the_week@horizonuu a publication of horizon unitarian universalist church * August 09, 2015
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Sunday Service: August 09, 2015 Living by the Book Rev. Helen Carroll
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In a world of millions of believers, we are almost hard-wired to exploit difference. Cultural and personal perspectives, as the veil through which experiences are sorted, hold the religious practice, the system of government, and the way of life we know best as the one that is the base for understanding, comparing and judging others. How do we hold that reality in tension with a commitment to the free and responsible search for truth and meaning?
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Horizon News Adult Religious Exploration Sunday Morning Forum – On Sunday, August 9th in the library from 9:00 am to 10:10 am, Candace Williams will facilitate our class on “The Rest of the Iceberg
Adult Religious Exploration Sunday Out of Office - The Office Administra- Morning Forum - On Sunday, August tor will be out of the office from August 16th, John Myers will facilitate the fourth 7th through August 14th. If you need in a series of sessions on “Sustainable Happiness” in the library from 9:00 am to assistance during that time, please 10:10 am, . call the church office at 972-4924940.
The Wayside Pulpit Committee is searching for another member. We work mainly as an online group, with infrequent meetings at church. The Men's Group assists us by changing out the sign each week. On average, members are responsible for the postings of two months per year. Please email Tinker if you are interested: tinkergoggans@gmail.com
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Weekly Service: Sundays 10:30 AM
Sunday Service: August 16, 2015 Building a New Way Loraine McNeill
This past June, Unitarian Universalists from across the country and around the world gathered in Portland, Oregon for the 2015 General Assembly aimed at the idea of Building a New Way. Where do we come from? What are we? Where are we going? In a liberal religion which recognizes the personal truth of each individual, how do we arrive at our own path? What is our identity in the larger world and what do we bring to the table as we work to co-create the future?
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Horizon News
Share the Plate The recipient for August on 8/16/15, will be The James Reeb Fund. James Reeb (1933-1965) joined many Unitarian Universalist ministers who answered the call of Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr., to come to Selma in the wake of Bloody Sunday. While leaving a black-owned Selma diner with two other Unitarian ministers, Reeb was beaten by white assailants. He died of his injuries two days later. Your gift to the James Reeb Fund will support the UUA's justice work, including their voting rights campaign, training and mentoring programs for religious professionals of color, and community based initiatives for racial justice. The fund gives the power to respond agilely to the needs of our time as well as faithful support of their longer term work. Some of the money raised goes to the Rebuild the Churches Fund.
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FROM THE MINISTER
mUUsings Greetings from your interim minister.
Ah…the lazy days of summer. Is it just my imagination or are lazy days mostly a thing of the imagination? With the press of schedules and commitments, the need for long range projections and strategic plans, “lazy” days seem to be pushed into the background. Time when there’s nothing else to do may have become a rare gift. I remember the summers of my youth – a rich mix of week-ends at the lake, visits with my New Mexico grandparents and playing kickthe-can with kids in the neighborhood. And the high point: My week at church camp. Seven glorious days of crafts, swimming, hiking, playing, singing, resting, being, doing – well, you get the idea. I remember camp as an important “growing up” experience that helped me learn more about who I was and who I wanted to be. Unitarian Universalists in Texas are fortunate to be able to attend that kind of camp at the UBarU Retreat and Conference Center. Youth and adults of all ages are treated to a beautiful setting, well designed programs and, best of all, the magical connections that grow among folks who live, work and play together.
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mUUsings And there will be other opportunities to make new connections this summer. Gone are the days when we can close the doors for the summer and walk away from the day-to-day challenges of church and community life. So, we’ll be here – offering worship on Sundays and gatherings all week long. Your leadership is planning program opportunities for the 2015-2016 year and there will be more to do, more to explore and more to imagine. Though I am looking forward to the mix of new experiences and more familiar ones, I know it won’t be my “lazy” time. There will be much to do, plan for and think about. So the challenge remains… how to be renewed in the midst of a busy life. What are you doing this summer to be renewed? When is your “lazy” time? All too soon the pace of the season accelerates as summer becomes fall and that turns to winter. Enjoy today – tomorrow comes soon enough. Faithfully, Rev. Helen 972-492-4940 ext. 106
Note: My regular office hours are 10 – 1, Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday. Other times are available by appointment. My day off is Monday.
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HORIZON NEWS
Ministerial Search Committee
Gather Your Thoughts The Ministerial Search Committee (MSC) needs the input of Horizon’s members to complete our Congregational Record and Packet to share with ministerial candidates. These documents describe Horizon, including our strengths, weaknesses, goals, and history. The Packet provides a ministerial candidate with an in-depth view of who members are and why they belong to a UU church. In addition to pictures, videos, and descriptions written and collected by the MSC from Horizon's members and friends, the results of a congregational survey are provided to show the demographics and desires of all members. Taking the survey helps the congregation examine its goals. The questions range from simple – how long does it take you to get to Horizon on Sunday morning? – to thoughtprovoking – what do you hope for in a minister? Democratic process is part of our UU principles. So, watch for the survey in September and participate in the selection of our new minister by sharing your information, thoughts, and dreams. – Your MSC
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HORIZON NEWS
At Last, justice is here! And WE WANT TO MARRY YOU! From July 19th through August 15th, Horizon will host your wedding free of charge. From our minister, Rev. Helen Carroll, “I’ve been active in the Freedom to Marry movement for more than a decade, serving congregations across the US. I am thrilled to have the opportunity to officiate your wedding as marriage equality becomes available in Texas.” Questions? Please contact Rev. Carroll at interimminister@horizonuu.org.
