ILLUSTRADO Magazine_Dec 2010

15 DECEMBER 2010 - 15 JANUARY 2011

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Holiday Issue

BEATING THE OF CHRISTMAS BLUES ARE YOU A SCROOGE OR NOT? THE CONTROVERSIAL RH ISSUE INVESTING IN 2011 FESTIVE FILIPINIANA FASHION GLOBETROTTERS BLOG: DESTINATION – TURKEY MY PINOY LIFE IN ADELAIDE, AUSTRALIA ANNIE B CHRONICLES: DEAR SANTA

EDITOR’S NOTE

Gifts with a little extra something Photo by Eros Goze

Call me jaded, but it seems that for me year after year, Christmas has become increasingly a tiresome race to shop and binge.

We’ve got the routine down to pat – the whole year passes us by in a blur, and before you know it, you’re taking out the tree and holiday baubles. Then, just several days before the day, you run around the malls frantic to complete your gift shopping, only to settle to the exercise of exchanging meaningless ‘things,’ while our stomachs heave from the sins of our annual overeating marathon tradition. Then, as you wind down with yet another set of “bling” in a tiny box, another bag that you would hardly ever use, shoes and clothes that your wardrobe is already full of, you secretly wonder, with a sharp stab of guilt in your chest, “Is this all there is to Christmas?”

True, we always try to remind ourselves that we shouldn’t miss the real spirit of the season; that it’s all about sharing and spirituality. But as we repeat that over and over in our heads - does it ever really sink in when all you are hoping for are the new season Louboutins, the latest Xbox 360 release, an iPad and iPhone combo, or even tickets to next year’s spa vacation?

According to a recent sermon I’ve heard, most of us are guilty of the same thing – we never fail to give gifts to each other and ourselves, but we never think about giving anything to the real celebrant of the season. Remember? The ‘Guy’’ actually having his birthday on the 25th of December?

Don’t get me wrong. I’ve never been one of those ultra-religious folks (my due respects) who could quote verses from ‘The Book’ at the slightest provocation, nor am I an angel of doom telling you to repent because the end is near. It’s just that, seeing all the things happening around us in the last few years makes one wonder about the true essence of all of this - for real.

The ‘things’ that we allow to exclusively occupy our Christmas wish lists won’t do us any good when life puts us through the test - and that’s a pragmatic fact. And it is the preoccupation with these ‘things’ that desensitizes us and makes us miss what’s more important, in an occasion that really requires something else.

During these years of difficulty, we’ve seen the high and mighty rich crumble, or those with privileged lives struggle and fall down to earth, and all it took was an inevitable tick in global economy. Lesson learned here? When you are challenged by fate, the meaningless ‘stuff’ that you have amassed, the material things that made you the envy of your neighbors, won’t save you. They won’t even offer you comfort.

While there is nothing wrong, and nothing stopping us from indulging in material delights (and oh, I do love them too!) which, by the way, we can give and receive at anytime during the year, we should really put some serious thought on how we give during this season – an occasion that deserves a truly heartfelt and solemn exercise of generosity, no less.

Let us not just go through the motions of thoughtlessly swiping away just for the sake of finishing our holiday shopping. Even better, let us give gifts with a little extra something – couple them with the stuff that money can’t buy: a gesture of kindness, a break, the gift of time, an experience, blessings, prayers and whatever’s given that truly is for the receiver to keep.

And while you’re at it, don’t forget the ‘big present,’ the one for the real celebrant of the season – that little Child lying in the crib in that humble manger, who has given all of us the ‘gift of all gifts.’ There are so many things that you can do (‘do’ being the operative word). I’m sure you’ll figure something out.

My dear Illustrados, here’s wishing you the best of the holidays, and that you and your family are touched by the true spirit of the season.

LALAINE CHU-BENITEZ Publisher and Editor-in-Chief

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CONTRIBUTORS

Ana Santos

Bo Sanchez

Sharing has always been the most important message of Christmas and Illustrado columnist, awarded bestselling author and speaker Preacher in Blue Jeans Bro. Bo Sanchez is here to share with us that happy relationships are the ones that throw parties. As customary in his articles, Bro. Bo gives us the point-bypoint lowdown on how we can inject more gratitude and joy within our relationships, especially appropriate during the holiday season.

After 9 years in the corporate rat race, Ana gave up her designated parking slot to become a journalist and sexual health advocate. The former she does by contributing to stories on sexual health rights and women in armed conflict to local magazines and to the foreign wires. The latter, she does by managing www. sexandsensibilities.com (SAS), a website with culturally sensitive sexual health information for young Filipinas. In her story, “RH is a battlefield,” Ana looks at the heated debate on reproductive health (RH) and family planning (FP) in the Philippines.

Aby Yap Always tongue-in-cheek, writer Aby Yap makes sure that our magazine has always that touch of downto-earth humor and she supplies us with healthy doses of laughter in her column Onli in Da Pilipins.

With the super ability to identify even the most obscure Pinoy eccentricities, Aby tells us this month what the “X” in X-mas is for. Bet you didn’t know the answer to that one?

Ambassador Grace Reluccio-Princesa

Francisco J. Colayco

The Philippines’ financial guru, author of several popular books in the domain of financial literacy and how to smartly manage your money, Francisco J. Colayco tells us that this point in time the best season to plan how we can prosper in 2011. FJC brings us good new on the state of the Philippine economy and tells all would-be investors that it’s now or never. Check out his article in our Kabuhayan section.

Bayanihan Corner columnist, the UAE’s very own Ambassador Grace Reluccio Princesa is a career diplomat who has experienced some tough challenges and achieved fulfillment with her significant past stints in the UAE (as Consul General) and in Iraq, during the war. The good Ambassador wishes all of us a blessed Christmas at the same time reminding us of the value of self-less giving, as well love for country and discipline.

Excel Dyquianco Freelance writer, Illustrado contributor Excel Dyquianco writes on a range of different diverse topics like travel, men’s health, sports and hobbies for different publications in the Philippines. For the most festive issue of the year, though, he talks about food for the holidays with the help of a celebrity chef from Manila. Check out his article for some ideas on the sumptuous treats you could whip up for the holidays.

Filbert Kung Sherry Tenorio

Her experience as a writer and editor for several Dubai-based glossy publications has made Sherry Tenorio the ‘’go-to girl” when in it comes to lifestyle.

Every month, Sherry gives us tips on the “must-do’s” in our part of the world, as well as some uplifting news on Pinoy achievements around the world. For the month of sharing, Sherry examines the Pinoy habit of giving to find out whether the recent year’s economic struggles have hampered our enthusiasm for giving gifts generously.

One half of the BlackFox photography team, Filbert Kung has the enviable job of photographing some of the most beautiful women in the Philippines - his latest ‘conquest’ on camera includes Ms. Philippines Universe Venus Raj. A regular in the Manila fashion publishing scene, Fil shoots this month’s distinctively Pinoy fashion editorial featuring models Grendel Alvarado and Peter Nordell.

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DEC 2010

Philippine models Grendel Alvarado and Peter Nordell star in this month’s fashion editorial feature showcasing Filipiniana-inspired party wear perfect for the season.

FEATURES

Christmas Songs 6 My Very Pinoy Christmas Wish 11 Beating the OF Holiday Blues 14 Christmas Giving: Scrooge or Not? 18 RH is a Battlefield 24

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REGULAR COLUMNS

Editor’s Note 1 Letters 2 Contributors 4 Contents 5 Bayanihan Corner 8 Illuminati: Holidays are Forever 22 Pinoy Pro 30 Pinoy Entrepreneur 32 Kabuhayan: Proudly Pinoy Nutraceuticals 34 Kabuhayan Money: Saving Investing in 2011 36 Spirituality: Happy Relationships Throw Parties 38 Global Barrio News 42 Illustrado Scrapbook 46 Community 82 Onli in da Pilipins: The ‘X’ in Xmas 84 Annie B Chronicles: Dear Santa 86 Classifieds Listing: Filipino & Filipino-Oriented Establishments 90

PLACES

Trippin’: Five Things to Do this Month 74 Trippin’: A Pinoy Christmas Feast 70 My Pinoy Life in: Adelaide, Australia – Farah Hubahib 78 Globetrotter’s Blog: Turkey – Mary Rose Dalocanog 80

FASHION

Fashion : Festive Filipiniana52 Weaving Art into Fashion 64 Philippine Fashion Week 66

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6 HOLIDAY 2010

FILIPINO CHRISTMAS CLASSICS

Pasko na Naman

By Levi Celerio

Pasko na naman, o kay tulin ng araw.

Paskong nagdaan, tila ba nung kailan lang.

Ngayon ay Pasko, dapat pasalamatan.

Ngayon ay Pasko, tayo ay mag-awitan.

Pasko, Pasko, Pasko na namang muli, Tanging araw nating pinakamimithi.

Pasko, Pasko, Pasko na namang muli!

Ang pag-ibig naghahari!

Himig ng Pasko

By Serapio Ramos

Malamig ang simoy ng hangin Kay saya ng bawa’t damdamin Ang tibok ng puso sa dibdib Para bang hulog na ng langit Himig Pasko’y laganap Mayroong sigla ang lahat Wala ang kalungkutan Lubos ang kasayahan Himig ng Pasko umiiral Sa loob ng bawa’t tahanan Masaya ang mga tanawin May awit ang simoy ng hangin Himig Pasko’y laganap Mayroong sigla ang lahat Wala ang kalungkutan Lubos ang kasayahan Himig ng Pasko umiiral Sa loob ng bawa’t tahanan Masaya ang mga tanawin May awit ang simoy ng hangin Ang tibok ng puso sa dibdib Para bang hulog na ng langit

Sa Maybahay ang Aming Bati Sa maybahay ang aming bati Merry Christmas na maluwalhati Ang pag-ibig pag siyang naghari Araw-araw ay magiging Paskong lagi Koro: Ang sanhi po ng pagparito Hihingi po ng aginaldo Kung sakali’t kami’y perhuwisyo Pasensya na kayo pagka’t kami’y namamasko

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Ang Pasko Ay Sumapit

By Levi Celerio

Ang Pasko ay sumapit Tayo ay mangagsi-awit Ng magagandang himig Dahil sa ang Diyos ay pag-ibig Nang si Kristo ay isilang May tatlong haring nagsidalaw At ang bawat isa Ay nagsipaghandog ng tanging alay Bagong taon ay magbagong-buhay Nang lumigaya ang ating bayan Tayo’y magsikap upang makamtan Natin ang kasaganaan Tayo’y mangagsi-awit Habang ang mundo’y tahimik Ang araw ay sumapit Ng Sanggol na dulot ng langit Tayo ay magmahalan Ating sundin ang gintong aral At magbuhat ngayon Kahit hindi Pasko ay magbigayan

OPM CHRISTMAS FAVORITES

Pasko Na Sinta Ko

By Gary Valenciano

Pasko na sinta ko hanap-hanap kita Bakit magtatampo nilisan ako Kung mawawala ka sa piling ko sinta Paano ang Pasko, inulila mo Sayang sinta ang sinumpaan At pagtitinginang tunay Nais mo bang kalimutang ganap Ang ating suyuan at galak Kung mawawala ka sa piling ko sinta Paano ang Paskong alay ko sa’yo Sayang sinta ang sinumpaan At pagtitinginang tunay Nais mo bang kalimutang ganap Ang ating suyuan at galak Kung mawawala ka sa piling ko sinta Paano ang paskong alay ko sa’yo

Photography by Victor Sollorano

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Christmas in Our Hearts

By Jose Mari Chan

Whenever I see girls and boys Selling lanterns on the streets, I remember the Child In the manger as He sleeps.

Wherever there are people Giving gifts, exchanging cards, I believe that Christmas Is truly in their hearts.

Let’s light our Christmas trees For a bright tomorrow Where nations are at peace And all are one in God Let’s sing Merry Christmas And a happy holiday, This season may we never forget The love we have for Jesus Let Him be the One to guide us As another new year starts And may the spirit of Christmas Be always in our hearts.

In every prayer and every song The community unites, Celebrating the birth Of our Savior, Jesus Christ Let love, like that starlight On that first Christmas morn, Lead us back to the manger Where Christ the Child was born So, come let us rejoice Come and sing a Christmas carol With one big joyful voice Proclaim the name of the Lord!

Sana Ngayong Pasko

By Ariel Rivera

Christmas Won’t Be the Same Without You

By Martin Nievera

It’s the time of year When good friends are near Tryin’ hard to find a quiet moment Sharing love and joy Children with their toys Sadness fills my heart to see you go Christmas won’t be the same without you Christmas won’t be the same if you go All I need to see standing by my Christmas tree Christmas won’t be the same without you I remember when The times we used to spend Walking hard in hand until the sun sets Then came Christmas Eve The wish you gave to me How I wish I tried to make you stay Repeat Chorus It’s been a long long time I need you by my side Hold me tight Don’t let go Let go Repeat Chorus (2x) Christmas won’t be the same Christmas won’t be the same Without you

Kumukutikutitap

By Ryan Cayabyab

Pasko na naman ngunit wala ka pa Hanggang kailan kaya ako maghihintay sa iyo Bakit ba naman kailangang lumisan pa Ang tanging hangad ko lang ay makapiling ka Refrain Sana ngayong Pasko ay maalala mo pa rin ako Hinahanap-hanap pag-ibig mo At kahit wala ka na Nangangarap at umaasa pa rin ako Muling makita ka at makasama ka Sa araw ng Pasko Repeat (2x) Sana ngayong Pasko…

Kumukutikutitap, bumubusibusilak ganyan ang indak ng mga bumbilya kikindat – kindat, kukurap -kurap pinaglalaruan ng inyong mga mata Kumukutikutitap, bumubusibusilak ganyan ang indak ng mga bumbilya kikindat – kindat, kukurap -kurap pinaglalaruan ng inyong mga mata Iba’t – ibang palamuti ating isabit sa puno buhusan ng mga kulay tambakan ng mga regalo Tumitibok-tibok, sumisinok – sinok wag lang malundo sa sabitin pupulupot-lupot paikot ng paikot koronahan ng palarang bituin Dagdagan mo…

8 BAYANIHAN CORNER

Bayanihan as Part of the Christmas Spirit

By Ambassador Grace Relucio-Princesa

Pasko na naman…

So a very popular Filipino song goes.

The Philippines has the longest Christmas season in the world. It starts unofficially when the “ber” months begin in September, when you hear the season songs being played again on the airwaves. Then, it ends unofficially on January 20, the Feast of the Santo Niño or the Child Jesus.

I always say that Christmas, for me as a Christian, is the greatest love story on earth. It is about a Father who gives His only Son to live on earth and then die to save mankind. It is about “self-donation” – giving up to oneself and one’s comfort zone in order to give life.

Just like the OF’s (Overseas Filipinos) who sacrifice a lot in order to provide a better life for their loved ones. The sadness and the loneliness of this choice is most heartily felt when the cold months usher in the season here in UAE and other parts of the world.

This kind of self-giving and support for loved ones that Christ did is, for me, mirrored in the Bayanihan spirit. We are trying to bring back this volunteering attitude back into our consciousness by formally creating the Bayanihan Council last 14 May here in Abu Dhabi.

Hopefully, this cooperation now established between the presidents of different organizations will spill over into the other Emirates as well. United in the pursuit of common goals like the Training of Trainors for Financial and Entrepreneurial Literacy, we can begin to agree on the way forward with the spirit of “Taas noo, Filipino.”

This pioneering project of the NGO Atikha, focused on “unti-unting pagpupundar” will happen in the last quarter of January 2011. Reecho trainings will follow.

The Christmas spirit of “living and dying to give life” should not only be for a season but for a lifetime. We, who are “bayanis” to each other can live this everyday if we decide to raise up, not just our “houses” or our families but the “house” of the Philippines.

In the spirit of Bayanihan, we should forget crab mentality, ningas kugon attitude and the mañana habit and imbibe our more positive virtues as a people.

According to the late Vice-President and Foreign Secretary Salvador Laurel, he asked the Japanese and the Germans the keys to their success; how they rose from the ashes of defeat in World War II and became the economic powers that they are now. They mentioned three critical ingredients: 1) nationalism or love of country, 2) discipline, and 3) focused or visionary leadership. Since we are already known to be a people of faith, we can also add love of God with the first key. And if we love God and our country, we should then endeavor to promote discipline, especially when it comes to handling finances, trash or “basura,” eliminating tardiness and greatly improving our dealings with each other. For 2011, may I propose a vision? That we can agree to disagree agreeably and that we can discuss everything with fairness and equanimity as a community of volunteers and selfdonors?

‘World class’ is a term used by the late Foreign Secretary Blas Ople, to describe the Country Team, composed of different government agencies posted abroad usually led by the Ambassador or the Consul General, as mandated by the Migrant Workers and Overseas Filipinos Act of 1995 to protect overseas Filipinos. Let us embody this phrase, partnering with Team Bayanihan, the Filipino community, to exemplify Global Taas Noo Filipinos.

We will do it through the framework of the three pillars of Philippine Foreign Policy, namely: a) preservation and enhancement of national security, b) promotion and attainment of economic security, and c) protection of the rights and promotion of the welfare and interest of Filipinos overseas. Public diplomacy is unofficially added to them.

Details on these issues, to follow in the near future.

In the meantime, please allow me to greet all of you with a “Banal at Maligayang Pasko at Mapayapa at Masaganang Bagong Taon.”

10 HOLIDAY 2010

What is your “Very Pinoy”

Christmas Wish?

My very Pinoy simple Christmas wish is for my whole family to be complete in one country to celebrate, and thank goodness it’s going to happen as my brothers are going to come from the Philippines here to Kuwait!

Mackay Marquez Carillo My Very Pinoy Simple Christmas wish is to eat yummy puto bumbong.

Pierre Serradilla My wish is to buy puto-bungbong and bibingka outside the church here sa Qatar pag Simbang Gabi - perfect sa cold holy night...sigh… Sarap!

Jhoe Lina To be with my son!!! To hug and to be hugged by loved ones. Merry Xmas Illustrado!

