JCN August 2010 by Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley

AUGUST 2010

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IN THIS ISSUE: Hillel receives $1 million gift.................5 APJCC sends 29 teens to Maccabi Games and ArtsFest..............7

Local volunteers on national boards......11 Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival............15 Personal birthright experience..............19

Jewish mom to open allergyfriendly bakery p. 15

High Holy Day Guide.......................23 Coupons for APJCC and Cafe..................28

Twenty-somethings host Shabbat dinners, get reimbursed By Cecily Ruttenberg

t least one Friday each month, 26-year-old Adrianna Lukasiewicz cleans up her 900-square-foot apartment, heads to the grocery store and spends hours preparing a fully hosted Shabbat dinner for as many as 16 people. The time involved is huge, but the price tag surprisingly small. This is because Birthright NEXT foots the bill. Birthright NEXT is the post-trip programming of Birthright, which provides cost-free trips to Israel for Jewish young adults ages 18-26. Upon returning from Israel, Birthright NEXT steps in to offer Jewish young adults programs to stay Jewishly connected in their own communities. One of these opportunities involves hosting a Shabbat dinner and letting Birthright NEXT pick up the tab. continued on page 5

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Tekiah:

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Cecily Ruttenberg

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CANDLELIGHTING FOR SAN JOSE Friday, August 13...................7:44 PM Friday, Aug. 20.......................7:35 PM Friday, Aug. 27.......................7:25 PM Friday, Sept. 3.........................7:15 PM First Night Rosh Hashanah: Wednesday, Sept. 8.................7:08 PM Second Night Rosh Hashanah: Thursday, Sept. 9....................8:03 PM Friday, Sept. 10.......................7:05 PM Yom Kippur: Friday, Sept. 17.......................6:54 PM

First Night Sukkot: Wednesday, Sept. 22.............6:46 PM Second Night Sukkot: Thursday, Sept. 23................7:41 PM Friday, Sept. 24.....................6:43 PM Shemini Atzeret: Wednesday, Sept. 29.............6:36 PM Simchat Torah: Thursday, Sept. 30................7:32 PM Friday, Oct. 1........................6:30 PM Friday, Oct. 8........................6:22 PM

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Put your High Holiday plans into action! California Coastal Cleanup Day is held every fall on a Saturday. The Jewish Community Relations Council has coordinated this alternative creek cleanup day with the Santa Clara County Water District and the West Valley Green Leaf Committee specially for the Jewish community.

Meet at the Blossom Valley section picnic tables, Vasona Lake County Park, 333 Blossom Hill Road, Los Gatos We will pick up trash and recyclables along the Los Gatos Creek Trail. Free parking will be available (creek cleanup flyers will be distributed for windshield display). Gloves, trash and recycle bags, and special high holiday snacks will be provided. Register to participate at

www.jvalley.org

or contact Diane Fisher, JCRC Director, at (408)357-7504 or diane@jvalley.org.

Community Relations Council

Stimulate Your Brain with Adult Education Classes at Shir Hadash Our diverse and extensive schedule of adult education lectures and classes begin in September 2010. Taste of Judaism for beginners who want to learn more about Judaism. 3 classes Starts August 31, 2010. 7:00 – 9:00 pm in the Shir Hadash chapel Introduction to Judaism, an 8 month, more in-depth look at Judaism Starts September 28, 2010 7:30 – 9:30 pm at Congregations Shir Hadash and Emanu-El The Origin and Meaning of the High holy Day and Festival Prayer Books Learn why we say the prayers and perform the rituals that are part of the High Holy Days 3 classes beginning August 25, 2010 7:00 – 9:00 pm in a Shir Hadash classroom

San Jose 500 S. Winchester Blvd. (408) 984-4767

For the full schedule of adult education lectures and classes, please check the Shir Hadash website at http://shirhadash.org/adulted

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from the federation chairman

am honored to have the opportunity to serve as the President of the Jewish Federation during the next two years. Having grown up in San Jose, I have observed the creation and growth of multiple Jewish institutions in our community. When I was a child, there was no Jewish day school in San Jose, the JCC was without a gym, rabbi or permanent home, and the Federation raised less than a million dollars a year in our annual campaign. We now have two K through 8 day schools in our community, a state of the art JCC with a gym and fitness center, performance and art exhibition spaces, a thriving preschool and countless more amenities, not to mention two community rabbis offering extensive Jewish programming to community members of all ages. During this time, the Federation's annual campaign has nearly doubled, raising $1.7 million last year. Perhaps most excitingly, many of our community agencies, including Federation, the APJCC, Yavneh Day School and Jewish Family Services are housed on the Federation's beautiful Levy Family Campus--our sparkling five-year-old building which thrives with Jewish activity. While we have come a long way, we still have work to do. Like all other non-profits, our Federation has felt the brunt of the national economic crisis. I am proud that our Federation was proactive in maximizing allocations to our community beneficiary agencies. Even though the Annual Campaign was down 10% last year, Federation was able to maintain 95% of the allocations from the previous year. The differential came from a reduction of costs, retrenching of staff and reduction of benefits for the staff.

This economic downturn has required us to identify and focus on reasons for giving to the Federation. My sense is that the idea of giving to an umbrella organization like the Federation may have less appeal than it did 20 years ago. So what can we do? I don't pretend to have all the answers. Therefore, our Federation will be intensively examining over the next year ways in which we can make Federation vital to the next generation of philanthropists. I believe one thing we can do is become more innovative in identifying specific community needs and matching those needs with the particular interests of donors. While donations are vital to the health of our community, so is our time. I would like us to increase the level of Jewish community involvement in the general community. For example, Federation is currently partnering with the County of Santa Clara and local non-profits for several projects. In the fall, we will be hosting an emergency preparedness program in conjunction with local law enforcement agencies and we are also joining community-wide book and diaper drives. You may recall that the Trace Elementary School had a fire which burned its library. The school is accepting donations of gently used and new books which you can bring to the Federation office in Los Gatos. We are also joining an effort spearheaded by the County’s Office of Women’s Policy and co-sponsored by the Indian Community Center and the YMCA of Cupertino to provide diapers to families from the Family Wellness Court in need. In addition, we are co-sponsoring a Creek Clean up day with the Santa Clara County Water District and West Valley Green Leaf Committee. As a Jewish community, I believe we should be generous in offering our values of tikkun olam (repairing the world) to the greater community in which we live. Our involvement with these projects shows our Silicon Valley neighbors that we value all human life, and underscores our commitment to humanitarian needs. These activities build bonds and friendships that are valuable in these critical times. As the New Year approaches I look forward to this time of personal and community revitalization. Shanah Tova.

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local news Eli Reinhard gives $1 million to Hillel of Silicon Valley Longtime Silicon Valley Jewish philanthropist Eli Reinhard recently committed to a gift of $1 million for Hillel of Silicon Valley. In honor of this gift, the largest in the history of Hillel of Silicon Valley, the new Hillel House will be named by Eli in honor of his parents and uncle: Elizabeth and Isidor Reinhard and Dr. Samuel Reinhard. Eli Reinhard Reinhard has been one of the San Jose Jewish community’s most forthcoming philanthropists for years. In addition to supporting nearly every South Bay Jewish organization, he is one of the top funders and major drivers behind the establishment of the Gloria and Ken Levy Family Campus. “Eli's generous gift to Hillel secures the future of Hillel of Silicon Valley,” said Hillel Executive Director Sue Maltiel. “Funds will be used towards the renovation of our new home and towards building an endowment to maintain the home for the long term, and to ensure that vibrant innovative Jewish programming will always be available for the 1500 Jewish students at our local campuses.” She adds, “Since so many Jewish students at the campuses served by Hillel of Silicon Valley end up staying in the community, Eli's gift is truly an investment in the future of the local Jewish community.” Hillel anticipates moving into its new home at 44 South Eleventh Street, San Jose by the start of 2011. Hillel of Silicon Valley can be reached at (408) 286-6669 or director@hillelsv.org.

Jewish Girl Scouts meet in the South Bay

continued from page 1, Twenty-somethings host Shabbat dinners, get reimbursed “You basically have everyone come over to your apartment and make dinner, and the Birthright organization pays the tab,” said Lukasiewicz. “It’s significant enough to let you go all out and try to do a really nice dinner for everyone.” Birthright NEXT will reimburse up to $18-per-person, for up to 16 people. The food can be home cooked, or take-out; it can be kosher, or not; dinner can be traditional or alternative. The only requirements are that the meal be hosted on Friday night or Saturday, be themed Shabbat and that the host report how many people attended, what the response was like and how they hosted the meal. Also, only Birthright alumni can act as hosts. Aaron Nankin, 26, recently hosted a NEXT S h a b b a t . Because he lives in a smallish townhouse and wanted to keep it simple, he invited 15 people over for Twenty-somethings enjoy time after dinner during a take-out Thai NEXT Shabbat. food followed by a game of ultimate Frisbee at a nearby park. Nankin said the day was a huge hit and he received many thank you emails and calls. “Organizing a Jewish Shabbat function is often unrealistic on a large scale due to the fact that I work long hours and have little time to plan,” said Nankin. “Birthright NEXT has given me an avenue.” Adds Nankin, “The best part about hosting is definitely sharing a relaxing Shabbat with those who love it as much as I, and with those who are curious or may not have celebrated Shabbat before.” NEXT Shabbat is the latest in a string of creative at-home Jewish programming ideas aimed at young adults. In 2006, the first Moishe House opened in Oakland, offering a communal-living experience for Jewish young adults. Today 25 houses operate, with twenty-somethings living rent-free in exchange for hosting Shabbat dinners and other programs for young adults in their area. Lukasiewicz, who just moved (along with her two young children) into a larger house with a friend, is excited to host many more NEXT Shabbats.

Group photo of South Bay Jewish Girl Scouts The South Bay Jewish Girl Scouts, hosted by Congregation Sinai, is entering its third year. Activities include crafts, cooking, Jewish history and holidays, science, hiking, fencing and ballroom dancing. There’s also a Father-Daughter dance, girl-scout patches and badges, and special Shabbat patches too. Jewish twists to the sleepovers included beginning with havdallah and s'mores made with kosher marshmallows. Interest has only grown in the last 1-1/2 years, so that Fall 2010 will see the expansion into two troops: Brownies for grades 1-2, and Junior Girl Scouts for grades 3-5. Sign-up for Girl Scouts is ongoing, with an informational session to be held on August 29. Confidential financial assistance is available. Information about the troops can be obtained by emailing girlscouts@sinai-sj.org.

“The amazing thing about it is it’s an opportunity to figure out what Shabbat means to you,” said Lukasiewicz. “Some dinners I’ve done are taco Shabbats, where you build your own tacos. And others are all traditional foods. I’m going to one that someone else is holding this Friday that is kind of Spanish inspired.” Lukasiewicz says she also enjoys meeting lots of new people, some more and some less religious. At her last NEXT Shabbat, one of her more religious friends showed up with “benchers,” a song book which includes the traditional after meal blessings. “It was cool because everyone started doing it. Then randomly everyone went from singing prayers to signing Lion King songs. It was really fun!” Contact Birthright Israel NEXT Bay Area at Rachel.Thompson@birthrightisraelnext.com or (415) 848-2519.

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Yavneh graduating class, June 2010

Shabbat at the Levy Campus has been enlivened by the Shabbat in the Lobby program cosponsored by the APJCC and PJ Library. Throughout the summer, on Friday afternoons at 12:30, families gathered in the JCC lobby to sing Shabbat songs, read stories, and if you ask the kids, most importantly to eat challah. “Shabbat is not just a day but an outlook, a way of being in time which takes practice and preparation. Shabbat in the lobby is our way of helping folks realize the coming Shabbat through preparing for it on Friday,” said Rabbi Fenton of the APJCC.

On Saturday, July 10, Congregation Emeth’s Sisterhood hosted BBQ, Bingo and Bop, a 50’s-themed social for all Emeth adults. Jim Baggese barbecued hamburgers for the crowd, DJ Ed Steiner provided the dance music, and Elvis even showed up to make the ladies’ hearts beat just a little faster.

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Kehillah students Jon Alcabes (left) Guy Singer (right) and Andrea Resnick (not pictured) were 3 of 6 recipients of BBYO’s Central Region West 2010 Young Leadership awards. Alcabes won in the AZA division, Resnick won in the BBG division, and Singer won the Einstein Award for Innovation. Central Region West has 550 members.

Four and five year old graduates of Congregation Sinai Nursery School Hamaniya class during (pre-k) graduation ceremony on June 16.

The Silicon Valley Duck Race, the annual fundraising event for Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley, raised over $60,000 for JFS and 15 duck-buddy agencies. Over 3,000 people attended the event at Vasona Park on June 13.

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Beth David Young Adults program welcomes new board of directors

Kehillah Jewish High School begins year with record-breaking enrollment

Jews’ Next Dor, the young adults program at Congregation Beth David, has a new board of directors. The group is for Jewish young adults in their 20s and 30s who are looking to meet and socialize with other Jews in the Silicon Valley area.