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COMMUNITY NEWS Community Cares
Come Explore Horizon with Us!
Meet the Neuschaefer Family Gary and Rachel are digital adventurers that met online via match.com in 1997, and have been in the Grapevine area ever since. We look forward to being part of a community where we can be ourselves, and introduce our daughter to like-minded families.
If you are visiting and want to learn more about Horizon, the “Exploring Horizon” classes are recommended. Here you can ask all your questions. Check the calendar for upcoming classes.
After Church Lunch Bunch Join us after the service, Sunday, August 9th at Papa Italianos — across the street from the church at the light.
Rachel is a senior property accountant, a veracious reader, and dabbles in knitting and cooking. Gary is an IT manager of networking/systems management tools, and is an avid gamer on the computer or via pen/ paper role-playing games. Anna is a 4th grader who loves dancing, fashion, cruising the internet onher iPad, and pancakes.
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COMMUNITY NEWS An update from Betsy Riley Palma (Walter Riley’s daughter) “My dad was moved from skilled nursing to a great memory care facility Oxford Glen Sachse which is only a temporary home until their Carrollton location (2 miles from my house) opens in mid-September. He is on hospice with the goal of comfort. Unfortunately he has Pneumonia, but we hope that will be cleared up soon. My dad can have visitors, but keep in mind that he might not recognize you. His face will light up when he sees you. Maybe even crack a joke and a smile. He enjoys getting the cards and letters. You can continue to send them to me and I will read them to him. I also give him a little background on who's who to maybe trigger a little memory. They are great tools to help us reminisce. Thank you for the thoughts and prayers. We all appreciate them so much.” You can reach Betsy or send cards to Walter at: Betsy Riley Palma(214)632-2207 14622 Cherry Hills Drive Farmers Branch, TX 75234 (214)632-2207 betsyriley2001@yahoo.com Or visit Walter at: Oxford Glen 4546 Bunker Hill Road Sachse, TX 75048 Tel: 214.449.1884
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COMMUNITY NEWS
Candlelighters wear purple in support of the Walk to End Alzheimer’s being held on September 26th in Denton.
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COMMUNITY NEWS
As humans, we are on this life journey that encompasses our experiences, dreams, failures and achievements. We travel on this road with others whom we call family, friends, co-workers, church members, neighbors, strangers, and dare we say, “adversaries�. There will come a time that we hit a roadblock on our life path. These roadblocks can include job loss, an illness, yourself or that of a loved one, loss of a bond whether it be by death or separation of ways, financial issues, or a complicated and unhealthy relationship. Anger, sadness, loneliness, are some of the many emotions that can be triggered by any of these roadblocks. Some people may have supportive folks on their road that can help them deal with these emotions and possibly help remove the roadblock. Some people may not have the support it takes to help with certain issues. Often times the support system may have an emotional interest in our wellbeing and unintentionally minimize the situation or give unsolicited advice. For these times that you feel you need someone outside of your support system, please consider our Pastoral Care Team. This team is comprised of individuals that have volunteered to give short term assistance to members of our congregation. They are trained to listen, offer advice if solicited, give resources and overall help you in your time of need. The interactions are always confidential.
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Members of small knit communities such as churches may assume that others are aware of their pain or needs. This is especially true with much of todays’ communication done through social media such as Facebook. Unfortunately, because of all the ways to communicate, much can be missed. The best way for us to know you are in need is to simply let us know. We are here to help! How do you access someone on the Pastoral Care Team? Come see me! I am at church most Sundays. You can also reach me at 972-492-4940 ext. 104 or dmpc@horizonuu.org. Sincerely, Ramona Ramazani, LCSW Director of Membership and Pastoral Care
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COMMUNITY NEWS
Women’s Retreat October 2nd-4th, 2015
Would you like to join us on a fantastic retreat experience? Our annual gathering invites members and visitors to catch up with old friends and make new ones. It’s a relaxing weekend in a relaxed setting. This is a chance to get away from it all and enjoy the company of some fabulous women!
