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Just Between Us… Our youngest is quite tall – we all are actually, so he comes by it honestly.

It certainly can’t come from superior nutrition as we often joke. His last known veggie was eaten under desperate circumstances three days ago – trapped in the minivan and given a choice between carrots or near-certain starvation. Our other children are not nearly as picky, so this generally confirms what I learned shortly after the birth of our second child – each is their own very unique self.

When the holidays roll around and it’s time to make gifts, we really see this uniqueness. Our oldest is a talented baker who presents us with treats like my favorite cinnamon rolls from Granny’s recipe that take hours and hours to make. She, like any good chef, prefers a clean and orderly kitchen. Our second daughter puts her whole artistic heart into coming up with the perfect gift from original illustrated stories to a calendar featuring photos of the pets. She will single-mindedly pursue that idea to perfection or bust with far less tidiness. Both the boys, being the youngest, are always full of surprises. So far this year, I’ve seen evidence of some sort of secret code board game that involves Monopoly tokens

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in development. And of course with enough sweet tooths between them to put Candyland to shame, they most often can be found helping big sister bake dessert gifts (and by “help” I, of course, mean taste testing and spreading the frosting … pretty much everywhere).

I do love that they are excited about giving, even if I’ve also been “given” a mess to clean in the process. Most often, they are the recipients of gifts. But it’s sure nice to see them realize that to give a gift born of their talent and interest can be the most rewarding gift of all.

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TABLE OF

Contents OUR TOWN

LIVING WELL

News 8

The Buzz Around Town 10

Do you encourage your child to give back over the holidays?

Dear Bob 32 Your Parenting Questions Answered

Snapshot 12 Deanna Gould

Healthy Family 34

Snow Safety 101

Engineering Fun at Walker School

New Mom 36 Holiday Hot Tips

Our Schools 14 Out & About Calendar 20

Favorite Award Winner 2015

CharlottesvilleFamily Favorite Winners 2015 44

Your Winning Picks for Family-Friendly Fun and Services

A Different Kind of Success 62 VABA Uses Basketball to Build Character

Editor’s Pick!

8 Million Lights at Busch Gardens & Christmases Past at the Frontier Culture Museum

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Coding Club Gets in the Game 56 Jackson-Via Teaches Coding

Giveaway Photo Contest

Daytrip Fun! 22

INSPIRATION

Holiday Activities and Events for Families

Sitting with Santa 18 Bumble’s B&O Magical Holiday Express

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Handmade Holiday Gifts 28 One-of-a-Kind Local Giving

I love all the Holiday happenings in our lovely town this season!

See page 20.

A Generous, Grateful Heart 72 Tips for Teaching Thankfulness

RESOURCES

Buy Local Shopping Guide 30 Support the Community

Tips & Trends 38 Fabulous Finds for Mom

Home & Garden 40 Make-At-Home Wreaths

Give the Gift of Camp 67 Residential Camp Is a Gift That

Lasts a Lifetime

UNTIL NEXT TIME

From Our Cage to Yours 78 Another Cheesy Christmas Card

28 So Love This!

It’s so amazing that 2nd graders are learning to code! I really believe it’s an essential language to learn and why not start young! See page 56.

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NEWS

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Four County Players Now- December 21 Waldorf School Holiday Bazaar December 5

Peppa Pig’s Big Splash The Paramount Theater December 1

Find more details on page 20!

Toy Lift Fashion Square Mall December 4

Capes for Courage Charlottesville Ballet The Nutcracker Suite December 19 & 20

For an extra boost of bravery, Capes for Courage makes fun superhero capes, burp clothes, totes and other items for children and their families as they undergo medical treatment. Many individuals, businesses and communities have donated to the cause. High school students can create a community project with the idea as well. Capes, dubbed with encouraging messages and reminders that “real or not, the powers we believe in can make us feel better. The mind is an incredibly powerful tool available to us to use,” are easy to make. To participate in any way or for more information, contact Janet Hefren at Jayliehefren@gmail.com.

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Girls on the Run

Local Schools to Promote Innovation As new members of the League of Innovative Schools, Albemarle County Public Schools can help

Over 100 girls between third and fifth grade spent the fall

promote digital access, creativity in learning and now

training for St. Anne’s-Belfield School’s first Girls on the

technological opportunities for public school students.

Run event on November 15. A STAB team of 20, coached

Digital Promise, a nonprofit organization devoted to

by fourth-grade teacher Megan Grant, participated in the

innovation in education, founded the League and offers

run. In addition to promoting girls’ wellness, Girls on the

its members opportunities to explore and expand best

Run offers opportunities for participants to discuss broader

practices in education through meetings, mentorship

life issues in a safe, positive and fun environment. The

and engaged discussion. School divisions are accepted

inspiring event ended with medals for all participants.

based on their quality of leadership, evidence of results, vision for learning and a commitment to collaborate on and share the best practices.

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Covenant Teams Win State Titles With so much talent in the local sports scene, it’s no surprise two teams from The Covenant School brought home two different state Championship titles.

On back-to-back days, the girls cross country and tennis teams won a VISAA Division II state

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championship title. Both teams brought home the title for the first time in the school’s history in that sport.

The girls’ tennis team came away victorious, 5–4, over Hampton Roads Academy. It was a collective effort on Saturday, November 14, as three players won singles matches and two pairs won doubles. Briana Boland, Emily Dahnert and Hayley Fox triumphed in their individual matches, and pairs—Dahnert with Boland and Fox with Ashley Lainhart—sealed the team’s overall victory.

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The Eagles won the title with six top 26 scoring performances counting and, more impressively, with two eighth graders leading the way: Ella Dalton taking 3rd place overall and Emma Lawson taking 14th overall.

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Our family holidays don’t involve a lot of physical ‘presents’ but a lot of ‘presence’ from one another. A great way to be present as a family is to work on a project that serves our community. One of our favorite projects is to gather toys we do not use and donate them to the IRC. They have a cool store that new refugee kids can shop from (for free) for their new homes.

Mama Rachel

This year, we filled four shoe boxes for Operation Shoebox, and we are making cards to deliver to a local nursing home. In addition, my daughter will be a “Santa to a senior” through her Girl Scout troop.

Sam, mother of two During the holidays, we love baking together and making little goody bags to give out. We also go through our house for items to donate.

Brittany, mother of 2-year-old boy We really enjoy the Toy Lift every year. It’s become a family tradition since the kids were born. They love handing the gifts to the volunteers and feel proud to help other kids enjoy the season.

Ashley, Forest Lakes, mother of two

6% say “no” I believe this important concept shouldn’t be isolated to once a year, but rather encouraged throughout the year.

Tiffany, mother of 4-year-old boy

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of music handed to them at the audition.

The students traveled to Norfolk for four days of intense rehearsals with other high school students from across the state under the instruction of guest conductors Chris Vidala and Bryan Kidd. While there, the ensemble performed at the Virginia Music Educators Association Conference.

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SNAPSHOT written & photographed by Laura Merricks

Deanna Gould Deanna Gould, Executive Director of Light House Studios, worked as a producer in America and Europe for 18 years prior to joining the nonprofit that brings Charlottesville’s youth together to make movies.

Gould says, “Light House is similar to a production company, as there are different film projects in pre-production, production and postproduction, all happening at the same time.” She moved from London to Charlottesville with her husband and three sons in 2003, hoping to spend more time with her children while still using her filmmaking skills. In 2009, before becoming executive director, she served as a board member and mentor at Light House.

number of students, workshops and collaborative partners, as well as its operating budget. Light House has also added narrative,

music

video,

experimental

and

commercial production to its core storytelling medium of documentary

your family?

On weeknights, my family eats our evening meal together. Sunday night pasta and movie night has become a tradition. We use the evening mealtime to talk about our day. When my boys were young, we used to ask them to tell us one nice thing that they did for someone else during the day. Now that my boys are teenagers,

Under Gould’s leadership, the organization has doubled its

animation,

What is one practice you’ve put in place to get quality time with

filmmaking. “Self-expression

through

film

allows young people to have a voice while enhancing their storytelling, visual, sound design and collaboration skills,” Gould says. And the future is bright: they’re repurposing the Vinegar Hill Theater building as a film education center.

“Lights, camera, action!”

