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MAGAZINE Nov. 2021
SELF-CARE & SELF LOVE EDITION
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EMBRACING YOUR NATURAL BEAUTY COMFY STYLES
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The Cover Look! All the details, from head to toe. Every cover matters and every look has a purpose.
Keys for true self-love and self-care. What you can do today to find more peace.
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NATURAL STYLE
Find a few great pieces to help you discrover your natural style.
HDC GIVEBACK For the second year in a row, we gave a one-time grant to a small business owner who focuses on serving women.
LIVE FEARLESS How you can take action to live fearless today! It’s easier than you think with the right tools.
Find your comfy style, and look put together, even in the house.
Enhance the beautiful woman you are with these tips and products.
Powerful ways to Bible study and grow in your personal walk with God. Your Bible study can flow with these tips.
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PRAYER WALK
How a daily walk turned into a revelational moment with God.
MEMBERSHIP How we serve over 240 ministries, and how we can serve you also.
MTJ WORD A few thoughts on faith and fearlessness that can change your life.
cover look I LOVE DRESSING BUSINESS CHIC! A CEO mixed with some added style!
ACCESSORIES Don’t forget the details make the outfit! Seriously, adding the right pair of heels or sandals can really
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am still learning my personal style, but what I have learned the most, is to wear what makes me feel like my best version, or like a daughter of God.
MAKEUP I went super light on the makeup, from a L’oreal Healthy Skin Concelear to a natural looking lip with whispy lashes. Lastly, a filled in brow really brought the whole look to life. elevate your look. I decided to pair the look with these faux leather heels from shein.com that are a low heel and easy to walk in. I added my favorite bag, necklace and earrings to make the look complete.
I DON’T OVERTHINK MY PERSONAL STYLE!
THE LEATHER PANTS These faux leather pants can elevate any look. I switched out the blue jeans for the faux leather pants and I was so excited for this monochramatic look. This comfy chic look turned NATURAL LOOK into an influencer and CEO A little concealer and a natural who is ready to take on the lip color can really become an world look. Not only did I feel like a fashionista, but the ver- effortless look that make you camsion of myself I always desired era ready. I try not to overthink it and just be as natural as possible. to be. Daily, I dress up for the woman God is calling me to be. Dressing up isn’t based on were I am currently working from home, but I think, how would I dress if I went to my headquarters and had in-person meetings with a staff. That is exactly how I dress most days. I hope this inspires you to dress for the woman of your dreams. Watch how you slowly become her.
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here are so many hats that we, as women, wear on a daily basis. Between the people we love and the obligations we have, it can be easy to get swept up in it all without making time for ourselves. The truth is, there is no way we can fully show up for others without showing up for ourselves first. Not only is it okay to pour back into ourselves until our cup overflows, it’s required. Mental stress can cause physical symptoms of illness, while physical ailments cause undue stress on the mental. It’s all connected! But don’t fret. Self care doesn’t have to be another big thing to add to your to do list. Keep yourself balanced, taking care of your mind and body with these easy tips:
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ind: Carve out time for mindfulness: Mindfulness is being able to clear your mind and be fully, mentally present in that moment. You can even close your eyes and take in a few deep breaths. This gives you the opportunity
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to slow down and really check in with yourself to see how you’re feeling. This can be done anytime of the day when you have a quiet moment, and are fantastic ways to begin and end the day as well.
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rain dump: Are you feeling like there’s just so much going on mentally that you can’t possibly take on anything else? Brain dump! Similar to journaling, brain dumping allows you to get all those thoughts crowding your brain onto a piece of paper. This can be done in an organized fashion or can take the form of random little notes on a scrap piece
of paper! Make it your own and create your own rules. Doing this will allow you to clear your mental space, allowing thoughts to flow more freely. You also get the added benefit of having your thoughts and ideas on paper to reference at a later date.
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onnect: Simply talking and laughing with others releases endorphins, or feel-good hormones. Connect safely with people with similar interests, or with loved ones. One idea is to have a virtual “lunch date,” where you call each other and talk via video over lunch. Nothing beats human connection, and having people to talk to on a regular basis can help you not feel alone and give you a chance to be heard, which is sometimes all a person needs.
