the_week@horizonuu a publication of horizon unitarian universalist church * October 12, 2014.
PUBLISHED WEEKLY
VOLUME 14, ISSUE V.10.12.14.
The_Week@HorizonUU Horizon Unitarian Universalist Church Carrollton, TX 75010 FOR SUBMISSIONS EMAIL: the_week @horizonuu.org
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Weekly Service: Sundays 10:30 AM
Sunday Service: Oct 12, 2014
Culture of Hospitality Rev. Helen Carroll
EMAIL Administrator @horizonuu.org
PHONE: (972) 492-4940
WEB SITE: www.horizonuu.org
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Visitors come to us not to debate politics or theology. They come to us because they know it takes a village to raise a child and they are hoping that this might be such a village. How can we create here a culture of hospitality that welcomes those who want to do as well as those who simply want to be?
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Horizon News Community on Ministry
NEW BOARD MEETING TIME
We’re taking a break…
The Board of Trustees will meet in the Library on the third Wednesday of each month beginning at 7:00 p.m. Next meeting is October 15th. Everyone interested is encouraged to attend.
As a Committee on Ministry it has been our responsibility to review both the professional clergy and the entire ministry of the church, monitoring how well they advance Horizon’s mission and vision. From time to time the committee might serve as conflict managers or intermediaries between ministers and congregants who are dissatisfied with their ministry. In all cases, the goal of the Committee on Ministry is to maintain the equilibrium of Horizon as a peaceable, thriving body. For this reason, the COM is “going on vacation.” There will likely be some purposeful disequilibrium created during the interim period. As Rev. Judith WalkerRiggs reminds, “… a peaceful, quiet interim period is one in which interim tasks are not completed, and needful changes do not happen." Over the next two years, the Transition Team will serve as guides for our transition. They are well chosen to provide invaluable information about Horizon’s culture and circumstances and will strategize with Rev. Helen to engage both the leadership and the rest of the congregation in interim tasks. The members of the COM are enjoying this opportunity to learn from Rev Helen and the Transition Team. Peggy Gill, Chair of the Committee on Ministry
Will you volunteer? – The Admin Support Team is looking for volunteers to help take care of the day-to-day details necessary for Horizon to prosper. Remembering the Dead – Many cultures around the world set aside a day to celebrate ancestors and newly departed loved ones. On November 2, bring photos or mementos of your beloved dead, and we will share stories and celebrate the lives they led in our Day of the Dead service. Join us for this memorial celebration. Line Dancing - Horizon Line Dancing will no longer be held on the 2nd Saturday of the month. We will, however, be offering a line dancing event at our PASTA Auction. The line dancing event will be January 10, 2015. Everyone is welcome!
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FROM THE MINISTER
mUUsings Greetings from your interim minister. I’m excited to begin the new program year with all of you. As the interim minister, I’ve become part of Horizon’s journey through change, transition and transformation for the next 2 years. During that time you’ll do more than simply experience change. Like it or not change is going to happen. You will also begin to transition between the familiar to the different. Your leadership is working hard to identify where those transitions might occur. They’re asking questions about where you come from, who you are, how you do what you do, what does it mean to be a Unitarian Universalist congregation and, finally, where will tomorrow lead. Each question leads to another and each answer uncovers more possibilities. This is messy work. Complex, challenging and necessary if you are to transform – if you are to grow into a new shape. You will not be able to transition through change and experience transformation without giving up the old and taking on the new. These interim months are a time to leave behind the behaviors and attitudes that are focused on the past. It is a time when this congregation can objectively decide what meaningful parts of your history and practices will be carried forward and what no longer serves you as well. During our time together you’ll explore effective ways to organize your programs, ways to recruit, train and develop new leadership. There’s no better time to assess the way decisions are made and figure out if there are more inclusive ways to get the job done. This will be a time for looking around. A time to ask how do you relate to one another, to the communities here in north Texas and to Unitarian Universalist congregations throughout the country? The work is not complete without figuring out the church’s identity separate from the minister. This is the time to begin to craft a vision that speaks to the spiritual needs of the members and friends of this community – a time for asking does the vision prepare you to take UU values and principles beyond your walls. With the clarity that comes from interim work done well, you will call a settled minister to lead you into a bright new future.
