What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? Volume II

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Ten Women Answer The Question

What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? Volume II Intimate portraits and personal stories of ten Northern California Women Veterans by James R Morrison & J Mara Morrison Edited by Wendy Patrice Williams

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Ten Women Answer The Question

What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? Volume II This book is dedicated to the brave women who have served in our military since the Revolutionary War. They put their lives at risk to protect our freedom, often on the frontlines, only to return home without the recognition every American Veteran deserves. Serving them with greater dignity, respect, and care should be our national priority.

Intimate portraits and personal stories of ten Northern California Women Veterans by James R Morrison & J Mara Morrison Edited by Wendy Patrice Williams

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Personal narratives written by the individual woman veterans Photographer perspectives written by J. Mara Morrison Edited by Wendy Patrice Williams

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Melissa Washington, U.S. Navy I am elated that this important portrait project has continued as James and Mara Morrison are introducing the world to ten more amazing Women Warriors! Since the first edition of their portrait book, Women Veterans Alliance (WVA) has made tremendous progress in “moving the needle.” WVA is one of the largest and fastest growing professional women veterans networking organizations with six physical chapters from the Nevada border to Silicon Valley and an even larger reach on social media. Women from all over the country have attended the Women Veterans Alliance’s very successful Unconference—a three-day event that brings women together to provide camaraderie, resources, and inspiring speakers. The Unconference is a pivotal opportunity for women veterans to connect and benefit each other, creating a unique community dedicated to the empowerment of women. Women veterans are often underserved and unrecognized; they are often assumed to be spouses of a veteran. I am on a mission to change that assumption, along with thousands of women veterans and a growing group of dedicated supporters. Through our movement, we are letting our lady veterans know the WVA is in their community ready to assist them with anything they may need. Working together, we have brought more awareness to the community women have served and are currently serving, not only changing perceptions, but bringing to light the vast achievements and contributions our women veterans make every day. Impacting a woman veteran’s life not only positively changes her life, but also her family’s and the community in which she lives.

I invite you to take the time to enjoy these compelling portraits and read the stories of these beautiful and powerful women.

Melissa Washington, Navy Veteran, Founder/President, Women Veterans Alliance Council Chair, California Women Veterans Leadership Council Sacramento Business Journal 2017 Award Winner,“Women Who Mean Business” Congresswoman Doris Matsui, Honorees Congressional Award Recipient Women Veteran Alliance http://www.womenveteransalliance.org/ 3


Vanquishing the Invisible I am a Vietnam Era Navy Veteran and remember what it was like coming home after serving my country to an indifferent welcome. I wasn’t spat on, like many of my fellow veterans, but instead experienced a lack of care and recognition from the very people who supported the war. At times I felt invisible. The pain and disappointment ran deep and stayed with me over the years. When I saw the same indifference and lack of recognition for the contributions and sacrifices our Women Veterans face when they return home, it struck a chord.

What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? presented a rare opportunity to bring recognition to Women Veterans and to share with viewers who these women really are. My instinct was to avoid the stereotypes of most veteran portraits—in uniform, wounded, depressed; rather, I focused on highlighting their personal strength. I chose a classic style, creating softness and a sense of dignity, in contrast to the intensity I saw radiating from the women themselves. It was essential for me to open viewers’ eyes and have them really look at these women, not just as women, but as Veterans who deserve our respect and acknowledgment. In my thirty-five years as a professional, photographing presidents, California legislators, and dignitaries, this has been one of the most challenging and gratifying projects I have completed. It touched my heart and soothed old wounds. And for that I’m grateful. James R. Morrison, photographer

Bringing Deserved Recognition I spent hours reading narratives from the women who were in our portrait project and from other Women Veterans who, over decades, also served our country. I was surprised to feel a strong sense of connection to them. Seeing the Women Veterans through the lens of James’ camera impacted me in ways I had not expected. I was compelled to learn more about them, to understand what their lives were like during and after their military service, and to find ways to bring deserved recognition where none was given before. When you read What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? attend an exhibit of the women’s portraits, or start a dialogue in your community about the issues and challenges Women Veterans face every day, you will be moved by what you discover. I guarantee you will be changed by the experience. I come from a family of Veterans: My dad, brother, and uncles served. Growing up, my parents shared stories about the women who served our country. I remain fascinated and touched by these women. We are honored to support and recognize them by creating portraits that reflect their personal strength and spirit. J. Mara Morrison, writer 4


We embraced a commitment to bring attention to these remarkable women, ensuring they’re recognized, acknowledged, and never forgotten. The two years we dedicated to this extraordinary portrait project, our mission transformed from answering a simple question posed by collaborator and Women Veterans Alliance President, Melissa Washington, to focusing on helping the public to discover and to understand the challenges Women Veterans face every day. One of the tenets of our project was to build trust with personal meetings, listening carefully to each woman's insights and intuition. Our perspective reveals the process we used to decide on locations and puts into context the personal items the women chose from their military service and current life, creating a uniquely personal and compelling frame of reference for our viewers. The women in our portrait series and thousands of other Women Veterans across our country have proven themselves on the battlefield and in support functions all over the world. The wealth of experience and education they contribute to businesses, educational institutions, and our local communities is immeasurable. Yet it may surprise you to hear many women don’t self-identify as Veterans when returning home. Although these women are incredibly tough-minded and hardworking, they often go unrecognized and unappreciated by the public. In some cases, male peers told Women Veterans that they didn’t sacrifice enough. In other instances, they’re called liars or worse. If that’s not enough, Women Veterans face decades of negative cultural stereotypes, which perpetuate feelings of invisibility. Join us in bringing visibility to our Women Veterans by supporting this project. You can make a difference in how these women are welcomed and integrated in a positive way into our communities. To learn more go to: www.jamesrmorrison.com/p/SheAlsoServed

What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like?

