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the early years

From your first date to your first kiss, remember all the amazing times you had together before you said ”Yes!”.

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OUR STORY

place your engagement photo here

Before you begin the exciting task of planning your wedding, take a moment to reflect on the journey that brought you to this jouyous time in your lives.

the proposal

The question has been popped. Time to celebrate! Wheter it’s a close up of your ring or a picture from your engagement shoot, place your favorate photoin the space provided, and write your proposal story below. This will be fun to look back at and read along your planning path.

place a favorite photo of you and your fiancé from the early years here

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wedding checklist timeline 6-8 MONTHS OUT

⎕ Envision your wedding style and wedding colors -- formal, eggplant-and-gold hotel reception? Or a modern, black-and-white loft?

Colorful, tented, backyard barbecue celebration?

Or exotic, orange-and-yellow beach wedding?

⎕ Book your reception site as soon as you see something you love that’s available on your date.

Before you sign the reception contract, make sure it includes everything you discussed with the reception coordinator. ⎕ Having an engagement party? Set a date, draft a guest list, and order the invitations.

⎕ It’s wedding flower time! Set up appointments with wedding florists in the area to discuss options. ⎕ Head out to bridal salons to try on styles (bring along those wedding dress photos for inspiration!).

⎕ Start your wedding guest list! Decide approximately how many people you want to invite. Request “wish lists” from both sets of parents, then compile.

⎕ Figure out invitations and stationery. Look at invite photos and save-the-dates and decide who will make your wedding invitations and stationery. Worksheet & Suggested Styles on Pg.14

⎕ Announce your engagement in The High Point Enterprise (you’ll find the form on pg. 22). You may also want to have your engagement photos taken in time for this.

⎕ Find a ceremony site (if one hasn’t already been determined by your choice of officiant or reception site).

⎕ Set up florist appointments to discuss options. Worksheet & Seasonal Flowers on Pg.19

⎕ Choose a wedding date and time, and finalize after okaying with important guests (parents, siblings, and grandparents), ceremony and/or reception location, and ceremony officiant. Make sure your wedding date doesn’t fall on one of these days.

⎕ Choose your bridal party. Pick your bridesmaids, decide on your groomsmen, and your flower girl and ring bearer. Also consider giving a part to those very important friends and family outside of the bridal party (ceremony readers, guest book attendants, candle lighters). Worksheet on Pg. 8

⎕ Plan out the ceremony with your officiant and talk about any religious requirements (such as premarital counseling).

⎕ Decide on a wedding budget and hash out who’s contributing to the wedding. (for a list of traditional wedding responsibilities, turn to pages 10-11)

⎕ Envision your wedding dress. (It’s never too early!) Begin by figuring out which wedding dress style will look best on you. ⎕ Get in wedding day shape by eating right, joining a gym, and/or even hiring a personal trainer. ⎕ Hire a wedding coordinator (if you’re having one) and sign the wedding coordinator contract. ⎕ Interview caterers. Look online for wedding caterers in your area and ask recently married friends for recommendations. Worksheet & Suggested Questions on Pg.12 ⎕ Scout reception sites in your area until you find the perfect reception location. Worksheet & Suggested Questions on Pg.18 ⎕ Look for a ceremony officiant in your area (if you don’t already have one in mind) and/or a premarital counselor who suits your style and spirit. Interview prospective officiants and start prewedding counseling if it’s right for you.

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⎕ Settle on wedding colors (if you haven’t already), taking into account the existing decor of your ceremony and reception spaces. ⎕ Plan your reception menu -- decide on a caterer and hash out a rough price per head. Refer to Caterinng Worksheet on Pg. 12 ⎕ Start shopping for wedding dresses. Begin by looking at pictures of wedding dresses online and in magazines. ⎕ Sign the catering contract and send in a deposit. ⎕ Finalize your wedding guest list. ⎕ Time to find lighting and rental places in your area (if you’re having an outdoor wedding or just want to add a few extras). Worksheet & Suggested Rental Items on Pg.13 Look for reception bands or DJs in your area.

When you find someone you like, call them up to meet with them and ask to hear a sample of their work. Worksheet & Suggested Songs on Pg.20

⎕ Research photographers in your area and videographers. Before you start, read up on wedding photo and video basics. Worksheet on Pg.16 ⎕ Start your registry at one or more of your favorite stores. Even if you start with just a few pieces, you can always add more items later.

Worksheet on Pg.8

⎕ Find ceremony musicians in your area and listen to demos. Also start forming an idea of what style of ceremony music you want, and any specific songs you’re looking for. Refer to Music Worksheet on Pg.20 ⎕ Book your reception band or DJ, sign the reception music contract, and send a deposit.