In June 2010, Kehillah graduated 27 high school seniors. This fall, it welcomes 40 new ninth graders--the largest freshman class to date. Kehillah’s enrollment in grades 9 through 12 now stands at 134 students, over 100 more than when it opened in fall 2002 with a pioneering freshman class of 33.

The new board includes: President Sari Wisch, Vice President Shelley Timmins, Treasurer Ben Leitner, Program Officer David Hoffert, Communications Officer Moshe Zadka, Outreach Officer Shelli Carol, Historian Phillip Chatoff, Memberat-Large Aileen Menkin, and Immediate Past President Aleeza Abramovitz. Upcoming events for the group include High Holy Day events, Meet and Greet dinners, hikes, laser tag, Shabbat potlucks, sports, and being a “tourist in your own backyard.” Find the group on Facebook at Jews’ Next Dor, or send an email to JewsNextDor@beth-david.org.

Temple Emanu-El’s executive director receives award Temple Emanu-El Executive Director Drew Barkley will be awarded his certificate as a Fellow in Temple Administration at the October convention of the National Association for Temple Administration, an affiliate of the Union for Reform Judaism. Drew has been with Temple Emanu-El since October 2009 and in the past year has overseen the remodel of the kitchen Temple Emanu-El Executive Director and the upgrading of administrative procedures and technologies. His Drew Barkley skills as a chef have been offered at Temple auctions and were warmly received by the winners. The Temple Emanu-El family wishes Drew a Mazel Tov on his professional achievement.

Local Jewish teens participate in Maccabi Games and Maccabi ArtsFest Ten Jewish teenagers from Silicon Valley represented Team San Jose at the Maccabi Games in Denver on August 1-6, and seven more participated at the Maccabi Games in Baltimore on August 7-13. Another dozen local teens participated at Maccabi ArtsFest at the Osher Marin JCC on August 6-13. Maccabi is a Jewish mini-Olympiad that brings together Jewish teens from around the world. Team San Jose is organized by the Addison-Penzak JCC’s teen department. If you’re interested in participating next year, or if you would like to donate to help support Team San Jose, please contact Jason Goldstein at the APJCC, (408) 357-7497. Denver Michelle Goldstein–Track and Field Kevin Klein–Baseball Danielle Lerner–Soccer Gregory Lerner–Baseball Matt Ross–Baseball Yayla Sezginer–Swimming Greg Sprintz–Baseball Pierce Urban–Baseball David Yaghutiel–Swimming Jasmine Yaghutiel–Swimming Baltimore Josh Applebaum–Swimming Heather Fils–Basketball Alex Fletcher–Inline Hockey Jessica Goldberg–Basketball

Austen Goldman–Basketball Leron Perez–Soccer Allyson Weinstock–Swimming Marin (ArtsFest) Elliot Applesmith–Culinary Arts Jacob Applesmith– Digital Photography Raphael Fils–Acting/Improv Efrey Noten–Culinary Arts Eden Rousso–Rock Music Izzy Ullman–Vocal Music Tamar Leveson–Acting/Improv Boaz Cogan–Culinary Arts Ethan Hausser–Culinary Arts Simone Silver–Dance

In a move further acknowledging its permanent presence in the community, Kehillah has purchased its school building in Palo Alto this year and launched a Comprehensive Campaign for Kehillah students work thoughtfully. the future of the school. “It’s an exciting time to be part of the Kehillah community,” says Kehillah Head of School Lillian Howard. Kehillah has also expanded its course and foreign language offerings, and continues its partnership with the Oshman Family JCC, that includes giving all students complimentary memberships. Kehillah, located at 3900 Fabian Way, Palo Alto, can be reached at (650) 2139600 or info@kehillah.org.

New “magic” pen helps struggling Hebrew readers Los Altos Hills resident Alan Warshaw and his business partner Alan Greenfield recently launched Magic Yad, a “magic” pen that helps the struggling Hebrew readers and bar or bat mitzvah students. Magic Yad is a software application for the Livescribe Pulse smartpen (www. livescribe.com), a computer in a pen that captures handwritten notes and simultaneously records and links the audio to the notes. Bar or bat mitzvah students can use the Pulse smartpen to learn from a pre-printed Hebrew text of their Torah or Haftarah portion. They can play back pre-recorded, professional chanting by tapping at the beginning of any trope phrase (or verse or page) with their Pulse smartpen. Additional icons allow users to record and hear themselves chanting a phrase or slow down the audio playback to fine tune pronunciation and cantillation. Alan Warshaw uses his Magic Yad. Congregation Etz Chayim in Palo Alto has purchased 5 pens to share among bar/bat mitzvah students. The voice of the Etz Chayim teacher will be loaded in all their pens. “Magic Yad is particularly attractive to teachers of special-needs students (children and adults) because of the ease of repetitive operation, large fonts, etc.,” said Warshaw. Magic Yad (www.magicyad.com) has also introduced several products for the High Holy Days to help participants with their Torah and Haftarah preparation. For more information, visit www.magicyad.com.

Welcome the New Year 5771 with Shir Hadash

Celebrate Simchat Torah with Congregation Sinai

The following High Holy Day activities and services are free and open to the entire community. S’lichot – Saturday, September 4, 2010 7:30-9:30 pm Program, God in the Box, followed by Oneg 10 pm S’lichot service Shabbat Shuvah & Tashlich – Saturday, September 11, 2010 10:30 am Morning service followed by Tashlich at Vasona Lake Park (circle group area) and potluck lunch. Family Services for the High Holy Days Rosh Hashanah, 3:30pm September 9, 2010 at Shir Hadash Yom Kipppur, 3:30pm, September 18, 2010 at Shir Hadash Yizkor, 5:30pm, September 18, 2010 at Sacred Heart Church of Saratoga For more information on High Holy day services and tickets at Shir Hadash, please visit our website. http://www.shirhadash.org/hhd. Or call the temple office at 354-1751 ext. 5

Leil Simchat Torah Thursday, September 30 7:30 pm ¥ Bring your family! Bring your friends! Dance and sing with the Torah on this joyous holiday. ¥ See an entire Torah scroll unrolled. ¥ Enjoy refreshments following the service.

Simchat Torah Celebration Friday, October 1 9:00 am ¥ Fun for all ages. Singing, dancing and lots of merriment. Aliyot for all adults and kids alike. ¥ Dramatic reading of the last and first verses of the Torah. ¥ Deli Kiddush luncheon (vegetarian option available).

ALL Sinai events listed are open to the entire community, regardless of background, experience or affiliation. For more information, call the Sinai office at 408-264-8542 or see our website: www.sinai-sj.org.

Congregation Sinai

San Jose’s Conservative Synagogue 1532 Willowbrae Avenue, San Jose, CA 95125 408-264-8542 www.sinai-sj.org Rabbi Josh Berkenwald

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APJCC rents its auditorium for extra income and outreach

hat do an Indian Independence Day celebration, a Chinese banquet, an Ethiopian wedding, a bar mitzvah and numerous quinceañeras have in common? They’ve all been celebrated in the APJCC Auditorium. Evening event at the APJCC Auditorium The APJCC has been renting out its auditorium at the Levy Family Campus both as a way to outreach to the greater Silicon Valley community and to bring in some extra income. The space seats up to 275 people for banquets or 450 people theater-style.

Wishing our community and Israel Shalom in the Yom Tov

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Virginia Hess Chair

“Income from renting the auditorium and other rooms at the JCC makes an important contribution toward maintaining JCC programs,” says JCC CEO Hal Bordy. “It’s also a great way to let more people know that the JCC is here, and what we are all about.” The auditorium has hosted the Los Gatos Shakespeare Festival’s annual fundraising dinner, Good Samaritan Hospital’s Neonatal Intensive Care Unit Reunion and Congressman Mike Honda’s town hall meeting on health care—to name a few. Renters must use one of six kosher caterers from a JCC-approved list. Other caterers are welcome; however, they will not have kitchen access.

Hal Bordy CEO

Come Home for the Holidays . . . . . . Come Home to Beth David!

Congregation Beth David Traditional Values and Fresh Approaches

Rabbi Daniel J. Pressman Rabbi Philip R. Ohriner

The JCC’s gymnasium and classrooms are also available for rent, and events can be held at the swimming pool or on the athletic field. The JCC also offers popular birthday party packages for children, including pool parties, bounce house parties, water slide parties, and parties with themes such as sports or dancing. The Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center (APJCC) is located at 14855 Oka Road, Los Gatos. For information about renting space or hosting an event at the JCC, contact Hospitality Director Diana Schnabel at (408) 357-7402 or diana@ svjcc.org. For birthday parties, contact Andrew Mendes at (408) 357-7447.

5771 ~ May You Be Inscribed for a Good Year ! L’SHANA TOVA TIKATEVU Wednesday September 8, 2010 Erev Rosh Hashana 6:00pm Early Service**, Youth Service 8:00pm Late Service Thursday September 9, 2010 Rosh Hashana 5771 8:30am Service** 9:30am-11:30am Teen Program (grades 8-12) 10:00am Youth Services (K-7) 11:00am Tot Services (ages 0-5) 4:00pm Tashlikh (Calbazas Park) 8:00pm Evening Services

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Friday September 10, 2010 Rosh Hashana II 8:30am Services 10:00am Family Services 6:30pm-7:30pm Services

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Friday September 17, 2010 Erev Yom Kippur 6:15pm Kol Nidre Services,** Youth Services 6:30pm-7:30pm Services

408.257.3333

We offer fully Egalitarian Services and are affiliated with the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism.

FREE High Holiday tickets for students, military personnel or people under 33. Call 408.257.3333.

Saturday September 18, 2010 Yom Kippur 9:00am Services** 10:00am Youth Services (grades K-7) 11:00am Teen Program (grades 8-12)

11:00amTot Services (ages 0-5) 4:45pm Minha & Nei'la** 5:00pm Youth Activities (grades K-5)

Check out our programming for all ages & interests!

Wednesday September 22, 2010 Erev Sukkot

• Adult Education Classes and Lectures

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Thursday September 23, 2010 Sukkot I 9:30am-12:30pm Services Friday September 24, 2010 Sukkot II 9:30am-12:30pm Services Wed, September 29, 8:30am-10:00am, Sukkot VII (Hoshana Raba) Services followed by breakfast at Congregation Sinai in cooperation with Beth David 6:30pm-7:30pm Erev Shemini Atzeret Services

High Holiday Spiritual Workshop Aug 29—10:30am

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Thursday September 30, 2010 Shmini Atzeret 9:30am-12:30pm Services 7:30pm Erev Simhat Torah Services

• Sisterhood/Zahava

Friday October 1, 2010 Simhat Torah 9:30am-12:30pm Services

• Social Action

**Babysitting (2-5 yr olds) available

• Men's Club • Hazak

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High Holidays at Congregation Sinai Bring Your Family Rosh Hashanah September 8-10

Yom Kippur September 17-18

to Our Family

Free High Holiday Tickets for non-affiliated Bay Area residents who have not previously attended High Holiday services at Congregation Sinai. Tickets also available for other non-members. Call for details.

Sign up today! While all are welcome, we ask that you register for our High Holiday events. For more information, or to sign up, please call us at 408-264-8542. For a Complete Listing of all High Holiday services and programs, see our website: www.sinai-sj.org. We welcome you to join us regardless of background, experience or affiliation. Join our community “family” for a joyful, meaningful High Holiday experience. Torah for Tots, Family Services and supervised play for kids. Families of all ages welcome at all services and activities. Spirited singing, contemplation, meaningful prayer, and personal growth guided by Rabbi Josh Berkenwald and Chazan Motti Hasfari.

Congregation Sinai

San Jose’s Conservative Synagogue 1532 Willowbrae Avenue, San Jose, CA 95125 408-264-8542 www.sinai-sj.org Rabbi Josh Berkenwald

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Mah jongg

Wishing you a happy and healthy New Year

Classes & tournament

The APJCC and Women’s Philanthropy of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley are co-sponsoring Mah Jongg classes and the Tournament this year. Morning classes start on Wednesday, September 1, 2010 (10:30 am– 12:30pm) and will be taught by Sandy Epstein. Evening classes will start Tuesday, August 31, 2010 (7-9 pm) and will be taught by Karen Guggenheim and Doris Katz. Classes will run for six consecutive weeks. Cost is $54. Men and women are encouraged to join the classes. RSVP to Arielle Hendel at arielle@jvalley.org for evening classes and Lisa Ceile at lisacg@svjcc.org for morning classes.

Tournament will be held in December – information to follow.

Please join us for our Open Houses Middle School- Sunday, October 31, 1:00 – 3:30 pm Kindergarten- Thursday, November 18, 7:00 – 8:30 pm RSVP to Aileen Mitchner, Director of Admission 650.494.8200 ext. 104 or admissions@hausner.com www.hausner.com 450 San Antonio Road, Palo Alto, CA 94306 CAIS and WASC Accredited Confidential Scholarships Available Thanks to a generous Emergency Education Grant from the Jim Joseph Foundation, the scholarship award process is being implemented in partnership with the local Jewish Community Federations and the Bureau of Jewish Education. The Jim Joseph grant will enable families to keep their children in Jewish preschools, day schools, and Jewish overnight summer camps throughout the Bay Area.