Nona Rivera Tableya tsokolate... na may bibingkang galapong… haaaaaaay saraaaaaap !

Rocky Gathercole illustrado Magazine

My wish is to listen to Christmas carols sung by children! I really miss it so much!!!

Albert Andrada Simbang gabi, puto bungbong, hot salabat, and yeah, that’s right...the Christmas caroling of kids.

Winnie Nicholson My wish is for my family to overcome all the hardships of this year. For all of us to be happy and feel “His” blessings no matter what.

Joy Fremista To complete Simbang Gabi, like we used to when we were kids.

MJ Sulit

To be with my parents in Cebu because I miss them a lot!

Baylosis-Rizon Aseret

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I wish for healing not only for myself, but for all those who are suffering right now. May we all be blessed this Christmas.

Anonymous I wish with all my heart that Philippine Economy will rise to the highest level!

Bebot Romarate Leftover majestic ham tossed in linguine with queso de bola on top, for brunch on December 26!

Joan Tuaño Claim back the greatness that belongs to the Filipinos... To be a major player in the “World’s Economy”... and be the giver instead of the recipient...

A Liza Julao Mag kalesa pagkatapos ng simbang gabi! Tapos kumain ng puto bumbong sa plaza!

Freida Fernandez Waves and more waves…

John Medina I wish for change in our country and for better things for all Filipinos around the world.

Bong Valderrama Sana kahit di man ako kasama ng family ko this year, I wish that all of them will be okay, especially my little baby Rosemae. I miss them sooo much, but I can’t be with them this year. I wish next year, I can go home to see them.

Aldrin Bugayong I wish that my kids will still be able to enjoy all the precious Filipino Christmas traditions that I had with my family as a child. I hope they will not miss a single joyous moment and I will try my best to make this

happen.

Rency Cosio

Jamon lang at mainit na tsokolate, okay na ako…

Peter Mabanta

Like many Pinoy expats, my wife, son and I always look forward to spending Christmas in the Philippines. Being “practical” Pinoys, we only give simple tokens as Christmas gifts for my family and in-laws and friends, but we never expect anything in return.

Being blessed with a good job overseas is our “Pamasko” or “Aguinaldo” from the Big Boss above - and we never forget to say “Thank You” in prayer.

We are most happy when we host a simple salo-salo on Christmas day for our extended family who visits us at our humble residence. And for those brief moments in a long year, our original home in Pinas becomes crowded but “alive” again with the cacophony of talk and laughter.

Boyet Damot

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Beating the

OFChristmas

By Lalaine Chu-Benitez

Blues

It’s the best of times; it’s the worst of times…What could be bad about the best and most joyous part of the year – when everybody’s supposedly in high spirits and all around you are the dazzling signs of a holiday in full swing? Being away from your family, perhaps?

Being alone, thousands of miles from home where the season is celebrated like no other in the world?

Ever heard of “OF (Overseas Filipino) Christmas Blues?”

For any important occasion in the year – be it Christmas, New Year, Valentines, anniversaries, birthdays, et cetera, which is usually spent with family and loved ones – being away from home is always a tough. According to renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Mitchell Flaum, isolated individuals may feel depression during this time of the year as the traditional image of warm loving families during the holiday season creates expectations that cannot always be fulfilled.

Furthermore, the fact that this time of the year is celebrated with rich tradition and much gusto back home, makes being away in a foreign country, where Christmas is mostly a commercial exercise, even more difficult. Ien Dakay expresses a common sentiment among Filipinos, “Being an OF in a Muslim country and trying to celebrate Christmas away from your family is sometimes heart breaking. You tend to be sentimental about everything, especially

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when you realize that this is the time of the year that we should have been together. But not everyone is lucky enough to get a leave to be with loved ones and really celebrate Christmas as we know how back home.”

However, despite the distance and the lack of the traditional yuletide trappings you always crave during the run-up to the New Year, OFs can still have an authentic feel-good holiday.

Ien Dakay The key is to realize that you are not alone, reinvent Christmas tradition to fit your current realities and make use of that holiday spirit that is actually just inside of you

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Bringing home closer

Turning to your surrogate family Perhaps, you’re all alone out here – but that doesn’t mean that you are on your own, and there certainly is no need to be lonely. It’s at times like these when the non-traditional family set-up expats are prone to having outside their home country, becomes very apparent.

They may just be your ‘housemates,’ friends gathered through the years, or even a motley crew of multi-racial folks you regularly hang out with - but let’s face it, your circle of ‘nearest and dearest’ is, by default, your family here. So this is the perfect opportunity to get comfort from each other’s company and have fun in the process.

Make an effort to host a Noche Buena for your closest friends. Better yet, make a spin on the usual Christmas Eve gathering by making it into a sleep over. Stay in with your pals for a lazy Christmas Day at home full of laughter and relaxed enjoyment. If you’re not the laidback type, spend the whole of the 25th visiting friends around town, just like a lot of people do back home.

Turning to your surrogate family here, however, doesn’t mean forgetting about your people back home. You can actually bring them closer because technology has made overseas communications so easy. If you’re Restte Kaye Lim a Gulf ‘bachelor’ longing to see your wife and kids, or your mom, dad and siblings –make the most of chat rooms, webcams and VOIP to share the season with the people who matter the most.

Restte Kaye Lim shares, “Well, I am far more dependent on technology now than I was before. Living a life far from my family has led me to search for free or cheaper and more convenient ways to communicate with them from time to time. Technology has helped me stay connected in a faster way.” She continues, “Back home, I used to spend Christmas Eve with family, and friends can only give me a ring. But abroad, it is the other way around. I now spend it with friends while my family is in the chat room trying to see what I have prepared.”

Ien Dakay further adds, “Since I already make frequent phone calls to my family, I’ve also tried to use the other ways in order to save.

I’ve probably used whatever is available out there like Skype, Yahoo Chat, and when on the go or at work, I chat or call them with iPhone apps like Nimbuz, Skype or eBuddy or with just about any VOIP software, especially on this holiday season.”

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Setting new traditions Back home, Christmas is not Christmas without the parols, Simbang Gabi, puto bumbong, bibingka and hamon, Kris Kringle and caroling.

But you don’t need to miss out, if you live outside the Philippines – in countries where observing all our traditions is not feasible, because in reality, over the years, we OFs have also created our own holiday traditions, without even realizing it.

But even better, reach deep down inside of you and indulge in the surefire way of beating the holiday blues by stimulating feel good endorphins – the best way possible. How? By doing a good deed.

Why? Because doing something great not only work wonders for the recipient, but also gives you an all-natural high. No matter how small the effort, doing something noble, will definitely give you that joyful feeling, and what’s good for the heart, is definitely good for your psyche.

For starters, how can an OF Christmas ever be the same without our ritual of sending a kabayan box home? No matter how cheesy it sounds, that kabayan box filled with goodies and sundries which most, if not all, Filipinos lovingly prepare to be freighted during the run up to the holidays, is the quintessential symbol of OF generosity – a piece of yourself, to make your family feel that you care.

What about our annual tradition of community Christmas parties?

Out here, where the ‘kabayan spirit’ is strong, come ‘crab mentality’ or high waters, we Filipinos tend to seek solace in each other and these parties are the perfect venue for communal merriment. And it doesn’t matter whether you know people, or none at all, because everybody’s welcome. Just find out the community event happening close to you and bring your high spirits along.

But if you’re one who prefers smaller groups, there’s always that distinctly OF practice of holding potluck parties. Whether at home, in the park or beach, the important things is that everybody chips in and everybody enjoys. This specific OF tradition, just like all the rest, is truly built around the concept of sharing.

Tracy Ley, who is fortunate to have both her family and friends around her during her favorite season shares her family’s yearly ritual, “It has been the same ritual for my family during Christmas, but of course it gets more special every year. My mom, my sisters and I cook about five to Tracy Ley seven dishes for Noche Buena and always on the list would be pansit, lasagna, turkey, fruit salad and spaghetti.” She continues, “We will always have a basket full of chocolates and other sweets to nibble on, loads of Christmas cards to read, and Christmas themed party favors. Besides Noche Buena, we also visit a hotel where they have Christmas carols and where father Santa gives gifts to the kids. We stay up late, play games and wait for 12 midnight to open our gifts while Mariah Carey’s Christmas songs play in the background.”

Surround yourself with joy No matter how homesick you are – some good cheer can always infect your somber winter mood. Surround yourself with the merry symbols, not to mention, the sounds and smells of the season. The sparkle of Christmas décor, the cheeriness of yuletide music, and the comforting aroma of holiday eats wafting around in your home, will surely give you something to smile about.

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So whether it’s greeting your neighbors (whom you haven’t talked to since you moved in three years ago) with some cookies or cake; or throwing a ‘palaro’ for the neighborhood kids or a Christmas party for the kabayan nannies; or organizing a donation drive or weekend charity caroling with your friends; or merely exercising your facial muscles by sincerely greeting kabayan strangers a happy Christmas on the day – the gesture will surely works wonders for you. So, try it.

Feed your spirit

Once you’ve figured out all the exciting things that you will do to make this holiday a joyful one, and not another one marked by depression and homesickness – make sure that you also feed your spirit. Add depth to your celebration by wholeheartedly fulfilling your spiritual obligations and by keeping in mind what Christmas is all about. Now you know that you don’t have to be home to have the very best Christmas.

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Christmas Giving-

Scrooge or Not?

By Sherry Tenorio

Let’s face it. It has become difficult to simply give love on Christmas Day especially if the wishlist consists of an iPad, a Louis Vuitton bag, a DSLR camera, a sleek laptop, and so on. And the financial pressure escalates with the size of one’s family, circle of friends, or even neighborhood back home. This month, Illustrado explores the shopping carts of the Pinoys in the Middle East, to find out if, after all the economic difficulties in the past, we are still generous Santas geared to make our loved ones material wishes come true, or we’re sending out Hallmark cards with the words, ‘it’s the thought that counts.’

At this time of the year, it has been observed that one of the most asked questions between Pinoy expats is: “Uuwi ka ba sa Pasko?” And more often than not, the answer is either - “Oo, excited na nga ako kahit malaki gastos” or “Hindi, magastos umuwi pag Pasko.” With these remarks, it would seem that the common notion about celebrating Christmas back home is now correlated to spending too much money. Although every one would perhaps want to come home for Christmas, the financial expenses that could exhaust a year’s savings and credit card limit have become hindrances. From peak season air fare, to ‘pasalubongs,’ plus budget for the season’s festivities, spending the holidays with families in the Philippines has been a challenging task for most international Filipinos.

But even those who opt to stay away from their families are also financially-challenged, as they still try to make up for their absence by sending home generous gifts – cameras, cell phones, clothes, shoes, expensive bags, even jewelries - usually sent through ‘balikbayan boxes’.

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It is very sweet and thoughtful of Pinoys to provide for their families the way they do. Yet, do Pinoys abroad need to be overly generous (even those who can afford to be) this Christmas, considering the financial difficulties of the past years, and the economic uncertainties in the future? Or, should they be pragmatic and resort to giving inexpensive yet still thoughtful gifts to their loved ones? Where do Pinoys draw the line when it comes to being generous?

To give or not to give One may argue that gift giving is a subjective matter that would actually depend on the person’s financial and emotional capacity to give. But judging from the usually carefree spending attitude of Pinoys abroad, it is worth learning a lesson or two from the experiences of their fellows.

One essential thing that one must not do is to use up all the savings in buying Christmas gifts. Common sense, you say; but one which is not so common with a lot of people. According to Dubai-based Juliette Chan who used to routinely overspend for Christmas gifts, “I am now careful in using my hard-earned money wisely. It was really hard when I used to max out all my money, and then nothing would be left after the holidays.” Sadly, Pinoys have the tendency to do this, because it is the very reason that they went abroad: to have the financial freedom to provide for their families. And, Christmas is the best time for them to prove that they have the capacity to realize the material dreams for their families. But financial freedom, requires control and responsibility.

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meaning of Christmas. It is the day when Christ was born. It has to be a spiritual celebration. There is nothing wrong in giving gifts during Christmas but not to the extent of getting heavily in debt. If you cannot afford it then don’t buy it.”

True enough, giving gifts during Christmas must go back to the core of what we are celebrating. Why do we actually give gifts? Yes, it is a tradition. Yes, it can be dated back to the Wise Men. Yes, it is a manifestation of sharing love and generosity during the birth of Christ. And yes, it is to extend the gratitude for all the blessings throughout the year. It is a heartwarming gesture.

But if there is anything to learn from the Three Wise Men, the first gift givers on Christmas, it is that gifts should first and foremost be given to pay homage to Christ. Furthermore, gifts whether in expensive or meaningful forms, must be given out of respect, love and gratitude.

And, yes, on the pragmatic side, it has to be remembered that the Three Wise Men were actually kings, so giving lavish presents was according to their means.

Similarly, there is nothing wrong in being generous. One must not feel guilty over buying a sparkly diamond necklace or a shiny Gucci leather bag, if those gifts are truly well meant, and are within the budget.

Yet, as Juliette noted, she has learned her lessons well, and would not allow herself to suffer once again. Benedict Navarro certainly agrees.

He said, “Spend money wisely. Know your limitations when it comes to money. Huwag naman yun tipong masabi mo lang na napamili mo na pati alaga ng kapitbahay mo eh, at ikaw ang walang pera.”

It may be hard to admit, but sometimes Pinoys working abroad suffer from over generosity. They not only provide gifts for their families, but also relatives and even neighbors, since it has been quite a custom in the Philippines. But, based on the experiences and opinions already shared, Pinoys must be wise in using their money, and of course should not live beyond their means just because they want to impress and prove that they are financially well-off.

As what Loislane de Leon smartly added, “Christmas time is the best time for giving and sharing. But, it is better to give as long as you can afford it and as long as it is heartily given.”

Lessons from the Three Wise Men Looking at the religious side of Christmas, the gift-giving tradition must have started from the three kings, or the Three Wise Men, who came from faraway lands to offer gifts to the newborn Jesus Christ. Although open to further discussion, this particular root of gift giving during Christmas has transcended centuries and across cultures. However different it was way back then, the essence of the story is that the gift was offered to the center of the celebrations – Jesus Christ.

According to Florida-based Liza Julao, “We often lose the real

On the other hand, there is also nothing wrong in giving love on Christmas Day. One must not feel guilty if the gift does not come in a fancy box. A twenty five dirham phone card would do to make up for Christmas wishes to loved ones.

In the end, it all truly boils down to one thing: whatever that gift may be, it really is the thought that counts.

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The Pool Villas feature a private pool, jacuzzi, and the sea below one's terrace, as viewed from one's own suite

Holidays are

By Krip Yuson

Now, wouldn't that be nice? For most of us, however, it would take a Grand Lotto win to fulfill that dream — of dropping everything that has nothing to do with rest and recreation, and embark on a holiday for the remainder of our lives.

Oh, it need not only be during the Yuletide season when we'd feel generous, with everyone and then ourselves. Hand me millions, preferably in six figures, and not in lira either — and I'll show you how much of a Santa I can be the whole year round.

And while sharing the bounty, well, so will I just as generously indulge my own yen for non-stress pleasure, by traveling to places I have yet to experience, and returning to those that already hold good memories.

A world cruise I would take in doses, if only to preempt satiety. Two-three weeks here, two-three weeks there, from St. Petersburg to the Hebrides, the Galapagos to Macchu Piccu and Iguassu Falls, Bhutan and Easter Island, etc., book-ended by cruises in the Mediterranean, Aegean, Caribbean seas.

And each time a sked is completed, why, back home to Metro Manila I will fly, if only to reaffirm how I may now smile over the vagaries of road traffic or shenanigans in governance, what with fresh memories of an Alaskan iceberg or samba dancers at Rio de J.'s Mardi Gras.

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And when the political grandstanding or air pollution once again threaten the sense of equanimity, one recently energized by yet another first-class fix that has stamped global vagabonding with yet another sampler of an endless summer, why, right here in our islands may be found — so easily reached — pockets of paradise, enclaves of nirvana, outright oases.

CamSur beckons. So does Amanpulo. The Amorita and Eskaya beach resorts in Bohol. Bantayan Island north of Cebu. Club Paradise in the Calamianes Islands. Those are just for starters, their common denominator being the fact that I have yet to get to those destinations in our Pilipinas Kay Ganda!

Then there are places we've been to, but wouldn't mind a return every now and then. Dakak. Balesin Island. Siargao.

Coron. The unfrequented, magical islands of Malcapuya and Maonsonon off Busuanga in Northern Palawan. So many more.

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Above: A stretch of unattended beach off Antulang resort

Above: Negros Island's southernmost tip features rocky cliffs on which Antulang Beach resort nestles, replete with a solar lighthouse and Pool Villas Right: Tambobo Cove hosts a hundred international pleasure craft at any time of year

Then there's Antulang Beach Resort in Siaton, an hour's drive south from Dumaguete City. That the capital of Negros Oriental is our adopted hometown seals the deal, ever and ever. That we have friends of great good standing still associated with Silliman U. sweetens the pot, always. And Antulang will ever be the prized bonus in any holiday in our favorite Visayan city.

Facing the largest pool is a large, high-ceilinged restaurant with an art gallery. Close to the infinity pool, overlooking the sea, is the opensided Waldo's Bar, also good for breakfast, lunch and dinner as a more intimate yet airy setting. From its rampart edge, we see Apo Island to the northeast, and to the south, the looming landfall that is Northern Mindanao.

We approach the chrome railings, look down, and appreciate the lower levels of sunning patios and the steps that wind down and meander alongside a rocky shore.

Anchored a hundred meters offshore is the gleaming-white Annabelle Lee, a capacious 65-footer of a trimaran that can take a couple of dozen guests on an idyllic sunset cruise around Tambobo Cove and along the coastline, until yet another variant magnificence of sky calls a splendiferous, dramatic finis to the day. And we toast with a wine glass to all this good fortune of ethereal beauty.

As luck would have it, a recent invitation to conduct a one-day literary seminar in Silliman came with the occasion to pretend that we are one with the life of Riley. Fantasy comes true whenever we step into Antulang, a five-year-old resort that straddles rock cliffs on the southernmost tip of Negros Island's shimmering coastline.

