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t seems at every turn there is another can’t-miss occasion, and the social season is just getting started. From a beachfront fundraising gala to a Fairhope birthday soirée, we’ve delighted in covering a lot of territory lately. Naturally, for many of us, our gatherings are spent at home with family. Steeped in tradition and with an all-around love for celebrating, the sisters of March + May Design shared how their love of entertaining began around the family table as young girls. Interior Designer Cindy Meador inspired us with her technicolor holiday tables and Soirée Signatures owner Lindsey Stiegler shared how she makes events more than memorable. Lastly, we loaded up our many vehicles with local gifts to photograph and headed over to The Verandas in Fairhope. Decked with modern luxuries, we were swooning over the picture-perfect finishes in one of their newly built homes by Magnolia Construction & Design. If you’ve been really good this year and a new home tops your list, be sure to check it out! If you’ve been bad, we’ve given you a lot of great gift options to redeem yourself. Either way (and regardless of how you celebrate), happy holidays from our table to yours. Enjoy!

more than $300,000 for Youth-Reach Gulf Coast, we tried our luck at the Porsche 911 Launch Party, & more!

THE TABLE: GROWING UP SETZLER 28 AROUND Three local sisters share how their childhood centered

around the family table shaped their traditions, careers, families, and the women they are today.

SPECIAL 34 ENTERTAINING Access everything you need to know to host a fabulous

holiday party – from elaborate table settings and helpful hosting tips, to wedding planners, rentals, and a breathtaking venue.

54 HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE Thank you to The Verandas and Magnolia Construction & Design!

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‘Twas the night before Christmas and all through the house… this comprehensive gift guide checks off every person on your list: from the kiddos to your mother-inlaw, and everyone in between.

CULTURE 80 LOCAL Meet Master Jeweler John Cauley, and learn the

importance of Digital Marketing with Southern View Media.

86 COLUMNS Becoming Mobile, The Art of a Good Dinner Party, Divorce Matters

90 CALENDAR What not to miss this month!

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STAFF...

FOUNDER/EDITOR-IN-CHIEF/ PUBLISHER Hayley Hill

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CONTRIBUTORS Keylee Fillingim

EDITOR Caroline Edmondson

COLUMNISTS Cart Blackwel Hayley Hill Brian Dassinger

CONTRIBUTING WRITER Jessica Goolsby MARKET EDITOR Kristi Welford Hicks

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What Is Crohn’s Disease and Colitis?

According to the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation, Crohn’s disease affects as many as 780,000 Americans. This number means you or someone you know has most likely been diagnosed with either these specific diseases or another Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD). Panayiotis Grevenitis, M.D., a gastroenterologist with Alabama Medical Group, explains the causes, signs, and treatments for these common IBD diseases.

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hen you hear the words “Crohn’s and colitis,” both Crohn’s Disease and ulcerative colitis are being referenced. These diseases are autoimmune, to the degree that your body, for a reason not completely understood, begins to “attack” your digestive organs. “These two diseases do overlap, which can sometimes be confusing to patients and even the diagnosing physician,” Dr. Grevenitis says. “Ten to 15 percent of patients with inflammatory bowel disease have what is called ‘indeterminate’ inflammatory bowel disease.

This means we are not quite sure if it is Crohn's or ulcerative colitis,” Dr. Grevenitis explains.

The biggest difference between the two diseases is that ulcerative colitis only affects the colon, whereas Crohn’s can involve any component of the gastrointestinal tract. Crohn's also tends to involve the entire thickness of the intestinal wall, which can lead to other complications such as fistulas and strictures. Because of this, patients tend to think of Crohn's as being "worse.”

IBD can affect anyone, but it is most likely to present itself in patients between the ages of 15 and 30. “It is slightly more common in Caucasians and females, but again, it can affect anybody,” Dr. Grevenitis says. “In fact, it’s probably more likely related to environmental factors. More than 85 percent of people affected with Crohn's and ulcerative colitis

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Technically, there is no “cure” for IBD. In some cases of ulcerative colitis, removal of the colon will actually cure the disease, but is not preferred by doctors as they have made great strides in medical therapy to ensure as normal of a life as possible.

For the most part, treatments include treating and preventing inflammation of the digestive tract. “It is an exciting time as a physician who treats inflammatory bowel disease,” Dr. Grevenitis says. “At AMG we are actively enrolling patients in four separate clinical trials for the treatment of ulcerative colitis and Crohn's disease. We also have a multitude of new medications that have come to market over the last decade that are improving our patients’ lives. We have been able to obtain remission of the disease, where in the past we could only try to

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Growing up Setzler The thought of three girls growing up under one roof conjures up images of crowded mirrors and stolen clothes.

No exception, the Setzler sisters can’t imagine life without each other. All grown up and reminiscing over how their bond became so strong, the trio agrees it all started at their mother’s table.

By Caroline Edmondson

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or those without sisters, the Setzler sisters confirm what we’re missing. Inseparable from the beginning, Natalie Roe, Erin Kennemer, and Rachel Anderson are three unique and independent women who can’t imagine life without each other. Although they confess to their fair share of sisterly discord over the T.V. remote or who got the front seat, they wholeheartedly agree the love served at the dinner table provided them with more than a meal.

Growing up around the Bay area, the Setzlers were raised with solid family traditions. Without any extended family in town, the girls remember the importance their parents placed on their family unit. Whether formal or casual, table time was a priority. “Our mom is basically a gourmet cook. Growing up, we ate dinner together every single night – no question,” Natalie says. “I always loved Saturday night hamburgers, but every Sunday lunch was exceptional, held around the dining table with linens and a delicious meal,” Rachel adds. “Food and the preparation of it is our family’s love language. Meals were always made special, regardless of occasion,” Rachel says.

The girls also fondly recall their parents, Roger and Janice Setzler, hosting a constant rotation of friends for holiday soirées and fabulous supper club parties. Each sister credits these gatherings for their love for entertaining today. Erin shares, “For meals in the dining room, my mom always set the table with fine china. She had countless sets, and everyone’s seat was indicated with a place card my sisters and I helped create. I loved her napkin-folding book and trying out new napkin folds to make the table fun and festive, be it a boat or a bird,” Erin adds.

Rachel loved peeking in on their gatherings. “I remember sitting at the top of the stairs as a little girl, listening to the guests below – the dull roar of conversation combined with the clinking of glasses and my dad’s jazz music filtering through the house.” Natalie was often put in charge of “the girls” during her parents’ gatherings and recalls a specific incident when she didn’t exactly do her job: “Erin and I were arguing over who got what paper out of our art cabinet. She grabbed my shirt with her teeth, I jerked away and a couple of those teeth came with me. We walked into the party crying, covered in blood. After that, babysitters quickly became the norm,” Natalie jokes.

With only 22 months separating them, Natalie remembers never truly feeling like the oldest, and being constantly grouped with Erin, as they were often mistaken for twins. “We got to experience new things at the same age because I seemed as old as her,” Erin teases. Of her own experience as the middle child, Erin claims she never

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Erin Kennemer

suffered from “middle child syndrome” and enjoyed being in the middle of it all.

As the youngest, Rachel says her sisters often felt like extra mothers, but says having multiple “someones” for advice and guidance was invaluable. Plus, “by the time I was the last one at home, my parents had been through it twice and didn’t worry as much about what I was doing,” Rachel jokes. Erin shares, “We’re so lucky to have each other. I’ve always had my sisters, so I never felt alone.” Agreeing, Natalie concludes, “It’s a treasure and a blessing to be both challenged and understood by my sisters – to have someone we did not choose to be related to turn out to be someone we would have actually chosen if given the chance.”

With an ever-expanding closeness, all three sisters decidedly moved to Auburn to complete their studies, overlapping a few fun years together. Natalie and Erin shared two years together at the university. “When I lived in the dorms, I constantly went to her house to do laundry and cook,” says Marketing major Erin. Natalie admits, “for the first time in a long time I really did feel like ‘the big sister’ helping her adjust to everything that came with being on your own.” Following in Natalie’s footsteps as an Interior Design major, Rachel was able to share her freshman year with Erin as she completed her senior year.

“Establishing my own life and friendships but also having the comfort of her presence was assuring,” says Rachel.

After college, each sister married and started a family of her own. Interestingly, not only are their husbands independently close to each other, but they also share the same family pecking order as their wives (meaning each sister married a man who was also the oldest, middle, and youngest in his family).

