SHINE MAGAZINE - Issue No. 2 |December 2020

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Amazing Christmas facts for children

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The perfect christmas recipe

Budgeting and Financial Prudence during Christmas

Meet Monica Kagoni

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Editors Note Dear Reader, We are writing to share our deepest prayers and wishes for your health and safety during this challenging time. We also want to acknowledge the strength and resilience of our Mugoiri Girls alumnae community throughout the year 2020 considering the vast effects of Coronavirus Pandemic globally.

Looking at the future both literally and figuratively, you will find that writing continues to become a good solace especially during such times. The theories, ideas, insights, images, concerns, and hopes about the future is what SHINE magazine brings to us for today and the future. The magical experience of that mometnt when a connection is made, when a solution to a tough problem is stumbled upon, when the big picture becomes clear creates the [Aha! Moment] We want you to question. We want you to ponder. And we hope that, ultimately, you’ll understand why we felt it was time to give a more focused step in printing our second edition. As the SHINE evolves to its fullest potential, so should the publication that serves to illustrate that evolution.

There are continued discussions about if and how the magazine could better serve our readers. How could we reflect the experience and impact of today’s global community? Could we tell more stories about alumnae, even as we move from being an alumnae magazine to a GLOBAL magazine? Could we mesh it all together in a way that illustrates and SHINEs relevance in the world beyond the Mugoiri ALUMNAE Community?

We are immensely proud of our second edition of SHINE Magazine. It’s no surprise that media consumption habits have actually been changing for from time to time. With the printed stories we have produced and the artwork showcased, our goal is to ensure our readership increases and is enjoyed across the board. We encourage all of our alumnae to continue supporting this noble quest through purchasing of the printed copies as well as sending articles for review through our email mugoirioldgirls@gmail.com With all of this in mind, we invite our readers to consider their personal preference before opting in or out of the printed magazine through the links sent on the various WhatsApp Alumne groups and across our Social Media pages; Mugoiri Girls Alumnae Group on Facebook with over 2600 Members. If you receive this print issue, your feedback, comments and suggestions will be highly treasured and can be forwarded through our email as earlier stated.

Your decisions in opting for printed copies will help us make better choices for our printing plans as we weigh budget restrictions with readership goals.

As the global landscape continues to change due to COVID-19, we hope this effort will help us engage with all alumnae’s in ways that always consider our connectedness, livability goals and the changing media landscape.

I wish to acknowledge the contributors of the second edition of SHINE Magazine drawn from various alumnae groups by applauding their expertise in different spheres. I also wish to thank the Alumna on our spotlight for the hour of gracing the segment. Scale the heights and be the LIGHT! Merry Christmas to you and your Family, Wishing you a prosperous NEW YEAR 2021!

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table of contents

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MOGA NEWS

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Word Smith

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10 Amazing Facts about Christmas for Children

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Hooked to Books

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How to keep safe this Christmas Season

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Entrepreneurship

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MAIN FEATURE: Alumnae Spotlight

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Parenting Corner

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Beauty & Style

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Women in Business

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Career Compass

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Friends Forever

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Fun Facts – Did you know?

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Financial Times

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Mpishi Nyumbani

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Spiritual Nourishment

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Editorial Team

Contributors

Rachael Steve – Editor Victoria Kamau - Content Editor

Dr. Peris Mburu Frashier Nduta Muiruri Stella Njoroge Freshiah Nyambura Nancy Odhiambo Naomi Wanjiku Maina Shiku Shikuku

Writers Ann Wahito Lillian Thothoi Martha Karita Victoria Kamau Rachael Steve Caroline Mumbi

Designer Ronald Wafula ronaldwafula911@gmail.com

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he 2020 AGM was held on the 21st of November 2020. It was the first time for the association to hold a virtual meeting.

This was the only option given the restrictions by the Covid-19 pandemic as it was not possible for members to congregate physically. Members had to pre-register prior to the day through the provided link.

The AGM was attended by close to 80 members who voted for all the motions and resolutions online as well. Some of the motions passed included: -Adoption of the 2019 Audited accounts as presented by the association’s auditors -Reappointment of the Auditors for an additional year -Approval of the 2021 budget

-A special general meeting to be called within Q1 of 2021 to review and adopt the new constitution.

-Launch of the MOGA Welfare Fund and enrolment to a last expense cover with an insurer to be identified by the Executive Committee Resolutions to allow for a stay in replacement of the Secretary and Assistant Treasurer was also passed. The Assistant Secretary will continue acting in the position of Secretary until the next elections in June which shall be governed by the new constitution.

The meeting was successful and members provided feedback on the affairs of the association which was well received.

MOGA News Development and Social Responsibility Development and Social Responsibility is one of the association’s flagship areas. This area been a less active than others with the last activity being the donation of the Home Science lab cookers in 2018. A meeting was recently held on the 26th November 2020 with the school administration in this regard to evaluate how alumnae can get involved.

In attendance during the meeting was Janet Kahuro – Structural Engineer, Agnes Maina Architect, Margaret Nyutho – Vice Chairperson and Victoria Kamau – Chairperson. The meeting was held with Principal of the School, Contractors on site, Officers from the National Housing Corporation (NHC) who are assisting the school with the use of pre-fabricated technology (EPS Panels), a Structural engineer and the head of the Infrastructure Committee within the Board of Management.

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The association will continue to support the school in this area within the available resources and expertise. Members can also help approach corporate organizations or foundations for assistance in these projects.

A 3-D simulation of the new School gate currently under construction.

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Mentorship Pictures from the recently concluded Mentorship talk by Lady Justice Martha Koome held on the 4th December 2020. In attendance was the Sub-County director of Education, local administration representatives, the Board of Management, MOGA officials, alumnae, among others

“The delicate balance of mentoring someone is not creating them in your own image but giving them the opportunity to create themselves�

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Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens, Bright copper kettles and warm woolen mittens, Brown paper packages tied up with strings, These are a few of my favourite things…

So begins “My Favourite Things”, written by Oscar Hammerstein II and Richard Rodgers, and popularised by the 1965 musical drama film “The Sound of Music” in which Julie Andrew’s character sang her heart out, accompanied by the Von Trapp children.

Raindrops on roses we can relate to… Even whiskers on kittens!

Bright copper Goat heads in brisk boiling soup with a few herbs, Sharp knife and roasted ribs stacked up on my plate, Ugali and kachumbari, and mashed food, These are a few of my favourite things…

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Gadgets, and things and a beautiful fragrance, Barbie dolls, toy cars and expensive watches, Clothes I will wear once, and super high heels, These are a few of my favourite things Uhhh...??

In-laws and uncles and aunties and cousins, Washing up acres and acres of dishes, Dazzled and frazzled all at the same time, These are a few of my…. favourite things???

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Yes, once again the season is upon us and this is the year that we were handed an extreme curve-ball in the form of COVID-19 (don’t ask what happened to COVIDs 1 up-to 18!!) and all its resultant ripple effects in the form of shocked economies, layoffs and reduced work hours hence reduced income, social distancing, sanitising and generally staring suspiciously at anyone who sneezes or coughs!

So, COVID-19 aside, let us talk brown paper packages.

Simple, unassuming, modest.

Even in the bright flashy world we live in, where we are socialised to make our packages as flashy and beautiful as possible, regardless of what is within the package.

