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from the ceo Dear friends, It’s that perfect time of year! The sun has been peeking through and our yards are adorned with plants that feel like strangers after the dry years we’ve had recently. Best of all, Purim and Passover are here.

On Purim we celebrate the miracles that we are able to accomplish as individuals. The Megillah tells the story of Esther standing up for her people and redeeming the Jews in Persia. The celebration is of relationships built, evil destroyed, and the impact we can have through personal connections.

On Passover we celebrate the redemption of our people by G-d.

From the ten plagues to the splitting of the Red Sea, we tell the stories of the miracles that allowed us to find the land of Israel.

Passover is ultimately a celebration of what G-d has done for us.

The two holidays, when joined together, showcase how essential it is that we embrace the power of others and of ourselves. Our faith might lead us, but it is our daily decisions and actions that portray who we really are.

Wishing you a joyous and inspirational Spring, jyl jurman Federation CEO

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Board increases programmatic grants Slavitt Moore appointed to NWP Community to host Rabbi Morris Giving Circle inspires next generation Hillel’s annual event Sinai hosts Winter Shabbaton The Diary of Anne Frank presented at JCC POW launches shoe drive Summer camp for children with special needs Learning to pursue justice An Exodus story Bringing the fun of summer camp to school Bikkur Cholim program created Shir Hadash at 36 Teen tour of SF Passover Guide Passover food for JFS Latinos and Jews making a difference My experience at Song Leader Boot Camp Building a bridge to eternity A different approach to philanthropy

Yavneh participates in Technion challenge

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14855 Oka Road, Los Gatos, CA 95032 www.apjcc.org | 408.357.7411 Silicon Valley Jewish Music Festival is made possible, in part, through Gold level sponsorships by Bill Lister/Coldwell Banker and Fry’s Electronics, and Silver level sponsorships by Neal Fearn/Morgan Stanley, Good Samaritan Hospital, Dr. Melody Lynd, Inc., San Jose Youth Symphony, SkinSpirit Skincare Clinic and Spa and Umpqua Bank. The APJCC is proud to be a part of the Initiative on Jewish Peoplehood, co-funded by the Koret Foundation and the Taube Foundation for Jewish Life & Culture, and supported further by the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley, and donors like you.

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c mmunity photos SPHDS’s Tradition Meets Innovation

Left: Nissa Johanix, SPHDS Board President, and Rabbi Shaye Guttenberg, SPHDS Head of School, presented David Mendel, past SPHDS Board President, with an award honoring his service to SPHDS. Right: Sonalika Clark, Director of Early Childhood Education; Dr. Ann Goewert, SPHDS Principal; Rachel Orosco, SPHDS 1st Grade teacher; Steven Hargrove, SPHDS Athletic Director; David Kulka, event honoree; Dina Solberg, SPHDS Kindergarten teacher; Kim Valle, Director of Student Services”

Federation’s Annual Donor Appreciation Event: Chai Rollers

Left: Abigail Gavens, Hana Anderson, and Shoshana Wolf; Middle: Event Chairs Andy Wolfe, Roni Wolfe, Marc Levitt, and Paula Barbarito-Levitt; Right: Philip Alexander, Elvis Presley, and Monique Alexander

Thank you to the Super Monday and Super Sunday callers that made calls to support the Jewish Federation’s Annual Campaign!

Left: Mindy Berkowitz and Heidi Eisips; Middle: Robert Nathanson and Renee Fine; Right: Steve Jacksonr

Yavneh’s Night of Innovation

On February 24 Yavneh Day School hosted over 120 parents and educators and about 40 students for a Night of Innovation. Milton Chen of the George Lucas Foundation and Edutopia.org, presented to parents and educators on the 6 Edges of Innovation in School. He shared his vision for a new world of learning from his recent book, “Education Nation.”

5th-8th graders learned and utilized the design-thinking process and participated in a design challenge where they worked in groups designing their dream classroom. Following the design challenge, the students experienced innovation studios of their choice: Modern Band, Jewelry Making, Tinkering, and Slow-Motion Animation.

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federation news Board increases programmatic grants

Bonnie Slavitt Moore appointed to National Women’s Philanthropy Board

By Arielle Hendel, Director of Community Initiatives

Bonnie Slavitt Moore was recently appointed to the National Women’s Philanthropy (NWP) board of the Jewish Federations of North Amerca (JFNA).

In a bold shift, the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley’s Board of Directors voted to increase the available funds through the JValley Generators grants to up to $100,000; individual grants can be granted of up to $50,000 for the 2016-17 fiscal year. “We are hoping that this stimulates innovative and collaborative programs which benefit our community,” said Board Chair Julie Krigel. The grants are intended to generate programs which will become self-sustaining within a few years.

Bonnie is a long-time leader in the Silicon Valley Jewish community, holding many positions including: Director of Yavneh Day School, Director of the Bureau for Jewish Education, President of Hillel of Silicon Valley, President of Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley, Campaign Chair for the Levy Family Campus, and Next 50 Capital Campaign Chair for Congregation Beth David. Bonnie has mentored teens and young adults throughout the community and inspires others to be community-minded and philanthropic in their actions.

Guided by traditions of tzedakah and tikkun olam, NWP is dedicated to the continuity, connectivity and JValley Generator grants were initiated in 2014 thriving future of the North American communities, following extensive discussions with community Israel and the Jewish people. The NWP represents leaders and members. A strategic plan was Federations of all sizes from across North America and then put in place; for the first two years, the hundreds of thousands of donors at all levels of giving, grants were focused on programs for seniors, all around the world. The NWP board serves a critical role on both a national young families and teens. During the February and local level. Nationally, the board sets the tone by engaging women at the board meeting, members studied several highest levels of decision-making within the system. The NWP board provides biblical and rabbinic texts with Rabbi Josh resources to local communities and inspirational leadership to advocate for Berkenwald about the importance of tzedakah.

Federation programs and services around the world. On a local level, the NWP The Board also engaged in rigorous discussions board serves as a liaison between communities and NWP in order to ensure that led by Tina Rosenblum, PhD in preparation for the community is aware of programs and initiatives of JFNA and the board, and voting on areas of focus for the coming grant alternatively, cycle. Remarkably, the Board decided to again that the board focus this year’s JValley Generator grants on is informed programs which impact young families, older of the needs adults/seniors and teens. It became evident of the through this process that these key populations communities. should continue to receive our communal NWP board SUPPORT THE SILICON VALLEY JEWISH support. This grant cycle will concentrate on members serve those aforementioned populations to: educate as role models COMMUNITY LEGACY PROJECT. them (chinuch and daat), build community to others in the (kehillah) and/or improve their situation community.

C O M M U N I T Y PA R T N E R S (tzedek). Additional consideration will be Addison-Penzak Jewish Community Center Mazel tov to given to programs which address needs of our Congregation Beth David Bonnie on this vulnerable members, interfaith/intermarried, well-deserved minority ethnic communities, and families with Congregation Shir Hadash alternative structures. appointment!

Congregation Sinai Hillel of Silicon Valley Grant applications are available Eat Your Hametz Out Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley Fundraiser for Congregation Beth David online at www.jvalley.org. The Wednesday, April 20th deadline for applications is April Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley 4, 2016. The submissions will Willow Street Pizza will Temple Emanu-El donate 20% of your be evaluated on local impact, Yavneh Day School purchase of food and sustainability and viability. beverage for dine in or Additional value will be given take out on April 20th.

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Our community to host Rabbi Morris of the Shalom Hartman Institute In April, the Silicon Valley community will be hosting Rabbi Leon A. Morris from the Shalom Hartman Institute.

The Shalom Hartman Institute is a pluralistic center of research and education deepening and elevating the quality of Jewish life in Israel and around the world.

Through their work, The Shalom Hartman Institute is redefining the conversation about Judaism in modernity, religious pluralism, Israeli democracy, Israel and world Jewry, and the relationship with other faith communities.

Rabbi Morris will be learning, teaching and meeting with many segments of our local community from April 10 - 13, 2016 including a culminating event open to the community on Wednesday evening, April 13 at the Levy Family Campus. In addition to teaching at Skirball, Rabbi Morris has taught at Orthodox, Conservative, and Reform synagogues, as well as at Drisha Institute for Jewish Education. He has contributed essays to a variety of publications, has appeared on NPR and PBS, and is an editor of the new Reform High Holy Day prayer book, “Mishkan HaNefesh.” With grants from The Taube Foundation for Jewish Life and Learning and the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley, the participants will delve into discussions about community and Israel.

For more information about the programs contact Arielle Hendel at arielle@jvalley.org or (408) 3577501.

federation news Giving Circle inspires the next generation of Jewish philanthropy Beginning in January, a group of local Jewish young adults came together to engage in an innovative experiment – a Giving Circle. The goal of the Giving Circle is to create a community bound by collaborative philanthropy and by a desire to have a greater impact on the local Jewish community than any of the participants could have on their own.

Led by Jonathan Katz and Shoshana Wolf in collaboration with Michelle Nathanson, Director of Philanthropic Giving at the Jewish Federation, the Circle will educate participants about Jewish philanthropy and its role in our community, identify opportunities to address both community needs and strategic projects, determine a shared philanthropic vision and, ultimately, allocate the resources raised by the Circle.

To date, the Circle has raised more than $22,000 for distribution to support local Jewish initiatives. The donated funds are largely from the 33 participants in the Circle who represent Jewish young adults from across the spectrum of our Jewish community. Their donations are supported by generous contributions from the Jewish Federation and local donors passionate about encouraging the next generation’s commitment to Jewish life.

The first two meetings of the Giving Circle were thoughtful and inspiring discussions. They centered on eliciting fresh, vibrant energy for contemplating how the group can make a difference to the local Jewish community and the broader Jewish world.

Over the coming months the group will define its collective philanthropic mission and begin to consider projects and organizations to receive grants. Stay tuned to the JValley News for more information on grant criteria. The Giving Circle expects to announce grant recipients in the early summer.

For more information about the Giving Circle grant-making process or if you would like to get involved in a local Giving Circle, contact Michelle Nathanson at michellen@jvalley.org

Bottom row left-right: Stephanie Rothstein, Erin Ostilly, Shoshana Wolf & Ezra Katz, Talia & Mila Gless, Elisa Itkowitz, Abigail Gavens, Hana Anderson 2nd row left-right: Dan Goncharoff, Rachael Berman Huck, Erin Goncharoff, Joy Cohen, Mike Cohen, Dina Guttenberg, Elizabeth Geurts, Yael Wolf, Abby Morrill 3rd row left-right: Karel Gless, Jonathan Katz, Tom Johanix, Josh Bernstein, Trista Bernstein, David Anderson, Dean Ostilly, Brandon Itkowitz, Lance Morrill Not pictured: Lauren & Eric Carlinsky, Jodi Gerston, Nissa Johanix, Helen Lin, Yonatan Winetraub, Kevin Zwick

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l cal news L’Dor V’Dor: Hillel’s annual event to honor students and community supporters

By Mishy Balaban, Event Co-Chair We invite you to celebrate Hillel SV’s annual L’Dor V’Dor (“From Generation to Generation”) event to honor students and community supporters for their leadership and commitment to our Hillel and Jewish life on campus!

On Sunday, April 17, 11:00 a.m. at the Fourth Street Garage (88 S. Fourth St.,7th floor) in San Jose, L’Dor V’Dor will feature an elegant luncheon and comedy magician Robert Strong, who will entertain us while hosting Hillel’s live auction for one-of-a-kind experiences.

Hillel SV’s alumna Jackie Levinson and I are co-chairing this event, which promises a lively program for your enjoyment.

Keynote speaker Tammi Rossman-Benjamin, faculty at UC-Santa Cruz, is at the forefront of efforts to combat BDS and anti-Semitism on campus. She cofounded the nationwide AMCHA organization “to investigate, document, educate about, and combat anti-Semitic behavior on college and university campuses in America.”

Rick and Doris Davis, this year’s honorees, have devoted years of service and support for Hillel programs. Visionaries and leaders, the Davises understand the situation Hillel SV faces on its five campuses, countering anti-Israel activities and rhetoric. From visiting campus at key moments to cooking Shabbat dinner, Rick and Doris are always there when Hillel needs them. We are deeply grateful for their counsel, insight, optimism, energy, and generous support throughout the years.