There is a long stretch of beach that extends from the resort, one whose sandy configuration changes by the season, depending on habagat on amihan for its shape and protean existence. Why, it may even disappear at certain times of year. But when it does show up, there is a remote wildness to this feature of coast, a welcome respite from the rock cliffs that characterize the area.

The ride is scenic from the capital, on a country road that goes past familiar small towns with their pretty plazas. And when the turn-off from the national highway is made, thus entailing occasional stretches of dirt road, there is no downturn, for soon the vista of Tambobo Cove with its hundred international yachts greets our keening ken.

On the resort premises is a horse one can ride, through lawns and past a menagerie or even take down to the beach. There is a game room, a conference hall, a chapel for the stream of Korean and Japanese couples who may prefer to first legitimize what will surely be a wondrous honeymoon.

We enter the resort — named after both the hibiscus and the giant clam that proliferates in the seabed all around — and we instantly appreciate the first-class amenities that spell inspired management.

And then there are the pool villas, six of them, top-rate, with their own large cottage bedrooms and private pools and jacuzzi in a sunning terrace that again overlooks the sea right down below, where at sunrise a flotilla of local fishermen glides by.

These include a breezy reception area with a terrace that gives guests their first visual rapport with the sea below, a solar lighthouse standing nearby, a souvenir shop that actually sells the excellent works of local artists, gardens that border winding paths leading to a humongous, free-form swimming pool, and as extensions, a smaller infinity pool of saltwater and a deep pool for scuba-diving initiation.

This is the life, if just on a vacation break. This is the holiday, if just on a weekend sojourn. At Antulang, the eternal holiday beckons, and fulfills, whenever one comes for a re-energizing embrace. Oh would that there be no finis to such a swelling of spirit.

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RH is a battlefield

By Ana Santos

In the Philippines, there are four babies born every minute. Four babies. Every minute.

By the time you finish reading this article – assuming that you’ll give this three minutes of your time, about a dozen babies would have been born into the Philippines, further adding to the estimated already 94.6 million inhabitants that are spread across our islands.

There are 3.4 million babies born every year; one in four pregnancies are mistimed and one in five are unwanted. There is an unmet need for contraception at 23.2% among poor women who end up having three times more children than their more wealthy counterparts.

Clearly, whatever is going on is not just a population problem, but it is a reproductive health (RH) problem.

It wasn’t until famed Manila tour guide and performance artist Carlos Celdran that RH became more than just acronyms to average Filipinos. Dressed in full Jose Rizal regala complete with hat and mustache, last September, Celdran walked into the Manila Cathedral with an old white board which was inscribed with just one word: “Damaso”. Then he started chanting: “Stop meddling in politics!” to the members of the clergy who were at the cathedral.

“I apologize for my methods, but I don’t apologize for my message.

The Catholic Church should stop blocking the passage of the RH Bill”, said Celdran when he was arrested for “offending religious

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feelings.” But Celdran did not just cause a public controversy, more importantly; he created a public discussion on RH. A Facebook page entitled, “Free Carlos Celdran” registered more than 10,000 fans just hours after it was created. In the days following his arrest, RH made the headlines in all the major dailies. During one press conference, journalists were talking about how RH was finally put on the front page news whereas before it was relegated to the back pages.

Many Catholics came out of the closet disclosing their real feelings about the Church’s staunch opposition to RH and the resentment that was never articulated was aired on a Facebook fan page. For the first time, Filipinos were finally raising their voices to an establishment it was long taught not to question, only follow – ironically enough – in good faith.

For this Celdran had to pay a price. After posting PHP6,000 bail, he was freed but was formally charged with offending religious feelings, an archaic law taken straight from the colonial times and could hold up to six years in prison. True to form and unrelenting, at his arraignment, Celdran came in full Crisostimo Ibarra attire.

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The RH Bill: What is it?

What exactly is in the RH Bill and why is it so wildly contested?

Briefly, its main provisions include: Information and access to both natural and modern family planning methods which are medically safe and legally permissible. Women and couples will have the freedom of informed choice to decide on the mode of family planning they want to adopt based on their needs, personal convictions and religious beliefs.

Hospital-based family planning. Family planning methods requiring hospital services like ligation, vasectomy and IUD insertion shall be available in all national and local government hospitals.

Contraceptives as essential medicines. Reproductive health products shall be considered essential medicines and supplies mandating government hospitals to include these products in their essential inventory.

Reproductive health education. This will be taught by adequately trained teachers from Grade 5 to 4th year high school in an age-appropriate manner. Core subjects will include responsible parenthood, natural and modern family planning, the hazards of abortion, reproductive health and sexual rights, abstinence before marriage, and responsible sexuality.

Currently, each local city government is allowed to set its own RH program and family planning, sometimes in accordance with officials’ religious beliefs. In Manila, for example, there is a ban on all forms of contraception; in contrast, Quezon City offers all forms of contraception to its constituents for free. The RH Bill will set the guidelines and standards for reproductive health care on a national level.

If it’s so great, then why is the Church so against it? The Church is against all forms of contraception calling them abortifacients. Only natural family planning methods that require periodic abstinence are allowed by the Chruch.

Unfortunately, these have high failure rates.

Surveys consistently show that Filipinos recognize the need for a reproductive health law in the country. A report by the Social Weather Station in 2008 showed that 71 percent of Filipinos favor the passage of the RH Bill and 66 percent of adult Filipinos want family planning education in the public schools.

Filipinos are beginning to feel the crunch of the 2.3% annual growth rate of the population and the full impact of the Philippines being the 12th most populous country in the world according to the Central Intelligence Agency (CIA) Factbook.

“I challenge you,” Bukidnon Representative Juan Miguel Zubiri declared to a room of legislators and reporters, “All of us in this room know someone or are related to someone who has more children than they can afford and are asking you for help. They don’t go to the Church, they go to us. Our problem is simple: too many Filipinos have made too many babies!”

President NoyNoy Aquino, the first bachelor president declared support for the RH Bill and in a rare show of fortitude. He did not waver even when veiled threats of excommunication were thrown into the ring.

But it looks like it’s going to get ugly before it gets pretty.

The Filipino Freethinkers, a group advocating secularism and the separation of Church and State had a party - an excommunication party, that is, on November 26. Their posters cried, “If supporting the RH Bill means excommunication, then excommunicate me.”

A few days ago, the Freethinkers along with members of the Democratic Socialist Women of the Philippines, also tried to enter an anti-RH discernment mass that was held at the Manila Cathedral.

“We wanted to hear for ourselves the reasons why the Church is opposed to the RH Bill,” said Ryan Tani, head of the Filipino Freethinkers.

The day after Celdran’s arrest, supporters rallied at the CBCP in Manila demanding for the release of Celdran. Other supporters made placards that openly showed their opposition to the Catholic Church’s stance on reproductive health.

Photo by Ana Santos

Hours after his arrest for “offending religious feelings”, Carlos Celdran faces the media at a Manila police station. “I apologize for my methods, but I don’t apologize for my methods.

The Catholic Church has got to stop meddling in politics”, Celdran told the media.

Photo Courtesy of Giney Villar

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According to Edcel Lagman, one of the principle authors of the RH Bill, “There has never been a time like this – all the indicators are there; and the bill will most likely be passed.”

And it couldn’t have been at the right time.

Population and sustainable development experts from the Bixby Center for Population, Health and Sustainability at the University of California in Berkeley warned that if the current 3.03 fertility rates do not go down, the Philippine population could balloon to 160 million in 2040.

Calling on the government to step up its family planning initiatives, Malcolm Potts, president of Bixby said, “Family planning is about [allowing people] a choice.”

Martha Campbell of Bixby who was in the Philippines last week commented that, “The Philippines is the last country in the world where the Vatican continues to have a stranglehold on women’s health. Even Catholic countries like Mexico and Brazil have recognized that the Vatican need not have a say in their reproductive lives. It saddens me that a religion that is supposed to be about life inadvertently causes the deaths of mothers and children,” said Campbell referring to the 11 Filipina mothers who die everyday due to childbirth complications, which are mostly avoidable. In industrialized countries, a woman dying from childbirth is a medieval danger that has long been addressed by modern medicine.

They were told to wait outside because they were wearing Damaso t-shirts. Later, Pro-Life President Eric Manalang told them they were not welcome, calling those who had gathered “Satan.” At one point, Manalang told one participant who said that she was Catholic, but supported the RH Bill, “Your mother should have aborted you!”

The outburst was caught on video and posted on youtube and the Filipino Freethinkers website.

The heat is on The RH Bill is set to be presented before the Committee on Population and Family Planning in November and again in December. In the last fifteen years that the bill has been debated upon, this will be the fifth attempt by legislators to have it passed.

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But the Pro-Lifers and the Church are unyielding; some have resorted to passing around flyers saying that condoms cause cancer.

The jostling between the government and the Church continues For fifteen years since the RH Bill has been debated on, it was the poor hapless Filipino families who earn a little more than PHP100 a day to support their children who were caught in the middle.

The time has come to put them in the center of the discussion and acknowledge their right to plan their families and space their children in the way that is best for them.

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Illustrado asked Filipinos from different countries about their position on the Reproductive Health conflict. Here’s what they have to say Jabbar M. Adiong

This should have been a non-issue in the first place. To counter any religious views on the matter, was it ever categorically written in the Bible, the Torah or the Koran that birth control should be prohibited? To look at a bigger issue on such a narrow perspective as contraceptive devices misses the point big time. The greater good should always have the moral upper hand, not the other way around.

Runaway population exacerbated by gritting poverty and widespread ignorance requires pragmatic solutions, not spiritual exhortations. It is the Church's responsibility to propagate moral values, but it is the State's duty to properly govern a country. If the so-called faithful are not listening to the Church, the State must step in to prevent a greater catastrophe. The decline of moral values in our country is not entirely the fault of the State, the Church should take some of the blame.

Rache Hernandez

I am for the RH Bill. I am a practicing Catholic, however, I do not side with the Church's stand on contraception.

Am I risking ex-communication here? I believe that using preventive contraception is not sinful, as doing so does not hurt any life at all. It is abortive contraception that I'm truly against, as using these are overt ways of killing. Giving people everything they will ever need to make intelligent decisions is the best form of help/ assistance we can extend. The Church can supplement this by providing moral guidance.

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Quay Evano

I'm for the bill. I'm pro-contraception, pro-responsible parenting, pro family planning. If the church would like to excommunicate me for my views, it's only the priests who are doing so and not God. Look at the poverty and crime that the Filipinos are faced with right now and it is all because of the population boom we have in our country.

It is spiraling out of control. My parents both came from a very big families and being in a very big poor family really lessens your chances to have a better life, better education, better health. I am from a family of five and we struggled, although through good education, which my parents gave to us and fortune brought on us (we studied in UP), we slowly were able to climb up the social ladder. But many of my cousins who are also from big families are still struggling everyday.

Noel Garrido

Pro to the RH bill. The church should stay in the background and should not interfere with the rule of government.

When population explodes like the sands on the beach, who suffers? Answer - the ruling government, not the church.

Mariz Marbida

Im PRO to the RH Bill. Let's not be hypocrites. Even the church cannot provide assistance for the malnourished kids, the increasing numbers of "kids laborers" and beggars. We ought to give people the option to choose what is applicable and best for their families. If a couple is capable of raising a big family, well and good they can opt to have many kids. But if a couple cannot provide even the basic needs for their kids, they should be given the option to plan for their family

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Mariel Guerrero

Pro din ako dyan. Yan ang pinaka mabuting gawin para ma slow down naman ang pag lobo ng populasyon natin. Kung di man totally na mawala, mababawasan naman yung bilang ng mga nagpapa-abort, yung mga nagiiwan ng baby kung saan-saan dahil di kayang tustusan.

Mas mabuti nang umiwas magka-anak kaysa naman ipa-abort ang baby diba? Mas mabigat na kasalanan yon. Kung hindi pa ipapasa itong bill na ito ngayon, kailan pa? Kapag lumobo na ng todo ang populasyon ng pilipinas? Kapag huli na?

Josielyn Baoya

Situationer: I was given a one week supply of Trust condoms, but did I use it? Condom is an object, trust is a word, now if a parent of a family trust you to do the right thing what will you do even if you have it. That is freedom. How does your religion affects the manner of your thinking?

Lerma Coles

I would be against the RH Bill if the church would promise to feed at least half of the Philippines’ younger population.

I know the Church is just doing what they must do. But come on, if RH Bill will promote responsible parenting and women's reproductive health especially for the younger generation, who am I to oppose it ?

Emily Comedis

I support the RH bill for the following reasons: (1) health - most women in slums and poor rural areas have no birth spacing knowledge making them and their children vulnerable to mental retardation and other disabilities, diseases, and early death; (2) our economy is not yet big to sustain our population, and yet we complain we have poor facilities, no hospitals, no school, etc; (3) RH bill is more on educating women on their bodies and does not promote abortion and murdering of the fetus which are crimes. Everyone should be involved in this issue, including churches, but freedom of choice must not be curtailed, especially by any religious institution.

Grace Gonzales

Yes to the RH. Wala na ngang makain mag-aanak pa ng mag-aanak. Masyado nang maraming batang nagugutom huwag ng dagdagan pa, maawa naman kayo.

Cassandra Lopez Sta. Maria

Agree po, with the undying demands for development we can no longer stop it. Morality is no longer a question.

The least that we could do is help in educate each other about their sexuality specially us women. We are the ones that will have the unwanted pregnancy in case we're not prepared. We are the ones that will undergo the emotional turmoil of having unwanted pregnancy. Everybody should be welloriented or educated with their reproductive health. It is everybody's right.

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Medel Aviles

Ramon Navea

Country Director - UAE UNILEVER GULF FZE UAE

Service Quality Improvement Manager – Dubai, Sharjah & Northern Emirates UNION NATIONAL BANK UAE

Medel has been in Dubai with his family for over two years now with Unilever as Country Director, UAE. In this role, he serves as General Manager for two joint venture companies, Al Gurg Unilever and Thani Murshid Unilever.

Born and raised in a close-knit family in Davao City, Medel was hired

by P&G Philippines right after his graduation from Ateneo de Davao.

After five years, eager to join Filipino companies, he then worked a total of six years between Purefoods Corporation and San Miguel Foods, Inc. From there he moved on to Unilever. His first post in the company was Regional Manager for Unilever China, where he was tasked to set up and manage the Central China regional branch office. Two years thereafter, he was assigned a role in the Asia Pacific regional office for three years, after which he moved back to the Philippine operations and was given various assignments, the last of which was Customer Marketing Director, before he took on his current post in the UAE. Medel is married to Milen Baltazar, a former colleague at San Miguel, and together they have three children. While he is passionate for his work, he is also a doting father who likes to bake for his family on the weekends.

Xernes Martinez Global Project Manager PRAXIS GLOBAL RESEARCH UAE Laoag native Xernes Martinez is a young executive who climbed the corporate ladder in the area of local events management impressively. Currently working for Praxis Global Research as a Global Project Manager, Xernes also worked with the British Business Group where he was instrumental in organizing events which hosted high profile VIPs like HRH Prince Andrew, The Duke of York, Digby Lord Jones, UK’s Minister of State for Trade & Investment, as well as HE Sheikha Lubna bint Khalid al Qasimi, Minister for Foreign Trade of the United Arab Emirates.

Xernes’ eight year career in the emirates began at the Fairmont Hotel where he started as Concierge with the hotel’s opening team in 2002, working his way to Conferences Services and Catering Coordinator, through to Asst. Manager of Conferences Services and Catering in 2007. During his early years at the Fairmont, he was awarded as the “Best Concierge for Shopping Knowledge in Dubai” for 2003, and won the “Best Concierge Team” award for the same year.

A proud graduate of Tourism at the University if the Philippines, multitalented Xernes, was also an active performer of the UP Filipiniana Dance Group which gave him opportunities to travel to Europe, at an early age, representing the Philippines in Dance Festivals. He also travelled around Asia as a Filipino Youth Ambassador for the 28th Ship for South East Asian Youth Program (SSEAYP).

University of Santo Tomas graduate Ramon Navea started his career in the hospitality sector at the young age of 17, working up to his strengths and becoming a department head at the age of 26. He had the benefit of working with multinational companies, as well as diverse nationalities during his stint in the hotel and restaurant sector, and worked primarily with Le Meridien, Mandarin Oriental and the Jumeirah Properties.

Ramon moved to Emirates Flight Catering where he became involved in Total Quality Management (TQM) Principles in 2001.

He eventually joined the banking sector when he moved to Union National Bank in 2004 and has been the company’s Service Quality Improvement Manager for Dubai, Sharjah and the Northern Emirates, for the past six years. Ramon has shining credentials and is a certified Lead Auditor in Integrated Management System (IMS) which comprises the elements of Quality Management System, QMS ISO 9001:2008; Occupational Health and Safety System, OHSAS 18001 and Environment Management System, ISO 14001, and a member of the Dubai Quality Group (DQG), as well as the American Society for Quality (ASQ).

Ramon, his wife and two sons have been residents of the emirates since 1993. The avid golfer is the Chairman of the Filipino Golfers in the Middle East (FIGME) – a group active in organizing structured golf tournaments and donating the proceeds to their adopted foundation which is Bantay Bata 163.

Rolando dela Cruz Parel Senior Sales Consultant and Stylist BO CONCEPT UAE Originally involved with the technical sector of Quality Control and Assurance in the Philippines, Rolando dela Cruz Parel’s career took a complete shift when he landed in Dubai some five years ago. He now works in the creative field, particularly in retail, as a Senior Sales Consultant and Stylist for Bo Concept, a design company that creates customized and coordinated furniture for discerning urban-minded consumers.

In his position, Rolando is responsible for interior design, as well as providing training to his colleagues in maintaining brand standards. His hard work paid off when Bo Concept’s headquarters in Denmark recognized his efforts and included him in the muchawaited 2011Collection Design Catalogue, where he is the only one from the Middle East to be featured providing interior design style tips to urban-minded customers. The launch of the prominent catalogue is celebrated by the company in style every year.

