IN THIS ISSUE
FEATURES
26 Batty for Halloween
An Oxford family delights in the Halloween decor that bedecks their North Lamar home, inside and out.
32 Southern Layed
A Tupelo couple creates an organic chicken farm from what started as a hobby-sized affinity for feathered friends.
39 Making a Statement
Local rescue pets and their owners dress for the season and share their adoption stories.
ON THE COVER
Meet the winners of our annual Pet Cover Contest: Titan in Oxford, and Olenna in northeast Mississippi. Read all about them at invitationmag.com. MODEL
LETTER from the PUBLISHER
It’s said that dogs are people’s best friends. Some would argue cats can be, and then there’s rabbits and horses and more. My daughter, who is 12, would say for sure her best friend is a horse.
But no matter what kind of pet we have, these animals are family. We bond with them, we love them, we celebrate life events with them, and we grieve when they die. And because they are special, we also invest money in them. Forbes Magazine reported that in 2022, Americans spent $136.8 billion on their pets, up 10.68% from 2021 ($123.6 billion).
In this issue, we celebrate those furry creatures who warm our hearts day in and day out. On page 39 you will meet a menagerie of dogs, cats, bunnies and more and read the stories about how they found
homes with the special people who love them deeply.
We’ve also included some great fashion accessories and trends throughout this issue to check out for the fall of 2023.
We hope you enjoy this magazine, and we will see you back here next month.
Visit invitationmag.com/digital-details to read all about one of Oxford’s most anticipated annual events, Harvest Supper. The dinner under the stars is an annual fundraiser for the University of Mississippi Museum, Rowan Oak and the WaltonYoung House. This year’s event on Oct. 26 includes watercolorist Wyatt Waters, who will be on hand to paint a vignette from the evening that will be available for purchase.
Let’s Hear it for the Pets
Thank you to all of the people and pets who participated in this month’s cover contest! We received nearly 1,000 total submissions. Follow us on social media to read more about the winners featured on our covers and to see the other adorable semifinalists.
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Party on the Green
OCTOBER 5
2nd Chance MS hosts a fall fundraiser to support its mission of promoting adult education and work skills training. Tickets, $75, available online. 5:30-8:30 p.m., The Green at Harrison’s 1810. 2ndchancems.org
Conference on the Front Porch
OCTOBER 5-6
This two-day gathering celebrates the Southern tradition of the front porch with important speakers, dinners, music, literature, bonfires and stories. Register online. The Mill at Plein Air. conferenceonthefrontporch.com
“Cowboy”
OCTOBER 10
This stage play tells the story of Bass Reeves, a freed slave who protected the Wild West as the first Black U.S. Deputy Marshal. Many believe Reeves inspired the character of the Lone Ranger. Tickets, $25-$30. 7:30 p.m., the Ford Center. fordcenter.org
OCTOBER 2023
COMING UP IN OUR COMMUNITY OXFORD
Oxford Blues Festival
OCTOBER 12-14
Celebrate Mississippi music and the blues. The weekend begins with educational panels Thursday at the Ole Miss Blues Archives followed by live blues music Friday and Saturday at the Lafayette County Arena. Tickets, $20-$40, available online. VIP Admission also available. oxfordbluesfest.com
Water Valley Art Crawl
OCTOBER 14
Celebrate Water Valley’s creativity with mingling and entertainment on Main Street. 6:30-8:30 p.m., plus a 5:30 p.m. kickoff event at Dancing Bear Sanctuary and 8:30 p.m. post-host event at Magnolia Coffee Co.
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Tailgate for Palmer
OCTOBER 21
This eighth annual fundraiser for Palmer Home for Children is presented in partnership with SMP Southeast and Edmondson Farms. The ultimate watch party features Ole Miss vs. Auburn on the big screen inside the Olivia and Archie Manning Athletics Performance Center. Tickets and sponsorships available online. Includes food and beverage; 21 and up only. palmerhome.org/events
Oxford Witches Ride
OCTOBER 23
A bike parade through Oxford features witches of all kinds to benefit The Pantry. Participation in the parade is open to women ages 18 and up, but all are invited to come support. Buy tickets, $50, online. oxfordwitchesride.ticketspice.com/oxfordwitches-ride
NORTHEAST
Mini Masters
OCTOBER 19
The University of Mississippi Museum offers monthly drop-in art classes for toddlers and their parents to explore paints, prints, sculpture and more. October’s theme is “Art Touch Down.” $5 per family. 3:30-4:30 p.m., UM Museum. museum.olemiss.edu
LeBonheur Pumpkin Run
OCTOBER 14
A 5K race and kids fun run for ages 10 and under benefits Le Bonheur. Wear your costumes. Fun run 7:30 a.m.; 5K 8 a.m. 118 E. Main St., Tupelo. pumpkinrun.org
Celebration Village
OCTOBER 18-21
Sanctuary Hospice House holds its biggest annual fundraiser, a holiday market that offers holiday shopping, food, music and fellowship. Ticket information and complete schedule available online. Tupelo Furniture Market.
