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Get Idris Elba look for Less! Suit Jacket: Express $150 Suit Pants: Express Producer Pants $69.90
Black Tie: Express $39.90 Shades: Ray Bans $145 Aldo shoes: $80
eek W e h t f Look o Jennifer Hudson looks great in this flowy baby doll sundress and adorable wedges. Her outfit is definitely a summer look-a-like must!
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The month of June is dedicated to men and
what women doesn’t love a good smelling man? Look at some of this summer’s hottest colognes for men! Acqua Di Gio by Giorgio Armani This scent is geared for an executive man, its mixture of sensual and masculine scent is also fresh enough for any warm summer night.$ 98
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Dolce & Gabbana Light Blue Pour Homme Fresh, light, and fun Dolce & Gabbana Light Blue is a light scent that will be able to last you throughout all your busy. $ 42 Retail Sephora.com
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Le Male - Jean Paul Gaultier Jean Paul Gaultier is a sensual scent that is great for first dates and night out on the town. This scent will have everyone turning heads when you walk by. $ 79
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Burberry Men Sport This scent is strong and heavy, it is sure to be a must wear cologne. $57 Retail : Sephora. com Picture courtesy of
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Hugo By Hugo Boss Love it or hate it, Hugo by Hugo Boss is a woody scent that is sure to fill any room with a strong scent of the outdoors. Sean John I am King I am King is a scent for royalty it’s one of those scents that will leave everyone in the room wondering who just walked in. $74 Macys.com
Burberry Touch This scent will intrigue your senses, light and musky Burberry has yet again made our list with another summer must have. $72 macys.com
Wedding Day Survival Tips by Alison Ryce
Foundation
The perfect look starts with the right foundation. Every bride needs a foundation that is waterproof and humidity proof. You’ll spend a lot of time hugging guests, so a transfer-resistant foundation is a must. If your skin is dry, use a foundation that gives the skin a natural looking glow. On the other hand, if your skin is naturally oily and shiny, you will need a foundation that mattifies the shine. I recommend Mary Kay’s Luminous Wear Foundation for dry skin and Mary Kay’s Matte Wear Foundation for Oily skin.
Eye Lashes
Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life. It is understood that you’ll do anything to look your very best but extreme measures could be very uncomfortable. If you’ve never used false eyelashes before, your wedding day isn’t the right day to try something you’ve never done before. Use waterproof mascara and apply an extra coat on the outside corner of your eye. Make sure it’s a mascara that is flawless and clump free. Your beautiful eyes will stand out in your wedding photos.
Blush
The purpose of blush is to highlight your cheeks and make them stand out. The secret to blush is the fact that less is more. Add a hint of color to the apples of your cheeks. Your ideal cheek color is the color that shows up when you pinch your cheeks. Stick to that color, and you’ll be a beautiful, blushing bride.
Primers
On this day, you must use primers! Eye primers prolong the life of your eye colors and make them appear brighter. Foundation primers create an even canvas that evens out the skin’s texture. This allows the foundation to be applied smoothly and it also extends its wear so you’ll look your very best on your special day.
Every bride wants to look and feel their best on their wedding day. With beauty mistakes out of the way, you can focus on more important things; like your groom!
DREAMS ARE FOREVER UNTIL...
I swallowed a number of emotions like Tylenol tablets and like many, suppressed my thoughts until they reared their ugly MY FATHER OFTEN PUT ME TO BED AT heads at school. My father was an attorney NIGHT WITH A STORY of love and triumph; who worked for the illustrious KING he took me to games, taught me to play family. I often considered myself privileged sports and gave advice on how to become a to have a father working for the legendary real man. We shared talks about girls and civil rights leader Martin Luther King Jr.; plans about my future; and as an and when I would have the opportunity to adolescent I would often call him for advice visit my father at work, I was so excited on the struggles I faced. that I couldn’t sleep the night before. But my father was so busy that he never But everything I’ve written above is a noticed my excitement and I was left to figment of my imagination because my father engage in daydreaming and cast my ship wasn’t around to share any of those things on fantasy island. with me. As a little boy I yearned for my father’s love. I never truly understood the He grew more distant as the days grew dynamics of my seemingly awkward long and I became increasingly morbid relationship with him, but nonetheless I because I couldn’t digest the logic of his craved his attention and somewhat needed absence. I remember the day my mother his approval to validate my existence. I have sat me down and shared that my father very few memories of hanging out with him loved me but that he had to go away. but the ones I do possess are locked deep within my mental treasure chest—so deep When It Rains...It Pours that they have been somewhat were Middle school breezed by for me and as I forgotten over the years. entered high school I began the search for my individuality; but the more I grew as I recall as an eager eight-year-old waiting by the window hoping to get a glimpse of my a young man the more I became a handful for my mother. father, but he’d never make an effort to say hello.
DREAMS ARE FOREVER UNTIL YOU GIVE UP & STOP DREAMING
Her ambition to make a future for us inspired my mother to bus me and my middle brother an hour away from our community to an aristocratic community to attend school. Although her decision ultimately changed my life for the better, I soon found it difficult to cope with the wealth of my friends and classmates as well as the fact that most of them lived with both their parents. It affected me to see how well they engaged with their parents, especially those whose fathers were engaged as team dads or volunteers. I played many games, scored many baskets, and ran many touchdowns during my athletic career; I wanted to share these experiences with my father, but he was nowhere to be found.
Time Heals All Wounds
I would go on to attend college, began a career, experience a failed marriage and lost my mother, uncle, and grandmother before I would see my father again. Those years in between seemed like a life time. When I visited my brother in Atlanta, GA 2003 he revealed that my mother had my father’s social security number. I knew at that moment my life would change either for the better or the worse. When I returned home to Charlotte, NC I phoned a good friend of mine who worked for the IRS; and to my surprise within minutes she had my father’s information including his address and phone number. I could not believe that for the first time in nearly 20yrs in I was only a phone call away from hearing my father’s voice. I finally mustered up the courage to call him and though he didn’t answer at first, minutes later I received a call from him and it was the moment I had anticipated for over twenty years.
Same Day Same Tune
That same year my dad met me in Milwaukee, WI for Thanksgiving and I felt like a child on Christmas finally; but unfortunately my excitement was short lived. My father and I kept in contact but our visits were sparingly. I realized that although I wanted to win this fight the battle would prove to be costly and exhausting.
Do You Believe In Miracles & Second or Third Chances?
