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November/December 2013

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CONTENTS

November/December 2013

32| Feature Holiday

Gift Guide

24| Local Business

Paradise Playhouse

26| Holiday Special The Giving Season DEPARTMENTS

10| Publisher/Editor’s letter 14| Events Calendar 18 Spotlight on Charity

Chip-In for Charity

22| Local Business:

Burlington Northtown Credit Union

40| Just Across The River:

Arverst Bank Theatre at Midland

44| Edibles & Cocktails: Wabash BBQ 48| Fitness: New Year’s Resolutions

50| The New Face of Aging 52| Oral Health:

Oral Cancer Screening Saves Lives

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63| Recreation Guide 64| Restaurant Guide 66| The Last Word with Phil LeVota

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appy Holidays! This year has flown by. It feels like it has gone so quickly, but as we look back on the memories made in the past year and the journey it does put life into perspective. The things that truly matter are highlighted in this magical time of year—family, friends and time spent helping others. You cannot help but feel blessed to be a part of this community, and we have the distinct honor of bringing you the stories that warm the heart and inspire. This issue’s cover showcases the magnificent Christmas tree that resides in the lobby of The Argosy Casino, Hotel and Spa. This symbol of Christmas is a breathtaking work of art and emits a warm and welcoming presence for those of us who live here and for those traveling through our wonderful city.

Please check out the Holiday Gift Guide sponsored by Argosy Casino, Hotel and Spa and the amenities they have to offer, along with the other local businesses that have unique and beautiful ideas for your gift giving. We have a fun story on the Paradise Play House in Excelsior Springs featuring its seasonal production of A Christmas Carol. We also have a mouthwatering story on Wabash BBQ, also located in Excelsior Springs. Wabash is a great place to think about when looking to cater your next event! Nick Bolton relays ideas to help you keep your New Year’s fitness resolutions this year. Two financial articles help educate all of us on strategies for year-end planning, as well as investing concepts useful for 2014. Our “Just Over the River” section features the iconic Arvest Bank Theatre at the Midland, with its breathtaking Italian and French architectural baroque-inspired interior. It is a Kansas City treasure.

One of our feature writers, and Northlander, Tiffany Kilgoren, who also practices law at Shook, Hardy & Bacon, shares with us the firm’s mission as a major corporate sponsor of The Adopt an Angel Project. This organization helps those who are in need in our community. The story is a timeless message of compassion for those less fortunate during this season of hope. In addition, we have the distinct honor of highlighting the Harvest Ball Society for 2013. This Northland-based charity has touched countless lives and continues to grow in its endeavors. It has an enduring legacy of which the Northland can be proud. We are honored to have the opportunity to cover their two major events, The Adorn Fashion Show and the Harvest Ball. Be sure to read the tips from Coach Kim on how to handle the chaos of the holidays. The Three Link Gallery in Smithville, Missouri is the spotlight in our Art section. The movie reviews are a must read if you’re thinking about going to the cinema. You are sure to enjoy The Last Word with Phil LeVota as he tells us a tail, or rather a tale, of man’s best friend and how this “best friend” named Hero became a real life hero to those he served unconditionally throughout his life. He continues to inspire through his organization, Hero’s Hope Pet-Assist. As always, but especially during this special time of year, we want to take this time and thank you, our readers and our advertisers, for your support and encouragement during this past year. We look forward to continuing to showcase the Northland and will strive to enhance our wonderful community throughout the upcoming year. We also want to thank our amazing feature writers, contributors and our talented staff. We are so fortunate to have you all bringing your gifts and talents to this magazine. We wish you all the very best of the season.

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Randy Reed Buick GMC November 12th - December 1

Drop off your unwanted winter clothes to Randy Reed Buick GMC on the showroom floor. The team at Randy Reed is collecting items to benefit Northland Children for winter. Zona Rosa Town Square

Saturday, November 23, 6:00 PM Zona Rosa will once again kick off the holiday season with a special lighting ceremony to spotlight the large crowns hung above the streets, as well as the featured 50 ft. Christmas tree in Town Square. The community is invited to the FREE program including the official arrival of the holiday Fairy Princess, Santa Claus & Mrs. Claus!

Start your holiday season at Zona Rosa! Zona Rosa Town Square

Saturday, November 23, 2013

The Salvation Army’s 5K Kettle Run for Hope is an event that involves the serious runner, jogger and walker who want to make a difference in the lives of those in need by running and giving hope. Be a Champion of Hope and register to participate or volunteer at www.kettlerun5k. com. This 5K holiday event takes place after the official Zona Rosa Lighting Ceremony at Town Square. Zona Rosa Town Square

November 28, 2013, 10:00 PM Make Zona Rosa your first stop for holiday shopping this season with the return of this special shopping event! The first 1,000 customers at Guest Services beginning at 10:00 p.m. will each receive a $25.00 November/December 2013

gift card to use that evening. (To be eligible to receive a gift card you must be 18 years of age WITH a valid I.D.) Zona Rosa stores will be offering deep discounts and many specials valid only during the shopping event. Plus, while you’re here, register to win one of the many great prizes to be given away! *Over $10,000 in prizes! Head to where midnight shopping in Kansas City began Zona Rosa! Slightly Off Broadway Theater

Friday, November 29, 7:30 PM Now celebrating it 50th anniversary, Broadway’s greatest farce is light, fast-paced, witty, irreverent and one of the funniest musicals ever written! Forum takes comedy back to its roots, combining situations from time tested 2000 year old comedies of Roman playwright Platues with the infectious energy of classic vaudeville. Cost: Tickets- $10 Online at www.esctheatre.org Historic Downtown Parkville

Saturday, November 30, 6:00 PM We’re officially welcoming the sights, sounds and joys of the holiday season with a lighting ceremony, festive fun, and open houses at participating downtown shops! First Christian Church, North Kansas CIty

Saturday, November 30, 7:30PM

Fresh off her Lincoln Center Debut, Prenicia Clifton is a Kansas City native opera singer who has performed in numerous venues all around the world from singing Mandarin Opera in China to singing with the Chicago Lyric Opera as well as the Kansas City Lyric Opera here in Kansas City. In November Prenicia will be making her documentary debut in the film I Sing Beijing, which documents the pioneer expedition of classically trained

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Sunday, November 24th 5pm-8pm Join us for one of the most beautiful displays in the city when Briarcliff Village lights up for the holidays at the Annual Holiday Lighting Ceremony. This much-loved Northland tradition continues in 2013 with more excitement and family fun than ever before. At 5 p.m., Santa Claus will arrive for FREE pictures with every boy and girl. The 5-Star Jazz band will play a musical accompaniment, while families enjoy face painting, refreshments, holiday movies, and more. Don’t miss that special moment when the lights go on at 6:30 p.m. This year’s event includes new Dancing Holiday Lights for the first time in the Northland. Bring the whole family and usher in everyone’s favorite time of year. This community event is free and open to everyone.

November/December Calendar Western singers learning the Eastern style of Chinese opera. Not only was Prenicia a big part of this pioneer event she was also the first African American to take on this feat in this program which added a different perspective to her experience. In 2011 Prenicia lost her father, Prentess Clifton Sr., to complications from his battle with cancer. The day that her father passed was the day she found out that her life would change forever as she would be one of the first Americans to present Chinese opera in Mandarin. Prentess was a teacher in the Fort Osage School District at the McCune School for Boys and was always passionate about advocating for today’s youth. Prenicia has decided that this year she wanted to honor her father’s passion for hope for kids by adopting the Title I school West Englewood Elementary. This year’s proceeds will go to sponsor holiday programs providing food and presents to less fortunate families The fund will also help sponsor field trips based in the arts for West Englewood. Prenicia believes that she would not be the artist that she is today if it were not for being exposed to the arts at such a young age through field trips and voice lessons.

Tickets are available at the door or RSVP in advance by calling 816-413-4929 or email songs.for.hope.2012@gmail.com Cost: $20 Adults $10 Children The Grove at Zona Rosa

Friday, December 6, 6:00PM

Families are invited to participate in this cherished night with Mr. and Mrs. Claus featuring fun family entertainment for everyone! Enjoy a special storytime with Mrs. Claus, followed by kid-approved entertinment you get to watch with SANTA and MRS. CLAUS!! Additional activities include: PJ party fun, special giveaways*, yummy treats, and the first opportunity of the season to get your photo taken with Santa! Everyone is encouraged to wear their pajamas to welcome Santa Claus to Zona Rosa! (Santa will begin his visits with children directly following the PJ Party) *While Supply Lasts Liberty Performing Arts Theater

Saturday, December 7, 7:30PM

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LSO’s season continues on December 7th with “Simple Gifts,” our popular holiday concert featuring the winners of the High School Artists Competition. This annual holiday celebration sells out quickly -- attendees are encouraged to get their tickets early for this concert.

creativity and digital knowhow to help reinvigorate teaching and learning. For decades he has been helping teachers, students, everyone tell their stories in their own way, using the digital technology that is now abundant and part of our every day lives.

The concert begins at 7:30pm at the Liberty Performing Arts Theatre, 1600 S. Withers Road, Liberty MO 64068. Tickets are $18/adults, $14/seniors and $5/students and are available by phone at 1-888-71-TICKETS or online at www. libertysymphony.org (service charge applies).

He is also an enthusiastic champion of the need for students to learn how to use technology wisely and safely, with awareness and compassion, so they can become informed and productive citizens in a global digital society. He has won a number of awards for his work and is author of many books, articles, and online resources.

Cost: $18/adults, $14/seniors, $5/students (service charge applies) The Grove at Zona Rosa

Monday, December 9 & 16, 6:00 PM (Northland Animal Welfare Society)

Get Yappy Happy with Santa! Come get a FREE* photo of you and your furry friend with Santa. Free photos will be given to the first 30 visitors each night who bring a bag of pet food to help area rescue groups. For more information on NAWS, visit www.pcnaws.org. __________________________ Shoal Creek Living History Museum

Saturday, December 7, 10AM-4PM

Experience Christmas as it was meant to be in the 19th century. Visit log cabins of 1825 and 1835, a school, church, mercantile and then St. Nicholas, resplendent in green velvet robes. Ride the horse drawn sleigh (from noon to 4 pm) and take the walking tour through 17 historic buildings. Cost: $5 Woodneath Library Center

Monday, December 9, 8:30AM

Dr. Jason Ohler is a professor emeritus, speaker, writer, teacher, and cyber researcher. He is also a lifelong digital humanist who is well known for the passion, insight, and humor he brings to his presentations, projects and writings. He has worked both online and in classrooms at home and internationally for over a quarter century helping students develop the new literacies they need to be successful in the digital age. He is a passionate promoter of “Art the Next R” and of combining innovation,

You will learn how to plan, write, tell stories and develop the aspects of successful stories that are found in books, movies, public presentations and even advertisements, including flow, character, meaning, conflict resolution, audience engagement and transformation. You will leave with practical tools to use with others to help them tell their stories. The workshop can be applied to literacy and content learning for students, business presentations, public speaking and personal development and expression. Topics include a number of the practical aspects related to helping students create thoughtful, effective media, particularly digital stories; learning how to evaluate “story” as well as how to use stories in content areas; how to listen to, deconstruct and evaluate new media narrative and digital stories so you can give students helpful feedback on their media projects; and learn how to use “media grammar” as a way to talk to your students about the media they produce. Cost: Workshop admission fee $45.00 Voodoo Lounge at Harrah’s Casino

Thursday, December 12, 8:00PM

Stone Temple Pilots are back featuring their new front man, Chester Bennington of Linkin Park. Bennington brings a new edge and rejuvenated energy to the already legendary alternative rock band. Don’t miss their triumphant return to Kansas City with a concert on December 12 at Harrah’s VooDoo Lounge! The View at Briarcliff

Tuesday, December 31, 7:00PM

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Red Grant November 21-24

Red Grant is an African-American comedian, actor and producer. He has appeared in numerous television shows and films, and is also a touring stand-up comedian. Grant has performed his comedy in several television shows, including HBO’s Def Comedy Jam, NBC’s Later, MTV’s Snaps, and BET’s ComicView, where his last appearance registered the most viewers for the 2006 season. His first television appearance, however, was the 1995 special Showtime at the Apollo. He has also won different awards for his comedy.