Natalie and husband Stephen Roe, who have been together since high school, have three children: Bennett (11), Emory (9), and Jacob (7). “Stephen and I are partners in every way. We have continued to grow together through the years,” she shares. Having also married her high school sweetheart, Erin says, “Ben is my absolute best friend and makes me laugh like no other!” Together they have two sons, Wells (7), and Hayes (4), creating a very lively household. Rachel married Hollis Anderson, whom she met her freshmen year in math class at Auburn. “He is a dedicated father and husband, always putting us first,” she says. Their two children, Everett (3) and Mae (2), are a nonstop hurricane of energy, but they wouldn’t change a thing. All three sisters agree it is a special gift to raise their children in the same city and be such an integral part of each other’s lives.

A testament to their sisterhood, after years of working separately in interior design, Natalie and Rachel decided to join forces and open March + May

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Design in 2017. With similar design styles and known for their distinctive pops of color and fresh yet timeless designs, they are behind some of the Bay’s most spectacular homes. They both acknowledge the influence their parents’ love of entertaining in welldressed rooms had on them. Both passionate about their profession, they are honored to create spaces for their clients’ families to entertain, enjoy meals together, and flourish.

When it comes to balancing their work and family life, Rachel and Natalie agree their children and husbands come first. Rachel shares, “Our goal is to work when we are at work and not work when we are at home. I never want my family to feel like they are fighting for my attention.” Natalie agrees. “This approach has revolutionized our energy and effectiveness in both places,” she says. On working with her sister, Natalie reveals she “truly could not work so well or so successfully with anyone else. I trust her implicitly; we have the same goals, priorities, and work ethic.”

Erin’s career has been a journey. It wasn’t until she lost 50 pounds through Beachbody, an online platform, that she found a new passion. “My life transformed in so many ways through exercise and clean eating,” Erin says.

“I had so many people asking me what I had done that I became a coach to help them do the same!” Erin has helped countless women regain their confidence by running monthly online health and fitness accountability groups, creating weekly meal plans, and starting a massive clean-eating cookbook for her clients. “I absolutely love helping others see their worth and capabilities so they can live their healthiest lives too,” she shares. Erin was recently voted onto the board of McKemie Place alongside husband Ben, who serves as President.

“I loved putting together Build Hope, our brand-new fundraiser, which was a wonderful success,” she says. Important to ACCESS, McKemie Place is the beginning of a better life for women without a home. It’s the only overnight shelter for single, homeless women in all of Mobile, Washington, and Baldwin Counties.

The three sisters also gave ACCESS an exclusive look into their most recent business move: as of today, all three Setzler women will be working together at March + May! Erin excitedly joins Rachel and Natalie’s team as their Operations Manager handling orders, logistics, bookkeeping, and marketing. Talk about family ties!

As their family has grown, the holidays are spent at their parents’ hunting camp in Chatom, Ala. “My parents built this house with my sisters’ help,” Erin says.

“There’s a lake and acres of land to hunt and explore. Plus, we all fit under one roof! Of course, we still enjoy the planned out elaborate meals complete

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with wine and lots of laughter. We are making memories and can’t help but wonder how these special gatherings will influence our children,�

Erin shares. As the dishes are cleared, Natalie, Erin, and Rachel are so thankful their parents established these traditions that have inspired everything from design careers to their own love of sharing their homes with others, and for influencing them so profoundly over something as simple as a shared meal.

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Entertaining season is officially here, and whether you’re hosting a large family gathering or a small dinner party for friends, making it personal is key. A self-professed “dishware addict,” interior designer Cindy Meador of Cindy Meador Interiors welcomes us into her home and gives us a peek at her extensive collections and inspired tables.

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n expert in all areas of interior design, Cindy Meador is known for decorating some of the Bay’s most beautiful homes and businesses. Finding endless joy in creating personalized table settings for her guests, she often draws inspiration from her own memories of holiday parties as a child. She fondly recalls her parents hosting fabulous holiday soirées for which her mother and her friends would don long, elegant dresses. “I distinctly remember my mom’s avocado green velvet skirt and chic blouse. My dad would make Brandy Alexanders, and I got to dress up and drink non-alcoholic versions out of fancy glasses,” Cindy shares. Rotating hosting duties, Cindy’s mother, grandmother, and aunt took decorating seriously. “These were formal events and we still serve the same menu today. The love of sterling silver in my family is large,” Cindy jokes.

Sterling silver aside, Cindy now hosts her own holiday dinners and parties at her Fairhope home. “I love for my entire family to be together, and since

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I love to cook, it’s more fun for me than a chore,” she says. “I like to come up with a special cocktail each year and go all-out with my Christmas giftwrapping and ribbon. Everyone looks forward to seeing what I have come up with each year.” Cindy crafted an “Aviation Cocktail” made with gin, crème de Violette, maraschino liqueur, and lemon juice for last year’s gathering. As for the Christmas Eve menu, Cindy’s family always serves the same feast: seafood gumbo made by her brother (the family-dubbed “Gumbo King”) and beef tenderloin with Cindy’s caramelized mushrooms, onions, and grilled asparagus. “My brother is the baker in the family, so he brings mile-high coconut cake and sweet potato and pecan pies. My mom’s cornbread dressing is always at Thanksgiving, and none of us can make it quite like she can,” she shares.

Upon entering Cindy’s home, her love of those justright pieces from the days of the deco and mid-century modern era is obvious. With endless eye candy, it’s hard to stop yourself from looking in every nook

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and cranny. Her floor-to-ceiling bookshelves are impressive enough, but the fact that she arranges her books backwards made us swoon with designers’ delight. The assorted velvet deco chairs are beyond crush-worthy, as is her retro barware. Cool color combinations abound on large canvases scattered across the walls, leaving us feeling like we don’t take enough risk. With her trained eye and exceptional taste, it just works. It really works.

Able to blend multiple styles seamlessly, Cindy is always one step ahead. “As an interior designer, I’m always thinking about color and composition, which is quite evident in my holiday décor,” she says. “An avid collector, I love all china patterns, so my tables don’t get set the same way twice. Identical to my design approach, individuality is key.”

This year, guests are sure to be impressed by Cindy’s technicolor tablescapes topped with some of her favorite pieces. “For my breakfast table I choose hues of blue and set it with my favorite vintage china, which of course I have in both pink and blue,” she details. “A low line of fresh blue hydrangeas adds to the blue theme. I typically enhance my color palate with florals and avoid the all-white arrangements.

My formal dining room table is designed around an untraditional palette of pinks, lavender, and malachite green. I love these colors with my lavender silk drapes and artwork and love the opportunity to pull out all my cherished collectibles creating layers of conversation pieces,” she shares. Noticing she’s collected a wide assortment of covet-worthy pieces in coordinating shades, this makes perfect sense to us. As we find ourselves distracted by her bright green retro chaffing dishes, we wonder why we let all our precious finds collect dust.

Keeping the platters of food in the kitchen and off the table, Cindy’s simplest tip for anyone struggling with their décor is to think outside the box. A fresh flower enthusiast, she shares, “Think about containers – get away from a single centerpiece. I love colored glass vases and urns; they are great filled with fresh flowers. I bring my favorites to Carl at Fairhope’s Southern Veranda, give him my ideas and color schemes, and pick up the arrangements the day before my company arrives, which clears the day of for cooking. Letting the experts do what they do best is a brilliant time saver!”

While her holiday décor is glamorous and eclectic like her house, she adds, “If a person has a very traditional house, then traditional holiday decorations work well for them. The same goes for a modern or casual home. The point is to layer your table so it’s interesting, inviting, and makes your guests feel loved.”

And if you’re in need of those finishing touches, Cindy’s team at her shop in Orange Beach can help you with everything you might need for hosting a memorable dinner party. Find serving pieces, glassware, barware accessories, placemats, napkins, napkin rings, beautiful dishware lines, and more.

And who knows? You may even receive some tips from Cindy herself. Let the decorating begin!

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C or di a l ly I nv i t e d. . .

When it comes to planning an event – especially a wedding – invitations are a necessity. Though they might seem like just a “piece of paper,” invitations not only inform your guests of specific event details, but also convey your personality and set the tone of your event through wording, color choices, and design aspects. Lindsey Stiegler, founder and creative director of Mobile’s Soirée Signatures, walks us through the various steps of designing the perfect invitation, and even gives us a crash course in “invitation etiquette.”

