the_week@horizonuu a publication of horizon unitarian universalist church February 14, 2016
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VOLUME 16, ISSUE V.2.14.16.
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Horizon Unitarian Universalist Church Carrollton, TX 75010
Weekly Service: Sundays 10:30 AM
Sunday Service: February 14, 2016
The Art of Forgiveness Rev. Helen Carroll Forgiveness gets a lot of press in religion and spirituality circles. World traditions admonish us to forgive one another, to forgive ourselves. And the carrot to entice even the unbeliever is an assurance that as we forgive, we receive a more peaceful, grounded existence. An existence with minimal upset and maximum awareness where one more block to becoming who we want to be is removed. With such weighty reward, why is forgiveness so elusive?
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Horizon News Coming Soon!
Adult Religious Exploration
Next week, a new format for the newsletter will debut. We hope that you will find it easier and more convenient to use. We also welcome any comments you might have about the new format. Please email administrator@horizonuu.org with your comments.
Sunday Morning Forum
Newsletter Schedule - The newsletter for February 21st will include information for the week of February 28th. No newsletter will be published for February 28th. The next newsletter will be for the week of March 6th. Deadline for submissions are Wednesdays noon. President’s Day - The office will be closed Monday, February 15th in observance of President’s Day.
On February 14th, Mary Morris and Rowland Harvey will lead the class on the right to speak one’s mind, one of the founding principles of the United States of America. Come hear this session in the Library from 9:00 am to 10:10 am. Next Week: Adult Religious Exploration Sunday Morning Forum – John Myers will facilitate the class on the mission of Horizon UU Church in the times ahead. Come hear this session in the Library from 9:00 am to 10:10 am. Love Your Neighbors Valentine Pot Luck Sunday, February 14th Tables will be marked by neighborhood for this special pot luck. Members and visitors are encouraged to grab their plate, sit at their neighborhood table and get to know your neighbors!
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Your Board of Trustees is charged to represent the interests of Horizon's Congregation and to regularly monitor progress to fulfill the mission of this vibrant church. The Board recognizes that, in order to do these things effectively, we must have open communication with all of our members so we are informed about both concerns and the things you most appreciate. The Board meets in the church library every third Wednesday, beginning at 7:00 p.m. and normally ending between 9:00 p.m. and 9:30 p.m. Any interested member of Horizon (or the community at large) is welcome to attend. Each meeting includes a specific opportunity for public comments (which we ask be limited to three minutes in length). You are encouraged to join us at our monthly meetings and/or to talk with us individually to share your thoughts and interests.
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HORIZON NEWS
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Amoré! On March 26th at 3:00 pm, The Horizon Choir will present a concert titled “Amoré!”. The concert will explore the many aspects of Love from courtship to commitment, as well as the dangers of Lust and the inevitability of loss. The concert will feature not only the Horizon Choir, but also soloists, all accompanied by the incomparable Carmen Doubrava. Music will vary in time period and style with works by classical and romantic composers, such as Beethoven and Debussy and modern works from Whitacre, Orban and more. Please make plans to come support our Horizon music program and be entertained by the many talents of the musicians here at Horizon Unitarian Universalist Church.
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COMMUNITY NEWS Community Cares
Ramona Ramazani Director of Membership and Pastoral Care dmpc@horizonuu.org
Love Your Neighbors Valentine Pot Luck Sunday, February 14th Tables will be marked by neighborhood for this special pot luck. Members and visitors are encouraged to grab
their plate, sit at their neighborhood table and get to know your neighbors!
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COMMUNITY NEWS
Matter of Balance Class
Horizon UU Fellowship Hall Feb. 23rd- April 12th 9:30-11:30 (meets every Tuesday for 8 weeks) Are you concerned about falling? If so‌this may be the class for you! You will learn how to‌ Change your views about falling Set goals to increase activity Make changes to reduce falls at home Improve flexibility, balance and strength. The class is free and no charge to participants. Limited seating available. Please register at texashealth.org/classes or call 1-877-THR-WELL ( 1-877-847 -9355). Contact Ramona at dmpc@horizonuu.org with any questions.
