sport. Currently, he is a Level 10 gymnast and this past spring, he received the nationally-recognized Academic All-American Recognition Award. In addition to being a skillful and disciplined athlete, recipients of this award have to maintain high academic standards. As part of the application process, Nate had to submit essays and show his academic progress. “This whole experience has taught me a lot about hard work and perseverance,” said Nate. “I know I have to push myself to be the best in everything I do. Nothing can be achieved without work.” “I find this amazing,” said Paula, Nate’s mother. “Gymnastics isn’t an easy sport. I watch what all the gymnasts do across the tri-state area. It is amazing what they do. I can’t begin to describe what this has done for Nate, socially and academically. He was a shy kid that wouldn’t speak to anyone. Now, he goes in front of thousands of people and commits.” F A L L 2 02 0

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also so enjoyable. It was nice to see a team come together.”

Girls’ Varsity Soccer Takes Home State Championship

he Girls’ Varsity Soccer team made history when they brought a Class S State Championship home to Oronoke Road. This is the first state championship in high school girls’ soccer for the city of Waterbury. The intense, action-packed

game culminated in a 1-0 win over Old Lyme at Veterans Stadium in New Britain.

2019-2020 Athletic Achievements

• The Boys’ Swimming Team took home their 6th consecutive NVL win after recording 934 points, outdistancing runner-up Naugatuck (744) and third place Woodland (638).

The Holy Cross High School community is so proud of the outstanding achievements made by out stellar athletic teams over the past year!

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“It was the most amazing day,” said Coach Phil Mongelluzzo ’90. “It was probably one of the best days of my life. The last minute in the end dragged, but it was

• The Girls’ Basketball Team scored a win in the quarterfinals of the Class M Girls’ Basketball State Tournament.

This win was a full circle moment for the girls since they lost the 2017 Class S Championship game to Old Lyme. “It feels really good. Nothing can beat it,” senior captain Alyssa Millburn said to the Waterbury Republican. “We felt how bad it was to lose and so we knew we weren’t going to do that again. We came here strong, and we came here to win.” “The energy at the State Championship game was great,” said Coach Kyle Piatak. “Our juniors and seniors have been to the finals and quarterfinals in the past. We were fortunate to be able to play our game with confidence and control. Our girls were mentally tough. They were able to hold their own and see through the high-pressure moments. Devon Bushka ’22 scored the goal to win.”

• The Boys’ Soccer Team made it to the State Finals this past fall after a season of incredible wins and hard work. • The Cheerleading Team took home the 2020 Class S State Championship. • The Holy Cross Dance Team took home first place in Jazz and Pom.

campus “I love volunteering. Once you volunteer, you see how people aren’t as fortunate as you. It really makes you realize how lucky you are.” – MATTHEW PANG ’20

Some of our HC employees celebrated big milestones at the beginning of this school year. Richard Burns and Mike Giampetruzzi ’95 celebrated 35 and 20 years, of service respectively. Kathleen Partin ’93, Catherine Xeller, Megan Dwyer ’05, Joe Carrah ’76, Amy O’Connell ’05, Karen Brough ’84 and Kyle Piatak celebrated 10 years.

The Holy Cross Student Theatre, under the direction of Scott Schulte ’93 and Sean Lewis, presented the screwball comedy, Arsenic and Old Lace for its annual fall drama. It was a full circle moment for Mr. Schulte who performed in HCST’s 1991 production of this American theater classic. Cecilia Moisan ’23 won a HALO Award from Seven Angels Theater (Best Leading Actress in a Play) for her portrayal of “Martha Brewster.”

Our Crusaders donated money, food, clothing and other essentials to organizations and causes in the Greater Waterbury area throughout the school year. Students from the service group Helping Hands, also volunteered at the St. Vincent DePaul Soup Kitchen. During our Homecoming Weekend the school community spent a full day working on a number of different service projects that benefited the school and local communities.

Members of our MultiCultural Club celebrated Lunar New Year this past February. “This was so much fun,” said Jodie LaCava McGarrity ’93, International Program Director/Guidance Counselor. “This was a chance for our International Students to share some of their culture with our American students.”