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ake one step into Lindsey Stiegler’s quaint store on Florida Street in Midtown and you are instantly filled with joy – an aura reflective of its owner’s sunny personality. From the walls covered in colorful paper flowers, to the sparkle and shine of the intricate invitations, wrapping paper, gift tags, keepsakes, and more, Soirée Signatures is overflowing with detail and love, with endless possibilities poised to bring your party to life. A full-service graphic design studio (meaning they design and produce all of the work they create for their clients), Soirée Signatures specializes in invitations for weddings and corporate events, gift tags and wrap, and custom party printables such as napkins, cups, and huggers. Though Soirée Signatures is relatively new (having opened its doors in 2015), Lindsey’s passion for graphic 42 ACCESS Magazine / November 2019

design and calligraphy dates back to her childhood.

Gifted a calligraphy set by her parents for her ninth birthday, Lindsey worked tirelessly to teach herself the art, working on new styles and refining her writing over time – something she continues to do in her shop as she progresses and learns from other calligraphers. “Calligraphy really started out as just a hobby,” she says. “Growing up, I always thought I would work for an ad agency. I always felt that wedding invitations could use a little more personality, and the day-of could be a little more put-together. That’s where my focus shifted and calligraphy just happened to be a part of how the look all comes together,” she says.

After working several years as a marketing director (while also freelancing as a calligrapher and graphic designer on the side), Lindsey decided to make designing her full-time gig. “I decided to open

Soirée Signatures because my freelance work was getting overwhelming, and I was basically working two full-time jobs around the clock,” she explains.

“I never envisioned my life as a business owner, but now I wouldn’t have it any other way.”

Soirée Signatures believes offering truly unique items are what really set them apart from online and local competitors. “Our customers love the custom aspect because it brings their vision to life,” she explains. “That’s a major difference you get when you work with a local stationery expert. We are well-versed in all things design and printing. Plus, we have great relationships with our printers, and they understand our high expectations we have for our clients. When someone is throwing an epic party, we want each part of the planning process to be a ‘wow’ experience, and it’s our job to make sure each person leaves inspired and excited for what’s to come. Our customers mean the world to us!”

Soirée Signatures has produced invitations out of almost every material imaginable, including acrylic, metal, and leather. One of Lindsey’s favorite invitation trends is the incorporation of custom artwork such as watercolors and original sketches.

“Handmade papers have also seen a great resurgence, and we love the high-end look they lend to your event,” shares Lindsey.

Unbeknownst to most, the wording and the way in which you address your guests are extremely important. In fact, there is a long list of “invitation etiquette tips” one must be acquainted with before sending invitations out, no matter the event. “Even as trends and styles evolve, following basic rules of etiquette make your guests feel welcomed, and let them know what to expect of the occasion,” Lindsey says, adding that the first step is to know how your guests would prefer to be addressed. “Today, there are many different styles of family units and housing arrangements,” she explains. “By addressing an invitation in a kind, proper way that recognizes your guests’ unique situations, they feel welcomed before they ever step foot in the event,” she adds.

Addressing the outer envelopes seems to be the biggest hurdle for the modern bride, but Soirée Signatures is easily able to guide its clients to the best, most proper solutions. “We post etiquette tips for commonly asked questions on both our website

and social media,” Lindsey says. “We recommend people reference these articles to clarify basic principles of etiquette, and we are always here to answer more specific questions people may have.”

Soirée Signatures also carries a large variety of custom, hand-designed gifts and party goods for every occasion. Originally starting with Mobile Crest House Flags in 2018 (and selling out numerous times), their flags now adorn the homes of many Mobile natives. “We have since added Mobile Christmas ornaments, party cups, napkins, silicone wine cups, and Turkish towels, all bearing our beautiful and unique crest that we feel truly represents the Southern grace and charm that is Mobile,” Lindsey says. “This month we are premiering our Fairhope crest and will be launching a similar line of gift and housewares bearing the logo.” Their personalized notepads, wine labels, gift tags, and coasters make fabulous grab-and-go hostess gifts, birthday or Christmas presents, or teacher favors.

Branding herself as a “paper person,” Lindsey truly loves her job. “My favorite part of the job is that I get to create all of the design ideas I have rolling around in my brain,” she says. “Every time someone comes in with an idea for a party, I get so excited and imagine all of the possibilities of where the invitation could go,” she enthuses. Of course, her successes would be nothing without her team, whose relationship with each other is what makes Lindsey the most proud. “We love working with each other and have created true friendships, which I feel definitely comes through when we’re dealing with our customers,” she boasts.

Lindsey continues to look toward the future, with big plans to open multiple locations in neighboring cities along the Gulf Coast already on her mind. So next time you’re in need of a beautiful invitation for an upcoming elegant event, or even searching for the perfect personalized gift, stop by Soirée Signatures… they are eager to create the perfect design just for you.

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LO C A L CULTURE

To A Wedding Planner

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atie Leavins says she has always had an eye for design, having often found herself planning events for her church, school, and even birthday parties over the years. But Katie says it wasn’t until 2011 that she fell in love with planning weddings. She recalls that her "aha" moment came after asking a good friend (who happened to be a wedding planner herself) if she needed help with an event, and Katie says she’s been hooked ever since.

With her newfound passion ever in the foreground of her mind, she decided to pursue wedding and event planning full-time, ultimately opting to open her own business, Legacy Events, LLC. “I started thinking of what I wanted in a business,” she explains. “Who would I want to hire if the roles were reversed?

A lot of companies are about quantity over quality, but Legacy Events wants to know every single detail. We pride ourselves on the quality of work we do,” she says.

Katie knows firsthand what it is like to plan a wedding without the help of a planner, having been forced to tackle every aspect of her own wedding to husband and best friend of 14 years, Josh, so long ago. Having meticulously combed over every detail of her big day personally, Katie can attest to the fact that oftentimes wedding planning (when it’s your own, anyway) can be far more stressful than it is enjoyable. “After making the centerpieces and making sure everything was how I wanted it, plus getting ready, there wasn’t much to enjoy because I was worried about everything,” Katie recalls. “Looking back on it, I should’ve had a planner from the very beginning.” Because of her own exhausting experience, Katie has made it her personal goal to ensure that each bride who entrusts her with her big day is able to enjoy it 100 percent stress-free. “It’s hard planning any event, let alone a wedding,” Katie jests. “With a professional you have access to the best vendors, and your family doesn’t have to do anything; they can enjoy the day with you.

Also, if something happens, you’ll know about it once it’s fixed. Doing it on your own won’t allow you to step back and enjoy the day. Your family will be working instead of enjoying the little moments with you, and that shouldn’t happen.”

Katie believes that everyone should be able to fully embrace and enjoy the day, especially the bride. “I’ve worked with some very good wedding planners along the way, and they have 44 ACCESS Magazine / November 2019

You’ve found the perfect man, you’ve said “Yes” to the proposal... so now what? Planning a wedding can be a huge undertaking – one that can quickly become extremely overwhelming. Hiring a wedding planner might be the smartest thing a bride can do. Here, wedding planner Katie Leavins of Legacy Events LLC., shares how hiring her allows you to fully enjoy your special day with friends and family.

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taught me to always stay calm in an emergency situation – there is always a solution,” Katie says. “Whatever can happen, will happen.

That’s why a planner is always a good investment. They have seen it all and will know what to do!”

Despite the stress of her own wedding, Katie has had a wonderful life with her husband thus far, and now has two children: Eli (13) and Maddi (12). Katie says Josh and her children have helped fuel her passion for weddings, ultimately leading to the massive success of Legacy Events, LLC. The company currently offers three different bridal packages: Full-Service Planning, Day-of Planning, and Rehearsal Planning. But no matter which one you choose, Katie and her team will be there with you each and every step of the way. To get the ball rolling, clients first conduct a meeting with Katie, either over the phone or in person, where she listens to every idea the bride may have. “I can talk for hours. It’s their day so it’s my job to listen to them and see what they envision and bring that to life,” Katie says. “If the bride wants live geese roaming at the reception, I’m calling everyone I know to try and make it happen.”

Next, the bride and Katie will schedule a site visit for a walk through.

