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Just Between Us… I enjoy recording all our occasions and holidays — whether it be the first day of school or the Thanksgiving feast. Photos outdoors this time of year somehow have magical lighting, and we have quite a few snapshots that are especially precious: Our oldest not yet a year old in a front pack with daddy up on Skyline Drive. The girls rolling in a pile of leaves with their brand-new, days’ old brother swaddled and propped for a quick photo. All three of the older kids helping their baby brother toddle along some hay bales with a background of clear blue sky. And last fall, out at Chiles Peach Orchard, I took a photo that perfectly captured everyone’s personality. Our youngest mugged his best smile, pulling his grin wider with his fingers at the corners of his mouth, while his brother reached for a branch he ought to have known better than to climb and their sisters laughed
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{Contents} TABLE OF
OUR TOWN
LIVING WELL
News 10
The Buzz Around Town 12 Should Children Follow Their Parents’
Dietary Choices?
Our Schools 17
Spanish — At City Schools, It’s Elementary
Bravo! 18 Phil Giaramita
Tips & Trends 34 Fabulous Finds and Fun
RESOURCES
Home & Garden 36 Add Seasonal Glow to
Special Needs Guide 30 Local Resources for Health
Your Holiday Table
and Learning
Guide to Preschools 63 Places to Play, Learn and Grow
November Activities & Events for Families
Editor’s Pick!
Trim That Tree! 25
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Healthy Family 32 Fever 101
Out & About Calendar 20
Dear Bob 30 Your Parenting Questions Answered
Here’s a trick I still use at fancy dinners: Make OK signs with your hands. The left one is a B for bread plate. The right is a D for drink. Read about other table manners on page 60.
Local Farms Offer Holiday Trains, Candy Canes and More
So Love This!
UNTIL NEXT TIME We’ll Party Like Pilgrims 70 You Can Stay as Long as
We Have Leftovers
For us at the Murphy house, the holidays are just as much about grandma coming to visit as the turkey trimmings and pumpkin pie. Cooking together, making memories, is what makes the holiday meals truly special. Check our my family recipe on page 44. — Catherine, Advertising Sales
INSPIRATION Tasty Traditions 40 Thanksgiving Recipes from
Our Table to Yours
Top Gifts for Giving 44 The 2013 National Parenting
Publications Awards Winners in Toys, Games, DVDs & More
Three Cheers for School Volunteers 50
Meet Three Parent Volunteers
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Buy Local! Holiday Gift Guide Gifts for Mom & Dad 28 Wellness Gifts 35 Pop-Up Gift Shops 38 Gifts for the Hosts 42 Gifts for Kids 48 Photography & Art Gifts 70
Who Have Made a Lasting Impact
Teaching Your Preschooler Manners 60 They’re Not Too Young to Be
Polite and Courteous
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{our town community}
NEWS
the local buzz
IP Presents
Local Teachers Publish Book
Check out the wonderful events
Chris Bunin, a teacher at Albemarle High School, and
we are sponsoring this month!
Christine Esposito, a teacher at Walker Upper Elementary School, collaborated on a workbook for educators
Virginia Gingerbread Christmas
who wish to use digital mapping technology to teach middle school-level U.S. history classes. The workbook,
Accepting entries starting November 1
Toy Lift
“Jamestown to Appomattox Court House: Using GIS Savion Glover
to Teach U.S. History,” covers topics ranging from the
at The Paramount Theater
United States’ first census to the election of 1860. The
November 20
book — a collection of short activities averaging 30 to
December 6
45 minutes each — was made possible by a 2006
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Department of Education to Bunin and Esposito. Jafrom Carte Diem Press projects that the book will be released in January 2014.
Cosmetics Entrepreneurs Two Albemarle County students, dissatisfied by the unnatural ingredients found in commercially available make-up products, decided to take the problem into their own hands. The result: Blush Daisy, a line of all-natural make-up products. The two young entrepreneurs, sisters Emma and
Last month at the 17th annual Arthur C. Greene Rising
Julia Wayne, offer a
Star Awards Celebration, the Piedmont Council for the
lip balm collection
Arts honored 18 recipients. Teachers at local public and
including flavors such
private high schools nominated 11th- and 12th-grade
as snow cone, pink
students who displayed excellence in and commitment
frosting and coconut
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and peaches. Made
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Balcke, Garen Dorsey and Anne Schmidt of Albemarle High
messaging, like LOL (laugh out loud) and ROFL (rolling on the floor
School; Hannah Rose Frobom of Tandem Friends School;
laughing). A portion of the proceeds from Blush Daisy products
Travis Grice, Rachel Poulter-Martinez and Liza Williams
helps to support Alex’s Lemonade Stand Foundation.
of Western Albemarle High School; David Lee and Lainey
Currently the products are only available on the Blush Daisy
Wood of St. Anne’s-Belfield School; Micayle Levine of the
website and at the Charlottesville City Market on select Saturdays,
Renaissance School, Michelle Miles, Patrick Poehailos and
but these young entrepreneurs hope to delve into the local retail
Braelyn Schenk of Monticello High School; Aimee Moody,
scene with lip balm displays at stores around the area. Other
Vail Prior and Danny Wagner of Charlottesville High
ideas in the works include expanding the make-up line to include
School; and Kelli Peed and Jane Schmidt of the Covenant
everything from eye shadows to skin essentials, creating a sleeve to
School. The celebration featured student performances
attach lip balms to backpacks and launching a school fund-raising
along with a reception and a gallery exhibition.
option. Visit blushdaisy.com for more information, including a list of ingredients. (These products are exempt from FDA inspection.)
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Buzz
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TOWN Should children follow their parents’ dietary choices? 24% say “yes” 76% say “no” Family time is precious. Same diet means less time preparing meals. Less time preparing means higher probability of shared meals.
Let the kid have a cupcake, even if you are vegan [or] gluten-free. I think kids learn more by our example, not what we tell them to do. Force a kid to be vegan and he may Michelle E., Charlottesville, mother of three dream of the day he can have a big, juicy and business owner cheeseburger! Lisa H., Charlottesville, mother of twins and expert eater of all foods except beets I think it is important to raise your children on the beliefs of your family. Dietary choices are an important aspect of a It is important to let children make their family’s lifestyle, and by instilling a similar own food choices with parental guidance. diet throughout the family, you give your When you help your children learn to make children a better sense of identity. positive choices on their own…it carries Jenna B., Charlottesville, mother to one boy over in to many aspects of their lives. Mother of one, teacher of many If the parent has a healthy lifestyle, then definitely yes. If they do not, then obviously the answer would be no. As does the parent so will the child, healthy or not, good or bad — in most cases. We as parents are the example.
I don’t think that the children should have to follow any particular choice other than a healthy choice diet. But I don’t think that the parent should have to cook [or] provide food that she [or] he is uncomfortable with.
Dave, father of two girls
Ann, Ivy, mother of two
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SOCA sent three teams to the Virginia Youth Soccer Association State Cup quarterfinals this fall. After its 2-0 defeat of No. 2 seed FC Richmond Magic in early October, the SOCA U16 Boys Elite advanced to the VYSA semifinals, scheduled for the final weekend in October (before press time). The team’s victory was hard earned: The team was down a player for most of the game, and FCR has thwarted SOCA’s trip to the State Cup twice in the last three years. Carter Allbaugh and Brendan
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Moyers scored the team’s goals, and keeper Jonathan Whyte maintained the shutout. On October 19 and 20, the SOCA U17 Girls Elite and U18 Boys Elite teams traveled to Northern Virginia for quarterfinal games. Unfortunately, neither team was able to advance beyond this round. Players will now set their sights on the spring State Cup competition.
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Libbey Kitten
Libbey Kitten, Science Coordinator for Charlottesville City Schools (CCS),
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is very involved with the state and national movements to introduce new technologies and engineering into K–12 science learning. “I spent my career working with grades 6–12,” says Kitten. “I love that I now work with K–12. So much of our attitude toward learning is formed when we are quite young.” She lives with her husband and two cats in Short Pump, just west of Richmond, but says the commute to Charlottesville is worth it. “Having an opportunity to positively impact children’s views about science during the elementary school years is an extraordinary privilege,” she explains. What are your current projects?
How can parents kindle an excitement for science in their
Collaborating with the University of Virginia to establish the nation’s first
children?
