A Reflection of Life
Thelma Lee Hargrow was born in Lenoir County, North Carolina, on December 29, 1929, to the late Alonzo and Laura Lovick She was the youngest girl of nine children, with five brothers and three sisters Raised in a Christ-centered home, Thelma was baptized at an early age and became an active member of her church Growing up in an era of segregation, she attended Craven County Public Schools, where she, like her siblings, worked hard each day, starting with picking up pecans from the family tree before school
Thelma’s life was defined by her unwavering faith and commitment to both her family and community She married the love of her life, Bill Edward Hargrow, on September 12, 1949. Together, they had four children: Ivan, Althea, Carolyn, and Gregory Their bond was rooted in love, faith, and a shared sense of purpose
Thelma’s devotion to service was evident throughout her life She served as an usher and greeter at Hickory Grove Disciples Christ Church, where she first learned the importance of serving others. After moving to Washington, DC, Thelma continued her church involvement as an active member of Metrotone Baptist Church In 1970, she and Bill became members of New Southern Rock Baptist Church, where she faithfully served on Usher Board #2 until her health no longer allowed her to do so
In addition to her church service, Thelma worked for the Department of Labor as an administrative clerk until her retirement in 1986 Despite her career, Thelma’s heart was always at home, where she was a devoted
A Reflection of Life
homemaker She was known for her incredible cooking skills, particularly her fried chicken, collard greens, sweet potato pies, and coconut and pineapple cakes Her home was always open, and a delicious meal was never far from the table.
Traveling was another joy of Thelma’s life She loved exploring new places, with Hawaii and cross-country trips to California being among her favorite destinations
Thelma’s legacy is carried on by her children: Ivan (Brenda) Hargrow, Althea Thompson, Carolyn Washington, and Gregory Hargrow She is also cherished by her six grandchildren, nineteen great-grandchildren, and six great-great-grandchildren She also leaves to mourn one brother, Chester (Ada) Lovick. She is preceded in death by her three sisters, Olivia Dunn, Sadie Cobb, and Minnie Lee Hargrow; her four brothers, Elisha Lovick, Jerome Lovick Sr , Nathaniel Lovick, and Alonzo Lovick Jr ; and one grandson, Antonio Washington Thelma also leaves behind a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends who were blessed to know her
Thelma’s life embodied her favorite scripture, Galatians 6:9: “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a ve up ” She never wavered in her faith or her good and her legacy will live on in the many
Order of Service
Prelude
Musical Selection
Processional Clergy and Family
Opening Hymn Congregational
Moderator/Worship Leader
Jhalila Moore
Scripture Reading
Old Testament : Proverbs 31:10-31 (MSG) Deacon Richard Cureton
New Testament : John 14:1-3 Caleb Hargrow
Prayer of Comfort
Deacon Ronnie Keyes, Fort Foote Baptist Church
Selection
Family Member
Poem
Family Member
Acknowledgment/Obituary Family Member
Remarks (Limited to 2 minutes)
Selection Jhelisa Hargrow
Eulogy
Rev Jarvis Williams,, Fort Foote Baptist Church
Benediction
Rev. Jarvis Williams,, Fort Foote Baptist Church
Recessional
Don’t Cry For Me
Don’t cry for me I will be okay
Heaven is my home now, and this is where I’ll stay
Don’t cry for me. I’m where I belong. I want you to be happy and try to stay strong
Don’t cry for me. It was just my time, But I will see you someday on the other side
Don’t cry for me. I am not alone.
The angels are with me to welcome me home
Don’t cry for me, for I have no fear.
All my pain is gone, and Jesus took my tears.
Don’t cry for me This not the end I’ll be waiting here for you when we meet again.
Grandsons and Great Grandsons
Funeral Arrangements Entrusted to March Life Tribute Center
7601 Sandy Spring Road Laurel, MD 20707
Internment
Maryland National Memorial 13300 Baltimore Ave , Laurel, MD 20707
In Appreciation
The family wishes to express heartfelt thanks to each of you for the calls, cards, and expressions of kindness shown during the loss of our loved one We are deeply grateful for your prayers, words of enco agement and s ppo t Ma God contin e to bless o
