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54 Family Heirloom
A longtime designer of glamorous pageant wear takes greatest pride in making her own granddaughter’s wedding dress.
60 Renaissance Man
Industrious Tupelo artist, writer and preacher John Armistead fills his days doing what he loves.
66 2023 Wedding Trends
From smaller gatherings to over-the-top color, two wedding planners reflect on trends they expect to see more of this year.
72 Let It Shine
The Mississippi Civil Rights Museum offers a truthful trip through a painful part of history.
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It seems 2023 is off to a racing start. In this magazine, our first issue of the year, you’ll see some subtle changes. For those readers who begin reading at the back of the magazine (and we know many of you do), you’ll find our last page has a brandnew look. It’s a fresh take on what we hope will be a conversation starter or will give you a moment for reflection. If you know of an individual or organization that should be highlighted there this year, or if you have a topic you’d like to see discussed, let us know with an email or a phone call.
This month, we are also celebrating new marriages and couples who made
commitments to marry in the past year. Be sure and read about how one grandmother, Tricia Copelin, made her granddaughter’s wedding day extra special by pouring her talents into the bride’s gown (page 54). You’ll also meet Ellen Thomas and Emily Taylor, top wedding industry experts who shared some favorite tips and ideas for weddings on page 66.
We hope you enjoy this issue, and we’ll see you back here March 1.
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WOMEN'S BASKETBALL
OLE MISS VS. FLORIDA
February 5 | 3 p.m.
OLE MISS VS. KENTUCKY
February 13 | 6 p.m.
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February 19 | 3 p.m.
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Thacker Mountain Radio Hour
FEBRUARY 2, 9, 16, 23
Thacker Mountain Radio Hour kicks off its 2023 spring season Feb. 2. Host Jim Dees and house band the Yalobushwhackers are joined by special guests including author De’Shawn Charles Winslow and songwriters Rod Smoth and Amara Nicole. Free admission. 6 p.m., the Powerhouse. thackermountain.com
10-Minute Play Festival
FEBRUARY 10-11
Theatre Oxford’s annual 10-Minute Play Festival features productions of original plays from all over the world as well as local writers. The winning play receives a $1,000 prize. 7:30 p.m., the Powerhouse. theatreoxford.org
Step Afrika!
FEBRUARY 13
Step Afrika! brings the tradition of stepping to the Ford Center in a show that blends dance, songs, storytelling, humor and audience participation. Tickets from $20. 7:30 p.m., Ford Center. fordcenter.org
Ole Miss Baseball Opening Weekend
FEBRUARY 17-19
February 23 | 6 p.m.
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February 11 | 12 p.m.
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February 25 | 7:30 p.m.
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February 28 | 8 p.m.
St. Jude Taste of Oxford
FEBRUARY 16
The 15th annual Taste of Oxford takes place to benefit St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. Local Oxford restaurants, a St. Jude patient presentation, live auction and more. Individual tickets $150; sponsorship packages available online. 6 p.m. sponsor reception; 7 p.m. doors open. The Jefferson. www.stjude.org/tasteofoxford
Cheer on the national champs as they take on the University of Delaware to open the 2023 season. First pitch is Friday at 4 p.m.; Saturday at noon; and Sunday at noon, Oxford-University Stadium. olemisssports.com
Lyle Lovett and his Acoustic Group
FEBRUARY 25
Grammy Award-winning singer, composer and actor, Lyle Lovett performs in Oxford. Tickets from $60. 7:30 p.m., Ford Center. fordcenter.org
R.E.S.P.E.C.T.
FEBRUARY 28
A celebration of the music of the legendary Aretha Franklin comes to the Ford Center. Tickets from $25. 7:30 p.m., Ford Center. fordcenter.org
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Rodeo
FEBRUARY 4
Barnes Crossing Volkswagen’s Championship Rodeo comes to Tupelo. Tickets from $15. 7:30 p.m., Cadence Bank Arena.
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NEWMS Masquerade Bash
FEBRUARY 18
New Expectations for Women in Mississippi’s annual masquerade ball features DJ Charlie P., a costume contest and heavy hors d’oeuvres. The event benefits the NEWMS Fairy Godmother project. Tickets $50. 6 p.m., Tupelo County Club.
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February 2
VALENTINE'S DAY
February 14
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February 20
World of Customs Auto Show
FEBRUARY 24-26
The largest indoor auto show in the state features a wide variety of custom cars, trucks and motorcycles as well as restored and antique vehicles. For more information, call 662-538-8426. Tupelo Furniture Market.
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Exuberance & Grandeur
FEBRUARY 25
North Mississippi Symphony Orchestra’s concert, “Exuberance & Grandeur,” features piano virtuoso Yaron Kohlberg. Tickets $10-30. 7:30 p.m., Link Centre. nmsymphony.com
JA Tupelo Charity Ball
FEBRUARY 24
Junior Auxiliary of Tupelo’s 60th annual Charity Ball will be “A Grand Gala.” Tickets $50; sponsorships available online. 7 p.m.-midnight, Cadence Bank Arena. jatupelo.givesmart.com
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Filling Empty Bowls in Tupelo until 1 p.m. Just as last year, there will be two locations. At Tupelo Furniture Market Building V, people may get lunch to go or come in and eat. There will also be a canteen downtown at Renasant where to-go lunches may be picked up.
As in years past, lunch includes: a bowl of soup, a bit of bread, a bottle of water and a pottery bowl. The many varieties of hot soup will be made by 40-plus volunteers.
Salvation Army Women’s Auxiliary. “We are open to more bowls from area potters.”
Tickets for the Empty Bowls luncheon are $15 and are available at the Salvation Army or from any Women’s Auxiliary member. Tickets will also be available the day of the event. For additional information, call Murphree at 662-213-7596.
Members of the Salvation Army Women’s Auxiliary in Tupelo have planned for months for this year’s Empty Bowls luncheon.
The auxiliary’s 25th annual fundraiser will be Wednesday, March 1, from 11 a.m.
Two members of the Ole Miss Women’s golf team earned top spots in the Arnold Palmer Cup International Rankings.
Senior Andrea Lignell of Sweden achieved a rank of No. 1, and senior Chiara Tamburlini of Switzerland was ranked No. 10, the Women’s Golf Coaches Association announced in late December.
The tournament, held annually, is slated for play at Laurel Valley Golf Club in western Pennsylvania, June 8 through 10.
The tourney is for both men’s and women’s collegiate golfers from the United States who will play against their international counterparts in a team competition. Team USA currently leads the all-time series, 13-12-1.