Laboratory School for Advanced Manufacturing Technologies for grades
Kids are natural scientists. Encourage them to observe, explore and
6–12. UVA students and our science teachers will help our students learn
experiment. Warning: mess and mishaps are part of the process.
science in a meaningful context, using the latest manufacturing technologies. We’re also working with local businesses on student-created recycling education projects to reduce the amount of landfill waste CCS generates. In addition, we’ll partner with City Schoolyard Garden for the third year — with all six elementary schools plus Buford Middle School — giving our students ongoing, on-site garden-based learning experiences. What was your favorite book as a child?
“The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe” by C.S. Lewis What are you reading now?
“Animal’s People” by Indra Sinha. What 21st-century technology could you not live without?
Central air and heat. OK, it’s 20th-century, but when I spend time in a thirdworld country, that’s what I appreciate most when I get home.
Why is science important?
Learning to communicate effectively and think critically matter. We need to understand how some technological advances can come with undesirable impacts or ethical dilemmas. If opinions aren’t based on basic scientific principles, our responses will be as ignorant as those who tried to ward off the plague with rose water. What would you title your memoirs?
Serendipity If you could have a superpower, what would it be?
Teleportation. It would take care of my commute! What do you like best about living here?
University towns place a premium on education. This is especially important in science, when your goal is to expose children to relatively new and
Whom do you admire?
evolving career fields. The UVA professors are essential in developing the
I admire specific traits more than specific people: kindness, humility, a strong
STEM [Science, Technology, Engineering, Mathematics] courses and lessons
work ethic and a healthy sense of humor.
we envision in CCS. Also, Charlottesville and CCS are committed to green
What’s the best advice your parents ever gave you?
“You can do anything if you persevere.”
initiatives. I’m proud to work in a community that seeks to preserve our natural resources.
What made you excited about science?
In fourth grade, we studied the Black Death. It fascinated me that no one
Lynn loved science, especially physics, in high school and
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{our town community} rves a slice of the pie e s e D e n Everyo Blue Ridge Area Food Bank • Albemarle HS Chorus Independence Resource Center • JABA • Salvation Army • SOCA Monticello HS • March of Dimes • SPCA • Goodwill Industries Thomas Jefferson Food Bank • Habitat for Humanity Make A Wish Foundation • Kluge Children’s Rehab Albemarle Fire & Rescue • ARC of the Piedmont Special Olympics • Mosby Foundation Ronald McDonald House • St Judes SARA • Shelter for Help in Emergency
Stickworks Artist Patrick Dougherty visited Charlottesville last month to install a new and unique sculpture on the UVA Grounds. Dougherty weaves locally gathered saplings and branches to create larger-than-life “Stickworks” — this one in front of UVA’s Ruth Caplin Theatre on the Betsy and John Casteen Arts Grounds. UVA students and community members, including students taking art classes at the Renaissance School, lent a hand in the creation of the sculpture. The recipient of many arts awards, including a National Endowment for the
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Dougherty’s earlier projects, at UVA’s Fralin Museum of Art through December 22. “Stickworks” will remain on display for over a year. CharlottesvilleFamily’s sister publication the Charlottesville Welcome Book is proud to support the exhibition. For more information about it and the Fralin’s exhibition on Dougherty, visit virginia.edu/artmuseum.
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Spanish — At City Schools, It’s Elementary The students call her Ms. Hola or The Hola or Dora (the Explorer). But as long as they’re learning Spanish, teacher Stacy Díaz will answer to any of the above. Díaz joined Charlottesville City Schools in 2008 to initiate an elementary Spanish program to capitalize on children’s strong ability to learn a second language. “The program was exactly what I wanted,” Díaz says. “In 2008 we began classes for all of the city’s kindergartners and first-graders. When those first-graders moved up, we added second grade, and so on. Now those first-graders are sixth-graders at Walker Upper Elementary School, and I am teaching them Spanish 1
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for high school credit.” Through fifth grade, students have Spanish class for thirty minutes, twice a week. The sessions feature games, songs and high-energy activities. By first grade, students begin to write and read in español, using Spanish-language storybooks and accompanying materials. Díaz and her colleagues developed their own curriculum, now sought by divisions across the state and country. Díaz notes, “One of our successes is that we broke down Spanish vocabulary according to when students cover content in their regular classes. So when students study weather, we reinforce that material by teaching them la temperatura. We do this for shapes and colors with younger students or science and mapping skills with older students.” “I enjoy taking Spanish,” says sixth-grade Darius. “Because I’ve learned some Spanish at school, I can teach phrases to my friends who don’t know any Spanish. I even have friends who don’t know any English, so they can teach me more Spanish, and I can teach them some English.” His classmate Eliza agrees: “I like it, and I can tell that I’m learning. When I was younger, I couldn’t understand the teacher’s directions to the class in Spanish. I had to wait for it to be repeated in English. Now I understand what she’s saying in Spanish.” “It’s incredibly rewarding,” concludes Díaz. “Sixth-graders can learn a foreign language. They can learn it very well.”
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Phil Giaramita, Public Affairs and Strategic Communications Officer for Albemarle County Public Schools, hadn’t realized how sheltered his own life had been until he began volunteering for Piedmont Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA), an organization that provides trained volunteers to advocate for the best interests of abused and neglected children. After 10 years as a volunteer, Giaramita realizes that being a stable, consistent presence in a child’s life can make a profound difference. “These kids have an enormous capacity to love,” he says. “And they have also developed a capacity to survive and achieve. . . . You see a lot of pain but also a lot of optimism. It is not hopeless.” Like many other new CASA volunteers, Giaramita was initially worried about his emotional capacity when dealing with difficult cases and dysfunctional families. Over time, he learned not to make snap judgments about the families he encounters, because there are so many underlying factors: homelessness, poverty, drug issues and parents who lacked role models of their own.
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Giaramita describes CASA volunteers as honest, independent advocates whose loyalty is solely to the child — and who show up when and where they say they will. They build a level of trust with the children and the parents. According to the Piedmont CASA website, volunteers do not need to have experience in the court system, although they are asked to make a one-year commitment. CASA volunteers’ input is sought by judges in court, and they can be very influential in the
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About November 2013
THANKSGIVING Virginia Thanksgiving Festival
November 3, 12pm at Berkeley Plantation, Charles City Celebrate at the site of the first official Thanksgiving with manor house tours, activities and a living history program. berkeleyplantation.com 888-466-6018
Mini Fall Pie Making Workshop
November 17, 2-4pm at Mudhouse, Crozet Learn new tricks before Thanksgiving and take 4 mini pies home. Ages 13 & up. minipies.eventbrite.com 823-2240
Celebration of Holiday Lights
For more holiday festivals, events and fun, visit our online calendar at CharlottesvilleFamily.com
Poinsettia Open House Thanksgiving on the Mountain
November 28-December 1 at Wintergreen Resort Traditional feasts, the grand illumination of the courtyard, holiday workshops and more family fun. wintergreenresort.com 325-8180
Earlysville 5k Turkey Trot & Kids Run
November 28, 8:30am kid’s race, 9am 5K at 600 Earlysville Forest Drive, Earlysville Kids can enjoy a free half-mile race. Walkers are welcome. Benefits the Blue Ridge Area Food Bank. charlottesvillemultisports.com
HOLIDAY HAPPENINGS
The Boar’s Head Turkey Trot
Virginia Gingerbread Christmas Gingerbread House Competition
November 28, 9am at The Boar’s Head Inn Before the big feast, run or walk the 5k course to raise money for the UVA Children’s Hospital. Registration. dominiondigital.com/TurkeyTrot 972-2237
Now through December 2 at the Omni Hotel The theme is “Stage and Screen: Favorite Movie or Play.” Registration is due by Dec. 2. CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor! virginiagingerbreadchristmas.com 825-3082
Annual Club at Ironwood Turkey Trot
A Christmas Carol
November 28, 9am at Club at Ironwood, Verona Strollers and kids are welcome at this 5K run/ walk to benefit the Valley Children’s Center. turkeytrotatironwood.com 540-290-4427
November 25-January 5, 5-11pm at Gypsy Hill Park Enjoy a drive through the 214 acre park aglow with charming nighttime scenes. celebrationoflights.org
November 22-December 15 at Four County Players, Barboursville Scrooge travels through his past, present and future to learn the true meaning of Christmas. fourcp.org 540-832-5355
November 29 & 30 at Milmont Greenhouses Enjoy Brunswick stew, free homemade donuts, door prizes and more. milmont.com 540-943-8408
Barracks Road Annual Holiday Parade