Recently in April 2011 my father called to say “Son I want to come see you,” and I didn’t hesitate to say “Yes.” It was the first time I’d seen him in years and he and I had the best of times during his three week visit. We talked about life, laughed about love, and lived in the moment with no reminders of our sordid past. It was the most exhilarating time in my life. I was asked at one point did I believe in miracles and giving second and third chances to those who do wrong. I must say, if I didn’t before I do now! There is hope for the hopeless and I am a firm believer that “Dreams are
forever until you give up and stop dreaming” Mo Stegall is a Philanthropist,
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Men who are Creating a
BuzzZ In Their Business and Communities
Mr. Michael Drayton Sr. BRIEF BIOGRAPHY
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he poster child for “never giving up”, Michael Drayton began his journey at the ripe old age of 20 while attending the University of Illinois as a pre-med student. He discovered, whilst dissecting a body, that this was not the best career move for him. During this time, he was working at UPS, and would later be recruited by New York Life Insurance Co., where he excelled in financial planning. He then began training and working at Hamilton Investments as a Financial Analyst. Drayton attended many schools, earning advance degrees at the University of Illinois-Chicago, Columbia College, Cambridge University, Lake Forest Graduate School of Management, and Sasin Business School of Bangkok. He holds an MBA in International Business and Management and has post-grad work in macro-economics. His drive led him to start one of his many businesses, the Exodus Investment Club, a female investment club, and raised more than $750k to finance Acts Records, which he sold to a private investor and is now in turn Acts 2 Records, Drayton Entertainment, and Kuumba and Zloty Publishing. He formed the radio show and magazine, GospelFlava, and became CFO and Cofounder of the CGMA. Mr. Drayton colaunched the Lakeview Finance Company and the Builders Center of Chicago, an architectural planning company.
Drayton has become a leader in the community, as he was one of the keynote speakers at the Southside Builders Association inaugural event. He is also the principal/owner of Drayton Ramsey & Hirsch holdings, a private equity company with holdings in art, metals, small businesses, and equities. Drayton is a father, husband, mentor, consultant, and life coach. Recently, he faced the tragedy of having his father in law, Officer Michael Bailey, murdered. However, tragedy is not new to Drayton. While achieving various milestones, there were failures and family tragedies. Drayton has never met his father, his maternal grandfather was murdered when he was a teen, his sister overdosed, and both of his stepfathers died suddenly. Rather than give up, Drayton keeps going and giving to others. He believes that America provides the best opportunity for success to those that want it . Drayton is currently finishing his first book: Quotes, Notes and Random Thoughts, a book of inspiration, humor, and self-expression. He has traveled extensively under the motto “the world is bigger than my block “, to the Caribbean, Cannes, Beijing, China, Bangkok, Burma, East and West Berlin, Germany, Krakow, Warsaw, Poland, France, London, Cambridge, Oxford England, and Osaka, Japan. He continues to raise capital for various business interest revitalization through his private equity company to assist urban businesses in become profitable, and is exploring opportunities in various countries on the continent of Africa.
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have known Michael Drayton since the age of 14 when he came to St. Sabina church as the Minister of Music. Since then, he has inspired me musically by giving me the opportunity to fill in and play drums. Also, we would always have discussions about politics, religion, and business. He has always challenged me to do my best and think outside of the box. I am now 23, and we still talk regularly. He is a good source of knowledge and wisdom.
Christian Plummer I wanted to write you to say that Michael Drayton is a great man. He has been very encouraging and has spoken into my life on many occasions. He has been a man of integrity and substance in the Chicago land area for years. I’m honored to know him. God bless.
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y name is Moni Rashad; I’m an artist, writer and youth activist. I’m sending this email to share my experiences with Mr. Drayton. We met during a time that could have been negative for me but he encouraged me to remain positive and smile. I was being used by someone and was mad as heck and at that time, I was in the process of redefining my music business and writing. I had just finished the final draft of my first novel and shared with Mr. Drayton my intentions of self-publishing. The advice that he gave me is stuck at the forefront, middle and back of my mind; “Never lead your business with your emotions.” As he has offered any and all advice and assistance whenever I reach out to him; he has been nothing but a blessing! So many successful people don’t have time for the little guy starting out but Mr. Drayton has proven to be a man of his word. Although he has agreed to help me when I’m ready to record a new project he has never told me NO or put me off when I ask him to help out one of my associates. Even though I’ve never reached out for my own endeavors, he has helped my friends when I ask him to help. He doesn’t brag or boast on the many people that he mentors; he simply supports and encourages others to reach their highest potential expecting to see the fruits of his labor through the success of others.
Moni Rashad www.monirashad.blogspot.com Good day!
I have had the pleasure of knowing Michael Drayton for about 18 years. From the start of our professional relationship, Michael’s innovative outlook on business provoked immediate expansion in the way I viewed the business in which we were tasked to develop. Michael’s professional work style and business practices were intriguing and spread to others and myself like an airborne virus! Though Michael is innovative and creative, he is also strategic and disciplined. [He is] a risk taker; however, he analyzes all possibilities prior to making high-risk decisions. Michael’s interpersonal skills are nurturing and empowering. He has a brilliant way of coaching and mentoring people to become highly effective. I contribute much of my career and personal growth and development to the relationship that I share with Michael Drayton. It has been a pleasant journey to a brighter future and unlimited possibilities! Sincerely,
Regina Gaston,
Colleague and Friend
Alonzo Ruffin AS AN ACTOR, COMEDIAN AND FATHER ALONZO RUFFIN IS A TRIPLE THREAT; but he is not the only talented Ruffin in the family. Ruffin’s older brother, John Ruffin Jr., is a playwright and director and has been blessed with a movie deal on the Gospel Music Channel (GMC). Alonzo Ruffin has been featured in two of his brother’s films: Love Me or Leave Me & The Ideal Husband.
The humbled entertainer explains that at the end of the day when no one has laughed at his jokes or when he’s had a stressful day at work, the love and adoration from his children never waver. Ruffin detest parents that tell their children “do as I say and not as I do”, and supports parents who chose to be role models for their children by leading lives full of character and integrity.
Though Ruffin is very proud of his theatric and comedic endeavors, what brings him the most joy is being a father of three: Alonzo Jr, Anaiah and Nyla. Alonzo’s says, “You never have an off day when you’re a parent,” and he lives by this philosophy daily. “I’m in love with my children, they’re my blessings and I thank God each and everyday for entrusting me with them,” states Ruffin.