Student honorees Dana Margittai (San Jose State University), Gabe Golden (San Jose State University), and Karen Manor (Foothill College) are being recognized for their “above-and-beyond service to Hillel and Jewish students on their campuses.” Hillel SV’s alumna Qi Li receives special recognition for her Israel advocacy in China.

L’Dor V’Dor, Hillel SV’s major annual fundraising event, provides crucial funds to support Jewish programming at De Anza, Foothill, West Valley colleges San José State and Santa Clara universities.

L’Dor V’Dor brings together students and community supporters to further Hillel’s goal of engaging, educating, and supporting students on our five campuses. Our mission is to ensure that each student has the opportunity to enhance their Jewish knowledge and feel confident in their ability to remain connected to the Jewish community and Israel after they graduate. Hillel’s programming goals run the gamut from Jewish life-cycle events, Shabbat and holiday celebrations, Israel advocacy, Tikkun Olam, and communitybuilding programs. Hillel SV constantly works to engage the unengaged, and it is with your support that we are able to provide quality programming throughout the year.

We invite all who are interested to attend L’Dor V’Dor and learn more about Hillel of Silicon Valley, Jewish students’ home away from home. PLEASE JOIN US! For more information, please contact Sarita Bronstein at sarita@ hillelsv.org or (408) 286-6669.

Sinai hosts Winter Shabbaton for teens

By Terrah Yevilov, USY & Kadima Youth Advisor, Congregation Sinai New Frontier’s USY Winter Shabbaton was February 1921 in San Jose. New Frontier is the region of USY, United Synagogue Youth, which covers Northern California, and Reno, Nevada. Congregation Sinai was host to 117 teens from the region who came together to celebrate Shabbat, learn, laugh, and create lasting friendships.

Friday was filled with hugs, hellos, and a major celebration for New Frontier’s (New Fro) 50th anniversary.

We celebrated the start of Shabbat through Ruach and dancing. The 8th grade class was welcomed into USY. They learned all about USY, the lingo, and bonded with their class.

The 8th graders then met their “bigs,” members of the 11th grade class, and enjoyed dessert with the rest of the convention to celebrate.

After kindly being hosted by various Sinai families on Friday night following an afternoon of introduction activities, our teens spent Shabbat focused on the week’s Torah portion, Tetzaveh, through the lens of Derech Eretz. The connection is that the Parsha discusses the idea of Ben Adam L’Atzmo (relationships between people) as the key to Jewish life.

With a positive self-image, we can improve our relationships with each other and with G-d. And, if we are created in G-d’s image, we have a responsibility to be good to ourselves in order to enact G-d’s Laws. This is exactly what USY is about – developing relationships with each other, our communities and to something bigger than ourselves, whatever we believe that to be.

Saturday night included a variety of activities, including sports, board games and inter-grade-level competitions. Our teens chatted late into the night about the future and spent the next morning in a social justice activity seeing how they can help shape that future as leaders of the community. We were privileged to have Amy Cecil from Jewish World Watch lead the group in a Refugee Simulation. The Shabbaton concluded with a heart-felt closing circle, goodbyes, and talk of our next convention: May 27-29 in Santa Rosa. Save the date!

None of this would have been possible without the hard work and dedication of our advisors from across the region, our incredible regional director, Sarah Miller, and of course, our friends at Congregation Sinai. The Sinai community welcomed New Fro into their homes, their services and their religious school over the weekend with open hearts and arms. As always, our congregations remind us of exactly who we are – United Synagogue Youth.

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l cal news The Diary of Anne Frank, presented April 9 and 10 by Theatre Chevruta Theatre Chevruta concludes its third season at the APJCC with its most recognized title to date, The Diary of Anne Frank.

In this brisk, 90-minute play, audiences will experience the two years that the Franks lived in hiding in The Annex. The play focuses on the uplifting spark of hope that enabled them to persevere throughout their challenging ordeal, until the tragic end.

“The Diary of Anne Frank,” says artistic director Doug Brook, “is one of those stories so well known that people who come see it will realize how much of it they’d actually forgotten.

“That’s why everyone should see it, even if they’ve seen it before. So we never forget.”

The original stage play premiered on Broadway in 1955, adapted by Frances Goodrich and Albert Hackett. The version that Theatre Chevruta will perform was updated by Wendy Kesselman, and premiered on Broadway in 1997 starring Natalie Portman in the title role.

The updated version takes into account additional material from Anne Frank’s diary that was published in extended editions, decades after the original. Among those pages that appear in the play are struggles between Anne and her mother and some of Anne’s candid reflections on the experience of growing into womanhood.

Roneet Aliza Rahamim

Because of these elements in the play, parents might balance the importance of the story with whether they feel some of these subjects are appropriate for their younger children.

Theatre Chevruta’s production is a wonderful mix of faces familiar to the JCC community as well as newcomers. Ken Abrams (Otto Frank) and Richard Sogg (Mr. Kraler) are no strangers to long-time community members. Diane Milo (Mrs. Van Daan), Sara Renee Morris (Miep Geis), and Esther Selk (Edith Frank) have all been involved in past Theatre Chevruta seasons.

Roneet Aliza Rahamim, recently seen as the Hebrew-speaking lead actress in Handle with Care at City Lights Theatre in San Jose, plays Anne Frank. Dana Morgan (Margot Frank), Zach Doyle (Peter Van Daan), Doug Brees (Mr. Van Daan), and Bruce Blau (Mr. Dussel) bring their diverse local stage experience to round out the inhabitants of The Annex. Doug Brook directs.

Theatre Chevruta’s previous spring offering was the very popular My Name is Asher Lev. Then, last fall featured the Bay Area premiere of Arthur Miller’s Broken Glass, one of many performances nationwide recognizing the Centennial of Miller’s birth. “We were thrilled to present something by Miller never before seen in the Bay Area,” says Brook, “but we were particularly honored to open the performances on the actual night of his Centennial.”

Theatre Chevruta performs fully-rehearsed staged readings, which allows the audience and performers particular focus on the text and nuance. To see just how funny, dramatic, and impactful these performances are, watch the brief video available on Theatre Chevruta’s page on the APJCC website.

Ken Abrams

As always, audiences are invited after each performance to stay for a brief talkback discussion with the cast. There is also a special preview talk, with performances of a few scenes by the cast, at Congregation Beth David, in Saratoga, on Saturday, March 26 at 1:15 p.m.

Performances are free for JCC members when pre-registered. $10 for students and seniors; $15 pre-sale for non-JCC members; and $20 at the door. Tickets are available online at the Theatre Chevruta page on http://svjcc.org/.

“Theatre Chevruta,” says Brook, “was founded to provide something you don’t get elsewhere. Worthy plays that have gone adrift from the mainstream. Renewed meaning in stories that we’ve heard before. And, most significantly, entertainment for all who just want to be entertained.”

For all Theatre Chevruta news, including about The Diary of Anne Frank and our 2016-17 season, visit http://svjcc.org/jplace and click on Theatre Chevruta. See the very latest by liking Theatre Chevruta on Facebook at http://facebook.com/theatre.chevruta.

For more information, contact APJCC Cultural Arts Program Administrator Emily Somma, (408) 357-7492.

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Power of Women launches shoe drive for 100 children The women of Silicon Valley will be celebrating the second annual Power of Women event on Thursday, April 14. This program brings together local women to celebrate community and is hosted by the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley’s Women’s Philanthropy (WP).

In the spirit of community, event chairs Susie Brenner and Ruth Litwin have launched a tzedakah program in connection with the event. Partnering with Shoes That Fit, a national nonprofit, WP has committed to provide 100 pairs of new athletic shoes to children from two local elementary schools.

“We understand that purchasing kid’s shoes can be a burden for families with limited means. We are thrilled to make a difference for children in our own neighborhood,” shared WP Board Member Marcia Klein who is leading this project.

Marcia invites everyone to participate in making sure that each child will receive a new, brand name pair of shoes filled with personality and style.

Support these local children by purchasing a pair of shoes from the Wish List before April 12 at www.jvalley.org/ShoesThatFit. All purchases should be shipped to: Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley 14855 Oka Road, Suite 200 Los Gatos, CA 95032 Please contact Michelle Nathanson, michellen@jvalley.org or (408) 357-7508, with any questions or to learn more about this project and the Power of Women event.

Thank you for your support!

One-of-a-kind Jewish summer camp haven for children and teens with special needs

By Rabbi Ezzy Schusterman, Executive Director, Friendship Circle With spring upon us, like many other organizations, Friendship Circle is busy planning a typical summer camp program for its campers. What’s different about FC camp is that its participants all have some form of special needs. Each camper is paired with a one-on-one teen high school volunteer or “buddy” for a two-week camp experience chock-full-of-fun, including swimming at the OFJCC, day trips around the Bay Area, fun entertainment, art, sports, and more. Campers have an opportunity to enjoy a Jewish-flavored camp experience, often unavailable to them, all with the support and friendship of their teen volunteer.

“These kids are not able to go to regular camps,” says Nechama Schusterman, Director of Friendship Circle along with husband Ezzy Schusterman, Executive Director. “They get so overwhelmed at typical camps which are generally not equipped and designed to meet their needs. We’ve had parents tell us that there’s nothing for their children/teens to do during the summer. Friendship Circle camps offer them the chance to go and have a fun camp experience in a Jewish setting, specifically designed for their needs.”

Ranging in age from 5 to 22, campers face a variety of diagnoses and challenges from developmental delays, cognitive and physical impairments to autism and social challenges. For two weeks in August, they can come to camp for days filled with typical camp activities modified to meet their specific needs and challenges.

With so few other options for children with special needs, parents are thrilled to have Friendship Circle camp in the Jewish community.

Of her child’s experiences at Friendship circle camps and programs, parent Sheryl MB states that her son with autism, Alex is “never happier than when I drop him off at the Friendship Circle, and his face lights up as the teen buddies and peers call out his name and cheer him on. I can tell that Alex feels like he truly belongs at Friendship Circle — and this is a rare and precious gift for my non-verbal son with autism. I am so grateful to the Friendship Circle for creating an inclusive environment where all kids feel accepted and loved for exactly who they are.”

Beyond summer camp, Friendship Circle runs a week-long winter camp in December, a regular Sunday program as well as various family and holiday programs throughout the year. At each program, participants are paired with a 1:1 teen volunteer who provides them with friendship and support. Present at every program is an on-site therapist as well as Friendship Circle staff who ensure that teens are trained to work well with their buddies as well as provide support and love to each participant. Beyond the on-site support, teens gather before and after each program for specific training on how to best work with children and teens with special needs and they learn how to best support their own buddy. Teen volunteers have plenty of opportunities to socialize with one another and develop valuable leadership skills through the Leadership Circle Presidents’ Board.

Programs include plenty of Jewish content, something relatively hard to find for children and teens with special needs. While programs are inspired by Jewish values, traditions and culture, they are open to all regardless of religion or ethnicity.

Parents of participants have also developed friendships and benefited from support available within the Friendship Circle parent community through Friendship Circle parent events and programs where they have an opportunity to meet and socialize with other parents in a fun and supportive environment.

For more information about the Bay Area Friendship Circle, go to their website at www.BayAreaFC.org or contact them at (650) 858-6990 or at info@BayAreaFC.org.

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Learning to pursue justice

By Julia Botkin, L’Taken Participant Why are Jews supposed to care about social justice? Deuteronomy 16:20 provides the answer with the commandment: “Tzedek, tzedek, tirdof.”

“Justice, justice you shall pursue.” Six teenagers from Congregation Shir Hadash in Los Gatos explored firsthand what this means during a trip to Washington, DC in January 2016. After a long flight from San Francisco to DC, we celebrated Shabbat and were introduced to the several hundred other teens gathered for L’Taken, a social justice conference run by the Reform Action Center, the policy lobby branch of the Union of Reform Judaism.

During the weekend, we participated in activities related to the challenges of living in poverty, a thought-provoking simulation about gun control, and seminars about a variety of issues from Israel to separation between church and state to prison welfare reform. During the conference we had the opportunity to meet students from across the United States including Florida, New Jersey, and New York.

