Dear Readers,
Afew months ago, an elementary school in a small town in Missouri renamed their building in honor of someone truly important: their janitor.
But Claudene Wilson is not just a custodian. She started working for the district in 1992, cleaning the school for four hours a day. As the building grew, so did her responsibilities.
Washing the floors is not just a job for Claudene; it’s her calling. When the kids walk into the building on the first day of school, the floors shine like mirrors under their squeaky sneakers. But it’s not just her prowess at waxing floors that earned Claudene the honor. Her dedication to the students and the school compelled her to take on even more responsibilities during the three decades she worked there. When bus drivers were needed, she began to drive the bus. The kids go to her when they’re not feeling well. She answers the phones in the office when the secretaries are away. When the lawns need mowing, Claudene hops on her tractor.
“I’m not a hero,” Claudene said. “I’m only here to do what I have to do for the kids.”
But the kids feel that love and support from the most unlikely of people in their lives, and they look up to her as their role model.
The renaming of the school building was a surprise for Claudene, a person the board president calls the “lifeblood” of the school.
“She really forms a bond, a special relationship with each kid,” president Chuck Boden noted.
When I read about Claudene, I thought about this simple woman from small-town USA who
became such a success. When she received the 4-hour a day job initially, Claudene did not set out to become such a fixture in the school. But she picked up the mantle that was handed to her and set out to become the best janitor that the school would ever have. She washed the floors lovingly and changed the lightbulbs with alacrity and smiled at the kids whenever they walked by. She did her job with a full heart. And when other opportunities arose, she didn’t hesitate to grab them and give them her all.
She built up a portfolio of successes – all because she poured her heart and soul into the students and the school.
Sometimes, in life, we wait for the perfect opportunity to be presented to take things to the next level. But if we spend our lives waiting and waiting and waiting, we may just never find that “perfect” prospect that we have in mind. And so, instead of holding out for that ideal moment, if we take the other chances that we are given, if we leap at the other ventures that may not look as ideal, and we give those circumstances our all, we may find ourselves becoming successes in those areas and being able to build on those achievements and victories.
As for Claudene, she is now retired, although she is still driving the bus until the school district finds other bus drivers. And what will she do with all her free time now?
“Who knows? I ain’t decided on that yet,” she shrugs.
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Dear Editor,
Carpool is a fact of life for many parents in our area. For the past few years, since the district took away busing for Kindergarten, many parents spend their afternoons waiting on endless carpool lines. The lines create traffic, clogging major roadways in much of our neighborhood.
But that’s not why I’m writing in. I’m writing in because I think that perhaps people who do carpool are unaware that how they line up for carpool may be inadvertently hurting other people.
What do I mean?
Well, here you are, waiting in line at your kids’ school. You came as early as you can, but of course it’s not early enough because there’s always a line. So you wait in line. And listen to music or stare out the window. You know you have to be patient. But then you see that a few cars ahead of you, someone pulls into the line. They cut into the line from a street ahead of you that’s perpendicular to the line. In other words, they cut the line. Do they mean to cut the line and make everyone else wait even more? Perhaps. Or perhaps (being majorly dan l’kaf zechus) they are unaware that cutting the line is rude and inconsiderate. Maybe they don’t factor in the other people who are waiting – and now have to wait even longer – because they cut the line.
So here I am, writing into the community newspaper, to make these people aware of what they’re doing. Perhaps by letting them know that cutting in line is not the right thing to do, they will reconsider and be menschlech about it next time.
Thank you.
A parent still waiting in carpool line
Dear Editor,
I truly enjoyed your Year in Review section this week. Every year, you manage to summarize the year’s events in a wonderful way.
That being said, I believe that it would have been appropriate to list the names of all the soldiers that we lost this year. They truly deserve a mention for the sacrifice that they made for our nation.
Ronit L.
Dear Editor,
I am writing to express my excitement and optimism as Donald Trump prepares to take the helm of the White House. His presidency holds the promise of revitalizing the United States and strengthening our cherished alliance with Israel.
President Trump’s vision for America is one that resonates with countless citizens who have felt disillusioned by politics as usual. His commitment to fostering economic growth, securing our borders, and restoring pride in our nation is precisely the leadership our country needs. A businessman by trade, Trump brings a results-oriented approach to governance, prioritizing the interests of the American people over bureaucratic red tape. This pragmatic perspective is bound to energize our economy, create jobs, and reinvigorate industries that are critical to our prosperity.
On the global stage, President Trump has demonstrated an unwavering dedication to supporting Israel, a nation that shares our democratic values and stands as a beacon of hope in the Middle East. His recognition of Jerusalem as the eternal capital of Israel is not only a bold diplomatic statement but also a testament to his respect for history and his firm
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in the sovereignty of nations. Such actions foster a stronger partnership between our two countries, reinforcing Israel’s security and stability while advancing the prospects for peace in the region.
Trump’s leadership style, characterized by candidness and determination, inspires confidence that he will stand firm against threats posed by terrorism and authoritarian regimes. His focus on addressing global challenges, coupled with his staunch support for our allies, reassures us that the United States will continue to be a force for good in the world.
Critics often highlight Trump’s unorthodox methods, yet it is precisely this departure from convention that makes his presidency so promising. He is unafraid to challenge the status quo and tackle issues head-on, a refreshing change in a political landscape often mired in indecision.
As we move forward, I believe President Trump will serve as a catalyst for positive change, both domestically and internationally. His vision, coupled with his respect for the enduring U.S.-Israel relationship, heralds a new era of prosperity and mutual support.
Sincerely,
Chanoch Reider
Dear Editor,
I am writing to express my outrage at Governor Kathy Hochul’s congestion pricing plan – which is really a tax on
New Yorkers and on anyone who wants to come to New York. This is not about traffic or the environment; it’s pure taxes, that’s what it is. This scheme, which will burden already-struggling commuters with additional tolls for simply driving into Manhattan, is a slap in the face to hardworking New Yorkers who are trying to make ends meet. New Yorkers are struggling. With rising pricing and inflation (thanks to her Democrat Party), we can barely put food on our tables. Think of all the deliveries that will have to charge more because of this “toll/tax.” Think of all those restaurants and stores that will lose out because people don’t want to shell out an extra $10 to go there.