The top six golfers from the spring’s final ranking from men and women from the U.S. and internationally will compete in the
Local potters are needed to help make and donate bowls, which have always been a part of the luncheon. Several potters and schools have already made commitments to help with the bowls, including Midnight Pottery, Canvas & Clay, Clay Creek, Sonshine Pottery, OK Clay, Tupelo High School, a Lee County school and East Union High School.
“We need 2,000 bowls,” said Lisa Murphree, this year’s president of the
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Arnold Palmer Cup. The teams will be rounded out by six additional players — five chosen by committee and one chosen by coaches.
Lignell is the first Ole Miss golfer to achieve a No. 1 ranking overall. In the 2022-23 season, she won a pair of college tournaments — the Cougar Classic and The Ally. She had a top three finish in the team’s four fall tourneys. Her stroke average was 69.50.
The Palmer Cup tournament will be Tamburlini’s second. She helped lead the International Team to a 33 to 27 victory over Team USA in the 2022 Arnold Palmer Cup played in her home country. As the 2022 First-Team WGCA All-American,
The annual event serves as a fundraiser to support the Salvation Army’s feeding of homeless individuals and others in need.
“Tupelo is such a giving community,” Murphree said. “Through Empty Bowls, people can reach out and support those in need in our local area. All the money stays right here.
“The Salvation Army is feeding between 1,010 and 1,050 a week at the community center, not only homeless but seniors on a fixed income. They can come and get a hot lunch.”
Tamburlini took top 10 spots in her past seven tournaments. She also boasts 15 top 20 finishes that began at the 2021 NCAA Championships.
The Arnold Palmer Cup began in 1997 and is named in honor of the legendary golfer.
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Law School Welcomes New Dean
A national search for a new dean of the University of Mississippi School of Law has led to Mississippi native Frederick G. Slabach.
Slabach is a 1982 graduate of the UM School of Law. For the past 12 years, he has served as president of Texas Wesleyan University. In the decade before becoming president, he taught law at Texas Wesleyan, the Florida Coastal School of Law and Whittier Law School. He was dean of the Texas Wesleyan Law School from 2003 to 2006.
In addition to his law degree, Slabach has a degree in political science from Mississippi College and a Master of Laws from Columbia Law School.
In his early years as an attorney, Slabach served under Gov. Bill Allain and later served as legislative counsel to Sen. John Stennis and U.S. agriculture secretary Mike Espy.
Slabach, a native of Fernwood, Mississippi, in Pike County, returns to his home state with his wife, Melany, whom he met at Ole Miss. The couple are the parents of three children.
“He has had a distinguished and successful 25-year career in higher education that includes 13 years in legal education and 12 years as a university president,” said Noel Wilkin, Ole Miss provost. “… we expect Mr. Slabach will have an immense impact on the futures of our students.”
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3 tablespoons butter
1 yellow onion, chopped
2 tablespoons minced garlic
2 carrots, chopped
2 teaspoons dried thyme
2 bay leaves
2 teaspoons garlic powder
1 teaspoon paprika
½ teaspoon cayenne
2 teaspoons salt
1 small head cauliflower, chopped
3 tablespoons all-purpose flour
½ cup heavy cream
½ cup Greek yogurt, plus extra for topping
6 cups chicken broth, divided
3 cups shredded sharp cheddar cheese, divided
4 cups chopped broccoli florets
In a large stockpot, melt butter over medium heat. Add onion, garlic, carrots, thyme, bay leaves, garlic powder, paprika, cayenne and salt. Cook until onion has softened, about 4 to 5 minutes. Add cauliflower, and cook another 3 to 4 minutes. Add flour, and stir to coat vegetables. Cook, stirring often, for another 2 to 3 minutes. Add heavy cream, yogurt and 3 cups of the chicken broth. Using an immersion blender, blend soup until smooth, about 5 minutes. Add 2 cups of the cheese, and blend for another minute. Add broccoli and remaining broth, reduce heat to low, and let simmer 30 minutes. Sprinkle servings evenly with remaining cheese, and top with a dollop of yogurt. Serve with crusty bread.
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Maggie Kathryn Duff and Dr. Stefan Sanders West
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Maggie Kathryn Duff and Dr. Stefan Sanders West were united in marriage at 6:30 p.m. April 9, 2022, at the Duff Family Lodge in Hattiesburg with the Rev. Jeff Clark officiating the ceremony.
The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. James Ernest Duff of Hattiesburg. She is the granddaughter of Mrs. Ernest Ray Duff and the late Mr. Ernest Ray Duff; the late Mrs. Montez Gore Cole and the late Mr. Jack Lee Cole; and the late Mr. James Monroe Gore.
The groom is the son of Dr. and Mrs. Peter West of Tupelo. He is the grandson of Mrs. Hoyle Steve Hester and the late Mr. Hoyle Steve Hester; and the late Mr. and Mrs. Harry West, all of Tupelo.
Escorted by her father, the bride wore a dress by Allison Webb. The dress was a silk, fit-to-flare mermaid gown that was chapel length with pleats and drapes. The veil was a Sara Gabriel Patrice Veil with Chantilly and Alençon lace. The bridal bouquet consisted of peonies, garden roses, ranunculus and lush foliage.
Attending the bride as maid of honor was her sister, Caroline Elizabeth Duff. Bridesmaids were Arica Haeusler Bedwell, Lindsey Carter Bolton, Melissa Leigh Braun, Rachel Jane Henderson, Rose Haley Line, Elizabeth Ann Lucas, Glenna Hideko Lusk, Kayla Luedtke Pardon, Alicia Kimberly Patterson, Catherine Leigh Pettis and Lauren Elizabeth Walker. The bridesmaids wore pale blue V-neck, floor-length silk dresses
and carried hand-tied bouquets.
Catherine Carlisle Massingill served as the proxy bride. The flower girls included Alexis Ann Duff, Alice James Egan, Emma Perry Egan, Charlotte Kate Waldrop and Olivia Henderson West. Luke Lowry West served as the ringbearer.
Attending the groom as his best man was his father, Peter Lowry West. The groomsmen included Hayden Lowry West, Noah Mansell West, John Bartley Boykin, Robert Collin Dexter, Robert Gary Dye Jr., Steven Fletcher Johnson Jr., Corey Kenneth Lofton, Patrick Knox McPherson, Keegan Barton Todd, Robert Kirk Thornton, Andrew Thomas Watkins and Kyle Jacob Walker.
Following the ceremony, the parents of
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the bride hosted the reception at the Duff Family Lodge. The Jim Pierce Jazz Trio entertained the guests. The florals were designed by Brandon Chase Wellborn. Beautiful hanging florals and overflowing urns were placed in the lodge. The Mustache Band provided wonderful entertainment.
