Bayou Catholic Magazine December 2018 by Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux

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A time for preparation DECEMBER 2018 ~ VOL. 39 NO. 6 ~ COMPLIMENTARY

Special Collection for Diocesan Priests Retirement December 8 and 9, 2018 “On the weekend of December 8 and December 9, I pray that everyone will support the collection for the retired priests of the diocese.” Bishop Shelton J. Fabre

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Contents

Features 22 Father John Nambusseril celebrates

25th anniversary

By Janet Marcel

Ministry in Action

By Janet Marcel

Glenn Landry leaves Houma-Thibodaux

By Janet Marcel

Columns 8 Comfort For My People

By Bishop Shelton J. Fabre

Pope Speaks

Pope Francis I

Questions of Faith

By Father Joshua Rodrigue

Readings Between the Lines

By Father Glenn LeCompte

Reading With Raymond

By Raymond Saadi

Thoughts For Millennials

By Ryan Abboud

37 Overtime

By Ed Daniels

In Every Issue 6 From the Editor 16 Scripture Readings 20 Youth in Action 24 Heavenly Recipes 36 Diocesan Events Guest Columns 46 Christmas

By Father Paul Birdsall

Announcements 19 Message from Bishop Fabre 32 Catholic Foundation Update 33 Food for the Journey

On Our Cover

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Corey and Jenny Henry proudly look on as their children Blake, Brooklyn and Cole pray an Advent prayer while lighting an Advent wreath. The Henrys are parishioners of St. Thomas Aquinas Church parish in Thibodaux. Bishop Shelton J. Fabre writes about Advent and preparing for the birth of the Christ Child in his monthly column Comfort For My People. 4 • Bayou Catholic • Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux • December 2018

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From the Editor

The gift of encouragement The month of December is a time for gift giving, and as parents we want to give our children the things they hope and wish for. However, there is a gift that we can give our children that by far outweighs anything material. In fact, this gift can and should be given throughout the year and not only limited to the Christmas season. The gift of encouraging the interests of our children or what is interesting to them is priceless. Supporting our children’s interests also opens up ways to communicate with them. After all, we’re better attuned to their lives when we support their interests. We learn more about our children based on where their interests lead them. Let’s say that perhaps you were great in sports, however your eight year old is not very good at sports and would rather draw or paint and has a talent for art. Wouldn’t it be great to support that interest and give that child an art set as a birthday or Christmas gift?

Sometimes it can be difficult to accept that your child does not share the same interest that you had when you were a child. It is important as parents that we do not try and live out our dreams through our children. There are many ways we can show our children that what they are interested in is important to us. Find books about the topic. Take your children to outings about the topic. Give toys related to the topic. If your child has a birthday coming up, look for gifts that tie in with their passion. Enroll in a class, if possible. Does your child’s school offer extracurricular activities that could nurture their passion? Ask questions. Encourage critical thinking and your children’s passions by asking questions about their interests. Our support reinforces that we love them. Let’s say your child is interested in a topic you know nothing about or even seems strange to you. Maybe you didn’t grow up interested in that topic and could care less about it now. Imagine how your children might feel if they realize their parents don’t support the one thing they feel so passionate about. They might even feel like there is something wrong with them or ashamed that no one else seems to understand their interest in the topic. If you have a child who is musically inclined, encourage music lessons, or even better encourage

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them to learn more than one musical instrument. You might have a child who enjoys singing. A great way to encourage that talent is for your child to learn music and join a choir. I can’t tell you how many times I have read stories about professional musicians and singers who credit their success to their parents who encouraged them to sing in a church or school choir. There are many topics that children can become interested in and later that interest can develop into a meaningful career. I knew a young boy once who had an interest in photography. He was given a couple of hand me down cameras when he was a young teenager and encouraged to take photos of family events. As the years passed he got a job, purchased a new 35 mm camera and began experimenting with it. Fast forward 40 plus years … he’s still taking photos and is still very interested in photography, but mostly grateful that he was able to explore his interest. Remember, after reading Bayou Catholic, pass it on to a friend or relative who might not be attending Mass. It’s one of the great ways to do your part in spreading the Good News! BC

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Lawrence Chatagnier Editor & General Manager

Church Life

St. Martin de Porres Mass Bishop Shelton J. Fabre was the main celebrant of the Mass for Black Catholics recently at St. Luke Church in Thibodaux. The Mass was celebrated in conjunction with the feast of St. Martin de Porres.

Photos by Lawrence Chatagnier

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Advent: Building our expectation for the birth of the Christ Child Comfort For My People Bishop Shelton J. Fabre

As the Christmas season descends upon us later this month, many find themselves in a dilemma between their expected feelings about the season and the way they actually do feel. To add to this dilemma, some might also have a vague, religious suspicion that there is something not quite right about the ordinary way they celebrate Christmas. Year after year, we franticly shop against the clock, decorate and attend all manner of parties. However, Christmas can come and go with little impact on our lives and faith. Perhaps the antidote to a Christmas ‘glazed over’ is an Advent season of expectant discipline. Advent is a season of spiritual preparation for the commemoration of the birth of Jesus. It begins four Sundays before Christmas Day. It is a penitential season in which the church proposes a more simple way of living with prayer, fasting and almsgiving. As with Lent, the purpose of the preparatory season of Advent is to assist us in preparing for a solemn occasion with great attention and fervor. However, Advent particularly has the purpose of building our expectation. Expectation has the power to increase the meaningfulness of what is awaited. Recall how seeing a much needed vacation scheduled on the calendar can

make us start to feel and anticipate the joy of that coming vacation. In the same way, Advent draws us more deeply into the experience of Christmas by making us hope for and anticipate it. What is at stake during Advent is our experience of the season and celebration of Christmas itself. Christmas can be just another secular holiday, or it can be a thoroughly life changing and renewing spiritual experience if we are willing to work at Advent. Advent is designed to help us see the earth changing consequences of God choosing to become human. If we treat Advent as any other time, Christmas is going to be like any other time. We are creatures of habit; we tend to do what we have always done. If we want to get different results, we have to choose to act differently. Small practices that force us to change have the effect of pulling our attention and taking us out of ourselves. Acts like fasting build our desire for the good things of this world and put them into proper context. Almsgiving helps break down our attachment to material things as well as live in solidarity with the poor. These certainly can be flavored with the spirit of Advent. Also, the liturgy during Advent changes in noticeable ways: the Gloria is removed, violet vestments are worn, and often a wreath is progressively lit to track the passage of time and as a reminder of the second coming of Jesus. These changes in the familiar routine of our Sunday liturgy have the effect of making us pay attention and focus. Individual Christians can add to these given changes in the liturgy with spiritual practices outside of Mass to

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ready themselves even more for Jesus. Nothing is more practical during Advent,

than

lighting

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wreath. A simple kit can be picked up from any religious article store. Set aside some time each day or at least each Sunday to pray and light the candles. The wreath can also be used as a center piece and lit during family meals. Engage the great stories of the Christmas season, particularly the story of the birth of the Christ Child. Have an age appropriate nativity set displayed in a prominent place in your home.

Establish

family

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traditions that are spiritual. It is okay to go see the Christmas lights in the neighborhoods, but also try to attend one of the many live Nativity scenes. Give gifts and go visit Santa, but also give to the poor. Go caroling and incorporate both Jingle Bells and Silent Night. Finally, do not wait for the last minute to decide how you are going to attend Mass and celebrate spiritually as a family on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. These celebrations are so important that it is worthwhile to give them some thought ahead of time. Remember, what we get out of Christmas is directly connected to what we put into preparing for Christmas during Advent. Advent has the power to build our desire for Jesus and cement our relationship with the Lord. It is okay to participate in the secular expressions of the Christmas season, but it is even more important to engage in the spiritual components. God grant to you and your family a very Merry Christmas and a blessed New Year! BC

Comentario

Adviento: Construyendo nuestra esperanza para el nacimiento del Niño Jesús A finales de este mes llega a nosotros el tiempo de Navidad, muchos se encuentran en un dilema en lo que se espera acerca del tiempo y la forma en que realmente se siente. Para añadir a este dilema, algunos también podrían tener un vago desconcierto religioso de que hay algo que no está del todo bien en la forma ordinaria en que celebran la Navidad. Año tras año, compramos a contrarreloj, decoramos y asistimos a todo tipo de fiestas. Sin embargo, la Navidad puede ir y venir con poco impacto en nuestras vidas y en nuestra fe. Tal vez el antídoto para una Navidad superficial es un tiempo de Adviento de gran disciplina. El Adviento es un tiempo de preparación espiritual para la conmemoración del nacimiento de Jesús. Comienza cuatro domingos antes del día de Navidad. Es un tiempo de penitencia en el que la iglesia propone una manera más sencilla de vivir la oración, el ayuno y la limosna. Al igual que con la Cuaresma, el propósito del tiempo de preparación del Adviento es ayudarnos a prepararnos para una ocasión solemne con gran atención y fervor. Sin embargo, el Adviento en particular tiene el propósito de construir nuestra esperanza. La esperanza tiene el poder de aumentar el significado de lo que se espera. Recuerde cómo ver unas vacaciones muy necesarias programadas en el calendario puede hacernos empezar a sentir y anticipar la alegría de esas vacaciones venideras. Del mismo modo, el Adviento nos lleva más profundamente a la experiencia de la Navidad, haciéndonos esperar y anticiparnos a ella. Lo que está en juego durante el Adviento es nuestra experiencia del tiempo y la celebración de la Navidad misma. La Navidad puede ser sólo otra fiesta social, o puede ser un cambio de vida y una experiencia espiritual renovadora si estamos dispuestos a trabajar en Adviento. El Adviento está diseñado para ayudarnos a ver las consecuencias cambiantes de la tierra

cuando Dios decide hacerse hombre. Si tratamos el Adviento como cualquier otro tiempo, la Navidad va a ser como cualquier otro tiempo. Somos criaturas de hábitos; tendemos a hacer lo que siempre hemos hecho. Si queremos obtener resultados diferentes, tenemos que optar por actuar de forma diferente. Las pequeñas prácticas que nos obligan a cambiar tienen el efecto de atraer nuestra atención y sacarnos de nosotros mismos. Hechos como el ayuno construyen nuestro deseo por las cosas buenas de este mundo y las ponen en el contexto apropiado. La limosna ayuda a romper nuestro apego a las cosas materiales y a vivir en solidaridad con los pobres. Estos ciertamente pueden ser motivados con el espíritu del Adviento. Además, la liturgia durante el Adviento cambia de manera notable: se quita el Gloria, se usan vestiduras violetas, y a menudo se enciende progresivamente una corona para seguir el paso del tiempo y como recordatorio de la segunda

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venida de Jesús. Estos cambios en la rutina familiar de nuestra liturgia dominical tienen el efecto de hacernos prestar atención y enfocarnos. Los cristianos individuales pueden añadir a estos cambios dados en la liturgia con prácticas espirituales fuera de la Misa para prepararse aún más para Jesús. Algo práctico durante el Adviento es encender una corona de Adviento. Dedique algún tiempo cada día o al menos cada domingo para rezar y encender las velas. La corona también se puede usar como centro de mesa y se puede encender durante las comidas familiares. Comparta las grandes historias del tiempo de navidad, particularmente la historia del nacimiento de Jesús. Ponga un pesebre apropiado en un lugar visible de su casa. Establezca tradiciones navideñas familiares que sean espirituales. Está bien ir a ver las luces de Navidad en los vecindarios, pero también tratar de asistir a uno de los muchos pesebres vivientes. Dar regalos e ir a visitar a Santa, pero también dar a los pobres. Vayan a cantar villancicos e incorporen tanto campana sobre campana como Noche de Paz. Finalmente, no esperen hasta el último minuto para decidir cómo van a asistir a la Misa y celebrar espiritualmente en familia en Nochebuena y el día de Navidad. Estas celebraciones son tan importantes que vale la pena pensar en ellas con anticipación. Recuerde, lo que obtenemos de la Navidad está directamente conectado con lo que ponemos en la preparación para la Navidad durante el Adviento. El Adviento tiene el poder de construir nuestro deseo de Jesús y cimentar nuestra relación con el Señor. Está bien participar en los eventos sociales del tiempo de navidad, pero es aún más importante participar en las actividades espirituales. Que Dios le conceda a usted y a su familia una muy Feliz Navidad y un bendecido Año Nuevo! BC