Refer to Music Worksheet on Pg.20 ⎕ Take dance lessons. Whether you choose an an up-tempo swing number, a spicy salsa, or a classic waltz, make your first dance one to remember. ⎕ Search for local cake bakers to make your wedding cake. Your caterer is a great source for leads. Refer to Catering Worksheet on Pg.12

⎕ Think about wedding hairstyles you like, and start researching hairstylists and makeup artists in your area.

⎕ Decide on a florist and send a deposit to reserve their services.

Refer to Florist Worksheet on Pg. 19

⎕ Book your honeymoon especially if you plan to use frequent-flyer miles to travel to your honeymoon destination.

⎕ Prep for out-of-town guests and set aside a block of rooms at nearby hotels.

⎕ Hire your photographer and videographer.

Decide on the packages you want, sign the photography contract, and send in your deposits.

Refer to Photography Worksheet on Pg.16

⎕ Finalize bridesmaid dress picks. Narrow down the options and let your bridesmaids know which one you’ve chosen so that they can schedule their fittings.

⎕ Think about bridesmaid dresses and what you want them to look like. Search bridesmaid dress photos and make sure to get input from your girls.

⎕ Fill out your registry, and don’t forget to include some choices appropriate for your upcoming bridal shower. Refer to Registry Worksheet on Pg.8

⎕ Have engagement photos taken (if you want).

This is a great opportunity to get comfortable with your photographer before the wedding day.

⎕ Order save-the-dates and send them out to all your guests (if you haven’t already). If it’s a casual wedding, you could even send online save-thedates. Refer to Invitation Worksheet on Pg.14

⎕ Buy your dress -- narrow down your options and make a final decision.

wedding checklist timeline continued ⎕ Book your cake baker, choose a wedding cake design you love, and send a deposit once you’ve signed the wedding cake contract. Refer to Catering Worksheet on Pg.12 ⎕ Make sure out-of-town bridesmaids have ordered their dresses and/or that you have collected the necessary measurements from them. Then ask everyone to order their dresses and confirm with you when they do. ⎕ Plan the rehearsal dinner. Look for rehearsal dinner sites in your area and provide the host with contact information for your attendants and any other guests. Refer to Catering Worksheet on Pg.12 ⎕ Finalize the menu and service details for reception with the caterer. Refer to Catering Worksheet on Pg.12 ⎕ Order your wedding invitations and wedding announcements (don’t forget plenty of extra envelopes). Refer to Invitation Worksheet on Pg.

4-5 MONTHS OUT

⎕ Hash out the flower proposal with your florist. Decide on your floral style, choose your wedding flowers, and settle on a final price for the contract. Once you’re certain the contract outlines everything you agreed upon, sign it. Refer to Florist Worksheet on Pg. 19 ⎕ Decide on men’s formalwear (tux, suit, casual button-down and slacks) and look through formalwear photos to get an idea of what you want. ⎕ Finalize your rental list (tables, chairs, and any other extras) for the reception (unless the caterer or site is taking care of it). Refer to Rental Worksheet on Pg. 13 ⎕ Tell your Groom: Buy or rent your tux, suit, or other formal attire. ⎕ Book the rehearsal dinner site and finalize menu plans. Refer to Catering Worksheet on Pg.12

⎕ Make all honeymoon travel reservations, including your flights and rooms.

⎕ Figure out ceremony readings and reach out to the people you want to play those roles.

⎕ Buy gifts for your bridal party including your maid of honor, bridesmaids, and child attendants.

⎕ Address those invitations! Or drop them off with the calligrapher (you’ll need to send them out at the three-month mark).

⎕ Arrange for all insurance policies to include you and your future spouse: health, auto, homeowner’s, and life insurance.

⎕ Tell Your Groom: Buy gifts for your guys including the best man, groomsmen, and ushers.

⎕ Finalize the groomsmen’s formalwear. Let the guys know and ask them to get fitted for their tuxes (if need be).

⎕ Tell Your Groom: Buy any tux accessories you will need (shoes, shirt stays, cuff links, pocket squares).

2-3 MONTHS out

⎕ Choose accessories (shoes, jewelry) for your bridesmaids. Then, either buy or pass along purchasing information. ⎕ Start a beauty regimen and make appointments at a nearby spa(massages, facials, etc). If you’re considering whitening your teeth, this is the time to do it! ⎕ Buy or rent ceremony decor and reception decorations that aren’t included in your flower proposal (aisle runner, program basket). ⎕ Shop for and purchase wedding bands. ⎕ Decide on wedding favors. Shop for wedding favors online or consider making your own wedding favors. Allow extra time for custommade favors (i.e., chocolates in a preprinted box).

