FALL 2018 T h e
B r i d e ’ s
R e s o u r c e
HowSweet It Is INSPIRATION TO ENHANCE YOUR DRESS GREAT PHOTO IDEAS
TO HAVE and TO HOLD Choosing The Right Bouquet
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( Contents )
TO HAVE
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TO HOLD
Make a beautiful bouquet that stands out as much as you
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INSPIRATIONS TO ENHANCE YOUR DRESS
Accessories that add unique charm to your dream wedding dress
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WHAT’S THE BEST HAIRSTYLE FOR YOUR FACE SHAPE?
Curly, straight, or updo– we’ll find the perfect do for you 4
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ADD THAT SPECIAL TOUCH TO HIS TUX
Add an extra touch of individuality to your tuxedo ensemble
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HOW SWEET IT IS
Creative and budgetfriendly alternatives to the traditional cake
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MAKING MEMORIES. STEP BY STEP.
Choose the perfect song for your first dance as Mr. & Mrs.
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FIND THE RIGHT WORDS TO SAY “I DO”
Write your own wedding vows straight from the heart
( Vows )
Find the Right Words to Say “I Do”
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IT’S THE POWER OF A PROMISE. SPEAK FROM YOUR HEART.
ust like you’ll work on everything in your new life together, it’s important for you and your partner to work together on your vows.This is the first and official element of your marriage.Together you can decide on what’s important to you and your relationship.
You and your partner might want to answer and discuss some key questions. What does this marriage mean to you - and to each of you? What are you truly vowing to do and to be in your marriage? You may want to include these sentences into your vows or they might simply help you get started: I love you because…. I will be true to this relationship because…. I will honor you forever because…… For inspiration, you can select a few lines from a book or borrow a romantic verse from a song or poem.Think about how these lines or versus reflect your love and devotion to each other. Some keywords to consider are love, honor, cherish, keep and promise. To add some humor or more intimate elements to your vows, think about the little things your fiancé does or qualities they have that makes you smile when you think about them. What funny things do they do that always make you laugh? What silly habits or funny expressions do they have? What defining moment made you think “I want to spend the rest of my life with this person.” Rekindle memories of the past but also look to your future together. What emotions do you feel when you think about being together forever. Do you picture a certain scene (like walking into your new house together or coming home from work every day to say “I missed you today”)? Write love letters to each other.This gives you the opportunity to share with your fiancé your true feelings and why your love matters. Designate a time to exchange your letters and discuss with each other elements that you think could be incorporated into your vows. Remember, your vows are a foundation you can rely upon as you grow and change in your new, emerging life. These are more than practiced words, they are an expression of what you hold deep within your heart.
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Executive Publishers GREG AND SUZANNE FOX Managing Editor SUZANNE FOX Creative Director DIANNE WALLER Design TRA PHAM
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Art/Production MELISSA FOSTER Writers SARIKA MIRCHANDANI LAURA FURR MERICAS MICHELE ROBERT POCHE PATRICIA DANFLOUS
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( Tux )
The Groom Sets
the TONE
THE GROOM IS TRADITIONALLY THE FIRST PERSON THE GUESTS SEE AT ANY WEDDING. “WOW” THEM WITH YOUR SMOOTH LOOK AND STUNNING INDIVIDUAL STYLE. 8
CUMMERBUND Want to add a splash of color to your tux? Then you can’t go wrong with a cummerbund. They are usually worn with a single breasted tuxedo jacket, matching trousers, and a dress shirt. The most important thing to remember is that your cummerbund should always match your tie! Going traditional? – Then choose a black, gray, or red cummerbund. There’s one out there that could be the wedding colors, which would give you a debonair look! CUFF LINKS Monogrammed or jeweled cuff links are great accessories that really add