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Fall Garden Day
OCTOBER 21
Lee County Master Gardeners hosts a fall event featuring a scarecrow trail, speakers, garden tours and more. 9 a.m.-2 p.m., North Mississippi Research and Extension Center, 5421 Hwy. 145, Verona. facebook.com/LeeCountyMasterGardeners
Tupelo Ale Trail
OCTOBER 27
A progressive craft beer tasting with participating downtown Tupelo retailers. Tickets include a sampling glass and map. 5:30-9 p.m., downtown Tupelo. tupelomainstreet.com
Hope Continues 5K
OCTOBER 28
A 5K race and 1-mile fun run to raise funds to provide screening and support for individuals affected by breast cancer. All proceeds stay in northeast Mississippi. New course starts and ends in downtown Tupelo. Register online, $15-$25. 7:30 a.m. facebook.com/HopeContinues
PUMPKIN Cornbread
RECIPES BY SARAH GODWIN | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JOE WORTHEMSeasonal BUTTER recipes
Follow us on social media for our seasonal compound butter recipes!
Cornbread can be served any time of year, but adding everyone’s favorite fall flavor — pumpkin, of course! — makes it an especially interesting side this season. Remember, melting butter in a hot cast-iron skillet before adding the cornbread batter is key to perfecting the texture of this Southern delicacy.
1 cup all-purpose flour
1 cup fine ground yellow cornmeal (do not use cornmeal mix)
½ teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon baking powder
½ teaspoon baking soda
½ teaspoon ground cinnamon
Preheat oven to 375°F. In a large bowl, add flour, cornmeal, baking powder, baking soda, cinnamon and pumpkin pie spice. Stir well to combine.
In a separate microwave-safe bowl, microwave ¼ cup butter until melted, about 30 seconds. Add brown sugar, and whisk to combine. Add pumpkin, eggs, sour cream and milk, and whisk to combine.
½ teaspoon pumpkin pie spice
¼ cup plus 2 tablespoons salted butter, divided ½ cup packed light brown sugar
1 (15-ounce) can pumpkin
2 large eggs
½ cup sour cream
¼ cup whole milk
Add pumpkin mixture to dry ingredients, and fold together until well combined, 2 to 3 minutes.
In a large cast-iron skillet, melt remaining 2 tablespoons butter over medium-high until it bubbles. Pour batter into hot skillet with butter. Cook for 2 minutes, then transfer to oven and bake until set in center, about 25 to 30 minutes.
Batty for Halloween
WRITTEN BY EUGENE STOCKSTILL PHOTOGRAPHED BY JOE WORTHEMA few years ago, a rather unnerving thing happened while Ann Chancellor Roberson of Oxford was preparing for Halloween.
The physician, wife of a physician and mother of three had gotten up around 4 one morning to get things all set for the holiday. There she was in a black T-shirt and black leggings, hanging in darkness from a banister so she could put giant spiders on the outside of the house, when she noticed some unexpected company down the street.
“Some of the city police pulled up,” she said. “They were curious why this person was hanging from the banister.”
They all had a good laugh about it before the officers left Roberson to finish her important work for the morning, which she’d begun after realizing she was behind schedule for Halloween that particular year.
Normally, the house is decorated by the first of October, “just to enjoy it for the whole month,” she said. The process takes three to four hours, and the decorations are
a little different every year. “That’s the fun part, adding new things,” Roberson said. “I decorate the inside of the house, as well.”
Roberson and her family, who moved to Oxford several years ago, live in a traditional three-story Southern house on North Lamar. The residence, painted white with black trim, has a wrap-around porch and sits on property that once belonged to the people who lived next door.
“I’ve always been told the man who designed Central Park (in New York City) designed the house next door,” she said. “That may be a rumor.”