⎕ Tell Your Groom: Get measured for your tux at the formalwear shop. ⎕ Having a bridal shower? A bachelorette party?

Or a bachelor party)? Talk to your maid of honor and best man about any prewedding party plans.

Get all your under-the-dress essentials and any special lingerie in time for your first wedding dress fitting. ⎕ Gather any honeymoon documents that you’ll need for an international honeymoon (passport, birth certificate, visas, vaccinations, etc). ⎕ Schedule your dress fittings and confirm delivery date for your wedding dress. There are usually three fittings: the first at six weeks out; the second fitting at one month out; and the final fitting at one to two weeks before the wedding day.

⎕ Give a bridal shower guest list to your bridesmaids. ⎕ Time to stock the reception bar (if it’s not included in the catering contract) -- make sure you order enough liquor, wine and/or champagne. Or visit your favorite local bar or pub and work with the batertender/manager to create your own signature cocktail! Serve it up at your bachelorette party or at the reception. ⎕ Arrange day-of transportation for you, your wedding party, and guests (as needed). ⎕ Send out invitations at the three-month mark.

Be sure to add extra postage for overseas guests).

6 WEEKS OUT

⎕ Start the ceremony programs. Think about what you want them to say and look like. ⎕ Decide on and purchase your wedding veil and wedding shoes prior to your final dress fittings.

Work on your ceremony vows, particularly if you’re writing your own. ⎕ Submit your newspaper wedding announcement to The High Point Enterprise. (you’ll find the form on pg. 21) ⎕ Have your first dress fitting and make sure you have everything you need for it. ⎕ Research local marriage license requirements. ⎕ Finalize your ceremony vows. ⎕ Have your final dress fitting.

⎕ Make a hair trial appointment to make sure you get the look you want on your wedding day. ⎕ Start thank-you notes now for any gifts received at the bridal shower.

3-4 WEEKS OUT

⎕ Decide on a guest book. Make your own or shop online for guest books and guest book pens. ⎕ Have hair and makeup trial runs and finalize your wedding day beauty appointments. Don’t forget to bring your wedding veil to make sure it works with your style. ⎕ Send out rehearsal dinner invitations. ⎕ Discuss your ceremony music with musicians and agree on final choices.

Work on a “must-play” wedding song list (and “do-not-play song list”) for your DJ or band. Refer to Music Worksheet on Pg.20 ⎕ Wrap all gifts for the wedding party and write each attendant a nice note.

⎕ Finalize your ceremony. Schedule a followup meeting or phone call with the officiant to go over ceremony timing and details. Go over anypersonalized ceremony additions you want to make sure they’re okay. ⎕ Decide on your “something old, new, borrowed, and blue” if you want to include these customs in your wedding. Also, buy your garter! ⎕ Pick up your wedding dress. ⎕ If you are changing your name, work on all the paperwork to make it happen. ⎕ Work out a day-of schedule to time out all the details (who will get the bride there, where the wedding party will dress, etc).

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⎕ Finalize any special ceremony details like readings or other traditions (in writing) with your officiant.

⎕ Get going on thank-you notes (it will feel great to get a batch out before the wedding). ⎕ Call or email your wedding party to relay critical info related to rehearsal and wedding (dates, times, directions, duties).

1-2 WEEKS OUT ⎕ Practice walking in your wedding shoes. ⎕ Call your reception site manager and make sure your vendors all have access to the site when they need it. ⎕ Make your seating chart for the reception.

Worksheet on Pg.18 ⎕ Give final head count to the caterer.

Confirm all catering set-up instructions and menu items. ⎕ Give seating chart to caterer, location manager, or host. Refer to Seating Chart Worksheet on Pg. 18 ⎕ Confirm head count, delivery time, and reception location with your cake baker.

⎕ Tell Your Groom: Pick up your tux and try it on. (Don’t wait until the day of!)

Confirm delivery locations, times, and final arrangement count with florist.

Refer to Florist Worksheet on Pg. 19 ⎕ Re-confirm location, date, and time with your photographer. Also confirm location, date, and time with videographer. Refer to Photography Worksheet on Pg.16 ⎕ Distribute wedding-day directions, schedule, and contact list to all parents, attendants, and vendors. Decide who will meet, greet, and handle each vendor on the wedding day.

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⎕ Put together an overnight bag for your wedding night (toothbrush, sexy lingerie, etc.) and designate someone to deliver it to the hotel for you.