November 29, 9:30am at Barracks Road Shopping Center Enjoy this hometown parade with costumed characters, antique cars, live animals, floats, local celebrities, marching bands and more! barracksroad.com 977-0100
Junie B. Jones Christmas
November 29, 6:30pm at The Paramount Theater How can Junie B. enjoy the holidays after drawing her arch nemesis, Tattletale May, for her Secret Santa Gift? theparamount.net 979-1333
Charlottesville’s Grand Illumination
November 29, 6pm at the Downtown Mall Festivities include the grand illumination of the community Christmas tree, as well as kids’ activities at Winter Wonderland on Second Street from 5-7pm. downtowncharlottesville.net 825-3082
Snow’s Holiday Open House
Montpelier Hunt Races
November 30, 8:30am-5pm at Snow’s Garden Center Enjoy hot cider, holiday cookies and meet Santa while you choose your perfect Christmas tree or greenery. snowknows.com 295-2159
Great Russian Nutcracker
December 1, 3pm & 7pm at The Paramount Theater See visions of sugarplum fairies as 40 members of Moscow Ballet present the holiday classic “The Nutcracker.” theparamount.net 979-1333
Toy Lift
Steeple Chase
Montpelier Hunt Races November 2, 9am-6pm at Montpelier See page 12
December 6, 7am-8pm at Fashion Square Mall Bring an unwrapped new toy or make an online donation to help make a local child’s holiday bright! CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor! kidslift.org 975-8697 Continued on page 22
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HILLTOP FARM $4,495,000 A 360 acre estate located less than 10 mins from UVA, Hilltop Farm enjoys panoramic views of the surrounding hills, plus Ragged & Blue Ridge Mountains. The immaculate, Johnson, Craven and Gibson-designed residence, accessed via one mile drive that traverses hundreds of acres of rolling pastureland, provides 6-BR and 5.5-BA w/gorgeous views from most windows. The setting of this quality residence is truly breathtaking in all directions. The siting of the house in the middle of the abundant acreage provides total privacy, tranquility & protection just a quick drive from all that Charlottesville & UVA have to offer. MLS# 514115 A F F O R D A B L E D E TAC H E D H O M E
4090 BROCKS LANE • $725,000 15 minutes to Downtown this solid built brick home offers wonderful livability including a first floor master suite with a cozy fireplace and private master bath, huge family room with wood burning fireplace and an open kitchen/living room/dining room which overlooks a gorgeous in-ground pool surrounded by lush plantings. Situated on over 34 private acres with wonderful views the property offers a private guest house with its own well and septic. Lindsay Milby (434) 962-9148. MLS# 512526
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1503 WILTON FARM RD • $192,000
Currently one of the most affordable detached homes in the City of Charlottesville. 2 bedroom, 1 bathroom home has been freshly painted, ideally located only minutes from I-64, PVCC, & the Monticello Trail. Only 6/10th of a mile to popular restaurants such as Beer Run, Belmont Pizza, Mas Tapas, The Local, and Tavola. Do not miss this opportunity to own a city home for a reasonable price! Harmony Li Thurston (434) 996-0006. MLS# 513670
Located on historical Ridge St. within walking distance to UVA & Downtown Mall. Off-street parking for 2 cars, large private backyard & unfinished basement that could be finished for more living space. Updated interior - hardwood floors, butcher block counters, stainless steel appliances, glass tile backsplash & ceiling fans. R-1S zoning will support primary residence & addition of accessory apartment on large lot. Amy Toomy (434) 996-0394. MLS# 509904
Located within walking distance of Darden Towe Park and the Rivanna River Trail. Convenient to Martha Jefferson Hospital, UVA’s campus and hospital system. 2 miles of I-64, 1 mile from 250 bypass. Main level ensuite master, all bedrooms with large walk-in closets, spacious, shady backyard and deck, loft area upstairs as well as separate laundry room. No HOA fees! Lisa Lyons (434) 987-1767. MLS# 513461
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65 BLUE RIDGE TER • $364,900 This bright, airy beauty is a must-see. Open layout features HW floors, vaulted, tray, & coffered ceilings, wainscoting, eat-in kitchen with granite counter tops, stainless steel appliances, formal DR & study w/builtin shelves. 3 bedrooms & 3 bathrooms, large garage. Spring Creek residents enjoy golf course, pool, fitness center, playground, tennis courts, and a security gate. Christine Lisle (434) 825-7446. MLS# 513711
401 Park Street Charlottesville, VA 22902
Sunnyside will make you feel like you have taken a mini vacation when you arrive home, and yet this totally tranquil, private 79 acre property is only 15 minutes to UVA, Farmington, and Downtown. The extremely well constructed 4 bedroom home enjoys drop-dead Blue Ridge Mountain views from every room and the wraparound porch. Complete with a luxurious immaculate guest cottage, 2 attractive detached garages with a total of 4-5 bays, and a woodworking area, plus dog kennels.
(434) 977-4005 lwoodriff@loringwoodriff.com
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{our town calendar} Family Day at the Virginia Film Festival
Dallas Children’s Theater
November 9, 9am-3pm at UVA’s Arts Grounds Attend a screening of “Peter Pan,” explore the Interactive Arts Fair and the instrument petting zoo, meet the megasize special effects creatures and more. virginiafilmfestival.org 982-5277
Shenandoah Uncorked
November 9, 10am-4:30pm at Yellow Barn at Shenandoah Caverns Enjoy live music, kid’s activities and more at this indoor/outdoor family-friendly festival. shenandoahuncorked.com 540-477-2432
MARKETS & SALES
Kid’s Classic
Stuart Little November 12, 5:30pm at The Paramount Theater See page 24
City Market
Now through December, 8am-1pm Saturdays at Second and Water Streets charlottesville.org 970-3260
WVPT Online Holiday Auction
FESTIVALS
Apple Harvest Festival
Montpelier Hunt Races
November 2, 9am-6pm at Montpelier Experience world-class steeplechase horse races! Enjoy the Jack Russell Terrier races, kids’ stick-horse races and Vendors Row. montpelierraces.org 540-672-0014
November 2, 10am-5pm at Rural Ridge Farm Go on a hayride, look at crafts, taste apples, watch old-fashioned apple butter cooking and cider pressing, tour the cidery and learn about growing fruit. albemarleciderworks.com 297-2326
November 5-19 auction.wvpt.net
Tandem Friends School Tag Sale
November 9 & 10, 7:30am-4pm Saturday, 10am-3pm Sunday at Tandem Friends School tandemfs.org 296-1303
presents
Saturday, December 21 •11:00am & 3:30pm Sunday, December 22 • 2:00pm & 5:00pm V. Earl Dickinson Building at Piedmont Virginia Community College To reserve your tickets for The Nutcracker Suite and our other holiday events, visit
www.CharlottesvilleBallet.org Box Office: 434.227.7592 Email: tickets@charlottesvilleballet.org Tickets starting at $20
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Mistletoe Market 2013
Sunday, November 17, 2013 The Boar’s Head 10 am – 5 pm
clothing, jewelry, gifts, toys, gourmet foods, home furnishings & more Tickets: $5 per guest (children under 10 free) Tickets available at the door or online at www.jlcville.org Ivy Publications is a proud sponsor of Mistletoe Market 2013
Friends of the Library Fall Book Sale November 9-17, 10am-7pm at Gordon Avenue Library jmrlfriends.org 977-8467
Mistletoe Market
November 17, 10am-5pm at The Boar’s Head jlcville.org
Alternative Gift Fair
November 29, 12pm at The Paramount Theater theparamount.net 979-1333
The Great Mouse Detective (G)
November 4, 3:30pm at Central Library Enjoy fresh popcorn and a movie on the big screen. Bring a blanket and pillows. jmrl.org 979-7151
Northside Players Drama Club November 4, 4-5:30pm at Northside Library Explore improv, story theater, and puppetry, play fun theater games and more. No experience necessary. Grades 3 & up. Registration. jmrl.org 973-7893
Green Valley Book Fair
November 29-December 15 at 2192 Green Valley Ln., Mt. Crawford gobookfair.com 800-385-0099
STAGE & SCREEN
For more holiday festivals, events and fun, visit our online calendar at CharlottesvilleFamily.com
Stickwork Ongoing at UVA Arts Grounds Patrick Dougherty, renowned for site-specific sculptures made of locally harvested twigs and saplings, created a unique work of art in front of UVA’s Ruth Caplin Theatre. A corresponding exhibition at UVA’s Fralin Museum of Art will be on display until Dec. 22. virginia.edu/artmuseum 924-3592
Stuart Little
November 12, 5:30pm at The Paramount Theater A mouse born into an ordinary New York City family, Stuart Little’s life becomes a series of adventures as he learns to survive in the super-sized human world. theparamount.net 979-1333
Best of Both Worlds Competition
November 16, 4-6pm at The Paramount Theater Some of the best regional and non-regional step and dance teams compete for cash and the ultimate bragging rights. theparamount.net 757-263-0068
Savion Glover
November 20, 8pm at The Paramount Theater A Tony-winning hoofer, choreographer and producer, Glover’s credits include Broadway shows and movies such as Happy Feet. Ivy Publications is a proud sponsor! theparamount.net 979-1333
PVCC Chorus Free Fall Concert Barefoot Puppets: Ooey Gooey Poetry
November 12, 10:30am at Central Library This lively puppet show features timeless classics including “The Three Little Kittens” and “Little Miss Muffet.” Best for ages 3 & up. jmrl.org 979-7151
November 24, 3pm at PVCC’s Dickinson Building Enjoy a variety of music ranging from Renaissance composers to today’s jazz standards and show tunes. pvcc.edu 961-5376
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Sign up for the Gingerbread House Competition Nov.1-Dec.2! Forms available on our website. Winter Wonderland Preview & Ticket Sales at Grand Illumination Nov. 29 at Central Place on the Downtown Mall
Winter Wonderland
Dec. 5-8 at The Omni | Grand Opening: Dec. 5, 4-7 pm Gingerbread House Village, visits with Santa, and more. Check the website for Santa’s schedule! Free.