Our Crusaders celebrated their faith and spirituality during Catholic Schools Week. Our friends at Notre Dame West Haven invited our male students to celebrate Holy Cross Heritage week while the Sisters of the Congregation of Notre Dame hosted a Q&A with our female students. F A L L 2 02 0

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Brian Gilleece ’03 on the set of Hollywood with his fellow cast members, Dylan McDermott ’79 and Darren Criss

and his

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rian Gilleece ’03 remembers exactly what he was thinking when he packed up his U-Haul in 2011 to make the move to California. “Finally I’ll have a chance to pursue my dream.” Always a natural performer —whether entertaining audiences in his elementary school talent show, or messing around with the family camcorder—acting never seemed like a viable profession. For Gilleece the path to Hollywood— both literally and figuratively—has been 14

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a winding one. He earned his B.A. in Marketing from Western New England University in Springfield. Post-graduation included stints in professional hockey and radio as an on-air personality. It was an eventual sales job at a fire and life safety company that offered the opportunity to relocate. “Outside sales is the perfect day job for an actor,” said Brian. “It has allowed me a steady income and the flexibility to pound the pavement, and meet people in the industry.

Not to mention that every actor has to be a great salesperson.” His first few professional acting gigs came in unscripted television—on a dating show hosted by comedian Iliza Schlesinger, and then a competition show hosted by Bam Margera. Shortly thereafter he met his manager (now wife) who recommended that if he wanted to be taken seriously as an actor he would need to exit reality TV, and find a great professional class. continued on page 16

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News NEVER Sleeps T

hroughout her ten years in the media business, news reporter, Amber Diaz ’06 has prepared for the highest highs and the lowest lows. She remembers one day, in particular. She began it by interviewing her father’s idol, Magic Johnson and ended it with covering a story about two kids who drowned in a river. “You really need to prepare for the extremes,” said Amber. “You also need to remember that you are providing a public service.”

Born and raised in Waterbury, Connecticut, Amber’s love of writing began as a student in St. Lucy’s School where she won several writing awards. She excelled further in English during her time at Holy Cross High School. From there, she double majored in English and Journalism at the University of Connecticut. Some time later, a friend told her about a thirteen month intensive program at the Newhouse School of Communications at Syracuse University. She enrolled and received her

Master’s Degree in Broadcast and Digital Journalism, which she credits as “the best thing I ever did.” Upon graduation, Amber was a reporter in the Bronx for two years. She learned very quickly that news never sleeps and is ever-changing. Her career took her to other job opportunities in Washington, DC; Portland, Oregon; Brooklyn, New York; and Miami, Florida. She will never forget one particular story and experience. continued on page 16 F A L L 2 02 0

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Brian Gilleece ’03

Dylan McDermott ’79

Amber Diaz ’06

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He took the advice, studying at the prestigious Stan Kirsch Studios, and the work soon followed including a commercial for Nike Golf. He also booked roles in film—Daddy Issues (Netflix) and The Big Day (Amazon), and television—CBS’s The Inspectors and CLEO-TV’s The New Shade of Black. However, it was on the set of Westworld where he really felt that his dreams were starting to come true.

Amber was one of the first reporters called to the front lines to cover the shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida. “I had just started at CBS Miami,” she said. “The News Director sent me there. I saw the police putting caution tape up. Parents were on the phone trying to contact their kids. Meanwhile, ten minutes down the road, the shooter was buying a drink. Through something like that, you have to be on point always. I worked sixteen days straight. I had to sleep outside of the gunman’s house. When I pulled into my driveway, I broke down.”

“Westworld has been an incredible experience, the show has such a passionate global following and to now be a part of that universe and have so many people from around the world connecting with me is surreal.”

And then, finally, Hollywood came calling. Multi-hyphenate Ryan Murphy’s newest (and very adult) Netflix series looks at an alternate history of the Golden Age of Hollywood. “I was up for something else on the day that I booked the role,” Gilleece said. “My agent asked me to go read for casting and I had a great conversation with them. I shot my scene two days later. It all happened very quickly.” He would end up interfacing with many of the cast as it was their last shoot day and most of the key players were part of his scene. “I was chatting with (cast members) Darren Criss and Jake Picking and then commented on Dylan’s (McDermott, class of ’79) wardrobe—he was wearing this great ’50s suit.” said Gilleece. “He asked me where I was from. I said ‘Woodbury, Connecticut and he said ‘no kidding, I grew up in Waterbury.’ Which lead to the inevitable ‘where did you go to high school’ discussion—quickly discovering that we had both attended Holy Cross. We talked a lot about Waterbury and growing up in the area. Dylan and the rest of the cast were great. Those are the best days, to connect with people who have been where you’ve been, and are now very successful. It makes it easier to see the roadmap for yourself.” 16

