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TABLE OF CONTENTS

8 16 7 | PARENTING: ASK THE EXPERT: Parenting advice from a local college advisor.

8 | EXPECTING: TIPS FOR SUCCESSFUL BREASTFEEDING Learn from Geneva Baxley, lactation consultant at Beaufort Memorial.

12 | LITTLE: WIDE VARIATIONS OF NORMAL Developmental milestones can be different for every child.

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24 14 | PARENTING: THE NEW NORMAL School safety.

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16 | MIDDLE: HELPING YOUR CHILD GROW AS A READER Reading tips for back to school.

20 | TWEEN: THE BEST SUMMER JOB EVER! A sit-down with Luke Strebe.

24 | TWEEN: COPING WITH TEST ANXIETY What it is and how to handle it.

FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL Mya and Calvin Clayton of Hilton Head Island celebrated the first day of school by snapping a sibling selfie.

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26 | TEEN: SAT VS. ACT: HOW DO YOU CHOOSE? One, none, or both?

42 | ARTS IN THE LOWCOUNTRY CultureHHI explores the Crescendo Festival.

56 | TURKEY DAY MAKEOVER

New spin on your Thanksgiving Day sides.

30 | EDUCATION: LUTZIE 43 43 key seconds to distraction-free driving.

44 | FALL FESTIVALS Mark your calendars.

58 | WELCOME TO THE LOWCOUNTRY

Get to know Dr. Rodriguz, BCSD new superintendent.

32 | PARENTING: 5 BACK TO SCHOOL PAPER ORGANIZING TIPS How to deal with the mountain of papers.

36 | 2019 GIFT GUIDE Parenthood IQ tested and approved.

46 | FALL EVENTS

Fall fun across the Lowcountry.

52 | STELLAR KIDS

Local kids who are going places.

54 | TRICKS & TREATS

Foodie fun for your next Halloween event.

60 | LET'S GET SOCIAL #lowcountryfamilyfun: Back2School 62 | OUR VILLAGE

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WELCOME TO PIQ! KIDS ARE MESSY...PARENTING DOESN’T HAVE TO BE.

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e love fall, and not just because pumpkin spice is our favorite flavor.

The season is also a time of fantastic festivals — the Lowcountry’s many opportunities for families to play outside, browse locally made arts and crafts and sample some of the best food, all while spending time outside with friends and loved ones.

In this issue of Parenthood IQ, we balance all the fun aspects of fall with some of the more serious issues the season brings: back-to-school anxiety, testing, and school safety — a topic we all wish weren’t an issue as we settle into a new academic year. Our interview with new Beaufort County School District Superintendent Dr. Frank Rodriguez touches on all this and more.

And, of course, fall brings us one step closer to holiday season. Halloween will be here before we know it, followed in quick succession by Thanksgiving, Hanukkah and Christmas and the frenzy of activity that comes along with them. For a listing of upcoming fun family events, check our calendar —it’s the best around — and get a jump on your holiday shopping with gift ideas from local merchants. We’ve also got some easy treats for your child’s Halloween party, as well as new ideas for Thanksgiving side dishes to complement your family’s tried-and-true favorites.

This season, PIQ is thrilled to be sponsoring an Island Rec Center soccer team as part of the rec center’s fall league. Look for our team as they take to the field each Saturday and cheer them on! Thanks to the many other local business sponsors who partnered with the Rec Center to make sure local kids have the uniforms they needed to play.

Thank you for joining us in this family-focused community; as the saying goes, it takes a village. If you know a parent who deserves a moment in the spotlight — a great mom- or dad-preneur, for example — send us a note at editor@parenthoodiq.com. As always, we are here for you!

Happy Fall Y'all, From the PIQ Team!

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Marc Frey marc@mediamarketingteam.com CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER Meredith DiMuzio meredith@mediamarketingteam.com CONTENT CURATOR Kate Vermilyea kate@parenthoodiq.com CREATIVE DIRECTOR Christine Cannon christine@hiltonheadmonthly.com BRAND AMBASSADORS Karrie Comeau Karrie@mediamarketingteam.com Heather Edge heather@mediamarketingteam.com CONTRIBUTORS: Stefanie Ardoin Geneva Baxley Jessica Bender Karrie Comeau Jessica Farthing Joseph Floyd Jenna Gow Carrie Hirsch Justin Jarrett Jennifer McEwen Kate Vermilyea

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Ask the Experts

Parenting Advice from a Local College Advisor

Q: How many college tours should my student go to?

A: College tours are an important part of the college admissions process…but it can also be costly and time consuming. I advise my students to officially visit colleges starting in the spring of their Junior year when they have an idea of what schools they may want to apply to. If you are on vacation and can make a detour to a local college, by all means do so…even if your child is in middle school. It is never too early to start looking. Save official college tours to junior/senior year though.

There are two schools of thought with college tours in my opinion. One thought is to visit colleges that you are interested in to see if it is actually a school you will want to apply to. The second thought is to apply to the colleges first then wait to see if you get accepted…then go visit.

College visits are important, but there are many other ways to research colleges and get a “feel” for the campus. Visit www. youvisit.com for access to 600+ virtual college tours for free.

Q: Is it OK to take a gap year?

A: Many colleges value and appreciate a student’s desire to take a gap year before entering college. I advise my students to go ahead and apply to college and put a deposit down to the college you will want to attend after your gap year. Once they are accepted, they must contact the admissions department at the college they want to attend and alert them to the fact that they would like to take a gap year.

The admissions department at the college will then give the student instructions on how to “hold a spot” for the following fall semester.

College Tour Tips 1. Schedule your visit while school is in session 2. Take an official tour. Try to avoid the self-guided tours. Also see if you can tour a particular academic department or sit in on a class.

3. After the tour is over, browse around the rest of the campus. Visit the dining halls and the book store.

4. Visit the town/city where the college is located.

5. Try to talk to students on campus. Ask them about their classes and student life.

Ask about campus safety.

6. Keep a written record of your visits.

Write down pros and cons right after the tour so you don’t forget. Take pictures!!

7. Visit the financial aid office and get information about financial aid and scholarship opportunities.

8. Keep an open mind at all times PIQ

Please send parenting questions to editor@parenthoodiq.com Deena Paradiso, MS Ed. College Prep Counselor @ Hilton Head Prep Certified School Counselor Over 23 years of experience working with Middle School and High School Students on academic advising and college planning

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Tips for Successful Breastfeeding

By Geneva Baxley

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hile breastfeeding can be a source of great joy, getting off to a good start can be stressful. Understanding how to maximize your first 48 hours together will give you the confidence you need to relax and enjoy breastfeeding your baby.

SUCCESSFUL BREASTFEEDING STARTS RIGHT AFTER DELIVERY Capitalize on the first two hours after delivery, as your infant is likely to be awake and eager to feed. This wakefulness will likely dwindle in the hours that follow.

Bring the baby to the breast as soon as possible and let her feed for as long as she is willing.

RESPOND TO THE FIRST SIGNS OF INFANT HUNGER

It’s very difficult to feed a baby who is in a deep sleep or frantically crying in hunger. Therefore, it should be your goal to respond to the very first signs of hunger.

Anything that looks like your infant may be waking up and searching for a breast should be treated as a hunger cue. This includes fidgeting, wakefulness, headturning, lip-licking, mouth movement, finger sucking, head bobbing, etc.

WAKE YOUR INFANT TO FEED

While it might be tempting to let your baby sleep for long stretches (if they are willing), it is neither beneficial for establishing milk supply nor keeping your baby fed. If you need to wake your infant to feed, place them gently on their back in their bassinet and unswaddle/unwrap them. A diaper change, undressing, or rubbing the tummy and neck with a wet wipe will usually do the trick.

Developing your breastfeeding relationship with your child is a marathon, not a sprint, so don’t be discouraged if things don’t immediately “click.”

SKIN TO SKIN TIME

There are many benefits to holding your infant skin to skin. It helps calm them, regulates their body temperature, and maximizes opportunities to breastfeed.

Put simply, the closer your baby is to their target, the more likely they are to maintain interest.

Photo info: Geneva Baxley consults with a new mom about breastfeeding. "Ask for help if you need it," advises Baxley. "Breastfeeding can be awkward at first, especially for first time moms. Photo by Paul Nurnberg.

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MINIMIZE INTERRUPTIONS

For some moms, breastfeeding can make you feel vulnerable. Carefully consider which visitors might be a hindrance rather than a help and establish some visitation boundaries before you arrive at the hospital. It’s okay to ask your visitors to step out until after you’re finished feeding.

Examples of proper positioning

HAND EXPRESS FIRST

Hand express (squeeze out) colostrum (early milk) to start each feeding. This allows your baby to taste and smell what’s about to happen. The process of hand expression will also allow your nipple to become erect, giving your baby the best possible target for latching. Don’t panic if nothing comes out - your baby’s suck will draw it out during the feeding.

AVOID PACIFIERS

If your baby is eager to suck, he should be breastfeeding. Additionally, the way the pacifier feels in his mouth may be really satisfying, making convincing him to return to your nipple a bit of a struggle. Pacifiers are safe, and okay to use after lactation has been well established and your baby is gaining weight.