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local news Local Jews on national boards By Cecily Ruttenberg Although a small geographic portion of the United States, Jews in the Silicon Valley have a large representation on national Jewish boards. While each have their own reason, most people interviewed for this article agreed they participate on the national level to help represent Silicon Valley, to make a difference on a broader scale and to learn new ideas to bring back to this community. “Jewish people are two percent of the U.S. population but we are much higher than that in public office, attesting to Jewish values towards public service and that we hold it in high regard,” said Diane Fisher, director of the Jewish Community Relations Council of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley. Says Federation CEO Jyl Jurman, “These are individuals that give a tremendous amount of time, and spend their own money traveling to national board meetings and conferences.” Below some individuals tell why they chose a national board, over or in addition to a local board and why it is important. RUTH FLETCHER National Board: Jewish Community Association of North America (JCCA). This JCC umbrella organization supports JCCs across the United States with resources and programming Local Boards: APJCC, Blue Ribbon committee of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley

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Why did you choose a national board? The JCCA is full of people I respect, from the front office, to the board, to the people who hit the ground running every day. I'm glad to be part of such a dynamic group...this opportunity gives our local community more visibility and opportunity because I can make sure our local JCC gets all the opportunities of every major JCC in the country--and there are some exciting opportunities coming up. The only thing that can stop us is funding, and that's a big challenge in every community. The more I work with the national group, the more I realize we all face similar issues across the country. I was introduced to this opportunity by APJCC CEO Hal Bordy--and he's been great accessing the many services of the JCCA. I wouldn't be on the board if he didn't nominate me a few years ago. I think it's important to accept these national opportunities when you live in a smaller Jewish community. It's the right time for me and my family. What do you do? This fall, I'll be chairing the Program Services Committee for the JCCA. My role will be the board liaison of the Program Services Committee, providing information and helping support the current job of the JCCA in maintaining their high standard of program quality across the field. Over two million people a year use the programs of the JCCs, so this is a job I'm really excited about...and really humbled they have the faith in me to take it. HAROLD GOLDBERG National: Jewish Council for Public Affairs, executive board member. Local: Congregation Sinai, JCRC of Silicon Valley, Blue Ribbon Committee of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley Why did you choose a national board versus (or in addition Harold Goldberg to) a local or regional board? By working at both the national level and the local level, I think we can make a bigger impact. California is often an afterthought for many national organizations headquartered on the East Coast and we have a lot to offer at the national level, and we have much to learn. So I have seen my own role as building a bridge between the Silicon Valley JCRC and national office and bringing the best ideas back to our community to further enrich relationships for our local JCRC.

What do you do on the board? We help the professional staff set policy and strategy direction for the organization and insure that we are financially sound. I also learn about what is working in other communities and share our experiences with various programs that we have run or issues that we are working on. Why do you feel it is important to serve on a national board? How is it different than serving locally? As someone who has lived in Canada, Israel, New York, Boston and now San Jose, I continue to marvel at how life is all about interconnecting relationships regardless of geography. Our world is global today and therefore the volunteer work I do is important both locally and nationally and should have an impact today and for the generations to come. AL GUGGENHEIM National: Jewish Federations of North America (JFNA), board member and executive board member Local: Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley, treasurer and vice president of finance Why did you choose a national board versus (or in Al Guggenheim addition to) a local or regional board? I was asked because of my long involvement working on non-profit boards to be on the national board. In addition to working on national issues, being on a national board allows insight into how other communities solve problems and operate. In addition to being able to utilize long-time experience and capabilities to assist in solving national problems as well as assist other communities with their local problems, as I indicated above being involved nationally assists your ability in being productive on a local level. What do you do on the board? On the national level, I am on the Executive Board, Budget Committee, Audit Committee, Center for Jewish Philanthropy and Consulting Committee. Locally I am treasurer, chairman of the Finance Committee and member of the Executive Board. BONNIE SLAVITT MOORE National Board: JESNA, Jewish Educational Service of North America Local Boards: Hillel of Silicon Valley, Women’s Philanthropy Board and the Campaign Cabinet of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley Why did you choose a national board? I really think that it is important for people from the West Coast to serve on national boards. Most national Jewish boards are located on the East Coast, particularly in the NY Bonnie Slavitt Moore region. Our Jewish experiences in the West Coast are VERY different from those in other parts of the country. Often what starts here, moves East. I believe that we bring a different experience and point of view than the rest of the country and these experiences and views need to be heard on the national boards. (Many East Coast Jews think that Judaism ends at the Hudson River!!) I sit on national boards because I believe that it is VERY important for national boards to get a cross section of views, from around the country. I also believe that I bring many skills to these boards, skills I learned in Silicon Valley serving as both a professional and lay leader here. Finally, I have been able to bring back to our community ideas and programs that I have learned while serving on these boards. Many of these ideas and programs we have instituted in our community. What do you do on the national board? I serve on the Lippman/ Kanfer Institute Committee, an action-oriented think tank for innovation in Jewish learning and engagement. We realize that this article includes only a handful of local individuals who sit on national boards. We will be running a column in our next JCN with the names of other local individuals sitting on national boards. If you would like your name included in this column, please email your information to agreyber@yahoo.com.

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Jews, Muslims and Christians team up to feed the needy in Morgan Hill

ongregation Emeth in Morgan Hill joined with the South County Islamic Community and the Abrahamic Alliance on Sunday, July 18 to feed nearly 100 needy people at the Lord's Table, a food kitchen run by Gilroy's St. Joseph's Family Center. The Center's clients are homeless people and extremely low-income families.

Congregation Emeth congregants team up to feed the hungry.

In addition to Tikun Olam, the goal was to demonstrate the mutual respect and shared goals of members of the three faiths. “Too often we hear about Jews and Muslims in the context of conflict in the West Bank,” said Grant Gordon, Congregation Emeth president, who worked in the kitchen side-by-side with team members. “As we get to know one another the stereotypes disappear and it's clear that we are much alike in our values and interests.” Six years ago, Gavilan College in Gilroy sponsored an exhibit of Israeli and Palestinian art, inviting Congregation Emeth and the South County Islamic Community to participate.

The joint planning committee extended the event to include a series of dialogue sessions co-led by Jewish and Muslim leaders, and a collaborative relationship began. Since then, members of the Jewish and Muslim communities have come together for potluck dinners, living room dialogues and social action work. For more information about Congregation Emeth, call (408) 778-8200, email admin@emeth.net or visit the website at www.emeth.net

APJCC wins awards at national JCC convention

he Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center of Silicon Valley was honored at the JCCs of North America Biennial Convention in Atlanta, Georgia in early May. APJCC board members Avery Kaufman Borenstein and Rebecca Geshuri received the “Esther Leah Ritz Next Generation of Leadership Award.” Borenstein has played an active role in helping to organize successful JCC fundraising campaigns as well as advising on a variety of key issues for the APJCC. Geshuri has been instrumental in helping start a number of popular APJCC programs, including the highly regarded Grandpals program and the Teva To You community supported agriculture program, as well as working on fundraising campaigns and serving in a leadership role on the APJCC Board of Directors as Corporate Secretary. APJCC programs that received awards at the convention included the Grandpals program, which brings seniors together with APJCC Preschool children to celebrate Shabbat; Teva To You, a community supported agriculture program that offers organic produce delivery each week as well as family-oriented environmental programming; Jews Rock!, an art exhibit and special events featuring photographs of famous Jewish rock and roll artists by photojournalist Janet Macoska; “The Music Man,” the APJCC’s community theater presentation of 2008, for its support of special-needs children; the Check-in Challenge, a member loyalty program that helped increase member visits to the APJCC by 8%; and Dancing With Our Stars, the APJCC’s 2008 gala that featured a reality-show-inspired dance contest. The APJCC’s 2008-09 Annual Report also won a design award.

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The JCC Association also gave out awards to assist with professional development. Andrew Mendes, the APJCC’s Youth and Camps Director, received a JCC Association fellowship for graduate study. The convention marked the completion of APJCC Teen Director Jason Goldstein’s 2-year stint as a Merrin Teen Fellow, which provided him with training opportunities including a two-week seminar in Israel this past January.

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Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival: opening night about Israeli sumo wrestlers

ot all Israelis are computer scientists, entrepreneurs and military geniuses. Believe it or not, some are even sumo wrestlers. The Opening Night Gala of the 19th annual Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival (SVJFF) on October 9, 2010 features “A Matter of Size”--a heart-warming story about weightchallenged Israelis who aspire to become sumo wrestlers. Along the way, they learn a lot about the sport and about themselves. The film will play at the De Anza College Visual and Performing Arts Center in Cupertino, a new venue for the SVJFF. Japanese food, drink and special demonstrations will also be featured. Visit www.svjff.org for more information. The 2010 SVJFF will run October 10-November 13, with films and documentaries shown at five different venues in three different cities. Films will be featured from Israel, Ethiopia, Argentina, Russia, Montreal, Tokyo, Mexico City and London.

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universal value, and it was the one that most struck me this year.” Closing night Saturday, November 13 at Cubberley Community Center in Palo Alto features the amazing documentary “Amnon's Journey,” about an Israeli master violin maker who lovingly restores violins used during the Holocaust. His dream is to use these violins in a musical extravaganza set against the walls of Jerusalem. The film will be followed by a live classical music concert in a special event that marks the closing of the Festival. In response to audience enthusiasm, all Wednesday night Festival movies will continue to be shown at the Camera 7 "A Matter of Size" Theatre in the Pruneyard Shopping Center in Campbell. Sunday movies will be screened at the Camera 12 Theaters, 201 S. Second Street, San Jose. Additional films are being offered in Palo Alto at both the Oshman Family JCC and the Cubberley Community Center Theater. Four special films along with film events will be offered on Saturday evenings in Palo Alto, October 16, October 30, November 6, and November 13. The SVJFF will again present the Teen Screen, a free event open to all teens in the community on November 7. Featured this year is the amazing true story of “Inside Hana’s Suitcase.” This special screening will be at the Camera 12 Theaters in downtown San Jose. “Inside Hana’s Suitcase" will also be shown at the OFJCC on November 6. The screening will feature questions and answers with film maker Larry Weinstein, who returns to the Silicon Valley (he was here when the SVJFF offered his special film, “Beethoven’s Hair.” He is also known for his Oscar-winning film, “Red Violin”), followed by a wine and cheese reception. Weinstein is also scheduled to speak after the Teen Screen the next day. A complete schedule of films and events and ticket purchase information may be found at www.svjff.org.

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your Guide To Silicon valley SynaGoGueS congregation Beth david (conservative) 19700 Prospect Rd., Saratoga, 95070-3352 (408) 257-3333 www.beth-david.org congregation sinai (conservative) 1532 Willowbrae Ave., San Jose, 95125 (408) 264-8542 www.sinai-sj.org ahabat torah (sephardic orthodox) 1537A Meridian Ave., San Jose, 95125-5316 (408) 266-2342 www.ahava.org almaden valley torah center (orthodox) 1422 Helmond Lane, San Jose, 95118 (408) 445-1770 www.rabbi770.com Bar yohai sefardic Minyan (orthodox) 1030 Astoria Dr., c/o SPHDS, Sunnyvale, 94087 (408) 746-0614 www.baryohai.org chabad of cupertino (orthodox) (408) 207-3648 www.chabadofcupertino.com chabad of s. jose (orthodox) 517 Blossom Hill Rd., #A4, Los Gatos, 95032 (408) 358-5530 www.chabadonline.com/chabadsj

chabad of sunnyvale (orthodox) (408) 720-0553 www.chabadsunnyvale.com congregation am echad torah community (orthodox) 1504 Meridian Ave., San Jose, 95125 (408) 267-2591 www.amechad.org congregation emeth (reform) 17835 Monterey Street, Morgan Hill, 95037 (408) 778-8200 www.emeth.net congregation shir hadash (reform) 20 Cherry Blossom Lane, Los Gatos, 95032 (408) 358-1751 www.shirhadash.org temple Beth sholom (reform) P.O. Box 23397, San Jose, 95153 (408) 978-5566 temple emanu-el (reform) 1010 University Ave., San Jose, 95126-1842 (408) 292-0939 www.templesanjose.org

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local news Mother finds peace-of-mind with Jewish special-needs camp

ea Cuniberti-Duran has tried a variety of summer programs for her 9-year-old son Max who has autism. With few exceptions, the camps have been one disaster after the next.

“It was so difficult for him to make connections with other children that he felt isolated. Or maybe the camp was too overwhelming and he didn’t have enough breaks. Or we would have to get a new aide (to accompany him), and I would wait the entire day mostly by the phone for the call that says your child is having a hard day,” said Cuniberti-Duran. Then Cuniberti-Duran found the Friendship Circle, the Palo Alto-based, Jewish specialneeds program with school year and summer camp programming. The Friendship Circle’s two-week summer camp pairs campers with a trained, teen volunteer and has supervising adult counselors and psychologists. The activities and the flow of the day are entirely geared towards the special needs and considerations of children with a variety of disabilities. And, of course, the day is packed with fun and Jewish learning. “At Friendship Circle, I know they can handle [my son],” said Cuniberti-Duran. “They never had to call me and say your kid is out of control. It’s that peace of mind, knowing that my child is safe, knowing that he is having a good time and making a connection.”

