Disfunkshion Magazine Winter 2014 Issue (Vol.19) by Hugette Montesinos

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isney star Olivia Holt, mostly known for her role as Lindy on the television show I Didn’t Do It, has been entertaining since she was a young girl. “Growing up, I had this crazy love for films or plays and wardrobe or beauty,” Holt said. Hailing from Mississippi, Holt had to give up the life she had always known for a chance at acting in Los Angeles. Although this change in scenery was difficult, Holt found it to be a positive experience. “Sacrificing your childhood is a lot, but this journey has taught me so much, so far. I have evolved as an actress and I’ve learned to chase my dreams and embrace everything it comes with,” said Holt. While Holt is expanding her career as an actress, she is also taking advantage of her time on the set to learn more about production. She has been careful to pay attention to the behind-the-scenes workings of a television show, such as lighting, camera operations, and gaining insight on directing. “I’m not only gradually growing as an actress but I’m learning new things in other fields as well,” Holt said. She is also very interested in emerging onto the music scene and making a name for herself as an artist. “Music has been a part of my life since I was a little one and I wanna share my stories and my music with people,” said Holt. She hopes to build a music career and perhaps try some musical roles. Being not only a female, but also a teen in a harsh industry, Holt has been faced with the usual challenges. She shared some words of advice to other actors trying to make it in the limelight. “Don’t let anyone tell you you’re not good enough. Being in the entertainment industry you have to deal with a lot of rejection. Always believe in yourself and try your hardest to keep that beautiful face up,” Holt encouraged. Her show on Disney has been very successful and showcases Holt’s talent for acting. She wants to keep pursuing her career in acting and working on other shows and films. Be sure to keep an eye out for this fresh talent and what is yet to come for the young star.

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Florida NationaUlni versity Breaking boundaries through education and philanthropy... By: Ingrid Hoyos

btaining a college degree has never been more important and in today’s competitive work field having that diploma may be the advantage you need to land the job of your dreams. The path to success starts with the right education and if you’re looking for a place to get started you will feel right at home at Florida National University. This small private institution has been opening doors to the future since 1982. With flexible scheduling and an intimate classroom setting, FNU conveniently offers a variety of associate, bachelor’s and master’s degree programs both on-campus and online. As the first and only university in the city of Hialeah, FNU is accredited by the Southern Association of Colleges and Schools Commission on Colleges. The story of Florida National University is the quintessential story of the “American dream”. Its founder, Dr. José Regueiro, was a dentist and former political prisoner in Cuba who moved to Miami with a vision to create an institution where anyone could prepare for a better future. With hard work and dedication his dream came true in the early 80’s when he established FNU along with co-founders María Cristina Regueiro and Omar Sánchez. Its local success allowed them to quickly expand the curriculum and open two more campuses. Dr. Regueiro passed away in 2009 but his legacy of commitment to education lives on in the halls and classrooms of FNU. In the past thirty years approximately 23,500 students have graduated from this growing university. But what is it about FNU that students love so much? Well for one, they can rest assured that the faculty and staff are truly dedicated to their professional development. “The warm greeting by all the staff immediately made me feel welcomed and part of a family. When travelling internationally to pursue studies or work it is always reassuring to find somewhere that is hospitable and that is the atmosphere I found. I felt as though I had found a second home at FNU,” says international student Kimberley Cumberbatch who traveled from Barbados to complete a Respiratory Therapy review program. The small classroom setting is definitely a plus among the student body. It provides them with an intimate learning environment where they can receive personalized instruction and build better relationships with their peers. Also, the flexible courses are perfect

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for those with demanding work schedules and family responsibilities like former student Mary Gómez who studied evenings and weekends while working full-time. “My education at FNU helped open doors that allowed me to pursue my dream of attending law school. The professors were instrumental in helping me find my way. I know that I would not be the successful professional I am today, seeking election to the Miami-Dade County Circuit Court, if it weren’t for FNU.”

FNU’s online degree programs are of great benefit to our service members and their spouses abroad. As a long standing member of the Servicemembers Opportunity Colleges (SOC), FNU takes pride in facilitating higher education to those brave men and women whose locations and time constraints make a traditional college experience difficult to complete. Courses are approved by the Department of Veterans Affairs and eligible members of the Army, Navy, Marines, Air Force, and Coast Guard on active duty can apply for Military Tuition Assistance. To promote a well-rounded education, FNU recently created its first basketball team: The Conquistadors. The up and coming team has been making strides on and off the court. “Our accomplishments stretch far beyond the game of basketball. We ended the season with a 10-18 record yet the FNU Conquistadors have impacted the community in more ways than just basketball,” says head coach Scott Schmidt. The Conquistadors are heavily involved in community service. Along with the Volunteers of America (VOA) they helped build a playground, painted a housing complex for veterans and the homeless and served Thanksgiving dinner at VOA Florida. FNU is always looking for opportunities to give back to the South Florida community and has been a regular contributor to organizations such as Camillus House, His House Children’s Home, Voices for Children Foundation and many others. In addition to their philanthropic efforts, FNU offers a number of scholarship opportunities and job placement assistance to students and alumni to better their chances of finding employment in their chosen fields of study. So check out FNU.edu for opportunities that might interest you. Afterall, what’s better than getting a rad education while having some fun in the sun?

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What’s up with all the double standards in the workplace? By: Caelan Hughes

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hen it comes to being in charge, women are often less portrayed as a “boss” and more as just being “bossy.” We aren’t just talking about high-powered CEO’s here; throughout our media and culture there is an obvious double standard when it comes to women in power and the female population being treated as inferior, simply based on gender. This dates to the creation of the “patriarchy,” or the social system wherein men run the show and women are merely attendants. Now a lot has changed since the days where a woman’s hand in marriage came along with a cow, farmlands and full rights to all three of those things, but we are not out of the metaphorical woods (or farm?) yet. This inherent sexism is everywhere!

In her MTV documentary My Time Now, female rapper and MC Nicki Minaj explains, “When I am assertive, I’m a (you know what). When a man is assertive, he’s a boss.” She explains that there are no negative connotations behind a man being a “boss,” but that women aren’t looked at in the same regard – they are subject to a double standard. Women are expected to be kind, courteous and thankful for their success as if it wasn’t earned. Minaj then makes a comparison between Martha Stewart and Donald Trump, both famous billionaires in their own right, but explains that Stewart will never receive the same treatment, but will get scrutinized while Trump receives praise and admiration for doing the same job.

So let’s get this straight: women who have the same high power jobs as men are seen as weak and inferior. But it gets better, if you flip the scenario around and a man does what is typically known as a “woman’s job” i.e. domestic jobs, nursing jobs etc., he is also seen as weak and inferior. There is literally no winning in patriarchy. Despite having skilled jobs and high statuses, women are put in a position where they must prove their worth and assets to their man through arbitrary domestic skills like cooking and cleaning all while being as devoted as possible. It’s as if we’ve never moved past the 1950’s “Stepford wife” mentality! I’d like to think that in a healthy relationship there is a back and forth. Sure, there are things that neither party likes to do, but the only point of a relationship is scratching each other’s back. It’s crazy that on sitcoms like Full House the plot line of “man raising baby” is used and still supposed to be funny. Wait what? Men can’t raise children! They don’t know how to clean! They don’t know how to put on a diaper! What is this insanity!?! They use these tropes like romantic comedies use the trope of the successful woman who has everything she could ever want… but a man. Stereotypes like (the you know what) are insulting to women who prefer to live single, while calling a man ‘soft’ is degrading to both men who’d like to raise children and anyone else that doesn’t fit in the gender binary. It’s 2014 friends, they’ve invented the dorito-taco! I think it’s time we move past segmented gender roles and their expectations in our society.