Members of the Shir Hadash L’Taken delegation with We attended Congresswoman Lofgren’s Legislative Counsel Arlet services, visited the National Abrahamian (center) Gallery of Art where we saw modern and impressionistic art pieces, and we made lasting friendships with Jewish peers. We reflected on the importance of social justice during excursions to the Holocaust Museum where we learned the disastrous consequences of failure to stand up for justice.

At the Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial we discovered the successes of pursuing justice.

We had dinner in Georgetown, and then celebrated Havdalah together at the Jefferson Memorial, an open-air rotunda overlooking the Potomac River. We were each given a candle to hold and one by one we lit each other’s candles until all the candles were lit, and then we said the Havdalah blessings together. That moment made me feel a part of the broader Jewish community, united with my peers across the nation.

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An Exodus story

Passover is one of the most celebrated Jewish holidays.

According to the Pew Research Center’s survey of U.S. Jews conducted in 2013, more than 70% of American Jews attended a Passover Seder in the previous year.

That is more than the number who fasted for Yom Kippur (53%) or the percentage of Jews who belong to a synagogue (31%). Among Israeli Jews more than 80% participate in a Passover Seder according to a 2009 study by Israel’s Central Bureau of Statistics. This comes in contrast to the fact that 80% of Israelis in the same study defined themselves as something other than Orthodox, with 67% defining themselves as not religious or secular.

Passover is a foundational tradition for Jews. The Torah commands us to observe the Passover rituals in Exodus.

The rituals of the Seder were developed and expanded into the form we now employ by the Rabbis of the Mishnaic period (100-200 CE) with their employment of Roman rituals (reclining in the manner of a Roman feast) and food stuffs (salt and wine). For more than 2,000 years we have gathered together to retell the story of our miraculous flight from the vengeful Pharaoh of ancient Egypt and our journey across the deserts of Sinai towards the promised land flowing with milk and honey.

But it might be worth asking ourselves about the original story. Were there Hebrew slaves in Egypt? The Egyptian archives are silent on the matter. The Exodus should have occurred in the period following the reign of Ramses II (1290-1213 BCE) who presided over the construction of the two cities named in the biblical account, Pitom and Ramses. The archaeological surveys of the Sinai desert reveal no traces of a 600,000-person horde moving across the landscape. The cities that were sacked according to the Book of Joshua were either uninhabited or stood peacefully during this time. In short we are left with little evidence to support the biblical account. We might still ask a question, what was it like to live in the Egyptian empire at the time of Ramses II?

After spending three days studying the value of a community legislating for equality and good, we developed speeches about the teachings.

That Monday, we met with congressional staffers for Representative Zoe Lofgren and Senator Dianne Feinstein to lobby for our specific positions such as prison welfare reform, Israel, reproductive rights, and the need for comprehensive immigration reform. In our speeches we incorporated the Jewish social justice teachings we learned with our own personal connections to the issues. In between our meetings, we visited the Supreme Court. In the office of Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, the same quote, “Justice, justice you shall pursue” hung on the wall. Seeing that quote made me proud. I had read an article mentioning this piece of art, and it was thrilling to see it in person and to realize that it tied all of the parts of the trip together for me.

This spring, in cooperation with Lehrhaus Judaica of Berkeley, Shir Hadash students and their parents will have a chance to do just that. Entitled What Really Happened in the Exodus: A Discovery Day for Kids and Parents, the program explores the lives of kings, slaves, and ordinary people at the time of the Exodus. What did they eat? What gods did the Egyptians worship?

What was their writing like? What might have explained the Exodus miracles? To answer these questions and more, students will taste Egyptian foods, write Egyptian hieroglyphs and take a virtual tour of ancient Egypt to get the answers. Incorporating video clips and movie excerpts, the morning will be a fully immersive learning experience.

Participating in the L’Taken seminar gave me the confidence to be an advocate and pursue justice.

For more information about the program, please contact Rabbi Lisa Levenberg at Shir Hadash, (408) 358-1751.

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COUNTY OF SANTA CLARA HOLOCAUST REMEMBRANCE CEREMONY

CHILD HOLOCAUST SURVIVORS: REFUGEE EXPERIENCES TUESDAY, MAY 3, 2016, 4:00PM

Board Chambers, County Government Building 70 W. Hedding St., San Jose • Free and open to the public Marie Donner and other invited child Holocaust refugees will share their stories of trauma and resilience. Archbishop Mitty High School students will speak about what they have learned from these childhood refugee stories.

INFORMATION: diane@jvalley.org, (408)357-7504 SPONSORS:

Santa Clara County Board of Supervisors Office of Supervisor Dave Cortese Community Relations Council of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley Silicon Valley Holocaust Survivors Association

A group of children who survived the Holocaust in Czestochowa.

Photo courtesy of Holocaust Education & Archive Research Team

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Bringing the fun of summer camp into religious school at Temple Emanu-El Many parents have to fight with their children to get them to religious school or Hebrew school. Very few parents have to fight with their children to get them to go to camp. The new Director of Education Phil Hankin has found an incredible way to bring the spirit and joy of camp into religious school at Temple Emanu-El in San Jose!

Phil began his journey of becoming a Jewish educator when he was growing up and observed his father, a high school math teacher. Like many children, he wanted to follow In his father’s footsteps. But his father advised against it, so Phil went to college and took his math skills right into accounting. After taking a few courses and realizing that accounting was not his true passion in life, he knew he needed a change.

One lucky day, while visiting one of his favorite places, UAHC Camp Swig, Phil saw a Hebrew Union College (HUC) promo and knew what he needed to do. After attending HUC, Phil was hired by Temple Sinai in Oakland to be their youth educator. At the same time, he also worked for Congregation Beth Emek in Pleasanton as the summer camp director for four years.

His friend, the Rabbi at Congregation Kol Shofar in Tiburon called at the perfect time and asked if Phil was interested in the available director of education position. He was ready to take on the interesting challenge of bringing the camp spirit into the classroom. Shifting away from the informal and laidback camp education background to running a school was no easy task but one Phil embraced for three years! His goal upon entering HUC was to become a camp director, and he finally had the opportunity he had been dreaming about when URJ Camp Newman came calling prior to the summer of 2008. For two summers, he felt he landed his dream job; what he found instead was an opportunity that would change his whole future teaching style.

Upon leaving camp, Hankin ended up at Congregation B’nai Tikvah in Walnut Creek as the education director. As Phil puts it, “That experience gave me the opportunity to test things out and go through my thought process on how to integrate and create an environment that allows me to bring a camp-type feel into the synagogue school environment.” The last two years at that job, Phil was also working for The Jewish Federation East Bay as a project director and was teaching at Beth Abraham in Oakland.

Like anyone working three jobs for two years, he was ready for one job with one focus and that is what drew him to Temple Emanu-El in San Jose.

His journey could have been much different if not for a few key educators in his life. Marc Dowlinger, the Richard and Rhoda Goldman Chair in Jewish Studies and Social Responsibility at San Francisco State, was the youth group advisor for the local NFTY chapter in Lafayette when Hankin was a teen growing up in Fremont and his CIT advisor at Camp Swig. Phil describes him as, “the person who made Judaism cool and was a really inspiring figure who had endless knowledge on Judaism and made it accessible and fun for all ages.” When Hankin was at HUC, his mentor Lori Abramson (former director of education at Temple Sinai in Oakland and former head of school for Yavneh Day School in Los Gatos) was also a key player in forming his educational

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Hankin uses these two educators as a guide for his own teaching style, as well as various other Rabbis he’s encountered to make Jewish education fun and accessible to kids and parents. Phil emphasizes the importance of parents not thinking religious school is the same experience for their kids as it was for them; “I try to set out to make the experience different from what I received as a kid. The camp experience is a key component, and by trying to incorporate the camp atmosphere into the synagogue setting, I can create an environment where there is fun and excitement on Sunday mornings and weekday afternoons. I want there to be an aspect of ‘you don’t know what’s gonna happen next at religious school’ and you don’t want to miss it.”

Bringing that camp spirit and excitement into religious school is no easy task. Hankin says he couldn’t do it without a team mentality. “It’s important to feel I have a team with the synagogue professional staff, as well as the teaching staff.

Having a staff of people that supports the process and the goal-the goal, of course, is to have a great school. You have to have teachers that buy into the vision.” Phil also encourages his teachers to take that spirit and run with it, “I’ve always been an advocate of not micromanaging and having freedom in the classroom to teach what they see fit, what they are passionate about! I will go into classrooms and I will observe; I’ll provide opportunities for professional development, but they run the classroom.”

Besides bringing the camp spirit to religious school, Hankin encourages religious education outside of the classroom, “First and foremost I’m a big advocate for Jewish summer camp whether it’s residential camp or a day camp. I encourage students and parents all the time to do something Jewish-related in the summer. Going to camp and having those experiences are great, but spending time together as a family and creating ‘Jewish time’ is just as important. I want the students to understand that ‘being Jewish’ does not only happen September to May. During the year we want to provide opportunities and show the community ways they can be involved outside of class time, like participating on Mitzvah Day, being involved with ongoing Mitzvah projects, and showing our students that there are other organizations helping our community. Also--go to Israel!

Anything that they have on their lens; anything that shows them that being Jewish isn’t just on Wednesdays and Sundays!”

When asked if students could leave religious school with only one lesson, Phil stated, “I want them to be proud of being Jewish, live a Jewish life however they define it, and look back on their Jewish education and think ‘yeah, that was fun, that was cool’ and not be turned off from going to synagogue or raising kids Jewish. I had a friend whose dad wouldn’t come to the synagogue, he was so traumatized by religious school. I want to break the cycle of kids hating religious school.”

Phil Hankin has a teaching style and energy that cannot be replicated. continued on page 25

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l cal news Bikkur cholim program created

By Arielle Hendel In the Mishnah Torah (The Mishneh Torah is a code of Jewish religious law authored by Maimonides), in Chapter 14, it states, When one visits the ill, it is as if he takes away a portion of the patient’s illness and lifts the burden of the illness.

On any given day in any of our seven local hospitals, there are members of our community in need of a friendly visitor and spiritual care. Since the loss of the community chaplain and the funding for that position, the local Rabbis have struggled to keep up with the demands of these hospital visits. In response, Jyl Jurman, CEO of the Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley, along with Rabbi Melanie Aron, representative of the CRASJ (CantorialRabbinic Association of Greater San Jose), connected with Theresa Becker, a chaplain and therapist. Ms. Becker holds three Masters: MA in Human Relations; Masters of Divinity; MS in Counseling with a focus in marriage and family therapy. Ms. Becker had been the chaplain at Kaiser Permanente Santa Clara and is well equipped to train others in providing spiritual care. From this connection, the Bikkur Cholim program was created. Bikkur Cholim is literally translated from Hebrew to mean visiting the sick.

The Bikkur Cholim program started this past February with about 20 volunteers who will meet six times to learn about Jewish spiritual care. These individuals represent many aspects of our local community: it’s a diverse group including Jews by birth, choice, and chance and even non-Jews involved in the Jewish community. All the participants in the Bikkur Cholim program care deeply about providing a caring and friendly visit to people vulnerable and ill in the hospital. The participants have found both Jewish and non-Jewish sources inspirational in their training.

One quote which resonated for the anticipated visits was from Tim Lawrence who recently wrote in his blog, The Adversity Within, “Some things in life cannot be fixed. They can only be carried. I acknowledge your pain. I’m here with you.”

Shir Hadash at 36 In 1980 a small group of families met to discuss something somewhat radical: the formation of a new Reform synagogue in the South Bay. From that small seed emerged Congregation Shir Hadash.

The name, meaning “new song,” drawn from a recurring motif in Psalms, was also a reference to the founders’ desire for a more participatory synagogue. They envisioned a synagogue where the congregation sang, volunteered and was deeply involved in the new community. That small group quickly expanded as word spread from family to family and soon they reached the critical mass needed to hire a Rabbi and years later purchase a lot from the school district on Shannon Road.

Thirty-six years later, Shir Hadash is a community of nearly 600 households with a thriving preschool, religious school and an extraordinary array of adult programming. On most Shabbat mornings, there is a young woman or man assuming their adult role in the community, a lay-led service in the chapel, Torah study and family-centered education. Sundays bustle with religious school, adult education programs and committee meetings. Weeknights fill the building with Hebrew High, Confirmation Class and more. In short, the founders’ vision has come to fruition tenfold.

