MAGAZINE
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Academics
A disappointing grade can trigger emotions in both the parent and the child, but teas ing should only be used for motivation, as a gentle reminde r to study or do homework, and should not be fo cused on the abili ty because that could make the situation worse.
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Fear
Laughing or teas ing won’t help them overcome th eir fears, in fact, it could make them worse.
Sports perform
ance Fun is the numbe r one reason kids like to play sports, and “it’s no longe r fun,” is the numbe r one reason kids quit sports. Shyness
It is healthy for pa rents to push their shy children to be with friends. Set up play dates at th e child’s house and making the ho me a center of play and enjoymen t.
Being smart
Teasing someone about being super smart can be positive reinforcement, especially when the kid feels good about being nerdy or being an over-achiever, but it is never ok ay to compare a child to another child.
Weight
Unfortunately obes ity is a huge medical problem in this country. That problem is m ade even worse by the social stigm as attached to being overweight.
Choice of cloth
ing Most children m aster the basics of getting dresse d by age three, and the task of dressing helps them feel more competent and confident.
Chocolate
cake with
triple glaze
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Tips for
Beautiful Easy Hair
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