Parenthood IQ Spring 2019

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“THANKS TO EVERYONE WHO CONTRIBUTED TO THESE PROGRAMS. IT’S REALLY HAVING A POSITIVE INFLUENCE ON STUDENTS. WE WANT TO CONTINUE TO SUPPORT THESE STUDENTS--WITH YOUR HELP!” For more information on how you can help, email amylee@seahawksupportcircle.com or HHIHSPTSO@gmail.com

Frozen Banana & Tiger Butter Chocolate Bites MAKES ONE DOZEN BITES 2 bananas 1/4 cup Original Tiger Butter 1/4 cup vegan chocolate chips 1 tsp coconut oil

1. Slice the bananas into 1/4 inch thick slices.

2. Spoon the Tiger Butter into a sandwich bag and snip off a 1/2 inch opening from the one of the bottoms corners to make a piping bag.

Pipe about 1/2 a teaspoon of Tiger Butter onto half of the the banana slices. Sandwich the TigerButter with another slice of banana and place on a parchment-lined baking sheet.

Freeze the banana bites for 1 hour.

3. After 1 hour, melt the chocolate and coconut oil in a small bowl by microwaving it in 15 second increments until melted, stirring well in between each increment.

4. Use a fork to dip the banana bites into the chocolate until well coated. Place the bites back onto the parchment-lined baking sheet.

Freeze the banana bites until the chocolate has set. Store the bites in the freezer for up to one month.

MUST READS

7 56 ADVICE 7 ASK WHITNEY: Parenting Advice from a Local Family Therapist

EXPECTING 8 HYPNOBIRTHING® Every day, more women are stepping away from the cultural belief that childbirth has to be a painful and scary event.

LITTLE 12 ON THE MENU: Tips for Starting Babies on Solid Foods Have questions about when and how to start feeding your child beyond the bottle? Get tips from the experts.

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16 BOOKWORM: Tips to Help Your Child Enjoy Reading In today’s world of Instagram, YouTube and video games, it can be hard to get kids interested in books.

Here’s how to do it!

18 ADVENTURE BEGINS: With marshes, beaches, and forests, the Lowcountry offers plenty of nature for kids to explore. Here are a few places in Beaufort County to check out!

TIME TO EAT: Tips for Starting Babies on Solid Foods

Welcome to Parenthood IQ

The Lowcountry is a special place to raise kids. We are happy to be your guide.

TABLE OF CONTENTS - SPRING 2019 -

50 EVENTS From Charleston to Jacksonville and in between, with a special focus on Easter.

54 STELLAR KIDS Who’s doing great things?

These Stellar Kids are.

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56 PLAYGROUNDS & PARKS Play here!

50 PARENTING

22 FLOAT TIME: Outside Foundation Helps Put Kids In Kayaks The Outside Foundation allows students “to learn about nature in nature.”

40 CAN I GET A LITTLE HELP? How to outsource the tasks that steal your time. Managing your home using apps and electronics.

26 | SUMMER CAMPS Get all the summer camp info here. A full, comprehensive list of opportunities throughout the Lowcountry.

42 HILTON HEAD Hilton Head comes to life in the spring and summer! Enjoy these opportunities!

32 | PARTY PLANNING Spots to celebrate your child’s next birthday.

TEEN 36 JUNIORS PREPPING FOR COLLEGE Think college admissions is just for high school seniors? Think again!

There are plenty of things you can do now during your junior year to help prepare you for the college admissions process.

58 DINING W/ KIDS/ FAMILY FRIENDLY RESTAURANTS You aren’t bound to stay in all the time. Join some of the Lowcountry’s best kid-friendly restaurants and enjoy something for everyone!

63 FARMERS MARKETS OF THE LOWCOUNTRY Where can you get the best eggs, meat, and produce in the Lowcountry?

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44 BLUFFTON What to do with kids in Bluffton.

46 BEAUFORT An insider’s guide to festive Beaufort.

47 SAVANNAH Having fun in Savannah.

48 LOWCOUNTRY AUTISM FOUNDATION Ales for Autism and other things the Lowcountry Autism Foundation can do for you!

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WELCOME TO PIQ! KIDS ARE MESSY...PARENTING DOESN’T HAVE TO BE.

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ondering what this is? Who we are?

We are ParenthoodIQ. We are a team of teachers, marketing professionals, entrepreneurs, and PARENTS! YOU are PIQ! PIQ is a quarterly publication that will be your GO TO resource for all things parenting: expectant parents, littles (ages 0-2), middle-aged kids (3-8), tweens (ages 9-12), and teens (ages 13-19).

While we will publish quarterly in this handy digest format (highly portable--we suggest you throw it in your bag!), you can ALWAYS find us online at parenthoodiq.com or via social media on Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest.

friendly restaurants. We love to talk about nutrition, fitness and wellness, exploring nature, and the “best of” a variety of things: books, movies, apps, you name it.

In this issue, we will focus on HypnoBirthing®, when to start your child on solid foods, the Lowcountry Autism Foundation and what it can offer you. And we want to hear from you!

What do YOU want us to cover and feature? What do you wish you’d known before becoming a parent in the Lowcountry?

ParenthoodIQ: The Lowcountry's most reliable family resource. Relatable.

Current. Local.

FOUNDER

Marc Frey marc@mediamarketingteam.com CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER Meredith DiMuzio meredith@mediamarketingteam.com CONTENT CURATOR Kate Vermilyea kate@parenthoodiq.com CREATIVE DIRECTOR Kelly Spinella BRAND AMBASSADORS Karrie Comeau Karrie@mediamarketingteam.com Heather Edge heather@mediamarketingteam.com CONTRIBUTORS: Whitney Hughes Susannah Winters Jean Fruh Melinda Copp Dean Rowland Amy Coyne Bredeson Deena Paradiso Sophia Townes Kate Vermilyea CONTRIBUTORS: David Chacon Caleb Watkins

We’re so glad you’re here!

We will highlight your kids.

We will talk about sports, camps, schools, and family-

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EMAIL US AT:

parenting@parenthoodiq.com address 14 Westbury Park Way, Suite 200, Bluffton 29910 offices 843.384.4488 web parenthoodiq.com

Ask Whitney

Parenting Advice from a Local Family Therapist Q: Our four year old son has started having nightmares several times a week.

His grandfather, who he was close to, died recently. My son has never had nightmares before and says they are not about his granddad. Should we be concerned? How can we help him?

A: I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a grandparent can be a confusing and painful event and a big adjustment for a young child. Although nightmares are distressing and upsetting to both you and your child, they are quite common in young children.

Our brain has many ways of processing what we experience throughout our day. I would encourage you to offer kind reassurance and empathy. Helping your child feel safe both emotionally and physically at night and throughout the day is essential.

Creating a calm, relaxing evening routine is important. Limit screen time, practice breathing exercises, offer extra snuggle time and plenty of space to talk about the nightmares. Using art and movement are also great ways to outwardly work and process scary things in our lives such as nightmares. If the nightmares/stress increase, you may want to reach out to a therapist specializing in Play/Art Therapy for further support.

Q: I caught my 16 year old daughter and her best friend smoking pot in the woods behind our house. What is an appropriate punishment and should I tell the friend’s family? They are extremely strict and I don’t know them well.

A: This type of experience definitely puts you, as the parent, in a difficult situation.

For starters, smoking and possessing marijuana in the state of South Carolina is illegal, so it would be your responsibility to tell the other teen’s parents. You could also come up with a plan to help the best friend tell her parents on her own if possible. There are a lot of unknowns here. As far as punishment goes, situations like this can actually be used to open the doors of communication up. As our children grow into teens and older adolescents, we want them to stick to their own values and moral compasses. The hope is that they develop their own inner discipline and desire to make healthy choices. This is a good opportunity to discuss the importance of trust, acceptance and communication in the relationship. PIQ Please send parenting questions to editor@parenthoodiq.com Whitney Hughes, MA, LPCA, NCC is a South Carolina licensed professional counselor and owner of Blue Mind Mental Health, LLC on Hilton Head Island. She holds a master’s degree in counseling education with a focus on clinical mental health counseling and is accredited by the National Board of Certified Counselors, South Carolina Association of Licensed Professional Counselors and American Counseling Association. She works with teens, adults and families, specializing in stress management, anxiety, depression and LGBTQ+ support. She can be reached at www.bluemindmentalhealth.com or 843-422-6157.

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HypnoB – EXPECTING –

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Childbirth Education for an easier, safe, instinctive birth.

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very day, more women are stepping away from the cultural belief that childbirth has to be a painful and scary event. They are choosing to educate themselves and create a birth team and environment for the birth they desire. Media, TV shows, and even our social circles try and convince us that childbirth is the most painful and excruciating event a woman will go through and that we should be scared of it, rather than teaching women that it’s a natural physiological experience that can be magical, fulfilling, and satisfying.

HypnoBirthing is a unique childbirth education program that teaches self-hypnosis techniques, relaxation practices and breathing techniques that allow women to have the easiest, safest and dare I say, most pain-free births possible. HypnoBirthing educates us on how our bodies work for us during pregnancy, labor and birth, as well as more practical aspects like who to have at your birth, who you can choose as a caregiver, and where you can have your birth.

I began teaching HypnoBirthing in 2018 after I used this method for the birth of my son.

I had an extremely fulfilling natural birth with my son at a birth center in San Diego, CA. Both my husband and I agreed that the education provided in HypnoBirthing was

invaluable. My husband learned how he could support me both physically and emotionally during labor, as well as how he could advocate for me with our care-provider. It’s essential that both mother and birth companion are aligned on their birth preferences, know what to expect during labor and know how to handle different situations that can come up during childbirth. My goal as a HypnoBirthing Educator is to empower women and their birth companions to have as many tools as possible for a safe, peaceful, and fulfilling birth.

The cornerstone of the HypnoBirthing Program is the self-hypnosis techniques that allow us to reprogram our subconscious so that we trust our bodies during the childbirth process and remove any fear. When we remove fear from the equation, our bodies naturally relax and move through the physiological changes that are necessary for birth. When fear is present our bodies go into fight or flight mode and tense up, which is a disadvantage to the natural laboring process - everything moves more slowly. Even during situations with special circumstances or emergencies requiring medical intervention staying, as relaxed as possible is beneficial for both mother and baby.

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HypnoBirthing emphasizes the role of the birth companion and provides him or her with tools to give emotional and physical support to the mother, as well as tools to advocate for both mother and baby.

HypnoBirthing emphasizes the role of the birth companion and provides him or her with tools to give emotional and physical support to the mother, as well as tools to advocate for both mother and baby. The mother and birth companion are taught hip presses and various positions for physical comfort, as well as verbal affirmations, visualization reminders, and self-hypnosis to enter deep states of relaxation. They are also given an opportunity to role-play different scenarios that may come up and are given suggestions on how they can advocate for the mother in a gracious, honest, and confident way.