Driven to excel in his chosen field, the father of four children says that his family is his reason and strength that keep him focused on achievement.

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Pinoy Entrepreneur

Dowell Deligos Glamorous Blooms Muscat, Oman

Please describe your business.

My business encompasses flower care and handling, floral design or flower arranging, merchandising, and display and flower delivery in the Sultanate of Oman. I also organize weddings and special events.

As a florist in this type of business, together with my Pilipino assistants, we create flower arrangements in vases, bowls, baskets or other containers, and also make bouquets and compositions from cut flowers, foliages and other botanical materials, even stage arrangements.

This type of business involves various skills and creativity. I should be able to select flowers and other floral supplies and materials that will look good together based on market demands. I should also know how to handle and arrange flowers and plants so they will remain fresh for as long as possible, and would be desirable for purchase, which also involves my idea and knowledge of my customers’ requirements and expectations.

Why did you establish your own business?

Having your own business is like having your own family that you need to focus on and take care of. I also like being able to make my own decisions and have the freedom to express my ideas. Here in the Sultanate, I realized that there are things missing, and which I could address, in the floral and wedding stage décor business, that encouraged me to pursue my own business and continue what I have started in Philippines sometime back.

Can you tell us when and how you started?

Even in the Philippines, I was already arranging flowers and organizing weddings. Here in Oman, when one of my local friends had his wedding, I volunteered to arrange his wedding stage decor and showed to him the arrangements I had done back home.

Somehow that got me started with my business in the Sultanate. I started to accept bookings in 2006, mostly from those who have seen and appreciated my previous work.

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What was your start-up capital and your basic operations set-up?

My start-up capital came from the first down payment of my client. I have a team that works with me on events like weddings, launchings, and anniversaries. I recruit local freelance florists depending on how big the project is.

What obstacles did you encounter? Where are you now? How far have you gone with your business so far?

Here in Oman, the difficulty I mostly encounter is language - most of my clients are Arabic speaking. I know a bit of Arabic, but only basic words, so it is very hard to explain and discuss the ideas.

Hence, what I often do is to bring a translator with me. Another challenge for me is how to get my clients to accept the latest floral designs, as they tend to always stick with the old way and old style of floral arrangements. Thanks to technology, I can share with them the latest floral trends from the net and my original design based on their needs and wants.

Fortunately, I am now serving a large area now and am able to reach different places in Oman for floral services. I even got an order from Saudi Arabia. I’m also lucky to be exposed to clients from the royal family for exclusive arrangements, five-star hotels and I even have corporate accounts. My number of staff is variable, and it always depends on the scale of current projects.

What are the advantages and disadvantages of being an entrepreneur? What is your advice to budding Pinoy entrepreneurs?

As a Filipino, I need to know as well how to deal with customers in this country. This is a customer-oriented business, where I have to face the public all the time. A pleasant personality is a must. Repeat business normally accounts for a high percentage of our sales, so cultivating customer relationships has been key. The advantage of being entrepreneur is being a whole you able to express your own ideas and designs which that turn to WOW. I couldn’t say there is a disadvantage in this business as long as you know how to deal with clients and provide them with professional and luxury service.

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Proudly Pinoy Nutraceuticals

By Bernadette Reyes

Behind the success of Glutamax, a leading whitening product in the Philippines, are two Filipino men and a proudly Pinoy brand.

“We entered the market at a time when Lucida [another whitening product] was going down. The market was opening up and we saw the opportunity to capture its market,” says Robert Nazal II, Chairman of Healthwell Nutraceuticals Inc., makers of the Glutamax brand.

Launched in 2008, it took Robert and business partner and Healthwell President Paulo Legaspi less than two years to make Glutamax the whitening brand of choice among Filipino consumers. “Today we are proud to say that we are number one in the market,” says Paulo.

The success however was marked by trials just as the business was starting. Their first-ever billboard with Filipina celebrity Jinky Oda as endorser was brought down following complaints from competitors due to technical issues. The incident however turned to their favor.

“Pinag-usapan ‘yung brand. The campaign was ‘from ebony to ivory’ which was very effective,” says Paulo. Jinky Oda was a testament to the brand as her complexion became three tones lighter after several weeks of using Glutamax whitening products.

Today, Glutamax is being endorsed by Gretchen Barretto who used to endorse the international brand, Olay. “When Olay learned about our negotiations, the company was bidding three times our price to get her again,” says Paulo. In the end the celebrity endorser went for the Pinoy brand. “It [Glutamax] is the only local brand used by Gretchen today. She likes our product, she says, because it is effective,” says Paulo.

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Glutamax products, claims Robert, use the same ingredients that multinational pharmaceutical companies use. He and Paulo say they remain true to their commitment to their customers unlike other whitening products who use false claims to sell. “When we say our products contain 575ml of glutathione, it really is 575ml which explains why our products are really effective,” says Robert.

Glutamax products were first sold in beauty clinics known as YSA Skin Care Centers. YSA Skin Care is also managed by Robert who thought the clinic already has everything it has until Glutamax found its way to the shelves. “I attended a conference where I saw the need for the opportunity to stack our shelves with additional supplies. That’s when the backward integration happened to include nutraceuticals,” he says. Today, Glutamax is being sold in groceries, supermarkets and drugstores around the country.

Successful beauty-related businesses have always been identified with female proprietors yet Robert and Paulo prove even men understand the formula of beauty. “It’s not because you are male or female that makes one successful but it’s about whether you like what you do or not,” explains Robert.

Research and development is also a core strength of the business.

While innovation is important in any business, it should even be more profound in the beauty business. When other brands come up with new products, Healthwell sees to it they are not left behind. More often than not, they are the first to introduce innovations. Healthwell

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recently launched Nitro, a daily food supplement specifically for men engineered to improve physical and mental performance. “We see that the industry for men’s products is growing and this is a growth area we are willing to explore,” says Robert. Endorsed by the world renowned Filipino boxer Manny Pacquiao, the product is perfect for men living active lifestyles.

But understanding and appreciating beauty is only part of the equation. Choosing the right trade partner could also spell success or cast failure on the business. In the case of beauty industry, a plethora of suppliers compete with each other which is why business owners should be discerning on which supplier to choose. Quality, says Robert takes precedence over price.

Interestingly, Paulo and Robert argue all the time about their business but they always see to it to find a middle ground which always works for the betterment of the business. Transparency and open communications they say is crucial in any business partnership such as theirs. “We talk about everything and whatever we agree on, that’s what we do,” says Paulo. “It’s really difficult when one party plays a dominant role while the other is a lazybone but neither party wants to open up. In our case, this doesn’t happen because we plan everything together,” explains Robert.

Paolo, a graduate of De La Salle University with a degree in Business Administration major in Computer Applications and currently taking up Entrepreneurship at the Asian Institute of Management and Robert, an alumnus of Ateneo de Manila University major in Management Economics and master’s degree in Business Economics at the University of Asia and the Pacific have lots to be thankful for their education which partly explains their business prowess.

They are now looking at tapping even hard to reach market such as Mindanao and going international is well within their radar. Yet more than spreading its wings, the partnership is looking at establishing the brand a trusted Filipino brand.

“We are proud of the fact that we don’t have to claim we are from abroad. We trust the quality of our product; we let Filipinos try it and they like it. We didn’t have to make false representations,” says Robert. Paulo on the other hand is proud that finally, a Pinoy whitening brand is launched that could compete in the international market as well. “It’s not just for Filipina; it’s for the Asian skin.”

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2011

Investing

By Francisco J. Colayco

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Christmas is a time to celebrate and be with family and friends. It also falls on the last few days of the year when everyone is preparing for the New Year also. As Christians, we use this season to improve our spiritual life as we remember the birth of Jesus Christ. But we could also use this time of the year to plan for the improvement of our financial life.

My message for your 2011 financial planning is: INVEST NOW! Investment Literacy Is Key

For the past years, we have been harping on the central message that to build wealth is an obligation. With the bright economic conditions with us today and even brighter economic prospects in the next three to five years, it is imperative that we focus today on investment literacy. The medium-to-long term future cannot be brighter as we have it today. If you, as income earner, miss the opportunity to participate in our capital markets in the next five years, you will be regretting it for the rest of your life.

If you had decided earlier to secure your financial future, you probably would have put away some savings by now. But as we always say, earning and saving money is a prerequisite, not a guarantee, to achieve financial comfort. It is prudent and correct investing that will ensure your financial independence.

Everything Going For Us!

Business and investment confidence in our country is the highest in this decade. The Philippines, as part of the emerging economies of Asia, cannot but be a significant beneficiary in the global economic growth. Our Peso has even assumed the character of an international currency when our Peso denominated bond issues were oversubscribed by thirteen times our US$1B offering. OF remittances and even exports have been growing without let up supporting a strong Peso.

By the last quarter of 2010, our Gross International Reserves (GIR) has breached the US$50B mark, more than 9 nine months of imports.

While this somehow hurts the export sector and OFs, it does alleviate the country’s debt burden running at about the same US$50B level.

In the global arena, North America and Europe are going through their own economic difficulties thus further bolstering the attractiveness of Asian investments. If we are to go by the historical five to seven year bull market period, 2009 thru 2014 (possibly even 2016) could be a unique opportunity for personal investing. Over the last five years, the Philippine Mutual Fund industry has given investors a yield range of 15%-27% annual cumulative rate of return (ACR) for Equity Funds; 13%-19% ACR for Balanced Funds; and 6%-10% ACR for Bond Funds. These rates of return beat our annual inflation rate by a factor of 2x to 9x. The good news is that barring any major global and/or domestic economic upheaval, this trend is still expected to continue for the next three to five years.

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Our real estate industry is also showing very strong performance.

Investing in low cost, affordable housing and even high-end residential and commercial units offer unique opportunities. However unlike investing in Mutual Funds, this type of investing is more directly personal, generally requiring higher unit investments and clearly a lot more intensive study as risk variables relating to reliability of the developer, location, product quality as well as titling and liquidity issues are more complex. With sustained income generation and correct leveraging, real estate investments can provide very attractive yields to investors.

The Challenge

What can we do in the face of these oncoming opportunities? First is back to basics. Determine your present net worth and the amount of investible funds you have and can have, given your regular cash flow.

More importantly, find out how much additional funds you can raise by liquidating your non-earning assets. Pay close attention to your depreciating assets, which do not contribute to your income earning capacity. Prioritize your financial goals by targeting specific amounts that you will need at specific times in the future. This will give you the rate of return you will need your investments to achieve and thus the kind and level of risk you may have to take. Make adjustments in any of these variables (goals, amount of regular investments and time frame for each investment) according to what you can reasonably assure yourself to implement.

Choosing the kind of investments that suits your personal situation is your real challenge. Pooled funds like Mutual Funds or Unit Investment Trust Funds (UITFs) represent one of the better options for the average income earners. Invest in your own business? Stay employed and do regular investing? Do all? There are many ways to get started. You can always allocate your time and money according to what makes sense for you. Spend time to study your options. If necessary, consult with knowledgeable advisors.

Finally, when all is done, draw up your personal investing plan and act without delay! 2011 is just around the corner - what better time to start than now.

Visit our website www.colaycofoundation.com for updates on our activities both online and when you visit the Philippines.

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Happy Relationships Throw More Parties

By Bo Sanchez

Guy 1: Cecilia is so beautiful.

Guy 2: Oh yes. She looks like Demi Moore in Ghost.

Guy 1: Guy 2: Guy 1: Guy 2: Guy 1: Guy 2: Guy 1: Guy 2: Guy 1: Guy 2: Guy 1: Guy 2:

(Note: This conversation happened centuries ago.)

If given a chance, would you want to marry her?

Uh… no, not really.

Why not?

How should I put it? Cecilia’s uh…not a happy person.

You noticed that too?

She’s gloomy. She’s a negative person.

She may be beautiful, but I don’t want to live with a negative person for the rest of my life.

So unlike Stella.

Now there’s a cheerful girl. I really like her.

So kind. So friendly. Always has a lovely smile.

She’s not as beautiful as Demi Moore.

But she’s the kind of woman I’ll marry.

What? You have a crush on her too?

Hey, fall in line bro.

This conversation actually happened some twenty years ago between two of my single friends. We were all single then. And believe me, Stella was like a guy magnet. Five of my friends had a crush on her. Except for me, of course. I was immune to crushes. Because I looked at all females the way I looked at common furniture. Because my heart was focused on God alone. (And my nose is getting longer right this minute…)

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Here’s a lesson for single people: I’ve learned that guys may lust after physical beauty, but when it comes to marriage, they’ll look deeper. One of the most important things they’ll look for is a happy woman. Why? Because a guy knows that one of his roles is to make his wife happy. If he marries a happy woman, his job will be so much easier. Because at the end of the day, we all want happiness.

Are Your Homes Happy?

After one of my talks, an anxious mother approached me and asked, “Bo, can you help me? I have a problem with my 18-year-old daughter. She’s like a bed-spacer in our house. She goes home only to sleep. She’s always with her friends…” I had little time to talk to her, so I took my best shot. I asked her, “Is there happiness at home?”

Here’s my belief. I believe kids will love to go home if there’s love in the home. Have you heard that great old song from 1964? (For your information, I didn’t hear the original version. I heard this song in a revival in American Idol.) “A chair is still a chair even when there’s no one sitting there. But a chair is not a house, and a house is not a home, when there’s no one there, to hold you tight and no one there, that you can kiss good night…”

Friend, is there happiness in your home? I’ve noticed that the happiest relationships have a rhythm of celebration. They throw parties. I don’t mean a party with balloons and clowns (though that’ll be great, too), but putting a party spirit in your relationship.

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I’ve got four fantastic suggestions.

1. Make the Family Meal a Party I know of a man who has 11 children. When he goes home from work, he does a very important ritual before entering his front door. He mentally unloads all his problems at the front porch - because his kids need a happy Dad. When he enters the door, he shouts, “Hi kids!” And 11 kids rush to him to give him a hug. He then wrestles them on the floor and they play together. And when mealtime comes, he makes everyone laugh. He inspires everyone with his stories. Alas, the typical family meal isn’t like this.

Jack and Jill Went Up the Hill The typical family meal is where parents hold court and pass judgments and vent anger. Let me give you an example. The father turns to his eldest son, Jack, and asks, “Pass the rice. By the way, how was your exam this morning?” He doesn’t allow the boy to answer. He answers for him, “I won’t be surprised if you got a zero, because I don’t see you studying. The good news is that we can save money because we can sell your schoolbooks next year as brand new!”

He then turns to his daughter, Jill, (You know, Jack and Jill…) “Pass the gravy. By the way, where were you last night? With your ugly boyfriend again? Can you tell me what planet he comes from? I can accept earrings in the ear. But why does he have earrings on his nose? Is he a cow?”

He then turns to his youngest daughter, Hill. (You know, Jack and Jill went up the hill…) “Pass the salt. And you, were you born with a telephone in your hand? You already were with your obnoxious friends in school, why do you have to spend three more hours talking with them on the phone?”

And finally, it’s the youngest son’s turn, Pail. (Okay, they really like this Nursery Rhyme.) “Pass the cake. And you, what did you do today aside from wasting your time playing those crappy video games! And are you deaf? Your music is either very loud or extremely loud. Go to the doctor and have your ears checked!”

No wonder the family meal is an endangered species. Parents, please. Make your meals happy!

Here’s a rule you should write on stone: Ban all sermons when you’re around the table. Instead, feed your children with dishes of laughter, platefuls of inspiration, and trays of encouragement. Make every family meal a joyful occasion.

2. Hold a Family Night Each Week My kids love Family Night. If they had it their way, it’ll be done every night. Sometimes, we watch a movie at home, with a barrel of popcorn. (According to my son Benedict, a movie without popcorn is a horrific crime.) Sometimes, we play games together - Monopoly, Charades, Pictionary, and Trivia. Sometimes, we play video games together. Obviously, the kids always win and the parents lose. But that’s okay. Instead of banning video games from our kids, we enter into their digital worlds. Doing so enables us to guide them against

violent games. Sometimes, we go to a book store, and sometimes, we eat ice cream. I believe the weekly Family Night is a mini-party that you should never miss. Believe me, when you’re old and grey (or old and bald), you’ll look back at these times and thank God you had them!

3. Weekly Dates with Each Family Member I date my wife each week. I consider that a mini-party too. Years ago, we had very little money. So we had dates in our garage. Sometimes, we took a quiet walk in our neighborhood. One day, I thought of something crazy. We ate at home, then dressed up really well, and went to a five-star hotel. We entered the hotel like we were millionaires. No one knew we had very little money in our pockets. And confidently, I ordered a glass of Coke. And for two solid hours, we enjoyed the violin music and beautiful ambiance — all the while sipping our Coke very slowly.

I date my kids each week, too. Those are mini-parties. Sometimes, it’s just donuts. Other times, we walk around a mall. Other times, we play a game together. The key is to make it fun. I also date my mother every other week. This is such a simple thing, but it means the world to her.

I have regular dates with my friends, too. Our spiritual community, Light of Jesus, is organized around small groups called Caring Groups that meet weekly. Amazingly, I have four Caring Groups, so my weeks are busy having fun times with my many friends.

4. Annual Family Celebrations Create your own Family’s “Liturgical Calendar.” Sit down and block off the most important dates of the year. For example, plan everyone’s birthdays. Many times, it’s spontaneous. “Oh, it’s your birthday today? Let’s have dinner…” So why not plan a bit more? Go camping in the backyard, or visit an orphanage, or invite your child’s friends for a sleepover, or go out and have a mini-vacation together.