St. Nicholas Reception
Monday - Sunday 9-5
Dec. 8, 3-4:30 pm at The Omni See the winners of the Gingerbread Competition receive their awards. Last chance to visit with Santa before he heads back to the North Pole to rest up for his Christmas Eve journey. Free.
Mrs. Claus Invites... YOU!
Dec. 12, 4-6 pm at The Omni Party with the Elves and Santa’s friends. Reservations required. Tickets $8.00 each.
NEW! Gingerbread Trail
Dec. 10-21 (see website for details)
The Gingerbread Express
Dec. 13-14 & 20-21 at The Virginia Discovery Museum. Leaves the station at 6 pm, 7 pm, 8 pm Enjoy the magic of Charlottesville’s Holiday Lights. Reservations required! Tickets are $5 per person.
For details and updates, visit:
VirginiaGingerbreadChristmas.com | 434.295.9073 Join us on Facebook and Twitter
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Charlottesville
eene Meadow r G s Farm A Traditional Christmas Experience
Holiday Market
Less than 30 minutes from Charlottesville!
& cut:
White Pine White Spruce Canaan Fir
fresh pre-cut
Frazer Fir Concolor Fir
plus wreaths • swags garland •centerpieces
located at Water St. & South St.
Open the Friday after Thanksgiving until Christmas Eve
Visit the Christmas Shop to help outfit your perfect tree. Visit the lambs & calves in our Petting Zoo while enjoying a complimentary cup of hot cocoa or cider, a candy cane and coloring book.
Fri., Sat., Sun. 10 am - 5 pm
434.990.1999
www.greenemeadowsfarm.com
ind the F perfect tree! All Virginia Fresh Cut Fraser Fir & White Pine Wreaths Roping
Sponsored by the City of Charlottesville Parks & recreation...
Creating lifetime experiences!
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17th Annual 5K Run for Shelter November 2, 8am at the Downtown Mall This annual run in downtown Charlottesville benefits the Shelter for Help in Emergency. Walkers are welcome! shelterforhelpinemergency.org 963-4676
Heart Walk
choose
Saturdays 8am-1pm, Nov 30-dec 21
SPORTS & OUTDOORS
1st batch of trees arrive Thanksgiving Week
November 2, 9:30am at UVA Research Park This family-friendly walk is designed to promote physical activity and heart-healthy living. charlottesvilleheartwalk.org
UVA Football
November 2 & 30, time TBA at UVA’s Scott Stadium Cheer on our ‘Hoos at home as they take on Clemson (Nov. 2) and Virginia Tech (Nov. 30). virginiasports.com
ATA Board Break-A-Thon
November 9, 11am-1pm at ATA Leadership Martial Arts The festivities include food, games, prizes, face painting, demonstrations and board breaking. ataleadershipma.com 973-3000
Fee Free Days at Shenandoah National Park
November 9-11 at Shenandoah National Park Enjoy the park without having to pay an entrance fee in observance of Veterans Day weekend. nps.gov 540-999-3500
LEARNING FUN Toddler Time with Monticello
November 1, 8, 15 & 22, 9:30-10am at Monticello In this series, join toddlers and their adult companions for story time, crafts and special activities. monticello.org 984-9880
Paperback Party!
November 2, 2pm at Central Library Bring a gently used paperback to donate and enjoy crafts, prizes, storytime, dancing and cake. jmrl.org 979-7151
Magic Pots & Recycled Bottles
Go where the growing’s good afton mountain
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Farm • Orchard • Greenhouse
9264 Critzer Shop Road 540-456-7100 Find us in the beautiful Rockfish Valley of Afton, VA. 20 minutes West of Charlottesville. On the right just before Blue Mountain Brewery
November 4, 2-3pm at Central Library From paper towel rolls to glitzy bangles! Learn how to make treasure out of trash with Kathleen Jacobs. jmrl.org 979-7151
Civil War Trail & Farm Walking Tour
November 16, 2pm at Montpelier, Orange Carve a path through archaeological remains of a Confederate camp to a reconstructed camp street. Conclude at the Gilmore cabin and farm. montpelier.org 540-672-2728
Trim That Tree! Local Farms Offer Holiday Trains, Candy Canes and More.
Boys’ Home Christmas Tree Farm, West Augusta 540-939-4106 boyshomeinc.org Choose from Norway Spruce, Eastern White Pine and Scotch Pine. Baling and loading available. Hours: November 29-December 21; Friday-Sunday, 10am–4pm Claybrooke Farm, Louisa 540-872-3817 claybrookefarm.com Cut your own Blue Spruce, White Spruce, Leyland Cypress and some firs. Warm up with complimentary hot cider and enjoy a wagon ride to the fields. Offers tree shaking, loading assistance, saw and close parking. Hours: November 29-December 1, 10am-5pm. Davis Creek Tree Farm, Lovingston 263-8762 daviscreektreefarm.com Choose and cut White Pines, Concolor Firs and Canaan Firs. Saw and twine available. Call ahead to schedule your visit. Hours: November 29-December 23; Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-4pm. Foxfire Christmas Tree Farm, Scottsville 286-3445 foxfireva.net Choose and cut Norway Spruces, Douglas Firs and a limited number of pines. Wreaths, saws, twine, baling and loading available. Fresh wreaths and garland, too. Hours: November 22-December 23; Wednesday-Monday, 9am-5pm; Tuesday by appointment. Greene Meadows Tree Farm, Stanardsville 990-1999 greenemeadowsfarm.com Choose from White Pine, Blue Spruce, White Spruce, Red Cedar and Canaan Fir or fresh, pre-cut Fraser Fir and Concolor Fir. Fresh wreaths, centerpieces, swags and garland. Hours: November 23-December 24; Friday-Sunday, 10am-5pm. See ad page 24. The Market at Grelen, Somerset 540-672-7268 themarketatgrelen.com Pre-order a Virginia tree to pick up after Thanksgiving and choose from a selection of handmade wreaths. Live animals to pet and an antique sleigh for photo opportunities. Santa stops by on Saturdays. Roping available. Visit website for pre-order form. Hours: 9am-5pm Tuesday-Saturday, 11am-4pm Sunday. See ad page 43.
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amFog, Afton 540-456-7100 Pick up a fresh cut Fraser Fir or White Pine tree or a holiday wreath. Roping is available. The first batch of trees will arrive Thanksgiving week. Call for times. See ad page 24.