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FIGHT Resistance & Let Go of

Fear

By: Cate Emond

n The War of Art, Steven Pressfield states that “most of us have two lives. The life we live, and the unlived life within us. Between the two stands resistance ... it prevents us from achieving the life God intended when he endowed each of us with our own unique genius.” So what does that mean exactly? Basically, resistance is that invisible, insidious force that acts as a barrier between you and your dreams. Resistance is powerful, non-discriminatory (meaning, if you have a body, you`ve experienced it), and something I`d been dealing with for years.

Ever since I was a kid I’d dreamed of being an actress; of being on stage in glittery costumes, and on screens around the world. I also wanted to be the one to write the stories. In 2007 I was all set to chase after that dream, saving up all summer to move to Toronto, one of 3 main cities in Canada it made the most sense to live as an actor (the other two being Montreal and Vancouver). I arrived in September, a green-at-the-gills small town girl, and promptly left two months later. Life happened. I met a guy that summer (of course) and he quickly became my first boyfriend and, even more quickly, my first ex. In hindsight he, and all the drama that went with that relationship, was just another form of resistance – a distraction – and I used my broken heart as an excuse to get back home. I couldn`t admit to myself that it was fear that made me retreat.

Fast forward 7 years, and I`m still amazed at the amount of selfdestruction one girl can cause in the name of resistance. If any of you are familiar with the following: quitting one job after another out of boredom or a sense of “something`s missing” (hint, something probably is); multiple one night stands, issues with alcohol and drugs, money troubles, destroyed friendships and a propensity for drama – it`s all resistance. And all of it prevents you from becoming the person you truly are, and living the life you were meant to live. At some point I decided enough was enough. I could continue on a path that would lead to further self-sabotage and unhappiness, or I could get my act together and choose to live that unlived life within me and see where it goes. Last November I finally found the courage to admit that I had chosen the wrong path after two years of studying law and working a “safe” (but boring) office job. With my husband`s support, I quit in order to pursue the long-lost artistic dreams I’d always had, one of which is reviving a dream film project I had set aside out of fear. I’m not unique or special. We all deal with fear and resistance. But you do have a choice. It’s still a struggle – resistance and fear will always be there – but since making that choice, I have never been happier, and I haven’t looked back.

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A Single Girl’s Guide to

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his is an invitation to embark on one of the most memorable adventures you’ll ever have! But before we get into all the wondrous ways we can make the most out of this thing called life, I gotta get something off my chest. Any girl who’s over the age of, say… 23, and not married, will know exactly what I’m talking about. Our society puts an immeasurable amount of pressure on us single girls today. The questions we get are, quite frankly, ridiculous. My favorite being, “How are you still single?!” Although, I know it’s usually meant to be a compliment, the message it really communicates is “What the heck is wrong with you?” I wish I kept count of how many times I’ve been asked this. Despite all my chances to think of a clever rebuttal, I still don’t have one. It surprises me every time. Honestly, I don’t even think it deserves an answer. I’d much rather allow my life to speak for itself: “I’m happily enjoying this unmarried adventure to the fullest, thank you very much!” Oh, how I wish they asked us questions like, “What are your dreams and how do you want your life to make a difference?” Imagine if we put as much emphasis on finding our purpose in life as we do in finding our spouse. What if we looked at being single as a present rather than a punishment? What if we began to celebrate our relationship status and look at it, not as a time of deficiency, but as a time in life when we find out who we truly are, rather than merely trying to find the one? What if… I know it’s scary, but let’s all say it together. “Single”. That wasn’t so bad was it? The root of the word in Hebrew means, “to separate or distinguish; to make great or wonderful.” This is our time to make our lives great and prepare for a wonderful future! This is also the time to break the habit of thinking we have to drudge through this season so we can get to the good stuff... ya know, the relationship that will “change your circumstances;” the marriage that will “heal

your heart;” the man who will “validate you and in whom you will find your identity.” Sound extreme? Good. Because it is. Although it’s a reality for some, it’s extremely unhealthy to think this way. Lord knows I’ve had to battle through these same thoughts. For years, everything I did was to prepare to be a wife. I always had a plan to make the casual run in happen, and I always had my soulmate radar set to find my tall, dark, and handsome lumber jack. (My type in a nutshell.) But, you won’t find healing in another human being, so don’t look for a boyfriend or husband to fix you. I only found complete joy when I freed myself from that frame of mind. Let me be clear, I long to be married one day and make lots of babies (and by lots I mean 3.) I know that will be one of the biggest blessings of my life, however, that’s not the only blessing I desire. First and foremost I want to live a beautiful life to reflect the beauty of Heaven. When I learned not to hate being single, suddenly my life had more “life” in it. I decided to live with gratitude instead of an attitude. The more you’re in a state of gratitude, the more you will attract things to be thankful for! So, let’s re-write the definition of “single,” shall we? And who was the wise guy to call it “solitaire, boring, lonely, even insignificant?” My definition would read:

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sin.gle /siNGgel/ adjective-noun-verb This is how I’m choosing to live my single life. Will you join me? Think of it as an epic road trip, in a lil’ red convertible with the top down, hair blowing in the wind, feeling wild and free! And like any good road trip, we need the perfect playlist. Here are the top 5 songs every single girl should have on her “loving life” soundtrack!

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1.“Wonderful” by Gary Go

“We are all miracles we are wonderful.” I’ve been a makeup artist for 17 years. I’ve seen thousands of faces up close and personal, without makeup on, first thing in the morning. I know beauty isn’t flawless. Then why are we still striving for the impossible? We aim for perfection and when we miss the mark, we beat ourselves up. So what if you have cellulite- 90% of us do! And god forbid you have a breakout, those darn hormones! We have to stop our negative thinking and inner “fat talk”. We become what we believe and we believe by hearing, even if it’s that broken record playing inside our heads. Beauty begins in your soul and works it’s way outward, so stop trying to make yourself beautiful from the outside in. It just doesn’t work that way. I want you to repeat after me. “I am a woman of strength, compassion, confidence, and beauty”. Repeat daily and learn to believe it. Let’s allow ourselves the freedom to nurture our beauty, and grow our confidence. Despite what the media may be shouting, it is perfectly fine to be imperfect. It may not happen over night, but once we’re confident in our own skin, we can celebrate the beauty in not only ourselves, but in other women. And let me tell you, the gift of sisterhood adds so much joy to your journey! Don’t let jealousy or a competitive spirit keep you from experiencing this joy, and please don’t ever let anyone cause you to question your beauty. “Don’t let it pass you by, look yourself in the eye, say I am wonderful.” Well said, Gary Go!