⎕ Confirm date, location, time, and playlist with band/DJ and/or ceremony or cocktail hour musicians. Refer to Music Worksheet on Pg.20

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⎕ Get a manicure and pedicure and confirm wedding day beauty appointments. ⎕ Leave a copy of your honeymoon itinerary with someone in case of emergency. ⎕ Plan for wedding gifts (and any cash) brought to the party and designate someone to take care of them at the end of the night ⎕ Put final payments and cash tips for vendors in marked envelopes and give to a designated family or friend to distribute on the wedding day.

DAY BEFORE ⎕ Arrange for someone to drop off the guest book and pen at the reception site. ⎕ Pull together a last-minute emergency kit (aspirin, makeup, safety pins, mints, etc.). ⎕ Make sure you have everything together -- your wedding gown, veil, shoes, and stockings.

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wedding color trends for 2013 The best wedding color palettes for your 2013 wedding As a bride, choosing your wedding colors can be a stressful task. After all, not everyone can simply wear white like you! It is often helpful to utilize the colors that will be trending in the near future as a starting point for your entire wedding design, and build your tone, mood and look from there. 2013 wedding color trends have arrived and we’re happy to share them with you!

Lemon Zest

Let’s be honest, yellow just makes people happy. Lemon zest is cheerful, refreshing and perfect for a springtime wedding. It’s the color of sunshine and is sure to make you shine on your big day!

Mossy Greens

Greens of all shades are dominating the fashion trends for 2013!

Grayed jade, a subtle green with a gray undertone, can give the illusion of natural beauty and elegance to your wedding. Peppermint green is another shade of green that is topping the charts. Combine it with a touch of gold glitter and some soft pinks to create a beautiful palette for your wedding! (Designer’s Hint: While green may look great on your bridal party and bouquets, it’s not an ideal color for lighting. Make sure you consult your wedding planner or design magazines about great lighting and complementary colors for greens.)

Aubergine & Metallics

This eggplant shade of purple paired with gold or silver is perfect for a fall or winter wedding. The metallics allow the color combo to pop and stand out while the aubergine gives off a romantic feel.

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Bridal Party Worksheet

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Registry Worksheet Where we are registered:

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China Bowls Bread & Butter Plates Butter Dish Cups and saucers Dessert/Salad Plates Dinner Plates Gravy Boat Serving Platter Vegetable Serving Bowls Glassware Champagne glasses Cocktail glasses Cordial Glasses Goblets Iced Tea Tumblers Wine Flatware Butter knives Cake Knife Carving Set Cocktail forks Cold meat forks Desert Spoons

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registry item suggestions Dinner Forks Dinner Knives Gravy Ladle Iced Tea Spoons Salad/Dessert Forks Salad Servers Serving Forks Serving Spoons Sugar Spoons Steak Knives Tablespoons Teaspoons Cookware Blender Bread pan Cake pan Can opener Casserole dishes Coffee Maker Colander Cooling Rack Cookbooks Cookie Jar Cookie Sheets Corkscrew Crock pot

Cupcake/Muffin Pan Cutting Board Deep Fryer Double Boiler Dutch Oven Electric Knife Electric Skillet Food Processor Grater Ice bucket Ice Cream Scoop Juicer Measuring Cups Measuring Spoons Medium Saucepan Microwave Mixer Mixing Bowls Large Frying Pan Large Saucepan Loaf Pan Ovenware Pie Pan Pizza Pan Roaster Roasting Rack Salad Bowl Set

Small frying pan Small saucepan Springform pan Steamer basket Stock Pot Tea Kettle Toaster Waffle Iron Table/Kitchen Linens Dish cloths Dish Towels Napkins Napkin Rings Placemats Pot holders Tablecloth Bathroom Items Bath Mat Bath Rug Bath Towels Hamper Shower Curtain Soap Dish Toothbrush Holder Washcloths

Trash can Bed Linens Bedspread Blankets Sheets Pillowcases Pillows Shams Throw pillows Household Items Front Porch Mat Picture Frames Vacuum Cleaner TV Trays Iron Clothes Hangers Closet Organizers DVD/Blu Ray Player Wall clock Patio Furniture Garden Flag Home Accessories Storage Containers

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Budget Worksheet

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sharing the cost

It is no longer expected that wedding costs will be assigned according to tradition. Discuss your plan and budget with your families to determine whether to follow a traditional division of financial responsibility for the wedding costs. If circumstances don’t allow the families to follow tradition, the proper rationale in deciding who pays for what portion is basic: Whoever is most willing and most able to pay for a wedding expense assumes responsibility for that expense. Below is the traditional division of expenses.