ASK FOR HELP

PRACTICE GOOD BODY MECHANICS

Before you start feeding, make sure you’re (relatively) comfortable and have the support pillows you’ll need. Once you’re set, make sure your baby is well-supported and properly aligned. (Your little one’s head, neck, back, and body should all be facing the same direction.) If you’re leaning over forward into your baby, that’s a sign that your baby needs another pillow underneath her to bring her closer to you. The goal is to minimize tension, lifting, hunching, and contorting.

Breastfeeding a newborn can be very awkward–especially for first-time moms.

If it feels like you need four hands to get everything going, you probably do.

Remember, your nurses are here to help!

Don’t hesitate to push the call bell for help!

DON’T GET DISCOURAGED

For most, motherhood has a rough initiation. It’s as exhausting as it is exhilarating, and breastfeeding can have its challenges. Developing your breastfeeding relationship with your child is a marathon, not a sprint, so don’t be discouraged if things don’t immediately “click.” You need practice and your baby needs practice. Hang in there, Mama! You got this! PIQ

Geneva Baxley, BSN, RN, IBCLC, is a graduate of Duke University School of Nursing and is an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC). She currently works at Beaufort Memorial Hospital where she supports and assists breastfeeding moms and babies. Geneva teaches a breastfeeding class for expectant parents, leads a breastfeeding support group for postpartum mothers, and guides monthly tours of the hospital’s Collins Birthing Center.

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WIDE VARIATIONS OF NORMAL!

By Dr. Joseph Floyd

A young family welcoming a newborn has a wonderful (maybe trying) experience in store. New parents want to know in the delivery room, “Is my baby OK? Is he normal?” Thankfully, the vast majority of the time the answer is, “Yes,” though even as a newborn, what is defined as normal can be a fairly wide range.

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lot has changed in only 12 months.

It is important to recognize that some milestones may come early, some late, and some may be skipped altogether. It is not unusual to see a child not crawl “on time,” just to see him stand up and walk a month later. Children can be really fun and interesting in the different ways they grow and develop.

for developmental delays that were hidden from us just a few years ago. Advice to our young parents: enjoy the journey. It is fun to see our children grow and change. At each check-up, your pediatrician will watch and measure not only physical growth, but also motor, neurological, and social development.

So what problems do we see in the office most commonly regarding child development?

Interestingly, it is often parents and family who are worried and anxious after reading something or after comparing their child to another child. Parents fear their child is falling behind or is not normal. This can be a real emotional trap for families!

If (during regular checkups or as a result of concerns noted by parents and family) a delay is noted, pediatricians can access services from speech, occupational, or physical therapists. HealthLink at Beaufort Memorial Hospital has been a leader in furnishing childhood services supported by several other sources in the area. Rapidly progressing technology has enabled physicians to diagnose rare genetic causes 12 ParenthoodIQ.com • FALL 2019

THE FIRST WEEKS

A newborn is overwhelmed with new sensations and feelings. After the first 24hour “recovery period,” the baby’s drive is to eat, becoming even voracious by Day 3, which can be challenging for breastfeeding mothers before their milk comes in. As feeding settles down around the fourth or fifth day, Baby still has a long way to go while trying to make sense of new noises, lights, and touches.

Babies enjoy being swaddled, mimicking the intrauterine environment. The first five weeks, for parents and baby, are hard work,

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but eventually, we get to the first milestone: that social smile actually seeing you! This is usually seen at 5-6 weeks, but there is a range of time for this happening since every baby is a unique individual.

SIX WEEKS-THREE MONTHS

Babies see pretty well, responding to you by developing head control, becoming pronounced around now. Now, and at a magic weight of 12 pounds, babies are physiologically and developmentally ready to sleep through the night. This can be a boon to exhausted parents who have been up every 2-3 hours for months, but the every-two-hour feedings can become a habit for baby and parent, delaying this stage as both work to get past it.

FOUR MONTHS

Baby begins to show more response to her surroundings, batting at objects with hands, sometimes gripping and holding on. Teething starts, sometimes bringing fussiness. At about 14 pounds and after four months, Baby may be ready to start baby foods. A good sign she is developmentally ready is when she can take baby food from a spoon. Some babies take right to it while others are not ready until as late as seven months.

SIX MONTHS

Baby grasps his feet, even sucking on toes!

Some responsive sounds now occur as he interacts more. It is a crucial time while learning from the environment, and face time with Mom and Dad continues to be vital. The baby can now sit up with help, and drooling is now pronounced with more teething.

NINE MONTHS

We can expect rolling, scooting around, beginning to stand, and holding on to furniture.

Baby sounds now begin to become recognizable consonants and vowels as she continues to learn by observing those around her.

TWELVE MONTHS

The big event around now is the first step, often unsteady and tentative, but babies are pretty smart about taking it one step at a time. The first word may become intelligible at this stage, but even at 15 months, only about 3-4 words are forthcoming. PIQ

Dr. Joseph “Chip” Floyd is the principal provider at Beaufort Pediatrics. He became “semiretired” in August after a 30+ year career in pediatrics. He is a proud father of three and a doting grandfather to three busy, wonderful grandchildren.

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THE NEW NORMAL: MORE THAN JUST A FIRE DRILL AND MAIN OFFICE CHECK INS.

By Jessica Farthing

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n the four weeks following the shootings in El Paso, Texas, and Dayton, Ohio that left 31 people dead, a wave of arrests began as law enforcement officials pursued leads for potential mass shootings. Several of these threats involved shootings at school, the fear an unfortunate reality for our children. Schools have responded by beefing up security and practicing active shooter drills, but this only goes so far. How can we help keep children safe? And how can they ever feel safe at school?

SPREADING FEAR ON SOCIAL MEDIA

Recently, a hoax was posted on social media involving a shooting at a Savannah Walmart store. The post, widely distributed

by Savannah youth, seemed to be a screenshot of a text from someone with a family member on the Savannah Police force. It stated that they had arrested an individual who planned a mass shooting, and that his accomplices hadn’t been found. It warned everyone to stay away from the store.

In fact, the hoax was being replicated across the state. No arrests had been made and Savannah Police took steps to reassure the public. That didn’t stop area teens from sharing the information to their network of friends, worrying and warning everyone to take it seriously. Social media is a challenge for parents to monitor, because it moves swiftly with content shared instantaneously.

It’s also a point of contention between parents and children worried about privacy.

Maureen Hawkins, Ph.D., of Adolescent Psychotherapy of the Lowcountry, knows that parents might be in for a struggle, “Honestly, it’s challenging. Parents can

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follow their kids on social media, do periodic checks to make sure they are being safe; however, the kids are usually more adept at social media than their parents and can conceal interactions. It’s important to talk to kids about their social media use, ask them what they are looking at or look at it with them if they are open to that. It lets them know you are interested and keeps you connected at the same time.“

WHAT MAKES A MASS SHOOTER?

In a recent opinion piece for the Los Angeles Times, Jillian Peterson and James Densley of The Violence Project, a non-profit dedicated to analyzing data to prevent further violence, listed characteristics of mass shooters based on studies of behavior since 1966. They say that the vast majority of mass shooters experience some kind of childhood trauma and are exposed to violence in their early years. Almost every shooter studied had just experienced a crisis in their lives and actively sought out information on other shooters to justify their motives. That’s why after a shooting, we seem to hear about or see reports of copycat crimes. It was also found that mass shooters all had the weapons to carry out

the act or a way to get them; whether legally or illegally purchased or in a friend or family member’s possession.

WHAT CAN SCHOOLS DO?

With much of a shooter’s characteristics relating back to childhood, schools and families are on the front lines of problem prevention.

Schools have responded with physical security methods. Identification cards, the locking of extra access points and limiting to one door open for entry, as well as gates, metal detectors, and staff training, are all becoming normal in schools. The South Carolina Department of Education has created videos aimed at reducing the risk of school violence for both students and staff.

They address creating a positive school environment and risk behaviors that need to be reported.

REASSURANCE FROM HOME To reduce the prevalence of shootings, families need to use the data. If guns are in the home, responsible owners must eliminate access to all firearms. No child under 18 can legally buy a gun, so most younger shooters find weapons in their family unit. There are clear methods to store weapons within a functional, locking area.

Parents can take simple steps to inspire kindness. Creating a culture of acceptance and support in the home provides a positive example, helping to reduce bullying in schools. Erasing the stigma surrounding ‘snitching’ and replacing it with the knowledge of the importance of informing adults of threats can help to open the lines of communication. Empowering students to be in control of their own environment allows them to feel comfortable warning adults of possible problems.

Finally, Dr. Hawkins has suggestions for reducing the anxiety associated with fear of school shootings. “Kids are very sensitive to their parents’ emotional reactions. The best thing parents can do is talk to their kids calmly and openly. Encourage questions and let them express their feelings without jumping in. Encourage them to tell you about the lockdown drills and what makes them feel the most comfortable. Let them know that it is statistically unlikely to happen. Limit their exposure to media coverage of shooting incidents. The constant media coverage/images increase anxiety."

