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departments Book Corner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6 By Walker H. Doermann Flavorful Finds . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .18 By Kerrie Boys Everyone will love this recipe for a colorful and fruity no-bake cake.
features Parties in Motion . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10 By Marilee Haynes Plan a birthday party that keeps children engaged and active.
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Ask the Therapist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .44 By Leslie Petruk, MA, LPC, NCC, BCC How to ease camp anxiety with your children. Carolina Cuties . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .46-47 Starring local little ones, as themselves . . .
Party Time . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .12
Reserve your child's party at one of these local spots and enjoy the experience. Put on a Show . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .20
By Jonathan DeVore One dad shares the life lessons he learned while performing magic shows for children.
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Hoedowns and Hootenannies . . . . . . . . . . . . .22
By Renee Roberson For Plaza Family Band, a love of music was just the beginning. Play Ball, Baby! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .26
By Kerrie Boys A neighborhood pulls together to throw the perfect vintage Mickey Mouse baby shower. Art Family Style . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28
By Leslie Strauss Sunday Fundays at the Mint Museum bring families together to celebrate a love of the arts.
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Savvy Sellers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .30
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Beth Packard I had my very first surprise party when I was 8 years old. I clearly remember wearing a shiny white polyester blouse with a tuxedo pattern on the front of it and jeans. When my first friend rang our doorbell bearing a giftwrapped box, I still didn’t quite realize what was happening. I opened the door and smiled at her quizzically. “Oh, hi,” I said, as she handed me the gift and I saw her mom drive away in their car. “So it’s my birthday and my mom said we might go out to dinner . . .” She came in and sat in my living room, while I scratched my head and wondered what was going on. After about the third friend arrived and then my cousin, and we piled into our station wagon with my mom and dad, I finally sort of figured out what was going on (after all, I was only 8.) Especially once we pulled into the Chuck E. Cheese parking lot. On the way home we had a group singalong to the song “The Warrior” by Scandal, but now I’m just dating myself. Now that I’m a parent myself, I’m pretty impressed that my mom was able to pull such a feat off. How did all my friends know not to spill the beans at school, and hold up their ends of the bargain? Did my mom really call their parents and have them drop their kids off at our house? I didn’t even know she had everyone’s phone numbers. As I sit here writing this and remembering all the fun ways I celebrated my birthdays growing up, the pressure’s on. My son has gently (and not so gently) brought up his upcoming birthday party, even scribbling his guest list on a Post-it® and leaving it on my desk. Because his birthday is in early February, I always feel like we’ve just gotten through the holidays before the birthday party questions begin. I know I shouldn’t stress over making everything perfect, but I want to make sure my kids always have fun on their very special days like I did, and the end result is always worth it. I won’t tell you how puzzled my son and daughter looked the day I shared with them the story about my “surprise” Chuck E. Cheese birthday party. They looked at each other first, and then back over at me, wondering if it could possibly be the same place they’ve attended scores of birthday parties for themselves and their friends over the years. “Chuck E. Cheese has really been around that long?” they asked. It’s funny how it all comes full circle eventually, isn’t it?
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• Storytimes! Charlotte Mecklenburg Library offers storytimes for children of all ages, from birth to five. Check out our website, www.cmlibrary.org, for specific branch schedules. • Free books! Not only does the library have a wide variety of books, from board books for babies, to chapter books for the school age crowd, there are also CDs, DVDs, books on disc, and Playaways for you to check out. • It’s a community center! Need to get out of the house in the middle of a dreary winter? The library is a great place to go for your children to play, and for you to connect with other parents. Puzzles, dress-up clothes, blocks, puppets, and other early literacy manipulatives are just a few things you can find at your local library. • There’s something for everyone! As your child grows, the library is there to meet the needs of your
family. Homework help, online resources, and educational programs for school-age children are all available at the library. As you can see, there are so many reasons to love and support your library. If you’re looking for a great picture book to check out, try one of these: A Letter for Leo by Sergio Ruzzier (2014) Leo, a weasel, is the mailman in a small town full of unique creatures. Leo loves his job delivering mail to everyone, but there is one thing that makes him sad: he has never received a letter of his own. Leo’s life changes forever when he finds a baby bird, Cheep, in a mailbox one morning. Leo takes Cheep in, and they become a little family, until the day that Cheep grows big enough to fly south for the winter. Though Leo misses Cheep dearly, he soon gets the one thing his heart desires – a letter from Cheep! This heartwarming story, accompanied by charming illustrations, will resonate with little ones and delight their parents. Gaston by Kelly DiPucchio, and illustrated by Christian Robinson (2014) Mrs. Poodle is quite proud of her pups, Fi-Fi, Foo-Foo, Ooh-La-La, and Gaston. As they grow up, however, it becomes clear that Gaston does not look quite like the rest. In fact, he is a bulldog, and not a poodle at all! When Mrs. Poodle and her brood run into a family of bulldogs at the park, things get even stranger: it seems that Gaston had somehow been switched with one of her poodle puppies, Antoinette, who has now been raised by the raucous bulldog family. Mrs. Poodle and Mrs. Bulldog set things straight, and each head home with a matching set of puppies. It doesn’t take long for everyone to realize that Gaston and Antoinette were happier with the way things were, even if they don’t match their siblings perfectly. Gaston is a sweet story that reinforces the idea that families are families, despite how they may look to those around them. Sparky! by Jenny Offill and Christ Appelhans (2014) When a little girl asks her mother for a pet, her mother agrees, with a few stipulations: the pet must not need to be walked or bathed or fed. After some research, the little girl receives her sloth, Sparky, by express mail. Sparky is the perfect pet, letting his owner win at Hide and Seek, and King of the Mountain. In fact, the only things that Sparky seems to be good at are sleeping and staying very, very still. While the neighbors aren’t too impressed with Sparky, that doesn’t change the love that the little girl and Sparky feel for each other in this whimsical story. www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms
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very year, just as all of the busyness of the holidays begins to subside, a certain tension finds its way back into my shoulders. The reason for this tightening has nothing to do with New Year’s resolutions or colder temperatures. Rather, it has everything to do with the fact that two of my three children have birthdays in February. Now, celebrating my children’s birthdays is fun. And wonderful. Watching them beam with pride at going from 4 1/2 to 5 or from 6 all the way to 7 warms my heart and makes me cry. Every time. But there’s a little something that comes along with the marking of these milestones. The Birthday Party. Planning a successful birthday party can seem like a herculean task. How many friends should be invited? Will there be a theme? Is cake and ice cream enough or should snacks or a meal be provided? Then there is the biggest and arguably most important question of all – where to hold the party and what activities to include? There are many possible answers to this last, vital question. Options include movie parties, arts and crafts parties, make your own pizza parties and tea parties. But many area moms – myself included – have found parties that get kids moving to be the most fun. For everyone. 10