Bride

• Groom’s wedding ring • Wedding gift for groom • Gifts for maid/matron of honor & bridesmaids • Gifts for parents (optional) • Gowns for maid/matron of honor & bridesmaids (optional) • Accommodations for out-o-town attendants (optional) • Luncheon for bridal party • Informal stationery

Bride’s Family

• Bride’s wedding attire & trousseau • Bride’s parents’ wedding attire • Wedding gift for newlyweds • Invitations, announcements, thank you notes & postage • Engagement & Wedding photographs • Wedding ceremony site fee & decorations • Wedding ceremony programs • Wedding reception • Flowers for ceremony & reception • Bridal party bouquets & flowers for flower girl • Transportation for wedding party to ceremony & reception • Videographer • Musicians/vocalists • Security & insurance for gifts • Welcome party for out-of-town guests (optional)

Groom

• Bride’s engagement & wedding rings • Bride’s bouquet • Boutonniere for men in wedding party • Mother’s corsages • Wedding gift for bride • Gifts for best man & groomsmen (optional) • Accommodations for out-of-town attendants (optional) • Marriage license • Honeymoon • Fee for officiant

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Wedding Party • Bridal shower for bride • Bachelor(ette) party • Accommodations for self • Wedding attire & shoes

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Catering Worksheet

Caterer Company/Name:____________________________________________________________________ Price: ___________________________________________________________________________ Address: _________________________________________________________________________ Phone: __________________________________________________________________________ Menu: ___________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________ Beverages: ________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________ Caterer will also provide: _______________________________________________________________

questions for the caterer What type of food items do you recommend for my budget and number of guests?

What type of service, sit-down dinner or buffet, would be best?

Discuss menu selections. What is the cost per person?

Do you provide linens? Is there an additional fee? Is there a color selection?

Do you supply glasses, plates and silverware? Is there an additional charge?

Do you provide food for the photographer, videographer or musicians? Is this an extra per-person charge?

Will you pack a togo snack for the bride & groom?

Will you pack the top tier of the wedding cake?

Do you handle all rental equipment such as tables, chairs and serving pieces?

Would it cost less if I handle the rentals myself?

How much time will you need to set up?

Can we go over the table locations and seating arrangements ahead of time?

Do you handle cleanup? Rental returns?

Will you personally handle and attend my reception? If not, what is the name of that person that will?

Can you provide liquor? What is the cost per drink? Is it cheaper if we provide the liquor? Do you charge a corkage fee per bottle if we provide our own wine and champagne?

Do you require a minimum number of guaranteed guests?

What is the last date when I can give you a final guest count?

When will you provide the final per-person cost?

What is the payment policy?

What is the deposit to hold the date?

What is your refund & cancellation policy?

Are gratuities already figured in the total price? If so, what is the percentage?

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Ask the Experts I have seen that “Prints” are a new trend for weddings. How can I use prints for my wedding without being over the top?

There are a several ways to add patterns and prints to your event without being “over the top”. Linens are an easy way to change the look and feel of a room, whether it’s a patterned runner, napkin or a simple lace or burlap overlay on your guest tables.

Another fun yet elegant style is to use mismatched vintage china instead of traditional ivory or white dinnerware. We have spent many weekends going to yard sales, piecing together a large collection of “Grandma’s China” that many of our brides are opting to use.

I have a lot of friends getting married this year and I want my wedding to be the one that everybody remembers. What can I do to set my reception apart from the others?

I have been having fun with Late Night Snacks and Lounge Areas. Offering your guests a fun food option later in the evening is not only welcomed but a thoughtful gesture after dancing and cocktails. Some popular Late Night Snacks are sliders, fresh popped flavored popcorn or mini grilled cheese sandwiches with a soup shooter. Lounges are another way to set your wedding apart. A recent favorite of mine was a Cigar and Bourbon Tasting Lounge! This highlight had the ladies just as excited as the men.

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Rental Worksheet

Store: 1_______________________________________________ Phone:_____________________________________________________

Transportation rental

Company Name:_______________________Phone: ____________Contact Name:_______________ Type:________________________________________________________________________ Pickup Date/Time:__________________ Length of Rental:_________________________________ Capacity: ____________________________ Price: __________ Additional Instructions: ____________ ___________________________________________________________________________ When to rent, or when to buy? Below are some popular wedding items, and the best place to get them.

rental Store items: Chairs Tables Tent Linens Candelabras Candle holders Plants Platters Serving pieces Punch bowl

party/craft store Items: Balloons Helium tank Baskets Bows Streamers Ribbon Banners Confetti Candles Centerpieces

Punch fountain Archways Chair covers Cake stand Chocolate fountain Tableware Stemware Utensils Dance floor Heaters/fans

Bubbles Sparklers Silk Flower Petals Silk Greenery Fabric Informal Stationery Plastic/Paper Tablecloths Plastic Serving Bowls/ Utensils