pizazz to the tux. If you’re wearing a white tuxedo shirt, choose dark cuff links to really stand out. Make sure the dress shirt you’re wearing has French cuffs. Maybe you’re looking to add a bit of humor? You can virtually find any kind of cuff link imaginable – from hobbies, sports, and fictional characters. Definitely speak with your fiancé about going for this “personalized” approach! FORMAL GLOVES The classic look is still in! Consider wool, cashmere, or nylon stretch formal gloves for the ultimate statement. Although white gloves may be tempting, it’s suggested that gray or black gloves work best for a black tuxedo. Gloves can be worn in any season, but are especially elegant in a fall or winter wedding. www.gloves-online.com THE POCKET SQUARE Add a dash of color by slipping a pocket square into your tuxedo jacket. Be sure the pocket square matches your other wedding accessories, especially the vest or cummerbund and your tie. There are many ways to fold a pocket square —some simple and some more complicated —but how you choose to wear it depends mostly on personal taste. www.theartofmanliness.com TUXEDO VEST If you’ve opted out of the cummerbund, then the tuxedo vest is your next best choice. A tuxedo vest is worn over the formal shirt and under the tuxedo jacket. Piquecollared vests are extremely stylish and very formal. Most pique-collared vests are sold in black or white. For a less formal wedding, you can go for colored or brocade versions. www.dessy.com/men
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( Bouquets )
TO HAVE and TO HOLD
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CHOOSING THE RIGHT WEDDING BOUQUET MAY FEEL LIKE A DIFFICULT TASK, BUT WITH SOME ASSISTANCE YOU WILL SEE YOUR FLORAL ACCESSORIES FALL PERFECTLY IN TO PLACE.
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( Bouquets )
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very bride is unique. Every wedding is as much of an individual as the bride.Your personality and the inspirations of your wedding day will be seen in every detail of the day.Your bouquet is just as important as your dress. Choosing the right wedding bouquet may feel like a difficult task, but with some assistance you will see your floral accessories fall perfectly in to place. The design, style and color of your bridal gown are all integral components when choosing floral designs. The color palette of your bridal party, their gowns and styling, enhance the floral theme.The floral designs should act as an accent to the color and style of your bridesmaid’s gowns. Before starting the process of choosing your wedding flowers you may want to have these decisions in place to allow the floral design process to flow gracefully.
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CONSIDER THE SEASON Some flowers may not be available at the time of year that you are getting married. You don’t want to fall in love with one flower and be disappointed that the flower of your dreams cannot be found anywhere in for your March wedding day. Or just as bad, will set you back in budget due to the high cost because they are out of season. MATCH THE COLOR Color is key. There are so many different shades of white… snow, ivory and cream are just a few. Speak with your florist and see what type of flower they would recommend that works with the exact color of your dress. Don’t forget about your bridesmaid’s dresses. Most dress stores will have samples or swatches that you can take with you when consulting your florist. Try to incorporate the exact material when possible. If you are wrapping your bouquet in fabric, ask for any fabric left
over during alterations. You will be sure to have a perfect match! BEAUTIFUL AND COMFORTABLE Your bouquet is your biggest accessory on your wedding day (after your groom, of course). Your bouquet doesn’t need to just be beautiful; it also has to be comfortable.You will be holding it for most of the day and want it to be with you in many of the photographs that will be taken. Try not to choose anything that is going to be difficult to carry or make you stand awkwardly.
After all the thought you’ve put into your bouquet you may not want to toss it! Preserve it and have the florist make a second bouquet, a smaller version for you to toss.You can keep your bouquet as a beautiful heirloom for years to come!
PERSONALIZE IT Ask family members for jewelry, like a brooch your grandmother wore, or earrings that were handed down to your mother. Add a small bow or gems to the bouquet handle. Place a tiny photo of a loved one who is unable to be there on your special day in a small, charm like frame on the handle of your bouquet. Ask your florist for any unique ideas that they have seen other brides do that really made that bouquet unique and special.
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( Wedding Dress )
Inspirations to Enhance Your Dress 14
( Wedding Dress )
Earrings, necklaces, and bracelets can complement your wedding dress and give you that extra “sparkle” on your Big Day.