The beauty and simplicity of the brown paper package is that it is anonymous and discreet. It makes its way through the world, unbothered by the flash and drama of its glitzier gift wrapped cousins. It is confident in itself because it knows that it carries within it the power to bring joy to both the giver and the receiver.

The brown paper package has a secret – it knows it is only given by those who are compassionate and kind – and it knows it is given to those who are in need, and who will genuinely appreciate it. It knows that its giver wraps up whatever is inside it with thoughtfulness and care. It knows that its receiver opens its up with trembling fingers, eager to see what is wrapped and to rejoice in partaking of what is therein.

And so the brown paper package makes it way slowly but surely around the world.

The brown paper package you send out to others may have flour or sugar or salt or beans or diapers. You will have lovingly assembled it, conscious of the recipient and what they really need. However, consider a different kind of brown paper package.

Consider a brown paper package that you can give to yourself or others in this journey of life. No, it won’t have expensive gadgets or perfume. It won’t have that

gorgeous handbag or those shoes or that dress you thought might look nice.

Consider a brown paper package filled with joy, compassion, humility, forgiveness………. all the wonderful things you can think of; all neatly tied up with generous bows of love. Consider that this is a brown paper package you should give to yourself and others as often as needed – because life can be harsh and unforgiving and it often does tumble one headfirst down the hill. It also often madly gallops one up the mountain! At a moment’s notice! Sometimes at no notice!

Consider that season in and season out, humility, patience, kind-heartedness, compassion, forgiveness, mercy, shared strength, and prayer are wonderful attributes that will always fit in that brown paper package you choose to give to yourself, and share it generously with others!

Have a wonderful festive season and keep the brown paper packages flowing!

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AMAZING CHRISTMAS FACTS FOR CHILDREN Christmas is a fun time especially for children. There are many things we can do as parents to keep children engaged during this festive season. One of the ways is by telling these jolly good Christmas facts to your kids.

We are sure your children will love to know the history of everything that makes Christmas so special!

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Christmas celebrates the birth of Jesus Christ

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Christmas is an annual Christian holiday that celebrates the birth of Jesus Christ. The 25th day of December was chosen to mark His birthday by the Roman Catholic Church years after His death.

And this Christian holiday is celebrated by Christians all over the world.

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Santa Claus was known as Sinterklaas in Dutch For children, Christmas is all about receiving gifts from Santa Claus. But how did Santa Claus come into existence? The character of Santa Claus is based on St. Nicholas. As per a legend, St. Nicholas was a Christian bishop who provided for the poor and needy. He also loved children and enjoyed giving gifts to them secretly. As his story spread, he was called Sinterklaas in Dutch, which later became Santa Claus.

We bet, you didn’t know this fact either!

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Christmas trees were first used by ancient Egyptians and Romans The origin or the use of Christmas trees goes way back to ancient Egyptians and Romans. They used evergreen trees like fir or pine trees, wreaths, and garlands.

And the use of modern Christmas trees started in Germany in the 16th century. Instead of the glitzy decorations that we see on them today, they were decorated with fruits and nuts. Wet bet you didn’t know this interesting fact about the Christmas tree!

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The term ‘Xmas’ simply means Christmas The use of the term ‘Xmas’ dates back to the 16th century. The ‘X’ in the word Xmas comes from the ancient Greek language. In Greek, Christ begins with the letter X. So, Xmas simply means Christmas.

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Santa Claus did not always dress up in red clothes

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Santa Claus initially wore clothes that were in green, purple, or blue.

For many years, this was the common theme for the jolly old man at the North Pole. However, Coca Cola decided to dress him up in colours that match their brand and that stuck. So this is why he is always in red clothes now!

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Santa Claus was known as Sinterklaas in Dutch

The Christmas wreath is representative of the crown of thorns that Jesus wore. Eventually, the colours of Christmas – red, green, and gold were added. Red is said to represent the blood of Jesus, green is supposed to symbolize life, and gold stands for royalty and light. And the evergreen foliage used to make Christmas wreaths symbolises the continuity of life and nature even in the darkest days of winters

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Christmas is also the time of exchanging gifts. People either save up through the year to buy gifts for their friends and family or make the gifts themselves. But do you know which is the largest Christmas present ever given? It is the Statue of Liberty! The Statue of Liberty was gifted by France to the USA as a Christmas gift in the year 1886.

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Christmas stockings are cute, warm, and spacious!

The tradition of nailing Christmas stockings near a fireplace came about in order to help Santa have a place to stuff candies and goodies for bright and cheerful children of the world. It also serves as an endless supply of socks for Santa.

For children, Christmas is all about receiving gifts from Santa Claus. But how did Santa Claus come into existence? The character of Santa Claus is based on St. Nicholas. As per a legend, St. Nicholas was a Christian bishop who provided for the poor and needy. He also loved children and enjoyed giving gifts to them secretly. As his story spread, he was called Sinterklaas in Dutch, which later became Santa Claus. We bet, you didn’t know this fact either!

The biggest Christmas gift was the gift of friendship to the US from the people of France!

The Christmas wreath is a symbol of love and eternal life

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People give Christmas cards to convey their feelings to their loved ones Did you or your kids ever wonder why the holidays of Christmas are referred to as the ‘12 days of Christmas’? Legend has it that the three kings took twelve days to travel to the birthplace of baby Jesus, hence the holidays of Christmas are known as 12 days of Christmas.

Source: Parenting First Cry https://parenting.firstcry.com/articles/21-interesting -facts-and-information-about-christmas-for-kids/

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HOOKED TO BOOKS REVIEWED BY:

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BOOK REVIEW: Rising From Siwano It had been a while since l had had the luxury of reading a book, family demands having taken centre stage in my life, so when the task of reviewing Victoria Kamau's debut book came to me, l was naturally skeptical on my ability to not just review but on finishing the book.

However, on reading the first three sentences from the story "The Donors" l settled into the book, the words flowing like pure silk and l found myself enthralled turning the pages hungrily eager to finish each story.

she brought to all in "Natures Gaffe". The revelation of her plight couldn't have been more shocking! I however wished the author would have delved more into the story.

Wacu's story in "Wacu" stuck with me deeply. A young lady dealt a cruel hand by fate but wanting only to live a normal life, to love, to be free, to be happy but ended up paying a bitter price for that. And who can't identify with the characters in the "The One" which brought a chuckle and a memory or two.

Victoria stories stand out differently one from another with the varying plots quit impressive. In multiplicity, she tells a story of a young man dealing with multiple personality disorders; weaving on to "Red" a story of a maid/servant's silent unwavering loyalty living in the shadows or so we think. Some stories are disturbing and provoking like in "

Only Me" a story of a boy fighting for his place in an ugly painful way. And finally "Rising From Siwano" the song of defiance rising strong from the dark enthrones where monsters reign.

The poems are a welcome surprise each unique in form and poise in their own way telling their own stories in song. The words of wisdom in the inspiring quotes well aligned and full of insight and wisdom. You can visibly see the little colourful stickers on walls, fridge doors, desks a constant reminder to be strong….to rise above.

Truly to quote the author "When life throws us curve balls we should not avoid them but rather lean into them and allow them to lead us to new chapters and seasons of our lives".

“Rising from Siwano” is worth savouring; she is a writer with a strong command of the written word and a knack for storytelling.

Simply but masterfully written "Rising From Siwano” a collection of short stories, poems and inspirational Quotes captures a myriad of voices with nuance and insight. The subjects impressive in their depths and character; young and old; cutting across cultures and eras and with each story so vividly told; you almost live in each one of them.