Binh luan bang loi

Mùa Vọng: Xây dựng kỳ vọng của chúng ta về ngày sinh của Hài Nhi Kitô Khi mùa Giáng sinh gần đến với chúng ta vào cuối tháng này, nhiều người thấy mình trong tình thế khó xử giữa những cảm xúc mong ước của họ về mùa Giáng sinh và chiều hướng họ thực sự cảm nhận. Để thêm vào tình trạng tiến thoái lưỡng nan này, một số người cũng có thể mơ hồ ngờ vực về tôn giáo rằng có điều gì đó không hoàn toàn đúng về cách thức thông thường họ mừng lễ Giáng sinh. Năm này qua năm khác, chúng ta điên cuồng mua sắm dây treo, đồ trang trí và tham dự nhiều thứ tiệc tùng. Thế nhưng, Giáng sinh có thể đến và đi với chỉ một chút ít tác động đến cuộc sống và đức tin của chúng ta. Có lẽ thuốc giải cho mùa “Giáng sinh” này là một mùa Vọng rèn luyện. Mùa Vọng là mùa chuẩn bị thiêng liêng để mừng lễ Chúa Giêsu giáng sinh. Nó bắt đầu từ bốn ngày Chúa Nhật trước lễ Giáng sinh. Đó là mùa sám hối, trong đó Giáo hội khơi nguồn một cách sống đơn giản hơn với lời cầu nguyện, ăn chay và làm việc bác ái. Giống như Mùa Chay, mục đích chuẩn bị của Mùa Vọng là giúp chúng ta sửa soạn cho ngày đại lễ với sự quan tâm và sốt sắng. Tuy nhiên, Mùa Vọng đặc biệt có mục đích xây dựng lòng kỳ vọng mong đợi của chúng ta. Lòng mong đợi có sức mạnh để tăng ý nghĩa của những gì đang kỳ vọng. Nhớ lại khi chúng ta thấy một kỳ nghỉ rất cần thiết được lên kế hoạch trên lịch có thể khiến chúng ta bắt đầu cảm nhận và mong đợi niềm vui của kỳ nghỉ sắp tới đó. Cũng vậy, Mùa Vọng đã thu hút chúng ta vào sâu hơn cảm nghiệm của lễ Giáng Sinh bằng cách làm cho chúng ta hy vọng và khao khát nó. Những gì đang bị đe dọa trong Mùa Vọng là cảm nghiệm của chúng ta trong mùa và mừng chính ngày lễ Giáng Sinh. Giáng sinh có thể chỉ là một kỳ nghỉ thế tục khác, hoặc nó có thể là một cuộc sống hoàn toàn thay đổi và canh tân cảm nghiệm tâm linh nếu chúng ta sẵn sàng chú tâm trong Mùa Vọng. Mùa Vọng được lập ra để giúp chúng ta nhìn thấy những hệ quả thay đổi của thế giới về Thiên Chúa trong việc chọn lựa để trở nên người phàm. Nếu chúng ta coi Mùa Vọng như bất cứ thời gian nào khác, thì lễ Giáng sinh sẽ giống như bất cứ thời gian

khác. Chúng ta là những thọ tạo của thói quen; chúng ta có xu hướng làm những gì chúng ta luôn làm. Nếu chúng ta muốn có được những kết quả khác nhau, chúng ta phải chọn lựa hành động khác nhau. Những thực hành nhỏ bé buộc chúng ta phải thay đổi có tác dụng kéo sự chú ý của chúng ta và đưa chúng ta ra khỏi bản thân mình. Hành động như ăn chay xây dựng ước muốn của chúng ta cho những điều tốt đẹp của thế giới này và đặt chúng vào bối cảnh thích hợp. Bác ái giúp phá vỡ sự bám víu của chúng ta với những của cải vật chất cũng như sống trong tình liên kết với người nghèo. Những điều này chắc chắn có thể tăng thêm hương vị của tinh thần Mùa Vọng. Ngoài ra, phụng vụ trong Mùa Vọng thay đổi một cách đáng chú ý: không đọc Kinh Vinh Danh, mặc áo lễ màu tím, và thường thì một vòng hoa mùa vọng có nến được thắp sáng lên dần dần để nhắc nhở thời gian và sự trở lại lần thứ hai của Chúa Giêsu. Những thay đổi này trong thói quen thuộc của phụng vụ Chúa Nhật có tác dụng làm cho chúng ta chú ý và tập trung. Mỗi một Kitô hữu có thể thêm vào

những thay đổi này trong phụng vụ với các thực hành tâm linh bên ngoài Thánh lễ để chuẩn bị hơn nữa cho Chúa Giêsu. Không có gì thực tế trong suốt Mùa Vọng hơn là thắp sáng vòng hoa Mùa Vọng. Một thứ dụng cụ đơn giản có thể mua từ bất kỳ cửa hàng tôn giáo nào. Hãy dành một ít thời gian mỗi ngày hoặc ít nhất mỗi Chúa Nhật để cầu nguyện và thắp nến. Vòng hoa cũng có thể được sử dụng như một dụng cụ trang trí và thắp sáng trong bữa ăn gia đình. Hãy kể những câu chuyện tuyệt vời của mùa Giáng Sinh, đặc biệt là câu chuyện về sự giáng sinh của Hài Nhi Kitô. Nên làm một bộ hang đá Giáng Sinh thích hợp được đặt ở một vị trí nổi bật trong nhà của bạn. Hãy thiết lập những truyền thống về ngày lễ Giáng Sinh của gia đình. Có thể đi xem đèn Giáng Sinh trong khu phố, nhưng cũng cố gắng tham dự một trong những hoạt cảnh Chúa Giáng Sinh sống động. Hãy tặng quà và đi thăm ông già Noel, và cũng hãy tặng quà cho người nghèo nữa. Hãy đi nghe nhạc thánh ca Giáng Sinh, nhất là hai bài hát: Jingle Bells (Tiếng Chuông Vang) và Silent Night (Đêm Thánh Vô Cùng). Cuối cùng, đừng chờ tới giờ phút chót để quyết định mình sẽ tham dự Thánh Lễ như thế nào vào đêm Giáng Sinh và ngày Lễ Giáng Sinh. Những việc mừng lễ này rất quan trọng vì nó rất giá trị để đem lại cho người ta một số suy nghĩ trước ngày lễ. Hãy nhớ rằng, những gì chúng ta nhận được từ Giáng sinh được kết nối trực tiếp với những gì chúng ta đưa vào chuẩn bị cho mùa lễ Giáng sinh trong suốt Mùa Vọng. Mùa Vọng có sức mạnh để xây dựng kỳ vọng của chúng ta với Chúa Giêsu và củng cố mối quan hệ của chúng ta với Ngài. Chúng ta có thể tham gia vào các chương trình thế tục của mùa Giáng sinh, nhưng điều quan trọng hơn là phải tham gia vào các chương trình tôn giáo. Xin Thiên Chúa ban cho Anh Chị Em và gia đình một mùa Giáng Sinh vui vẻ và một Năm Mới may mắn! Dịch thuật do Lm. Francis Bui, SDD và Thầy Paul Vu, SDD. Tu Đoàn Tông Đồ Giáo Sĩ Nhà Chúa BC

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Science should serve humanity, Pope Francis says The Pope Speaks

Vatican City (CNA/EWTN News) Pope Francis told a group of scientists to use their knowledge for the benefit of all humanity, especially at the service of those people who are most often disregarded by most of society. It is not enough to merely follow the principles of ethics, the Church expects from science “a positive service that we can call with Saint Paul VI the ‘charity of knowledge,’” the pope said Nov. 12. “I would like to stand before you as the advocate of the peoples that receive only rarely and from afar the benefits of vast human knowledge and its achievements,” he continued, “especially in the areas of nutrition, health, education, connectivity, wellbeing and peace.” Pope Francis spoke in an audience with participants in the Pontifical Academy of Sciences’ plenary meeting, taking place at the Vatican Nov. 12-14 on the theme “Transformative roles of science in society: From emerging basic science toward solutions for people’s wellbeing.” Referencing the theme of the academy’s plenary meeting, he praised the academy’s focus on using knowledge to confront the challenges facing modern society, stressing that “the universal rights we proclaim must become reality for all.” “Science can contribute decisively to this process and to breaking down the barriers that stand in its way,” he said, encouraging scientists to conduct research which benefits all people, “so that the peoples of the earth will be fed, given to drink, healed and educated.”

Pope Francis at meeting of the Pontifical Academy of Sciences He also encouraged them to give sound advice to the political and economic spheres “on how to advance with greater certainty towards the common good, for the benefit especially of the poor and those in need, and towards respect for our planet.” In his speech, Francis outlined a few of the possible fruits of a scientific community focused on a “mission of service.” One of these fruits is “commitment to a world without nuclear arms,” he said, echoing sentiments of St. Paul VI and St. John Paul II, “that scientists actively cooperate to convince government leaders of the ethical unacceptability of such weaponry, because of the irreparable harm that it causes to humanity and to the planet.” He urged “the need for disarmament,” which he argued is a topic raised less and less frequently by those in positions of power. “May I be able to thank God, as did Saint John Paul II in his Testament, that in my Pontificate the world was spared the immense tragedy of an atomic war,” he stated.

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Pope Francis also noted what he said is a “lack of will and political determination” to end the arms race and wars. More monetary resources could then be put toward renewable energy and programs to ensure water, food, and health for all, he said. On climate change, he pointed out the influence of human actions and said there is a need for responses aimed at protecting “the health of the planet and its inhabitants,” which is risked by use of fossil fuels and deforestation. In his address, he also praised the Academy of Sciences’ work combating human trafficking, forced labor, prostitution, and organ trafficking and said he stands at their side “in this battle for humanity.” “This is the immense panorama that opens up before men and women of science when they take stock of the expectations of peoples,” he said: “expectations animated by trusting hope, but also by anxiety and unrest.” BC

Comment

Questions of Faith Father Joshua Rodrigue

Are we just going through the motions? I heard a religious person talk about “empty rituals.” What did he mean? The question of empty rituals directly concerns the proper worship of God. From the very beginning of the Scriptures, the stories in Genesis speak of the natural inclination in human beings to reach out beyond themselves to the Creator in thanksgiving. An act of sacrificing animals and a portion of the harvest were the primary ways to express thanksgiving to God for the gifts he had given. In the times of the Jewish people, worship became an intrinsic part of living under the covenant and was a sign of faithfulness to God on the part of Israel. Expressions of this were seen in the erection of various altars and pillars as well as the invocation of the name of God. What began as individual worship of God became a combined individual and communal responsibility, and eventually worship moved into the hands of the priestly class who codified or regulated it. Rituals are developed to establish a means for encountering God in the midst of a worshipping community. For example, the ritual for Christian baptism is a person’s entrance into both the life of grace in the Trinity and the life of the community of believers and also effects a cleansing from the stain of original sin. From rituals are

created ceremonies which served as an external expression of worship through words and action. To ensure a common, universal celebration of the ceremonies, the rubrics (the “how to’s” of the ceremony) are then implemented. The prophets of the Old Testament criticized worship that had become empty rituals. The priests and people’s offerings of praise and sacrifice were not backed up with a lived-out faith, with ethical and just actions toward others. In other words, the rituals and rubrics had become more important than its internalization and the actual encounter with God. While Israel claimed to properly worship God through the years of ritual offering of sacrifices, they were not done out of love and affection for God and neighbor. The prophet Micah declares, “You have been told, O mortal, what is good, and what the Lord requires of you: Only to do justice and to love goodness, and to walk humbly with your God” (6:8). The prophets were motivated to purify worship. The prophet Amos proclaims the message of the Lord, “I hate, I despise your feasts, I take no pleasure in your solemnities. Even though you bring me your burnt offerings and grain offerings I will not accept them; your stall-fed communion offerings, I will not look upon them. Take away from me your noisy songs; the melodies of your harps, I will not listen to them. Rather let justice surge like waters and righteousness like an unfailing stream” (5:21-24). Even though Jesus faithfully participated in the Jewish rituals (circumcision, the presentation in the Temple, pilgrimage, synagogue worship, etc.), he both reformed worship of God by explaining the Law’s proper place in a person’s life (e.g., the role of the Sabbath) and renewed it by emphasizing worship in spirit and in truth (John 4:24), worship that is internalized and authentic. As Catholics, we must be cautious against empty ritual worship of God in our devotions and sacraments, especially in the Mass. When we celebrate the Eucharist, the church calls us to a fully conscious and engaged participation. She exhorts,

“Mother Church earnestly desires that all the faithful should be led to that fully conscious and active participation in liturgical celebrations which is demanded by the very nature of the liturgy” (Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy, 14). Full ritual worship speaks to our hearts and has an effect upon us. It allows us to encounter and enter into a relationship with the Lord, and we leave changed, becoming more like the person God is calling us to be. Are we fully conscious and engaged in our participation? While we may be physically in church, our mind and heart may be at a sporting event, in a deer stand, at work or school, or some other place outside the worshipping community. Do we know what we are doing and why? Rituals convey a meaning, but are we aware or are we just going through the motions, through empty rituals? In other words, are we present to the present? How can we tell if our rituals are full or empty? We can know by answering two simple questions: Have I encountered the Lord, and am I leaving changed? Think of when you attended a liturgical celebration and left with your soul feeling refreshed, joy-filled, and at peace. Just as the shepherds, the Magi, Simeon and Anna encountered their savior and left changed, deep within, we know that the proper celebration and participation in Mass has aided us to encounter the living God. With hearts filled with God’s grace and mercy, we cannot leave as the same person we were when we entered the church. “They departed for their country by another way” (Matthew 2:12). BC

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Reflections

Luke presents Jesus as universal savior Readings Between the Lines Father Glenn LeCompte

An Adult Christ at Christmas is the title of a monograph written by Catholic biblical scholar, Raymond E. Brown, S.S. What is the point of Father Brown’s title? Is Christmas not about Jesus Christ in his infancy? In this monograph, Father Brown studies the Infancy Narratives of Matthew and Luke (chapters 1-2 in each Gospel) and points out that the way these two evangelists narrate Jesus’ birth and youth reflects what each believes about Jesus. Since we are in the liturgical year when we primarily read from Luke, I will summarize how Luke 1-2 depicts some of the major themes of the Gospel of Luke and its sequel, Acts of the Apostles. Prophecy and Fulfillment Luke’s primary image of Jesus is as a great prophet (Luke 4:24; 7:16, 39 [ironic]; 13:33; 24:19; Acts 3:22-26) and the events of his life represent a fulfillment of prophecy (Luke 4:1620; Acts 2:16-36; 8:34-35, et.al.). The annunciation of the births of John the Baptist (Luke 1:5-25) and Jesus (1:2638), and the announcement made to the shepherds in the fields (2:9-14) are made not by a prophet, but by a heavenly messenger. Nevertheless, in all cases what the angel says is fulfilled (Luke 1:24, 43; 2:16). This should instill confidence in the reader that Gabriel’s assertion (Luke 1:32-33) that “the Lord God will give him the throne of David his father, and he will rule over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.” According to Acts 2:30, Jesus’ regal Messianic status is a fulfillment of prophecy, since Peter maintains that David (the traditional author of the

psalms) “prophesied” that God would “set one of his descendants upon his throne.” Furthermore, Simeon’s prophecy that Jesus is the source of salvation, a light for revelation to the Gentiles, the glory of Israel and a sign of contradiction (Luke 2:30, 32, 34; see Acts 4:12) is fulfilled in the course of the story of Acts. Joy An end-time sign that the anticipated the “Day of the Lord” has come with the advent of Jesus, joy is a major theme of Luke’s Gospel. There are several instances of this disposition (not emotion) in Luke’s Infancy Narrative. As she greets Mary who has come to visit her, Elizabeth admits that the cause of her child’s (and her own) joy is that the “mother of my Lord” has come to her (1:44). For their part, Mary exudes joy in her canticle of praise, the “Magnificat” (1:46-55), and Zechariah does the same in the “Benedictus” (1:68-79). Moreover, the angel’s message to the shepherds is “Good News of great joy” (2:10), the joy that a savior is born. That Jesus is the source of the end-time joy is seen in the joy of Zacchaeus, who because of his conversion is declared to be saved by Jesus (19:1-10). As Jesus approaches the Mount of Olives, his disciples “praise God aloud with joy for all the mighty deeds they had seen” (19:37). Also, the disciples are filled with joy when they experience the risen Lord (24:41; 52). Peace The Emperor, Augustus, (63 B.C.-14