The Cuniberti-Duran family is full of smiles after finding the Friendship Circle.

For Cuniberti-Duran there are other benefits, too. The camp allows her twin six-year-olds to attend also. While they are mostly typical kids, they have some speech delays and thus can be included in the program. It is rare that the three siblings get to do activities together. Secondly, the family is not affiliated with a synagogue, and Cuniberti-Duran values the chance for her children to get a Jewish education. “It makes them feel good,” said Cuniberti-Duran. “It’s one of those activities that my children can do all together.” Cuniberti-Duran goes on and on about the teen volunteers: “All the teenagers are so caring and involved. I don’t know where they find them because you hear about teenagers who don’t care or blow you off. These are very sweet teenagers.” The Friendship Circle can be contacted at (650) 858-6990 or info@bayareafc.org.

A teen’s experience helping special needs kids through Friendship Circle By Kayla Neumeyer

very two weeks for Sunday Circle (Friendship Circle’s bimonthly program pairing teens and kids with special needs), I look forward to seeing my nineyear-old buddy Danny, playing with him, helping him interact with the other kids, and watching him grow. During the year, the special holiday programs also let us explore Judaism together. It's not only the kids, but also the teens, that get to learn about their culture every time we go to Friendship Circle. What I really love about summer camp is being able to spend all day with my buddy and the other kids. Instead of only two hours every two weeks, it's a jam-packed six hours a day for two weeks straight. It's so much fun to go on field trips with them, eat lunch together, and do a lot of new things that we don't have a chance to do during the year. Not only is it great to spend so much time with the kids, but I enjoy spending time with the teen volunteers as well. The directors make sure the teens are well prepared for the challenge of working with kids with special needs, and also make time for the teens to get to know each other and connect after camp as well. Kayla Neumeyer Working with Friendship Circle is incredibly rewarding, and I feel so lucky that both I, as a volunteer, and all of the kids have a chance to participate. Having a brother with autism, I know there aren't a lot of places where kids with disabilities can go to have fun and be accepted, and it's especially hard to find camps and activities for them during the summer. I'm so glad Friendship Circle and it's year and summer programs exist to fill this niche. Friendship Circle can be contacted at (650) 858-6990 or info@bayareafc.org.

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My Birthright Experience By Danielle Fisher

pending ten days in one of the most beautiful yet controversial countries in the world--for FREE? What else could I ask for? Out of thousands of applicants, I was lucky enough to be selected to go on the Union for Reform Judaism’s Kesher Birthright trip to Israel from June 1-12.

I had always dreamed about going to Israel. For years, my friends from Camp Newman and I have been planning to go together. The experiences I accumulated in my ten summers at the Jewish summer camp have always played a big role in my love for Judaism and my interest in visiting Israel. However, ever since I left for college two years ago to attend the University of Wisconsin Madison, I have been feeling a loss of Judaism in my life. There is a reasonably large Jewish population on the UW campus, a phenomenal Hillel, and a number of other Jewish organizations and clubs, but it just wasn’t the same. So with my duffle bag filled with hopes for inspiration and identity, Chaco sandals, shorts, tank tops, sunscreen, hats, and nice dresses for Shabbat, my journey across the holy land with thirty-nine peers began. Starting in Jaffa at Independence Hall, we visited many of the typical tourist spots, such as the Western Wall, Masada, the Dead Sea, the Negev, the Golan Heights, and Tel Aviv. However, since this trip was put together by a Reform organization, it was different than any other Israel trip I had heard of. Our tour guide and chaperones were respected leaders of the Reform movement, and they encouraged and mediated discussion in an unbiased manner about the occupied territories, the Tanach, Jewry and its Diaspora, Zionism, our role and identities as American Jews (or Jewish Americans?) and many other topics.

Danielle Fisher takes a break from the camel ride in the desert on her Kesher Birthright Trip.

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Jewish mom plans to open allergy-friendly bakery By Cecily Ruttenberg

ince her retirement as Congregation Sinai’s Hebrew School principal three years ago, Shuly Edwards has spent a disproportionate part of her day in the kitchen. Having three kids with serious food allergies (two are peanut-, tree nut-, dairy- and eggfree), Edwards is always whipping up some creative alternative to store-purchased foods. Rather than begrudge her time in the kitchen, Edwards is embracing it and will soon open her very own bakery! “I love it, it’s a hobby for me,” said Edwards. “Probably about a year ago [the concept of a bakery] started to make sense. I was baking for a lot of friends whose kids also had food allergies, and people started suggesting [the idea of my own bakery.]”

Shuly bakes up a storm with tasting assistance from her daughters.

Edwards’ culinary skills are very diverse. With her first two children, she diligently avoided products with peanuts or tree nuts, and learned to bake appetizing alternatives.

When she discovered her third daughter’s sensitivity to eggs and dairy, Edwards learned the art of vegan baking. Friends soon made requests for gluten-free items, and Edwards quickly gained notoriety in her social circle as the specialty chef. “Shuly was recommended to me by the mother of a child with allergies in my

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The bakery may or may not be kosher. Edwards was raised in an orthodox, kosher home and has the knowledge to operate a kosher bakery, but hasn’t decided yet.

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“It’s not going to be for people who are anaphylactic to gluten, but I know so many people who are eating gluten-free for dietary choice, or they have celiac. It will be fine for them. It’s going to be an allergy-friendly bakery,” said Edwards.

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With the help of her husband, Edwards is looking into bakery locations in Los Gatos, Willow Glen, Campbell and Mountain View. The bakery will be vegan, and egg- and tree nut-free, and also offer gluten-free products. Edwards stresses that the bakery will sell some gluten products.

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daughter's school. Initially I was skeptical about not only the quality (taste) but also how safe the bakery products would be for my highly allergic daughter, “ said Beata Bertman, who became comfortable about the safety of the product after speaking with Shuly and other parents. “[After the birthday party] we were thrilled to hear everyone complimenting not only how great the cake looked but also how delicious it was. No one suspected that it did not contain regular ingredients like eggs, milk and dairy.”

The Fruit of Her Hands Author: Michelle Cameron October 28, 2010, 7:30pm

Michelle Cameron discusses her historical novel The Fruit of Her Hands, which tells the story of Shira, wife of the thirteenth century Jewish scholar Meir ben Baruch of Rothenberg.

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Connect with G-d this New Year in a mikvah

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By Rabbi Avi Lebowitz, Jewish Study Network

By Marcia Klein and Arielle Hendel

s we approach the Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, we begin to contemplate resolutions. This year is going to be different. Aside from commitments to more exercise, fewer calories, and renewable energy, it is a good time to consider entering the New Year with a new mitzvah. What better mitzvah than mikvah? It is often said that immersion in a mikvah is the only commandment that one is entirely immersed within the confines of the mitzvah, body and soul. The term mikvah, commonly used to refer to a pool of water designated for ritual immersion, is more precisely defined as “gathering.” The term is sourced in the verse in Genesis (1:10) “and to the gathering of water, He called seas.” “Mikvah” is no more than a gathering of water – albeit one that must meet rigid standards and requirements to serve its purpose. The minimum size of a mikvah must be large enough to fit an average sized person (Talmud Eruvin 14). A mikvah need not be larger, and must not be smaller. Mikvah is indeed the only tailor made mitzvah, designed to fit only the body of the person immersing, providing a very personal experience. One of the most famous statements of the illustrious sage, Rabbi Akiva, is: “The mikvah of the Jews is Hashem” (Jeremiah 17:13) – Just as a mikvah purifies one who is ritually impure, so too G-d purifies the Jewish people (Yoma 85b). The mikvah is the physical embodiment of the personal and spiritual connection that we have with G-d. In this context the term “mikvah” doesn't refer to a gathering of water, rather it comes from the root “tikvah” - hope. In G-d we trust and place our hope. Mikvah serves as purification in the very physical world, but is symbolic of the loftier spiritual purification that is only achieved through the hope and trust we place in G-d. Immersion in a mikvah gives us an opportunity to contemplate our deep connection to our creator, enabling us regularly to energize this relationship. Consider visiting the community mikvah at the Gloria and Ken Levy Family Campus this New Year. Reservations can be made by calling (408) 357-7512. Rabbi Avi Lebowitz is an expert on Mikvah. Rabbi Lebowitz supervises the kashrut (fitness) of the Mikvah facility on the Levy Family Campus. His up-to-date teudah (document) is on file in the Federation Office.

Trip invigorates local efforts to strengthen ties between blacks and Jews By Stacey Palevsky (This article originially appeared in the J-Weekly.)

orty years after the civil rights movement, a Jewish woman and a black man sat next to each other on an Alabama bus, working together to reduce poverty and strengthen ties between Jewish and black leaders. “We weren’t just tourists—at each stop we had speakers from a very diverse spectrum of folks from Alabama teaching us about the civil rights movement and what’s going on in Alabama today,” said Diane Fisher of San Jose. “The point was to observe history and look at what it means for us now.”

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Fisher, director of Silicon Valley’s Jewish Community Relations Council, was one of 12 people to travel to Birmingham for the 2010 African-American/Jewish Community Leaders Mission, organized by the Jewish Council for Public Affairs. Fisher traveled to Alabama with Tony Alexander, political director for San Jose’s United Food and Commercial Workers Union Local 5 labor union. They were one of six Jewish-black pairs to participate in the June 20 to 24 conference, which addressed poverty and racial inequality in Alabama and in their own local communities. “Black-Jewish relations are generally positive in the Silicon Valley, but we haven’t had enough joint engagement,” Fisher said. “This will give us a much stronger impetus to truly act together in a partnership.” continued on page 22

ndustry, good intentions, recycling and volunteerism all came together this summer as Women’s Philanthropy took on a room renovation project for the Chai House of San Jose. A little-used 3rd floor Game Room caught the attention of Michelle Myron, Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley (JFS) liaison to the Women's Philanthropy (WP) Board. She enlisted the board, and WP VP and interior designer Claudia Muller stepped up to lead this project. Claudia just knew its dark Chai House residents enjoy their new walls and game room. d u s t y, neglected interior were crying out for a redesign and resuscitation that WP Board members could deliver. Beginning with a new layout of the room and innovative space planning, her vision was to create “activity zones” throughout the room for optimal use of the space. Claudia’s plan also introduced social niches with the strategic positioning of furniture. (Not to mention moving out old file cabinets, broken games and non-working lamps.) First up was to change the gray wall paint to a warmer and more welcoming yellow color. Garnering donations of everything from paint and rollers to hammers, nails and artwork—much of the latter from Chai House residents themselves—as well as $250 donated by the community and WP funds, WP board members were ready to begin. Working closely with Chai House Activities Director Cherie Ravel, and Chai House resident Ruth Sataloff, work commenced in May and is almost completed. Chai House residents couldn’t be more pleased. Cherie Ravel, JFS' Chai House senior activities coordinator commented, "This room was transformed through the good collaboration of all involved." She also notes that residents are making much more use of the room now and more gatherings are planned for the space now. As WP President Ginny Baird notes: “This has been a very gratifying tzedakah project for all involved.” The Federation would like to acknowledge the work and contributions of: Claudia Muller, Marcia Klein, Wendy Askenas, Melanie Fishbin, Cyd Braker, Ginny Baird, Stephanie Naillon, Sima Hilde, the entire WP Board, as well as Cherie Ravel and Chai House Manager Marc Tomlinson. Dedication of the space, and the installation of a plaque commemorating the renovation, will be scheduled for later this Fall. There is hope that another collaboration may take place with the 2nd floor Art Room.

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northern New Jersey and Philadelphia. Leaders from Birmingham’s black and Jewish communities also participated.

Delegates at the four-day conference discussed disparities faced by blacks and Jews and visited significant sites of the civil rights movement, such as Martin Luther King Jr.’s Sixteenth Street Baptist Church and the Edmund Pettus Bridge in Selma, made famous on March 7, 1965 when armed officers attacked civil rights demonstrators attempting to march to Montgomery, the state capital.

“People use the trip as a springboard for ... having more active relationships in their own communities,” said Josh Protas, vice president of JCPA in Washington.

“I had never been on that civil rights journey,” Alexander said. “It was interesting to find out the history and to talk to some of folks there about the region’s past, present and future.” Alexander and Fisher had not worked together before the trip, but knew of each other because both do anti-poverty and labor work in the Silicon Valley. Since the trip, they have already begun planning to ensure that Silicon Valley’s new interfaith council has more participation from black churches. Alexander, a third-generation member of Antioch Baptist Church, has deep ties in the black Christian community.

The African-American/Jewish Community Leaders Mission grew out of a desire to engage in post-Katrina efforts while simultaneously building bridges between the Jewish and black communities, Protas said. The first conference happened in 2008 in New Orleans. The 2011 conference will be in Detroit. “We want to keep the group connected so that their shared experience can inform their ongoing work in their communities,” Protas said.