I was transported to the small village in which the street beggar lived in the story "The Donors" and was moved and pleasantly surprised by the ending of the story. I walked down the familiar river road with the young and naive Millie in "Down River Road" empathising in her innocence and the loss of it all. I feel in love with the beautiful little Zulieka

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HOW TO KEEP SAFE OVER THE FESTIVE SEASON B Y :

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Security Consultant

SECURITY can be defined on military dimensions and non-military threats such as social, economic, environmental, cultural and political threats for instance economic decline, demographic and environmental pressure and resource scarcity.

Security also simply be defined as state of being secure or being free from danger or threat. It is protection from harm while safety is freedom from the occurrence or risk of injury, danger or loss and thus addresses all measures taken to be safe and protected.

Human security refers to freedom from perceived threats to people’s rights, safety or lives. Security thus is equated with peace and prevention of conflict. It’s a condition of not being threatened physically, emotionally or financially and this leaves the definition of security ambiguous.

Sociologists also define crime as violations of specific norms due to weakened bonds and social ties within a society. Crime is viewed as a harmful deviant behaviour that should be handled and punished in accordance with the state's criminal justice system such as police, courts, or correctional services.

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The below crime prevention triangle demonstrates their co-relation and offers a guide in understanding why crimes occurs and how to prevent them. It's notable from the table that Criminals have the desires so your role is to make sure that you do not provide them with the ability or opportunity.

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Festive seasons are also characterized by increased rates of crime and other social disorders.

The concept of crime prevention as argued in the Neighborhood Watch dailies states that for a crime to occur three elements are involved; desire, ability and opportunity.

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This article focuses on security during the festive season by addressing general areas of security concerns, concentrating on various crimes likely to be experienced and ways of removing opportunities of such crimes during this period. These insecurities or crimes can happen within homes, offices or other residential areas, in moving or parked vehicles or in other transit systems. From either of the mentioned areas, the key broader categories of crimes likely to be experi

enced during the festive season includes criminal and civil offences (all crimes prescribed in the penal code). The possible common criminal elements include thefts, assaults/fights, drug and substance use, drunk and disorderly behaviour, burglary/break in, sexual assault, rape, defilement, malicious damage to property, possession of illegal arms and crude weapons, creating public disturbance, arson, robbery with or without violence, fraud, traffic offences, corruption and bribery, Gender Based Violence (GBV), murder among others.

Crime prevention measures aims at attaining a safer community by enhancing perception of security, the altitude and behaviors that help people feel safe.

- On desire, we cannot deter individual from committing crime.

- On ability, we cannot affect the ability of a criminal to commit a crime - On opportunity level we can take appropriate time to prevent crime by removing the opportunity for crime to occur thus breaking the crime prevention triangle.

Another area of security concern is on teenage crimes during the festive season with teenagers being perceived as key perpetrators of these insecurity issues.

Thomson D in “Crime and Deviance: Introduction to Sociology” (2004) argues that there is statistics in crime on correlation of crime rate, age and gender Crime prevention measures aims at attaining a safer community by enhancing perception of security, the altitude and behaviors that help people feel safe.

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- On desire, we cannot deter individual from committing crime.

- On ability, we cannot affect the ability of a criminal to commit a crime - On opportunity level we can take appropriate time to prevent crime by removing the opportunity for crime to occur thus breaking the crime prevention triangle.

Another area of security concern is on teenage crimes during the festive season with teenagers being perceived as key perpetrators of these insecurity issues.

Thomson D in “Crime and Deviance: Introduction to Sociology” (2004) argues that there is statistics in crime on correlation of crime rate, age and gender.

According to him, young people commit more crimes while males commit more crimes than females though this may varies with regions and counties.

Juveniles crimes or delinquency are thus also common during the festive period and this covers all acts that are classified as criminal such as theft, murder attempted suicide, among others and any other acts viewed as unacceptable or also known as status offences such as truancy, running away from home etc. Sub- culture influences juvenile crime and as argued by B. Miller’s (1958) in his theory he describes sub- culture as a certain culture developed in lower class areas around certain focal concerns that differ from dominant cultures.

The common teenage crimes likely to be experienced are such as rape, defilement, drunk and disorderly behaviour, abuse of drugs, shop lifting, vandalism, theft writing graffiti, theft, cattle rustling, possession of illicit small arms and weapons and other forms of violence.

In reference to Marxists and Strain theories, social factors are viewed as forces to commit crime. Causes of teenage crimes can thus be attributed to changes on norms and values due to factors such as poverty, religion, political and cultures and as a result, the “ focal concerns" are exhibited by teens in features such as

Smartness or conning to obtain without hard work Trouble causing to achieve status by law violating behaviour Toughness to prove masculinity through aggression Excitement to avoid boredom through thrill seeking by for instance by involvement in drinking alcohol and sexual activities, Fate (where they are concerned with lack or good fortunes for instance they engage themselves in gambling) Autonomy – resentment of external control or restrictions and conformity to the four features results into teen’s conflict with law and authority.

Suicide and attempted suicide are also common security concerns during festive season as they are a threat to life.

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Thomson D (2004) defines suicide as taking of ones life.

The rates are influenced by geographical regions, age, religious beliefs, race and gender. Individual acts are overwhelmingly influenced by the society with key focus on the level of integration (how people fit into the community) and the level of regulation (how much they are controlled by it) as prescribed by Emile Durkheim (1987) in his book Suicide.

According to sociologists there are various types of suicide that have different causes too.

types of suicide Altruistic suicides. Under this type of f suicide victims believe that the community is more important than their own and thus give their lives for the sake of a bigger causes.

Anomic suicide. Victims under these categories believe on little normative regulations and that there is no societal regulations on individual desires and thus get depressed if they fail to achieve their aspirations maybe due to economic depression etc.

Fatalistic suicide. The victims under this category feel they are overly regulated and have no control over what they do and how they do it. They believe that their life is overwhelmed by someone else in power hence they have no say in their life leading to them committing suicide. For instance suicides in prisons.

Escapists suicide.

This describes suicides committed to escape from something such as grief, loss. For instance, loss from betting Oblative suicide. This has two motives: Sacrifice and transfiguration. Sacrifice suicide aims at protecting or gaining a value higher than the hi victims life e.g the case with suicide bombers in political struggles. Transfiguration aims attaining a state considered to be more delightful such as uniting with a loved one.

Egoistic suicide. This one occurs when victims fail to integrate into social groups or community and thus end up on their own lacking social support.

Ludic suicide. There are two categories of ludic suicide: Ordeal and game. In ordeal one risks his life to prove oneself or solicit judgement from others such proving innocence or one's value while in game one takes chance of his or her life with a sold purpose of playing with his or her life.

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have to remain open are unattended Not entrusting main keys to doubtful people Keep purses, wallets and other valuables in locked drawers, desks, cabinets or rooms or seeking safe storage services from banks among others Avoid walking alone in dark paths or streets or making calls in dark, lone areas/ zones Avoid driving while car windows are open or leave valuable unattended in cars, room, or home compounds Do not leave children unattended either at home or in a vehicle Ensure house or office windows are lockable Investing in modern security in modern security systems such as CCTV”S or alarms Attend social places with trusted friends or relatives and have their contacts just in case of need.