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Amber wanted to hone in on her anchoring skills after two years in Miami. This led her to WTNH in New Haven, Connecticut where she currently reports and anchors the weekend evening news. This opportunity coincided with the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic in March 2020. “With COVID-19, the numbers constantly had to be updated. Who had it? Where can you go? Where can’t you go? Who is most affected? Are the hospitalizations up or down? I had to check these every day, hour on the hour. I spoke with several people who battled COVID-19 and won. We are making deeper connections by telling these personal stories.” Amber is humbled and honored to be working in a profession that touches so many lives. In a world where ethics and credibility are more important than ever, Amber provides these tips to providing effective journalism. “First, thoroughly research your subject beforehand. Second, be direct and ask the tough questions. Third, talk to everyone even if that means knocking on fifteen doors. Finally, you have to be in the know. Be curious!”

A DVANCEMENT

Saluting Holy Cross Legends

embers of the Crusader community virtually gathered together to salute two beloved faculty members, Jerry Ciarleglio ’72 and Tefta Bushka. Alumni, teachers and family members participated in this virtual celebration of two Crusader legends. “I have been blessed for thirty-one years for being around you people,” said Jerry. “Holy Cross has meant so much to me and my family. This is because of all the people I met there and had the privilege to coach...with a few exceptions.” “I look back with gratitude and fond memories,” said Tefta. “I entered a profession dedicated to assisting young people and helping them achieve their

Jerry Ciarleglio

Tefta Bushka

potential. I learned that students will forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.” After this virtual retirement ceremony, Italian teacher Dwight Colella announced his retirement. “I want to thank Dwight,

Holy Cross Welcomes Waterbury Regional Chamber Members at Out for Business Reception

oly Cross High School hosted the Waterbury Regional Chamber’s Out for Business Reception, sponsored by G.S. Regan Associates and Alltown Fresh. Holy Cross has been a proud member of the Chamber since 1986. “My twins Alexander ’22 and Lance ’22 attend Holy

Dwight Colella

Jerry and Tefta for all they gave to Holy Cross,” said Dr. Thomas C. Pellegrino, President. “They leave big shoes to fill. We wish them all good health and much happiness.”

Car Raffle winner, Teresa Shivas and her family

Cross,” said co-sponsor Michael Regan of G.S. Regan Associates. “I can tell you it is the best thing I have ever done—the best investment of my life. I recommend all of you to have your children attend here. It is really hand’s on.”

Current Parent Wins Car Raffle

Present parent, Michael Regan addresses the crowd at the Out for Business event

Thanks to the generosity of the Blasius Family and Blasius Chevrolet Cadillac, Holy Cross High School held a Car Raffle as part of the year’s fundraising efforts. The Grand Prize was a brand new 2020 Chevrolet Trax-LT AWD. Current parent, Teresa Shivas was the lucky winner of this prize. F A L L 2 02 0

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The Annual Fund is a yearly fund-raising effort which runs from July 1 to June 30. It provides for purchases and expenditures like the following:

ACADEMICS Canvas, Power School, Faculty Laptops, Classroom Supplies

FINANCIAL AID Funds for applicants that need Tuition Assistance

TECHNOLOGY Computer Supplies, Intercom System, Xerox Machines

FACULTY

ARTS

BUILDINGS & GROUNDS

Salaries, Workman’s Compensation, Health Insurance

Performance rights for theatrical productions, Light/Sound Rental, Costume

Heating Oil, Electricity, Telephone/Internet Lines, Protective Services, Gym Maintenance

ATHLETICS

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Transportation to away games, Medical Supplies for Trainer’s Room, Sports Equipment

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his past spring, Samir Mehta ’90 made a generous leadership level gift of $10,000 to the 2019-2020 Annual Fund. Sam came from a middle class family and acknowledges that it wasn’t without hardship that his parents sent him and his sister to Holy Cross. He wanted to give something back to a place that meant a lot to him. “My son, Kasen, started high school this past year,” said Sam. He was asking me about my high school experiences. I was telling him funny stories about my time at Holy Cross. He told me over and over again that he hoped his high school was like my high school.” One teacher, Mr. Richard Burns, made an impact on Sam and his professional trajectory. Sam took many of his social studies classes including Political Science and AP Social Studies. The latter sparked an interest in him to go into politics and government. “He was very inspiring when he spoke about grass movements, many of which brought the creation of laws. He spoke of our responsibilities to engage into the future. At the time, it really grabbed me. I decided to enter the legal field in my senior year.”