This woman has been a disaster for New York. One after another, we have to sit back and endure her dismal policies. Our city has gotten less safe – you can barely ride on the subways anymore. It’s gotten more expensive. You can’t even walk the streets because of the homeless and illegals who clog the area.
My only hope is that when Trump gets to office, he gets rid of this tax. He pledged to do so. I don’t know how he’ll do it, but he is someone who comes through with his promises. Just look at Canada – two weeks after he meets with Trudeau and Trudeau steps down…
Let’s hope that happens to Hochul and her toll/tax.
Rafi Goodman
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Sickness at Sea
According to the CDC, there were 16 known gastrointestinal cruise outbreaks that occurred in 2024, up from 14 in 2023.
“While 2023 and 2024 both had higher numbers of cruise ship outbreaks than in years prior to the pandemic, we do not yet know if this represents a new trend,” said a spokesperson for the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
Few outbreaks were recorded from 2020 to 2022, as the COVID-19 pandemic had, at the time, paralyzed the cruise industry. According to the CDC, ten outbreaks were reported in 2019, having dropped since 2006.
If 3% or more of those on board a ship come to the cruise’s medical staff with gastrointestinal symptoms, the CDC considers the situation an outbreak. Additionally, the CDC only deals with infections on ships that depart from a port in the U.S., travel internationally, and have over 13 individuals onboard.
Most of the outbreaks in 2024 were caused by norovirus, a highly contagious stomach bug that causes nausea, vomiting, and abdominal pain. Norovirus hit hundreds of passengers in December on five cruise ships, including those from Cunard Line, Holland America, and Princess Cruises.
“This is a virus that can infect you with very few viral particles. In other words, the infectious dose is very small,” said Dr. William Schaffner, a professor at Vanderbilt University Medical Center. “It can persist for days or even a week on environmental surfaces, which means that if you put your fingers on a contaminated surface, you can pick up a few viral particles, touch your mouth and then initiate an infection.”
Schaffner said norovirus is “known obviously as the cruise ship virus,” due to how easily it spreads in confined spaces,
such as onboard a ship. He added that the virus is most common during the winter and that “this seasonal occurrence of norovirus varies in intensity.” This year’s norovirus outbreaks are “more severe” than usual, both on land and at sea, he explained.
Cruise Lines International Association, an industry organization, stated that “incidents of illness onboard cruise ships are extremely rare.”
The United States sees around 1921 million norovirus cases annually, the CDC said.
Other gastrointestinal cruise outbreaks not related to norovirus were, for instance, caused by salmonella food poisoning, which hit Royal Caribbean’s Radiance of the Seas in September 2024, and E. coli, which infected Silversea Cruises’ Silver Nova in late March going into April. The outbreak that took place on Royal Caribbean’s Allure of the Seas’ cruise in May is of unknown origin.
The CDC suggests that passengers with gastrointestinal symptoms quickly report “their illness if they are sick and following medical staff recommendations” and consistently wash their hands.
“Number one, if you’re feeling at all ill, stay home, rebook for a later cruise,” advised Schaffner. “Number two, pay meticulous attention to all the hygienic instructions that you are given on the cruise ship, and pay particular attention to hand hygiene. And in this circumstance, soap and water is actually better than using the sanitary hand wipes or lotions that we use, because norovirus is not very affected by the alcohol that’s in the hand wipes and the lotions.”
Trudeau to Step Down
In a speech Monday, Justin Trudeau, the thrice-elected prime minister of Canada, announced his intention to resign from the premiership and as the head of the Liberal Party. Trudeau, 53, will officially step down once a successor is selected, a process that could take months. His resignation came amid what he called “internal battles” in his party, sparked by falling approval ratings of his
party and himself. Trudeau’s dismal approval rating, at just 20%, has damaged the Liberal Party, which, according to polls, is 20 points behind the Conservative Party. If the election were held today, the Conservatives’ Pierre Poilievre would win.
With Canada grappling with inflation and a housing shortage, many Canadians blame Trudeau for the country’s farfrom-stellar economy.
Donald Trump’s upcoming return to the U.S. presidency has also hurt the prime minister’s public standing, as Trump threatens to levy 25% tariffs on Canada unless it stops drugs and migrants from crossing the U.S.’s northern border and has teasingly called Trudeau the “governor” of Canada, “the 51st state.”
Last month, Canadian Finance Minister and Deputy Prime Minister Chrystia Freeland, a close ally of the prime minister, stepped down, attributing her resignation to her dismay with Trudeau’s failure to take action in light of Trump’s threats. Freeland or former Bank of England and Bank of Canada governor Mark Carney could very well be Trudeau’s successor.
A few days after Freeland resigned, the New Democratic Party, a left-leaning party that Trudeau’s minority govern-
ment leans on, announced that it would no longer be supporting Trudeau.
In his statement this week, Trudeau also announced that the parliament’s current session would be suspended until March 24. If not for the suspension, he could be ousted with a no-confidence vote, which would lead to a snap election wherein the Conservatives have a popular frontrunner, while the Liberals do not.
Trudeau has been prime minister since 2013. A progressive politician, he promised to eliminate his country’s oil and gas industry, head an inclusive government, and turn Canada into a globally important country.
In 2019, Canada’s ethics watchdog ruled that Trudeau, through actions “tantamount to political direction,” interfered in a corruption investigation into SNC-Lavalin Group Inc., an engineering company based in Montreal. Shortly thereafter, photos surfaced of Trudeau wearing blackface, an act many consider racist. His reputation continues to suffer from those controversial acts and more, including his handling of the Freedom Convoy trucker protests and his decision to accuse the Indian government of playing a role in the murder of a Sikh activist in Vancouver.
Forty-five-year-old Pierre Poilievre,
Trudeau’s main rival, has vowed to cut taxes, government spending, and restrictions for building homes, basing his vision on policies adopted by rightwing populist governments in the U.S., Argentina, and parts of Europe.
Sugary Drinks are Dangerous
Sugary drinks are dangerous, according to a study published this week in the journal Nature Medicine. The study analyzed global data on sugar-sweetened beverages consumed around the world, along with studies and the prevalence of diseases like diabetes and cardiovascular diseases. The results have raised concerns.
“This is a public health crisis, requiring urgent action,” said the study’s senior author, Dr. Dariush Mozaffarian, a cardiologist and director of the Food is Medicine Institute at Tufts University.
According to the researchers, sugary drinks “cause more than 330,000 annual deaths from diabetes and cardiovascular disease,” Mozaffarian said.