SASH OR BELT Whether beaded, floral, rhinestone, or sequins – sashes or belts are great for highlighting the waistline and creating a tapered, defined look. You’ll also find simple looks from vintage or designer styles. There are so many colors and materials to choose from, that no matter what you go with, a sash or belt will only accentuate the dress of your dreams. www.bella-tiara.com GLOVES Your hands are an integral element on your wedding day (think of your fiancé placing the ring on your finger). Dress them up with gloves – fingerless, halffinger, and from wrist to opera length. You’ll find more than just plain white gloves. Brown, black, red are just a few of the latest trends. Gloves can also be adorned with elegant beads, flowers, pearls, sequins, and crystals. www.greatglovesonline.com JACKET If you thought a jacket is a must-have only for a fall or winter wedding – you’ll be surprised to find out that jackets are used for any season! If you’re tying the knot in the spring or summer, consider
a jacket made of lace or tulle. Some jackets are also small enough to look like shrugs, stoles, or boleros. But the best part of a jacket is that it can bring out a bride’s waist and the gown, as well. www.topwedding.com CLUTCH BAG You’ll want to keep a few things handy; lipstick, your cell phone, or a few tissues. It’s a huge comfort knowing that these things are close at hand just in case. Plus, with so many colors, styles, and sizes, it’s a fun addition to your attire – and totally practical! www.chicastic.com JEWELRY The sky’s the limit with jewelry. Earrings, necklaces, and bracelets can complement your wedding dress and give you that extra “sparkle” on your Big Day. Consider your neckline and sleeve patterns with the type of jewelry to wear. Also consider hanging earrings if your dress has a closed neck in front.To play it safe – pearls are also a girl’s best friend. They look classy for a traditional wedding and for a themed wedding, you can choose colored pearls for that beautiful touch. www.helzberg.com
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( Wedding Cakes )
How Sweet It Is THE TRADITIONAL CAKE IS A STAPLE AT MOST WEDDING RECEPTIONS, BUT MORE AND MORE, COUPLES ARE OFFERING DIFFERENT DESSERTS AS A WAY OF GETTING GUESTS OUT OF THEIR SEATS – AND 16 ENJOYING DELICIOUS TREATS!
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rendy? We think they’re just tasty. Of course we’re talking about cupcakes! Think of them as mini wedding cakes – only fuss-free and easy on the budget. They are much easier to transport. Plus, you can have a variety of flavors, with choices for frosting. Decorate with chocolate, frosted flowers, fruit, or have them monogrammed. You can also decorate the papers they are baked in – which opens up a whole new level of creativity. Set out on a table or arrange on a multi-level stand. Sundae bars are also becoming a favorite! Keep it simple with vanilla, strawberry, or chocolate, or go all out with unique flavors like Tiramisu, Deep Dish Cherry Pie, or Bailey’s Chocolate Chip. But the best part of a sundae bar – all the toppings! Serve everything from candy, fruit, nuts, syrups, and last but not least – whip cream and cherries! The way you present your sundae bar depends on the mood you’re looking to achieve. Go for simple, a classic twist, or elegant. It all depends on how you decorate the backdrop, containers, labels, and spoons. There’s nothing as American as pie! So if you’re having an allAmerican wedding or an outdoor country wedding, then pie is the perfect dessert for your guests to enjoy! More and more couples are asking for pie instead of cake. It’s less expensive than a wedding cake. Plus, it’s a fresh idea, especially when serving pies made with fresh apples or berries. We can just imagine a kitchen full of family and friends baking pies and making sure the dessert at your reception is as good as how grandma always makes them! So, instead of waiting to be served a piece of cake, guests can indulge their sweet tooth with these delicious alternatives. Plus, it gives you the room for creativity – and gives your guests room for seconds!
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( 1st Dance )
Making Memories. Step by Step YOU’VE SAID “I DO”. NOW IT’S TIME TO BEGIN THE EVENING CELEBRATION BY WALKING OUT ONTO THE DANCE FLOOR AS HUSBAND AND WIFE. YOUR FIRST SONG TOGETHER WILL FOREVER BE “YOUR” SONG. MAKE IT MEMORABLE.