Mark off also your wedding anniversary, Valentines, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, and Grandparents’ Day. One Valentine’s Day, I did something I cherish to this day. I set up two chairs and a little wooden table in our backyard. I scattered candles all over the grass, dressed in a coat and tie, and brought out my CD player to play Kenny G romantic music. I then ordered pizza. Finally, I got my guitar and sang an original song I wrote for my wife that day…

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Ingredient #3: CREATIVITY Throwing parties requires some creativity. Do you want to be more creative? Copy. Get inspiration from others. It’s the secret of the greatest artists in the world: Leonardo de Vinci, Michelangelo, Picasso, Rembrandt, Bo Sanchez…

Ikaw ang awit ng buhay, Ang tinig ng langit Ikaw ang himig at kulay, Ng pusong nagmamahal sa iyo Refrain: Biyayang galing sa taas, Anghel sa lupa’y naglalakad Ikaw ang awit ng puso ko…

That happened a long time ago, but I still remember my wife’s tears that special night.

Other important days: First day in school. Last day in school. Graduation. First job of the new graduate. It could be Jimbo, the pet dog, giving birth to four puppies. Hey, if there’s a reason to celebrate, throw a party!

I wrote everything about harmony and joy in the family in my new book, How To Have a Happy Family. Here are some more free tips...

3 Ingredients for Throwing Parties Ingredient #1: GRATITUDE Someone might say, “But Bo, I’m a melancholic person. I’m not like you. I’m the loner and shy type. I really don’t like these party-spirit thing.”

Excuse me, but I’m melancholic too. Every psychological test I’ve taken confirms without a shadow of a doubt that I’m melancholic. But here’s the truth: Celebrating your relationships doesn’t depend on having a bubbly or cheerful personality. It depends on your depth of gratitude. You throw a party because you’re grateful to the person for being there in your life. If you believe that the people in your life are your greatest gifts from God, then you throw parties often to thank them. Even if we know it’s a lot of hard work.

Ingredient #2: HARD WORK Have you ever prepared for a birthday party before? It’s always hard work. But who said love isn’t hard work? As I said before, love is about dirty hands, not just beating hearts.

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You don’t know how to express your love in a playful way? Ask others what they do. Do some research.

Through the years, I’ve given many cards to my wife. Let me share one with you today. You’ll notice that I’m not very original. I stole all the idea from various sources. I basically got the text from an email I received. Probably Spam. Not much originality. But my wife loved it so much, it’s still on her bedside table after all these years.

“My Dearest Valentine, You are the… apple of my eye, mango of my pie, palaman of my tinapay, keso of my monay, teeth of my suklay, fingers on my kamay, blood in my atay, sala of my bahay, foundation of my tulay, seeds of my palay, best clothes in my ukay-ukay, calcium in my kalansay, calamansi on my siomai, knot on my tie, toyo on my kuchay, vitamins in my gulay, stars of my sky, sand of my Boracay, beauty of my Brunei, highlands of my Tagaytay, mole on my Ate Guy, baba of my Ai-Ai, spinach of my Popeye, sizzle when I fry, wind when I paypay, tungkod when I’m pilay, feeling when I’m high, shoulder when I cry, wings when I fly, prize when I vie, cure to my “ARAY!”, my honey even after I die… From your one and only, HAPPY VALENTAY!” Let me end with the story of the prodigal son.

When the “bad” son came home, his father threw a party. The son wanted to beg for forgiveness, but the father wasn’t even listening. Instead, he said, “Hurry! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and shoes on his feet. Then go and get the prize calf and kill it, and let us celebrate with a feast!”

God loves parties. And God loves to throw a party to people who don’t deserve a party. If you’re reading this, thinking of your sins, wondering if God still loves you, let me tell you: God is throwing a party of love for you right now. He loves you more than you can imagine. Receive His love today. And learn to throw more parties in your life. Your relationships need them badly.

Oh, by the way, Merry Christmas! Yup, make it really merry!

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Filipina performer joins Singapore’s Pinocchio Musical After starring in some of the biggest musicals in London’s West End (Miss Saigon, Jesus Christ Superstar, Les Miserables), the worldrenowned Filipina Broadway and West End performer Joanna Ampil went back on the musical stage as the “Blue Fairy in Pinocchio: The Musical” in Singapore.

Filipino couple wins French fashion competition Anthony and Sharon Tentativa, Filipino fashion designers based in France, bested more than 1,000 contestants to be proclaimed the 2010 Talent de Mode fashion design contest winners in Lyon.

On stage at the DBS Arts Theatre, the heartwarming musical was created with an Asian twist, and showcased Joanna’s beautiful voice, stage presence and star power, packing every show since the opening performance on November 4.

The Talent de Mode competition focuses on serving as a springboard for young ready-to-wear designers in the French city of Lyon, awarded the Filipinos the top prize among other designers from France, Spain, Italy, the United Kingdom and the Czech Republic.

Joanna who is also a pop singer, is one of the few Filipino artists who has brought honor and glory to the Philippines, sang before the Queen of England, and worked with the likes of Andrew Lloyd Weber and Cameron Macintosh.

The winning label “Les Tentativas,” founded by the couple in 2009, led the formidable gathering of great designs and craftsmanship, including small startup lines much like theirs. What set the brand apart from its competition is its reinterpretation of “the Parisian woman with lightness and freshness,” according to the Talents de Mode website.

Pacquiao gains his 8th World Boxing Championship Once again, the Philippines came to a standstill as it witnessed the recent fight of Manny “Pacman” Pacquiao in the boxing arena. And once more, the one and only “Pambansang Kamao” did his best inside the ring, and won his 8th World Championship in 8 weight divisions.

Bucking a height, size and reach disadvantage, the best pound for pound boxer outclassed Antonio Margarito of Mexico to claim the WBC super welterweight crown at Cowboys Stadium in Texas. Pacquiao won by unanimous decision, winning every round on one scorecard, 120-108, and was ahead 119-109 and 118-110 on the other two. The Associated Press had it a 120-108 shut-out.

The fight was for the WBC 154-pound title even though the contract weight was 150 pounds. Margarito weighed 150 at Friday’s weigh-in, but was 165 on the unofficial HBO scale before the fight while Pacquiao, who had been 144.6, was 148 pounds. Pacquiao also gave away 4 1/2 inches in height and was at a six-inch reach disadvantage, but that didn’t matter either.

Pacquiao earned a guaranteed US$15 million, and is likely to make millions more on his cut of the television revenues. After the big fight, he gave a concert at Lake Tahoe, and then returned to his political duties in the Philippines.

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“Donor” wins Best Film and Best Actress awards in Brussels Cinemalaya’s “Donor” directed by Mark Meily won the best film award in the recently concluded 37th Brussels International Film Festival (BIFF), where Meryll Soriano won the Best Actress award for her role in the film. In the movie, Soriano plays Lizette, a woman who sold her kidney in a desperate move to have money which she will use to work abroad.

Donor and Soriano weren’t the only Filipino awardees at the BIFF. Filmmaker Brillante Mendoza also received the Visionary Award for his innovation and countless contribution to independent films. Actor Marvin Agustin, on the other hand, joined the festival as the only Filipino member of the international jury.

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Nursing student’s short story bags Bayer and UN citation Christopher Millora, a 20-year-old nursing student from West Visayas State University, was named one of the Bayer Young Environmental Leaders by the pharmaceutical and crop science company Bayer and the United Nations Environment Programme (UNEP). He won the prestigious citation telling tales about the pressing environmental issues to small kids, and bringing awareness to children in Iloilo communities.

Millora’s short story titled “The Little Green Rangers’ Adventures: Ang Kapirdihan ni Basuramon” (The Defeat of Basuramon) drew the attention of Bayer executives. He also took home Euros 1,000 as support fund to enable him to pursue his project.

Along with delegates from India, Brazil and Vietnam, Millora was picked from the 50 delegates of 18 countries who participated in the Bayer Young Environmental Envoy (BYEE) Program, an international competition of young student leaders who implemented projects for protecting the environment. Other Filipino environmental envoys chosen by Bayer were Jovic Maurice Yee of Bicol University, Elizabeth Valencia of West Visayas State University, and Maria Angelica Reyes of De La Salle University in Lipa, Batangas.

Pinay whiz kid garners Gold & Silver in ASEAN Chess Title RP whiz kid Marie Antoinette San Diego bagged a gold and silver medal in the ASEAN Primary School Sports Olympiad 2010 (APSSO) Chess Championships in Jakarta, Indonesia. San Diego gave the Philippines its first gold medal in the individual girl’s standard competition, and won a silver medal in the individual girl’s rapid competition.

San Diego’s gold and silver medal finishes were big boosts for the RP Youth team after the boys team spearheaded by Daryl Unix Samantila, Stephen Rome Pangilinan and Raul “Rhal” Sol Cruz.

The RP Youth team’s Head of Delegation is Feliciano “Len” Toledo of the Department of Education (DepEd) while International Arbiter and National Master Erwin Carag is the RP Youth team coach.

school, apart from Dr. Yanga’s College in Bulacan bagged the team gold, while the International School (IS) of Manila placed 3rd.

Another Philippine team, the Spurgeon School Foundation, placed 6th in the same category.

Filipino students ace in the World Robot Olympiad

In the regular category for elementary where competitors took control of their robots to play the game Tour of the Philippines, a Philippine team from West Rembo Elementary School bagged bronze, and another from Tibagan High School in Makati placed 5th.

The Philippines won two gold medals and numerous other awards in the World Robot Olympiad held at the SMX Convention Center in Manila. The international competition which saw 22 participating countries, comprising representatives from both private and public schools, had been solid proof of the Filipino’s formidable technological skills and expertise.

Dr. Ester Ogena, director of the Department of Science and Technology’s Science Education Institution (SEI), said the fact that Philippines teams – even those from public schools which usually operate on a limited budget – won several awards in the international competition “simply implies that our students are getting better in programming robots which requires analysis, manipulation skills, problem solving and others.”

Grace Christian College in Quezon City and Dr. Yanga’s College in Bulacan each won a gold medal in the elementary and junior high school levels of the Open Category. In the open category for high

The Philippines has won the right to host the competition having previously won two gold medals, two silvers, and a bronze over seven years of competing in the WRO.

46 ILLUSTRADO SCRAPBOOK A platform for budding Filipino creative talent

Renante ‘Zedrenan’ Cayon Renante ‘Zedrenan’ Cayon and his camera have been inseparable since he first dabbled in the hobby some two years ago. Born in Oslob, Cebu, the graduate of Bachelor of Science in Architecture from the University of Visayas, currently works as an Interior Designer in Abu Dhabi. He received with first basic photography training with OPPPS (Overseas Pinoy Professional Photographer Society) and hasn’t stopped practicing and attending workshops since, to continuously enhance his skills at every opportunity. He is an active member of Shootercada Photography Circle - Abu Dhabi and specializes in portrait and fashion photography.

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Christopher Sanan Christopher Sanan is a Kuwait-based architect who graduated from the Philippines’ Adamson University, with a passion for 3D works, “toys hunting” and photography. Chris says the latter is his way of chronicling history – no wonder he excels in landscape and portraiture. Like his contemporaries, he started in photography some two years ago and has always been interested in grabbing the attention of the viewer by bringing out the elements of an image that tells the story.

Ryan George Francisco Ryan George Francisco loves to tell stories through his images. What started in November 2008 as a simple effort to learn how to use the camera to take pictures of his loved ones, blossomed into a passion as he started to see the world in a different light through his lens. The avid hobbyist attended highschool in Abu Dhabi, is a graduate of the Far Eastern University of the Philippines and currently works as a Senior Stores Officer in the renowned general hospital in the capital - Sheikh Khalifa Medical City (SKMC).

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La Verti Residences, DMCI Homes’ newest residential enclave along Taft Avenue in Manila, is offering a one-of-a-kind chance for city folks to enjoy a rare, resort paradise right inside their very own address. With a 40:60 building footprint to open space ratio being followed in the one-hectare property, majority of the property grounds is allotted to different lifestyle amenities that provide leisure options often lacking in other condo projects around the area.

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Homes open to more open spaces instead of a cramped corridor. This layout is also part of the developer’s Lumiventt Design Technology – one which features a unique tower plan that optimizes natural light and ventilation into the living spaces. Balconies in all units provide homeowners their own quiet spot to enjoy their surroundings and the city views.

Aside from the balconies, the landscaped Sky Patio further enhances the resort-like atmosphere throughout the entire building by offering a breathtaking and unobstructed vista of the metropolis. One can enjoy the view of downtown Manila, the skyscrapers of Makati, or the stunning sunset in Manila Bay. The view extends to the deck garden and Sky Lounge which also provides a venue for other social purposes, or it can simply serve as the residents’ exclusive nook when looking for a quiet place to work.

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Grand Stores Revamps at Ibn Battuta and Opens 3 New Showrooms in Abu Dhabi Grand Stores recently re-opened its fully refurbished showrooms in Dubai’s Ibn Battuta Mall, now featuring a mono concept Digital Showroom and a Samsonite luggage showroom. The new Grand Stores Digital showroom carries a vast assortment of imaging products such as digital SLR cameras, lenses, digital compact cameras, camcorders, binoculars and photographic accessories, as well as IT related products such as laptops, desktops, printers, projectors and other relevant accessories under one roof, under world renowned brands like Nikon, Fujifilm, Epson, Lexar, MSI etc. The Samsonite showroom, on the other hand, features the latest in luggage and travel accessories. Grand Stores in association with Samsonite have played a pivotal role in nurturing the UAE travel market for over 30 years Over in the capital, the emirates’ leading luxury brand retailer has also opened three new outlets - a new Digital Showroom and a Samsonite Store at Dalma Mall, as well as a Grand Stores Digital Showroom at the recently inaugurated Central Market trade and jewelry retailers with quality reports of polished diamonds.

The Farm wins AsiaSpa Awards for Spa Cuisine of the Year On November 18, 2010, The Farm at San Benito, Philippines, a holistic healing destination spa in Batangas, was awarded “Spa Cuisine of the Year” by AsiaSpa magazine. Established in 2005, The AsiaSpa awards recognize innovation and quality as the gold standard for acquiring distinction among the world’s best spas.

One of the first truly vegan restaurants in Asia, The Farm received the honor for consistently providing outstanding food showing visionary creativity in promoting healthy eating through “living” cuisine.

Specifically, “Alive!” the Farm’s onsite restaurant serves predominately a raw organic vegetarian menu from the highest quality ingredients harvested from their own organic garden that yields fresh produce and micro greens. The award highlights the Farm’s continued role as a leader in imaginative cuisine that tastes delicious, looks elegant, augments health and contains healing properties.

The Farm received the Spa Retreat of the Year AsiaSpa award in 2005 and 2008. They received the Medi-Spa of the Year AsiaSpa award in 2005 and 2006 and the Spa Cuisine of the Year AsiaSpa award in 2006 and 2009. The Farm has also been recognized as One of Asia’s Top Spas

by The Wall Street Journal 2010, and received The Country Award for Favourite Spa in the Philippines by SpaFinder 2010; and named among Six of the Best Environmentally Friendly Hotels by CNN Traveller 2009.

Lulu opens 85th Hypermarket Retail giant Lulu has opened their 3rd hypermarket in Al Ain, taking its store count to 85 amid an aggressive expansion drive. The new hypermarket in Al Ain is the group’s 9th hypermarket opened in a row in this year.

The new Lulu Hypermarket is housed within the new Al Foah Mall, strategically located on the Al Ain–Dubai road and is easily accessible with ample car parking. Though Lulu Hypermarket opened its doors for business, a formal inauguration ceremony of Al Foah Mall which is also managed by the group will take place at a later stage.

Spread over 140,000 square feet, the hypermarket showcases fresh food section comprising fruit, vegetables, dairy products, meat, fish and hot and cold ready-to-eat food, it also has a huge area dedicated to department store items such as electronics, IT products, home appliances, sports, stationery, furnishings and furniture and fashion brands for ladies, gents and kids. Forty cash counters ensure hassle free shopping experience for shoppers.

In addition, and in true tradition of LuLu stores across the Gulf, the hypermarket will feature the widest choice of world class brands at the fairest prices and also offers a whole world of shopping with a good selection of brands and product lines under one roof. LuLu’s winning formula of value for money quality shopping will be a matter of delight for the residents of Al Ain who are slated to enjoy the pleasurable shopping experience and the economy it offers.

Back to Basics Strategy pays off for Giordano International clothing retailer Giordano announced an 18% growth for its MENA markets for the first ten months of 2010. This upswing has been driven by prudent inventory management, cost controls and expansion; and is supported by increased consumer demand for Giordano’s fashion essentials across its 190 stores in the region.

With a global presence of over 2,200 stores, Giordano has grown into one of the leading retailers of casual apparel and goes from strength to strength in the Middle East. The company plans to continue its aggressive expansion and become more visible in the GCC, India, Iran, Iraq, and Georgia, and to reach out into Africa and Eastern Europe from its regional headquarters in the UAE. In addition to expansion plans and refurbishing stores, Giordano will also boost its product lines in the region with Giordano Junior, BSX, Giordano Ladies and Concepts One (men’s line) offering more fashion choices for customers. As Giordano intensifies its expansion, it is now working on its online shopping portal with plans to launch in 2011.

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FILIPINIANA Not to be outshone by the brilliant season’s lights are these dazzlingly definitive Filipino pieces from the country’s designers with a penchant for our rich and unique sartorial heritage.

PHOTOGRAPHY: FILBERT KUNG (BLACKFOX PHOTOGRAPHY) STYLING: MIKE DE GUZMAN & GEORGE PALMIANO (MGP) MAKEUP: LILIAN YEUNG HAIR: MYCKE ARCANO MODELS: PETER NORDEL AND GRENDEL ALVARADO (PMAP) SHOT ON LOCATION AT THE GRAND SOHO MAKATI BY CENTURY PROPERTIES.

ON GRENDEL: PIÑA FIBER POST-MODERN BARONG TOP WITH GEOMETRIC PATTERNS BY LOUIS CLAPAROLS; BLACK LEGGINGS BY TERRANOVA; BLACK BANANA FIBER SUNVISOR, USED AS NECKLACE, BY DITA SANDICO-ONG; MULTI-BRAIDED CHAIN CHOKER WITH RIBBED AGATE STONE BY ESTRELLAS MANILA BY MARGE ABAS; BLACK CORSET BELT BY THE RAMP, CROSSINGS; ROUND-FRAMED SUNGLASSES BY SM DEPARTMENT STORE. ON PETER: STRIPED GRAY BARONG TAGALOG BY BARGE RAMOS; STRIPED FLORAL PIN BY DITA SANDICO-ONG; BLACK WOOL TROUSERS BY MUNDO BY THE RAMP, CROSSINGS.

