The Lies That Keep Us Safe….. And Stuck When I told myself there aren’t any good single men out there, it was a lie that my subconscious self made up to make sure I stayed within my comfort zone, to not risk being loved. Because if I really had the courage to let men in to the depth of my heart, I might risk feeling unloved again, as I felt this way throughout my whole childhood.
into myself and heal the gigantic black whole (from childhood neglect and abuse) I had within in myself, so I wouldn’t seek a man because I needed a partner. It will be amazing to meet a man, and until then I am happy and content getting to grow the love connection with myself, every day. When I recently told my self that the Danish health and self-development industry is not “my thing” because no one is doing inner work on themselves, it was yet again my subconscious self telling a lie, that would keep me hidden away from the 10% healers, therapists, coaches, authors, speakers – that needed my help.
When I dated men that were unavailable (didn’t want a relationship or were already in one) I realized, that when I want to meet a man, coming from a place of lack within myself, I will never meet a man that will be available and stand up for me physically or emotionally. I realized that I had to dig deeper 8