“We see what vendors have been contracted and which ones still need to be booked,” she explains. “I like to see all contracts so that I can read over them and look at the fine print as well as make sure we have everything that is needed on the order. Budget analysis, invitation stuffing, and many other things will need to be done, so we will create a checklist personalized to each client’s needs.” From then on, Legacy Events, LLC., becomes the primary contact for all vendors so brides aren’t bothered by their questions. Last comes the rehearsal (which Katie and her team also handle), followed by the big day itself. “On the morning of the event, we are there when the first vendor arrives, making sure everything gets where it needs to be,” Katie says.

“Throughout the wedding, we walk around and make sure everything is flowing. After the send-off, we make sure all personal items are packed up in the vehicle, and give out hugs to the family for the evening!”

Katie doesn’t take her job lightly, as she understands the amount of trust her clients have for her on one of the most important days of their lives. “Trusting a complete stranger to help execute one of the biggest days of your life? Yes, it’s nerve-wracking, but we provide many references of past brides, grooms, and family to help with those nerves.”

Katie says her favorite part of planning weddings is watching the bride as she sees everything come together. “The happiness and joy we bring means the world to us,” she says. “It makes me feel wonderful when they thank me and tell me it was perfect.” And the relationship forged between bride and planner is unparalleled. “I have many continued relationships with past brides,” Katie tells. “We grab coffee or just check in to chat about life, and I love seeing them grow their families.

It makes my heart happy.”

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8 Entertaining Must-Haves for Your Home With the weather cooling down and the holiday season providing entertaining opportunities, you might wonder how you can make the most of the space your home has to offer. If you are in the market for a new home or looking to renovate and love to entertain, check out these eight must-haves to be the party throwers everyone loves.

By Melanie Bunting-Seymour

1. Adequate Seating

Make sure you have a variety of seating available. Use a kitchen island with bar stools to make your kitchen a place where people can sit as they need. Factor in space for people to stand, linger around the island, and allow yourself room to cook and place food. Don’t forget how useful living room seating can be. Arrange your couches or armchairs to enable people to sit and be close enough to continue their conversations. Clustering is a great idea to create small groups of seating without just making a big circle around the perimeter of your space.

2. Open Floor Plan

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Creating the perfect seating is much easier with an open floor plan. Designing or renovating a home to have an open floor plan opens up many more possibilities for entertaining. Free space lets you choose and rearrange your seating as you need for the number of guests you’ll have.

5. An Easily Accessible Bathroom

When building a home, take into account where guests will, well… go. Placing the bathroom near a high traffic area where people congregate doesn’t give your guests much privacy. A half-bath on the first floor in a low traffic area will be easily accessible while also providing privacy to guests.

6. Serving Space

Food is the highlight of any get-together. Make sure you have enough storage to leave countertops open.

A kitchen island can serve as a seating and serving area. Built-in cabinets with smart storage are a must to keep your counter spacious. You can also incorporate storage furniture, like a side buffet, to stow away items and create surface area for serving platters. Control traffic by spacing out serving areas. This will keep guests from piling up in one area.

3. An Outdoor Area

Take advantage of backyard space with a patio or deck to expand your entertaining area. In the summer months, an outdoor area for grilling will allow you to cook while still allowing guests to utilize kitchen space for serving food and seating. In the winter months, a fire pit can be used to create the perfect evening ambiance. In the South, keep in mind how quickly temperatures can shift. Incorporate fans and heating elements, like a fireplace or firepit, for regulating temperature. A screened-in area has the bonus of keeping bugs at bay.

4. A Bar

Keeping the drinks flowing will definitely keep guests happy. If you have space, utilize a built-in cabinet system to store your bar items and function as a serving area. Strategic placement of built-in storage, like wine racks or a mini-fridge, can direct drink traffic away from the main kitchen area where you are cooking. If you don’t have a space to build a bar area, use a bar cart to stow liquor and items that don’t need to be refrigerated.

Want these must-haves? Contact me to find your entertaining dream home or to work with your contractor to redesign your current home!

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7. Parking

A big get-together means a lot of cars. Make sure you have an area to park them. You can discuss with a contractor how to best utilize the space you have for parking. Two ideas to consider are a circular driveway or a wider driveway to accommodate more parking.

Taking up too much street parking can cause a traffic hazard or anger neighbors.

8. Coat Check

You don’t really need a “coat check,” but definitely designate a place for people to hang coats or bags.

Having things lying around everywhere may cause people to forget them or create a tripping hazard. If you have a spare bedroom, keep closet space free for coats. Add hooks to hang bags and umbrellas on. If you don’t have any extra closet space, get a clothing rack that can stow away easily when you don’t need it.

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S O U T H E R N H O S P I TA L I T Y When Amy and Josh Kohn opened SOHO Event Rentals in March of 2014, the pair were diving headfirst into the world of entrepreneurship – a leap that ultimately paid off.

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alas, corporate meetings, business dinners, sporting events, weddings, rehearsal dinners, festivals, birthday parties, company fundraisers, backyard get-togethers – SOHO Event Rentals has worked them all. And after more than five years in business, owners Amy and Josh Kohn say they’ve come a long way since their 2014 start.

“We bought 50 folding white chairs and sat at the kitchen table and wrote a business plan,” Amy recalls. “We wanted to start an event rental company that provided quality equipment and hospitality (SOuthern HOspitality),” and with Amy’s degree in hospitality from Florida State University and Josh’s accounting degree from the University of South Alabama in tow, the two set out to serve the Gulf Coast in all things event-oriented. Flash forward to 2019, and SOHO Event Rentals has grown exponentially, now serving the entire Southeast from their home base in Fairhope, Ala., often traveling to New Orleans, 30A, Birmingham, and Atlanta for events. The company offers tent, table,

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By Jessica Goolsby chair, furniture, dinnerware, linen, stage, and floor rentals alongside event layout and event branding assistance.

“Not only do we have the most unique products and top-notch customer service; we also provide event design,” Amy says. “We usually start with a meeting at our showroom so the client can visualize products and we can talk budget. We will do on-site consultations and CAD layouts to help visualize the concept of the event, and we also work very closely with other vendors to ensure everything runs smoothly.”

SOHO Event Rentals also offers event branding services. “We can help you create custom products that allow you to personalize your event,” Amy explains. “From furniture with your logo to custom flooring, we can help you brand your event and communicate your theme. SOHO can help your event stand apart from all the others.”

Amy says she and her team are often inspired by Hollywood and the Red Carpet. “If it’s popular in apparel, then very soon you will see it on a tabletop,” Amy jokes. “I was watching the Emmy

Awards a few weeks ago and Kylie Jenner wore a large print floral dress, and the next day I was seeing large print florals available for table linens. I love seeing fashion coming into the event world.”

So, what are some of the area’s most popular themes? “I think Mobile and Baldwin County will always have coastal and Southern themes,” Amy says. “We work with a lot of out of town corporate clients, and when they come to our area, they want large oak trees, farm tables, and oysters.”

And when it comes to decorating trends, Amy says color is making a comeback. “For a few years, the trend for events has been neutral,” she says. “That is changing, and I love it! I’m ready for more color at events!” But what happens when multiple clients ask for the same overall theme simultaneously? “This comes up with weddings more than corporate or social events, but weddings are easy to find personal touches that make it unique,” Amy explains. “Whether it’s your grandmother’s pound cake recipe, your father’s antique car, or the couple’s favorite cocktail as guests arrive, there are plenty of ways to make a wedding unique.”

The Kohns say they find most of their inventory at trade shows and conferences they attend, but also often obtain custom products from clients and planners. “We love when a wedding planner comes to us with something new and we have it made for their special client,” Amy says. And when hired for a wedding, Amy says she and her team hit the ground running. “The first thing we like to do is sit down with the clients and get to know them and their vision for the event,” she explains. “We find that we do our best work when we get the opportunity to get to know the clients and what their priorities are in the beginning. After that first meeting, we get in our design room and start pulling linen samples, dinnerware samples, and more and come up with a vision board.” They then put together a preliminary quote and work with the client on the

budget. “From there, we will do an onsite meeting with other vendors to talk logistics and timelines,” Amy says. “Once we have a plan in place, we get to work at the warehouse prepping items for the big day.”