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ON GRENDEL: BANANA FIBRE DRESS WITH TINALAK WEAVE, BLACK BANANA FIBRE SUN VISOR, USED AS HEADDRESS BY DITA SANDICOONG; BLACK AND PINK FLORAL ABACA HEADDRESS, TRIPLE-STRAND TUBULAR GOLD NECKLACE, GOLD FAUX SNAKESKIN BANGLE WITH STONES BY FIRMA; VINTAGE GOLD CHAIN NECKLACE JADE DROP PENDANT BY ESTRELLAS MANILA BY MARGE ABAS; MULTI-LINKED STATEMENT GOLD NECKPIECE, ANTIQUE GOLD ORNAMENTAL BANGLE, GOLD FULLY-BEADED ARM CUFF, GOLD TRIBAL ARM CUFFS ALL BY DAVE ESTIEN QUIJANO; OPAQUE LEGGINGS WITH GEOMETRIC PATTERN BY LOUIS CLAPAROLS. ON PETER: BLACK BARONG TAGALOG WITH WHITE EMBROIDERY BY BARGE RAMOS; SHEER SEBIÑA FIBRE SHRUG BY DAVE ESTIEN QUIJANO; BLACK FEATHER BROOCH BY FIRMA; BLACK DROPPED CROTCH PANTS BY TERRANOVA MAN; TRANSPARENT FUTURISTIC EYEWEAR BY FIRMA; BLACK LEATHER SHOES BY WADE

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ON GRENDEL: BLACK SATIN WIDE-LEGGED JUMPSUIT BY FREDERICK PERALTA; BANANA FIBRE CHEQUERED HALTER TOP, GRAY BANANA FIBRE SUN VISOR, USED AS HEADPIECEVAND BLACK OBI BELT ALL BY DITA SANDICO-ONG; BLACK FAUX FUR SHRUG BY THE RAMP, CROSSINGS; SILVER CHANDELIER EARRINGS BY FIRMA; BEADED STATEMENT NECKLACE BY NICOLE WHISENHUNT AT FIRMA; SHOES BY JANYLIN. ON PETER: GRAY SEBINA FIBRE PLEATED TOP WITH MANDARIN COLLAR

BY DAVE ESTIEN QUIJANO; BLACK LAYERED BODY CHAIN ACCENTUATED BY A GUN METAL SKELETAL CHAIN MAIL BY ESTRELLAS MANILA BY MARGE ABAS; CHARCOAL GRAY SLIM PANTS BY MUNDO BY THE RAMP, CROSSINGS; BLACK LEATHER BELT AND GRAY FAUX CROC SHOES BY WADE

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ON GRENDEL: SILVER GRAY BANANA FIBRE WRAP, GRAY FLOWER PIN, BLACK LEGGINGS ALL BY DITA SANDICO-ONG; GRAY SEBINA FIBRE TASSLED ONE-SHOULDER DRESS BY DAVE ESTIEN QUIJANO; GRAY CAGE SHOES BY JANYLIN. ON PETER: CREAM SEBINA FIBRE SHEER SHIRT, RUCHED SEBINA FIBRE SHEER CROPPED PANTS AND WHITE TRUNKS ALL

BY DAVE ESTIEN QUIJANO; WHITE RAISED-COLLAR LONG-SLEEVED TOP

BY MUNDO BY THE RAMP, CROSSINGS; WHITE HIP SHOES BY WADE

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ON GRENDEL: PIÑA FIBRE RUFFLED OPERA COAT AND BLACK SATIN WIDE-LEGGED JUMPSUIT BY FREDERICK PERALTA; SILVER CHANDELIER EARRINGS BY FIRMA; GRAY BANANA FIBRE SUN VISOR, USED AS HEADPIECE, BANANA FIBRE CHEQUERED HALTER TOP, AND BLACK OBI BELT ALL BY DITA SANDICO-ONG; BEADED STATEMENT NECKLACE BY NICOLE WHISENHUNT AT FIRMA; SHOES BY JANYLIN. ON PETER: GRAY SEBINA FIBRE PLEATED TOP WITH MANDARIN COLLAR BY DAVE ESTIEN QUIJANO; TRANSPARENT FUTURISTIC EYEWEAR BY FIRMA; BLACK LAYERED BODY CHAIN ACCENTUATED BY A GUN METAL SKELETAL CHAIN MAIL BY ESTRELLAS MANILA BY MARGE ABAS; BLACK LEATHER BELT BY WADE; CHARCOAL GRAY SLIM PANTS BY MUNDO BY THE RAMP, CROSSINGS; GRAY FAUX CROC SHOES BY WADE.

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ON GRENDEL: PIÑA FIBRE POST-MODERN BARONG ASYMMETRIC TOP AND OPAQUE LEGGINGS WITH GEOMETRIC PATTERNS BY LOUIS CLAPAROLS; MARIPOSA WRAP WITH BAMBOO PRINT AND GRAY BANANA FIBRE SUN VISOR USED AS HEADPIECE ALL BY DITA SANDICOONG; BEADED STATEMENT NECKLACE BY NICOLE WHISENHUNT; WHITE SHOE-BOOTS BY JANYLIN. ON PETER: GRAY SEBINA FIBRE PLEATED TOP WITH TRIANGULAR COLLAR BY DAVE ESTIEN QUIJANO; BLACK FLAT-FRONT PANTS BY MUNDO

BY THE RAMP, CROSSINGS; SILVER NECKLACE

BY IORA; WHITE BRAIDED BELT BY THE RAMP, CROSSINGS; WHITE FLAT SNEAKERS BY WADE.

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ON PETER: BLACK SHEER LACE BARONG TAGALOG BY BARGE RAMOS; GRAY BLAZER BY MUNDO BY THE RAMP, CROSSINGS; TRIBALPRINTED DROPPED CROTCH PANTS BY MENTAL. ON GRENDEL: PIÑA FIBRE TIERED STRAPLESS SHORT DRESS BY ERIC DELOS SANTOS; BANANA FIBRE CHEQUERED HALTER TOP, PINK PLEATED WRAP, AND GRAY BAMBOO-PRINTED OBI BELT, ALL BY DITA SANDICO-ONG; BLACK AND PINK ABACA FLORAL HEADDRESS BY FIRMA.

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Gov Joey Salceda & local Albay beauties

Weaving Art Into Fashion: Pinukpok Fabrics comes to Fore

By Vic Albornoz Lactaoen • Photos by Bernard Supetran and Fred Rosaros

Every weave tells a tale – of ancestors and lineage, of clans and history. In a country of diverse beginnings, the looms talk of burning passion and the threads speaks of people’s consciousness.

Bicol designers recently presented an ensemble of outfits using fabrics woven from the Bicol region simply known as pinukpok fabric. Revival of this fabric is conservative, with its preference for earth colors black, grey and white but young and creative Bicolano designers had a filled day coming up with new colors to boot on the indigenous pinukpok fabric with threads that are thick and bright.

The pinukpok fabric promotions was supported by Governor Joey Salceda of Albay where local government executives came dressed in a variety of colors and style from the traditional Filipina to Barong Tagalog as interpreted by the Bicol designers including designers Legaspi, Danny Clint and Clang-clang who paraded a set of adorable gowns, embellished with rich embroideries that made the audience that evening applaud of their own local fabric.

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To be recognized to help our fellow Bicolanos, Filipinos in general, workers, strippers, weavers, embroiderers, designers, sewers, fabric painters, tinagak (joining of abaca fibers) makers, exporters handicraft makers joined forces to come up with a new improved product. Pinukpok or abaca silk, although a traditional Filipino weave never made it into fashion because of the fabric texture. “Also the process to produce it use to be very difficult and expensive,” according to Bicol Tourism Direcotor Nini Ravanilla.

Now with the help of new technology - the mechanized rotary press and program of Governor Salceda, its stiffness has been softened and is now more pliable. It is now softer and the softening process is done through a mechanized rotary process, Governor Salceda said. Instead of pounding, we have it run through the press which makes it easier for the people to make it. With the rotary press, more fabrics can be produced as well, added Salceda. With fashion shows and support of the weavers and the government, Bicol’s pinukpok producers foresee that more and more communities will join the production with a bigger demand for it from the local and foreign market.

Intended as a showcase of Filipino fashion at its very best, the pinukpok abaca fashion show was so successful that it is expected to

become an annual event displaying the latest innovations in Filipino fashion design, while at the same time providing a popular insight into Bicol history and tradition. The sheer number of the Bicolano fashion designers – let alone the weight of their combined talents - are a striking feature of the local fashion scene. The show demonstrated great promise for the fabric and the designers. The endeavor of the designers bring into sharp focus the exuberance of the current state of Filipino fashion and how seriously it is all being taken by the local government.

The pinukpok creations are slowly getting full orders with the local designers. The fabric has also gone a long way towards raising the Filipino consumer’s consciousness about indigenous designs, creating a strong demand for these fashion goods, while at the same time, refining the market’s taste. As one would expect, pinukpok designers are perhaps the most ambitious of the lot. Initiative has its own rewards as some Bicol designers are being recognized.

Designers have still to hit upon the perfect pinukpok fabric and at present, furious experimentation with Bicol University’s Research Center for the fabric. In every other sense however, the pinukpok fabric is poised for take off into the international market. Pound for pound of talent, one fashion watcher says, “the Bikolano designer is a match for anybody in Paris, Milan, New York or Tokyo.” Until orbit is achieved, then Bikolano fashion is only as far away as a plane hop to Legazpi.

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UAE-Based Designers Storm PFW UAE based designers Albert Andrada, Bandoix Flores and Ruben Santos stormed Philippine Fashion Week as they showed off their Spring/Summer 2011 collection at the Grand Allure Event last Oct. 31, 2010, held at the SMX Convention Center Manila.

The PFW event also featured Benjie Manuel, Christian Narvadez, Gershwin Qua, June Pugat and Veejay Floresca.

Albert Andrada

Albert Andrada’s ‘Kohinoor’ collection opened the last day of the PFW with a bang. His initial number, a Maharani-inspired masterpiece in gold, elicited thunderous applause from the enthralled audience.

From that moment on, all the other nine exquisite ensembles that followed received unequalled praise one after the other.

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Bandoix Flores

Bandoix Flores’ collection, entitled The Redemption,’ saw models sashaying down the runway with black tulle veils over 50’s silhouettes.

His color palette included black, gray and white.

A very opulent, white bridal ensemble finale mesmerized the crowd.

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Ruben Santos

Ruben Santos’ collection was another breathtaking feat. It showcased masterful fabrication in hues of black, white and brown.

Intricate embroideries were noticeable in each piece. Headpieces matched the couture pieces comprising skin tight pants, short dresses to long evening gowns.

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Residences

SM Development Corporation (SMDC) recently launched its Jazz Residences, which offers potential homeowners a unique perspective of the Makati district in a high-rise development featuring affordable, five-star homes from PHP1.5 million (monthly amortization PHP9,000) central to the emerging lifestyle hub in the Makati BelAir area.

The 2.5 hectare development is bounded by N. Garcia (formerly Reposo) and Jupiter Streets, providing accessibility to main roads such as Buendia, Kalayaan, Ayala, and Makati avenues. SMDC will even construct a special bridgeway connecting Jazz Residences to Salcedo for maximized convenience, rendering its location closer to the city’s business hub. This bridgeway will help ease traffic in the area and enable Bel-Air residents with more accessibility to the Makati CBD. Traffic will further be eased with a loop road built-in to Jazz Residences and two extra car lanes along Jupiter and N. Garcia from a reduction in its lot area.

The development will feature four majestic towers that stand tall on

a five-storey podium for commercial establishments and one floor for the amenities and garden sprawl. There will be four lap swimming pools and two kiddie pools, a fitness gym, mini-theater, children’s playground, jogging paths and landscaped gardens—all ready to cater to the leisure needs of this “Vertical Village” with 40 levels for residential spaces, featuring studio, one-bedroom, and two-bedroom units. The development will also feature a mini SM Mall, and SM Hypermarket, as well as a business center.

Contact SMDC Jazz Residences at +632 858-0300 or +63 917-5005151 or check out www.smresidences.com. You may also visit the showroom at - 2nd Floor, Crown Center, Jupiter corner N. Garcia Streets, Bel-Air, Makati City.

Send money to Philippines and win with Xpress Money this X’Mas Xpress Money, the leading global instant money transfer brand, announces ‘Christmas Gift from Xpress Money’ (Pamaskong Handog ng Xpress Money), a unique promotion for its Filipino customers, this Christmas season. Valid from 23rd Nov. 2010 to 11th Jan. 2011, the promotion offers all the customers, sending money to Philippines through Xpress Money from any UAE Exchange branch in the UAE, a chance to win exciting weekly prizes apart from two holiday packages.

During the promotion period, every transaction to Philippines throughXpress Money, from any UAE Exchange branch in the UAE, will instantly get a discount voucher from Mediacom, a leading global brand in Karaoke systems.

161 lucky winners will take home exciting prizes including Apple I-Pads, I-Phones, I-Pods, Sony Play Stations, Swatch Watches, Net Books, LCD TVs, Digital Cameras, Mediacom Karaoke sets and more in seven weekly draws. The mega draw will pick two winners, who will get a grand holiday package each.

Senior officials, at Xpress Money, affirm that such unique offers will go a long way in strengthening the bond between the brand and

its Filipino customers. The global instant money transfer brand is increasingly becoming a favourite channel for the Filipinos, globally, to send money, back home, within minutes.

They also observed that both Xpress Money and its strong agent partner, UAE Exchange, bring together conventional and contemporary brand etiquette, thus providing lasting value to customers, as the ideal mode to send money effortlessly.

In addition to its attractive terms, Xpress Money offers the facility of SMS confirmation to sender on payment collection. For its Filipino customers, Xpress Money also offers dual currency payout facility in US dollar as well as in Pesos through close to 4,000 payout locations across Philippines.

In just a decade, Xpress Money grew exponentially with extensive presence across 95 countries through a strong network of over 60,000 agents including prestigious banking and non-banking entities.

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A Pinoy

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FEAST

By Excel V. Dyquiangco, Photos Courtesy of Chef’s Table

They say that Christmas is a time for gift giving. But for most Pinoys, it’s definitely a time for eating. One can never tire of shuffling from one place to another, tasting delectable dishes while carrying on the merry making, not to mention getting fulfillment from serving Pinoy comfort food to your loved ones in your very own home. And with the occasion drawing near, what better way to kickstart the Beef Pochero season, than to get some recipes of old short ribs marinated and grilled to perfection. Sautéed with faves done in a new light from one of Beef homegrown veggies and coupled with grilled banana, this beef pochero will surely make you want for more.

Manila’s brightest chefs.

Proudly Pinoy, Asian Food Channel program ‘Tablescapes’ host and owner of Chef ’s Table, a freestyle cooking by-reservation-only restaurant in Fort Bonifacio, Chef Bruce Lim specializes in fine Filipino food, prepared using global culinary standards. The good Chef, who doesn’t call his food ‘fusion’ but ‘Proudly Pinoy’ instead, is known for turning ordinary Filipino food and ingredients into something extraordinary and with international appeal that could please both those with simple or sophisticated palates. This time around, Chef Bruce shares with us, some of his favorite recipes, which are all fit to be part of a Christmas feast.

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PROCEDURE: Marinate beef ribs in Clara Ole tocino marinade for 1 hour. In a large pot, add bacon and render fat over low heat for 5 minutes. Once the fat is rendered, sauté garlic and onions. Turn up the heat. Add carrots and patis. Reduce patis to syrup. Add tomato sauce and beef stock. Bring to a boil. Remove beef from marinade and grill over medium high heat so you get good char marks. Grill for 2 minutes per side. Do the same for saba banana. Place into boiling stock, and bring back to boil. Once boiling turn down to simmer. Simmer for 30 minutes. Add potatoes and Baguio beans, simmer for 1 hour or until beef is soft. Adjust seasoning if needed.

Serve hot.

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Special Seaside Crab Big red crabs flavored with classic oyster and chili garlic sauce, sautéed to bring out a unique Asian flavor, and complimented with a slurry serving of sweet gravy.

PROCEDURE: Clean crabs by removing top shell from body. Pull out the feather-like gills and wash under cold running potable water.

Cut crabs in manageable sizes. Set aside. In a large pan, sauté garlic and onion leeks for 5 minutes. Add Lee KumKee Oyster sauce, Lee KumKee Chili Garlic sauce and unsalted butter. Mix well until sauce becomes gravy like. Add sugar and crabs. Simmer with a lid on for 15 minutes. Once crabs are cooked, thicken with cornstarch slurry.

Once thick, serve straight away.

Pan-Seared Lapu-Lapu with Poached Egg Benedict

Lapu-lapu fillet seasoned with salt and pepper, cooked in butter and served with heaps of special gravy. This lapu-lapu dish will be an instant hit not only for connoisseurs, but for everybody who loves fish-based dishes.

PROCEDUCE: Season lapu-lapu fillet with salt and pepper. Melt butter in pot and add garlic and sauté for 3 minutes. Add flour and make a roux. Add milk and cream, boil until thickened. Remove from heat and cool. Boil water in pot add salt and teaspoon of vinegar. Add cheese to cream mixture. Adjust seasoning with salt and pepper. Pan sear lapu-lapu fillet at the same time drop egg carefully in water then turn down to simmer. Cook for 3 minutes.

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Tapsilog My Way

Buko Pie Martini

Chef Bruce, known for his culinary flair, gives new life to the popular a tapa dish. With a dash of dexterity, he makes use of delectable marinated meat for tapa and Pinoy suman as his rice alternative.

Another culinary feat, Chef Bruce showcases a buko pie served in a martini glass. Sweet and creamy, this unconventional way will surely be loved by people of varying taste.