Mothers all over the world are turning to HypnoBirthing as their preferred method of childbirth education. Lowcountry resident Allison Singer used the HypnoBirthing method while she was living in Mexico City and experienced some profound results. Here is Allison’s experience with HypnoBirthing: 10 ParenthoodIQ.com • SPRING 2019

“HypnoBirthing helped me to prepare for my second birth through the relaxation practices, like meditation and breathing exercises. My first birth was an unmedicated home birth that went fine but I remembered the intenseness of it and felt anxiety about my next natural birth. Hypnobirthing gave me and my husband space to discuss and explore these fears within a group and reaffirmed my belief in natural, sacred birth and gave me the confidence to pursue what we felt was the right kind of birth for us and our baby. Having had about an eight hour labor for my first birth my doctor expected the second to be about half that, around four or five hours.

However, it was only about an hour and a half with only two breaths to breathe (not push) my baby out. I am convinced the visioning and breathing techniques of HypnoBirthing helped me to relax and achieve such a quick and easy birth.”

Whether you plan to have an unmedicated natural birth, or if you’re planning for an epidural or a scheduled cesarean birth, learning relaxation techniques will benefit your experience, recovery, and provide empowering education. HypnoBirthing is an inclusive program for all families.

Group HypnoBirthing classes will be starting in Spring/Summer of 2019 with Susannah Winters. PIQ Susannah Winters Certified HypnoBirthing Educator lowcountryhypnobirthing.com

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TIPS FOR STARTING BABIES ON SOLID FOODS

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ashed sweet potatoes, applesauce, pureed chicken: When your baby is ready to start solid foods, a whole new world of flavors and textures opens up — and a whole new way for your baby to make a mess. Parents often have questions about when and how to start feeding their child beyond the bottle.

Here are a few tips from the experts.

WHEN TO START SOLID FOODS Babies should only be fed iron-fortified formula or breast milk until they’re 4 months old. That’s it.

“Many parents ask me about putting cereal in a baby’s bottle to help them sleep longer at night,” said Dr. Alicia Salyer, a pediatrician with Palmetto Pediatrics of the Lowcountry. “There is no real factual evidence that this will happen. However, the high starch load of cereal can put the baby at risk for constipation, diarrhea illness, and excessive weight gain.”

Most babies are ready to start solid foods sometime between the ages of 4 months and 6 months. Readiness is partly physical; the baby’s extrusion reflex, which allows them 12 ParenthoodIQ.com • SPRING 2019

to suckle, is going away. And by then, their gastrointestinal tract is mature enough to handle more than formula or breast milk. And the baby has good head and neck control and can sit up with support. Readiness is also about being interested in solid foods, and often babies will let their parents know they’re ready to try something new.

“A baby ready for solid foods may start looking longingly at your meal and reaching for your food,” Salyer said.

WHERE TO START

By the time she was 4 months old, Bluffton mom Julia Violi’s daughter, Paisley, started sitting with them at the dinner table. When she was 5 months old, Paisley sat up on her own, and shortly after that Violi started introducing solid foods.

“Many babies start with rice cereal mixed with breast milk or formula because the cereal is fortified with iron and an infant’s iron stores run out around then,” said Kelly McCombs, a senior instructor in nutrition at the University of South Carolina Beaufort. Because the cereal is mixed with what the baby’s been eating, it is an easy place to start.

Parents can feed baby a variety of soft pureed meats, fruits and vegetables, as well.

“There is no benefit in introducing foods in any particular order,” Salyer said. “I encourage parents to be open to the idea of meat as an early food because of the high iron content in meat. This is important because infants are often low in iron.”

Introduce one pureed food at a time. And then, to make sure your baby doesn’t have an allergy or adverse reaction to it, don’t introduce a new food for a few days. Advance to foods with more texture, such as cottage cheese or scrambled eggs, as soon as your baby can handle it, which Dr. Salyer said is around 7 months old.

“We’re getting closer to the point where she’s eating the same thing we are,” said Violi. “She’s always liked everything, and I’ve always given her a variety of flavors.”

“We now know that early introduction of highly allergenic foods helps to build tolerance and decrease the risk of food allergies,” Salyer said. She encourages parents to introduce allergenic foods early — around the age of 6 months or 7 months.

Mix peanut butter with banana until the consistency is manageable, and offer yogurt, scrambled eggs and seafood as soon as baby can manage the texture.

But, there are some foods to avoid. Raw honey is unpasteurized and can contain botulism spores, so babies should not have it before their first birthday. Salyer also recommends avoiding fish that can have high mercury content, like tuna, swordfish and mackerel.

Mercury and other heavy metals can hurt a baby’s brain development.

" THERE IS NO BENEFIT IN INTRODUCING FOODS IN ANY PARTICULAR ORDER"

HOW MUCH SHOULD BABY EAT

Mealtimes with baby can be pretty wild.

WHAT FOODS And when your little TO AVOID – DR. ALICIA SALYER one is spitting food Eating solid foods out and smashing it Pediatrician with also means your with the sippy cup, Palmetto Pediatrics of the Lowcountry baby is ready to start it might seem like he drinking from a sippy or she isn’t getting cup, but avoid filling it with anything but enough. But the experts say not to worry. water.

“Parents often ask me how much to feed “Do not feed fruit juice to babies and their child at each meal, but there is toddlers — not even diluted natural juice,” no exact measurement that should be said Salyer. Fruits are high in sugar and followed,” Salyer said. “If your baby is juicing removes the beneficial fiber. “Babies turning his head away from the spoon and who drink fruit juice are much more likely to not opening his mouth, he is finished.” develop dental cavities and be picky eaters.”

“At this age, babies are still getting their What about highly allergic foods, like peanut primary nutrition from breast milk or butter and shellfish? For years, doctors formula,” McCombs said. They don’t really recommended avoiding these foods until need much from solid foods until about babies were 1 year old. But that rule isn’t so 1 year of age — except the flavor and hard and fast any more. experience of eating it. PIQ SPRING 2019 • ParenthoodIQ.com 13

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TIPS TO HELP YOUR CHILD ENJOY READING

By Amy Coyne Bredeson

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n today’s world of Instagram, YouTube and video games, it can be hard to get kids interested in books.

But for some — like Margaret Zendzian — reading sparks the imagination in a way that technology doesn’t.

The 14-year-old Bluffton student has always loved reading. When she’s not playing tennis or practicing her violin, Margaret can often be found curled up with a book.

From the last day of school to the first week of July, she read the entire “Maze Runner” series, as well as “Dividing Eden,” “Carve the Mark,” “Relative Strangers” and “This Mortal Coil.”

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Margaret said. “When you read someone else’s work, it opens up new perspectives for you. ... Your own thoughts can be changed with reading just one book. It can open up new worlds.”

So why is Margaret so excited about reading when other kids fight their parents tooth and nail to avoid sitting down with a book? Perhaps it’s the fact that her parents, David and Dana Zendzian, are avid readers. Or maybe it’s all the hours her parents have spent reading to her and her two brothers over the years.

Dana Zendzian regularly took her children to the library for story time when they were little. These story hours are still available; check with the Hilton Head Island or Bluffton branches of the Beaufort County Library for events that might spark your child’s interest in the world of books.

“My biggest tip for getting kids excited about reading is helping them find something that interests them,” said Kelli Baxter, youth services manager at the Bluffton library. “If a child’s passion is sports, then find some books about sports.

If a child really loves adventures, help them find books about adventures. I truly believe that those who say they do not like reading just haven’t found the book that calls to them yet.”

If your child is having a hard time choosing a book, just ask the librarian for suggestions. And don’t be afraid to try a variety of genres: Baxter said she tells kids they shouldn’t force themselves to finish a book if they aren’t enjoying it.

“It is OK to put the book down and try something different,” she said.

River Ridge Academy literacy intervention teacher Amber Blakes said it’s important to find books that are not too difficult and not too easy for kids to read. Children who have a difficult time reading might need to re-read books. Teachers can help parents find books that are appropriate for their children’s individual reading levels.

Blakes said parents can also have their children read aloud to determine if a book is appropriate for them. She said the book is a good fit if the child reads it with minimal mistakes, understands what he or she is reading, and shows interest in the story.

writing down the names of characters, the facts they learn, the words they don’t know, the questions they have and the parts that make them laugh. She said sticky notes and journals are great for this.

Blakes suggested that children read for 20-40 minutes a day, but she said it really depends on each individual child’s needs.

It’s important to instill a routine with reading to help those who struggle with it, Baxter said, but she also discourages parents from making it seem like work.

“For me, reading should be viewed as something enjoyable rather than a chore,” Baxter said. “If children are forced to read a certain amount of time or a certain number of pages, etc., they may begin to feel reading is more of a chore and lose interest.”

However, Baxter said, “The more you read, the better you will get at it.” PIQ

"MY FAVORITE BOOK" “I love the dog book the best because I love animals so much and the dogs are so funny!”

Children who struggle with reading also need to be read to so they can hear the flow of the words, Blakes said. Parents can even encourage children to write their own stories so they can see themselves as authors.

Students who have trouble staying focused can start out by reading for five minutes at a time, and build up from there, Blakes said. They can also read with a purpose. For example, they can take notes as they read,

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EXPLORE THE LOWCOUNTRY DURING NATURE OUTINGS

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ith marshes, beaches, and forests, the Lowcountry offers plenty of nature for kids to explore. Here are a few places in Beaufort County to check out — your kids will have so much fun, they won’t even think about their video games.

>> PINCKNEY ISLAND WILDLIFE REFUGE <<

For kids who love to run and hike, Pinckney Island National Wildlife Refuge is a mustsee. Ibis Pond is about a half of a mile from the parking lot and is the perfect place for a picnic. Walking around the pond, you’ll probably see alligators, turtles, and more birds than you can count. Herons, egrets and, of course, ibis nest here in large rookeries. There’s also a butterfly garden.

Bigger kids who can hike for longer will have plenty more to discover. White Point, the furthest point in the refuge, is about an 8-mile round trip hike, with plenty of sights and ponds to see from start to finish.

“We love doing things outdoors,” said Bree Eastman, a mom of two from Hardeeville.

“Pinckney Island is one of our favorites.”

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>> SEA PINES FOREST PRESERVE <<

Families can enjoy Sea Pines Forest Preserve by boat, horseback or walking trail. Guided tours and fishing expeditions are available, or explore the trail on your own. It takes you past lakes, a wildflower field, and through swamp forests — perfect places to see birds, alligators, and other Lowcountry wildlife.

The Sea Pines Shell Ring is a remnant of an ancient civilization that’s listed on the National Registry of Historic Places.

>> COASTAL DISCOVERY MUSEUM <<

There’s always something to see at the Coastal Discover Museum and Honey Horn on Hilton Head. The museum showcases local art and history, and there are butterfly enclosures, walking trails, art installations, and nature viewing areas outside that can keep kids busy for an entire afternoon.

You don’t have to plan ahead, but the museum also offers several programs like dolphin cruises, crabbing adventures and historic tours.

“The Coastal Discovery Museum is an easy outing,” said Shawn Gorlich, a mom of two from Bluffton. “And the kids love it.”