Oak Shade Farm, Rixeyville 540-937-5062 oakshadefarm.net Choose from Norway Spruce and White Pine. Stroll along walking trails, warm up with free cider and homemade cookies, visit with bunnies and chickens. Saws, baling and tying available. Hours: November 29-December 24; Tuesday-Sunday, 9am-5pm. Peper’mint Christmas Tree Farm, Culpeper 540-825-4693 virginiachristmastrees.org Enjoy hot cider, candy canes and mountain views. Cut your own tree and select wreaths, swags and garland, made fresh daily. Hours: November 29-first two weekends in December; 10am4:30pm Saturday & Sunday. Spruce Rock Farm, Brightwood 703-759-3039 virginiachristmastrees.org Cut your own Blue Spruce, Scotch Pine, and Douglas Firs, or select from pre-cut Fraser Firs. Free tree shaking, baling, hot cider and chocolate. Cash or checks only. Hours: November 29-December 23; 10am-4pm Saturday & Sunday, weekdays by appointment. Stonehearth Christmas Tree Farm, Madison 540-547-2576 Cut your own White, Scotch and Red Pines, and Canaan Firs. Also crafts, wreaths and garland for purchase. Saws, twine and tree shaker available. Kids get candy canes and a free coloring book. Hot chocolate and cider, and model trains running on weekends. Hours: November 29-December 23; 9am-5pm Saturday & Sunday, call for weekday hours.
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{our town calendar} Be an Opera Star
November 21, 4pm at Northside Library Get a behind-the-scenes look with Ash Lawn Opera at “Amahl and the Night Visitors” through hands-on and interactive activities. Registration. Grades 2 & up. jmrl.org 973-7893
ESPECIALLY FOR TEENS
It Only Takes
ONE
High School Essay & Youth Poetry Contests
to make a difference this holiday season!
2013 TOY LIFT Friday, December 6, 2013 | 975-TOYS | kidslift.org
Poinsettia Open House Friday, November 29 & Saturday, November 30 Open 8:00 - 5:30 MOn - Fri 8:00 - 5:00 Sat
located on rt 340 about 3.5 miles south of i-64.
brunswick stew, free homemade donuts, door prizes & more! Visit www.milmont.com for the latest updates on specials and details for the open house.
(540) 943-8408 • milmont@milmont.com
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Don’t Miss It!
Now through November 5 Presented by the National Garden Club, the essay contest is open to students in grades 9-12 and the youth poetry contest is open to grades K-9. See website for themes and entry rules. gardenclub.org 979-9900
Writer’s Eye Contest
Now through November 15 at UVA’s Fralin Museum of Art This annual competition challenges youth in grades 3-12, UVA students and adults to submit original poetry and prose inspired by works on view in the Museum. virginia.edu/artmuseum 924-3592
Minute to Win It Madness
November 20, 7pm at Gordon Avenue Library Compete Minute to Win It challenges inspired by the game show and test your mettle against your peers. Registration. Grades 6-12. jmrl.org 296-5544
Teen Cosmic Sci-Fi Spectacular
November 22, 7-8:30pm at Crozet Library Celebrate the release of “Catching Fire” and the 50th anniversary of the Dr. Who series with crafts, trivia, debate and more. Registration. jmrl.org 823-4050
Teen Screen Movie Special
November 23, 2-2:30pm at Gordon Avenue Library Play Hunger Games trivia to win a ticket to see the “Catching Fire” movie. Afterward, watch the first movie in the series! jmrl.org 296-5544
ESPECIALLY FOR PARENTS Camp Holiday Trails Open House November 2, 9am-12pm at Camp Holiday Trails campholidaytrails.org 977-3781
Online Bidding November 5-19 Start your holiday shopping season in style at
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Birth Matters VA’s Awards & Fundraiser November 3, 1-5pm at Lewis Ginter Botanical Gardens, Richmond Explore the garden and enjoy a day of birth advocacy with special guest Abby Epstein. birthmattersva.org 528-5458
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{our town calendar} Renaissance School Open House
November 4 & 5 at Renaissance School renaissanceschool.org 984-1952
Come See Us in Action Day
Buy Local! Holiday Gift Guide GIFTS FOR MOM & DAD
November 5, 9am-11:30pm at Tandem Friends School tandemfs.org 951-9314
Charlottesville City School Board Meeting November 7, 5pm at Charlottesville High School ccs.k12.va.us 245-2400
MESA Open House
November 7, 5-7pm at Albemarle High School k12albemarle.org Crutchfield See ad page 49 Happy Cook See ad page 41 Meadowbrook Pharmacy See ad page 68 Paramount Theater See ad page 28
Learn, Connect, Hope, Thrive Conference
November 9, 8am-6pm at Holiday Inn Roanoke-Tanglewood A conference for professionals and parents of special needs children. connections4children.com 823-2199
Big For a Day
November 9, 1-3pm at Bellair Farm Join in fall-themed activities and fun as you see what Big Brothers Big Sisters has to offer. Each volunteer will be matched with one child. blueridgebigs.org 244-0882
SAVION GLOVER
The Paramount Theater
November 20 8pm
Regents School Open House
November 12, 5:30-7pm at Regents School of Charlottesville regents-school.org 293-0633
What New Parents Need to Know
November 12, 6-8pm at UVA’s McLeod Hall Parents to be are invited to a special night including refreshments, door prizes and short talks with UVA Physicians. healthsystem.virginia.edu 924-9920
Fall Open House for Prospective Parents November 14, 9-11am at Grymes Memorial School grymesschool.org 540-672-101
Albemarle County School Board Meeting November 14, 6:30pm at Albemarle County Office Building, Lane Auditorium k12albemarle.org 972-4055
Mindfulness in Teaching and Learning
November 20, 7pm at Tandem Friends School Irene McHenry, Ph.D., Executive Director of the Friends Council on Education in Philadelphia and author of “Tuning In: Mindfulness in Teaching and Learning” presents a lecture. tandemfs.org 296-1303
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Expert Advice Your Parenting Questions Answered Last year, the large family holiday dinner was very stressful for our family. Our middle child, who has Asperger’s, had quite a tantrum. Is it OK for me to stay behind this year with him and let my
Dear Bob
spouse and other children attend without us? — Della, Keswick
by Bob Taibbi
I can understand your worry and
off into a bedroom and playing on his iPad
desire to avoid another such incident from
or reading a book, for example — or perhaps
happening again this year. Of course, you can
staying for only a portion of the dinner itself
stay behind with your son, but I’m concerned
and excusing himself after he eats.
that while this may be a short-term remedy,
Once you agree on a plan, contact
it doesn’t help your son and it doesn’t help
your host and let her know what you have
your relatives become closer to your son. I
decided and need — the ability to find a quiet
think there are things you can do to help him
space, leaving the table early and so on — so
not reach the tantrum stage.
she knows what to expect. And finally on
You don’t say how old your son is,
the holiday day, review the plan one more
but I’d start by talking with him ahead of
time with your son, and then check in with
time about the upcoming holiday visit. Ask
him frequently just to see how he is doing.
if he remembers what was hard for him
It could also be beneficial to spend time
last year. I’m guessing that he may have
preparing your family. They’ll likely welcome
felt overwhelmed by the commotion and
suggestions on how they can support your
may have had a hard time following all the
son on the big day.
conversations going on at one time. See if
The goal here is to be proactive and
you both can come up with a plan. This may
preventative. If both the family and your
involve spending one-on-one time with a
son know what to expect and he has ways
cousin that he likes, or taking a break when
of re-centering before he gets overwhelmed,
he starts to feel overstimulated — going
WANT TO ASK BOB A QUESTION? Email your parenting concerns and queries to editor@IvyPublications.com. Yours might be included in an upcoming issue!
everyone will enjoy the peace-filled holiday.