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Chronic Disease Self-Management Class Do you have a chronic condition such as Diabetes, High Blood Pressure, Heart Disease, Arthritis, Chronic Pain, Depression/Anxiety, IBS‌? If so, consider joining this class to help improve your symptoms by learning coping skills, better nutrition, decision making and talking with your health care provider. Chronic conditions can be overwhelming and hard to manage. Our leaders, who may have chronic conditions themselves, can help you break your goals down into manageable steps and help you take charge of your life!
Horizon UU Fellowship Hall March 19th –April 23rd 9:30 a.m.- 12:00 p.m. (meets every Saturday for 6 weeks) The class is free and no charge to participants. Limited seating available. Please register at texashealth.org/classes or call 1-877-THR-WELL ( 1-877-847 -9355). Contact Ramona at dmpc@horizonuu.org with any questions.
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COMMUNITY NEWS AFTER CHURCH LUNCH BUNCH One way to get to know people from Horizon better is to join us after church for lunch. Everyone is welcome (even friends and family joining you after church). The restaurant will change each week. Check the welcome desk each week for the location. We meet most Sundays. Ask for the “Horizon” tables. It may take a few minutes following the service for lunch attendees to arrive but we’re coming!
Second Sunday Potluck: Everyone welcome! Horizon’s potlucks provide an opportunity to get to know others and be with our church community. We appreciate your bringing a bit more than needed for our families, allowing us to offer this hospitality to all members, visitors, and friends.
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GROWTH AND LEARNING NEWS by Lauren Daniell dlre@horizonuu.org blog: www.horizonuu.org/dre/ Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/horizonuu/
Adult Growth and Learning New Class! Just Mercy book discussion group with Judy Meador Sundays March 6 & March 20 12:00-1:30pm Horizon Library
Just Mercy is a powerful true story about the potential for mercy to redeem us, and a clarion call to fix our broken system of justice—from one of the most brilliant and influential lawyers of our time. Book widely available in electronic and paper format
For more information or to register, visit www.horizonuu.org/dre !
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GROWTH AND LEARNING NEWS
News for Children and Teens Middle School Youth Group Board Game Sunday! Sunday, February 14 10:45-11:30am
Come hang out and relax with your Horizon friends!
Horizon will start a middle school youth group that will meet once monthly. Instead of class, the group will spend the morning doing activities together like playing games, cooking, and social action projects. On Sunday, February 14 bring your favorite board games, a pillow or cushion, and snacks to share.
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GROWTH AND LEARNING NEWS
Wanted: Easter Treats for our Elementary Students
On Sunday, March 27th Horizon students in the nursery-5th grade will have a Spring Celebration and Egg Hunt during class. Can you donate spring treats such as individually wrapped candies* or stickers? Donations can be dropped off in the box in the Horizon lobby. Thank you in advance for making their spring extra fun! *due to allergies, no chocolate or nuts, please.
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HORIZON BOOK GROUP Bring your lunch and join the Book Group at noon, Tuesday, February 23. At the table in the Horizon Library, you’ll find food for thought and good discussion.
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GROWTH AND LEARNING NEWS
HORIZON BOOK GROUP THE NIGHTINGALE
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HORIZON BOOK GROUP SELECTIONS FOR WINTER & SPRING 2016
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Leader: Nancy Foreman SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY NEWS SocialResponsibility@HorizonUU.org
Horizon’s February 21 Share the Plate
The North TX Region American Red Cross helps people impacted by disasters who need help to overcome tragedy. Contributions will bring much needed support to the community in times of crises. Just $17.50 can provide a hot meal, warm blanket and comfort kit containing necessities to a neighbor in need in North Texas. An average of 91 cents of every dollar the American Red Cross spends is invested in humanitarian services and programs. Last year, local giving to the American Red Cross North Texas Region enabled them to respond to over 2,000 emergencies and assist over 2,600 families.
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SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY NEWS Final Week to Sign up Deadline— February 17. email socialresponsibility@horizonuu.org to see who else is going
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SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY NEWS
What is The Point? The Point is a customizable Unitarian Universalist retreat for all ages. Imagine five days of UU covenant and community in a resort-like setting on the shores of Fort Gibson Lake in Oklahoma. The Point offers personal growth, faith renewal, learning opportunities, spiritual practices, community worship, music, excellent cuisine, sustainable practices, social gatherings (dance, movie night, talent show), outdoor activities, programming for all ages and interests, and an engaging theme speaker. Each day begins and ends with worship, but how you spend your day is completely up to you! The theme for The Point 2016 is Savor and Save the World. Join us from July 24-29. Register at http://www.thepointuu.org today. Spots are limited!
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SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY NEWS
Climate Changed Building Interfaith Power Hosted by the North Texas Unitarian Universalist Congregations (NTUUC) Saturday, March 5th, 2016 8:30am to 4:30pm A light breakfast and lunch will be provided; Childcare provided upon request. There will be an optional interfaith worship and stone soup supper following the workshop. Dallas Recreation Center (“E� Building at the MLK Community Center) 2901 Pennsylvania Ave, Dallas, TX 75201 $25 per person Scholarships are available: Please contact climateregistration@ntuuc.org by email to request a scholarship: or by phone: (214) 477-7291 On-site registration will also be available. www.ntuuc.org/climatechanged Email: SocialResponsibility@HorizonUU.org if you are going. For more information go to http://www.ntuuc.org/climate-changed-building-interfaith-power
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SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY NEWS
Connect! Experience joy! Make a difference! Shelf stable food, household and hygiene products collected at Horizon every Sunday! Volunteer in the food pantry every other 2nd Saturday of the month. Upcoming dates: March 12, May 14, July 9, Sept 10, Nov 12
Contact: Victoria Simmons Victoria.Simmons@bvk.com Interested in working with a program helping senior adults through Metrocrest?
Email SocialResponsibility@HorizonUU.org The minimum age for volunteering at the Metrocrest Food Pantry is 13. They ask that 13 - 15 year olds are accompanied by an adult each time. For 16 and 17 year olds, Metrocrest asks that a parent attend at least the first time to make sure that the volunteer will feel comfortable coming without them after that.
Thank You!
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SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY NEWS
Southwest UU Spring Conference April 8-10, 2016 Wildflower Church, 1314 E. Oltorf St, Austin, Texas 78704
Differences that Make a Difference: Multicultural Justice Making Inside and Out In today’s world, conversations about difference are both difficult and necessary. Unitarian Universalists, with our theology of and commitment to pluralism, are called to lead the way in navigating a respectful discourse around emotional topics such as diversity in culture, ethnicity, and theology in a world that is increasingly divided. At this year’s Spring Conference, we will be exploring the differences in our congregations and how they make a difference in the way we chose to be in the world.
UUASouthernRegion.org
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STEWARDSHIP NEWS
Clean-up Day Clean-up Day was a huge success, allowing us to cross off a number of items from our to-do list, as Horizon volunteers came out on a beautiful Saturday morning to lend a hand. Over 35 volunteers washed windows, floors, walls and counters. Walls were spackled and painted. Spots in the carpet were removed, the Sanctuary chairs were dusted and the upholstery cleaned. The portable doors were sanded and primed and the ramp to the portable was pressure-washed.
Many Thanks for Your Help Taking Care of Our Building and Grounds Ellen Bratton
Greg Gent
Ann Pettit
Peter Campagna
Jackson Gent
Sarah Roye
Susan Campagna
Elizabeth Gustwick
Beth Simmons
Ethan Cole
Peter Hendee
Doc Simmons
James Cole
Nina Holdridge
Shimena Simmons
Ryan Cole
Steve Klarer
Victoria Simmons
Gay Cox
Carolyn McClung
Rebecca Stanczak
Lauren Daniell
Lynn McCoy
Sandy Steele
Steve Daniell
Floyd McGlothlin
Betsy Webb
Jerry Downing
Menaca Padakandla
John Webb
Grant Foreman
Rumya Padakandla
Joel Woiton
Nancy Foreman
Seth Padakandla
Alex Zapata
While we accomplished a lot, there are several projects we weren’t able to get to. If you have some spare time to help finish these projects, please email us at Stewardship@horizonuu.org or call the office, 972-492-4940.
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STEWARDSHIP NEWS Will you volunteer? Recognizing that the work of the church requires many hands, Horizon has developed an Admin Support Team. A team of volunteers, working under the direction of the Office Administrator, who makes things happen. From minor maintenance and clerical tasks to artistic support and special projects, this is the team that takes care of the many day-to-day details necessary for Horizon to prosper. As Helen Keller wrote, “Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” The Admin Support Team offers
General clerical support, such as filing, inventorying supplies, answering phones, making copies and updating the data base.
Minor facility maintenance, such as changing batteries and filters and making minor repairs requiring no special skills or equipment
Grounds support, such as watering, weeding or trimming trees, plants and shrubs, adding mulch
Artistic support, such as taking photographs and helping with posters or flyers
Special projects, such as spring cleaning
Once a week? Once a month? Contact Office Administrator Rebecca Stanczak 972-492-4940 administrator@horizonuu.org Your participation makes a difference.
Volunteers do not necessarily have the time; they just have the heart. ~Elizabeth Andrew
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ART ON THE HORIZON THANK YOU! To all who participated in the raffle for Art on the Horizon to choose a painting from the exhibit of artist, John P. Irizarry, and raise funds for the church. The drawing was held after church, February 7th. The lucky winners are:
Holly and Todd Stout Nancy and Grant Foreman Bunny and Bob Summerlin
Nancy and Grant Foreman with their selection.
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The Stouts with artist, John P. Irizarry
Bob and Bunny Summerlin’s cat, Edgar staring at “Jazzy”
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WORSHIP CIRCLE
Sunday Services February 21, 2016
Human Centered, Justice Focused Rev. Helen Carroll February 28, 2016
We the People Horizon Players March 6, 2016
Lay Led March 13, 2016
Faith Without Certainty Rev. Helen Carroll
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HORIZON UU CALENDAR OF EVENTS Saturday, February 13 8:00 am - 10:00 am Men's Support Group - E3 - Library 10:00 am - 11:30 am Horizon Players Service Rehearsal - SH - Sanc. Sunday, February 14 St. Valentine's Day
9:00 am - 10:15 am Adult Religious Explorations - E3 - Library 10:00 am - 12:00 pm CAYRE - Child Care - S1 - Nursery 10:15 am - 12:00 pm Library Ministry - Open for Browsing - E3 - Library 10:30 am - 11:30 am Ministerial Search Committee (MSC) table - TOH - Table 3 10:30 am - 12:00 pm Main Worship - SH - Sanc. 11:45 am - 2:00 pm After Church Lunch Bunch -- All Are Welcome! 12:00 pm - 1:30 pm 2nd Sunday Potluck - FH - Fellowship Hall, KI - Kitch 12:30 pm - 3:00 pm Being White in the Black Lives Matter Movement - E3 - Library 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm GALA Youth - S6 – Class Monday, February 15 President’s Day 11:00 am - 2:00 pm Pending Activity - SH - Sanc. 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm Hatha Yoga - P1 - Lg 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm SMART Recovery - FH - Fellowship Hall 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Northern Kings - S4 - Class 7:15 pm - 9:00 pm Wisdom Circle - E3 – Library
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HORIZON UU CALENDAR OF EVENTS Tuesday, February 16 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Buddhist Sangha - P1 - Lg, P2 - Couch Budget - Income - Other - All Church Event, FH - Fellowship Hall Ministerial Search Committee (MSC) - E3 – Library Wednesday, February 17 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm Library Ministry - E3 - Library 4:00 pm - 5:30 pm Trailblazers Memory Support Group - FH - Fellowship Hall 6:00 pm - 7:15 pm Yoga Nidra and Restorative Practice - P1 - Lg 7:00 pm - 9:30 pm Board of Trustees - E3 - Library, KI – Kitch Thursday, February 18 7:30 pm - 9:00 pm Choir Practice - SH - Sanc. Friday, February 19 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Candlelighters - FH - Fellowship Hall 7:00 pm - 11:00 pm Games Night at Horizon!!! - FH - Fellowship Hall Saturday, February 20 8:00 am - 10:00 am Men's Support Group - E3 - Library 10:00 am - 11:30 am Horizon Players Service Rehearsal - SH - Sanc. 5:00 pm - 9:00 pm Horizon Dinners - Other - Offsite 6:00 pm - 11:00 pm UDV - Church Rental - E3 - Library, FH - Fellowship Hall, KI - Kitch, RL - Lobby / Narthex, S5 - Class, S6 – Class
Visit: calendar.horizonuu.org for updates and events information
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SPECIAL GROUPS If you are considering attending one of these groups for the first time, it is a good idea to contact them via email for more information and to get an orientation of what to expect in your first visit! You can check the calendar at http://calendar.horizonuu.org/ Horizon Book Group: 4th Tuesdays 12p. (bookclub@horizonuu.org) The Horizon Book Group meets at 12 Noon on the fourth Tuesday of each month in the church Library. Every June and November the group decides on the books for the following six months. Bring a brown bag lunch and join in this fun group that is open to women and men. You’ll be able to share in an invigorating conversation on the session’s book. Current selections are found on the bulletin boards outside the main entrances and in the main lobby. Monthly selections are also included in the weekly newsletter. For more info, you may contact bookclub@horizonuu.org. Buddhist Sangha: Tuesdays 7 PM - 9:00 PM. (buddhists@horizonuu.org )
Buddhist Sangha ("Sangha" is equivalent to a covenant group) is a weekly gathering that studies the Dharma (the teachings of Buddhism.) This is an ongoing exploration of the Four Noble Truths and the Eight Fold Path, the essential teachings of Buddhism. It is participatory and although consistency is encouraged, sessions can be attended on a drop in basis. We welcome anyone interested in a meditation practice. If you wish to come for an orientation, please arrive by 6:30. If you wish to view materials, email the group at buddhists@horizonuu.org. CineMat CineMat meets on the 4th Saturday of the month. Time depends on movie selected. Open to everyone. This fun
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SPECIAL GROUPS group meets to see a movie chosen by the group and then goes to a coffee shop or restaurant to discuss the movie and socialize. cinemat@horizonuu.org. GAMERS: 3rd FRIDAY FUN AT HORIZON! (3rdfridaygames@horizonuu.org ) Come join us for adult level games on the 3rd Friday of every month. We meet in the Fellowship Hall at 7:00 p.m. Bring a snack or drink to share! Free childcare will provided upon request from 7:00 to 10:00pm (with 48 hour notice and 24 hour notice of cancellation). Please send reservations and cancellations to childcare@horizonuu.org. If you wish to get an email reminder of Games Night, please contact Beth Sproat at eblakehedges@earthlink.net Healthy Women 1st Thursdays, 7:30 pm - 9:00 pm. Women age 21 and over. This group provides support and encouragement for women in helping them achieve their personal goals of improving their fitness level, eating more nutritionally, losing weight and learning to reduce daily stress. This group also participates in an annual service project, in local walk events and raises money healthywomen@horizonuu.org Men’s Support Group Saturdays, 8:00 am - 10:00 am. Men age 18 and over. The Men’s Support Group provides men a supportive, safe environment for sharing personal challenges and concerns in a confidential setting. Many men were socialized to share only things external to them. The Men’s Support Group offers a sanctuary to share more about matters of the heart. Try us out and see if we fit your needs. mensgroup@horizonuu.org Second Tuesday Potluck 2nd Tuesday (most months) 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm in the Library. Everyone is welcome! This group meets for food, fellowship, deepening friendships and occasional field trips. Topics of interest are presented to the group after eating. There is also a subgroup that views a movie and has dinner together on the 3rd Wednesday of the month. secondtuesday@horizonuu.org Wisdom Circle Mondays 7:15 pm - 9:15 pm. Adults age 18 and over. Group meetings include a check-in and discussion of a weekly life issue topic selected by a group member. These have included appreciation, success and failure, fear, pro-
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SPECIAL GROUPS crastination, staying optimistic in hard times, anger, healing, leaving a legacy, forgiveness, trust, and compassion. wisdomcircle@horizonuu.org Wings Parenting Mondays 9:30 am - 11:30 am (2 - 3 times a month). Parents of all ages. We welcome Moms and Dads to meet in the Horizon Church library. We have topics of interest not just about parenting UU children but personal and spiritual self-growth. Past topics have included: the philosophy of life according to Doctor Who, Karma, creating our "bucket list", our family trees, and what does it mean to be a UU parent. We also do a social outreach project once a year. Our schedule follows the school year and we break for school holidays and for the summer. During the school year, child care is provided. mondaywings@horizonuu.org The Women’s Friendship in Growth (WFIG) meets on the 2nd, 4th, and 5th Wednesdays, from 7:30 - 9 pm in the Horizon Library. The purpose of this group is to strengthen friendships among women. In addition to regular check-ins about our lives, we have discussions that help us get to know one another better. On 5th Wednesdays we do a variety of fun activities! If you’d like to be a part of these Wednesday night meetings, we’d love to have you! wfig@horizonuu.org Young Adults Contact: YoungAdults@horizonuu.org for more details.