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High-Energy, Great Fun In the Charlotte area, your choices of venue to host a high-energy, active birthday party are many and varied. Some, like BounceU and Monkey Joe’s, are particularly suited to younger children. Others, like the Sky High Sports trampoline park in Pineville, appeal to a slightly older crowd. We’ve attended great parties at bowling alleys as well as local dance and gymnastic studios. Today’s world places an incredible focus on electronics – video games, tablets, handheld devices of all kinds. Kids simply aren’t moving around enough. Marie Severance, owner of Acrofitness in Mooresville, discussed the effect the presence of electronics in kids’ lives has had on movement. They are simply not moving enough. In order to encourage greater levels of activity, Severance emphasized the importance of making movement fun. “A birthday party is supposed to be fun, so if a party is going to incorporate movement, that movement has to be fun.” Severance suggests that when planning an active birthday party, parents start by considering their child’s interests. Many times, those interests can readily be incorporated into parties that feature lots of movement and activity. The staff at Acrofitness recently worked with a
parent to plan a party featuring her child’s interest in the video game Minecraft, setting up obstacle courses and challenges that incorporated the game and kept all the party guests moving. If your child’s passion runs more toward princesses or superheroes, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles or Scooby Doo, Acrofitness arranges for
characters to appear – and partcipate – in the fun. Mooresville mother of two, Tara Caminiti, hosted her daughter’s seventh birthday party at Acrofitness. According to Caminiti, “I chose Acrofitness because it is a super fun place that focuses on children's fitness. They interact with each child and had all their names learned in minutes. The kids had smiles the entire time.” Regardless of what type of active party you plan, Severance has some suggestions to maximize the success of your party and the enjoyment of your little party guests. If your chosen venue has any safety or dress requirements, it is important to note those on the invitations. Age appropriateness is key from both safety and enjoyment standpoints. If you have a large age range, consider breaking into two smaller groups. Take it Indoors Huntersville mom Tracy Bracht pointed out one of the main reasons parents seek out birthday party venues that keep kids moving. Faced with planning a cold-weather party, she needed a indoor venue that could handle ten very active 7-year-old boys. Bracht chose Sports Connection in North Charlotte for her son Hayden’s celebration. Sports Connection also allows parents to customize a party to fit their child’s interests. My husband and I hosted a party at Sports Connection for our sports-loving son that featured high-energy, wellrun games of dodge ball, soccer and football. A dozen kindergartners were worn out in the best possible way when it was time for cake. The Bracht family had a similar experience. “The party was a smooth constant flow and the boys felt like we did so many activities. Arcade for 40 minutes, then bumper cars then laser tag followed by pizza and cake. The key to a successful party is to keep it moving, not giving the kids a chance
to get bored with any one activity.” I’ve planned several birthday parties for my children and have accompanied each of them to many more. All birthday parties are celebrations. But what I’ve found – and the parents and children I spoke with agree – those parties that keep kids moving and engaged are simply more fun. Marilee Haynes of Huntersville is the full-time mom of three mostly adorable and sometimes angelic children, married to a thoroughly terrific if completely leftbrain guy. In her (not so) spare time, she writes middle grade novels. Marilee is the award-winning author of a.k.a. Genius and Genius Under Construction. More information about Marilee, her books and school visits can be found at www.marileehaynes.com
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party time! f you really think about it, birthday parties are the stuff childhood memories are made of. There’s the time spent planning the perfect theme, sending out the party invitations, choosing a cake or cupcake flavor, filling the goodie bags, and gathering with friends and family to celebrate getting another year older. Looking back at photographs of brightlywrapped gifts, character-themed decorations, confetti, and little faces smeared with icing is sure to spark fun memories of birthday celebrations for years to come. www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms
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Jump, Shout, & Let it All Out at These Fun Party Places Dig for ancient fossils. Meet an exotic animal. Build your own robot. Create lasting summer While hosting birthday parties in your home are always an option, they can take a lot of time and resources to plan. If you’re looking for a location to host your child’s next bash, there are plenty of places in Charlotte happy to host your group. Your child’s personality plays a big part in what type of party you choose—there’s the party at the gymnastics studio for the terrific tumbler or a high-octane bash at the sport complex for the always-on-the-move athlete. Below are just a few of the places to check out when it’s time to begin planning . . .
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Acrofitness Acrofitness offers customized birthday parties on Friday evenings and all day Saturday. Guests will enjoy one private hour of flipping, fitness & fun! And 30 minutes of party/present time. (You bring the goodies, we’ll do the rest!) We’ve also added a AirTrac and an AirWheel that can be utilized for your party. Add a character appearance to the themed party to create a magical and memorable experience for the guest of honor. We have many characters to choose from including Queen Elsa, Spiderman, Snow White, Maleficent, Batman, Ninja Turtles, and many more. For more information, visit www.acrofitness.com or call 704.664.2348 to check on pricing and availability.
Ain’t Miss Bead Haven Ain’t Miss Bead Haven Bead Shop in Mooresville is the premier full-service bead shop in the Lake Norman area. Children will be dazzled by all the jewelry they can make using various
crystals, gemstones and assorted beads. There are several party themes to choose from, such as the Arm Candy Party, True Fashionista Party, or the Styled to Remember Party. Younger children’s parties typically run 90 minutes while parties for older kids can run two hours. Parties are planned according to age, skill level/experience, and budget. For more information, visit www.aintmissbeadhaven.com or call 704.746.9278.
Aqua-Tots Swim School Hosting a birthday party at Aqua-Tots Swim School is great for parents and kids. They offer everything you need for a fun and enjoyable time at our indoor location in Charlotte. No matter what time of year your child’s birthday falls, Aqua-Tots Swim School is the ideal place to host your next birthday party. Family and friends get to enjoy the pool together with our trained water watchers. What a great way to celebrate a special event! Our swim school staff prepares every party detail including: invitations, cake, snacks,
pool games and gift bags. The best part is, everyone has fun and there’s no messy cleanup! A win-win! For more information, visit aquatotscharlotte.com or call 704.612.4646.
Carolina Flipz When it comes to birthdays, Carolina Flipz sets the bar high. Our staff not only coaches gymnastics, they know how to party. Whether its learning gymnastics, a short cheer, or some highenergy games, our coaches do it all, based on the way your child would like to spend their birthday inside our gym. If your child is feeling a little jumpy about having a birthday here, we offer an optional 30 minutes in our Bounce and Slide Castle. After the children have “flipped out� for an hour, the party moves to the lobby where parents may provide decorations and snacks of their choice. Carolina Flipz will handle all the fun, flips and of course the clean up! This special day only happens once a year so think upside down and make it one they will never forget! For more information, visit www.CarolinaFlipz.com or call 704.544.4511.
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Discovery Place Explosive. Educational. Extraordinary. Discovery Place birthday parties are loaded with fun for a variety of ages. Kids can go nose-to-fin with cool critters, create cosmetics, learn magic or even how to glow in the dark and much more. And, with no set-up or clean-up for the grown-ups, everyone can focus on having fun. Choose from party packages with themes like Expedition Discovery, Mermaids & Sharks, Watch Me Glow, The Magic of Science, Little Builders, and more. For more information, visit www.discoveryplace.org or call 704.372.6261.