Loni Love November 29- December 1

A Detroit native, Loni performs regularly at the comedy clubs and colleges all around the country. She was awarded the Jury Prize for best stand up at the 2003 US Comedy Arts Festival in Aspen and voted one of Variety’s 2003 “10 Comics to Watch.” In 2007, Comedy Central named Loni one of the top twenty comics to watch on Comedy Central. In 2008, Loni was named Campus Activity Magazine’s Hot Comic for 2009. She was also a finalist on the first season of CBS’ new “Star Search.” A former engineer by day and comic by night, Loni’s movie credits include the MGM feature “Soul Plane.” She has made television appearances on “The Tonight Show with Jay Leno,” “The Late Late Show with Craig Kilborn,” “Comedy Central’s Premium Blend,” “Comedy

Central’s Chocolate News,” and “The Best Damn Sports Show Period.” Loni has been on VH1’s “I Love the 70s/80s/90s,” and “I Love The Toys.” She recently did a half hour standup special for Comedy Central that premiered in the spring of 2007.

Tammy Pescatelli December 5-8

When comedian Tammy Pescatelli is asked where she gets her inspiration for her comedy, her answer is “I wake up.” Culling from her own life, her Italian upbringing in a large family and her observations about the world around her, Pescatelli has plugged away for years on the club circuit and developed a large and devoted following for her brand of sarcastic stand-up. Her hard work has paid off, and in 2010 Pescatelli garnered the most votes to be named the winner of Comedy Central’s Stand-up Showdown.

George Willborn December 19-22

Since his first appearance on stage in 1987, George Willborn has brought laughter to the masses with his “no holds barred” approach to telling the truth about what’s funny. Dubbed comedy’s “Stress Reliever,” George has marveled a crowd with his comedy around the world, on stage, on television and of course on radio. He is currently the co-host of the Nationally Syndicated “Michael Baisden Show” as well as the co-host of “Michael Baisden After Dark.”

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The lights and historical crowns blaze to life at 6 p.m. and the fun continues with the first Salvation Army Kettle Run/Walk for Hope immediately following the ceremony. For more information about the lighting ceremony, visit zonarosa.com

HOLIDAY ORNAMENT Zona Rosa’s Fourth-In-A-Series Holiday Ornament goes on sale November 23rd, all proceeds benefit the Zona Rosa Community Foundation.

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Chip-In For Charity Open The 21st annual Chip-In For Charity Open was held on Saturday, September 21, at Paradise Pointe Golf Course in Smithville. Charities benefiting this year were Good Samaritan Center, Metropolitan Organization to Counter Sexual Assault (MOCSA) and Northland Therapeutic Riding Center. Since the tournament started in 1993, over $2.1 million has been donated to more than 25 Northland charities. This year, 168 players took to the greens to raise money for these worthwhile charities. The sponsors included the Medical Staff of North Kansas City Hospital as a Platinum Plus sponsor and Kutak Rock as a Double Platinum Sponsor. Proceeds from the tournament were presented to the charities during a special presentation on Friday, October 11. Volunteers and sponsors also were recognized. November/December 2013

Westfall-Huff Wedding Bill and Renee Westfall, of Liberty, Missouri are pleased to announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter, Allison Renee, to D. Ryan Huff, son of David Huff of St. Louis and Mary Carnal of Pleasant Hill, Missouri. Mr. Huff proposed to Miss Westfall just outside of Steamboat Springs, Colorado last summer. They met in 2007 while on a snowboarding trip in Steamboat Springs. Allison is a 2005 graduate of Liberty High School and received a degree of Bachelor of Arts and Science in Communication at UMKC. She is the manager at The Manor, Home Furnishings & Gifts, and the Pink Hanger clothing boutique in Liberty. Ryan graduated from Belton High School in 2002. He received his Bachelor of Science degree in Mechanical Engineering in 2007 from the University of Missouri Kansas City. Ryan is employed by Freightliner Trucks. The couple will be married at the Country Club Christian Church, Kansas City, in September 2014.

3rd Annual Bill Cross 5K Walk/Run The Northland Childhood Hunger Initiative Fund (NCHIF) has partnered with Harvesters to expand its BackSnack program in Clay and Platte Counties. Over the past two years, the NCHIF has helped Harvesters grow the program from serving 1,000 Northland children to more than 2,800 every weekend during the school year. Unfortunately, more work needs to be done. There are more than 3,200 Northland children in need of a backpack of food for the weekend. That is why NCHIF encourages participation in the Annual Bill Cross 5K Walk/Run for BackSnack to help feed hungry Northland children. The 3rd Annual Bill Cross 5K Walk/ Run for BackSnack was held October 13, 2013 at Zona Rosa. The run was in memory of Bill Cross, former Mayor of Gladstone and a teacher, coach, administrator, mentor and role model for more than 35,000 area students.

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A legacy of enduring philanthropy. www.harvestballsociety.org

The 2013 Victory Honorees with President Jerri Landsberg (Clockwise from top) Christopher Cary, Katherine Waldschmidt, Mathew McWilliams, Lindsey Wilson, Taylor Spooner, Jerri Landsberg, Stefanie Duff, Jakob Allen, Jenna Disselhoff and Matthew Pepper

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Burlington Northtown Community Credit Union by Martha Zirschky

One of the best kept secrets in North Kansas City is the Burlington Northtown Community Credit Union (BNCCU) said Barbara “Suzie” Sifuentes, who recently retired after a 20-year tenure as president of the financial institution and 45 years credit union experience.

What is a credit union? In contrast to a regular forprofit financial institution, a credit union is owned and operated by its depositors--its members, Sifuentes said. The members are shareholders in the business and are paid a dividend (interest) on their money.

Dave Smith, a member of the Supervisory Committee of the credit union, credits Sifuentes for the growth BNCCU has experienced. In the last four years, its assets have grown from $8.6 million to $11.3 million, even though the economy has not been strong.

“Not for profit, not for charity, but for service“is the credit union motto, said Sifuentes, and it is proudly displayed over the door to the BNCCU’s lobby. Service includes providing its members with benefits such as savings and checking accounts and loans. It also offers an ATM, online banking and soon will be offering mobile banking, she said.

Even during the Depression of the 1930s, the credit union prospered, Sifuentes said. “Those who had the money helped those who did not.” That is a benefit of a business that is owned and managed by its members, she added. Sifuentes recalled an early credit union logo that featured an umbrella with credit union written on it shielding a man “through financial distress, sickness and hard times.” The BNCCU is celebrating its 85th birthday making it the oldest chartered still existing credit union in Kansas City. Formed in 1928, a year before the stock market crash that ushered in the Great Depression, it served members of the then Chicago, Burlington and Quincy Railroad, aka the Burlington. The railroad, through many subsequent mergers, is now the Burlington Northern Santa Fe Railway, owned by Warren Buffett. November/December 2013

Credit unions originated in Europe and immigrated to the United States in 1909 when the first one opened in Manchester, New Hampshire. Today there are more than 9,000 credit unions in the U.S. with $500 billion in assets that serve 83 million people, 1.2 million in Missouri. Historically, rates on deposits and loans have been more favorable to credit union consumers than those of banks, according to the Missouri Credit Union Association. Deposits are insured up to $250,000 by the National Credit Union Administration, a government agency. Membership is restricted to certain groups as determined by the individual institutions. Members of BNCCU, for example, are employees of the Burlington Northern Santa Fe and, also, individuals who either work or live in North Kansas City and their families. “Family,” in the broadest sense of the word, helps define BNCCU as the staff has established an informal relationship with the members, underscoring the community in its name. “We are a family,” Sifuentes stated with emphasis on “are,” as she nodded to yet another member entering the bank. Located at the front of the lobby, the president’s office has a large glass window through which greetings can be exchanged. The board of directors is elected by the membership; each director is elected for a three year term and may be reelected. The chairman has served 20 years. A three member supervisory committee has oversight over the board of directors, although it has no vote, Sifuentes said. None are paid for their work but all attend training given by the Missouri Credit Union Association. Originally located on property owned by the railroad, the credit union moved to the first of its locations on Swift Avenue in the 1970s. In 2009, it bought the former Kamel’s Corner Restaurant Building at 10th Avenue and Swift, its present location. That move required moving a huge meat oven, Sifuentes said, laughing, as well as rebuilding from the studs out. And she remembers the BNSF crew—a part of the family-- that came to rip out the old carpet. Not surprisingly the décor is heavily weighted to railroad memorabilia including large photos of the Burlington Route diesels pulling freight trains. Its predecessor, the CBQ, had the first diesel driven passenger train, the Zephyr, in 1934. For the children--and maybe their parents--a model Zephyr runs overhead on a track. A lobby clock has logos of bygone railroads on its face. It all adds up to a mini-museum for railroad aficionados. And Sifuentes admittedly will miss it. She and her husband, Bob, will have more time for their 25 grandchildren, but the credit union family has been her life for almost half a century--a hard habit to break. NORTH

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od bless us, everyone!” Tiny Tim shouts, his little arms outstretched to embrace the world around him as he balances on a crutch and smiles at the townspeople. Snowflakes fall on his tiny nose, and the heart of Ebenezer Scrooge grows two sizes as he takes in the joyful scene. Ah, yes, A Christmas Carol is a beloved holiday story. Since its 1843 publication, Charles Dickens’ novel has been adapted for the stage and screen countless times, some a bit more memorable than others. I mean, I challenge anyone to watch Scrooged and not laugh at the lighthearted abuse that Bill Murray suffers at the hands of Carol Kane’s Ghost of Christmas Present. This season, if you’re looking for a rendition of Dickens’ classic that stays true to its original, you will have many opportunities on the classic movie channels. But if you’re looking for a fun twist on this story--and every other holiday tale out there--then turn off the television and stop by the Paradise Playhouse in Excelsior Springs for its play Every Christmas Story Ever Told (And Then Some!). Throughout November and December, Paradise Playhouse offers regular showings of its comical play that turns Christmas tradition on its head. This is the gist – a small

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Paradise Playhouse acting troupe, which is supposed to be performing the Dickens’ classic, decides instead to take a not-so-minor detour in the script. The result is a performance that covers multiple Christmas stories, carols, and holiday traditions from here to the farthest ends of the world. You will laugh as you take the journey with them and enjoy a welcome break from your holiday baking and shopping. Take a night to treat yourself; or even better, give the gift of laughter to those family or friends who already have everything and would much rather spend an evening at the playhouse than receive another coffee mug or bottle of perfume on Christmas morning. Paradise Playhouse in Excelsior Springs initially opened in 1999, but closed its doors after a successful ten-year run. Reopening in the fall of 2011, it once again offers the unique experience of a classic dinner theater. And the menu? We’re not talking cold cuts and jello. Guests of the theater dine on turkey, grilled pork loin, ham, potatoes, and a variety of salads as they enjoy the evening’s performance. The reviews are stellar and the experience even better. Would Dickens approve? Well, I like to think

he would encourage such creative expression by people who love the spirit of Christmas as much as he did. “I love doing holiday shows,” says Cress Hewitt, Artistic Director for the playhouse. “This is a fun time of year when people are looking for things to do. This show is so silly, it lets you just sit back and enjoy the show. The cast is even laughing during the rehearsals.” Hewitt hopes that people will think of the playhouse as a fun alternative to the typical night out. “There aren’t many dinner theaters around,” he explains. The theater’s current performance is the perfect opportunity to introduce those who have not yet visited a dinner theater to the Paradise Playhouse and see what it has to offer. So, if you’re feeling sentimental and want to curl up by the fire to watch It’s a Wonderful Life, by all means snuggle up in your favorite sweater and sip that hot chocolate. If you’re feeling a bit “bah humbug” about the holidays, however, and need a comical twist on the traditional festivities, look no further than the Paradise Playhouse. Give them a call; they have a seat waiting for you. NORTH