Not only does this landmark year mark the 36th anniversary of Shir Hadash, but the 25th anniversary of Rabbi Melanie Aron as our Senior Rabbi, and the 20th anniversary of Cantor Devorah Felder-Levy. The community will come together to celebrate these three anniversaries on April 30 at Congregation Shir Hadash in a Gala evening not to be missed.

For more information call Congregation Shir Hadash at (408) 358-1751 or visit www.shirhadash.org.

The volunteers have been assigned to specific hospitals so that they can undergo the hospital-specific training and will then be available to visit patients. It is expected that these volunteers will alleviate the burden from the Rabbis particularly for unaffiliated Jewish patients.

If you are interested in this program or know someone who needs a visit from a Bikkur Cholim volunteer, call the Federation at (408) 357-7550.

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By Cantor Devorah Felder-Levy, Congregation Shir Hadash Dear Cantor, I recently read about a Women’s Seder and was wondering where it came from and how does it differ from a regular Seder?

According to Jewish feminist Francine Klagsbrun, “Women’s Seders have become a phenomenon of our time…From New York to Nebraska, from Berlin to London; thousands of Jewish women throughout the world celebrate the Passover holiday every year with an evening of ceremony and remembrance led by women for women.”

The first Women’s Seder was either in 1975 in Haifa by Esther Broner, Marcia Freedman and Naomi Nimrod or in 1976, in Esther’s New York City apartment. The Seder in New York was attended by 13 women, including Gloria Steinem, Letty Cottin Pogrebin and Phyllis Chester. Esther and Naomi wrote a Women’s Haggadah for their Seder and it was published both in Ms. Magazine (1976) and then as a book in 1994.

What makes the Women’s Haggadah and Seder unique is the text used in the Seder. Instead of the four sons, a Women’s Haggadah will have the four daughters. The four questions may deal with issues relating to women in the Bible as well as to modern-day women. The ten plagues become focused on feminist issues and issues and “plagues” relating to women. And the Dayeinu has also been rewritten to become focused more on women, for example, “If we challenge the absence of women in traditional texts and leadership, if we continue to organize, march and vote to affirm our values, Dayeinu.”

In the traditional Seder there is no mention of women in the Haggadah.

But the story of the Exodus tells us that Shifra and Puah defied Pharaoh to save the Jewish males being born. Pharaoh’s daughter rescues Moses as he floats in a basket on the Nile and raises him as her own, and Miriam brings her own mother (Moses’ mother) to be a nursemaid to Moses. There has also been an impact of Women’s Seders that take place in many of our Seders today. Many of us include Miriam’s cup on our Seder table along with Elijah’s cup. Miriam’s cup is a symbol of redemption and possibility.

It was invented in the 1980s in a Boston Rosh Hodesh group by Stephanie Loo. It is filled with the mayim chayim (living waters). It is often linked to the Midrash of Miriam’s well.

Many of our Seder tables also include an orange on them. The orange originated in the 1980s by Susannah Heschel. According to Heschel in an article in the Forward in 2013, “At an early point in the Seder, when stomachs were starting to growl, I asked each person to take a segment of the orange, make the blessing over fruit and eat the segment in recognition of gay and lesbian Jews and of widows, orphans, Jews who are adopted and all others who sometimes feel marginalized in the Jewish community. When we eat that orange segment, we spit out the seeds to repudiate homophobia and we recognize that in a whole orange, each segment sticks together.” Today, we might include the orange for all those who have been made to feel disenfranchised.

Since that first Women’s Seder, there have been many more, each community building their traditions and writings that speak about the strength and heroism of the Jewish women in the Bible and in our own modern-day history. If you would like to experience a Women’s Seder, Congregation Shir Hadash, sponsored by their sisterhood, will be having a Women’s Seder on Sunday, April 10, at 2 p.m.

Perhaps you may decide to incorporate some new traditions into your Seders and remember the important contribution that women made to the story of the Exodus and to us as a people. Chag Sameach!

l cal news South Valley teens tour Jewish San Francisco

By Meghan Lee (member of Congregation Emeth’s youth group, EDK) Every year or two, Congregation Emeth’s youth group, Emet Dor Kef, (Emeth’s Fun Generation) takes a special trip to a city outside the Morgan Hill-San Jose area.

This year, led by our Rabbi Debbie Israel, we toured Jewish San Francisco.

(Jews played a role in the founding of many of the Bay Area’s most iconic businesses.)

San Francisco is one of my favorite cities, so I was excited about going.

Students from Congregation Emanuel, Redlands, and their Rabbi Jay Sherwood, joined us.

On Friday night, before our trip, the teens led Shabbat services and watched a PBS special on the Jews in San Francisco. A few of our members hosted the out-oftown teens joining us for the trip. The next morning, after a Shabbat service, we hit the road. We toured Alcatraz and discussed Jewish laws about punishment and solitary confinement. Afterwards, we went to Camp Newman, the URJ Jewish camp in Santa Rosa, where we had dinner with the NIFTY participants there for the weekend, and later attended a Dan Nichols concert. Although some of us were unfamiliar with his music, we agreed it was good.

The next day we returned to San Francisco where we boarded the “Mitzvah Cable Car,” a mock cable car that drove us around the city and provided us a Jewish context for much of what we saw. Its final stop was the Jewish Contemporary Museum, where we toured a technology exhibit and had time to make our own art using technology. We finished the day with a look around Pier 39, dinner at a kosher Chinese vegetarian restaurant, and an optional swim in the hotel pool.

Our trip ended Monday, after a boat ride on Elkhorn Slough and a discussion of Jewish teachings on ecology.

We bade farewell to the out-of-town teens and drove back to temple. We are looking forward to being with them next year, when we return for our tour of Jewish Los Angeles.

Congregation Emeth is South Valley’s Jewish community center, located in Morgan Hill, and serving South San Jose, Morgan Hill, Gilroy and Hollister. For further information go to www.emeth.net or call (408) 778-8200.

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HAPPY PASSOVER FROM THE

JEWISH FEDERATION OF SILICON VALLEY We invite you to contact one of our local synagogues to learn about the many Passover celebrations and happenings in our vibrant Jewish community.

Best wishes from the Federation for a joyous and meaningful Passover.

YOUR GUIDE TO SILICON VALLEY SYNAGOGUES Almaden Valley Torah Center (Orthodox) 1422 Helmond Lane, San Jose, 95118 (408) 445-1770 www.rabbi770.com

Congregation Emeth (Reform) 17835 Monterey Street, Morgan Hill, 95037 (408) 778-8200 www.emeth.net

Bar Yohai Sefardic Minyan (Orthodox) 1030 Astoria Dr., c/o SPHDS, Sunnyvale, 94087 (408) 746-0614 www.baryohai.org

Congregation Shir Hadash (Reform) 20 Cherry Blossom Lane, Los Gatos, 95032 (408) 358-1751 www.shirhadash.org

Chabad of Cupertino (Orthodox) (408) 207-3648 www.chabadofcupertino.com

Congregation Sinai (Conservative) 1532 Willowbrae Ave., San Jose, 95125 (408) 264-8542 www.sinai-sj.org

Chabad of S. Jose (Orthodox) 517 Blossom Hill Rd., #A4, Los Gatos, 95032 (408) 358-5530 www.chabadsj.com Chabad of Sunnyvale (Orthodox) (408) 720-0553 www.chabadsunnyvale.com Congregation Am Echad Torah Community (Orthodox) 1504 Meridian Ave., San Jose, 95125 (408) 267-2591 www.amechad.org Congregation Beth David (Conservative) 19700 Prospect Rd., Saratoga, 95070-3352 (408) 257-3333 www.beth-david.org

Temple Beth Sholom (Reform) P.O. Box 23397, San Jose, 95153 (408) 978-5566 Temple Emanu-El (Reform) 1010 University Ave., San Jose, 95126-1842 (408) 292-0939 www.templesanjose.org

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CONGREGATION SINAI Invites You, Your Family and Friends to its

Annual Second Night Community

PASSOVER SEDER Saturday, April 23, 2016 at 8 pm Spirited singing, engaging discussions and a delicious catered meal.

Fun for singles and families of all ages. Led by Rabbi Berkenwald.

Gourmet dinner catered by Lucy Fried.

(Vegetarian option available by pre-request) Subsidized Cost: $44 for adults $20 for children 5 to 12 Free for children 4 and under Sinai's annual seder is generously subsidized by our sponsor, Rina Katzen.

Seating is limited and will be filled on a first-come basis.

Kindly RSVP by Friday, April 15, 2016 by calling the Sinai office at 408-264-8542 or visiting the Sinai website www.sinai-sj.org for online registration.

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pass ver Help Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley by donating Passover food “Let all who are hungry come and eat; all who are needy can come and join the Passover celebration.” JFS SV is collecting and distributing Passover food to families and seniors in need in our community through the Project NOAH Passover Food Drive.

Food barrels will be placed March 25-April 13 throughout the community. Look for the JFS SV bins in these locations: both lobbies of the Levy Family Campus, Congregation Beth David, Congregation Emeth, Congregation Shir Hadash, Congregation Sinai, South Peninsula Hebrew Day School and Temple Emanu-El. We appreciate your contribution of the following wrapped Kosher for Passover 2016 food items: gefilte fish, horseradish, jam, candies, matzoh ball soup mix, latke mix, potato starch, grape juice, matzoh ball soup in a jar, matzoh, macaroons, cookies, dried fruit (pre-bagged or pre-boxed), matzoh meal, cake meal and tea.

Your generous support of this project helps others less fortunate in our community celebrate this important holiday. It also teaches children the importance of Tzedakah and Tikkun Olam. Thank you for your generosity in helping everyone in our community celebrate Passover and this Festival of Freedom.

For more information please contact JFS SV Volunteer Coordinator Sheila Monheit at (408) 357-7451 or sheilam@jfssv. org.

Rabbi’s column

By Rabbi Dana L. Magat, Temple Emanu-El Each year in the midst of our hectic springs we are blessed with the gift of Pesach (Passover). Pesach is one of the great holy days we have as a people. The theme of redemption and freedom are woven throughout the powerful story of our Exodus from Egypt. We are commanded in the book of Exodus to retell this story as a reminder of our freedom and to help the next generation understand that there is a price for freedom as well as a responsibility to ensure that every human being experiences freedom.

Although I normally do not keep Kosher, during Pesach it has been our family’s tradition to keep Kosher L’ Pesach (Kosher for Passover). I started this in my home many years ago because I felt that my children needed more than just a couple of Seders to drive the point home. By keeping Kosher for the week of Pesach, we recognize that our freedom is a blessing and a responsibility. So too, we must understand that our freedom is connected to everyone else’s freedom. We are not truly free until all people are free! That is why I have always appreciated adding the fourth matzah to our Seder table, which I believe began in the 70s, originally representing those in the Soviet Union who were not free to experience their Pesach. This evolved to Ethiopian Jews and then to other peoples, like those in Darfur. There seems to never have been a Pesach where there is not a group of people who are being mistreated by someone.

Pesach is also a celebration that brings our family and friends together, a time that we enjoy foods we only eat during this time of the year. We are blessed that in Jewish tradition life-cycle events and our holy days offer us a way to mark time and to punctuate our lives with a sense of holiness. Pesach is no exception. Pesach is a time to reflect on our lives and to begin anew.

So, too, Pesach is one of the New Year’s that our tradition offers. Unlike Rosh Hashanah, Pesach occurs in the midst of spring’s new life in nature.

New life is one of the great gifts we receive as humans. So, too, honoring new life is a wonderful part of our tradition—a reminder of the beauty of life in humans, animals and nature.

We have many reminders of the painful parts of life. At some point, each of us experiences the pain of death, the loss of a loved one. Those of you who belong to a synagogue probably have noticed especially during the winter months that there are more death notices sent out. We do this so that when a member of our congregational family is in the midst of grief, they know they have an extended family available to them, supporting them, helping them through a difficult time. Knowing that there is someone who cares and is able to be present can comfort one in grief. It is an important part of being in a synagogue. I would say it is one of the best parts. For we are all grievers at some point, and it can provide tremendous comfort knowing we are not alone.