Discovery Place Kids Have your party at the coolest kids’ location in town! Designed for ages 1 and older, each party package can be customized to ensure an unforgettable birthday adventure. Bring your group for an adventure in play and uncover
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fun for all ages. Whether your group is from the area or visiting for the first time, Discovery Place KIDS provides educational and engaging activities in a unique setting that demonstrates all the things you CAN do with a little imagination. Discovery Place KIDS offers you the chance to host a private event like no other. Mingle with friends or colleagues in a unique setting with endless opportunities for creativity, imagination and play. For an event that is entertaining, educational and one-of-a-kind, Discovery Place KIDS is the perfect place for receptions, parties, family reunions, club meetings and much more. For more information visit discoveryplacekids.org or call 704.372.6261
Levine Jewish Community Center At Levine Jewish Community Center, you’ll find a variety of options for your next party. For kids’ birthday parties of 10 or more, the LJCC provides a one-hour activity and you provide the cake and favors. Have your party in the gym, field, Camp Mindy Rec Hall or Pavilion, or the Weinberg Center. Choose from an open or private indoor Birthday Pool Party for ages 5 and older at the LJCC Aquatic Complex. For more information, visit www.charlottejcc.org or call 704.366.5007.
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friendly and loving instructors will be with you each step of the way. The picturesque setting of our 35-acre farm is home to a full service, state of the art stables, and a clean, relaxing and safe environment for all to enjoy. Our Horse Birthday Parties create lifelong memories (and make an easy party for mom and dad!) Each special guest learns to ride, paints our ponies and grooms their new four-legged friends. All decorations and paper goods provided. No set-up or clean-up is required by you! We invite you to come and let us make your child’s dream come true. For more information, visit www.lenuxstables.com or call 704.947.RIDE (7433).
SugarPop’s An Experience, a Memory, a Smile. This is what SugarPop’s wants to bring to you and your family. Packed full of all the goodies from yesteryear and today, we have something for EVERYONE. Celebrating a birthday? Plan a party at SugarPop’s location in Historic Downtown Mooresville or have the party come to you! Choose from the “Original Birthday Party” or a themed party such as a Lego Party, a Mickey or Minnie Mouse Party, Planes, Trains & Automobiles, Royal Princess Party, Grand Tea Party, or a Legendary Pirate Party. Parties include activities, candy crafts, music, a T-shirt for the birthday child, and more! For more information, visit www.sugarpopscandy.com or call 704.799.0959.
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fresh & festive ometimes, you wish you could have your cake an eat it too. Well now you can! Grab some large firm fruit for your base (I used canteloupe and pineapple) and trim off the rind into a “cake shape.” Stack it, and decorate it with smaller fruits. Amelia and Olivia helped me with ours. We got one of those silly “fruit pop” utensils that cuts shapes out of food for Christmas so we used that for the stars and circles. You could also use small cookie cutters. This is a great idea for kids with allergies, folks with sensitivities, or just a great healthy treat! Enjoy!
You will need: A sharp knife Small cookie cutters Whipped cream (optional) Toothpicks (if you don’t use whipped cream this is what you attach berries and shapes with)
Fruit! For the Basechoose any or all: Watermelon Canteloupe Honeydew Pineapple For “icing:” Shapes cut from base Any/All berries Nuts (optional) Whipped cream
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Three Surprising Lessons I’ve Learned From Performing Magic for Kids
By Jonathan DeVore
hen I first began doing magic shows for 3 and 4-year olds, I thought it would be easy. I was pretty decent at sleight of hand, and I assumed making coins vanish for 40 minutes would make everybody happy. But I quickly learned that entertaining children is like herding cats. If you don’t have the right kind of program, you’ll lose their attention. And unlike adults who will just politely smile and act interested, children will yell things out, run around, and (in no time at all) completely take over. 20
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So if you ever find yourself in charge of children between the ages of 3 and 6, I have some advice for maintaining control: 1. Children think everything is magical 2. Children enjoy the journey 3. Children need interaction Keep those three things in mind, and you’ll have (almost) complete control over the situation. Children Think Everything is Magical I used to think children would be amazed when a coin disappeared from my hand. But in their world, anything is possible. They can talk to their grandma on a phone and see her talk back. They can fly across the country. They put a frozen pizza in a tiny black box – and it comes out hot after 60 seconds. Magic tricks aren’t that impressive because, to them, everything is magic. What they really want is to be able to do the magic themselves. So if you have an activity (or a magic trick), find a way to allow them to “do� the magic. For example, when I do a magic trick, they want to be the ones who make it vanish. So I ask them the wave their hands, say the words, and make it go. Let them shoot the rocket, drop the Mentos in the soda, or press Play on the DVD player – children will feel
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empowered, and they associate that feeling with you (a great thing considering we often don’t remember what people do for us, we just remember how they made us feel). Children Enjoy the Journey To fill a 40-minute show with bare bones magic tricks, I would need about 40 magic tricks – they really only take about one minute for the effect to happen. Good thing children don’t care about the magic trick! The kids just want to have fun. So instead of doing 40 magic tricks, I draw the tricks out and create funny scenarios that make them laugh, clap, shout, or wiggle along the way. When you’re doing an activity, don’t rush to the end. Make the journey fun, because that’s what the children really want. Children Need Interaction The key to making any activity work is creating a lot of interactions. Getting the children to:
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Or anything else like that all count as interactions. Adults are the same. If you can’t get adults laughing, asking/ answering questions (even if it’s silently), or feeling some emotion, big people get bored and zone out. The difference is adults will just fall asleep while kids will start
Next Time‌ So next time you’re in charge of a group of preschoolers, plan activities that make them feel like they are contributing to the magic, make the journey long and entertaining, and sprinkle a large dose of interactions throughout to keep them engaged. Jonathan DeVore is 31 and lives in Huntersville with his wife, two daughters, and infant son. He was a CPA before joining his brothers’ startup software business, and now does their sales and marketing. He blogs early in the morning at www.charlottedad.com about father-hood with a focus on teaching children how to be great. For birthday party inspiration, download a copy of his e-book for free at http://www.charlottedad.com/ birthday-ebook.