We all do it. Despite our best intentions to scale back and enjoy the holiday season, we feel our hearts skip a beat when we’re handed our first holiday-themed coffee cup through the drive-thru window and realize it’s started -- the holiday frenzy. We carefully sip our latte on the drive to work, silently cursing at the festive paper cup as if it’s to blame for starting the kick-off of the season; a season that calls for coordinated photo outfits and Bing Crosby’s White Christmas on auto-repeat in stores. At the July 4th neighborhood celebration, we had promised ourselves that the holidays would be celebrated with a drink in hand and in a Hawaiian shirt around friends. Maybe we even thought about a beach vacation in December. Then, when school started back up, we got a little anxious as monthly calendars were sent home and time seemed to fly by at a record pace. By the time we reached Halloween, holiday

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One Local Business Gives New Meaning to Holiday Angels catalogues had started filling our mailbox and we heard ourselves start using future holiday gifts as incentives for good behavior. By the time the first Charlie Brown cartoon special aired, it was all over. The coffee shops were already lining their shelves with festive reminders that, as much as we November/December 2013

hadn’t wanted to, we were about to get sucked into the holiday shuffle with all of its finger food, super sequined décor, and to-do lists typed in nine-point font and organized into columns by topic. Yes, with one sip of that latte, the holidays had arrived. True, we all know that it’s better to give than to receive and, admittedly, most of the nine-point-font to-do list during the holiday season involves doing things for other people. That being said, one Kansas City business challenges its

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employees to put the egg nog-fueled frenzy aside and add something else to that to-do list. Adopt an angel. Shook, Hardy & Bacon is a law firm that has built an impressive reputation based on hard work and great results for its clients. For over 15 years, its office in Kansas City has been making history of a different kind, albeit every bit as impressive as its legal triumphs. Partnering with the Salvation Army, Ridgeview Village, Heartland Residential Care and the Kansas City, Kansas Public Schools Office of the Homeless Liaison, this local business provides a helping hand and devotes time, energy, and countless hours to bringing a little holiday cheer to those who need it most. The Angel Program at Shook, Hardy & Bacon focuses on providing necessities and gifts for homeless children, families in need, special needs adults, and seniors during the holidays. The Christmas tree that stands in the lobby of the law firm is, indeed, festive. The office’s location with birds’ eye views of the mayor’s tree and ice skating rink at Crown Center only add to the merriment of the season and splendor that comes with chilly days and spruce-filled adornment. The spirit of the holidays, however, has nothing to do with the building’s wreaths or giant glass bulbs balancing on the tree’s branches. The spirit of the holiday hangs in banners that stand in the lobby and announce the “arrival” of the Holiday Angels in the form of cards that provide information for each angel participating in the program. That the “arrival” consists of paper rather than participants themselves is of no consequence; their arrival is greeted just as warmly and with anxious anticipation by those who have been waiting and preparing for them since the prior year.

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And the stories, particularly relating to the homeless angels, can be heartbreaking. Children who have been abandoned and abused are taken in by the homeless shelter, some of whom are wearing shorts and sandals in December because they have no other clothes. Families find themselves homeless after house fires or lost jobs – situations that they never thought they would find themselves in and without means to go elsewhere. Although the circumstances surrounding why children are homeless around the holidays vary, they have all found themselves in a situation through no fault of their own and they are united in what they don’t have -- no bedroom to call their own, no toys, and limited personal possessions. This is where Shook, Hardy & Bacon’s Angel Program comes into play. As the main corporate sponsor for the homeless angels, the employees “adopt” angels and provide them clothing, toys, and personal items for Christmas. Working virtually year round to prepare for the Angel Program, a team of volunteers and those who adopt angels provide each child with a warm coat, new clothes, and toys to rekindle the joy that may have been lost due to circumstances out of their control. So many holiday tunes sing of peace, love, and kindness; this program embodies that sentiment and, although perhaps not able to turn it into the Most Wonderful Time of the Year, helps to make the holidays a little brighter for the hundreds of children helped through the generosity and kindness of strangers. The Angel Program is much more than a donation opportunity; employees spend long nights wrapping gifts and preparing for a festive holiday gathering at a local church that, after being involved one year, has contacted the shelter ever since to host the distribution party. And, by “festive,” I mean employees dress as Santa and funloving elves for photo opportunities with the children, many of whom have never had the chance to sit on Santa’s lap and others who have never even had a picture taken with their family. There is no doubt that “festive,” in this situation, means a celebration of love and community in its truest form. Kim Renner has been with Shook, Hardy & Bacon for 14 years and, not only is she one of the most active members of the Angel Program, she is the one who started it all. After hearing about the children in the shelter who were without the most basic of needs, Kim organized efforts at the firm and started the homeless angel portion of the program years ago. In fact, her entire family is actively involved in the efforts. If any of them see a sale on winter coats in the hot weather months, they will buy as many as they can get their hands on to store in wait for the next season’s angels. “Once you go to the shelter and see

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the impact that we can make in one family’s life, it keeps you motivated to put in the time, effort, and hours to keep going,” Kim said. “I have people contacting me at the office to ask about angels even before they arrive. It makes me proud to work here.” Kim is one of many on a team of devoted workers who are instrumental in making the program an annual success by holding wrapping parties in her living room and even volunteering her husband to fill Santa’s big black boots on occasion to add a little ho-ho-ho to the process. Inspired by the firm’s efforts, the daughter of one of its attorneys has organized her co-workers at C3 Marketing to devote hours to helping with the wrapping of angel gifts. “We couldn’t do it without their help,” Kim said, thankful for the tireless volunteers and donated meals that help to make this event so successful. Although the largest percentage of participants, the homeless angels are just one aspect of Shook, Hardy & Bacon’s program. Seniors residing at Ridgeview Village

and special needs adults at Heartland Residential Care also prepare wish lists that are answered by firm employees, as well as children identified by the local Salvation Army chapters as in need. Although the Angel Program provides for approximately 400 participants annually, there are always many on the waiting list for the program who are just as in need of help. Heather Grossman, an attorney with Shook, Hardy & Bacon, participates in the Angel Program every year. She considers it an opportunity to teach her three young children about the importance of giving back to the community and extending a helping hand. “In a time when children are increasingly demonstrating signs of entitlement, showing my children what it feels like to give will hopefully help keep them grounded,” she explains. “Having our kids participate in the angels program will hopefully plant the seed for a love of charity work that continues throughout their lives.” The recipients of Shook, Hardy & Bacon’s Angel Program aren’t the only ones who benefit from this longstanding practice; for those on the giving end, the program provides an opportunity to touch a life and do their small part to make the world a better place. So, when you’re handed the festive coffee cup in the drive-thru window this holiday season, resist the urge to prepare a mental to-do list that will suck the joyful spirit right out of you. Consider the coffee cup as a sign -- a message that the holidays are here, and with them, a reminder to give of yourself. Shook, Hardy & Bacon’s program helps its angels find a renewed sense of happiness and lets them know, lest they have any doubt, that someone cares. If you look closely, there are angels everywhere in need of their wings. NORTH

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After years of a peaceful slumber, downtown Kansas City has once again come alive. Renovated buildings have risen -- and new ones constructed -next to chic cocktail hot spots and gourmet groceries. The streets are energized by the vibrant bustle of chatter and the greetings among friends as they embark on an evening out on the town. The downtown area has been restored and, with it, has come a renewed appreciation for what the area and its history contributes to our beloved city. Not all of the must-see places, however, are new and shiny. Some shine on their own for reasons other than flashy design or modern architecture. The Midland theater stands proudly at 12th and Main Street, its marquee reflective of a different era. An era when people dressed

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up to travel, dinner included an aperitif, and live music meant singing from the soul. Unplugged. An era when cocktails were not just sipped, but rather savored, and theater doors were held open for those lucky enough to have tickets for the latest stage performance. The doors at the Midland theater still stand open in invitation for all who enter to take a peek at the way things used to be.

The theater’s ornate style is reflective of its French and Italian Baroque architectural influence. The intricacy of its design, splendid with gold accents and Czechoslovakian handcut crystal chandeliers, is a visual spectacle. Grand in its design, and timeless in its appeal, the theater is a receptacle of energy from its past guests and performers. As years passed and ownership changed, the theater was used for a variety of purposes before earning its place on the National Register of Historic Places in 1977. Since AEG Live and The Cornish Company joined forces to renovate the theater to its original grandeur in 2008, it has become one of the most sought-after venues for performers and guests alike. Most recently, in September 2013, the Midland theater officially became the Arvest Bank Theatre at the Midland and continues to undergo plans for further development. Larry Hovick, General Manager at AEG Live, is dedicated to

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If the restoration of the theater breathed new life into its walls, the renovation was just as effective in breathing an old life into the theater experience as well. The old -or rather vintage -- energy of the Midland theater seeps deep into its walls and the crevasses of its gilded gold finishings. Just as F. Scott Fitzgerald’s Great Gatsby of the same era made no apologies for his love of the finer things in life, the theater’s opulence is as much a part of the theater experience as the performance itself. Don’t feel bad when you get lost in staring at the ornate architecture of the theater’s ceiling and have to be reminded that the curtain went up; it’s those details of the Midland theater that we would be remiss to overlook. In fact, build a bit of time into your theater experience to simply sit back and stare. With the theater’s renewed presence downtown comes the opportunity to see the area differently. Literally. Windows on Main is a private event space in the building that offers a view of the city not

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Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s just what youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d expect an authentic, muchpraised, local bar-be-que joint to be. The place is small and smells of sweet smoke. Casually dressed servers hurry from kitchen to table carrying big plates stacked high with meat. The dining room tables are informal with the necessary roll of paper towels standing tall in the middle. And if you indulge in their legendary ribs, you may be glad to have the entire roll at your disposal. The restaurant is housed in the old Wabash Railway Station whose red brick Mission-style architecture dates back to 1927. The Wabash was a branch line of the railroad and ran just under nine miles. But even shorter was the lifespan of the line. By 1933, a fast-developing

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highway system was pulling riders from the railroad and the small station had soon closed its doors. Lucky for area bar-be-que lovers, the solid old building serves another purpose these days. And as with much of Excelsior Springs, its history is not forgotten. Black and white photos hang on the old brick walls showing life in the early 20th century. It’s a wonderful tribute to the area’s history, but for most who come to this small Excelsior Springs restaurant, the food is the focus. I will gladly make the short drive to this beautiful town to feast on Wabash’s ribs. They are incredible! My first exposure to this sweet smokehouse was through catering. I remember being new to Kansas City, still learning my local bar-be-que basics, and having Wabash at a Northland dinner. I specifically recall having the sliced turkey - usually not my first pick - and thinking it was amazingly moist and flavorful. I liked everything I tried that night and knew I needed to find out more about this place called Wabash.

When you dine at the restaurant in Excelsior Springs, the appetizers are not to be missed. Topping my list are what I call the perfection of fried food: Wabash’s onion strings. These beauties are very thinly sliced, dipped in a well-seasoned batter, deep-fried, and piled high for snacking! Paired with either ketchup or the customary side of ranch dressing, you can’t go wrong.