Coming out of the winter months, we embrace spring and new life and new opportunities. Pesach is filled with its special smells, unique recipes, incredible rituals, and opportunities to embrace those unique “gem moments” with our dear ones. We never know how many of those moments we will be granted. So may this Pesach remind us of our rich and beautiful tradition, may we embrace the “gem moments” around the Seder, and may we take into our heart the message that Pesach reminds us each year: Freedom should not to be taken for granted and it is our responsibility to speak up for those who are not truly free.

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HALAQA-SEDER: MUSLIM AND JEWISH PERSPECTIVES ON THE EXODUS STORY SUNDAY, APRIL 3, 2016

4:00PM – 8:00PM CONGREGATION SHIR HADASH 20 CHERRY BLOSSOM WAY, LOS GATOS Dramatic reenactments of scenes from the Exodus Story from Muslim and Jewish scriptures Interfaith conversations • Halal/Kosher dinner $10 per person. Register at www.ing.org/halaqa-seder

Questions: Sean Rose, sean@ing.org, (408) 296-7312 or Diane Fisher, diane@jvalley.org, (408)357-7504 Convened by Islamic Networks Group (ING).

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Latinos and Jews making a difference

By Diane Fisher, Community Relations Council Director

Hearing Pastor Danny Sanchez express his deep and profound affection for the people and land of Israel just brings tears to your eyes. His friends worried he would get kidnapped by ISIS last year when he joined the Latinosphere Tech International Delegation to Israel organized by the Israeli Consulate of the Pacific Northwest. But Pastor Danny said he felt safer in Israel than anywhere else. His cohorts on the trip were all technology entrepreneurs, anxious to get to know people in the Start Up Nation. Pastor Danny calls himself a social impact entrepreneur, in his role as Pastor and lead chaplain for the mayor’s Gang Prevention Task Force. As a Christian he was touched by being in Jerusalem and the Galilee and feeling the Bible come to life.

Equal to the amazing places were the amazing people Pastor Danny met in Israel. He was inspired by the wisdom of Shimon Perez. But Yotam Dagan of NATAL, Israel Trauma Center for Victims of Terror and War, started a fire within Pastor Danny. Yotam talked about how virtually every adult and child in Israel is at risk for the potentially devastating impact of psychological trauma. But they have created a culture of acceptance of trauma counseling that makes a huge difference in Israeli resiliency. Pastor Danny saw the parallel with his work and became determined to bring Yotam and NATAL’s training to help his faith leaders create a culture of healing and break the cycle of violence in San Jose.

San Jose has gone from being the #1 safest city for its size in the country, to a #6 ranking. The violence is not just on the east side; there are now shootings happening on the south side and downtown. Pastor Danny feels that hiring more law enforcement is needed but it’s not the only solution, he wants to change people’s hearts. He wants to help youth heal from the violence and become hopeful for their future.

Pastor Danny personally knows about the struggle that gang youth face—he was part of that world. At age 29 he turned his life around, and his charismatic personality and deep belief in the possibility of redemption is driving change for many youth in San Jose.

He calls his ministry The City Peace Project, and it takes him day in and day out onto the streets, into hospital emergency rooms, and into the lives of youth. He has been recognized as a Whitehouse Champion of Change in Youth Violence Prevention by President Obama in 2012. His website www.thecitypeaceproject.org is full of his message of love over violence.

On Friday, April 1, at 11:30 a.m. at San Jose City Hall, Pastor Danny will have an opportunity to share his message of resiliency building, and we hope many community members will join him. A multi-disciplinary panel will discuss the needs, including Dr. Adella Garland, Chief of Trauma Surgery at Valley Medical Center; Maretta Juarez, Sr. Manager of the Family & Children Division of Santa Clara County Behavioral Health; District Attorney Jeff Rosen; and a representative from the San Jose Police Department. The dynamic Yotam Dagan from NATAL will be joined by Maya Tadmor-Anderman, the Executive Director of American Friends of NATAL, to share their Israeli model of treatment, prevention and public awareness. The program is free and a light lunch will be provided.

Reserve a seat at www.jvalley.org/ViolenceFree, and be part of making San Jose a thriving, safe city again. If you are interested in joining a Latino-Jewish coalition to make Pastor Danny’s dream of bringing NATAL training to San Jose a reality, contact me at diane@jvalley.org or (408) 357-7504.

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My experience at Song Leader Boot Camp

By Amanda Miller Through the generosity of the Jewish Foundation of Silicon Valley and Congregation Shir Hadash, I was able to attend this year’s Song Leader Boot Camp Conference in St. Louis, Missouri. Launched in 2009, Song Leader Boot Camp was designed to create immersive, inspirational, and strategic Jewish leadership programs for Jewish clergy, educators, and songleaders.

As part of the teenage track, I attended workshops that expanded on repertoire, connection with audience, and confident song leading. I learned how to become much more comfortable with the people I perform for in my local temple. I also learned a great number of new songs and melodies to share.

In addition to workshops, the conference included passionate Tefilah and closing ceremonies.

It was amazing to see the spiritual connection all these people across the country shared over Jewish music. We were all harmonizing, creating additional parts, and dancing along to all of the prayers with full energy.

I was initially nervous because I didn’t know anyone at the conference, but I made many new friends my first night and found plenty of people to spend time with. Some my age, and others not, were all excellent partners in Jewish traditions, as well as in unrelated secular jam sessions.

Overall, the conference was excellent. The St. Louis JCC used their facility to host this event and made all attending feel very welcome. The experience was definitely transformative in reconnecting me with my faith. Everyone who had attended before spoke so highly of the conference, saying it gets better year after year. I feel so blessed to have had the opportunity to meet people dedicated to their Jewish identities through the excitement and creativity of music. I look forward to applying my skills at Shir Hadash, in my volunteer work and through other song-leading opportunities!

A big Todah Rabah to JFSV and Congregation Shir Hadash for sending me. This has been a gift that will continue to serve me for the rest of my life. I hope to attend next year’s Song Leader Boot Camp as well!

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Building a bridge to eternity

By Elizabeth R. Klein, Chevra Kadisha of the South Bay On February 14, the Chevra Kadisha of the South Bay sponsored a lecture by Doron Kornbluth, author of “Why be Jewish?” and “Raising Kids to Love being Jewish.” A well-known author and international speaker, Kornbluth discussed a very troubling trend among American Jews, researched and presented in his latest book entitled “Cremation or Burial, A Jewish View.”

The Jewish people have always buried their dead. In fact, the Torah begins and ends with very notable burials…as Avraham buries Sarah in B’reishis (Genesis) and G-d buries Moshe in Devarim (Deuteronomy). The burial of all the forefathers and mothers are noted here. Indeed this is the practice of all monotheistic peoples and indicates an acknowledgement of the holiness of the human body and the dignity that must be accorded it, even in death.

‘It’s what we’ve always done; it’s part of who we are.’ It always has been, but burial seems to be falling out of favor with many American Jews. This sacred tradition is now being threatened, as over 40% of American Jews are now choosing cremation over traditional burial.

In states such as New York, Florida and California, the percentage is even higher! How can that possibly be? Mr. Kornbluth listed several common reasons for this change as: various environmental concerns, dispersed family concerns, a feeling of discomfort with decomposition, a trend of distancing from tradition, and the bottom line...cost.

Taking each of these reasons, one by one, Kornbluth exposed many myths and misconceptions regarding both the process of cremation and the Jewish ritual of burial.

In terms of protecting the environment, Jewish tradition is actually the paradigm of environmental consciousness. In contrast to mainline American practice, in which metal caskets and/or formaldehyde and other toxic chemicals for embalming have been used, Jews bury their dead in plain wood coffins, with no metal to corrode and no embalming fluids to pollute.

In contrast, cremation actually releases pollutants into the atmosphere while consuming almost 2 million BTUs of energy over 1.5 to 2 hours.

The concern related to our dispersed families is that “no one will be there to visit my grave anyway, so why bother?” Mr. Kornbluth emphasized that some mistakenly believe that burial and visitation are related. They’re not! G-d himself chose to bury Moshe Rabbeinu in a secret location, certainly knowing full well that his grave would never be visited. Having a burial site does afford the opportunity for family members to visit if they wish to, or for future generations to ‘pay their respects’ to their loved ones. The very phrase pay one’s respect connotes the sanctity of the deceased. Burial is, therefore, not for the benefit of the survivors. Cremation, in contrast, falsely assumes that ‘Grandma’s remains’ will be neatly presented in a box or urn. However, that urn or box contains absolutely nothing of Grandma! The process of incineration, pounding, sifting and grinding completely destroys any DNA that once defined who this human being once was.

A “basic discomfort with decomposition” has been cited by others as their reason for choosing cremation. Although

decomposition may not present a particularly pleasant image, it is, in fact, the natural process of all living things. Plants live, grow, bloom, die, and return to the earth. Animals are born, live, grow, die, and return to the earth. Humans are born, live, grow, die, and should also be lovingly returned to the earth.

Cremation, as noted above, is an unnatural, artificial and extremely violent process of disposal that is neither ‘quick’ nor ‘easy’ on the body.

Mr. Kornbluth does acknowledge that there is one rationale that actually does have some validity…cost. Cremation is often less expensive than burial. However, some things in life are just simply worth the cost. Why? Mr. Kornbluth cited several reasons, including the fact that burial is part of our religion. Cremation is completely against Jewish tradition...and halachah (Jewish law).

Second, despite the fact that our ‘modern’ society seems to eschew both old age and death, they are each integral parts of our religious as well as natural life cycle. Healthy societies require the presence of cemeteries and the dead. Life is not a snapshot; it’s more of a video and we are in the middle looking back at the past. We see what people did before us, and we are preparing for generations of the future.

When a Jew dies, the mourners tear their garments (kriah).

Tearing kriah signifies that we are torn by this death. This tear is also a symbol for others to identify the mourners. If you think about it, the planet, Mother Earth, the ground itself actually “tears kriah” as well. A hole is made as the grave is dug. The earth is no longer ‘normal.’ Then gently, lovingly, the properly dressed body, within a plain pine aron (casket), is placed inside.

Family and friends slowly and respectfully cover the casket, filling the ground back up. But…there is always a headstone, a scar, so to speak, because the loss is never fully filled.

Our holy Torah is certainly the most sacred object in all of Judaism. If, for some reason, a damaged Torah scroll cannot be restored, it is accorded the honor of burial. If there were, G-d forbid, a fire in a shul, members would certainly try to rescue the sifrei Torah if possible. Yet, if there is any reasonable chance that one might be injured trying to do so, we are forbidden to rescue our most sacred object. Why? Because as holy and special as the Torah is, a human body is holier.

How we handle this final important decision for our loved ones and ourselves has powerful implications for our families and ourselves, as well as for generations of Jews who follow us.

To choose burial over cremation is a choice that all Jews should make. It is the final act in life to show our connection to the Jewish people.

Mr. Kornbluth summarized it beautifully. “I’m a Jew. I may not be the most religious Jew, and I may or may not have done things differently given the chance. However, I was born a Jew, I’m proud to be a Jew, and when I die, I want to be buried as Jews have died and have been buried for over 3000 years. That’s a beautiful, true, and powerful message…and it works.

For more information, please access the Chevra Kadisha website at www.ckosb.org. To reach the Chevra Kadisha directly, please call Menashe Taban at (408) 425-6911 or Pat Bergman at (408) 264-3138.

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A different approach to intergenerational philanthropy Lauder Family Giving Circle recognizes Ten Gav for its innovative technology and tzedakah-based platform to help Israelis in need.

A grant from the Lauder Family Giving Circle brings focus to a new non-profit in Israel through a unique giving model called Ten Gav. Recently the Lauder Family Giving Circle granted nearly $5,200 was designated to help fund seven cases and $2,000 was granted towards the support of Ten Gav’s website.

Ten Gav provides the platform and the access for everyday people to contribute to real needs of Israelis that have been verified by professional social workers and thereby allows donors to give confidently, knowing that their dollars are making a real difference in someone’s life. No single need listed exceeds $1,500 or 5,000 shekels, so even relatively modest donations represent a meaningful portion of that item.