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FROM THE MINISTER
mUUsings Shall we begin, Let it Be a Dance Okay, maybe not exactly a dance. I’m filling in the schedule for worship associates for the upcoming months and looking for folks who are interested in sharing the worship service with me. Tempted, but unsure what’s required? Curious, but afraid of public speaking? Convinced and ready to sign-up. Please contact me (interimminister@horizonuu.org) with questions, dates, interest or just to say hello. Looking Ahead… Remembering our Beloved Dead Many cultures around the world set aside a day to celebrate ancestors and newly departed loved ones. On November 2, bring photos or mementos of your beloved dead, and we will share stories and celebrate the lives they led in our Day of the Dead service. Join us for this memorial celebration. Come Ye Thankful People We’ll gather with a new twist on a familiar story on Sunday, November 23. In the telling of Stone Soup is the reminder that by working together, with everyone contributing what they can, a greater good is achieved. Today we’ll build our own Stone Soup and begin the annual Heifer International drive. Join in and help nurture a spirit of gratitude and “justice, equity, and compassion in human relations." Heifer International's mission is to work with communities to end world hunger and poverty and to care for the Earth. Faithfully, Helen 972-492-4940 Note: My regular office hours are 10 – 1, Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday. Other times are available by appointment. My day off is Monday.
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LIFESPAN RELIGIOUS EDUCATION NEWS by Lauren Daniell dlre@horizonuu.org blog: www.horizonuu.org/dre/ Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/horizonuu/
Come help at Horizon Halloween Party Saturday, October 25th
The Halloween Party is one of the largest multi-age events conducted by Horizon during the year. Come to the Fellowship Hall and sign up to help in one or more of these areas: Set up / Tear down
Reading Stories
Fortune Telling
Contest judging
Staff carnival games
Staff an art table
Bring treats for the Cake Walk
Host a labyrinth walk
Participate in the Trunk or Treat
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Special Remembrance Day project in class this Sunday, OCTOBER 12th Grades 4-7
Photos and Shoeboxes needed in class On Sunday, children in grades 4-7 will be remembering family members (human and animal) who have passed away by creating memorials to their loved ones in shoeboxes. The children should decide on a loved one to memorialize, find a picture of that person/animal and locate a shoebox in which to make the display. (The boxes will decorate the sanctuary during the November 2nd Remembrance service.) Bring your shoebox and your photo of a deceased family member (human or animal) to class. If your child forgets his/her items, extra shoeboxes will be available and hand drawn pictures of the deceased will be accepted.
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Attention Middle School Parents:
Time to plan the Haunted House!
One of the middle school’s favorite activities is running the Haunted House at the annual Horizon Halloween Party. The schedule for planning and construction is as follows: Planning Meeting: Friday, October 17 from 6:30-8:30pm. At least 8 families will be needed to participate to make the Haunted House a success. Haunted House construction: Friday, October 24th, 6:00-10:00pm. At least 8 families are needed to help with construction. Haunted House open for business, Saturday, October 25th. Be at Horizon by 4:30pm. Haunted House runs 5:00-7:30pm. Please plan to stay until 9pm for the take down. Contact Debbi for more information or to sign up: debbiwj@gmail.com
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“BUUddy” Day Sunday, October 26th preschool-12th grade
One every quarter the children and teens preK-12 will get together for special multi-aged activities. The first “BUUddy Day” will be Sunday, October 26th. Instead of class, each preteen or teen will be paired with a younger “BUUddy.” They will do getting-to-know-you activities, play Halloween games and have special Halloween treats together. Come in costume and enjoy making a new “BUUddy” at Horizon!