What advice do you have for young aspiring filmmakers? For their parents?

I would tell the next generation to be open to signs that indicate opportunities. Try different things—film is being used in many different ways. Parents should know that a number of our students have been accepted to universities and special

we spend more time talking about local and world events.

Though, we still sometimes ask them if they’ve done something nice during the day!

What routine or habit helps you keep on top of life and work obligations?

Exercise keeps me on top of life. If I’m too busy to fit it into my schedule, I get very grumpy. I wake up at 6 a.m. and work for an hour prior to waking up my boys. The quiet in the morning keeps me on top of work obligations and in planning my day.

What is one thing your parents did well that you try to incorporate into your parenting?

My father always told me to “be myself” and believes that others can tell if you’re not truthful. I’m proud of my three boys, who are genuine and have strength of character. My mother passed away in May, and I thanked her for being the perfect example of treating others as one would wish to be treated.

programs because of their filmmaking skills. There are a lot of film career possibilities. If your child has a passion for film, you most likely will not be able to redirect his or her path!

Laura, local photographer, writer and mother of three, is looking forward to returning to Vinegar Hill Theater for local screenings.

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Our Schools

by Beth L

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Engineering Fun at Walker School Photosynthesis, echolocation and other five-syllable

Or perhaps, they will build plastic water and carbon

science concepts can be a challenge for any sixth-grader.

dioxide molecules in the right ratios, and then place them

Yet, when engineering students at the University of Virginia

into slots to initiate the process of photosynthesis, ending

team up with science teachers at Charlottesville’s Walker

in the production of sugar. If plants don’t exactly generate

Upper Elementary School, these abstract concepts are

glucose in the form of Starburst candies, we’ll call that

transformed into games, activities and fun.

artistic license! (Yes, even scientists can practice artistic

Professor Greg Lewin and his “Introduction to Engineering” class at UVA initiated the partnership. Lewin

license.)

To take the learning deeper, after the sixth-graders

explains, “I try to assign ‘real-world’ projects that have

have explored the projects, they get a peek “under the

meaningful impact. For the past three years, this has been

hood” as the UVA students explain how they designed

realized by having my students work with Charlottesville

and built their teaching machines. For many students at

City Schools to develop and build systems that help teach

Walker, it’s their first exposure to how electromechanical

science concepts.” The UVA first-year students meet with

systems work, stimulating further interest in science and

sixth-graders in an effort to understand their audience

engineering. For the UVA students, it’s a chance to discover

with these projects. The students then meet with City

how engineering directly affects people, a lesson Lewin

School educators to learn what’s included in the Life

hopes his students will take with them throughout their

Science curriculum. Following these introductory meetings,

careers.

the engineering students brainstorm ideas, start designing

Susan Ramsey, science coordinator for Charlottesville

educational machines and activities and have two more

City Schools, notes, “From the beginning conversations to

sessions with stakeholders and other experts for feedback

Demo Day, this partnership is a win–win—an example of

on their designed activities.

how working together deepens knowledge and skills for

Finally, “Demo Day” arrives in December when the UVA

everyone.”

students bring their projects to the school for the sixth graders to use and explore. Perhaps the students will dig through layers of soil (and time) in an archaeology box.

Beth serves as Community Relations Liaison for

Maybe they will don a blindfold and, like a bat, echolocate

Charlottesville City Schools.

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Raking for A Cause Over 200 volunteers braved the rainy weather on Saturday, November 7, at the Habitat for Humanity of Greater Charlottesville’s 3rd annual Rakea-Thon. Homeowners throughout Charlottesville and Albemarle County, who pledged a donation, received yard work in return from teams of volunteers comprised of local youth, college students and families. Youth United Leadership Team, a group of high school students from six local high schools, coordinated the event. The most successful Rake-a-Thon so far, the day brought in over $3,000 for Habitat’s housing projects.

Biz BITS Openings

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9Round Kickboxing is now open at its Pantops location.

Albemarle County residents are now able to videostream live and archived Board of Supervisor meetings

Gearharts Chocolates opened a new location next to

on computers and mobile devices.

Staples on McIntire Road.

Kendra Scott, a new jewelry boutique, opens December 5 in the Shops at Stonefield.

Scottsville Supply Company, the only beekeeping supply store in the area, opened November 21.

Charlottesville Area Association of Realtors received a grant to help build a permanent Madison County memorial.

Loving Cup Winery is closed until the spring of 2016 due to severe wind damage to their building.

Relocations

Seven CAAR members were inducted into the 2014

Big Brothers Big Sisters moved their office to Carlton Avenue.

Closings Blue Light Grill is set to close at the end of December.

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Here are the winners of Bumble’s “B&O Magical Holiday Express” Giveaway!

Coming in first place was the darling entry “Wary of the Man in Red but Daddy Makes it Okay!” followed in close second by “It’s a Secret”! All of the submissions were adorable! A huge thank you to all those who participated! And make sure to follow CharlottesvilleFamily on Facebook for more Santa fun this month!

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HOLIDAY LIGHTS & SANTA VISITS Christmas Town

Now-January 3 at Busch Gardens Eight-million glittering lights, breathtaking shows and traditional Christmas culinary delights. 800-343-7946, buschgardens.com

Gardenfest of Lights

Now-January 11, 5-10pm at Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden Enjoy a sparkling tradition of more than half-million lights throughout the garden.

804-262-9887, lewisginter.org

The Polar Express Train Ride

December 2-6, 9-13 & 16-20, 5 & 7:15pm at Durbin and Greenbrier Valley Railroad Train rides based on the holiday feature film from Warner Bros. and the beloved children’s book. 877-686-7245, mountainrailwv.com

Annual Lighting of the Lawn

December 3, 7pm at UVA Lawn Join community members on the UVA Lawn for illumination of this historic spot, music and other festivities. virginia.edu

Charlottesville’s Grand Illumination

December 4, 5-7pm at the Downtown Mall Kick off the holidays by watching the 17th annual illumination. Performances, live music and more. 295-9073, charlottesville.org

Holiday on the Hill

Follow the snowflake to find holiday events this month!

December 12-13 & 19-20, 10am, 11am, 1pm & 3pm at Carter Mountain Orchard Stock up on your favorite products and enjoy a Gingerbread House Workshop. 977-1833, cartermountainorchard.com

ACAC Light Tour

Christmas Open House

December 5, 10am-5pm at Montpelier Tour the mansion for a very special introduction to the holiday season. With Santa Claus, live music, kids’ crafts and seasonal food. 540-672-2728, montpelier.org

Santa & Sleigh

December 5, 12 & 19, 11am-2pm at The Market at Grelen Come take a picture with Santa and tell him your holiday wish. You can even sit in his sleigh. 540-672-5462, themarketatgrelen.com

An Old-Fashioned Christmas

December 6, 12-5pm at Maymont Mansion Carriage rides, food, drink, music, a bonfire and activities for old-fashioned holiday spirit.

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Let There Be Light

December 11, 7:30pm at Piedmont Virginia Community College An evening of light-centered artworks and performances outdoors. 961-5376, pvcc.edu

December 13, 5-7pm at ACAC A bus tour of nearby homes decorated for the holidays, visits with Santa, face-painting, hot chocolate bar, a winter craft and more.

978-7529, cville.acac.com

Santa Visits the Christmas Tree Farm

December 13, 1-4pm at Bees and Trees Tree Farm Cut your own tree, enjoy hot drinks, shop for holiday decor and take a photo with Santa.

540-423-9020, beesandtrees.biz

Yuletides at Agecroft

December 13, 12:30-5pm at Agecroft Hall Experience the season from three eras: England 1640, London 1860 and Richmond 1942. 804-353-4241, agecrofthall.com

Holiday Lantern Tours

December 18-23, 6-8pm at the Frontier Culture Museum Tour by lantern and see the holiday traditions of the past. Enjoy a horse-drawn carriage ride.

540-332-7850, frontiermuseum.org

LEARNING FUN “Nutcracker Suite” Meet & Greet

December 1 & 10, 4pm at Central Library and Northside Library Participate in a special dance class with the Charlottesville Ballet. 979-7151, jmrl.org

4th of December Celebration

December 4, 7pm at Crozet Library Come celebrate the summertime in winter with games, patriotic spirit and more. Flip flops provided. 979-7151, jmrl.org

Ninjas in the Library

December 5, 2pm at Gordon Library Try out ninja skills on our obstacle course, crafts, games and more. 979-7151, jmrl.org

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Family Art Drop-In

Santa & Sleigh December 5, 12 & 19, 11am-2pm at The Market at Grelen See this page.