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Have a cup of warm tea: Warm tea is like a hug in a cup. Unlike coffee, which is a diuretic.
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ne healthy habit: Choose one healthy habit per day that takes 30 minutes or less. It could be drinking more water, taking a vitamin, or going for a walk. When you give your body what it needs, you feel good and perform better!
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something for you: Whether it’s a full luxurious bubble bath or a 5 minute face mask, ending the day pouring back into yourself is a wonderful way to give yourself some much needed love and attention.
Notice that all these things can take as long or be as quick as you need them to be. That’s because self care should be done every day, not just when you can splurge on a spa day. Take charge of your mental and physical well being by working these things into your schedule. It’ll help you become your best self.
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A major way of self-care is feeling confident in your own body. This can be a challenging taskespecially when the mirror is not your bestfriend. So, first decide to cut off all negative belittling talk for one entire day. Next, get cute all for yourself and feel beautiful in your own body. Deciding to get cute for you really matters. When you pour love into yourself, you will radiate that love into all areas of your life.
pour love into yourself today!
WRITER Cornelia Avery
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Most teas are very hydrating, and there are so many different benefits! Can’t sleep? Try camomile tea. Stuffy nose? Peppermint tea will get you together! Need a midday pick-me-up? Get some green tea. Of course, talk to your health care provider to b e on the safe side, especially if you take medications or have health conditions.
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ith social media influence, many aren’t telling you to embrace the natural you. Really you should, because you have so much beauty. Here are some great items to accentuate the beauty that is already there!
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kincare is a must. Try the Micelluar to remove oils and makeup. It leaves your skin feeling hydrated. Also, grab your favorite sunscreen for added protection.
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dd a pop of color to your eyes or a light crease. That can make any simple day, turn into a bold day. Also, tinted moisturizer is good for a natural look.
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crunchies and hair clips are great added accessories to make your hairstyle look effortlessly chic.
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STYLISH LOOKS ALL WHILE AT HOME
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all is here and it’s time to pull out the booties and jackets! Make a statement with a leather jacket that you can dress up or down.
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dd your accessories, and don’t hold back. You can’t go wrong double layering a pendent necklace.
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ur 2021 Business Grant Recipient was Brittany Stephens, the founder of Chat It Up, which is a women’s social networking organization. Brittany started Chat It Up from her living room, in Tulsa Oklahoma. Brittany has
a heart for women to know that “this is a sisterhood, not a competition” and understand that we all have the opportunity to cultivate our gifts and talents.
GIVING BACK TO MINORITY WOMEN! Many amazing connections have been made through the Chat It Up organization. Every event has doubled in attendance and has rapidly grown throughout the Oklahoma and Florida community. Chat It Up has also been featured on Kjamz 105.3 FM radio as well as featured on Iconic Women!
A $1,000 grant was gifted to Chat It Up, from His Daughter’s Closet Ministries to impact and network with women in Oklahoma and Florida.
THE PLAN
THE PURPOSE Living in your purpose starts with embracing all your unique qualities.
Plan your days, add passion projects in the midst of necessary tasks.
LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE YOUR BEST LIFE STARTS WITH THIS MOMENT!
HOW TO MAKE A CHANGE TODAY!
THE FAITH
Sprinkle daily prayer and Bible study into your daily routine, and watch your life transfom.
Bible Study Turn your quiet time into a time of impact and real reflection.
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tart with prayer before studying. Ask God to: Help you see His Word clearly and help you understand what you read. Give you wisdom on how to apply what you read to your life.
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on’t know where to start? Grab a devotional or devotional Bible commentary! This takes the guesswork out, helps you see key themes of the scriptures, and may even explain how the scripture can be applied to daily life.
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ick a translation you understand. When selecting a Bible, make sure you can read and understand the main idea of the passages you read. You can also use more than one translation for the same scripture to help you get a better understanding. The Bible App allows you to move through multiple translations without having to keep a stack of Bibles!
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rab a Bible with wide margins or a “journaling Bible” to be able to take notes right in the pages of your Bible. Pair it with Bible pens that don’t bleed through the pages.