The seven-tier cake was created by Kerrin Dunbar Hightower and was encircled in florals. The groom’s cake honored the Master’s Tournament for the groom’s love of golf. The cake stood on rye grass surrounded by azaleas. The groom’s cake was created by Church Street Cakery.
The photography was provided by Ashley Upchurch Photography, and the multimedia services are credited to Chloe Rouse Multimedia Storytelling. Additional vendors included Lynn Evan Piano Services, Gulf South Productions, MS. Tent, Pretty Presentations and The Magnolia Grille.
The rehearsal dinner florals and decor were provided by the groom’s mother, Stephanie Hester West-Venues MS, LLC, with the help of close friends. The excellent food was provided by Robert St. John and staff. The Venue in Hattiesburg hosted the event.
Upon conclusion of the evening wedding reception, the guests were ushered to the lakeside for a firework finale provided by Big Pop Fireworks.
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Katherine Elizabeth Howell and Zachary Glenn Tutor were united in holy matrimony at 4 p.m. April 30, 2022, at the historic Presbyterian Church on Edisto Island, South Carolina. The Rev. Dr. George C. Wilkes officiated; and the Rev. David Bruce Howell, father of the bride, performed the vows and presented the couple afterwards.
Katherine is the daughter of the Rev. David Bruce and Mrs. Angela Taylor Howell of Greenville, South Carolina. Katherine’s grandparents are Mrs. Robert Wellington Taylor, Mr. and Mrs. Roy Cornelius Moore, and the late Mrs. Betty Baughcome Moore, Mr. Robert Wellington Taylor and Mr. and Mrs. Lacy Bruce Howell, all of South Carolina.
Zach is the son of Barbara and John Z. Dollarhide and Glennray and Dr. Marion Tutor, all of Oxford. His grandparents are
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the late Mr. and Mrs. Billy Miller of Malden, Missouri, and Mr. and Mrs. Emmett Glenn Tutor of Kennett, Missouri.
Nuptial music included Pachebel’s “Canon in D Major,” Bach’s “Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring,” Mouret’s “Rondeau,” and Handel’s “Allegro Maestoso” Water Suite 2.
Katherine, given in marriage by her parents, and escorted by her father, wore a Mikado gown by Justin Alexander featuring a low back with matching buttons from the neckline to the hem. Her cathedral-length veil was edged with custom Chantilly lace. She wore blue topaz earrings borrowed from her mother, and pale pink Mach & Mach pointed toe pumps. Her bouquet consisted of white and pale pink peonies, ranunculus, calla lilies, sweet peas, Italian ruscus and seeded eucalyptus, all hand-tied with a pale pink ribbon.
Katherine’s brother, William Taylor
Howell of Charleston, South Carolina, attended his sister as “brother of honor.” Bridesmaids were Abigail Cazel of Bethel, Alaska; Susan Glenn of Lyman, South Carolina; and Kathleen Downes and Meredith Pyle, both of Oxford. The bridesmaids wore vintage blush colored Birdie Grey gowns and carried bouquets of white and pink hydrangeas, peonies and roses.
Groomsmen were Michael Chandler of Tupelo; Jonathan Grissom of Durham, North Carolina; Ken Harman of Brooklyn, New York; Craig Hejka of Detroit, Michigan; and Joseph Zendarski of Oxford. William Pender III and Charles Pender of Greenville distributed bulletins.
Following the wedding ceremony, the bride’s parents hosted a reception at Cypress Trees Plantation. After making their entrance, Katherine and Zach shared their
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Katherine Elizabeth Howell & Zachary Glenn Tutor
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first dance to Audrey Hepburn’s recording of “Moon River.”
Guests enjoyed delectable cuisine prepared at an array of chef-attended stations, as well as drinks from the various bars at the reception. Guests’ tables were adorned by arrangements of pink and white flowers in blue and white ginger jars and vases.
The wedding cake consisted of three layers of flavored lemon, strawberry and caramel, and was cut by the bride and groom using an antique Sheffield Tudor Rose server, a wedding gift from the groom’s father and stepmother.
After an evening of dining and dancing, the couple left Cypress Trees under a sky filled with brightly colored bubbles blown by the guests.
On the eve of the wedding, Zach’s parents hosted a rehearsal dinner at the Old Post Office Restaurant on Edisto Island, and on July 3, 2022, they hosted a “Meet the Newlyweds” party at the Isom Place in Oxford.
After enjoying a honeymoon on Edisto Island and in Bryson City, North Carolina, the couple is at home in Oxford.
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February 20, 2022
Oxford
Mr. Barry Lee & Mrs. Sandra Canaday
Mr. and Mrs. Joseph & Brenda LaVoie
The Jefferson
Magnolia Bride of Charleston
Charleston Tuxedo
Twisted Twig
Elizabeth Heiskell Catering
The Cakery
Lindsey Meisenheimer Photography
SL Media
The Studio Oxford
Wagnolia Bells
Bouré
Saint Lucia
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Jessica Dawn Lee & Brandon Charles LaVoie
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Mary Carson Lynch & David Michael Dennis Jr.
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July 16, 2022
Memphis
Mr. and Mrs. Hugh Christopher Lynch
Dr. and Mrs. David Michael Dennis
St. Peter Catholic Church
Chickasaw Country Club
Amy Shelby Weddings
Almost Famous
Maggie Louise Bridal
Oxford Floral
Kipp Cakes
Alicia George
Kennan Amodeo
Lindsey Jamison Photography
Carter Lane Media
Sugar Beach, Saint Lucia
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Mr. and Mrs. William Edward Prescott of Myrtle announce the engagement of their daughter, Meredith Carol Prescott, to Jack Adams Cooper, son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Lynn Cooper of New Albany.
The bride-elect is the granddaughter of Mr. Edward Charles Prescott and the late Jo Kathryn Prescott of New Albany and Mr. and Mrs. Anthony B. Davis of Myrtle.
The prospective bridegroom is the grandson of the late Mr. and Mrs. Ray Warren Cooper of New Albany and Mr. and Mrs. Benjamin Pope Avent of Michie, Tennessee.
Meredith is a graduate of New Albany High School. She is a senior at the University
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of Alabama in Tuscaloosa where she will graduate in May with a bachelor’s degree in chemistry and minors in both biology and global and cultural perspectives.
Meredith is set to begin her first year of medical school at the University of Mississippi Medical Center in Jackson beginning in August 2023.
Jack is a graduate of New Albany High School. He went on to receive a bachelor’s degree in aerospace from Middle Tennessee State University in Murfreesboro, Tennessee. He currently works as a contract pilot out of north Mississippi.
The couple will exchange vows at The Jefferson in Oxford on June 10, 2023.