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A.D.) established the greatest period of peace ever known in the Roman Empire. Part of the heavenly host’s announcement to the shepherds is that with Jesus’ birth peace will emerge for people on earth (2:14), a peace Luke suggests will surpass that of Augustus. Forgiven of her sins, the sinful woman in Simon the Pharisee’s home is sent forth by Jesus in peace (7:50), and the same happens to a woman healed of a hemorrhage by Jesus (8:48). As risen Lord, Jesus will impart the gift of peace to his disciples (24:36). After the church’s initial dispersion, due to the stoning of Stephen, the church in Galilee, Judea and Samaria finds itself at peace (Acts 9:31). Universal Salvation Luke and Acts highlight Jesus’ role not only as savior, but as one who brings salvation to all people. Several details in Luke’s narrative of Jesus’ birth (2:114) point to this theme. Again, Luke’s mention that Jesus is born during Augustus’ reign points to the fact that this birth, politically insignificant as it may seem, will have a global impact. The good tidings the angel brings to the shepherd are for “all the people,” and the peace they declare is for those on earth on whom God’s favor rests (cf. Acts 10:36). In his canticle, Zechariah describes his son, John the Baptist, as one who will “give his people knowledge of salvation through the forgiveness of their sins” (Luke 1:77). The risen Lord’s disciples will be sent with the message of forgiveness “to all the

Reflections

nations” (24:47). In 2:32, Simeon the prophet announces that Mary’s Son is “a light for revelation to the Gentiles, and glory for your people, Israel” (Gentiles and Israel constitute the totality of all people). Prayer Luke’s Gospel more frequently depicts Jesus at prayer and contains more teaching on prayer than any other Gospel. Often when Jesus prays during his public ministry a significant revelation follows (e.g. Luke 3:21-22; 9:18-20, 28-36, et.al.). This is no less true in the Infancy Narrative, for the angel’s revelation to Zechariah about a son (John the Baptist) to be born to him and Elizabeth is made while he is in the Temple sanctuary “burning incense” and “the whole assembly of the people was praying outside at the hour of the incense offering” (Luke 1:9-10). Kingship The regal status of Jesus is pronounced during his Jerusalem

Ministry (19:45-21:38) and his PassionDeath-Resurrection (22:1-24:53). As he enters Jerusalem, the crowd proclaims him blessed as “the king who comes in the name of the Lord” (19:38). In their proclamation, the people approximate the angel’s message to the shepherds when they declare “Peace in heaven and glory in the highest.” The title, “king” will be used of Jesus ironically during his Passion, as people and officials will declare him “King of the Jews,” but with a political connotation. From the cross, Jesus will offer a royal pardon to a man crucified with him. In the Infancy Narrative, Gabriel announces to Mary that Jesus will inherit David’s throne, rule over Jacob’s house, and reign over an endless kingdom (1:32-33). Additionally, the detail about Mary’s wrapping Jesus in “swaddling clothes” (2:7) likens him to Solomon, who was likewise adorned at his birth (Wisdom 7:4-6).

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As we read Luke’s Infancy Narrative during the Christmas Season, let us be attentive to the way Luke presents Jesus as universal savior, the source of peace and joy, the royal Messiah, and the one who fulfills prophecy. Let us also be open to God’s revelation to us through prayer. BC

Reflection Questions v How can the Advent-Christmas season be a source of peace and joy for you? v How might your consideration of the Infancy Narrative as a presentation of what we believe about who Jesus is, rather than a literal story about his birth and youth, deepen your reflection on the Christmas mystery? v How can Advent be for you a time of quiet, anticipatory joy?

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ScriptureReadings and a listing of Feast days and saints

Monday

Tuesday

Wednesday

Thursday

Friday

Saturday

1 December 2

Weekday Revelation 22:1-7 Luke 21:34-36

First Sunday of Advent Jeremiah 33:14-16 1 Thessalonians 3:12—4:2 Luke 21:25-28, 34-36

Memorial of Saint Francis Xavier, priest Isaiah 2:1-5 Matthew 8:5-11

Advent Weekday Isaiah 11:1-10 Luke 10:21-24

Advent Weekday Isaiah 25:6-10a Matthew 15:29-37

Advent Weekday Isaiah 26:1-6 Matthew 7:21, 24-27

Memorial of Saint Ambrose, bishop and doctor of the church Isaiah 29:17-24 Matthew 9:27-31

Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary Genesis 3:9-15, 20 Ephesians 1:3-6, 11-12 Luke 1:26-38

Advent Weekday Isaiah 35:1-10 Luke 5:17-26

Advent Weekday Isaiah 40:1-11 Matthew 18:12-14

Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe Zechariah 2:14-17 Luke 1:26-38

Memorial of Saint Lucy, virgin and martyr Isaiah 41:13-20 Matthew 11:11-15

Memorial of Saint John of the Cross, priest and doctor of the church Isaiah 48:17-19 Matthew 11:16-19

Advent Weekday Sirach 48:1-4, 9-11 Matthew 17:9a, 10-13

Advent Weekday Advent Weekday Genesis 49:2, 8-10 Jeremiah 23:5-8 Matthew 1:1-17 Matthew 1:18-25

Advent Weekday 2 Samuel 7:1-5, 8b-12, 14a, 16 Luke 1:67-79

Solemnity of the Nativity of the Lord Isaiah 52:7-10 Hebrews 1:1-6 John 1:1-18

Advent Weekday Judges 13:2-7, 24-25a Luke 1:5-25

Advent Weekday Isaiah 7:10-14 Luke 1:26-38

Advent Weekday Song of Songs 2:8-14 Luke 1:39-45

Advent Weekday 1 Samuel 1:24-28 Luke 1:46-56

Feast of Saint Stephen, the first martyr Acts 6:8-10; 7:5459 Matthew 10:17-22

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Feast of Saint John, apostle and evangelist 1 John 1:1-4 John 20:1a, 2-8

Feast of the Holy Innocents, martyrs 1 John 1:5—2:2 Matthew 2:13-18

Sunday

Second Sunday of Advent Baruch 5:1-9 Philippians 1:4-6, 8-11 Luke 3:1-6

Third Sunday of Advent Zephaniah 3:14-18a Philippians 4:4-7 Luke 3:10-18

Fourth Sunday of Advent Micah 5:1-4a Hebrews 10:5-10 Luke 1:39-45

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Special

U.S. Bishops approve ‘Open Wide Our Hearts: The Enduring Call to Love,’ a pastoral letter against racism BALTIMORE— The U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) approved the formal statement, “Open Wide Our Hearts: The Enduring Call to Love,” a pastoral letter against racism, during its November General Assembly last month. The full body of bishops approved it by a two-thirds majority vote of 241 to three with one abstention. The USCCB Cultural Diversity in the Church Committee, chaired by Archbishop Gustavo Garcia-Siller, MSpS, of San Antonio, TX, spearheaded the letter’s drafting and guided it through the voting process. Bishop Shelton J. Fabre, of Houma-Thibodaux, chairman of U.S. Bishops’ Ad Hoc Committee Against Racism and Chair of the Sub-committee on African American Affairs within the Cultural Diversity Committee, issued the following statement: “The entire body of bishops felt the need to address the topic of racism, once again, after witnessing the deterioration of the public discourse, and episodes of violence and animosity with racial and xenophobic overtones, that have re-emerged in American society in the last few years. Pastoral letters from the full body of bishops are rare, few and far between. But at key moments in history the bishops have come together for important pronouncements, paying attention to a particular issue and with the intention of offering a Christian response, full of hope, to the problems of our time. This is such a time.” Initiated by the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops in August 2017, the Ad Hoc Committee Against Racism was created to address the sin of racism in our society and church, to address the urgent need to come together as a society to find solutions, and to support the implementation of the bishops’ pastoral letter on racism. 18 • Bayou Catholic • Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux • December 2018

“Open Wide Our Hearts: The Enduring Call to Love,” is a Pastoral Letter from the full body of bishops to the lay faithful and all people of goodwill addressing the sin of racism. The pastoral letter asks us to recall that we are all brothers and sisters, all equally made in the image of God. Because we all bear the image of God, racism is above all a moral and theological problem that manifests institutionally and systematically. Only a deep individual conversion of heart, which then multiplies, will compel change and reform in our institutions and society. It is imperative to confront racism’s root causes and the injustice it produces. The love of God binds us together. This same love should overflow into our relationships with all people. The conversions needed to overcome racism require a deep encounter with the living God in the person of Christ who can heal all division. “Open Wide Our Hearts: The Enduring Call to Love,” is not the first time the U.S. Bishops have spoken collectively on race issues in the United States, but it is the first time in almost 40 years. In 1979, they approved “Brothers and Sisters to Us: A Pastoral Letter on Racism in Our Day.” Among the many things they discussed was the fact that “Racism is a sin: a sin that divides the human family, blots out the image of God among specific members of that family, and violates the fundamental human dignity of those called to be children of the same Father.” The newly approved “Open Wide Our Hearts” continues the message that “Brothers and Sisters to Us” sought to convey. The full text is posted at http://www.usccb.org/racism. BC

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A message from Bishop Shelton J. Fabre regarding the evil of sexual abuse and misconduct in the church While the agenda for our USCCB Meeting in Baltimore did not proceed as originally planned, we remain committed to establishing clear, transparent standards for ourselves as U.S. Bishops. We will move forward with our preparations so that we can take the strongest actions possible at the earliest possible moment. Coordination with the universal church is a source of strength. While we share the pressing desire of the People of God for an immediate response, we also understand that moving forward in concert with the global Catholic Church will make the church in the United States stronger, and will make the church stronger around the world. The Holy See shares our ultimate goal, if not our timeline. We will continue to build upon the positive dialogue we have had to date with the Holy Father to ensure we eradicate the evil of sexual abuse and misconduct from our church. To be clear with regard to the process in the Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux, should an allegation of sexual abuse of a minor be brought forward, it is required that law enforcement is appropriately notified. I want to emphasize that the law enforcement investigation proceeds independent of church proceedings, and any determination of criminal activity is at the sole discretion of law enforcement. The diocese will always fully cooperate with law enforcement personnel. After receiving the allegation, an immediate initial investigation by the diocese is conducted and, if it is deemed necessary, the priest is immediately removed from ministry. I then convene the diocesan review board, a group of lay leaders tasked with reviewing the information from the diocesan investigation. The diocesan review board is comprised of leaders with intentional backgrounds in law enforcement, legal, medical, social services, etc. Our current board collectively represents over 200 years of professional expertise. Our initial review board was convened in 1996, well before the mandate of the “Dallas Charter” in 2002 requiring a lay diocesan review board in all U.S. dioceses. Ultimately, it is the diocesan review board, not the bishop, who determines if the allegation is credible, and the review board conveys their finding to me. If the diocesan review board determines at the conclusion of the investigative process that the allegation is credible, the priest will remain out of ministry and the results are forwarded to the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. As we already stated in recent weeks, the Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux has been expeditiously reviewing the

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files of all priests of our diocese who have served us during the 41 years of our existence. It is our intention as soon as possible to release a list of those with credible allegations. Throughout, our focus has been on a thorough and complete process, not on a specific date for release. We apologize to all who have been harmed by the actions, and sometimes the inaction, of church leaders. This most especially includes victims and their families. This also includes the lay faithful, the women and men religious, priests, deacons and all who rely on the church to be a source of mercy, justice, peace, and religious and moral credibility. We commit to put victims at the center of our care and concern, with pastoral care and healing as our primary focus. We will continue to pray for forgiveness and work to regain your trust for the sake of the mission of the church, and in order to bring Christ’s light and love to the world, without compromise. BC December 2018 • Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux • Bayou Catholic • 19

Youth

in action Luke Brinkley School: Central Catholic High School Grade: 11th Church parish: Holy Cross, Morgan City Describe your family unit: Angela, mother; Steve, father; Mary, younger sister Favorite Hobby: Tennis Favorite Movie: Any Star Wars movie Favorite T.V. Show: The Office Favorite Genre of Music: Alternative Rock

Where have you experienced Jesus most profoundly in your life? During this past summer, I went on several community events such as Steubenville and Rotary Youth Leadership Awards (RYLA). Although I really enjoyed myself and had an outstanding time, I felt strange. I felt like God was putting me where I didn’t fully belong. I believed that I wasn’t a worthy enough Catholic to attend Steubenville or a strong enough leader to go to RYLA, and this same mindset stopped me from going to Mass for an extreme amount of time. Near the end of the summer, I was still the same way, but I was preparing for one last, and possibly the biggest, trip of the summer. The Christian Leadership Institute (CLI) retreat is a five day event over the weekend in which young adults gather

together and simply praise God in some of the most fun ways possible. When I arrived, I was greeted by a hall filled with screaming and singing strangers. I was so panicked because I felt like these people were setting such a high standard for an introvert like me to reach for, and the very first thing that I did when I got inside my dorm room wasn’t unpacking or picking a bed to sleep in later. Instead, I prayed my heart out to God, asking him to keep me strong, help me have faith and enjoy myself as much as possible. When I left the dorm room, however, it was so amazing to see how much God was present in these people. I even met some new friends that I still talk to and do things with to this day. We were also assigned to our

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own groups, and we stayed with these groups throughout all the activities of the retreat. Everyone grew closer together by the time the retreat ended, but everyone was especially close with his or her group. Throughout the retreat, we attended Mass and I experienced the most beautiful times during adoration. I connected with God and continued to pray for faith and strength, and by the end of CLI, I realized how much I had changed since the event started compared to the end. God answered my prayers by bringing out a new change in me. I had gained new confidence, and I even began to go to Mass again. Ever since CLI was over, I have never been in a more hopeful and happy state. BC

Seminarian Education Burses What is a seminarian burse/endowment fund? A seminarian burse/endowment fund is an invested sum of money where the interest is used in perpetuity to help fund the education of men to the priesthood in the Diocese of HoumaThibodaux. How does someone establish a seminarian burse/endowment fund? Very simply, a burse/endowment fund may be established and

named for anyone you choose, be it family, friend, bishop, priest, deacon, religious, etc. Who do I contact to contribute to or establish a fund? To contribute to or establish a burse/endowment fund, send funds to the Pastoral Center, Attn: Catholic Foundation, P.O. Box 505, Schriever, LA 70395 or contact the Catholic Foundation office at 985-850-3116 or aponson@htdiocese.org for more information.