Glen Lake Camp and Retreat Center http://www.glenlake.org is a beautiful retreat center with wooded areas, walking trails, and access to the Paluxy River. We stay in deluxe cabins and also have access to a limited number of hotel-style rooms. Each year we have a theme for the retreat that inspires and recharges us. The theme guides the Saturday morning presentation and group activities. Don't worry, there is a nice balance of together time and alone time if you want it. This year, our theme is "R-E-S-P-E-C-T Find out what it means to . . . YOU! The retreat is October 2-4. Registration starts August 2nd. We are in need of some help on the planning committee! It is a fun committee to be on. We have a great time just creating the retreat. If you are interested in joining the Planning Committee and helping make the retreat all it can be, send an email to womensretreat@horizonuu.org. OR just show up at the Planning Committee meeting on 7/26 after church. We usually meet in the last classroom to the left. Peace, Lisa Krishnan
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COMMUNITY NEWS AFTER CHURCH LUNCH BUNCH One way to get to know people from Horizon better is to join us after church for lunch. Everyone is welcome (even friends and family joining you after church). The restaurant will change each week. Check the welcome desk each week for the location. We meet most Sundays. Ask for the “Horizon” tables. It may take a few minutes following the service for lunch attendees to arrive but we’re coming!
Second Sunday Potluck: Everyone welcome! Horizon’s potlucks provide an opportunity to get to know others and be with our church community. We appreciate your bringing a bit more than needed for our families, allowing us to offer this hospitality to all members, visitors, and friends.
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GROWTH AND LEARNING NEWS by Lauren Daniell dlre@horizonuu.org blog: www.horizonuu.org/dre/ Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/horizonuu/
Adult Growth and Learning Want to learn about the courses offered this fall at Horizon?
From yearlong classes like Wellspring and Wisdom Circle, to short session courses that meet for only 4 -6 weeks, Horizon has many opportunities for adults to grow both in mind and spirit this fall. Click here to learn about our fall offerings: www.horizonuu.org/dre
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GROWTH AND LEARNING NEWS
Adult Growth and Learning Young Adult* OWL group now forming October 4-November 15 Sundays, 1-3pm Horizon Library Instructors: Matt Burr, Mindy Burr & Cassie Withy -Rila Our Whole Lives (OWL) helps participants make informed and responsible decisions about their sexual health and behavior. With a holistic approach, Our Whole Lives provides accurate, developmentally appropriate information about a range of topics, including relationships, gender identity, sexual orientation, sexual health, and cultural influences on sexuality.
For more information visit http://uua.org/owl To register, contact dlre@horizonuu.org *18 -35 years of age
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Adult Growth and Learning
Registration now open for 2015-16 UU Wellspring is a 10-month program of distinctly Unitarian Universalist spiritual development Lindy Tinnin will facilitate this year’s group on Sunday afternoons twice monthly mid- September through late May. For more information, please visit the information page at www.horizonuu.org/dre/ To register, email Lindy Tinnin: lindytinnin@yahoo.com
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Women’s Journey Group Now forming for the fall! New sessions being September 13th
This small group will meet for seven sessions around the theme of Finding Balance. To foster a better group environment, we will use a special structure designed to encourage sharing and supportive listening. Members are also asked to commit seriously to attending all meetings—the occasional absence is fine, but this journey group draws its strength from members’ regular participation.
Sessions meet the 2nd and 4th Sundays from 8:30 to 9:45 a.m. beginning September 13th- December 13th. To request more information or to enroll, contact Katie Barnes at JourneyGroups@horizonuu.org
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News for Children and Teens Star Wars Movie Morning August 23rd
To celebrate the end of our summer UU Jedi Academy class, all children going into grades 1-8 in the fall are invited to a Star Wars movie morning Sunday, August 23rd in the Portable Building. We’ll watch Star Wars IV - A New Hope and have Star Wars-themed treats.
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GROWTH AND LEARNING NEWS
Beach Day 2015 Children’s End of Summer Celebration Sunday, August 30th Ages nursery-12
Attention kids! Celebrate the end of the summer with your Horizon friends on Sunday, August 30th. We’ll have lots of water activities, mini water slides, and cool treats just for kids during the service.
Come in clothes (including shoes) that can get wet, a hat, and wear plenty of sunscreen. For more information, contact dlre@horizonuu.org
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Now Registering for 2015-16 Coming of Age
All 14 and 15 year olds and/or students who will be in 9th or 10th grade in the fall are invited to join Horizon’s Coming of Age class. In COA, students spend the year clarifying their values, learning about their religious roots and undergo much personal and spiritual growth. For more information about COA and/or to register your teens, email dlre@horizonuu.org.
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Eighth grade OWL Registration Deadline is August 14th
Horizon is now registering students who will enter 8th grade in the fall for the yearlong Our Whole Lives course. If you have not already received an email from Mr. Alan Gann or know a rising 8th or 9th grader who has not had OWL, please email dlre@horizonuu.org Our Whole Lives or OWL helps participants make informed and responsible decisions about their sexual health and behavior. With a holistic approach, Our Whole Lives provides accurate, developmentally appropriate information about a range of topics, including relationships, gender identity, sexual orientation, sexual health, and cultural influences on sexuality. For more information about 8th Grade OWL, visit www.horizonuu.org/dre
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Calendar of Events Children and Youth
August 15th: North Texas teacher training, 9am-2pm. First Unitarian Church of Dallas (meals and childcare provided) 16th: 8th Grade OWL Parent orientation, 12-3pm 23rd: Star Wars movie morning, ages 6 and up: Portable Bldg. 30th: “Beach Day/Mini Splash Day� Back-to-School celebration
September 13th: Water service: Intergenerational Service for all ages 20th: Fall classes begin PreK-Middle School
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GROWTH AND LEARNING NEWS
The current Horizon Book Group Selection. Discussion at noon, Tuesday, August 25th, in the library. Don’t skip lunch...bring it with you!