When I started becoming more successful in the corporate world, I realized that I am blessed.”

– SAMIR MEHTA ’90

After graduating from the University of Connecticut School of Law, Sam joined United Technologies Corp’s law department. A position as Sikorsky’s Associate General Counsel followed. However, in 2006, he switched career paths and took on the position of Director, Business Operations, Helicopter Support, Inc. He led the full lifecycle of military products and services from

The Mehta Family: Sam, Lisa, Kasen and Lucy

technology maturation to product delivery and support. By the time he left Sikorsky after twenty years, he was President of Defense Systems and Services. Currently, Sam heads Collins Aerospace’s Mechanical Systems strategic business unit based in Charlotte. He manages a diverse and exciting portfolio which touches aspects of flight. “When I started becoming more successful in the corporate world, I realized that I am blessed,” said Sam. “I asked myself, ‘What are you going to do now with these resources.” Sam and his wife, Lisa, made a decision to give back to a number of different institutions including the Connecticut Science Center and the NAACP Legal Defense Fund. When he was sharing high school stories with his son, Sam realized that for everything he took away from Holy Cross both academically and socially, he questioned why he hadn’t given back so that other people could have the same opportunities he did. “Gratitude without action doesn’t help society move forward,” said Sam. “Give what you can. It’s the tangible act of saying that I care enough. Give something —five dollars, ten dollars. The amount is actually the least significant portion. The most important is the realization that we all have the means to make someone else happy and let them realize their dreams. Exercise the values that you gained while you were there.” F A L L 2 02 0

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turned 30 this past March. She has been in CA since 1991 and works for Upper Deck in Carlsbad, CA.

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Philip Wilson ’77 I relocated to Florida where I continued to serve as a consultant on private school governance issues and began one of the most fulfilling roles in my total life experience —FL State Court (15 Circuit) advocate for abused children where I have served the needs of over 600 children—in many cases accompanying them to adoption.” John McGovern

1975 We received a note from John E. McGovern, Ph.D. “As the last of the founding faculty (1968), when I left HCHS Waterbury in 1975, I moved to Holy Cross NY as chief administrator. Following that between ’81 and ’99, I served as Diocesan Superintendent of schools in Syracuse and Hartford, a policy position with the National Catholic Educational Association and finally Director of Education for Holy Cross Schools.

1977 On January 1, 2020, Philip T. Wilson celebrated 24 years in business as Limousines Plus, in Wolcott, CT. He has been in the luxury transportation business for a total of 32 years.

1978 Steven Sirica has been appointed Senior Engineering Fellow/Discipline Lead of Propulsion Analysis at Pratt & Whitney. He has two children. His daughter is entering her senior year at Boston University, and his son will be starting his freshman year at Western New England University.

Joe Vitarelli is the Chief Operating Officer for Integrated Anesthesia Associates (IAA) in Connecticut. IAA is currently the largest physician-owned anesthesia practice in the state, and the clinical team provides exclusive anesthesia coverage to 9 hospitals and 24 surgical centers in Connecticut. Additionally, Joe is the Principal Owner of Managed Care Contracting Solutions since 2006 and has provided consulting solutions to clients in 42 states to date including most recently in Atlanta, GA; Amarillo, TX; Carlsbad, CA; and New York, NY. Joe just celebrated his 20th Anniversary with his wife Patti. They have two children, Matthew, who is a sophomore at Yale University and Grace Mary, who is starting at Bethel High School in the fall. They reside in Bethel, CT with their beloved dog, Jack Pauli Murray.

1989 Sean Keegan moved to Charlotte, North Carolina in August 2019 for an Information Technology Sourcing position with Allstate.

1991 Erin O’Connell and Carrie O’Connell own and operate Ace Van & Storage, a moving company and an agent for United Van Lines, located in Cheshire, CT. They reside in Watertown with their three children Avery ’22, Ray (age 12) and Darby (age 12).

Dr. Daniel Coelho, Chairman of the Anesthesia Department at Charlotte Hungerford Hospital, returned to Holy Cross and visited with students from the Anatomy & Physiology, Neuroscience, AP Biology classes. He spoke about his experiences as an anesthesiologist and focused on some individual cases including cancer and collapsed lungs.