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Meredith Carol Prescott & Jack Adams Cooper
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June 11, 2022
Mitchell and Lisa Stout
Scott and Denise Miracle and John and Selena Mooring
Middleton Place Gardens, Charleston, South Carolina
Rosebay Floral Co.
Motown Throwdown
Sweet Rhi
Anne Barge
Loeffler Randall
Veil: Martina Liana; Comb: Amanda Judge with Untamed Petals
Earrings: Sara Gabriel; Necklace: Van Atkins Jewelers
Dominque with Bridal Beauty Authority
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Kate Bogner, The Coordination Company
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November 26, 2022
Oxford
Mr. and Mrs. Cayce Washington
Mr. and Mrs. Chris Carter
The Chapel at Castle Hill
The Rev. Daniel Dickerson, O’Tuckolofa Baptist Church, Water Valley
Whitney Pullen
Glenda Gordon
Maggie Louise; alterations by Everything Fits
Glenda Gordon and team, GG’s Flowers & Gifts, and Whitney Pullen
Abbey and Gracie Swartzendruber, violinists; Starkey Morgan, cellist
Grace Bennett Fine Art
The Ballroom at Castle Hill
Baked by Birdie, Alana Harris
Brent Shows Video
King Kova
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MONTHLY MUSINGS
WEDDING
DATE CITY
BRIDE'S PARENTS
GROOM'S PARENTS
WEDDING VENUE
OFFICIANT COORDINATOR
RECEPTION VENUE
RENTALS
BRIDE'S GOWN
FLORAL DESIGN
CATERER
CAKES
PHOTOGRAPHER
June 4, 2022
Oxford
Dr. and Mrs. John and Melody Webb of Oxford
Mr. Edward Ormrod and Ms. Rosa Kallides of London, England
Oxford University United Methodist Church
The Rev. Eddie Rester
Katie Naron
The Isom Place
Details Rentals
Maggie Louise
Oxford Floral
A&N Catering
Alice Chow
Eliza Kinnard
Logan Little
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Emma Webb & George Ormrod
ELIZA KINNARD
DJ
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MONTHLY MUSINGS
WEDDING
DATE
VENUE
BRIDE'S HOMETOWN
GROOM'S HOMETOWN
WEDDING CATERER
WEDDING FLOWERS
WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER
WEDDING ARTIST
WEDDING BAND
HAIR AND MAKEUP
VIDEOGRAPHER
REHEARSAL PHOTOGRAPHER
REHEARSAL CATERER
REHEARSAL FLOWERS
October 29, 2022
Pickwick Landing State Park
Corinth
Pickwick, Tennessee
Crossroads Catering Company
Dawn Laster
Morgan Burroughs Huffman
Warren Rossi
Dixie Mafia
Kaylee Davis Bobo
A6 Images
Alex Sellers Media
Jay Barker and Southern Magnolia
Orange Blossom
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Olivia Wilson & Kirby Nixon
MORGAN BURROUGHS HUFFMAN
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Prentiss Paige Worsham and Marc Lester Young were married at 6 p.m. Sept. 17, 2022, in the First Presbyterian Church courtyard in Corinth.
The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Hayden Worsham Jr. of Corinth. She is the granddaughter of Mrs. James Prentiss Hodges and the late Mr. Hodges, and Ms. Menna Madden Wood and the late Mr. Robert Hayden “Bobby” Worsham Sr., all of Corinth.
The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. David Lester Young of Senatobia and
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grandson of Mr. and Mrs. Harry Lavaughn Hayes of Hernando, the late Mr. Kenneth Gale “Cat” Robbins, and the late Mr. and Mrs. Lester Whitten Young, all of Oxford.
The double-ring ceremony was officiated by the Rev. Dr. Donald A. Elliott. Music was by vocalist Mr. Chad Dickerson and Mrs. Phil Mathis (Cindy), harpist.
Given in marriage by her father, the bride walked the aisle in a classic, satin slip gown designed by Theia Bridal, purchased from Maggie Louise Bridal in Memphis. Her fit-to-flare gown featured a V-neckline,
spaghetti straps and an empire waistline. Prentiss completed her look with an Alençon lace, cap-sleeve overlay. Her cathedral-length veil featured delicate French lace trim.
She carried a bouquet of white calla lilies with a vintage gold locket hanging from the stems that held a photo of her late grandfather. Florals were provided by Amber Rinehart of Guys, Tennessee.
Flower girls were Handley Loren Shutt and Elizabeth Wade Young, nieces of the groom. Ring bearers were Spencer Whitten Shutt, David Ticer Young, and Thomas
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Prentiss Paige Worsham & Marc Lester Young
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Whittem Young, nephews of the groom.
Attending the bride as matron of honor was her sister Priestley Worsham Clegg, and maid of honor was her sister Katherine Madden Worsham. Bridesmaids included Jordan Devlin Worsham, Delaney Paige Thomas, Jane Eleanor Thomas, Mary Frances Patrick, Carolyn Foster Wiygul, Catherine Lee Shackleford, Rowan Madeleine Ryan, Parker Ruth Peterson, Millie Grace Hill, Molly Shubert Courtney and McKenzie Carson.
Mr. David Lester Young, father of the groom, and Mr. David Ticer Young, brother of the groom, served as best men. Groomsmen included Robert Hayden Worsham III, Jacob Doyle Barkley, John William Barringer III, William Earle Jenkins, Peyton Blair McArthur, Gregory Kenneth McNail, Thomas Patrick Miller, Christopher Eli Moore, Samuel Kai Niethammer, Matthew Kayymon Routson, David Hunter Screws and James Daniel Tiner.
Program attendants were cousins of the bride, Mollie McAmis Worsham and Ann Frances Worsham. The wedding coordinator was Virginia-Boyd James of Corinth.
Following the ceremony, a reception was hosted by the parents of the bride at the Corinth Depot, where guests danced to the bride and groom’s favorite songs played by the Ty Reynolds Band and were treated to a meal by Moondog Makers & Bakers.
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Family Heirloom
A LONGTIME DESIGNER OF GLAMOROUS PAGEANT WEAR TAKES GREATEST PRIDE IN MAKING HER OWN GRANDDAUGHTER’S WEDDING DRESS.
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For more than 30 years, Tricia Copelin ran a successful business based in Vicksburg, designing and making all manner of fashions for pageant contestants in Mississippi and beyond. She’d majored in home economics at Ole Miss and taught it to students in Bruce before moving to Vicksburg and bursting onto the pageant scene with her love of designing and sewing.
Through hundreds of Custom Creations by Tricia and Glamoursuits (pageant swimsuits), Copelin found happiness in her work. However, it’s safe to say the greatest joy of all has come to the 72-year-old Copelin more recently when she watched her 23-year-old granddaughter Carley Cate Copelin marry Braden Moody in a Tricia Copelin creation.