Address: ____________________________________________________ Salesperson: __________________________________________________ Items to Reserve for Ceremony/Reception: ______________________________ __________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________ Pickup/Delivery Date: ____________________ Time: ____________________ Return Date: __________________________ Time: ____________________ Deposit: _____________________________ Cost: ____________________

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Store: 3_______________________________________________ Phone:_____________________________________________________ Address: ____________________________________________________ Salesperson: __________________________________________________ Items to Reserve for Ceremony/Reception: ______________________________

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Wedding Gowns Bridal Party Dresses Tuxedos Prom Pageant Accessories

__________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________ Pickup/Delivery Date: ____________________ Time: ____________________ Return Date: __________________________ Time: ____________________ Deposit: _____________________________ Cost: ____________________

TOTAL COST OF Rentals: Rental Budget Rental Actual $ $

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Guests see the invitation long before they see you on your wedding day-so, whether your style us refined and elegant, modern, or relaxed-your invitation needs to make the first impression.

A. Pocket it

Lemon drop yellow makes this pocket invitation pop, while hand painted details in shades of blue and yellow give it a beach-like feel.

It’s an invitation that lends itself to unlimited insert options. In this pocket, guests will find inserts including an RSVP card as well as information on local activities and attractions, perfect for out-of-town guests.

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B. Put it in a box

Think outside the box and put your invitation in a box. It’s a more pricey option, but certainly modern, fun and one of a kind. The box holds an invitation, handcrafted flowers, and celebration and ceremony cards. Tie it up with a ribbon, a few more flowers and a festive tag to make it an invitation like no other!

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C. Give it Feeling

Play to your guests’ sense of touch with an invitation that is letter pressed-a printing method where the wording is pressed into thick cotton paper. Pink and gray give this square invitation a more relaxed feel while keeping it classy.

D. Metallic Texture

The silver embossed paper is a simple addition to this best selling vertical pocket card, and what makes it memorable. A sparkly embellishment at the top gives it instant glamour. For a personal touch, hand address the envelope.

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E. Set the Pattern

Choose a pattern that sets the style of your event. Whether is paisley, organic, or geometric-it can tie your whole event together. Use the pattern as a backdrop or accents on the invitation or to line the envelope. It can be bod or subtly stand out as seen on this popular folded card.

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Stationer:______________________________________ Phone: ______________ Manufacturer:_______________Style #:_______________ Date Ordered:_______________Date Promised: __________

Quantities Price Save-the-Date Cards _____________________ ____________________ Wedding Invitations _____________________ ____________________ Response Cards _____________________ ____________________ Thank You Cards _____________________ ____________________ Programs _____________________ ____________________ Other _____________________ ____________________

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With the recent love of all things vintage, mint green has become an increasingly popular color trend for spring accessories and wedding themes. And why not, as it pairs beautifully with shades of grey, peach and yellow. Spring is a wonderful time to use this fresh and cheerful color.

Gold

One of the fastest growing color trends this year in weddings is gold. For a while, gold had become passĂŠ as platinum gained in popularity and silver made a resurgence. However, gold is back, and here to stay. This color can be paired with so many options from pink to black and white. Sequins are also hot for 2013, making all that glitters gold for 2013.

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Photography Worksheet

Studio Name:________________________ Phone:____________________________ Address: __________________________ ________________________________ Photographer’s Name: _________________ Price: ____________________________ Portrait Date/Time: ____________________ ________________________________ Location: __________________________ ________________________________ Mark your selections and make a copy of this checklist to discuss with your photographer. Be sure to be specific on what you want the photographer to capture on your wedding day.

Photo Budget $ ____________ Photo Actual $ ____________

Before the ceremony: — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — —

Bride alone Bride with mother Bride with father Bride with both parents Bride with grandparents Bride with maid/matron of honor Bride with bridesmaids (group) Bride with bridesmaids (individuals) Bride with flower girl Attendants receiving flowers Parents receiving flowers Groom alone Groom with mother Groom with father Groom with both parents Groom with best man Groom with groomsmen (group) Groom with groomsmen (individuals) Grooms with ring bearer Groomsmen getting boutonnieres

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At the ceremony:

Before the reception:

Guests outside church Ushers escorting guest to seats Bride’s grandparents being seated Bride’s mother being seated Groom’s mother being seated Groom’s grandparents being seated Bride & father entering church Groom & groomsmen at alter Attendants coming down aisle Bride & father coming down aisle Bride & groom at alter Ring ceremony Flower girl & ring bearer The kiss Bride & groom coming up aisle Bride’s family coming up aisle Groom’s family coming up aisle Bride & groom getting into car Bride & groom in car