Latin America and the Caribbean had the largest number of cardiovascular disease cases related to beverages; sub-Saharan Africa had the most cases of type 2 diabetes related to sugary drinks.
Younger male adults with higher education in urban areas seemed to have been affected the most by sweetened drinks.
The researchers are not saying that the sugary beverages cause diabetes or cardiovascular disease; they are merely able to point to the correlation of those phenomena.
The researchers collected valuable data across 184 countries, but the study did not factor in all income levels and the increased risk of diabetes and cardiovascular disease among high-risk ethnic groups.
Aside from the harm that sugary drinks may cause to your health, they also offer only empty calories with no nutritional benefits and raise blood sugar quickly and don’t fill you up.
Still, if you’re thirsty, you may not
want to turn to beverages that are sweetened with artificial low-calorie sweeteners, as they have their own drawbacks. Consider, instead, drinking water, seltzer, or unsweetened tea or coffee.
Le Pen Sr. Dies
Jean-Marie Le Pen, the founder of France’s far-right National Front, died this week at the age of 96. Le Pen was known for fiery rhetoric against immigration and multiculturalism, which earned him both staunch supporters and widespread condemnation.
Le Pen would make controversial statements – including those that denied the Holocaust. He was estranged from his daughter, Marine Le Pen, who renamed his National Front party, kicked him out, and transformed it into one of France’s most powerful political forces while distancing herself from her father’s extremist image.
Marine is now facing a potential prison term and a ban on running for political office if convicted in an embezzling trial currently underway.
Jean-Marie Le Pen was a fixture in French politics for decades. He was a brilliant strategist and a gifted orator, captivating crowds with his anti-immigration stance. He viewed himself as a man with a mission — to keep France French under the banner of the National Front. Picking Joan of Arc as the party’s patron saint, Le Pen made Islam, and Muslim immigrants, his primary target, blaming them for the economic and social woes of France.
A former paratrooper and Foreign Legionnaire who fought in Indochina and Algeria, he led sympathizers into political and ideological battles with a panache that became a signature of his career.
“If I advance, follow me; if I die, avenge me; if I shirk, kill me,” Le Pen said at a 1990 party congress, reflecting the theatrical style that for decades fed the fervor of followers.
Convicted numerous times of antisemitism and routinely accused of xenophobia and racism, Le Pen routinely countered that he was simply a patriot protecting the identity of “eternal France.”
Le Pen was notably convicted in 1990 for a radio remark made three years earlier in which he referred to the Nazi gas chambers as a “detail in World War II history.” In 2015, he repeated the remark, saying he “did not at all” regret it, triggering the ire of his daughter — by then the party leader — and a new conviction in 2016.
He also was convicted for a 1988 remark linking in a play on words a Cabinet minister with the Nazi crematory ovens and for a 1989 comment blaming the “Jewish international” for helping seed “this anti-national spirit.”
Space Debris Fall to Earth
Last week, a village in Kenya got a surprise from the sky when a huge, red-hot object plummeted to the Earth.
The object has since been identified as a “fragment of a space object,” the Kenya Space Agency said in a statement.
The KSA said it took custody of the object that landed in the remote village of Mukuku, in the southern county of Makueni, describing it as apparent space junk measuring about 8 feet wide and weighing about 1,100 pounds.
It’s possible that the object came from a ring from a rocket from space. Most debris coming space fall into the ocean or are burnt as they fly through the Earth’s atmosphere.
Julius Rotich, Mbooni Sub County Police Commander, told the Kenya Broadcasting Corporation that the object was still hot when officers arrived on Monday and that residents had to be cordoned off from the area until it cooled down.
Earthquake Strikes Tibet
On Tuesday morning, a powerful, 7.1-magnitude earthquake struck a remote region of Tibet, killing more than 120 people. The tremors were felt across the Himalayas in neighboring Nepal, Bhutan and parts of northern India.
The energy unleashed by the tectonic movement toppled houses in remote Himalayan villages, rocked a nearby Tibetan holy city, and rattled visitors at a Mount Everest base camp.
Its epicenter, located in Tingri county high on the Tibetan plateau, was close to the border with Nepal, around 50 miles north of the world’s highest mountain.
At least 126 people were killed and 188 others were injured in the quake, according to state broadcaster China Central Television (CCTV). More than 3,600 houses were damaged, it said.
“It was very strong. People came running out of their houses. You could see the wires from poles shaken loose,” said Bishal Nath Upreti from the Nepal Centre for Disaster Management, a non-government organization in Kathmandu.
By Tuesday evening, more than 150 aftershocks had been recorded, 19 of which had magnitudes of 3.0 and above,
according to the China Earthquake Networks Center.
The region close to the epicenter is sparsely populated but small villages are nestled in isolated and often hard to access Himalayan valleys. About 6,900 people are estimated to live in 27 villages within a 12-miles radius of the epicenter.
The closest major city to the epicenter is the city of Shigatse, which lies around 100 miles away. The city is home to about 800,000 people and the traditional seat of the Panchen Lama, the second-highest spiritual leader in Tibetan Buddhism, second only to the Dalai Lama.
The Dalai Lama, who lives in self-imposed exile in India, said he was “deeply saddened” to learn of the earthquake. “I offer my prayers for those who have lost their lives and extend my wishes for a swift recovery to all who have been injured,” he said.
In a statement following the quake, Chinese leader Xi Jinping called on officials to make all-out efforts to search and rescue survivors, minimize casualties, properly accommodate affected residents, and ensure their safety and warmth in the winter cold.
Tibet is one of the most restricted and politically sensitive regions in China and access to foreign visitors remains tightly
controlled. Beijing has maintained a tight grip on the region since the Dalai Lama fled to India in 1959 after a failed uprising against Chinese rule.
Iran Executed 901 People
More than 900 people were executed in Iran last year, with around 40 people killed in just one week in December, according to the United Nations right chief this week.
“It is deeply disturbing that yet again we see an increase in the number of people subjected to the death penalty in Iran year-on-year,” UN High Commissioner for Human Rights Volker Turk said, adding that at least 901 people were reportedly executed in 2024.
In 2023, Iran executed 853 people. “It is high time Iran stemmed this ev-
er-swelling tide of executions,” Turk declared.