Since launching in December 2014, Ten Gav has funded over 120 cases. Ten Gav utilizes an Internet giving model based on crowd Naomi Jacobs Brounstein and Vivi Mann funding to find more and better ways for Israeli families-in-need to leave the cycle of poverty and create better lives for themselves and their families. They work directly with social workers around Israel who are looking for ways to help their clients with needs that cannot be funded by the existing social services structure. For more information on Ten Gav, its education initiatives with day schools and Ten Gav’s Bar or Bat Mitzvah Tzedakah Project.

l cal news Yavneh Day School participates in Technion challenge

By Joy Null For the first time ever, RAVSAK (the Jewish Community Day School Network) and Technion — Israel Institute of Technology invited day school students around the world to participate in the Technion Jewish Day School Challenge by building Pesachthemed Rube Goldberg machines. Yavneh Day School sixth graders are participating in the challenge where they will submit a video of a Rube Goldberg machine that completes the task of revealing a Seder plate. This is an exciting and challenging JSTEAM (science, technology, engineering, art and music through a Jewish lens) project that combines Jewish text study with science and engineering. Five student teams are each focusing on three elements of the Passover story. At the culmination of the project, the teams will come together to showcase the 15 ritual steps of Passover through the Rube Goldberg machines.

“The Lauder family personally reviewed the cases on the site and was instrumental in helping numerous families through their generous donation. They were able to experience the same personal connection, just like any visitor entering the site would,” explains Naomi Brounstein, Ten Gav’s co-founder. “We are appreciative of the recognition and support the Lauder Family Giving Circle has provided to increase our impact throughout the country.”

For additional information about Yavneh Day School go to www.yavnehdayschool.org or call (408) 984-6700.

Since their children were in high school, Laura and Gary Lauder decided to provide Eliana and Josh with a different model when it came to engaging the younger generation in family philanthropy. They understand that it is their responsibility to teach and engage their two children in the tradition of giving and in the mitzvah of tzedakah. Laura’s motto is, “This is not about getting our kids involved in our foundation, but getting us all involved in philanthropy together.” The inspiration originated from their children’s experience volunteering on the Jewish Teen Foundation Board where they worked with 23 other teens to make philanthropic decisions based on consensus-building discussions. Soon after, they launched the Lauder Family Giving Circle.

As he says, “If people are motivated by a particular individual and they connect, they’re with you! I’ve been known to be a pied piper and people will follow my lead. If I structurally had something, and tried to replicate it elsewhere, would it be successful if I weren’t the one making it happen? I question that, I don’t know.

There are different leaders out there, and I strive to be an inspirational leader and I like it. I like seeing kids smiling and having fun and when I walk into the classroom kids scream, ‘Phil’s here!’ I’m not the big scary principal that blows whistles. I don’t operate by scaring kids into learning.

They’re glad to be here, that’s what we’re after.”

As they have done for the past five years, Eliana and Josh select a topic for the Lauder Family Giving Circle and contribute their own money toward the grantmaking pool, which is then matched by their parents. The children take turns leading the grant round. To encourage others to engage in family philanthropy, the Lauders invite friends and extended family members to participate in the board meeting. Together, they review multiple proposals and award grants through a comprehensive, thoughtful, and engaging board meeting process. To date, $200,000 in grants has been distributed to support organizations that have focused on alleviating poverty, providing job training and promoting early childhood literacy.

For further information about Ten Gav, contact info@tengav.org or www.tengav.org.

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If anyone would like to have a conversation or come look at Temple Emanu-El Religious School, Director of Education Phil Hankin, has an open door for everyone.

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ONGOING EVENTS SUNDAYS Death and Dying Course Emanu-El, 11:30 AM, 4/3, 4/24, 5/1 Join Rabbi Magat for this course that will investigate Traditional and Reform Jewish practices, customs, and concepts surrounding death.

We will also discuss some of the important issues that surround bereavement and the grieving process. Finally, we will investigate some modern theories concerning the stages of grief. We will also spend time discussing life after death and how death relates to our beliefs. 292-0939, megan@templesanjose.org MONDAYS Lean in Circle Beth David, 7:30 PM, 4/11, 5/9 Women’s networking and support group inspired by Sheryl Sandberg’s book “Lean In.” 257-3333, cbd.leanin@beth-david.org TUESDAYS Yiddish Conversation Group Beth David, 3 PM, 4/5, 4/19, 5/3, 5/17 Enjoy Yiddish conversation, jokes, and more with Yiddish speakers of all levels. 257-3333 cbd.yiddish@beth-david.org A Taste of Judaism Emanu-El, 6 PM, 5/10, 5/17, 5/24 All are welcome. You don’t have to be Jewish to be curious. But you do have to register so we can save you a seat! Enjoy three weekly classes on the modern Jewish take on spirituality, values, and community. Our classes are dynamic and interactive; our teachers are accessible, engaging, and can answer any and all of your questions. megan@templesanjose.org, 292-0939

Israeli Dancing Emanu-El, 7:30 PM, 4/5, 4/19 Put on your dancing shoes and join this free dancing class taught by our very own Loui Tucker. No dance experience necessary and everyone from the community is welcome to join. 292-0939, megan@templesanjose.org WEDNESDAYS Ima & Me Playgroup at Sinai Sinai, 9 AM Every Wednesday when the Sinai Nursery School is in session, join other moms and bond with your child while exploring their world through play, music, and movement!

For children age two and under.

264-8542,SinaiNurserySchool@ Sinai-SJ.org THURSDAYS Silicon Valley Beit Midrash Sinai, 9:30 AM Join Rabbi Josh Berkenwald for in-depth study of Jewish thought, belief, and practice.

No fee; drop-ins are welcome; no experience necessary.

Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 Women’s Study Group: American Jewish Women Speaking Out Shir Hadash, 10:30 AM, 4/21, 5/19 Focus on American Jewish Women and Politics. $10 for the booklet of readings. 3581751, patty@shirhadash.org Freilache Menschen Retirees Group Luncheon Shir Hadash, 11:30 AM, 4/14, 5/12 A monthly lecture, discussion, performance or film. Program and a light lunch. $5/person donation. 358-1751, shanda@shirhadash.org FRIDAYS Alzheimers Caregivers Support Group Shir Hadash, 10 AM, 4/8, 5/13 A support group for anyone

trying to navigate the day-today difficulties of caregiving. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 Friday Talmud Study: Tractate Megillah Beth David, 10 AM Join Rabbi Ohriner to study Tractate Megillah, containing laws of Purim, Torah reading, and synagogue practices. 2573333, adulted@beth-david.org Jewish Ethics Discussion Beth David, 11:15 AM Explore the wisdom of Jewish ethical teachings in this participant-led group. 257-3333 AdultEd@beth-david.org Senior Shabbat Lunch APJCC, Noon, 3/25, 4/8, 5/20 Enjoy a catered hot lunch followed by entertainment. $6/JCC member; $8.50/nonmember; or $10 at the door. cherie@apjcc.org, 357-7462 PJ Shabbat Beth David, 6 PM, 4/15, 5/20 The program is geared for children 6 and under. Older siblings welcome. Service and crafts are free of course!

Dinner: $10/adult; $2/child aged 3-12; under 3 free. info@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Tot Shabbat with Catered Dinner Emanu-El, 6 PM, 4/15, 5/20 The perfect way to teach your children about Shabbat! Led by Rabbi Magat and Cantor Meeka Simerly, families with young children will enjoy upbeat songs, a short story, and a talk with the Rabbi on the bimah.

All are welcome to these brief services on the third Friday of each month. Stay after services and enjoy a delicious dinner provided by Sisterhood at no charge! 292-0939, megan@templesanjose.org Shabbatluck Dinner Emanu-El, 6:15 PM, 4/1, 5/6 These potluck dinners take place throughout the religious school year on the first Friday of each month. 292-0939, megan@templesanjose.org

SATURDAYS Netivot Haneshamah: Praying with Your Body a Jewish Yoga Experience Beth David, 10:30 AM, 4/9, 5/14 Jenessa Schwartz, a lay person who loves yoga and has a spiritual connection with Judaism will guide both yoga lovers and those that want to experiment with the mind, body, spirit connection. info@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Tot Shabbat Beth David, 11:15 AM, 3/26, 4/9, 4/23, 5/14 For ages 5 and under. Relaxing, lighthearted, interactive, Shabbat program for tots.

Includes songs, stories, puppets and more. info@beth-david.org, 257-3333

UPCOMING EVENTS FRIDAY, MARCH 25 Rock Shabbat Service Emanu-El, 7:30 PM An innovative and joyous worship experience with musicians and singers joining Cantor Meeka Simerly and Rabbi Dana Magat.

Congregational singing is definitely encouraged, as is dancing in the aisles. 292-0939, megan@templesanjose.org Russian-Speaking PJ Library Purim Stories and Shabbat Levy Family Campus, 6 PM Russian-speaking PJ Library families and friends with children 6 and younger. Join in a non-traditional Shabbat with Purim stories, demonstrate your costume and do not miss on homentashen. Participation by reservation only. $10/child; $5/adult. russianpj@library.org, 357-7501 Shabbat Service with the Youth Group Shir Hadash, 8 PM Service with High School Youth Group, SHAGY. There is sure to be extra ruach! 358-1751, nadine@shirhadash.org

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SATURDAY, MARCH 26 Approachable Torah with Rabbi Berkowitz Beth David, 10:30 AM Connect Torah lessons to your life. Participants discover how to spin drash (a lesson of meaning). info@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Shabbat Schmooze: Doug Brook presents “The Diary of Anne Frank” Beth David, 1:30 PM AdultEd@beth-david.org, 257-3333 SUNDAY, MARCH 27 Hamans and Torquemadas: A Very Different Look at Jews and Politics Sinai, 10 AM Are Jews liberal or conservative? What impact has Jewish interests had on U.S. public policy? What has motivated Jewish political participation? You may have preconceived ideas about Jews and politics in the United States, but keep an open mind and join us as this noted historian gives us a new perspective on the American Jewish political experience. All community members welcome.

Free. No RSVP necessary. Light refreshments will be served.

Limmud@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 Purim Carnival at CBD Beth David, 11:30 AM NEW GAMES!!! INFLATABLES!!!

PRIZES!!!! CRAFTS!!!! FOOD!!!! info@beth-david.org, 257-3333 THURSDAY, MARCH 31 Birds of Longing: Reception and Interfaith Panel APJCC, 5:30 PM A panel discussion about the interweaving of words, beliefs, and philosophies among Judaism, Christianity, and Islam. Panelists include Maha Elgenaidi from the Islamic Networks Group, Rev. Dr. D. Andrew Kille from the Educational Center, Rabbi Susan Iliinsky from VITAS Healthcare and artist Laurie Wohl. Admission is $12 (JCC member price $10). emily@apjcc.org, 357-7492

FRIDAY, APRIL 1 Caring Committee Shabbat Service: Caring for the Whole Person Shir Hadash, 7:30 PM On Shabbat, gather to pray for the healing of congregants and their loved ones. We learn through announcements of the illnesses and need for medical care of our members who wish to have their names read publicly. For those living with mental illnesses, there are opportunities to benefit from the blessings and support from the community. Often members choose not to disclose their hospitalizations or need for treatment publicly due to concerns about stigma. When individuals and their loved ones cope silently, the process of recovery in the context of their community is diminished. 3581751, nadine@shirhadash.org Kabbalat Shabbat Service and Dinner Sinai, 6 PM Bring in Shabbat with a lively Kabbalat Shabbat service followed by a delectable dinner at 7 p.m. Reservations required for dinner: Early Bird Special (RSVP by noon on Tuesday, March 29) $20/ adult (age 13 and up); $5/child age 5-12; free under age 5; $54 maximum/family. Regular price for dinner: $24/adult (age 13 and up): $10/child age 5-12; free under age 5; $65 maximum/family.

Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 Scout Shabbat Family Service with 1st Grade Emanu-El, 7 PM Scouts from the Congregation and around the South Bay are invited to attend a Shabbat service, coming in uniform.