1983 The Marino Family: Joe ’76, Donna, Chris ’07, Jennifer (Orso) ’08, Alisa ’09 and the newest member of the family, Adrienne Taylor 20

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Michelle Hirbour Fricke currently resides in San Marcos, California with her husband, Charles Fricke and step daughter who

Bret Bisaillon ’89 skydiving on his birthday

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Jarrod Bogue’s dog, Harvey

The Blomstrom family

1995 Glen D. Blomstrom, M.D., F.A.C.E.P. is an Assistant Professor of Emergency Medicine University of Connecticut School of Medicine and a Board Certified Emergency Medicine Physician at Saint Mary’s Hospital via EmCareE.

1999 Michael Regan was named the chief of the emergency medicine department at Steward Norwood (MA) Hospital, located outside of Boston. While the COVID-19 outbreak in recent months has changed procedures at his hospital and medical facilities throughout the country, Michael still does clinical work in the ER.

2000 Jessica Lenda (Sklanka) was married on July 25, 2019. She had a son Bryce William Lenda on August 5, 2019.

2003 Ryan Hannon is the Director of Enrollment for the Bosque School in New Mexico. He has been accepted to a doctoral program at New Mexico State.

2006 A note from Jarrod Bogue, MD: “Hello! I am entering my last year of a six year residency in Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery at New York Presbyterian Hospital.

I was redeployed to the front lines during the height of the COVID-19 pandemic in the city. I currently live with my girlfriend Elizabeth and dog Harvey.”

2007 Gianna Gurga graduated in May from Central Connecticut State University with her Sixth Year Certification in Intermediate Administration/Supervision. Vinny Spinella is engaged to Erica Ricard of Sacred Heart ’05. Proof that even in the deepest of rivalries there can still be love. (She wears the green and gold now though.) The wedding is set for June 12, 2021 at the Wadsworth Mansion in Middletown, CT.

2008

Vinny Spinella ’07 pops the question.

Eamon Downey has been busy! Two films, produced through his company Last Rodeo Studios, Scare Me and Save Yourself, were screened at the 2020 Sundance Film Festival and acquired for distribution this coming fall.

2010 From Holy Cross, Chris Dwyer went on to graduate from CCSU with a degree in business. From there, he opened Nardelli’s in Southbury were he has been in business for close to five years. “Happy to see all of the great things happening here and looking forward to continuing to be a part of the Holy Cross tradition.”

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ACAD E M IC S

2014 Jordan Norkus started a new job this year right out of grad school as an Evening News Anchor in Elmira, New York! Julia Flaminio graduated with a Masters in Health Sciences from MCPHS University.

2016

Jordan Norkus ’14

Domenic Setaro recently graduated cum laude from Fordham University. Throughout his four years of college, he was able to study abroad, serve in student government, and participate in international service projects in both Haiti and Brazil. In July, he begin working full-time at Morgan Stanley in New York as a Virtual Engagement Associate. “I am excited for this new chapter in my life, and would like to thank Holy Cross for the instrumental role that it played in getting me to this point.” Colten Roberts graduated from St. Vincent’s College at Sacred Heart University with an Associates degree in Radiography. He will be employed as a Radiologic Technologist at Physician One Urgent Care in Norwalk, CT.

Julia Flaminio ’14 on her graduation day

Allison Carasone graduated from Fairfield University, Charles F. Dolan School of Business with a major in Finance and a minor in Management in May 2020. She is employed as a Loan Servicing Assistant at Thomaston Savings Bank.

Zachary Mason was recently commissioned as a 2nd Lieutenant in the U.S. Army through the Reserve Officer Training Corps program at Providence College.

2017 An update from Patrick McMahon: “I have had several transformative years at Boston College ever since graduating from Holy Cross! I have performed in choirs with the Boston Pops and Symphony Orchestras in Boston and at Tanglewood, respectively, and I have even gone to Ireland, Austria and the Czech Republic over the last two years to perform with the University Chorale of Boston College. I also had a duet in Vienna and Prague on the most recent trip, all while I was taking in the incredible sights, opera, musics, history and cultures those countries had to offer. I just finished my junior year and, even in the midst of COVID-19 chaos, I opted to stay to carry out the remainder of my Resident Assistant duties, a position which was also an incredible leadership opportunity. Things haven’t been perfect; nothing truly is as you figure out adulthood, but I have incredible best friends and family to see me through the new challenges and goals I face. I have had opportunities and experiences, musical and otherwise, that I never could have achieved without Holy Cross!”