Amy says she and her team are also extremely adaptable when it comes to the varying styles of their clientele. “My favorite events are when the client comes in with a completely different vision from what I was thinking,” Amy says. “It really makes me get creative. Our job would be boring if everyone had the same taste and style.” And with so many events in the works, Amy says that it is never too early to start booking for events. “It depends on the size of the event,” Amy says. “Our larger festivals book two to three years in advance.

For a wedding, eight to twelve months is ideal, and most of our social events book two to six months in advance. I tell clients that if they want a specific product or if their event is in our busy season, they’ll want to get on our books as soon as possible.”

With its mile-long list of services and offerings, SOHO certainly stands a league apart from other rental companies, maintaining the mantra: “We are event people first” – a concept Amy says SOHO has stood by since its inception. “We believe that a smile, eye contact, and a ‘yes ma’am’ is reassuring to our clients and makes them feel welcome,” she says. “We teach this within our company, and we care about you and your event. From the first time we meet until the last table is picked up, we will be there for you.”

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Cool, Calm,

& Collective

Derived from its synonymous nature with its namesake, Collective Manor is a charming-yet-expansive country venue on a large plot of land along Highway 31 in Spanish Fort offering a gathering place for friends and families to celebrate life’s big (and small) events. Owned by Matt and Sally Miller, this charming retreat was designed to grant guests a relaxing reprieve from the hassles of hosting family and business affairs.

By Jessica Goolsby // Photos By Stevye Photography

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relatively fresh endeavor, Collective Manor stands as a new corporate event, special occasion, concert, and wedding venue, situated on several acres of land in Spanish Fort. The original structure was built like a lodge – the overall aesthetic of which owner Sally Miller says she and husband/co-owner Matt Miller wished to maintain, but with an upgraded, more “modern” feel. Its wood exterior and treeladen grounds give a nod to the secluded resort-like style of getaways typically found much further from Lower Alabama, and its wood beam-lined, Cathedral-height ceilings, white shiplap walls, and elaborate chandeliers give the space a grand yet warm, inviting atmosphere.

Outdoor patios overlook its wooded terrain, offering either a quiet place to retreat or space to entertain with an outdoor band and music, with ambient lighting sure to delight all who venture outside. “We have been searching for years for the right place knowing that one day the right property would come about,” Matt says. “The first time I visited the property I knew that it was right. I felt like the location was close enough to be convenient yet remote enough to feel like a retreat,” he shares.

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The pair say that events that are “too big to be hosted at home” are their most common fare, and Matt shares that part of the allure of Collective Manor is the concept of enjoying a space designed for food and good company. “Sally and I often find that our favorite moments revolve around meals and fellowship, so we are creating an environment where guests can come and have a respite from the grind that we all experience,” he says. “Our goal is to host events throughout the year where people can come and have a few hours of what we hope will be a time of refreshment.”

The road to Collective Manor has been long, but Matt says he can still recall the exact day his journey began. “July 22, 2001: You probably don’t remember a single thing about that day. There wouldn’t be any reason to recall anything about it, unless it was one of those days that changed your life,” Matt begins. “There I was, visiting a local worship service in Southern Oregon. There were thousands of people there and we all heard the same message. But that message was orchestrated on purpose – for me," he says. The work, he says, began as he learned about the writings of a man who, in nearing the end of his life, came to realize that his life had been spent going in circles, literally. “His regret and my burning desire to avoid that which was plaguing him, changed my life,” Matt shares. Years later, Matt found himself further inspired by the words of his discipleship program professor: "Don't succeed at all the wrong things." "When you are 24 (like I was), it's easy to say 'Of course I won't,'" Matt says. "But as I've aged, it has become a source of internal and constant tension," he adds.

A Homewood, Ala. native, Matt spent his college years at Auburn University, where in 1998, he met Sally. The pair’s friendship blossomed over the years, and in 2000, they began dating. The two were wed in 2005 and relocated from Birmingham to the Eastern Shore.

Their girls came along in 2008, 2010, and 2011, and in May of 2019, Collective Manor was born. "One of our favorite sayings is ‘Shared joy is double joy.’ We’ve found that ‘our people’ are what bring out that joy the most, and we want our guests to have a place where they can experience that, too," Sally says. As for their favorite type of event to host, “We love events of any kind! Whatever it is that brings people together," Sally says.

With three growing children in the mix, Matt jokes that between normal routines and the extracurriculars that come standard with raising kids, ’Balance’ is a long-forgotten word. “Eternity is plenty of time to catch up on rest, so until then, we will be fine being unbalanced,” he jests. “We are in the process of creating our story of how to live out and share the realities of a dream that was implanted in me on that unforgettable day back in 2001,” he adds. “We are going on this journey and welcome fellowship, so you might as well go with us!”

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All Through The House With the stockings hung by the chimney with care, the gifting season is in the air. Snapping pics all through the house, not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse. Why? Brimming with luxuries, this Fairhope home is a gift, too! Whether you're going big or small for somebody naughty or nice, we're proud to present our 2019 Holiday Gift Guide.

Photos By Stevye Photography

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FIREPLACE (LEFT) Red Berry Trees, Starting at $40; Belk, 251.470.5400 Stocking Holders, $75; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Stockings, $42 Each; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 Books; LUSH Home. Garden.

Event, 251.473.6121 Candle, $46; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Living Boxwood Ball, $295; LUSH Home. Garden.

Event, 251.473.6121 Boxwood Wreath, $58; LUSH Home. Garden. Event, 251.473.6121 Flannel Throw, $60; Belk, 251.470.5400.

Wooden Reindeer, $24; Belk, 251.470.5400 Reindeer Ornament, $12; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Men’s Suitcase, $650; McCoy Outdoor Company, 251.473.1080 Baby Boots, $50; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Women’s UGG Boots, $225; The Gallery Shoe Boutique, 251.344.4257 Girls Tall Boot, $79.99; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Men’s Dubarry Boots; $399, McCoy Outdoor Company, 251.473.1080

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Garden. Event, 251.473.6121 Burlap Tote, $45; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 Mudpie Bowl & Spoon Set, $70; Belk, 251.470.5400 Kate Spade Measuring Cups, $40; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Salt & Pepper Shakers, $45; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 To Do List Notepad, $62; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 50 Caliber Bullet Pen, $75; G.Harvell Men’s Clothier, 251.344.4200 Gold Scissors, $22; Soirée Signatures, 251.209.3265 Grey Linen Napkin, $7;

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Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Cutting Board, $24; LUSH Home.

Garden. Event, 251.473.6121 Oyster Napkin Ring, $16.50; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 Agate Coasters, $40; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Onyx Bowl & Spoon, $42; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Deviled Egg Plate, $36; Belk, 251.470.5400 Antica Soap & Lotion Set, $85; LUSH Home. Garden. Event, 251.473.6121.

Cheese Board, $34; LUSH Home.

Garden. Event, 251.473.6121 Fraiser Fur Candle, $30.50; Objects Gift Shop, 251.929.3279

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K I T C H E N ( P R E V I O U S PA G E ) PomPom Storage Bin, $28; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Chill Out Utensil Holder, $48; Belk, 251.470.5400 Macaroon Ornament, $12; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Coastal Candles Large,$24, Small, $9.75; LUSH Home. Garden. Event, 251.473.6121 Glass/Gold Vase, $12-$16; LUSH Home.

Garden. Event, 251.473.6121 Wooden Gold Trees, $16; Belk, 251.470.5400 White Deer, $135; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 Fur Trees, $45-$55 each; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 All Day Cocktails, $24.99; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Camper Ornament, $10; LUSH Home.

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Planner, $35; Soirée Signatures, 251.209.3265 Initial Notepads, $12 Each; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Multi-Color Bud Vase, $22; LUSH Home. Garden.

Event, 251.473.6121 Cocktail Tray, $24; LUSH Home. Garden.

Event, 251.473.6121 Kate Spade Tumbler, $18; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Cotton Candy Ornament, $8; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Hide Flask, $37.50; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 Pencil Pouch, $9.80; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Kate Spade Lemon Towel, $8.00, Striped Towel, $8.00; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551

BAR (ABOVE) Porcelain Dog, $28; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Bourbon Crunch Popcorn, $15; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 Bar Set, $88; Cindy Meador Interiors, 251.974.1907 Double Jigger, $12; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Match Cloche, $30; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Striped Marble Cutting Board, $34; LUSH Home. Garden. Event, 251.473.6121 White Linen Napkin, $40; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 Southern Cocktails, $15; LUSH Home. Garden.