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“Happy!” Just saying the word makes me smile! I love the quote by Audrey Hepburn, “The prettiest girls are the happiest girls.” I truly believe pretty and happy go hand in hand, not because have more reason to be happy. It’s that girls who are happy are magnetic! Don’t buy into the lie that happy people aren’t grounded. You can be real about the painful moments in life and still decide to look at the bright side. I’m reminded of the 2 brutal years I had to wear a back brace for scoliosis. Imagine metal bars down the front and back of your torso, and around your neck. It was incredibly painful, uncomfortable, and made me feel, at times, very insecure. I had to wear that darn thing for 23-hours a day. I even had to quit ballet

lessons because that meant I’d be out of the brace for too long. There were tears for days. But, I remember thinking, I’d rather put all my focus into that 1 hour of freedom, than the other 23. Would I dance my little heart out in the living-room-turneddance-room? Would I swim? Or would I just go for a walk in a cute lil’ tank top? I chose happiness instead of bitterness, and counted blessings instead of my problems. Don’t ever forget, it is a choice; one you can make at any moment, and one you must make every day. Surround yourself with the things that bring you happiness. For me it’s music, quotes, scriptures, pictures, flowers, sisters, babies, friends, laughter, and sprinkle donuts. Sometimes it’s just a healthy dose of Vitamin D. So let’s soak up some sun today and remember “It’s not having what you want, it’s wanting what you’ve got.” Got it!

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If you could see inside my heart, you’d be sure to find pieces of Tokyo, Italy, NYC, and Honolulu. My travels around the globe have added so much to my life, it’s hard to put into words. These expeditions have grown my love for humanity in ways I couldn’t have imagined. What my eyes have seen and my heart has felt still moves me to tears. I know first hand a melody knows no language barrier, neither does a warm hug. It’s not just the beaches or the cathedrals that have changed my perspective, it’s the substance of the human heart. No matter what language you speak, our hearts want the same thing: to love and to be known. Once upon a time, I hiked the Via dell’ Amore trail along the coast of Cinque Terre, Italy. The glimmering light at sunset perfectly illustrated the magic of the legend; a legend that inspires lovers from all over the world to place a key-lock along the path and toss the key into the waves, never to resurface again, symbolizing their forever love. To see thousands of locks, rusted and worn, is to see the physical interpretation of devotion… and that moment moved me. When you hear people talking about how they’ve caught the traveling bug, it’s because of moments like those. Travel has taught me to live with an outward approach, and that has been so healing. No longer do I look at life with selfish eyes; my soul now craves significance, beyond self-wants. How can I help people? How can I use my passion to move mountains? I pray that every single girl can experience the kind of growth that comes from traveling. You don’t necessarily need to cross an ocean or even get on a plane, but if you can explore beyond your own backyard, you will reap beautiful benefits. Let us look beyond ourselves and earnestly ask, “What can I give to the world around me?” Live out your answer, and don’t forget to collect your frequent flyer miles! “This is gonna be a good life!”

4.“Brave”

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by Sara Bareilles

“Maybe there’s a way out of the cage where you live maybe one of these days you can let the light in. Show me, how big your brave is!” This is one of my ultimate feel-good-and-drive-downthe-coast type songs, so of course it has to be on our “loving life” soundtrack. And you better believe my hand is in the air singing along, especially to the lyric, “Show me, how big your brave is!!” Yes girl, show me! In fact, don’t stop there, show the world! Being brave isn’t just for your benefit, it benefits the people around you. You can’t be brave without fear, but don’t let fear tell you you’re not good enough. Fear is a liar, and a bully! Stand up for yourself. Within the walls of your comfort zone, you will find comfort. Just outside the walls you’ll find everything else; growth, strength, purpose, adventure, and healing. I’ve heard it put this way, “The harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing.” As I look back on my life, I recognize that the opportunities that elevated my career, and the conversations that led to true intimacy, were always scary at first. If I hadn’t pushed past my comfort zone, I would be missing out on a whole lotta life. A couple days before I did my first beauty segment on LIVE TV for VH1, I was just a bit nervous… okay, I was freaking out!! A friend had some soothing advice. He reminded me to “do the uncomfortable until it becomes comfortable.” That helped to put the focus on how I would be inspiring other women to feel beautiful, and not just obsessing over my own actions. The beauty segment featured both my sisters as models, and my good friend as the host of the show. Without a doubt, it goes down as one of the most memorable days of my career! I’m so thankful I didn’t allow fear to interfere. I don’t regret any of the times I’ve pushed past my comfort zone, even when it wasn’t a complete success. (Like the night in NYC, when I got up and sang, on a whim, with a pianist to a room full of Broadway performers. What was I thinking?) None the less, I knew it was strengthening my brave muscle, and the more you work it out, the stronger it will be.

5.“Dare You to Move” by Switchfoot

“Everybody’s watching you now everybody waits for you now what happens next…”

I went to FIDM, a fashion college in Los Angeles, to study visual communications only to learn that I wanted to be a motivational speaker. Believe me, that was not my original idea. There was this class I had to take in my final quarter before graduation, and I was dreading it for dear life. “Effective Speaking”. It might as well have said, “Naked Yoga!” I explored ways to get around it, but it was hopeless. I had to take it. The first time I had to give a speech I was petrified, (again fear reared its predictable head). I prayed and prayed for courage but I could only see it ending in disaster. As weeks passed by, I began to open up to my class. I shared my memories with them. We laughed, we even cried, we were vulnerable with each other, and those became some of my most life-changing moments. With the support of my professor and mentor Mr. Foat, (thank you!) I pushed past my insecurities and began to realize my God given purpose. I had a message to share with the world. My life could mean something. I was capable of speaking words that could touch the hearts of others. In this classroom I learned lessons of courage and creativity. Mr. Foat recommended we find a song we could listen to before we speak, one that made us feel alive, and to play it as often as needed. The song I chose was “Dare you to Move” The lyrics: “The tension is here, between who you are and who you could be, between how it is and how it should be. I dare you to move, I dare you to pick yourself up off the floor. I dare you to move like today never happened before.” So, girls, I leave you with this; I dare you to move. I dare you to push past what intimidates you and make something spectacular out of your life. I truly believe your single season is a rare treasured time to develop your character and nurture your passions. Single or not, you are never alone. You are loved by the source of all love. “You are only destined to become one person – the person you decide to be,” the person you were designed to be. Let’s crank up the volume, outstretch our arms and fall deeply in love with this good, good LIFE!

-Jessica Hoffman

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ust in time for summer’s bright sunny days, RAZŌN, a Miami based eyewear brand is providing us all with timeless shade for our eyes with their new collection. These unisex sunglasses are not only stylish with their carefully crafted exotic wood frames but are also helping the world see better with their contribution of prescription eyeglasses for three people in developing countries for every pair sold. Partnered up with global eye-care organization Eyejusters, RAZŌN is helping us “See the RAZŌN”,or reason, which is the English translation of the brand’s name and their inspiration for the creation of the company. RAZŌN sunglasses capture the Miami culture, vibrancy and lifestyle with a flamingo engraved on each pair of its ebony, bamboo and rosewood frames, so now you can take a piece of Miami wherever you may go.

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hether you recognize Audrina Patridge from the hit MTV reality show The Hills, her own show Audrina, Dancing With the Stars, or from one of the countless magazine covers she’s graced, this doeeyed brunette beauty is everywhere. But did you know this former homecoming princess currently hosts NBC’s weekly national lifestyle show 1st Look, or that her latest guilty pleasure is crème brulee?

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Her down-to-earth cool-girl demeanor is not a façade. She is as sweet and humble as portrayed on the countless shows she’s starred in. Coming from a modest background, she explains that she had no clue what to expect when signing up for The Hills, “Truthfully, I had ZERO idea what I was in for. I don’t think any of us could have imagined the success of The Hills or the loyalty of the fans. It changed my life!” She feels grateful for the opportunities she’s received from the show and humbled every time fans come up to her. Despite the fact that her reality television days are over, she explains that her life feels different without cameras around, “For starters, there are times when I’m driving, or going to use the restroom and I catch myself checking to see if my mic pack is turned off. I suppose that’s a good habit, especially in LA – to be conscious of what you say and do, because you never know who will be listening.” She also notes that living drama-free is much better for her mind, body, and soul, “It’s so much healthier to be able to let my life play out without reality producers seeking ratings.”