Iran uses capital punishment for major crimes including murder, drug trafficking, and assault. The Islamic Republic executes more people per year than any other nation except China (although reliable numbers are not available for executions in that country), according to human rights groups including Amnesty International.
The UN rights office said that most of last year’s executions were for drug-related offenses but it said that “dissidents and people connected to the 2022 protests were also executed.” It added: “There was also a rise in the number of women executed.”
At least 31 women were executed in Iran in 2024.
The highest number of executions in Iran in recent decades was recorded in 2015, when at least 972 people were put to death.
Nazi Collaborators Exposed
“War in Court,” a Dutch project, released nearly half a million names of
suspected wartime Nazi collaborators on Thursday after a law restricting public access to the archive expired on New Year’s Day.
The 32-million-page archive covers 425,000 mostly Dutch people investigated for collaboration with occupying German forces during World War II, Reuters reported.
Only one-fifth of those listed ever appeared before a court. Most cases involved “lesser offenses such as being a member of the Nationalist Socialist movement,” the news outlet said.
The European Union’s General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) protects personal data, but it doesn’t apply to dead people, which includes most of those listed in the archive.
At first, scanned files were to be available starting on Thursday with dossiers of suspects including victims and witnesses. However, after a warning from the Dutch Data Protection Authority, a decision was made to publish only names and postpone the more detailed data release.
According to Yad Vashem’s website, 140,000 Jews lived in the Netherlands when Germany invaded in May 1940. In the summer of 1942, deportation to the death camps began. Transports left the transit camps of Westerbork and Vught, mostly for Auschwitz and Sobibor.
A total of 107,000 Jews had been deported to the extermination camps by September 1944. Only 5,200 of them returned after the war, with more than 75% of Dutch Jews perishing in the Holocaust. (JNS)
been displaced from their homes near the northern border. On Sunday, the Finance Ministry proposed a plan intended to help most residents return home by March 7.
With the compensation package, valued at NIS 3.4 billion ($934 million), the government would offer every displaced family NIS 23,360 per adult and NIS 12,680 per child for up to seven children if they return home on March 7 or in June if the family wants their children to finish the school year before returning to the north.
For example, a family with two parents and four children would receive NIS 101,440 (approx. $28,000).
The package consists of two grants: one that helps with the costs of moving back and another meant to help pay for damage caused by home abandonment, including broken refrigerators and other appliances. The first offers NIS 15,360 per adult and NIS 7,680 per child, while the second gives NIS 10,000 per adult and NIS 5,000 per child. Those whose homes were damaged by rockets will receive additional compensation.
“The key to returning home is security, and we are not going to compromise on this matter,” stated Finance Minister Bezalel Smotrich at a Jerusalem press conference. “Residents of the north are returning to a different security reality, and we will make sure that quiet is maintained for years.”
MK Ze’ev Elkin, the head of the Northern Rehabilitation Directorate, added that local authorities and educational institutions will also receive funds.
“The message for me is not just the grants, but that there is an action plan to return our residents home,” said Moshe Davidovich, who leads the Mateh Asher Regional Council of Western Galilee. “The return of residents to a normal life, rehabilitation, and growth of the Galilee and border communities are of utmost importance to us.”
Rebuilding the North
Since the October 7 massacre, when Hamas attacked in the south and Hezbollah started bombing nearby communities in the north, 60,000 Israelis have
Brazil Investigates IDF Soldier
After Brazil opened a war crimes investigation into an Israeli soldier vacationing in the South American country,
the man was forced on Sunday to end his trip prematurely.
According to reports, the investigation began when an antisemitic organization reported the soldier to a Brazilian court after recognizing him from social media. The group alleged in its complaint that the Israel Defense Forces soldier played a role in demolishing a building used as a shelter by Palestinian civilians last November.
The organization, known as the Hind Rajab Foundation, stalks Israeli soldiers on social media and, in an effort to get them arrested, notifies local authorities when the soldiers travel to different countries. Thus far, they’ve been unsuccessful in getting any soldiers arrested.
On Saturday night, the foundation posted on X, asking Brazilian officials to arrest the soldier, asserting that the Israeli government was helping the man es-
cape and that “there are also indications that evidence is being destroyed.”
The soldier vacationing in Brazil has yet to be named. On Sunday, the Israeli Foreign Ministry told its Consular Section and the Brazilian embassy to notify him and his family, who “accompanied him throughout the event until his swift and safe departure from Brazil.”
“The Foreign Ministry draws the attention of Israelis to posts on social media about their military service and to the fact that anti-Israeli elements may exploit these posts to initiate futile legal proceedings against them,” the Foreign Ministry stated.
Brazil is reportedly investigating the soldier for allegedly playing a role “in the destruction of a residential building in the Gaza Strip while using explosives outside of combat.”
By running for many kilometers, the soldier survived Hamas’s October 7 attack on the Supernova music festival, where over 360 innocent people were murdered. On that same day, the terror group killed 1,200 people and kidnapped 251 others, many of whom are still held in captivity.
According to the father of the soldier, his son’s friend who’d been traveling with him was told by an Israeli diplomatic of-
fice that the Brazilian court had issued an arrest warrant for him.
More Pain
On Tuesday, the IDF said that Staff Sgt. Ido Samiach was killed while fighting in Gaza, as the military announced that it was pulling a brigade from the northern Strip in order to prepare for future operations.
Ido was 20 years old. He was a team sergeant in the Nahal Brigade’s reconnaissance unit, from Ganei Tikva.
On Monday, two other soldiers, Cpt. Eitan Israel Shiknazi, 24, and Maj. Dvir Zion Revah, 28, also lost their lives fighting in Gaza. They were killed fighting in northern Gaza’s Beit Hanoun.
Sadly, with these deaths, Israel’s toll in the ground offensive against Hamas in Gaza and in military operations along the border is now 398.
On Tuesday, the IDF said the Kfir Brigade has been withdrawn from the northern Gaza Strip after 64 days of fighting, though an operation in the area led by the 162nd Division is still ongoing. According to the IDF, the Kfir Brigade killed more than 300 terror operatives during their operations in the towns of Beit Lahiya and Beit Hanoun and in the Sheikh Zayed neighborhood.
Many of the terrorists killed were actively involved in the October 7, 2023 massacre.
During the two-month operation, 12 soldiers with the brigade were killed in six separate incidents of fighting, and dozens more were wounded, though many have since returned to service, according to the IDF.