Never leave food and drinks unattended and never accept foods and drinks from strangers Use of trusted or known means of transport such as registered taxis or well-known persons vehicles Clearing of bushes, trimming of fences Marking or branding of items, livestock, equipment’s etc Reporting lost or stolen properties immediately Seeking of counselling services to guide the youth/ teenage, victims of drug abuse and alcohol users Embracing environmental conservation activities such as tree planting Allegation of poverty by factoring social economic and cultural development Noting strangers around acting on suspicious manner while observing clothing’s, height, direction of travel.

If you notice a suspicious vehicle or you get into a taxi, note the descriptions such as registration number, make color and share the information with someone close to you.

In case of any occurrences, report to the nearest police station and provide all the details noted above.

Engagement of the youths/ teens for instance in recreational activities such as sports

ENTREPRENUERSHIP

20 ways of removing opportunities of crime

KEEPING THE ENTREPRENUERIAL SPIRIT ALIVE! A U T H O R : P E R I S M B U R U

December is here, so let’s Dance!

With the festive season beckoning and the Covid-19 pandemic still with us, we have to admit that our new normal has changed our business landscape forever! The last eight months have either been very lucrative or very depressing depending on your reaction to the pandemic.

However, this Covid season that has lasted most of the year should not dampen our entrepreneurial spirit. It is true that there are businesses that have greatly benefitted from their ingenuity and made lemonade out of the lemons in this season.

This is in line with one fundamental truth; successful business MUST keep abreast with the changing customer needs.

Customers are looking to be served in a different way and these businesses have discovered opportunities to leverage their existing skills, financial strength or networks to provide goods or services to meet these needs during the Covid season. I would call these heroes without capes.

Across all industries, there has been opportunities to innovate which remains a key ingredient for all business to stay afloat going forward.

Some businesses have closed.

They have done so due to suppressed demands, understandably.

For instance, boutique owners found themselves with limited demand when we were confined to our houses and couldn’t dress up to go anywhere. Some changed tact and used their existing networks to import PEPs. There are many tactics businesses on the verge of folding stayed afloat e.g. by renegoti

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ating leases, rents, terms with vendors, cost sharing with other business through partnerships or even moving their business back to their homes. All is not lost! The Christmas season heralds a new dawn for business

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MBUZI CHOMA EVERYWHERE

Companies have traditionally gifted their customers during the Christmas and the turnovers associated with this run into millions. This presents a great opportunity for a business to sell or custom make gift items for the corporates and organizations as this tradition won’t change. Companies might even be keener to please their customers as they seek their customer’s support in the coming year as the economy makes a comeback. Have you seen how we scramble to get company calendars in this day and age? I predicted that calendars would be obsolete by now since we carry calendars on our phones, but time has proven me wrong. If you are in the printing business, seize the opportunity.

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A NEW OUTFIT TO PAINT THE TOWN RED New clothes characterize the Christmas season. Deliver your new clothing pieces in the way customers want- online. Even customers who were stuck in habitual shopping patterns are less willing to visit malls that are crowded like Eastleigh due to the risks associated with overcrowding. You must provide convenience and variety needed to satisfy the needs of a whole family. Do not wait until December, get in your stocks now and start advertising.

These are just a few suggestions, but I am sure they are many more.

Just look around you and spot a gap that you can fill. Luckily, consumers are in the spending mode.

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wishing to capitalize on the liberal consumer spending habits that go with the season. Here are just some of the ideas from on top of my head.

And now let us think about the goats that also characterize our Christmas season. A couple of years ago we couldn’t get any goats in Nairobi two days to Christmas day and had to travel to cast our nets wider in the neighbouring Kajiado county. Purchase a herd now, especially if you can find a place to graze them and you’ll be sure to make a killing.

Remember to leverage the online platforms to advertise and sell your herd. Online buying is no longer a novelty.

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TEMBEA KENYA, AFRICA OR THE WORLD! Travels especially local travels are a good business for the season. We have seen hotels filling to capacity after the easing of travel restrictions. Cash in.

These are just a few suggestions, but I am sure they are many more. Just look around you and spot a gap that you can fill. Luckily, consumers are in the spending mode.

- Dr. Peris Mburu Financial Inclusion specialist, passionate about MSMES. Class of 87 P A G E

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ALUMNAE SPOTLIGHT MEET MONICA KAGONI A U T H O R :

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Monica, Welcome to the Alumnae Spotlight segment and we are grateful for the honor you have bestowed on us in acc epting to grace the Alumnae magazine, the spotlight segment. You have made tremendous impact in the media industry by telling the human story as it is. You are indeed a media queen to watch out! The spotlight is now on you‌ Please tell us more about who you are My name is Monica Kagoni, an alumnus of Mugoiri Girls High School, having joined in 2000 and left in 2003.

I was born and raised in Central Kenya, Muranga County. I went to Gaitegi Primary school where I score 450 Marks so as to join my dream school and even if I was not selected to join the school looking at it that I had passed well, am glad I joined Mugoiri Girls. My parents were both teachers and with that you know education was a matter they never took lightly but instilled in us the dripline we deserved to bring out the best in us and for sure we never let them down.

In addition to my focus on my studies, I was a vibrant and devoted Catholic Action [CA] member who took spiritual matters seriously. There are instances where if the priest would not turn up for the school mass, I would take up the role of and lead in prayers. I made sure my fellow students never missed prayers, in case I met some girls washing clothes during prayer times, I would insist that they leave what they were doing and join the rest of us. This did not go well with a number of them.

You said you didn’t end up in your dream school but you are glad you joined Mugoiri, why is that?

I must say I really appreciate what Mugoiri Girls Fraternity was to me for the four years I was there. My morals were well shaped and the place helped me achieve most of my childhood dreams. Just to mention when I was growing up, I once visited a COURTROOM and I admired the magistrate as she was dispensing her duties during a live court session. I also thought of being a lawyer or a doctor at one time. It was in Mugoiri Girls that after much soul searching and support from the teachers that my dream of becoming a journalist was born.

How were your heydays at Mugoiri Girls?

After joining Mugoiri Girls, I happened to join the form class that was studying French as a special subject. For the love of languages, English and French became my most favorite subjects. I remember I scored straight As in my KCSE and they really boosted my overall grade where I attained a B Plain. I loved CRE and Sciences too especially Biology and Chemistry. At this juncture I would actually want to thank my chemistry teacher since were it not for her aggressiveness in ensuring we passed, I probably would not have scored a good grade.

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Do you feel being a devoted Member of Catholic Action contributed to who ou are today?

Oh yes! I would say the greatest percentage of the person I am today was my loyalty to spiritual matters where we were also mentored on different areas of life that affect young girls/ teenagers while in high school. Emphasis on virtues like sex before marriage is a “sin”, keeping away from illegal drugs, saying no to peer pressure and high levels of discipline kept us towing the line whilst we were caution against engaging in societal vices. More focus was geared towards excelling in our studies and participating in co-curricular activities. I thank God that nobody ever introduced us to drugs or boy/girl relationships and I credit this to God for protecting us.

What is your memorable moment while at Mugoiri Girls?

The best moments were during the weekend challenges “meditation moments” that helped us find second chances with God. Huh! … I cannot forget the ‘Zodiac’ illusion moment {We both laugh heartily}, This was a challenging season filled with upheaval and numerous rumours of less than Godly spiritual incidences or so called sightings that scared many and caused havoc throughout the school. Maybe those involved could have been having some hallucinations which are mostly brought about by engaging in drug abuse.

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What is your advice to parents who buy such narratives from their children without any proof?