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A menu filled with train-related titles offers an abundance of choices - more than most bar-beque joints. Sides are called Signals & Switches, for entrees they offer the Sidecar Chicken or Fireman’s Favorite, and sandwiches are the most fun to peruse with names like The Iron Horse, Train Track Tenderloin and the The Golden Spike. If you’re going with a sandwich, you will have a difficult choice to make. There’s the standout sliced turkey, ham, sliced pork and more. My favorite sliced meat is Wabash’s beef brisket. This tender, smoked-just-right, savory selection is goodness piled between two buns. If you’re a pulled pork lover, be ready for moist chunks of roast-like meat that will likely be enough for two meals.

Recently, I enjoyed Wabash’s burnt ends. A Kansas City favorite served at most local bar-beque restaurants, the burnt ends at Wabash are extra juicy and tender. The big hunks of beef are cooked dark, but unlike some, they don’t have the dry crusty edge. The ribs are, unmistakably, the best dish at Wabash. You can go with either the baby backs or the spare ribs and they will not disappoint. The spare rib dinner was monstrous. There was so much meat on these puppies you could hardly see the bone. It actually looked like a giant ribeye steak at first glance. But biting into the rich smoky meat gave every indication you were dining on quality spare ribs - and I mean ribs done right! I tried to decide if I liked the spare ribs or the baby backs better. But for me, this was an impossible decision. While smaller, the baby back ribs had tremendous depth of flavor. The pink meat barely hangs on the bones, covered with the slightly sweet, perfectly cooked crust. I could indulge on both Wabash rib offerings probably for hours - going back and forth, trying

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in 2006. While the Wabash railway line was short-lived, you can rest assured that the restaurant housed in its former station will be around for years to come. NORTH

to decide which is better. But the truth is they are both phenomenal and indulgently satisfying with every bite. This little Excelsior Springs eatery has been supplying Kansas City with these amazing ribs and their excellent smoked meats since 1997. The food has been such a hit, a second Wabash BBQ opened in a historic train depot in Chillicothe

Always in seach of that “perfect bite,” Missy Roe writes about food from her own kitchen, to Kansas City restaurants and far beyond. This passion for outstanding eats dominates her travels, social outings and family gatherings. Whether it’s the section of a burger where the toppings line up just right or finding the perfect fruit to top a slice of foie gras, Missy’s quest for divine dining is one she loves to share. Through her blog www.ThePerfectBiteKC.com, Missy sizes up local eateries, writes about her culinaryfocused travels and serves up ideas for home cooking.

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New Year’s

Resolutions By Nick Bolton The end of the year is fast approaching, and in the fitness community that means NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTIONS will soon be here. One of the most common resolutions is improving one’s health and fitness. Unfortunately, that is also the most often failed resolution. Why? There are a number of reasons, but a common one stems from the very reason one made the resolution. Many times, people are pressured into making changes to their health. Quite frankly, it’s just not a priority for most people. Until it’s a priority, it will always fail because other priorities will take the attention away from fitness goals. Here’s a list of 5 things that you can do to make sure you don’t fail with this year’s resolution for fitness:

Set attainable goals – if you’re goal is impossible to reach, you’ll fail before you start. Setting smaller attainable goals is a great way to have many small victories along the way. Have a support system that holds you accountable. Surround yourself with others who have similar goals. This support system will come in very handy when you are tempted to quit. Look for a gym partner to keep you motivated. You may even find it fun to challenge each other and reach the goal as a team. Seek proper guidance so your effort isn’t wasted; don’t be afraid to ask for help. Heck, that’s what personal trainers, registered dieticians, wellness consultants and fitness instructors do. One huge reason for giving up on your resolution is the lack of results. Be sure you’re getting your ‘money’s worth’ of your fitness regime. Without the proper guidance, you may find yourself running in circles. There are professionals who can help you get to the finish line. Don’t be afraid to ask for help from those who are qualified*.

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Take it slowly – fitness takes time. You can’t reach it by going to the gym every day for a week, shocking the body into soreness, taking too much time away to recover. Pacing is important because it will help you avoid the infamous burnout or plateau. If you’ve been out of the fitness game (or never even in it), ease into a program. Start off by going to the gym a couple of times a week, changing your eating behaviors, and getting adequate rest. As you gain momentum, add another day or two.

Consistency is key. Slow and steady progress is still progress. Don’t throw in the towel if you have one or two bad days of eating. Stay focused on why you started and remember what your goal is.

One thing in your life you can control is your level of fitness. Once you start seeing the positive changes in your body, you’ll be more motivated than ever! If you stay focused on your goal and truly committed to achieving it, you’ll succeed with your New Year’s fitness resolution. Remember, I’m here to help you reach your goals. If you have any questions or would like to see a specific topic in the future, please email me at Nick@ ilivenorth.com. Also, if you’re interested in finding a health and fitness program to help you to your goal, please let me know or check out www.firehousefitnesskc.com. *Visit www.firehousefitnesskc.com for my article on “How to Select a Personal Trainer” and “How to Select a Gym.” NORTH NOTE: The information in this article is not intended to take the place of a personal relationship with a qualified health practitioner, nor is it intended as medical advice. If you have questions or are interested in a health and fitness plan, Nick Bolton offers his services both in person and online. Please visit www.firehousefitnesskc.com or email him at nick@ilivenorth.com

Nick Bolton

Nick Bolton is one of Kansas City’s premier personal trainers. With more than 14 years of personal training experience, Nick offers an array of knowledge in fitness and nutrition to our readers. He is certified through the National Academy of Sports Medicine, National Council on Strength and Fitness, and National Board of Emergency Medical Technicians. He specializes in all forms of training, from competitive athletes to everyday people. Nick is the founder of Firehouse Fitness where he offers his training services both on-line and in person. He works with individual clients, small groups, and large group boot camps in Kansas City. Nick is a published fitness writer and has been featured in local, national and international magazines and e-magazines. www.nickboltonfitness.com www.firehousefitnesskc.com Email: n4bolton@hotmail.com Facebook: Nick Bolton Fitness

Holiday Fitness Gift Guide

The holidays are coming up fast and so is the headache of finding the right gifts. Shopping for the “fitnessminded” person on your list does not need to be hard. In fact, I’ve done the homework and compiled a list

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of 10 creative and useful gifts – all under $100 - for this year’s holiday shopping. Check out my website, www. firehousefitnesskc.com – I have listed each of these products and many more holiday gift ideas all in one place.

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The New Face of Aging T BURDEN C D he

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This Holiday Season

By Sandra Doolin Aust, BSN, RN

So, what would you most like to give or receive for the holidays? At the time of the year when people think a little more about giving thanks and giving back, one might think that the greatest gift a caregiver could receive would be some respite. Are you the caregiver who can relate? Where can one turn? “The burden of caregiving is the single most devastating social, economic and spiritual sinkhole of the early decades of the 21st century,” says Ken Dychtwald, noted gerontologist and author and founder of “Age Wave.” The good news about the new face of aging is that most people will be able to live out their lives in their own homes with little to moderate outside support. The bad news is that many others will need much greater support as they cope with increasingly debilitating chronic physical illness or suffer from depression and/or dementia in some form. Why such a strong statement? Don’t we love taking care of others? Isn’t it our “duty” to care for those we know and love? Research reveals some important data. The range of intensity and frequency of caregiving varies widely from occasionally looking out for an older neighbor who lives alone and is doing “well” to being “on duty” 24 hours a day, seven days a week in the home. It is well known that family caregivers often become so ill themselves while intensively care giving, that they precede their loved one in death. No one is capable of providing relentless care to another person around the clock with no opportunity to rest, rejuvenate, and take care of their own basic needs;

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that is the reason nurses work in shifts. As the population ages and the incidence of dementia increases, the challenges caregivers face will increase exponentially. The U. S. Census Bureau reports that by the year 2030, 20% of Americans will be 65 years of age and older. The “baby boomers” born between 1946 and 1964, began turning 65 on January 1, 2012 at the rate of 10,000 per day, and will do so for 20 years. Mid-American Regional Council (MARC) reports that in the Kansas City area 2,200 people per month turn 65. The National Alliance on Caregiving reports that nearly 55 million Americans are caregivers; 61% of caregivers are women, with an average age of 46 and work full time outside the home. 60% of them have to make career adjustments to maintain their caregiving role. Most of them have to face the difficult choices of quitting paid work altogether, reducing their hours (37%) or taking early retirement. The financial repercussions can be staggering. On average, caregivers spend over $6,000 per year out of their own pockets and lose $675,000 over a lifetime in forgone wages, social security and pension benefits. Women caregivers average 22.9 hours per week and men average 18.9 hours per week. For employers, businesses and corporations, MetLife studies indicate that 25 – 35% of employees are engaged in caregiving. The average cost to a company for one full-time employee who is also a caregiver is $2,110 per year. The total cost to U. S. companies is $34 billion annually and

The New Face of Aging growing. These employees are often distracted at work, on the phone and online seeking services, medical and/or respite care. They take personal, vacation and sick days so they can accompany their loved one to medical appointments and tend to them while they are hospitalized or facing other needs. These employees often arrive late and leave work early, all in their desire to try to “do it all.” Their productivity is compromised, as is their physical, mental and emotional health. Is Ken Dychtwald correct? Perhaps a better question is: What can a caring community do to share and help alleviate the burden of caregivers in our midst? Several easily accessible resources are available and are FREE. Care Connection is an online resource through MidContinent Public Library which is user-friendly and provides a wealth of information about available services: www.careconnection.mymcpl.org Caregiver Supportline is staffed by experienced professionals who can answer questions and refer caregivers or family and friends of caregivers to a wide range of services in the KC Metro area. Call 816-753-7039 and ask for Darla. For information about what’s available in Clay County, call Clay County Senior Services at 816-455-4800 or visit www. claycoseniors.org For Platte County, call Platte County Senior Fund and Services at 816-270-4100 or visit www.platteseniors.org. Have you had the conversation? What kind and level of

care does your loved one want during an illness and at the end of life? Who do they want to speak for them when they can no longer speak for themselves? The website www. practicalbioethics.org provides information and downloadable forms for the Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care Decisions and the “Caring Conversations” workbook. It’s free. Interfaith Care Partners is an excellent care model for congregations. For more information from your faith community call 816-753-7039, and ask for the “Care Teams Coordinator.” “One call, many answers” is time-saving and the safest, most effective way for caregivers and the recipients of care to access important information about what is available in the community. You might want to learn how to become a respite care volunteer. Free training classes are available. At this special time of year, think about a gift that could lighten the load of the caregiver in your life – your spouse, your neighbor, your friend… maybe it’s YOU. Call the numbers above or clip them out for someone who may not know where to turn for help. You may be the only light that brightens their holiday, lightens their load, and gives them a truly happy holiday. NORTH --Sandra Aust is Director of SCC’s Coming of Age Kansas City, a registered nurse, mother, grandmother, community volunteer and a lifelong Northlander who is determined to age as gracefully as possible. Share your inspiring story of aging well (or not) with her at sandra@ sccentral.org.

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Oral Cancer Screening Saves Lives! by Brenda Bailey, Ph.D. contactus@fredbaileydds.com It’s called mouth cancer, tongue cancer, lip cancer , oral cancer or oropharyngeal cancer – and this year alone, approximately 41,380 Americans will be diagnosed with it.

Clearly early detection is key – but it isn’t easy, because signs and symptoms of oral cancer are hard to see and can look very much like other conditions.

That works out to about 115 new cases a day. What’s more, unlike many other forms of cancer, oral cancer is actually becoming more common. In fact 2013 is the fifth year in a row there’s been an increase in the rate of occurrence. So what can you do to protect yourself ?

Take Action

Know the Signs

Experts recommend you do a self exam at least once a month – making sure to look carefully at your lips, tongue, gums, cheeks and the rest of your mouth and feeling for lumps on your neck and lower jaw.