Event, 251.473.6121 Jack Rudy Cocktail Set, $60; LUSH Home. Garden.

Event, 251.473.6121 Jack Rudy Lavender Bitters, $16; LUSH Home. Garden.

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Jack Rudy Lavender Mixers, $16; LUSH Home. Garden.

Event, 251.473.6121 Silver Tray, $60; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Mint Julip Vase, $37.50; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Record Player, $109; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Red Hot Chili Peppers Greatest Hits, $29.98; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Beatles Abbey Road, $22.98; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Jimmy Hendrix Experience, $17.98; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Lenox Vase, $40; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Kate Spade Napkin, $18; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551.

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B E D R O O M ( P H O T O G R A P H E D AT AT C H I S O N H O M E ∂ 9 2 1 D a u p h i n S t . , M o b i l e ) Cassia Antique Linen Bed, $4,685 White Bud Vase, $38 Mother & Child Book, $85 Coaster Set, $48 Alberto Lange Triple Tier Lamp, $630 Marble Top Side Table, $595 Rio Grande Euro Sham, $286 Linen Pillow with Fern Applique, $390

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Allypa White Sham, $115 Double Sided Frame, $60 Clear Beveled Frame, $78 Boxwood Plant, $58 Herringbone Throws, $98 Kudu Core Wall Light, $795 Original Art, $995 Flat Basket, $36

Jacqueline Two Tiered Chandelier, $2,765 Alyssa White Coverlet, $295 32 inch JuJu Hate, $498 Austin Allen James Artwork, $1,765 Square Alarm Clock, $188 Marco Stone Ottoman, $1,030 Piped Doe & Fawn Pillow, $175 Pocket Change Tray, $230

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MUD ROOM Origins Face Cleanser, $24; Belk, 251.470.5400 U Wireless Speaker, $45; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 Men’s Fossil Watch, $350; McCoy Outdoor Company, 251.473.1080 History of Fishing, $22.50; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Leather Wallet, $89.95; G.Harvell Men’s Clothier, 251.344.4200 Antler Wine Bottle Opener, $49.50; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051

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Martin Dingman Boots, $265; G.Harvell Men’s Clothier, 251.344.4200 Button Down Shirt, $94.95; McCoy Outdoor Company, 251.473.1080 Corduroy Pant, $98.50; McCoy Outdoor Company, 251.473.1080 Sweater, $195; G.Harvell Men’s Clothier, 251.344.4200 Oyster Buckle Belt, $155; G.Harvell Men’s Clothier, 251.344.4200 Park Hill Tote, $85; LUSH Home.

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Sunglasses, (hanging on tote) $575; JJ Eyes, 251.929.0015 Magnifying Glasses, $24 Each; LUSH Home.

Garden. Event, 251.473.6121 Cuff Links, $55; The Holiday, 251.342.4911.

Men’s Bracelet, $99; G.Harvell Men’s Clothier, 251.344.4200 Sock Set, $21; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 Vaurnet Sunglasses, $260; JJ Eyes, 251.929.0015

Grey Beach Towel, $49.99; Soirée Signatures, 251.209.3265 Leather Tech Cord Holder, $42 Set of 3; McCoy Outdoor Company, 251.473.1080

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Little Dipper Coaster, $35 Classic Trouble Board Game, $19 Little Adventures Princess Dress, $36 Bruder Excavator, $44 Pink Moosh Moosh, $20 Mini Boom Box, $52 Cosmetic Case, $25 NeeDoh Cool Cats, $5

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FA M I LY R O O M Joules’ Rainboots, $44.98; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Lily Pulitzer Laptop Case, $42; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Leopard Print Beret, $26; Belk, 251.470.5400

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Fuzzy Slippers, $20; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 PomPom Hat, $24; Belk, 251.470.5400 Mermaid Tail, $39; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 Quotes & Questions, $12.95; The Holiday, 251.342.4911

Flannel Sleep Shorts, $35; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Stuffed Cat, $62; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Fanny Pack, $42; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 FinchBerry Rosey Posey Salts, $15; Dillard’s, 251.471.1551 Lavender Soap Bar, $6; Keller Works, 251.378.8169

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L U X V I B E S . ( P R E V I O U S PA G E ) Dolce Vita Hemline Exclusive Shoes, $120; Hemline, 251.287.6875 Monogram Bath Towels, $14; Belk, 251.470.5400 Bond Signature (gold), $295; CK Collection, 251.990.9001 Bond Nolita (white), $370; CK Collection, 251.990.9001

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CLEAN VIBES. Bond New York Nights (blue), $410; CK Collection, 251.990.9001 New Bond Street (red), $280; CK Collection, 251.990.9001

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Garden. Event, 251.473.6121 Champagne Bottle Candles, $17 Each; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Diamond Earrings, $2,995; The Karat Patch Jewelers, 251.344.5614

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FUN VIBES. Linen Water, $18; Cindy Meador Interiors, 251.974.1907 Chanel Earrings, $375; Hertha’s Second Edition, 251.517.1197 Creed Perfume 3.3 fl oz, $159; Hertha’s Second Edition, 251.517.1197 Dior Gift Set, $144; Belk, 251.470.5400 Tray, (Orange) $24; Cindy Meador Interiors, 251.974.1907 Earrings (Black/gold), $117; Debra’s; 251.343.7463 Gold Hoops, $165; Debra’s; 251.343.7463

Vintage Hermes’ Scarf Scrunchie, $96; Debra’s; 251.343.7463 Vintage Gucci Scarf Scrunchie, $96; Debra’s; 251.343.7463.

Vintage Designer Scarf Scrunchie, $56; Debra’s; 251.343.7463 Tocca Hand Cream, $20; The Holiday, 251.342.4911 Glass Perfume Bottles, (tall) $65, Short, $50; Five Gold Monkeys, 251.344.4051 Passport Holder, $55; Hemline, 251.287.6875

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GEM

Master Jeweler and Gemologist John Cauley, owner of John Cauley Jeweler, has spent the last 40 years of his life perfecting his craft. Specializing in creating unique designs and in-house repairs, John guarantees quality pieces for each of his clients.

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By Caroline Edmondson / Photos Layla Lambert

ohn’s love for jewelry dates back as far as his high school career, when he worked for a local jewelry store in his hometown of Jackson, Ala., and learned the art of jewelry repair. After graduating, John attended the Holland School for Jewelers in Selma to become a Master Jeweler – something he believes makes him stand out from the rest. “Your jeweler needs to be knowledgeable about everything from gems and diamonds to manufacturing jewelry,” John says.

“When a customer is investing in a piece of fine jewelry, they need someone who can explain everything they need to know about their jewelry, and someone who can teach them about the quality of their stones.

Customers appreciate a jeweler who is knowledgeable,” he says.

But John’s studies didn’t stop there.

He went on to attend the Gemological Institute of America (GIA) located in Santa Monica where he studied the science of diamond and gemstone identification and grading, which he says is very important to know in his business. “It was so fascinating to study gems and diamonds on campus,” John recalls.

“I was able to see and hold some of the most amazing gem specimens and diamonds,” he beams.

With all of his newfound knowledge in tow, John opened his first store in 1982 in his hometown of Jackson at the ripe old age of 21. “I have always believed in starting small and working your way up,” John says. “My first store had six showcases and a few wall shelves. I only used a small portion in the front of the building I had rented. As I grew, 80 ACCESS Magazine / November 2019

I moved further back into the store.

I was in that location for almost 10 years,” he shares. Today, John owns a beautiful store located in Midtown Mobile offering all facets of jewelry repair, design, restoration, engraving, and much more.

When it comes to sourcing new pieces for his store, John sticks to a high standard, as quality is extremely important to him. “I won’t sell anything that I cannot service, repair, or have a source to have repaired,” he says. “I only do business with reputable companies or sources I have dealt with for many years.” Because of this, John sells certified diamonds directly from GIA, ensuring his engagement rings and diamond jewelry are of the highest quality.

One of the most popular brands John carries is Sorrelli, a beautiful line of Swarovski crystal jewelry.