According to Gun Violence Archive, a nonprofit that reports statistics on the United States, there have been 295 mass shootings this year. As of this report, we are on day 255 (September 12) of 2019. Since 2015, the United States has averaged well over 300 mass shootings every year. As politicians debate laws that regard gun regulation, parents and schools are on the front line, working hard to create a safe and stress-free environment in which children learn. No one solution will curb violence in schools.

A concerted effort from communities to report suspicions, support mental health, and create open dialogues with children will certainly help. PIQ Jessica Farthing is a Savannah-based freelance writer and mom of three. She often looks at her children who are almost grown and wonders how it happened so fast!

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HELPING YOUR CHILD GROW AS A READER

By Jenna Gow

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eginning to read is one of the most exciting times in your child’s development!

As a kindergarten teacher, I love getting to experience the joy and excitement that this milestone brings as they grow as readers.

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1) CREATE A SPECIAL DAILY READING TIME

As children begin to read, it is important to support their progress and encourage their development. Consider setting up a daily time to share books together. This might include your child reading to you or you reading a story to him. Keep in mind that as children begin to read their ‘reading’ might be through the pictures.

This involves the student looking at the pictures instead of the words and telling a story that matches the pictures. This is an important and powerful step in the reading process and should be encouraged at all levels of reading development. Create a schedule that works for your family and then stick to it! Do your best to never skip a day and keep this as the time that you get to share together, even if you need to Skype or FaceTime in!

also what interests her as a learner. If she prefers a phonetical approach, spend time at home with her playing letter games and manipulating small words. These games do not need to be store-bought and should not feel like work. They can be as simple as drawing with chalk, throwing a ball into a cup with a letter/word on it, creating a relay race, etc. While there are endless possibilities to teach phonics, you want to make sure that you incorporate ideas that meet your child’s interests and will spark excitement. These might include singing or dancing, sports or athletics or art. If your child prefers to learn through a whole language approach, spend time at home working on sight word recognition. This can be done through simple flashcards but can also include similar games and approaches as listed above. For most students, some exploration with both approaches will be the most successful way to help them grow.

3) INCORPORATE NATURAL EXPERIENCES

2) GET TO KNOW YOUR CHILD AS A READER

Children either learn to read phonetically (by blending letter sounds together to make words ie: stretching it out) or through a whole language approach (learning to identify words and phrases and using them along with meaningful context). Take the time to learn which approach your child prefers and

While it is important to set aside time to read and play phonics/sight word games, don’t forget that children are learning every second of every day. Some of the most meaningful reading exposure your child will receive will happen throughout your normal everyday activities. If you are intentional about it, there are opportunities all around you! Have your student help you FALL 2019 • ParenthoodIQ.com 17

find products at the grocery store, read the menu at a restaurant or find letters in the newspaper. In addition, as reading and writing are so closely related, having your child practice writing will also help him to develop as a reader. This can also be done naturally and might include writing a note to a teacher or friend, helping add to the shopping list or making posters for his room. These ideas should be encouraged and supported but not forced.

4) COMMUNICATION

A child’s vocabulary and language skills are crucial to his or her reading development.

Children who regularly converse with others are learning through this process and working on their language skills. In life and during reading time be sure to stop and discuss/ask questions and promote critical thinking skills.

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5) BE POSITIVE AND PATIENT

Reading comes easily to some students and is more challenging for others. Keep in mind that reading is a developmental process and will come to most students in time. When you are reading with your child be sure to celebrate her successes, praise her efforts and support her as needed.

Time that is spent reading together should be a magical and special time for both of you. If it begins to feel stressful or frustrating take the time to stop and revisit what you are doing and why it is challenging. As you are building a lifelong reader, his motivation and attitude will not only impact his current reading development but also how he will view it throughout life. It is also powerful for your child to see you reading independently and often. This might be you looking at a cookbook for information, reading the morning newspaper or reading for entertainment. Children model those they admire the most and will look to you to develop their own attitude and motivation towards reading. PIQ Jenna Gow is a kindergarten teacher at Riverview Charter School in Beaufort. She is also the owner of Memorable Reflections. www.hhiphotobooth.com

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– TWEEN –

THIS JOB IS BANANAS! PIQ sat down with Luke Strebe, a student at Riverview Charter School, who was the 10-year-old on-field co-host of the Savannah Bananas this summer. He shared his insight with us on this amazing opportunity.

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PIQ: HOW DID LUKE GET THE JOB WORKING WITH THE SAVANNAH BANANAS? Believe it or not, his mother, Donna Strebe, found the opportunity while scrolling through Facebook. His first reaction? “Um, NO!” He even begged not to go when the day arrived for the audition. Once he met the director of entertainment, he began to get excited and thought it might be fun. “They were amazed!” Luke said after his audition. It shows! Out of all the candidates, Luke was selected!

PIQ: WHAT DID THE JOB CONSIST OF?

Luke’s first responsibility was to attend a “pre-game” meeting, where he was given a script of all the promotions and events throughout the game. He loved being part of the 1st Pitch 1st Banana, where they pitch a banana instead of a baseball! While the events were preplanned, his reactions were authentic, which challenged him

to think on the spot and hone down his improvisation skills. “I really liked being a part of making someone have a good experience.” Another favorite part? “I got to go down into the dugout and meet all the players! I thought that was pretty cool!”

PIQ: WHAT WAS ONE OF THE THINGS YOU LEARNED FROM THIS EXPERIENCE?

“I really improved my improv skills, and I’ve learned how to go with the flow. Anything that happens, go with that!”

PIQ: IF YOU COULD GIVE ONE PIECE OF ADVICE TO BOYS AND GIRLS YOUR AGE, WHAT WOULD YOU TELL THEM?

“Just try it! Even if you don’t think you’d like it, you never know if you’ll like it or not if you don’t try!”

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TEST ANXIETY Tips on How to Cope

By Jessica Bender

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our head is pounding, hands are shaking, maybe sweaty, and perhaps your stomach is in severe knots, maybe you even feel dizzy, like you’re going to pass out. The flu??? This soon into the school year??? Nope! I’m going to guess you are about to take a test and you have gone completely blank on the answers and are now freaking out. Breathe deeply, friends, and read on to find out exactly what is happening to you.

WHAT IS TEST ANXIETY?

Test anxiety is like normal stress about taking a test, but supercharged. If test anxiety were a Marvel character, it would be Bruce Banner/the Hulk. It is completely normal to feel nervous or a little stressed over taking a test, especially bigger ones like the ACT or SAT. Even a mid-term 24 ParenthoodIQ.com • FALL 2019

exam brings some stress and pressure with it. Normal stress veers over into Hulk mode when the thought of taking the test becomes paralyzing, causing physical and/or emotional symptoms that are very unpleasant, uncomfortable and sometimes, scary.

WHAT TEST ANXIETY CAN FEEL LIKE.

Test anxiety can show up in a variety of ways and it can affect people differently.

Physical symptoms can include stomach ache, headaches, sweating, shaking or you feel like your heart is going to pound right out of your chest. You might feel like you need to get out of the room! Test anxiety can ride the emotional rollercoaster with the best of them. You can run from feeling happy and confident as you walk into the

classroom to sad and angry as you realize all your studying was worthless because you couldn’t recall the answers. Top it off with feelings of fear, defeat and “I can’t do anything right” as you think about your grades and what your parents will say. The good news is that you can put the brakes on the rollercoaster.

READ THIS PARAGRAPH OUT LOUD…

A test does not define me or my abilities or my self-worth. I am not a failure as a human if I don’t do well on a test. My parents still love me even if I don’t do well on a test. I still love me if I’m not perfect.

REPEAT THAT. HOW TO HANDLE THE ANXIETY.

So, there are several ways to calm down the Hulk that is test anxiety. Sometimes it takes a few tries to find out what works best for you – if one strategy doesn’t work, then try another. · Deep Breathing – Some people roll their eyes at this one, but for others, it really works. Inhale through your nose as deeply as you can, hold for 4 counts and then blow it out through your mouth for 4 counts.

Repeat until calm and focused. · Go To Your Happy Place – Developing a serene and calm scene in your mind that you can retreat to when you’re freaking out can help calm you down because it distracts

you from what is causing the anxiety (just don’t forget about the test). · Do the 54321 exercise – another distraction strategy. In your head, name 5 things you can see, 4 things you can feel, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell and 1 thing you can taste. This refocuses your brain on real things in front of you. · Remind yourself what is actually happening – the majority of test anxiety comes from “what-ifs” you have created in your brain…Remind yourself of the FACTS of your current situation: you studied, you are able, etc. and what your body is doing is reacting to what-ifs, not facts. · Be prepared – this goes without saying.

Studying for a reasonable amount of time for a test gives you a sense of control over the situation. Don’t wait until the last minute. · Get enough sleep, attempt to eat reasonable food and get moving.

Sometimes a good workout or sports practice can knock the stress and anxiety right out of you.