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The music of Plaza Family Band gives back to local preschool e all know the bonding that goes on among parents as they hang out with their children on the playground. For the members of the Plaza Family Band, those conversations also sparked a way for parents to record their musical talents for posterity and create a legacy that could keep on giving back to the preschool that so lovingly nurtured their kids. “We follow a developmental curriculum which is based on learning through play with a lot of sensory experiences, including art and music, so we tend to draw a creative crowd of parents, no pun intended,” says Patti Schigoda, Director of Plaza Presbyterian Weekday School. “We have a very close-knit neighborhood community and the parents tend to hang out on the playground after school, so that’s where the magic happens.”>>>>
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A Musical Fundraiser While sitting in a parent meeting about fundraisers back in 2008, Mike Strauss had the idea of skipping the usual wrapping paper/candy sales and instead producing a CD of children’s music. He knew there was an abundance of musical talent among their group of parents, so he approached fellow musician Clifton Castelloe, who had a recording studio in his home, about the idea. When the group produced the first CD, “Playground Hootenanny,” there were about 11 musicians who performed the vocals and music. Currently, the group consists of seven members: Mike Strauss, Hope Nicholls, Aaron Pitkin, Clifton Castelloe, Beth Brown Al-Rawi, Donovan Collins, and Howard Sweet. The band’s musical roots run deep. Nicholls and husband Pitkin (who also own Boris + Natasha in Plaza Midwood) both had record deals with Capitol Records in the 80s 24
and 90s, Strauss plays professionally as part of the Mike Strauss Band, Castelloe is part of the acoustic guitar duo Melonbelly, Collins once toured internationally with a major reggae band, Brown Al-Rawi played fiddle as part of Carolina Gator Gumbo, and the list goes on and on. They joke that putting together “Playground Hootenanny” was a labor of love, but one that mostly took place between the hours of 9 a.m and 1 p.m., when their kids were in preschool, over the course of about five months. Different musicians came in at different times to record their parts, and Castelloe worked as the producer and engineer. Schigoda remembers the demand for the band before it even really existed. “The first CD was so great and so well received that I started getting phone calls about booking the ‘band’ to perform at events which was funny because there wasn’t really a band at that point. I
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remember one of the musicians saying, ‘well, we could be a band,’ and the Plaza Family Band was born!” The group first performed live together at The Pizza Peel in Cotswold. “That was really the time we all played together at the same time,” says Strauss. “Once we played together in a live situation it was a lot of fun.” Since then, the group has played together at various events around Charlotte, such as summer reading kick-offs for Charlotte-Mecklenburg Public Library, outdoor festivals, and birthday parties. “We have a great feel with one another,” says Nicholls. “When the time comes we usually pull it off with a lot of panache. We’re all on the same page musically.” Although Castelloe is the only member of the band who still has a child at the preschool, Strauss also
plays music for the kids there on a weekly basis. But the strong sense of community still exists among the group. “It really was an amazing thing to witness seeing all of the talented folks, many of whom are quite well known on the music scene, come together in this way, and give up so much of their time for a good cause,” says Schigoda. “They have three CDs now and continue to play at community events, which is a real testimony to how much fun they have playing together and what great people they are.” Enjoyed by Parents and Kids Alike “It’s difficult to describe our sound,” says Nicholls. “It’s very Americana. We have the traditional instruments and we do the traditional songs like ‘Shortnin’ Bread’ and ‘She’ll Be Coming Round the Mountain.’ There are folk songs that have a tradition going back a couple hundred years in this country.” Pitkin points out that one of the most important aspects of the group’s music is that they try their best not to ‘play down to the kids.’ “We love hearing parents and kids talking about enjoying it together,” says Castelloe. “That goes back to the spirit of the school. There’s a real family aspect to it.” In addition to “Playground Hootenanny,” Plaza Family Band now has two other CDs out, “Wee Jamboree” and “Holiday Hoedown.” They can be purchased at iTunes, www.cdbaby.com, and through the preschool website, www.plazapresbyweekday school.org. All proceeds from the CD sales are donated back to Plaza Presbyterian Weekday School. The band is also available to play parties and corporate events. You can reach them through their website, www.plazafamilyband.com.
The School Behind the Band Plaza Presbyterian Weekday School 2304 The Plaza, Charlotte 704.376.8595 www.plazapresbyweekdayschool.org
Plaza Presbyterian Weekday School serves children ages 1 to 4 years old for a half-day preschool program that has been in operation since 1973. The weekday school is located at Plaza Presbyterian Church in Charlotte’s historic Plaza Midwood neighborhood. Plaza developed a program that enhances the social skills with an open, developmental approach to learning which allows each child the freedom to grow at his/her own pace. Plaza’s open philosophy is based on that of Gesell Institute’s Center for Human Development, which allows a child to enjoy the play and socialization of early childhood without academic pressure.
“Playground Hootenanny” If you’re looking for some fun and catchy music for your child’s next birthday party, look no further than the Plaza Family Band. “Playground Hootenanny” features seventeen tracks of re-worked beloved traditional songs such as “La Bamba,” “This Old Man,” and “Five Little Monkeys,” along with original compositions that the whole family can enjoy together. My own kids (ages 11 and 9) push play on the album and immediately start dancing, and have been known to break into songs from the CD in the middle of stores. They love the arrangements and say all the songs are “super fun to listen to.” Their favorites are “Frogtown,” “One Bottle of Pop,” “Day with Dad,” and “De Colores.”
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ball, baby! Highland Creek neighbors plan the perfect vintage baby shower
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live in a special neighborhood that’s connected, fun and supportive. When one family has a life-changing event, we all experience it. Meal trains, birthday parties, holiday celebrations, help with a fallen tree? We have it covered. So when my neighbors Christine and Tim’s son Hunter and his wife Tiffany announced they were having a baby, we knew we had to celebrate. We have watched Hunter grow from a tween to a captain in the Army. We are all so proud of him and his accomplishments—an awesome baby shower was a great way to show it. So it didn’t take long before a few of us ladies got to planning. Dazzled by Disney A theme was easy to come by. Hunter and Tiffany are fans of Disney. Okay, that is not completely accurate, they LOVE Disney. So much so that they planned a vintage Mickey theme for baby Holden’s room. Since it was going to be a co-ed shower, we decided that a vintage sports/baseball theme would fun. Adding Mickey to the mix would make it perfect. Dividing and Conquering After meeting, we all had our to-do lists. Christine went crazy buying vintage toys and candy to help decorate the party. I worked on the “ticket invite,” banners and any graphics that needed to be created. Anne made a stuffed vintage Mickey diaper cake that sat atop the vintage display of candy and desserts. Cathy even made tiny apple pies to add to our “baseball” theme. Renee, Jenny, and Andrea found hot dog foils, checkered tissues, popcorn bags and old style Coke bottles to round out the “concession” stand. To complete the look, we put a call out to the neighborhood for baseball gloves and bats to create centerpieces for the table. A great party does not have to be difficult. Get a little help from your friends, and play ball.