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{living well healthy family}
Fever 101 Why Fevers Happen and Why There’s Nothing to Fear
Children are great at sharing germs, especially during the cooler months when they spend a lot of time in close quarters. Chances are good that your child will end up with a fever at some point this season. You may find yourself worrying that this elevation in body temperature will cause your child permanent harm, but that’s very unlikely to happen. In fact, a fever is usually a sign of a healthy immune system doing its job. “A fever can actually be a good thing to help the body fight off infection,” says UVA Thinkstock
Children’s Hospital pediatrician Emily Wong. “Parents do not need to be afraid of a fever. The fever itself is not a dangerous thing.” A fever is a symptom of an underlying condition. The most common cause of fever is a viral infection, such as influenza or hand, foot and mouth disease. Bacterial infections — such
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may develop low-grade fevers following vaccinations. Many parents first detect a fever when kissing or lightly touching their child’s forehead. But for an accurate and quick assessment, Wong recommends using a digital thermometer: a rectal digital thermometer for infants and toddlers under 2 years old and an oral (underthe-tongue) digital thermometer for cooperative children over 3. Ear and under-the-arm thermometer readings are less reliable. It’s only natural to want your child to get well quickly, but experts say it’s not always necessary to treat a fever. Instead of worrying about how high the fever is, closely observe your child’s behavior and activity level. Is he drinking plenty of fluids? Is she breathing normally? Is he alert? Does she know who you are and
WHAT’S THE CORRECT DOSAGE TO GIVE? Should you give your child feverreducing medication? Refer to the American Academy of Pediatrics website at healthychildren.org and consult with your doctor whenever possible.
respond appropriately to questions? These observations will help you decide whether to administer medicine to your child. “The fever itself is not harmful to the child, so it’s not necessary to give medication for it,” Wong says. “If the child is uncomfortable from the fever and not drinking or not able to sleep, then there can be benefits to giving medication.” Infants under 3 months old with a temperature of 100.4° F (38.0°C) or higher should be seen by a doctor. For older infants and children, consult your pediatrician for fevers lasting more than three days. Also call the doctor if your child has a fever accompanied by symptoms such as a stiff neck; severe headache, sore throat or ear pain; an unexplained rash; or severe diarrhea or vomiting. Many parents are concerned about febrile seizure, a convulsion in a
child (aged 9 months to 5 years) triggered by a fever. This may occur at a fever’s onset or as it spikes higher, but it is usually brief and does not cause permanent damage. Even so, consult your child’s doctor if one occurs to make sure the child is stable and to rule out other types of seizures. Most children’s illnesses are short-lived and best treated with plenty of rest and fluids to prevent dehydration. And always some of the best medicine — a little TLC from mom and dad.
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{living well tips & trends} GARLIC & SAPPHIRES As Thanksgiving approaches and food becomes the topic of conversation, this entertaining memoir by Ruth Reichl — in which she adopts the persona of an undercover food critic in Manhattan — draws us into the experience of food hype at its best, thus putting our own
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Holiday meal planning begins sometime before Thanksgiving and often ends after the New Year. Take some of the stress out of meal preparation this year and consider these suggestions:
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4. Make a list of favorites and then cross items off. No one needs seven vegetable sides. 5. Accept others’ offers to bring food for the occasion.
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Where do I find time to exercise during the extra-busy holiday season? Multitask and be prepared! Do lunges or squats while baking cookies, speed walk around the
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Using a melon baller when hollowing out a squash allows you to get closer to the shell of the squash — so the interior shape better mimics the exterior.
Harvest Thanksgiving, the holiday of the harvest, is upon us. I like my holiday table to reflect the last of nature’s fireworks while creating
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a welcoming atmosphere. Here are a few of my favorite ways to add a seasonal glow to my holiday table.
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Remove the top of an uncooked acorn squash and scoop out the insides. As you hold a piece of wicking in the center, fill the squash with melted wax (old candles are great for this). Let this sit until the squash is cool to the touch. At this point, the skin should easily peel away from the wax. Even out the bottom of your squash-shaped candle with a knife as needed.
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Cut the stem out of a miniature pumpkin, carving out enough space to hold a tapered candle. Use a little adhesive putty or melted wax to keep the taper from falling over, if necessary. Turnips are another great vegetable to use for this!
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Wrap the exterior of votive candle holders with leaves or corn husks, attaching them with spray adhesive or double-sided
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Colored tissue paper wrapped around hurricane lamps also add color. When folded and wrapped in layers, the paper can
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Want something a little longer lasting? Try painting a glass cylinder with glass paint. Use masking tape to create your
tape, bringing a little bit of the outdoors in.
appear to be different tints of the same color. Secure with tape or glue and paintbrush.
own pattern — this year, I’m going with stripes.
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{living well home and garden} Bring the Outdoors In Former Martha Stewart Living editor Shane Power presents 20 projects that use a variety of plant
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Pop-Pop’s Smashed Rutabagas Catherine Murphy, Sales Consultant Thanksgiving is my all-time favorite holiday, filled with great food, family and — oh yea — more great food! My family is the epitome of the American family with a melting pot of backgrounds and grandparents originally from Jamaica, New Zealand, Germany and Canada. I have had the privilege of spending many holidays with three out of my four grandparents, each having a signature dish. But with this very special dish, we have been able to keep my Pop-Pop at the
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Thanksgiving table with us even after his passing. Though the actual root vegetable used in this dish is a rutabaga, for some reason my sisters and I have always called it “smashed turnips.” After speaking with my grandmother, I realized this was because she, having grown up in Jamaica, had never even heard of a rutabaga until she married my Canadian grandfather, who was from Newfoundland. The veggie’s name didn’t even matter as long as she knew which one to pick up at the market! Like many family recipes, the three Murphy Girls taste as they go and make adjustments depending on how bitter each rutabaga is. So here is what we like to call a ballpark recipe. I hope you and your family enjoy it!
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Mom’s Green Bean Casserole Kelly Robeson, Editorial Assistant I’m not ashamed to admit that I’m no Martha Stewart. I collect Pinterest recipes like it’s my job, but in reality I’ve only actually attempted a handful of them with a marginal success rate. I try to stay out of the kitchen as much as possible, only popping in on special occasions to really wow my friends and relatives with my unexpected effort and passable finesse. Thus, when I was asked to contribute a Thanksgiving recipe to feature in our November issue, I did what I always do in times of cooking crisis — I speed-dialed Mom. After tossing around ideas for a few minutes, we settled on a time-honored recipe for green bean casserole. (My true Thanksgiving love is mashed potatoes, but when I asked my mom for that recipe, she just laughed. Apparently only total kitchen novices need a recipe for mashed potatoes. Thanks, Mom.) While still not the healthiest side dish around, green bean casserole successfully tricked me into eating a cleverly disguised serving of vegetables. Now that I’m an adult, I can freely admit that this creamy and crunchy dish is tasty. I might have once looked upon it with skepticism from my seat at the kids’ table (where I am still seated every year, I’ll have you know), but I now look forward to it — along with
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my beloved mashed potatoes, my uncle’s fantastic homemade bread, ham and other Thanksgiving goodies. Maybe this year I’ll even attempt to make it myself. Or perhaps I’ll just set the table.
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s r e e t n Volu nteers Meet Three Parent Volu ting Impact Who Have Made a Las By Dionna L. Mann
Our area schools are fantastic. The dedication and enthusiasm of our teachers is impressive. And, our children’s learning experiences are often further enriched by the volunteers who come alongside students in the classrooms and bring something different, something new, to the school day. Meet three parents and a few UVA students who volunteer their time and give from the heart.
Mia and Izzy’s dad, Chris Goodbar, has attained rock-star status at their elementary school. After all, he’s been teaching kung fu to their fellow Free Union Country School classmates ever since they were in preschool. Their dad’s course is always a favorite during Parent Teach Day. On this unique day, students’ “regular”
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classes are set aside and parents come to share their skill sets, their talents, their loves — sewing, building rockets, Julia Child–inspired baking, sculpting, designing prostheses, jumping hurdles, explaining the math behind video games, making radio-controlled robots boogying to 80s music and martial arts — with groups of students. Why has Mia and Izzy’s dad been sharing his knowledge and love of kung fu during Parent Teach Day for four years now? “I got involved for a couple of different reasons,” he explains. “On the one hand, I love working with kids and I love kung fu, so a chance to do both sounded like a good time to me! The other is CharlottesvilleFamily.com
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Parents share their skills and passions with students at Free Union Country School on Parent Teach Day. Chris Goodbar (above), who has two children at the school, leads a session of kung fu. that I made a conscious decision when my kids were born to be as involved with and as present in their childhood as possible. I didn’t want to wake up one day and realize my kids were all grown up and I somehow missed it. So, for that reason, I try not to pass up any opportunity to be a dad who’s involved.” Participating on Parent Teach Day does not feel like any sacrifice of his time, he says. “Being involved with school activities just feels like a natural and obvious choice,” and he is grateful for the opportunity to be part of what he calls Free Union Country School’s family-like community. Goodbar describes the atmosphere around the school on this special day: “There’s this ecstatic, bustling energy with the kids moving from one class to the next. It’s great to see it, because they’re having a blast, but at the same time they’re broadening themselves and learning new things. It’s one of the things I love about Free Union — that in addition to gaining all this knowledge, my girls are learning to love the act of learning itself.” Why does Goodbar recommend that other parents find opportunities to volunteer at their child’s school? “Seeing a room full of kids get inspired about something you feel passionately about yourself is amazingly fulfilling. If the chance is there, I’d take it,” he advises. “And if it’s not, I’d think seriously about starting a similar program at your own school!”