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Last week, they both showed up at San Jose’s City Hall to speak out against the city’s proposal to lay off 75 janitors. Both spoke about “not wanting the city to balance its budget on the back of the most vulnerable and lowest paid of the city,” Fisher said. Fisher and Alexander also recently met with leaders from the Chung Tai Zen Center in Sunnyvale, who’d heard about the Birmingham trip and were interested in creating a dialogue about black-Asian relations. “That’s been an interesting and unexpected result,” Fisher said.

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Ernie’s Corner: Wines for Fun, Fresh Holiday Foods By Ernie Weir, Hagafen Cellars

et’s face it: Rosh Hashanah is all about the food. Wine certainly helps, but the food is the standout, which makes pairing wines a bit trickier in that our goal is to emphasize or work in harmony with the food rather than showing off the wine as the superstar. Given the widespread influence of Mediterranean and Sephardic cooking styles in today’s lighter style of “California cuisine” and vegetarianism in general, it seems appropriate to suggest ways in which wine can be utilized to complement these healthier, fresher, more local ways of eating of the last few years. It’s worth taking a moment to consider the two fundamentals of food-and-wine pairing: creating like-with-like or creating contrast. By this, we mean that the flavors, aromas, and textures of the foods can be supported and enhanced by wines, emphasizing an aspect of the food either by reinforcing it (think of a meat dish paired with a soft red wine) or by making it more prominent (think fish and white wines where the latter’s acidity augments the creaminess of the former). With this in mind, we move on to some of today’s newer Rosh Hashanah foods. Fish is very popular for both cultural and health reasons, so consider unoaked or lighly oaked wines like Sauvignon Blanc, some Chardonnays, and Roussanne/ Marsanne to work in concert with the fish and bring out its sweetness. Expect to see lots of vegetable dishes, made in ways to display their freshness—nothing beats a dry Rosé to do just that. The delicate flavors and aromas will, for sure, only seek to subtly add to the dish, not act as distraction. Equally, there is also the desire for meat at the Rosh Hashanah table, though

shana tovah! many seek healthier cuts or preparations where the meat is an element rather than the center of attention. The same logic applies here as with above: higher acidity is needed to pair with dishes containing lots of carbohydrates and vegetables. Consider, of all things, going with a sparkling wine. Not only will the slight sweetness match with the theme of the holiday, but the structure of sparkling wines really serves as an excellent baseboard for meat and vegetable dishes, the bubbles helping to work against fats and oils on the palate and making the dishes more savory. Of course, some holiday dishes are classics regardless of newer styles. Boyos, cheese-filled puff pastries, and borekas, savory mashed potato-stuffed tarts, will probably be on the Sephardic table, and while we could try to create complimentarily with our choices, unoaked, higher acid whites will work best to highlight the flavors of the meal. The same goes for Ashkenazi down-home goodies like brisket. If the goal is to showcase the meat, save the superstar blockbuster wine for another time and go for a softer wine like Pinot or Merlot which will harmonize with the meat or select a higher acidity red like Rhone blends or Sangiovese-based releases. In the end, the goal should be to have fun—it’s the New Year, after all!—and the rest of the year will bring its own bag of tricks in due time. Your goal should be to celebrate and enjoy—L’chaim!

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shana tovah! JFS High Holy Day food packages

Local synagogues offer free High Holy Day services

This year, 240 Jewish households will receive High Holy Days food packages from Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley. “We see more and more people who need help,” says Michele Myron, JFS Volunteer Coordinator. “We’re also seeing many more “walk-in” clients--people who are in need of food right now. The food pantry part of our food program has increased tremendously.”

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Food packages go to low-income families and adults, seniors (including Holocaust survivors, émigrés and others) in need of food assistance; and to seniors and homeless Jewish adults who can’t cook and may have trouble going out to supermarkets. The packages contain traditional Jewish food (round challah, honey, matzah ball soup, gefilte fish, tea, dried apples, grape juice) and pantry items such as cereal, potatoes, jam, crackers, pasta, tuna, salmon and more. This year, volunteers of all ages--3 years to over 80 years, including residents of Hatikvah House, are preparing and delivering High Holy Day food packages. If you know of someone who might appreciate a High Holy Day package or need food assistance, please contact Lizi Oceransky at (408) 357-7425 (for families), Avital Agam (for seniors) at (408) 357-7450 or Galina Chyorny at (408) 3577458 (for refugees and Holocaust survivors). If you’d like to volunteer for an upcoming food packaging or delivery program, please contact Michele Myron at (408) 357-7453.

Congregation Emeth, South Valley’s only synagogue, invites the unaffiliated community to join in worship during High Holy Day services. Complimentary tickets for all services are offered to anyone who is attending the High Holy Day worship services at Congregation Emeth for the first time. All non-members are invited to attend Selichot Services as well as a Family Rosh Hashanah and Shabbat Service. For further information contact admin@emeth.net or call (408) 778-8200. The temple is located at 17835 Monterey Street, in downtown Morgan Hill. Chabad of S. Jose (Orthodox) open to the community for High Holy Days Chabad of S. Jose invites the community to its High Holy Day services. The services, which use Hebrew and English prayer books, have no membership fees or tickets. A traditional Rosh Hashanah dinner will be held and can be attended by reservation only. There will also be special children's programs. High Holy Day services are to be held at the Los Gatos Lodge, 50 Los Gatos/ Saratoga Road in Los Gatos. To RSVP or for more information please contact Chabad of S. Jose call (408) 358-5305 or email info@chabadsj.com. Congregation Sinai (Conservative) offers free HHD tickets to first-timers Congregation Sinai is offering free High Holy Day tickets to South Bay residents who have never attended Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur services at Sinai before. The tickets are good to all the High Holy Day services. Contact Synagogue Administrator Joelle Pluemer at (408) 264-8542 or office@sinai-sj. org to receive tickets. Temple Emanu-El (Reform) offers free HHD experience On Rosh Hashanah Day, Thursday, September 9, at 1 p.m., Rabbi Dana Magat and Cantor Meeka Simerly of Temple Emanu-El will lead an exploration of the High Holy Days, including some liturgy and some music, with time for questions and discussion. This one-hour event will take place at the Heritage Theatre in Campbell (corner of Winchester and Hamilton) and is open to the community (Jews and non-Jews) without charge. RSVPs requested to the Temple office at (408) 292-0939 by September 7. Congregation Beth David (Conservative) invites 33 and under for free Congregation Beth David is offering free High Holy Day tickets to young adults ages 33 and under, and discounted tickets for those 33 and above. Please contact Beth David at (408) 257-3333 for further information. Ahabat Torah (Sephardic Orthodox) members of the community and visitors are always welcome Ahabat Torah welcomes the return of Hazan David Eugey to conduct High Holy Day services. Please call (408) 266-2342 for more information.

Peace, Prosperity and Good Health on the

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shana tovah! PJ Library books open doors to the holidays By Eleanor Weber Dickman

t’s the Jewish New Year, but it’s September, not January. We don’t wear funny hats and go to loud parties. We sit in the synagogue and are very serious. What kind of a holiday is this, anyway?

For many young, Jewish, children, Rosh Hashanah is a day when Mommy and Daddy go to the synagogue’s big sanctuary, and they go to a play group with felt apples and styrofoam honey jars and wait until someone comes to take them to hear a loud trumpet call that comes from a ram’s horn. It’s fun, but what does it all mean? For the children who are enrolled in The PJ Library® program in Silicon Valley, the High Holy Days have a warm and attractive meaning, from stories and illustrations they have received as free gifts just for them. If the child is 6 months to 2 years, his parents are reading are him “Apples and Honey,” by Joan Holub, with pictures of children making New Year’s cards to send to family and friends, a rabbi blowing the Shofar, and children dipping apples in honey for a sweet new year. Older children receive books like “Today is Children enjoy PJ Library stories in an outdoor setting. the Birthday of the World,” by Linda Heller, where G-d asks all his creatures about how they contribute to the world’s well-being. In “The World’s Birthday,” by Barbara Diamond Goldin, a young child encourages his family to join him under the sky to light candles on a large cake and sing “Happy Birthday” to the world to celebrate all its delights. “New Year at the Pier,” by April Halprin Wayland, takes place in Manhattan Beach, CA, and highlights the Jewish New Year ceremony of “Tashlich,” a tradition of tossing pieces of bread into flowing water to represent throwing away misdeeds. PJ Library families received these books in August, giving them several weeks to read and reread these stories before Rosh Hashanah began. Some families have chosen to bring these books with them to shul, making the holiday accessible, meaningful, and beautiful for young minds. These families have learned that age-appropriate story books can be the perfect way to introduce their children to one of Judaism’s most precious holidays. In synagogue or at home, the High Holy Days can be ten days of sharing wonderful moments filled with new ideas, delightfully presented, to open doors to a deeper understanding of our faith. For more information about The PJ Library® program in Silicon Valley, please contact Rabbi Leslie Alexander at (408) 357-7509 or rabbialexander@jvalley.org.

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silicon valley simchas By Andrea Cohen Greyber BIRTHS

Honor at her sister Carrie's wedding May 8, in Saratoga, N.Y.

Sylvia and Leonard Metz of Saratoga Cameron Daniel Green was born to w e r e Adam & Tricia Green babysitting of San Francisco on 2-year-old May 24; he weighed brother 8 pounds and 15 D a v i d ; ounces and was 21 Jason called inches long. The his parents grandparents are and said Sara Danielle Metz Congregation Beth the baby will David members arrive in 3 to 4 hours. 1 1/2 hours later Cameron Steve & Helaine she arrived at 6 lbs 5 oz., 19 in. Her Daniel Green Green of San Jose parents, Joan and Peter Danziger of and Jim & Lorry Bush Slingerlands, N.Y, Sylvia and Leonard of Brentwood. The great-grandparents Metz, aunt Dr. Holly Metz of San are Dorothy & Harold Green of San Francisco, and bride-to-be Dr. Carrie Jose. Great-uncles include Daniel Danziger of N.Y.C. all hurried to the Mueller and Max Green. The aunts are hospital. Lisa and Jason did not attend Meredith, (who is just about to start the wedding but everone else did and medical school in Louisville, KY) Alece had a great time celebrating two and Eliana Green and his uncle is Jason simchas. The baby naming was a week Bush. later, May 15 and was attended by her great-grandmother Ellie Danziger, as Sara Danielle Metz was born May 7, well as many family members. in Albany, N.Y. Mommy and Daddy, Lisa and Jason Metz, went into the Congregation Sinai members Doreet Vardys_JCC_ad2 1/27/06 doctor's office to make sure 3:11 that PM Lisa Page& 1Greg Schneider were pleased to would be well enough to be Matron of welcome their new son Arel Yehuda,

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born July 1. His brit was held at the family home in Santa Clara on July 8. His older b r o t h e r Natan, 3, is very happy and involved with the new addition. His Arel Yehuda grandparents Schneider are Eliezer Jehassi of Long Island, NY, Meira Jehassi of Las Vegas, NV, Tedra Schneider of CT and Jonathan Schneider of CT. Other special relatives are aunt and uncle Oreet & Steven Schwartz of San Francisco, aunts Liat Wasserman of Santa Barbara and Hilary Schneider of Baltimore, MD and uncle Andrew Schneider of Boston, MA. CALLED TO THE TORAH Allyson Weinstock was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on May 1 at Temple Emanu-El. She is the daughter of Marissa & Michael Weinstock. Ally will enter eighth grade at Hillbrook Allyson School in Los Gatos Weinstock this autumn. On hand for her Bat Mitzvah were her grandmothers, Bernice Weinstock of Cherry Hill, NJ

and Elsie Villanueva of Concord. Ally is an active swimmer for WAVE and will participate in the Maccabi Youth Games this summer in Baltimore. In addition to her athletic activities, she volunteers at Inn Vision where she helped to tutor younger children, helped young mothers, prepared food and read to the elderly and helped with the clothing closet. She will be taking a class in Spanish immersion at Bard College in Massachusetts to prepare her for a trip to Spain next summer. This program, and the class which she took last summer in inductive reasoning at Stanford University, is under the auspices of the Johns Hopkins University-CTY. Marina Fields, daughter of Renee & Edward Fields, was called to the Torah at Congregation Sinai on May 8. She is entering the eighth grade at Fisher Middle School in Los Gatos. Marina is Marina Fields an avid reader, and a “Twilight” fan. She enjoys fencing, swimming, plays guitar and piano and participates in her school musicals. Her younger sister Fiona, 11, is a student at Fisher Middle School, her older sister Zoe, 20, is a student at Santa Barbara City College and her older brother Zander, 23, is a student at Norwich University in Vermont. Her grandmother, Ruth Fields of Cambridge, MA came in for the special occasion with her partner, Dr. Gerald McCue. Her grandmother, Sheila Granger flew in from South Yarmouth, MA and her grandfather, Benjamin & his wife Pati Antonellis came from Mashpee, MA. Marina’s

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silicon valley simchas uncles, John Fields of Vero Beach, FL, Michael Fields of Needham, MA, Daniel Fields of Paris, France and Joshua Fields of Los Angeles, were all in to celebrate with her. Hannah Michelberg, daughter of Rachel Michelberg of San Jose and David Michelberg of Rishon Le Zion, Israel, was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on June 12. Hannah will be in the eighth grade at Willow Glen Middle School. Her brother, Joshua, Hannah Michelberg 11 ½, will be in the sixth grade at Skylar Hadden School this fall. Her grandfather, George Hettler of San Jose and his wife Barbara were happy to celebrate. Her grandmother, Judith Hettler, was remembered on this very special occasion for the very large part she played in Hannah’s life. Her aunt Dora Barnan came in from Israel. Other special guests were her uncle Paul Hettler of Mill Valley and her aunt Lisa Hettler Smith of San Jose. Hannah is an avid reader and loves musical theater. She enjoys all aspects of the theater, singing, dancing and acting. She also has a passion for fashion design and enjoyed making skirts for her friends and drawing fashion illustrations. Her Labradoodle, Nala, enjoys being spoiled by her owner. Hannah’s mitzvah project was to go to schools to raise awareness about the baby orphans in China who suffer from abandonment. She will be making a donation to “Half the Sky”, an organization which works to improve orphanages.