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CLASSIC “We’ve Got Tonight” (Bob Seger) “You are So Beautiful” (Joe Cocker) “At Last” (Etta James) “Unforgettable” (Nat King Cole) “Dream a Little Dream” (Mama & The Papas) “Grow Old With Me” (Mary Chapin Carpenter) “What a Wonderful World”(Louis Armstrong) “Signed, Sealed, and Delivered” (Stevie Wonder) CONTEMPORARY “Time After Time” (Cyndi Lauper) “Everything I Do I Do It For You” (Bryan Adams) “Open Arms” (Journey) “Love of a Lifetime” (Firehouse) “Thank You” (Dido) “A Moment Like This” (Kelly Clarkson) “I’m With You” (Avril Lavigne) COUNTRY “Forever and Ever, Amen” (Randy Travis) “Bless the Broken Road” (Rascall Flatts) “God Gave Me You” (Blake Shelton) “My Best Friend” (Tim McGraw) “She’s Everything” (Brad Paisley) “Lost in This Moment” (Big & Rich) “You’re Still the One” (Shinia Twain)
R&B “I’m Your Angel” (R. Kelly) “No One” (Alicia Keys) “We Found Love” (Rhianna) “All My Life” (K-Ci &JoJo) “Forever” (R. Kelly) “I Do” (Boyz II Men)
ROCK “Today” (Smashing Pumpkins) “Everlong” (Foo Fighters) “I’m Yours” (The Script) “Come to Me” (Goo Goo Dolls) “I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing” (Aerosmith)
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A grand exit. For day weddings, give your guests something colorful to throw as you leave the reception. For night, providing them with something illuminated, such as sparklers, lights the way beautifully in photographs.
An aerial view. Of the ceremony, the first dance or the cutting of the cake. It’s all about the dress really. You definitely want to catch it in all its glory from this impressive angle.
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A “first look” shot. The look on anyone’s face when the fully-bedecked bride is first presented is always priceless. Be sure to capture the expressions of the bridesmaids, the groom and especially the father of the bride.
A “thank you” picture. Before you take off your elegant wedding duds, take one minute to pose for a picture together holding a thank you sign (prepared in advance) so you can include the photo with your thank you notes.
A generational moment. Capture three (or more) generations on the bride or groom’s side. The women could opt for something different and include simply their hands and wedding rings. Or the couple could pose together each holding a wedding photo of his or her parents.
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g n i d d e W get Bud Invitations & Stationery Save the Date cards Invitations, Reply Cards Postage Programs Menu Cards Place Cards Thank You Cards Calligraphy Miscellaneous TOTAL Bridal Attire & Beauty Gown Veil / Headpiece Alterations Shoes Lingerie Accessories Jewelry Makeup Hair Nails Miscellaneous TOTAL Groom’s Attire Tuxedo / Suit Shoes Cuff Links Grooming Accessories Miscellaneous TOTAL
Ceremony Location fee Officiant fee Marriage License Rings Music Miscellaneous TOTAL
Reception Location fee Food Drink Rentals Wedding Cake Groom’s Cake Favors Music Security Gratuities Miscellaneous TOTAL Flowers Ceremony Reception Decorations Bridal Bouquet Attendant Bouquets Boutonnieres Flower Girl Parents & Grandparents Miscellaneous TOTAL
Photography Photography Videography Albums Miscellaneous TOTAL Transportation Limousine(s) Miscellaneous TOTAL Gifts Wedding Party Parents Bride & Groom Miscellaneous TOTAL Honeymoon Airline tickets Accommodations Car Rentals Food Entertainment Excursions Souvenirs Passports Clothing Miscellaneous TOTAL Miscellaneous Wedding Consultant Gown Preservation TOTAL TOTAL BUDGET:
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Deadlines & Details
THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS TO REMEMBER WHEN PLANNING A WEDDING. TO ENSURE SUCCESS – AND YOUR SANITY – THE KEY IS ORGANIZATION. WE’VE COMPILED A DETAILED CHECKLIST THAT PAYS SPECIAL ATTENTION TO TIME-SENSITIVE DEADLINES, SO YOU CAN CREATE A FOOLPROOF CALENDAR AND TO-DO LIST.