PK gathers much of his material from his day-to-day interaction with his children. “Now that’s what keeps me going, working, living, laughing and each day,” says Ruffin, “that I live and get a chance to love God, right my wrongs, be a better dad and an overall better person.”
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name is Ametra Self and the man I want to talk about is my husband, Tommie. I met Tommie over fifteen years ago during my time working in the Stock Market. We became close friends and soon after my layoff, we married. Seven years ago, I gave birth to our beautiful daughter; and everything was perfect, that is until our baby turned only six weeks old. I became ill and was rushed to the emergency room; where I was immediately injected by needles and IV’s. When the doctors and nurses had finally calmed down, I was told that I had suffered from a Pulmonary Embolism, multiple blood clots on my lungs. I was also told that I only had a 25% chance of survival. I was close to seven weeks post partum and with all the changes; I suddenly slipped into a deep depression; and at this time my husband, only 32 at the time, stepped up full time. He not only cared for our ten-year-old son, a newborn baby, but me as well. He began cooking; cleaning and doing everything he could to keep our family together; and he defended me when others suggested my placement in a mental institution. My husband maintained our faith in God, and did everything he could to keep me home. Not only was he doing all the things I was too helpless to do, he also worked full time. His daily routine consisted of early morning bottle feedings, giving me my medication, calming me down after multiple severe anxiety attacks, and getting our son ready for school. Even after all this, he had himself to take care of and a nine-to-five shift to attend to. I can’t begin to express how grateful I am that God would give me and my children a wonderful husband and father. I have seen many men walk away from even a normal household; so his perseverance during the darkest days of our marriage proved that he is truly a Man of God. After suffering for over a year, his constant love and support pulled me out of my depression and gave me the strength to move forward. I have been moving non-stop ever since. To this day, my husband still works full time and on multiple times per week he prepares our family dinner. It seems when God called my father home, he sent me a replacement; a man who takes care of his family. On this past Mothers Day, we celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary and he agreed to renew our vows for our 10th anniversary since I was ill when we got married. My husband is a fine example of how a man should act, walk, talk and love. Thank you, Ametra Self
Keno Greer IS ONE OF CHICAGO’S PREMIERE GOSPEL RADIO PERSONALITIES. “Street Sermonz with Keno” is heard Sunday mornings from 7 to 10 AM on popular Chicago Hip-Hop & R&B station WPWX Power 92.3 FM and worldwide at power92chicago.com. Originally brought on as an experiment for this mainstream Hip-Hop and R&B station, Street Sermonz began as a one-hour show and was extended to three-hours due to high demand. Greer says, “if you want everybody to listen to your show you have to play music for everybody”, and with this in mind, he aims to expose people to the variety that Gospel music has to offer. With listeners of all ages, races and demographics, “Street Sermonz with Keno” consistently maintains a high rating among the Sunday Morning Gospel Music Shows in Chicago (via Arbitron PPM™). In recognition of his efforts on radio, Greer has been nominated for Stellar Awards Gospel Announcer of the Year for the last 2 years. In addition to refreshing and inspiring music, Greer reaches people through inspirational messages that cover issues ranging from relationships with God, family, friends and community to overcoming adversity and leading a prosperous life. Functioning as a “radio missionary”, Greer reaches the unconventional listener; many call in and say “I don’t go to church, I don’t usually listen to Gospel music but I love your show” or “I can’t make it to church & your show is church for me”. “Street Sermonz with Keno” is definitely a light on the hill.
Additionally, Greer’s impact extends beyond Chicago. On April 8th, 2010 “Street Sermonz with Keno” began airing in Grand Rapids, MI on WDPW 91.9 FM and one week later was picked up by WWSJ 1580AM/100.3 FM in Lansing, MI. On April 10th, 2011, the show was picked up in Anniston, AL by Hip-Hop/R&B station WGBZ (104.3 FM, 99.1 FM & 1430 AM) and most recently in Phoenix, AZ on Gospel 860 AM. Other markets are currently considering adding the show. Gospel Superstar Deitrick Haddon chose Greer to be the radio personality in his internationally distributed movie “Blessed & Cursed” (blessedandcursedthemovie.com) featuring Sheryl Lee Ralph, Drew Sidora, Dr. Bobby Jones, Rance Allen, Karen Clark-Sheard and more. In the film Greer makes a cameo appearance as himself. He has also landed a small role in Dreams: The Movie (dreamsthemovie.com) which features Tommy Ford, Mel Jackson, Angie Stone, Jazsmin Lewis, Geoffrey Owens and more.
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Blessed with the opportunity to work in TV and radio simultaneously within the country’s 3rd largest market, Greer is also an Emmy® Nominated producer at Chicago PBS station WYCC-TV20. Greer lives on the South Side of Chicago with his wife and 2 daughters and can be found throughout the community speaking at youth events, church services, hosting concerts or DJing.
Greer is also an Emmy® Nominated producer at Chicago PBS station WYCC-TV20.
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Good Evening,
My name is Clarence L. Brookins IV and I’m writing this email with a prayer to be recognized for your June issue magazine. I have been married for 13 years this August with a son (11) and daughter (6). I’m the Senior Pastor of Word of Faith Ministries International in Calumet Park, IL, as well as an Apostle over 5 states (Illinois, Indiana, Wisconsin, Iowa, and Minnesota in connection with Faith Fellowship Ministries International - Apostle Joseph Taylor overseer, headquarters, D.C.). We are a young ministry and have a heart for giving. We have given away clothes, food, and assistance to over 100 people in less than 1 year with no government assistance. Our ministry is not even two years old. We have also given away free haircuts, hairstyles, manicures, and much more. We are also on 1570AM, Wednesdays and Fridays, from 6:45am – 7am, inspiring the body of Christ as well as Facebook and Twitter. We have also launched a new venue (temporary location) in Glenwood, IL, for Christians (21 years and older) to enjoy a night of positive/inspirational music, live entertainment, food, and hospitality entitled “Out The Box Productions - Imani’s House”. The price is affordable and the atmosphere is unbelievable! You can go to - Out The Box Production Facebook page. We are working on upcoming events for all ages that will create a place of refuge for young people to come showcase their talents, gifts, and just have fun through Imani’s House. I work a full time job, 5 - 6 days a week. I have midweek and Sunday service, children, a wife and a new business, as well as a ministry and a fellowship (5 states) to balance as I help to make a difference in this world as a young man (I believe I am) at the age of 36.