She looks like the competent, capable, and caring women in our portraits. Wives, mothers, daughters, friends, professionals, leaders, students, and advocates. Women who have served our country with dignity and pride. Strong, beautiful women worthy of our recognition and respect.

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Photographer's Perspective We met Catherine Cook, Delta Air Lines Captain and Air Force Veteran, at her home in Carmichael, CA. She led us to her favorite room with an impressive display of memorabilia dedicated to the Air Force, flying, and her service to our country. When we asked about her life and military experience, Catherine shared her passion and advocacy for women in nontraditional careers. Her response brought to mind an ideal portrait location. Catherine assured us a single phone call would determine if our location choice would become a reality. Excitement could be heard in Catherine’s voice when she called a few days later to tell us Delta Air Lines agreed to have Catherine photographed at the Sacramento Airport. Calls and emails to Delta Air Lines and a detailed sketch of the photo layout brought approval and one stipulation: We had 10 minutes between flights to photograph Catherine. On the day of the shoot the weather behaved, the plane landed on time, and the waiting lift truck brought us up to the desired height. James adjusted lights, the camera angle, and took the shot: Captain Catherine Cook, in uniform, her favorite flight jacket draped over her arm, a symbol of her career in the U.S. Air Force, standing before a Delta Air Lines B-757. Her smile projecting the immense pride she feels as a woman pilot and a Veteran. What Does a Woman Veteran Look Like? She looks like Catherine Cook, U.S. Air Force, Delta Air Lines B-757 Captain, wife, and mother.

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Catherine Cook U.S. Air Force

When I graduated from California State University with a degree in economics, my plan was to go to law school, but then I happened upon an article in the newspaper that captured my adventurous spirit about women becoming military pilots. After reading the article, I knew what I wanted to do. I was young, smart, idealistic, naive and brave, so I decided to contact an Air Force recruiter. That decision changed the course of my life for the better, forever.

“I learned teamwork, camaraderie, and a never-give-up attitude—the greater the challenge, the greater reward."

I had no idea what military life would be like. I took the oath of office and embraced the challenges and sacrifices that it would take to become an Air Force pilot. Two years of intense Officer and Pilot Training ensued. It was an exhilarating time in my life. I trained, tested and pushed beyond what I thought were my limits, both mentally and physically. I learned teamwork, camaraderie, and a never-give-up attitude—the greater the challenge, the greater reward. I earned my Air Force Wings in 1981, one of my proudest accomplishments in life.

I flew KC-135 Stratotankers on missions to provide air refueling for fighter jets, bombers, and cargo aircraft all around the world. In August 1990, I volunteered for Operation Desert Shield and flew a KC-135 from Mather Air Force Base, California to Saudi Arabia on a mission to deter Iraq's invasion of Kuwait. In 1991, Operation Desert Storm started, which marked the first time in American history that women were allowed to fly in combat missions. I'm honored that I was part of that history, flying as a KC-135 Aircraft Commander. After the Gulf War, the Air Force evaluated how women had performed in combat and made a groundbreaking change to allow women to fly fighter jets in the future. I'm very proud of my role in that decision. Today, I am a B757 Captain for Delta Air Lines, married with two wonderful sons. I love my country and will always be grateful for the opportunity I had to serve as a pilot in the United States Air Force. I am honored to be a Woman Veteran.

In Memory - On September 3, 2017, Catherine lost her beloved husband, Col. Frasier Fortner, U.S. Air Force (Retired). In Memory The deep love he held for his country was equaled by his steadfast love and devotion to his family.

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Photographer's Perspective

A vibrant woman with a smile that reaches across the room, Danielle Marshall is a self-admitted work in progress. Meeting at her favorite coffee shop in Natomas, Danielle shared her African-American and Native American heritage with stories about the strong women who influenced her life. A small business owner, entrepreneur, and recent president of the Natomas Chamber of Commerce, Danielle told us giving back to her community after serving in the U.S. Air Force fulfills her desire to make a difference in ways she can see. Danielle’s portrait location choice was unexpected: an incomplete business park in North Natomas she refers to as Stonehenge. “It perfectly defines where I am in my life”, she explained. “I come from a tough foundation with roots in Oakland, and with all I’ve accomplished, I still see myself as unfinished.” The day of the shoot, Zach Amis, project manager with The Marks Family and Tower Investments, LLC provided entry and support at the business park site. Leaning against a cement wall holding a U.S. Air Force challenge coin, a symbol of recognition of the hard work and excellence an individual has displayed, with her uniform jacket draped across her arm, Danielle Marshall looks boldly into a future molded and shaped by her own hand. What Does a Woman Veteran Look Like? She looks like Danielle Marshall, U.S. Air Force, entrepreneur, community business leader, wife, and mother.