The brigade was responsible for demolishing the so-called officers’ neighborhood, where Hamas commanders had lived. The residential complex of highrise towers had served as a “central terror complex” with anti-tank firing positions, booby traps, tunnels and rocket launchers aimed at Israel, according to the military.
The IDF said the brigade demolished other Hamas infrastructure, including 4.6 miles’ worth of tunnels and captured numerous weapons. The Kfir Brigade is
now preparing for future operations in Gaza, the IDF said, including being deployed to the Philadelphi Corridor in the Strip’s south.
Hostage Propaganda Video
On Saturday, Hamas published a video of Liri Albag, a 19-year-old surveillance soldier who had been stationed at the Nahal Oz military base when she was taken hostage on October 7, 2023, along with 250 others. At the base, terrorists murdered fifteen surveillance soldiers and kidnapped five people, including Karina Ariev, Agam Berger, Naama Levy, Daniella Gilboa, and Liri Albag, all of whom remain in captivity. Two others were also kidnapped there: one who was rescued alive and the other whose body was later recovered.
In the three-and-a-half-minute-long propaganda video, Liri said that she had been in captivity for 450 days, which suggests that the undated video was recently filmed.
“The video released today tore our hearts apart,” Liri’s family stated on Saturday, in response to the footage. “This is not the same daughter and sister that we know. She is in bad condition, and her difficult mental state is evident.
“We saw our heroic Liri survive and beg for her life. She is several dozen kilometers from us, and for 456 days we have been unable to bring her home,” they added.
“This is not the Liri we know, this is the shadow of Liri,” they reiterated. “While it is a sign of life from her, this is not the video that we were looking for. The always-strong Liri looks broken and shattered.”
The family urged Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu to secure a hostage release immediately, “as if your children were there.” Liri’s mother, Shira, said she told Netanyahu to make sure the negotiating team doesn’t return from Qatar until they reach a deal.
The video is “harsh and undeniable proof of the urgent need to bring all of the hostages home,” the Hostages and Missing Families Forum said in reaction to the
footage, adding that every day “in Gaza poses an immediate risk of death to the living hostages and endangers the ability to recover the fallen for proper burial.”
The Forum also referenced incoming U.S. President Donald Trump’s vow to punish Hamas if the hostages aren’t home by January 20, the date of his inauguration.
“We must not lose this historic window of opportunity,” the Forum declared, encouraging people to participate in protests for a hostage release and ceasefire deal.
“The prime minister told the family that he sympathizes with the suffering that Liri, her family, and all the hostages and their families are going through,” Netanyahu’s office said in a statement. “The prime minister assured them that Israel is continuing to work tirelessly to return Liri and all the hostages home and that efforts are ongoing — including at this very moment.”
“I want to tell Liri if she watches this: Liri we’re fighting for you, we’re not giving up on you. You’re coming home alive… Mom and Dad are promising you and we keep our promises. It will happen soon, with G-d’s help… Believe in it. We’re not giving up, don’t you give up. Keep fighting and surviving,” her mother declared.
Liri’s father added that if she’s watching, she should let the other hostages know that “all their families are turning their worlds upside down and want to bring their children home.”
“We will fight until all the hostages are returned,” he vowed. “Be strong. A little longer and soon there will be a deal. We are waiting for you Liri.”
Operation Many Ways
On Thursday, the Israeli Air Force shared details and video of its historic and bold operation on September 8, 2024, when Israel destroyed Iran’s underground missile factory in Syria, the country that was, at the time, controlled by the now-dismantled regime of Bashar al-Assad.
Codenamed “Operation
by the Israel Defense Forces, the mission was to destroy a facility the IDF referred to as “Deep Layer,” an underground, horseshoe-shaped factory Iran planned to use to provide weapons to Lebanon’s Hezbollah and Syria’s Assad. The plant was inside a mountain in Masyaf, Syria, at the Scientific Studies and Research Center (CERS or SSRC), just 124 miles north of the border Syria shares with Israel.
The operation was conducted by Shaldag, an elite IAF unit, together with search and rescue Unit 669, both of which trained extensively for the operation. No soldiers were hurt before, during, or after the raid.
After Israel destroyed an aboveground Iranian missile factory in 2017, Iran began building a plant 230-430 feet underground, making it immune to Israeli airstrikes. According to the IDF, the Israeli military learned about the plant’s construction immediately when it commenced.
In 2021, the factory’s construction was completed. From that time until 2024, Iran conducted tests and transported equipment to the factory. In all, two missiles were produced at the plant. When Israel destroyed the factory, it was almost operational. Had the plant been left alone, Iran would have produced between 100 and 300 missiles a year for its proxies, according to the IDF.
The operation was in the works for years. Involving 100 Shaldag members and 20 Unit 669 members, the operation began on the evening of September 8. The 120 commandos, joined by 21 fighter jets, five drones, 14 spy planes, and more, secretly traveled from Israel to Syria in four helicopters, which flew very low to avoid getting detected. Eighteen minutes later, they arrived at the plant.
Simultaneously, Israeli fighter jets, drones, and missile boats fired at several locations in Syria, including the facility. The attacks were carried out to distract the Syrian army from the real operation against the Iranian missile factory.
The Unit 669 members stayed on the helicopters on standby in case anyone got injured, while the Shaldag commandos raided the facility, killing two guards. At a nearby hill, the military flew a small drone to neutralize any threats coming towards the plant. It was nighttime when the raid was conducted, and no one was inside the structure when the commandos entered.
Some of the doors to the plant wouldn’t open until soldiers forced them open with a forklift, which they’d been certified to use. Using a quad bike to move swiftly,
a team of soldiers planted explosives all around the facility. Around fifty soldiers put explosives on all the equipment, including the three planetary mixers. Then, the troops exited the base and detonated the explosives, causing a powerful blast, after which the soldiers boarded their choppers again and flew back to Israel.
In all, the IDF killed around thirty enemy guards and soldiers during the raid.
Iran has since left Syria, due to Assad’s fall to rebels.
Route 55 Terror Attack
Three Palestinian terrorists from Jenin attacked drivers in al-Funduq, a Palestinian village in northern Judea and Samaria, on Monday morning.
Using assault rifles, the assailants shot at an Israeli car traveling along the Route 55 highway, killing Rachel Cohen, 73, and Aliza Raiz, 70, who were both pronounced dead at the scene by Magen Dovid Adom. The terrorists then shot at a bus, seriously wounding the 63-year-old driver, moderately injuring two women, and lightly hurting five or more others.