Completed Burses and CFSL Named Endowment Funds

October 2018 Burse Contributions

Note: Numbers stipulate the amount of completed burses.*

Anonymous Mr. & Mrs. C. Thomas Bienvenu Harry Booker Bishop Warren L. Boudreaux (3)* Mr. Eledier Broussard Rev. Adrian J. Caillouet Rev. James Louis Caillouet Bishop L. Abel Caillouet Judge & Mrs. L.P. Caillouet Msgr. Lucien J. Caillouet Abdon J. & Ada B. Callais Harold & Gloria Callais Family Paul A. Callais Peter W. Callais Vincent & Fannie Cannata Minor Sr. & Lou Ella Cheramie Maude & Edith Daspit Mr. & Mrs. Caliste Duplantis family (3)* Clay Sr. & Evelida Duplantis C. Remie Duplantis Marie Elise Duplantis

Warren J. Harang Jr. Msgr. Raphael C. Labit Msgr. Francis J. Legendre Rev. Charles Menard Dr. & Mrs. M.V. Marmande & Family Donald Peltier Sr. (3)* Harvey Peltier (30)* Richard Peltier The Peltier Foundation (5) Orleans & Louella Pitre Msgr. Joseph Wester Robert R. Wright Jr. Rev. Kermit Trahan St. Bernadette Men’s Club Diocesan Knights of Columbus Leighton Delahaye Mrs. Shirley Conrad Bishop Shelton J. Fabre Elizabeth Hebert Callais Family Fund Rev. Joseph Tu Tran

Society of St. Joseph Endowment Fund - $119,136.90 James J. Buquet Jr. Julius & Marie Pauline St. Amant Elie & Dot Klingman Bishop Sam Jacobs Endowment – $32,840.43 Giardina Family Foundation Sem. Endowment – $4,337.62 James J. Buquet, Jr. Family Sem. Endowment – $27,979.95 Diocesan Seminarian Endowment – $3,502,699.11 Mary and Al Danos Foundation Sem. Endowment – $38,621.30 Msgr. Amedee Sem. Endowment – $314,838.43 The Peltier Foundation - $14,482.97 Jane and John Dean

Edna W. DiSalvo .............................................$50.00 Grant J. Louviere .............................................$50.00

Open Burses with Balance as of October 31, 2018 Sidney J. & Lydie C. Duplantis ...............$13,000.00 Donald Peltier Sr. No. 4 ...........................$13,000.00 Joseph Strada Memorial .........................$12,642.63 Msgr. Raphael C. Labit No. 2 ................$11,440.00 Claude & Lucy Mahler Family ................$10,700.00 Harvey Peltier No. 31 ...............................$10,486.91 Mr. & Mrs. George C. Fakier ..................$10,400.00 Joseph Waitz Sr. .........................................$10,100.00 Clay Sr. & Evelida Duplantis No. 2 .......$10,000.00 C. Remie Duplantis No. 2 ........................$10,000.00 Marie Elise Duplantis No. 2 ....................$10,000.00 Maude & Edith Daspit No. 2 ..................$10,000.00 Msgr. George A. Landry ...........................$10,000.00 Society of St. Joseph ................................. $7,500.00 Msgr. William Koninkx ............................... $7,400.00 Rev. Victor Toth ............................................ $7,000.00 Catholic Daughters ..................................... $6,800.00 Brides of the Most Blessed Trinity ......... $6,598.00 Rev. Peter Nies .............................................. $6,000.00 Rev. Gerard Hayes ....................................... $5,986.00 Rev. Guy Zeringue ....................................... $5,900.00 Msgr. Francis Amedee ................................ $5,350.00 Mr. & Mrs. Love W. Pellegrin ................... $5,000.00 Anonymous No. 2 ........................................ $5,000.00 Mr. & Mrs. Caliste Duplantis Family No. 4 ........ $5,000.00 Rev. William M. Fleming ............................ $5,000.00 Mrs. Ayres A. Champagne ........................ $5,000.00 Rev. Kasimir Chmielewski .......................... $4,839.00 Joseph “Jay” Fertitta ................................... $4,450.00

Rev. Henry Naquin ...................................... $4,311.00 Harry Booker No. 2 ..................................... $4,138.00 Msgr. James Songy ..................................... $4,075.00 Anawin Community ..................................... $3,700.00 Kelly Curole Frazier ..................................... $3,610.96 Mr. & Mrs. John Marmande ..................... $3,500.00 J. R. Occhipinti .............................................. $3,400.00 Mr. & Mrs. Galip Jacobs ............................ $3,060.00 St. Jude ............................................................ $3,000.00 Diocesan Knights of Columbus No. 2 ...... $2,894.62 Rev. Peter H. Brewerton ............................. $2,600.00 Warren J. Harang Jr. No. 2 ........................ $2,600.00 Preston & Gladys Webre ........................... $2,350.00 Willie & Emelda St. Pierre ......................... $2,000.00 Rev. John Gallen ........................................... $1,950.00 Rev. H.C. Paul Daigle .................................. $1,900.00 Deacon Connely Duplantis ....................... $1,700.00 Alfrances P. Martin ...................................... $1,650.00 Msgr. Francis J. Legendre No. 2 .............. $1,645.00 Rev. Robert J. Sevigny ................................ $1,600.00 Rev. Hubert C. Broussard .......................... $1,550.00 Judge Louis & Shirley R. Watkins ........... $1,550.00 Msgr. Emile J. Fossier ................................. $1,545.00 Ronnie Haydel .............................................. $1,535.00 Dr. William Barletta Sr. ............................... $1,525.00 Msgr. Stanislaus Manikowski ................... $1,525.00 Deacon Robert Dusse’ ............................... $1,450.00 Jacob Marcello .............................................. $1,400.00 Rev. Anthony Rousso ................................. $1,250.00

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Special

Father John Nambusseril celebrates 25 years of priesthood Story by Janet Marcel Photo by Lawrence Chatagnier Father John Nambusseril, pastor of Holy Savior Church parish in Lockport since July 2015, is celebrating the 25th anniversary of his ordination to the priesthood which took place Dec. 29, 1993, in India. He is a native of Kunhome, a small village in the northern part of Kerala, India; and has been serving in the Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux since September 2008. He was incardinated to the diocese May 1, 2014. Father Nambusseril says his mother had the greatest influence on his decision to become a priest. “She was always a good role model and she inspired me to become a priest, too. My mother would always pray for the priests. As children we would say our prayers at home and we prayed 22 • Bayou Catholic • Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux • December 2018

the rosary together as a family. And the priests of the parish were always an example for me growing up. I wanted to be like them.” He says he learned most of the Old Testament from his father, who was a religion teacher and head of the religious education program in the church parish where he grew up. Father Nambusseril always wanted to be a priest for as long as he can remember. When he was a child, he would set up an altar at home and pretend to celebrate Mass. If he hadn’t become a priest, he says he may have gone into the medical field because he enjoys ministering to the sick and dying, and praying with them. Father Nambusseril recalls that when he was in the seminary, and even now when he

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goes home to visit, his mother always wants to take him to visit the sick in the parish. The pastor recalls his ordination ceremony as being very prayerful and enriching. “The songs, the prayers, the laying of the hands by the bishop, I could really feel the Holy Spirit come upon me at that time. Everyone was praying for me; it was very special. I will never forget that day.” Father Nambusseril says he has enjoyed every year of his priestly life. His first 10 years were in India where he served in a number of capacities including as pastor, administrator to the CMI Novitiate (formation house), assistant rector of the minor seminary, schoolteacher and principal. Father Nambusseril left India for New York in 2003 to further his studies. He decided to come to the Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux in 2008. “I have some priest friends in the Diocese of Alexandria who knew Bishop Sam Jacobs because he was the bishop there. So it was through them that I met Bishop Sam and he invited me to come here. The people were really welcoming and supportive of me when I arrived in this diocese.” Father Nambusseril has always had the cooperation and support of the people and his friends throughout his priesthood, but says one of the most challenging aspects of being a priest is the financial aspect of running a church parish, especially when the economy is down, the same

people are giving and you have to ask them to give more. “It’s not an easy thing to do,” says the priest. And even though he enjoys being in a parish with a school, it is a challenge being in a parish with a small school where there are not a lot of students enrolled and the parish has to help keep the school running. Something else that weighs heavily on him is all of the clergy sex abuse scandals. “We are not free to do what we want to do … like mingling with the children. We have to be extra careful and reserved within the boundaries that we have. All of the priests are fearful of false allegations being made against them so they are not able to be as involved with the youth as they would like. This is a great fear and a challenge that we face today,” says Father Nambusseril. Celebrating Mass, especially the consecration of the Eucharist, and his priestly ordination are the most memorable moments Father Nambusseril has experienced as a priest. “Celebrating every Mass is a privilege.” On his days off, he enjoys going fishing, and says sometimes people take him fishing. He also likes to play cards with his priest friends when they get together. The unity and brotherhood among the priests from India serving in this diocese is very important to all of them, says Father Nambusseril. BC

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This month’s heavenly recipe, chicken tinga, comes from Sister Eufemia “Femy” Santiago, M.C.S.H., diocesan director of Hispanic Ministry. Sister Femy, a native of Vera Cruz, Mexico, says the chicken tinga is a great taco filling or tostada topping. Tinga is served throughout Mexico. Sister Femy, a member of the religious order of the Missionary Catechists of the Sacred Heart of Jesus and Mary, has been in the United States for 10 years. She spent five years in Texas before coming to the Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux. Sister Femy works alongside Sister Rosa Maria Rodriguez, M.C.S.H. Together they work in church parishes which are heavy populated with Hispanics. “We help the Hispanic children become integrated into the parish CCD programs. We prepare families for baptisms and engaged couples with the FOCCUS program, organize small Bible study groups and liturgical ministers. Father Fernando Anaya, chaplain for Hispanic Ministry, celebrates Mass in the Hispanic communities, administers sacraments and visits the sick,” she says. The feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe is celebrated Dec. 12. Sister Femy says that the feast is very important to the Mexican culture because everyone there grew up with that devotion. “It is a major feast. In Vera Cruz, it is celebrated as a major feast day and holiday. For 11 months before the celebration a special Mass is celebrated on the 12th of every month. It culminates with the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe on Dec. 12.” Locally, a Mass will be celebrated by Bishop Shelton J. Fabre at Sacred Heart Church in Morgan City on Dec. 8 at 6:30 p.m. During the celebration, adults and children dress in colorful outfits paying homage to Our Lady of Guadalupe and Juan Diego. There is also an outdoor procession before the Mass which concludes with food and musical performances. BC 24 • Bayou Catholic • Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux • December 2018

Chicken Tinga INGREDIENTS:

1 lb. whole boneless chicken breast 4 plum tomatoes 1 large white onion 3 cloves of garlic 2 tbsp. canned chipotle 1 tsp. Mexican oregano 1/4 tsp. black pepper 1 cup chicken broth 3 tbsp. cooking oil Salt to taste

DIRECTIONS:

In a large saucepan cover the chicken with an inch of water. Bring water to a boil. Reduce heat to low and simmer for 20 minutes. Remove chicken from the cooking water. Save the broth. Allow chicken to cool to the touch. Finely shred the chicken by cutting it into one inch pieces, then pulling it apart with your fingers. Prepare the chipotle tomato sauce while the chicken is cooking. Clean, seed and chop the tomatoes. Add tomatoes, chipotle, one clove of garlic, Mexican oregano, black pepper, and the reserved chicken broth to your blender. Blend until smooth, about one minute. Prepare the tinga. Thinly slice one large white onion, yields approximately 1-1/2 cups. Slice two cloves of garlic. Preheat a large frying pan over medium-low heat and add three tablespoons of cooking oil. Add sliced onion to the pan. Cook until the onion starts to become translucent, about four minutes. Do not allow onion to brown. Add sliced garlic to the pan and cook for one more minute. Turn heat to medium and slowly pour sauce into the pan with the onions and garlic. Cook for five minutes. The sauce will start to reduce. Turn heat to low. Add shredded chicken to the pan and mix well with the sauce. Cover the pan and allow to simmer for 20 minutes. During this time, the sauce will reduce even more and coat the chicken and onion. Salt to taste.

