Gifts of Gratitude Thanking Your Bridesmaids By Patricia Danflous
She said, “Yes.” Now, how do you thank your bridesmaid for standing by your side on your big day?
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oth oldfashioned and contemporary etiquette says a thank you gift is called for, but modern brides (and modern bridesmaids) are most excited about gifts that show sincere appreciation in a creative,
but useful way. The most unique bridesmaid’s gift is the one that makes a long-lasting, happy memory. You want the gift to reflect you and possibly your wedding theme, but not so out-of-the-box that it winds up hidden away in a closet and long-forgotten.
TRENDS TODAY INCLUDE: Monogrammed items Accessories that can be used on the day of wedding Shoes – for the wedding day and/or flats for reception Tote bags Garment bags Jewelry to complement the bridesmaid’s gown Make-up palettes and brushes Robes, pajamas, slippers, and bath oils
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THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO RECEIVE AS A GREAT BRIDESMAID’S THANK YOU,AND LET YOUR IMAGINATION GUIDE YOU. CONSIDER SUCH GIFTS AS: Candles in the color theme of your wedding or with the fragrance of your flowers An individualized photo album with pictures of you and your bridesmaid along with a description of some of your favorite memories together. A journal in your wedding theme colors with a personalized thank you on the first page Artwork that you created yourself, something different for each bridesmaid A novel that reminds you of your bridesmaid and/ or your friendship, with a dated inscription
Gift certificates for a day of beauty at her favorite local spa A year of monthly deliveries of flowers, wine or a massage-a-month gift to show your bridesmaid that you appreciate her as a friend, not just a bridesmaid Need more inspiration for finding that extra-special, unique gift? Find inspiration the modern way. Check out internet sites such as etsy, Pinterest, The Grommet, Uncommon Goods, and Perpetual Kid. Or look for ideas the old-fashioned way by attending crafts fairs or visiting a local craft store. Keep in mind that the best gift you can give your bridesmaids is a sincere thank-you and a positive attitude from the moment you ask her until the lights go off on your wedding day.