December 10, 10:30am-12pm at Northside Library Make a non-edible gingerbread house.Glitter and glue provided. 979-7151, jmrl.org

Be an Opera Star

December 9, 4:30pm at Crozet Library & 4pm at Gordon Avenue Library Ash Lawn Opera gives a behind-the-sceneslook at the famous opera, “Amahl and the Night Visitors” through hands-on and interactive activities. ashlawnopera.org

PAINSTAKING RENOVATION IN EARLYSVILLE

WONDERFUL HOME IN WAVERLY

4180 EARLYSVILLE ROAD • $239,000 Renovated cottage just completed with quality finishes & systems. Kitchen opens to the living room, with adjoining year-round sunroom, eating bar with beautiful granite top. 2 bedrooms, 1.5 baths on 1+ level acre, garage/storage with electric. Owner/Agent Debbie Keener (434) 962-7312. MLS# 538637

3360 BROOKSIDE DRIVE • $624,000 Fabulous home features spacious 1st floor plan which owners found perfect for entertaining. Generous open Kitchen with new cabinets. Terrace level Rec Room with Home Office. Large, partially wooded lot with open views of Blue Ridge Mountains.

Tommy Brannock (434) 981-1486. MLS# 534290

LEGO Mania

December 10, 4-5pm at Central Library All you need to bring is your creativity and natural engineering ability. Building blocks provided. 979-7151, jmrl.org

Harry Potter Extravaganza

December 21, 2-4pm at Central Library Wizards and muggles alike are invited to a celebration of all things Harry Potter.

Costumes encouraged.

979-7151, jmrl.org

TWO PRIVATE ACRES MINUTES TO DOWNTOWN

Pizza and Pages

December 21, 6-7:30pm at Crozet Library Do you love books and pizza? Bring along favorites and not-so favorites to share.

979-7151, jmrl.org

A Marvelous Morning at the Movies

December 29, 10:30am at Central Library He’s back. Come join the annual showing of The Snowman, based on the book by Raymond Briggs. 979-7151, jmrl.org

Bots

December 29, 2pm at Gordon Avenue Library Meet the Boe-Bot Robots. Johnny Cornett will demonstrate the cool things these robots can be programmed to do. Then create your own brush bot. 979-7151, jmrl.org

SPORTS AND OUTDOORS

515 LEGO DRIVE • $699,000 This open-concept, immaculately maintained and thoroughly updated home is a peaceful retreat just minutes from Historic Downtown, MJH, UVA, and I64. Steps from a serene pool and network of hike/bike trails, this is a haven for outdoor lovers. Luxurious master suite has enormous closet, sitting area, spa-like bath. Sunny kitchen features gorgeous granite, 6-burner Viking range. Terrace-level basement has huge rec room and 5th bedroom for theater, office, or in-law suite (full bath). Fully fenced-in backyard, custom mudroom cubbies. Lindsay Milby (434) 962-9148. MLS# 538098 COUNTRY HOME ON 10 ACRES

ON OVER 24 ACRES IN EARLYSVILLE

152 POORHOUSE LANE • $319,000 Only 5 minutes to shopping at Zion Crossroads, Martha Jefferson and UVA Hospital satellite offices and restaurants. Total of 5 bedrooms, including separate studio apartment. All kitchen and laundry appliances included.

10 private acres with 1 acre of fenced yard and gardens.

Elizabeth Feil Matthews (434) 284-2105. MLS# 538432

75 MOUNTAIN LAUREL ROAD • $639,000 This equestrian property has a 4-bedroom, 3-bath home and a great room with cathedral ceiling. 5-stall, rubber brick, center aisle barn has a wash stall, tack room with washer/dryer and 1/2 bath. The outdoor arena is large enough for a full course of jumps to be set up. Bunny French (434) 996-1029. MLS# 538459

Monticello Holiday Classic 5K & Deck the Halls Kids Dash

December 5, 8-10am at Monticello From the East Walk of Monticello to the Visitor Center. Kids under 12 can enjoy the quarter-mile loop around the West Lawn.

984-9877, monticello.org

Charlottesville Santa Fun Run & Walk

December 6, 11am at Downtown Mall area One-mile course starts and finishes on the Downtown Mall. Proceeds benefit the Arc of the Piedmont. eventbrite.com

Freedom 5K

December 12, 9am at Old Trail Village, Crozet Runners of all ages, walkers, leashed dogs and baby joggers are welcome. Proceeds go to No Greater Sacrifice. 962-2752, freedom5k.net 401 PARK STREET • CHARLOT TESVILLE, VA

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DAYTRIPFun! Holiday Happenings at Busch Gardens Courtesy of Busch Gardens

Busch Gardens, a two-hour drive from Charlottesville, is hosting its annual Christmas Town event with over eight million lights this year. That’s at least 12 miles of lights to take in with the kids.

But even before the sun goes down, there’s plenty to see and do in this amazing transformation of the theme park into a holiday wonderland. Stop by the Highlands Stables to see live sheep, horses and collies in their holiday menagerie. At Santa’s Workshop, the kids can see the inner workings of the North Pole and get a photograph with the man in red himself. His reindeer stables are also open for a peek. As the family walks along the Polar Pathway, visions of trees decorated with an array of lights will have the little ones pointing and amazed. Make sure to dress warmly for this outdoor excursion, and indulge in some hot chocolate along the route. For the theme park lovers, many of the rides will remain open, despite the cooler weather. For a view over the park’s transformation, take a turn on the skyride or the train. To continue with the holiday experience, sit down at one of the theme park’s eateries. Tickets in advance are necessary if you want to enjoy Santa’s Fireside feast, with cookies passed by Mrs. Claus herself. There are several shows, including an adaptation of Charles Dickens’ “Christmas Carol” and “Gloria,” a retelling of the first Christmas. The standout this year looks to be “’Twas That Night on Ice,” an all-new live performance on ice, starring figure skating champion Elvis Stojko.

Find something for everyone on your list at the

FAMILY ART JAMs: Jan 16, Feb 20

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Age-appropriate tours with hands-on art activities— an enriching experience for the whole family!

Nov. 27TH – Dec. 16TH

FUN FOR THE YOUNG: Feb 3

UVA Football Vault

Gordon Avenue Children’s Librarian Glynis Welte shares stories that engage our youngest art patrons.

www.virginia.edu/artmuseum/edu

museumoutreach@virginia.edu or 434.243.2050

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Experiencing Christmases Past at the Frontier Culture Museum If you’re starting to sound like Charlie Brown this month, rallying against the increasing commercialism of the season, a trip to Staunton’s Frontier Culture Museum is an ideal way to explore a simpler time, and to squeeze in something educational without your kids noticing. The museum, just off of highway 81, takes holiday visitors on a tour of agrarian holiday traditions from a time before electric lights and blow-up lawn decorations. In December, the museum offers nighttime lantern tours that allow visitors to walk through the property after dark. Now is the time to slow down and take in the natural sights, sounds of soothing carols and smells of a fire burning in the fireplace and of gingerbread with an element of the barnyard from Christmases past. This year, the tours are offered from December 18–23, and guests are invited to an evening of holiday traditions on December 5. Visitors will tour the historic farms of England, Ireland, Germany and nineteenth-century America, taking in skits, narratives and conversation with the museum’s enthusiastic and historically attired interpreters. After experiencing Christmas traditions in the European farms, a horse-drawn wagon will take guests to the New World to experience the holiday workings in the historic American buildings. The celebration will continue into the Dairy Barn with food and music. Family reservations are required.

Experience an old-fashioned Christmas! Use our saws to cut your own tree, and enjoy a complimentary cup of hot cider while browsing for decorations, gifts and crafts in our festive Christmas shop, Santa’s Hive. Roast marshmallows for S’mores or sip hot chocolate by our amazing stone fire pit and have your picture taken in a fully restored Albany Cutter sleigh. Bring the kids for an experience they will never forget!