Other habits that keep her centered are her morning cups of peach ginger tea and her weekly bible study, which she takes on the road with her via Skype. And with her latest gig being the new host of NBC’s travel show 1st Look, she’s able to find inspiration all over the country, “Before 1st Look, I hadn’t had the opportunity to travel within the states much, and now I am checking places off my bucket list left and right. There are so many amazing places to visit!” With a diverse career involving salsa dancing, horror films and national PETA campaigns, Audrina is all about seizing the day, “I think life is all about your experiences, the people you meet and the adventures you embark upon.” She explains that you can’t take yourself too seriously in life or let yourself be defined by a stereotype.

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Audrina is like a big sister when it comes to advice, explaining to young girls who want to get into the industry that you must have a hide-like thick skin, and that you need to be comfortable with who you are. You need to know yourself and trust yourself because “it’s very easy to get lost in this jungle.” The jungle being a hypercritical society where celebrities are looked at under a microscope, which she deals with as gracefully as you’d imagine. “I honestly don’t go looking for it. It’s not a priority of mine to see what the latest gossip is. I usually find out my gossip from the TMZ paparazzi when they pop up at the airport, or when I’m leaving the hair salon. They’ll ask me a question like, ‘Hey Audrina how do you feel about Madonna’s arm pit hair?’ and I’m like, ‘really? Um…’ LOL Come on!” She also cites Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard’s movement to stop paparazzi from photographing celebrity kids as a very important priority, explaining that kids deserve privacy. Another issue that touches this dream-girl’s heart is women who are suffering from emotional or physical abuse. Explaining that it makes her so incredibly sad, “Some of the most beautiful women and girls I have met suffer from an abuse relationship and I’m shocked at how common it is.”

If she could tell her fans anything it would be that she hopes she can inspire each of them in some way. She explains that she tries to be a good role model, and tries to better herself each day. But she doesn’t let that pressure weigh too heavy on her shoulders, acknowledging that she’s only human and she’s still evolving as a person. “I have the best fans. The ones I have had the pleasure of chatting with are so sweet and they make it fun for me.” And don’t be scared, she made it a point to explain that she is always willing to say hello and take a selfie with you. So if you ever see her, go over and say hi! Whether it’s gracing the cover of DISfunkshion Magazine or filming 1st Look somewhere around the country, Audrina is practically the energizer bunny, not stopping until she’s satisfied with the work she’s done, not only for herself, but also for others. And if you are still not convinced that she’s a regular human just like us, know that she also makes it her number one priority to stop at the In-N-Out drive through the second she arrives in LA.

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Yissel Cabrera

issel Cabrera, more commonly known as DJ YSL to musicenthusiasts, was introduced to many different genres of music at an early age. Born and raised in Miami, the city shaped her as an artist. In her youth Yissel started, “collecting vinyls like comic cards, and so the love affair began!” She is a big fan of the arts in every form and also works as a freelance writer for numerous publications. Yissel draws her influence from fellow artists like DJ AM and works to blend her music in a way that is interesting to all listeners. Being a female in the music industry, Yissel strives to be known not for her looks and appearance, but her talent and sound as a DJ. She still has room for growth and plans to work as a DJ for years to come.

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Fab Silverstein

ab Silverstein, designer and creative director at La Belle Rebelle Swim, had always considered fashion as a possible career path. After she was introduced to Australian brand We Are Handsome she decided to pursue a career in swimwear. She wanted to create unique pieces that she hadn’t seen on the market. Fab now works for La Belle Rebelle to design vibrant bikinis with eye-catching prints. She enjoys working in Miami, a city with a blossoming fashion market with endless opportunities for designers. She hopes to make her way into the Asian fashion scene and possibly design swimwear for men in the near future.

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fter interning with Zoo Miami in the public relations department, Jessica Wade Pfeffer decided to take her interest in PR to the next level. She acquired a degree in public relations at the University of Central Florida and quickly made a name for herself in the world of PR. She created her own public relations company, Jessica Wade Inc., known to be, “an innovative communications agency.” Their main goal is to develop a strong relationship with their client base to create successful publicity campaigns. Her Miami lifestyle has allowed her to live a balanced life, full of work, but also relaxation. Jessica is extremely happy with the foundation she has established through Jessica Wade Inc. and she has made large strides in building her company.

Jasmine Negron

ctivist Jasmine Negron became fully aware of the issue of human trafficking in 2011 through the International Justice Mission. She was shocked to learn the immensity of the problem and wanted to take charge. Shortly thereafter, she began her role as an activist. Jasmine volunteered at the Passion 2012 Conference and started educating people about human trafficking. In 2013 she became a volunteer coordinator/counselor for the Life of Freedom Center in Miami. There she recruits mentors/volunteers, conducts workshops, and works with actual human trafficking victims. Jasmine hopes to pursue missionary work and advance in her efforts against human trafficking.

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resh out of college, Amanda Abella started writing a career and personal finance blog. Inspired by Gabrielle Bernsteinâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s group coaching course, Amanda decided to start speaking publicly, teaching skills and methods featured in her blog. Her love of writing and life coaching led her to compile her story in her own book, Make Money Your Honey: A Spirited Entrepreneurâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Guide to Having a Love Affair with Work and Money. She currently holds coaching sessions for those interested in her steps towards success in matters of career and finance. Her passion for life coaching has opened up many doors and Amanda continues to inspire and inform.

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Priscila Montemor

riscila Montemor is your go-to for behind the scenes Miami entertainment. Currently working as an executive producer at The Beach Channel, she oversees all aspects of production. The channel focuses on Miami lifestyle, covering everything from food to leisure as well as major events in the city. She loves working in Miami, a culturally diverse area that she draws inspiration from. Priscila has always had an interest in entertainment and her position allows her to do what she loves. In addition to producing for The Beach Channel, she has also hosted Art Basel and Fashion Week in Miami for the past two years. Priscila is living her dream as a producer and she is eager to learn more from the industry.

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for a happy Marriage By: Nicki Garcia

owadays, coming home from a beautiful wedding always makes me giddy and quite content with life. However, there was a time (before meeting my love) that the sight of a nuptial-invite frustrated and saddened me. I wanted so much to be blissfully in love and meet my soul mate… I yearned to be a wife and I deeply craved what “those couples” had. Yet, the more I wanted it, the more distant it seemed to be.

Ladies and gents, these days, I can confidently declare it was ALL WORTH the wait…Being married to this gorgeous man snoozing next to me is a dream come true- it’s my heaven on earth- everyday. So what makes our relationship so blissfully successful? The answer is easy, we live to please one another. But more specifically, here are some guidelines we live by to keep our peaceful relationship intact.

