SPIRITUAL PHYSICS AND TEMPORALITY Of Human Love Relationships.
Human love relationships are a dominant subject of world literature, music, art and other humanistic inquiries such as the Elective Affinities of Goethe.It is very seldom that the scientific method is chosen to research deeper into the origin, nature and dynamics of human love relationships. If we approach the psychophysical phenomenon of love from the viewpoint of 4 th order cybernetics and human thermodynamics, we gain a very different understanding of the chemistry and physicality of human love; the 1st level of a love relationship is sexual attraction and physical bonding (level one=energetics). The 2nd level of the love process is to overcome the danger of entropy (level 2=entropy) which is the physical search for the continuity of the bonding, generally living together for establishing an equilibrium (e.g.’marriage, home, pro-creation or adoption’).The attainment of the 3rd level is the stage of syntropy (level 3=syntropy) which is connected to mobilize energies for spiritual harmony of the partners as the living foundation of continued dynamic efficiency of the love relationship. Reaching the 4th level of synergetics (level 4=synergetics) means to create a deep psychological understanding of the spiritual other that can be called spiritual love and relates to eternity.The temporal stages of a love relationship are always a psychophysical process and not all relationships reach level 4 because the physicality of human life does not always match the spirituality of human needs.The natural science of humans and the human science of nature are both reflected in the temporal stages of the human love relationship which is a natural process that implies the chance to slowly mature into a spiritual product or the risk to dissolve as a physical bonding process. Almost all stages of human love relationships can methodically be described by molecular, thermodynamic or energetic models where a temporal connection of physical energies (waves and particles) is working; however, it is scientifically more difficult to explain the conversion process from unconscious to conscious love. In any case, the freedom-of-choice is the most powerful concept to coming nearer to a deeper psychophysical understanding of partner choices which are