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Thank You For A Great Season!

Build it!

LEGO Mania December 10, 4-5pm at Central Library See this page.

Blue Ridge Mountain Christmas

Ornament Extravaganza

December 19-30 at Wintergreen Resort Craft workshops, Santa, story time with Mrs. Claus and New Year’s Eve Celebrations. Don’t forget skiing, riding and tubing.

325-8180, wintergreenresort.com

December 12, 10:30am & 2pm at Virginia Discovery Museum Come make a handmade holiday ornament is sure to bring cheer to all who see it. 9771025, vadm.org

New Year’s Day 5K

Cookie Decorating Workshop

January 1, 11am at 5404 Wesley Chapel Road, Free Union Proceeds benefit the Boys & Girls Club. Bring a canned food item to benefit the Emergency Food Bank. charlottesvilletrackclub.org

ARTS & CRAFTS Gingerbread Workshops

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Now-December 20, 1-3pm at The Boar’s Head Inn Spend a fun afternoon with Santa and Boar’s Head Pastry Chef building your own edible masterpiece. 972-2230, boarsheadinn.com

Gingerbread and Cheer

December 5, 10am at Keswick Hall, Ballroom Another great event for families traveling to Keswick.Come build gingerbread houses and see ones displayed in the lobby. 979-3440, keswick.com

McGuffey’s Holiday Open House

December 5, 10am-1pm at McGuffey Art Center Work with artists offering arts and crafts for all. 295-7973, mcguffeyartcenter.com

Monticello Gingerbread Workshop

December 5-6 & 12-13, 2-4pm at Monticello Enjoy hot chocolate and cookies as you craft a handmade addition to your home’s holiday decor. 984-9822, monticello.org

December 20, 2-3pm at Crozet Mudhouse Join Chef Margot Diaz for a wonderful afternoon of Christmas cookie decorating.

823-2240, hoildaycookies.eventbrite.com

STAGE & SCREEN Peppa Pig’s Big Splash!

December 1, 6pm at The Paramount Theater CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor to bring you this live, interactive Nick Jr. favorite. 979-1333, theparamount.net

CHS Orchestra Winter Concert

December 2, 7:30pm at CHS/MLK Performing Arts Center The renowned CHS Orchestra presents its winter concert. 979-3278, chsorchestra.org

UVA Glee Club’s Christmas Concert

December 4 & 12, 8-10pm at Old Cabell Hall & First Presbyterian Church Performing favorites with audience participation for the entire family. virginiagleeclub.org

A Christmas Carol

December 4-27 at The Blackfriars Playhouse The traditional holiday classic brought to life onstage. With music and cheer for the whole family. 540-851-1733, americanshakespearecenter.com

Caroling in the Caverns

December 5, 6-8pm at Grand Caverns, Grottoes Candlelight tours and music inside the Cave.

540-249-5705, grandcaverns.com

This year, give them the gift of a membership

Christmas with the Consort

December 5, 4:30pm & 7:30pm at First Presbyterian Church The annual candlelight concert and a special performance by the children’s Prelude Choir.

244-8444, virginiaconsort.org

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December 5 & 6, 8pm Saturday & 3:30pm Sunday at UVA’s Old Cabell Hall Featuring the Univeristy Singers and an array of music ranging from peaceful to joyous.

924-3376, artsboxoffice.virginia.edu

RECIPROCAL MUSEUMS

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The Nutcracker

December 5-6 & 12-13, 5pm & 7pm Saturdays, 2pm & 4pm Sundays at Albemarle Ballet Theatre in Crozet This abridged, 45-minute version is perfect for the entire family. 823-8888, aballet.org

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December 6, 1pm & 5pm at The Paramount Theater The Moscow Ballet brings world-class dancers, playful puppets and the splendor of hand crafted sets and costumes. 979-1333, theparamount.net

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Messiah Sing-In

December 8, 8pm at UVA’s Old Cabell Hall The University and Charlottesville community come to sing one of the greatest oratorios.

924-3376, artsandsciences.virginia.edu/music

FAMILY EVENTS COMING TO THE PARAMOUNT:

Holiday Pops Concert

December 10, 7pm at Martin Luther King Performing Arts Center Enjoy an evening of special music by the young talent of the CHS School Choir.

245-2727, ccs.k12.va.us

Peppa Pig’s Big Splash!

LIVE on Stage Dec 1 • 6PM 14th Annual Holiday Spotlight Dec 5 • 10AM-5PM

Amahl & the Night Visitors

The Great Russian Nutcracker Dec 6 • 1PM & 5PM

December 12, 2pm & 4:30pm at The Paramount Theater Ash-Lawn Opera returns with this inspirational holiday story in English that has enchanted families for over 60 years.

979-1333, theparamount.net

Ash Lawn Opera presents: Amahl and the Night Visitors Dec 12 • 2PM and 4:30PM Home Alone [PG] Dec 13 • 2PM The Illumination of the Historic Blade Sign & Elf [PG] Dec 15 • 5:30PM

Municipal Band Concert

December 13, 3:30-5pm at Martin Luther King Performing Arts Center Enjoy seasonal and traditional music at this annual concert. 295-9850, cvilleband.org

Bring Back the Blade Festivities

December 15 at The Paramount Theater Purchase a button to support the cause and it will be your ticket to the lively downtown illumination festivities including crafts and a family movie. 979-1333, theparamount.net

Thank you to our event sponsors:

A Muppet Christmas Carol [G] Dec 20 •2PM

215 EAST MAIN STREET, CHARLOTTESVILLE, VA 22902 TICKETS • www.theparamount.net • 434-979-1333 THANK YOU TO OUR PARAMOUNT PRODUCERS CLUB SPONSORS

THANK YOU TO THE NATIONAL ENDOWMENT FOR THE ARTS AND THE VIRGINIA COMMISSION FOR THE ARTS FOR THEIR GENEROUS SUPPORT

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December 15, 7pm at The Paramount Theater Film about one of Santa’s elves who learns of his true identity as a human and goes to New York City. 979-1333, theparamount.net

A Blue Ridge Christmas

December 19, 6pm at Wintergreen Resort Enjoy the music of the holiday season with storyteller and folk musician Bill Wellington.

325-8292, wintergreenresort.com

The Nutcracker Suite

December 19-20, 11am & 3:30pm Saturday, 2pm & 5pm Sunday at V. Earl Dickinson Building at PVCC Performed by the Charlottesville Ballet, sure to delight the whole family.

CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor.

227-7592, charlottesvilleballet.org

A Benefit for Fluvanna SPCA Saturday, January 9, 2016 • 8 am - 10:30 am

Christmas at The Paramount

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December 31, 3pm-12am at the Downtown Mall Celebrate with a community arts fest with performers, a creation station and fun zone for kids and more. 975-8269, firstnightva.org

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December 20, 2:30pm & 7:30pm at The Paramount Theater The ensemble will perform selections to get in the holiday spirit. 979-1922, theparamount.net

SHOPPING & SHARING Green Valley Bookfair

Now-December 16, 10am-5pm Monday-Thursday, 10am-6pm Friday & Saturday, 12-5pm Sunday at Mt. Crawford Huge selection of children’s books at 60-90 percent off. 800-385-0099, gobookfair.com

Holiday Market

Now-December 19, 8am-1pm at Second and Water Streets Unique gifts and decorations for all of your holiday needs. Items are by local farmers, artists or bakers. 970-3371, charlottesville.org

Christmas Trees

Now-December 21, 10am-4pm Tuesday-Sunday at The Market at Grelen Pre-order a tree and choose from a selection of handmade wreaths and swags.

540-672-7268, themarketatgrelen.com

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December 5, 10am-4pm at Charlottesville Waldorf School Shop local artisan and hand-knit gifts for the holidays. 973-4946, cwaldorf.org

Join us for a Class with Clara for boys & girls before Charlottesville performances!

Enchanted Extravaganza

December 5, 10am-4pm at The Market at Grelen Local artisans, festive fare, fresh Christmas trees & greens, hot cocoa, wreath workshop and fire pits. 540-672-7268, themarketatgrelen.com

Mason’s Toy Box

Now 12-December 15 Donate toys to girls and boys who are fighting for their lives. Find a donation center or sponsor a toy box in your home or business.