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12 months +
Select date, time and place.Then reserve venues! Decide on wedding size and style. Hire wedding consultant (if applicable) and create wedding website. Shop for gown. Begin guest list.
9-12 months
Research honeymoon destinations. Book musicians, DJ, florist, photographer, videographer and limousines. Order invitations. Purchase gown and begin alterations. Ask friends to be in wedding party and order bridesmaid dresses.
6-9 months
Finalize guest list and send save-the-date cards. Book appointments for hair, nails and make-up. Reserve attire for groom and groomsmen. Order cake(s). Purchase rings.
3-6 months
Secure bridal accessories (such as shoes, jewelry, garter and mementos) Give musicians a list of songs you want them to play (or to avoid). Make food choices with venue.
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Mail invitations.
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Give photographer a list of pictures you want taken.
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Give final head count to reception venue.
The day before
Hold rehearsal ceremony and dinner. Deliver everything to site and work out any kinks. Give marriage license to officiant. Present gifts to wedding party, parents and any other honored guests.
The day of
Give rings and officiant’s fee to best man. Designate liaison for photographer to ensure all necessary pictures are taken. EXHALE! NOTE: Larger cities have long waiting lists for wedding vendors so you may need to act sooner!
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( Hairstyles )
What’s the
Best Hairstyle for Your Face Shape?
WE’VE FOUND THE BEST ADVICE FROM PROFESSIONAL STYLISTS FOR THE BRIDE-TO-BE. THE BEST ADVICE OF ALL IS TO WEAR YOUR HAIR FOR YOUR FACE SHAPE. IT’S YOUR DAY - LOOK AND FEEL YOUR ABSOLUTE BEST! ROUND Kate Winslet Drew Barrymore Christina Ricci Fullness is key! To achieve this, choose hairstyles with fullness and height at the crown. Layers are also great to make your face appear slimmer. If you desire curls, then go for wide curls that flow beneath your chin. SQUARE Demi Moore Sandra Bullock Isabella Rosellini Wispy bangs that will soften your face and boho curls will look great on you! Make sure to off-center parts with height at the crown. Continue with wispy curls around your face, and if going straight, then make sure to add lots of layers. HEART-SHAPED Michelle Pfeiffer Lucy Lawless Ashley Judd A chin length bobbed hairstyle is perfect for you! Your great cheekbones should be emphasized. But don’t add too much height at the crown or this will take away from those cheekbones. Shaggy layers are also great for your face shape.
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LONG Gwyneth Paltorw Kirstie Alley Janet Jackson
OVAL Jennifer Aniston Cameron Diaz Sharon Stone
Wear your hair with fullness and a soft fringe with plenty of layers cut through the length of your hair. Keep your hair above shoulder length. A center or side part will complement your features, as well.
Your hair will look amazing in just about any style, up or down.You will look best when styling your hair off your face. Slicked-backed looks are also a great option for you!
Style Tips from the Pros Be sure to schedule your hair appointment at least a month ahead of the wedding. Do a trial run. Schedule that in advance, as well. Bring your veil, hat, or any other accessory that you will have on your head or in your hair. Have a consolation with the hairdresser to ensure you both are on the same page for the style you want. Do a trial run with make up on. This will show you exactly how you‘ll look. Makeup changes the way anyone looks, so it’s a good idea to see what your hair will look like with it. Practice makes perfect! If your wedding pictures are on your wedding day, bring an umbrella or hat cap in case of inclement weather to protect your hair style. Just remember, you are not completely ready until your hair, makeup, accessories, and dress are together. Keep that in mind, so everything for the special day will come together as planned!
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