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Now, after 15 years, Albom gifts us with the sequel to his best seller, The Five People You Meet in Heaven. At last he answers the question of what happened to Annie and Eddie. The “next person you meet” might actually be you. Someone you never knew or someone you always wanted to be. In the sequel, Annie is reunited with Eddie. BC

Eli Judice was born with spina bifida, a birth defect in the spinal cord and in the bones of the spine. His parents Chad and Ashley Judice of Lafayette declined the option of joining 88 percent of similar parents who aborted the fetus, choosing instead to have Eli who grew and developed into the wonderfully normal boy you’ll meet in this book, the third written by his father who also grew in his Catholic faith and is now a nationally recognized motivational speaker, and an award-wining author. This wonderfully uplifting story is perfect for Christmas. BC

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Sharing the wisdom of our elders was an idea Pope Francis suggested to Loyola Press, which quickly embraced it. More than 250 elders from across the world were interviewed. Close to home was 95 year old Chef Leah Chase who offered, “If you’re criticized, look at it. Then correct if you can and move on.” Seventy-five year old Martin Scorsese opined, “I think I’ve learned more from failure, rejection and outright hostility than I have from success.” Oversized and beautifully packaged. BC

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Wounded in Spirit By David Bannon Paraclete Press $29.99 Christmas is a wonderful and joyous time of year except when a loved one has recently passed away. That’s the theme of this book; great artists who all created masterpieces born of grief. The 25 paintings tied to the days of Advent include Correggio’s The Night, Murillo’s Holy Family with a Bird; Poussin’s Descent from the Cross, each accompanied by a short meditation or commentary by, among others, C.S. Lewis, Longfellow and James Martin, S.J. It’s a marvelous gift, for yourself first, then friends. BC

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Commentary

The end of a year, the start of renewal Thoughts For Millennials

As 2018 draws to an end, the month of December moves into full swing, meaning that we’re soon to be bombarded with Christmas songs, lights and decorations. For many people, myself included, Christmas truly is “the most wonderful time of the year!” I’m a lover of all things red and green, pine-scented or peppermint flavored. However, as young adults, we’re also soon to be met with the stress of finding that perfect gift for our loved ones and friends, the anxieties associated with a semester ending, and the strain of final exams. Because of all of these exciting and strenuous situations that we experience, it’s so incredibly easy to skip right past the fact that Jesus is coming.

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All too often, in December, we remember to go to the mall, but we forget to go Mass. We remember to put up the tree, but we forget to set up the manger. We remember to listen to Christmas music, but forget to listen to Christ. We remember the presents,

but we forget the presence. It’s so easy to forget the things that really matter and remember the things that don’t. That’s why we need a checklist for our spiritual life just like we have ones for

our school lives and the holiday season. Sit down and pray? Check. Remember why this holiday exists? Check. Drop in church for some eucharistic adoration? Check. Pray a rosary in the car instead of Christmas music? Check. The steps to take will not be easy, but they are simple. And they’re rewarding. Rather than the Christmas season being a time of year that leaves your wallet empty, it can be the time of year that leaves your heart full. All in all, I challenge you to take a different approach to December this year. Remember the important things and forget the material things. You can turn a commercial holiday into a spiritual holiday – the way it was intended to be. All it takes is a checklist, a little bit of grace, and an open heart for God to enter, no matter the condition of it. Remember: On that night in Bethlehem, all he needed was a manger. (Ryan Abboud is a 2015 graduate of Vandebilt Catholic High School in Houma and a senior at LSU in Baton Rouge.) BC

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Ministry in Action

Holy Savior parishioner Mona Arcement looks over the religious items at the parish’s gift store.

Social Ministry group at Holy Savior helps the needy ‘all year round’ Story by Janet Marcel Photo by Lawrence Chatagnier The members of the Social Ministry group at Holy Savior Church parish in Lockport are busy helping others all year round. This ministry consists of a parish food pantry, financial assistance program, religious items gift store, elderly scrolls, Christmas angel tree program and Christmas food baskets. Mona Arcement, parishioner of Holy Savior Church who was born and raised in Lockport, became involved with the parish’s social ministries when she retired nine years ago 28 • Bayou Catholic • Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux • December 2018

after teaching in local schools for 33 years. Arcement is in charge of the food pantry, financial assistance program; the religious items gift store, and the Christmas food baskets. The parish collects food throughout the year for the food pantry, which also has paper products, cleaning supplies and toiletries, etc. The pantry receives donations from the United States Postal Service’s annual food drive, Holy Savior School’s faculty, staff and students, and parishioners. Volunteers who work in the pantry will also donate items if they notice the pantry is running low on certain things.

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“We are so fortunate that we have such a giving community in that if we ask, we usually receive. I am proud of the Catholic Church because we’re known for our charity toward the less fortunate. We help others regardless of their religious affiliation,” says Arcement. “And we also give people other options for where they can go to receive food and additional items they may need.” The financial assistance program, which has someone available to see people on Tuesday and Thursday mornings, helps families in need with money mostly for medicine, utilities, gas, and rent up to a certain amount, says Arcement. “We see a lot of unemployed people. If they need more than what we can help them with, we refer them to Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux.” In order to receive assistance, people have to fill out an application and provide certain documents, and then a volunteer conducts an interview to determine eligibility. All of the needy who come to the door get food at the very least, notes Arcement. The religious items gift store that is located in the church parish office has items such as rosaries, religious medals, statues, crosses, pins, jewelry, etc., available for purchase. “We sell these items at just a little over our cost,” says Arcement, “because we want the people to have them.”

The proceeds from the sale of these items are used for the financial assistance program. Arcement says that she couldn’t do what she does without the help of the church parish office staff and the other volunteers. Mona Pierce, parishioner of Holy Savior Church, helps to organize the Christmas angel tree program and the elderly scrolls. The parish has a Christmas angel tree in which parishioners can take an angel with the age and gender of someone that they commit to purchasing a gift for and returning the gift to the parish. The elderly scrolls is a program in which the parish puts out a basket of scrolls by the altar at Christmastime and people pick them up and put money in them. The money that is collected is divided among the elderly of the parish who are in need, and each person is given a check that they can spend in whatever way they choose. Christmas food baskets are also given to the families who receive assistance through the angel tree program and the elderly scrolls. To volunteer to help with any of the church parish’s social ministries, just call the parish office at (985)532-3533. BC

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Feature

Glenn Landry leaves Houma-Thibodaux to become chief financial officer for Diocese of Baton Rouge

Story by Janet Marcel Photo by Lawrence Chatagnier After serving the Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux for 12 years, Glenn Landry, CPA, CDFM, CGMA, announced last month that he had accepted the position of chief financial officer for the Diocese of Baton Rouge. The 48 year old Raceland native began his service to the Diocese of HoumaThibodaux as comptroller in July 2006, and was appointed diocesan business manager and coordinator of Administration Ministries in July 2008. He earned his bachelor of science degree in accounting from Louisiana State University in Baton Rouge. Landry says even though he did take an accounting class as a senior in high school he didn’t actually make the decision to be an accountant until he was in college. Both of his parents were pharmacists that owned a pharmacy in Raceland while he was growing up, so he kind of just thought he would follow in their footsteps. That is, he says, until he took his first semester of chemistry in college. “I don’t really know why I thought I wanted to be a pharmacist, because science was never really my thing,” says Landry. One of his grandfathers was an accountant; and even though his mother was a pharmacist, she kept the 30 • Bayou Catholic • Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux • December 2018

books for the family’s pharmacy, so he was familiar with the subject. Landry says he loves working for the church. “I have been blessed to be able to work in the field I chose to get an education in and be able to work for the church and do it for God. Most people don’t even realize that this kind of work takes place because it’s behind the scenes.” Making hard decisions is what stands out in his memory the most during his time in the diocese. “We’ve made plenty of changes over the years, some things only those in the accounting field would even be aware of. But there have also been some difficult decisions that had to be made over the years.” When Landry began working for the diocese, the economy was good, the oil revenues were coming in and more people were attending Mass so there was more money being given to the church parishes. Today that situation has changed dramatically. “When making those difficult decisions,” says Landry, “I try to separate myself individually from a situation and know that I have a greater responsibility to the diocese

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and the church as a whole. I have to make decisions for the betterment of the church.” And as diocesan business manager, he doesn’t have to make those tough decisions alone; he relies on the guidance and advice of the diocesan finance council that is made up of business leaders in several different fields who have varied experience. Landry says that faith is a big part of the decision making process, also, as well as just keeping in mind that difficult decisions sometimes have to be made for the greater good. When asked what he will miss most about working for the diocese, Landry quickly says, “I will miss these people. We have a great staff here and it will be hard to give that up. It’s nice being a part of a good team.” Landry says the decision to accept the position as CFO for the Diocese of Baton Rouge came out of his desire to grow and accomplish more personally in his career while also being able to continue to work for the church in a larger diocese. Landry and his family plan to move to Baton Rouge after his youngest son, Luke, 17, graduates from Vandebilt Catholic High School in Houma in May 2019. He and his wife Tara celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary last month. Their daughter Abigail, 19, also a graduate of VCHS, currently attends LSU in Baton Rouge. BC

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is deceased or is a former spouse, and consider adding a charitable organization like the your church parish or school through the Catholic Foundation of South Louisiana (CFSL). n Durable power of attorney. Make sure your durable powers of attorney for financial and health care are current. A copy of the financial power of attorney should be given to your family members, while a copy of your health care power of attorney should be provided to both family members and health care providers. n Safe-deposit box. Catalog the contents of your safe-deposit box. Give a written copy to a trusted family member and note any items you are holding for someone else. n Bank or brokerage accounts. Name designated heirs or your church parish through the Catholic Foundation of bank or brokerage account proceeds at your death. State laws govern payable on death accounts and transfer on death accounts. Please consult with your bank representative or investment advisor if you are

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considering these gifts. n Charitable contributions. If you’ve included a gift to the CFSL restricted for a church parish, school or ministry in your estate plan, review the details of your gift and let us—and your loved ones—know of your intentions. This will guarantee that your wishes are carried out after your lifetime. Don’t have an estate plan? It’s never too late to plan for the future. Contact the CFSL for more information on how you can create an estate plan that provides for you and for your church parish. Call Amy Ponson (985)850-3116 or email aponson@ htdiocese.org for a confidential conversation today. (The information in this publication is not intended as legal or tax advice. For such advice, please consult an attorney or tax advisor. Figures cited in examples are for hypothetical purposes only and are subject to change. References to estate and income taxes include federal taxes only. State income/estate taxes or state law may impact your results.) BC

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Announcements

Food for the Journey is Jan. 8 at Ellendale Country Club

Jimmie Danos

The Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux sponsors a monthly lunchtime speaker series on the first Tuesday of the month at the Ellendale Country Club Restaurant located at 3319 Highway 311 in Houma.

The speaker for Jan. 8 is Jimmie Danos. Danos has served as diocesan director of the Office of Building and Construction for the past 34 years. In addition to that, he has passionately pursued the promotion of evangelization in our diocese as a lay missionary disciple. He served on the diocesan Strategic Planning Committee on evangelization. In 2014, he taught a 12 week Adult Faith Formation course on Spirituality and was a keynote speaker at the 2014 Man of God Conference. As part of their formation, Danos taught a course on evangelization to the permanent deacon class of 2015. In 1986, he was awarded the diocesan bishop’s medal by (the late) Bishop Warren L. Boudreaux in recognition of his efforts in evangelization. He has preached several parish Lenten and

Advent missions, given talks at many diocesan sponsored events, to parish RCIA and confirmation groups and at numerous church parish gatherings throughout this diocese and beyond. Danos and his wife Mona are parishioners of Christ the Redeemer Church parish in Thibodaux. Those who plan to attend the Jan. 8 event should RSVP with their name, phone number and church parish by Thursday, Jan. 3. To RSVP, email FoodForTheJourney@htdiocese.org or call (985) 850-3178. Doors open at 10:45 a.m. Lunch begins at 11:30 a.m. The program begins at Noon with the speaker’s presentation from 12:10-12:45 p.m. Cost is $15 and includes meal, drink and tip. Only cash or checks will be accepted. All are invited to come “eat and be fed.” BC

Junior High Faith Experience is Jan. 12

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The Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux Youth Formation’s 11th annual Junior High Faith Experience for youth in grades six through eight will take place Saturday, Jan. 12, 2019, from 9:30 a.m. until 5:30 p.m., at E.D. White Catholic High School in Thibodaux. The theme for the event is “Illuminate.” The day will consist of praise and worship, adoration, a keynote address, lunch and outside activities. Music will be provided by Abundant Praise. Mass will be celebrated by Bishop Shelton J. Fabre. Information about the event will be updated at www.htdiocese.org/youth as it is available. BC

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Announcements

New children’s book

Nancy Diedrich, former counselor for the diocesan Office of Family Ministries, has written a new children’s book entitled “Whenever a Child is Born,” from Christian Faith Publishing. The illustrated book of blessings is written to be read out loud to a young child. It celebrates new life and parents’ love while calling on guardian angles who wait in eager anticipation for the birth of another precious life they can watch over as they grow. Diedrich is shown with a kindergarten class at St. Joseph Catholic Elementary School in Thibodaux. For additional information or inquiries about “Whenever a Child is Born,” visit http://www.NancyDiedrich.com.

Carolyn Gorman receives the Edward J. & Anna B. Himel award Carolyn P. Gorman, owner of Portier Gorman publications, was the 2018 recipient of the Edward J. & Anna B. Himel award sponsored by the Lafourche Heritage Society for distinguished services. Presenting the plaque is Kevin J. Allemand, administrator for the diocesan Archives and Historical Research Center, who was the 2017 recipient. The award presentation was held at the Ellender Memorial Library on the Nicholls State University campus in Thibodaux in conjunction with the annual Lafourche Heritage Society membership meeting.

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Announcements

Bishop Dominic Carmon dies at age 87

Office of Human Resources & Employee Benefits 2779 Highway 311 • Post Office Box 505 • Schriever, LA 70395 Phone (985) 850-3115 • Fax (985) 850-3215 The Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux is currently seeking a full-time employee for the ministry of Chief Financial Officer/Coordinator for Administration Ministries This position serves as financial administrator under authority of the bishop to ensure the safe-keeping and proper stewardship of all assets, both financial and non-financial and provides financial and administrative service to the departments, offices, programs, parishes, schools and affiliated entities of the diocese. This position is eligible for full benefits.