The Robersons tore down the old house on the site and built a new one in less than two years. Once settled in the house, they also settled into the neighborhood tradition of going all out at the spooky end of October.
“Oxford, in general, really embraces Halloween,” Roberson said. “All of the houses on North Lamar have fun. The first year, we went wild, and my kids loved it.”
This year, if you traipse through the Roberson yard, expect huge spider webs, 8-foot arachnids and maybe a zombie hiding around a corner. It’s not the only house nearby that goes batty for Halloween.
“All these houses do a phenomenal job,” she said, recalling a South Lamar home that became “almost a haunted house experience” one year, complete with smoke, ghosts and other ghoulish things.
“I loved Halloween as a kid and dressing up, pretending you’re something that you’re not,” said Roberson, who dressed up as Elvira last year. Now, Halloween turns into a family-wide event that includes her daughters, ages 10, 11 and 15.
When the girls were younger, “they enjoyed it so much, (decorating) was something I tried to do early in the morning,” Roberson said. “Now that they’ve gotten older, they’ve transitioned into helpers.”
On Oct. 31, whole families go trick-ortreating up and down the street. Roberson has been known to put on a pot of chili for visitors. Every year, she said, she goes through 3,000 to 5,000 pieces of candy.
“It brings a lot of friends and families together,” she said. “It really is a very magical experience.”
Southern Layed
A TUPELO COUPLE CREATES AN ORGANIC CHICKEN FARM FROM WHAT STARTED AS A HOBBY-SIZED AFFINITY FOR FEATHERED FRIENDS. WRITTEN BY LESLIE CRISS | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JOE WORTHEMAlyssa and Steven Estes rode the bus together when they attended Mooreville junior high and high school. They were acquaintances, but their lives took them in different directions. But in 2020, they reconnected, started dating, and then married two years ago.
She’s a sales manager covering a multistate area for Waste Management; he once drove a truck for the same company, and he has spent time doing construction work in the Bahamas. But talking with one or both of the Esteses quickly leads to the discovery of Steven’s passion.
“He has always loved chickens,” said his wife.
It’s true. While still living in their Mooreville home, Steven dabbled with a small number of chickens as a hobby. But as hobbies sometimes do, this one morphed into something more serious.
In 2021, the couple purchased 11 acres of farmland in Tupelo, just off County Road 1001. They sold their house in Mooreville and moved a recreational vehicle to the property to serve as home and office while they build their new home on the farm. Today, Steven is a full-time farmer at the family’s Southern Layed Organic Farming.
It’s not just the two of them. Southern Layed is lovingly made up of their blended family — 14-year-old Braxtn Harris, 12-year-old Bella Harris, 11-year-old Emma Estes and 7-year-old Elaine Estes — children from previous marriages. All six are represented on the farm’s logo, designed by Steven, which features four baby chicks bookended by a hen and a rooster.
It takes only a moment for any conversation with the Esteses to turn to
chickens. Alyssa’s words convey great pride in her husband’s love of what he does each day. Steven peppers his farm talk with gratitude for his wife’s enthusiastic support in this endeavor.
“She’s the brains in this outfit,” he said of his wife, more than once.
Her response is always the same. “This is all him. He knows so much about what he is doing here. It’s amazing.”
His knowledge of all things poultry is vast and impressive. The 31-year-old did not sit through any university classes on domestic fowl; most of his knowledge is from hours and hours of research done on his own.
Accompany him on a tour of Southern Layed, and he will share farm facts and figures so fast you’ll need pencil and paper to keep up.
In the hatchery on any given day, there might be 1,700 eggs (more or less) in incubators. Steven charts the progress on a calendar and separates trays of eggs depending on breeds. On the 18th day, eggs are moved to another incubator for the lockdown period. On day 21, he will see the new baby chicks and vaccinate them.
At that point the chicks are moved to another hatchery where their temperatures are monitored. At 2 months, the chicks are
moved to the pole barn where they will stay until they are 4 to 6 months old and are fully feathered. Then, the chicks are moved to their breed-specific runs for free-range living.
Southern Layed has grown from 15 chickens in the early days to around 2,000 now. There are eggs aplenty in a multitude of sizes and colors, depending on the breed.
“The Cream Legbar lays blue eggs, the Whiting True Blues lay green eggs, and the Ameraucana lay blue eggs,” Steven said with the ease of reading a grocery list. “The eggs of the Australorp are pointed and longer and a light brown.
“Right now, there are 18 breeds, paired, a male and a female. Next spring, we will be fully loaded with babies.”