Coming of Age Parent Meeting This Sunday, October 12th, 11:45 am Come help chart the course of the Coming of Age class this year. Parents, your attendance is very important because many critical decisions will be made.
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Calendar of Events for Children and Youth October 10th-12th (Fri-Sun): Youth Rally at Live Oak UU in Cedar Park near Austin (registration for event has closed) October 12th (Sunday): 12:15-1:15pm Session #4: 4-6 Grade OWL. October 12th (Sunday) Grades 4-7 bring photos and shoeboxes to church to make memorials to deceased loved ones. October 12th: Coming of Age parent meeting 11:45am, Room S7 October 17th (Friday 6:30-8:30pm) Middle school parents and students Haunted House planning meeting October 24th: (Friday 6-10pm) Haunted House construction, Portable Building October 25th (Saturday) 5-8pm: Horizon Halloween Carnival October 26th: (Sunday): BUUddy Day – Multi age fun during class. Middle school visits preschool and high school visits with the elementary students. Come to church in costume!
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CHILDREN’S AND YOUTH RELIGIOUS EDUCATION
Children of All Ages are Invited to the 2014
Horizon Halloween Party th Saturday, October 25 5-8pm
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Adult Religious Explorations contact: are@horizonuu.org
Sunday Mornings, 9:00 – 10:10 am Horizon Library
October 12, 2014
October 19, 2014
Kathleen Hawkins: “Loss and Grief”. Kathleen award winning author of “Six Feet Above” and “The Mortician’s Daughter” will lead our class on “Loss and Grief”. Her insider’s perspective is sure to touch, move, and inspire. Come and explore your thoughts and feelings about the topic. Gordon Roe: “Martin Luther and Protestant Reformation”. Gordon will lead our class on Luther, who was one of the most influential figures in Western Civilization. This Catholic monk’s movement was based on three ideas:
A. Salvation by faith, not works B. Authority of the Bible, not pope and clergy
October 26, 2014
C. Priesthood of all believers, not just ordained clergy. Come hear and discuss Martin Luther’s vision Pat Schuman: “The Legend of Dr. Faustus”
*Childcare is available upon request by Friday before the Sunday class. Please email: childcare@horizonuu.org
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ADULT RELIGIOUS EDUCATION
Horizon Pastoral Care and Religious Education present:
Parenting the Love and Logic™ Way A six session parenting program designed by the Love and Logic Institute. th th
Tuesdays October 7 – November 11
10:30 am -12:00pm OR 7:00 - 8:30pm (AM or PM sections to accommodate busy schedules)
Learn how to: Avoid un-winnable power-struggles and arguments Stay calm when your kids do incredibly upsetting things Set enforceable limits Avoid enabling and begin empowering Help your kids learn from mistakes rather than repeating them Raise kids who are family members rather than dictators And much more!