Using these crystals makes this line not only fashionable, but also very affordable. “Sorrelli not only offers pieces that are great for every day, but also exquisite designs that are perfect for a bride and her attendants, or to accessorize that favorite Mardi Gras gown,” he details. “We are honored to be the official jeweler to the National Distinguished Young Women Program here in Mobile. We outfit the girls in Sorrelli for each night of the program, and we love seeing the faces of the girls as they pick their selection of Sorrelli.”

If you’re seeking something truly one of a kind, John is more than happy to design a piece just for you, with a special love for repurposing unused jewelry into something unique. This can be seen when designing new engagement rings with diamonds made from family

heirlooms. “We are honored to be entrusted with creating a new piece using a valuable family heirloom,” he says. “We strive to find the perfect diamond or setting for the new bride-to-be. I really work hard to create exactly what my customer wants. I get so many reactions from my customers when they see their finished custom creation… smiles, tears. It makes me proud to make a customer happy.”

Of course John says all of his success wouldn’t be possible without his amazing team at John Cauley Jeweler: Amy, Ann, Lee Ann, and Gary. As for the future of his store?

“We will continue to add new lines, create new and exciting designs, and strive hard to be the best,” he says.

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In this day and age, having an online presence for your business can mean the difference between success or flop. That’s why it is important to work witha company that specializes in marketing to help put businesses (like yours) on the “digital” map – a company like Southern View Media. Michelle Murrill, Southern View Media co-owner (alongside husband Brad), tells ACCESS about the importance of digital marketing.

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t’s no secret that our world is quickly going digital, which means if a company has no online presence, it’s likely losing major money. No one understands this more than Michelle Murrill, co-owner of Southern View Media, who started her company back in 2015 in an effort to help area businesses increase their digital visibility. But the depth and scope of her online experience precedes the start of her Alabama-based company by far.

Having moved to Charleston years ago with her husband, Brad, and initially establishing herself as a stay-at-home mom, Michelle swiftly realized that the lifestyle didn’t suit her career desires. To curb her entrepreneurial craving, she launched an online platform dubbed MomsofCharleston.com where she showcased all of the area’s exciting local events and happenings (places for kids to take lessons; awesome birthday party locations; restaurants where kids eat free; etc.), and area advertisers were quick to reach out to be listed on the site or to display their ads. “I worked hard to make the website show up in Google search results organically, used Google Ads, and grew a following on social media platforms for the site,” Michelle explains. “I ended up making a profit before the site even launched and was approached about a buyout shortly thereafter.” Michelle loved her time researching content for the website, but also enjoyed meeting the advertisers and hearing how the content marketing was working for them. “I learned so much about digital during this time, and it was really just the beginning of the digital marketing world back in 2008 to 2010,” she says.

In 2010, the couple moved back to Baldwin County, digital marketing knowledge and a plan in tow.

“We wanted to start another company similar to the one I had in Charleston but needed to prepare and plan before we jumped in,” she says. “I worked for another company selling and putting together marketing strategies for about five years. During that time, we saved money, and the overall vision for our company changed into what Southern View

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Media is today.” Michelle and Brad completed training and testing on digital marketing products to make sure they were prepared to take on their first client when the time came. “We set pretty high standards, expectations, and goals for ourselves, our company, and our future employees,” she adds.

Thus, Southern View Media was born.

So, what exactly does Southern View Media do for big and small businesses? Clients are offered a wide range of digital marketing services including website design, social media marketing, online ads, email marketing, logo design, app development, and much more. “The problem we help a lot of clients solve is finding the right digital products to use to represent their business online,” Michelle says. “The question isn’t why they need it; it really is what type of online marketing do they need the most to attract their perfect client. The answer differs for each business, as each industry and business are unique. It’s our job to get to know that particular business and see what works for them.”

Michelle and Brad follow a few basic principles when it comes to each of their clients. First off, Michelle explains that people do not want to be sold; they want to buy – but they don’t want the hard sell when they are scrolling through their news feed. Because of this, Southern View Media focuses on what Michelle calls “The 3 E’s of Social Media”: Education, Entertainment, and Engagement. “Once people follow a page, engage with the page, and we build up credibility, they will spend more and be a more loyal customer because they feel like they have built a relationship with our client online,” Michelle explains. “The key to success, though, is truly partnering with the businesses we work with and getting to know them, their voice, and their clientele to make sure the content we create matches their company vision. There is just no cookie-cutter way to approach it; you have to dig in, do the work, and do the research to see the results, but it pays off!”

And pay off it has, with big-name clients like Truland Homes and Peak Alkalinity seeing a positive impact thanks to Southern View Media. Erica Pounder, marketing director for Truland Homes, says, “We have been impressed with the quality of services we’ve received from Southern View, but more than their expertise, we have been impressed with their level of customer service, which is above anything else we have experienced with other companies.”

As for Peak Alkalinity, Michelle says they have enjoyed helping them grow from a small storefront in Fairhope to a multi-location business by building their online presence from scratch.

These success stories show how important it is for small, local businesses to have a large presence online in order to grow. Without a well-known, national name, local businesses rely on word of mouth and referrals by clients. This is why digital marketing is essential for these small businesses, as it really gets their name out there and helps grow their clientele. It is possible to have your business become a household name; you just have to have the right digital tools to make it happen.

What makes Southern View Media the best choice?

Its team and individualized process, of course!

Michelle says her team is “the best of the best,” as her first standard for a new staff member is finding someone smarter than her, since no one person can possibly be an expert at all the services they provide.

Southern View Media has focused on its processes since the beginning, making sure nothing gets left out. “We continually update, change, improve, 84 ACCESS Magazine / November 2019

and customize these processes as we grow. But this is what keeps our business moving forward,” Michelle says.

As far as balancing marriage and their shared company, Michelle and Brad say they love what they do, and their work is an integral part of their marriage and who they are. “As far as working with my spouse, I absolutely love it,” Michelle says. “Having him in the office with me means no matter how difficult a situation or stressful a day, he can lighten the mood and make me laugh. It is a lot of fun! We are smart about it, though, and keep separate offices,” she jokes. “Watching how Michelle manages the business, our team, and our family is amazing,” Brad adds. “Knowing we are working together for a common goal in all aspects of life is an incredible feeling.” Michelle and Brad currently have three children, aged 18, 11, and their newest addition, a baby boy named Hudson, born just last month. Michelle says the months leading up to his birth were filled with the hustle and bustle that comes naturally with nesting: “I had planned out a lot of things to balance and prepare for those first few weeks of chaos after you bring a new baby home,” Michelle jokes. “The whole family is thrilled for this caboose baby!” Congratulations Michelle and Brad on their newest addition and continued success in their business!

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obile, Alabama has its fair share of architectural landmarks. The stylistic expressions encompassed by the Port City’s built landscape are many and varied. Greek Revival, Gothic Revival, Queen Anne, and the International Style are just a few of the architectural iterations rising from within Mobile’s lush tree canopy. Classically attuned buildings are among the most admired landmarks. Christ Church Cathedral, the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception, Oakleigh, and Stewartfield come to mind. Along with those Graeco allied edifices, there are equally admired buildings, such as the Daniels-Elgin Building, the old City Hall, Ketchum House, and Bragg-Mitchell Mansion that are more Italian in flavor from the larger classical menu. Mobile’s Italianate structures are among the city’s most beloved. Whether informed by the palazzo or villa variants of the expression, the Italianate was pervasive. In their number and quality, Mobile’s Italianate buildings comprise an expressive presence in the City’s building stock. Let us explore a few examples and what they represent.

Completed in 1860, the Daniels-Elgin Building (51 Dauphin Street) constitutes Mobile’s best expression of the palazzo category of the Italianate. Featuring four stories of regularized columns, windows, and entablatures, the building resembles a Venetian, Roman, or Florentine palace. The facing – cast iron – was high-tech for its day. The building is the last extant instance of Mobile’s 19th Century cast iron facades. Once the city’s commercial streets were lined with buildings featuring whole or partial facades made of cast iron. The material and construction were extolled for their speed and ease of construction, as well as ease of maintenance. Impressive, progressive, and traditional, the Daniels-Elgin Building conveyed the solid presence of the commercial presences that occupied the building.