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GROWTH AND LEARNING NEWS
Horizon Book Group Selections August through December August 25: Dead Wake by Erik Larson September 22: In the Unlikely Event by Judy Blume
October 27: The Art Forger by Barbara Shapiro November-December meeting held on December 1: The Wright Brothers by David McCullough
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SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY NEWS Leader: Nancy Foreman SocialResponsibility@HorizonUU.org
VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITY FOR BACK TO SCHOOL PROGRAM
Shoe Shopping – (In groups of two help children pick out and size school shoes) Saturday August 8th – 7:30am to 10:30am (Location: Payless 2630 N Josey Ln Ste 101 Carrollton, TX 75007 North East corner of Josey and George Bush) Shuttling & Sorting Supplies – (transfer school supplies from the warehouse to the gym at CFBISD Saturday August 15th – 9am – 1pm location: CFBISD gym at 1820 Pearl Street Building C Carrollton, Texas)
Please follow-up with Victoria Simmons (victorias@bvk.com) if you are interested. We’re still sourcing additional details on exact locations and times, but wanted you to save the date.
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Common Ground Street Choir Leads Singing Crowd Again! On July 30, the Common Ground Street Choir, including Horizon’s own JuLane, Bunny and Nancy led a singing crowd at the Medicare 50th Anniversary Celebration at the Teachers’ Hall in Dallas. Singing is a great non-violent way to make a statement!
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SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY NEWS
Accomplishments 2014-2015 The Texas Unitarian Universalist Justice Ministry (TXUUJM), of which Horizon is a member, has achieved much this year. In addition to “General Good Stuff,” areas include: Reproductive Justice Economic Inequality/Justice LGBT Equality Religious Freedom Immigration/ Refugee Rights Details about these are at http://txuujm.org/txuujm-2014-15-accomplishments. We can be very proud of the things we have accomplished together and…we are just getting started! Please consider a monthly donation to TXUUJM of $25 or more - http:// txuujm.org/donate. We are and will continue our ministry of bending Texas towards justice!
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Conference Highlights Value of Diversity If your actions inspire others to dream, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader. John Quincy Adams, 6th President of the United States and Unitarian forefather With these words in mind, the North Texas Unitarian Universalist Congregations (NTUUC’s) annual Standing on the Side of Leadership Conference, "Breaking Down Walls; Building Bridges,” focused on developing skills and opportunities for effective community engagement in a multi-cultural world. The morning sessions, led by Rev. Tamara Lebak, concentrated on Cultural Competence—the ability to interact effectively with people of different cultures and socio-economic backgrounds, particularly in the context of organizations. Ginny Goldman, Executive Director of Texas Organizing Project, started the afternoon session, which continued with breakouts offering ways to apply knowledge gained in the morning as action in North Texas. Six Horizon members participated in the conference: Katie Barnes, Lisa Casto, Tracy Kirk, Jan McDowell, Bunny Summerlin, and Aly Tharp.
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Katie Barnes shared a short film Rev. Lebak showed called What Kind of Asian Are You? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DWynJkN5HbQ "We unknowingly use questions as weapons that distance us from other people and sabotage connection,” Lebak said. “Don't ask questions just because you are curious, because it is irritating and exhausting." She spoke of the Iceberg Model of Culture—the differences we are aware of like clothing, verbal communication and food are the tip of the iceberg. To really understand a culture, look at attitudes toward dependence, patterns of group decision making, handling emotions and myriad other differences below the surface. Lebak suggested that rather than the golden rule, we use the platinum rule: Do unto others as they would do unto themselves, rather than minimize differences and make assumptions about what other people want or need. Tracy Kirk related that Lebak suggested that to work toward welcoming diversity and becoming an intercultural community we first need to understand that we ourselves have a cultural point of view. Our point of view doesn't necessarily have to remain the default. In becoming less ethnocentric, we go through stages from denial and defensiveness to acceptance and integration. Tracy found the best question posed to Lebak was, "Is this what we want?" We assume congregations in North Texas want to be multicultural, but is or will diversity be a priority at Horizon? What makes our demographics the way they currently are?