Before you involve yourself in such matters, it’s good to ask yourself questions instead of just believing one side of the story. It’s always good to get to the bottom-line of the matter and also do your own research before concluding on a matter. I remember some students were sent home after the whole issue was believed to be a hoax.

Students should always remember that school is not a place of luxury but a learning institution.

How was life after Mugoiri?

Having scored a B (Plain) from my personal hard work, I did not make the cut off point for entry into to the University government programme. Though I felt disappointed in a way, I never lost hope.

Through the help of my parents, I applied to study a diploma in Communication at Kenya College of Communication which is the now Multimedia University. After completing my studies there, I landed a one-year internship at Bibilia Husema Broadcasting.

I later secured a job as a presenter with a Catholic Radio Station where I worked for 7 years and had risen to the position of Assistant Director of programs which was purely editorial in line with the policies of the station. I then joined Inooro TV as a news reporter which saw me again rise to the position of a news anchor. In 2018, Mt. Kenya TV saw my potential and invited me over to the new station as the Head of News. It was while there that I started a program POPULARY known as METHA YA KAGONI purely with a drive to change lives by telling the world human stories well told in my mother tongue.

After five months, I left Mt. Kenya TV but this time to create a wider platform for my show which now premiers on YOUTUBE as METHA YA KAGONI official

Who has been your greatest Inspiration in the Media Industry?

Wow! One must be the beautiful Sophie Ikenye, I remember having a cut-out of her photo beside my bed in college as a constant reminder of who I want to be once I finish my studies and secure a job. The second person who inspires me globally is the famous, wealthy Media queen Oprah Winfrey. I really loved her shows those days and would rarely miss to watch her. I loved her style of interviewing different people and I kept telling myself that it was my long-term dream. I thank God today after leaving the media stations that I have previously worked for, my shows on METHA YA KAGONI are taking shape. I must confess I may not be where I want to be but with passion and dedication am assured of getting to higher heights and beyond. Finally, why the focus on human interest stories? My inspiration has always been drawn from the works of charity by the late Mother Teresa who gave up her entire life into changing the lives of the less fortunate across the world.

Monica, I know you have done a number of stories, which one motivates you to keep at it?

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I would say actually all the stories I have aired on my YouTube channel motivate me a lot since human interest stories covers a wide range of issues that face humanity. The health related appeals bring me so much joy by allowing me to tell the social stories in a different way which compels my listeners to come to the aid of those featured. One of those instances is when I told the story of our fellow Alumna Rachael Gikonyo who was a victim of terror attack at Garissa University. Seeing her life change many days after the attack put a smile to her and her family as a way of restoring hope.

How is it being a lady in an industry that is male dominated?

I believe in approaching life not as a woman but as someone who want to make a difference. Resilience is key as a staying power.

How do you deal with persons who want ‘favors’ so that they can give you information?

They are there especially when seeking jobs in the industry. I have never encountered such and I believe one should always believe in her potential instead of taking a short-cut.

Your NO should be No. These are some of the values I was taught in Mugoiri Girls. Your morals and values should speak for you.

Media personalities and lifestyle. Many try to or we see they live a flashy lifestyle. Is the pressure to live a flashy lifestyle real?

Being in Media is just like any other profession.

Societal expectations have seen some make wrong decisions because they either want to live in posh estates, drive flashy cars and many other things. I have never seen it as a crime taking a matatu to Githurai 45 to buy some groceries. All I want to say is we need to live within our means without self or societal pressure. Media jobs can be unpredictable.

Should Media personalities keep their private lives away from the public limelight?

Doctors don’t go telling their private lives to their patients nor mechanics do go shouting about their families to their clients. Why should I?

What’s your view about training to be a media professional? Is it necessary?

Yes! Training refines you. One need training so as to learn things like the art of interviewing, media laws among others.

Anyone interested in becoming one should enroll in a training course to improve your skills and becoming more knowledgeable. I have recently enrolled for my degree course that I will be starting soon.

I can see you have donned a beautiful purple hoodie with Metha ya Kagoni inscriptions, tell us more is it merchandise or Staff wear?

Just to mention this jumper is part of our brand visibility strategy, and we will be availing them soon with laptop bags at a fee to all our listeners across the globe.

Parting Shot!

Dreams are valid and the only person who can limit your dreams is yourself.

Dare to dream, you will achieve your dream through God and handwork. Again, never get to the media industry for the wrong reasons, have a purpose.

Media jobs are just like any other careers; we get broke, take loans, we go through life challenges and the job can be short-lived. We too are human and not gods.

Monica, it has been awesome speaking to you.

Thank you for taking time to share with us. We wish you the very best as you scale up the heights.

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UNDERSTANDING THE FACTORS THAT DETERMINE CHILD CUSTODY AFTER A DIVORCE N A O M I

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Divorce Cases tend to be emotionally draining for the parties involved and their families. If there are children involved, custody and the maintenance can be a nightmare especially if the parties are bitter and unable to communicate. They are delicate issues that if handled badly can be traumatizing for parties and the children.

It is important to note at this stage that Divorce cases only involve the partners. A divorce is handled on its own while matters involving children including parental agreements, upkeep and custody are determined by the Children’s Court. This also means that for a couple with children under the age of 18, two Cases would be going on within the same period of time.

According to the law, all decisions touching on the children must be made “in the best interest of the children”. Therefore, Courts may make a decision that is best for the children but which leaves both or one of the parents unhappy.

Sometime this year a video was shared widely within Social Media in Kenya depicting a child screaming her lungs out, holding onto the father as her mother looked, helplessly.

Apparently, the 10-year-old girl was protesting the Courts decision which had granted custody to her mother!

Whilst this narrative was later reported to be untrue, it raised a serious debate about Custody Cases and how they are handled by our courts.

Some people accused the Courts of mistreating men who want Custody while others were of the view that the Courts award custody of the children to men who are financially stable, especially if the mother is a housewife.

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The big question that went answered was…Do the children have a say in all this?

The Court, in making the decision on Custody looks at several factors. These include the agreement by the parents, the character and financial ability of the parties as well as the wish of the children if they are old enough to understand and choose. Opinions of children above 11 years are sometimes sought if the matter is very acrimonious.

However, the overriding factor is the best interest of the children.

According to the law, both parents have a right to participate in the lives of their children and make major decisions regarding their education, religion and general wellbeing.

This is irrespective of whether the parents are divorced or they never got married at all.

Custody of children considered to be of minor years is usually granted to the mother. This is not cast on stone and there are circumstances where the mother may be deprived of Custody if it is demonstrated that she is not capable of carrying out parental duties for various reasons e.g. due to her character or if she is an alcoholic, or of unsound mind or has abandoned them in the past.

The fact that she is not financially stable is not a factor in denying her Custody. Therefore, there are numerous cases where fathers have been given Custody of young children.

Having Legal Custody does not

exclude the other parent. The ideal arrangement is that the parent who has Legal Custody stays/lives with the children but the other party gets visitations rights. For example, if the children are of school going age, the other parent may take them over the school holidays.

Whatever the circumstance that lead to separation of the parents, it is important to approach custody issues with sobriety. Some parents have at times used the children to punish the other which in the long run ends up hurting the wellbeing of the very children they claim to love and protect.

Finally, it also important to note that custody can be given to other parties if it is established that the parents are unable to take care of the children e.g. grandparents or other relatives.

If a custodian of the children dies, the surviving parent does not automatically take Custody.