Apostle Clarence L. Brookins IV Clarenceb4@comcast.net
JOE N. WAGNER III COMPANY ATIUQ 89 GRAPHIC DESIGN & PRINT!
Business owner of 9 years, Father of 3 children: (1) son 7years old, (1) daughter 22years old, and (1) grandson 8months
My motto is Best Price.....Best Quality Period!
GRAPHIC DESIGN HAS BEEN APART OF MOST OF MY LIFE, but I am more than just a designer, much more. My first love is retail sales because if you can sell something, then you can always eat. I [grew] up running the streets, being a knuckle head, and looking for anyway to get paid, but God knows my family, especially my grandmothers, was beating the Bible drums praying for me. They say blessings go from I did well, but then I decided to use my generation to generation, and I know that I GOD given talent of design. I have many am truly blessed because of the obstacles I ideas inside my mind more than I can ever have been through and overcame. utilize. That is why I love to share ideas. I love to talk, listen, and help people. Being I have had many jobs, but I have always felt the passion to stand out. I have always been a 40 years of age has a way of changing go-getter. In 1999, I worked for Deluxe Video a mindset. I welcome open-minded Services in Northbrook, IL, a video duplicating individuals, and love being around positive and productive people. I am a little stern, company. Not being choosy, I took that but if you have me on your team, you have low-paying job and learned much, but once again God’s Plan was in effect. I started at the a winning team! I want to be involved in things that help people, teach our youth, Pillsbury Company the following Monday I take care of our elders, and most of all left Deluxe. I was laid off from both jobs, so I decide not to work for anyone else and become educate our people in manufacturing products from scratch! We need to develop an entrepreneur. I got my Tax I.D our people, land, schools, and number, went to City Hall and got my Peddlers License, and was in business. I sold communities. I like working in the purses, shoes, socks, jewelry, oils, soap, hats, background. I love to socialize, but have a low tolerance for B.S. scarves, and much more.
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imeon is a breath of fresh air and a talent to be on the look out for as he is making big waves as an actor/producer. This young man has starred in several films as well as being a co-producer of three films. Simeon has co-produced two award winning films, “Caught In The Game”, which can be found at www.caughtinthegamemovie.com, and “Party Line”, as well as producing the blockbuster hit “Tactical” to name a few. Simeon also co-starred in Mark Harris’s hit film, “I Used To Love Her”. He is always taking advantage of any small or large opportunity. His involvement in the entertainment industry ranges from runway shows to theatrical debuts and appearances in several major motion pictures and commercials. Simeon will accomplish all of his goals because he lives by one of the most powerful verses in the Bible: “I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me” Philippians 4:13. http://mydreambegins.com/simbo/
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THE CONSTANTLY EVOLVING ONLINE WORLD, the lines between journalism, marketing and public relations have blurred, but the work of Toure Muhammad is a solid example of all three. With 18 years of experience, this proud father of three is dedicated to “helping breathe new life into the marketing and PR efforts of Black-owned businesses.” In 2001, he launched Bean Soup Times, a media, marketing and PR Company. “My life’s mission is to share information that will inspire, motivate and uplift,” says Muhammad. He has also received awards and recognition for his work with TAG TEAM Marketing, Inc. an organization that markets quality Black-owned products and services to Black consumers. The Morehouse College graduate began his career as a reporter and photographer for The Final Call newspaper where he was on the front lines, giving a voice to the voiceless. During his tenure at The Final Call, Muhammad conducted interviews with elected officials, civil rights leaders, and activists, including Reverends Jesse L. Jackson and Al Sharpton. He has also sat down with Hip Hop artists like Too Short, Doug E. Fresh, Queen Latifah, Ghetto Boys, and Ice T. In addition to activists and artists, Muhammad has also interviewed Larry Hoover, the reputed leader of the Gangster Disciples. Additionally, he has also successfully pitched news in every major news paper in the country including New York Times, Wall Street Journal and Chicago Tribune. Muhammad has also written several articles on issues including police brutality, gang violence, public housing, mental illness, government corruption, entertainment and more. In 1997, his history book titled Chronology of Nation of Islam History sold more than 10,000 copies. He was also the communications director for a national organization that educates, organizes, and mobilizes the religious community to support worker rights’ issues. “I fundraised, crafted media messages and developed strategic plans,” he said.
Muhammad owns his own satire and entertainment publication titled Bean Soup Times. “I decided to be both a journalist and a comedian…since most of the news was a joke anyway,” he said. Since its beginning, Bean Soup Times has been a matrix of support, encouragement and advocacy for Chicago artists, entrepreneurs, activists, and organizations via a print edition, events, website, press releases, email marketing, flyer distribution, ad placement, networking and word of mouth recommendations. Muhammad also managed the publishing of a quarterly newsletter for over 30,000 members; and developed communication plans, message, themes and communication vehicles for religious, community, worker, and political audiences. While working for Service Employees International Union (SEIU) Muhammad says, “We exposed how the uninsured were being overcharged for medical treatment. We helped many drowning in medical debt get their bills drastically cut or reduced to nothing. And we successfully launched a hospital safety campaign that became the Hospital Report Card Act,” he said. The bill was signed into law in August 2003 and calls for hospitals to publicly report on staffing levels, nurse turnover and vacancy rates, and infection rates. For two and a half years, Muhammad worked as the communications director for Congressman Bobby L. Rush where he developed and implemented media and constituent outreach. During this time he traveled back and forth between Washington, DC and Chicago managing both his national and local presence. No stranger to being the subject of the media, Muhammad has been featured in the The Final Call, Chicago Reader, Upscale magazine, rolling out newspaper, and N’Digo magapaper. He’s been interviewed by Tavis Smiley on NPR, Cliff Kelly, Monique Caradine, and Steve Edwards on WBEZ (Chicago public radio), among other radio shows and local cable shows. For two years he appeared weekly on Black Chicago’s historic WVON radio station invited by media personality Sharon McGhee. Toure Muhammad can be contacted at: toure@beansouptimes.com or at www.beansouptimes.com
John Moultrie JOHN MOULTRIE IS A VETERAN MUSIC ENTREPRENEUR WHO IS A GREAT VISIONARY and a social music trailblazer in Chicago. Moultrie is the iRock jazz radio host of The Jazz Oasis on 87.7FM WLFM and the host of the V103 lounge.