The story doesn’t really start — or end — there, at Vicksburg’s Holy Trinity Episcopal Church on Dec. 17, 2022. It began when Copelin’s two sons, Dirk and Jamie, were in their late teens.
“I told my boys I would make the wedding dresses for the girls they married if the girls did not have something else planned for their dress,” Copelin said.
Both daughters-in-law received specially made wedding dresses. After son Dirk married his wife Melissa, Copelin preserved the dress, and it stayed in an upstairs closet for 25 years. On Dec. 22, 2021, Carley and Braden became engaged, and it was decided Copelin would redesign the dress she’d made for Melissa Copelin to suit Carley.
“Carley has a different build than her mother, and she also had her own vision of what she wanted for her dress,” Copelin said. “So, I had a year to work on it.”
Copelin and Larry, her husband of 52 years, had moved to Oxford 12 years ago;
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Tricia and Carley Cate Copelin
Carley and Braden, who’d met in 10th grade at Warren Central High School in Vicksburg, had both gotten jobs in Mobile, Alabama, where they now make their home, so dress consultations — or as Carley called them, “talks with Granny,” were often done by phone or text.
“Carley’s so easy to work with,” said her proud grandmother. “Sometimes when I’d try to explain something about the dress over the phone, she’d say, ‘Just send me a picture.’”
She’s a lifelong admirer of her grandmother’s sewing skills.
“I remember when my granny lived in Vicksburg and sometimes I’d stay over at her house during the daytime when school was out,” Carley said. “At the time, she was working full time on pageants. She had a whole room of fabrics and designs. I always admired the artistic ability she had and wished that I had inherited it.”
Wearing her mother’s wedding dress had always been a wish of Carley’s.
“Everyone always talked about how
beautiful it was, but I had never really seen it up close until we took it out of the preservation box when I got engaged,” she said. “We had a feeling it wouldn’t quite fit me looking at the difference between my mom and me. Nonetheless, I had full faith my granny could make it into something beautiful, and it would fit my style. … My grandmother did a phenomenal job with the dress. It is truly one of a kind and is even more special not only that it is part of my mom’s dress but also because Granny handmade both of them.
“I am hoping that maybe if I someday have a daughter, she will want to follow along and use a piece for her own wedding dress.”
Copelin explained the intricate work done on the wedding dress as easily as someone telling what’s for dinner, stopping patiently to repeat and spell the French words.
“Carley wanted the dress to be Peau du Soie, which means the silk is more matte rather than shiny — it had been so long
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since I’d made her mother’s dress, I couldn’t remember, but I was pleasantly reminded when I saw it. She wanted it strapless with a crescent neckline, and we decided to add a jacket, off shoulder. I took the guipure lace off her mama’s dress and did hand beading on it with wheat pearls. The edges of the veil and the dress were beaded — you never leave a raw edge in couture sewing. I used the train from her mama’s dress but added beading and another layer underneath for the photographs so the church’s red carpet wouldn’t show through the dress. I added pleats to give fullness to the train of silk organza with a lace center. The jacket and train were removed for the reception.”
All beads were sewn on one at a time and when asked for the number of hours spent on beading, Copelin sat quietly before offering a response: “Months.”
Just days before the wedding, the garter Carley’s mother had worn and had been carefully saving for her daughter went missing. A call to Copelin saved the day: She made a garter that included “something blue” and also what would be her new married monogram.
The weekend of the wedding, the Copelins’ car was overloaded with a sewing machine and anything else Copelin might need to make last-minute alterations as they made the drive from Oxford to Vicksburg. None were needed — the dress, like the bride, was perfect. And though Copelin had seen her granddaughter in different stages of the dress several times in the months before the wedding, the vision of Carley in the church on her wedding day packed a wallop.
“She is my heart, and we couldn’t have asked for a more perfect wedding,” Copelin said. “I really thought I would cry more than I did, but I was proud of how the dress looked on my beautiful granddaughter.”
Tricia Copelin’s gift of the wedding dress was not the only handmade gift. Grandfather Larry Copelin made a hope chest for Carley. The chest is made from Brazilian cherry and natural cherry, and it’s lined with cedar. A plaque affixed to the inside of the chest’s lid is engraved with these words: “For Carley. Hand crafted with love by Granddaddy. 2022.”
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Melissa, Carley Cate and Tricia Copelin
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Renaissance Man
INDUSTRIOUS TUPELO ARTIST, WRITER AND PREACHER JOHN ARMISTEAD FILLS HIS DAYS DOING WHAT HE LOVES.
WRITTEN BY LESLIE CRISS | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JOE WORTHEM
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JJohn Armistead winces ever so slightly when the term “Renaissance Man” is used in reference to him. It happens quite often. The 81-year-old Armistead is — or has been at some time — an artist, an author, a preacher, a teacher, a motorcycle enthusiast and a Golden Gloves boxer. Still, he politely pushes aside praise for his prowess.
“Jack of all trades, master of none,” he said. “I’ve never been interested in just one thing to the exclusion of all else.”
And that’s that. Still, the bespectacled Mobile, Alabama-born man cannot hide from his accomplishments, especially when he’s standing before one of several canvases in different stages of production in his Link Centre studio, where he spends his mornings Monday through Friday painting. Included on one wall of his studio are five self-portraits done through the years; other paintings were done on his six trips to Italy, where he’s spent up to three weeks painting
on-site. He’s less prone to paint still lifes and drawn more to figures and landscapes with structures, like old houses and barns.
His studio is just for making art, but at the home he shares with Sandi, his wife of 54 years, there’s a garage where he keeps frames and finished work.
Though he had a fling with acrylics in the 1970s, Armistead prefers painting mostly in oil and sometimes watercolor. He also likes drawing, working with charcoal. Truth is, he simply loves art.
“With art, you have a vision in mind that you project onto paper or canvas or whatever,” he said. “It’s not a photographic image, but an interpretation. Painting is always the ebb and flow of something. You have a basic plan, but it takes turns you didn’t expect. I can stand and paint forever.”
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Above, one of Armistead’s five self portraits.
and see his work from different distances.
Perhaps Armistead took to art because as a youngster he felt it was the only thing he could do well. He was slow to learn to read before anyone had heard of dyslexia, and he was laughed at as a third grader when forced to read aloud in class. So, he found a way to get out of reading aloud.
“I threw a spitball just before I was to read aloud,” Armistead said. “And I got sent to the cloak room, where I enjoyed eating other people’s cookies. I also stole a box of nibs the teacher supplied for our pens we’d dip in ink wells on our desks. I continued to use those nibs until about 10 years ago.”