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bring new and repeat audiences to engage with the art at the museum, via art projects, gallery visits, Let’s Move! healthy living activities, and artist demonstrations and performances. Activities are designed for all ages, and adults are encouraged to engage with their children, rather than just observe. Art projects are often set up “family style” at round tables, so people can work at their own pace, and interact with their own family, and others at the table, as they relax and create. We find that by being creative together, families can learn as much about each other as they learn about the art and artists. We think that’s a unique opportunity to further family learning. This month, kids loved decorating and assembling their own box guitars, which were inspired by Romare Bearden’s depiction of guitars in his collage work. Bearden’s love of music was further brought to life through laid-back but informative blues band jam sessions by Jazz Arts Initiative. One parent noted that the blues presentations got her children more engaged with the art projects, providing more meaning. Later that night, she said, her young son was “walking around strumming his box guitar signing about how his “baby left him!” Sunday Fun Day experiences are designed to engage families on multiple levels, whether it’s through music, artist demonstrations, or physical activities. Sunday’s yoga sessions, where participants “plucked invisible string instruments” further explored the musical theme. Participants also collaborated on large collaged panels, adding their own cut and torn collage pieces around some of Bearden’s favorite themes of nature, music, animals, and trains. Several of the panels will be displayed in the interactive Lewis Family Gallery now. Upcoming Sunday Fun Days will center around Optical Art, with a visit from Discovery Place’s ScienceReach specialists on February 15, and the famous artist Andy Warhol, with printmaking and fashion design projects in March. April’s Sunday Fun Day will put the “Art” in “STEM,” with a “STEAM” theme, and will include dance performances and workshops by the Martha Connerton/ Kinectic Works Contemporary Dance Company. Sunday Fun Days are free for kids and Mint Museum members, and $6 for adults, which is half-price the regular museum admission. www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms
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For the owners of For Every Season Consignment Sale, it’s about more than the bottom line By Nicole Ayers Photos By Crystal Phelps Photography
isa Johnson and Lori Hoffman, sisters and best friends, host For Every Season Consignment sales three times a year. The spring and fall sales offer great deals on clothing, toys, and baby equipment. The Home & Holiday sale features furniture, home décor, and holiday decorations. Their spring sale runs March 13–21 at The Pointe Arena in Fort Mill. We recently sat down with the ladies to find out more about the ins and outs of running a consignment sale, from the planning to the new friendships made at each sale. Little Ones: What do you want people to know about For Every Season? Johnson: Anybody that hasn’t tried consignment really needs to come see what we’re all about. Hoffman: I think the wow factor is just incredible. When somebody walks in our doors for the first time, they don’t even know what to do. The next thing you know, here come the cell phones. They are taking pictures and posting on Facebook: “Do you want this?” Little Ones: What motivated you to create a consignment sale in 2002? Johnson: We both wanted to stay at home with our kids for as long as we could, and 70 percent of the work is done from home. Really, we started it to have relationships with our families. What ended up happening, though, is the relationships we’ve built with the consigners, and the vendors, the helpers, and shoppers. They’re now our family, too. Hoffman: One consigner, her goal was to get enough money to go to Disney World. So she got all the kids in her family on board. She made $600, which is what she needed. She posted pictures of her family at Disney on Facebook and thanked us. People go into the sale with goals to make their lives better. We feel like we have to work a little harder to make it happen for them. Little Ones: How has your sale grown? Johnson: We had seventy-two consigners that came to our first sale. We were so naïve. We thought we could set everything up in three hours. Hoffman: Now we rent 54,000 square feet. It’s two floors. We fill it all up, but we still have more people that want to consign. So we do a restock and re-grand opening to accommodate that. We never dreamed it would be this big. 30
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Spring & Summer Consignment Sale 13 years of bringing you a huge selection of high quality items for your family!
March 14-21 Little Ones: For Every Season has been voted the Best Consignment Sale for eight years straight in the local paper’s “Best of” awards. What makes For Every Season different than other consignment sales? Hoffman: We are extremely picky about what we accept. We don’t take yard sale stuff. Everything has to work. We run our business the way we want to be treated. You can trust what you’re buying. Johnson: We have heard from others that they feel like we really do care. We’re not the best businesswomen. We could make more profit if we didn’t care. But we do go out and buy the shopping carts; we do hire staff to make sure that customers are going to be taken care of. We use men from the homeless shelter to unload our trailers. One year a man made enough money at our sale to put the down payment on his apartment. We boo-hooed. Hoffman: That means more than us cashing a little higher check. At our last sale, we hired two basketball teams to carry packages to people’s cars. The basketball team was able to buy a piece of equipment from our donation.
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Little Ones: What goes on with your business in the off-season? Hoffman: We do a lot of planning. We stop and say what worked well, what didn’t, what can we do fun and exciting. We try to come up with creative Facebook contests, ways to get new people to try us for the first time, keep people coming back. There are some business things that aren’t as much fun. We are extremely organized, and every week we have a due date. We have to get our printing done. We have to handle our contracts with our location. We have credit cards so we have to work on credit card companies. We do have to pay taxes and write checks. Little Ones: What is your favorite part of the job? Johnson: It’s a win win win. The consigners have things that they don’t want anymore; people need things that they don’t want to pay retail for; and it’s good for the environment because we’re recycling. At the end of a sale, if people don’t want to come back to get their leftover items, we donate them to a ministry center. Hoffman: I love being with my sister. I don’t think anyone has a relationship with her sister like I do. I love working with my mom and dad. This is not a job for us. It’s a pleasure. To learn more, visit www.foreveryseason.net. www.littleonesmagazine.com | for local moms ... by local moms
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TTB Kidz 52,000 square feet of shopping, kidfriendly, spacious aisles. Location: Metrolina Tradeshow Expo, 7100 Statesville Road Date: March 13, $2 Early Entry at 8 a.m.; March 14, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m.; March 15, $2 Early Entry at 8 a.m., Public Sale from 9 a.m. – 3 p.m. Contact Info: bmcpherson@ttbkidz.com www.ttbkidz.com
For Every Season Pre-sale for new/expectant parents. New—two weekends to shop! Location: The Pointe, next to Knight’s Stadium in Ft. Mill Date: March 13 – 21. See website for specific times and pre-sales. Contact Info: 803.327.5473 www.foreveryseason.net
Charlotte Mothers of Multiples Parking is free. Visa and MasterCard accepted. No strollers, please. Location: Freedom Hall at The Park Expo and Conference Center, 800 Briar Creek Road Date: Feb. 7, 7:30 a.m. – 3 p.m.; $2 early-bird entry from 7:30 – 8:30 a.m. Half-Price Sale from 12:45 – 3 p.m. Contact Info: info@charlottemultiples.com www.charlottemultiples.com
Tar Heel Kids Consignment (Formerly TotTrade) Location: Cabarrus Arena & Events Center Date: March 4 – 7. See website for specific times and pre-sales. Contact Info: 704.644.3972 or tarheelkids@hotmail.com www.tarheelkidsconsignment.com
Kat’s Kid Sale New location! Sign up to volunteer and shop early. Location: Merino’s Home Furnishings, 500 S. Main St., Mooresville Date: March 4 – 7 Contact Info: katskidsale@yahoo.com http://katskidsconsignment.com
Harrison UMC Cash and check only. Children welcome but no strollers, please. Location: 15009 Lancaster Hwy., Pineville Date: March 5, 6 – 8 p.m; March 6, 9 a.m. – 1 p.m.; March 7, 8 a.m. – noon (most items half-price on March 7). Contact Info: 704.737.7146 or
