Pen to Paper

BY SAMANTHA ACCOLA

I am always joyfully surprised when I receive a letter. It’s a feeling I never want to let go of, so I don’t. Most of us hold on to handwritten messages, whether it is an appreciative note left on the kitchen countertop, a yearly birthday card from a beloved grandmother, or a surprise writing from a friend. This slow form of communication always seems to deepen connections. Because handwritten messages are some of the rarest gifts, we often end up keeping even the simplest “I love you” notes.

Citrus-themed custom stationery and invitations by artist Holly Horton of Dogwood Hill design studio, Dogwood-Hill.com

Photo by Mary Margaret Smith

There is something extraordinary about the idea of someone settling themselves at a desk with you in mind, stroking the paper with sloppy cursive and a cramped hand, saying, “You mean more to me than words on a screen.”

Opposite top left: Personalized stationery by Rifle Paper Co.

Letters humble us. The smudges and misspellings remind us of our humanity. In an autocorrected and photoshopped age, we are often robbed of embracing imperfection, as today’s world seems willing to do just about anything to appear put together. The intimate nature of letters helps us remember that we are all doing our best. Relationships aren’t about saying the perfect thing, but saying something when it feels like there’s nothing to say.

Merci stationery set by Clare V. for Anthropologie, Anthropologie.com

It’s easy to hide behind a social media account or a text message, to love from a distance, in the digital generation, but this practice can become lonely and isolating. If you can’t meet with someone in person (particularly in this socially distanced time), try writing a letter to create a personal, tangible connection with a friend or a pen pal who needs it just as much as you do.

Opposite bottom: Personalized invitations, gift tags, and place cards by Lucy Young of Dogwood Hill

Photo by Mary Margaret Smith

There’s a reason we still talk about letters. We long for the time to write. When we write, we remember things. Thoughtful affirmations and memorable stories allow others to feel seen and loved. Putting pen to paper is profoundly freeing. We can take a moment outside of our chaotic, ever-changing lives and intentionally care for someone else. It brings us back to our roots.

Custom stationery and cards by artist Inslee Farris of Dogwood Hill, Dogwood-Hill.com

Photo by Mary Margaret Smith

People are noteworthy, and looking back at written words reminds us of that, whether it’s a saved postcard from someone’s travels long ago, a transcribed calligraphy quote, or a simple message of hope from a loved one. We all have a story to share and encouragement to give.

Greeting cards by Rifle Paper Co., RiflePaperCo.com

Let the ink smear, shout joy through cardstock, and don’t forget the stamp! Let your words mark the world.

All our love, VIE