Try some of these and see how you feel. If the testing anxiety continues to get worse or the anxiety starts to invade other areas of your life, you may need to talk to your parents, a favorite teacher, the school counselor, or a good friend. There is NO SHAME in getting help!! PIQ Jessica Bender, M.A., is an LPCa with May River Counseling, LLC. www.mayrivercounseling.com

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ACT VS. SAT

By Jessica Farthing

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here are so many decisions regarding college preparation when your child is in high school. Where should she volunteer? What extracurriculars should he join? And a very important decision: which admissions test for college should receive one’s full attention? Experts recommend that students focus on taking and improving their score on either the Scholastic Aptitude Test (SAT) or American College Testing (ACT). Both are used in the application process and usually accepted at colleges across the United States, but can be very different when it comes to the actual testing.

WHAT’S TESTED?

Both tests include reading and math sections, as well as an optional essay portion. Some colleges require the essay, but some disregard this part. If you aren’t sure which your child needs, take the essay just in case.

The ACT has an English portion and the SAT has Writing and Language. The SAT has questions formed that test the use of vocabulary in context, grammar, and even editing skills. The English part of the ACT is always the first segment tested, and it’s very heavy on punctuation, grammar, and reading comprehension. There isn’t any vocabulary tested on the ACT, a big difference from the SAT format.

The ACT also has a science section, one that is 35 questions long with 40 minutes in which to take it. Students are given a reading passage and asked a series of questions that show comprehension.

They could contain graphs or charts and the testing relates specifically to the understanding of the scientific concepts in the reading. According to the ACT, students are ready to take this portion if they’ve had three years of science including one biology or earth science course, understand the scientific method, and have been exposed to scientific data.

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IS THE MATH THE SAME?

While both tests have math sections, there are some fine differences that could make a difference to your child. They do cover basic math skills, algebra I and II, geometry and trigonometry, but the SAT includes data analysis while the ACT tests probability and statistics.

It’s also good to know that the calculator policy for the two tests isn’t the same. While you can use the recommended devices on all questions on the math part of the ACT, some SAT math problems don’t allow calculators. The ACT doesn’t allow the calculator for science reasoning. Even the acceptable devices differ. On the ACT, you are not allowed to bring a calculator with a Computer Algebra System (CAS). These calculators typically help solve algebraic equations and that isn’t permitted. The SAT is more lenient with their rules, allowing scientific and graphing calculators in the test room.

On the actual test, the SAT prints math formulas on the student’s booklet. For the ACT, all the formulas have to be memorized before the test. They aren’t allowed in the notes on your calculator and aren’t provided for you in the test material. While it seems that this will give a ton of help, the formulas on the SAT are just for geometry,

which doesn’t make up a huge part of the math test. The ACT does provide multiple choice for every math question, while the SAT requires students to fill in answers without any options for a guess in a large portion of the math test.

If you are concerned about your child’s calculator, there is a full list of devices available on both testing websites.

WHAT ABOUT READING?

The SAT uses reading passages from natural science studies, literature, history, and social sciences to ask multiple-choice questions to show student’s comprehension of the main idea and proven facts. 65 minutes are given to read five passages.

On the ACT, the section is shorter, only 40 minutes to read four passages and answer 35 questions. The reading material is nearly the same--the test uses social science, natural science, literature and the humanities for its reading selections.

TIMING

For both tests, students aren’t penalized for incorrect answers. The SAT could be best for anxious testers, giving slightly more time to

complete the problems. This is especially noticeable in the math section, where the SAT gives 30 more seconds per question, on average.

There isn’t a notable difference in the length of tests. The SAT, without the essay, is three hours, while the ACT is two hours and fifty-five minutes. Of course, both allow accommodations for timing for those with documented disabilities.

IN SUMMARY

Practice tests are available to help decide which test to pursue. After the first attempt, tutoring can significantly raise scores, so consider investing in a quality program if you aren’t satisfied. Colleges are usually happy to accept both tests, though some states require one in particular. It’s important to pick what's most comfortable for your child and to check for requirements with the colleges where he or she is planning to apply. PIQ Jessica Farthing is a Savannah-based freelance writer and mom of three. She often looks at her children who are almost grown and wonders how it happened so fast!

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WHAT STUDENTS ARE SAYING…

“Our child is the happiest I have seen him in the longest time. He loves school and learning again! He gets in the car after school with a smile on his face. He talks nonstop about what he is learning, his teachers, and his friends.”

— C. Ellis

“This school is so unique! I love the diversity of students as I have made friends from all over the world. Teachers connect with students, get to know each one, and help us to reach out goals. The school environment is positive, high-energy and impactful.” — V. Horup

“Heritage Academy’s creative approach to education has helped my daughter become more self-motivated and take responsibility for her schedule and commitments. She has learned the importance of time management and prioritizing her responsibilities to maintain a healthy balance in her life.”

— J. Brighton

“Heritage Academy gave me a more personal experience and allowed me to take in more information and do well on tests and quizzes.”

— J. Williams

“We could have never found a better school to take a twelve year old and make him into a Colgate University student.” — J. and S. Chin

“Teachers help you as an individual and the small class sizes help you learn more at a time.

It’s personalized.” — F. van-Kleef

“Our daughter’s guidance counselor at Heritage is truly unbelievable. She has helped our daughter with every step of the admissions process. We just wish that she had transferred there sooner.” — C. and D. Alford

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LUTZIE 43 FOUNDATION Distracted Driving

By Kate Vermilyea

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o one can disagree: distracted driving is a bad deal. That said, how many of us engage in it in some way daily?

Heck, even having children in the car with me can sometimes put me in a distracted mindset. Add in an electronic device and we are all in an entirely different category.

The temptation! The catalyst for 294,882 thoughts! But what if we all took some time before we began our drive to get settled and prepared?

turned into a character curriculum, but for our purposes here, we are focused on the Lutzie 43 Foundation, which “exists to reduce the number of distracted driving incidents, ultimately diminishing the number of deaths caused by unsafe driving. The foundation fulfills this mission by encouraging and empowering young people to be positive ambassadors for safe driving, carried out through [the] 43 Key Seconds Initiative.”

In 2014 Philip Lutzenkirchen died in a drunk driving accident. An enormously talented young man who was a man of character on and off the football field, Lutz died leaving a legacy to his family and friends. His father pledged to keep his memory alive by coming up with 43 words to describe Lutz. This has subsequently

It’s wonderful and encouraging to know that the Town of Bluffton has had a partnership with the Bluffton Police Department for about two years to educate and inform the population about distracted driving. It wasn’t until this spring, though, that the Town (and police department) partnered with Lutzie 43 to

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provide information and education to high school students. So far Bluffton High School and May River High School students took the pledge. Last week University of South Carolina Beaufort students took the pledge.

"Any time we can get students to pledge to something as important as not driving distracted is a good thing. Forty-six students is a great start and I'm sure this number will grow. We look forward to partnering with the Lutzie 43 foundation in the future and having them back on campus next year as part of Sand Shark Welcome Week," Ali Mathe, Director of Student Life.

Bluffton is making strides by being the first town in South Carolina to partner with Lutzie 43. When people pledge to think before driving distracted, they receive a physical key with a large 43 stamped on it. This is designed to make one stop and think and: Ensure you have a clear head- one that is not affected by alcohol, drugs, emotions or fatigue.

• Have clear hands- send a text, adjust the radio and put all devices away so you can drive hands-free.

• Set your sights on the road ahead. Do not look to the side at a passenger or down at a text.

• Finally, click your seatbelt. It’s the law and could save your life!

• Now, turn your key.

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5 BACK TO SCHOOL PAPER ORGANIZING TIPS!

By Stefanie Ardoin

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ur kids are back to school! This season usually comes with lots of additional paper. If you are finding your car, kitchen, laundry room, and other areas of your home filled with paper, backpacks, lunchboxes, shoes, and jackets, these tips are for you.

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1. KEEP A BASKET IN YOUR CAR.

Your car, being an extension of your home, is one of the areas in which the extra papers and “kid stuff” end up. After a few days of chauffeuring, sometimes your car looks like a hot mess. Try keeping a basket in your car so your kids can put all of their papers, jackets, leftover lunch items, and many more things in a designated spot.

Bring the basket into the house in the afternoon/evening and after emptying it, leave it near the door to place things in there that need to go with you the next morning. Be consistent with your basket practice by bringing it in the house and back out to the car every day.

2. KEEP ANOTHER BASKET IN your high traffic area where it is seen

daily. This basket is to collect everything else in your paper world. We all have lots of paper throughout our homes. The purpose behind this basket is to have all of your working/action items in one place.

This is the place in which you will keep your bills to pay, permission slips to sign, spelling words to study, recipes to prepare, receipts to file, tax items to collect, and anything else in this category. This is also a great place to keep all of the papers from your kids that came in the car basket.

Add slash pockets to the basket and label them with your family members’ names, action items, errands to run, and other things needed to make things happen. See IslandOrganizing.net for basket ideas. Be consistent with this basket by choosing one day per week to ALWAYS go through the basket and deal with any action items.

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that will hold “art-sized” pages. Label each container with the child’s name and the school year. When your child gets home and you are all emptying the car basket, your child can add any of his pages he would like to keep into this container. The rule will be, “If it fits in the container, you can keep it; if it doesn’t fit and you want to keep it, something else needs to go.”