Completed in 1855, the Old City Hall and Southern Market at 111 South Royal Street (the presentday History Museum of Mobile) is one of the Port City’s three National Historic Landmarks. That honor is the highest cultural designation which the National Parks Service can bestow on a building or site. With its overhanging eaves, large brackets, central tower, and stucco walls, the Old City Hall features elements and materials associated with the villas ringing Rome and Florence. This essay in the villa mode of the Italianate broadcasts the success and optimism so broadly manifested in late Antebellum Mobile. The building was one of the finest and most fashionable municipal buildings constructed in the Deep South during the Antebellum era. Constructed at considerable public expense, the Old City Hall and Southern Market remains an anchor of Mobile public life in its current usage.

The Ketchum House or Archbishop’s Residence (400 Government Street) of 1860 is the first Antebellum house one encounters when making one’s way westward on Government Street from the Mobile River. The grand old dwelling is a melding of the palazzo and villa modes that comprise the Italianate. The symmetry of the overall form and regularity of features are informed by the former, while the embracing galleries and tower are indebted to the latter. When constructed, the Ketchum House struck a novel new course in Mobile architecture. The interiors are among the most elaborate of the Antebellum era, a fitting showplace for a family that figured among the wealthiest of Mobile’s civic-planter-mercantile elite.

The Bragg-Mitchell Mansion (1906 Spring Hill Avenue) dating from 1855 represents an eclectic blend of the Italianate and the Greek Revival. Monumental or two-story columns associated with temple form buildings embrace an irregularly-shaped and sprawling dwelling. A close look at the columns shows that they are not of an order (Tuscan, Doric, Ionic, Corinthian, or Composite), but, all the same, classical in feel. Bracketed eaves and asymmetry within symmetry (the door is off center), and other attributes are purely Italianate. A true villa and dwelling located between town and country, the grand residence localized motifs borrowed from the two dominant styles informing the architecture of Antebellum Mobile.

First appearing in the 1850s in Mobile and falling from fashion in the 1880s, the Italianate comprises a sizable portion of Mobile’s architectural patrimony. Regardless if a given instance adopts the forms and features of the palazzo or villa variants (even a combination of the two), the Italianate is yet another dialect of the classical language of architecture. At once fashionable and at times practical, the Italianate in Mobile deserves more study and celebration.

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IT’S ALL ABOUT THE KIDS, OR IS IT? Entering into divorce custody proceedings can be a trial – not only for parents, but for the children involved as well. When co-parenting during proceedings, parents might check with their attorneys before making a parenting decision they would have made on their own prior.

While courts can intervene and protect bruised and battered children, courts mostly specialize in the division of assets and logistical and financial compromises between the parties.

COMMUNICATING WITH A GAL: Cases involving minor children will often be assigned a third attorney known as a “Guardian Ad Litem,” or GAL. Communication should be strictly governed by your attorney, as the information is not confidential and can sway a judge. GALs can assess parents for issues regarding the children’s school structure, medical care, and home situation – even down to how many children share a room. Ideally, children will meet frequently with a GAL, but it is important to note that each encounter will result in billing (typically divided by both parties). In light of this reality, be efficient and relay shared exchanges to your lawyer in writing.

STEERING CLEAR OF ALIENATION ISSUES: Most judges (outside of clear physical abuse) do not seek to remove children from a parent. That said, it can be incredibly challenging to receive the concerns of a child experiencing non-bruising emotional or psychological abuse without seeming to alienate them from that parent. If the spouse is truly disordered, abusive, or even has a personality disorder, the child will need a counselor, psychologist, or psychiatrist to help them with the emotional damage. If the other parent simply has opinions and parenting practices that differ from your own, it’s best to tell your children that you and the other parent are different and both trying to do what’s in their best interest.

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A GOOD DINNER PARTY We all know how to set a lovely white table. However, when we dare to think outside of the box, the results add up to a most memorable occasion. Leaving the sterile behind and implementing easy ideas can bring the fun to those “ho-hum” eat-and-run meals that leave a hostess to ponder why she even bothered. Here, the editor in chief of ACCESS shares her top tips for hosting a night to remember, a brunch to brag about, and more.

By Hayley Hill, Editor

ADD SOMETHING UNEXPECTED With an eclectic group of friends, I’ve been to a dinner party where guests were only permitted to sing – not talk – at the table. Talk about singing for your supper! I also enjoyed a random yet hilarious French-themed Thanksgiving where guests were greeted with a hearty “bonjour” and a beret to wear, the sweet sounds of Edith Piaf, fancy French cheeses, and more. Also, setting up an entrance area and snapping pics of guests as they arrive is super fun and easy. Later, send them a “Thanks for joining us” email and include their photo.

My point? It doesn’t have to be complicated; a little flare or unique gesture goes a long way.

ALWAYS HAVE A SIGNATURE COCKTAIL Long ago in Paris, I fell deeply in love with the Kir Royale.

This French cocktail consists of crème de cassis topped with champagne and served in a fluted glass. To start, add the crème de cassis before your gathering to the bottom of the glass and then allow guests to top it with champagne and a fresh raspberry. Rare in the South, they’ll be saying “you’re so fancy” in no time.

USE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR Avoid yawning guests by giving them a laugh.

Funny cocktail napkin options abound and serve as great icebreakers. Or, if you’re hosting a girls’ night and your group has a handbag and heels obsession, call them out with chocolate. If you have guests kkoriginally from another state, incorporating a souvenir plate (albeit cheesy) into your hors d’oeuvres set-up will stir laughter and make folks feel special. Have a drinking crowd? Send them home with a hangover kit. You get the gist – make it personal.

GIVE THEM SOMETHING TO TALK ABOUT Don’t leave good conversation to chance. While you can buy games with table topics, it can be much, much easier. As the hostess, keep it to yourself and pick someone at the table. Forgetting what you know, think of three things you’d assume about them if you were behind them in line at a store. Maybe you’d think they collect cats or spend all their money on the latest beauty treatments. Share those three things and ask guests to guess who you’re describing. It’s called kkkkkkkkk “Assumptions,” and it’s fun every time.

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JUST SAY ‘NO’ TO CELL PHONES Naturally, you can’t be too bossy, but you can smile and tell your guests “No phones at the table.”

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Alabama Pecan Festival

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November 2

Wine On The River Mobile 2019 3:00 PM – 6:00 PM Cooper Riverside Park Water St. Mobile, Alabama Tickets at: WineOnTheRiverMobile.com

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11:00 AM – Close Gulf Shores and Mobile Causeway locations Please show your military ID or wear your uniform so we Novmeber 10 you in person and can salute The Market at The thank you for Pillars your service.

12:00 PM – 4:00 PM The Pillars 1757 Government St, Mobile, Alabama Local Eats & Live Music Bloody Mary & Mimosa Bar

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Christmas Jubilee

9:00 AM – 11:00 AM Arthur R. Outlaw Mobile Convention Center 1 S. Water St. Mobile, Alabama This event will feature more than 100 merchants from around the country under one roof for three exciting days of shopping!

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Elizabeth Ann Frey November 3rd

Molly Dolan Conger November 8th

Kelly Finely November 9th

Sandy Howard November 10th

Miranda Pate Dismukes November 11th

Sadie Solberg November 15th

Emily Ryan Smith November 18th

Tim Burt November 19th

Weston Simpson November 21st

Sherry Pierce November 21st

November 21

The City of Fairhope’s Annual Lighting of the Trees

November 2

Market in the Park - Fall Season 7:30 AM – 12:00 PM Cathedral Square, Mobile, Alabama Fresh produce, local vendors, baked goods, farm eggs, fresh seafood, canned preserves, local honey, handmade art, plants, herbs, and more!

November 9

Bay Area Brunch Fest

10:00 AM – 2:00 PM Bienville Square, Mobile, Alabama Tickets available at OnLifeLinesMobile.org or by texting: BrunchFestTix to 41444.

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November 14

One Night in Havana

6:30 PM – 9:30 AM 23 East Warehouse Space @ Brookley Airfield 1886 Fifth St. Mobile, Alabama One Night in Havana will transport you to a tropical night club filled with the sights, sounds, and flavors of Havana. Proceeds benefit the Distinguished Young Women Foundation.

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5:30 PM – 7:30 PM Downtown Fairhope, Alabama Entertainment includes the Fairhope High School band, the Fairhope Middle School band, and the Eastern Shore Choral Society. Mrs. Claus will be passing out candy.

November 23

Mobile International Festival 10:00 AM – 5:00 PM The Grounds 1035 Cody Rd. N. Mobile, Alabama Tickets: $12.00, Seniors $10.00, Students $5.00.

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