The Court will decide depending on the circumstances of the case. Should you require assistance in handling a Divorce or a custody case, it is of paramount importance to seek appropriate legal counsel.

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You Influence Your Child the Most A U T H O R :

Parenting is no small feat. While for some being called a Mom or Dad is a miracle -they waited, prayed and even fasted for - for others it just happened ‘accidentally’. Whichever part of the divide you find yourself, the question begs; is there a blue print available for parents raising children or is it a trial and error experience? With the dynamics of single parenting coming to play, the challenge becomes even bigger. Is the single mother/father obliged to reveal the other parent to the child (ren)? If yes, at what age? If no, what impact does that have on the child?

Examine the case of a lady who went looking for the father when she was in her twenties. The father denied being the biological parent and the Lady fell into depression. She ended up getting pregnant with a married man.

What about when separation or divorce happens? How are the children to be handled? Just as it’s hard for the two parties, it’s even harder for the children.

It is a clear fact that most people out here are still suffering from childhood wounds. Does a father who drinks and then becomes violent in the house know the kind of effect that has on his children 15, 20 or even 30 years down the line? Do the parents who quarrel and throw bitter words at each other and even turn physical at each other as the children watch realize the impact of such actions?

Psychologists have observed that children from troubled homes have issues like self-esteem and rejection.

Girls who grew up watching their father beat the mother have a higher chance of falling in the same hands.

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A boy who grew up witnessing the same has a higher chance of making his own wife a punching bag because that is probably the only ‘conflict resolution’ method he knows.

Another dynamic is absentee parenthood. In cases where work demands long hours away from home, this is a very delicate balance. The parent is left with the choice of turning every moment spent with the child into quality time. It is a well-established fact that the person who spends the most time with the child in their formative years becomes the primary parental figure because of the strong bond created. Who spends most time with your child? Is it the house help, aunt or grandmother?

That is why you find that in most cases, children who are brought up by their grannies find jelling with their parents hard. In cases where there is no choice but to leave the child (ren) for long periods, the parent must be intentional in ensuring that the little time spent together is memorable.

Did you know that as a parent your choice of faith affects your child as well? Do you take your relationship with God seriously?

Do you take your children to the house of God? I know issues of faith are sensitive but truth be told, there is an eternity waiting.

In bringing this discussion to a close, let us remember that children learn better by observation ….whatever you model knowingly or unknowingly impacts on them greatly.

A practical example is how you talk. Your children will most likely pick up your lines. That reminds me of those parents who keep calling their children idle names like foolish. Do you know how much power your words as a parent hold? Don’t be shocked if they turn out to be exactly what you called them.

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SKIN AND HAIR CARE REGIMEN BY SHIKU SHIKUKU of Shishi Naturals

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cleansing This is basically cleaning the face. Most of the commercial soaps found on supermarket shelves are not designed for our sensitive facial skin. They contain lathering agents and surfactants that are not good for the skin. So for your precious face, choose a mild soap; for example, most handcrafted soaps like goat milk soap, turmeric soap, African black soap, moringa soap. These are some of the few examples that are great for your face. Goat milk for example works well with extremely dry skin, so people with eczema find it soothing.

While African black soap treats most skin conditionsit is drying, so it is best suited for oily skin. People who have dull skin will find turmeric soap good for brightening the skin.

Is it true that the quality of your skin tells a lot about your effort to take care of your skin and hair? This may be fair for those who splash water on their faces and apply petroleum jelly or that milking jelly yet they have spotless, smooth faces. And unfair to those who have 5 or more products to apply on their problem skin. Those who have breakouts/acne know the struggle, those with dermatitis or eczema know the frustration too well.

Here is a simple break down on how to take care of your skin.

First of all, if you have any issues with your skin and your stash of products is not working, you need to go for a consultation either with a Dermatologist or a skin care products formulator.

The other option is getting a facial cleanser which is formulated with ingredients that nourish the skin no matter what your skin type is. Shishi Naturals has a face wash (cleanser) that is made with salicylic acid, black soap, carrot seed oil and vitamin E oil which are great for the skin.

Cleansing tip: If you use make up, its easiest to put some oil like jojoba oil, coconut oil, avocado oil, remove the make-up then cleanse the face.

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This process removes dead skin that builds up over time. A mask is one way of exfoliating. There are chemical exfoliates in the market but you can also use various masks from clays like bentonite clay, kaolin clay and natural spices like turmeric, other powders used are sandalwood commonly known as liwa, activated charcoal and natural honey and bee propolis. Masking is done twice to thrice a week.

Once the face is cleaned off all the dirt and impurities, it is important to tone the skin in order to restore the skin’s PH. There are many toners in the market; some are in gel form and some are water like. What you need to look out for is a toner that has no alcohol on the ingredient list because it is drying. The best Toner is ROSEWATER. It also makes it easier to apply a moisturizer or serum. So don’t skip the toning stage.

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SUNSCREEN Most of us overlook sunscreens but to prevent your skin from sun damage, which leads to hyperpigmentation and pre-mature ageing of the skin, always wear your sunscreen. If you wear make-up, apply it over the sunscreen.

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MOISTURIZE This is where you apply your oil of choice. With the advent of serums, it is recommended to apply a serum first. A serum is a concentrated liquid that has nutrients that nourish your skin.

For example, if you have dull skin, you need to apply Vitamin C serum after toning then apply a moisturizer. If you have oily skin that has breakouts and acne, Niacinamide serum will sort you out, or any face serum that has Niacinamide and Vitamin E oil.

Serums like hyaluronic acid are great for hydrating dry skin. If you use eye cream, apply after the serum.

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PRE-POO This is pre-shampoo in full. It means you apply certain oils to your hair before shampoo to nourish the hair and avoid the hair losing its natural oils. Oils like castor oil, avocado oil, coconut oil, are a few examples. This can be done the night before or an hour before shampooing the hair.

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CLEANSE This is where you clean the hair using shampoo. Key to note is that you should use a sulphate-8free shampoo. Most of our salons do not use those because they’re pricier, but you can purchase your own.

We formulate a shampoo with African black soap, moringa oil among other ingredients to ensure that we give you that organic element while choosing a sulphate-free, natural shampoo.

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CONDITION/DEEP CONDITION/TREATMENT Once your hair is clean, use a conditioner which basically detangles the hair in a few minutes or a deep conditioner which you apply, wear a shower cap and sit in a steamer for 30 minutes or stay out in the sun. The heat activates the deep conditioner.

A moisturizing deep conditioner feeds your hair the necessary nutrients and makes it soft and easy to comb.

Every 6 weeks, it’s important to follow this process with a deep protein treatment. In case of hair breakage, it reconstructs the hair and overall gives hair strength.

This entirely depends on you.

Remember if you have a weak hairline, avoid braids and holding your hair in buns or even weaves or any style that pulls at your hairline.

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MOISTURIZE Healthy natural hair thrives on moisture retention. At this point, it is recommended to layer the different moisturizers and oils. This method is referred to as LOC Method.

L-leave-in-conditioner, O-oil like avocado oil, coconut oil, moringa oil, or a combination of liquid oils.

C-cream is used to seal in moisture.

So you can use shea butter, hair food/cream. To make this process easier, put the leave in conditioner, water and oils of choice in a spray bottle. Water should be 80% of the mixture. Or simply buy a hair mist.

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Women in BUSINESS

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My name is Wairimu Njoroge, I am a proud Mugoiri Alumnae, Year 2005. I am a Woman in Business, a HR Consultant to be more specific running Stella HR Solutions.