PROCEDUCE: Remove suman from wrapper. Marinate beef in soy sauce, sugar, vinegar, patis, garlic powder, beer and pepper. Let it sit for 1 hour. Brown garlic in oil until the oil gets perfumed with garlic.

Remove garlic and brown suman in oil, remove from oil, and drain well. Mix all the ingredients of the atchara together and let sit for 1 day before using. Remove beef from marinade and drain to remove excess. Wrap suman with beef tapa and seal with butchers twine.

Pan sear until tapa is cooked. Remove string and and cut into 2-inch pieces. Place 5 pieces in center plate. Fry eggs sunny side up. Place on top. Serve atchara on the side.

PROCEDURE: Cream butter and sugar until light and fluffy. Add in flour and form a soft dough. Pat dough on baking tray and prick the dough with a fork generously. Bake at 175◦C for 25-30minutes.

Let cool completely and crush crust.

Chef Bruce on Fine Dining “I am the anti-(celebrity) chef,” Chef Bruce Lim candidly says.

“I’m big and fat.” Born in the United States of America, he carries with him a blue passport, but he is every bit a Pinoy.

Graduating from the top notch culinary school Le Cordon Bleu in London, Chef Bruce managed to work his way inside some of the world’s best French kitchens for more than 10 years. He even worked under the tutelage of fire-breathing celebrity chef Gordon Ramsay. “It was tough,” he says of learning from the world-renowned chef. “But, hey, I couldn’t learn these things from anybody else.”

Because of such credentials, the challenge to constantly feed his culinary skills has always been a top priority. He also says his skills have been complimented by what he has gained from refining Filipino cuisine, and that the best teachers he ever had are the nameless manongs and manangs he has met on his travelfood show.

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When December comes, our lives are filled with activities that revolve around the word ‘celebrate.’ Back home, people have been busy shopping for the Christmas gifts, attending Christmas parties and thinking about sumptuous meals to whip up for Noche Buena. Here in far mid-east, we

By Sherry Tenorio may not be able to feel exactly the same festive spirit, we know that we can still try to have a good time and enjoy the season. This month in Illustrado, we give you a lowdown on how to plan a merry Christmas and a fabulous New Year. Take note of our year-ender tips, and you’ll have the greatest month for sure.

Nurture your spirit There are only two areas in the whole of Dubai where we can attend to our religious obligations but that should not hinder us in any way from going. So, for us to really experience the meaning of Christmas and to ponder on the reason behind the merriment, we have to devote our time and effort to hear mass or service in the churches in Bur Dubai or Jebel Ali. We assure you that there is nothing more rejuvenating than seeing people flock to church to celebrate one of the most-awaited days in the Christian world. There is also a nine-day novena called “Simbang Gabi” in Tagalog that starts from the 16th December. The nightly mass, will be offered after working hours in order to encourage more people to join. Aside from doing it as a spiritual exercise, attending this pseudo-Simbang Gabi would somehow fill the missing gap of festive traditions we are accustomed to in the Philippines.

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Give gifts on Christmas day As the old adage goes, Christmas is the day of giving.

That is why we should still adhere to the tradition, and live up to it in our own ways. There is no need to buy expensive gifts – meaningful gifts that come out of thoughtfulness and sincerity are what we have to give away. Box of sweets for office colleagues, small mementos to housemates, greeting cards and charming favors for friends and loved ones would actually make the spirit of Christmas fill the air. The shopping malls all over the city coupled with outdoor souks in Global Village and The Walk at Jumeirah Beach Residence have tons of discount offerings in time for the season. And aside from giving gifts to those who are dear to us, we can also go and donate some of our blessings to the less fortunate through charity organizations.

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TRIPPIN’ 75 Plan a Christmas party dinner Although most companies and offices here do not hold Christmas parties, that should not mean that we can entirely forget about having one. We can always create the festive mood ourselves. So, think about organizing a Christmas party among your friends, housemates or even org-mates. It does not have to be in a fancy hotel or an expensive restaurant, the point is that you should all have a good time playing party games and exchanging gifts, along with some raffle draws and caroling, and everything will be really perfect. Then, come Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, catch up with your close friends in a fine dinner. We suggest that you opt for Filipino food in Barrio Fiesta and order their divine “puto bumbong,” or book in one of the great hotels in town which have interesting offerings this season. You can also go for a well-deserved Dhow cruise dinner, relishing Christmas moments with your loved ones while sailing through the Dubai creek and marveling the beauty of both old and new Dubai.

Ponder on 2010, and write goals for 2011 Since December is not all about Christmas, as it is also about the end of the year, we also have to use this month for retrospection and planning ahead. Whether it is a wonderful year filled with blessings or a year filled with challenges, we should all learn from the the experiences of 2010. So, while you’re jogging, walking by the beach, sitting at the park or watching the Dubai Fountain at Burj Khalifa, try to reflect on the year that was and extract from these the goals that have to be set for 2011. We believe that this is a good exercise in setting your New Year’s resolutions but also in raising the bar in terms of our personal objectives in life. And, if you want to be really into the mood, get some cute journals from Kinokuniya or Magrudy’s to write down your thoughts. You should also buy yourself a beautiful 2011 calendar planner to give you a good start the coming year.

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Welcome the fabulous New Year As we move to the second decade of the 21st century, we believe that we should put some thoughts in embracing the New Year with a big bang. We recommend doing full moon desert drumming where you would welcome the strike of the New Year to the sound of African bongo beats and munching on Arabic fare in the middle of the desert. To do this one, you should check out Dubai Drums’ website. Or, you can party all night as clubs offer marvelous New Year treats especially for those who love dancing. If your time and pocket do not permit a lavish New Year party, there is no reason to frown as we believe that house parties, shared with close friends and loved ones, are the best ways of spending the countdown. Jazz up your house parties by asking the guests to wear masks, play some ice-breakers, and simply enjoy each other’s companies. Relish the rest of the year with love and peace, and welcome the next year with hope and prosperity.

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My Pinoy Life In...

Adelaide, Australia Farah Hubahib

Since when have you been staying there? Can you recount briefly why you moved there?

I have been living in Adelaide on and off since 1999. I came here first in July 1999 to study Hotel Management and French and Australian Culinary Arts at the International College of Hotel Management, Le Cordon Bleu and Regency TAFE respectively. At the end of my studies, I went around the US for travel and work experience before I decided to settle down. Finally, I migrated permanently here in 2005 and became a citizen of Australia in 2007.

Tell us something about your host city.

Adelaide is located in the state of South Australia with a land base of around about 100,000 sq kilometres, with a population of roughly 2 million. First time visitors think of Adelaide as a fairly quiet and provincial setting with all the amenities of a metropolis. Just like a love affair, it can take a bit of exploring and getting to know before you can actually appreciate the essence of this city or just like me you would love it first hand and know this could be home.

I love it because the sea, hills, vineyards and river is readily accessible.

I could be in the beach with glorious white sands (for free) within minutes on a hot summer day or enjoying the view of rolling hills on a frosty winter weekend in a spur.

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South Australia is known for being the biggest wine growing region in Australia. It is a must for visitors to tour the wineries and taste the delectable wines on offer. With wine comes food, so suffice to say my love for great food is nurtured in this part of the world. Meat, cheese and seafood are extraordinarily fresh and delicious. In fact my father-in-law does not come over to visit us but flies here to eat steak and fresh seafood!

What do you do there for a living?

I started off with a career in hospitality in mind but public service beckoned and I now work for the Federal Government of Australia. I work as a Customer Service Advisor at the Family Assistance Office, Department of Human Services. In a gist, we provide assistance to families to access government payments/entitlements and services that will help them with their day to day responsibilities as a family unit.

Is there a Filipino community there?

There is a large number of Filipinos living here in Adelaide and it is amazing how Filipinos can easily adapt and assimilate with the community they live in. Not surprisingly, Filipinos are known here to be happy, hard working and generally friendly. I can honestly say that most Filipinos here are well liked because we do not segregate ourselves from the locals. In fact we easily become a part of the general community.

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With regards to an official Filipino community organisation/ association, I am not a member myself but I am aware of one called Adelaide-Filipino Settlement Coordinating Council of SA Inc. The Pinoy activity I am involved in is the usual salo-salo with my Filipino friends which is always fun, refreshing with loads of food and laughter.

One thing that I love about living here is the importance they give to work/life balance. Thus, aside from the unavoidable housework, Nobu and I love fishing, baking, cooking, watching movies and catching up with friends. Most of all, we look forward to travels in and outside of Australia as it is our time to unwind, enjoy the food and spend quality time together.

Tell us about your life there.

What cultural practices have you acquired from your host country? Do you still observe Filipino traditions even if you live in another land?

I live here in Adelaide with my husband Nobuysohi. Unfortunately, our family is back home in the Philippines and no one seems interested to migrate here with us. To be honest, settling here was not that dramatic as we started off as students and we had time to adjust to the lifestyle, build friendships and adjust to the culture.

Australia is a sports crazy country and I love it! There’s Australian football (no protection, just buffed guys wearing skimpy shorts), cricket (like baseball), tennis (my favourite), soccer, swimming, etc. Living in Australia, made me appreciate the great outdoors and happiness measured in terms of great wine, food and company.

Filipino customs and traditions are inherent in more ways than one in this household. Typically, we love eating rice with almost everything, Christmas carols (not around the neighbourhood though), respect of elders and the importance we give to family even if we are far away.

Your message to Filipinos across the globe We may be citizens or residents in different countries across the globe, but lest we forget we are so lucky to have been born a Filipino and lived in the Philippines at some points in our lives. So the next time you hear that familiar greeting between Filipinos - “Pinoy ka?”

We say, “Pinoy na Pinoy!”

We are a normal working class couple except for the fact that Nobuyoshi works as a Chef for a company who caters to mining companies all over Australia. It means that he is away for work for three weeks in one go at the remote or outback sites and back home for three weeks holiday. In a way he works only six months a year, and that means six months a year I am stuck doing all the household chores and errands! For Filipinos working abroad I am sure we can all relate to the amount of housework that needs to be done after a hard day’s work at the office.

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Destination:

Blue Mosque

TURKEY Globetrotter: Mary Rose Dalocanog

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Ihlara Valley

Hagia Sophia

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Chora Church

What is the destination known for?

Turkey is known for being transcontinental, a country spanning more than one continent. Due to its huge size, Turkey has many cities and regions and most of them are famous by themselves.

Istanbul, historically known as Constantinople, has been declared as a European Capital of Culture in 2010. This city is full of history and glimpses of the Byzantine and Ottoman empires are found everywhere. The region of Cappadocia is famous for its amazing geographical formations such as rock cut churches and fairy chimneys as well as its underground cities that could sustain thousands of people. Pamukkale town is known for its white travertines and the healing powers of its cascading waters. Ephesus is the best preserved classical city in the Mediterranean, even better than Rome itself and it is also where you can see the house in which Mother Mary spent the last years of her life in Nightingale Mountain.

How to get there?

There are daily direct flights from Dubai to Istanbul on Emirates and Turkish Airlines. For budget travelers, FlyDubai has very affordable fares. Travelling within Turkey is also very convenient with their efficient train system as well as comfortable buses. Since Turkey is big, approximately 1700 kilometers from East to West, the best way to travel internally is through their domestic airlines. Pegasus, Anadolu Jet, Onur Air and Sun Express are some of the few airlines travelling domestically.

Baptistry at the Basilica of Saint John

Cave Hotel

Where to you stay?

Istanbul has a vast choice of places to stay. Cost varies from Euros 30 to 300 depending on which district. To get a feel of the Old City, it is best to stay at the numerous hotels in Sultahnamet where you can get a room for Euros 60 and wake up to a view of the Hagia Sophia!

We stayed at the Holiday Inn in Topkapi, where food was 30% less compared to the more touristic places and a tram stop was just in front of the hotel.

In Cappadocia, one must stay at a cave hotel and live like a Flinstone!

The best ones are in Goreme town where you can have breakfast while gazing at hundreds of hot air balloons flying over the horizon.

Rates range from Euros 50 to 300 depending on whether you want a standard room or a suite. In Pamukkale town, most of the hotels are directly in front of the travertines so you can wake up around 9am, have breakfast and take a walk to the travertines and the ancient city of Heiropolis. Since it is just a small town, hotels are considerably cheaper - from around Euros 20 to 80. Ephesus hotels range from Euros 20 to 130 and it is best to take a room overlooking the Kusadasi Bay where you can relax and watch cruise ships passing by after a full day of exploring the ancient city.

City Walls

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Ephesus

Testi Kebab

Must do and must see

Turkey being such a large country, there are so many things to do and so many things to see. In Istanbul, a walking tour of the Sultahnament district passing through Hagia Sophia, the Blue Mosque, Basilica Cistern and the tomb of Sultan Mahmud, is a must. Do also shop at the Grand Bazaar and the Spice Bazaar, and take a Bosphorus cruise to see the European and Asian side of Istanbul.

While in Cappadocia, ride a hot air balloon at sunrise, and join a North and South Tour if you have three days to spare. A north tour includes the Goreme Open Air Museum, Uchisar Castle, Pasabagi Fairy Chimney, and Imagination Valley.

The south tour consists of a lot of hiking at the Derinkuyu Underground City, Selime Cathedral and Ihlara Valley.

In Pamukkale, we travelled for 12 hours just to trek the travertines.

Some parts were slippery but the 30 minute barefoot walk from the top to the bottom was a once in a lifetime experience. If you have enough time, it is nice to take a dip in the sacred pools where Cleopatra used to bathe.

We took a 4-hour bus ride from Cappadocia to Izmir just to see the ancient city of Ephesus whose amazing well-preserved architecture takes you back in time.

Afterwards, we went for a drive to Nightingale Mountain where we prayed at Mama Mary’s house.

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Do it like the natives

Eat a testi kebab – a dish from Central Anatolia consisting of a mixture of meat and vegetables cooked in a clay pot or jug over fire.

The pot is sealed with bread dough or foil and is broken before your eyes when served. Heavenly!

How to dress

It depends on the time of year as well as which city to visit. Always remember that appropriate clothing is required especially if you plan to visit some churches and mosques. For ladies, always bring a light scarf. Since Turks are used to tourists all year round, clothing is not an issue, but remember that anything too revealing would get you uncomfortable in crowded places.

What to bring

Aside from a digital camera with lots of memory, number one on the list should be comfortable and sturdy shoes. With all the walking and hiking, comfort is a must. During winter, make sure you are prepared with warm clothing for the outdoors.

What to avoid

Turks are exceptionally friendly people and you often get invited for Turkish coffee or tea in their homes. Though it is generally safe to travel in Turkey, one must look out for the usual pickpockets and bag snatchers so make sure you have your bag securely held close to your body especially in crowded areas. Make sure you stay with your group during tours, as getting lost and asking for directions might be difficult with some Turks unable to speak English.

Trip budget

Since most hotels and tours can be booked online, you can pay for everything in advance. Average daily cost range from Euros 60 to 300 depending on where you stay, eat, and what you want to see and get around in. Bring Euros aside from Turkish Lira, although most establishments accept credit cards, as well. There are also a lot of ATM machines around. Don’t forget to include tips in your budget.

Mama Mary’s House

COMMUNITY 83 held since quarter four 2008 with a primary focus on contributing back to society whilst enjoying the love of the golf. CSR (Culture of Social Responsibility)-oriented FIGME will be drumming up support from their members and guests to share their blessings with their adopted foundation in the Philippines - Bantay Bata 163, which assists needy children lacking basic shelter, education and medical assistance.

A full attendance of sixty six golfers (playing off ¾ handicap) will test their skills on the Harradine designed Sharjah Golf and Shooting Club on 10th December 2010 starting off at 1:00 P.M. The tournament will be the deciding factor in the Order of Merit (OOM) race to the finals of FIGME’s 112 members.

6th Philippine Participation to Gulfood 2011 Set Twenty-two Filipino food companies are part of the sixth, and so far the biggest, Philippine delegation to the Gulf Food Hotel and Equipment Exhibition and Salon Culinaire 2011 from February 27 to March 2 next year at the Dubai International Convention and Exhibition Center, UAE, reported the Center for International Trade Expositions and Missions (CITEM), an attached agency of the Philippine Department of Trade and Industry (DTI).

Gulfood is the largest food, food service and hospitality event in the Middle East.

“With Gulfood, we hope to increase awareness of our brand and expand our network of consumers,” said Brian Tan, General Manager of Bethany Sales, producer of coconut products and snack foods.

Other participating companies include: Agri-nurture (canned juices, fresh fruits); Brandexports Phils. (coconut products, dried mangoes, snack foods); Celebes Coconut (organic/conventional banana chips); FCG (assorted food products); Florence Foods (preserves, value-added seafood products); Foodsphere (frozen/processed meat products, corned tuna); Gem Foods (preserves, frozen fruits); Global 88 (pickled fruits and vegetables, condiments); Hi-Las Mktg. (fresh mango, dehydrated fruits); Kwality Philfood (fruit preserves, condiments); Laura’s Foods (traditional Filipino biscuits); Magicmelt (Filipino bread/biscuit products); Marikina Food (Filipino noodles); Market Reach (mixes, noodles); Mega Fishing (sardines); Oceanic Exports (cereals, fruit wines, supplements and snacks); Philippine Grocers (noodles, mixes, condiments); Profood (dehydrated fruits products); Q-Phil Products (noodles, preserves); RDEX (valueadded products, frozen tuna products); and Universal Canning (canned/dried fish).

Organized by CITEM and the Department of Agriculture Agribusiness and Marketing Assistance Service (DA-AMAS), the Philippine participation is also meant to promote the Philippines and attract food buyers to IFEX Philippines, a CITEM-led trade fair for quality and delectable food exports slated in May. The 2010 Philippine Gulfood delegation generated US$16 million in sales, a 4.5% increase from last year.

For more information, log on to www.ifexphilippines.com/gulfood2011.

FIGME – End of Season Yuletide Event The seventh FIGME (Filipino Golfers in the Middle East) major tournament for 2010 season ends with their penultimate event called the Western Union Golf Championship. The club has held 15 events

Western Union, the Platinum Sponsor and a loyal supporter of FIGME’s events, will be giving off magnificent golf prizes to all division winners and Over-all Champion of their inaugural golf tournament. A.W., silver sponsor will be contributing prizes in the special events and raffle.