Moultrie began producing a series of events under the pseudonym of iRock Jazz, adding mixing marketing with music, by promoting jazz and the social music experience in a unique way. Moultrie’s most resonating work was creating the iRock Jazz webazine, which features music videos, photos, interviews, blogs an overall social media outlet. The webazine has successfully promoted events that have sold out shows. Moultrie‘s work has attracted notable sponsors and partners such as Starbucks, COMED, Rolling Out Magazine, N’DIGO, Auditorium Theater, Chicago Defender, Hyde Park Jazz Society, The Jazz Institute the Black Woman Expo, Gallery 37 and Sofitel Hotels. His work as President and CEO of iRock Jazz Music Group has spawned a new creative culture of live music productions and the creation of iRock Jazz is currently redefining Chicago’s live music scene and experience.
The Joys of Fatherhood By Isaiah Russell
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he ideal of fatherhood is often misconstrued; it exceeds everything we imagine it to be and is truly a raw reality. The common notion is that the sole responsibility of fathers is to help their children grow up and get out; at least that is what my father taught me—and that’s what his father taught him. The truth is that fatherhood is a dual process where the father aids the child in their growing process, and the child aids the father’s growth. I´ve noticed that children help adults mature—and fast. In light of this, being a single father is challenging but it’s a wonderful process that gives men a life to nurture, a pupil to teach, and a chance to see what once was a seed develop into a virtuous man or woman with ideals, morals, and goals. When the children of single fathers are successful, which I’m sure they will be, those fathers can stick their chest out with pride knowing that they were a part of the growing up process. Those little things are what “The Joys of Fatherhood” are all about.
STANLEY MARTIN
IS THE FOUNDER AND PROGRAM MANAGER OF THE EMPOWER TO SUCCEED NETWORK, (ETSN). Martin’s goal for ETSN was to create a channel where resources, information and business opportunities could flow freely within the communities. His focus is to provide resources for underserved and disadvantaged communities and individuals. Stanley was born on the south side of Chicago where he faced many challenges and struggled daily with trying to discover a direction for his life. In his community, career choices were very few and commonly centered around fast food services, warehouse, or manual labor. “I just knew that I wanted my life to make a difference somehow. I founded The Empower to Succeed Network, (ETSN) in 2003 after I was unemployed,” he said. In searching for new job opportunities, he gathered many resources and information that he thought could benefit others. This search prompted Martin to start his own resource and job fairs. In addition, he began a job support group at his neighboring church where participants were able to share job leads, and exchange employment information and other resources.
“I enjoy what I do and I like to see people’s lives change for the better as a result of having access to something they were not aware of before,” says Martin. Martin says that he is inspired by both his wife and his son, “I think it is important for my son to see me helping others, it shows him that life is more important than just what you can get out of it.” When Stanley is not hosting or facilitating events and meetings, he loves to watch sports and movies. “I also enjoy singing on my praise team at church,” says Martin. “My faith is a very important part of my life and my goal is to see people improve their quality of life and in turn help someone else improve theirs.”
BuzzZ Back:
Men Who Created BuzzZ Back In Their Day
Andrew Carnegie STEEL PIONEER ANDREW CARNEGIE turned a dream into dollar making him the richest man in America. Owning his own steel company, Carnegie Steel, Carnegie exported and acquired other Steel companies until he sold the company to J.P. Morgan Chase. Spending his last days of his life serving others and giving back, Carnegie serves as a true inspiration to entrepreneurs and creators worldwide.
Bill Cosby FROM TELEVISION SERIES , BOOKS AND MOVIES Bill Cosby has set records and broke barriers ,while always being true to his values . Not only has Cosby shaped the career of his own but those of his colleagues, mentoring the likes of Oprah Winfrey ,Cosby has made an impact on television and silver screens across the globe.
Sidney Poitier ONE OF THE MOST INFLUENTIAL ACTORS OF OUR TIME ,Sidney Poitier exemplifies what hard work and determination can do. Paving the way for Hollywood’s Brightest stars, Halle Berry, Denzel Washington, Will Smith, Laurence Fishburne, Samuel L. Jackson and countless others. Poitier was the first African American to win an Academy Award for a lead role in the movies “Lilies of the field.”, in 1963.
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Celebrity Men: Who are Creating a
BuzzZ in Business and Their Community
Ashton Kutcher ASHTON KUTCHER IS BEST KNOW FOR HIS ROLE ON THE HIT T.V. SERIES “That 70’s Show. But the actor who is married to Mega Star Demi Moore is also a huge businessman. Gaining endorsements with POP Chips as the Director of Pop Culture , the face of Nikon brand cameras and creating the Demi and Ashton foundation , which fights to end Sex trafficking.
Brad Pitt NOT ONLY IS BRAD PITT ONE OF THE BIGGEST HOUSEHOLD NAMES IN THE WORLD, he is an outstanding actor and philanthropist. Founding the Make It Right Foundation, to help rebuild New Orleans from the destruction of Hurricane Katrina. Also founding the Jolie-Pitt Foundation he dedicates to help end rural conflicts and help those in need. Between him and his Lovely wife Angelina Jolie in 2006 they donated 8 million dollars to various charities.
Simon Cowell SIMON COWELL IS THE EXECUTIVE PRODUCER OF THE MEGA HIT AMERICAN IDOL as well as Britain’s got talent, Americas got talent, the X-factor, American Inventor and countless other productions.
Starting off as a cleaner in a top level music company he worked his way up to an A&R Rep for EMI and has been climbing the ladder of success ever since. Owning his own publishing and production company SYCO as well as giving back. Supporting PETA and making a song that all proceeds went to the people of Haiti, Cowell may not be as mean as he appears on television.
David Beckham SOCCER STAR DAVID BECKHAM FIRST SHOWCASED HIS SKILLS TO THE WORLD while with the team Real Madrid. Concluding his term with Madrid, Beckham signed a 5 year contract with the LA Galaxy team. In 2005, Beckham became a UNICEF Goodwill Ambassador and supports the Malaria No More Organization. Beckham also holds soccer clinics in different areas around the U.S. and has plans to expand his David Beckham Academies around the world.
Will Smith
FROM THE CRAZY AND FUNNY FRESH PRINCE OF BEL-AIR TO AN AWARD WINNING ACTOR, RAPPER AND PRODUCER. Will Smith has made his mark in the entertainment industry and has instilled the work ethic he has to his children. Smith’s children are following in his footsteps. Son, Jayden got a leading role in the hit movie “Karate Kid” while daughter Willow went on to gain her first hit single at the tender age of ten years old. Smith and his wife Jada also have a foundation that helps inner-city communities as well as a school in Calabasas, California, The New Village Leadership Academy.