Bishop Dominic Carmon

Bishop Dominic Carmon, S.V.D., who served as auxiliary bishop of New Orleans from 1993 until his retirement in 2006, died Sunday, Nov. 11, at the age of 87. Bishop Carmon, a native of Opelousas, LA, entered St. Augustine Seminary in Bay St. Louis, MS, in 1946 and was ordained Feb. 2, 1960. For the next seven years he did missionary work in New Guinea. He also served as a parish priest in Chicago, Opelousas and New Orleans. Bishop Carmon was the eldest of seven children born to Edna and Aristile Carmon. A funeral Mass was held at the St. Louis Cathedral in New Orleans followed by interment in the Cathedral. BC

First-time homebuyers workshop Jan. 19 Catholic Housing Services, a program of Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux, is sponsoring a free informational workshop for first-time homebuyers, Saturday, Jan. 19 from 10 a.m. until Noon, at Sacred Heart Church in Morgan City, 415 Union Street. The workshop will feature information regarding budget analysis, credit report review, requirements for obtaining a mortgage loan, help in finding down payment assistance for qualified households, getting a bank loan and insurance. For more information about the workshop, call (985)876-0490. BC

ESSENTIAL DUTIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES INCLUDE THE FOLLOWING: (Other duties may be assigned) • Management, budgeting, and financial reporting and recordkeeping for diocesan offices and programs, affiliated entities and trusts, including the diocesan wide centralized programs of payroll, employee benefits, deposits and loans, liability/property insurance, safety, risk management, building and construction, and cemeteries. • Administrative, business, and financial advisor to bishop. • Deliver financial statements, budgets and other information to the diocesan finance council and other affiliated entities/trusts, boards. • Liaison with attorneys for all diocesan, parish and school legal matters. • Maintain professional relationships with external business contacts (bankers, auditors, investment managers, actuaries, insurance brokers, consultants, contractors). • Calculation of Cathedraticum, Christmas and Easter quotas, priest retirement assessment, accumulated priest retirement benefits, property/liability insurance billing. • Must have ongoing continuing education in areas of administration. OTHER OR SHARED RESPONSIBILITIES: • Review quarterly consolidated financial report for parishes and schools. • Administrative, business, and financial advisor to parishes and schools. THIS POSITION SUPERVISES: • Comptroller and other finance staff, file clerk, front desk receptionist, director of building and construction, director of cemeteries, director of computer operations, director of human resources, administrator of Archives and Historical Research Center. Education and Experience Qualifications: • BA/BS degree in accounting, finance, business administration. • At least 10 years progressive experience in executive level financial management or public accounting. • Administrative leadership experience, preferably in the Catholic Church or non-profit, including working with consultative bodies, supervision, accounting, investing and borrowing. • CPA, MBA or DFM preferred • Must be a practicing Catholic in good standing with the church Other Qualifications: • Strong professional and interpersonal skills demonstrating the ability to communicate clearly and effectively with others on all levels both orally and in writing; excellent presentation skills. • Must be able to multi-task and set priorities. • Knowledge of Generally Accepted Accounting Principles, finance, recordkeeping, budgeting and cost control principles. • Must have excellent computer skills and experience in Microsoft Office Software and accounting software packages. • Experience required in the following areas: property management, investments, employee benefits and insurance. • Familiarity with the Code of Canon Law related to temporal goods preferred. • Ability to establish and maintain friendly and cooperative relations with employees, clergy and parishes, schools, and other organizations the diocese supports. • Flexibility to work occasional evenings and weekends, and travel. The Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux is an Equal Opportunity Employer and does not discriminate against applicants or employees by reason of race, color, religion*, sex, national origin, age, disability, veteran status, genetic information of any other basis prohibited by applicable law. *The diocese, in its sole discretion, reserves the right to require “practicing Catholic” to be a qualification for a position. For consideration please submit a cover letter, resume and three professional references to hr@htdiocese.org. Applications being accepted until position filled.

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December

n Food for the Journey, Tuesday, December 4, Ellendale Country Club Restaurant, 3319 Highway 311, Houma, 10:45 a.m.-12:45 p.m. n A Mass honoring Our Lady of Guadalupe will be celebrated by Bishop Shelton J. Fabre, Saturday, Dec. 8, 6:30 p.m., at Sacred Heart Church in Morgan City. n American Indian Ministry sponsored retreat, “Cast into the Deep,” begins Friday, Dec. 14, at 5 p.m., and ends Sunday, Dec. 16 with lunch at Noon. Presenter, Sister Judy Gomila, M.S.C.

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January 2019

n Food for the Journey, Tuesday, January 8, Ellendale Country Club Restaurant, 3319 Highway 311, Houma, 10:45 a.m.-12:45 p.m. Speaker, Jimmie Danos. n Jr. High Faith Experience, Saturday, Jan. 12, E.D. White Catholic High School in Thibodaux, 9:30 a.m. until 5:30 p.m. n A Mass honoring Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Sunday, Jan. 20 at 8:15 a.m., St. Lucy Church, Houma, will be celebrated by Bishop Shelton J. Fabre. n A Mass honoring Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Sunday, Jan. 20 at 10:30 a.m., St. Luke the Evangelist Church, Thibodaux, will be celebrated by Bishop Shelton J. Fabre. n Catholic Schools Week, with its theme “Catholic Schools: Learn. Serve. Lead. Succeed,” Sunday, Jan. 27 to Saturday, Feb. 2.

February

n Food for the Journey, Tuesday, February 5, Ellendale Country Club Restaurant, 3319 Highway 311, Houma, 10:45 a.m.-12:45 p.m.

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Sports

Overtime Ed Daniels

The entire Louisiana high school playoffs system is broken After the first Friday night of the state football playoffs, I did a deep exhale. Thank goodness the top seed in class 2A, the Many Tigers had advanced to the second round. The Tigers struggled to win 76 to nothing. Next up for Many in the second round was a team that lost its first five games of the regular season,

but somehow made the playoffs. Many’s principal is the one who helped spearhead the vote to split the football playoffs. And, later in basketball, baseball and softball. Their athletes, after all, needed a fair chance to compete for a state championship. What about the children on the other team Friday night, who had to live through a 76 point defeat? That the entire playoff system in Louisiana is broken goes without saying. And, when you tell people it is a sham, many of them just nod their heads in quiet resignation. Yes, alas, this is what we have and it never will change. Even many of the private and parochial school coaches and administrators seem to accept the current malaise as a normal course of events. Dysfunction in an entire state athletic association and its playoffs are to be viewed as just a normal occurrence. Sort of like the Causeway being fogged in the winter time. Oh well. Next month, the slap in the face of the “select” schools continues when both the privates and the publics gather at the Superdome for the “state championships.” Whatever that means. The Division I championship (which

oughta to be a great game, really) will be played at Noon Saturday. The other three select championship games will be played at 3:30 p.m. and 7 p.m. Thursday, and at 3:30 p.m. Friday. The public school championship games get the best times, including 7:00 pm Friday, and 3:30 p.m. and 7 p.m. Saturday. Last December, after watching most if not all nine championship games, I arrived at a conclusion that would explain why this playoff farce continues. If the five classes were united, Edna Karr would have been the only public school to win a title, in class 4A. As the sixth anniversary of the vote to split the football playoffs approaches, we can say without a doubt that what the public school principals who voted for the split thought, was absolutely correct. That is the “select” schools would sit on their hands, and do nothing. In January of 2013, at a hotel in Baton Rouge, the votes were tallied, and applause filled the room as the measure to split the football playoffs passed resoundingly. Since, attendance at games that I report, have dropped appreciably. And, so has expectation. There’s nothing to being a playoff team in Louisiana. Shoot for mediocrity, and reach it. Oh, well. BC

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Bishop's Message Merry Christmas

It is my hope and sincere prayer that the days leading up to Christmas Day and well into the Christmas season and the New Year will be days of joy and peace for you! Each and every one of us is challenged to bring the love of Jesus Christ into our world by being his presence to all of those whom we meet. The Lord sends us as his missionary disciples to proclaim the glad tidings of the presence of Emmanuel with us through the message of Christmas and the miracle and wonder of the Incarnation. Let us remember one another in prayer in these most holy and joy-filled days of the year. May all the blessings of Christmas and the New Year be granted in great abundance to you and to all of those who are dear to you! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Feliz Navidad

Es mi esperanza y sincera oración que los días Navidad y el Año Nuevo sean días de alegría y paz para ustedes. Todos y cada uno de nosotros tenemos el desafío de llevar el amor de Jesucristo a nuestro mundo al ser su presencia para todos aquellos con quienes nos encontramos. El Señor nos envía como sus discípulos misioneros para proclamar las buenas nuevas de la presencia de Emmanuel “Dios con nosotros” a través del mensaje de Navidad y el milagro y la maravilla de la Encarnación. Recordémonos unos a otros en oración en estos días santos y llenos de alegría del año. ¡Que todas las bendiciones de la Navidad y el Año Nuevo sean concedidas en gran abundancia a ustedes y a todos aquellos que les aman!

, Giang Sinh Chuc Mung ‘ ‘ ‘

Lời cầu nguyện chân thành và hy vọng của tôi là từ những ngày này đến Ngày Giáng Sinh, cả mùa Giáng Sinh và Năm Mới, sẽ là những ngày vui vẻ và bình an cho tất cả Anh Chị Em! Mỗi một người trong chúng ta được thách đố để mang tình yêu của Chúa Giêsu Kitô vào thế giới của chúng ta bằng sự hiện diện của Ngài cho tất cả những người chúng ta gặp gỡ. Chúa gửi chúng ta đến như các môn đệ truyền giáo của Ngài để công bố những tin vui về sự hiện diện của Đấng Emmanuel với chúng ta qua sứ điệp của Giáng Sinh và phép lạ và sự kỳ diệu Nhập Thể của Ngôi Lời. Chúng ta hãy nhớ nhau bằng lời cầu nguyện trong những ngày thánh thiêng và tràn đầy niềm vui nhất trong năm. Cầu chúc muôn ơn lành của ngày Lễ Giáng sinh và Năm Mới được ban phát dồi dào cho Anh Chị Em và cho tất cả những người thân yêu! Chúc mừng Giáng sinh và Năm mới vui vẻ!

Bishop Shelton J. Fabre

Christmas Mass and confession times throughout the diocese Cathedral of St. Francis de Sales, Houma Christmas Eve: 4, 6 p.m., Midnight Christmas Day: 9, 11 a.m. Confession: Saturdays, 3-3:50 p.m.; Sundays and weekdays beginning 30 minutes before Mass time and ending 10 minutes before Mass time.

Maria Immacolata, Houma Christmas Eve: 4, 6, 10:30 p.m. Christmas Day: 9:30 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 20, 6-8 p.m.; one hour before Sunday vigil, 30 minutes before all other weekend Masses

St. Joseph Co-Cathedral, Thibodaux Christmas Eve: 4, 6 p.m., Midnight Christmas Day: 7:30, 9:30, 11:30 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6 p.m.; Saturdays, 3-4 p.m.; 30 minutes before all other Masses

Our Lady of Prompt Succor, Chackbay Christmas Eve: 4, 6, 11 p.m. Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6-8 p.m.

Annunziata, Houma Christmas Eve: 4 p.m., 11 p.m.; Spanish Mass, 7 p.m. Christmas Day: 10 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6-8 p.m.; 30 minutes before each Mass Christ the Redeemer, Thibodaux Christmas Eve: 4, 6 p.m., Midnight Christmas Day: 7, 9 a.m. Confession: Dec. 19-20, 5-8 p.m.; Dec. 21, 8 a.m.-8 p.m.; Dec. 22, 9 a.m.-7 p.m.; Dec. 24, 8 a.m.-2 p.m. Community of St. Anthony, Gheens Christmas Eve: 6 p.m. Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Holy Cross, Morgan City Christmas Eve: 4, 6 p.m. Christmas Day: 9 a.m. St. Rosalie Chapel, Morgan City Christmas Eve: 4 p.m. Holy Family, Grand Caillou Christmas Eve: 4 p.m. Christmas Day: 10 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6-8 p.m. Holy Savior, Lockport Christmas Eve: 4, 6 p.m., Midnight Christmas Day: 10 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6-8 p.m. Advent Mission: Dec. 10, 6 p.m. Speaker, Father Antonio Speedy Concert: Joyous Sound, Dec. 9, 2 p.m. Holy Savior School Christmas Pageant: Dec. 20, 6 p.m. in the school gym

Our Lady of Prompt Succor, Golden Meadow Christmas Eve: 5, 10 p.m. Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Penance Service: Dec. 19, begins with 5:30 p.m. Mass, followed by “The Light is On for You,” 6-8 p.m. Our Lady of the Isle, Grand Isle Christmas Eve: 6 p.m. Christmas Day: 10 a.m. Confession: Saturdays, 4:15 p.m.; Sundays, 9:15 a.m.; Dec. 24, 5:15 p.m.; Dec. 25, 9:15 a.m. Our Lady of the Most Holy Rosary, Houma Christmas Eve: 4 p.m., Midnight Christmas Day: 8, 11 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6-8 p.m.; Saturdays, 3:15 p.m. Our Lady of the Rosary, Larose Christmas Eve: 4, 6:30 p.m., Midnight Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Penance Service: Dec. 14, 6 p.m., followed by “The Light is On for You” Confession: Dec. 5, 6:30 p.m. Advent Mission: Dec. 4-5, 6 p.m., Speaker, Father Duc Bui Sacred Heart, Cut Off Christmas Eve: 4, 6:30 p.m.; Spanish Mass, 9 p.m.; Midnight Christmas Day: 8, 10 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6 p.m.; daily before weekday Masses and Saturdays, 3:15-3:45 p.m. Advent Mission: Dec. 3-5, 7 p.m. Speaker, Dr. Gregory Vall Sacred Heart, Montegut Christmas Eve: 4, 10 p.m. Christmas Day: 8:30 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6-8 p.m.; anytime by appointment