4. TAKE PHOTOS OF SCHOOL SCHEDULES, lunch menus and other important information to keep handy.

Your house basket is perfect to keep the hard copies, but It is always great to have it handy on your phone.

5. HAVE A PLANNING TIME

when you are going through your basket.

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is coming up in the next week so you can be prepared. Maybe your child has a doctor’s appointment and you need to bring shot records to the visit, or maybe you volunteered to bring cookies to class this week--this planning time can help ensure you have everything you need for the upcoming week.

Dealing with paper can sometimes be difficult, but these tips can help streamline your time and ensure you are prepared!

Need help getting control of your paper?

Register for our Paper Retreat at www.

IslandOrganizing.net taking place on Saturday, October 12, 2019. PIQ Stefanie Ardoin, RHIA is a professional organizer with Island Organizing on Hilton Head Island. We help people organize their homes, businesses, and paper using systems to make you more productive.

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s there anything better than an unscheduled day when the main focus is window shopping at our local stores and boutiques?

Our children love the Storybook Shoppe – and in this case, by children, I mean even the adult children. Get the classics, as well as new books that are sure to please; Ms. Sally Sue knows her stuff! You can grab your newest Jellycat member here as well!

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Mameem and Maudie is more than just a coffee shop – you can grab clothing for the littles, women, and men, and of course a bite of ice cream, shaved ice, candy, or perhaps a macaroon!

Heartward is an online clothing boutique focused on positivity. We could all use t-shirts reminding us that kindness matters.

For Littles

1. Indestructibles® Books Moonlit Lullaby Old Town Bluffton

2. Scoop & Stack Ice Cream Cone Playset Hilton Head Toys Coligny Plaza

Looking for the best toy for a 6-year-old boy?

Or a 12-year-old girl? Hilton Head Toys is your place. With The Balloon Factory and a teddy bear shop inside it, you are sure to find (more than) what you’re looking for!

And if it’s clothing you seek for the new babe, or the littlest members in your life, Mia’s Harbour on Hilton Head and Moonlit Lullaby are your places! Deck out your peeps with all they need for glorious

3. Disney Matching Hilton Head Toys Coligny Plaza

4. Domino Train Moonlit Lullaby Old Town Bluffton

monthly photoshoots, grab a new gift for your best friend’s cherub, or just indulge with a little retail therapy!

What do these places all have in common?

They are all run by knowledgeable, LOCAL people! Bluffton, Hilton Head, and Beaufort are all full of awesome little shops. Support them so we can continue to benefit from their expertise! It’s so refreshing when you need information from a store and they can provide it! #ShopLocal! PIQ

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For Littles

1. The Mitten Story Book Shoppe Calhoun Street

2. Baby Einstein Move & Discover Pals Hilton Head Toys Coligny Plaza

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3. Munch-it Blanket Moonlit Lullaby Old Town Bluffton

4. Spin Again Moonlit Lullaby Old Town Bluffton

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4. Operation Photobomb Story Book Shoppe Calhoun Street

5. A.R.I.A Adventures Hilton Head Toys Coligny Plaza

6. So Slime DIY Slime Case Hilton Head Toys Coligny Plaza

7. Lego City Diving Yacht Hilton Head Toys Coligny Plaza

8. Super Needoh: The Groovy Glob Hilton Head Toys Coligny Plaza

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For tweens and teens

1. Warrior's Mark Axe Throwing Hilton Head Toys Coligny Plaza

2. Kids Against Maturity Hilton Head Toys Coligny Plaza

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3. Good Vibes State of Mind : Gratitude Journal Set Hilton Head Toys Coligny Plaza

4. The Dragon Warrior Story Book Shoppe Calhoun Street

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4. Pictionary Air Hilton Head Toys Coligny Plaza

5. Spikeball Hilton Head Toys Coligny Plaza

6. Fun T-Shirt Too Belles Main Street

7. Sea Island Secret Storybook Shoppe Calhoun Street

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FAMILY-FRIENDLY ARTS & CULTURE ACTIVITIES DURING CRESCENDO

By Jennifer McEwen

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rescendo, the month-long celebration of arts & culture on Hilton Head Island, is a regional event, organized in honor of October’s National Arts and Humanities Month, and highlights and showcases the vast array of arts, culture, and history organizations, individual artists, performers, and authors residing and working in the Hilton Head/Bluffton area. Join the celebration and honor the importance of arts and culture in America and in our local community.

The 2019 Crescendo Celebration features more than 100 unique arts and cultural programs, concerts, theatrical productions, museum and gallery exhibits, lectures, poetry readings, dance performances, historical tours, hands-on arts experiences, and educational offerings which are estimated to attract more than 10,000 people from all over the United States, Canada and parts of Europe. Some familyfriendly events of note include:

time when he makes him the subject of an animated art project for school. October 27, 2019 at Coligny Theater.

· The Jewish Film Festival showing of “The Samuel Project”. Rated PG, Eli gets to know his grandfather Samuel for the first

· Marsh Tacky Horse Tours at the Coastal Discovery Museum. Descended from horses brought to the Lowcountry in the 1500s,

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· The Nutcracker by the Dance Theatre of Hilton Head. This is a favorite of my 5-yearold daughter and we’ve made this beautiful interpretation of the classic an annual mother/daughter tradition. She starts asking for the Nutcracker in July! November 15 – 24, 2019 at Seahawk Cultural Center.

there are now around 300 Marsh Tackies left in existence. Learn about the history of these adaptable horses and take a trip to our historic barn. Weekly, October 11 – November 15, 2019. · Main Street Youth Theatre is presenting the popular musical “Godspell” this fall.

November 12 – 24, 2019 at Main Street Theater. · Hilton Head Haunted History Tours. A fun graveside storytelling adventure of residents of Hilton Head’s past. Every Wednesday at 8:30 PM at Zion Chapel of Ease Cemetery. · Hilton Head Island’s Inaugural Lantern Parade is a free event and an opportunity for the surrounding community and visitors to celebrate the history, ecology, and people

of Hilton Head Island. We want to see our whole community as volumes of light!

November 9, 2019, at South Forest Beach.

Parents, there are also lots of great events scheduled that you’ll want to grab a sitter for and make your way to including two great theatre productions, “Murder on the Orient Express,” at the Arts Center of Coastal Carolina, and “The Humans” at Lean Ensemble. There are also lots of concerts, and fabulous visual arts exhibits (many of which kids are welcome at, too!)

For the full calendar of events visit either hiltonheadartsdaily.org or culturehhi.org PIQ Jennifer McEwen comes to Hilton Head Island to fill the role of Director of Cultural Affairs following a successful track record in arts leadership and marketing strategy in Atlanta, Georgia.

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OCT. 10-13 TYBEE ISLAND PIRATE FEST: Bring your family to the 15th annual Tybee Island Pirate Fest dressed in your finest pirate attire. Tickets are $12 for Oct. 11, $15 for Oct. 12 and $25 for a weekend pass. 1700 Strand Ave., Tybee Island. 912-786-6109 or tybeepiratefest.com.

OCT. 4-6 BEAUFORT SHRIMP FESTIVAL: A 2-day celebration featuring local coastal cuisine, live music and more. Highlights of the festival include Friday evening’s concert in the park, Saturday’s 5K Bridge Run/Walk and an Arts & Crafts Market with local, handmade items. Henry C. Chambers Waterfront Park, 1010 Bay Street, Beaufort. www.beauforchamber.org OCT. 12-20 BLUFFTON ARTS AND SEAFOOD FESTIVAL: Celebrating the 15th year of Bluffton’s largest festival. Showcasing the 44 ParenthoodIQ.com • FALL 2019

area’s rich history, local cuisine, culture and art. The weekend street festival will feature food, music and entertainment. Free. blufftonartsandseafoodfestival.com.

OCT 13 SAVANNAH FOOD TRUCK FESTIVAL: Family friendly event with live music, kids’ activities, face painting, pet friendly water stations, yard games and more. From 11a.m.- 6p.m., Daffin Park, 1301 East Victory Dr, Savannah. Follow@SavFoodTruckFest on Facebook. info@savannahfoodtruckfestival.net.

LOWCOUNTRY VEG FEST: The Palmetto Plant Eaters Club will host its fourth annual vegan festival, featuring music, food, services and more. Free. 10 a.m.-5 p.m., Shelter Cove Community Park, 39 Shelter Cove Lane, Hilton Head Island. 843-816-6179 or lowcountryvegfest.com.

OCT. 19 HABERSHAM HARVEST FESTIVAL: A

SOUTHERN LIVING-INSPIRED EVENT: Bring the whole family and spend your day browsing artisan vendors, enjoying great local food, activities for kids of all ages, live music, vintage rides, contests, face painting, hayrides, the Beaufort County Library Bookmobile, petting zoo and more. Free; select activities may have a fee. habershamharvestfest.com.

OCT. 26 ITALIAN HERITAGE FESTIVAL: The 10th annual Italian Heritage Festival celebrates Italian culture with food, live entertainment, grape stomping and pizza-eating contests.

Tickets are $6. 11 a.m.-4 p.m., Honey Horn, 70 Honey Horn Drive, Hilton Head Island. iachh.org.