Respect At the heart of our coupledom is such an honest sense of respect. I value the hub’s thoughts and opinions, as he does mine. Quite frankly, I think he’s the smartest man in the world…so I involve him in all my decisions. You see, I never ever want to hurt this precious man. I wish to protect him from any harm, including the hurtful repercussions my actions may cause. Thus, I watch my tongue and strive to communicate in a tender manner; I value him and respect him for the man he was before I met him, the husband he now is and everything he wishes to be in the future. The feeling is mutual…with a healthy dose of respect, everything comes down a little smoother…It’s that spoonful of sugar mentality. Laugh, Love and then Laugh some more:

We are always laughing with each other and at each other. I often find myself acting silly just to hear the hubs chuckle…it makes me happy…it cheers me up. Whether we do a silly dance or make a funny face, we are always having fun. That is the beauty of a romantic relationship coupled with a friendship. He is my very best friend, so why wouldn’t I laugh with my favorite person? According to Psychology Today, laughter reduces pain, improves job performance; simply stated, it brings people together and makes you a better person…as if that wasn’t enough, studies now show that laughing helps your blood vessels function better. So bust a move or crack a joke…whatever you do, make sure you and your sweet laugh so hard a little pee escapes! Probably one of the easiest ways to make your relationship a happy one is to be considerate of one another. We all have needs and desires…we crave a partner that recognizes this and strives to make our lives a little easier…You see, you are each other’s “it” people…You’re a team… If you aren’t making each other’s lives easier, then who will? Working together and being thoughtful of your lover’s needs will create happy significant others, which definitely equals happy lives.

Be Considerate

Image by:Mellie Tjoeng The hippies had it all right with this anti-war slogan…Make your house a peaceful one by loving more and fighting less. Speak kindly to each other. Along those lines, desire your partner and make them feel needed and truly wanted. Send them sweet messages, fulfill each other’s fantasies… but remember for a person, especially a woman, to feel “in the mood,” all other needs must be met. Gentlemen, take heed of this: Biologically, women require more than just physical intimacy…we are the whole package and beseech it as well. If one piece of this complex puzzle is missing, we can’t just “switch on”. Remember this catchy little phrase INTIMACY = IN-TO-ME-SEE …If you take the time to see into us, we promise to reward all that effort with a lifetime of happiness.

Make Love NOT War

Put Each Other First: I may offend some with this statement because there are peeps reading this that may put friends or work in front of their lover…I’m here to say, this behavior isn’t wise and will hurt your relationship in the end. Yep…I said it. Your marriage should be your top priority…Of course you have to fulfill necessary obligations…I mean the majority of us aren’t in the position to blow off work and hang out all day with our lover; that is simply unrealistic and unhealthy. I fully believe we each need to have our own thing going for us…However, we can’t let our jobs govern our coupledom. Along those lines, we also can’t let our friends rule our free time. We need a healthy balance. But your marriage must always be your top priority. Be sensitive to this rule in particular…The more supported your lover feels the happier you will be. So to my favorite newlyweds and someday to be married folks… these are my tips to you! I pray for millions of happily-ever-after moments to come! Here’s to the future of all the beautiful couples out there!

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ildly bohemian and refreshingly modern Cleobella was conceived by husband and wife team Angela and Jim when they left their jobs and planted themselves on the island of Bali. The couple lived in a VW bus, experiencing life in Europe, South Africa, South East Asia, Australia and New Zealand. “The Mexicana Clutch was the very first design I created, as the ultimate travel clutch. After our travels, we were planning on moving to Maui. This is where I sold my first designs at open air markets on the weekends,” says Angela. Founded in 2008, hard work and passion goes into every piece that comes out by Cleobella. Inspired by yearly trips, each collection features designs with inspiration from places and people the family has met during their travels. Speaking on their traveling Angela adds, “We feel very grateful that as a family we spend four months out of the year in Bali, with our son Keenan and our baby girl we are expecting this month. You can’t help but travel to a foreign land and be touched by the culture.” Not only is the Cleobella brand fashion forward and truly unique, the one-of-a-kind designs are crafted by a small group of artisans living in Bali. All of the handmade products in home industry factories are produced with carefully selected leathers, recycled materials, limited edition textiles and handmade prints that dry in the sun. Angela adds, “Cleobella creates sustainable lives for men and women living in Bali. Our goal is that our customers can see the love and pride that goes into each design.” Cleobella shows the fashion industry that there can be more to a brand than just clothes and accessories. With a strong connection to charity and community, this company is all about giving back. “Cleobella joined forces with CARE.org in 2008 when we first launched the collection. A giving factor was always part of Cleobellas DNA. I especially love how CARE empowers women in the countries we manufacture,” Angela explains.

When asked about what kind of woman embodies the Cleobella spirit, Angela describes her as this, “The Cleobella woman has a strong sense of self, and she doesn’t follow traditional rules of fashion. She loves adventure, new challenges, she’s conscious of the environment and ethical practices of manufacturing. She is a free-spirited bohemian goddess who leads with her heart!” This goddess should breeze through the 1920-esq boutique located in Sunset Beach, CA to be a part of the exciting things happening in person. Just steps away from the ocean, the entire collection is on display in this charming boutique. In the summer enjoy live music, and open yoga sessions while browsing a Saturday sample sale. Having just launched the first ready-to-wear collection, Cleobella supporters can expect exciting things in the future for this unique and inspiring brand. This creative team states, “In January we returned from a trip to Morocco where many of our new designs are inspired by the colorful culture. I’m a young mom with a 3 year old and expecting a baby girl. I hope our Baby Bella collection will continue to grow as our family grows.” For more information on the great things to come, visit www.Cleobella.com and be sure to check out the Blog while you’re there. Also visit www.CARE.org to see how you can contribute to a charity that empowers women all over the world and make a difference!

By: Amanda Hawes

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here to even begin when describing New Zealand native and Australia resident Rebecca Ronald? From serving as Billabong’s brand ambassador and lifestyle model at the budding age of 17 to where she is today, it seems bizarre that Rebecca will only have 23 candles atop her birthday cake this year. After recovering from a terrible illness, she has been focusing on her career ahead. The last five years for Rebecca have been packed with highs, lows, and a whole lot of soul searching. Let’s just say this girl can handle just about anything, all with an open heart and a smile upon her face.

Describing her 17-year-old self, as “a donkey riding kiwi girl,” modeling always seemed like an unattainable dream for Rebecca. As a teen, she would shop at surf stores simply for the pleasure of collecting the clothing tags, which portrayed beautiful, adventurous women surfing and hanging out with friends. So when she was chosen to be Billabong’s brand ambassador to kick-start her career she was ecstatic. “At seventeen I mustered the courage to send in a homemade DVD of myself frolicking on the beach, skating, surfing, and speaking to the camera - all in the hope I would be put in contact with Billabong. From there my modeling snowballed, but through it all, and now more than ever, my heart has never been about esteeming or glorifying myself but rather a tool I can use to inspire and speak life into others to become who they are called to be.” As a lifestyle surfer and lover of all things outdoors, it seems only natural that Rebecca would be chosen to represent such a brand of this sort. She describes the ocean as her home away from home, where she feels “most raw and beautiful when immersed in it.” And with such a laid back aura, Rebecca uses modeling as a way to encourage young women to be fully themselves, individual and chase their dreams regardless of how big they seem. Before each shoot, she prays that the light of God within her will shine. This keeps her from being too inwardly focused on modeling and helps her channel it as a tool to exhort and inspire. Known for her optimism and energetic nature, it took Rebecca by surprise when her health began a downward spiral. After consulting with many doctors, she still did not have a detailed answer as to what was making her feel sick all the time. It was by her father’s urging that Rebecca finally saw a natural specialist and came to the root of her problem- blood poisoning. Relief at having an answer was an understatement. And so began the process of healing herself through the detoxification of mind, body, and soul which she practices every day.