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Plus, because it can be so hard to find signs of oral cancer yourself, the American Cancer Society also recommends you have your primary care clinicians and dentist do a cancer screening as part of a routine cancerrelated check-up.

The most common symptom of oral cancer is a sore in the mouth that bleeds easily and doesn’t heal. Other symptoms include:

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Difficulty chewing, swallowing or moving the tongue or jaw. Feel that something is caught in the throat. White or Red patch on the gums, tongue, tonsil or lining of the mouth. A lump of thickening in the cheek.

We Can Help

A good first step is to know the risk factors for oral cancer. The biggest include:

Dentists are well aware of the danger of oral cancer. So oral cancer evaluations ,(OCE), are a normal part of your regular exam. Dentists and their staff carefully examine your mouth, tongue, neck and jaw – and have the skill to tell the difference between a symptom that’s harmless and one that could be a warning sign of cancer.

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Your entire oral cancer screening takes just a few minutes, and it’s totally painless. In fact it’s so easy, you may not have realized what a truly lifesaving procedure it can be.

Get the Facts

There ARE things you can do to protect yourself, though. For example:

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Using tobacco or alcohol – particularly in combination Exposure to human papilloma virus - HPV (the same virus implicated in cervical cancer) Too much time in the sun and a family history of cancer Diet low in fruits and vegetables – less than 2 ½ cups a day At the same time, it’s important to remember that anyone can get oral cancer. Oral cancer is twice as common in men as in women. In fact more than 25% of people with oral cancer don’t smoke or use alcohol to excess.

Know the Odds

When oral cancer is diagnosed early the prognosis is hopeful – with a survival rate of between 80 and 90%. But when it isn’t found until it’s reached its later stages it’s far harder to treat – with the result that the overall 5 year survival rate is just 65%.

Which brings me to one last thought. If you know someone who hasn’t been to the dentist in a while, please urge them to make an appointment for an exam that includes a cancer screening. It just might be the most important thing you do today. _________ Sources: ADA.org, oralcancerfoundation.org

While oral cancer is usually treated by some combination of surgery, radiation and chemotherapy, the mix varies depending on the individual and how promptly the cancer was diagnosed. When oral cancer is found early it can usually be treated effectively without changing a person’s appearance or ability to function. When it’s discovered later, treatment can cause considerable disfigurement and make it hard for patients to chew, swallow or speak clearly. November/December 2013

Dr. Brenda Bailey is a retired educator. Presently, she is a board member of the American Diabetes Association and practice administrator at Antioch Dental Group in the Northland.

Live Life Well with Coach Kim

by Kim Specker, Professional Coach certified (PCC) by the International Coaching Federation (ICF)

If you go ahead and attend the family event, possibly one thing you can do before entering the house is to have a prepared list of things you appreciate about each family member. Appreciation will begin to shift your brain to a positive state.

o you ever want to have the insight from another person and don’t know who to ask? Feel free to ask Coach Kim. Send your questions about relationships, career, parenting, dissatisfaction or other life related topics. Your questions will remain confidential and will be published anonymously. Send your questions to: Kimberlie.specker@mymosaiclifecare.org

What do I do with extended family chaos at the holidays? Coach Kim, I see Christmas decorations appearing in the stores and it makes me become anxious at the thought of another stressful holiday season with my extended family. At our family holiday gatherings, there is often drama, loud conversations and bickering. Let me just say it, “I don’t want to be there this year, but I feel obligated to show up.” However, if I don’t participate in the family dinner, I will be seen as the black sheep and I don’t want to feel an outsider. I want it to be different this year. Coach Kim: OK, get out your pen and paper because we are going to do some self-discovery by creating life-changing action items. Hopefully you will be able to execute some of the action items and you will begin to generate new feelings about the holidays with your family. •

If you could change one thing about this event, what would improve your experience? How could you create that change?

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What is it you need from these family members? How can you ask them for what you need?

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What experience or space could you create to invite them into, rather than entering the chaos of your family’s event?

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What is the worst thing that would happen if you didn’t go to the family gathering for dinner?

Intentionality to create a different outcome demonstrates your inner strength to no longer stay stuck in non-life-giving relationships. You can begin to draw new boundaries for what you need from the relationships in your family. A great resource to read about personal boundaries is Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend. Make this holiday season different; don’t do things the same way just because that’s how you’ve always done them, or it’s what is expected of you. If the old holiday traditions aren’t working, if they’re not making you happy and causing holiday stress, it’s time to do something different. What do you want to do differently this year? Seek out a friend, loved one or a coach to help you create some options.

Coach Kim: Thank you for such a great question. I will provide you with some joy building exercises.

Excersise #1

So what does a joy-filled life look like for you? Here are some possible action steps to discovering more joy. Take some time for yourself and create a space free from distraction. Close your eyes; take a couple of deep breaths and allow your mind to relax and form a mental picture of what more joy in your life would look like. Write down the details of the image. Review the list and ask yourself, “How do I create that life?” Look at your list and consider what would be the first action item you can do to move toward a more joy-filled life.

Share the picture and your self-created next steps with a trusted friend.

HOW DO I GET MORE JOY Participating in relationships when you know the people are glad to be with you IN MY LIFE? We’ll help you see changes in life will help build your joy capacity. Coach Kim, I don’t know if you can for what they really are … potential. answer this or not, but here goes. I

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Is it Year-end already?!

As we head into the end of another year, it’s time to both look back at 2013 and look forward to 2014. First, as we look back, if you’re like me, you may be thinking “Seriously?! Has another year gone by already?!” As we grow older the years seem to fly by. But remember as kids how LONG a year took - to get from one Christmas to the next, or one birthday to the next? Why does the exact same time period fly by now, when it used to take FOREVER? Maybe it’s because when we’re 5 years old, 1 year represents 20% of our life, but when we’re 50, that same 1 year represents only 2%. So if you’re 50, and appreciate how precious time flies by, you’ll know it’s time to get to work. But if you’re 5 and you’re reading this article about year-end tax and financial planning, November/December 2013

please put this article down and go outside and Play!

Either way, it’s time to get ready to wrap up 2013 and start getting ready for 2014.

Tax Planning Year-end for many people means tax planning. The key thing about tax planning is that it CANNOT be done after the year is over, so take advantage of the few opportunities you have to reduce the amount you’ll owe (either next April on your Income Tax return, or at your death on your Estate Tax return). Here are a few things you should look at, and consult your tax advisor about: 1) Consider utilizing your Gift exclusion amounts in total. For 2013, individuals can give up to $14,000 without incurring gift taxes or gift tax return filing requirements. Married couples can give $28,000 to

by Dave Enenbach an individual. Consider maximizing these amounts to avoid up to 50% Estate taxes at death. Gifts must be irrevocable and without conditions, but giving your child money and helping them put it in an account in their name titled “College Savings” shouldn’t invalidate the transfer as a “gift,” and it starts the college funding process! 2) Take a look at what your 2013 return looks like NOW. If you have a balance due, there are some things you can still do to reduce or eliminate what you’ll owe next April 15th: a) Increase the Federal (and State) withholding on your paychecks to reduce or eliminate the balance due. Withholding is considered paid in evenly throughout the year, unlike Quarterly estimated tax payments, so additional withholding near the end of the year is a great way to pay your taxes.

b) Prepay 4th quarter State estimated tax payments due in January – paying them in December will entitle you to the deduction in 2013, but watch out for Minimum Taxes if you consider this tactic.

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c) Make your charitable contributions in appreciated stocks or mutual funds. You’ll get the deduction for the full value at date of gift, and avoid paying the capital gains taxes. d) If you have net capital gains, consider “harvesting” some capital losses to avoid the capital gains (but be aware of the “wash sale” rules before re-establishing a position in the same security). e) Document your charitable contributions. For amounts under $250 a cancelled check will suffice. For amounts over $250, you’ll need a written verification from the charity (and the rule is you’re supposed to have the letter BEFORE you file). Personal financial planning As the year ends, consider doing what all business do – prepare a financial statement! A personal financial statement (balance sheet) lists all your assets and liabilities, and quantifies your “net worth.” Preparing one will give you an objective look at where you are financially. Your bank can provide you with a form, or you can download a good one from the Small Business Administration at www.sba.gov/content/personal-financial-statement

Most of the assets you’ll list are easily quantified. Resist the temptation to inflate your net worth by overstating the value of your home, personal property and cars. Just use your County appraisal amount (at least use something that you can access easily and apply consistently from year to year) for your home, and go to Kelly Blue Book online to get a value for your cars. If you own a business, you could have an expensive appraisal

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Paying down your mortgage by more than the scheduled payments

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Reducing or eliminating credit card or other consumer debt

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Increasing your net worth by some target amount

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Increasing your retirement savings. Here’s a handy chart to help you quantify that goal:

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Retirement savings as multiple of annual income 1X current annual income 2X 3X 4X 5X 6X 7X 8X

Establishing goals is a powerful tool in taking control of your finances (or anything else that’s important to you). WRITING THEM DOWN is the key! The power of the written goal is well documented, and greatly increases your chance of attaining your goals. But do your 2013 year-end planning and 2014 goal setting now! If you’re 50, a year is only 2% of your life, but a month is only 0.17%, and December 31 will be here before we know it! NORTH

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David is president and founder of Enenbach & Associates Financial Consultants, a multi-client family office serving the wealth management needs of ultra-affluent families (investable net worth of $20-$50 million). A Registered Investment Adviser, he previously was president of another independent wealth management firm that represented high net worth individuals and professional athletes. He spent 20 years as a CPA with Donnelly, Meiners, Jordan, Kline/McGladrey. Dave is also the chairman of the investment committee of the Catholic Diocese of Kansas City - St. Joseph. Dave will be sharing thoughts and insights into investments and financial management.

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(NOT ME --WARREN BUFFETT) THE MONEY MARATHON BY ED DOUGLAS CFP®

hile waiting in an office to see a client of mine, I picked up a Fortune magazine to read an article written by Warren Buffett. Even though the article was nearly two years old, the advice was so timeless that I thought I would summarize his main points in my column. (Stocks Beat Gold and Bonds, Fortune, February 27, 2012.) In the article, Buffett defines investing as the process of transferring purchasing power to others now, with the reasoned expectation of receiving more purchasing power (after taxes) in the future. He says this is more demanding than the typical definition of just laying out money now with the expectation of getting more back in the future (because if it is worth less after inflation and taxes an investor has still not benefited enough). Buffett mentions that the typical definition of risk is measured in “beta” which measures volatility and is sometimes used as a synonym of risk. He doesn’t like using beta because an asset with little or no volatility can still cause its owner a loss of purchasing power. He then defines investments in three categories. The first category he calls investments that are denominated in a given currency, like money market accounts, bonds and bank deposits. Although these investments are considered “safe,” they are really far from safe in that over time, an investor can lose purchasing power as governments print money which depreciates the currency. He points out that since 1965 the dollar has lost 86% of its purchasing power (as of 2012), which means it takes $7 dollars today to buy $1 worth of 1965 goods and services. Although there have been times that bonds and deposits have paid enough to offset this currency risk, this period of time is not expected to be one of those periods with interest rates at historic lows. He says, “bonds promoted as offering risk-free returns are now priced to deliver returnfree risk.” The second major category of investment involves assets that will never produce anything, but are purchased in hope that someone else will pay more in the future. Tulips in the 17th century Europe are an example of this. Gold is another major item in this category. Gold has very little utility and its value is based on “the belief that the ranks of the fearful will grow.” When asset prices like this go up, new buyers, or bandwagon investors, come in to buy more. This causes the asset to go up--until it doesn’t--a bubble occurs, and breaks. “What the wise man does in the beginning, the fool does in the end.” He points out that all the gold stock in the world (170,000 tons) would fit into a 68 foot cube, about the size of a baseball field. This cube wouldn’t produce anything, but based on 2012 values, would be worth $9.6 trillion. For that same amount of dollars, a person could buy all US cropland (400 million acres that produces $200 billion annually), plus 16 Exxon Mobils, each producing $40 billion annually. This would still leave $1 trillion of cash left over. Buffett says that he would much rather own the farmland and the 16 Exxon Mobils because they produce valuable and much needed bounty, crops and oil. He is confident that 100 years from now