NOV. 8-9 HILTON HEAD OYSTER FESTIVAL: Enjoy steamed, fried and stewed oysters along with other delicious food for non-oyster eaters.

Saturday will include live entertainment, a kids’ zone, local artisan pop-up shops, marshmallow roasting and a sports lounge.

Tickets for Nov. 8 are $35 for adults and $20 for ages 17 and younger. Tickets for Nov. 9 are $7 for adults and free for children ages 10 and younger. 5-8 p.m. Nov. 8; 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Nov. 9. hiltonheadoysterfestival.com.

NOV. 9 ST. ANDREW BY-THE-SEA FALL FESTIVAL: Celebrate fall with a festival at St. Andrew By-The-Sea featuring musical entertainment, a shopping bazaar, silent auction, food for purchase and kids’ activities.

Free. St. Andrew By-The-Sea United Methodist Church, 20 Pope Avenue, Hilton Head Island.

843-785-4711 or hhiumc.com.

NOV.9 CHARLESTON HOLIDAY FESTIVAL OF LIGHTS: A stunning display of holiday lights featuring train rides, visits with Santa, a Victorian carousel and more. Tickets are $20 per vehicle Fridays through Sundays or $15 per vehicle Mondays through Thursdays with the donation of canned food or dog or cat food.

5:30-10 p.m. Sundays-Thursdays; 5:30-11 p.m.

Fridays-Saturdays, James Island County Park,

871 Riverland Drive, Charleston. 843-795-4386 or holidayfestivaloflights.com.

NOV. 22-DEC. 7 HILTON HEAD PREP FESTIVAL OF TREES: One of Hilton Head Island’s largest holiday-themed festivals, this event includes a spectacular display of beautifully and creatively-themed Christmas trees in all sizes and colors. The trees are sponsored and decorated by local organizations, businesses, and individuals. Sonesta Resort Hilton Head Island, 130 Shipyard Drive, Hilton Head. 843715-8536 or hhprep.org.

NOV. 30 CARAMEL APPLE FESTIVAL: Bring the family to Heritage Farm for a fun afternoon of fall activities, including caramel apples, games, crafts and more. Rates vary based on activity. 1-3 p.m., Heritage Farm, 185 Greenwood Drive, Hilton Head Island.

843-842-1979 or seapines.com.

DEC. 6 WINTER WONDERLAND FESTIVAL: Begin your holiday celebrations early at this festival featuring carnival games, a children’s parade, a visit from Santa, a golden candy cane hunt and more. Admission is free, but concessions, trampoline, bungee, and rock wall are available for a fee. 4-8 p.m., Shelter Cove Community Park, 39 Shelter Cove Lane, Hilton Head Island. islandreccenter.org.

NOV. 21-23 BLUFFTON BOOK FESTIVAL: A weekendlong festival to raise funds for The Literacy Center of Bluffton and The Binc Foundation, to celebrate local and national literary talent, and to promote literary awareness in the Lowcountry. 10 a.m.-4 p.m., Calhoun Street, Bluffton. 843-815-2364 or blufftonbookfestival. com.

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OCT. 5 HOUNDS ON THE HARBOUR: Many providers of dog-related services will be on site for this fun day with Fido. Hilton Head Humane Association will have dogs available for adoption. Free. 10 a.m.-12:30 p.m., Harbour Town, 149 Lighthouse Road, Hilton Head Island. 843-842-1979 or seapines.com.

OCT. 6 PICNIC IN THE PARK: Savannah’s largest outdoor musical event presented by the Savannah Philharmonic Orchestra. Featuring a ton of live music and local vendors. 3-9:15 p.m., Forsyth Park, 2 West Gaston Street, Savannah. savannahphilharmonic.org.

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Encore” poster signing with Artist Amiri Farris.

From 5-7p.m., Shelter Cove Community Park, 39 Shelter Cove Lane, HHI. OCT. 12 KIWANIS CLUB CHILI COOK-OFF: The 35th annual Kiwanis Club Chili Cook-Off features local teams of chili cooks as they face off to raise money and determine who makes the best chili on the island. Also includes a kids’ zone area with face painting, activities and games. Tickets are $20 for adults; children younger than 12 get in free. 11:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m., Honey Horn, 70 Honey Horn Drive, Hilton Head Island. hiltonheadkiwanis.org.

FIX THE FERALS CUT-A-THON: A familyfriendly event where participants receive haircuts in exchange for a donation to the Hilton Head Humane Association. Stick around for games, raffles and a silent auction, with all proceeds benefiting the feral cat program. 10 a.m.-3 p.m., Tara’s Salon, 55 New

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Orleans Road, Hilton Head Island. 843-6818686 or hhhumane.org.

THE FAITH TOUR: Jordan Feliz’s The Faith Tour is coming to Calvary Baptist Temple.

Tickets are $25-$70. 7-10 p.m., Calvary Baptist Temple, 4625 Waters Ave., Savannah. cbtsavannah.org.

OCT. 18 PUMPKIN PATCH: Begin your Halloween celebrations with candy, carnival games and a Halloween costume contest. For ages 3-12, but everyone is welcome. Free. Shelter Cove Community Park, 39 Shelter Cove Lane, Hilton Head Island. islandreccenter.org.

OLD TOWN OYSTER RUN: Run through Old Town Bluffton in a fast-paced 10K or complete the 5K with the entire family. Both events will be professionally timed. Music, corn hole, coffee, cold beer, oyster shooters, gumbo, May River mimosas and more will be available. Registration is $25 for the 5K and $30 for the 10K. 8-10 a.m., Bluffton Oyster Factory Park, 63 Wharf St., Bluffton. 843-6896767 or blufftonartsandseafoodfestival.com.

OYSTER GHOST ROAST AND 5K: Join the Technical College of the Lowcountry for Halloween fun and a costume 5K race!

Includes an oyster roast and barbecue. Tickets for the oyster roast are $30 for adults, $15 for children ages 13-17, and free for children younger than 12. Tickets for the 5K are $60 for adults and $30 for ages 17 and younger. 5-10 p.m., TCL, 921 Ribaut Road, Beaufort. tcl.edu.

FALL CRAFT AND BAKE SALE: Hundreds of unique handmade items and home-baked goods for sale. The event is sponsored by Hilton Head Plantation Crafters, with all proceeds

benefiting Hospice Care of the Lowcountry. Free.

9 a.m.-2 p.m., 829 William Hilton Parkway, Hilton Head Island. 843-715-4656.

OCT. 24 HALLOWEEN AT COLIGNY: Celebrate Halloween at Coligny with trick-or-treating at 60 shops and a costume contest hosted by DJ Crush. Free. 4-7 p.m., Coligny Plaza, 1 North Forest Drive, Hilton Head Island. 843-842-6050 or colignyplaza.com.

OCT 25 POLO4HEROES: The Lowcountry Foundation for Wounded Military Heroes (LFWMH) and The 200 Club of the Coastal Empire are hosting this event with proceeds benefiting our local heroes and their families

including Military Veterans, Firefighters and Law Enforcement Officers. Event takes place at The Rose Hill Equestrian Center. www.

Polo4Heroes.com. Contact- Joe Grimm Polo4Heroes@gmail.com.

HALLOWEEN WAGON RIDE: Show off your Halloween costume at the Sea Pines Forest Preserve and hunt for clues that lead you to the pumpkin patch. Reservations required. Tickets are $16 for adults and $13 for children ages 12 and younger. 10 a.m. and 11:30 a.m., Heritage Farm, 185 Greenwood

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WALK TO END ALZHEIMER’S DISEASE: Join a local team for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Disease, the world’s largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer’s care, support and research. 10 a.m., Calhoun Street Promenade, 16 Promenade St., Bluffton. 843-614-6608.

WORMSLOE’S COLONIAL HAUNTED TRAIL: Rangers will guide you into the past site of colonist Nobel Jones. Keep close together as you explore the trail and hopefully you will be safe from the zombies and ghouls drifting under the looming oak tree and Spanish moss. Pre-sale tickets for tour began Oct. 1st and advanced reservations are strongly recommended. “Like” the event on Facebook.

OCT. 27 HALLOWEEN ON THE HARBOUR: Celebrate Halloween at The Sea Pines Resort with activities, cookies and trick-ortreating around Harbour Town. Costumes are encouraged. Free. Harbour Town, 149 Lighthouse Road, Hilton Head Island. 843-8421979 or seapines.com.

HILTON HEAD HUMANE ASSOCIATION HALLOWEEN PARTY: An exciting Halloween celebration for kids, adults and dogs. There will be prizes, giveaways, games and music. Noon-2 p.m., Shelter Cove Community Park, 39 Shelter Cove Lane, Hilton Head Island. 843-681-8686 or hhhumane.org.

OCT. 31 TRUNK-O-WEEN: Carolina Dreamers Car Club will line Towne Centre Drive with their trunks open and full of candy. Costumed children can trick-or-treat from trunk to trunk and store to store. Free. 5-7 p.m., Shelter Cove 48 ParenthoodIQ.com • FALL 2019

Towne Centre, 40 Shelter Cove Lane, Hilton Head Island. sheltercove.com.