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Bride and groom Bride and groom with her parents Bride and groom with his parents Bride and groom with grandparents Bride and groom with bridesmaids Groom with bridesmaids Bride with groomsmen Bride and groom with groomsmen Entire wedding party Bride and groom with all parents Bride and groom with bride’s family Bride and groom with groom’s family Bride and groom with officiant

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Bride and groom arriving Bride and groom entering Receiving line Buffet table Cake Decorations

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Bride dancing with father Groom dancing with mother Bride and groom first dance Talking with guests Cutting the cake Bride and groom feeding cake Toasts Bride throwing bouquet Groom removing garter Groom throwing garter Bride & groom getting into car Bride & groom in decorated car

At the reception:

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Save the Dates

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ave-the-dates are a great way to announce your wedding day and generate excitement among your guests, but believe it or not, they haven’t always been the norm! Thanks to all the creative ideas that are out there to send the message of your upcoming nuptials with pizzazz, ranging from magnets to small flipbooks filled with photos of the bride and groom, savethe-dates have greatly increased in popularity over the last decade. Not only are save-thedate cards a fun way to set the tone for your upcoming wedding, but they’re practically a must-have for couples tying the knot far away on a small island or those ringing in the New Year as husband and wife.

Why Ask Guests to Mark Their Calendars?

If your wedding falls near a major holiday, like Thanksgiving, Christmas or New Year’s Eve, or you plan to have a destination wedding, save-the-date announcements are especially important. Your guests will appreciate the courteous heads-up regarding your wedding

date, which will give them enough time to save money for your affair and make the proper travel arrangements. Football season is another festive time of year that can be tough to plan a wedding around, depending on who your guests are. You know your guests better than anyone else! If you think having your wedding on a holiday or the weekend of a major football game will be a problem, you might want to consider choosing another date.

Deciding when to mail your save-thedate announcements can be tricky. It is suggested to send these three to six months before your wedding, which allows guests plenty of time to make necessary travel arrangements, book a babysitter, and save money for airfare and wedding gifts. It isn’t recommended that you send your cards too early, because guests are likely to set the notice aside and forget or misplace it. Mailing them too late will practically overlap with your wedding invitations, which is a waste of your time and money.

Black & White

Poppy Red

wedding color trends 2013

Poppy red is a seductive, sensual and celebratory shade that brings a nice pop of color to your wedding. It creates a feisty atmosphere that is sure to leave a lasting impression on your guests! Combine this rich shade with peppermint green and blush for a dynamic color palette combination!

Black and white is a classic combination that can never get old. It’s easy to match with other color palettes and produces a sophisticated appearance. This color combo is proof that sometimes less really is more!

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ou’ve got the gown, the place, food and the flowers. Now the only thing left is your wedding favors, the one memento everyone takes home to remember and will remind them of your special day.

You must have the perfect favors to end your wedding day with. So what are the latest trends in favors for 2013?

The hottest favors for this year are definitely personalized favors, from lip balm favors, to personalized coffee favors, they are favorite’s choices by brides this year. Not only are they useful but adding that personalized touch to your special day will really impress your guests.

Another popular choice is practical wedding favors. These favors are centered around functionality and usefulness. Brides love them because they can be used time and time again by your guests and bring smiles to their faces as they reminisce your special day every time they use them.

Coffee

Wine Tools

In the end the only thing to follow when selecting your wedding favors is your heart.

Choose a heartfelt gift that your guest will cherish as a memento from your special day.

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Phone:__________________________ Address: _________________________ Contact Person: _____________________

- food or snacks

Indoor _______

- beverage/alcohol

Date Deposit is De to Hold Date:__________

- disabled access

Deposit:_______ Total Cost: ____________

- valet - on-site wedding coordinator for day of event - staff to cut the cake

Dates Available: _____________________ Outdoor ___________

Site # 2_____________________ Phone:__________________________ Address: _________________________ Contact Person: _____________________ Dates Available: _____________________

- will there be other events besides yours going on that day

Indoor _______

Does the site provide any of the following rentals:

Deposit:_______ Total Cost: ____________

- Chairs & chair covers - China, glassware, silverware & serving dishes

Outdoor ___________

Date Deposit is De to Hold Date:__________

Site # 3_____________________ Phone:__________________________ Address: _________________________ Contact Person: _____________________ Dates Available: _____________________

- Linens

Indoor _______

- will any decorations be provided

Date Deposit is De to Hold Date:__________

- Are there any decorating restrictions

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Deposit:_______ Total Cost: ____________

Floral Worksheet Florist:______________________________________ Phone:______________________________________ Address: ____________________________________ __________________________________________ Contact: _____________________________________ Delivery Time: _________________________________

Bridal Bouquet Bridesmaid Bouquets Flower Girl Bouquet Boutonnieres Corsages Alter Arrangements Aisle & Pew Decor Cake Topper/Table Reception Centerpieces Other (rentals, etc.)