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Ginny Goldman from the Texas Organizing Project (which trains people in low income neighborhoods to become more actively engaged in the political process and supports their efforts), made an important point. People want support to act on their own behalf rather than just receiving help from others. Empowering people results in different voices being heard. This presentation demonstrated the real value of diversity. Jan McDowell was struck by a presentation in which UU minister and former Horizon Intern, Lyssa Jenkens, and Unitarian Universalist Church of Oak Cliff minister, Mark Walz, acted in a 2--minute mimed skit. He was clearly the male chauvinist, walking into the room ahead of her, and reclining while she served him tea. She gave him each thing...food, drink, etc. He would sample them and nod, totally avoiding eye contact with her. It seemed clear that she was the servant and he was the jerk. That was until conference attendees heard the background story. They were representing a culture in which women are treated as goddesses. The male would always taste food first to ensure the woman did not get poisoned, walk into rooms first to ensure safety, and not deign to look upon the female. Jan says, “Oh, yeah. I guess there's also that way of interpreting what we saw. We had only seen it through the lens of the culture we live in.” Let’s converse more with the bright stars among us who attended this conference, and consider the lessons they bring!
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SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY NEWS Horizon families and friends have spent time at the Southwest Unitarian Universalist Summer Institute (SWUUSI) at Sequoyah State Park in Oklahoma. Here are two Horizon friends with our banner during the opening ceremonies.
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Horizon Crowd Enjoyed SWUUSI
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“Mission to Love” The Southwest UU Summer Institute (SWUUSI) choir performance included lots of singing along from the audience. “I hope the people at Horizon get to experience these singable and catchy songs that express our Unitarian Universalist values so well”. http://missiontolove.com
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Toby Jensen from Horizon enthusiastically led the singing at the evening’s worship service at the Southwest UU Summer Institute (SWUUSI)
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School Supply Drive 2015 Imagine a youngster starting the school year without a new backpack or even basic school supplies. Many parents struggle to afford these items, so we collect supplies and distribute to families in Carrollton, Farmers Branch, Addison, Coppell and the city of Dallas in Denton County. Will you help us make sure local students start the year with confidence and the essential items? Please bring items to Horizon no later than this Sunday, August 9th. Donations can be brought to the sanctuary. Thank you in advance for your generosity! Supplies needed: Backpacks Washable markers thin & thick - 8 ct. Construction paper 12x18 colors Construction paper 12x18 manila #2 Pencils Dry erase markers-black Ball point pens - blue, black & red Highlighters - yellow Rulers Pink bevel erasers Colored pencils-12 ct. Spiral notebook - 70 ct. Wide & college ruled notebook paper
Scissors-5� round or sharp Folders w/brads & pockets Index cards - 3x5 inch Zip close plastic bags quart & gallon size 5 subject notebook dividers 3 ring binders - 1 1/2 inch Pencil box or bag Baby wipes Marble composition books Graph paper Glue sticks
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SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY NEWS
Astronomy Weekend at UBarU: August 14 – 16, 2015 The August 14th - 16th weekend offers a particularly good time for star gazers of all ages under the beautiful dark skies at UBarU. There will be a new moon to set the stage for brilliant views of Saturn, deep-sky objects and the late-night display of the Perseid Meteor Shower which is one of the best meteor showers each year. UBarU will provide and operate telescopes and binoculars for the star parties. However, attendees are welcome to bring their own scopes to use (and share) if they wish. The price of the weekend includes: all programming, sleeping accommodations for Friday and Saturday nights, full meals for dinner and breakfast starting Friday evening through breakfast Sunday morning, with a light lunch on Saturday. Fees for the event Adults (18 and over) With spouse, significant Child, 5 – 12 with parent Child, 13 – 18 with parent
$125 $225
$75 $90
For more information, go to http://ubaru.org/home/Portals/UBarU/pdfs/Astronomy%20Weekend% 202015.pdf To register, go to: http://ubaru.org/home/UBarU-Login?returnurl=%2fhome% 2fAstronomyWeekendRegistration
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SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY NEWS
What is Metrocrest Services? An organization that serves Horizon’s neighbors in Carrollton, Farmers Branch, Addison, Coppell and the city of Dallas in Denton County. Their mission is to assist families, individuals and senior adults who are coping with crisis situations, need help stabilizing their lives, or who require support to live independently. How do we help Metrocrest each Sunday? You are invited to bring pantry items to Sunday Service for donation. Items must be new, not expired and no glass containers. Suggested items include: Canned vegetables, fruits and meat items Helper-type mixes Dried beans & rice Seasonal fresh produce Breads and pastries Baking supplies Toiletries & hygiene items Household cleaning supplies Are there other opportunities for us to help Metrocrest? Every other month, on a Saturday, Horizon members work in the food pantry at Metrocrest Services, helping customers shop for groceries, re-stocking shelves, organizing etc. There are two shifts available 911am and 11am-1pm. Upcoming Dates in 2015: July 11, September 12, & November 14. Folks from Horizon also help with projects during the holiday season and in the summer. Who do I contact at Horizon about Metrocrest? To learn more about or sign up for volunteer opportunities working with Metrocrest Services, please contact Victoria Simmons (victorias@bvk.com) with your name and e‑mail address. We’re cleaning up our old email lists, so even if you’ve been volunteering for years, please quickly confirm your contact information.