“So what ended up freeing me was no longer believing I was “sick” or “un-well”, but by solidifying myself in the truth and mentality that I WAS healed and WAS becoming healthier and well EVERY single day.” Through this trying journey, Rebecca has begun studying biological lifestyle therapies to aid in the healing of others the natural way. Her favorite topic: Iridology, the study of the science behind the anatomical position of the iris. “It is absolutely intriguing and through viewing the eye and other body features and questioning a person, you are able to gain an understanding of what is causing ailments or disease and help them in the healing process!” Rebecca says. Another upcoming project for Rebecca is a blog she’s been dreaming about for some time now, and IAMDEN. com is finally coming to fruition where she’ll be posting her personal perspectives on life and healing and sharing her message of “wisdom, truth and knowledge in effort to help set other women free.” Above all, Rebecca is a role model and inspiration. When asked where she sees herself in ten years time, the answer is refreshingly humble, “Living a life of adventure and travel with a growing family surrounded by beautiful flowers, all while serving the Lord through traveling ministries and helping people discover truth. I want to aid in restoring the brokenhearted and give them tools for a healthy and wholesome life - mind, body, soul and spirit.”

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Interview and words by Hannah Kocurek

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By:Natasha Leite

hen it comes to the word ‘memory’, it’s only natural for most people to feel a bit nostalgic. Memories are reminders of what we have done, who we have met, and our own tumultuous journeys of self-discovery. For some people, memories hold ghosts and nightmares, places hidden far away in the darkest corners of their minds, just begging to be forgotten. The sad truth is, for too many people, right next to the beautiful memories of graduation, prom, concerts and falling in love, is something much more sinister; something nobody would want to remember.

Whether it’s toxic friendships, an abusive ex, bullying, or sexual assault, putting on a brave face doesn’t stop the wounds from forming. Even though time goes on, the memories are still there and they impact the way you live your life in the long run. Even though forgetting about the entire situation seems like a dream come true, you will never be able to properly deal with those demons by running away from the reality of your situation, no matter what it may be. Mental, physical, and emotional trauma is never easy to overcome, but in order to move on and live your life with a peaceful state of mind, it’s time to bury the skeletons in your closet. Nearly one in three college women say they have been in an abusive relationship and one quarter of high school girls have been victims of physical or sexual abuse. Recovering from any past experiences that have caused you mental and/or physical pain isn’t the easiest task. One of the most important tools to have on your side is a friend or a family member; somebody that you trust that will help and support you through this time of healing. Speaking up is also one of the most crucial steps in the recovery process. The more you talk, the more weight is lifted off your own shoulders. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to a friend, go online and search for a local psychologist or therapy group. Remember, it is always good to have a support team and your voice is your weapon; it will crush any obstacles in your way. You just have to stay strong and motivated. Remember: The past is behind you, you are not to blame, and it’s time to live a beautiful present and future.

There are numerous approaches you can take when you are ready to take the next step toward healing the wounds that you thought turned into scars. Just because the incident is over, doesn’t guarantee that you are over it.

Meditation and Prayer:

This is always a great place to start. Not only is deep breathing great for any anxiety, but you will be releasing tension and focusing on balance and clearing your mind, as well as focusing on intrinsic things that will lead to a more fulfilling thought life . On the plus side, yoga mats are fairly cheap and you can do it in the comfort of your own home!

Therapy:

Therapy isn’t for everybody, but if you feel unstable, and have a difficult time finding a clear sense of self, therapy might be a good next-step destination. Especially if you suffer from depression, anxiety, mood swings, or suicidal thoughts. In which case, you should call the number below immediately! You are not alone, and trust us… there is another way out! Suicide is an eternal decision for a temporary problem.

Self-Love:

Loving yourself is probably the most important step in healing and yet the most scarce factor in women’s lives. You might blame yourself for what has happened. Don’t. It’s time for you to love yourself for who you are, focus on the beautiful things in your life, and go on and make your future a great one!

ABUSE HOTLINE: 1-800-799-7233 SUICIDE HOTLINE: 1-800-273-8255

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recently had the pleasure of getting to know a bit about the darling Mai Nhe Tran Le, otherwise known as ‘G’; the multi-faceted, uber talented mastermind behind Plaaastic! Clothing, the Plaaastic! Blog, as well as many other crafts that make this woman a remarkable individual. Upon entering the Plaaastic! Blog, you will be greeted with images of haute gothic couture, photography, todie-for outfits, and a heaping dose of personality. There is a lot to know about the girl behind the painted-black pout. G’s eclectic wardrobe has to meet a requirement or two. Being an outdoor person, she states: “If I can’t lay down comfortably on the grass while I’m wearing it, it’s not going into my closet!” Along with coining the term “Goth on the road”, G prefers comfortable clothes; an ideal companion when traveling. Like so many of us today, G is “addicted to Tumblr”. She uses it as an outlet to draw inspiration for not only her fashion, but her photography as well. “I think I am just in love with the idea of people sharing and creating their own world, influencing others and bringing their ideas to millions of people while sitting at home in their undies.” Aside from Tumblr, 90’s music and films have played a huge part in the creation of G’s personal style.

What really makes G stand out though, is the time she has devoted to helping others in need. Her involvement with numerous charities, including local causes for her native country Vietnam, and the time she has spent sponsoring an orphanage called “Relationship Nepal”, show that this beauty runs very deep. For G, her charity work started when a fellow dancer and close friend needed a kidney transplant, but did not have enough money for the procedure. “I ran a campaign charity to donate money for him. I made a website, contacted my friends all around the world, and in two weeks, I had raised enough money for his surgery.” It was then that G realized she had the power to make a change, and she wasn’t going to waste it. She donates money every month to “Relationship Nepal” so they can live sustainable lives with an education. She spent a month with the children, some of them only a few years younger than her. “It was like having a lot of brothers and sisters!” says G. “They are such bright children who deserve much better; a life with choices they can make.” G also supports lots of charities focusing on her country. “It’s still in the developing stage, so in some areas, they need a lot of help. If you donate just a small amount of money, they can go to school, have food to eat, free clinic, and so much more.” “One of the great things about traveling,” says G, “is that you can go to the undiscovered, find out who is really in need, and get them some real help.”

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After getting to know G, I view her as a remarkable individual who simply does self-less things. Not only is she as sweet as can be, but her heart is absolutely enormous. You can find her at: Plaaastic.com

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A Refuge for those Struggling with Unwanted Pregnancy By: Jasmine Negron

........................... A bortion---the hot topic of political, religious, and social debates. The current climate of our culture is painted by which hemisphere you rest on when it comes to this issue. Are you a liberal who demands autonomy and the right to choose what governs one’s body? Or are you a conservative who believes that life begins at conception and should consequently be preserved. Regardless of your political orientation, everyone has an opinion. There appears to be no gray area when encountering various people who are either pro-life or pro-choice. This concern of abortion has played a crucial role as we navigate through our society and world today.