906-0950, facebook.com/MasonsToyBox

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Dec. 12 at 7:00pm

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December 10, 6:30pm at Albemarle County Office Building, Lane Auditorium 972-4055, k12albemarle.org

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Newborn Care Basics

December 17, 6:30-8:30pm at UVa Learn how to take care of your little one in this two-hour class. 924-0000, uvahealth.com

OPEN HOUSES MESA Open House

December 9, 5:30-7:30pm at Albemarle High School The Math, Engineering and Science Academy at Albemarle High School will host an Open House.975-9300, k12albemarle.org

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solid and elegant­—you’ll treasure wearing this portrait. Pendants and other options available.

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Colorful Lego Crayons This set of 10 Lego crayons makes a great gift for your master builder! Made from recycled Crayola crayons and measure approximately 2” x 1” x .25”. The fun shapes are perfect to inspire endless hours of

handmade for the holidays Some of the best gifts don’t come out of a brick & mortar store!

Japanese Make-up Bag A beautiful pouch made of 100% cotton Japanese fabric with polyester/cotton lining and canvas on the bottom for strength. Use as make–up pouch, pencil case, handheld games, organizer in your purse, travel bag and more! Other colors are available. Created by Ayanass Bags. $17.00 at ayanassbags.etsy.com

imaginative and creative drawing. A set of ten crayons. Created by Color Me Cville. $6.00 at colormecville.etsy.com

Buck Junior Deer Head Buck Jr. is celebrating the season of warmth in All items are handmade by local Charlottesvillearea artists and crafters. Prices shown does not include shipping costs and taxes. For more local handmade treasures, please visit:

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his new Spring Fling print. The deer cardboard animal busts are laser-cut for precision fit and easy assembly using slotted construction. It’s the perfect companion for home or office and is made from recycled cardboard, a non-toxic, environmentally friendly product. Created by Cardboard Safari. $40.00 at cardboardsafari.com

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Fused Glass Bubble Heart Pendant Unique one-of-a-kind heart pendant

Colonial Dresses for Girls

snuggly wrapped in copper wire that

What little girl doesn’t love to play dress up? This

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the pendant. Black–corded ribbon necklace

the American Girl doll Felicity. Custom-made in

optional. Created by 2Glass Thumbs.

sizes 10, 12 and 14. Created by Emily and Izzy.

$30.00 and up 2glassthumbs.etsy.com

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Java Bags Java Bags are sewn from upcycled coffee sacks, displaying the varied and colorful logos that come on the burlap sacks. Color coordinating fabric is used on the bottom, and sturdy jute webbing is used for the handles. The bags are lined and have a pocket to keep your phone and keys

Beard Love Wüntertin Tame dad’s beard or unruly facial hair with

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Created by Wunderbars. $9.00 and up at wunderbars.etsy.com

Vintage Silverware Garden Markers Vintage silverware collected from second-hand stores are hammered flat and made into garden markers. Choose any word you like on knives, forks or spoons. Created by Curbside Pickins. $3.00 each at curbsidepickins.etsy.com

Native American Pet Teepee Don’t forget your pets this holiday! Each teepee is a one-of-a-kind handcrafted piece. They are machine stitched & made of durable offwhite canvas drop cloth. Artificial sinew is used to tie off the dowels & as decorative stitching on the front of the teepee. Also great for little kids!

(Interior sheepskin rug not included.) Created by Crown and Anchor. $150.00 at crownandanchor2015.etsy.com

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What these conversations often boil down to is

that man’s skin so dark or why is she really old? It

differing views on how much supervision and

can be really embarrassing for all involved. What

structure children need overall.

is the best way to teach her to be more sensitive?

The conversation that you ideally want

You don’t say how old your daughter is,

to have is about understanding each other’s

but I would guess she is relatively young,

concerns. There is oftentimes tension in a

around the 4–7 age range. Children in this age

marriage around each other’s perspectives

group are naturally curious and tend to blurt

and values. Conversations about too much or

out their thoughts and questions. I remember

too little supervision can quickly turn into a

a time when my young daughter pointed to

power struggle. Instead, you want to change the

and asked out loud why a man in line ahead

conversation.

of us had a crutch and only one leg. I felt a

What this translates into is having a

bit embarrassed, but the gentleman quietly

conversation with your spouse not about his or

explained to my daughter that he had lost his

her being too controlling or you being too lax but

leg in a car accident and was waiting to receive

about what it is that you both are most

a new artificial one. So fortunately, it was no real

worried about if you don’t monitor

embarrassment all around.

the children’s media. Is it that

That being said, you may want to tell your

WANT TO ASK BOB A QUESTION?

they might stumble upon

daughter that she should whisper in your ear

sites that could disturb them

her questions about people rather than saying

or bring them into an adult

them aloud. You do not want to make her feel

Email your parenting concerns and queries to editor@IvyPublications.com.

Yours might be included in an upcoming issue!

world that they are not

bad for being curious. Even is she does say

ready to handle? Similarly,

something quite embarrassing, you do not want

what is your concern about

to scold her, but mop up the situation. Say to the

too much monitoring – that

person that your daughter is curious and you

your children will be afraid to

hope their feelings were not hurt. By doing this,

explore or never learn how to

you are modeling sensitivity for your daughter,

successfully manage the gift of privacy? You want to talk about the problems under the problems.

and you can explain your actions to her later.

Teaching sensitivity is about modeling and teaching your children simple rules of courtesy:

If you are able to help each other feel

you thank your aunt for her gift even though

understood, you are less apt to fall into a

you don’t like the sweater she gave you or you

power struggle. The challenge then is to find

shake hands with people when you first meet

a compromise. Maybe you need to sit down

them. What you are trying to balance is your

together and come up with a list of sites that

child’s curiosity and outspokenness. Reward the

you both can agree on that should be blocked

first, put guidelines around the second.

Author of 10 books and more than 300 articles — including the regular “Ask Bob” column in this magazine — Bob has 41 years of experience in couple and family work and is in private practice in Charlottesville (bobtaibbi.com).

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Mark Romness, MD, a UVA Children’s Hospital pediatric orthopedic specialist, offers his advice and recommends following these tips from the American Academy of Pediatrics: Before ice skating, teach your child to always skate in the same direction as the crowd and to never dart across the ice. Knee pads and elbow pads are helpful when a child is just learning to skate.

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It’s also best to keep younger children separated from older children. Slide down feet first, and for more control, consider a well-lubricated steerable sled rather than snow disks or inner tubes.

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With skiing and snowboarding becoming more popular, even among young children, most resorts offer ski school beginning as young as 4 years old. Although snowboards are made for children as young as 4, some resorts will not teach snowboarding to children younger than age 7. A qualified instructor can help you decide whether or not your child is ready for these sports. In determining your child’s preparedness, you should consider your child’s strength and ability to cooperate.

Once your child is ready for the slopes, make sure he or she wears a helmet specifically designed for skiing or snowboarding and that it is professionally fitted. Goggles help reduce glare from the reflection off of snow, something many skiers and snowboarders experience. It is recommended that eye

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Because kids grow quickly, have their ski bindings adjusted at the beginning of the season and also midway through the season to make sure they remain at the proper release point for your child.

Snowboarders should also wear gloves with built-in wrist guards to protect them from falls. Once your child outgrows adult supervision, be sure they always ski or snowboard with a buddy. Most injuries occur late in the afternoon when children get tired, so be sure to take breaks throughout the day (a cup of hot chocolate, anyone?).

Most likely, falls will only require a little comfort from mom or dad. But

if your child needs emergency care, don’t hesitate to seek help from your nearest qualified health provider.

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{living well new mom} Hot Tips for the Holidays Seasonal Advice for New Moms

Let’s play Holiday Hot Tip Hot Potato! (HTHP). The game is simple: when you get a hot tip at holiday time, pass it on to another mom. That’s it!

Why is the holiday season a great time for new mom HTHP? The holiday season means a lot going on. For starters, new moms are generally reinventing the wheel when it comes to work, partners and scheduling. Next, the holidays mean family, and families mean expectations. On top of that, the winter holidays coincide with cold and flu season. Put it all together, and a mom needs to know how to simultaneously swaddle her newborn, uh-huh her father-in-law’s sports reports, sing “Dreidel” and block the coughs of sweet but germy young cousins.