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Mass schedules cont. Sacred Heart, Morgan City Christmas Eve: 4:30, 8 p.m., Midnight Christmas Day: 10 a.m. Confession: Saturday, 4 p.m.; Monday-Friday, 6 a.m. St. Andrew, Amelia Christmas Eve: 4 p.m. Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6-8 p.m. St. Ann, Bourg Christmas Eve: 4, 6 p.m., 10 p.m. Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6-8 p.m. Advent Mission: Dec. 4, 6-7 p.m., Speaker, Father Cody Chatagnier; Dec.11, 6-7 p.m., Speaker, Deacon Lee Crochet; Dec. 18, 6-7 p.m., Speaker, Father Cody Chatagnier St. Anthony of Padua, Bayou Black Christmas Eve: 4, 6:30 p.m., Midnight Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6 p.m. Advent Mission: Dec. 12, 6 p.m., Speaker, Father Carlos Talavera

St. Bernadette, Houma Christmas Eve: 4 p.m. in church; 4:05 p.m. in Father Pat O’Brien Center, 6 p.m. in church, Midnight Christmas Day: 8, 10 a.m. Confession: 30 minutes before all Masses; Mercy Nights, Dec. 5 and 19, 7 p.m. until … ; “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 4-6 p.m. Advent Mission: Dec. 10-12, 6:30 p.m. Speaker, Dr. Gregory R. Vall St. Bridget Schriever Christmas Eve: 4, 11 p.m. Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6 p.m. until … ; Saturdays, 3-3:50 p.m.; Sundays, 7:30-8:20 a.m., 10-10:20 a.m. Advent Mission: Dec. 6, Mass at 5:30 p.m., followed by speaker Deacon James Brunet St. Charles Borromeo, Pointe-aux-Chenes Christmas Eve: 5:30, 10:30 p.m. Christmas Day: 10:30 a.m. Confession: Anytime by appointment. St. Charles Borromeo, St. Charles Community Christmas Eve: 4, 6 p.m. Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 4-8 p.m.

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Christmas

Mass schedules cont. St. Eloi, Theriot Christmas Eve: 4:30, 6:30 p.m., Midnight Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Confession: Dec. 19, 5-8 p.m.; Saturdays, 3:45-4:15 p.m. Advent Mission: Dec. 2-4, 7 p.m. Speaker, Father Robert Rogers St. Genevieve, Thibodaux Christmas Eve: 4, 6, 10 p.m.; 4 p.m., Lafourche Nursing Home Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6-8 p.m.; Saturdays 3:15 p.m. until Mass time; Sundays 9:45 a.m. until Mass time and 5:15 p.m. until Mass time; Wednesdays immediately after 7 a.m. Mass St. Gregory, Houma Christmas Eve: 4, 9 p.m. Christmas Day: 10 a.m. St. Hilary of Poitiers, Mathews Christmas Eve: 4, 6 p.m., Midnight Christmas Day: 7, 9 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 20, 6–8 p.m. Advent Mission: Dec. 19-20, 7-8 p.m. Speaker, Father John David Matherne

St. John the Evangelist, Thibodaux Christmas Eve: 4, 6 p.m. Christmas Day: 10 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6-8 p.m.; 30 minutes before each Mass St. Joseph, Chauvin Christmas Eve: 4, 11 p.m. Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Penance Service: Dec. 11, 6 p.m. (Individual confessions available) Advent Mission: Dec. 10-11, 6 p.m. Speaker, Father Glenn LeCompte St. Joseph, Galliano Christmas Eve: 4 p.m. in the recreation center, Midnight Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Confession: 30 minutes before Mass St. Lawrence, Chacahoula Christmas Eve: 4:30 p.m. Christmas Day: 9:30 a.m. Confession: 3:30 p.m. every Saturday St. Lawrence the Martyr, Kraemer Christmas Eve: 4 p.m. Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 19, 6 p.m.

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Mass schedules cont. St. James Chapel, Choctaw Christmas Eve: 5:30 p.m. Christmas Day: 7:30 a.m. St. Louis, Bayou Blue Christmas Eve: 4, 6 p.m. Christmas Day: 8, 10:30 a.m. Confession: One hour before all weekend Masses Dec. 22-23, and Dec. 23 at 5 p.m. Advent Mission: Dec. 9, 5 p.m. Speaker, Deacon Patrick Riviere (confessions available) St. Lucy, Houma Christmas Eve: 7 p.m. Christmas Day: 8:15 a.m. Confession: Dec. 19, 4-5:30 p.m. and 6:30-7:30 p.m. Advent Mission: Nov. 26 and Dec. 3, 6:30-8 p.m. Speaker, Very Rev. Mark Toups, V.G. St. Luke the Evangelist, Thibodaux Christmas Eve: 7 p.m. Christmas Day: 10:30 a.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 20, 2-6 p.m. Advent Revival: Dec. 4-5, 7 p.m., Revivalist, Very Rev. Simon Peter Engurait, V.G.

St. Mary’s Nativity, Raceland Christmas Eve: 4, 6 p.m., Midnight Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Penance Service: Dec. 13, Advent Penance/Adoration, 6-8 p.m. Confession: “The Light is On for You,” Dec. 20, 6-8 p.m.; and before all weekend Masses St. Thomas Aquinas, Thibodaux Christmas Eve: 5, 7 p.m., Midnight Christmas Day: 9 a.m. Confession: 30 minutes before each Mass or by appointment Thanh Gia, Amelia Christmas Eve: 9 p.m. Christmas Day: 10 a.m. Vietnamese Community, Houma Christmas Eve: 8 p.m. Christmas Day: 10 a.m. Vietnamese Community, Larose Christmas Eve: 5 p.m. Christmas Day: 8 a.m. Vietnamese Community, Thibodaux Christmas Eve: 7 p.m. Christmas Day: 8 a.m. BC

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Doing without the things that most of us take for granted is a way of life for some families in our community. Jennifer Gaudet, associate director for Individual and Family Assistance for Catholic Charities Diocese of HoumaThibodaux, says that some children cannot go to social events, cannot expect certain toys for Christmas or their birthday, or even have a Christmas tree because their families cannot afford these things. At Christmas time, there are organizations such as Catholic Charities Adopt a Family program that strive to help children make their dreams come true. “Since I have an understanding of what it feels like to live in poverty conditions, I am extremely grateful to the businesses and families that call upon us to ‘adopt’ families for Christmas. I am not sure if they fully understand how deeply their gifts reach into the human soul. It is more than just a toy that is being given. A gift helps children’s self-esteem and lessens the financial stress the parents feel as the holiday season approaches,” says Gaudet. Gaudet sees children receive some things that go beyond the joy of receiving a toy. “This program is more than just giving and receiving. It is mainly about sharing one’s love and strength with someone else who feels tired and run down. By participating in this type of program, the strength of the loving Christ child becomes present to both parties and joy fills the air,” Gaudet says. 44 • Bayou Catholic • Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux • December 2018

How to Adopt a Family for Christmas Businesses and families who wish to interact directly with a family in need may participate in the Adopt a Family program. Once a group knows how much money they have available to assist a family, they need to decide how they wish to help – with food, badly needed items for the home, clothes for the family or toys for the children. Once this decision is made, the group may call Catholic Charities in Houma at (985) 8760490. Gaudet will help match the group with a needy family. Once a decision is made, the group will deliver the gifts to the family or if they prefer to remain anonymous, they can have Catholic Charities’ staff distribute the gifts to the adopted family. In lieu of purchasing gifts, cash donations may be made to the program by sending checks to Catholic Charities Christmas Drive, 1220 Aycock St., Houma, LA 70360. Any small donations will be combined and used to assist a family (or families depending on the amount received) with gifts when a donor does not wish to adopt an entire family themselves. Gaudet says that Catholic Charities cooperates with the Salvation Army, First United Methodist Church, and Faith Ministries in the area to ensure names of the needy are not duplicated and that children in need are helped. BC

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Christmas: Guest Columnist Father Paul Birdsall

There is something about sitting by a fireplace lined with stockings, sipping a cup of eggnog, turning up Frank Sinatra on Magic 101.9, and staring at the evergreen in the living room surrounded by colorfully wrapped gifts that gives rise to a special kind

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of comfort and happiness. No matter our age or background, Christmas is a time that is immediately recognizable, evokes a familiar and often needed emotional change in the daily routine of life, and serves as a reminder of the connections we have with friends and family. For many years Christmas has taken shape through expanding traditions, marketing strategies, cultural shifts, and materialism and consumerism. The preparation time has lengthened, the gifts and décor have become increasingly extravagant, and quite frankly people seem to look more forward to Christmas now than ever before. This is great, right? More

Christmas means more fun, right? So what is the problem? Well, truth be told, despite all of the increases I have mentioned, Christmas is also decreasing and losing popularity at an alarming rate at the same time. Wait! What? What are you talking about? How can Christmas both expand and decrease at the same time? I speak of course of the spirituality of Christmas. A very vast transformation has taken place in the way many view Christmas; this transformation has gone from viewing Christmas as a liturgical season, to now viewing it as a vacation. Less and less people in recent years seem to know the spiritual side of Christmas, how it came

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to be, and why we celebrate it. Gift giving, time off, and secularization, have taken priority in the lives of many over a true spiritual celebration and self-examination. Catch phrases like “Season’s Greetings” and “Happy Holidays” have replaced the traditional “Merry Christmas.” People line up for hours for special sales and hot items in the stores and spend tons of time shopping online, but spend next to no time praying and reflecting. Christmas programs often promote “sharing” and “generosity” in a very broad and generic sense rather than mentioning why it is we share and are generous during Christmas. Christmas Mass has become very secondary as people treat it more like a yearly tradition, satisfy Grandma time, or something to get over with quickly. Yes, my fellow Christian brothers and sisters, we are indeed losing the spirituality of Christmas. With all of this in mind, it is obvious we as Christians can be doing

something better. Something needs to change if we are to save Christmas as a spiritual season and tool for prayer and evangelization. But how? Is it too far gone already? I don’t think so; in fact, with the right enthusiasm and use of resources, I believe we can turn around the secular trend Christmas has taken with very little effort. The key to this lies with the very things that are pulling us away from a spiritual Christmas. We as Christian brothers and sisters must make the material spiritual. None of the aforementioned increases in materialism are bad in and of themselves; in fact, they can be very valuable tools to help us in our duty to promote the spirituality of Christmas. I have come up with five steps to help us Christians in embracing the spirituality of Christmas and promoting it to all that we encounter. Step One Teaching: Christmas is about a birth, not just any birth, but the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ. It is

not, however, merely a story, rather a living reality every day of our lives since the moment the Blessed Virgin Mary conceived Christ and carried him in her womb. Christmas is not only the celebration of a birthday; it is the celebration of the birth of our salvation. At the moment of Adam and Eve’s first sin, God put into place our salvation history, manifesting itself to us on Earth with the incarnation (God becoming man). With his glorious birth, our very faith began with Christ as the church and we as its members. We are responsible to teach this reality to the nations. Our mission as Christian faithful is to preach the Gospel message and evangelize the good news to all that we encounter. Thus, utilizing Christian programs that tell the Gospel story (movies, videos, books, audiobooks, the Gospel itself, etc.) rather than only resorting to secular Christmas programs, will certainly boost our spiritual knowledge this Christmas.

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Step Two Music and Décor: Sure, you can put out all the Christmas lights, Santa Clauses, trees, ornaments, and tacky blowups you can muster. Sure, you can sing Jingle Bells and Frosty the Snowman at the top of your voice while driving to City Park and Christmas caroling. There is no problem with any of these decorations or songs. As a matter of fact, I love them all; however, every single Christian household should include a Nativity scene in the decoration ensemble, likewise Christmas hymns of liturgical nature should be sung. I recommend making the Nativity a priority and the focal point of all decorations. If you want others to take the faith seriously, they must see it as priority. If your Nativity scene is hidden and secondary, it suggests your faith is hidden and secondary. Put Christ in the manger for all to see as a reminder of the true spiritual nature of Christmas. Remember to include hymns like Oh Holy Night, Silent Night, Oh Come Emmanuel, etc., to remind you constantly of the true joy of Christmas. These small steps will

add a special spiritual note to your Christmas celebrations. Step Three Christmas Wishes: Say “Merry Christmas!!!” ‘Nough said … . Step Four Gift Giving: Give till your heart’s content, there is no limit to generosity so long as it doesn’t exceed responsibility. It is important; however, in your gift giving that you remind those to whom you give of Christ’s love, the epiphany, and how the spirit of giving started with the generosity of the Three Wise Men. Include prayers with your gifts (write them down on notes and cards), express the need to pay generosity forward, and give to the poor this Christmas. Remember that our generosity should extend to all brothers and sisters throughout the world as a reminder to be thankful for all gifts given, spiritual and material. Taking these steps will increase your example to others, as well as serve to remind yourself of why we go through the trouble each year to find that perfect something for that special someone.