the farmland and the Exxons will be worth much more than the pile of nonproducing gold. Although currency denominated assets and nonproducing assets (the first two classes) are very popular during times of fear, in the long run, Buffett prefers investments in his third class: productive assets, businesses, farmland or real estate. He says these assets should have ability in inflationary times to deliver output, while maintaining purchasing power, without requiring much new capital. (Interestingly enough, he is eliminating businesses that require heavy capital expenditures like utilities.) He uses Coca Cola as an example, which is one of his long time holdings in Berkshire Hathaway. He believes people all over the world will continue to consume more and more Coke, producing value and expanding the purchasing power of his investment. He compares our country’s businesses to cows that continue to produce milk, which everyone needs and which can compound for the owners of the milk as the milk is sold. He points out that the Dow Jones Industrial has gone from 66 at the beginning of the 20th century to over 15,400 today. I want to emphasize two main traits of Warren Buffett. First, as mentioned, he tries to buy and hold first class, successful businesses, like Coke. Berkshire Hathaway stockholders, who bought the stock in the mid 60’s, could have seen $2000 grow to over $16 million (a return of over 20% annualized). Secondly, not only does he buy good quality companies, many times he buys them at huge discounts when others panic and are selling, as he did most recently during the financial crisis. So, the smartest investment for the long run, according to the “Oracle from Omaha” (Warren Buffett), is to own the stock in good, quality companies. Remember that every investor’s situation is unique and that it is important to review your specific situation with a financial professional. NORTH

Ed Douglas is a Certified Financial Planner CFP®/ Consultant, Chairman Emeritus of Citizens Bancshares, and author of three books: Making a Million With Only $2000-Every Young Person Can Do It, The Money Marathon: 7 Simple Steps to Financial Freedom and 25 Truths: Life Principles of the Happiest and Most Successful Among Us, available at www.eddouglas. com and on Amazon. Ed may be contacted for financial planning services or seminars based on his books at ed@ eddouglas.com or at his office at 660-646-2066

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Tricks or Treats

To Disclose or Not To Disclose

by Nickole Walton

Listing your home is a big decision that often is accompanied by a range of emotions. You alternate between being excited and nervous, hoping your home will sell--and for the right price. Many sellers, however, often deal with another emotion: fear. Fear that after disclosing information about their home they won’t secure an offer.

disclose them, even if the problem has been resolved. Also, mention any upgrades or enhancements that you have made to the property. Listing improvements such as a new roof and refinished hardwood floors will offset the fact that you’ve had to make repairs.

This article can help set your mind at ease when it comes to disclosing, and assure you that this information will help build credibility in the offer. Trust us, everyone has “skeletons in their closets,” but they’re usually not as scary as they seem.

A good home inspector can often spot the signs of water damage, even if they have been painted or plastered over. That’s why water damage is one of the biggest causes of disclosurerelated lawsuits. If the home has had a leaky roof, a flooded basement, or dampness and mold in certain areas, these water issues must be disclosed. Don’t put yourself in a scary situation later by not listing these issues in the beginning.

Full Disclosure is defined as the general need in business transactions for both parties to tell the whole truth about any material issue pertaining to the transaction. Disclosure is beneficial for everyone involved in a real estate transaction, but can get pushed aside at times in the pursuit of a closed deal. By now you may be asking what items you should disclose. As a general rule, sellers must disclose anything that could affect the property’s value or desirability, from big problems such as a compromised foundation, to simple neighborhood nuisances. This is why it is so important to work with an educated, licensed real estate agent who will advise you on the items that should be mentioned. Highlighed below are the six most common disclosures.

Repairs

Repairs and enhancements are important items to disclose. It is a pretty broad category but one that confuses a lot of sellers. If you have made repairs to your property, you should November/December 2013

Water Damage/Mold

Lead

If you are selling a house built before 1978, you must comply with a federal law requiring disclosure of all known lead-based paint and hazards in the house. You must provide the home buyer with a copy of the Environmental Protection Agency’s pamphlet discussing protection against lead and be allowed a 10-day window to test the house for lead. The contract must include that warning as well as signed statements from all parties verifying that the requirements for disclosure were met.

Termites

These little nuisances can be invisible problems, but need to be mentioned. If your home has a history of termite infestation, it should be disclosed to the buyer. However, to lessen the impact of this disclosure, sellers can get another termite inspection that shows it is clear of the pests before listing their home. This disclosure, along with any information about transferrable treatment warranties, should be given to the buyer at closing.

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Natural hazards

Some states require sellers disclose any risk of natural disasters, such as a flood plain, earthquake zone, or susceptibility to wildfires. This disclosure is meant to warn buyers of the financial risk and danger they face from these catastrophes, as well as alert them to trouble they may face in getting insurance for a home in that location. In the Northland, there are no such requirements at this time.

Infamous past

On the heels of Halloween, it is important to mention specific state laws on disclosing whether or not your house has an infamous past or may be considered haunted. A home’s notorious past must be disclosed. In New York several years ago, there was a case involving a house that was reportedly haunted, and in fact, was showcased in articles and on tours. When the house went up for sale, this haunted past wasn’t listed or even mentioned to the new home buyer. The seller was successfully sued for nondisclosure as the notoriety may diminish the resale value. The same holds true for a home’s criminal past. Some states require disclosure of murders on the property, others do not. But since these horrific events tend to lower the value of a property, most real-estate agents choose to disclose them rather than risk legal action.

At this time, the Missouri Real Estate Commission Statutes and Rules Reference Guide does not have a specific disclosure law regarding ghouls and ghosts; however always discuss these items of concern with your realtor. He or she is your advisor through your selling process and can guide you to make the right decisions. Your realtor can work with you and discuss other special disclosures particular to your area. These might include a historical designation that restricts remodeling, or any other special zoning or local environmental concerns. The bottom line is that if there’s a question in your mind about whether or not you should disclose something, you probably should. If there is anything that the buyer might feel misled by, it is something that you should disclose. Choosing an educated, licensed realtor with integrity will ensure that your entire selling process runs smoothly. So, put your fears away and proudly discuss that skeleton in your closet. It will save you time, money, and credibility in the long run. NORTH Nickole Walton Tradition Home Group Where all roads lead to SOLD! ReMax Revolution Cell: 816-289-1014 Work: 816-414-3292 nickole@traditionhomegroup.com

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Movie Reviews

Jim Kline

While Jim’s occupation is public accounting, his passion has always been movies. As a young boy he fondly remembers those special evenings set aside for his family to enjoy a movie together. He soon became an avid fan and is known in local circles for his avarice in going to the theater as often as possible. Jim is often times sought out for his opinions on which movies to see and created his own movie review blog. Jim Kline is a lifelong Kansas City native and is looking forward to sharing his opinions of movies with Kansas City in NORTH Magazine.

Rush Director: Ron Howard Starring: Daniel Brühl, Chris Hemsworth Rated: R Runtime: 123 minutes ppppp

Captain Phillips Director: Paul Greengrass Starring: Tom Hanks, Barkhad Abdi Rated: PG-13 Runtime: 134 minutes pppp

Prisoners Director: Denis Villeneuve Starring: Hugh Jackman, Jake Gyllenhaal Rated: R Runtime: 153 minutes pppp

During the 1970s, England’s James Hunt, a risk-taking playboy and Austria’s Niki Lauda, a driven anti-social introvert, became bitter rivals as each chased the world championship on the Formula One race car circuit. Rush is the compelling story of the success, failure, and tragedy each experienced and how each was affected by the other. In the hands of director Ron Howard, Rush gives the audience an authentic feel of the high risk and thrilling experience of race car driving. Add the solid performances from Chris Hemsworth (playing Hunt) and David Bruhl (playing Lauda) in this true-life story engage you from start to finish. Its heartpounding racing scenes and its truly human story will touch all of your emotions. Racing fan or not, Rush is an experience for all, and in my opinion, the best movie so far this year.

Tom Hanks is superbly cast as Richard Phillips, the captain of the U.S. container ship Maersk Alabama, that was hijacked by Somali pirates in 2009. The movie begins with the captain and crew preparing for their journey to Kenya. As they navigate their way past the Somali coast, they are attacked by heavily armed Somali pirates. Captain Phillips employs evasive maneuvers and water hoses to fend off the attack, but after several failed attempts, the Somalis are able to board and take over the ship. Most of the crew hides below, and some intense moments follow as the Somalis threaten the captain while searching for the rest of the crew. Eventually, a standoff ensues and Captain Phillips is taken hostage aboard a life boat by three Somalis. What follows are the Navy’s attempts to negotiate with the Somalis and the eventual effort by a Navy Seals team to rescue Captain Phillips. Even knowing the outcome, I found Captain Phillips an edge-of-your-seat thriller that left me with an even deeper appreciation for our men and women of the armed services, always trained and ready to protect.

Two families that are both neighbors and friends are enjoying a day together when they realize that their respective daughters are missing. Thus begins “every parent’s nightmare” for each of these families as they soon discover that their daughters have been abducted. Police are called in and detective Loki (Jake Gyllenhaal) takes command of the case. Loki, a determined and competent detective, soon arrests a suspect, but later releases him believing him innocent. Keller Dover (Hugh Jackman), father of one of the girls, is convinced the suspect has his daughter. Incensed that he has been released and desperate to save his daughter, Dover takes matters into his own hands.

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Prisoners is slow paced, but builds in suspense and violence without holding back before delivering a couple of surprise plot twists. It displays the raw emotions of the families as they deal with their nightmare, and effectively explores the different responses of each family member. Backed by a strong supporting cast, both Jackman (fresh off of his academy award nomination from last year) and Gyllenhaal give outstanding performances.

Elysium The Lone Ranger Percy Jackson Prisoners Kick Ass 2 The Family

Prisoners is a tough dark movie dealing with a frightening and unpleasant topic. It is however, an excellent and powerful movie that will leave you wondering how you might react under those circumstances.

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Vertigo (1958) is the story of Scottie (Jimmy Stewart), a retired San Francisco police detective asked by an old friend to follow his wife Madeleine (Kim Novak) who has been acting mysteriously. Scottie suffers from a fear of heights, but reluctantly agrees to help his friend, soon finding himself obsessed with his friend’s wife, the beautiful Madeleine. Considered by many the best of director Alfred Hitchcock’s movies, Vertigo slowly deepens in mystery and builds in suspense before delivering a couple of surprises you never see coming. A winner of 2 academy awards and ranked number 9 on AFI’s top 100 movie list, Vertigo is a must see movie.

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Wolverine Smurfs 2 The Mortal Instruments

Despicable Me 2 Fast & Furious 6 Battle of the Year The Hunt

Insidious 2

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Three Link Gallery A Work of Art

Written by

Cathy Kline

culptor Jeff Becker has been carving an art gallery and event venue out of a 130year-old building he named Three Link Gallery in Smithville, Missouri. Becker purchased the brownstone at 108 Bridge Street in July of 2011 on a tip from a friend, award winning chef Jonathan Justus of Justus Drugstore. The next door neighbors plan to work side by side providing a culture of gourmet dining and art appreciation. After directing the award-winning Arts Incubator in the Crossroads Arts District, Becker was up for a new challenge: a rural gallery. Two years later, the thought and work invested reveal just how dedicated he is. ilivenorth.com

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Cathy Kline Art always intrigued Cathy, so she turned a gift into an occupation. Her murals may be seen widely around Parkville. Look for them at the Parkville Athletic Complex, Piropos, Zona Rosa, The Peach Tree and Burlington Creek’s Watercolors High Fashion. Her work also can be found in churches, beauty shops and private residences all over the metropolitan area.