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Fortunately, Mother Nature equips moms with a powerful drive to protect their babies and to let the holiday chips fall where they may.

Hot Tip #1: The Call-Back from a Nurse

New Mom

The nurse call-back is quite possibly the best new mom Hot Tip in existence, holiday or otherwise. If your baby has symptoms that concern you but aren’t life-threatening, call your pediatrician’s office and ask for a call-back from a nurse. Nurses will ask screening questions to determine whether or not your baby needs to be seen by a doctor that day. This input can be especially helpful if you’re out of town for the holidays and are weighing if you need to seek a local doctor. It’s also helpful if the pediatrician’s office is about to close for a few days.

Hot Tip #2: Guest-Room Tweaks Your sister may share that her babies slept right through the holiday commotion when they were newborns. While that was fun for her, you have a high-needs newborn who easily becomes over-

The game is simple: when you get a hot tip at holiday time, pass it on to another mom.

That’s it!

stimulated. Kiss your amnesiac-sister on the cheek, then retreat to the guest room before your baby’s amp goes up to 11. Turn off landlines and answering machines that may jar your baby awake, and tape layers of newspaper over the windows to darken the room.

Find a white noise phone app to buff the edges off of loud televisions and rambunctious renditions of “Rudolph.”

Hot Tip #3: Round up Babies bring special meaning to the holidays. They light the memory

of elders, charm children and knit together siblings. If a relative or friend questions your parenting choices, pause and take a deep breath. After that, try and remember that your loved one has good intentions. Ask her a question about her days as a new mother. Parenting norms swing wide from generation to generation. Once bottles were thought better, and now breastfeeding is said to be best. Often times, what feels like judgment is actually just awkwardly worded observations. Ask: Do they remember their baby having any scary illnesses? Or, where were you when you went into labor? New moms always need rest, and there’s repose in the living audio books that are wrapped like gifts inside the hearts of our loved ones.

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Ask yourself, “What am I thinking right now?”

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2. Switch gears. When you find yourself focusing on the worst, try constructive visualization.

Instead of thinking about all the mistakes

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WREATH WORKSHOPS Look for wreath workshops around Charlottesville early this month at Monticello, Innisfree and The Market at Grelen.

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Harking back to the Celtic tradition of greenery gathering at the arrival of the winter solstice, welcome this holiday season with an afternoon of wreath making. This can be a family project with multiple levels of activity, including hunter/collector outdoor time followed by indoor creative time. Take that, dark days of winter!

Prep. You can pick up wreath forms at thrift stores or craft stores. We like the straw and grapevine ones for ease and low frustration levels for the children. You will also want a hot glue gun. If you opt for double-wire or twig-wreath forms, pick up some wire to wrap the greenery around the form and some wire cutters. Adults can try out the more advanced homemade shapes with various materials to create squares like a four-paned window or stars. Consider picking up some ribbon, too.

Get outside. Bring your pruners, and open up your scope of things that can be used for your wreath. A few ideas: Boxwood cuttings; greenery from junipers; spruces; firs; white pines and

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hollies (making your wreath the same day as your gathering is important, as their branches will still be soft and will bend); pinecones; seed pods; moss; bittersweet cuttings; sweetgum fruits; lotus pods; acorns; sumac flowers; and holly berries. You can also try painting the pine cones or acorns with silver or gold paint for holiday-inspired accents. (Kids are especially good at this task, though you might want to move back outside so they can paint with abandon.)

Assembling. If using the straw forms or sturdy, store-bought grapevine wreaths, just go for it. Let the kids glue away. If you are using twig or wire forms and are going for a more traditional wreath, take time bundling your greens into small groups first.

Then, attach these bundles to the frame with wire—dense layer by dense layer. You can attach additional decorations by wrapping a piece of wire around them and then weaving this wire into the main part of the frame.

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{living well home & garden} ROASTED CABBAGE WITH BACON (Adapted from ‘The Kitchn’) For a savory, somewhat healthy, side dish for holiday meals, The bacon and cabbage play off each other beautifully.

Ingredients A head of green or Savoy cabbage, with wilted, outer leaves removed

Preheat the oven to 450°F. Quarter the cabbage, and cut off the stem core. Cut each quarter in half again so that you have eight wedges. Place these onto a baking sheet, drizzle with a small amount of olive oil (remember, the bacon fat will provide

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additional fat and oil) and season with salt and pepper. Cut each slice of bacon into

Coarse salt

small strips, and lay these on top of the cabbage wedges.

Freshly ground black pepper

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edges of the cabbage are at your desired browned, crispiness by checking every five minutes.

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2. Bounce-n-Play of Charlottesville (pg 54) 3. Virginia Discovery Museum STUDIOS FOR CRAFTING 1. Wine & Design 2. Lazy Daisy Ceramics & The Painting Place (pg 79) 3. Crozet Arts (pg 79 THEATRE GROUP 1. Live Arts 2. American Shakespeare Center 3. Four County Players THEME PARK 1. Busch Gardens 2. Kings Dominion 3. Massanutten WaterPark UVA SPORTS TEAM 1. Basketball 2. Baseball 3. Football ZOO 1. Smithsonian’s National Zoo 2. Virginia Safari Park 3. Metro Richmond Zoo

Parties & Portraits LOCAL CAKE BAKERY 1. Chandler’s Bakery 2. Sweethaus Cupcake Cafe 3. Albemarle Baking Company PARTY ENTERTAINMENT 1. Bounce-n-Play of Charlottesville (pg 54) 2. Jump!

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Jackson-Via’s Coding Club Teaches Software Creation

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On Monday afternoons at Jackson-Via elementary school, a group

be saved and revisited all week rather than just during meetings.

of young computer programmers meet in the school’s library.

The club attracts a fairly even mix of boys and girls. When one

Amid books, colorful beanbag chairs and puppets dressed in

child asks a question, their friends step in to try their best to

presidential suits, these students learn the basics of coding and

answer. If more assistance is needed, they call on one of the three

Scratch, which is based on block programming with beginners

adults in the room. During my visit, Teacher Bonnie Yoder was in

in mind.

constant motion, making the rounds from one raised hand to

To many like myself, coding is one of those ever-present

another. I sat at a table beside two girls in hot pink T-shirts and

things in my life that I, admittedly, am not entirely sure on the

gummy bracelets, who were so deeply engaged they did not look

actual meaning. The most basic definition is that coding tells

up. With their eyes locked on their work, they politely answered

the computer what to do, whether it be with video games, apps,

my questions. Between them a stuffed animal was propped to

animation or digital. Of course, I am thinking in the small frame.

watch the action. One girl added a pixie with pointed ears and a

How was Facebook was created, or what exactly makes up the

swoop of pink hair to her game. The pixie served as a cohort to

worldwide web? What are the building blocks of the iPhone I

the fire-breathing dragon living in what looked to be the bottom

rely on so heavily? Every complicated, compelling and intricate

of the sea. Everything on the screen was this girl’s own creation

website we interact with, every computer and Smartphone,

— the background, the characters, the sounds, the costumes and

derived from someone’s imagination and knowledge of coding

the activities the characters engaged in throughout the course

and programming.

of the game.

On the Monday I visited the club, the group was split in

I asked a group of kids, “Why would a person want to learn

two — the storytelling group in one room and the computer

coding?” Their mutual answer: because it’s fun. “What is the

game creation group in another. Backpacks were set aside, and

hardest part?” I was met with blank stares. None. At another

laptops were open. As a mother, the way everyone seemed to

table, a boy named Ezekiel was designing a game. He tells me

use his or her inside voice was instantly noticeable. Students

that his favorite subjects are reading, writing and math. I asked

sat in small groups at round tables, falling into order without

if those are helpful skills to have when it comes to coding. Yes, he

much instruction. These young programmers, I learned, are in

tells me, “We do a lot of reading and listening in here.”

the second, third and fourth grade—ages I have found to be

After looking over his shoulder long enough, he asks me,

unassuming and wide open. The feeling in the room was one of

“Do you want me to show you how you do it?” Ezekiel took me

sweetness, curiosity and, more than anything, focus. The club

through the steps, first clicking on “settings” followed by enabling

meets for eight weeks in the fall and seven weeks in the spring,

Ok Google, which was new to me. He did this by speaking loud

so these kids are well into their routines. Each student works on

and clear into the computer. He then logged in with his password,

a personal school-issued Chromebook, so games and stories can

and a new screen popped up. It all seemed to be second nature,

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Tucked back in the Fry Springs neighborhood, Jackson-Via opened its doors in 1969, and the sleek mid-century building is decorated with a swirling mural at the front door. The school’s motto, “As lifelong learners, we do whatever it takes to do our best, to become our best, and to help others reach that goal,” is evident in the extracurricular activities it offers. Walking through the halls, Principal Dr. Tracie Daniels appears to know every child by name, and the faculty is accustomed to the who comes to claim their children at the end of the day. Jackson-Via also boasts a beautiful City Schoolyard garden and out-door classroom.