When he was 5, Armistead was taken from the church nursery to “big church.” He had no problem behaving until the preacher started preaching, then boredom set in.
“My dad started bringing drawing
tablets and would give them to me when the preaching started,” Armistead said. “Fortunately, many preachers were longwinded, and I was able to finish a drawing during the sermon. I drew on any blank surface I could find. I’d draw stories, characters and what they were doing. Drawing was the foundation of painting for me.”
His paternal grandmother was a painter, and when Armistead was 8, she sent him for art lessons from 8 until noon on Saturday mornings. He started in charcoal, then pastels, and by age 9 he was painting in oil.
His family moved to Meridian when he was 11, and in high school, Armistead discovered an interest in writing in his English classes and also in boxing. “There’s a certain notoriety in boxing,” he said. When he discovered Jack London novels, he fell in
love with reading, and English and creative writing became his strongest subjects.
When he was 18, he was called to preach. He spent a few semesters at Ole Miss but graduated from Mississippi College in 1963, received a Master of Divinity from Golden Gate Baptist Theological Seminary in 1966, a Doctorate of Ministry from New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary in 1975 and a Master of Arts from Ole Miss in 1987. Armistead pastored Baptist churches from 1975 to 1994, in Hawaii and at Calvary Baptist in Tupelo. For the past 14 years, he’s been pastor at Unity Presbyterian Church in Plantersville.
“That’s a pretty good tenure for a pastor,” he said. “I wonder how many churches are willing to have an 81-year-old guy preach every Sunday.”
He spent several years as a kindergarten
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teacher while attending graduate school in California at Berkeley.
“Public schools were desperate for male teachers,” Armistead said. “I shaved my beard and went for an interview where I was told, ‘I’m so glad you don’t have a beard — all these boys come over from Berkeley with beards.”
Armistead got the job and also met his wife Sandi when she came to the Oakland School District to teach first grade. The Armisteads are parents to two sons and grandparents to eight.
When he was 52, Armistead wrote and published “A Legacy of Vengeance,” the first of three mystery novels set in northeast Mississippi. “The $66 Summer,” his novel for young adolescents, was named by the New York Public Library as one of the best books for teens published in 2000. And “The Return of Gabriel” has been used in schools throughout the United States to teach about the Civil Rights era. In addition to his published works, Armistead has kept a daily diary since he was 15.
On a typical day before he heads to his studio, Armistead wakes up between 3 and 3:30 in the morning, does some reading, works on his Sunday sermon and writes in his diary. He now has 60-plus volumes he’s kept of his daily writings, and, though he’d be hard-pressed to offer a hard-andfast number, he’s finished several thousand paintings. He’s kept record books starting in
1971 of his paintings; now he photographs each painting to add to the records.
“There are years I might have done 100 paintings a year,” he said. “But now, it’s more typical for me to do 50 or 60 a year.”
Armistead doesn’t paint to make a profit, but, he said, it’s nice to sell his work. In elementary school, high school boys would commission the young artist. He did drawings of elk, Micky Mantle and portraits of their girlfriends, making some pocket change doing what he loved.
He’s also painted each of his grandchildren and has kept all family paintings.
Talk of retirement elicits an expression similar to that roused by “Renaissance Man.” Armistead continues today to do what he’s done much of his life. He paints, he writes, he preaches. The only thing he’s retired is his motorcycle. On a wall in his studio is a quote from Degas and one in Latin from Pliny the Elder. Armistead reads the Latin.
“Nulla dies sine linea,” he said. “The words are held closely by artists and writers. They mean, ‘Never a day without a line.’ Clearly, it applies to painting and writing. And it’s certainly my philosophy.”
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2023 WEDDING TRENDS
intimate CELEBRATIONS
“Seated dinners became the way of the wedding world during Covid, and they aren’t going anywhere! Clients are taking their time with their receptions, making sure they savor the night, the environment, and making sure their guests are well taken care of. Along with that, smaller guest counts will continue to reign in 2023. Keeping events intimate is a priority. Guest counts also highly influence your wedding budget. Clients are choosing smaller celebrations to combat inflation.”
— Emily Taylor
Taylor said that before the pandemic, almost all of her clients were hosting 350-450 guests at their events, and none were seated dinners. Now, she says guest counts tend to max out around 225 people and about half of her clients are choosing seated dinners over cocktail-style service.
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FROM SMALLER GATHERINGS TO OVER-THE-TOP COLOR, TWO WEDDING PLANNERS REFLECT ON SOME GROWING TRENDS THEY EXPECT TO SEE MORE OF IN 2023.
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Pippin-Barrett rehearsal dinner (Kelsey Morgan Event Styling)
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ELABORATE WEDDING CAKES
“Wedding cakes have always been a traditional aspect of wedding receptions, but they are becoming more and more elaborate each year. In 2023, you will find wedding cakes a lot larger with more intricate detail. We are thrilled this new trend is thriving since we love making the wedding cake a focal point at events!”
— Ellen Thomas
PERSONALIZED TENTS
“Most of our clients are opting for tented receptions for a fully customized venue built from the ground up. Your options to personalize your celebration are endless from here.”
— Emily Taylor
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Carnes-Hale cake by Creative Cakes
Harris-Stevens cake by Flour Garden
Watkins-Daughaday cake by Flour Garden
Caitlyn Loiacono and William Cotten wedding
Worsham-Young wedding
MODERN FLARE
“A new trend is going against traditional Southern wedding design and really stepping out of the box to make a statement. Allie Robbins and Johan Backstrom’s wedding definitely made a statement by going against traditional wedding color palette and décor. The inspiration behind the design of this event was traditional with touches of modern and colorful florals. All the bright color feels! The bride wanted the event to feel like a funky garden party, and it definitely did. This vision was brought to life by using Lucite high-top tables with vibrant floral arrangements displayed inside, velvet green chairs, linen lounge furniture, floral textured linens and a hanging floral chandelier with bright florals surrounding the space. This event was one of our favorites of 2022 to design because of its originality and memorable components. It truly was such a bright and happy day!”
— Ellen Thomas
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Allie Robbins and Johan Backstrom’s colorful wedding reception took place May 14, 2022, at The Lyric.
VIBRANT LUNCHEONS
“Bridal luncheons, just like weddings, are getting bigger and better! Brides are sticking to the traditional sit-down luncheon but adding a vibrant feel with linens, china, flatware and florals. Bride Caroline Wofford’s luncheon was so much fun to plan at City Grocery in April 2022, and we are definitely going to see more of these unique bridal luncheons in 2023!”
— Ellen Thomas
SEASONAL HUES
“The days of white, blush and green are ending. More texture, more color, and leaning into the seasons is in! With this also comes how your bridesmaids are styled! Mismatched florals for spring. Varying shades of moody tones for fall. Whites and creams for winter.”