maternity clothing, toys and baby equipment. Location: 132 Swift Arrow Drive, Mooresville Date: Saturday, March 21 Times: 7 a.m. - 1 p.m. (early bird admission is $1 from 7 a.m. and 8 a.m., free admission after 8 a.m.) Contact Info: lknmomsale@gmail.com www.lknmom.org
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Covenant Presbyterian Preschool Children’s Consignment Sale Location: 1000 E. Morehead (at Dilworth Road) Date: March 6 – 7 Contact Info: cppconsignmentsale@gmail.com www.covenantpresby.org
Matthews UMC Children & Teen Consignment Sale
Posh Closet Consignment Sale Gently used name-brand, boutique, home show or smocked clothing in excellent condition; sellers keep 7080% of profits; kids and bags welcome. No strollers allowed until 1 p.m. on March 7 to allow for a better shopping experience. Location: South Charlotte Banquet Center, 9009 Bryant Farms Road Date: Pre-sale March 6, 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. $10 Early-Bird Sale on March 7 from 7:30 – 9:30 a.m. Public Sale begins at 10 a.m. and runs through 5 p.m. Contact Info: 704.299.3097 www.theposhclosetsale.com
Kids Konsignment Sale New—Teen Sale! Location: Harris YMCA, 5900 Quail Hollow Road Date: March 7, Consignor and Volunteer Pre-Sale from 5 – 9:30 p.m.; March 8, Public Sale from 8 a.m. – 4 p.m. Half-price sale begins at 1:30 p.m. Contact Info: 704.716.6843 www.ymcacharlotte.org
Weddington Kids Consignment Credit cards, cash, and checks accepted. No strollers, please. Location: Weddington UMC Family Life Center, 13901 Providence Road Date: March 13, Consignor and Volunteer Pre-Sale from 2 – 5 p.m.; March 14, Public Sale from 8 a.m. – 3 p.m. Half-Price Sale begins at 1 p.m. Contact Info: WeddingtonKidsConsignment@ hotmail.com www.weddingtonkidsconsignment.com
LKN Mothers of Multiples Spring/Summer Consignment Sale The cash-only children’s consignment sale includes gently used children's and
Location: 801 S. Trade St., Matthews Date: March 21 from 8 a.m. – noon. Contact Info: consignment@matthewsumc.org www.matthewsumc.org
Sardis Weekday School Location: Sardis Presbyterian Church Date: March 28 www.sardis.org
Green Jeans Consignment Women’s & Teens Clothes/Accessories. Register to volunteer and be the first to shop! Location/Dates: Lake Norman (Mooresville), April 15 –19; SouthPark, May 13 – 17 Contact Info: info@greenjeanssale.com or 704.650.8126 www.greenjeanssale.com
Back on the Rack Consignment Sale Two Sales to Shop! Location: March 13 & 14, Providence Road Church of Christ, 4900 Providence Road, Charlotte. Children and Household items only. April 3 & 4, Union County Agricultural Center, Monroe. Children and Women’s items only. Contact Info: info@botrconsignment.com www.botrconsignment
UpScale Wee Sale Brand names at bargain prices. Location: The Pointe Arts and Recreation Center, Fort Mill. Date: April 22 – 25. Shop early on April 22 at 4 p.m. by bringing three canned good items. Half-Price Sale on April 25 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Contact Info: theweesale@comporium.net or 803.980.7153 www.upscaleweesale.com
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Sadly, summer months filled with bicycle rides, hours in the pool, and time exploring creeks and woods are almost a thing of the past. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, American children ages 8 to 18 spend 7.5 hours a day on electronic media during the summer months. Residential camp gives children a break from their devices and numerous opportunities to explore the outdoors. There are numerous residential camps all within a few hours of Charlotte, with schedules and pricing options that appeal to a wide array of families. With registrations now underway for camps, now is the perfect time to begin your search for the camping experience best suited for your child.
Researching Camps Charlotte mom Paige Twer says her family first introduced her two girls to a camp environment when they attended a church camp together along with other families from their church. “The familiarity seemed like a natural progression to break them into a sleepaway camp, both for them and for us,” she says. “They knew what to expect with the activities and surroundings; we as parents, knew what to expect from the staff and the accommodations. From there, we have branched out to another camp that we had heard glowing reviews of. Our girls now say they plan to go there every summer until they become counselors themselves.” Most camps also hold information sessions and open houses in early spring that parents can attend in person to get an idea of camp offerings, registration deadlines, and tuition. According to Andrea Steiner with Camp Thunderbird and Camp Harrison, the two camps host almost 4,000 campers from all over the country and world each summer. Their busiest weeks typically fall in the middle of the summer with slower weeks at the beginning and end of the summer. John Gordon, Director of Camp Cherokee, located in Kings Mountain State Park in Blacksburg, S.C., says their camp had about 1,350 residential 36
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campers last summer, with the second or third sessions in mid-June being the busiest. Many camps also offer “first-timer” options, which help make the transition to week-long camp smoother. Camp Cherokee has a Sunday through Wednesday program for children ages 5 to 9 years in the beginning of July. Camp Tekoa, located in Hendersonville, N.C., has a “mini overnight camp” for children ages 7 to 11 years of age on specific weeks. The mini overnight camps are a shortened version of the weeklong elementary residential camp that provides a fun introduction to younger and first-time campers. Some camps, such as Camp Lurecrest in Lake Lure, N.C., where Twer’s two daughters attend camp, have an optional satellite transportation service to and from camp.
If your child is not yet ready for residential camp, check out these local summer day camps: Acrofitness www.acrofitness.com Acrofitness summer camps are great programs to keep your kids active throughout the summer. Choose from tumbling, fitness, cheer and stunting, free running, choreography and more. Ain't Miss Bead Haven www.aintmissbeadhaven.com Summer camp begins June 16 and includes sessions for ages 5 and 9+ years. Visit website for more information. Carolina Flipz www.carolinaflipz.com During this fun-filled week, kids learn gymnastics skills in addition to team bonding, artistic creativity, water days, healthy living, independence and much more! USAG certified instructors maintain a safe and structured atmosphere for all kids to participate no matter what their gymnastics abilities may be. Davidson Day School www.davidsonday.org The school offers summer camp programs to suit every child’s interests and every parent’s schedule. Each program is carefully supervised and designed with FUN in mind. Before and aftercare is available and daily snacks are provided.
“Charter buses pick up the campers at a business park in South Charlotte on Sunday afternoon,” she says. “Then, they drop them back off to parents at an area church parking lot. It is a minimal fee and the campers really enjoy getting to start their week on the bus and extending it through the ride back to Charlotte, because no matter how much they have missed you, they area almost never ready to end their week away at a camp.”
Discovery Place Summer Camps www.discoveryplace.org School may be out, but education and adventure are always in at Discovery Place! Explore animals, astronomy and other awesome stuff that gets kids fired up about science, technology, engineering and art. Summer Camps are offered June – August, with themes such as Superhero Training Camp, Rocket Scientists and Kitchen Concoctions. Full- and half-day Camps are available for students in preschool through grade 9, with discounted rates for Members.
Discovery Place KIDSHuntersville Summer Camps www.discoveryplace.org From art to animals and DUPLOS® to dinosaurs, kids will discover how much fun learning can be at Discovery Place KIDS Summer Camps. Little ones will build, create, explore, get messy, be active and ask questions in a safe and nurturing environment. Half-day sessions are available June – August for ages 18 months – 8 years, with discounted rates for Members. Golden Eagle TaeKwonDo www.getkd.com Summer camp for ages 6 to 12 years. Each week of camp includes a T-shirt, field trips, crafts, and TKD lessons. Lenux Stables www.lenuxstables.com Summer Camps are exciting, educational and fun! Camp provides daily riding, grooming, horse painting, driving a horse in a buggy, games around the farm, and playing with many animals. Levine Jewish Community Center www.charlottejcc.org Dive deep into a summer of fun at Camp Mindy, located on a 54-acre campus in the heart of south Charlotte. Miller Street Dance Academy www.millerstreetdanceacademy.com Register for exciting summer technique classes and camps. SugarPop's www.sugarpopscandy.com SugarPop’s summer camps are a sweet way to beat summertime boredom and entertain the candy lovers in your family all at the same time. Visit our website for more information.