NOV. 1-3 DISNEY ON ICE: “Celebrate Memories”: Your favorite Disney stories come to life at this one-of-a-kind show. Share the excitement and make new memories the whole family will treasure forever. Tickets are $15-$55.

Times vary. North Charleston Coliseum, 5001 Coliseum Drive, North Charleston. northcharlestoncoliseumpac.com.

NOV 1-3 CONCOURS D’ELEGANCE: Over 200 cars and motorcycles will enter the 1st and 18th fairways of Port Royal Golf Club’s Planter’s Row Golf Course but only one will leave with the title Best of Show. Purchase tickets at www.hhhiconcours.com. Contact- MKronz@ HHIConcours.com.

NOV 7 HUNT, FISH & SHOOT PARTY: Celebrate LowCountry Culture while benefiting the Boys & Girls Club of Jasper County. No cost.

Cocktails, hors d’oevres and refreshments will be served. Hosted by The Boys & Girls Club of Jasper County. Follow Hunt, Fish and Shoot Party on Facebook.

NOV 15-17 PEDAL HILTON HEAD ISLAND: An Annual celebration of our Island’s music, culture and two-wheeled lifestyle benefitting The

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- CALENDAR OF EVENTS “THE NUTCRACKER”: Celebrate the beginning of the holiday season with Hilton Head Dance Theatre's production of “The Nutcracker” for a performance the whole family will enjoy. Ticket prices vary. 7:30 p.m.

Nov. 15, 16, 22 and 23; 2:30 p.m. Nov. 17 and 24. Seahawk Cultural Center, 70 Wilborn Road, Hilton Head Island. 843-842-3262 or hiltonheaddance.com.

Boys & Girls Club of HHI. Highlights during the weekend include a concert on Friday and Saturday evening and an after-party at Coligny Plaza with complimentary food, music, libations at Coligny Plaza for purchase and more!

NOV 16 JUNIOR SERVICE LEAGUE OF BEAUFORT'S 4TH ANNUAL TOUCHA-TRUCK: A unique opportunity to climb, touch, learn and play on some of the coolest vehicles that build, serve and protect our community. Admission is $5/person and all proceeds directly benefit families in our community. If you are interested in bringing a truck or sponsoring this event, please contact tat.jslb@gmail.com. Follow JSLB's 4th Annual Touch A Truck on Facebook. From 11a.m.- 5 p.m., Paris Avenue, Port Royal, SC. Tickets can be purchased on www.eventbrite.com.

NOV.9 HILTON HEAD BRIDGE RUN: The 28th annual event, hosted by Hargray, will feature a 10K road race, 5K fun run and health walk.

The race will start and finish at Crossings Park and cross Broad Creek via the Cross Island Parkway. No strollers or baby joggers allowed.

Registration is $35 for the 5K and $35 for the 10K. 7 a.m., Crossings Park, 6 Haig Point, Hilton Head Island. bearfootsports.com.

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NOV. 15-DEC. 31 CHARLESTON OYSTER FESTIVAL: A fun day featuring oysters served raw, grilled, roasted and fried, including a variety of local, Gulf and East Coast oysters prepared in nearly every way imaginable. Highlights will include live music, wine, a selection of domestic and imported beers, a kids’ area, and food court showcasing a variety of local favorite restaurants. Tickets are $12 for general admission and $90 for VIP access. 11 a.m.-8 p.m., Charleston. eventbrite.com/charlestonoyster-festival.

Parkway. No strollers or baby joggers allowed.

Registration is $35 for the 5K and $35 for the 10K. 7 a.m., Crossings Park, 6 Haig Point, Hilton Head Island. bearfootsports.com.

St. Johns Town Center Holiday Spectacular: Celebrate the joy and magic of the holiday season at the 14th annual St. Johns Town Center Holiday Spectacular. Holiday shoppers, families and visitors are invited to attend the action-packed day of family fun and musical performances. Free. 2-8 p.m., St. John’s Town Center, 4663 River City Drive, Jacksonville. 904-998-7156.

TO SEE OUR FULL CALENDAR OF EVENTS PARENTHOODIQ.COM

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STELLAR KIDS We had the chance to sit down with some Stellar Kids here in the Lowcountry. These are children, tweens, and teens who truly stand out amongst their peers.

Think you have a stellar kid?

Let us know by emailing editor@parenthoodiq.com

JAKE CAULLER 9th grade at Hilton Head Island High School WHY: Jake built his first computer at age 11 and began helping friends build their computers at age 12. He will enter high school with more than a semester’s worth of credits. Jake is also a South Carolina Junior Scholar.

ADVICE: “Pay more attention in school than you think you need to and use your time wisely, less you have to do outside of school.”

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FUN FACTS: Jake’s biggest fish caught was a 40 lb Cobia. He saved 50% off the retail price of the computer he wanted by building it himself. He’s played goalie on the soccer field for eight years, and wants to go straight to Google as an intern before college.

CHLOE BREDESON 8th grade at Bluffton Middle School medical problems. Chloe will receive her portrait in September.

WHY: Chloe was recognized in March as the Town of Bluffton's "Character Student of the Month" for the character trait of “Perseverance.” Chloe has pushed through many challenges in her fight against a rare disease called tuberous sclerosis complex.

She was recently nominated by Ronald McDonald House Charities of Charleston to receive a fine art portrait through Portrait Connection, a nonprofit organization that pairs local fine artists with children battling

ACTIVITIES: Dance at Alliance Dance Academy, Worship Jr. at LowCountry Community Church, volunteer with LCC KIDS ADVICE: "You can do it. Don't give up. If you try hard, you will be rewarded."

FUN FACTS: "My nickname is "Super Chloe" because I wear a superhero cape when I go to the hospital, but my parents say it's because I'm so brave. I love to sing, dance and ride my skateboard. I want to be a singer when I grow up."

ALEJANDRO RESTREPO 4th grader at St. Francis Catholic School

WHY: Alejandro had success in the geography bee, competing against middle schoolers! “Because I know a lot about international soccer so I have learned a lot where other cities and countries are, plus I like social studies, I like to travel and learn about other countries.”

ACTIVITIES: Alejandro is an avid soccer player. He is currently on the Tormenta soccer team and plans to play soccer for his school team for many years to come!

ADVICE: “Enjoy the subjects you like so you can excel.”

FUN FACTS: "I have played goalie for 2 years, I practice 3 times a week, and my plan is to excel to become a professional soccer player."

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– TREATS –

EASY HALLOWEEN TREATS

By Carrie Hirsch

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aking these Halloween treats at home or at school is simple, does not require many supplies and/or ingredients and reminds us that fun activities are ways for families, friends and classmates to bond!

HALLOWEEN COCONUT FUDGE WITH CANDY CORNS

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baking chips and condensed milk together over low heat with a rubber spatula until smooth. Remove pot from burner, then stir in coconut extract.

Spread the mixture into the prepared pan using the back of a metal spatula lightly coated with cooking spray, pressing down to ensure an even spread. Press candy corns into fudge in 8 rows of 8. Refrigerate for at least 30 minutes. If refrigerating for a longer period of time, cover with foil as soon it has cooled off. When ready to serve, insert a kitchen knife gently in between the edges of the pan and the foil to loosen the fudge. Lift out the foil then gently peel it off the fudge. Place fudge onto a cutting board. Using a sharp knife, cut into 1” squares. Refrigerate in an airtight container for up to 2-3 weeks - but it won’t last that long!

HALLOWEEN MARSHMALLOW POPS To display these treats, invert a shoe box, make small holes in the top 2” apart, then insert the pops. Makes 10 pops 10 large marshmallows 10 4” treat sticks Edible food decorating pens, assorted colors* Decorate marshmallows using edible food decorating pens with Halloween themed drawings – witch hats, cats, pumpkins, spiders, ghosts, ghouls, goblins, and bats!

Place marshmallows on treat sticks and let the kids enjoy! Keep pens in a sealed bag in the refrigerator for future use. *available in craft stores and online WEARABLE EDIBLE NECKLACES & BRACELETS Red licorice laces* Cheerios Mini pretzels Strawberries, blueberries, grapes (optional) *available in specialty candy stores and online Children can string Cheerios (remind young children some openings may be too small so they can look for the next one) and mini pretzels and design their own wearable edible necklaces and bracelets.

Pinching and gently twisting the tip of the licorice lace makes it easier to thread ingredients onto the laces. Gently knot the laces together to close the necklace and bracelets.

If the jewelry will be eaten immediately, berries and other fruits pierced with a thick toothpick or skewer to make for easier threading, are a healthful addition! PIQ Carrie Hirsch lives on Hilton Head Island and writes about things that matter most - family, food and fun for starters. She adores her nofilter grandchildren Ava and Reid.

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– TREATS –

NEW SPIN ON THANKSGIVING SIDES

By Carrie Hirsch

SWEET POTATO & CARAMELIZED APPLES WITH MARSHMALLOW TOPPING Since sweet potatoes and apples have a bit of a tougher skin and are also dense, I recommend the peeling and slicing are done by an older child or an adult.