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Danielle Marshall U.S. Air Force

Originally from Oakland, California, I am a wife, mother of two, and avid community supporter. A United States Air Force Veteran, I served as a Clinical Lab Technologist at Travis Air Force Base between 1998 and 2004. In addition, I served as a Senior Core Lab Technician, Blood Donor UTC member, Clinical Laboratory Phase II Trainer, and Nurse Transition Phlebotomy Instructor. As a business consultant, I specialize in assisting small companies in business development, organizational management, and leadership training. l have found my passion in the world of fashion where I assist others in understanding the importance of presenting themselves as professionals to the world. I enjoy working with fellow veterans to help them develop a personal, professional style while embracing their own individuality, fully understanding the struggles and obstacles they face when they go from military uniforms to the corporate world.

“As I continue to carry on their legacies I see my work as unfinished."

I was blessed to have several strong women influence my life while growing up. My mother is beautiful, a successful entrepreneur, and my hero. I have close relationships with four grandmothers and three great-grandmothers. Through these women I learned strength, compassion, hard work, class, and grace. My grandma Alice a VA Nurse had the most intriguing shoe collection. Grandmother Louise was a relaxed woman and called things like she saw them with a comforting voice. My great-grandmother Alice was wise, and composed, with an excellent memory and at over 100 years old, a wonderful sense of humor. My grandmother Anita is the fashionista. Growing up, I watched her make a positive impact as a community leader in pencil skirts, suits, and heels. She’d sometimes called me her glamour girl. Clearly, it stuck. So much of who I am is because of who they are. As I continue to carry on their legacies I see my work as unfinished. During my military career many of the values of the strong women I was raised by, were reinforced. The Air Force taught me to put the service to others before myself and to always pay attention to the details. Every day there was always a sense of purpose: to serve the greater good and make a positive impact.

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Photographer's Perspective When we first met Jaclyn Kirkwood, her petite size belied her inner strength and resolute spirit. Jaclyn’s voice was full of pride as she shared her background and the attributes gained from her military experience. “The skills and training I received in the Marines noticeably impact my life every day. Involvement with several Sacramento leadership groups is a direct link to my background as is my passion for making a difference by serving others.” Jaclyn chose the conference room at the Children’s Receiving Home where she works as the Executive Administrative Manager. Highlighted on the wall behind her is a shadow box displaying the U.S. flag she received upon retiring from the U.S. Marines as Gunnery Sergeant in 2015. A cherished photograph of Jaclyn receiving confirmation of her faith in the Jordan River, part of the Heroes to Heroes Journey to Israel, is seen on the conference table in front of her laptop; to the left, informational brochures about the Children’s Receiving Home are a reminder of Jaclyn’s future path and strong dedication to helping others. What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? She looks like Jaclyn Kirkwood, U.S. Marine (Retired), Executive Administrative Manager, community leader, and daughter.

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Jaclyn Kirkwood

U.S. Marine (Retired) My name is Jaclyn Kirkwood. I grew up in Southern Illinois on the outskirts of St. Louis, Missouri. When I graduated from high school in 1997, I was seventeen. My mother offered to pay for college, but instead, I decided to join the United States Marine Corps. At the time I wasn’t sure why I wanted to go to school and I felt it was time for me to be on my own. Joining the military provided the opportunity for stable pay, travel and adventure, and the challenge I was looking for. I went to boot camp in 1997. My Military Occupational Specialty was Motor-Transportation. While serving I was stationed in Okinawa, Japan; Quantico, Virginia; Miramar, California; Kuwait and Iraq during the invasion of Iraq in 2003; St. Louis, Missouri; Afghanistan in support of Operation Enduring Freedom; Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri; and Sacramento, California. I retired in June of 2015. While serving, I earned a Bachelor of Arts in Business and a Master of Art in Management and Leadership.

“I absolutely love being able to help the community serve At-Risk Youth." After retiring I worked at a local lobbying firm for six months but I felt the need to serve the community more. In August 2015, I began working at The Children’s Receiving Home of Sacramento. I absolutely love being able to help the community serve At-Risk Youth. I’ve been blessed with being able to participate in Rotary, FBI Citizens Academy, Women Veterans Alliance, and Metro Chamber. My current focus is being involved in the 2017 Leadership Sacramento Class. In 2016, I was fortunate to be selected for the Heroes to Heroes Journey to Israel. The organization gives American disabled Veterans the experience of a lifetime and is designed to educate, motivate, stimulate discussion and bonding with peers and be a springboard for emotional and spiritual healing both during and after the experience. We spent ten days in Israel on a life-changing trip. I connected with American and Israeli female soldiers and reconfirmed my life to Jesus in the Jordan River. My transition out of the military hasn’t been easy but I wouldn’t take a day back of the time I served. It has made me who I am today and for that I am thankful.