S AV E T H E D AT E F O R O U R I N A U G U R A L

A LU M N I W E E K E N D May 21-23, 2021

All alumni are invited; however, we will give special recognition to all classes ending in a 0, 1, 5 and 6 Weekend highlights include: • The return of Oronoke After Dark (on May 22) • Class Reunion Dinners • The Alumni Association Meeting • Campus Tours

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• Family Fun and much more!

Make a Difference in Your Class Become a Crusader Class Agent today. Play a part in planning your reunions for Alumni Weekend, helping us get in touch with more of your classmates and more! Visit us at www. HolyCrossHS-ct.com/alumni for more information!

More information to follow soon!

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Patrick McMahon ’17 Domenic Setaro ’16

Science teacher, Erik Lanese reuniting with some of his former students

SPREADING SMILES WITH SABA SHAHID ’09

he Art Cart, founded by Saba Shahid ’09, is a creativity and movement program for people living with Parkinson’s Disease (PD) and those living with the “inability to smile” as a symptom of their disease. They are based out of Massachusetts but travel throughout the United States to be accessible to the various PD populations, bringing workshops to locations closer to PD patients home. As Chief Smiling Officer, she is guided by her desire to spread smiles. The idea for the Art Cart was born at Holy Cross. Saba, then a senior, was working on an art-based service project for her Girl Scout Gold Award. “(Art Teachers) Mrs. (Rosanne) Shea and Mr. (Michael) Marseglia really piqued my interest in art,” she said. “For my final project, I painted ceiling tiles and created an Art Cart that had various art supplies for the children of the Bridgeport Hospital’s Pediatric Unit so that they had something inspiring to look at and do while they were in the hospital.”

The school also held a volleyball tournament while Saba was working on her project. Students brought an art supply in for their admission to the game. Saba had no idea that these early endeavors would be the inspiration for her profession. “Holy Cross holds a very special place in my heart,” said Saba. “The community feeling that was born there and the support that I got there really helped fuel my desire to combine art and medicine.” The Art Cart is comprised of two workshops. Smile Through Art is a creativity and movement program. It teaches people with PD how to improve

their symptoms such as fine and gross motor skills, rigidity, depression, and tremors while increasing their confidence to learn how to live better with their symptoms. The Let’s Combat Micrographia Workshops focuses specifically on how to improve small handwriting while increasing confidence in the process of writing. In 2016, Saba released Let’s Combat Micrographia: An Interactive Workbook to Help Those Living with Parkinson’s Disease which was recognized by the National Network of Libraries of Medicine. A second edition was released in 2019. Saba was named one of the 40 Under 40 by BusinessWest. “I always admired people that received that title when I was younger,” she said. “It was a pretty amazing feeling to receive the email from BusinessWest stating that I was one of the honorees.” Saba currently resides in Westfield, Massachusetts with her husband, Chad Moir and their son, Aayan. F A L L 2 02 0

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Crusader Hall of Honor The Crusader Hall of Honor was created to recognize the accomplishments and services of our Crusader community members. Alumni, teachers, administrators, friends and athletic teams have been recognized in this prestigious group for their achievements and contributions to Holy Cross and/or their local communities. Visit us online at https://www. holycrosshs-ct.com/news-events/crusader-hallof-honor for more information. The Crusader Hall of Honor is scheduled to return in November 2021. At that time, we will honor

New School Leaders Named

the inductees for 2020 and 2021.

The inductees for the 2020 Crusader Hall of Honor include: The Crusader Award Sally Bowman ’86, Rob Paternostro ’91, Chanessa Saunders ’93 & Nicole Zuraitis ’03 The Saint Andre Bessette Award Chris Corbett ’93 & Msgr. Thomas Ginty ’76 The Blessed Father Basil Moreau Award Phyllis Altieri & Frank Steponaitis The Marguerite Bourgeoys Award Jeff Fryer ’87 The Green and Gold Award The 1995 Boys Basketball Team Be on the lookout for more information on our honorees in the upcoming months.

Andrew Shea ’06

Michael Giampetruzzi ’95

oly Cross High School proudly announces two additions to the school leadership: Andrew Shea ’06 as Director of Academics and Michael

Giampetruzzi ’95 as Director of Athletics. Mr. Shea will oversee the growth and health of the school’s academic program and will support all teachers as the usage of technology in the classroom expands. Mr. Giampetruzzi will lead the school’s athletic program. He takes over for Mr. Jerry Ciarleglio who retired this past spring.