On the day of my visit, Ruth Kastenmayer was working with the storytelling group. Prior to volunteering her time as an ESL tutor and all-around helper for the

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When Yoder experimented with coding in her classroom, it was an instant hit with the students. Since opening the afterschool club to other students two years ago, the computer-coding club has continued to grow. Today, between 16 and 20 kids are involved, and “they love

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A Different Kind of

SUCCESS VABA USES BASKETBALL TO BUILD CHARACTER & SHAPE LIVES

By Sarah Pastorek

Just as legendary Coach John Wooden taught, VABA

identifies success as “a peace of mind which is the direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best that you are capable of becoming.”

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“ VABA teaches me to be a good person, not just a good basketball player.”

At the Virginia Basketball Academy (VABA), it’s more than

basis, coaches are to introduce a new piece or block to the

just about teaching the game of basketball to local youth. It’s

pyramid, which they advise their players to add to their growing

about instilling core values into each player’s person that will

pyramid on a wall at home. The goal, according to D’Alessandro,

carry them well beyond their time on the court. The VABA staff

is to “serve as a visible reminder of what is really important in

includes both volunteer coaches and parents in the process

life.” With VABA, it’s more than the wins and losses on a team’s

while encouraging all involved to act as role models of the

record. Basketball is a teaching tool to expose young athletes

organization’s teachings and mission that stem from Coach John

to the important idealisms in life. “The implementation of the

Wooden. As the coach with the most national championships

Wooden Pyramid of Success allows the coach to build a solid

in basketball history, 10 in 12 seasons, his philosophies and

foundation of necessary character traits on both an individual

methodologies are what have set him apart from the rest. Coach

and team level,” says J. T. Enoch, a dad and VABA coach.

Wooden’s unbeaten record was not his definition of success

Players have come to know how impactful Coach Wooden

though. As he constantly stressed to his staff and players,

was on his UCLA Bruins and on D’Alessandro’s goals of VABA.

success is “a peace of mind which is the direct result of self-

Tommy, a local fifth grader, willingly agrees. “John Wooden was

satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best

a genius,” he says. It’s about the experience and about giving all

that you are capable of becoming.” His unfaltering leadership

children the opportunity to be involved in a sport surrounded

and faith in the “system” are just two of his many fundamental

with faith, heart, discipline, teamwork, responsibility, hard

coaching characteristics. He encouraged his players to seek a

work and respect that will carry over into their everyday life.

career and life they would enjoy. And through his Pyramid of

It’s about the kids and helping them grow as individuals. Troy,

Success, he strived to instill core values in his players that would

a sixth grader at Burley Middle school, loves having the chance

carry them well beyond their time on the court.

to compete and be a part of a team. “For our son, playing any

For Ben D’Alessandro, the executive director of VABA, Coach

sport takes extra inner strength and determination because of

Wooden’s philosophies are things he has instilled at the center

his cerebral palsy. We are always amazed at how hard he works

of the organization. The Pyramid of Success, a foundational

to fulfill his desire to be a part of a team,” Troy’s parents say. It’s

element of VABA’s character development curriculum, is just

been a blessing for them to watch the support he gets both on

one example of a tool all staff and volunteer coaches are

and off the court. About two years ago, Troy’s shoe came untied

expected to use throughout the season, helping keep the focus

during a game while he was on the court. It happens to lots of

on character development rather than winning. On a weekly

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for the player to tie his shoe. But because of Troy’s situation, he

into more than he had anticipated, and he began to notice the

cannot tie his shoe one-handed. Before anyone noticed, one of

positive impact athletics was having on the students’ academics

Troy’s teammates recognized why the game was held up and

and on them each as a person.

was over tying Troy’s shoe before his parents had time to react.

Since his time in Houston and in being mentored by Coach

“It doesn’t sound like much, but that moment of thoughtfulness

Wooden himself, D’Alessandro undoubtedly believes in the

exemplifies the type of citizenship that VABA builds in our

influence a sport such as basketball can have in helping lead

young ones,” says Troy’s mom.

athletes to a better and more “successful” life. “Coaching is

“It’s not about winning with a score on the scoreboard,”

teaching,” explains Mohan Nadkarni, another VABA coach and

D’Alessandro says. “It’s about building character and shaping

dad of four student athletes, and he understands the impact

lives through the game of basketball.” His own interpretation of

he has on his players’ futures off of the court. Greg Huffman, a

Coach Wooden’s definition of success includes “only focusing

coach of a sixth-grade team, tells his players, “once I am your

on what we each can control, and in doing so, we can remove

coach, you can come to me for the rest of your life.” For many

ourselves from the result and end product.” Brian Stype, a

coaches, having this opportunity to help these young student

dad and coach with VABA, tries to constantly mirror the

athletes grow is what it’s all about. “Watching these young

same ideology. “The assistant coach and I are always trying to

men grow and make a difference down the road is incredibly

encourage the process rather than the result…Our games during

rewarding,” Huffman says.

practice are designed to reinforce the proper way to do things as

The strength and size of what VABA has become were not

opposed to the outcome,” says Stype. Tenzin, a seventh grader,

always clear to D’Alessandro and those who work and volunteer

is one of many student athletes who have come to understand

with the organization. The idea “was not mine; it was pressed on

this all-around definition of success. “Even if you win or lose,”

my heart, and in the pursuit of a calling, its success comes from

Tenzin says, “it still feels good to know that you tried your best

a faithful belief and desire in serving others and seeing athletics

and knowing you did everything you could do to get better.”

and basketball touch others’ lives,” D’Alessandro says. “I believe

Coaches, too, understand the personal reward that comes

VABA’s success comes as a result of consistent prayer and trust,

with volunteering their time and with focusing on more than

which have created a team of so many hard working, dedicated

just guidance on the court. As Coach Wooden stresses, coaches

individuals who believe in our mission.” He left college coaching

are players’ “teachers” and “coaching is like parenting.” VABA’s

without knowing what would come of his dream to grow the

coaches have the role to impact the lives of each athlete more

camps. “It was a walk of total faith,” and to this day, “I have a

than just on the court. D’Alessandro saw the meaning of this

peace in my decision that surpasses all understanding, because

while working with at-risk youth at an inner city school in

I know I am following the path the Lord set before me, not the

Houston, Texas. Teaching kids basketball after school turned

path the world would have set me out on.”

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{inspiration family fun} are on full or partial scholarships, and in some cases, an entire

and respectful he is of the coaches, refs and players around

team receives financial aid. It is more than just about the sport;

him.” For 13-year-old Masaan, he looks up to “all those who

it’s about “inspiring youth to become exemplary citizens,” says

have taken the time to teach me the fundamentals of playing

D’Alessandro, and helping the players understand their role in

basketball.”

the community. To Curt, a sixth grader, “VABA teaches me to be

Just hearing how young athletes can identify the core values

a good person, not just a good basketball player.” D’Alessandro

in each other as well as in other athletes, the VABA staff feels

believes that VABA can continue to help all players grow and

confident and hopeful in their mission and vision. “My staff is

understand as Curt does with the help of dedicated coaches who

amazing – the best – loyal, humble, steadfast and hard-working.

join VABA year after year.