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Photographer's Perspective The sounds of the busy coffee shop were in sharp contrast to the soft voice of U.S. Army Veteran, Yvonne “Alex” Alexander. A sixth-grade teacher and mentor, she shared her passion for education and her love of working with young minds. “They energize me,” she stated. Alex chose her classroom for her portrait session with walls covered in projects, lessons, and images of anchors. The anchor is a personal symbol of hope that keeps Alex grounded in the reality of living with a serious health issue her son is facing. “Isaiah has a rare form of kidney cancer. He wants to deal with his health issues his way, which means living his life fully one day at a time without fear. I thought I knew the meaning of faith until I witnessed my son's unwavering belief in the power of God and transformation. He amazes me every day.” The day of her portrait, Alex wrote the message seen behind her. In the foreground, her military dog tags, a reminder of her years of service can be seen laid over the cherished piece of coral. Bright blue skates worn for pursuing her favorite past time represent the anticipation of future adventures. A copy of The Sacramento State Hornet, featuring a story of Isaiah’s battle with cancer is seen in the foreground. Understanding the significance of the portrait session we invited Isaiah to be there in support of his mother. The vision of mother and son conversing in hushed tones, the love and respect revealed on their faces is a memory we’ll never forget. What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? She looks like Yvonne “Alex” Alexander, U. S. Army, teacher, mentor, leader, and mother. 12


Yvonne Alexander U.S. Army

Today, when I look out over my 6th-grade class, I’m reminded of the journey that brought me here. Twenty-eight years ago, I walked into the recruitment office in Inglewood, California and joined the United States Army. I was at a turning point in my life. I had made some bad decisions and wanted to redeem myself with my parents. I was sent to Fort Dix, New Jersey for boot camp. Women were assigned to male drill sergeants, who exhibited no sensitivity toward women recruits. My training was strenuous, but because my mother had raised me to survive, I was able to withstand the abusive language and behavior. Living with my adopted godmother had further prepared me. If she wasn’t cussing at us, we were alarmed and thought she wasn’t feeling well. When I jumped off the truck at boot camp and heard the drill sergeant cuss at us, I laughed. It felt just like home. Being a young, Black American female in a male-dominated society presented continual challenges. I dealt with verbal, physical, and sexual abuse. As a soldier, I excelled at my job, yet I had to fight for opportunities to get the necessary training to advance my career. Through these challenges, I developed a deeper relationship with God. Without Him, I would not have made it through. At one point, I reenlisted and requested to be stationed in Germany. After spending two weeks there, I found out I was two and half months pregnant. I requested to be chaptered out. After four years in the U. S. Army, I left Germany with a sense of pride and the determination to be the best mom possible. A decent job allowed me to care for my son while obtaining my Master’s degree in Curriculum Instruction and a Multiple Subject Teacher Credential. Future plans include returning to college to obtain my Administration Credential and Single Subject English Authorization. I recently moved to Sacramento, California to be with my college-aged son. I am here today as a proud mother of two wonderful grown adults. I’m thankful for my military training. It helped mold me into the person I am today—a proud Woman Veteran of the United States Army. In Memory In Memory - Isaiah Alexander, 27, died of cancer a few months after our portrait session. A very special young man, he will be remembered for his deeply held faith, his caring heart, and unshakeable leadership. Alex asked we share the words Isaiah lived by every day. Fight with Faith. Live with Freedom. 13


Photographer's Perspective Dulce Romero, a recent winner of the CalVet Trailblazer Award, motioned us into a private office. At first hesitant, the young veteran shared the challenges and demands she faced when she joined the Marines. “It was a pivotal decision that changed my life. While serving, I felt I had to prove myself by working harder than the men on all levels. Looking back I realized my military training and my mother’s belief in me gave me the courage and confidence to move forward in my life. I completed my education, purchased a home, and feel honored every day to be part of a great team of people who assist my fellow veterans at the ARC Veteran Resource Center.” Honoring Dulce’s request to be photographed outdoors, we chose the Phoenix Vernal Pool Recreation area in Fair Oaks. Dulce arrived with her support team: boyfriend Tony and her best friend, Brittany, a fellow Marine veteran. When the wind kicked up, they gave us a hand with the lights, held the reflectors and assisted Dulce during the photo session. With a brilliant sunset behind her, Dulce’s arms are wrapped around a photograph of her three-year-old daughter, a sweet reminder of the future she embraces every day. Next to her on the fence post is the cover, she wore: a symbol of the determination and personal strength she developed while serving in the U.S. Marines. What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? She looks like Dulce Romeo, U.S. Marine, ARC Veteran Resource Coordinator, daughter, and mother. 14


Dulce Romero U.S. Marine

I was seventeen and still in high school when I joined the Marine Corps. After boot camp, I was assigned to drive large military trucks in the Transport Pool, a challenge for someone of my stature. I discovered being a Marine was hard, but being a female Marine was a hundred times harder. I had to be stronger, smarter, and faster than my male counterparts. Regardless of the challenges, sleepless nights, and the emotional pain, I loved the Corps. Putting on my uniform gave me a sense of pride and accomplishment.