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In 2010, Linda Winecoff, a parent volunteer at Walker Upper Elementary School, part of Charlottesville City Schools, began planting the seeds (pun intended) for a schoolyard garden. For starters, she took students on after-school trips to local organic farms. She and the kids cooked with produce from her home garden. She got the kids growing lettuces. And, for a wonderful finale at the end of the school year, she and the kids designed a “dream garden” for school grounds. With a vision for several schoolyard gardens at local city schools, Winecoff recruited others for the effort: local garden experts, UVA student volunteers, other parents and school administrators. Buford Middle School was the first Charlottesville City School to install a permanent edible classroom. Now kids
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at six Charlottesville City Schools have the opportunity, through this garden program, to become stewards of organically grown gardens during hands-on science classes,
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after-school activities and summer camps. A landscape architect and urban planner, Winecoff recalls why starting this program interested her: “I have always
and
loved the idea of community gardens and,
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in particular, gardens where children can really get their hands in the dirt.” It also brings Winecoff great pleasure to see the gardens drawing children out into the sun and away from the beeps and clicks
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“Gardening is not an activity that one can look up on the Internet. It is a time-honored activity of mentor and student, of working shoulder to shoulder and of seeing firsthand how a plant can be nurtured and cared for. The lessons in that simple exchange are enormous,” she continues. “Children learn observation skills, patience, teamwork, how physical activity produces a result, the science of soil, listening skills and the wonder and magic of life itself taught in the kernel of a seed. There is such a sense of ownership CharlottesvilleFamily.com
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Each week during the school year, at least 3,000 University of Virginia students volunteer in the Charlottesville community, an admirable feat coordinated by Madison House, just down the street from the Rotunda and a few steps before the ever changing Beta Bridge. Through this independent, non-profit organization, which has been active for four decades, UVA students spend more than 110,000 volunteer hours a year in the service of others. These willing young men and women serve as tutors, construction workers, daycare supporters, patient service representatives, role models and peer counselors in partnership with some 90 community agencies — some of which serve senior citizens, animals, the environment, the hungry, the homeless and those with medical needs. But nearly 210 of these UVA student volunteers, recruited by their peers and trained by more seasoned volunteers, are known as Cavs in the Classroom. These particular volunteers visit almost 20 Charlottesville City and Albemarle County Schools, where they become teachers’ assistants, student allies or an extra set of hands guiding scissors, glue, pencils, calculators and microscopes. Perhaps more importantly, they reduce the teacher-to-child ratio, give individual attention when needed and provide positive (and, yes, cool) role models for children who may not be thinking about college yet. “Cavs in the Classroom volunteers might be a student’s introduction to the University of Virginia and college in general,” says onetime Cavs in the Classroom volunteer Stephanie Passman, now a fifth-grade teacher at Cale Elementary School in Albemarle County. “[They] personify college for my fifth graders by sharing about their busy class schedule, upcoming exams and volunteer activities. For some students, it is their first spark to ignite visions of themselves attending college one day.” As a teacher, Passman truly appreciates the practical assistance of the Cavs in her classroom. She applauds volunteers’ consistency, saying, “I can confidently count on the volunteer coming at the arranged time and can plan lessons through which students receive more personal attention to help them meet their learning goals.” For example, while teaching the impact of temperature change on the state of matter, Passman had the manpower to turn her classroom into an ice cream-making factory! Of her personal Cav in the Classroom that day, Passman says, “She was more than a helping hand. As the ice cream-making process got underway, she took turns with the students to help them vigorously shake their bags, laughed about her frigid fingers, and became a part of our classroom community.”
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among the youth that have participated in the garden program.” Winecoff’s kids — no longer in middle school — still share in her continued enthusiasm for the program. Her son, Nick, has cut poles from a local farm and assisted in building a shade structure at Buford Middle School. Her daughter, Maddie,
provides
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assistance when needed. Her husband, Rick Hazard, has tackled garden-building projects, estimated the cost of garden structures and donated building materials. Winecoff appreciates her family’s support, noting that she could have had a paid job instead of volunteering these last few years. Jeanette Abi-Nader
“I cherished the involvement of my family and having had them as a sounding board and as active participants in all that we have accomplished.” Volunteering at local schools is not only about being active at the schools where her children are attending. It’s also about creating an educational experience for all students — one where they might obtain a deeper understanding of and love for nature. She says, “I truly believe that each student and adult who are touched by the garden become ambassadors for the program, for their school and for the earth. In that
Linda Winecoff’s efforts have resulted in the development of school gardens at several schools in the city of Charlottesville.
way, there is a ripple effect outward. As the initiators of the program here in Charlottesville, we have simply been the first stone cast into the pool of mindful regard for wholesome foods, healthy lifestyles and stewardship of our planet.”
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thought we could find a few more people that were interested in taking the class.” Soon the instructor was hired to come and teach karate after school right at Brownsville. But Merhige wanted her son, Beau, to learn more than just karate. “I was also interested in my son learning some
Spanish,” she muses, “so we found a teacher to teach Spanish. Those were our first two classes, and we grew it from there. I always joke about the irony of the beginnings of the BEE Program for me. I helped start it because I thought it was too much effort to drive once a week to his class!” These tremendous
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of classes,” says Merhige. “These have remained our guiding principles.” Much is done by Merhige and the
Katherine Merhige (left) started the Brownsville Elective Education Program in 2005. Today, through the efforts of other “BEE Keepers,” hundreds of county students enjoy fun after-school classes.
many other volunteer “BEE keepers”: planning which classes will be offered, making sure all involved with the program have passed background checks, organizing
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her enthusiasm for the program? “It has become such an important aspect to our school. It is a great way for kids with common interests to get to know each other,” she answers. “When we began the program, the school population was about 350 students. Now we are up to 700, so BEE can make it a smaller place.” Besides that, she’s seeing excitement and enthusiasm on kids’ faces, including her daughter’s, when they tell their parents what they did that day.
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TEACHING YOUR PRESCHOOLER
Manners By Kim Seidel
They’re Not Too Young to Be Polite and Courteous
Good manners help kids learn respect for themselves, for each other and for adults. However, few kids today could pass their grandparents’ test for appropriate manners.
Why? “Many modern parents declare it old-fashioned and turn up their noses at the importance of teaching manners — an antiquated ritual, super uncool,” says Aaron Cooper, a clinical psychologist, educator and co-author of “I Just Want My Kids to Be Happy: Why You Shouldn’t Say It, Why You Shouldn’t Think It, What You Should Embrace Instead” (Late August Press, 2008). “What well-intentioned moms and dads forget is that acquiring manners is one of the earliest ways to help kids develop self-control. And self-control, experts agree, is a key element in paving the foundation for a happy life.” Another roadblock to teaching good manners is lack of time. With Ashley Florence
today’s busy family lifestyles, it’s common to let courtesy slide, says Fran Swift, a parent educator. “I hear from parents about their children’s rudeness and disrespectful behavior,” Swift says. “This can be connected to lack of common courtesies, which respect is a huge part of.” It makes the kids unhappy when parents insist on manners — and today, parents just want their kids to be happy, Cooper says. “After one or both parents have worked all day, it’s harmony they’re looking for, not the inevitable struggle when they insist on manners,” he says. Parents would rather be “friends” with their kids than authoritative limit-setters, he points out, and friends don’t insist on manners. Continued on page 65
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Be consistent, says Gottsman. Parents won’t find success, for example, instructing their kids about “good graces” only during the holiday season — but it’s a good place to start. Gottsman recommends that young children, especially those under age 5, should not be expected to sit through a long holiday meal. Keep their attendance to about 20 minutes, and then let the kids play with their new toys while adults can linger over dessert.
