In My Words

INMYWORDS

FROM THE CREATIVE DIRECTOR

Photo: @chiantelle

A little Fall magic in my world.

There once was a little girl who dreamed of being older than she

was. She was an only child and she really quite enjoyed being in the company of her mother and her mother’s friends. She would much prefer to sit and listen to them chat over coffee than play with rambunctious children! The reason that I share this with you is because many years later something very magical happened to me during the Fall... and it happened exactly on October 9th. Just over the cusp, at 4:27am, my precious daughter Kadence was born.

She was due sometime around October 29th and we were hoping that she might be a Scorpio like her dad... but she came early on a date that is beautifully connected to me! Not only that – she was born the Thursday before Thanksgiving weekend, which as I mentioned is one of my favourite holidays. We arrived home from the hospital and Kyle insisted on making us turkey dinner along with my mom who was staying with us. I can’t think of any way more perfect to celebrate my baby!

Like many kids, she would acknowledge as soon as she reached her age ‘and-a-half’. The ‘and-a-half’ was a badge of honour. She even figured out that October 9th was exactly 6 months from her birthday in April. She never told anyone, but she looked at it as a second birthday. She felt connected to it, and when the 9th would come, she felt special all day. Because of this, and for many other reasons (such as Thanksgiving) Fall became her favourite season.

Okay, if you haven’t already guessed, this strange little girl was me! lol At the age I am now, it seems a little odd to wish to be older. Also, I think my family would think I am strange for loving Fall. I come from a long line of sunshine worshipers! I guess one could view Fall as being cold and dreary, but I chose to embrace it many years ago. The more that I decided to love Fall, the more wonderful the season has become for me. This year, Kadence is 6 and I feel like my childhood is coming back to play. I am feeling very inspired to decorate and even go all-out for Halloween (which is usually not my style).

You’re never too young to be old, you’re never too old to be young, so always seek out the magic! Happy Fall.

Q&A

THIS GROUP OF I LIKE HER STYLE COMMUNITY FRIENDS ANSWERED:

What is Fall 2021 the ‘season of’ for you? KYLA (me!) Q&A

@ilikeherstylevancouver

FOUNDER AND CREATIVE DIRECTOR This Fall feels like the season of possibilities! I have re-claimed more time by getting up earlier, giving myself a roadmap for productivity and of course, having the kids go back to school has opened up new avenues to focus on myself and how I want this fabulous community to grow. I’m feeling more creative, more daring and more capable. I’m thinking bigger than I have in quite some time and I’m taking some new steps forward with exciting things on the horizon. JAMIE I wish I could give more than one answer! @jamie.krause HOME & LIVING BLOGGER, SHOP OWNER Q&ASo far Fall 2021 has been a bit hectic for me, with starting a new job, taking on new blog partnerships, and even being given the opportunity to work with two charitable causes close to my heart in the coming months. I think my answer is hiding in plain sight right there – Fall 2021 is the ‘season of new beginnings’ for this gal! Autumn and renewal always seem to go hand-in-hand, and as they say: Good things are coming!

Q&AQ&AQ&AQ&A CRYSTAL JODY @hustlewithluster LIFESTYLE BLOGGER @jody_belanger MY REAL LIFE BEST FRIEND ORIGINAL CO-FOUNDER My intention for this fall, is for it to be the season of focus. Focusing on what really matters, what fills me up, and my sense of self. This past year+ has sometimes felt paralyzing, in varying degrees. Fall is the perfect time to shift my focus back to what can propel me forward, versus what might hold me back. I’m planning on more quality family time, prioritizing my health, and pushing myself out of my comfort zone, creatively. And, I’ll probably focus a little bit on pumpkin pie too. As I enter into Fall 2021, I am entering a season of new significance; a mixture of new growth with significance. Understanding that I don’t have to have all the answers but be courageous to try. I am entering a season of doing it scared because that is where the growth truly lies. It’s a season where you can give yourself the permission to say yes to yourself unapologetically. To let go of the guilt, the need to please others and the self doubt hold you back so you can create space that is filled with high vibe energy, creativity and stepping into your purpose. Doing it scared is waving your middle finger to your fears of showing up, of being seen and the willingness to express your vulnerability on new levels. Fall 2021 is a season of love for me! As I plan our wedding day, my heart flutters at the thought of our official union & celebration. In the process, I have often been reminded of how blessed we are with an abundance of love in our lives. On this special day, our love story will be shared amongst a romantic vintage setting nestled in the mountains to perfectly represent our love which has proven strong and true. Sprinkled with bohemian touches in honour of the ease and comfort our love provides. Undoubtedly, the most meaningful pieces to this day are the loved ones surrounding us and sharing in our joy! I will be leading with love as we step into this new season and the next chapter of our story! Photo: @brooklyndphotography

SHALANNA

@shalannalayne_ MINDSET & CONFIDENCE COACH

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