I was lucky to start my career early at the age of 19 years. I would say that Human Resources chose me since at the time I did not know what I wanted to be in the future. I was just a young girl who was at the time pursuing a Diploma in Business Management, evening classes at University of Nairobi where I met my 1st employer who was a classmate. My curiosity and eagerness to learn is what intrigued her.

Later on, I completed a Higher Diploma in HR and a Bachelor's degree (BCOM) and majored in HR. 10years later, I felt I had grown in my career having worked in several companies including the Oserian Flower Firm, which had the most impact.

It was my training ground with more than 4000 employees at the time.

I started my consultancy with a laptop at home late in 2017. Business is like a small baby. It requires a lot of attention, persistence and passion. I have grown as a person, enhanced my networks and grown my organization. The sky is not the limit and for people starting their own business don't lose hope. Keep the faith!!

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7 Tips of Managing High Potential Employees When it comes to making sure your high potential employees don’t quit on you, it is important for you to devise new ways to keep motivating them. Your job as HR is not simply to hire and fire. A lot more goes into managing employee wellness within the organization, ensuring there is a little turnover as possible. Now, the thing you need to know about high potential employees (or HiPos) is that they are always at a high risk of leaving your company for greener pastures because they know their value. So how do you make sure they remain loyal to your company? Here are 7 proven tips you can use;

#1 Invest in their professional development You can make sure your HiPos are growing in their careers by holding training on a career or professional development for them. Remember that as their careers grow so will your company. Say for instance you have identified you HiPo is very skilled in Sales, hold a sales seminar that will serve to further improve their selling skills. Also, include an employee recognition event!!

#2 Task them with more challenging and exciting roles The last thing you want is to immerse your HiPos in tasks that are mediocre

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career compass and do not seem to challenge their potential in any way. You must know that HiPOs are highly energized people with a lot of new and fresh ideas that will be bound to grow your company. Therefore, always give them additional roles that will stretch them and explore their hidden talents. This may entail revising their job descriptions now and then for more duties that lie in their areas of strength.

#3 Pair them with a mentor of their choice Mentorship can never be over-rated. More often than not HiPos already know the basics to succeed in their careers such as the relevant knowledge, skills, and experience. They often believe they are don’t really need any other form of validation except that which they have.

And the danger with this is that their value can go to their heads and cause them to be glorified cows! Opps!!

Let’s just say get in to their head. This is where a solid mentor needs to come in to become an extra voice of reason and push to encourage HiPos and make sure their priorities are right and know where they are headed career-wise.

#4 Conduct quarterly performance reviews As opposed to waiting for the year’s end to review performance, why not do it

quarterly? The benefit of doing this is that it enables you to assess four times a year certain areas you may have overlooked and re-organize your objectives. This will also make your employees feel like they matter to the company and are valued.

#5 Monetary incentives

Money is actually not what keeps HiPos loyal to the company. The best way to appreciate them is to offer monetary incentives to keep them motivated. Whether it’s a bonus, a pay rise etc It will go a long way in increasing their loyalty.

#6 Action learning

Action learning is a good and effective tactic to use when you want to manage the HiPo’s in your company.

Identify a problem or a situation in which you want the HiPo’s to be involved indirectly and allow them to put into play their ideas

#7 Skills gap

This is not just about identifying their skills in terms of where the company is at the moment. For instance, as the company grows, you might realize that there will be a demand for certain skills set in 5 years. At that point, you may need to plan for how your HiPo’s will gain the required and relevant skills needed in the next few years.

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Purity and Wacera have been friends for 20 years. We sort to find out more about how their beautiful friendship blossomed - Purity Says

In addition to my focus on my studies, I was a vibrant and devoted Catholic Action [CA] member who took spiritual matters seriously. There are instances where if the priest would not turn up for the school mass, I would take up the role of and lead in prayers. I made sure my fellow students never missed prayers, in case I met some girls washing clothes during prayer times, I would insist that they leave what they were doing and join the rest of us. This did not go well with a number of them.

How did you sustain your friendship after high school?

Another wonderful coincidence was the fact that we were both studying for the same course which is Nutrition. So we shared a lot including becoming study partners.

As we have moved in life, we have built on our friendship in various ways from conducting similar projects (job wise), investments, travelling, double dates. We are always there for each regardless of whether the moments are happy or sad. Washe (as she is fondly known) will always be there with me.

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Hard times come to us all.

Have you experienced any and how was Washe there for you?

Being there in good and bad days, birthdays, travelling together etc makes this union more of a sisterhood than a friendship.

We met in 2001 in Form 1 at Mugoiri Girls, Newton class. Wacera had just joined us from another school in second term.

After high school we didn't have each other's contact, so we lost touch after 2004. Like they say, God always works things out so by sheer coincidence, we bumped into each other in 2008 in Westlands. We were both in campus at the time. We exchanged contacts and from there we started hanging out over the weekends. She was in Kenyatta University whilst I was at the University of Nairobi. We would go out for lunch dates, movies etc.

- Honesty - Dependability - Transparency - Loyalty

Yes....when I lost a loved one....she was there throughout.

She even came and spent some time at home (Nyeri). She has visited me many other times when I just needed someone to talk to.

We met in 2001 in Form 1 at Mugoiri Girls, Newton class. Wacera had just joined us from another school in second term.

How did you sustain your friendship after high school?

What qualities do you most admire about her?

What makes Washe a good friend?

Washe is a good friend...she is reliable and quite loyal. If she loves you, she loves you! She is generous, kind and will always be there. She is very very dependable and honest.

We will hook up for just a loud laugh. If there is any emotion turmoil or one of us comes across a good deal somewhere, you be assured that we will work through it together. Washe is also always 100% transparent.

What funny incidents have you experienced together?

That we will be friends forever, sisters by choice. We plan to do some businesses together. We have already done some investments together so in future we will be neighbours and so we won’t have to chat all night on phone. We will just knock on each other’s doors!

May God keep us long enough being healthy and strong to be able to tick off our bucket lists.

From that day in 2008...we haven't stopped talking....daily!

Which of her weaknesses do you dislike the most?

She can really take a hard stand on something and won't change her mind easily.

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We consider each other as sisters from different mothers.

Purity is a kind, genuine, generous and great soul who has the best intentions at heart.

Hard times come to us all.

Have you experienced any and how was Purity there for you?

Yes, hard times are part of life and growth. One of the difficult times for me was I was jobless for a period of time. Purity encouraged me to see what’s in store in the future. She referred me to job opportunities and opened my mind to view life in a different and witty way.

What qualities do you most admire about her?

Yes, hard times are part of life and growth. One of the difficult times for me was I was jobless for a period of time. Purity encouraged me to see what’s in store in the future. She referred me to job opportunities and opened my mind to view life in a different and witty way.

Which of her weaknesses do you dislike the most?

Her weakness is her strength. She is brutal with the truth…she never sugar coats it!

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Oh my where do I start? These ones can fill a memoir. In Mugoiri during morning preps, we were always being punished as we were never early risers.

Our sense of style is also very similar and many times we find ourselves wearing similar things even without previously discussing.

Another one is our taste buds which are quite traditional. We are never thrilled by exotic dishes. The first time someone bought her pizza, she threw it away! When she finally agreed to give it a try, she gave me a call on how fantastic it was and we have never looked back. We are yet to try burgers though!