VABA wouldn’t be where it is today nor have such a positive

The expectations extend into the homes of each student

impact on the youth if we hadn’t stayed true to our core values

athlete through incorporating the Student-Athlete Commitment

and kept our faith at the center of our programs,” D’Alessandro

Cards (SAC cards), another tool the organization uses. On each

says. As a parent, he wants other parents and the VABA coaches

SAC card are four boxes to be checked off prior to being cleared

to help keep these core values at the heart of the players.

to play each game. Three of the boxes are for the parents’ use

Doug Barrese, a sixth-grade parent, hopes his children learn

and expectations of their child in academic standing, school

these important lessons, such as “working hard and seeing the

conduct and home conduct. The fourth box is for the head

benefits of their efforts, learning and understanding the game

coach to check off each week in regards to predetermined

through high-player expectations and well structured coaching

standards all players must adhere to in order to deem “Full Play”

programs, and encouraging fairness.” For D’Alessandro, “If I can

status. This method is used to create an environment where all

be a part of these kids development in connecting the game and

student athletes have the same opportunity as their teammates

the pyramid blocks with life, then I am accomplishing what I

to get better both on and off the court. Keegan, a third grader,

set out to do.”

talked about her relationships with her teammates saying, “I like cheering on my teammates and encourging each other.” Or perhaps it’s knowing how to identify the good characteristics and behaviors in others. Hawkens, a fifth grader, says, “I look up to Malcolm Brogdon (UVA basketball) because of how humble

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understand that they are dependent; that Mom and Dad do

Gratitude is one of the trickiest concepts to teach toddlers

things for them,” she says. In other words, toddlers comprehend

and preschoolers — who by nature are self-centered — but one

that they are separate human beings from their parents, and that

of the most important. Sure, thankful children are more polite

Mom and Dad often perform actions such as playing peek-a-boo

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By learning gratitude, they become sensitive to the feelings of

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others, developing empathy and other life skills along the way,

By age 2 or 3, children can talk about being thankful for

says Barbara Lewis, author of What Do You Stand For? For Kids

specific objects, pets and people, says Ryan. “When my daughter

(2005). Grateful kids look outside their one-person universe and

Annie was 2, our family would go around the dinner table each

understand that their parents and other people do things for

night and say one thing we were thankful for,” she says. “Annie

them — prepare dinner, dish out hugs, buy toys. “On the flip side,

wasn’t particularly verbal, but when it was her turn, she would

kids who aren’t taught to be grateful end up feeling entitled and

point her finger at every person — she was grateful for us!” By age

perpetually disappointed,” says Lewis.

4, children can understand being thankful not only for material

Indeed, instilling grateful feelings now will benefit your child later in life. Research has been done in recent years revealing information that grateful people display higher levels of happiness and optimism. The catch? “No one is born grateful,” says life coach Mary Jane Ryan, author of Attitudes of Gratitude

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Children model their parents in every way, so make sure you

(1999). “Recognizing that someone has gone out of the way for you

use “please” and “thank you” when talking to them. “Thanks for

is not a natural behavior for children — it’s learned.”

that hug — it made me feel great!” Insist on them using the words, too. After all, “good manners and gratitude overlap,” says Melissa,

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an etiquette consultant and mother of two young daughters.

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Work gratitude into your daily conversation. Lately, we’ve

Toddlers are by definition completely egocentric. Still,

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children as young as 15 to 18 months old can begin to grasp

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especially with our 2-year-old, Mary Elena. For instance, saying

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{inspiration parenting} things like “We’re so lucky to have a good

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cat like Sam,” “Aren’t the colors in the sunset amazing?” or “I’m so happy when you listen!” When you reinforce an idea frequently, it’s more likely to stick. One way to turn up the gratitude in your house is to pick a part of everyone’s day where they acknowledge what they are thankful for. Two old-fashioned, tried-and-true ideas are to make saying what good things happened each day part of the dinnertime conversation or make bedtime prayers part of your nightly routine.

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Instead, figure out some way he can actively participate in helping someone else, even if it’s as simple as making cupcakes for a sick neighbor. “As you’re stirring the batter or adding sprinkles,” she says, “talk about how you’re making them for a special person, and how happy the recipient will be.”

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donate toys and clothes to less fortunate kids,” says a mother of two. “When my daughters see me giving to others, it inspires them to go through their own closets and give something special to those in need, as well.”

Insist on thank-you notes. Karen, a mother of three girls, ages 10, 6 and 3, always makes them write thank-yous for their gifts. “When they were toddlers, the cards were just scribbles with my own thank-you note attached,” she says. “As they grew, they became drawings, then longer letters.” Younger children can even dictate the letter while you write, says Lewis. “Just the act of saying out loud why

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“That way, you have a few moments for appreciation built in.”

Stash ‘em. Put half of the gifts away (out-of-town relatives won’t know, and neither will your preschooler) and dole them out as rainy day surprises throughout the year.

Downplay the presents. Put more emphasis on celebrating together — making

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{until next time humorous reflections} Merry Christmas From Our Cage to Yours Another Cheesy Christmas Card

“What’s this?” asks Marie. My 15-year-old daughter handed me a sheet of red paper.

“It’s a Christmas letter,” I say. “Some families write up a report on all the amazing things they’ve accomplished in the past year and send it out instead of Christmas cards.”

Marie read some of it. “It’s more interesting than just ‘Merry Christmas,’ but it’s kind of braggy and corny,” she says.

“If you think that one is corny,” I say, “you should read the ones where they pretend the family pet is writing it.

Those letters are so corny they can give you chills, but they’re kind of fun to read. Too bad we don’t have a cat or dog to write ours.”

“We have a hamster,” says Marie. *** Happy holidays, everyone: Well, the Epsteins have had a dandy year. And why shouldn’t they? They haven’t been locked in a cage 24-7.

I guess the highlight was their two-week trip to Canada. But they didn’t bring me. In fact, they didn’t even decide what to do with me until the night before they left.

Marie is about 300 hamster years old, and her father is always trying to think of ways to utilize her boyfriends. It was his last-minute idea I guess I’m always going to to have Bill watch have “issues,” but generally, me. It hurt that so little thought was I think I’m learning to be given to my care, OK with my hamster-ness. but those two weeks turned out to be the best of my life.

Bill fed me generously, and he even gave me a piece of lettuce once in a while. He oiled my exercise wheel! It looked like the start of a beautiful friendship, but no, three days after my people came back and got me, Marie broke up with him.

I don’t know why; nobody tells a hamster much. But, as Marie’s mom says, “You have to deal with Marie’s boyfriends as if you are raising a puppy for seeing-eye duty; you shouldn’t get too attached to them.”

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The middle-sized daughter, Sally, who is 12, got braces this year. Her front teeth stick out nicely, but her father says, “It’ll be worth the 4,000 bucks not to have her looking like some kind of rodent.” And he says it as if I weren’t right there! I burrowed down into my sawdust and sulked for two days. He says, “Hammy must be hibernating.” In a house heated to 68 degrees? Right! I guess I don’t have feelings!

Anyhow, Sally doesn’t need braces. She just needs to do more gnawing to wear down those incisors. But let her old man spend the money; serves him right.

Wendy, who is 9, is the only kid around here who still likes to play. Sometimes she puts her smaller dolls on my back and pretends I’m a rodeo bronc. They are bad riders, and I buck them off easily.

Last week, she got her dollhouse all set up with dollies and loads of furniture. Then, she shoved me in its front door yelling, “Look out! It’s a wild BEAR!” The place was so cluttered that no one could scamper through it without knocking over tables and chairs. But that’s what she seemed to want. It made her smile, showing off a set of choppers that a beaver would be proud to own.

This dollhouse caper presented an excellent chance for escape. The couch was only two feet away, and it contains pure Habitat. I could climb up among the springs and stuffing and never be found. At night, I could sneak out and lick the plates that disobedient children leave in their bedrooms. I’d be free!

Inside the dollhouse, I found an open window and was about to jump out when something stopped me. I guess I’ve been in captivity too long. The familiar cage, the nightly dish of birdseed, the occasional grape, the weekly shampoos, the clumsy caresses of Wendy’s gargantuan mitts...they’re the only life I’ve ever known.

I turned away from the window and rampaged through the little bedrooms. Wendy grinned as dollies yelled and dived down the stairwell. I jumped after them, my claws flashing, hoping to maul them.

I guess I’m always going to have “issues,” but generally, I think I’m learning to be OK with my hamsterness.

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