Russell Simmons HIP HOP ICON AND ENTREPRENEUR, Russell Simmons is the epitome of cool. Signing some of the biggest names like Jay Z and Will Smith to his Def Jam records label and creating the Phat Farm empire along with his ex-wife Kimora Lee Simmons are big accomplishments alone. Simmons didn’t stop there, he created and runs the entertainment site, Global Grind. Simmons has also been active in racial and religious reconciliation through the Foundation for Ethnic Understanding and is an activist for PETA and ASPCA , where he helped launch a national campaign to help raise awareness of animal abuse and neglect.
Bill Gates Chairman of the Microsoft company Bill gates has led the world into this technological age. Gates isn’t only making millions of dollars for himself and family, he is making money for those in need. Giving back has been part of Gates history. He Formed the William H. Gates Foundation first in 1994 and then went on to make the Gates Library Foundation which brought books and library’s to those who didn’t have access to them. This organization ultimately merged into the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation and continues to help low income students go to school. Gates has used his wealth and power to change the world.
Warren Buffet Hands down one of the most successful investors in the world, Buffet is the CEO of Berkshire Hathaway, which owns the insurance company, Geico . Named one of the richest men in the world, Buffet has given back to different charities mainly thru the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation. Mr. Buffet investment philosophy is unique in the emphasis of frugality and strategy. One of the most profound rags to riches story Buffet has changed the way people invest.
Michael Jordan Dubbed as one of the Greatest players of all time, Jordan has definitely earned this title. Jordan who is a Six-time NBA champion Two-time Olympic gold medalist has gone on to help others achieve their goals in sports. Hosting the Michael Jordan Flight School camps and working closely with the Boys and Girls club organization as well as the special Olympics.
Bishop TD Jakes The pastor of the 30,000 member church, The Potter’s House, T.D. Jakes is no stranger to what the power of faith can do. Branching out his ministry Jakes has written best selling books, stage plays and movies. Jakes is conquering every aspect of his ministry and his latest movie “Jumping the Broom” staring Angela Basset was the number one comedy it’s opening weekend. Passing on his word thru media outlets, Jakes will also present a T.V. Series that will be debuting sometime in 2011.
Kirk Franklin When Grammy Award winner Kirk Franklin is not giving us upbeat Gospel jams to praise to, he is hosting the hit music competition show, “Sunday’s Best” on BET. A family man, married happily for 14 years and the father of four children Franklin has taken the World of Gospel Music by storm and changed it for the better while paving the way for others who follow in his footsteps.
Steve Harvey Funny Man Steve Harvey is known to make us all laugh, but he also is passionate about mentoring youth to be the best they can be. He formed, The Steve Harvey Foundation, whose mission is “to demonstrate the principles of manhood to young men.” This actor ,producer, and author continues to promote and share positive and constructive advice in his book as well as his syndicated Talk Show , “The Steve Harvey Morning Show.”
BUSINESS AND DIVERSITY Ernest L. Sullivan
Sullivan Staffing Strategies/Who’s Who Publishing
Diversity Must Be a Business Strategy EVER SINCE THE PHRASE “EQUAL OPPORTUNITY”WAS FIRST UTTERED, CORPORATEAMERICA has been exploring ways to widen opportunities for people of all backgrounds. The process of opening doors to wider participation for those who historically had not been fully valued has played out with mixed success, with progress varying from company to company. Only in the last several years has American business really begun to turn the corner on this issue. True progress is coming about as more companies abandon the belief that diversity is a “nice social program” that others expect, in favor of the more fundamental view that diversity is a sound business strategy which enhances long-term success in the marketplace.
• A diverse employee base is better equipped to serve a diverse customer base. Who will deliver that investment product to an Hispanic family, business loan to an Arab-American store owner, or first mortgage to an African-American couple? Will it be someone who understands the richness of the borrower’s culture, respects his or her capacity for hard work, and might even speak the language? Or will it be someone who draws hasty conclusions about a particular customer? And what of vendors and suppliers? Will they feel welcomed as full partners?
• For our organization to be successful, we must ensure that every individual has the opportunity to fully utilize his or her talents. The new premise for diversity has The old diversity model viewed minorities several underpinnings: as blocks of individuals who could be “plugged into” a monolithic • Changing demographics mean company culture with minimum risk. more of corporate America’s customers The rapidly emerging view is that and employees will be minorities. each individual brings a unique skill It’s widely known that by the year set to the table, which ought to be tapped 2050, more than half of this country’s to its fullest, so both employee and population will be minorities. The notion employer can grow. of “assimilating” minorities into a Recognizing the value of this approach, largely white corporate culture is being African-American, Latino, Gay, turned on its head as the workforce women, and disability networks have reflects a much broader fabric of been or are being formed at Bank One American life holding a variety of perspectives. with two basic purposes: to make members The “melting pot” has been of each group aware of how they are replaced by a mosaic of people who valued, and to keep an open line to want a work environment where their management. differences are valued.
For its part, management at all levels is responsible for ensuring that individual differences are prized and that barriers to the new approach are eradiated. • A diverse workplace generates more ideas and innovations, allowing a firm to better compete. With working Americans feasting on the best job market in 30 years, the spoils will go to those employers which demonstrate a genuine openness to new ideas and individuality—of thought, race, and gender. Applicants or current employees who don’t feel valued will vote with their feet. Sullivan Firms that move swiftly to recognize the individual thinking, perspective, and contributions of their associates will become known as “employers of choice”, making it easier to attract exceptional people, and setting the stage for greater productivity and a sustainable advantage in the new, more diverse marketplace. In recent months, Bank One has been cited for its commitment to diversity by a number of national publications: by Fortune, as one of the Top100 employers for minorities; by Business Week, as one the Top 20 companies for combining work with family; by Working Mother, as one of the 100 Best Employers; and by Latina Style, as one of the 50 Best Employers. From the foregoing, it is clear that diversity is a bona fide business strategy that must be embraced. Organizations like Bank One must continue to empower management at all levels to act as change agents for full employee and customer diversity. Only by doing so will they thrive in today’s highly competitive and increasingly global business world.
“In recent months, Bank One has been cited for its commitment to diversity by a number of national publications...