He can tell you at what age the Buff Orpingtons lay, that the Lavender Orpingtons are his wife’s favorites, that the Polish Roosters have little mullets and which chicks have five toes instead of three. He can also list the primary predators from which he has to protect his chicks: hawks, owls, raccoons, possums, foxes and even the family pit bull pup Lotus.
Some of the chicks have been given names. There’s Sunshine, a Buff Silkie; Cranium, a wounded Black Breasted Game Bantam hen Steven is treating; and Lucifer,
a rescued rooster with a mean streak who takes pleasure in chasing two young family members — Bella and Emma — across the pasture.
The farm’s a peaceful place, but for the roosters. And since Steven rescued 30 roosters last year, the noise level is high. At Southern Layed, the hens rule the roost. When the male population gets out of control, a rooster often finds its way to the family’s dinner table.
“Anytime you put too many males together in one place, you’re likely to have problems,” he said, smiling.
The family has opened its growing farm to the community, especially to kids, for fun and educational events. And they have plans for more of this in the future. Kids can learn not only about chickens and eggs but also about the other animals that live at Southern Layed these days. There are four goats, 14 sheep, a peacock and peahen, and some turkeys.
A typical day on the farm can be long and exhausting. After all, Steven is the caretaker of more than 2,000 chickens. That means he feeds and waters, takes care of illnesses and wounds, builds new runs and coops, and so much more. He also builds and designs chicken coops to sell to the public. But he said he has no regrets.
“Honestly, I have so much more I want to do here,” he said. “And I am the happiest I have ever been.”
Making a {Fashion} Statement
WRITTEN BY LESLIE CRISS | STYLED BY JENNIE LEE | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JOE WORTHEMSome people adopt pets through established rescue organizations like Oxford Animal Resource Center or Tupelo Lee Humane Society. Others just fortuitously cross paths with stray animals and have the heart to take them in. No matter their backstories, these much-loved pets, each of which was rescued by a big-hearted human, are proof that saving an animal is always in fashion.
Ruby Walkington, an 11-year-old, sixth grader at Regents School of Oxford, has a pet named Midnight, a brown-eyed bunny that is solid black, except for about three white hairs on her back. Two years ago, Ruby’s friend Delaney had what she thought were two female bunnies in the same cage. Turns out, one was a male, so Ruby took the female.
“I trained her to use a litter box like a cat,” she said. “And now, she’s a free roaming bunny.”
Midnight knows her name, and she also will do a little dance if a treat is held up in front of her. Though she’s mostly a house bunny, she enjoys time outside where her best friend Ruby puts her in a stroller and pushes her up and down the street.
“They make bunny leashes, but Midnight doesn’t like those,” Ruby said.
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Hi GIMLI HELLO YUKON
A year ago, David Misenhelter, owner of North Grove Equestrian Park in Oxford, offered his barn to a feral cat who is now quite at home.
“Some riders found this wild cat,” he said. “They caught it, fed it and taught it they meant no harm. They already had a cat in their barn, but I’d never had one, so they brought it over.”
Named Gimli (think “Lord of the Rings”) for his orange fur, the cat is now friends with all the horses and dogs, and never misses an opportunity to visit anyone around the barn.
“He has free run of the place,” David said. “He likes to ride in the car and on the Gator. He follows everyone around while they do chores. You can pick him up and carry him around. For starting off feral, he’s awfully friendly.”
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Eagle River Yukon, a 9-year-old Appaloosa, has lived at North Grove Equestrian Park for five years.
“Yukon came to us not saddle broken,” his owner Hayden Edwards said. “We sent him off for a month of training and have been continuing training here in dressage, show jumping and cross country.”
Appaloosas are noted for their unique coloring and personality.
“They are very much a horse you have to have a conversation with,” Hayden said. “They see the world differently. Yukon has helped teach me to have more patience, empathy and learn what boundaries are.”
Yukon was not found in a rescue situation, but in the horse industry (including in Mississippi), there are many rescue and rehabilitation organizations.
“Owning a horse is quite expensive,” Hayden said. “Fortunately, there are programs that allow people to get to know about horses before getting in over their heads.”
PULLOVER AND HAT PROVIDED BY NEILSONSwoof ELLIE
One Sunday morning two years ago, Kris Wells of Tupelo received a call from her daughter McKenzie in Savannah, Georgia.