Cohen and Raiz, both teachers from Kedumim, were driving in the same car.
As the terrorists shot at the bus, an armed civilian approached, leading the assailants to flee the scene by car. While driving away, they shot at another car around 150 meters (490 feet) away, killing an off-duty police officer and father of two named Master Sgt. Elad Yaakov Winkelstein. One of Winkelstein’s sons was in the car at the time but wasn’t injured in the attack. Winkelstein, 35, was from northern Israel’s Ein HaNatziv.
Two of the assailants are known terrorists, according to the IDF. The third’s identity remains unknown. However, the Israeli military has launched a manhunt, with Defense Minister Israel Katz ordering the army to “use strong force against any place where the killers’ tracks lead.”
“Anyone who follows the path of Hamas in Gaza and sponsors the murder and harm of Jews will pay a heavy price,” declared Katz.
Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu
promised that Israel would catch the terrorists, adding that no accomplice will be spared.
No terror group has taken responsibility for the attack yet, though Hamas has praised it as “heroic.”
First Human Bird Flu Death in U.S.
Recently, someone suffering from a severe case of H5N1 bird flu in the United States died. That person was the first person to die from the illness in the U.S.
The person from Louisiana, who was over 65 and reportedly had underlying medical conditions, was hospitalized with the flu after exposure to a backyard flock of birds and to wild birds.
“We’ve been studying the family tree of this virus for 25 odd years, and this is probably the nastiest form of the virus that we’ve seen. So the fact that it finally did cause a fatal infection here is tragic but not surprising,” said Dr. Richard Webby, who directs the World Health Organization Collaborating Center for Studies on the Ecology of Influenza in Animals and Birds at St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital.
Since 2003, there have been roughly 900 human bird flu infections reported globally, and about half of those people have died, according to the World Health Organization. Experts believe that mild cases of the virus are not reported, which makes the virus less lethal than reported. Still, it is a serious virus to contend with.
A recent study by scientists from the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention on the first 46 human cases of H5N1 in the U.S. last year found that they were nearly all mild and, except one, occurred after exposure to infected farm animals.
The Louisiana patient who died was infected with the D1.1 clade of the bird flu virus, a strain that is circulating in wild birds and poultry. It’s different from the variant that’s circulating in dairy cattle.
In a statement Monday, the CDC called the death tragic but said that this single case had not raised the threat level from H5N1.
“CDC has carefully studied the available information about the person who died in Louisiana and continues to assess that the risk to the general public remains low. Most importantly, no person-to-person transmission spread has been identified,” according to the statement.
“Additionally, there are no concerning virologic changes actively spreading in wild birds, poultry, or cows that would raise the risk to human health.”
While most people continue to be at low risk from bird flu, people who keep chickens and other birds in their backyards need to be cautious, as do workers on dairy and poultry farms, health officials said. People who may have been exposed need to watch out for breathing problems and red eyes for 10 days after exposure.
Meta Ends Fact-Checking
This week, Mark Zuckerberg, CEO of Meta, announced that the social media company will be replacing third-party fact-checkers with community notes on Facebook, Instagram, and Threads. It will roll out the notes system – similar to X’s – over the next few months.
The company will also bring back more political content to users’ timelines and give them the option to customize how much of it they see.
“First, we are going to get rid of fact-checkers and replace them with community notes, similar to X, starting in the U.S.,” Zuckerberg said in a video message on Meta’s blog
Meta’s recently appointed chief global-affairs officer, Joel Kaplan, said in the blog: “We’ve seen this approach work on X — where they empower their community to decide when posts are potentially misleading and need more context, and people across a diverse range of perspectives decide what sort of context is helpful for other users to see.”
Kaplan said the approach was “less
prone to bias.”
The company will also “simplify” its content policies, Kaplan said, and “get rid of a bunch of restrictions on topics like immigration and gender that are just out of touch with mainstream discourse.”
Meta has faced scrutiny in the past for its approach to content moderation. In August, Zuckerberg sent a letter to Republican Rep. Jim Jordan, who chairs the House Judiciary Committee and has been a vocal critic of Zuckerberg. The Meta CEO said in his letter that the Biden administration repeatedly pressured the company in 2021 to remove Covid-19related content and “expressed a lot of frustration” when the company did not agree.
X, called Twitter at the time, launched community notes in 2021, but the feature started appearing on more posts in 2023. Users can sign up to add context to posts that might contain misinformation or misleading content. Other users can rate how helpful they find the note.
Similar to X, Meta will let users contribute to the writing and rating of community notes..
Meta will be moving its trust and safety teams, which help moderate content, from California to Texas and other locations in the U.S.
The relocation of the trust and safety teams follows a move by X, which has its content-moderation headquarters in Austin, Texas.
NYC Congestion Pricing
It’s called congestion pricing, but it’s doubtful it will help ease congestion in the Big Apple. On Sunday, New York Governor Kathy Hochul’s newest decree came into effect, raising the toll to get into the center of Manhattan by as much as $9 at some access points during peak hours.
The toll, known as congestion pricing, was supposedly meant to reduce traffic gridlock in the densely packed city while also raising money to help fix its ailing public transit infrastructure.
“We’ve been studying this issue for five years. And it only takes about five
34 minutes if you’re in midtown Manhattan to see that New York has a real traffic problem,” Metropolitan Transportation Authority Chair and CEO Janno Lieber said on late Friday after a court hearing that cleared the way for the tolls.
“We need to make it easier for people who choose to drive, or who have to drive, to get around the city.”
Most drivers with E-ZPass will get dinged the $9 fee to enter Manhattan south of Central Park on weekdays between 5 a.m. and 9 p.m. and on weekends between 9 a.m. and 9 p.m. During off hours, the toll will be $2.25.
That’s on top of tolls drivers pay for crossing various bridges and tunnels to get to the city in the first place, although there will be a credit of up to $3 for those who have already paid to enter Manhattan via certain tunnels during peak hours.
Many people are angered by the toll, including President-elect Donald Trump, who has vowed to eradicate the program once he gets to the White House.
In November, Trump, whose namesake Trump Tower is in the toll zone, said congestion pricing “will put New York City at a disadvantage over competing cities and states, and businesses will flee.”
