There are no rules for grieving

“I want to break the taboo around discussing stillbirth and neonatal death, and make it normal to talk about it,” I’m chatting to Nicola in her kitchen at home in Threemiletown, surrounded by all the usual family trappings - photos of her boys, birthday balloons, toys and the family dog. But Nicola carries the invisible scars of neonatal bereavement, and she is dedicated to helping other families who have suffered in the same way.