This service includes the participation of our First Grade Class. 292-0939, megan@templesanjose.org TGI Shabbat – April Fools Be Happy Its Adar II Beth David, 6:30 PM TGI Shabbat is a potluck dinner for the whole congregation to enjoy. info@Beth-david.org, 257-3333

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Violence-Free, Resilient Communities San Jose City Hall, 11:30 AM A special community awareness program to learn what is needed for our community to thrive, despite ongoing challenges, and how we can help address the needs. People from the faith community, medicine, behavioral health, justice and law enforcement communities are invited to join together in learning from two panels of experts and our multi-disciplinary conversation. diane@jvalley.org, 357-7504 SATURDAY, APRIL 2 Hot Topics in Halakhah Today Beth David, 1:30 PM What topics of Jewish law is Rabbi Ohriner studying?

Join Rabbi Ohriner to learn about the hottest halakhic issues facing our kehillah, the Conservative movement, and the Jewish world. 257-3333, AdultEd@beth-david.org Netivot Haneshama: Mindfulness and Meditation Beth David, 10:30 AM info@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Sisterhood Shabbat Sinai, 9 AM Women-led Shabbat morning services, followed by Kiddush luncheon. Free and open to all.

Sisterhood@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 South Bay Teen Idol Finals APJCC, 7 PM Come hear some of the South Bay’s best teen vocalists compete for the South Bay Teen Idol title and a $2,500 prize. Judges will select the top 3 contestants and then the audience will choose this year’s South Bay Teen Idol.

General admission: $35/adult, $15/student/child/senior.

Reserved seating: $45/person.

VIP tickets: $100 and include reserved seating and admission to the after-party with the

finalists and judges. diana@apjcc.org, 358-3636 SUNDAY, APRIL 3 Bagels and Bingo!

Levy Family Campus Auditiorium, 11 AM-1 PM Yavneh Parents Association event is a morning brunch of bagels with the fixings and Bingo-playing with the whole family. Brunch included with purchase of Bingo cards. RSVP: ypa@yavnehdayschool.org, 984-6700 Book Group – “Life Before Us” Shir Hadash, 10:45 AM A discussion of the novel that is the story of a young Arab boy abandoned by his mother who is raised by the Jewish Holocaust survivor Madame Rosa. A tale of cross cultural life and loss that will move your heart. 358-1751, nadine@shirhadash.org Muslim-Jewish Halaqa-Seder: A Celebration of the Exodus Story Shir Hadash, 4-8 PM See ad on page 18.

FRIDAY, APRIL 8 Shabbat Mishpacha and Spaghetti Dinner Sinai, 5 PM A fun, musical service with Rabbi Berkenwald and Morah Jamie. Welcome Shabbat with songs and laughter and join us afterward for a delicious kosher dairy spaghetti dinner.

Early bird pricing (before 4 p.m., Tuesday, April 5): $7/ adult; $5/child (2-12 years); toddlers eat free. Standard pricing: $10/adult; $8/child; toddlers eat free.

Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 SATURDAY, APRIL 9 Babies and Bagels: Baby Shabbat Emanu-El, 9 AM A Shabbat experience geared towards families with children

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by Stuart Rojstaczer, led

by Ruth Kohan. 257-3333, AdultEd@beth-david.org Reader’s Theatre: “The Diary of Anne Frank” APJCC, 7 PM See article on page 9.

SUNDAY, APRIL 10 Exploring the World of Judaism – What is Jewish Music?

Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM Jewish music is a mirror of Jewish life, whether in synagogue, at home and community, or along the path of life cycle and general Jewish experiences. In this session we will explore a few different styles of Jewish music from near and far, from past to present. 358-1751, nadine@shirhadash.org Hiking Meet-up – Sunday Stroll Beth David, 10 AM Join with others at congregation Beth David who love to walk. The walk will be a 5-mile loop around Saratoga starting at the synagogue. info@beth-david.org, 257-3333 History of American Jewish Comedy Sinai, 10 AM-Noon Professor Bruce Thompson examines diverse sources to explore the many varieties of Jewish humor and their historical contexts. Free.

No RSVP necessary. Light refreshments will be served.

Limmud@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542

Reader’s Theatre: “The Diary of Anne Frank” APJCC, 2 PM See article on page 9.

Women’s Seder 2016 Shir Hadash, 2 PM Celebrate the feminine side of the Passover Seder. $5/ Sisterhood member; $10/nonmember. Please pay at the door. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 Silicon Valley Holocaust Survivors Association (SVHSA) APJCC, 10:30 AM A bagel brunch for survivors and their families. In addition to brunch there is always entertainment and/or an educational program included.

Admission is free, but an optional $5 donation at the door will help defray our costs. cherie@apjcc.org, 357-7462 USY Chocolate Seder Sinai, 2 PM A fun and interactive Seder for teens in the 8-12th grades.

Everything used during the usual Seder is replaced with a yummy chocolate or candy equivalent. 264-8542, USYAdvisor@Sinai-SJ.org TUESDAY, APRIL 12 “The Mathematician’s Shiva” Beth David, 7:30 PM Author Stuart Rojstaczer discusses his witty and poignant novel about the chaotic shiva of a brilliant mathematician who has taken the solution to a vexing equation to her grave.

AdultEd@beth-david.org, 257-3333 WEDNESDAY, APRIL 13 Lunch and Learn Emanu-El, Noon Bring a sack lunch and join Rabbi Magat to share in a stimulating discussion of recent events, political happenings, and other relevant topics related to current events.

This event is open to the community. 292-0939, megan@templesanjose.org THURSDAY, APRIL 14 Power of Women...Walking In Her Shoes Levy Family Campus, 7 PM See ad on page 33.

FRIDAY, APRIL 15 Anniversary Shabbat Service with the Choir Shir Hadash, 8 PM Be a part of a very special Shabbat service to celebrate our 36 years as a sacred community, the 25 years of dedicated service of our Senior Rabbi Melanie Aron, and the 20 years of dedicated service of our Cantor Devorah FelderLevy. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 Meet Jane Weitzman Private Home, 8-10 AM Meet Jane Weitzman for brunch at the home of Susan Sweedler, LOJE Chair. Lions are those women who give a minimum gift of $5,000 to the 2016 Annual Camapign. Each Lion will receive Jane Weitzman’s Book “Art & Sole.” 357-7508, michellen@jvalley.org SATURDAY, APRIL 16 Jewish Artists Group Beth David, 1:30 PM Presentations and discussions on Judaica. Dahlia Perahia will do a presentation on Passover art. Everyone is welcome, whether member of CBD or visitor, including nonartists, too! 257-3333, cbd. artistsgroup@beth-david.org Netivot Haneshama – A Leaning Minyan Beth David, 10:30 AM For those who want to understand the prayers, psalms and choreography of the Shabbat service so that it can deepen a meaningful personal and communal experience. info@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Passover Tot Shabbat with Shir Fun Shir Hadash, 10 AM Rabbi Levenberg will lead a brief Shabbat Service with

songs and stories in the main Sanctuary, followed by crafts, playtime, schmoozing and snacks in the Oneg Room. 3581751, shanda@shirhadash.org Sisterhood Family Game Night Emanu-El, 6:30-9:30 PM $3/member; $5/couple; $10/ family. Non-member prices: $5/person; $10/couple; $15/ family. PLUS bring a snack to share. Cold drinks, coffee and tea, and dessert provided

by Sisterhood. You may bring other liquid refreshment. RSVP to sisterhood@templesanjose. org. 292-0939, megan@templesanjose.org SUNDAY, APRIL 17 Ashkenazi Jewry in Northern France and the Rhineland Beth David, 10:30 AM Dr. Fred Astren discusses the origin of Ashkenazi Jewry in Northern France and the Rhineland and their influence on the development of Judaism in Europe. 257-3333, AdultEd@beth-david.org Fun and Sports with Friends APJCC, 11 AM Kids with special needs and their families are invited to enjoy baseball, basketball, tennis, and soccer on the athletic field at the AddisonPenzak JCC. Each child will have the option to be paired with a volunteer and will rotate among the activities.

This event is free and open to the public, but you must RSVP. josh@apjcc.org, 357-7447 Healthy Living Fair Shir Hadash, 10 AM Congregation Shir Hadash, in conjunction with many other community service, health care and religious organizations produces an annual Healthy Living Fair. The fair provides sevices to under-served and/ or uninsured families. Sevices include medical and dental screening, care and care referrals. 358-1751, nadine@shirhadash.org

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L’Dor V’Dor – Hillel of Silicon Valley’s Annual Event Fourth Street Garage, San Jose, 11 AM See article on page 8.

Knitzvah Meeting JFS, 10:30 AM Knitzvah is a JFS volunteer group of knitters, crocheters and seamstresses of all ages.

They meet monthly to create beautiful handmade creations.

Knitzvah distributes these gifts to 18 nonprofits. All ages and levels of experience are welcome. Come and be a part of this dynamic group or donate yarn to help them meet the needs of our community. loric@jfssv.org, 556-0600 What Really Happened in the Exodus: A Discovery Day for Kids and Parents Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM See article on page 11.

WEDNESDAY, APRIL 20 Eat Your Hametz Out! Beth David, 11 AM See ad on page 6.

SATURDAY, APRIL 23 Second Night Sedar Emanu-El, 5 PM Enjoy a warm Seder and have a joyous time with your friends, family and loved ones as we explore the story of the Exodus from Egypt. Passover dinner served; bring your own wine.

Vegetarian meals available upon request. 292-0939, megan@templesanjose.org Congregational Community Seder Shir Hadash, 5 PM No one should be alone without a Seder to attend. The Passover Dinner will be catered at a cost of $30/person, $15/youth 5-15 years old, and free for 4 and under. We will use a full but contemporary Haggadah and share in the ancient story and modern reflections on the meaning of freedom and of our history. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751

Annual Second Night Passover Seder Sinai, 8 PM Join us with Rabbi Josh Berkenwald to re-experience the Exodus from Egypt with a participatory and interactive program and a delicious catered, kosher-for-Passover meal. Subsidized cost: $44/ adult; $20/child 5 to 12; free for child under age 5. RSVP on or before Monday, April 18.

Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 WEDNESDAY, APRIL 27 Annual Holocaust Remembrance Museum Beth David, 10 AM Our annual Holocaust Remembrance Museum is open to the public as a contemplative and learning space so that we can help the people of today learn from past intolerances and work towards a more just tomorrow. info@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Holocaust Remembrance Day Speaker APJCC, 7 PM “Two Among the Righteous Few: A Story of Courage in the Holocaust” author and public speaker Marty Brounstein, will be speaking. (Holocaust Remembrance Day is May 5 this year. We will be having our speaker a bit early.) Hear the remarkable true story about a Catholic couple in the Netherlands who, despite great risk and danger, helped save the lives of at least two dozen Jews from certain death during World War II. Brounstein will also explain the meaningful personal connection that inspires him to tell and retell the story of their heroic actions. His book will be available for purchase and signing after the presentation. $12 general admission; $10/ JCC member. events@apjcc.org, 357-7411 Lunch and Learn Torah Study Emanu-El, Noon Join Rabbi Magat for an informal study and discussion session of a selected Torah portion. We will navigate through traditional

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Shabbat in Nature is sponsored by the Ritual Committee and sometimes involves nature-

related education along with family activities, such as visiting Happy Hollow Park and Zoo. 292-0939, megan@templesanjose.org Double Chai Gala Shir Hadash, 7 PM Congregation Shir Hadash is Double Chai! Join us for a celebratory gala dinner honoring our 36th year as a community and our 25th year with Rabbi Aron. Dinner, dancing, live auction and more. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 SUNDAY, MAY 1 Exploring the World of Judaism – Social Justice, Ethics & Hebrew Prophets Shir Hadash, 9:30 AM Join Rabbi Shreibman as he tracks the dynamic impact of the prophets on Jesus, Paul, and Mohammed as well as Martin Luther King, Jr., and other civil rights leaders, while helping us determine the lasting values to our leaders, our society and to ourselves. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 Piano Concert APJCC, 1 PM Misha Galant, age 17, began piano lessons at the age of six with his mother and current teacher, Olya Katsman. His musical heritage includes three generations of pianists, including his great-grandfather who studied with Heinrich Neuhaus in Kiev, Ukraine. Misha has won first prize in several piano competitions including the 2015 San Jose International Piano Competition and is one of ten recipients of the Chopin Scholarship from the Chopin Foundation of the United States. He will be playing music by Russian composers.

