A WRITTEN INTERVIEW FROM A 1.
Tell me about something that made you happy this week.
Seeing my absolute best friend and getting very drunk/hungover spending new years together made me super happy. Just cause I love spending time with her and I don't get to see her too often cause she's away at uni. 2. Do you have any objects or possessions that mean a lot to you? Could you tell me a little bit about them? I've got this dumb teddy that I've had since I was a kid called 'Big Doggy'. He's like 6" tall and I sleep with him pretty much every night. I think it's just one of those comfort things like the way he feels and the way he smells just makes me super calm and happy. 3.
What’s something you’re really enjoying at the moment?
Surprisingly I'm actually really enjoying my job at the minute, I got a new job about 2 months ago but I'm still finding it really exciting to keep learning new things about what is expected of me and the best part is that I get to meet and get to know a lot of new lovely people. 4.
As a woman, is there anything that’s troubling you at the moment?
I mean nothing is troubling me as a woman, but the thing that is always in the back of my mind relates to slut shaming. It's a real awful society we live in in which girls will judge each other for having sex or seeing guys, but to me, it shouldn't be a problem at all. As long as it's not directly affecting anyone, it shouldn't be a problem to anyone but the active participants. 5.
If so, do you think there is anything that could be done to help combat this issue?
The only thing that can be done is a change in the education system and within broader society really. We just all need to be taught that sex is a natural thing and nobody cares, as long as it's safe, sane, and consensual. 6. As an individual, do you think there is anything women and girls could do to support each other more? The only real answer I can think of for this one is related to slut shaming. So many girls and women will slut shame each other for sleeping around or wearing 'provocative' clothing or whatever, and then act outraged if a man does the same to them. We need to get rid of all slut shaming because, who cares, my body my choices, y'know? 7. Could you describe or tell me about a woman in your life that makes you feel proud about being yourself?
.My manager at work is an amazing person, she treats all her staff in the most amazing way and she is such a non-apoligetic person i adore her. She's what I aspire to be like when I'm in my 50's. Funny, hardworking, and just an enjoyable person to be around 8.
Could you tell me about a time you felt empowered?
I last felt empowered, honestly, when u was last with a guy. It was about a week ago, but I was treat like a princess and he made me feel amazing, and, although I was drunk, he didn't push any limits and made me feel comfortable in my own skin. That's the kind of thing that empowers me. Feeling like I'm a whole person and I'm entitled to feeling happy. 9.
And lastly, what is your favourite thing about being a woman?
I can tell you, my least favourite thing about being a woman is periods. But, my favourite thing about being a woman is being able to transform into a different entity altogether after putting some makeup, heels, and a dress on. It's amazing the transformation I go through, not only the physical but also my state of being changes too.