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Parents 101: Teaching YOUR Children Financial Responsibility
By: Bahiyah Shabazz, MBA, Fabulous & Money Savvy™ Coach
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e have experienced the joy of celebrating both Mother’s day and Father’s day; let’s continue to rejoice in the lessons. Parents are influential in the upbringing of their children while teaching positive habits. Financial responsibility is not an easy task especially since children emulate the behaviors of their parents. Financial responsible adults begin as financial well-informed children. Children need to know how the economy works. It’s the responsibility of the parent to convey the importance of saving, establishing credit, investing and retirement Create a solid foundation by discussing ways to build net worth and begin with paying for chores
1.Save 10% of your income.
Encourage your children to open a savings account and deposit a percentage of his/her wage. This will begin the discipline process that will continue into adulthood.
2.Discuss a family budget.
Create a financial plan with the entire family when budgeting for vacations.
This will allow your children to view the process of living within your means and establishing ways to have fun without sacrificing your needs for wants.
3.Balance a monthly statement.
As children learn the value of a dollar he/ she will need to keep track of every dollar spend. Teach your children how to budget a transaction book so that he/she won’t overdraw their accounts. Whether the accounts are at a bank or at home, children must be mindful of how much their working with.
4.Pay bills on time.
Open a layaway with your children to teach the importance of keeping up with a bill and making payments on time. This will also teach your children the discipline of only spending what you can afford. Establish a regular discussion about finances. We are always taught that communication is the key to a healthy lifestyle. The tools you teach your children are carried into adulthood for prudent decisions. This is a legacy worth investing.
“Love yourself enough to support yourself.”
TEEN FASHION DESIGNER MAKES 35 GIR LS DREAM’S A REA LITY by Arella Swan
While many sixteen year old girls are daydreaming
about that boy in study hall or what they will wear to prom in a few years, Tanesa Peterson day dreams of what her peers will wear. Peterson held a Prom Princess Event on May 7, 2011 in her Hometown of Fort Worth, Texas. Peterson held a Prom Princess Event on May 7, 2011 in her Hometown of Fort Worth, Texas. The Prom Princess event provided thirty five girls with prom dresses, along with a makeover of hair, makeup and nails to c omplete the experience. The dresses received were not just any prom dresses; they were designed and made by Tanesa herself.
THE 35 LUCKY GIRLS WROTE AN ESSAY about why they were deserving of the makeover and dress. Many of the girls weren’t able to afford their dresses on their own. “I decided to do it because a lot of girls couldn’t afford to get a dress.” Peterson said. She went through all of the essay submissions and picked the ones with the best stories. Peterson took 1-2 days to complete each dress with a little less than a week to finish them all.
“It’s something I’ve always wanted to do.” She said. She learned to sew by helping out her mother. “My mom, is an interior decorator so I learned how to sew from helping her with different projects.” Designing and the creativity is in her blood, and she is confident that “Nesa Fab” will take over the world. “In five years you will see Nesa Fab everywhere.” she said proudly.
“It wasn’t that hard, because I had a lot of help.” She said. Along with her family, friends and sponsor’s the event was a success and the girl’s reactions were what made Peterson most proud.
That wish is certainly coming true for Tanesa, many of her classmates already wear “Nesa Fab.”
“The reactions of the girls gave me a good feeling because they actually liked the design of their dresses.” She said. Tanesa is no newbie to the fashion world, she has had her clothing line, Nesa Fab” since she was 12 years old and has traveled to New York for New York Fashion Week where she held a fashion show.
Looking to the future Tanesa wants to go to school for fashion.
She has also been invited to Toronto Fashion Week, where she will launch her new accessory line and her extended guy line, “Nesa Guy.” “Nesa Guy will include nice T-Shirts, jeans and evening wear.” Peterson said. Peterson’s passion for fashion started when she couldn’t find clothing in her size. “I couldn’t find anything in my size, so I decided to make my own.” Peterson always knew fashion was in her future.
“Some of my friends and classmates wear my clothing.” Peterson said.
“I want to study fashion, to sharpen my skills.” She said and has her eyes already set on one school in particular. “I am interested in going to the School, FDIM in California.” On whether she will do the Prom Princess event again; “I will in the future but not next year, I want to just focus on my senior year.” This designing diva has worked magic on the sewing machine, making dreams come true as well as giving back. You can purchase Nesa Fab Designs on her website www.nesafab.com as well as check her out on facebook.
A MESSAGE FROM...
Lutonya M Lang
A Father’s Love I REMEMBER WHEN MY SISTER LUCRETIA AND I WE WERE GROWING UP and we would go spend time with our father. He would take us to dinner, a movie or whatever he could afford at the time and just spend time with us. He would open the car door for us and show us how we were to be treated as, ladies. That still holds a special place in my heart, how he took the time to share with us who he was and what we should look for in a husband of our own someday. Even when my father would come in from a long day of work he never made any excuses to get out of helping my mom or spending time with us. Despite his lack of a father figure in his life and not knowing how to be a good father or husband, he is close to perfect in my eyes. Not having a father figure in his home and not knowing his father well, he decided that he would make the change with us. Despite how different my siblings and I are, one thing is the same and that is our Fathers Love... After seven years of me being the baby (Out of four children,
I am the second oldest.) my parents had another child and his name is Jeffrey M Lang, Jr.
Our men, who love us, care for us and their children have help shape and mold, stronger, independent and fearless children. It is a beautiful sight to see a man supporting his It was important that he had my father’s wife and helping her care for name to continue our family’s legacy and to their children. start a new one. With my father’s parents not being together and him not having his Being present in your family’s lives doesn’t own father’s name and my mom not take a lot of money it just takes your time. My knowing her father either, they wanted to Father taught us that. So I honor my father start a new chapter with our family, with Apostle Jeffrey M. Lang, Sr & my brother us. Jeffrey M. Lang, Jr. along with all the men around the world for being present in their When my brother Jeffrey was born families lives. everything changed. He was the cutest little boy and we loved him and spoiled him Are they perfect? No, but they love us without rotten. Seeing my father and my brother boundaries. I encourage you to continue to be together I noticed something. What I your very best and not allow negative noticed is the importance of sharing people or things to stop you from being the yourself, being present, supporting and best mentor, father, husband, entrepreneur caring for your children and how that will and man that you can be. bring out the best in them. This issue is just for you.. Now, Jeffrey is a loving husband and a father. It starts with us. This issue is all about starting with ourselves. I often noticed something about my mother too, BuzzZin Stilletos she always brung out the best in my father. She never put him down or made him feel less than a man.