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FRIDAY, MAY 6 TGI Shabbat and Potluck Beth David, 6:30 PM TGI Shabbat is a potluck dinner for the whole congregation to enjoy. Everyone joining our potluck should bring a dish to share. info@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Volunteer Recognition Shabbat Service 2016 Shir Hadash, 8 PM Annual recognition of the people who make Shir Hadash an amazing, vibrant and active community. Join for a service with our volunteer choir and a special Oneg hosted by the Board of Directors. All are welcome. 358-1751, nadine@shirhadash.org SATURDAY, MAY 7 Hot Topics in Halakhah Today Beth David, 1:30 PM What topics of Jewish law is Rabbi Ohriner studying?

Join Rabbi Ohriner to learn about the hottest halakhic issues facing our kehillah, the Conservative movement, and the Jewish world. 257-3333, AdultEd@beth-david.org Mindfulness and Meditation Beth David, 10:30 AM Using Hassidic texts and stories, participants will have the opportunity to find personal meaning in Jewish prayer and discover that these current spiritual tools are rooted in the Jewish experience. info@beth-david.org, 257-3333 TUESDAY, MAY 10 Current Issues Affecting Israel and the Middle East Beth David, 7:30 PM Israeli Consul General Dr. Andy David discusses external and internal developments affecting Israel. 257-3333, adulted@beth-david.org

WEDNESDAY, MAY 11 Yom Hazikaron/Yom Ha’atzmaut Performance and Party SPHDS, 5 PM maya.yaniv@sphds.org, 738-3060 FRIDAY, MAY 13 Family Shabbat Dinner Shir Hadash, 6 PM RSVP. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 Family Shabbat Service & Teacher Recognition Shir Hadash, 7 PM A lively, 45-minute service with fresh stories and handsfree Siddur, oriented to K-5 and honoring our dedicated Religious School teachers, is filled with camp-style music. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 SATURDAY, MAY 14 Gala Emanu-El, 6 PM A glamorous night celebrating the golden age and rising stars of Temple Emanu-El! Event features cocktails, dinner, dancing, walk of fame, paparazzi interviews on the red carpet, silent auction, and raffle. 292-0939, stephanie@templesanjose.org Jewish Book Discussion Group Beth David, 1:30 PM Shmuel Shultz will lead a discussion of “Odessa: Genius and Death in a City of Dreams”

by Charles King. Unlike so many other great cities, the foundation of Odessa is not lost in the mists of a distant legendary past; it was formally founded by a decree of Russian empress Catherine the Great in 1794. Odessa has a long and fascinating, if often tragic, history. All adults and mature teens are welcome. info@beth-david.org, 257-3333

Class of 5777 B’nei Mitzvah Inauguration Sinai, 9 AM During Shabbat services, B’Nei Mitzvah students of the class of 5777 will participate in leading services. Parents will be presenting their children with chumashim. Please join the community as we welcome next year’s B’nei Mitzvah Class of 5777! Office@Sinai-SJ.org, 264-8542 SUNDAY, MAY 15 Kehillah Rocks – Annual Gala Fox Theatre, Redwood City, CA, 7-11 PM Kehillah Jewish High School’s Annual Gala will honor music teachers Tony Quartuccio and Tom Romero. Proceeds from the event support the Alison Ruebusch scholarship fund.

We believe that a Kehillah education should not be a privilege enjoyed only by those who can afford it. It should be accessible to all capable students who seek a rewarding education, regardless of their family’s economic status. For ticket, sponsorship and RSVP info: jcircle@kehillah.org, (650) 213-9600 x125 The Decline of Ashkenaz Beth David, 10:30 AM Dr. Fred Astren will discuss the decline of Ashkenaz from Crusades, oppression, and expulsions to the time when a new chapter in their history began in Poland. info@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Yom Ha’atzamaut Artists 4 Israel Levy Family Campus, 10 AM See ad on page 2.

THURSDAY, MAY 19 Author David Greene Speaks at the APJCC APJCC, 7 PM David Greene is the author of “Midnight in Siberia” and cohost of National Public Radio’s Morning Edition. Free for JCC members; $7/non-member. events@apjcc.org, 357-7411

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FRIDAY, MAY 20 Lion Event – Annieglass Factory Watsonville, 10 AM Join us for our trip to Watsonville to visit the Annieglass studio as well as the Watsonville farmers market. Transportation will be provided.$54/person. 357-7508 michellen@jvalley.org Adult Ed Retreat at Asilomar Shir Hadash, 2 PM Get away from the hustle and bustle of daily life and enjoy a special weekend with your Shir Hadash friends at Asilomar Conference Center in Pacific Grove. nadine@shirhadash.org, 358-1751 SATURDAY, MAY 21 Jewish Artists Group Beth David, 1:30 PM Jessica Leash will present on the history of Chassidic niggunim (songs.) Meeting begins immediately after kiddush lunch. Everyone is welcome. info@beth-david.org, 257-3333 SUNDAY, MAY 22 Biking Group Meet Up and Ride Beth David, 10 AM Join others who love to ride!

Ride is about 20 miles long and leaves from the synagogue parking lot. Will be cancelled if raning. info@beth-david.org, 257-3333 Knitzvah Meeting Levy Family Campus, 10:30 AM Knitzvah is a Jewish Family Services’ volunteer group of knitters, crocheters and seamstresses of all ages. The group creates handmade items and distributes these gifts to 18 nonprofits. loric@jfssv.org, 357-7467 NextGen on the Vine Ruth Roberts Collective, 2 PM Wine tasting event that includes tasting fees, first glass of wine, and visit from local winemaker Adam Comartin of Comartin Cellars. $22 before 5/10, $30 after. becka@jvalley.org, 357-7502

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obituaries AARON BERMAN

November 28, 1920 – January 2, 2016 Aaron Berman of Saratoga passed away in his home. He had just celebrated his 95th birthday with all of his loved ones a month before. He was born in Youngstown, OH to Jacob & Anna Berman.

His family relocated to the Los Angeles area when he was a young boy and then moved to San Jose in the mid 1930s. Here, he met the love of his life, Evelyn Berman. They married on December 3, 1939, and spent 74 happy years together.

They moved to Watsonville in 1940 and Aaron started a business which later became Berman Enterprises. He dealt in scrap metal and was known as the “Copper King.”

Aaron also became involved in commercial real estate and his company recently celebrated its 75th anniversary.

Aaron enjoyed spending time with his family, traveling with his wife and participating in community activities. He was a proud Freemason for over 60 years and also contributed to many charities. He was passionate about sports, especially baseball, and eventually sponsored a Watsonville team for which he pitched and later managed. He loved music, Sinatra being a favorite. He was always singing.

He will be missed by his sisters, Rosalie Spritz and Sylvia Davilla, his son Leslie Berman; grandchildren Todd (Geocanda) Berman, Justin (Nicola) Berman, Brian Berman and Elaine Berman; greatgrandchildren Joshua and Colin Berman, Jayden and Van HopkinsSantoya. He was predeceased by his brother Bennie, his son Steve and his beloved wife Evelyn.

Francisco. He graduated from Oakland High School and then attended the University of California at Berkeley. Leonard’s studies were interrupted by World War II. He served in the U.S. Army with the 44th Division, 7th Army, and was in Austria when the European war ended. He returned to his studies at Berkeley, and received a Bachelor of Science degree in 1948.

After his return to Berkeley, he met Pearl at Hillel and they were married in 1947. They moved to San Francisco where Leonard began working as an accountant, received his CPA and established his own accounting practice. Their son Mark was born in 1949 followed by their daughter Gwen in 1951. They moved to San Jose in 1958, and then Los Gatos, where they lived until the present.

Leonard was active in the CPA Society, eventually serving as president of the Santa Clara chapter. He was active in his synagogue, serving on its board as treasurer, and was active in numerous nonprofit organizations.

But the love of his life was his family. He was predeceased by his sister Renee and brother Marvin. In addition to his wife and children, Leonard leaves behind his daughter-in-law Lisa, sonin-law Doug, and his four granddaughters and their families: Emily and Adam Weinberg and their daughter Zoey; Amy Kaplan and Jonathan Pilch and their son Micah; Lindsay and Josh Klein and their sons Ethan and Gabe; and Cora Kaplan. In addition, he is survived by many loving nieces and nephews, in-laws, and friends.

Leonard enjoyed sports, playing bridge and reading. He taught his children never to go anywhere without a book. One of his family’s favorite memories was the weekly trip to the library. A

Contributions in his memory may be made to the charity of your choice or to Temple Emanu-El.

LEONARD DAVID ROSENTHAL July 3, 1922 – January 31, 2016

Leonard David Rosenthal passed away at his home in Los Gatos surrounded by his loving family including his wonderful wife Pearl. On February 15, they would have celebrated their 69th wedding anniversary.

Leonard was born in Oakland, California to Otto and Esther Rosenthal and grew up in Oakland and the Mission district in San Francisco. He played baseball throughout his youth, and fondly recalled watching the DiMaggio brothers play ball in San

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highlight for him was the annual family trip to Hawaii. He had many adventures with his grandchildren, and loved big family parties.

A service for Leonard was held at Congregation Shir Hadash in Los Gatos on February 2. Interment followed at Los Gatos Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to Hillel of Silicon Valley or Congregation Shir Hadash.

JOAN STONE

September 11, 1925 – February 1, 2016 It is with a heavy heart that we announce the loss of Joan Stone, our Matriarch, who passed peacefully with her family at her side.

Joan was born in Augsburg, Germany in 1925, and immigrated to New York City in 1937. After graduating high school in 1944, Joan worked as a secretary and attended City College of New York.

Joan and Henry were married in 1948 and moved to Lynn, MA. In 1950 they moved to Schenectady, NY and in 1974 to San Jose, CA. They raised four children: David, Linda, Howard and Peter.

Joan devoted her life to her family, was a wonderful mother and a loving and supportive spouse. She was known for her extraordinary generosity, her tremendous heart and her immense spirit. She was true to her values and honored her heritage. She was a woman of great compassion, integrity, and splendor who set an excellent example for how one should lead his or her life. She endeared herself to all who came in contact with her; her willingness to sacrifice for others and endless acts of kindness were an inspiration to both her friends and family.

While the past forty years were filled with constant fatigue and debilitating pain from multiple sclerosis, she maintained a positive attitude and outlook, working tirelessly on behalf of others. Education was always a high priority and she willingly shared her experiences with local students and civic organizations.

Joan brought much happiness to this world and made it a better place. She provided us with a lifetime of love, devotion, inspiration, compassion, guidance and sacrifice. We will miss her and cherish her memories. She will always be close at heart, with us in spirit and will live forever in our thoughts.

Joan is survived by her husband of 67 years Henry; her children David (Jenny) of Bangkok, Thailand, Linda Weiss (Joe) of Cupertino, CA, Howard (Valerie) of Princeton, NJ and Peter (Marilyn) of San Mateo, CA; by her grandchildren Michelle (Scott), Jeffrey, Audrey, Taylor and Blaise; and by her greatgranddaughter Hailey.

We wish to express our sincere appreciation and thanks for all of the kind support received from the Pathways Hospice Foundation and the many caregivers and individuals who have assisted Joan during these past years.

Donations in Joan’s memory can be made to any charity or to the

obituaries Stone Family Scholarship Fund at Congregation Beth David, 19700 Prospect Road, Saratoga, California 95070-3352.

JEANNETTE NATTEL ZEITMAN January 19, 1926 – January 28, 2016

Jeannette Zeitman, Jean, passed away peacefully at the Palo Alto Assistant Living. She was born in Chicago and raised in Gary, Indiana. She resided in Los Altos with her late husband Harold and her children. She was a talented cook, loved attending operas and was involved in Jewish life. She is survived by her children, Sandra, Barbara, Allen and Paul, and her two grandchildren who live in Switzerland, Lea and Lukas.

Contributions in her memory can be made to the following: Congregation Beth David, 19700 Prospect Road, Saratoga, CA 95070 Lyric Theater, P.O. Box 6741, San Jose, CA 95150 West Bay Opera, Holt Building, 221 Lambert Ave., Palo Alto, CA 94306 KQED, PO Box 7618, San Francisco, CA 94129-7518 Please write “ In Memory of Jeannette Nattel Zeitman” with your donation.

Please send obituaries and photos to Andrea Greyber at andrea.greyber@gmail.com or phone her at (408) 377-6224.

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