“Not only is this a massive tax to people coming in, it is extremely incon-
venient from both driving and personal booking keeping standards,” he said in a statement. “It will be virtually impossible for New York City to come back as long as the congestion tax is in effect.”
The toll was supposed to go into effect last year with a $15 charge, but Democratic Gov. Kathy Hochul abruptly paused the program before the 2024 election, when congressional races in suburban areas around the city — the epicenter of opposition to the program — were considered to be vital to her party’s effort to retake control of Congress.
Right after elections, Hochul restarted her efforts to get the toll hike into effect. She has denied that politics were at play and said she thought the original $15 charge was too much.
Biden Stops New Oil and Gas Drilling
President Joe Biden announced Monday what he called a permanent stop to new oil and gas drilling across more than 625 million acres of U.S. coastal waters, saying he was making the move because drilling posed unnecessary risks to the
environment, public health and the coastal communities’ economies.
The ban is part of an effort to fortify Biden’s environmental legacy in ways that some experts believe could not be quickly reversed by President-elect Donald Trump, who has heavy support from the oil and gas industry and has promised to expand drilling.
Biden also intends on Tuesday to announce two new national monuments in California, preserving more than 800,000 acres of ecologically fragile and culturally significant tribal lands.
Biden called it a climate imperative to block offshore drilling on about 20% of the nearly 3.2 billion acres of seabed controlled by the United States. He is relying on an obscure provision of a 1953 law, the Outer Continental Shelf Lands Act, which he says gives him the authority for this executive order. The measure prevents new drilling along the entire Eastern Seaboard; the Pacific Coast along California, Oregon and Washington; in the eastern Gulf of Mexico; and in the Northern Bering Sea in Alaska.
In many ways, the ban is symbolic. There has been almost no oil and gas exploration off California’s shores since an enormous oil spill near Santa Barbara in 1969 that shocked the nation. Drilling in Arctic federal waters is currently limited to a single facility in the Beaufort Sea. Trump himself imposed a 10-year moratorium on drilling along the Atlantic coast from North Carolina to Florida when he was courting voters in those states during his reelection campaign in 2020. And the eastern Gulf of Mexico has been under some form of drilling moratorium since 2006.
“The relatively minimal fossil fuel potential in the areas I am withdrawing do not justify the environmental, public health and economic risks that would come from new leasing and drilling,” Biden said in a statement.
The executive order would not stop new drilling in the central and western areas of the Gulf of Mexico, some of which has been mandated by Congress. The Gulf produces nearly 15% of the nation’s oil and accounts for about 97% of U.S. offshore gas production. (© The New York Times)
Alcohol Can Cause Cancer
According to the U.S. surgeon general, alcohol is a leading preventable cause of cancer. As such, alcoholic beverages should carry a warning label like packs of cigarettes do.
Currently, labels on bottles and cans of alcoholic beverages warn about drinking while pregnant or before driving and operating other machinery and about general “health risks.”
But alcohol directly contributes to 100,000 cancer cases and 20,000 related deaths each year, the surgeon general, Dr. Vivek Murthy, said. He is calling for updating the labels on alcoholic beverages to warn consumers of a heightened risk of breast cancer, colon cancer and at least five other malignancies now linked by scientific studies to alcohol consumption.
“Many people out there assume that as long as they’re drinking at the limits or below the limits of current guidelines of one a day for women and two for men, that there is no risk to their health or well-being,” Dr. Murthy said. “The data does not bear that out for cancer risk.”
Only Congress can mandate new warning labels of the sort that Dr. Murthy recommended, and it’s not clear that the incoming administration would support the change.
Interestingly, President-elect Donald J. Trump does not drink, and his choice to head the Health and Human Services Department, Robert F. Kennedy Jr., swore off alcohol and drugs decades ago and says he regularly attends AA meetings.
While most cancer deaths occur at drinking levels that exceed the current recommended dietary guidelines, the risk for cancers of the breast, the mouth and the throat may rise with consumption of as little as one drink a day, or even less, Dr. Murthy said on Friday.
Overall, one of every six breast cancer cases is attributable to alcohol consumption, according to Dr. Murthy. More recent studies have also linked moderate alcohol consumption to certain forms of heart disease, including atrial fibrillation, a heart arrhythmia.
Dr. Murthy said it was important to know that the risk rises as alcohol consumption increases. But each individual’s risk of cancer is different, depending on family history, genetic makeup and environmental exposures.
“I wish we had a magic cutoff we could tell people is safe,” he said. “What we do know is that less is better when it comes to reducing your cancer risk.”
He added, “If an individual drinks occasionally for special events, or if you’re drinking a drink or two a week, your risk is likely to be significantly less than if you’re drinking every day.”
Trump Win
Certified – By Harris
In an ironic move lost on no one, Congress, presided by Vice President Kamala Harris, certified the November victory of President-elect Donald Trump on Monday, clearing the way for his inauguration on January 20.
The January 6th certification of the election results in the 50 states and the District of Columbia was accomplished in a brief, formal ceremony during a joint
session of the House of Representatives and Senate.
The final certification backed up findings that Trump won 312 Electoral College votes to Harris’s 226.
Republicans also captured a majority in the U.S. Senate and held a narrow edge in the House in November’s election, which will give Trump the party support he needs to implement his planned agenda of tax cuts and a crackdown on immigrants living in the country illegally.
Security inside and outside the Capitol was heightened in preparation for the certification and is expected to remain in place through Trump’s swearing-in.
Presidential Medals of Freedom
President Joe Biden awarded several individuals the Presidential Medal of
Freedom on Saturday, as he approached his final days in office.
Biden awarded the medal, which is the highest U.S. civilian honor, to Hillary Clinton, former secretary of state, senator, first lady, and presidential candidate; Jose Andres, a chef and founder of the World Central Kitchen charity organization; Michael J. Fox, an actor who starred in several movies and TV shows, including “Back to the Future” and “Family Ties”; Jane Goodall, a famous conservationist; Bono, the singer and musician behind the band U2; Ralph Lauren, a fashion designer who founded the eponymous multibillion-dollar company; and Bill Nye, the “Science Guy,” a scientist and TV show personality.
Biden also gave the honor to Denzel Washington, an actor; Earvin “Magic” Johnson, a top former basketball player; Anna Wintour, the editor-in-chief of Vogue; and George Stevens Jr., a director, playwright, writer, and the founder of the American Film Institute.