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STEWARDSHIP NEWS T E N D I N G
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YEAR–ROUND STEWARDSHIP
WHAT DOES OUR GARDEN HAVE TO DO WITH STEWARDSHIP? HORIZON UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURCH
Don’t you just love Horizon’s beautiful garden? It makes me smile when I walk in the front door on Sundays or any day. With such diversity and beauty, it’s a welcoming metaphor to the community that is Horizon. So what does our garden have to do with our stewardship of Horizon? Gardens need to be tended all year round to achieve their fullest potential. Stewardship needs similar care. Our once-a-year campaign in the spring required the significant effort of a few dedicated volunteers and was quickly becoming unsustainable. Something had to change. That’s why, in March 2015, we began shifting to a year-round stewardship program. For 10 months every year, 20 pledging families will be invited to renew their pledges, along with an opportunity to engage in a fun family event. We’ve had some good success with March, April, May and June and we wanted to take this opportunity to thank our hosts and those families that have stepped up and made their pledges to support our growing community.
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STEWARDSHIP NEWS Thank you for “Tending Our Garden” and committing to Horizon! First, thanks much to our wonderful hosts: March 2015 – Judy Meador and Jan McDowell April 2015 – Jon Kiser and Sarah Roye May 2015 – Ellen Bratton and Liz Bibeau June 2015 – Eric Freeman and Beth Ginez And a hearty thank you to the families that have been invited and responded with a renewed pledge:
March Nancy & John Bryant Sarah & Brian Chadderdon Jan McDowell Judy & MC Meador Camilla Norder Lindsey Townsend Betsy & John Webb
Patti and Jerry Burns Nina Holdridge Madira & Michael McKee Thea Morton Menaca & Bhaskar Padakandla David Turner & Lindy Tinnin Candace & Thomas Williams
April Mary Bittle Andrea Dodds Neera & Stephen Jackson Carolyn Moore Cat & Morteza Sabih Mackedie & Warren Spiker
Merri & David Blow Peter Hendee Dianne & Jon Kiser Sarah & Dave Roye Victoria & Doc Simmons
May Beth Bargar & Randy Lisbona Ellen Bratton & Floyd McGlothlin Elaine Commins Mary Kay Howard Alita Lichtenwalter Walter Riley Peter Turla
Liz & Mark Bibeau Roxanne & David Cassard Marga Gordon David Laubach Sue Rodnour Pam Schuman
June Judy Aplin Zeynep Celik-Butler & Donald Butler Peggy and John Gill Lynn McCoy Ann Pettit Jim Sturdivant Alexis & Saj Surve
Kim Bolin Debra and Eric Freeman Beth & David Ginez Sandy & Mark Morris Jane Roehl Bunny & Bob Summerlin Cindy & Alan Treece
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STEWARDSHIP NEWS ART ON THE HORIZON Current Artist About Darla Bostick Darla has lived in Denton 18 years. She earned her Bachelor of Fine Arts degree from Texas Tech University and has been involved in the arts since that time as an art educator in AZ, IA, NM and TX. In her personal work she finds the greatest challenge and satisfaction in watercolors and photography. Love of travel is evidenced primarily in her photographic images which later inspire paintings in watercolor. Since painting on site is not always convenient when traveling, the camera is used as a sketchbook to capture the colors of a region, its architecture, unique landscapes and the people’s daily lives. She has traveled to 55 countries at last count. Currently she is president of the Society of Watercolor Artists in Fort Worth. Darla’s paintings have been juried into national and international exhibits in TX, MS, OK, AZ, MN and LA. Photography:
Her “First Impressions of China” photo exhibit traveled widely throughout the North Texas area and garnered several awards with images featured in the “The Dallas Morning News” travel section as well as “Life Images” magazine. “Images of the Emerald Isle” followed and was featured in the Focus Gallery at Irving Art Center as part of their Celtic Christmas Celebration. Aside from the published images, many of Darla’s photographs have won awards in juried competitions across the state and are part of private collections. Painting: Darla regularly has solo exhibits for both watercolor and photographs throughout the North Texas area and her art work has appeared in several publications, web pages and television. She has been published in “Art Educator”, "Best of America Watercolor Artists & Artisans, Vol. I", on the covers of “Denton Connection” and “Denton Scramble” magazines and has been featured numerous times in calendars for the Visual Arts Society of Texas, Visual Arts of Lewisville and Irving Art Association. In addition, she publishes her own calendar each year featuring work completed that year. Her major emphasis is color and value.