— Emily Taylor
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Caroline Wofford’s April 1, 2022, bridal luncheon at City Grocery.
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MINIMAL FLORALS
“Petite bouquets and a lack of personal flowers are “in” for floral design. We’re seeing more emphasis in brides wanting to show off their dresses and fun accessories and keeping their bouquets smaller for them and their maids! And don’t forget about the guys — fun pocket squares and ties are replacing boutonnieres.”
— Emily Taylor
MANY THANKS
Emily Taylor emilytaylorweddings.com Instagram @emilytaylorweddings
Ellen Thomas ellenthomaseventdesign.com Instagram @ellenthomaseventdesign
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Reid-Durfey wedding (Ellen Thomas Events)
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LET IT SHINE
The Mississippi Civil Rights Museum was a long time coming, with years of proposals stalled by legislative disagreements or stymied by arguments about where in the state such a museum should be located. Finally in 2011, former Gov. William Winter and former Justice Reuben Anderson proposed to Gov. Haley Barbour the creation of two museums under one roof.
The Mississippi Civil Rights Museum Advisory Commission was established, and veterans of the fight for civil rights from all over the state were called upon to participate in listening sessions. One of those veterans was Pamela Junior, who is now director of the Museum of Mississippi History and the Mississippi Civil Rights Museum.
“What the veterans were asked in meetings was what they wanted to see and hear in the Civil Rights Museum, what was important to them,” Junior said. “And the answers were the same — they wanted the museum to be truthful, to teach children and young people the truth.
“Now, some of those veterans won’t come in the museum, some of them have died, but many have been here and have been very positive in their thoughts regarding the museum.”
Ground was broken for the Two Mississippi Museums in 2013 on a parcel of land near the Department of Archives and History on North Street. The museums would share an entrance and lobby. They opened Dec. 9, 2017.
In the Civil Rights Museum’s first year, the numbers reported by the state’s tourism officials were better than good. Nearly a quarter of a million people had visited both museums. The visitors were from every state in the U.S. and from 35 countries.
Stephenie Morrisey, Deputy Director of Programs and Communication for the
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THE MISSISSIPPI CIVIL RIGHTS MUSEUM OFFERS A TRUTHFUL TRIP THROUGH A PAINFUL PART OF STATE HISTORY.
WRITTEN BY LESLIE CRISS PHOTOS COURTESY OF MISSISSIPPI DEPARTMENT OF ARCHIVES
Mississippi Department of Archives and History recommends visitors make time to see the Museum of Mississippi History before the Mississippi Civil Rights Museum.
“It’s important to learn the history of the state before learning the history of the movement,” Morrisey said. “It helps people understand a little better.”
The Civil Rights Museum is home to eight interactive galleries filled with exhibits that take museumgoers from 1945 to 1976. Here is a peek inside the galleries:
— In the first gallery, “Mississippi Freedom Struggle,” you’ll get an overview of sorts, including an understanding of civil rights and human rights, which became the crux of the need for the Civil Rights Movement. Learn about slavery, those most affected and the fight to see it end.
— “Mississippi in Black & White” sees the end of the Civil War and beyond Reconstruction. Perhaps one of the most powerful reminders in this gallery is a series of monoliths that contain from top to bottom on both sides the names of known victims of lynching throughout Mississippi.
— “This Little Light of Mine” is often called the heart of the museum. If, perhaps, there’s a primary theme of the museum, it could easily be light. That might seem confusing, but once visitors reach the center gallery, it should become clearer. Visitors find themselves beneath a 37-foot, 6,000-LEDlit sculpture, hearing a single voice multiply into many — including those of veterans of the Civil Rights Movement — singing “This Little Light of Mine.” This atriumlike gallery offers a place of contemplation after the dark history revisited in each of the other seven galleries.
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This Little Light of Mine sculpture took three years to complete. The sculpture, which boasts light and sound, serves as the heart of the museum, offering people a place to contemplate the darkness and discomfort, but also the hope, they’ve seen in other galleries.
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IF YOU GO
Youth (ages 4 to 22): $8 Senior (60 and older): $13
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— “A Closed Society” covers the early years of the movement and includes stories of Black Mississippians who fought for their country in World War II, a classroom (and seven-minute film) that illustrates that “separate and equal” was certainly not equal and a film about the life and death of young Emmett Till.
— “A Tremor in the Iceberg” illustrates the early 1960s and includes the assassination of Medgar Evers.
— In 1963 and ’64, young people from all over the country came to Mississippi to help Black people register to vote. In “I Question America,” visitors will see a 15-minute film about Freedom Summer and another film about the murder of three Civil Rights workers in Neshoba County.
— The Voting Rights Act of 1965 and the March Against Fear are covered in “Black Empowerment.”
— And before ending the uncomfortable journey through the Civil Rights Museum, “Where Do We Go From Here?” offers time for personal reflection, an opportunity for visitors to share comments and thoughts on how each will continue to shine a light to keep the fight for equality moving in the right direction.
The museum offers free special events through the year, thanks to sponsors, including in January to commemorate Martin Luther King Jr. Every Sunday, admission is also free at the museum.
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Mississippi Civil Rights Museum 222 North Street, Jackson 9 a.m. until 5 p.m. Tuesday through Saturday 11 a.m.
p.m. Sunday
until 5
Adult: $15
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HOLLY JOLLY ICE SKATING
Oxford’s third annual Holly Jolly Holidays took place throughout the month of December. There were special events, art pop-ups, visits with Santa and ice skating at the Old Armory Pavilion.
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1. Nikki, August and Harlee Williams 2. Lyia and Naod Teklu
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3. Doug, Kristin, Cohen and Willow Anderson 4. Zora and Robert English 5. Hugh and Gary Wilson with William Bouldin
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OLE MISS BASKETBALL
The Ole Miss women’s basketball team took on McNeese State University Dec. 17 at the Sandy and John Black Pavilion, winning 79-60. Find a listing of this month’s Ole Miss basketball home games in the calendar
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1. Julia Corso with June, Alex, Xander and Grace Gafford 2. Lauren, Leah and DeAunta Harris
3. Presley McCain with Josh, Francie and Katie Murphy and Erin McCain 4. Patty and Don West 5. Allen and Jane Stanford 6. Anna Kate and Kristen Starnes 7. Robert and Jessica Patterson 8. Katie and Logan Brower 9. Dynamic Dolls Dance Group
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CASABLANCA FUNDRAISER
CASA of North Mississippi’s annual New Year’s Eve fundraiser took place Dec. 31 at the Powerhouse with dinner, casino games, the Entice Band and a midnight toast. The event, presented by MR Construction, benefits the abused and neglected children served by CASA in North Mississippi.