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Step Five Mass and Prayer: Why is it Grandma has to remind us of the Mass tradition each year? Are we not obligated to go to Mass every Sunday and on Holy Days of Obligation? Why does Christmas all of a sudden become that one time we just get it over with and satisfy a dated tradition? Mass is so much more important than this; it is a celebration of the Life of Christ every time we attend. Christmas is very special; in fact, “Christ Mass” is the very name Christmas comes from. We must not only make Mass a priority this Christmas, it must become the center of Christmas as it is the best way we can possibly reveal our devotion to Christ and his beloved birth. Lastly, pray and pray some more. Pray for your loved ones, pray for the impoverished, pray for the church, and pray in thanksgiving for salvation. If we can spend hours trying to buy a trinket in a store, we can give 10 extra minutes each day this Christmas season in prayer for the benefit of the world. Merry Christmas! And, God bless you this wonderful season! BC

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By MICHELLE BAUMAN Each year, the secular “Christmas season” seems to begin earlier and earlier, and each year, the focus seems to drift further and further from the birth of Christ. People become caught up in the commercial aspect of Christmas, or in a general sense of well-being and a vague sense of good cheer, while forgetting what we as Christians are actually celebrating. This year, the “Christmas season” seemed to start in mid-November. Malls were fully decorated and radio stations were playing non-stop Christmas music well before Thanksgiving. Of course, they completely forgot about Advent, our time of spiritual preparation for the coming of our Lord. The secular world has tried to completely remove Christ from Christmas, and they have succeeded to a large extent. But what I realized this year is that there are many Christians who are missing out on many of the

religious Christmas symbols that permeate our society this time of year. Without even realizing it, the secular world uses many Christian symbols, forgetting their religious origins. However, many Christians have forgotten as well. I remember learning all about Christmas symbolism in grade school, but it has been years since I actually paused to reflect on the Trinity while eating a candy cane. I had completely forgotten about most of what I had learned when I was younger, but in the last few weeks, I have been paying careful attention as I have watched people prepare for Christmas. I have been trying to remember what I learned back in first grade and identify Christian symbols in seemingly secular practices. Here is what I have found: Christmas Trees Probably one of the most common symbols of Christmas, the Christmas tree is an evergreen. It stands in stark

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contrast to the dead, brown, leafless trees of winter. It is ever green and ever alive, reminding us that we are created for everlasting life. The tree is often topped with a star or angel, reminding us of the Star of David and the angels that announced the birth of the Lord Jesus. Gifts The tradition of exchanging gifts is meant to remind us of the gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh offered by the three kings who traveled to visit the Christ Child. It also calls to mind Christ himself, God the Father’s ultimate gift to mankind. Wreaths Like the Christmas tree, the wreath is made from an evergreen, symbolizing our everlasting life in Christ. In addition, it is round, a circle with no beginning and no end, reminding us of God, who is eternal, never beginning or ending. Some wreaths, such as Advent wreaths, also include candles.

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The light from these candles represents Christ, the Light of the World, who comes to illuminate the darkness of our sinful lives. Candy Canes The shape of a candy cane is that of a shepherd’s crook, reminding us of Jesus, the Good Shepherd. Candy canes are colored white and red, symbolizing the blood shed by Christ and the purity of the grace and new life that he offers us. The candy cane has stripes woven around it, alternating groups of one and three. These remind us of the Holy Trinity – three persons in one God. Santa Claus The figure of Santa Claus originated in St. Nicholas, bishop of Myra, who was known for his generous and often anonymous almsgiving. St. Nicholas would give money to the most impoverished people in desperate circumstances. Over time, the bishop’s fur-trimmed garments became the outfit of Santa Claus, the anonymous

gift-giver whose visit children look forward to each Christmas. Christmas Carols The singing of Christmas carols was intended to remind us of the hymns of heavenly praise sung by the angels to announce the birth of Christ. Even some of these seemingly secular hymns have religious meanings. For example, the Twelve Days of Christmas was a song that was secretly used to teach children truths of the Catechism in a time when Christians were being persecuted for their religion. Each day of Christmas taught one important truth of the faith. (For instance, “four calling birds” refer to the four Gospel writers, calling out to the ends of the earth by proclaiming the Good News of salvation.) Red and Green The traditional Christmas colors of red and green remind us of Christ and his mission. Red symbolizes the blood he shed for our salvation, and green

symbolizes the new and everlasting life he offers us. These colors are found together in Christmas decorations and images such as the holly plant that adorn the Christmas season. As I spent time looking for meaning in the Christmas preparations around me, I found it much easier to focus on Advent and the approaching birth of Christ. So the next time you see Santa Claus at the mall, sitting under a Christmas tree, surrounded by wreaths and carolers, remember the reason for the season. Don’t allow the secular world to take Christ out of Christmas. Instead, let the decorations of the material world quietly remind you of the birth of Christ. If you remember their origins, you can help put the meaning back into the Christian symbols that are being forgotten. Without knowing it, the secular world will be helping you celebrate Christmas, preparing your mind and heart for Christ. BC

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s a m t s i Chr basket By CHERYL DICKOW As television commercials and store circulars clamor for your time and money this Christmas season, you may be feeling – like so many others – a yearning to get back to basics. To reclaim Christmas and its meaning, which isn’t all that difficult to do once you set your mind to it. One way to do just that is to make a commitment to give gifts that matter – gifts from the heart. Just as the Father gave his Son to us from the depths of his heart, so we can give gifts from the heart as well. Our own creations require that we take the time to explore our relationships. I have found that a perfect gift to consider for friends, teachers, co-workers, and family this year is a Christmas basket. Even if you aren’t clever with crafts, there is something wonderful about making Christmas baskets. A Christmas basket is something that you create with the recipient in mind, which means you can make a dozen of them and they will all be a bit different, or you can consider ways in which all your friends and family are similar and make the same basket for a dozen different people. Here are some easy tips to get you going for the perfect Christmas basket—and reclaim your personal relationships this Christmas.

Make a list of the people for whom you typically shop so that you know how many baskets to purchase. Your baskets can be any size and kind of container which then becomes a gift in and of itself (sewing basket, garbage can, pet bed, hat box, utility bucket— you get the idea) so when you take your list to the store, make sure you keep an open mind. Check out stores like TJ Maxx, JoAnn Fabrics and Big Lots. Include a Christmas movie or two. Maybe one that makes you cry and one that makes you laugh out loud.

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You can go with classics like George C. Scott’s A Christmas Carol or something where the theme just revolves around Christmas time like Family Man or New in Town. Just make sure the movies are age appropriate! If you bake, include some of your homemade goodies. Put them in new plastic containers so that the containers themselves are also gifts. To keep your goodies fresh you may want to purchase some Christmas cellophane bags so that the baked goods aren’t directly in the plastic containers.

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salts yourself, here is an easy recipe: You will need Epsom salt, essential oils, such as lavender or orange and food coloring (certainly optional); you will mix one cup of Epsom salt, 1/4 cup sea salt, add two-three drops of essential oils, and food coloring to your preference. Put the colored salt in jars. Decorate the jars with lace, sequins or beads. Then there’s always a new pair of scissors, a first aid kit, a nifty new level and measuring tape, or an in-a-pinch sewing kit. As you can see, creating Christmas baskets is a beautiful way to explore a person’s meaning in your life and to show that you care for him or her in a special way because you took the time—which in and of itself is a huge gift nowadays! Besides, it is balm for our spirits to be imaginative and get engaged in creating and giving gifts that come from the heart. BC

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Why the Christmas spirit has power beyond Christianity By TINA McCORMICK, Ph.D. Yes, indeed, it is the season of giving. But, most of all, it is the season of giving in to the stress and anxiety of buying just the right thing — or at least something — that will please the receiver, from the slightly estranged relative we’ll meet under the Christmas tree to the tyrannical child whose wishes haunt us through the crowded stores. We enjoy an overload of cheap Chinese merchandise, and sales of all kinds lure us into endless lines, parking lot rivalries, traffic gridlock, and late-night internet splurging. Then there’s the endless wrapping with stacks of paper, all to end in a messy pile within minutes. It is the things, material and tangible, we seem to care most about. As parents, how could we

possibly sacrifice first impressions of Santa’s generosity for the sake of “less is more”? But as hard as this question is to confront just a couple of days before Christmas, we should ask ourselves, for Christmas’ sake, “is more really more?” Shocking as it may be to those of us who find ourselves in a whirlwind of buying, propelled by a fear that we might not be giving enough, or not the right “thing,” the real Christmas is really more about receiving than it is about giving. And this message carries meaning for Christians and nonChristians alike. Christians celebrate the birth of Christ. Lest we forget, Christ was born in a manger, the humblest of settings, to tell us a few crucial things about love

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and mercy, and then to die on the cross to save the world. His birth had little to do with the material overload that the celebration of Christmas has become. Indeed, the three Magi brought gifts. But before joining in the shopping race, be aware of the symbolism of those gifts. Gold was a gift befit of kings, frankincense was the source of light for prayer, and myrrh was to embalm the dead. The Magi knew that no gift could ever suffice to honor a God who lowered himself to be with us in human form. Their visit, while bearing gifts, was a gesture of welcoming and receiving rather than giving. And this is where any person, Christian or not, can recognize the significance of the true Christmas gift. The Christmas story has

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power beyond the Christian faith. The story of Christ’s birth in Bethlehem is the story of a gift, of a God becoming man to give himself to all. For Christians, Christmas is a call to accept this gift. Christmas calls Christians to be generous by opening their hearts to the love contained in the message of the incarnation. Yet, this gift has strings attached and shows just how humbling a true gift can be. God’s gift through Christ humbles the faithful and points to their human shortcomings. Such “humbling” can occur in many ways. A guest who rejects the host’s generosity might not do so out of true modesty, but rather, because he lacks generosity of heart. It is a generous act to accept the kindness of others. By accepting, we acknowledge a need; we acknowledge our longing for acceptance and love, and we indicate to those giving that they have something to give. Without such generosity of an open

heart to receive love, we are inept in love. Truly accepting and appreciating others, no matter the strings attached, is much harder than checking off a shopping list. True generosity means patience, appreciation, sometimes humor, vulnerability, and always a willingness to receive. Rejecting someone’s kindness is the opposite of generosity as it bars us from appreciation and renders us incapable of giving. No cheap material trick can free us from the obligations of true generosity. Let’s not allow that cheap trinket to come between our prickly relative and us! Rather, let’s pay attention to the value of the person, and discover what gives meaning to life. Let’s acknowledge that the “spirit of Christmas” should be just as much about receiving as it is about giving. Let’s be kind and cheerful, rather than stressed and obsessed with material things. BC

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By ANTHONY BUONO This is the time of year when Christians are most focused on the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph. Reflection on the Holy Family is more than just the Nativity scene. Naturally, Christmas focuses on the birth of the Savior, and Mary and Joseph play key roles in this most important event. The Child born in Bethlehem in a stable is, no doubt, what Christmas is all about. But there is a reason the church incorporates a feast day of the Holy Family within the days of Christmas. There is much to reflect on in addition to the historic event of Jesus’ birth. The church wants us to have this opportunity. For singles, the Holy Family represents what they hope to have in their own lives; a loving, caring spouse and children. Holy means to be set apart. They are the “Holy” Family because of the unique purpose each was called to do together. What can we learn from the Holy Family as we endeavor to be married and have a family? Consider the parenting of Mary and Joseph, and the environment they created for their Child to be raised in. Just as Jesus had no need of baptism, yet allowed himself to be baptized as an example to us, he had no need to be formed as a person by his earthly parents, yet submitted himself to them in all things. It is in this submission to Mary and Joseph that he was full prepared for his mission of saving the world. We start out as an infant and are completely at the mercy of our parents

to form us into the person we were created to be. Without good parenting, we are at risk of not becoming who we were meant to be, but rather some distorted version of that person. Thus, if we are neglected, abused, unloved, poorly educated, misguided, or many other things that fall under bad parenting, we do not turn out to be what society would call a “good person,” nor what the church would call a “Christian.” Parenting matters in the formation of every child to becoming a healthy, virtuous, civil adult of good character. The parents we have and the environment we grow up in play major roles in our becoming the person we are as an adult. Therefore, it is no small matter to choose a spouse whom we believe will make a good parent, and who desires to establish a home environment that will give children the best opportunity to become the person they are each created to be by God. And you should

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be this person too, for it is the kind of person your future spouse is seeking. Here is where we can turn to the Holy Family for a universal example. The home of Jesus, Mary and Joseph was a peaceful, harmonious home, full of joy and simplicity of life. It was a stable environment, where mutual love and respect was a priority. Jesus was taught normal things and guided by his mother and father. His human will was developed to conform with God’s will. There was no place for anger, aggression, and dominance of one over another in their home. Jesus was able to grow up with real freedom of selfdiscovery. Jesus had two parents who were on the same page. They both loved God and their religion was central to their lives. The teachings of their religion governed their daily actions. They taught their son to love God and follow the teachings of their faith. Mary and Joseph were consistent and without controversy when it came to

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everything important. Therefore, a husband and wife should be striving after these same things. It is important to find someone who believes in peace and is a person of good will. It is so critical to a happy and healthy home. It’s critical to authentic love, which should always (and I mean always) be seeking peace and resolve. A person of good will has the other’s best interest in mind. Even if there are times of conflict, the end result should be a desire to make peace. The home should be where love and forgiveness are lived. From the environment of peace and good will comes, well-adjusted children who make the transition into

adulthood with a firm sense of who they are, and the confidence to seek out what it is they are to do. They were free to become the person they were created to be. Their parents did not try to control them in their transition, but guided them through with the freedom to discover themselves. The environment a couple raises their children in influences who they become. It’s a concerning thing to see households where everyone is so busy “doing,” and parents who have their children busy achieving and participating. It is an environment that is fast paced and cluttered with activity, anxiety, pressure, excessive entertainment, etc. There is a place for these things, but we must be careful about the home environment being counter-productive. We don’t know if Jesus was ever on the honor role, or won awards in athletics, etc. But we do know he led a humble, simple, and predictable life obedient to Mary and Joseph. The

message seems to be that what is important in the vocation to marriage and life as a family is simplicity, and is very attainable for all. It is a serenity that comes from within with God at the heart. Above all, the Holy Family prayed. Therefore, a couple should be praying for each other, as well as with each other. Without this cornerstone, the entire structure falls. Those who believe in peace and are people of good will are definitely people of prayer. So make sure you consider the prayer life of the person you are considering for marriage. St. Augustine defined peace as “the tranquility of order.” To have an ordered life with God as the head and center of all things will ensure the peace that is so critical to living the meaning of Christmas all year round. May the peace and good will that was at the heart of the life of the Holy Family be the priority of all who seek love, marriage, and family life. BC

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