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STEWARDSHIP NEWS ART ON THE HORIZON Current Artist Demonstrations and Workshops: Darla is an active demonstration artist and continues painting for several art associations in the Dallas-Fort Worth area. Recognized as a painter/educator, she has also judged art venues. In 2008 Darla began what has become an annual week-long workshop/retreat at Ghost Ranch in Abiquiu, NM. She combines photography, watercolor and mixed medias and has attracted artists from coast to coast. She has taught workshops in Sedona, AZ and NM and recently took a group to Spain for 2 weeks. Continuing Education: Darla has studied with many notable artists including: Stephen Quiller, Nicholas Simmons, Soon Warren, Faeling Lin, Sterling Edwards, Ratindra Das, Ric Dentinger, Sandy Maudlin, Arnold Lowery, Carol Carter, Tony Saladino, Joyce Hicks and Ken Hosmer. Darla’s motto is “Art is Life!” Her hope is to touch the viewer through her images and show the world as she sees it. Darla Bostick, 2101 Woodbrook, Denton, TX 76205 www.darlabostick.com
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STEWARDSHIP NEWS ART ON THE HORIZON Current Artist
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WORSHIP CIRCLE
Sunday Services August 16, 2015 Loraine McNeill August 23, 2015 – Lay Led August 30, 2015
Bending Texas Toward Justice Gwen & Alan Lummus September 6, 2015 – Lay Led September 13, 2015
A Gathering of the Waters Rev. Helen Carroll September 20, 2015
What Unitarian Universalists Value Least Rev. Bill Schultz
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HORIZON UU CALENDAR OF EVENTS Saturday, August 8 7:30 am - 12:30 pm Rental - Isha Institute - FH - Fellowship Hall, S1 - Nursery, S5 Class 8:00 am - 10:00 am Men's Support Group - E3 - Library 9:00 am - 1:00 pm Horizon Players Rehearsal - SH - Sanc. 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm N. TX School of Irish Music - FH - Fellowship Hall
Sunday, August 9 9:00 am - 10:15 am Adult Religious Explorations - Candace Williams “The Rest of the Iceberg” E3 - Library 10:00 am - 12:00 pm CAYRE - Child Care - S1 - Nursery 10:15 am - 12:00 pm Library Ministry - Open for Browsing - E3 - Library 10:30 am - 12:00 pm Main Worship - SH - Sanc. 11:45 am - 3:00 pm After Church Lunch Bunch - All are Welcome! - Other – Offsite 12:00 pm - 1:30 pm No Potluck This Week - FH - Fellowship Hall, KI - Kitch 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm Neighborhood Group Leaders Meeting 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm GALA Youth - S6 – Class Monday, August 10 9:30 am - 11:30 am Wings Parenting - E3 - Library, KI - Kitch 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm Hatha Yoga - P1 - Lg 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm SMART Recovery - FH - Fellowship Hall 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Neighborhood Calling Circle - S2 - Class 7:15 pm - 9:00 pm Wisdom Circle - E3 – Library Tuesday, August 11 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm Potluck (Seniors) Group - E3 - Library, KI - Kitch 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Buddhist Sangha - P1 - Lg, P2 - Couch MSC - E3 – Library 7:30 pm - 9:00 pm Membership Committee Meeting –Office
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HORIZON UU CALENDAR OF EVENTS Wednesday, August 12 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm Library Ministry - E3 - Library 6:00 pm - 7:15 pm Yoga Nidra and Restorative Practice - P1 - Lg 7:30 pm - 9:30 pm WFIG (Women's Friendship in Growth) Group--Welcome! E3 – Library
Thursday, August 13 No events scheduled Friday, August 14 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Candlelighters - FH - Fellowship Hall Saturday, August 15 8:00 am - 10:00 am Men's Support Group - E3 - Library 9:00 am - 1:00 pm Horizon Players Rehearsal - SH - Sanc. 9:00 am - 2:00 pm North Texas Teacher Training 5:00 pm - 9:00 pm Horizon Dinners - Other - Offsite 6:00 pm - 11:00 pm UDV - Church Rental - E3 - Library, FH - Fellowship Hall, KI - Kitch, RL - Lobby / Narthex, S5 - Class, S6 – Class
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HORIZON UU CALENDAR OF EVENTS Sunday, August 16 9:00 am - 10:15 am Adult Religious Explorations – John Myers “Sustainable Happiness” -E3 - Library 10:00 am - 12:00 pm CAYRE - Child Care - S1 - Nursery 10:15 am - 12:00 pm Library Ministry - Open for Browsing - E3 - Library 10:30 am - 11:45 am Share the Plate Sunday 10:30 am - 12:00 pm Main Worship - SH - Sanc. 11:45 am - 12:45 pm Sunday Sounding Board - SH - Sanctuary 11:45 am - 2:00 pm After Church Lunch Bunch -- All Are Welcome! 12:00 pm - 3:00 pm OWL parent orientation - Jr. High - P1 - Lg 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm GALA Youth - S6 - Class Monday, August 17 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm Hatha Yoga - P1 - Lg 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm SMART Recovery - FH - Fellowship Hall 7:15 pm - 9:00 pm Wisdom Circle - E3 – Library Tuesday, August 18 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Buddhist Sangha - P1 - Lg, P2 - Couch MSC - E3 – Library
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HORIZON UU CALENDAR OF EVENTS Wednesday, August 19 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm Library Ministry - E3 - Library 6:00 pm - 7:15 pm Yoga Nidra and Restorative Practice - P1 - Lg 7:00 pm - 9:30 pm Board of Trustees - E3 - Library, KI – Kitch Thursday, August 20 No Events Scheduled Friday, August 21 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Candlelighters - FH - Fellowship Hall 7:00 pm - 11:00 pm Games Night at Horizon!!! - FH - Fellowship Hall Saturday, August 22 8:00 am - 10:00 am Men's Support Group - E3 - Library 9:00 am - 1:00 pm Horizon Players Rehearsal - SH - Sanc.