This course is free of charge to Horizon members. Childcare available upon request. Contact elainecommins@juno.com to enroll
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AFTER CHURCH LUNCH LOCATIONS
Visitors and members welcome! Directions are available at the Welcome Center. When we go to a restaurant, we meet there approximately 20 minutes after the service ends. First ones there please get a table for 10+ under the name “Horizon”. October 12th: All Church Potluck: Everyone welcome! Horizon’s potlucks provide an opportunity to get to know others and be with our church community. We appreciate your bringing a bit more than needed for our families, allowing us to offer this hospitality to all members, visitors, and friends. Thank you to the Horizon Players for coordinating this month! October 19th: Pho Que Huong: 291 E. Round Grove Road, Lewisville, TX 75067. Great service, fast, clean and great Vietnamese food! Menu includes several tofu choices. $ http://phoquehuong.com October 26th: Amore Pasta and Pizza: 4709 State Hwy 121, The Colony, TX 75056. Tasty Italian fare at a good price. Gracious staff. Relaxing atmosphere. Family friendly. $ http://www.amorethecolony.com
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HORIZON UU CALENDAR OF EVENTS Saturday, October 11 8:00 am - 10:00 am Men's Support Group - E3 - Library 9:00 am - 1:00 pm Volunteer at Metrocrest Social Services Food Pantry - Other - Offsite 6:30 pm - 9:00 pm PASTA! - Horizon's Fall Service Auction - SH - Sanctuary
Sunday, October 12 8:30 am - 10:00 am Sunday Morning Journey Group 8:30 am - 2:00 pm Taste of Horizon - PASTA - TOH - Table 1 9:00 am - 10:15 am Adult Religious Explorations - E3 - Library 9:00 am - 12:00 pm CAYRE - Child Care - S1 - Nursery 10:15 am - 12:30 pm Library Ministry - Open for Browsing - E3 - Library 10:30 am - 12:00 pm Main Worship - SH - Sanc. 12:15 pm - 1:15 pm OWL grades 4-6 - P1 - Lg 12:30 pm - 1:00 pm Horizon Players Meeting - E3 - Library 12:30 pm - 1:30 pm Second Sunday Potluck-- All Are Welcome! - Fellowship Hall 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm Wellspring 2014/15 P2 - Couch 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm GALA Youth - S6 - Class Monday, October 13 Columbus Day 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm Yoga - P1 - Lg 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm SMART Recovery - FH - Fellowship Hall 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Neighborhood Calling Circle - S2 - Class 7:15 pm - 9:00 pm Wisdom Circle - E3 - Library Tuesday, October 14
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HORIZON UU CALENDAR OF EVENTS 10:30 am - 12:00 pm Love and Logic Parenting Class - Fellowship Hall 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm Potluck (Senior) Group - Library 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Buddhist Sangha - P1 - Lg, P2 - Couch 7:00 pm - 8:30 pm Love and Logic Parenting Class - E3 - Library Wednesday, October 15
1:00 pm - 3:00 pm Library Ministry - E3 - Library 5:45 pm - 7:00 pm Restorative Yoga - P1 - Lg 7:00 pm - 9:30 pm Board of Trustees Meeting - Library Thursday, October 16 8:30 am - 4:30 pm Excel - Other - Playground, FH-KI-P1-Lg-RL- Lobby/ Narthex-S1-Nursery-S2-S3-S4-S5-S6-S7 6:00 pm - 7:15 pm Worship Arts Committee Meeting - MO - Minister's Office Friday, October 17 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Candlelighters - FH - Fellowship Hall 6:30 pm - 8:30 pm Haunted House Planning - E3 - Library, P1 - Lg, P2 - Couch 7:00 pm - 11:00 pm Games Night at Horizon! - FH - Fellowship Hall Saturday, October 18 8:00 am - 10:00 am Men's Support Group - E3 - Library 5:00 pm - 9:00 pm Horizon Dinners - Other - Offsite 6:60 pm - 11:00 pm UDV - Fellowship Hall
Visit: calendar.horizonuu.org for updates and events information.
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New Women’s Journey Group
Meeting 2nd and 4th Sundays from 8:30 to 9:45 a.m., November to February Limited to 8 women This small group will meet for biweekly discussions based on the book With Purpose and Principle: Essays about the Seven Principles of Unitarian Universalism. To foster a better group environment, we will use a special structure designed to encourage sharing and supportive listening. Members are also asked to commit seriously to attending all meetings -- the occasional absence is fine, but this journey group draws its strength from members' regular participation. To request more information or sign up, contact Katie Barnes at JourneyGroups@horizonuu.org.