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Free Union Country School INTRODUCTIONS: When your child meets new friends or relatives, teach her to say something similar to, “Hello, my name is Rachel.” Teach her to extend her right hand (even if left-handed) and to firmly shake a hand that’s extended to her. PROPER EYE CONTACT: Instruct your child to maintain eye contact about half the time a person is speaking to him. If your child is uncomfortable with direct eye contact, tell him to look at the bridge of the person’s nose. THE HANDSHAKE (or what to do with an unexpected hug): Remind your child to give a firm handshake and a friendly hug when appropriate. If you know a certain relative likes hugs, you can “warn” your child ahead of time. Continued on page 65
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Charlottesville Catholic School Prepares students to embrace their world through lives of faith, service and leadership. Pre-K–Grade 8 cvillecatholic.org 964-0400 See ad page 67
First Presbyterian Church Preschool Creating a foundation for continuous growth and development in a Christian environment. Ages 20 months–5 years fpchurch.com/presch.asp 296-1447 See ad page 66
Charlottesville Waldorf School Emphasizes imaginative play as the foundation for nurturing the senses and understanding the sciences. Preschool–Grade 8 cwaldorf.org 973-4946 See ad page 57
Foundations Child Development Center Focuses on developmentally appropriate, hands-on experiences and opportunities. Ages infant–Pre-K foundationscdc.com 973-9218 See ad page 62
Daylily Preschool An intimate school of only 17 students who enjoy a literature rich experiential classroom. Ages 1–7 996-8397 See ad page 66
Free Union Country School Encourages children to be creative thinkers, active explorers and good problem-solvers. Ages 3–4 freeunioncountryschool.org 978-1700 See ad page 62 Continued on page 64
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Grymes Memorial School Co-educational day school offers art, music, drama, Spanish. Bus transport. Age 4–Grade 8 grymesschool.org 540-672-1010 See ad page 63 Hillsboro Christian Preschool Focuses on school preparation with crafts and games in a Christian environment. Ages 2½–5 hbcnet.org 823-5342 See ad page 64 The International School of Charlottesville Children learn by doing in Spanish or French language immersion programs. Ages 2–6 theisc.org 284-2880 See ad page 66 Kingswood Christian Preschool A program that focuses on emotional, spiritual, social and academic growth. Ages 2½–5 crozetumc.org 823-1258 See ad page 64 Continued on page 66
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YOU’RE THE ROLE MODELS Many parents often feel hurried, so they may have unknowingly fallen into a pattern of speaking rudely to their children, Swift
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HOW TO USE A NAPKIN: A napkin stays on the child’s lap during the meal. If she needs to excuse herself, she should stand up, place the napkin on the chair, and push the chair in. At the end of dinner, the napkin goes on the left side of her plate.
says. “I do believe that good manners are caught, not taught.” Children need to learn that if it’s not an emergency (teach your preschooler what constitutes an “emergency”), they need to wait for their turn in conversation. In this situation, acknowledge your preschooler by taking her hand or putting your arm around
WHERE THEIR GLASS IS ON THE TABLE: The drinking glass goes on the right of his plate.
her. Then invite her to speak when it’s appropriate, Swift says. The tone of your voice becomes part of good manners as
IF THEY DON’T LIKE A FOOD: Tell your child that if she doesn’t care for an entree to simply not eat it. Instruct her not to make any negative comments or “yucky” faces over the food.
well, Swift explains. If a parent is always in a rush, his voice may sound overly demanding. Set standards in the family: no name calling and no insulting one another. When the young children
USE COURTEOUS WORDS: Talk to your child about regularly using “please,” “thank you” and “excuse me.” During meals, she should ask to “please pass” the salt, et cetera, and to say “thank you” when it’s passed.
are in school, they are expected to meet similar expectations, set by their teachers. Hopefully, the good manners will carry into their classrooms and other public settings, Swift says.
DON’T INTERRUPT: Remind your child about not interrupting conversations. If someone asks him a question, that is his cue to respond.
Create a sense of sharing in the home, Swift says. Invite friends over to have popcorn and to watch a movie, and tell your children, “There are plenty of snacks to go around for everyone.”
IF THEY DON’T LIKE A GIFT: Practice or role-play an acceptable scenario before a child opens presents in front of family and friends. Even if she doesn’t like a gift — or already has that item — she needs to genuinely smile and say “thank you.”
Enjoy family dinners — another learning opportunity — and model good table manners together. “Parents say they want their kids to be happy, but without
SEND THANK-YOU NOTES: Mailing thank-you notes is a must. If the child is too young to write, have him draw a picture of the gift. A parent can write the note for the younger child, and he can sign his own name. A thank-you from older children can include why they liked the gift or how they’re using it.
the capacity for self-control, few kids can ever enjoy real happiness,” Cooper observes. “Teaching manners is one way parents can put their money where their mouth is.”
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EVERYDAY COURTESIES As parents go through the day with their children, they can practice little courtesies to make a big difference, Swift reminds us.
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From holding doors open to helping one another with chores, parents can model and encourage good manners in their children every day — in and out of the home. Set the standard high for proper language used in your home, Swift notes. Although swearing has become more common in public and in media, that doesn’t mean it should be an acceptable manner of speaking.
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a friend, make sure he cares for it and returns it in a timely manner, she says. “Set expectations, start early, and remember good modeling matters,” Swift says. “Manners make up the way we treat each other. You do need to look at what’s happening as a society and then decide what you believe and how you want your children to behave.” Kim is an award-winning writer and a mother of two daughters. She strives to model good manners for her family.
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We’ll Party Like Pilgrims You Can Stay As Long As We Have Leftovers by Rick Epstein
When I was a little kid, I didn’t think much about
than one of my friends visited, he would joke pointedly, “So,
Thanksgiving. In school, we’d trace around our hands to
when did you decide to have the party?”
draw turkeys and learn about a Native American named
Once, Uncle Phil and Aunt Char came to visit, and
Squanto who taught the Pilgrims how to grow corn or bake
we put them up in the guest room — at the Sleepy Hollow
pumpkin pies or something.
Motel. I could never understand my dad’s craving for privacy.
Then around seventh grade I had to do a report on
I only wanted it when I was doing something wicked. But
the first New England Thanksgiving. I consulted my favorite
the worst thing Dad ever did was to send our relatives to the
source, the World Book Encyclopedia. (I looked again just
Sleepy Hollow Motel.
now for a refresher.) Here’s a summary: Thanking God for
It’s not as though the tail-lights of Uncle Phil’s
the first harvest in the New World, the newcomers had a
Chrysler would fade in the direction of the motel and Dad
three-day extravaganza involving about 50 colonists and 90
would fire up the tiki torches, install two cold ones in his
Native Americans. The menu included duck, goose, turkey,
beer hat and yell, “Woohooo! Party time!” No, he’d just put
venison, eel, fish, clams, leeks, watercress, cornbread and
on his pajamas and go to bed.
plums. “Everyone ate outdoors at large tables and enjoyed games and a military review,” says the encyclopedia.
I’ve been glad to follow my dad’s lead on a lot of things, but not on privacy. I want friends to drop in for
With the deadly winter of 1620–21 behind them
dinner, and if they stay for a few days, so much the better.
and the travails of the Boston Red Sox centuries ahead,
But with two kids away at college and the youngest
the colonists were feeling festive, and for a short time,
usually off somewhere on urgent social business, our
Plymouth, Mass., was the party capital of
house is quiet as a mausoleum. Our cat, Mr. Kitty, is at least
the New World.
someone else to talk to. My wife and I watch so much TV
In fact, it seemed to my
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that we think the characters on shows must know us.
own
o’clock will come and go unnoticed. My wife will get the help
and
fell
in the kitchen that she dreams of all year, as the chatting
short.
multitudes peel and chop whatever she shoves their way.
good
We’ll add so many leaves to our dining-room table you
china
could land an airplane on it. Each night, people will sleep on
gleaming
every flat surface. We’ll have to borrow extra pillows from
featured
food,
The coffee will flow like water. Bedtime? Ha! Ten
family’s
observance It
a sister-in-law, a niece and a lively terrier.
fine
silverware, but what
Grandma. Laughter and affection will abound.
was that to a kid? I’d
Conspicuously sober, Mr. Kitty will spend most of the
have traded all of it just
holiday weekend on top of the refrigerator, wishing everyone
for a close-up look at an
would go back where they came from. His demeanor will
eel. And as a holiday, it arrived
remind me of Dad, the day he came home from work and
empty-handed, offering no gifts, no
found me and two pals sitting on the front lawn. “What is
Santa Claus, no fireworks, no songs, no candy,
this?” he asked, “Woodstock?”
no costumes, no egg hunts — not even a dreidel! Just an endless dinner. Because our relatives lived far away and my dad didn’t like company anyway, it was always just us. To Dad, privacy was more delicious than pumpkin pies. Whenever more
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