What do you hope for her and your friendship in the years to come?

May all her desires be met by the good Lord.

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Washe Says….

What funny incidents have you experienced together?

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FUN FACTS

by: Caroline Mumbi

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1. Mona Lisa has no eyebrows 2. Women blink nearly twice as much as men 3. A snail can sleep for 3years 4. Most Lipstick contains fish scales 5. Wearing headphones for an hour will increase bacteria in your ear 700 times

6. What do bullet proof vest, fire escapes, windshield wipers and laser printer have in common? They were all invented by women!

7. Coca-Cola was originally green 8. People say 'Bless you' when you sneeze

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Financial times Co-authored by Eunice Macharia and Frashier Muiruri Class of 2019.

Budgeting and financial prudence during Christmas It is impossible to discuss financial prudence and personal financial management without discussing the discipline of budgeting. Budgeting is an account of the use of money by a person in a period of time. Budgeting is a term commonly known and casually used in conversations but rarely put into action. There is no paramount time to try and actualize budgeting than this Christmas season. We all agree that in light of the global pandemic, 2020 has evidently disrupted the usual personal financial plans. This disruption calls for adjustment more so during the upcoming Christmas season. Definitely, this is the right time to relook at real value derived from our usual Christmas activities in relation to the amount available. Life always offer alternatives and our selection of one automatically means foregoing the others.

Over the years, our usual Christmas festivities which include family vacations – locally or internationally, travelling upcountry, shopping … just to mention but a few might not be viable anymore in the prevailing pandemic situation. Either due to limited money or even location inaccessibility of say, the travel destinations. That said, it does not mean that P A G E

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we should not explore other fun-activities. We can enjoy the year 2020 Christmas but with financial prudence. Of course we have a lot to be grateful! I mean, 2020 has been tough to all of us. The normal things we knew best like shaking hands, hugging, gatherings, visiting our parents in upcountry at some point became forbidden and strange. See, through it all, we have come thus far and adapted to new normal in many ways.

Let’s explore some ways in which we can have fun with the constrained pockets.

Find budget friendly alternative activities to engage in. The key objective here is to connect with our loved ones and get maximum value on a budget.

Instead of travelling upcountry as is the norm, you can have your family come over to the city and do a few activities. At this time the fare to travel to the city is cheaper. Some of the activities include, a picnic, family photoshoot or even do an overnight staycation. In doing this, ensure minimal interaction with the technology

in order to derive quality one on one physical connection.

Before settling down on an activity, be realistic with the available resources to avoid overspending. Avoid emotional/impulse purchases. Be rational with your purchases and only focus on your actual needs.

Throughout the season, keep in mind January 2021 bills and other financial obligations. Now that we have mentioned January 2021, this could be a suitable time to have a candid self-reflection on over-indulging in Christmas season then grumbling all the way through the ’90 days of Njaaanuary”. Without a doubt, the global pandemic has made most of us realize the bitter truth that, occasionally in the past, we have lived for others. Spending on that expensive dress, car, drink, vacation was to please our mates, to belong, to be ranked higher.

This tough season has helped us acknowledge that we can survive without extravagance.

As we celebrate this Christmas season amidst the global pandemic, let’s formulate a budget, stick to it, observe COVID-19 protection measures and find most enjoyment in the littlest of ways.

Happy Christmas season from us SHINE

mpishi Nyumbani What is Christmas Stollen?

Christmas stollen, known in Germany as Christollen, is a rich, dense, sweet bread filled with dried fruit, candied citrus peel, marzipan or almond paste, and nuts. It hails from the city of Dresden, Germany, where it was first produced in the late 1500s.

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Instructions

You will need the following ingridents : -

1. Warm the Milk and add the yeast

Milk - 90ml Yeast - 30gr Flour - 375gr Sugar - 55gr Butter - 185gr Salt - 1/2tsp Egg - 1pc Butter( for Finishing 30gr)

2. Sieve 125gr of the flour and add 2tsp of the sugar. Mix with the yeast mixture to a smooth paste 3.Cover and let it rest for 40min until it doubles 4. Place the remaining flour, sugar, salt, Egg & Butter in a bowl and make a rough

*Stollen Filling* Ground Mixed Spice Mixed Peels - 100g Glazed Cherries - 50g Almonds - 50gr Raisin - 160gr Rum - 2tbsp Marzipan - 250g Icing Sugar for Dusting

5. Finally add the proved yeast mixture to the Dough and mix until Smooth.

6. Add the Fruit filling, knead and let it rest for 1 hr.

7.Take your Marzipan, Roll into a log and put in between your Dough.

8. Pre heat the Oven as you lightly brush the beaten eggs to the Dough 9. Bake for 35-45 minutes untill it's well risen and golden Brown 10. Remove from Oven and Brush in the Melted Butter while still hot.

11. Dust the Icing Sugar and can be served a day after the preparation

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Spiritual NOURISHMENT The Urgency of Kingdom Work A U T H O R :

1 Samuel 21:8

“…the king’s haste” (ESV)

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John 9:4

“We must quickly carry out the tasks assigned us by the one who sent us. The night is coming, and then no one can work,” (New Living Translation).

I have heard a good number of Christians saying that they don’t have gifts and so they have nothing much they do in the house of God. I disagree. Why? If that was the case, why would Jesus utter the words in the above quoted scriptures in the book of John?

I am here to let you know categorically that there is something that God has deposited in your life. Something so precious for this world. You don’t have to be that gospel musician or preacher; you could be a person who just brings hope to the lives of people by your words. That is a great gift! What is it that troubles you most and you feel action should be taken? Then right there could be what God is calling you to do. You could be a person who is really touched by people who are hurting in different ways, like those without food. That could mean you are gifted in the mercy ministry. In whatever God has called you to, this is the time to trust God for ideas and resources to step out and act.

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Personally, apart from singing, every time I see street children all over my heart bleeds. 2018 remains one of my most memorable years because God gave me an opportunity to get one teenage boy from the street. I didn’t have the money or a place where I could take him, but I took his story and highlighted it on my facebook wall and I raised enough money to help him get out. Imagine, just like that! help him get out. Imagine, just like that!

The closer we get to the end of time, the more urgent the Kingdom business is. Why? The devil is at work seeking to get as many to his side as possible (1st Peter 5:8)! Anyone who does not agree that we are living in the last days is burying their heads in the sand. The signs of the end of days as stipulated by Jesus in Matthew 24:1-35 are so clear in our days. What of the many false prophets in our days?

What of the love of many growing cold? We see it all the time in the news; senseless, merciless murders. We need to arise strongly and be the light of this world. Jeremiah 48:10, “Cursed are those who refuse to do the LORD’s work...”

The world is suffering from a bad cancer and we Christians

carry the cure. Why? Because we carry Jesus in us who is the answer to all the questions and issue of life (1 John 4:4). You are not small, you are well able to be used of the Lord. In a time when earthly companies are laying off workers, the Kingdom of heaven is hiring. Arise and be counted. Matthew 9:37; “He said to his disciples, “The harvest is great, but the workers are few,” New Living Translation. What is the qualification? 2 Timothy 2:20-21 “Now in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and silver but also of wood and clay, some for honorable use, some for dishonorable. 21 Therefore, if anyone cleanses himself from what is dishonorable, he will be a vessel for honorable use, set apart as holy, useful to the master of the house, ready for every good work,” English Standard Version.

Go ahead and shine for the glory of God in your generation!

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