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SPECIAL GROUPS If you are considering attending one of these groups for the first time, it is a good idea to contact them via email for more information and to get an orientation of what to expect in your first visit! CURIOUS ABOUT SCHEDULE? You can check the calendar at http://calendar.horizonuu.org/ Horizon Book Group: 4th Tuesdays 12p. (bookclub@horizonuu.org) The Horizon Book Group meets at 12 Noon on the fourth Tuesday of each month in the church Library. Every June and November the group decides on the books for the following six months. Bring a brown bag lunch and join in this fun group that is open to women and men. You’ll be able to share in an invigorating conversation on the session’s book. Current selections are found in the Library information niche in the lobby/narthex. For more info, you may contact bookclub@horizonuu.org. Buddhist Sangha: Tuesdays 7 PM 9:00 PM. (buddhists@horizonuu.org ) Buddhist Sangha ("Sangha" is equivalent to a covenant group) is a weekly gathering that studies the Dharma (the teachings of Buddhism.) This is an ongoing exploration of the Four Noble Truths and the Eight Fold Path, the essential teachings of Buddhism. It is participatory and although consistency is encouraged, sessions can be attended on a drop in basis. We welcome anyone interested in a meditation practice. If you wish to come for an orientation, please arrive by 6:30. If you wish to view materials, email the group at buddhists@horizonuu.org.
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SPECIAL GROUPS The UU Christian Chalice Circle (uuchristians@horizonuu.org ) The UU Christian Chalice Circle provides a forum for enriching our spiritual lives through personal discovery of the heart, meaning, and tradition of Christianity. We gather monthly on the 1st Sunday at 9AM in the library for discussion, fellowship, and exploration. All those seeking to connect (or re-connect) to the beauty and wisdom of Christianity are welcome to attend. uuchristians@horizonuu.org. The CineMat Group (cinemat@horizonuu.org ) The CineMat group will be meeting on the 4th Saturday every month. And it’s now a Chalice Circle!. This Chalice Circle gets together to see a movie and then goes to a coffee shop or restaurant to discuss and comment on it in a friendly circle over a cup of coffee or drink. People should call Meg Reed or Marga Gordon for more info, or email cinemat@horizonuu.org.
GAMERS: 3rd FRIDAY FUN AT HORIZON! (3rdfridaygames@horizonuu.org ) Come join us for adult level games on the 3rd Friday of every month. We meet in the Fellowship Hall at 7:00 p.m. Bring a snack or drink to share! Free childcare will provided upon request from 7:00 to 10:00pm (with 48 hour notice and 24 hour notice of cancellation). Please send reservations and cancellations to childcare@horizonuu.org. If you wish to get an email reminder of Games Night, please contact Beth Sproat at eblakehedges@earthlink.net
Healthy Women Chalice Circle (healthywomen@horizonuu.org ) A woman’s support group to help achieve their goals of health and fitness. Sharing of ideas and experiences in nutrition, weight loss, exercise and stress management.
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SPECIAL GROUPS Men’s Saturday Support Group (mensgroup@horizonuu.org ) A men’s support group that includes a check-in and informal discussion of men’s issues regarding family, health, workplace, and relationships. Starts at 8AM The 2nd Tuesday Potluck Chalice Circle (secondtuesday@horizonuu.org ) This group meets for food, fellowship, and deepening friendships. They meet in the library 2nd Tuesday of most months at 12 noon. Occasionally we take a field trip instead of having a potluck lunch. Tuesday Wisdom Circle (tuesdaywisdom@horizonuu.org ) A chalice circle that offers a check-in and discussion of a weekly life issue topic selected by a group member. Parents – WE’LL give you Wings! (every other Mon, 9a) (mondaywings@horizonuu.org ) WINGS Chalice Circle is a fun and friendly group whose purpose is to support the person within each parent by creating friendships and nurturing our intellect and creativity. The Women’s Friendship in Growth (WFIG) Chalice Circle (wfig@horizonuu.org) 2nd, 4th, and 5th Wednesdays, 7:30 - 9 pm We welcome women of all ages to join us for fun, connection, and growth. We share stories from our lives and discuss topics that help us get to know one another better. On 2nd Wednesdays we discuss “This I Believe” topics. On 4th Wednesdays we view and talk about a TED talk. On 5th Wednesdays we might do anything, but it’s always fun! We’d love to have you in our group! Young Adults Chalice Circle Contact: YoungAdults@horizonuu.org for more details.
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