Makes 8 individual servings 3 pounds sweet potatoes (4 medium) 2 cups orange juice 1/2 cup water 3 tablespoons butter 1/4 cup maple syrup 1/2 cup milk 1/2 teaspoon salt Caramelized Apples: 3 Gala or Granny Smith apples 3 tablespoons sugar 3/4 teaspoon cinnamon 1/2 teaspoon salt Topping: 1 cup mini marshmallows 56 ParenthoodIQ.com • FALL 2019

8 oven-proof individual ramekins Sweet potatoes: Peel the sweet potatoes and cut into ½” rounds. Place the sweet potato rounds, orange juice, and water into a medium pot. Bring to a boil, cover, and then reduce heat and simmer for 20-25 minutes or until very tender. Add a few tablespoons more orange juice or water if too dry. While the sweet potatoes are cooking, prepare the apples.

Caramelized apples: Peel, core and thinly slice the apples. Place slices into a medium bowl then add sugar, cinnamon, and salt.

Stir until apple slices are well coated. Heat butter in a medium skillet. Add apples to the skillet, stirring only four times over the course of 8-10 minutes, uncovered, until soft and caramelized. If too dry, add one tablespoon of water at a time as needed.

Preheat oven to 350°.

Remove the sweet potatoes from the burner (do not drain any remaining liquid) then add butter, maple syrup, milk, salt.

Using an electric mixer, mash until desired consistency. If too thick, add more milk.

Butter each ramekin. Spread sweet potato mixture into each ramekin and top with caramelized apples. Sprinkle with marshmallows. Place ramekins on a lipped baking sheet. Bake for 10-12 minutes until marshmallows are lightly toasted. Serve warm.

BACON WRAPPED GREEN BEAN BUNDLES Makes 8 bundles ½ pound green beans 8 strips bacon Dressing: 4 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil Juice of lemon juice 1/2 teaspoon coarse salt 1/4 teaspoon fresh black pepper Garnish: Mandarin orange segments, drained Zest of 1 lemon Snap off ends of green beans then boil for 3-4 minutes. Submerge greens beans in a bowl of ice water for which will stop the cooking process and will help maintain the bright color of the green beans. Preheat oven to 400°. Pat dry green beans with paper towels, then gather green beans to make 8 bundles.

Wrap a strip of bacon tightly around each bundle. Arrange bundles in an oven-proof baking dish without touching each other.

Bake for 8 minutes then turn bundles over and continue to bake for 5 more minutes or until the bacon crisps up. If desired, set oven to broil for 1 minute for extra crisp bacon. Remove bundles with tongs and transfer to a serving platter. To make the dressing, whisk all ingredients together. Garnish with mandarin oranges and lemon zest then drizzle with dressing. PIQ FALL 2019 • ParenthoodIQ.com 57

– EDUCATION –

LAND OF OPPORTUNITY New Superintendent Sees Potential for Excellence

By Justin Jarrett

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onths before he was named superintendent of the Beaufort County School District — even before he applied for the job — Frank Rodriguez spent four days scoping out the Lowcountry.

He traveled throughout the county, frequenting all the places where ordinary folks might be found. Grocery stores, post offices, public spaces. He told people he was thinking about moving here, that he has two kids — boys ages 10 and 14 — and asked what they thought of the public schools.

“I heard a lot from people,” Rodriguez said. “That’s when I realized and knew that we needed to rebuild trust. What I heard from people was, ‘We love our school, but the system has work to do.’”

Rebuilding the public’s trust in the school district has become priority No. 1 for Rodriguez since assuming his new role July 1. He has continued the work he began during his initial visit to the Lowcountry in February, spending as much time as possible visiting the various schools in the county — and the communities they serve — and gathering feedback. He will launch a “listening and learning tour” this fall and plans to hold eight listening sessions throughout the county, using the information he gleans to develop the district’s new strategic plan.

He wants people to know they are being heard.

“Building trust and building relationships increases confidence in the system and that is really essential,” Rodriguez said. “I want people to know that we’re working hard every day and we’re working hard to always do the right thing.”

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It’s an approach that would be wise for anyone in Rodriguez’s position, but it’s even more critical considering the school district’s rocky relationship with the public in recent years. Former superintendent Jeff Moss’ tenure was marked by seemingly constant controversy, and the school board has seen drastic turnover after a long period of division bordering on dysfunction.

Rodriguez was not deterred by the elephant in the room, though — he was inspired.

“The more I read about the system and what transpired, I felt my personal skillset was suited to make a difference,” he said.

“In spite of all of those distractions, our teachers and our principals stayed focused on our kids. That sent me a message that we have great potential. We’ve got a lot of hard-working people dedicated to improving outcomes for all of our students — every single one of them.”

Another common phrase in Rodriguez’s

vernacular since coming to Beaufort County is the achievement gap. Data shows disparities in student achievement that break along racial and socio-economic lines — an alarming nationwide trend that persists here.

Rodriguez knows plenty about the value of education in stopping the cycle of poverty, especially for minorities. His grandparents immigrated from Cuba in the late 1950s, leaving everything they owned and knew in search of greater opportunities for their children.

Rodriguez recalls his grandfather instilling in him and his brother the importance of education, “because that’s the one thing no one can take from you.”

“That was his experience,” Rodriguez said.

“He had to leave everything behind and rely on his education to make a new life.”

Rodriguez took that advice to heart, but it wasn’t until he began coaching soccer that he realized he was called to teach.

The satisfaction he derived from seeing his players execute the skills he taught them was intoxicating.

He hopes to find that same sense of satisfaction as he refocuses his new district.

The job comes with its share of challenges, both short-term and long-term, beginning with a teacher shortage going into the school year and overcrowding at several schools.

Many of those concerns would be addressed if voters approve a $344 million referendum in November. Although he was still watching from afar, Rodriguez was impressed with the process by which the district crafted the referendum, using ample public input to help determine which projects would be included.

He plans to continue on that path of transparency and accountability if the referendum passes by creating an independent review committee to ensure good stewardship.

With any luck, the next guy who comes to scope out the Lowcountry for his family will hear an enthusiastic endorsement of the school system. PIQ FALL 2019 • ParenthoodIQ.com 59

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– OUR VILLAGE –

Smart Parenting in the Lowcountry Arts Center of Coastal Carolina 14 Shelter Cove Ln, Hilton Head Island, SC www.artshhi.com Baylor Medical Campus 75 Baylor Drive, Bluffton www.hiltonheadregional.com Beaufort County School District Office of Early Childhood https://www.beaufortschools.net Bluffton Book Festival www.blufftonbookfestival.com Breeze Trolley www.palmettobreezetransit.com Boys and Girls Club 10 Pinckney Colony Road Suite 103, Bluffton, SC www.bgclowcountry.org Chalk in Me thechalkinme.myzija.com Children's Center 8 Nature’s Way, Hilton Head Thechildrenscentersc.org Circles 4 Success 13 Lafayette Place Suite B

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Coastal Carolina Hospital 1000 Medical Center Dr., Hardeeville, SC www.hiltonheadregional.com Coastal Gymnastics Center 70 Pennington Dr #13, Bluffton, SC www.coastalgymnasticscenter.com Coligny Theater 1 N Forest Beach Dr., Hilton Head Island, SC www.colignytheatre.com Crabby's Corner 7 Lawton Street, Bluffton, SC www.mameemandmaudie.com/crabbycorner-k8x2i Culture HHI Culturehhi.org Hilton Head Hospital 25 Hospital Center Blvd., Hilton Head Island, SC www.hiltonheadregional.com Heritage Academy 11 New Orleans Rd, Hilton Head Island, SC www.heritagehhi.com Hilton Head Dance Theatre 24 Palmetto Business Park Rd, Hilton Head Island, SC www.hiltonheaddance.com

www.roarkandcompany.net

Holy Trinity Classical School 302 Burroughs Ave, Beaufort, SC www.htccs.org Island Organizing www.islandorganizing.net Lowcountry Therapy Center 254 Red Cedar St, Bluffton www.lowcountrytherapycenter.com Mameem & Maudie 7 Lawton St., Bluffton, SC www.mameemandmaudie.com Modern Barn 37 New Orleans Rd Suite B, Hilton Head Island www.modernbarnhhi.com

Smith Sterns Tennis Academy 1 Lighthouse Ln, Hilton Head Island, SC www.smithstearns.com Sweet Feet Soccer www.sweetfeetsoccer.org Tanya Leshe Photography www.tanyaleshe.com The Frozen Moo 1 N Forest Beach Dr, Hilton Head Island, SC www.frozenmoo.com Tidewatch Free Standing Emergency Clinic 349 Tidewatch Drive, Bluffton, SC www.hiltonheadregional.com

Moonlit Lullaby 55 Bridge St., Bluffton www.moonlitlullaby.com

Too Belles 1507 Main Street, Hilton Head Island, SC www.shoptoobelles.com

Pediatric Smiles 19 Promenade St, Unit 201, Bluffton, SC www.pediatricsmilesbluffton.com

Tormenta FC 2704 Old Register Road, Statesboro, GA www.tormentafc.com

Roark and Company 59 Sheridan Park Circle Suite D, Bluffton

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