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Marshall Pangilinan was called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on June 17 at Temple Emanu-El. He is the son of Ruth & Eric Pa n g i l i n a n of Cupertino and the y o u n g e r brother of Frankie who Marshall Pangilinan is a junior at Horizons High School. Marshall is a student at McAuliffe School in Saratoga. His maternal grandparents traveled from Illinois for the occasion along with cousins, aunt and uncles who came in from MI, IA, and the Netherlands. Marshall’s paternal grandparents were remembered during the Kaddish. He is the lead singer in his band, The Coffee Dogs, and enjoys writing lyrics to sing with that band. He was pleased to perform “Bilbo Baggins” in “The Hobbit” at his middle school play this spring. His Mitzvah project really began at the age of 7 when he committed to grow his hair in order to donate to “Locks of Love” upon his 13th birthday. He understands that not everyone is capable of growing enough hair to create a wig for cancer patients but trimmings of all lengths can be donated to “A Matter of Trust” to help clean up oil spills that affect the waters all over the world. He has inspired relatives and friends to cut and donate their hair to “Locks of Love.”

ENGAGEMENTS Susan & Stephen Brenner of San Jose happily announce the engagement of their daughter Carla Michele to Daniel Heath Pollack, son of Sheryl & Michael A. Pollack of Daniel Pollack and Chandler, AZ. Carla Brenner His mother was the late Judy Jurman Omens of Saratoga. Daniel is the grandson of Arlene & Rubin Jurman of Los Gatos and Robert & Wanda Pollack of Saratoga. Carla’s grandparents are the late Mr. & Mrs. Joe Brenner of Kansas City, MO, and Nella & Eric Hoffman of San Jose. The couple met three years ago at a family gathering. Carla is a graduate of The University of Denver with a BS in molecular biology; she is currently working at Medicis Pharmaceuticals in Scottsdale, AZ. Daniel is a graduate of Arizona State University and holds a Bachelors degree in real estate and management. He is Vice President of Michael Pollack Investments. Daniel and Carla will be attending the Business School at Arizona State University in the fall. A spring 2011 wedding is being planned. Kobi Laredo, son of Miriam & Shalom Laredo and b r o t h e r to sisters, Osnat, Limor and Batel, of Dimona, I s r a e l Kobi Laredo and finished his Michelle Salinsky service in the Israeli Army and came to the United States to attend San Jose State University. One of the first places he went to was the Hillel of Silicon Valley. While at a Shabbat dinner there, he met Michelle Salinsky of Sherman Oaks. Her parents are Stephanie & Rob Salinsky and her brother is Matthew. Michelle graduated from SJSU with a

degree in political science and her fiancé, Kobi, earned his degree in management information systems. In July Michelle went to Israel with her parents and participated with Kobi and his parents in a traditional Moroccan Henna Ceremony. His parents are originally from Morocco. During the ceremony, they changed costumes four different times and the bride’s parents gifted the groom-to-be with jewelry; then his parents gave her gifts as well. They will be married in October at the Skirball Center in Los Angeles and will live in Northern California. He will be working at Google and she is searching for a job! WEDDINGS Taryn Hoffman, daughter of Pam & Jeff Hoffman, and David Gluckman, son of G w e n & Phil Gluckman, Taryn Hoffman and met at David Gluckman Saratoga High School when they were students there and were married seven years later on June 26 at the Boulder Ridge Golf Club by Rabbi Dana Magat of Temple Emanu-El. Janelle Hoffman was her sister’s maid-of-honor and her brother, Marcus Hoffman was a groomsman. Rob Zahradka was the best man. Special relatives at the celebration included Ina & Fred Hoffman of San Mateo, maternal grandmother Margaret Gagle of Fresno, and step-grandmother Cynder Sinclair. Unfortunately, grandfather Jerry Gagle was unable to travel. Grandparents Irwin & Carol Koved came in from FL and Louise Gluckman came from PA. After a honeymoon in London and Amsterdam and a cruise which visited Turkey, Greece and Italy, the couple is residing in Los Angeles. Taryn majored in elementary education at the University of Arizona and David has a degree in Business and Economics from the University of

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silicon valley simchas California at Los Angeles. Lawrence William Sogolow of Felton and Deborah Marie Libben of Irvine were married at Dana Point on August 8 in a ceremony presided over by Rabbi Richard Steinberg of Congregation Shir Ha-Ma'alot in Irvine. Larry is the son of Sidney & Rosalie Sogolow of Saratoga and Debbie is the daughter of Edward & Dorothy Vilim of Byron, IL. Sarah Libben was her mother’s maid-ofhonor and her son Benjamin Libben served as Larry’s best man. Wendy & Barry Fast, Larry’s sister, who introduced the couple, were thrilled to be on hand for the happy day. SPECIAL ACHIEVEMENTS Frank Schiff has been recruited to play baseball for Johns Hopkins University where he will matriculate this Fall. He was the first baseball player at Abraham Lincoln High School in over 17 years to be recruited for baseball to a four-year university. Frank had a GPA of 3.8 out of 4.0, was a member of Interact, the award-winning Sports Editor of his school paper for two years, president of his USY chapter, a member of the National Honor Society and lifetime member of CSF. In 2010, he was awarded the Golden S t a t e Seal Merit Award, the Frank Schiff with his President’s parents Award for Educational Excellence and the U.S. Marine Distinguished Athlete Award. In Baseball, Frank made the BVAL second team all-league in 2009 and was named the 2009 LHS Offensive Player of the year. In 2010, he was named to the BVAL first team allleague and the LHS MVP. He batted

above .490 both of those years with several doubles, triples and home runs. In addition the San Jose Mercury News named him to its Honorable Mention 2010 Baseball Team. Frank’s proud parents are Amy & Daniel Schiff. His sister Rachel graduated from Yale University in 2010. His proud grandparents are Ruth & Al Sporer of San Jose and Ed Schiff of Boca Raton, FL. His greataunt is Maureen Ellenberg and his aunt and uncle are Dr. & Mrs. Stuart (Julie) Krigel and Congressman & Mrs. Adam (Eve) Schiff of Potomac, MD. Before attending Abraham Lincoln High School, Frank graduated from Yavneh Day School and Gideon Hausner Jewish Middle School. The Sporer/Schiff/Krigel/ Ellenberg families are long-time member of Congregation Sinai. His cousin Steve Ellenberg is the current president of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley. Please send announcements and photos to Andrea Greyber, agreyber@yahoo.com, or phone her at (408) 377-6224.

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On May 28 the fabulous Adult B’nai Mitzvah Class led the evening services at Temple Emanu-El and on May 29 they read from the Torah and chanted the Haftarah and welcomed the congregation to a bountiful Kiddish luncheon to celebrate the culmination of two years of intense study with Rabbi Dana Magat and Cantor Meeka Simerly. This year’s classmates were Evann Aronoff, Michelle Gabriel, Sharon Genkin, Penni Henry, Carol Hoffman, Paula Marsh, John Nemec, Maggie Newman, Harold Welch and Laura Winter.

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Be Prepared! Elul is the time to do it By Rabbi Lisa Levenberg, Congregation Shir Hadash

ccording to ready.gov, September is National Preparedness Month. During this time, Americans are encouraged to “take simple steps to prepare for emergencies in their homes, businesses, and communities.”

Judaism also has a Preparedness Month, in which we get ourselves ready for the High Holy Days. The Jewish month of Elul, which leads up to Rosh Hashanah, has traditionally been described as a time of spiritual preparation. The difference, though, is that with Emergency Preparedness, we gather resources and hope we don’t have the opportunity to use them. During Spiritual Preparedness Month, we gather resources with the hope that we do. Among Sephardic Jews, the period of spiritual preparation for the High Holy Days includes reciting Selichot, penitential prayers, beginning forty days before Rosh Hashanah. Forty days, of course, is a highly symbolic number in the Jewish Bible, usually corresponding to a period of cleansing, waiting, or testing. Forty days recalls the period of the flood; the time that Moses spent on Mt. Sinai (twice); the length of time that the scouts surveyed the land of Canaan; and the length of time the city of Nineveh was given to repent, according to Jonah’s prophecy. Ashkenazic Jews also recite Selichot during Elul, traditionally beginning each morning even before dawn. This tradition is the backdrop for Y. L. Peretz’s powerful story “If Not Higher,” which underscores the relationship between prayer and deeds of loving kindness. The highlight of Elul in contemporary synagogues is the moving Selichot service, which is usually held late at night on the Saturday night before Rosh Hashanah. In addition to the formal liturgy, spiritual preparedness takes more personal forms. Many people find that journaling or other forms of guided introspection help us in the process of heshbon ha-nefesh, spiritual accounting. For example, a journaling book called Preparing Your Heart for the High Holy Days provides a framework for doing our own personal moral inventory.

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Yavneh students prepare for the High Holy Days Dr. Ron Wolfson’s newest book, The Seven Questions You’re Asked in Heaven, uses the motif of seven “big questions,” inviting us to explore what matters most in our life and examine the way we are living that life. A Talmudic passage, a quote from the founder of modern Orthodoxy, Rabbi Samson Rafael Hirsch, and the tale of Hasidic Rabbi Zusya form the springboard for Wolfson’s seven questions, which touch on themes like “What is my legacy?” and “Did I live with hope in my heart?" Another form of preparedness might involve learning more about the High Holy Day services themselves. For people with an interest in history, literature, or other disciplines, discovering more about the background of these most sacred days brings the liturgy alive. Reuven Hammer’s Entering the High Holy Days provides an excellent historical approach, while Celebrating the Jewish Year: The Fall Holidays is an anthology bringing together explanatory material, original sources, and contemporary poetry and reflections. Whether through prayer, mitzvot, reflection, or study, we have the opportunity to shape and create our own Spiritual Preparedness Month. Rabbi Alan Lew, who serves a Conservative congregation in San Francisco, wrote a book with the rather alarming title This is Real and You Are Completely Unprepared. Not only does the rhythm of Jewish time prepare us for the spiritual climax of Yom Kippur, he teaches, but the holidays themselves are a type of spiritual preparation, or even re-enactment, of “the soul’s journey through the world from birth to death.” Because the High Holy Days are “early” this year, this season of preparation may try to slip past us. Let’s seize this opportunity to begin our process of reflection and renewal, deepening the power of the High Holy Days to touch our lives.

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sages and teachers Sages and Teachers By Rabbi Joshua Fenton

his year the APJCC Center for Jewish Life and Learning is hosting a year-long speakers’ series called Sages and Teachers. Throughout the year, scholars, rabbis, and leaders in the Jewish community will be visiting the Silicon Valley to talk about the sages and teachers in their lives and the wisdom that they have shared. This new JCN column, Sages and Teachers, asks the same question of our community: who are your sages and teachers? In every issue a different member of our community will be reflecting on their own sages and teachers. May these reflections inspire us and lead us to a greater appreciation of those people in our lives who give so much so that we might see the light and know the way. I have a file I keep close at hand called “Feinstein.” It’s full of the notes from every class I ever took with my teacher Rabbi Ed Feinstein. Everything he said, every source sheet he passed out, every note he gave or expression he coined is preserved in this file and I refer to it all the time. Rabbi Feinstein is perhaps my greatest teacher.

As I write this, with my Feinstein file open on the desk, I am flooded with memories. When Rabbi Feinstein had something to say he wouldn’t just say it, he would pronounce it. He would take that extra second, you could see him going over the thought in his mind and then in an instant he would proclaim; and we hung on every word. “The source of a meaningful life is rooted in a life of Torah,” he would say. “You are a person in need of meaning. I possess Torah. I will share it with you.” This was how he taught us. Simply. Cleanly. He would explain that we, as rabbis, had the great pleasure and opportunity, to befriend people and journey with them through life in search of meaning and purpose. This was the greatest joy, he would say. “If anyone knew what it was really like to do our work they Rabbi Joshua Fenton wouldn’t pay us”. He taught us that to hold someone’s hand and sit with them and share in the greatest and most horrible moments in life is to be truly blessed. Rabbi Feinstein’s life is a life of purpose and mission and the eyes through which he sees the world seemed to always show him wonder. We wanted to be like him. Rabbi Feinstein would always challenge us. “Do you know what you really think?” he would ask. “Are you speaking from a real place, looking at people’s real lives, does what you say have lasting meaning?” And then he would smile and show us how it did. As much as he challenged us to be more, he also challenged us to realize how much we already were. Often he would ask us “Is it worth it?” Whatever the larger question was, he always wanted to know what the point really was. Why are we doing this, teaching this, preaching this, believing this; and if we didn’t have a good answer it was time to rethink. “Be honest with yourself,” he would say. “Before you can teach anyone anything, you yourself must be convinced.” He rarely made promises and seemed unconcerned with how people saw him or what they thought. He would say, “There are no extra points for originality so give even more credit than that which is due.” Rav Feinstein is my Rabbi, teacher and friend. He has taught me and shown me a way to walk through life with honesty and integrity, and when I think about the sages and teachers in my life, Rabbi Ed Feinstein will always be among the greatest.