The original owners of the building were the Independent Order of Odd Fellows(IOOF), a benevolent organization who offered support to fellow workers. They left some interesting artifacts that offer a bit of history to a visit to the gallery. Jeff has been accumulating unique items to sculpt in his studio; a tree stands about ten feet tall and four feet wide and two sixteen foot metal arches wait to become a swing. Jeff has been too busy staining floors, paying attention to the art shows he curates, digging through layers of history, and creating a welcoming event space to work on his personal creations. Becker insisted on using the original method of troweling and burnishing Venetian plaster on the walls. There is an easier way to attain the effect, not as demanding of the joints and muscles, but Jeff would not hear of that. He cut and sanded 2400 slats of wood to bring warmth and texture to the ceiling. Jeff would tell you that the beauty of the effort is in the process.

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The 3000 sq. ft. second level with Italianate trim and mahogany pocket doors sets the tone for memorable gatherings. The professional kitchen designed for chefs like Justus is ready to accommodate corporate retreats and wedding receptions. Becker, an admitted ‘foodie,’ is eager to enjoy the results. “The Three Link Gallery represents the symbolism used by the IOOF-three links of a chain; the first link is friend, the second, love and the last, truth.” Becker said. “What better way to honor the building’s original purpose than to name it after their benevolent character.” The mission of the Three Link Gallery is to celebrate the extraordinary imagination, expertise, and enthusiasm of humankind. When asked what his parents did to instill such a work ethic, Becker stated, “They were good stewards of nature and encouraged me to always leave a place a little cleaner than I

Cathy is an active participant in her community. She is a charter member of the Missouri Valley Impressionist Society, member of The Best of Missouri Hands, as well as an active member of the Main Street Parkville Association, where she currently serves as Vice Chair. Cathy looks forward to keeping readers informed of the talented artists around the Northland. She can be reached at: Cathy Kline Art Gallery 713 English Landing Drive Parkville, Missouri 64152 913-449-4460 www.cathyklineart.com

found it.” The sweat equity used to create the atmosphere at Three Link Gallery, with all of the imagination, energy, and skill necessary to achieve it, makes the gallery a true tribute to art. NORTH www.threelinkstudio.com Current Show ~ the Beautiful Pickle Contact info ~ Jeff@3linkstudio.com

816-916-8970 106-08 N. Bridge Street Smithville, Missouri 64089 Facebook~Three Link Gallery

Recreation Guide

Fishing

Liberty Bend Conservation Area 816-228-3766 Access is from LaBenite Park in Sugar Creek on the east side of Highway 291 (south of the Missouri River).

Cooley Lake Conservation Area 816-858-5718 Cooley Lake Conservation Area is 2.5 miles east of Missouri City on Highway 210.

Chaumiere Lake

816-622-0900 From I-35 take North Chouteau Trafficway south 0.25 mile to North Cleveland Avenue. Turn south and take the first road (NE 43rd Terrace) about 0.25 west to the lake.

Englewood Lake

816-622-0900 From North Oak Trafficway, turn east on NE Englewood Road and travel 0.25 mile. You will see the lake on the south side of the road. Turn south off of NE Englewood and the road will take you along the east side of the lake.

Lakewood Lake

The Deuce at National 6415 North National Drive Kansas City, MO 64152 (816) 505-0650 thenationalgolfclub.com

Staley Farms Golf Club 10310 North Olive Avenue Kansas City, MO (816) 734-3839 staleyfarms.com

Shoal Creek Golf Course 8905 Shoal Creek Parkway Kansas City, MO 64157 (816) 407-7242 shoalcreekgolf.com

Hodge Park Golf Course 7000 Northeast Barry Road Kansas City, MO 64156 (816) 781-8975

Cardinal Hill Golf Course 925 Lightburne Street Liberty, MO 64068 (816) 781-6522 cardinalhillgolf.com

816-622-0900 From I-35 take Highway 69 (NE Vivion Road) west one mile to North Norton Avenue. Turn south on Norton and travel 0.5 mile to the lake which sits on the east side of the road.

Excelsior Springs Golf Course

Smithville Lake

Maple Creek Golf Course

1201 E. Golf Hill Dr. Excelsior Springs, Mo 64024 (816) 630-3731 excelsiorgolf.com

(816) 407-3400 Park Office 17201 Paradesian Smithville, MO 64089

5330 Northeast Oak Ridge Drive Kansas City, MO 64119 (816) 459-8400 greatlifegolf.com

Bowling

Shiloh Springs Golf Course

Gladstone Bowl 300 Northwest 72nd Street Gladstone, MO 64118 (816) 436-2695

AMF Northland Lanes 217 Northeast Vivion Road Kansas City, MO 64118 (816) 454-2695

AMF Pro Bowl Lanes 505 East 18th Avenue North Kansas City, MO 64116 (816) 221-8844

Retro Bowl

906 West Liberty Drive Liberty, MO 64068 (816) 781-1998

Golf

Tiffany Greens Golf Course 5900 Northwest Tiffany Springs Parkway Kansas City, MO 64154 (816) 880-9600 tiffanygreensgolf.com

National Golf Club 9300 Northwest 63rd Street Parkville, MO 64152 (816) 569-5170

14750 Fairway Lane Platte City, MO 64079 (816) 270-4653 shilohspringsgolf.com

Paradise Pointe Golf Complex 18212 Golf Course Road Smithville, MO 64089 (816) 532-4100 paradisepointegolf.com

Frisbee Golf

Water Works Park Disc Golf 3500 North Oak Trafficway Kansas City, MO 64116 (816) 513-7500

Disc Golf Parkville, MO English Landing Park Parkville, MO 64152

Riverview Park 200 Mill Street Platte City, MO 64079

Paradise Pointe - Blackthorn 17201 Paradesian Smithville, Missouri 64089

Paradise Pointe - Beaver Creek 17201 Paradesian Smithville, Missouri 64089

Hiking & Bike Trails North Trailhead 13300 Sycamore Dr Platte City, MO 64079 South Trailhead 12315 Highway N Platte City, MO 64079 Scenery and wildlife are abundant on Prairie Creek Greenway, located just south of Platte City. The greenway is popular for both biking and walking and includes four pedestrian bridges crossing the creek. Riverside, MO Located off of 9 Hwy West, second left after NW Mattox Road. Hikers and bikers will be thrilled with the impressive views atop the Missouri Riverfront Trail. The trail runs from E.H. Young Riverfront Park in Riverside to Burlington Creek. The trail was built in cooperation with the City of Riverside, the Riverside/Quindaro Bend Levee District and the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers. Parkville, MO Joining people and places together is the foundation of Southern Platte Pass. The 2-mile trail connects two cities, three schools, two shopping areas and the Platte County Community Center South. The trail, built in cooperation with the cities of Parkville and Kansas City, travels along both sides of 45 Highway and was partially funded by the Missouri Department of Transportation. Weston, MO The Weston Bluffs trail follows the Missouri River and the historic path of Lewis & Clark. The 3.25 mile route begins at Weston City Hall and offers a spectacular outlook of the river and many opportunities for wildlife viewing. Six interpretive exhibits along the trail showcase the Lewis & Clark voyage. The trail also provides access to Weston Bend State Park. Platte County partners on the projects include the City of Weston and the Missouri Department of Natural Resources. 68th street and Gower road Take the scenic route from Barry Road to Riverside on the Line Creek Trail. This trail winds through the countryside of Platte County away from the activity of the city. The trail can be accessed at Line Creek Community Center or the trailhead at 68th street and Gower Road

___________________ Smithville Lake Trail System

The Bonebender Trail System is composed of two trails: Bonebender Trail and Campground Trail. Bonebender Trail is 6.0 miles in length and is accessible from the Sailboat Cove parking lot to the north and from the Main Park Office/Camp Branch Swim Beach area to the south and from within the Camp Branch Campground. Bonebender Trail meanders along the east shoreline of Smithville Lake’s Little Platte arm through hardwood forests and restored grasslands. Features along this trail include: numerous views of Smithville Lake, two Lookout Points with rest benches, a covered shelter area with picnic tables, restroom and

shower facilities at Sailboat Cove, Camp Branch Campground, Camp Branch Swim Beach, Main Park Office Storm Shelter. Campground Trail is 2.9 miles in length and as the name implies, follows the lake’s shoreline around the perimeter of Camp Branch Campground. While connected to Bonebender Trail, the Campground Trail is accessible only within Camp Branch Campground and is very convenient for Campground users. The Crows Creek Trail System is composed of two trails: Anita B. Gorman and Cabin Fever Trail. Anita B. Gorman Trail is 1.9 miles in length and is accessible from Collins Road to the north and from Crows Creek boat ramp area the south. In 2007, this trail was renamed after former Missouri Department of Conservation Commissioner, Anita B. Gorman, for her active involvement with the Smithville Grassland Revitalization Project and her long-time support of wildlife habitat restoration. Anita B. Gorman Trail follows the shoreline of the main lake channel through predominately hardwood forest. Features along this trail include: relatively consistent grade, borders 25 acres of grassland restoration, a covered shelter with picnic tables, and access to the more primitive equestrian/hiking trails. Cabin Fever Trail is 7.0 miles in length and is accessible from Crows Creek boat ramp area to the north and from Access 25 at the west end of 160th Street. Cabin Fever Trail hugs the shoreline of the Crows Creek arm of Smithville Lake and is easily accessible from the Crows Creek Campground to the north. The southern half of Cabin Fever Trail follows the lake’s shoreline and perimeter of Crows Creek Picnic area, a less populated area of the park. Features along this trail include: numerous views of Smithville Lake and Dam, 2 lookout points with rest benches, 2 playgrounds, 6 shelters with picnic tables, 12 restroom buildings - some with drinking fountains and access to the Crows Creek Campground Outdoor Amphitheater.

Restaurant Guide

Modern American

Justus Drugstore Restaurant $$$$ Smithville American, Modern American, Organic 106 W Main St

Eighty Eight at The Elms $$$$ Excelsior Springs Mediterranean, Modern American 401 Regent St

Piropos

$$$$ Briarcliff Village Latin American, Argentina, Steakhouse 4141 N Mulberry Dr

Shields Manor Bistro $$$$ Platte City American, Seafood, Steakhouse 121 Main St

Bonefish Grill

China Wok

$ Zona Rosa - Chinese 6048 NW Barry Rd

Asian - Thai Tasty Thai

$$ Platte Woods Asian, Thai, Vegetarian 7104 NW Prairie View Rd $$ Liberty- Asian, Thai, Vegetarian 1912 Star Drive

Asian - Indian

Seva Cuisine of India

$$ Zona Rosa Indian 8140 NW Prairie View Rd

Saffron Indian Restaurant

Barbeque

Smokehouse Barbecue $$ Gladstone Barbecue, Steakhouse 6304 N Oak St

Asian-Japanese

$$ Zona Rosa Barbecue, Steakhouse 8451 NW Prairie View Rd

$$$ Gladstone - Japanese, Steakhouse, Sushi 7-9 NW Barry Rd

$$ North Kansas City - Barbecue 1218 Swift Ave

Wasahi

Smokebox BBQ Cafe

Tokyo Japanese Steak House Smokin’ Guns BBQ

$$$ Liberty- Japanese, Steakhouse 2031 W Kansas Ave

Zara Sushi

$ Gladstone- Burgers 2502 NE Vivion Rd

The Cafe At Briarcliff $$ Briarcliff Village American, Burgers, Sandwiches 4125 N Mulberry Dr

$$ Liberty - Mexican 921 W Liberty Dr

Luna Azteca Mexican Grill $$ Tiffany Springs - Mexican, Spanish 10004 NW Ambassador Dr.