“I missed many of her firsts including the joy of hearing her call me “Mommy"." While in the Corps, I got pregnant with my daughter. It became more difficult when God, country, and Corps came first before raising my child. Leaving her for long periods was painful. I missed many of her firsts, including the joy of hearing her call me “Mommy”. Disappointment in my leadership’s lack of support and frustration dealing with peers’ sexist mentalities made it difficult to do my job. After much deliberation, I knew I had to put my daughter first. On September 11, 2015, I put my uniform to rest. It was an emotional, bittersweet day. I loved my country and the Corps, but I needed to move ahead and make a life for my daughter and me. My mother taught me to be a fighter and not depend on anyone. She inspired me to be successful and fueled my drive to accomplish more in life. With her words in mind after leaving the Corps, I enrolled at American River College to pursue a degree in Business and Real Estate. With the support of family, friends, and the ARC Veteran Resource Center (VRC), I was given the tools needed to reintegrate back into civilian life. I am now part of work study at the VRC, a program that helps Veterans discover benefits and resources. I take great pride every time I have an opportunity to help change one Veteran’s life by sharing information and welcoming him or her into a caring community, the same way my fellow Veterans helped me. I am very proud to be a Woman Veteran and a Marine. But by far, the accomplishment I am proudest of is being a mom.

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At our supper table, Exhausted, Strengthless like a wad of cotton I thank God for wellbeing, Of my wife and children. Haiku by Kiyo's father JOHN SHINJI SATO Translation by: TRUDY SATO

Photographer's Perspective

Our meeting with Kiyo Sato, a woman with a decisive lilt to her step and a straightforward handshake, was a lesson in humility. At ninety-four she finds time to contribute to her community through volunteer work to help other vets at the Rancho Cordova Vet Connect @ the Library Resource Program. An author and speaker, Kiyo was awarded the 2017 Woman of the Year Award from the California State Assembly for her extraordinary achievements, determination, and courage. Kiyo requested we photograph her at the 8985 Nisei VFW Post in Sacramento, designated after the end of WWII. In front of her on the display case is her VFW hat, a reminder of her service as a nurse during the Korean War. Kiyo’s Story, a book authored by Kiyo about the internment her family survived, which won a William Saroyan International Prize, is seen in the foreground. A long string of white Puka beads represents her love of hula dancing. “I’m the oldest hula dancer in our organization”, she told us. “I love getting up and joining the younger women to help keep the tradition alive.” On the wall behind her is a photograph of the Sato Family taken shortly before they were interned. Kiyo asked us to display it as a reminder to our country that we must “Never Forget.” What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? She looks like Kiyo Sato, U.S. Air Force, nurse, author, speaker, volunteer, mother, and grandmother.

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Kiyo Sato

U.S. Air Force My father said of his children: "I don't want anyone rich or famous. I just want nine good citizens." 私は誰もが豊かで有名な人を望んでいない。 私はただ9人の良い市民がほしい。 And so it happened. My five brothers and I served in the military. Steve volunteered in 1942 immediately after the Pearl Harbor attack and was stationed at Fort Leonard Wood in Missouri, later transferring to the segregated 442nd Regimental Combat Team. In 1944 Don served with the Military Intelligence Service in Japan. Ronald was stationed in Hawaii and Peter in California. George served in Korea. In 2011 the Congressional Gold Medal, the highest civilian award, was given to all members of the 442nd RCT and to the MIS, including my brothers Steve and Don. Under Executive Order 9066, those with one-sixteenth or more "Japanese blood" were incarcerated. I became prisoner #25217-C. Upon release from Poston Concentration Camp II, I volunteered for the Navy but was rejected because of my color. In 1951, with a nursing degree from Case Western Reserve University, I was accepted into the US Air Force Nurse Corps and assigned to the officers' ward at Sheppard Air Force Base in Texas. My assignments included Clark Field in the Philippines and the FEAM COM Hospital in Japan during the Korean conflict. In 1952, I was discharged with the rank of captain. When our soldiers returned the most highly decorated unit in US history, they were not accepted into the National VFW, so the Nisei organized their own Posts. I serve as Post Surgeon and chair our Speakers Bureau, Veterans of Foreign Wars Nisei Post 8985, Sacramento, California. For thirty years we have been speaking to thousands of students from elementary to college level on “LESSONS FROM OUR LIFETIME: The Internment of Americans of Japanese Descent and the United States Constitution.” We also have many requests from nursing homes for our Post 8985 Ukulele/Hula group, of which I am the oldest dancer at ninety-four. I have four precious children by adoption and five grandchildren, a part of the five generations of multi-racial "good citizens" my father wished for.

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Photographer's Perspective Karen Flowers, an intense woman with a warm smile, met us at the Veterans Benefits Administration office in Sacramento. After reviewing photo locations, she spoke to us about her commitment to the people she helps. “Working with each individual I consider how the particular VA claim can benefit them and how it may impact the family. The work is challenging but gratifying, especially if I can provide a positive outcome to someone who didn't expect one.” Karen chose the VBA training room for her portrait location.The array of flags in the background represent the branches of the United States military, and the Veterans Administration emblem are reminders of the responsibility Karen embraces when advocating for fellow veterans. To Karen’s right in the shadow box is the flag she received when she retired from the United States Air Force, a symbol of her service to our country. In the background is a favorite bust of Abraham Lincoln, a reminder of the Veterans Administration's commitment to care for those injured in our nation’s defense and the families of those killed in its service. What does a Woman Veteran Look Like? She looks like Karen Flowers, U.S. Army / U. S Air Force (Retired), Supervisor of Public Contact for the Veterans Service Center, advocate, mother, and daughter.

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Karen Flowers

U.S. Army ~ U.S. Air Force (Retired)

Growing up in a small town in Northern California, I did not have many options after high school. My parents were on the brink of a separation my senior year, leaving me feeling like I needed to disappear. My father’s influence as an Army veteran of the Korean and Vietnam Wars made my choice to enlist fairly painless. I devoted twenty-four years of my life to the military. My first five years was in the Army; the remainder of my time was in the Air Force. Most of my career was spent in a Special Duty Assignment as a Recruiter. I retired from the Air Force in October 2006. In October 2007 I began working for the Department of Veteran Affairs as a Veteran Service Representative (VSR). In this position, I had the honor of advocating for our Very Seriously Injured Veterans from the most recent war on terror. Working with gravely wounded Veterans showed me how my experience gained from working for the VA could make a huge difference in the lives of our Veterans and their families.

“Personally, I see my entire life as a dress rehearsal for what I am doing today." After three years as a VSR, I became a member of the Rating Board, which I viewed as an opportunity to learn even more about how to better serve our Veterans. I spent five years as a Rating Specialist before making the transition to management as an Assistant Coach with the Veterans Benefits Administration. Currently, I am the Supervisor of Public Contact for the Veterans Service Center in the Oakland Regional Office. As the face of the VA, the staff of Public Contact works on the frontline, advocating for Veterans and their families. Personally, I see my entire life as a dress rehearsal for what I am doing today. I come to work every day with a smile on my face because I have the honor of serving those who have served—our Veterans.

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Photographer's Perspective Yesenia Henshall Perez, a thoughtful young woman with dark hair and eyes, greeted us at a coffee shop in her hometown of Colfax. She shared her family history and the values that impacted her life and her military service. It took personal strength and determination, she told us, to go from Woman Veteran to entrepreneur and community leader. “I saw the need to make a difference by helping other women identify and celebrate their status as Veterans, especially those who were Combat Veterans, like myself.” Yesenia asked us to photograph her at the VFW Meeting Hall in Nevada City where she serves as Director of the Women Veterans Alliance. In Yesenia’s hands are the Gold Spurs awarded to her for completing the work and challenges faced while being deployed in support of a U.S. Cavalry unit in Iraq. Spur holders are a proud part of an honored and historic tradition. On the table behind her are symbols of her service: a Certificate of Achievement marking her deployment in Iraq, military ribbons, and a belt buckle.The T-shirt on the table is one of her own designs created by her company to honor Women Veterans. Yesenia included a photograph of her 5-year-old son. “He is a constant source of light and laughter for my husband and me.” What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? She looks like Yesenia Perez, U.S. Army, entrepreneur, visionary, community leader, wife, and mother. 20


Yesenia Henshall Perez U.S. Army

I am the first female, as well as the first member of my family to join the military. I served in the U.S. Army from 2008 to 2012. Before joining, I was unsuccessfully attempting to attend college and work full time. I was not sure what to expect from the military, but I knew that I would have an opportunity to better myself and grow as a person. I entered the Army as a 92G, Food Service Specialist because cooking has always been a passion of mine. Although I did learn a lot about cooking for an army, it was not my most memorable experience. During my deployment to Iraq, 2008-2009, I did very little cooking and instead served as 42B Machine Gun Operator on daily convoy missions. After returning from deployment, my duties changed to 42A, Human Resources Specialist, for the final two years of my service.

“One of the greatest challenges I have encountered is that women are not perceived as Veterans." I was able to take some college courses during my service while I continued working towards my degree using my GI Bill. I earned my Bachelors in Business Administration and Human Resources. Recently I was accepted into the MBA program to continue my education at Brandman University. An accomplishment I never dreamed possible before entering the military. As a Woman Veteran, I struggled to transition out of the military. Through this time in my life, I knew I wanted to continue to serve in some capacity. One of the greatest challenges I have encountered is that women are not perceived as Veterans. As a Combat Veteran, I felt the need to bring that to light and started my own business and brand; creating products that women can wear to show their military pride. In order to serve my fellow Women Veterans, I recently became the new Chapter Director for Women Veterans Alliance of Nevada County. It gives me the opportunity to keep pushing forward and help other Women Veterans find their way to reintegration as well as success.

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Photographer's Perspective

We met Col. Patsy Thompson in the beautifully renovated 1906 home she shares with her wife, Barbara. Honoring her dedication to fellow veterans, we photographed Patsy in her uniform as she prepares to visit the men and women served by Sutter Care at Home, a participant in the We Honor Veterans program. “I feel these veterans, many alone without family, deserve to be recognized. They need to know someone cares enough to honor their service to our country. I’ve been doing this for several years. It’s one of the most important acts I can do for my fellow servicemen and women.” Patsy asked to be photographed in her favorite room, filled with mementos of her military service, awards received for her volunteer work, and reminders of her active lifestyle. A photograph of Col. Thompson when she first joined the military is seen leaning against the table to her lower right. The photo above is of Barbara, a cherished reminder of the love they’ve shared for over thirty years. The shadow box visible behind her holds medals and ribbons received from her distinguished thirty-seven-year military career. In front of Patsy is a certificate she presents to veterans in appreciation of their service to our country. Seated, wearing her Medal of Medical Merit, Col. Patsy Thompson personifies the pride and tradition of “service before self.” What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? She looks like Col. Patsy Thompson, U.S. Air Force / U.S. Army National Guard (Retired), volunteer, advocate, community leader, and wife.

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Col. Patsy Thompson

U.S. Air Force ~ Army National Guard (Retired) I was born in the small, conservative, southern town of Troy, North Carolina in 1933. My curiosity as to what was on the other side of the mountain drove me to become a nurse so I could enter the military as an officer. I graduated from nursing school at Charlotte Memorial Hospital School of Nursing in 1954. I entered the Air Force Nurse Corps in July 1956 as a tribute to my brother who was a Navy pilot killed during WWII. After my first assignment at Mather AFB in Sacramento, California, I was assigned to duty at Mildenhall, England. I was the clinic supervisor with three doctors and 18 corpsmen— a position usually given to higher ranking officers. After returning to the States in 1958, I remained in the AF Reserve until my unit was deleted. After 18 years in the Air Force, I transitioned to the Army National Guard’s 175th Medical Group, later called the Medical Brigade. I served over 19 years as the Chief Nurse for the Medical Brigade including three years as the Army National Guard Chief Nurse at the Pentagon in Washington, D.C. During my military career, I received many awards, the highest of which was the Medal of Medical Merit.

“I visit Veterans who are fighting their most difficult battle—that of life and death."

When I retired my desire to give back included volunteering to prepare meals for the homeless and serving in PFLAG (Parents and Friends of the LGBT community). I am privileged to work as a Hospice volunteer in the “We Honor Veterans” program. In uniform, I visit Veterans who are fighting their most difficult battle—that of life and death. I present them with an American flag, a flag pin and a personalized certificate of appreciation for their military service. Recently, I was honored to receive the National Hospice “Volunteer of the Year” award for this work. When entering the military I was forced to lie on the forms that asked about homosexuality. I felt strongly that being a lesbian should not prevent me from serving my country and doing my job. Much has changed. In 2011 the crippling policy of Don’t Ask Don't Tell was repealed, ending the institutionalized discrimination that unjustly targeted LGBTQ members of the military who now can serve our country with pride and honor.

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Photographer's Perspective Lindsey Sin, a distinctive young woman with hazel eyes and wavy, auburn hair rushed in to meet us at her office in Sacramento. As Deputy

Director of Women Veterans Affairs with CalVet, Sin is the force behind programs targeted to help California’s Women Veterans. Passion charged her voice as she shared her most compelling challenge: “Women Veterans deal with very different circumstance when they return from service and reintegrate back into civilian life. They often don’t self-identify as veterans and, therefore, may not claim their benefits. Our focus is to provide education to organizations and agencies to help our Women Veterans while recognizing the vast contributions they make to our society.” Choosing her office for her portrait session, Lindsey is seen at her desk preparing for an upcoming conference. CalVet brochures and the Women Veterans Outreach Toolkit are laid out in front of her. Awards recognizing her work with CalVet and items honoring her service to her country are visible in the bookcase behind her. Photographs of her husband and young sons are cherished reminders of a future bright with promise. Directly behind her are images of Lindsey’s two grandfathers, influencers, and Veterans—reminders of the legacy she proudly carries on. What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? She looks like Lindsey Sin, U.S. Navy, Cal-Vet Deputy Secretary for Women Veterans Affairs, advocate, wife, and mother. 24


Lindsey Sin U.S. Navy

My military service made me an active participant in history and a witness to world events. When I think of that decade of my late teens and early twenties, I do so in the context of my military service: where I was stationed when this event happened or to where I was deployed when that event happened. That’s an experience that not many people can claim.

“It was also not lost on me that I was the only woman among them." Immediately after boot camp, I experienced this connection to history, to the world, and to others that the military would create for me. I returned home for a brief vacation between boot camp and language school, and my parents threw me a party and invited family, friends, and neighbors. At one point, I joined several relatives and neighbors around a large table in my parents’ backyard. All of them had served in the armed forces. My grandfathers served in World War II, my uncle served during Vietnam, and our family friends and neighbors had served as well. As we shared hilarious and often humiliating stories about boot camp and training, I felt so lucky to be included among these people that I so admired and loved. It was also not lost on me that I was the only woman among them. For the most part, I enjoyed my time in the Navy. My rating was a Cryptologic Technician Interpretive or CTI. I studied and learned Arabic at the Defense Foreign Language Institute in Monterey, California. After a few schools in between, I had the great fortune to spend almost six years stationed in Rota, Spain in an aircrew billet flying on board the EP-3E Aries II reconnaissance aircraft. In the Navy, I met some of the smartest and funniest people in my life. I shipped out for boot camp almost twenty years ago and my decision to enlist has come full circle. Now I serve as the Deputy Secretary for Women Veterans Affairs and am honored to advocate for Women Veterans of the state of California. This too has been a great adventure, and I’ve had the incredible fortune to meet men and women who accomplished incredible feats of bravery, intelligence, and sacrifice during their military service.

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WVA was founded in 2015, by Melissa Washington a Navy Veteran who saw a need to bring women veterans together to help empower each other. Women Veterans Alliance (WVA) mission: To empower women that have served or are currently serving through networking, career and professional development, and mentorship. The goals of Women Veterans Alliance are: • To Equip Equip women with the tools to pursue a rewarding career • To Empower those women who want to become entrepreneurs Empower • To Encourage Encourage women veteran through Mentorship to include young women that want to join the military • To Strengthen Strengthen the sisterhood bond between women veterans • To Develop Develop and Maintain Maintain strong community of women veteran supporters • To Educate Educate the community that Women that have served are Veterans Active chapters are Nevada County, Sacramento, South Placer County, Silicon Valley, and Yolo/Solano. With more chapters to come. The chapter meetings are open to any women that have served or currently serving. We partner with organizations that support the same mission of empowering women and/or veterans. To endure we need strong partnerships with businesses, nonprofits, government, community groups, veteran service organizations, and individuals. Women Veterans Alliance is a 100% woman, disabled, veteran-owned small business. http://www.womenveteransalliance.org/ 26


Acknowledgements We wish to acknowledge and thank the people, businesses and organizations who supported and assisted us in completing What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? Volume II.

Melissa Washington, Founder and President of the Women Veterans Alliance, for the vision and perspective that propelled our decision to bring these stunning portraits to the public’s eye. Your ongoing belief in us created a unique collaboration we embrace every day. To Wendy Williams, our editor, author, and poet, for sticking with us through late night edits and past due deadlines. Visionaries Evelyn Figeroid and Jill Stockinger for creating an opportunity to tell our story at the Sacramento Library Rancho Cordova Branch and including a panel of Women Veterans so they could share their stories. Jacquie Brinkley, Project Advisor with Pacific Library Partnership, for seeing the value of placing our portrait books in 50 California Veteran Connect at the Library Centers. We also want to thank the City of Roseville who provided a generous donation to see that our books were placed in area schools to educate students on the roles Women Veterans play and the impact they make in our local communities. To our ten strong and beautiful Women Veterans who trusted us with their images and personal stories, we give special thanks. You are our sheroes. We honor you, not only for the many contributions you make to our country, but also for what resides in your hearts. You inspired us, supported us, and shattered our perceptions. We are forever grateful! Catherine Cook - Delta Airlines staff; David Weir, Assistant Chief Pilot – LAX; Andrew Frey, Communications Flight Operations; Susan Williamson, Delta Airlines Operations Service Manager and staff at the Sacramento International Airport. Special thanks to Dan for holding the lift steady during the shoot. Yvonne Alexander Yvonne Alexander - Woodlake Elementary School, Twin Rivers USD, Sacramento, CA. Dulce Romero - Dulce Romero - Vernal Pools Phoenix Park, Fair Oaks Recreation and Park District, Fair Oaks, CA. Danielle Marshall - Zach Amis, Project Manager, The Marks Towers and Investing, LLC, Woodland, CA. Karen Flowers - Veterans Benefits Administration Office, Rancho Cordova, CA. Jacqlyn Kirkwood - Jacqlyn Kirkwood - David Ballard, Chief Executive Officer of the Sacramento Children’s Receiving Home, for the use of their conference room for Jaclyn's portrait. Kiyo Sato - Nisei VFW Post 8985 in Sacramento, CA, for the use of the hall for Kiyo’s portrait. Yesenia Henshall Perez - Yesenia Henshall Perez - Will Buck, District 17 Sr. Vice Commander at VFW Post 2655, Nevada City, CA. Col. Patsy Thompson - For Col. Thompson and Barbara Brass for allowing us to use their home and sharing their amazing story. Lindsey Sin - CalVet Sacramento, CA, for the use of their office for Lindsey’s portrait. 27


Resources We encourage you to share this vital information with veterans you may know. It could save a life! Veterans Crisis Line Service members, and their loved ones can call 1-800-273-8255 and Press 1, send a text message to 838255, or chat online to receive free, confidential support 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year, even if they are not registered with VA or enrolled in VA health care. National Resources Women Veterans VA www.va.gov/womenvet/ Women Veterans Health Care www.womenshealth.va.gov/womenshealth/healthcare.asp VA BeneďŹ ts www.benefits.va.gov/benefits/ New GI Bill (IAVA) www.newgibill.org Veterans Resource Centers www.vetsresource.org Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder www.ptsd.va.gov Support for Sexual Assault Survivors in the Military www.SafeHelpline.org Grace After Fire www.graceafterfire.org/ LGBT Veterans www.patientcare.va.gov/LGBT/index.asp California Resources Women Veterans Alliance www.womenveteransalliance.org CalVet Women Veterans www.calvet.ca.gov/calvet-programs/women-veterans California Veteran Service OďŹƒces www.calvet.ca.gov/VetServices/pages/county-veteran-service-organization.aspx Veteran Connect @ The Library www.calibrariesforveterans.org/veterans.html

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We hope you have enjoyed What Does A Woman Veteran Look Like? Volume II It would be an honor if you would post your thoughts, or leave a review. The easy way to do this is use the QR code below or go to the book’s review page www.jamesrmorrison.com/p/bookreview to leave your review. If you prefer, Like and Follow facebook.com/SheAlsoServed2 and add share your comments with your social networks. Please feel free to share your thoughts about the book by email: Review@JamesRMorrison.com. Your comments and reviews are the best way to encourage others to spread the word about our project supporting Women Veterans.

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