“She wanted to see if I wanted to help with a dog rescue in north Mississippi,” Kris said. “There were a ton of starving dogs, lots of Great Danes, both outside and inside a home.”
Save Rocky the Great Dane Rescue and Rehab became involved, and there were enough people helping that morning for the Great Danes to be taken into foster situations. It’s where Kris met Ellie.
“Ellie attached herself to my side early that morning and never left it,” she said. “She weighed less than 100 pounds that day; today she’s up to 150 pounds.”
In addition to being malnourished, Ellie was treated for a badly infected mammary gland, heartworms and lost an eye to glaucoma. Today, she’s thriving in the care of the Wells family and sister Sadie, another Great Dane. Kris loves the breed.
“They are fiercely protective,” Kris said. “They are such good-natured dogs, just big, old goofballs.”
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HEy ALICE
When 15-year-old Isaiah Barbour was 8, his grandmother decided to get him a dog for Valentine’s Day. Grandmother, mother and young Isaiah, all from Tupelo, visited the Oxford Lafayette Humane Society.
Isaiah met a dog who was quite excited and a bit nervous. He and his mom walked off to look at other pups, but returned when his grandma said that dog cried when Isaiah walked away.
“When I heard that, I knew she was the one,” Isaiah said. “Dogs choose you.”
And so, Alice Valentine Barbour — her nose looks like a heart — went home to Tupelo that very day. Now, she’s nearly 8. She and her boy have been through a lot together, including an injury that left Alice paralyzed.
“Isaiah truly nursed her back to health,” said mom Taneill Barbour.
Alice gets excited when Isaiah gets home from school and to share a pepperoni snack.
“Most of the time, she just lays out and wants to be loved,” Isaiah said.
GUMTREE GALA
The Gumtree Museum of Art hosted its ninth annual fundraising gala at the Tupelo Country Club on Aug. 12. The event featured a silent art auction, music by the Massey Tate Band and more.
BOY SCOUTS CLAY CLASSIC
AMORY VS. SALTILLO
PHOTOGRAPHED BY LISA ROBERTSThe Amory Panthers played their first “home” football game of the season against the Saltillo Tigers Aug. 31. The game took place at Tupelo High School, where Amory will play its home games because of tornado damage caused to its stadium last spring.
OLE MISS BACK TO SCHOOL
Ole Miss students returned to Oxford in early August in preparation for the first day of classes for the 2023 fall semester. Classes began Aug. 21.
IRON BARTENDER
The Iron Bartender competition (think “Iron Chef” on a liquid diet) took place at the Powerhouse Aug. 1 with local bartenders showing off their creativity. Winner of both the People’s Choice and Iron Bartender was Oxford’s El Charro. The annual event is hosted by the Yoknapatawpha Arts Council.
CROSSTOWN CLASSIC
The annual Oxford Chargers vs. Lafayette County Commodores Crosstown Classic football game opened the 2023 high school football season Aug. 25 at William L. Buford Stadium. Oxford defeated Lafayette, 42-7.
SNACK DOWN
A sold-out Snack Down, a culinary tasting event celebrating Lafayette County’s food entrepreneurs, was held Aug. 17 at the Powerhouse. Hosted by Leadership Lafayette and the Oxford-Lafayette County Chamber of Commerce, attendees tasted offerings and shared culinary stories.
MONTHLY MUSINGS
INTERVIEWED BY LESLIE CRISS | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JOE WORTHEMBRINGING HOME A DOG IS A SPECIAL RITUAL I’VE HAD THE PRIVILEGE OF DOING ONLY TWICE. BOTH TIMES IT WAS TO GET A BOY, AND BOTH TIMES I HAD A PRETTY GIRL MAKE THE TRIP WITH ME.
The first dog I brought home is the dog by which all future dogs are measured in my family. A Brittany named Decker. My fiancee at the time, now wife of a dozen years, and I picked up a mold-breaking pup an hour away and brought him to our little box made out of ticky-tacky in suburban Fort Worth. We had read, researched, bought all the gear, and were ready and committed to be dog parents, despite not being actual parents. The joys and tears that first ride home resulted in are some of my most cherished experiences.
Fast-forward a decade — different job, state, home and two kids. I got to bring home another puppy, this time with my nearly 4-year-old daughter. Dees and I embarked on a 24-hour, four-state adventure to get a 7-week-old wirehaired pointing griffon from Dubuque, Iowa. Just like that first ride home, the love and laughs this current bird dog brings are something I wouldn’t trade for anything.