“Three out of four women state that having a baby will interfere with responsibilities, such as work and school.“

depression, , ss ne b m nu y, et xi an , t il gu “Furthermore, can also al ni de d an s ht ug ho t al id ic flash-backs, su syndrome.“ n io t or b -a st po om fr ge er em Statistics show that 1 out of 4 women have aborted. One percent of abortions are performed because of rape/incest. Another 1% is due to a mother being at risk. This indicates that 98% of abortions happen because of personal convenience and/or a prediagnosed problem with the baby. At times, women have abortions to refrain from having children at a specific time, yet hope to have them later. In regards to ethnic and racial differences, African Americans and Hispanics form the majority of abortions that occur in the United States [One of two African American pregnancies and one of three Hispanic pregnancies ends up in abortion.] Three out of four women state that having a baby will interfere with responsibilities, such as work and school. The same amount of women state that they cannot afford a child. As we zoom into Florida, Miami-Dade County ranks top (per capita) in abortion and abortion providers. Despite your stance on abortion, the question remaining unanswered or unspoken is how we can approach this problem with the utmost grace and truth when we encounter a woman who is about to make a choice that will impact her life forever. How do we treat and handle abortion when there is another fellow human being who is filled with absolute confusion and desperation about the next steps for her baby? It is easier and customary to judge and dictate what those next steps should be. However, there is a living and breathing image of God not only in the fetus, but also in the one who will carry out that same life into fruition. We must not be quick to decipher and unpack this heavy material without first wondering what the repercussions are on every angle of abortion. Whether the woman has already conducted an abortion or has not made a decision, there are emotional and physical effects. On an emotional level, post-abortion syndrome takes place after an abortion has occurred and it is based on Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, according to the American Psychiatric Association or the American Psychological Association. Furthermore, guilt, anxiety, numbness, depression, flash-backs, suicidal thoughts, repression, and denial can also emerge. In essence, choosing to terminate pregnancy is a challenging process and it typically includes conflict

within the woman’s heart and mind. On a physical level, women who have abortions have a higher chance of an ectopic pregnancy. They are also at risk of premature births, damages to uterus or cervix, breast cancer, placenta previa, PID (Pelvic Inflammatory Disease) and other infections, possible miscarriages, death at the abortion table, and death from suicide. Thankfully there are partners that have paved the way for this journey and have alleviated the pressures that come so naturally to those plagued by unwanted pregnancy. Heartbeat of Miami is a local center in Miami, FL that is working towards a resolution for women who are in need of this help. From free pregnancy tests to access to caring advocates, HOM offers women and adolescents the opportunity to become well-informed about their pregnancy in a non-judgmental environment. The women additionally receive referrals for pre-natal care, parenting classes, financial assistance, adoption, the health department, and assistance to help them stay in school. These wraparound services provide women with a loving atmosphere that infuses hope into their lives. In speaking with the President of HOM, Martha Avila, there are countless opportunities to encounter love and compassion when needing assistance. Through this caring message, education becomes key when interacting with a woman. HOM includes baby models that demonstrate the gestational age of the baby. It is the actual model of an unborn baby from 12 weeks to 26 weeks. Although these baby models can incite certain emotions, it is not the goal of HOM to create certain feelings. The objective is to properly inform every single woman of the facts surrounding unborn children. As Martha Avila states, “There is hope. There is healing. There is forgiveness and restoration. We are here for them without judgment.” If you or someone you know is struggling with these similar decisions in their pregnancy, please utilize this form of support in our community. As mentioned before, women necessitate extreme sensitivity when facing obstacles that are already stigmatizing. Let us remind our sisters that they are loved and that a larger heart beats for their own well-being.

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here is a lot of societal pressure when it comes to money. We’re typically encouraged to keep up with the Jones and have a spectacular financial portfolio. We’re trained to think that with more money comes more success, recognition, and love from others. So then why is it that we’re always hearing stories of wealthy people - be it athletes or moguls - who have encountered their own financial demise? It’s because we’ve got it backwards. Our worth doesn’t come from having more money, rather more money comes to us as a result of rocking your selfworth. So how can we raise our self-worth so we can have a better relationship with our finances? By putting the power back into your own hands.

Change Your Words

We need to get it together internally if we’re to have a good relationship with money (or anything else for that matter). If we don’t believe we deserve that pay raise, those clients, or that promotion then we’re not going to get it. If we don’t believe we can pay off our debt, then we won’t. Simple as that. Energetically speaking we attract what we spend most of our time thinking about. If we’re constantly focused on the negative then we’ll just keep getting more of it. One sure fire way to start rocking your self-worth is to change your words. Something as simple as changing “I can’t afford that” to “I choose not buy that” or “How can I afford that?” can make a major difference in the way you perceive your financial life.

Don’t Buy Into Someone Else’s Story

With all the talk in recent years about a struggling economy, unemployment, and corporations taking advantage of people it can be pretty easy to get caught up in the hoopla. Add to that friends and family who may have negative views about money and it’s no wonder the millenial woman (and man) may have a dysfunctional relationship with work and finances. Here’s the deal: those are all just stories, thoughts, opinions. Sure, the economy may not bedoing so great. Sure, your friends and family may perceive that they have legitimate reasons to be concerned about money, but you can always choose to see things differently.

Donald Trump has lost his fortune and gained it back more times than some of us can even imagine. Oprah grew up in poverty and is now one of the richest women in the world. Why? Because they didn’t buy into negative stories about money. Likewise, there are plenty of other individuals who have faced some serious financial adversity and still manage to thrive. It all comes back to choosing to see things differently.

Forgive Your Past and Present Money Mistakes

Let’s face it, no one is born knowing how to deal with money. We all make financial mistakes from time to time and as such it is imperative that we forgive ourselves on a constant basis. You’re probably scratching your head wondering what forgiveness could possibly have to do with fixing your financial situation. Well, everything. There is a lot of shame and guilt around the idea of money mistakes - whether we are in debt or can’t buy a dress. If we brood on this guilt we only create more if it. When we feel bad we act out, like when we avoid our feelings by putting a dent in our credit card. This doesn’t fix anything, it just exacerbates the issue as we become caught in a never ending cycle. The only clear way to combat this and to start creating new habits is to start letting yourself off the hook. Are you still paying off debt you accrued in your early 20s? Call yourself out and forgive yourself. Did you spend way too much this weekend? Forgive yourself and do better next time. Instead of focusing on the mistake, focus on how you can do better next time around. Remember, no one is perfect. The only way to improve your financial situation - whether you want to make more money or pay down some debt - is to take matters into your own hands again rather than letting your thought life and emotions rule over you. By rocking your self-worth you can ensure that the next steps will be laid out in front of you. Amanda Abella is a certified life coach and motivational speaker who specializes in helping people have better relationships with work and money. She is also the author of Make Money Your Honey: A Spirited Entrepreneur’s Guide to Having a Love Affair with Work and Money. Find her at www. amandaabella.com

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ristine, green waters paired with endless white sand makes Miami one of the most desired tourist locations in the nation. No passport needed for this destination, one can find themself in paradise without crossing the ocean. Miami is consumed with a plethora of activities and boredom is rarely an emotion one can claim. It has become a getaway for many of those seeking fun and pleasure, including sex.

Sex trafficking in Miami is unveiled and is an astronomically ruthless issue plaguing the vulnerable of this city. From international to domestic cases, it is estimated that “South Florida is the third busiest area for human-trafficking in the nation,” states the Department of Justice. The basic definition of sex trafficking is when a commercial sex act is induced by force, fraud, or coercion, or in which the person induced to perform such an act has not attained 18 years of age. The person may be a legal adult and still be induced by force. Those who become trafficked are forced to perform commercial sex acts through various avenues, such as prostitution, massage parlors and escort services. The owner or “pimp/daddy” uses fraud and coercion to manipulate a victim, while also managing the victim’s business affairs. A common misconception of “sex workers” is the indication of choice. Though this may be the case for a part of this population, there is a recorded amount of 30 million modernday slaves in our generation. In September 2013 there were 909 reported cases of human-trafficking in Florida. As shown in the National Human Trafficking Resource Center Florida State Report, 83.06% are women and 30.80% are minors. In addition to these lucrative cases, there has been an estimated amount of 4,323 phone calls reporting human-trafficking.