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upcoming events By Pat Bergman FRIDAY, AUGUST 20 “Back To Shul” 5:30 PM, Sinai Open House and Wine & Cheese Reception at 5:30; Musical Kabbalat Shabbat at 6; Shabbat Dinner at 7. Please join Sinai at its annual “backto-shul” event. Bring family, friends, neighbors, grandparents and cousins and introduce them to Sinai! Shabbat will be welcomed in a relaxed, informal, summertime atmosphere. Featuring instrumental music, a capella singing, stories and more. $24/ adult (age 13 and up); $10/child age 5-12; free for children under age 5. $65 maximum per family. RSVP: (408) 264-8542 or office@sinai-sj.org SATURDAY, AUGUST 21 Torah for Tots 10AM-Noon, Sinai Torah for Tots is fun, interactive, educational and inspirational. This delightful children’s service is parentled and designed specifically to accommodate young children age 0-5. Plenty of singing, movement and stories. Event takes place twice a month. torahfortots@sinai-sj.org or (408) 264-8542 SUNDAY, AUGUST 22 Sr. Kadima Raging Waters Event!! 2-4 PM, Raging Waters Open to all Jewish 7th-8th graders. Join Beth David Senior Kadima for a Raging Waters event!! $30/Kadima member; $33/non-Kadima member. You do NOT have to be a member of Beth David to attend. Kadima Youth Advisor Rachel Schultz, racheleschultz@gmail.com FRIDAY, AUGUST 27 Religious School Meet and Greet 5 PM, Beth David Come find out what Beth David has for kids. Meet Religious School teachers, check out the Jewish environment of the school wing, find out about Youth Groups, services for kids, and more. Stay for BBQ and Barkhu afterwards! RSVP for BBQ: http://beth-david.org/ education/religious-school/religiousschool-wiki/ or (408) 257-3333 BBQ and Barkhu 6 PM, Beth David Join Beth David for an outdoor Kosher barbeque followed by Shabbat services. A fun-filled event for the entire family! $18/adult or teen; $10/ child 6-12; Children 5 and under free. Family Maximum: $60. Wendy Glasser, wjc1953@comcast.net or (408) 2573333

Welcome Back Synaplex & No Shush members; $135 for non-members. Shabbat Beth Roellig, school@templesanjose. 5:15 PM, Shir Hadash org Synaplex events have lots going on and attendees can choose which parts New Member Open House of the program to participate in. The 10:30AM, Shir Hadash synaplex concept is an analogy to movie Come and learn more about Shir theatres with many screens. The idea Hadash, the Religious School, and is to offer several flavors of services programs. Nadine Toby, Nadine@ while providing a single place to meet shirhadash.org or (408) 358-1751 x 5 and mingle. 5:15 Arts and Crafts for younger set; 6 Wine and Cheese Tasting High Holy Day Spiritual Workshop or Family Pizza Dinner; 6:30 No Shush with Rabbis Pressman and Ohriner Shabbat Service; 7:15 Catered Shabbat 10:30 AM-12:30 PM, Beth David Dinner; 8 Israeli Dancing or “Outside Elul, the final month of the Jewish year, Chance of Maximillian Glick”, comedy is a time for introspection, repentance, about a young Jewish boy from a and renewal. Join Beth David’s rabbis small Manitoba community who has an to examine Jewish techniques for overbearing family. To make matters how to perform a true accounting of more difficult, he likes a Christian our lives and relationships by looking girl, whom he later competes with in a at some traditional Jewish sources. piano competition. A fun-loving rabbi AdultEd@Beth-David.org or (408) 257tries to help him with his problems. 3333 Everyone is welcome to join in. Please RSVP to Nadine Toby, nadine@ SATURDAY, AUGUST 28 shirhadash.org or (408) 358-1751 x 5

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Jewish Brownies and Jr. Girl Scout Information and Signup Meeting 8-9 PM, San Jose Home Information meeting for Brownies and signup/registration form completion night for both Brownies (Grades 1 and 2) and Junior Girl Scouts (Grades 3-5). The troop filled up last year, so get your forms in promptly, as the troop roster will fill up on a first-come, first-served basis by registration form completion. Directions: office@sinaisj.org or (408) 264-8542 TUESDAY, AUGUST 31 Taste of Judaism 7 PM, Shir Hadash This interactive 3-session class provides an introduction to Jewish perspectives on ethics and values, study, community, holidays, and spirituality. The class is intended for beginners and is particularly appropriate for non-Jewish friends and relatives, Jews who have been disconnected from the Jewish community, and interfaith couples. patty@shirhdash. org or (408) 3581751 x 7

Shabbat Across Bring a blanket to the the Bay is Back! 7:30 PM, Various JCC field for an outdoor Homes movie night, featuring Join SVYAD with the popular animated Shabbat Dinner at two fabulous film "Up!" This event is South Bay homes. FREE and is open to Only $15 buys you fantastic food, WEDNESDAY, non-members. Bring your great company SEPTEMBER 1 own picnic dinner or and an evening to The Origin and remember. Dinner snacks. Complimentary popcorn. Dina Jacobson, Meaning of the includes three High Holy Day and dina@svjcc.org or (408) 357-7499 courses (don't Festival Prayer forget dessert!) Books and wine. Homes 7:30 PM, Shir Hadash fill up quickly, so please RSVP by Young Adult Bocce Ball Kick-Off August 23: Amanda Orrin, amanda@ 2:30-4:30 PM, Campo di Bocce, Los Do you sometimes feel like the High Holy Day prayers leave you "Lost in jvalley.org or (408) 357-7503 Gatos Begin the year with Bocce! An afternoon Translation"? Or was your experience SUNDAY, AUGUST 29 of bocce is a great way to relax with on Rosh HaShanah reminiscent of the Mishpacha Sheli (My Family) friends. Join Jewish young adults for movie, "Ground Hog Day"? We will 10:15 AM-12:30 PM, Emanu-El a game (quick intro for beginners!) refer to the High Holy Day Prayer book, Open to the community, this program and share some delectable snacks. the Machzor. Bring your own copy or is designed for pre-kindergarten- $25 includes two hours of play and borrow one of our books. Registration: age children and their parents who lots of food and drink. Participation patty@shirhadash.org or (408) 358are looking for a “whole family” is limited. RSVPs requested by August 1751 x 7 experience. There are nine Sunday 25: Amanda@jvalley.org or (408) 357sessions monthly through May 2011 7503 FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 3 (except December 2010), offering an introduction to Jewish values, holidays, Sinai Sisterhood Pottery Time at Shabbat Mishpaha 6:30 PM, Beth David traditions and customs through Petroglyph Join in a fun, energetic Shabbat singing, storytelling, art, movement 2:30-5:30 PM, Petroglyph, San Jose games and cooking. Children must be Make your own creative piece. experience geared towards families at least three years old by December Shmooze and make friends. Ladies with kids. This service is filled with 2, 2010. For more information and of all ages are welcome. Meet first songs, story and dance, and has an application form: Temple Emanu- at Starbucks at 1396 Lincoln Avenue something for everyone. We look El Religious School office, (408) 292- and then directly to Petroglypg. $5 for forward to celebrating Shabbat with 3223. Pre-registration requested by sitting plus your piece ranges from $4- you. Iris bendahan, bendahan@bethAugust 20. $90 for Temple Emanu-El $39. RSVP: Sinai office, (408) 264-8542 david.org or (408) 257-3333

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upcoming events Labor in Pulpits Program: Moral Budgeting 8 PM, Shir Hadash In 2005, 60 religious leaders from diverse faith communities presented a letter to Congress speaking about “the Federal Budget as an inherently Moral Document.” The same could be said about our state, county and city budgets. Moral budgeting is the theme of this year’s Labor in the Pulpits program. Nadine Toby, nadine@ shirhadash.org or (408) 358-1751 x 5

entire Jewish community. Investing in teachers as learners is investing in the future of the Jewish community. APJCC Center for Jewish Life and Learning website, www.svjcc.org/ jplace or (408) 357-7492

& Learning, CJLL@svjcc.org or (408) “My Father's Paradise: A Son's Search 357-7492 for his Family's Past” by Ariel Sabar. Join us for fun and informative FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 24 discussions! New members are always Picnic Lunch and Sing-Along in the welcome Diane Goldman, bookgroupSukkah coordinator@shirhadash.org Noon-1:30 PM, Sinai THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 16 Following Sukkot services, join us for a Sukkah Hop with Congregation Sinai Freilache Menschen Lunch and picnic lunch in the Sukkah. Bring your 3-6 PM, Berkenwald Home, San Jose Program own dairy lunch for a family-friendly Join us for a fun and festive experience 11:30 AM, Shir Hadash meal in the Sukkah, then join the sing- while you hop from one Sukkah to Join our senior's group for a program a-long and learn some spirited new another, see different decorations, and a light lunch. Nominal donation: tunes--just in time for Simchat Torah. taste different theme foods, and enjoy $5/ person. RSVP: shanda@shirhadash. office@sinai-sj.org or (408) 264-8542 activities at each stop. hop@sinai-sj. org or (408) 358-1751 x 2 org or (408) 264-8542 SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 19

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 10 Alzheimer's Family Support Group 10:00AM, Shir Hadash Beginning SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 12 The Alzheimer's Association in conjunction with Shir Hadash's Caring Committee, APJCC Auditorium, Los Gatos is offering a Support Group for anyone trying to navigate The APJCC Teitelbaum Department of the Performing Arts is proud to the day-to-day difficulties of announce its fourth semi-annual multi-generational auditions for the caregiving. Support Groups production of "Annie." The production will take place at the McAfee Center help to provide tools for for the Performing Arts, January 22, 23, 27, 29, and 30. The schedule is caregiving such as sharing as follows: ideas and resources. This group will be "caring for the -Sunday, September 12--11 AM-2 PM--The character Annie auditions ONLY caregiver," offering support (girls ages 8 to 11);2-5:30 PM--Open auditions for adults and children (The in a confidential setting. orphanage will be boys and girls ages 8-17) Nadine Toby, nadine@ -Tuesday, September 14--4:30-7 PM Children's auditions only (The orphanage will be boys and shirhadash.org or (408) 358girls ages 8-17); 7-9 PM Adult auditions only 1751 x 5 -Wednesday, September 15--4:30-7 PM Children's auditions only (The orphanage will be boys and girls ages 8-17); 7-9 PM Adult auditions only SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 11 Tot Shabbat Auditions are held on a first come, first served basis. Bring a prepared vocal number or prepared 11 AM-Noon, Beth David dance number! Sheet music is preferred. You will be accompanied by our audition pianist. You Tot Shabbat is a fun and may also use recorded music. Your audition should be no longer than two minutes. People ages interactive parent-led 8 and up, with their families, friends, cousins, mothers, fathers, and children, are encouraged service for tots which to try out! There will be separate auditions for children and adults, so this may necessitate your includes singing, storytelling, coming to the APJCC more than one time. We thank you in advance for your cooperation and and a Kiddush snack! Lori interest! Cheryl Bordy Producer, speecheasy@hotmail.com or (408) 440-8883 Kahn, lori.kahn@sbcglobal. net or (408) 257-3333

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MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 13 Music of the High Holy Days 7 PM, APJCC Music of the High Holy Days: Song of Repentance: a time for reflection and forgiveness, Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur are observed with special musical settings infused with emotion. These songs turn us inward and enhance our spiritual experience. We will hear liturgy from all branches of the Jewish community: Ashkenazi, Sephardi and Mizrachi. This class will be taught by Mark Levi. RSVP: Lisa Ceile, lisacg@ svjcc.org or (408) 357-7492 Florence Melton Adult Mini School Teacher Education Program Begins 7:30 PM, APJCC This 30-session seminar combines text-based learning and a professional teacher-training curriculum. The program is open only to professional Jewish educators. This program benefits not only teachers but also their students and, in the long run, the

Sukkah-Decorating Event 10:30 AM, Beth David Open to all kids, families, teens, anyone who enjoys art and would like to experience decorating a Sukkah. Beth David's Sukkah is huge, so plenty of room for everyone! Snacks will be provided. Andrea Ammerman, ReligiousSchool@beth-david.org or (408) 257-3333

MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 27 Dinner in the APJCC Sukkah 4-6 PM, Levy Family Campus Celebrate Sukkot in the JCC's Sukkah. Enjoy dinner, games, singing, and dancing as we celebrate outside under the stars. If you'd like to participate in the Sukkot marching band, bring an instrument. Everyone is welcome. FREE but please RSVP: Center for Jewish Life & Learning, CJLL@svjcc.org or (408) 357-7413 GLBT Dinner in the Sukkah 6 PM, Shir Hadash (408) 358-1751 TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 28 Introduction to Judaism 7:30 PM, Shir Hadash (408) 358-1751 WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 29 Thai Dinner in the Sukkah 6 PM, Shir Hadash (408) 358-1751

Kadima Pizza Party in the Sukkah Noon-2 PM, Sinai New to Sinai: Jr. Kadima Elections SATURDAY, OCTOBER 2 and Pizza Party in the Sukkah. office@ Torah Study sinai-sj.org or (408) 264-8542 9:30 AM, Shir Hadash Deuteronomy is a fascinating SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 25 combination of narrative and laws. Tot Shabbat Breakfast in the Sukkah It is a book with a point of view, one 9 AM, Shir Hadash which has played a significant role in Join other families for a dairy potluck the formation of Judaism, and one breakfast in the Sukkah before the MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 20 special Tot Shabbat service at 9:30. which may create certain philosophical and theological challenges for the Decorate the APJCC Sukkah (408) 358-1751 modern reader. This class will examine 4-6 PM, Levy Family Campus Deuteronomy by looking at classical The community is invited to the Tot Shabbat Jewish commentaries, as well as APJCC's annual Sukkah-decorating 11 AM, Beth David event. Come make decorations Tot Shabbat is a fun and interactive contemporary critical thought; we will and hang them up, bring your Rosh parent-led service for tots which examine and discuss issues that arise Hashanah greeting cards to hang on includes singing, storytelling, and a as we work through this important a wall if you wish, and enjoy a snack Kiddush snack! 11-Noon on Saturday final book of the Torah. We will have in the Sukkah. Snacks and art supplies mornings. Lori Kahn, lori.kahn@ books available but invite students provided. Everyone is welcome. This sbcglobal.net to bring their own commentaries event is especially suitable for families as this enriches our discussion. No with preschool or elementary school SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 26 reservations are required. Drop-ins age children. FREE! Non-members Jewish Book Group are welcome. Nadine Toby, nadine@ welcome. JCC Center for Jewish Life 9:30 AM, Shir Hadash shirhadash.org or (408) 358-1751 x 5

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upcoming events Fall Shabbat in Nature 10:30 AM, TBA “Climb the mountains and get their good tidings…cares will drop off like autumn leaves.”--John Muir. The Ritual Committee of Temple EmanuEl plans several Shabbat experiences in local parks, because a spiritual experience is not confined within the walls of a sanctuary. Rabbi Magat and Cantor Simerly will lead the minyan service. There will be a potluck lunch, followed by discussion, hikes, music... whatever participants want to do. Musical instruments most welcome. There is a small parking fee. Deborah Zimmer, dvorazim@templesanjose.org or (408) 292-0939 SUNDAY, OCTOBER 3 New Member Coffee and Conversation 9:45 AM, Shir Hadash Nadine Toby, nadine@shirhadash.org or (408) 358-1751 x 5 MONDAY, OCTOBER 4 Florence Melton Adult Mini School First Year Begins 9:30 AM, Levy Family Campus The Florence Melton Adult Mini School is the standard in Adult Jewish Education. Purposes and Rhythms are the names of the first-year Melton courses. The Purposes curriculum is an introduction to Jewish thought as the class explores 30 of the major theological and philosophical questions in Judaism. Rhythms is an exploration of the Jewish calendar and rituals. Join the Melton Community and take the next step in your Jewish Journey. Lisa Ceile lisacg@svjcc.org or (408) 357-7492 TUESDAY, OCTOBER 5 APJCC Novella Book Group 7:30 PM, Levy Family Campus Don’t bite off more than you can chew and join the CJLL Novella Book Group, an informal discussion group led by San Jose State Jewish Studies Dept Coordinator Victoria Harrison. The three books to be discussed are Michael Kohlhass’s “Heinrich von Kleist,” Steve Stern’s “North of G-d,” and “The Union Jack” by Imre Kertesz. APJCC Center for Jewish Life and Learning, Lisa Ceile lisacg@svjcc.org or (408) 357-7492

Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival Patron Event Dinner and Movie 7:30 to 10:30 PM, TBA Annual Patron Event. This year, it's a movie not included in the main festival, followed by a dessert reception. www.svjff.org or (408) 899-6013 SUNDAY, OCTOBER 10 Sharone Hadassah Ima Lunch 11:30 AM, Michael's at Shoreline, Mountain View Lynne Arkin, a Specialist in Fine Jewelry, will talk about establishing the price of a piece of jewelry from the perspective of emotional attachment and financial opportunity. Sequoia Hadassah member and Stanford nurse, Andrea Linder will share the impressions she gained while visiting the Hadassah Hospitals in Jerusalem with the Hadassah Nurses Mission. Liz Alpert, Central Pacific Coast Region Hadassah president will speak about the organization’s direction. Reservations may be made by responding to Dottie Miller, 408732-1868 or HebrewHigh@aol.com. Questions, contact Jane Jacobson, 408-872-1845 or Jane_Jacobson@ usa.net. Couvert for the event is $65 per person. All contributions will be applied to Hadassah’s Youth Aliyah and Hadassah Medical Organization efforts. How to Get Your Organization’s Events Listed in the JCN: Submit the event online at www.jvalley. org before September 1. Include name of the event; date and time; place, address and street, city; sponsoring organization and onesentence description; cost, if any; contact name, phone number and/or e-mail address, and the last day your organization will accept reservations or RSVPs. Photos related to the event are encouraged.

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obits JOHN COHEN

2-24-1924 to 6-23-2010 John Del Bourgo Cohen, husband of Lillian Cohen, of Los Gatos, passed away peacefully with loved ones by his side in Monte Sereno. He and his wife were members of Congregation Beth David. John was a wonderful man who was treasured by his family. He was 86. Born in New York, NY, John was the son of David and Sarah Cohen, immigrants from Turkey and Egypt respectively. Raised in Washington Heights, he entered the U.S. Army Infantry at age 18 and participated in the Battle of the Bulge during World War II. After his service, he came home to attend NYU where he graduated with a degree in civil engineering. Later, he moved to Ann Arbor, MI where he met Lillian Yellen. They were married in 1949 and raised three children. His career took the family to NJ, NY, IL, FL and TX. They moved to Saratoga in 1974 and remained in the area. John was a gentle, loving husband, father and grandfather who adored and took immense pride in his family. Children were always drawn to his kind and generous spirit. His sense of humor remained with him throughout his life. A talented handyman, he was always on call to help family and friends with home repairs. He spoke four languages and enjoyed bridge, bingo and traveling the world. After retirement, he volunteered at the San Jose Repertory Theater, San Jose Airport, San Jose Convention & Visitors Bureau, and the Tech Museum in San Jose and the American Cancer Society’s Discovery Shop in Los Gatos. He is survived by his wife, Lillian Cohen, of Los Gatos, daughter Debra Cohen (John Swartley) of Monte Sereno, son Daniel Cohen (Andrea) of San Jose and daughter Janet Bachand (Steve) of Pleasanton and six grandchildren, Benjamin, Nathan and Joseph Swartley, Kevin Cohen and Kyle and Troy Bachand. Donations may be made to the Pathways Hospice Foundation in Sunnyvale, CA or the Alzheimer’s Association.

ROSE CORNBLEET 10-21-1919 to 4-27-2010

Rose Cornbleet was born in St. Louis, MO and died at the age of 90. She was a fourth generation American and records of her greatgreatgrandparents’ marriages can still be found in the synagogue where her parents belonged in St. Louis. She and her late husband Zelig Cornbleet, a pharmacist, moved to Saratoga in the 1980’s and she lived there until about seven years ago when she moved to Chai House. She was an avid reader and helped with a literacy program in Milpitas. She also enjoyed Israeli folk dancing with the Frankel group. Rose was a loyal fan of the St. Louis Cardinals but really loved baseball in general and had lots of baseball statistics at her fingertips. As a young child, she had studied piano and she took that up again in her older years. She was an active participant in the Willow Senior Center. She is survived by her son Dr. Harry Cornbleet (Joanne), of Saratoga, daughter Joan Cornbleet of San Jose, and daughter Lois Hammer of Lexington, KY, granddaughters Jennifer Cornbleet of Oakland and Naomie Meyberg of San Jose.

JOAN ROSS DORNFEST 3-24-1929 to 7-8-2010

Joan Ross Dornfest was born in Manhattan to Dr. Norman and Edith Ross. She grew up with her sisters Sally and Nancy in Portchester, NY and later on with step-brothers, Arthur and Paul Mulwitz. She married Albert Dornfest at the Rye Synagogue in Rye, NY on August 29, 1954. Joan was an extremely intelligent woman

with a gift for and a love of math. She attended Indiana University and earned a BA in math from the University of Alabama and a Master’s degree in math with a minor in computer science at Cal State Northridge at a time when very few women were in the field of mathematics. She was on the chess team in college and continued to be an avid chess player. She also enjoyed playing bridge regularly with local bridge groups. Joan and her late husband Albert moved to San Jose and she worked for many years at Lockheed Missiles and Space Division in Sunnyvale. After she retired from Lockheed, she got her stock broker certificate and managed investments. She had always wanted to be a stock broker and is remembered by her family as someone who took on many challenges in her life. In addition to professional challenges, she was quite the adventurer. She had a real zest for life, loved travelling, skiing and hiking. She visited many National Parks and even hiked to the top of Half Dome. She had a willingness to constantly grow and challenge herself in many ways, a trait which she passed on to her children and grandchildren, teaching them to never be content with what can easily be done but rather to always strive to reach one’s full potential. Joan taught her children to be strong, morally and physically. She stressed the importance of eating in a healthy manner, getting the benefits of natural food and exercise. She was able to break down problems into manageable pieces and solve them. She believed that everyone should be included equally and fairly and that all should be treated with respect. She followed her dreams, achieved her goals and thus set a good example for her children and grandchildren. She was a strong, caring, compassionate, adventuresome spirit with a hardworking nature, a thirst for knowledge and a tremendous love for family. She will truly be missed by her daughter Mardi Karin (Rom), grandchildren, Todd, Ben and Evelyn Karin, her son Norman (Michelle) of Los Angeles and granddaughter Jennifer Dornfest and son Charles of Fremont and grandsons, Max and Alex Dornfest, her longtime friend David Mooso of San Jose and close family friend, David Wilson. She died on July 8 surrounded by those whom she loved and left a legacy of life lessons and values that will live on in her children and grandchildren. Rabbi Aaron Schonbrun made many of the comments above in his moving eulogy and reminded us at the conclusion of the funeral, Tehei Zikhrona Barukh–May her memory be for blessing.

ABRAHAM EISENSTEIN 1923 to 7-21-2010

Abraham Eisenstein, 86, died peacefully at home in his own apartment in San Jose. He was born in Brooklyn, NY and went to New Utrecht High School at the same time as his future wife, Trudy, whom he wouldn’t meet until both were in their 30s. While serving in the Medical Corps during World War II, he was stationed in England. Abe worked for 40 years in the retail industry. For many years he owned his own store in Brooklyn, Crown Stationery, into which he poured his heart and soul. After Trudy passed away in 2001 after 43 years of marriage, he moved to San Jose in 2003 in order to be closer to his children, both of whom live in California. All his life Abe had a passion for racquet sports, especially ping pong and paddleball, which he continued to play well into his 80s and passed on this love to his children and grandchildren with whom he would play. Abe had a work ethic the likes of which are rarely seen. He was more deserving of the nickname “Honest Abe” than President Lincoln—speaking the truth simply came naturally to him. He knew what mattered most to him—his family. He made them the central part of his life. He is survived by his daughter Sheryl Lewis, her husband Eric, and their children, Julian and Daniel of Saratoga; and by his son Harry Eisenstein and his fiancé, Sharon Ben-Roohi of Los Angeles. A funeral service was held July 23 in his hometown of Brooklyn, NY.

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Jewish Professional Directory Attorneys Brooke A. Blecher

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Philip L. Hammer

Hoge, Fenton, Jones & Appel 60 S. Market St., Ste. 1400 San Jose, CA 95113 (408) 287-9501 plh@hogefenton.com www.hogefenton.com/hammer.html Specializing in complex family law matters. Certified Specialist in Family Law, State Bar of CA; Fellow, American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers.

David J. Hofmann

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David S. Howard

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Steven D. Siner

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Attorneys Minda B. Parrish

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Lynne R. Snyder

101 Church St., Suite 7, Los Gatos, CA 95032 (408) 354-5590 Adoption, Custody, Dissolutions, Guardianship, Juvenile Court, Paternity

Shannon Stein

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Carol Elias Zolla

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Eliana B. Weissman

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Morgan Stanley Smith Barney

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Fine Art Prof. S. Carson

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