Quantities Price _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ _______

TOTAL COST OF Flowers: Floral Budget Floral Actual $

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Flowers by season spring

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tulip viburnum summer

anemone astilbe azalea calla lily camellia cosmos daffodil dahlia daisy delphinium french tulip

hollyhock hyacinth hydrangea jasmine lady’s mantle larkspur lilac lily of the valley marigold mimosa pansy peony primrose ranunculus

scabiosa snapdragon sweet pea tulip violet zinnia

statice sunflower yarrow

paper-whites poinsettia rose stephanotis

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autumn leaves celosia chinese lantern chrysanthemum crosnia dahlia hydrangea

amaryllis anemone casablanca lily evergreen forced bulbs freesia gerber daisy heather narcissus holly

Year ‘round

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Music Worksheet

Popular Wedding Songs Below are some popular wedding selection, chosen by Brides for years. Take a minute to download samples of these songs and see which one may fit your wedding style and reflect you & your fiancé’s personalities. Also include songs that are special to you personally or reflect family traditions.

Ceremony Musicians:

1)__________________________________Phone: _______________________ Price: _____ Deposit:______________ Date Required:________________________

Processional Classics: Bridal Chorus (Here comes the Bride) - from “Lohengin” Wagner

2)__________________________________Phone: _______________________ Price: _____ Deposit:______________ Date Required:________________________

Arisoso - Bach Ode to Joy - Beethoven Brandenburg Concerto #2 - Bach

Reception Entertainers:

Trumpet Voluntary in D - The Prince of Denark’s March Clarke or Purcell

1)__________________________________Phone: _______________________

Canon in D- Pachelbel

Price: _____ Deposit:______________ Date Required:________________________

The Four Seasons - Handel or Vivaldi

2)__________________________________Phone: _______________________ Price: _____ Deposit:______________ Date Required:________________________

Water Music - Handel What a Wonderful World

song choices

Unforgettable - Nat King Cole

Ode To Joy -from The Ninth Symphony Beethoven

March From Lohengrin -Wagner

Hallelujah Chorus - from

Moonlight Sonata - Beethoven

“The Messiah” Handel

Ave Maria - Schubert / Gounod

Trumpet Tune - Purcell

- Louis Armstrong

Gloria - Vivaldi Recessional Music:

(played as bride & groom walk down the aisle after ceremony is over)

Wedding March - from “A Midsummer Night’s Dream” - Mendelssohn

Processional: _______________________________

Bride & Groom First Dance:______________________

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Ceremony: _________________________________

Wedding Party Dance:__________________________

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Couple/Parent’s Dance: _________________________

Greensleeves - Traditional

Magnicat in D - Bach

Recessional: ________________________________

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Rhapsody in Blue - Gershwin

Then He Kissed Me - The Crystals

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Other Instructions: ____________________________

A Kiss Is Just A Kiss) - Tony Bennett

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ot only are engagement photos a great way to personalize save-the-dates, personal wedding websites, and more of your wedding details, there are a ton of other reasons to consider booking a professional engagement photo session.

First, taking engagement pictures is a great way to get to know your wedding photographer. Unless you are one of those lucky people who is naturally at ease in front of the camera, odds are that the first time your photographer points a lens in your direction you will be a bit uncomfortable. Instead of waiting until your wedding day to get these jitters out of the way, book an engagement photo session to help banish any camera shyness -- before you have to pose in front of an audience. Your wedding photographer will also appreciate having a chance to figure out your best angles (and the best way to get you to relax) before the big day. And in case you don’t think engagement photos are necessary, keep in mind that there will be plenty of opportunities to incorporate a few professionally taken photos. First, consider incorporating your engagement pictures into your wedding save-the-dates or invitations. Next, deck out your wedding website with a few cute shots. Don’t forget to use your favorite engagement photo for local newspaper announcements. Finally, get creative: Use your engagement photos on your table numbers, or create a mobile to adorn your escort card table. These sorts of details are great ways to get your guests up and mingling as they look at each photo.

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Beyond the Birdseed

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he tradition of throwing things like birdseed at weddings has been around for a long time. Thrown items, including seeds and grains, usually symbolize fertility, and act as a way to ensure the happy couple will have a “fruitful” marriage. The tradition is till popular although, the traditional birdseed and rice has evloved. If you’re considering having a send off at your wedding, here are some creative alternatives to the bags of bird seed.

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