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August 14, 2013 Locally owned 50 cents

Sammamish woman helps change law for victims of abuse By Ari Cetron

Gail Harsh was giving herself one chance. One chance to honor a dead daughter who’d endured years of sexual abuse. One chance to open herself to rooms full of strangers and tell her heartbreaking story. One chance to change state law to make it easier for victims to seek justice. She did it. “I can do this once. I can pour my heart into it one time,” said Harsh, a Sammamish resident. “It took a lot, emotionally, to tell about our daughter.” Along with a phalanx of others from around the state, Harsh lobbied to change the statute of limitations for reporting and prosecuting cases of child rape. After a bit of prodding from state Sen. Andy Hill (R-45), Harsh testified before both the House and Senate about the impact child rape had on her and her family. While lawmakers are presented with mountains of data, hearing the emotional side can be the sort of thing that helps a bill pass, Hill said. “One of the most powerful ways to get support for a bill is to have someone come and tell their personal stories about it,” he said. Amy’s story A family member first abused Harsh’s daughter, Amy, when Amy was 4. Then another family

member abused her between the ages of 4 and 8. Finally, a teacher assaulted the girl at age 10, Gail said. The incidents took place in the 1980s in Spokane. One of the three men is now dead. None were prosecuted. The family moved to Sammamish in 1988. At the time, neither Gail, her husband, Tom, or Amy’s brother and sister had any idea. “We did not know this happened, and we were a close family,” Harsh said. That changed July 24, 1992 (Harsh has detailed journals with dates). Amy was at a youth conference in Oregon. She was flipping through a magazine and saw a photo of a group of adults who were abused as children when she started having flashbacks, Harsh said. Harsh was not there, but another adult told her Amy started shaking violently. “She’s repeating over and over, ‘Something happened to me at (school). Something happened to me at (school),’” Harsh said. Amy was taken home. She started journaling and working with a therapist. She remembered the abuse in reverse order, which Harsh said is fairly common. “She gave a play-by-play about what this teacher had done to her,” Tom Harsh said. In retrospect, Gail Harsh said, she started to understand

some of Amy’s behaviors from the time it was happening. Amy would jog in place before a soccer practice, hoping that would stop her 9-year-old body from getting pregnant. Amy came home from school one day and asked to transfer to a different school – and wanted to start the next day. The fall after the revelations, Amy went back to school and became deeply involved, earning varsity letters, serving as president of the honor society and natural helpers. Then on July 2, 1993, she died of complications from mononuSee ABUSE, Page 2 Photo by Kayti Heuser

Jenny Graham, of Spokane, (left) and Gail Harsh, of Sammamish, were among dozens of citizens from across the state fighting for a change to the statute of limitation on child sexual abuse.

The new law As of July 28, the statute of limitations for sexual abuse has changed. Under the new standards, if the victim of rape, child molestation, indecent liberties, incest or sexual exploitation of a minor was under 18 when the crime was committed, the crime may be prosecuted until the victim’s 30th birthday. If the victim is over than 18, rape may be prosecuted with 10 years, if the crime was reported within one year. If the offense was not reported within one year, then it may be prosecuted within three years of the act. All other sexual offenses may be prosecuted within three years from the act.

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Dozens gathered at Gail Harsh’s Sammamish home to release ballons to honor victims of child sex abuse, and celebrate a change in the law.

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