Two live recipients were not present for the awards ceremony: Lionel Messi, an international soccer star from Argentina, whose schedule didn’t allow him to attend; and George Soros, an infamous billionaire known for funding progressive groups. Biden’s decision to award Soros was condemned by many members of the Republican Party. Soros’ award was accepted by his son Alex.
Biden also gave the medal posthumously to several people: Fannie Lou Hamer, a civil rights and women’s rights leader; Ash Carter, a secretary of defense who served in former President Barack Obama’s administration; Robert F. Kennedy, a senator, attorney general, and presidential candidate, who was assassinated, suffering the same fate as his brother, President John F. Kennedy; and George Romney, a former Michigan governor and secretary of Housing and Urban Development.
Kennedy’s medal was accepted by his daughter Kathleen. Sen. Mitt Romney, who was once the GOP’s presidential nominee, accepted his late father’s medal.
“Let’s remember, our sacred effort continues, and to keep going, as my mother would say, we have to keep the faith,” Biden said at the end of the ceremony.
Honolulu Fireworks Explode
Three people died on New Year’s Eve in Honolulu when fireworks exploded near a home. Twenty other people were injured in the accident, which occurred right before midnight outside a home. On Monday, one of those who were injured –a three-year-old boy – died of his injuries.
The neighborhood where the incident occurred is near Honolulu’s international airport and a joint U.S. Air Force and Navy base and a little more than 2 miles east of the U.S.S. Arizona Memorial, which honors sailors who died in the attack on Pearl Harbor, drawing the U.S. into World War II.
“I’ve been in EMS over 30 years and this is probably one of the worst calls I’ve ever been on as far as the immense tragedy and amount of patients and severity of the injuries,” Honolulu Emergency Services Department Director Dr. Jim Ireland said in a news conference.
Honolulu Mayor Rick Blangiardi said, “This incident is a painful reminder of the danger of illegal fireworks, which put lives at risk, drain our first responder resources, and disrupt our communities.”
Las Vegas Cybertruck Explosion
On January 1, Matthew Livelsberger, an active-duty U.S. soldier, shot himself dead and blew up a Tesla Cybertruck in a deliberate car-bombing that injured seven bystanders in Las Vegas, Nevada. Thankfully, no one else was injured in the explosion.
Alicia Arritt dated Livelsberger from 2018 to 2019 and from 2020 to around
2022. She heard from him in December when he sent her a text with pictures of the Cybertruck. The 37-year-old Coloradan Green Beret, who had been stationed at a base in Germany before going on leave, boasted about the coolness and speed of the car, which he had been renting.
Notably, in their texting conversation, Livelsberger didn’t mention anything about his plans to blow up the vehicle with fireworks, gas tanks, and camping
fuel in front of the Trump International Hotel in Las Vegas, Nevada.
According to Spencer Evans, a special agent heading the FBI’s Las Vegas Division, “a tragic case of suicide involving a heavily decorated combat veteran who was struggling with PTSD and other issues” caused the incident, and “other family issues or personal grievances in his own life … may have been contributing factors” for the explosion.
According to Arritt, Livelsberg-
cumulative,” Arritt explained.
Authorities found two letters on Livelsberger’s phone in the vehicle, discussing his “political grievances” about global conflicts and domestic issues. He said in one letter that the “fireworks and explosives” were supposed to be a “wake-up call,” since “Americans only pay attention to spectacles and violence.” His other letter called for the ouster of the Democratic Party from the government and military and raised the prospect of having to take over roads and federal buildings through the use of force.
“I had no idea (he was planning anything)... and I have so much guilt because I feel like I could have done something,” said Arritt. “All he wanted to do was be there for his teammates… He wanted to help them and protect them and be the first one to rush into battle to help his teammates.”
Apple Siri Privacy Suit
According to a class action lawsuit filed against Apple, the company’s voice assistant, Siri, after being unintentionally triggered, frequently listens to private conversations, which are then passed off to advertisers.
Last Tuesday, Apple offered, in a federal court in Oakland, California, to pay the plaintiffs in the case $95 million. The settlement, which is pending approval by U.S. District Judge Jeffrey White, is not an admission of wrongdoing.
er, whom she met on a dating app, had suffered an unknown number of concussions. While they dated, he told her about his injuries, pain, and exhaustion.
Frequently, Livelsberger spoke about his depression with Arritt, sometimes texting her that he was too depressed to leave his home. In 2018 and 2019, he had back surgeries, which were necessary because of his time in the military.
“He just says he landed bad (after parachuting) too many times. It was …
Since there are tens of millions of class members in the lawsuit, each plaintiff could receive $20 for each device they have with Siri. It takes Apple, with a net income of $93.74 billion, around nine hours to make $95 million.
Siri, which is similar to Google Assistant and Amazon’s Alexa, is generally activated by the words, “Hey, Siri.” However, some claim that Siri has listened to their private conversations, which advertisers use to cater specific ads to them.
Google Assistant has been at the center of the same allegations, with plaintiffs represented by the same law firms filing a similar lawsuit in the same district against Google.
Johnson Reelected as Speaker
Speaker Mike Johnson on Friday won reelection to the top post in the House, salvaging his job in a dramatic last-minute turnabout by putting down a revolt from conservatives who initially voted to block his ascent.
Johnson barely mustered the majority he needed to win reelection on the first ballot, with help from President-elect Donald Trump, who lobbied holdouts by phone.
Johnson won with just enough votes to clinch the gavel, 218-215.
But the chaotic scene that played out on the House floor — with three Republicans initially opposing Johnson and six more abstaining until it appeared he would lose before voting for him — reflected divisions within GOP ranks.
It was a grim portent for Johnson at the start of the new all-Republican Congress and for Trump as he embarks upon his second term with an ambitious and crowded agenda that will require his party to stay almost entirely unified.
Johnson and Trump had urged Republican lawmakers to quickly elect him speaker so the House could start work on the president-elect’s legislative priorities. But it became clear early into the vote Friday that some of the hard-liners who had vented dissatisfaction with Johnson’s performance in the top post were intent on dealing him an embarrassing rebuke before allowing him to keep his job.
As their names were called by the House clerk, instead of voting, they stared defiantly ahead and remained silent.
By the time three other Republicans — Reps. Thomas Massie of Kentucky, