FITNESS

BRUH! THEY ASKED ME TO WRITE A PRIDE ARTICLE

THEY SAID IT WOULD BE FUN!

Happy Pride Month girls, gays and theys!

As a former altar boy, former Scripture quoting, and former terrified and eternally guilty-feeling Roman Catholic, I can tell you that “pride” is one of the Seven Deadly Sins. But The Rage Monthly also said that I could only write 700 words because everyone knows that daddies (or zaddies?) can go on forever about nothing and everything. Sooo, no religion talk.

Queen, king, reina, rei . . . be proud of who you are, where you come from, what you do, your culture, your sexuality, and so on, but also take pride in your personal health and fitness. Not your outfit (which I’m sure is fire). Not your six pack or lack thereof. Your health and your fitness: a lifestyle that’s nice to your body and your mind, most of the time.

Bruh, this is directed towards you, the Gen Z and Millennials

Yesssss, keep taking your EDC and Coachella pics and post them on Instagram. Post your Snap stories to impress your rave bae. Get those Twitter followers to sub to your OF. But please also see the huge opportunity to get ahead and be ahead of the curve like never before when it comes to both your mental and physical health.

You are living in the information age. You own a smartphone, one of THE most technologically advanced pieces of electronic gadgetry that humans have ever created. The resources and apps available to you can help you avoid high blood pressure, heart disease, diabetes, lung cancer and even STIs.

Let your phone help you!

Pride

Bruh, maybe a phone could have helped ME because it took 33 years to make peace with myself, come the eff out, and be proud of who I am. 33 years. Some of you haven’t even been alive that long.

Regardless, you best believe after that much time I’m gonna be damn proud of being gay. AND Asian. AND a business owner. AND in the fitness industry for 10+ years. I mean how much more complicated can I make my life, right? Glad you asked.

I work in a complicated industry, in a complicated society, with complicated people, at a very complicated time in the world: COVID, war, mass shootings, right to choose, inflation, gas prices (damn dude, that almost gave me a headache and I almost want a drink. Bartender, bourbon. Up, please.)

As a personal trainer, I’ve told and continue to tell people to be proud of who they are (regardless of their struggles) and what they’ve accomplished (in the training studio, in their kitchens, or in the world). Why? Because lots of people tend to take pride in questionable things and take little pride in the things that they should be proud of. We’re not even talking the Seven Deadly Sins. PRIDE!

Be kind to each other AND yourself

There is nothing wrong with being proud of who you are and what you’ve accomplished but avoid the trap of pride in appearances just for appearance’s sake. Insta-gays and thirst traps are nice to look at but dig deeper. Go beyond the surface and the superficial. Get to the root. Realize that outward appearances should be the result of a solid, grounded and non-prideful healthy mindset and consistent exercise plus healthier nutrition — not being in love (or hate) with the mirror.

Getting good habits started when you’re in your 20s and even 30s will save your mind from mental and emotional stress, and your body from physical stress as you move on into your 40s and beyond. My dad DIDN’T do this and died when he was only 49.

If you know you’ve got a few extra pounds you gotta lose, lose ‘em. Make a few healthier eating choices if you need to. Get to the gym a few extra times per month. But, most of all, realize you don’t have to be overly hardcore about any of it. Enjoy the eff out of your life, but also know when to say when and to take care of yourself. I can say this because I’m also a DJ and I’ve lived (still live?) the festival and rave life.

Happy Pride!