Another piece to this horrific puzzle is the interplay between social media and the sex trade. A tourist in Miami can easily purchase sex with an underage girl at the touch of a button. Some websites include postings for “escort services” that display an array of women who provide sex. Facebook recently provided an ad for a strip club in Miami, which has also been reported to exploit young women.

One may wonder about the prototype of those who purchase these services. There are no clear-cut answers and no boundaries for those who demand them. The main, underlying explanation is the existence of sexual objectification in our culture. We live in a society that accepts and encourages hyper-sexuality. Similarly, “normal,” legal forums (i.e. strip clubs) within the sex industry provide a lethal platform for exploitation. It is the intersection between the vulnerable and an existent regime that demands sex. Someone is bound to fall prey to exploitation. The bottom line is that there are women and girls who are currently captive. These unseen faces need the cries of our hearts and voices to make a difference. Our clients are the focus at Life of Freedom Center. We believe every woman deserves love, safety, healing, acceptance, and the opportunity to live a life of freedom.Join me in the fight against humantrafficking by visiting LOFcenter.org.

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ailing from Marietta, GA, Becca Tobin knew early on that her dream was to be an entertainer. After her first role in a musical at the tender age of 10, Tobin had found her calling and her love for the arts. “I just remember feeling like I figured out what I wanted to do with my life and I’m glad that I had the opportunity,” Tobin said.

When she was 18, Tobin decided it was time to try her luck in the big city. She left Georgia to attend college in New York City, pursuing her dreams in the entertainment industry. After spending eight years in the Big Apple, Tobin moved to Los Angeles where she currently resides. There she began her role as Kitty Wilde on the fourth season of Glee. Although the show had already made quite a name for itself, Tobin took on the role saying, “I considered it kind of a blessing to come into a show that was already so successful and already sort of knew what it was and the tone was already set.” Tobin’s inspiration comes from the work of fellow actors. She is extremely passionate about her career and everything it has to offer. “I got into this industry because I love it. I love entertaining people and I love the arts and it’s been a part of my whole life for as far back as I can remember,” Tobin said.

Her passion doesn’t stop at acting, though. Tobin has her own blog titled June Moss after her two fashion icons, her grandmother, June, and Kate Moss. She features outfits that she described as “high/low.” Tobin posts a variety of styles that are typically affordable and adds some pieces that would be considered more high-end. Her blog is a way to express herself stylistically aside from her cheerleading uniform on Glee. “It’s always something that I’ve loved and it’s just sort of become a hobby that’s turned into something that I’m really proud of and I just enjoy doing so, so much,” Tobin said.

Tobin also uses her blog to reach out to fans and inspire them in the same way that she was once inspired. She recently wrote an entry about the industry and the implications that come with being an actress. “My whole goal with this blog especially was to empower girls and young women and just sort of be like, this is who I am and I don’t have to look like every other girl in Hollywood,” Tobin said.

Tobin embraces her profession, difficulties and all, saying, “It’s not easy but we love it and there’s some crazy gene in all of us that keeps us doing it.” She has a bright future ahead of her and looks forward to what is yet to come.

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y g o l o n h c e T t e l t ' n o D ruin your LOVE LIFE! By: Leah Austin

ilence is golden, yet there is a difference between the silence between the notes and the silence spent on our phones, in a digital world, inches apart yet worlds away from each other. Don’t get me wrong. I love my phone, and if I had the choice between tossing it into the clear blue depths of Waikiki, snapchat, pinterest, tumblr and all, to spend my night with that special someone, you might see me shed a tear-for the phone, that is. However, I can’t help but feel something is missing. There’s a hole, a gap-somewhere. And the melancholic poet in me is wondering, is technology doing more harm to our relationships than good?

Able to discuss this idea and more is George Moufarrej, a leading relationship expert and author of Amazon best seller Sexual Euphoria, A Complete Guide for Men and Women. George earned his Masters at CSU Los Angeles and offers an insightful perspective on the impact that technology has on relationships. An avid researcher, he says that 50% of the marriages in the United States end in divorce, and 1 in 5 people in the United States have formally claimed Facebook contributed to their divorce. Because of these and other findings, he believes that technology has introduced pitfalls that social media users should be aware of.

Today, technology has changed everything in our life. It has made life more fast paced and it connects us with more people. But could it be killing our relationships? A recent study shows 26% of Americans can’t live without their cell phones, but only 20% say they can’t survive without sex. It also shows that some couples view their cell phones as more important than their marriage. So how can you prevent technology from interfering with your love life? What are some tips to prevent this?

The pitfalls, such as online dating sites, provide easy access to a pool of potential dating candidates, and an increased opportunity for casual sex partners, which hurt long term intimate relationships. Technology is actually harming the quality of relationships because it can become addictive and takes up precious time that a couple should spend together in intimate conversation. In spite of these pitfalls, here are 3 tips George provides on how to not let technology interfere with your love life.

Tip 1: Communicate

Communicate with your partner about everything from finances and chores, to problems and intimacy. Many couples start showing each other purely physical affection after being in a relationship and believe that sex alone is enough. Once they fall into this stage, they become less interested in each other. Instead of continuing this cycle, you should continue to show affection through simple everyday acts such as hugging, kissing, and terms of endearment. If you have a fear of conflict and are afraid of bringing up an issue, remember that if there is any reason for you to be unhappy, you should be able to discuss this with your partner. Dealing with conflict as it arises is better than waiting until later on, when the problem can grow out of hand.

Tip 2:

Be aware of the potential pitfalls

Be aware of online dating sites and determine with your partner not to be involved with anyone that they meet on Facebook. If you are a young single woman and you are looking for a partner through facebook, be aware that many men are not talking to just you. Social media is not as intimate as other relationships and the man does not need to become emotionally involved with the you. If you are looking for a relationship, try going to a singles party, or a venue where there are other people like yourself that come together for the purpose of finding a potential date.

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Spend quality time

Spending quality time with your partner, going for a walk, visiting a museum, or doing something together that you both enjoy where you can interact face to face. This helps develop emotional intimacy, which is a key ingredient to having a long lasting relationship.

If you think these 3 tips are trivial, Nzinga at Praise 102.1 HD2 reports Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher, listed in the Guinness book of world records, an 86 year married couple, passed away in 2011 and 2013 as the longest married couple in the world. They survived the Great Depression, WWII, the Korean War, the Cuban missile crisis, Vietnam, the Civil Rights movement and more. The key to their longevity of life and relationship? It sure wasn’t technology. In an article by Carla Hendricks, Zelmyra says that focusing on her inner person and building relationships with others is what gave her a fulfilling life. Sometimes, the most trivial things in life can be the most important ones. It’s 10 at night and I’m still waiting on a text. From that special someone. Two hours before and I was on Facebook, commenting on a friend’s status and before that I was eating dinner with several good friends. One thing that all of these moments had in common? Not one of them was spent without the presence of a cell phone. I can’t say there wasn’t a moment of complete silence at the table while everyone was checking their statuses on Twitter, Facebook or posting a photo on Instagram. I can’t say that we’ll ever stop connecting with technology as the world becomes increasingly more complex and digitized, however, if we consciously take little steps, such as communicating, becoming more aware of the pros and cons of technology around us, and valuing quality relationships, I know that we will find the world we live in to be a more authentic, connected place.

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