Lutonya M Lang
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Being present in your family’s lives doesn’t take a lot of money it just takes your time.
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In ter v iew w i th
DAMON WILLAMS
You were a business owner before you decided to get into comedy. What was the reason behind this transition?
A: I was accumulating debt, losing money and my hair owning that Subway, so I sold it. Comedy was just something to try since I had no job and no business; didn’t look at it as a profession until my first performance. Then I knew.
What do you like most about doing stand-up? A: I enjoy a group of people getting together, forgetting their life issues, and laughing as one. No better sound than an eruption of laughter, especially when it’s due to my thoughts.
How was it working with comedians Bernie Mac and Steve Harvey, who have been doing it for years, on The Original Kings of Comedy tour? Did they give you any advice? A: The King of Comedy may be the single biggest highlight of my career. It may not ultimately be my greatest achievement, but surely a highlight. Working with those great comics in NBA arenas across the US was a historic experience. There will never be another Original Kings tour no matter who you put together. They did it first and did it BIG. Having that kind of access to Bernie Mac was the best. He always gave me great advice, but I also got a chance to just hang out with him. He is well missed. I have a great relationship with DL. Ced and I are cool, and Steve Harvey gave me props. What more can a young comic ask for? HISTORIC.
Who are your comedic role models?
A: I have been influenced by several comics. George Willborn gave me the most guidance early on. I respect Chris Rock’s work ethic; he gets in the clubs and works on material on open mic nights. Eddie Murphy set the standard; he took it to superstar status. Richard Pryor was just the truth; pure, raw, honest, genius.
What inspires you to entertain day after day? A: Bills!!!!! Plus it’s a joy to do it (see answer 2).
Many major comedians have stemmed from Chicago. What is it about the Windy City’s comedic scene that produces all of these great entertainers?
A: Chicago is a blue collar big city with a small town feel. Lots of our people have southern roots, so it’s more of a common sense atmosphere. Besides that, Chicago makes you hustle, so we apply that mentality to entertainment. As for our current wave of comics, in the last 20 years, we have a circuit that challenges you to be the best. Our audiences are very savvy; they know funny and won’t tolerate mediocrity. You have to blow it up to make it on our set, so each of us strives for that during our performances.
You have been on many entertainment television shows like BET’s ComicView and Def Comedy Jam. Is having your own show something you would like to do in the near future? A: I want to have my own situation; I’m not sure what direction I will take. It could be radio, TV talk, reality, sketch, or sitcom. I like bringing talented people together for projects, so I may ultimately get into producing as well.
What are your other future projects we should be on the lookout for?
A: I’m working on something that could really be big for me and Comedy in general. It’s an idea that I cant fully express, but one aspect of it will be animated.
Is it tough balancing your career and raising your children?
A: Parenting is a full time job in itself. I decided to make a choice of being a father first, but there were times when I had to focus on work so I could afford to be a good Dad.
How do you cope with traveling and being away from your children?
A: Travel is tough when you have to miss games or things like that, but fortunately, I’m self-employed, so I can choose not to travel when necessary. That’s also why I maintained so many comedy spots in Chicago so I could stay home and still have income. We’re the 3rd largest city. I believe Chi is a place people want to get to, not some place you should try to get away from. Not all share that philosophy, but it worked for me.
Do you have your kids in mind when you are coming up with your jokes and stand-up routines?
A: I do have my kids in mind not only for material, but also I was aware that they may see it some day so I limited some of the things I would say. Now that my son is grown, I can be more candid.
“I believe Chi is a place people want to get to, not some place you should try to get away from. Not all share that philosophy, but it worked for me.”
Are you more of a laid back/jokester parent to your kids or more strict in your parenting ways?
A: I’m a laid back person in general. I don’t believe people hear you better if you yell, so I lead by example and try to give sound advice.
What is the best advice you could give your kids? A: Find something you love and give it your all; it will pay off.
Is your son thinking about following in your footsteps? A: He’s mentioned it before, but he’s such a talented kid in so many areas, he could do whatever he chooses and be successful. He has done some acting in film (Roll Bounce) and commercials. He’s also been featured nationally for his knowledge of financial markets.
What was the best Father’s Day gift you’ve ever gotten?
A: My son has written his thoughts and appreciation on many greeting cards. His words outweigh all the actual presents I have received.
What would you say to other fathers out there trying to follow their dreams, yet provide for their family? A: Family first is always the best advice. Things come and go; success is empty without love and family. How has your own father molded you into the man you are today, and how do you push those same morals onto your own son? A: My dad was not able to be an early influence, but from the time I was 12, he has steered me in the right direction with words and actions.
What are some of your fondest Father’s Day memories? A: See 15.
Which is more rewarding: being a comedian, or being a father? A: I consider my son to be my greatest achievement hands down.
You have around 4,000 followers on Twitter? What’s the craziest tweet you have ever received from a fan? A: Hmm nothing stands out.
You tweet a lot about VH1 shows. Are you a realitytv junkie? What’s your favorite show? A: I wouldn’t say a lot, but I peek at reality-tv to stay current and relevant. I do a report on Tom Joyner called SERIOUSLY IGNORANT NEWS.
If you could have a once-in-a lifetime dinner with one prestigious individual, past or present, who would it be?
A: RICHARD PRYOR. I would have loved to just kick it with him. I know there are greater people to meet, but that would surely be the most fun.
“ I consider my son to be my greatest achievement hands down.”
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Monarch by Tasha Gates
He takes my breath away
He acknowledges my power He feels me when I am away He cherishes our every encounter He has the same sense of style He wonders like I do “Why its never hot in December? Why it never snowed in June? He enlightens me with the words that he speaks as if he knows my every desire He quenches my thirst whenever I’m weak He’s my strength to carry me whenever I get tired He got dreams, ambitions and goals to reach He loves his culture and is intrigued about his history I’m blinded by his smile, I love the way that he walks He has innocence of a child, when he’s wrong he’ll admit that its his fault He knows pain, He’s not reluctant to cry He knows what its like to struggle, He’s not afraid to try He’s been in situations, He’s been hurt before He knows whats its like to be in love and when it hurts, it’s best to let go He’s inspired by the books that he reads He’s fascinated with music and its melody He understands poetry in its entirety He knows that art is beautiful form the artist’s melancholy He’s patient and persistent He loves me for me Oh, and did I mention that he takes my breath away I yearn for the days when I could see his face, watching the sunset but yet, we never met.