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tudy with a group or join a small group of woman at your local church and grow in faith with others. You can create your own, by picking a Bible Story and studying it together and getting feedback.
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cripture Summary: summarize the main idea of what you read.
bservations: Write out everything you observe about the passage.
pplication: Answer the questions, “How does this apply to me?” or “How can I apply this in my life?”
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rayer: End in prayer! This can be out loud, an inward prayer, or even a written prayer journal
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rayer journal about your biggest needs and the content of your heart. This is major key to deeper revelation and inner healing.
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editate on the word or in Priscila Shiers words “Prayerfully Listen” for the direction and clairity from the Lord.
Prayer Walk The simple walk that turned into a powerful moment with God!
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n May I began doing a Prayer Walk with my little dog Monti. This walk would be three miles every evening, and it actually didn’t feel like three miles. I would have my worship music playing or just listening to nature and sounds, but somehow, the more I walked the more peace I began to find on the trails of that walk. My goal wasn’t to pray or to turn it into something spiritual, but it turned there anyway. I began to see God in the details of nature and even in new ways in my life. I saw Him in the way I loved my dog, smiled at the people on the trail, or even when I pushed myself to jog miles. The prayer walk was a time for me to get out of the norm of my schedule and outside in nature. I also would save big pressing issues in my life to address on this walk, and I always got the clarity I needed. I knew this walk was peaceful, but I didn’t know it was powerful until one day after walking that trail for two months, God spoke to me powerfully. He spoke in a way
that had me floored. He revealed a few areas I was struggling in and why. He took me generationally and revealed some pains that my lineage had battled, and now I, too, was battling it. That was the moment when I realized that this was no small gesture of just walking, but it was a meeting ground to meet God. I saw that God took that usual routine and said, now meet me outside, somewhere else. That is going to require you to get uncomfortable for a bit, but I will speak powerfully to you there.
If I would’ve tried to be perfect at the prayer walk, I would’ve missed God. But instead of being perfect, I just tried to go when my schedule permitted me to make it. And now, my body is better, my blood pressure is better, and my legs are looking nicer than they’ve looked in years. Most of all, I meet God outside of my home and busy schedule and that has made a huge difference in my personal walk. Thank God for the Prayer Walk!
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Word from mtj The path that leads to much more than you can think or imagine.
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experienced massive growth in the last few years, growth within my personal life and the ministry. This I’ve learned is that to grow in your life, starts with faith and a new standard for your life. This journey has been like clawing your way out of a pit, and when you get it out, all you can do is praise and shout. That’s exactly where I once was and were I am today. I want you to know that these pictures, this magazine, these initiaves, these contributors and even these resources to do all of this, is the reflection of trusting God at the new standards of life He continued to give me.
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2016 I took this photo in a old church near my college campus. Somehow, this photo was the beginning of me answering the call to ministry and not running from it anymore.
When I first got the idea to do a magazine, all my fears jumped in. I wondered if I could handle another thing on my plate. I wondered if it would be impactful, resourceful and a great addition to the ministry. I had all these doubts and fears, but with faith I did it. Really, I did it with all those questions unanswered. I set a goal, got an intern, and began to brainstorm and create. All this came from an idea and faith, my hope is that this inspires you to push past the fear, to step out of the box of what you are used to and create greatly. The new ideas can be daunting, but with faith and action they can be fun, exciting and just what your life needs for this new season. Embrace Your Ideas and Watch God Work!
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GROWING IN GOD STARTS WITH A WILLING HEART!
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PRAY & CONFESS: Pray in secret to God and confess your struggles, needs and, emotions. Release all your worries.
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DAILY DEVOTION: Read a daily devotional book and or the Bible to help you learn more about God and to get new knowledge that can assist you in the transformation of your life.
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PRAY FOR HELP: Seek help in your struggles. Ask God for divine empowerment to overcome every obstacle in front of you and believe in faith that you will see the power show up in your life.
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ACCEPT THE LOVE OF GOD: Embrace the love and forgiveness God wants to give you and decide to depend on His Love.
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PRAYER JOURNAL: Take time to journal about your thoughts, fears, needs and personal walk with God. This can help you get comfortable with prayer.
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