For more details and information, please call on Chito Albay, FIGME Vice Chairman and Daniel Alforte, Finance & Logistics @ 050 – 4590352 or 050 – 6623974 respectively.

UPAA-UAE Stages Dance Competition for a Cause The University of The Philippines Alumni Association in the UAE (UPAA-UAE), with the support of LBC, Western Union, Skeft, CMS, and TheKitschCompany, organized ‘Yan Ang Indak’ (That’s The Groove), a dance duo competition at Manila 21, Avenue Hotel on December 3 to raise funds to support its scholarship program.

Patterned from the famous TV program, ‘So You Think You Can Dance’, ‘Yan Ang Indak’ gathered eight pairs of dancers who vied for the championship title and the cash prize of AED3,000. The event was attended by at least 250 guests including UPAA-UAE members, representatives from the Philippine Embassy in Abu Dhabi, Philippine Consulate in Dubai, and Philippine-community organizations that supported the cause.

The contestants grooved to upbeat sounds from hip-hop to ballroom dancing generating applause from the audience. Jay Bauzon and Lea Encabo, who danced to a Christmas tune not only won the crowd’s hearts but also the judges votes. Erwin Lladoc and Sunshine Gerodias came up as the first runner up.

Earlier this year, the UPAA-UAE also organized ‘Yan Ang Boses’, a singing competition held at the Hyatt Regency Dubai and the first in the ‘YAN’ competition series, and the ‘Lapis, Papel, Aklat, At Iba Pa’ (Pencil, Paper, Books, Etc.), a school supply donation drive for the students of remote areas in the northern Philippines, to intensify the support for UPAA-UAE’s Scholarship Endowment Fund and support for educational programs.

Through these efforts UPAA-UAE is promoting education, not only through scholarship grants and collection drives for under-privileged schools, but also by providing symposia at different venues in the UAE through different fun and entertaining activities.

For more information please visit www.upauae.org or www. yanangindak.webs.com, email yanangindak@yahoo.com.

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Onli In Da Pilipins - 1. n. a phrase used to define anything or anyone that only exists anywhere in the 7,107 islands of the Philippines || 2. adj. a phrase used to describe a Pinas episode or a Pinoy persona so rare one would never find anywhere else in the WWW (whole, wide world).

It merits a documentation of some sort.

The

“X” in Xmas

By Aby Yap • Photography by Victor Sollorano

Sure, they claim we have the merriest and longest Yuletide celebration. We already know that!

Ho-hum. Kailangan pa bang i-memorize iyan?!

But what accounts for that “X,” or that something eXtra, which puts us on top of the Certified Christmas Parteee People unprecedented list? And that which adds to our expenses, exhaustion, and most of all, excitement come Xmas season?

Oh, Carol Yes, be ready. Be very ready. Those kids you never knew existed in your neighborhood will come and get you, or rather, your cash as they do their nightly rounds of pangangaroling this December.

That should be okay. You’re no Scrooge, you say. Plus, didn’t MJ sing “Give love on Christmas day?” (Wait, you’re not the caroller, are you?) BUT, you’re forgetting one important thing: the keywords.

Kids, neighborhood, nightly and pangangaroling. With all these joined together, it could be fatal.

Let’s start with carolling, or what they call as such. For others, it’s just plain racket. Kids scream at the top of their lungs “Namamasko pooooo!” And before you can turn the lights on since you’ve just been roused from slumber on an otherwise silent night, they shamelessly belt out what sounds like a Christmas song. Is that Ang Pasko ay sumapit or Pasko, Pasko, Pasko na namang muli? Well, the lyrics seem to be drowning in hoops of jingling tansans and biscuit tin cans being beaten with a pair of banana cue sticks… Oh, right, it’s the tambourine and drum set in disguise the all-time favorite musical instruments of little Pinoy carollers!

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That should be cute. Innocent kids serenading you with clever instruments…except these kids are getting too clever for you. You give them paper bills and they flock to your house as soon as the moon comes around — and even during moonless nights. Worse, they announce to the other groups of carollers that you’re Santa and you’ve got kids from the other barangays paying you a visit too. Or, you scold them for being “regulars” and they blend in with the other groups and stay at the back hoping you won’t notice any of them (or that it’s becoming a full-blown raket). Except that it’s the same sintunado kids your ears have grown familiar with; all too familiar that your eardrums need an immediate break before they break into bits.

And if you so much as commit an innocent blunder by giving a piso or uttering a patawad, then be ready for that infamous disgruntled carollers’ comeback. “Thank you, thank you, ang babarat ninyo, thank you.”

That should make you put all lights off and go on hibernation mode all throughout the month. Except no Pinoy is a killjoy.

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Wishin’ and Hopin’ Ready for an extra challenge? Then, Simbang Gabi or Misa de Gallo it is.

Not only does it test the devoted Pinoy to fulfil their religious obligations, it could also try your determination to stay alive — or pretend to — after forcing yourself out of bed at an ungodly hour.

And it doesn’t help that the air is so indulgently cool that it lures you back to dreamland and keeps you from taking even just one tabo of icy water for a torturous awakening. (So, you now realize what it takes to be a saint.)

But, wait there. Your suffering is far from over. You still have to move on to the next stage: sustaining your wakefulness during the mass.

Of course, that old-school style of pinching yourself helps every time you feel like your eyelids need toothpicks to hold them up, or your head is already dropping to your seatmate’s reluctant shoulder. But to endure all these for nine straight days and miss watching the TV remake of Mara Clara (as if you didn’t know the ending) just so you can sleep much earlier? Aaargh!

So, why do you still go through all that? You martyrs might be starting to wonder by now.

As they say, bountiful rewards await the faithful. And just around the corner, or right in front of the church is the heavenly bibingka with everything on it — cheese, salted egg, and grated coconut — alleluia!

And the puto bumbong! As to why it is purple remains a mystery to this day. The perennial question though is, what pairs well with bibingka or puto bumbong, the answer you should know by heart! A cup of hot, thick tsokolate. Isn’t that a delicious motivation?

And it’s just the icing on the cake. Here’s the best part: completing the Simbang Gabi earns you one granted wish. No Lotto ticket can do that for you.

So, that hottie you’ve been stealing glances at during mass? The one who inspired you to take a bath at 4 a.m. for nine days despite the literally hair-raising experience? That one whom you’ve long wanted to notice you? Well, your wish might just come true.

Merry Christmas, kabayans! =D

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The Annie B (Batobalani) Chronicles

The adventures and misadventures of a ‘not so average’ Pinay trying to make it in the cosmpolitan city of Dubai.

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Dear Santa I know I’ve been a good girl, lalo na this year. Alam ni Lord na ginawa ko ang lahat upang maging isang mabuting girlfriend, loyal best friend at concerned citizen. I tried my best and gave my all to make this world a better place for all mankind – sad to say, hindi lahat ng efforts ko ay nagtagumpay at nasuklian ng mga ginintuang balato – I guess hindi lahat ng bagay sa mundong ito ay nakatakdang mangyari ayon sa kagustuhan ko. Aaminin ko, may times I questioned your existence every holidays – kasi naman, parang andaming okray na naganap sa buhay ko this year. Pero hindi bale, alam kong when God closes a door…ah basta alam mo na yun. Maaring may dahilan kung bakit nangyayari ito, but I still believe in world piece, so help me God. I thank you.

Simula pa sa pagkabata, laging sinasabi ni Nanay na magpakabait lang daw ako siguradong madami akong pwedeng hilingin sa yo.

Pwes, since I believe and I insist na mabait ako, here is my wishlist for this coming holidays: A fairier, clearer and flawless skin. Masyado talagang harsh ang weather at water dito sa Dubai. Miski anung gawin kong pagmomoisturize araw-araw at gabi-gabi ay hindi pa rin ako tinatantanan ng mga blackheads at pimples. Sus naman, dalawang dekada na ang nakakaraan since my puberty days pero mala-teenager pa rin ang mga skin problems ko. Afraid ako na baka dumami ang mga wrinkles at magmistulang hand-carry luggage na ang mga eyebags ko. Kalabisan ba kung hilingin ko ang entire skin care line ng Kiehl’s ngayong Pasko? Balita ko effective daw yung brand na yun since ang mahal mahal nya sa Harvey Nichols. Can’t afford ang beauty ko – alam mo naman na pang-Karama at Outlet Mall lang ang totoong naaabot ng powers ng wallet ko. Over ba? O sige na nga, I’ll settle for Belo’s Skin Care na lang. Basta ba magiging mala-Regine Velasquez ang puti at kinis ng balat ko eh, carry na rin.

A new designer bag. Okay, alam kong guilty ako for patronizing fake branded bags noon – kesehodang Grade A o Exact Replica pa man din – aaminin kong peke pa rin sila. Pero iba pala ang feeling kapag orig at authentic ang bag ko – salamat sa aking jowang si Adam at nakatikim rin ako ng Louis Vuitton Speedy Handbag na tunay at binili sa Dubai Mall at hindi sa Dragonmart. Ngayon ay mas kampante na ako na hindi na ako ide-detain at ii-interogate sa tuwing may security check sa airport at confident na kasing mahal ng presyo nito ang pagmamahal ni Adam sa akin. Kaya lang medyo nakakasawa na rin kapag iyun lang kagi ang ginagamit ko. Sa office kasi andami ko pa rin kapareho – mga kapwa orig na gamit ng mga bossing ko at mga japeyk na walang pakundangan na pinangangatawanan ng mga kaopisina kong rank and file employees. Patigasan talaga ng mukha di ba? Sasamantalahin ko na ang pagkakataon: pwede bang humiling ng Hermes Birkin? Yung kulay pula tulad ng kay Gretchen Barreto?

Sana din hindi na ako kailangang magpa-reserve pa at pumila upang maghintay sa wait-list nila. Maigsi kasi ang patient ko eh. Okay, kung suntok sa buwan yun, pwedeng Fendi Peek-a-boo na lang?

Kulay Green? O kaya yung Chanel Classic Handbag na lang – yung parang kay Jinkee Pacquiao? Tagal ko na kasing pangarap din yun eh. Bahala ka na, Santa – basta huwag lang peke ha? Miski Secosana pa yan, tatanggapin ko ng buong puso – atleast pwede akong magfeeling Claudine di ba?

A brand new iPhone 4. Dalawang taon ko na kasing pinagtyatyagaan itong First Generation iPhone ko na Made in China lang. Bale second phone ko talaga to since naka-iskor ako ng Blackberry (made in China din) noon sa Dragonmart. Eh naibato ko kasi kay ex-BFF ko yung Blackberry nung mag-away kami – feeling ko kasi malaCherie Gil ang emote ko noon at akala ko matutuloy nang ipa-block ang Blackberry dito sa UAE kaya akala ko okay lang na masira yun.

Pero ngayon nanghihinayang na ako kasi hindi naman pala natuloy

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yung ban. Sana nakakapag-BBM pa rin ako. Pero nakita ko kasi yung bagong iPhone nung ka-carlift ko, ang gara pala! Eh nung naginquire ako sa Etisalat, bukod sa may pila din pala sa reservation at kung anu-anong requirement ang hinihingi eh ang dugo rin ng presyo! Kaya eto, back to my old First Generation Made in China iPhone ako. Ayaw na nga gumana eh, madalas lalong mag-hang.

Tapos hindi ko pa ako maka-download ng mga applications like new games and ringing tones kasi nga absolute na rin yung system. Sawa na rin ako sa kaka-snake – baka mas may exciting pang-games dyan di ba? Balita ko dun daw sa iPhone4 pwedeng upload ng songs, balak ko sanang gawing ringing tone ang bagong theme song namin ni Adam, yung “OMG” by Usher.

A new bestfriend. Nag-expire na kasi yung dati kong BFF. Akala ko, nakahanap na ako ng tunay at tapat na kaibigan na magiging supportive, loyal at understanding sa akin. Minahal ko sya at inalagaan ng lubusan, pero in the end eh dinaya, winalanghiya at tinarantado lang nya ako. Kamakailan lang, I discovered that she created a fake Fezbook account na puno ng ilusyon at kawalanghiyaan. Nagpanggap siyang girlfriend ng boyfriend kong kano, Santa. Ginaya nya lahat ng mga information sa buhay ko at nag-post sya ng mga pictures na kasama ang jowa ko. Initsa-pwera nya at gamit ang Photoshop ay nakuha nyang i-crop ang mga pictures ko with Adam at palabasin na sila ang magkayakap sa mga litrato. Nakaka-Single, White, Female talaga! Que Horor!

Better TV shows on TFC and GMA Pinoy TV. Wish ko din Santa na sana, biyayaan mo ng cable subscription o mga bagong DVD ang mga writers ng mga teleserye at TV programs sa atin. Kasi nasusuka na ako sa paulit-ulit na lang na plot ng mga teleserye eh. Lagi na lang may ampon, may pinagpalit na identity ng mga sanggol, mga magkaaway na magkapatid pala in the end, mga kontrabidang fake ang accent at palpak ang diction at mga bidang nagpapa-api nang hindi na makatotohanan. Panahon pa ng “Gulong Ng Palad” at “Mga Yagit” yun eh. At para naman dun sa mga writer na nakakapanood ng ibang TV shows sa ibang bansa at panay lang ang kopya at gaya, sana naman eh may improvement at twists sa mga kinopya nyo.

Baket, akala nyo mga wala ring cable at internet connection ang mga manonood kaya hindi namin malalaman na kinokopya nyo lang ang mga concept ng mga TV shows nyo? Kung hindi remake noong mga pelikula noong 80s eh kopya sa mga American TV shows – wala na ba kayong ibubuga? Great minds look-alike? I don’t think so not!

Gawin nyo kayang teleserye ang buhay ko – baka mas madami pa kayong bago na maipalabas.

At nang i-report ko sa admin ng Fezbook ito ay gumawa na naman sya ng bagong fake account – this time kapangalan ko naman. Puro paninirang-puri at kasiraan ko ang mga pinaglalagay nya doon.

Mga pictures ko habang natututulog (nakanganga pa at tulo-laway kadalasan), ang graduation picture ko kung saan tadtad ako ng tigyawat at mga pictures ng mga ex ko. Aaaaaayyyy, talagang napakawalang breathing, Santa. Nagpa-add pa sya sa mga existing Fezbook friends ko at kung anu-anong kasinungalingan ang pinagsusulat nya sa Wall ng account na yun. Biruin mo, sinulat nya sa Wall na may BO at Halitosis daw ako??? Tapos may in-upload pa sya na video doon na isang Sex Scandal at tinag nya ako upang palabasin na ako yung nanduon sa video na yun. Pati sa mga albums ng mga nagtitinda ng mga fake handbags, ginawa nyang i-tag ang pangalan ko. Tapos panay pa ang send sa akin ng “Poke me…Poke me”… ang laswa ng hinayupak! Puro kasiraan talaga sa pagkatao ko.

Sana Santa, biyayaan mo ako ng bagong kaibigan na hindi gagawin sa akin ang mga ito. Yung hindi rin ako ipapahiya at aagawan ng

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jowa. Imagine, miski mas maganda ako sa ex-BFF ko eh ang lakas ng loob nyang kumpitensyahin ako? The nerves!

The love of my life Adam. Yes, Santa, I want him back! Buongbuo, walang bawas, walang kulang. As is, as if. Jusko, two weeks na akong hindi tinatawagan o hindi pinapansin ng aking boyfriend simula nang pag-awayan namin ang pagseselos ko kay ex-BFF. Kasi naman, imbes na kampihan nya ako versus dun sa mga ginawa ng traydor kong kaibigan eh gusto pa nyang intindihin ko at balewalain lahat ng nangyari. Sabi nya, since ako daw ang mas makakalamang at nakakaintindi, dapat daw ako ang mag-pasensya. Tama ba naman yun? Ano ganun na lang? Magpapa-api ako at hahayaan kong yurakan ang pagkatao ko ng impaktang beluga na yun? Ayaw. Dapat sa kanya ay magdusa habambuhay. Ipako sa krus…ibitay ng patiwarik at kaladkarin ng kabayo hanggang sa plaza – yan ang nararapat sa babaing yun! Lintik lang ang walang ganti, Santa!

Ewan ko ba. Hindi ko talaga mapalagpas ang mga pangyayaring yun dahil sa kinahinatnan ng relationship ko with Adam. Sabi nya, immature at childish daw ako and I need to grow up. Eh five kilos na nga ang itinaba ko simula nang ma-stress ako sa mga nangyari sa amin noh? Hindi pa ba sapat na growing up yon? Ano pa ba ang gusto nyang ilaki ko? Kapag ga-balyena na ang katawan ko? Ang

harsh nun ah? Ilang texts at emails na ang pinadala ko kay Adam pero wa pa rin sya responds. Panay din ang missed calls ko pero hindi rin sya nagre-return call. Alam ko cheap ang mag miss call pero madalas talaga wala na akong load eh, what to do? Sana Santa, marealize ni Adam na mahal na mahal ko talaga sya at mapatawad na nya ako sa kung anu mang kasalanan ang nagawa ko sa kanya. Alam kong it’s my fault din naman kasi pilit ko syang tiniis at kinontra noon kaya eto ako ngayon, basang-basa sa ulan… magiging malamig talaga ang Pasko ko. Huhuhuhuhu…

So there, Santa. Sana mapagbigyan mo ang mga mumunting hiling ko ngayong Pasko. Pramis, titigilan ko na ang pag-stalk sa mga crush ko noong high skul sa Fezbook at sa Tweeter. Babawasan ko na din ang pasu-surf sa Pep.ph at kay Perez Hilton habang nasa opisina para mas maging productive ako sa work. Iiwasan ko na ring mamintas at maging mapanghusga sa mga tarsier kong kabayan, afterall isa na rin naman akong tarsier, Level D nga lamang. Basta, I promise to be a good girl.

Merry Christmas powh. Dizizit!

Take care.

Xoxo. Hohoho! =)

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