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Packing Lists & Care Packages The American Camp Association recommends making packing for camp a family affair. Each camp should have a list of recommended items for campers, such as towels, sheets, pillow cases, footwear, toiletries, shorts, Tshirts, rain ponchos, bathing suits, water bottles, etc. Twer’s family has slowly learned over time that when packing for camp, “the less is more” philosophy usually applies. “I was skeptical of the parents who would say ‘pack lightly,’ they won’t wear half of what you send anyway,” she says. “Turns out . . . they are right . . . and that’s okay! It is one week out of their year where they get to choose whether or not they want to change their underwear or brush their teeth or just live in the same outfit for days. And just remember, no matter how much you choose to pack and send with your kids, it all needs to be disinfected or torched when it returns to your house anyway, so the less you send, the less you clean upon reentry!” Most camps allow communication via snail mail or e-mail. At Camp
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Tekoa, parents can leave packages labeled with the camper’s name and day you want them to be delivered. Camp Thunderbird also allows e-mails to campers and parents can also order care packages through a company called CarePKG. Camp Lurecrest also offers email service to campers, where campers receive e-mails from their families during breakfast.
A Lasting Impression YMCA experts say that getting outdoors is essential to developing the spirit, mind, and body of school-age
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children and teens. Summer camp allows children to take a week off from electronic devices and the normal pressures of life to develop new skills and life-long friendships. “There are a lot of statistics that really justify the camp experience,” says Gordon. “It fosters independence, helps with conflict-resolution, and makes children better public speakers. The benefits far outweigh any apprehension.” For more information on researching and preparing for camp, visit www.campparents.org.
Camp Thunderbird Lake Wylie, S.C. www.campthunderbird.org Cost: $785-$925 per week Open House: April 12 from 1 – 4 p.m. Camp Harrison Boomer, N.C. www.campharrison.org Cost: $785-$890 per week Open House: May 3 from 11 a.m. – 4 p.m. Camp Cherokee Blacksburg, S.C. ymcacampcherokee.org Cost: $355 for first-timer program (non-member pricing) $450 regular sessions (non-member pricing) Open House: March 22 from 2 – 4 p.m. Camp Lurecrest Lake Lure, N.C. www.camplurecrest.org Cost: $460 - $540 Open House: June 14 from 10 a.m. – 3 p.m. Camp Tekoa Hendersonville, N.C. http://www.camptekoa.org Cost: $230 (mini camp sessions) $460 (elementary overnight sessions) $480-$575 (middle school camps)
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FEBRUARY Free Wednesday Evenings at The Mint What: Both locations of The Mint Museum offer free admission every Wednesday evening. When: Feb. 4, 11, 18 and 25 Where: Mint Museum Randolph and Mint Museum Uptown www.mintmuseum.org
Teddy Bear Tea Party What: Children will enjoy a story, a craft and tea and cookies all with their favorite teddy bear or stuffed animal. This program also includes one hour of swimming from noon to 1 pm. Please bring swimwear and a towel. Parent participation is required throughout the program. Preregistration is required. When: Feb. 4 from 10:30 a.m. to noon. Where: Ray’s Splash Planet www.parkandrec.com
Fairy House Festival What: Fairy Houses are whimsical habitats built by children, families, gardeners and nature lovers. This is a festival that everyone can enjoy and building fairy houses reconnects people with nature. This annual festival will inspire appreciation of the environment with storytelling, children’s crafts, activities and games, all focused on fairies and nature. Fairy, gnome and other appropriate costume are encouraged but not required. Food vendors will be on site. No registration required. When: Feb. 7 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Where: Latta Plantation Nature Preserve www.parkandrec.com
Snow Queen casts her icy spell on the world, turns young Kay’s heart to ice and takes him away as her eternal prisoner to her Ice Palace at the very top of the world. Gerda, Kay’s friend, must journey forever north and brave many dangers in her attempt to save Kay and break Winter’s grip. When: Feb. 20 – March 1 Where: Matthews Playhouse www.matthewsplayhouse.com
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What: Your Sweetheart is sure to enjoy a Guided House Tour with a sweet little twist. During this week each house tour will be accompanied by historical Valentine’s Day facts and love stories of the Latta family. See the courting window, courting candle, vintage Valentines cards and more. Learn how the holiday began and also enjoy a selfguided tour of the plantation’s grounds and outbuildings as well as the exhibit hall. When: Feb. 10 –15 Where: Latta Plantation www.lattaplantation.org
What: Take your family out to the ballgame, and back in time, with this powerful, heart-warming story about the true meaning of courage. Ten-year-old Joey Stoshack has a special talent for time travel; so when he gets an assignment to write a report on a role model, he uses his powers to travel back to 1947 and meet the legendary Jackie Robinson, the first African-American baseball player in the major leagues. Joey plans on writing a prize-winning report, but he never plans on a trip that will forever change his view of history. Recommended for children ages 7 and older. When: Feb. 27 – March 15 Where: Wells Fargo Playhouse www.ctcharlotte.org
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What: All the museum’s exhibits and Nature Trail will be available for your exploration. Don’t miss a special showing of Red Starr’s Solar System Roundup at 6 p.m. in the James H. Lynn Planetarium. When: Feb. 10 from 4 – 8 p.m. Where: The Schiele Museum www.schielemuseum.org
What: More than a fossil show, this event spotlights all sorts of natural treasures from the earth including fossils, rocks, minerals and the ancient stories that these items tell. See museum and fossil club displays and purchase interesting specimens from vendors. Mine for gemstones like garnets, emeralds and amethyst. Kids can meet animated prehistoric characters, see a full-sized T. rex, make a fossil fish print, search for tiny fossils from the Carolina Coast, and much more. When: Feb. 28 from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Where: The Schiele Museum www.schielemuseum.org
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“The Snow Queen” What: One of Hans Christian Andersen’s most beautiful fairy tales, the timeless appeal of The Snow Queen lies in its persuading us that life is truly magical. The wicked
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Musical Petting Zoo What: Explore rhythms and rhymes, and make your own music at the Musical Petting Zoo, presented by the Symphony Guild of Charlotte. When: Feb. 28 at 11 a.m. Where: ImaginOn: The Joe & Joan Martin Center www.imaginon.org
Snow Party What: We may not get a lot of snow here in Charlotte, but we can still celebrate the winter season. Create beaded snowflakes, view snow crystals under a microscope, paint with ice cubes, and make your own snowflake catcher. No registration required. Hot chocolate included. When: Feb. 28 from 9:30 to 11:30 a.m. Where: McDowell Nature Preserve www.parkandrec.com
MARCH Free Wednesday Evenings at The Mint What: Both locations of The Mint
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Museum offer free admission every Wednesday evening. When: March 4, 11, 18 and 25 Where: Mint Museum Randolph and Mint Museum Uptown www.mintmuseum.org
“The Very Hungry Caterpillar and Other Eric Carle Favorites” What: The work of award-winning author/illustrator Eric Carle comes to life in this delightful show that
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A Person’s a Person no matter how small. ~ Dr. Seuss combines colorful puppets and black light fun. Follow the brave journeys of three of Carle’s most-treasured stories, reimagined by Nova Scotia’s Mermaid Theatre. The troupe’s inventive adaptations of children’s literature have delighted millions of families across four continents. Recommended for ages 3 and older. When: March 15 – March 22 Where: McColl Family Theatre www.ctcharlotte.org
Life and Works of Dr. Seuss What: Learn about the personal and professional life of Theodor Seuss Geisel, better known as Dr. Seuss, author of more than 60 children’s books. Listen and share readings from his most famous works. When: March 2 at 4 p.m. Where: West Boulevard Library www.cmlibrary.org