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1. Amanda and Luke Bradshaw 2. Jane Taylor and Lantz Foster
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3. Chad and Amy Koons with Sarah and Jeffrey Hollis 4. Barbara and Martin Mesecke 5. Rexford Barron, Kristian Brianna and Cora Lawrence
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YAC ORNAMENT AUCTION
The Yoknapatawpha Arts Council’s annual holiday party and ornament auction took place Dec. 10 at the Powerhouse. The event included music, food, cocktails, an ornament auction and raffle as well as local artists selling handcrafted ornaments. Proceeds from the auction and raffle support the arts in Lafayette County.
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1. Eric Tait and Meghan Anderson 2. Mindy Waldrop and Matt Williams
3. Emily Rennie and Shannon Reedy 4. Sarah Grosskopf and Emily Smith
5. Jack and Katherine Adams 6. Terence Williams and Cory Robinson 7. Chris and Mary Provence
8. Patrick Hudgins and Ross Hester 9. David Burton, Tanya Fitts and Andi Bedsworth 10. Debbie and Bob Myers
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& ABOUT
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OHS Debate Team 2023 Saints Classic Winner
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Dixie National Livestock Show
1. Chad Bagwell and Adam Patton 2. Alex Moffett, Hillary Coney, Atiziri Ortiz and Jeffrey Dukes
3. Oxford High School debate team 4. Grand champions Ann Fleming, Wilson and Taylor LeFlore of Lafayette 4-H with buyers
Inaugural Graduates of Project:LEAD @OXFORD
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WHISKEY MYERS CONCERT
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PHOTOGRAPHED BY LISA ROBERTS Gritty country/Southern rock band Whiskey Myers took the stage at Cadence Bank Arena in Tupelo Dec. 9 as part of its Tornillo North American tour.
1. Nate Odum with Jay and Tania Darnell, Leslie and Greg Burks and Richard Tucker 2. Harlan Miller and Kelsey McMair
3. Justin and Kayla Parker with Phil and Leigh Ann Stockton and Kacie and Kim Cowart 4. Jeniece Osburn, Mary Kathryn Brooks, Cathy Fair and Hollie Bonnere
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5. Patrick and Renea Castleman with Mary and Brandon Dill 6. Allie Moore and Ann Grace Fiveash 7. Cassidy Shaw, Rachel Ellis and Shea Harrison
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“CHRISTMAS BELLES”
Tupelo Community Theatre started the holiday season with laughter with its holiday production, “Christmas Belles,” a comedy about a Christmas church program in a small Southern town and a trio of squabbling sisters. Performances took place Dec. 8-10 at the Lyric Theatre in Tupelo.
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1. Gary Hancock, Emily Edmonson and Greg Conwill 2. Victoria Wise, Julian Carroll and Anna Claire Ivester 3. Chase Tubbs and Josh Sullivan
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4. Markietha Swinney, Debra Harper and Ben Childers 5. Danielle Ratliff, Chris Hussey and Jessica Bragg 6. Sandi Erin, Bradley Lipsey and Arden Mason
NEW YEAR’S EVE CELEBRATION
Families gathered in downtown Tupelo to ring in 2023 at Tupelo’s annual New Year’s Eve party. This year’s event featured live bands on two stages, KidsFest activities, fireworks and a countdown to midnight.
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1. Lorraine Bowers and Sophia Traylor 2. Alysha Good, Vicki Cormier, Leslie Geogjegan, Lisa Hall, Janet Gaston and Randy Burchfield
3. Mia, Parks and Graham Richey 4. Hattie and Caroline Fleming
5. Kendi Hitt, Maurice Primeaux and Cassandra Tedford 6. Morgan and Leah Wethington 7. Allie and Kinlee Skinner 8. Juniper, Ezra, Nicole and Cody Floyd 9. Katelyn Neal with Delia, Rob and Oliviana Steele and Maddie Schribner
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MTA CONFERENCE
Tupelo Community Theatre hosted Mississippi Theatre Association’s annual conference Jan. 1215. The weekend offered workshops, individual and group competitions and an awards banquet. The long-planned conference continued despite the unexpected death on Jan. 10 of Tom Booth, TCT executive director for 20 years.
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1. Victoria Harrison and Larry Duke 2. Kayla Young, Emerson Lalla and Abigail Lanphear
3. Madison White, Elaina Dunning, MacKenzie Charles and Malayna Knapp 4. Lilly Gebhart, Henley Nanace, Bryan Eubanks and Bailey Berry
5. Krista Martin, Kadence Harding, Kaitlyn Anderson, Elyse Collier and Cass Henderson
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6. John Carroll, Bobby Geno, Pam Carter Cook and Renea Baldwin with Tommy and Anne Thomas Green
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1. William and Sidney Darsey
2. Jack, Theo and Henry Blossom 3. Caroline and Sam Stone 4. Friends and gamily of The Baulch Center
5. The Baulch Center Staff with Santa and Mrs. Claus 6. Isla, Aspen and Ellie Ann McDonald with Smith Stovall
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7. Isabella and Vada Henson 8. Dansby and Phoebe Ledbetter
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The Baulch Center Open House and Ribbon Cutting
Cookies with Santa at Reed’s Department Store
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INTERVIEWED BY LESLIE CRISS | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JOE WORTHEM
Since 1976, February has been designated Black History Month and has been observed throughout the United States. It serves as a celebration and a reminder that Black history is American history. In observance of Black History Month, 84-year-old Margaret Baker, Verona’s first Black city alderwoman, shared some thoughts.
I’VE SEEN A LOT OF CHANGES FOR THE BETTER THROUGH THE YEARS. I do believe racism in anyone is taught, is learned. I vividly remember racist remarks that were made toward my parents when I was a little girl. I remember the ‘whites only’ signs on the bathrooms and water fountains. And when I registered to vote, I had to say parts of the constitution. It’s just the way it was. But there’ve certainly been changes since those days and many for the better, thankfully. I see more respect these days. I never think about being Black. I don’t make an issue of it. I have white friends I dearly love, and they love me.
WE JUST NEED TO KEEP MOVING FORWARD.
The Verona-born Baker, who has served on city council for more than 20 years, has long worked to make her town a better place. Her next project is the revitalization of Verona. She has two daughters, six grandchildren and 16 greatgrandchildren. She’s a member of the Trustee Board of Springhill Missionary Baptist Church, a member of the choir and a member of the Lee County Community Civitan Club.
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The hands pictured above belong to David “Fox” Caldwell, decadeslong owner of the legendary Aikei Pro’s Record Shop in Holly Springs.