Jose Pepper’s

$ Metro North - Mexican 511 NW Barry Rd

$ Platte Woods- Mexican 8174 NW Prairie View Rd

The Grille by Piropos

Fuji Japanese Steak House

Hayes Hamburger & Chili

$ Parkville - Mexican 11015 NW MO-45

Corner Cafe

$$ Liberty - Indian 917 West Liberty Dr.

$$ Gladstone- Asian, Sushi, Teriyaki 328 NE 72nd St

$ Platte Woods- Burgers 7612 NW Prairie View Rd

$ Gladstone - Mexican 5939 NE Antioch Rd

Taj Mahal

$$ Zona Rosa- Modern American 8660 N Boardwalk Ave

Rancho Grande Cantina LC’s Hamburgers Etc.

$$ Kansas City - American, Fried Chicken 5410 NE Oak Ridge Rd

$$$ Briarcliff Village American, Italian, Seafood 4105 N Mulberry Dr

Houlihan’s

$ Gladstone - Mexican, Tacos 7013 N Oak Tfwy

Swagat Fine Indian Cuisine

Trezo Mare

$$$ Ameristar Casino- Seafood 3200 Ameristar Dr

Margarita’s North

Comfort Food

$$$ Burlington Creek American, Seafood 6334 N Lucerne Ave

Pearls Oyster Bar

$ Briarcliff Village American, Burgers, Sandwiches 4151 N Mulberry Dr

$$ Liberty Indian, Pakistani, Vegetarian 8674 NE Flintlock Rd.

$$ Zona Rosa Indian, Pakistani, Vegetarian 7407 NW 87th St

$$$ Parkville- Latin American 1 W 1st St

Philly Time

$$ Tiffany Springs- American, Barbecue 10020 NW Ambassador Drive

Burgers, Wraps & Sandwiches

Stroud’s

$ Riverside American, Breakfast/Brunch, Diner 4541 NW Gateway Ave $$ Liberty- American, Breakfast/Brunch 8301 NE Flintlock Rd

Roxanne’s Cafe

$ Parkville American, Breakfast/Brunch 6264 Lewis Dr

Nelle Belle’s Diner $ ClaycomoAmerican, Breakfast/Brunch, Diner 150 E US-69

French

Avalon Cafe

$$$ Weston - French 608 Main St

Café des Amis $$$ Parkville - French 112 Main St

Italian

Cascone’s Italian $$$ Kansas City- Italian 3737 N Oak Tfwy

In-a-Tub

$ Kansas City- Mexican 4000 N Oak Tfwy

Pizza

Dish-Famous Stuffed Pizza $$ Liberty- Pizza, Sandwiches/Subs 846 S MO-291

Stone Canyon Pizza $$ Parkville American, Pizza, Sandwiches/Subs 15 Main St $$ Zona Rosa American, Pizza, Sandwiches/Subs 8630 NW Prairie View Road

Leo’s Pizza $ Gladstone Pizza, Sandwiches 408 NW Englewood Rd

Minsky’s Pizza

$$ Zona Rosa Italian, Pizza, Sandwiches/Subs 7007 NW Barry Rd $$ Gladstone Italian, Pizza, Sandwiches/Subs 221 NE Barry Rd

Bravo Cucina Italiana

Longboards Wraps & Bowls

$$ Zona Rosa Italian 7301 NW 87th St

$$ Liberty Italian, Pizza, Sandwiches/Subs 205 N State Route 291

$$ Liberty- Japanese, Sushi 9763 N Cedar Ave

$$Liberty - Hawaiian, Teriyaki 1173 W Kansas St

Cafe Italia

Kelso’s Pizza

Asian - Chinese

Jersey Boyz

$$ Parkville Italian, Seafood, Steakhouse 160 English Landing Drive

Little Store & Deli

Mexican

$$ Parkville - Japanese, Sushi 10925 45 Hwy

Wasabi Japanese Sushi Bar

Bo Lings

$$ Zona Rosa Chinese, Dim Sum 8670 NW Prairie View Rd

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$$ Gladstone- Hawaiian, Teriyaki 6269 N. Oak Trafficway

$ North Kansas City- Sandwiches/Subs 315 Armour Rd $ North Kansas City Breakfast/Brunch, Burgers, Sandwiches/Subs 2107 Knox

Ixtapa Mexican Cuisine $$ Zona Rosa - Mexican 7130 NW Barry Rd

$$ North Kansas City American, Pizza, Sandwiches 300 Armour Rd

Pizza Shoppe $$ Liberty - Pizza 8584 Church Rd

$$ Platte Woods- Pizza 6640 NW Prairie View Rd.

$$ Gladstone- Pizza 9329 N Oak Tfwy

Pub Food

Chappell’s Restaurant & Sports Museum $$ North Kansas City American, Pub Food, Sandwiches 323 Armour Rd

54th Street Grill and Bar $$ Liberty - Pub Food 9251 NE Barry Rd

$$ Gladstone - Pub Food 303 NE Englewood Rd $$ Zona Rosa - Pub Food 7200 NW 86th Ter

Paul & Jack’s Tavern $$ North Kansas City American, Burgers, Pub Food 1808 Clay St

Tanner’s Bar and Grill

$$ Gladstone- American, Burgers, Pub Food 6024 N. Antioch Rd

Helen’s J.A.D Bar & Grill $ North Kansas City Burgers, Pizza, Pub Food 2002 Armour Rd

Dirk’s Sports Bar & Grill $ Zona Rosa- American, Pub Food 8132 NW Prairie View Rd

Crazy Olives Bar & Grill $$ Argosy Casino American, Burgers, Italian 777 NW Argosy Pkwy

Rusty Horse Tavern

$$ Parkville- American, Burgers, Pub Food 6325 Lewis St

810 Zone at Harrah’s $$ Harrah’s Casino American, Pub Food 1 Riverboat Drive

Brick House Cafe & Pub $$ Smithville American, Burgers 111 N Bridge St

Nick & Jake’s $$ Parkville American, Pub Food 6325 Lewis Dr

Steakhouses

Em Chamas Brazilian Grill $$$ Burlington Creek Brazilian, Steakhouse 6101 NW 63rd Ter

Journey Wood-Fired Steaks $$$$ Argosy Casino- Steakhouse 777 NW Argosy Pkwy

Range Steakhouse

$$$ Harrah’s Casino- Steakhouse 1 Riverboat Dr

Ventana Gourmet Grill $$ Excelsior Springs Burgers, Italian, Steakhouse 117 W Broadway St

The Last Word with Phil LeVota

Holiday Time Means Giving

How About Giving to the Dog Who Inspired Helping Others

here is no stronger bond between human and animal than the one we have with our pets. If you are a dog or cat person, you know what I’m talking about. Our pets are as much a part of our family as the human members. We certainly love and spend money on them like any other family member. And sometimes, especially with older people, their pet is their only companion to keep them company and share their favorite television show. However, sometimes it becomes too difficult to take care of a pet and can be devastating to someone to have to lose that special friend. Fortunately for the Northland, there is a group out there working hard to keep that pet/owner relationship intact and to assist in keeping pets in people’s homes. But before I get into those specifics, let me tell you the story of my friend: Hero the dog.

Once upon a time there was a dog named Hero. Hero was a happy, young dog with a gentle spirit. However, Hero’s first owner, an elderly woman, passed away when Hero was only 18 months old, leaving him needing a new place to live. Finding homes for large dogs is not an easy thing, but Hero got lucky when he visited the Leger family. The minute Hero strolled into that living room, he won their hearts and the Legers adopted Hero on the spot. But Hero suffered from severe separation anxiety and depression as he was so attached to his first owner that he never left her side until the day she died. The Legers immediately realized Hero needed a job to keep himself busy. With his gentle spirit, and calm, confident manner, he was perfect for Therapy Dog School. He easily passed the evaluation for three different organizations, plus gained an obedience title, Canine Good Citizen title, and Rally title. Hero did not like the competition of dog shows, but he loved visiting with children at school, residents in nursing homes, domestic violence shelters, hospitals and the Missouri Veterans Homes. Hero was known far and wide across the state and was a demo dog for many new startup programs, including the Missouri Department of Corrections Puppies for Parole Program. The big “teddy bear,” Hero served humans his entire life, building bridges and

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helping people overcome their fear of dogs. He was a friend to all, both four- and two- legged. Unfortunately, Hero was diagnosed with Lymphosarcoma at age eight. He participated in a research study involving comparative oncology through the University of Missouri veterinary clinic for the treatment of the disease, and successfully continued to serve as a therapy dog during his treatments. Hero survived 18 months longer than expected, but lost his battle in June 2011. In honor of his spirit and dedication to helping people, “Hero’s Hope” was founded to help other dogs like him. Since forming Hero’s Hope, organizers Heddie Leger, Dori Thomas, Sherry Edwards, Lory Mayotte and Wendy Schindler have collaborated with the organization www.2milliondogs.org. They have organized a fundraiser in Liberty, Missouri for cancer research--for both animals and humans-and to support Hero’s Hope programs like PetAssist, Missouri Puppies for Parole, and various shelters in the Northland and across the state. More specifically, Hero’s Hope PetAssist actively helps keep pets in their loving homes by providing support for their families. The mission of Hero’s Hope Pet-Assist is to improve the quality of life--assisting pet owners affected by the aging process, health issues, disabilities, veterans of war, and those in crisis due to financial or medical emergency, loss of employment and/or loss of home. The goal is to assist with food, daily care or minor medical assistance, so the affected owner may keep their pet in their home. This organization promotes responsible ownership and upholds humane treatment of animals by providing educational materials when necessary. Trained volunteers assist in the care of the affected pets, when requested by the individual or a family member. The goal is to keep pets in their loving homes with their owners, if at all possible. The organization derives no income from providing said services, and is completely supported by donations, grants and fundraisers (a 501c3 entity). Hero’s Hope Pet-Assist is an all volunteer charitable and educational group based out

of the Northland. The group also functions as a source of education and training for all aspects of humane, responsible pet ownership and pet care. When a person can no longer care for his pet, time is critical in organizing a safety net for the pet and family. With trained and experienced pet care volunteers available, they increase the liklihood of keeping the pet in the home and not relinquishing it to shelter. Volunteers attend trainings when possible to provide the needed skills to perform pet care services. Volunteers have dedicated many hours to become highly proficient in their skills. There are no paid staff or paid officers. Hero’s Hope Pet-Assist provides its services free of charge and relies solely on donations, grants, and fund raisers to operate and conduct business. If you live in the Northland, you can stop by Wild Birds Unlimited, 8708 NE Flintlock Road, KCMO (816.415.4303) to donate either funds or food through the month of December. If you or someone you know is in need of assistance, please contact them at 816820-5829 or via email at pawzone@yahoo.com. So in the holiday spirit of giving, why don’t you send a little present to Hero’s Hope Pet-Assist in honor of your favorite furry creature? And make sure you get your own Hero (or Max or Sadie or ‘whatever’) a little something for the holiday too. A great holiday season to you and yours…..and your pets!

Phil LeVota is a local trial attorney who has been involved in politics for over 25 years. As a long time prosecuting attorney before going into private practice, Phil has been involved in the community for many years. Phil has held many elected positions, a board member of domestic violence shelter while also being active in the metro area and nationwide as a radio talk show host, television commentator/analyst, and he recently won an Emmy Award for his work on television hosting the “Power of KC” program showcasing our area.

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