>> THE NEW RIVER LINEAR TRAIL <<

This 3.4-mile section of the East Coast Greenway trail system is a flat, easy hike for kids in Bluffton that follows an old railway path. The trail starts in Pritchardville, passes through scenic wetland and forest environments, and ends on the bank of the New River. It’s a fun way to tire everyone out, and if they’re quiet, kids can see birds, deer, and other wildlife.

>> THE SPANISH MOSS TRAIL <<

Another great opportunity for kids and families is the Spanish Moss Trail in Beaufort.

This paved rail trail is 10 miles long and open to pedestrians, leashed pets, and non-motorized vehicles. So load up the bikes and head out for an afternoon of riding past coastal and marsh views. There’s even bathrooms, which every parent will appreciate.

close enough to visit for a day, and awesome enough to want to stay all weekend. With tent camping on the list of things to do at this park, you can stay as long as you like. (Or as long as you can get a space — camping sites book out months in advance, so plan ahead.)

Even if you’re just there for a few hours, Hunting Island has beaches, walking trails through the maritime forest, nature center, picnic areas, pier for fishing, and a historic lighthouse to explore.

>> THE PORT ROYAL SOUND FOUNDATION MARITIME CENTER <<

Discover the pristine Port Royal Sound ecosystem and local fishing history at the Maritime Center in Okatie. The museum has lots to see — including relics from area oyster factories and a 3,000-gallon aquarium. The volunteer docents are knowledgeable and giving of their time and stories. Programs include summer camps, eco-boat tours, family days and feedings for the animals in their fish tanks. PIQ COASTAL DISCOVERY MUSEUM

>> HUNTING ISLAND STATE PARK <<

As if we weren’t lucky enough here in the Lowcountry, Beaufort County is home to one of the state’s most popular parks, Hunting Island State Park. This nearby destination is SPRING 2019 • ParenthoodIQ.com 19

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Float Time OUTSIDE FOUNDATION HELPS PUT KIDS IN KAYAKS

BY JEAN FRUH

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n the late 1990‘s two local middle school environmental science teachers, Lois Lewis and Susan Dee, had a bold idea: to allow their students “to learn about nature in nature.” Their idea was to take their classrooms outside to allow their students to experience the surrounding ecosystem first hand - to kayak the beautiful tidal creeks and salt marshes, to immerse their hands in the glorious “pluff mud,” and to observe, examine, and discuss the abundant marine life. Through the efforts of these teachers, along with a few local kayak

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companies, as well as the non-profit “The Friends of the Rivers,” the “Kids in Kayaks” program was created. When The Outside Foundation (TOF) was formed in 2014, providing leadership, structure, and financial support to the “Kids in Kayaks” program quickly became a top priority.

The goal of the “Kids in Kayaks” program is to expose as many Beaufort County 7th grade students as possible to the local salt marshes and tidal rivers. This exposure is accomplished by allowing students, during a regular school day, an opportunity to

kayak and participate in interactive dockside stations under the direct supervision of trained interpretive naturalists. The challenges are clear - children are spending much less time outside and up to 7 hours a day connected to electronic devices.

The program is offered to both public and private middle schools. The cost of the program per student is $20 and this fee goes directly to cover the cost of the kayak outfitter company. Unfortunately this $20 program cost prohibits some children from participating (60% of BCSD students come from families who qualify for reduced price or free lunch). Through scholarship support, TOF is committed to ensuring that every 7th grade student in Beaufort County who wants to participate can participate. This program creates a unique opportunity for students to “learn about the environment in the environment,” and provides an opportunity for our youngest residents to connect with their local environment. Multiple research

studies have shown that children who are exposed to nature early in life are much more likely to develop a sense of environmental stewardship, and are also healthier children. Creating a sense of environmental stewardship within this generation is vital if we wish to continue to protect and preserve our local environment.

A typical “Kids in Kayaks” program day involves up to 50 students, two teachers, and several chaperones. Local kayak outfitters partner with TOF to provide kayaks, kayaking equipment, a launch site, and two professional kayak guides.

Volunteer Master Naturalists, as well as staff from the Beaufort Conservation District and Carolina Clean Stormwater Consortium, are recruited to supervise the dockside learning stations. Students, teachers, and chaperones generally arrive at the designated marina or launch site around 9:00 am. The group is divided in two - while half of the students SPRING 2019 • ParenthoodIQ.com 23

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go kayaking, the other half rotates through dockside interactive learning stations (dock fowling, salt marsh food web, touch tank, water testing, watershed model). Following lunch, the groups switch - each session lasts two hours.

The on-water kayaking experience begins with a paddle clinic where students receive instruction on safety and basic paddle strokes. Students are partnered and loaded into tandem kayaks. The kayak tour is led by a minimum of two professional kayak guides trained in interpretive naturalism.

The time on the water is spent observing and discussing the oyster bed habitat, examining the interrelationships between oysters and spartina grass, observing and identifying wildlife, interpreting the color of the water, and discussing the salt marsh food web. The dockside stations are designed for “hands on” learning about the sessile community of organisms under the docks (dock fowling), the food web of the salt marsh (touch tank), the Port Royal Sound Watershed and stormwater runoffs concerns (Enviroscape), and water quality testing (Secchi disc, refractometer, dissolved oxygen, etc). The curriculum created for the program was developed in alignment with current SC State 7th grade environmental science learning objectives.

In 2018 The Outside Foundation hosted 900 students for “Kids in Kayaks” providing each student with an opportunity to kayak the tidal waters closest to his or her home. For almost half these students it was the first time they had put on a life jacket, held a paddle, and hopped into a kayak. In fact, the average tourist visiting Hilton Head Island has a much better chance to go kayaking than a child born here. Soon, we hope to offer middle schools “North of the Broad” the option to participate in the program from the Port Royal Sound Foundation.

By 2020 The Outside Foundation hopes to accomplish a very bold milestone: that participation in the “Kids in Kayaks” program will have become a “shared experience” for every graduating senior from all Beaufort County Schools. PIQ Jean Fruh is the executive director of the Outside Foundation.

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BEAUFORT >> BEAUFORT YACHT AND SAILING CLUB SUMMER CAMP www.byscnet.com/camps/summer-camp

Description: Our Summer Camp provides an active, hands-on, playful, safe environment for children to explore the outdoors during the summer. Land based activities and water based activities such as field games, arts and crafts, fishing, kayaking, paddle-boarding, boat tours, tubing and sandbar adventures are all part of the program. Every camper will also be scheduled to use our Club Pool daily.

Location: 30 Yacht Club Drive, Beaufort Contact: Melissa Meinel, 843-522-8216, byscsummercamp2@yahoo.com Dates: June 10- August 2, 6 weeks Monday-Friday, 8:30am-4:30, check the website for specific dates Ages: Students entering 1st grade - 12 years Price: BYSC Members – One week of camp $230 Non-Members – One week of camp $275

>> CAMP CONROY: BUILD A BOOK

Description: The program will provide campers with a hands-on program of book building from start to finish. This year’s theme is “Garbage and the 4 R’s: Recycle, Reuse, Renew, and Repurpose, Making the World a Better Place.” Participants will engage in writing, illustrating, photographing, editing and storyboarding, and producing a book.

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poems, artwork, and photography. Family and friends will be invited to a closing celebration and reception at the Center, and the campers’ books will be available for order.

Location : Beaufort Middle School, 2501 Mossy Contact: www.campconroy2019.brownpapertickets. com for registration Dates: June 17-28, Monday- Friday, 8-4pm Ages: 8-11, 12-15 Price: $299

>> PORT ROYAL SOUND FOUNDATION JUNIOR NATURALIST ACTIVITIES - PLUFF MUDD CAMP

Description: Campers will spend time kayaking and participating in junior naturalist activities that highlight different themes and experiences, including ecology, arts, history, conservation and boater safety. Campers will take part in activities around the Maritime Center that will expand their knowledge of and encourage their interaction with the local environment. Lunch is provided for campers Location : 310 Okatie Highway, Okatie Contact: (843) 645-7774 Dates: Jr. Pluff Mudder Camp - June 17-21 | July 8-12 for Ages 6-8, Monday - Friday 9:00AM-1:00PM Pluff Mudder Camp June 24-81 | July 15-19 for Ages 9-12, Monday - Friday 9:00AM-4:00PM Price: $225/week Junior Pluff Mudd Camp, $335/ week Pluff Mudd Camp

>> SOUTH CAROLINA GOVERNOR’S SCHOOL FOR SCIENCE & MATHEMATICS - CREATENG

Description: CREATEng is GSSM’s one-of-a-kind engineering and design thinking day camp for rising 8th and 9th graders.

In CREATEng, students take on the role of NASA engineers charged with developing a sustainable colony on Mars. Working through project-based, hands-on team challenges, students learn what engineering is and what engineers do. With a focus on civil, mechanical, and electrical engineering, students work through a series of mini challenges from building windproof structures and protecting transportation with impenetrable wheels for the Rover, to using Arduino technology for greenhouse automation. CREATEng students will interact with guest speakers and go on a field trip to a local company to see engineering in action.

Location : River Ridge Academy Contact: (843) 383-3901 Dates: June 10-13 Ages: rising 8th and 9th graders Price: $225 per student Cost includes materials, field trip and snacks.

Students must provide their own lunch on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday of the camp week. GSSM will provide a pizza lunch on Thursday of each camp week. Early Bird Rate is $205 per student. All application materials must be received by April 15 to be eligible for the early bird rate.

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way back home! Your child must be able to attend all rehearsals in order to participate in the camp.

(Auditions are required to participate in camp) Location: HH Preparatory Main Street Theatre, 3000 Main Street, Hilton Head Island Contact: byt.blufftonsc@gmail.com Dates: July 22-August 6 : Rehearsal | 10AM - 4PM / SHOWS: Thursday, August 8th at 7pm // Friday, August 9th at 7pm // Saturday, August 10th at 2pm Sunday, August 11th at 3pm Ages: 5-17 Price: $350 Price includes : A Wizard of Oz t-shirt, professional headshot, DVD of the performance, The Wizard of Oz script

>> COASTAL GYMNASTICS CENTER

Description: Enjoy work with all four gymnastics apparatuses, arts and crafts, open gym, and pizza Fridays.

Location: 70 Pennington Dr. Suite 13, Bluffton Contact: (843) 836-2411 Dates: Monday-Friday, half day 9-12pm, full day 9-3pm, June 3-August 9 Ages: 5-12 Price: Half-day $85/week; Full-day $165 per week; check website for all pricing options www.coastalgymnasticscenter.com

>> BLUFFTON YOUTH THEATRE WIZARD OF OZ

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>> EXPLORING DRAWING, PAINTING AND 3-D

www.sobagallery.com/soba-kids-art-camp-2019/ Description: Delve into drawing, painting and 3-D with creative projects that introduce and teach techniques in all three areas.

Location: SoBA’s Center for Creative Arts, 6 Church Street, Bluffton Contact: Pat Diemand at yhoscardoodle@yahoo. com or 484-264-7074 Dates: June 10 – 14, June 17 – 21, July 8 – 12, 9-11am Ages: 8-12 years Price: $100 per session per child; registration required

>> HILTON HEAD ISLAND JUNIOR GOLF ASSOCIATION - PGA JR. LEAGUE SUMMER PROGRAM

Description: PGA Junior League is part of the HHIJGA summer program for boys and girls ages 7-13 of all abilities. PGA Junior League teams will have weekly matches in a fun scramble format and weekly practices with PGA coaches. Practices are on Wednesday afternoons and Matches are Thursday afternoon. The season is June through August. In addition to being on a PGA Junior League Team, you will be able to play in the HHIJGA stroke play event via the South Carolina Junior Golf Association Hootie and The Blowfish Junior Tour.

Location: Teams practice in both Bluffton & Hilton Head Island Contact: 843-686-1500 Dates: June - August (Teams are announced in May) Ages: 7-13 Price: $195 (all siblings $110 each) Golfers should have their own set of clubs..

HILTON HEAD ISLAND >> 2019 HILTON HEAD JAZZ CLINIC BY THE JUNIOR JAZZ FOUNDATION Description: Our fifth annual jazz clinic is a combination of private lessons, small combos, with instruction in theory/improv geared towards students beginning their journey into jazz and

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improvisation. This clinic also includes an all-day music trip to Savannah on Wednesday, June 26. A final clinic performance will be held in the HHCA Performing Arts Center on Friday, June 28th at 5pm.

Only one year of playing experience is required for this clinic.

Location: Hilton Head Christian Academy, 55 Gardner Drive, Hilton Head Island Contact: (843) 321-8174, or contact@hhjazzcamp. com Dates: June 24-28, 1-4pm Ages: 10-14 years Price: $199 tuition, flexible payment plan and scholarships available.

>> BOYS & GIRLS CLUB OF HILTON HEAD

Description: Offering educational programs including STEM infused arts programs and technology, outdoor fun including fishing, golf, soccer, disc golf and awesome field trips, Summer Brain Gain for teens, reading enhancement programs, sports, fitness, and recreational activities, and more! Eight Week Program!

Location: 51 Gumtree Road, Hilton Head Island Contact: 843-689-3646 Dates: June 10 - August 2 Ages: 6-17 Price: $16 per child at a drop-in rate, $480 for one child for eight weeks, $720 for two children for eight weeks or $800 for three or more children in the same family for eight weeks.

>> DRIFTWOOD STABLES

Description: At camp Driftwood this summer your child can learn how to handle, groom, tack up, ride and care for a horse in a 5 day program for beginner riders. Camp activities include Hands on Horsemanship, Arts & Crafts, Friday Game Day with Pizza Party and of course, daily Horseback Riding Lessons at the only Recognized Riding Academy in SC. Location: 200 Jonesville Road, Hilton Head Island Contact: 843- 802-0126 Dates: Weekly Monday-Friday, 9-1pm, June-July Ages: 7 & up Price: $500/ week

>> ISLAND RECREATION CENTER - CAMP COURAGEOUS JR.

Description: Camp Courageous Jr. is designed for children with disabilities. Continued development of motor, social and cognitive skills throughout the summer. This camp is integrated into our all day summer camp program.

Location: 20 Wilborn Rd, Hilton Head Island Contact: 843-681-7273 Dates: June 10- August 2 | Monday-Friday | 8:00am5:00pm Ages: 5 -13 Price: Program fee: $50/week | Registration fee: $50

SAVANNAH >> SAVANNAH CHILDREN’S THEATRE- ON WITH THE SHOW

Description: Our two-week Musical Theatre Camps treat students to classes in acting, improvisation, voice, and dance, as well as special Enrichment Classes each day. Students will audition for and perform an age-appropriate musical theatre piece, complete with costumes, scenery, lighting, sound, and sold-out audiences! Camps are 9am-5pm, with extended care available from 8am-6pm. All camps include snacks, but lunches must be brought from home. Camp dates include weekend performances dates. ALL ON WITH THE SHOW CAMPS AND HIGH SCHOOL CAMP WILL BE HELD AT SCT. Location: 2160 E. Victory Dr., Savannah, GA Contact: 912-238-9015 Dates: 2nd-8th grade, Session 1: June 3-16, Session 2: 17-30, Session 3: 8-21; High School Session: July 22- August 4 Ages: rising 2nd-8th graders, rising 9th-12th Price: $550 per session

>> OATLAND ISLAND WILDLIFE CENTER SUMMER CAMP

Description: Campers will discover the fascinating world of science through hands-on activities, creative crafts and wildlife investigations.

Location: 711 Sandtown Road, Savannah GA Contact: 912-395-1513 Dates: June 3 - July 19 | Monday - Friday 9AM - 3PM (No Camp July 1-5) Ages: Kindergarten - 8th grade Price: $145 per week (includes camp t-shirt that campers wear to camp each day)

>> GEORGIA TECH SAVANNAH CAMPUS FULL STEAM AHEAD

Description: Looking for an out of this world adventure? We are blasting off to space to discover constellations, satellites, and galaxies. With the help of Hummingbird Robotics and Circuits, we are bound for some great 21st-century space explorations. During each week your student will learn how to code using Hummingbird technology and learn about different constellations before creating their own. Every Friday at 1:30 will feature a student showcase. (Please join us if you can!) Students will need to bring a nonperishable lunch.

Location: 210 Technology Circle Savannah, GA 31407 Contact: 912-966-7922 Dates: June 3 - July 19 | 9:00AM - 3:00PM | M - F Ages: 8-15 Price: $250

FOR A COMPLETE LIST OF SUMMER CAMPS, PLEASE VISIT PARENTHOODIQ.COM Check back often as the listings get updated.

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PARTY PLANNING

Spots to celebrate your child’s next birthday

By Amy Coyne Bredeson

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on’t want a dozen kids running around your house, decorating the walls with their sticky, chocolatey fingers? Let someone else do the work for your child’s next birthday party.

Hilton Head Island and Bluffton have plenty of options for fun-filled celebrations the kids won’t soon forget. From bounce houses to zip line tours, the sky’s the limit.

Some of these vendors provide food, cake, decorations or even a gift for the birthday child. Some require reservations weeks in advance, and some only offer parties certain times of the year. Make sure to ask questions before scheduling your party.

BAKE UP SOME FUN

Plan a cupcake party at Twisted European Bakery in Bluffton.

The bakery offers cupcake decorating parties for children ages 3 to 12. Parties include lunch, games, a 30-minute baking and decorating class, and two cupcakes for each child to decorate.

Each child can choose what design they would like to make.

“It’s fun,” bakery owner Stephanie Pisano said. “We do it outside because we have our porch, and it’s ideal for cupcake classes because kids make a mess. … They can make all the mess they want. It works out great, and for parents, you don’t have to have it in your house.” Details: twistedeuropeanbakery.com 32 ParenthoodIQ.com • SPRING 2019

A WHALE OF A GOOD TIME

REACH NEW HEIGHTS

Chase adventure at ZipLine Hilton Head & Aerial Adventure. Daredevils ages 5 and older will love soaring through the air on the zip line course or climbing the ropes at Aerial Adventure, which features six different courses at three levels of difficulty with more than 50 different obstacles. Parties include two hours of adventure. Details: ziplinehiltonhead.com

Celebrate your child’s inner mermaid at Mermaid of Hilton Head. These unique birthday parties can accommodate between 15 and 32 participants and include a 75-minute Mermaid Encounter Boat Tour and the use of a shaded picnic area for an hour afterward. The birthday child will also receive a plush mermaid doll.

Details: mermaidofhiltonhead.com

SCOOP UP A CELEBRATION

Located at Mameem & Maudie in Old Town Bluffton across from DuBois Park, the charming Crabby’s Corner serves up a wide variety of flavors of ice cream, smoothies and shaved ice. Co-owner Morgan Johnston said she and staff can be as involved in the party — and the planning — as their customers want. She can even make a cake for the birthday boy or girl.

“It’s a super fun time, especially for kids,” she said. “We have a bunch of games and different activities for them to do. It’s nice for parents because they can sit and enjoy coffee.” Details: mameemandmaudie.com

LAUGH AND LEARN

PLAY AND PARTY HARD

For some indoor fun, book a party at Island Playground. Located on the mainland just before the bridges to Hilton Head, Island Playground give kids of all ages a chance to bounce, climb and play.

Parties include the use of a private party room and the help of a personal party coordinator to set up, clean up and facilitate the event.

Details: island-playground.com

For a party that’s both fun and educational, head to The Sandbox: An Interactive Children’s Museum. This Hilton Head spot offers fun, handson exhibits and activities for elementary school children and younger. Birthday parties include museum admission for up to 12 children, free admission for adult chaperones, the use of a party room for 90 minutes, party supplies and a gift for each child.

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ALWAYS INCLUSIVE

Ignite the Senses Gym offers several party packages for the younger crowd.

The sensory gym in Bluffton was designed for children on the autism spectrum, but it can be loads of fun for all. The gym features an enclosed trampoline, jungle gym with rock climbing wall, swings, slides, a zipline and even a quiet room for kids who need a break from it all.

Details: ignitethesensesgym.com

PAINT AND PARTY

RIDE OFF INTO THE SUNSET

Lawton Stables is a great option for your little animal lover. Pony birthday parties are available for children ages 7 and younger who weigh 55 pounds or less. Party guests will have one hour of unlimited pony rides, plus another hour at the animal farm and picnic area. Each child will receive a cup of animal feed.

Details: lawtonstables.com

Artists of all ages can celebrate with a pottery painting party at The Art Cafe on Hilton Head.

Owner Ginny Whitehead said she and her staff can accommodate any party theme at the studio’s festive party area — and there’s a wide selection of pieces to decorate.

“You dream it up; we can fulfill that dream with fun pottery,” Whitehead said.

“The Art Cafe loves to party.”

Details: artcafehhi.com

TEE UP THE FUN

Celebrate your child’s next birthday on the course. Legendary Golf offers parties for ages 6 to 12, with a minimum of six guests. Parties include a round of miniature golf and one soda or juice per child. Details: legendarygolfhhi.com

Amy Bredeson is a freelance journalist in Bluffton. She and her husband have 2 kids, Elijah and Chloe.

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Calling All – TEENS –

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hink college admissions is just for high school seniors? Think again!

There are plenty of things you can do now during your junior year to help prepare you for the college admissions process.

Below is a list of things that juniors can start doing this spring to get them ready!

KEEP YOUR GRADES UP! Yes…that’s right! Grades matter… and they matter a lot! The first thing colleges will see when they look at your application are your junior year grades.

Colleges will also look at your cumulative GPA which will have your junior year grades included…so keep working hard. Finish strongly!

PLAN WISELY FOR SENIOR YEAR Senioritis? Don’t even think about it! Colleges look for students’ schedules to have a certain amount of course rigor.

They want to see that you have challenged yourself throughout your HS years… including during senior year! So, if you are tempted to fill up your schedule with easy electives…don’t. Challenge yourself, but don’t stress yourself out. Take a healthy balance of challenging courses and fun electives.

SPEND SOME TIME WITH YOUR SCHOOL COUNSELOR If you haven’t already, make an appointment to meet your school counselor (parents should be at this meeting also). Spend some time with him/her discussing your college plans, and be sure to ask questions and seek advice. School counselors have a wealth of information to share about the

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college admissions process! Take advantage of their knowledge and meet a few times this spring and a few times in the fall of your senior year. Many colleges require a letter of recommendation from your school counselor so getting to know them, and letting them get to know you, is a win-win!

BRING YOUR FAVORITE TEACHER AN APPLE Most teachers teach over 100 students a year. Many colleges require at least one letter of recommendation from a teacher.

During the second semester junior year you should meet with your favorite teachers, asking them to write a letter of recommendation. This time frame gives them the summer to write you a stellar letter. Choose at least two teachers that know you and from courses in which you did well. Meet with your teachers and speak to them in person. Sending an email request is impersonal. An in-person meeting gives you the opportunity to speak to them about your college goals. Bring them a resume so they can include your outside activities and awards in their letter.

ROAD TRIP You may already know of a few colleges that interest you. Take some time this spring and summer and visit a few. Visit the college’s website and sign up for an official tour of the campus.

College admissions counselors often track demonstrated interested and signing up and attending a tour shows that you are interested in learning more about their school and campus. Check out this website for more information on how to get the most out of your college visit.

Juniors

www.bigfuture.collegeboard.org/findcolleges/campus-visit-guide GET WRITING The summer between junior and senior year is the perfect time to write your college essays. Many students will apply to college using the Common Application platform and they publish their essay prompts in March. Pick one prompt and get going!

There are many useful resources available to help you write an essay. School counselors, English teachers and parents are all great resources. As you write, share your essay with people who know you. Your essay should

By Deena Paradiso, MS. Ed., a Certified School Counselor for Grades K-12.

be in “your voice” and not someone else’s.

Colleges use these essays to learn more about who you are as a person. They want to know more about your dreams and goals.

They want to know what you are passionate about. The college essay is an opportunity to let the college admissions counselors learn something different about you that they can’t see from the other parts of your college application. www.khanacademy.org/college-careersmore/college-admissions/applying-tocollege/admission s-essays/v/avoidingcommon-admissions-essay-mistakes PIQ SPRING 2019 • ParenthoodIQ.com 37

THE SCHOOL EVERY STUDENT DESERVES

Having a positive and transformational impact on young people’s lives

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Heritage Academy is expanding to add 6th grade to our middle school program.

Come visit, tour, and discuss our exciting new plans!

You are invited to a parent meeting Monday, April 8, 2019 at 7:45 am.

Current 5th grade students are invited to visit us and experience campus life on Monday, April 15, 2019 from 8:45 am – 12 noon.

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WHAT PARENTS ARE SAYING…

WHAT STUDENTS ARE SAYING…

“Our child is the happiest I have seen him in the longest time. He loves school and learning again! He gets in the car after school with a smile on his face. He talks nonstop about what he is learning, his teachers, and his friends.”

— C. Ellis

“This school is so unique! I love the diversity of students as I have made friends from all over the world. Teachers connect with students, get to know each one, and help us to reach out goals. The school environment is positive, high-energy and impactful.” — V. Horup

“Heritage Academy’s creative approach to education has helped my daughter become more self-motivated and take responsibility for her schedule and commitments. She has learned the importance of time management and prioritizing her responsibilities to maintain a healthy balance in her life.”

— J. Brighton

“Heritage Academy gave me a more personal experience and allowed me to take in more information and do well on tests and quizzes.”

— J. Williams

“We could have never found a better school to take a twelve year old and make him into a Colgate University student.” — J. and S. Chin

“Teachers help you as an individual and the small class sizes help you learn more at a time.

It’s personalized.” — F. van-Kleef

“Our daughter’s guidance counselor at Heritage is truly unbelievable. She has helped our daughter with every step of the admissions process. We just wish that she had transferred there sooner.” — C. and D. Alford

“I am surrounded by other students who understand me and have the same drive to do well in school. We have the same priorities.”

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“The teachers are professionals that truly enjoy working with young people.” — D. Curtis

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CAN I GET A LITTLE HELP? How to outsource the tasks that steal your time

By Erica Pepper

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utsourcing is normally a word used in business to describe giving projects deemed “low-hanging fruit” to an outside company. This is also what some people mean when they say they need to clone themselves to get everything done around the house — don’t get me wrong, I’ve met people who say they love cleaning or cooking every single night, but sometimes you just need some extra hands for your own sanity. I work full time and I’m also a mother and a business owner, so I embrace all the help I can get with some outsourcing options. Here are a few sources to save you time and a few that can save you money.

PUBLIX SHOPPING VIA INSTACART: Who doesn’t love shopping at Publix? It’s clean and the options are endless, but a trip to the store usually takes an hour or more of your time that you could be spending somewhere else. Using Instacart, you can schedule your delivery, and the app will show you what’s on sale. You also often can avoid the delivery fee by keeping an eye out for specials. But even with the delivery fee and a tip for the driver, I’ve found that the app has saved me money. How? Well, for starters, I’m an impulse buyer. There is something about a produce section that makes me think I will be eating fruit and veggies with every meal and it will never go bad. Unfortunately, that’s not the case, and I save money by avoiding the temptation to

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buy more than I’ll actually use. I typically save $25 to $50 each time I use Instacart.

I don’t use it all the time, but I will take advantage of it during a hectic week at work, for example — and I especially love using it on the way back from a vacation so that my grocery order arrives an hour or two after we get home. https://delivery. publix.com TRUNK CLUB AND STITCH FIX: These might be considered “luxury” services, but they keep me from spending time at the outlet mall that I could be spending with my family or friends. I use Trunk Club for my professional wardrobe and Stitch Fix for clothes for both work and downtime — but you could do just one app or the other. I have them set up to deliver every other month so they alternate deliveries. You send back anything you don’t want, and they charge you for the items you keep. You rate your items to give the stylists a better idea of what you like and your budget. I also just added my son, Owen, to Stitch Fix for a bi-monthly fix.

He’s going to be the best-dressed kid at day care!

AMAZON SUBSCRIBE & SAVE: You might already be aware of this feature on Amazon, but make sure you’re checking regularly to see if there is anything else you could add to your subscription list. Soap, razors, toilet paper, paper towels, tampons, detergents,

shampoos, dog food, etc. are all items that you can cross off your shopping list and have delivered each month. The more you add, the bigger the discount. It’s one less thing you need to remember to add to your shopping list — you’ve got enough things to keep track of! (Like remembering to cut the crusts off your son’s lunch, Mom!) TARGET PICKUP: This feature is new to our area and is a great service for any mom. It’s free, and you can avoid waking up your sleeping baby in the back seat! It also prevents you from spending $100 on random things you didn’t know you wanted until you saw the great displays and the store’s dollar section.

AMAZON’S ALEXA: I’m sure other devices do something similar, but in my house we have an Alexa. The Amazon device definitely helps me keep my memory in order. When I’m in the kitchen, I can tell her to add something to my grocery list, and when I’m in the store I can pull up the app and make sure I grab it. Even better, other members of my household can log into the app on their phones and see the list, so if my husband is out and running by the store he can be sure to get everything we need without having to call or text me. It took me a few months to embrace Alexa, but now I do wholeheartedly.

TARGET PICKUP IS NEW TO OUR AREA AND IT’S FREE!

FIGURE OUT WHAT TASKS YOU CAN OUTSOURCE TO FREE UP MORE TIME FOR YOU MEAL PREP: We currently use Clean Eatz in Beaufort to cover most of our dinners for the week. We order on Sunday from a healthy menu that is very affordable, about $6.50 to $7 a meal.

We’ve also loved our meals from Supper Club by Downtown Deli and Charleston Fit and Fresh. Using a meal service like this is a huge time saver for me — it reduces grocery shopping, cooking and cleaning time.

A few other things I use occasionally to outsource household chores are Walmart Pickup, Neighbor’s Car Wash — it’s only $26 for a car detail and tip — and a housecleaner. I’m tempted to test out a laundry service, but I haven’t tried it yet.

We are all so busy and the days fly by.

Figure out what tasks you can outsource to free up more time for you to do the things you want to do — whether it’s snuggling your little ones, connecting with friends or just enjoying some me time. PIQ Erica Pepper is the clubhouse manager at Wexford Plantation and the co-owner of CrossFit Port Royal Sound with her husband, Barry. She is the mother of 2-year-old Owen.

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WHAT ARE WE DOING THIS WEEKEND? ACTIVITIES ABOUND FOR EVERYBODY IN THE LOWCOUNTRY

BY KATE VERMILYEA

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lessed with natural beauty, sandy beaches and a temperate climate, it’s no wonder that Hilton Head Island has earned a reputation as one of the most popular vacation destinations in the United States. The island and nearby Bluffton offer many opportunities for all ages to make fun vacation memories.

Here are a few of the area’s “don’t miss” activities:

THINGS TO DO: Hilton Head Island CLIMB TO THE TOP OF THE ICONIC LIGHTHOUSE in Harbour Town for spectacular views of Harbour Town Golf Links, the Harbour Town Yacht Basin and Calibogue Sound. Need to catch your breath as you climb? Displays lining the stairs document the island’s rich natural history.

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BIKE THE ISLAND’S PAVED LEISURE TRAILS. Rated as a Gold Level Bicycle Friendly Community by the American League of Bicyclists, Hilton Head is the ideal place to spin your wheels thanks to more than 60 miles of multi-use trails stretching from one end of the island to the other.

THINGS TO DO: Hilton Head Island WATCH BOTTLENOSE DOLPHINS play in the Atlantic Ocean or in the Intracoastal Waterway during sightseeing tours on motorized boats of all sizes. Pontoon boats, catamarans, center consoles and even sailboats offer excursions, and while they don’t guarantee you’ll see dolphins, the odds are in your favor.

VISIT THE HISTORIC MITCHELVILLE FREEDOM PARK. Before the Emancipation Proclamation was signed, a group of escaped slaves, considered “contraband of war” by the occupying Union Army, were granted a plot of land where they created their own town.

The Mitchelville Preservation Project is dedicated to preserving and sharing the triumphant story of the first self-governed settlement of freedmen in the U.S. and the site is an amazing lesson in our nation’s history.

AT LAWTON STABLES, MOUNT A WELL-TRAINED HORSE for a ride through the scenic Sea Pines Forest Preserve. Lawton Stables also offers pony rides, a small animal farm and a horsethemed gift store.

HIKE AND BIRDWATCH ON PINCKNEY ISLAND. Located between the bridges onto Hilton Head Island, Pinckney Island is a national wildlife refuge. Travel down its wide, well-maintained pathways to watch blue crabs skitter across coastal mud flats in between tides. Observe blue herons, snowy egrets and other birds as they soar and roost in the trees in and around a secluded pond.

GLIDE THROUGH THE TREES ON ZIPLINE Hilton Head’s canopy tour adventure. The eight zip lines on the course offer a beautiful view of Hilton Head, including some plantation views that the public can’t easily access from land. Aerial Adventures is also onsite, featuring sky bridges and tree-top obstacles. PIQ

Kate Vermilyea is the content curator for PIQ as well as the owner of The Vermilyea Group. She lives in Beaufort with her husband and her 3 children: Zoe, 8; Rosie, 6; and Jonah, 2.

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THINGS TO DO: Bluffton

WHAT TO DO WITH KIDS IN BLUFFTON

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luffton is a growing community, with new families moving to town every year. And it’s easy to see why parents love it: There are plenty of fun places and activities that kids will love. Whether you’re visiting Bluffton for the day or you live in the area and need new ideas to keep the kids entertained, these suggestions might do the trick.

LEARN SOMETHING NEW “My kids love going to the library programs,” said Bree Eastman, a mom from Hardeeville. Her kids — Ethan, 10, and Audrey, 8 — have done the Beaufort County Library’s Lego robotics programs and took a class on making movies. For younger kids, the library offers story times and other programs. Its program calendar—which is always full—can be viewed online.

Looking for another option? Try Ignite the Senses, an indoor gym on Bluffton Road that’s a great place for young kids to learn and play — and burn off a little energy. It offers art, music, and open play programs for a fee.

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HIT THE PLAYGROUND Oscar Frazier Community Park is a large park with ball fields, a community center and a playground that can keep your kids busy for hours. They’ll be most excited about the Imagination Train playground.

DuBois Park, known for its playground in the shape of a shrimp boat, has plenty of seating for parents and a picnic pavilion.

You’re sure to find other kids playing there, ready to welcome one more, and it’s a great way to wear the kids out before errands in Old Town Bluffton.

PLAY INSIDE When the weather isn’t ideal, Bluffton has several indoor activities that are perfect. Island Playground on Fording

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Island Road has bounce houses and climbing gyms, plus a café and free Wi-Fi for parents. The Buckwalter Recreation Center has indoor batting cages and basketball courts, while nearby Station 300 offers an arcade and bowling lanes. And Coastal Gymnastics Center on Pennington Drive offers open gym hours for kids to play on the gym equipment.

SEE THE SIGHTS Kids love getting out, and there’s lots to see in Bluffton. Bluffton Oyster Factory Park offers an amazing view of the May River and space to picnic or play. And everyone likes checking out the boat dock.

Palmetto Bluff also boasts two tree houses that will delight kids of all ages. Wrapped around live oaks, the

tree houses offer a bird’s-eye view of gorgeous scenery, and kids will love climbing on the Mount Pelia tree house, located in Wilson Village, with its wooden boardwalk, rope ladder, metal slide and zip line; the second tree house, a five-story structure tucked along the marsh at Moreland offers an amazing observation deck. And the Palmetto Bluff village area is a beautiful place to take a walk and look around.

The Church of the Cross, at the end of Calhoun Street in Old Town Bluffton, also offers great Bluffton views. The church grounds offer a one-of-a-kind look at the river, and there’s a dock down the hill offering easy access to the water. PIQ Melinda Copp writes from Bluffton. She has 3 children ages 13, 8, and 5.

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THINGS TO DO: Beaufort

AN INSIDER’S GUIDE TO FESTIVE BEAUFORT

BY DEAN ROWLAND

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elebrations in the Lowcountry are legendary in their scope, frequency and attendance, stretching along the coast from Hilton Head Island to Charleston.

The historic city of Beaufort — surrounded by waterways and closely embracing its 504-year history —rightfully stakes its claim as among the best hosts. Fairs and festivals pay homage to Beaufort’s history, culture, seafood, cinema, literature and antebellum homes throughout the year.

MCAS BEAUFORT AIR SHOW: Marine Corps Air Station Beaufort hosted nearly 100,000 visitors for two days in late April to watch a free demonstration by the Blue Angels, the United States Naval Flight Demonstration Team. The Angels’ C-130 “Fat Albert” began the demonstration by showcasing its maximum-performance capabilities. That dazzling feat was followed by choreographed aerobatic maneuvers by four F/A-18 Hornets in diamond formation, along with two solo pilots who then joined the foursome in a dramatic six-jet display of Delta formation.

The solo jets performed high-speed passes, fast rolls and tight turns with speeds up to 700 mph. The 2019 show is scheduled for April 27-28.

TASTE OF BEAUFORT: A town with great restaurants doesn’t need much nudging to promote itself. For two days every May, the Beaufort Regional Chamber of Commerce produces a star-studded collection of menu

delights from about a dozen eateries, as well as a 5K run/walk, live entertainment, an arts and crafts market, and a children’s play area along the waterfront. Food and beverage tickets are sold for $1 apiece at this free event. Next year marks the 20th year of the celebration, with events slated for May 6-7.

THE GULLAH FESTIVAL: This multi-day event at Henry C. Chambers Waterfront Park celebrates diversity and the Gullah heritage and has been held annually since 1986. More than 70,000 people from 32 states attended this year’s festival that showcased local, regional, national and international platforms. Attendees enjoyed local choirs, jazz, story-telling, arts and crafts, theater and a lecture series. The event has been recognized by the federal and state governments, business associations and the media for its historical significance in preserving and promoting the Gullah history and culture.

Dean Rowland is a veteran editor and writer for magazines, newspapers, and an international publishing company. He lives in Beaufort and is the father of a daughter and son.

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THINGS TO DO: Savannah

HAVING FUN IN SAVANNAH SAVANNAH CHILDREN’S MUSEUM: Opened as a reuse project in the old Central of Georgia Railway Carpentry Shop, this museum is completely outdoors! The museum includes an exploration maze, a reading nook, and a sensory garden all working to expand the imagination of children. Bring water, snacks, and sunscreen. Cost: $7.50 per child.

ELLIS SQUARE FOUNTAINS: The splash fountains at Ellis Square are free and open to the public. The waterspouts shoot 6 or 7 feet high and there’s plenty of seating surrounding the fountains. The adjacent City Market will often play music on weekends. Bring sunscreen, towels, and snacks, or enjoy refreshments from one of the many surrounding shops or restaurants.

OATLAND ISLAND WILDLIFE CENTER: Walk through Oatland’s trail system that will wind through exhibits of wolves, cougars, and various birds of prey. Oatland provides many exhibits of animals in their

natural habitat, with walkways through the marsh on gravel paths, asphalt, sidewalks, and boardwalks. Bring sunscreen, bug spray, and snacks. Cost: $3-5/ person TYBEE ISLAND MARINE SCIENCE CENTER: The Coastal Georgia Gallery houses 2,500 gallons of water and from 250 to 300 creatures, all native to Georgia’s coastlines. Live creatures include, baby alligators, polkadot batfish, spider crabs, puffers, flounders, clown fish, diamondback terrapins, corn snake, horseshoe crabs, sea jellies, and lots of invertebrates. The center also has a touch tank, and walks and other programs are offered. Cost: $5, kids under 4 are free.

SAVANNAH BANANAS BASEBALL GAME: Fun for the whole family! Known for baseball and non-stop entertainment, check the schedule for the various theme nights that are offered, including fireworks and dog friendly events. Parking is free, purchasing tickets in advance is highly recommended. PIQ

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By Sophia Townes, LAF Program Coordinator

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pril is designated as Autism Awareness Month. Autism, or Autism spectrum disorder (ASD), refers to a broad range of conditions characterized by challenges with social skills, repetitive behaviors, speech and nonverbal communication.

According to the Centers for Disease Control, autism affects an estimated 1 in 59 children in the United States today.

By comparison, this is more children than are affected by diabetes, AIDS, cancer, cerebral palsy, cystic fibrosis, muscular dystrophy or Down syndrome — combined.

The Lowcountry Autism Foundation (LAF) is committed to enhancing the lives of individuals with ASD and their families through individually designed programming, advocacy and awareness efforts. All of LAF’s programs are individualized and aimed to fill gaps in services. With a very small staff and a dedicated group of volunteers, LAF has provided over half a million dollars in free autism

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services to over 1700 Lowcountry families. We are small, but mighty, and all of our funds stay right here in the South Carolina Lowcountry.

Upon being diagnosed with ASD, the norm is for a family to be overwhelmed with a complicated web of therapies and services.

LAF’s goal is to decrease the stress on the family and connect them with every available resource.

Our behavioral intervention program matches each family with a specialist who creates individualized treatment plans and advocates for what is best for the individual. Our art therapy and social skills programs provide a safe and fun environment to foster relationships, build emotional

ALL OF LAF’S PROGRAMS ARE INDIVIDUALIZED AND AIMED TO FILL GAPS IN SERVICES.

WE ARE SMALL, BUT MIGHTY, AND ALL OF OUR FUNDS STAY RIGHT HERE IN THE SOUTH CAROLINA LOWCOUNTRY. intelligence, and teach emotional regulation.

Our parent and sibling programs provide the entire family with targeted support.

LAF recently launched our respite program, “Parents’ Night Out” and our monthly parent training and support group. For “Parents’ Night Out,” LAF offers a 3-hour long respite for parents and caregivers of children with autism spectrum disorder. Trained therapists, special education teachers and volunteers care for the child with ASD while parents, caregivers and siblings receive a much needed break. LAF’s monthly parent training and support group focuses on bringing guest speakers of different backgrounds to provide much needed advice and information to empower our parents while establishing fellowship with other autism families.

All of LAF’s services are provided at no cost to the families that we serve. Our programs are supported through grants, individual donations and our special events.

Sophia Townes lives in Bluffton with her husband, Dr. George Townes, and her 3 boys, 2 of them diagnosed with Autism.

COME SUPPORT THE LOWCOUNTRY AUTISM FOUNDATION SATURDAY, APRIL 27, 2019 Come support the Lowcountry Autism Foundation at our 2nd annual Ales for Autism on Saturday, April 27, 2019 from 5:00-9:00 pm at Southern Barrel Brewing Company in Bluffton.

There will be a 50/50 raffle and a silent auction. The proceeds will benefit LAF’s family support services in Beaufort County.

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EVENTS Spring 2019

WATER LANTERN FESTIVAL When: June 15 | 5:30- 10pm Savannah, GA

HILTON HEAD ISLAND

51ST RBC HERITAGE PRESENTED BY BOEING When: April 15-21, 2019 Where: Harbour Town Golf Links, Sea Pines Resort Who: For the whole family Price: Tickets start at $85 (packages are available) Kids age 15 and under are always admitted free when they are accompanied by a ticketed adult.

What: Don’t miss a moment of the RBC Heritage, as some of the top names in the game play the most fun and fan-friendly stop on the PGA TOUR schedule! https://rbcheritage.com MUSIC & TASTE ON THE HARBOUR When: March 28-May 16 6-9p.m.

Where: Shelter Cove Marina- 1 Shelter Cove Ln. Hilton Head Island, SC 29918 Who: For the whole family Price: FREE and open to the public- Canned 50 ParenthoodIQ.com • SPRING 2019

goods to benefit the Deep Well Project are greatly appreciated.

What: This event on Thursday evenings will feature live entertainment from HHI’s local bands and food and drinks from Shelter Cove Marina restaurants. Restaurants will set up around the Neptune statue and offer a variety of appetizers, wines and cocktails. Everyone encouraged to bring their own chairs and No coolers. Contact 843-310-0431 or www. sheltercove.com

- CALENDAR OF EVENTS SUMMER JAMS When: June 11- Aug 12 | 5-9:30pm Where: Shelter Cove Community Park

39 Shelter Cove Lane

Hilton Head Island, SC 29928 Price: Free to attend. Concessions sold at event What: The Island Recreation Association is proud to bring you a fun-filled, festive atmosphere with the highlight of the night fireworks which start around 9 pm. Kids of all ages can enjoy inflatable bounce houses and face painting for a minimal fee. Bring your lawn chairs and enjoy the fireworks! www. islandreccenter.org

SAVANNAH, GA

THE 30TH ANNUAL SAVANNAH MUSIC FESTIVAL When: March 28- April 13 | Performance times vary by performer Where: Location varies by performer Who: For the whole family Price: Varies by performer What: The SMF is dedicated to presenting world-class celebrations of the musical arts by creating timeless and adventurous productions that stimulate arts education, foster economic growth and unite artists and audiences in Savannah. www.savannahmusicfestival.org

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THE 41ST ANNUAL MAY FEST (MOTHERâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S DAY WEEKEND) When: May 11 | 10am-5pm Where: Calhoun Street in Downtown Historic Bluffton, SC Who: For the whole family Price: Free to attend What: More than 200 Artists & food vendors will be there. Fun, games, music, great food, arts, crafts, donut eating contest and ugly dog competition! Coordinated by The Rotary Club of Bluffton.

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MCAS BEAUFORT AIR SHOW When: April 27 & 28 9:00 AM - 5:00 PM Where: Merritt Field, Beaufort SC Price: General admission is FREE What: Marine Corps Air Station Beaufort will host nearly 100,000 of its closest friends and neighbors at the MCAS Beaufort Air Show on April 27 & 28 2019. There is no cost to the general public to attend the show. The show will showcase Naval aviation at its best with a demonstration by the United States Naval Flight Demonstration Team, the Blue Angels! http://www.beaufortairshow.com

WATER LANTERN FESTIVAL When: June 15 | 5:30- 10pm Where: Lake Mayer

1850 E. Montgomery Cross Rd.

Savannah, GA 31406 Who: For the whole family Price: Kids (0-7) are FREE but do not include lantern. Kids (0-8) are $12 + tax and include lantern but waiver must be signed.

Adults- $30 + tax per ticket if purchased before 5/31/19, $35 if purchased before June 14, $40 if purchased on Event Day. Additional lanterns may be purchased for $15 each.

What: Experience the magic at the Water Lantern Festival where you will enjoy tasty food trucks, fun music, and an incredible sight as thousands of floating lanterns reflect messages of love, hope, and happiness. Enjoy food trucks, music and fun!

Get tickets www.waterlanternfestival.com.

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EVENTS Spring 2019

MCAS BEAUFORT AIR SHOW When: April 27 & 28 9:00 AM - 5:00 PM Where: Merritt Field, Beaufort SC

CHARLESTON

COOPER RIVER BRIDGE KIDS RUN & WONDER WORKS WONDERFEST When: April 5 | 2-7pm Where: Hampton Park

30 Mary Murray Drive

Charleston, SC 29403 Who: For the whole family Price: FREE to all who wish to participate! All are required to register on www. bridgerun.com and sign a waiver to receive kid’s race run bib number. Adults encouraged to run with their children. Registered adults will be given kid’s run race numbers.

T-shirts available- $8 prior to race day and $10 on race day. Food and some activities may be an additional cost.

What: A kid’s festival including food, pony rides, face painting, jump castles and more.

SPOLETO FESTIVAL When: May 24-June 9 | Varies depending upon event purchased Where: Shows and performances take place in different venues Price: Varies upon performance or package performanced What: More than 60 Artful performances take place during Festival event including The Westminister Choir Concerts, Master Dance Classes, Theatre Performances and 52 ParenthoodIQ.com • SPRING 2019

many different genres of musical artists performing.

Call 843-579-3100 to purchase tickets. Visit www.spoletousa.org for more information.

JACKSONVILLE

DISNEY ON ICE PRESENTS DARE TO DREAM When: April 4-7 | Times vary based on performance Where: Jacksonville Veterans Memorial

Arena -300 A Phillip Randolph Blvd.

Jacksonville, FL 32202 Who: For the whole family Price: By phone 800-745-3000 What: Celebrate what’s possible as Disney Heroines including Moana, Anna, Elsa, Belle, Rapunzel, Cinderella & Mickey & Friends help to spark the courage inside us all!

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CHARLESTON

April 13 SHARK TOOTH EGG HUNT When: 11am-2pm Where: Charleston Outdoor Adventures Price: $10/ tooth collector What: Bring the entire family out to Bowen’s Island for an exciting Easter egg hunt and to enjoy the Lowcountry. www.charlestonoutdooradventures.com

HILTON HEAD ISLAND

April 13 EASTER EGGSTRAVAGANZA When: 10am-1pm (Egg Hunt begins early) Where: Shelter Cove Community Park Price: FREE to attend.

What: The Best Easter Egg Hunt in Hilton Head! We also provide Bounce Houses, Concessions and Other Entertainment. www.islandreccenter.org

BEAUFORT

April 13 THE 2019 GREAT HELICOPTER EASTER EGG DROP When: 10am-3pm; divided by age groups Where: Beaufort Academy Football Field Price: Free; $10 for the egg drop (pre-registration required) What: The Easter Egg Drop is an Easter Egg Hunt open to the first 1,500 pre-registered children in our community between the ages of 2-10. We’ll also be having a Bounce House Area with over 8 inflatables, Balloon Artists, Professional Face Painters, Kona Ice, Food Trucks, DJ Jesse Gavigan & Music, and of course the EASTER BUNNY! *Please note:

Parents will not be allowed on the field this year.

April 13 STORYTIME WITH JAMES DEAN, CREATOR OF PETE THE CAT When: 11am-12pm Where: Barnes & Noble, 20 Hatton Pl, Ste. 200 What: He will be featuring his book "Big Easter Adventure. "

BLUFFTON

April 20 AN OLD TOWN EASTER CELEBRATION When: 10am-Bunny Parade on Calhoun St ; 11am- Egg hunt at Oyster Factory Park What: Meet us at the corner of Calhoun and Bridge Street in Old Town Bluffton at 10am on Saturday. We’ll take a quick hop down to Lawrence Street where the Bluffton Bunny will be waiting for pictures, hugs and kisses on the porch at The Store. Then, we’ll hop over to Oyster Factory Park for an Easter Egg Hunt hosted by Bluffton Worship of Saint Andrew By-The-Sea UMC at 11am.

SAVANNAH

April 5-20 PICTURES WITH THE EASTER BUNNY When: Monday – Friday: 11 AM to 8 PM, Saturday: 11 AM to 8 PM, Sunday: 12 PM to 6 PM Where: Oglethorpe Mall Price: $29.99-$35.99 What: The Easter Bunny returns to Oglethorpe Mall in Savannah, GA on April 5th!

Make memories to cherish forever with this great family tradition.

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STELLAR KIDS We had the chance to sit down with some Stellar Kids here in the Lowcountry. These are children, tweens, and teens who truly stand out amongst their peers.

Do you know a stellar kid?

Let us know by emailing editor@parenthoodiq.com

CHLOE WELLS Junior at Hilton Head High School WHY: Chloe was crowned Miss Seahawk 2019 (the top prize) after competing in the interview, talent and formalwear competition. Chloe is a very talented dancer and part of the senior group at Bluffton School of Dance and has been dancing for 14 years. Recently, she was awarded a $40,000 scholarship to AMDA (American Musical and Dramatic Academy) at a regional dance competition! Chloe plans to study dance in college this fall with her eyes set on a 54 ParenthoodIQ.com • SPRING 2019

school in New York City.

ADVICE: We asked Chloe for a bit of advice to other young girls out there and she said the same thing over and over: “Always have confidence, and be the best you.”

FUN FACTS: Chloe’s favorite subject is math, her favorite food is donuts and her all-time favorite book is "To Kill a Mockingbird."

THOMAS DOWLING 7th Grader at Hilton Head Preparatory School WHAT: After finishing a stellar season with the HHP Middle School basketball team, Thomas was awarded the Coaches’ Award! He earned this award to highlight his ability to always step in and help out the team, offer advice and help to his teammates, and become the leading scorer this season.

Thomas loves sports; he plays on many teams in many different arenas.

He most recently joined the Bluffton Bulls traveling Amateur Athletic Union (AAU) team and still manages to keep

his grades up, practice multiple times a week, and make Honor Roll each quarter this year. With basketball a part of his everyday life, Thomas plans to play in college and hopes to be part of the Fighting Irish, Notre Dame.

FUN FACTS: Thomas’s favorite subject is history, his favorite food is anything Italian and you can always find him with a basketball in hand. We asked about his March Madness picks – GO Blue Devils!

MADELYNE WELLS Junior at Hilton Head High School WHAT: Madelyne is Head of Leadership at Bluffton School of Dance and has been dancing for the past 14 years and is now a top dancer in their senior group, Black Senior Company. She enjoys competing in dance competitions and received a scholarship from West Coast Dance Explosion. She sees dance as a creative outlet that makes you push yourself outside of–your comfort zone. Madelyne Madelyne Wells Junior willHead be graduating next spring and at Hilton High School

plans to major in health science . She has an eye for the perfect frame and enjoys looking at life through the lens of a camera in her spare time—be on the look-out for her work in future ParenthoodIQ projects!

FUN FACTS: Madeline’s favorite subject is science, her favorite food is anything and everything dessert and she is a lover of all movies, most recently "A Star is Born."

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– PLAYGROUNDS & PARKS –

BEST PLAYGROUNDS IN BEAUFORT COUNTY

BY MELINDA COPP

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ne key to parenting success is knowing the location of the nearest playground.

Playgrounds cure boredom, get kids moving, and provide opportunities for socialization because, chances are, there are other kids there playing too.

Beaufort County has playgrounds of all sizes and kinds, so kids don’t have to go far to find something to climb on. Whether you need a quick activity for the kids in between errands or something to fill an afternoon off, check out these parks with playgrounds.

HILTON HEAD ISLAND DRIESSEN BEACH PARK: With picnic tables, a playground and beach access, Driessen Beach Park is a popular spot where families and kids won’t ever get bored.

GREGG RUSSELL HARBOUR TOWN PLAYGROUND: If you’re shopping or having lunch in Sea Pines, this playground is a great place to keep the kids busy. And there’s plenty to see at the harbor.

SHELTER COVE COMMUNITY PARK: This playground boasts lovely water views and is situated close to shopping and dining options. And there’s always a crowd of kids there, ready to play.

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has something for everyone. Plus there’s beach access.

JARVIS CREEK PARK: Conveniently located on the island’s north end, Jarvis Creek Park offers plenty of activities, like a walking trail around the pond, playing fields and, of course, a fun playground.

BLUFFTON

PALMETTO BLUFF TREE HOUSE: Kids can climb for hours on this multi-level tree

house playground. The setting is beautiful, and the zip line is fun for kids of all ages.

in Bluffton, plan a play date at their neighborhood playground.

OSCAR FRAZIER COMMUNITY PARK: With a new dog park and other recent renovations, Oscar Frazier Community Park on Shults Road has something for everyone. It’s also a great place for birthday parties and events.

BEAUFORT

DUBOIS PARK: Located on Lawton Street in Old Town Bluffton, DuBois Park is known amongst the kid set as the shrimp boat playground. There also are plenty of benches and a covered picnic pavilion.

BUCKWALTER REGIONAL PARK: Although there’s no playground equipment at this large recreation facility, there is a skate park where bigger kids can bike and skate, and ball fields where little ones can run.

NEIGHBORHOOD PLAYGROUNDS:

Some of the easiest and most convenient playgrounds in Bluffton are located within the town’s neighborhoods.

Westbury Park, The Farm, Alston Park, Bluffton Park, and many other communities all have playgrounds for their residents. If you have friends

HENRY C. CHAMBERS WATERFRONT PARK: This popular location for festivals is also home to an awesome playground, where kids can spend hours climbing on the Lowcountry-themed equipment. Plus, the view of the water is amazing.

COURSEN-TATE MEMORIAL PARK: With ball fields and a playground, kids will be busy for hours at this park on Springfield Road.

JOHN S. PARKER PARK: Located on Casablanca Circle in Port Royal, this park has a playground and picnic tables for an afternoon of fun.

HABERSHAM PARK: Kids love this playground, which is close to shopping and dining, perfect for a fun day out in the Habersham neighborhood.

PIGEON POINT PARK: This large playground is located on Pigeon Point Road and is well-shaded by old-growth live oaks. There are walking trails and a large selection of playground equipment that kids will love.

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FAMILY FRIENDLY DINING IN THE LOWCOUNTRY

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et's face it, dining out with your kids can be difficult. Some restaurants cater to a more mature crowd; and by mature we mean anyone who doesn't climb under the table as soon as they get a little bit bored. Luckily for us, there are many restaurants who not only welcome the little ones, but cater to them and make our lives a bit easier. Either by offering a great kids menu or having activities available while you wait for your table. Here are a few to check out.

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Salty Dog Cafe: Offers music and entertainment for kids! Bonus: You might see Jake, the original salty dog, walking around with his owner!

Skull Creek Boathouse: A diverse menu, incredible water views and a giant Connect Four are just some of the perks of this island favorite. Kids will love climbing on their shrimp-boat climbing structure.

Fish Camp on Broad Creek: Kids can order their own snow crab legs while enjoying their outside deck and playing cornhole.

New York City Pizza: If you are looking for pizza, go to the mid-Island location in Shelter Cove, there is a GREAT park across the street.

Delisheeyo: Vegetarian and vegan options

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Street Meet: Kids love their hot dogs and fried twinkies, adults love their burgers and power bowls. Bonus: every Saturday kids pay what they weigh! A penny a pound.

Java Burrito: A quick casual restaurant with a great atmosphere. The menu is totally customizable for the small peeps!

Rockfish: Close to Coligny Plaza, Rockfish has deck seating, and an Art Cafe upstairs where the kids can paint pottery.

Hudsons: You 100% cannot beat the view and the kids love walking down on the docks looking at the boats. Reilley's: Looking for something a little more traditional? Head to Reilley's where Every Tuesday Night "Kids Eat Free" with Adult Entree.

BLUFFTON

Cahill’s Market & Chicken Kitchen: Check their website for special events like their popular pumpkin patch. Note: they do NOT offer a kids’ menu, but are plenty kid-friendly!

Old Town Dispensary: While this is a bar and locals’ hangout, kids will love playing outside and their live music.

Captain Woody’s: If you are looking for good seafood and a varied kids menu, this is the place for you.

Fat Patties: Delicious made-to-order burgers and homemade ice cream! They have an outdoor play place for the kids!

(Visit the original in Beaufort, too!)

Bluffton Oyster Company: $5 kids meals with applesauce and goldfish? Yes, please!

Stooges: Family friendly stop for breakfast and lunch.

Chow Daddys: The menu is perfect for the slightly older kid crowd and they have outdoor ping-pong tables to keep them occupied.

Local Pie: The best wood-fired pizza! Kids can play with dough while waiting for their food! Delight!

The Dog House Restaurant: I mean…it’s a restaurant dedicated to hot dogs. Fun for the adults, plain Jane for the kids!

Panini’s on the Waterfront: Kids LOVE to sit on the patio and run around downstairs on the waterfront park.

Cielito Lindo: Authentic Mexican food.

Tacos to die for, and a 6-year old’s “best quesadilla ever.”

Upper Crust: Kids will love to eat on the giant pizza table out on Lady’s Island.

Foolish Frog: One of the most gorgeous spots on St. Helena Island! A small menu for “the tadpoles.”

4-Island Pizza: Absolutely phenomenal pizza in a real pizzeria. Kids can run outside and play on a real boat! Be sure to look for awesome specials and don’t try to go on a Tuesday! Port Royal, SC

BEAUFORT

Q on Bay: A place that appeals to everyone in the family. Shuffleboard inside, seating out on the waterfront; there is an eggroll of the day that shouldn’t be missed!

Common Ground Coffee Shop: Delicious baked goods, authentic hot chocolate and coffee drinks, and Pino Gelato!

Hearth Wood Fired Pizza: The food is wonderful; try the wood-fired lasagna!

Lowcountry Produce: Dine amongst their unique decor and enjoy their hot doughnuts made fresh each morning.

Sea Eagle Market: From their boats to their tables, enjoy some of the freshest seafood around overlooking the water at this casual family style restaurant.

Roadhouse: A really neat BBQ place in Port Royal; better for the adventurous kiddos.

SAVANNAH

Henny Penny Cafe: Foxy Loxy Cafe and Scribble Art Studio combined their forces to bring you a family friendly atmosphere with fresh baked, made from scratch pastries, craft coffee and art space to do crafts with your little ones!

The Pirates’ House: Long-running piratethemed restaurant offering hearty Southern fare in a rustic, historic inn.

Leopold’s Ice Cream: Popular ice cream parlor with a marble soda fountain.

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ere in the Lowcountry we are so lucky to have so many farmer’s markets to choose from, including a few fun mobile options. Many of them have live music, activities for kids and many are pet-friendly. These markets have become a place families can go to stock up on their week’s veggies, fruit, meats, jellies, fresh bread, local bouquets of flowers and so much more.

– LOCAL FARMER’S MARKET GUIDE – market. The market also welcomes local chefs to host cooking demonstrations at the market. A Master Gardener will be there to offer gardening advice as well as local not-for-profits to help share their mission with the community.

HILTON HEAD FAMERS MARKET Tuesday 9:00 - 1:00pm | Year Round Located at the Coastal Discovery Museum at Honey Horn Plantation (70 Honey Horn Dr., HHI). Fresh Produce, pasteurized chicken, free range rabbit, pork sausage, seafood, salsa, cookies, bread, locally roasted coffee and much more SEA PINES FARMERS MARKET Tuesday 10:00 - 2:00pm | In Season Located at the Shops in Sea Pines Center (71 Lighthouse Road, HHI) There is a $8 gate fee to enter Sea Pines. Fruits and vegtables, kettle popcorn, gourmet cheeses, homemade cookies & breads, crafts, artists, book signings, pulled pork sandwiches and more BLUFFTON FARMERS MARKET Thursday 1:00 - 6:00pm | Year Round Located on Calhoun Street in Old Town Bluffton. Veggies, Fruit, Fresh Bread, Baked Goods, Local Honey. The first Thursday of each month, local artisans are invited to share their goods with the

PORT ROYAL FARMERS MARKET Saturday 9:00 - 12:00pm | Year Round Rain or Shine. Located in Heritage Park on Ribaut Road by the Naval Hospital.

SC Produce, Seafood, Beef, Eggs, Bread, BBQ, Cheese, Honey, Plants

FORSYTHE FARMERS MARKET Saturday 9:00 -1:00pm | Year Round Located in Forsythe Park in Savannah GA Home to the Farm Truck 912 - a mobile truck visiting the neighborhoods in Savannah. Fresh Produce, Pastured Meats, Local Honey, Artisan Dairy and Cheeses, Craft Breads and Baked Goods and a wide variety of prepared foods.

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SUMMER CAMPS

20 1 9 VISUAL & PERFORMING ARTS

REGISTER TODAY : ARTSHHI.COM/WORKSHOPS DESCRIPTION

SESSIONS

AGES

June 10 – 14

7 – 12

July 8 – 12

7 – 12

STEAM TINKER

An exciting hands-on learning opportunity focused on concepts such as geometry, engineering, circuits, forces of motion, and simple machines!

TAKE THE STAGE

Explore music, dance and drama in this one week camp. Work with professional artists and be exposed to a variety of performing art forms!

June 17 – 21

9 – 13 6–8

July 15 – 19

9 – 13 6–8

MIXED-UP MASTERPIECES

Study folk and fine art from all around the world in this one-week camp, inspired by both traditional and unusual 2D/3D masterpieces!

June 17 – 21

6–8 9 – 13

July 15 –19

6–8 9 – 13

THEATRE CAMP

Make a cast of new friends during this fun-filled week! Experience a miniproduction, learning how to understand and develop characters, create sets and props, and design costumes!

July 22 – 26

9 – 14

August 5 – 9

9 – 14

July 22 – 25 & August 2

7 – 12

July 29 – August 2 (am)

9 – 16

July 29 – August 2 (pm)

9 – 16

July 29 – August 2

10 – 16

KIDS N' CLAY

Learn a variety of ceramic hand building techniques: including pinch, slab, coil, surface decoration, glazing, and more!

STEAM DIGITAL ARTS

Take a hands-on journey into the exciting technology behind graphic design, 3D modeling, 3D printing, and virtual reality.

LEGALLY BLONDE CAMP

Play your part this summer at the Arts Center! Learn a variety of dance and drama techniques while working with the Dance Captain of our summer production Legally Blonde.

FOR MORE INFORMATION :

ARTSHHI.COM/WORKSHOPS OR EMAIL SENIOR DIRECTOR OF EDUCATION, ALANA ADAMS AT AADAMS@ARTSHHI.COM

ARTS CENTER OF COASTAL CAROLINA 14 SHELTER COVE LN • ARTSHHI.COM • 843.686.3945 X205

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