2015 Annual St. Patrick’s Day Parade and Charlotte Goes Green Festival What: Follow the parade as it marches through the heart of Charlotte with a combination of flags, floats and uplifting pipe band music. Stay for the Charlotte Goes Green Festival, which offers Irish music and
performances, food, Irish/Celtic vendors and the Celtic Kids Zone. When: March 14 at 11 a.m. The Charlotte Goes Green Festival runs from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Where: S. Tryon Street between 3rd Street and Stonewall www.charlottestpatsday.com
AngelCare: Parent’s Night Out What: This event supports local families by providing quality caregivers for children with special needs and their siblings in a supportive environment. Childcare is for ages 2-16 years old. When: March 21 from 5:30 – 8:30 p.m. Where: JV Washam Recreation Center www.cornelius.org
3-2-1 Dash for Down Syndrome 5K and Fun Run What: Event proceeds benefit Education Programs for individuals with Down syndrome (Ds). Educational programs in the greater Charlotte area are helping to support educators and enable students with Ds to live up to their full potential. When: March 21 at 8:30 a.m. Where: Parking will be at Elevation Church, 8835 Blakeney Professional Dr. www.dsa-gc.org
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Run the Creek 5k & 1 Mile Fun Run Proceeds from this event will benefit the Batten Disease Support and Research Association (BDSRA) which is an international support and research networking organization for families of children and young adults with an inherited neurological degenerative disease known as Batten disease. For more information about this disease and the families of children affected by it, please go to the website: www.bdsra.org. Location: Highland Creek Neighborhood, Charlotte When: Sat. March 21 at 9 a.m. jonesracingcompany.com/ run-the-creek-5k
Reptile and Amphibian Day What: Jump, slither or crawl to Discovery Place for activities, games, crafts and meet ‘n’ greets with special reptile and amphibian guests. You’ll have the opportunity to make origami or fingerprint frogs, try a tasty frog snack, create your very own snake hat, and much more. When: March 28 from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Where: Discovery Place www.discoveryplace.org
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shine a light on camp anxiety address your children’s questions for an easier transition By Leslie Petruk, MA, LPC, NCC, BCC his is the time of year we start thinking about summer plans and many children will be heading off to camps once school is out. Whether day or overnight camp, it’s not uncommon for children to experience some level of anxiety. Even if your child has been to camp before, had a great time and knows what to expect, the thought of camp can still elicit angst, even if it’s excited anxiety. Think of the first day of school. Even when going to the same school and feeling excited about seeing friends, children frequently report the fear of the new and unknown creates some degree of anxious anticipation and worry and for some, even fears. While some children may feel excitement and look forward to camp, bidding their parents adieu without any hesitation, most children will experience some level of stress at the thought of leaving the comfort of home and their familiar routine and heading off to camp. It is typical to experience some level of nervousness when entering a new and unknown experience (i.e. the first day of school), but for some anxiety can become debilitating. If your child has expressed worries or fears related to camp or can’t even broach the topic without having a panic attack, here are some things to consider. First and foremost, camp is supposed to be fun, adventurous and enriching. If you attended camp as a child you likely have vivid memories of the experience. Hopefully they are fond memories that you can share with
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your child—but for some camp elicits negative feelings and memories of angst and fear. Not every child will benefit from camp and it may even have a detrimental impact because the thought of being away from home is just too overwhelming and stressful. You know your child best, so use your judgment and trust your instinct about whether he is ready and will benefit from the experience. Here are some tips when considering sending your child to camp: • Don’t force your child to go to camp if she isn’t ready—it defeats the “fun” of it. When children are empowered to make the decision you are more likely to avoid dealing with debilitating anxiety. Your child will likely be more open to the possibility if she knows she gets to make the decision. • ASK your child what his fears and concerns are if he seems resistant— don’t tell him all of the reasons why he shouldn’t feel anxious or why he should go to camp. • Validate her feelings, by saying things like “going off to camp can feel a little scary, what is the scariest part for you when you think about it?” • Address any fears and/or irrational beliefs he has AFTER validating his feelings. i.e. “some kids do get homesick when they go away for camp and I understand why you would worry that might happen to you. What do you think you could do if you went to camp and started feeling homesick, what could help you feel better?” • Find out what her worst fear is,
asking “What is the biggest fear you have about going to camp?” or “What is the worst thing you can think of that could happen if you went to camp?” and help her come to the realization that the catastrophic fears she has are unlikely. • Your child may be most worried about leaving you (will you be okay without him there, will something bad happen to you or him). Don’t try to convince him, just stay curious about his fears and ask questions that will help you understand what the fears are about. • If her fears are related to things out of her control (which they likely will be) talk about what she does or doesn’t have control over and ask what would help her to alleviate the fear or worry. Examples include taking a family picture she could look at when she feels homesick, writing you a letter to tell how she is feeling, or talking with a counselor. • If your child makes the decision to go to camp, involve him in the process of choosing the camp and preparing. Look at the website with him, talk about the activities he will be doing and make the preparation process fun (getting all of the things he will need for camp can become a fun shopping treasure hunt!) • Ask her how she is feeling about going or the various activities as the time approaches versus, “are you worried about making new friends?” Position it as “how do you feel about meeting and making so many new friends?” • If you are anxious about your child
going to camp, he will feel it even if you don’t tell him. Children are incredibly intuitive and it is important that you communicate your confidence in them (versus trying to “sell” the camp to them). If you have fun camp experiences from your childhood, share those stories. • Utilize the staff at the camp if you know your child is anxious and ask that they give you a call to let you know how she’s doing. If there is anything you know might be helpful to appease your child’s anxiety or fears, share that with the staff. You know your child best and your child’s camp counselor will likely welcome any direction or information that you can provide that will help them help your child. • If you know someone who has a child who has gone to camp before and had a good experience, have them share their experience and give your child the opportunity to ask questions they may have or express their fears. Hearing how he dealt with homesickness or his fears will help your child know he isn’t alone in how he feels and he may get some helpful ideas on dealing with anxiety. Camp should be about creating memories, new experiences, going on adventures and making new friends. If anxiety is going to prevent your child from the benefits of the experience, your money is probably better spent engaging your child in summer activities that he will enjoy. Every child has different temperaments and some kids just aren’t “camp kids.” However, if your child experiences a generalized separation anxiety that is not just camp specific, consulting a mental health professional is likely appropriate. They can help you determine if your child suffers from an anxiety disorder or if there are some things that you can do to help alleviate the excessive worry. A therapist can also be helpful in coaching you on how to best prepare your child based on his temperament and their specific fears— and they can even help you with the angst you may be feeling!
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