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SPECIAL GROUPS If you are considering attending one of these groups for the first time, it is a good idea to contact them via email for more information and to get an orientation of what to expect in your first visit! You can check the calendar at http://calendar.horizonuu.org/ Horizon Book Group: 4th Tuesdays 12p. (bookclub@horizonuu.org) The Horizon Book Group meets at 12 Noon on the fourth Tuesday of each month in the church Library. Every June and November the group decides on the books for the following six months. Bring a brown bag lunch and join in this fun group that is open to women and men. You’ll be able to share in an invigorating conversation on the session’s book. Current selections are found in the Library information niche in the lobby/narthex. For more info, you may contact bookclub@horizonuu.org. Buddhist Sangha: Tuesdays 7 PM - 9:00 PM. (buddhists@horizonuu.org ) Buddhist Sangha ("Sangha" is equivalent to a covenant group) is a weekly gathering that studies the Dharma (the teachings of Buddhism.) This is an ongoing exploration of the Four Noble Truths and the Eight Fold Path, the essential teachings of Buddhism. It is participatory and although consistency is encouraged, sessions can be attended on a drop in basis. We welcome anyone interested in a meditation practice. If you wish to come for an orientation, please arrive by 6:30. If you wish to view materials, e-mail the group at buddhists@horizonuu.org. CineMat CineMat meets on the 4th Saturday of the month. Time depends on movie selected. Open to everyone. This fun group meets to see a movie chosen by the group and then goes to a cof-
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SPECIAL GROUPS fee shop or restaurant to discuss the movie and socialize. cinemat@horizonuu.org. GAMERS: 3rd FRIDAY FUN AT HORIZON! (3rdfridaygames@horizonuu.org ) Come join us for adult level games on the 3rd Friday of every month. We meet in the Fellowship Hall at 7:00 p.m. Bring a snack or drink to share! Free childcare will provided upon request from 7:00 to 10:00pm (with 48 hour notice and 24 hour notice of cancellation). Please send reservations and cancellations to childcare@horizonuu.org. If you wish to get an email reminder of Games Night, please contact Beth Sproat at eblakehedges@earthlink.net Healthy Women 1st Thursdays, 7:30 pm - 9:00 pm. Women age 21 and over. This group provides support and encouragement for women in helping them achieve their personal goals of improving their fitness level, eating more nutritionally, losing weight and learning to reduce daily stress. This group also participates in an annual service project, in local walk events and raises money healthywomen@horizonuu.org Men’s Support Group Saturdays, 8:00 am - 10:00 am. Men age 18 and over. The Men’s Support Group provides men a supportive, safe environment for sharing personal challenges and concerns in a confidential setting. Many men were socialized to share only things external to them. The Men’s Support Group offers a sanctuary to share more about matters of the heart. Try us out and see if we fit your needs. mensgroup@horizonuu.org Second Tuesday Potluck 2nd Tuesday (most months) 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm in the Library. Everyone is welcome! This group meets for food, fellowship, deepening friendships and occasional field trips. Topics of interest are presented to the group after eating. There is also a subgroup that views a movie and has dinner together on the 3rd Wednesday of the month. secondtuesday@horizonuu.org
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SPECIAL GROUPS Wisdom Circle Mondays 7:15 pm - 9:15 pm. Adults age 18 and over. Group meetings include a check-in and discussion of a weekly life issue topic selected by a group member. These have included appreciation, success and failure, fear, procrastination, staying optimistic in hard times, anger, healing, leaving a legacy, forgiveness, trust, and compassion.
tuesdaywisdom@horizonuu.org Wings Parenting Mondays 9:30 am - 11:30 am (2 - 3 times a month). Parents of all ages. We welcome Moms and Dads to meet in the Horizon Church library. We have topics of interest not just about parenting UU children but personal and spiritual self-growth. Past topics have included: the philosophy of life according to Doctor Who, Karma, creating our "bucket list", our family trees, and what does it mean to be a UU parent. We also do a social outreach project once a year. Our schedule follows the school year and we break for school holidays and for the summer. During the school year, child care is provided. mondaywings@horizonuu.org
The Women’s Friendship in Growth (WFIG) meets on the 2nd, 4th, and 5th Wednesdays, from 7:30 - 9 pm in the Horizon Library. The purpose of this group is to strengthen friendships among women. In addition to regular check-ins about our lives, we have discussions that help us get to know one another better. On 2nd Wednesdays, topics come from a “This I Believe” book. No advance reading is required. On 4th Wednesdays we start with a TED talk we watch together. On 5th Wednesdays we do a variety of fun activities! If you’d like to be a part of these Wednesday night meetings, we’d love to have you! wfig@horizonuu.org Young Adults Contact: YoungAdults@horizonuu.org for more details.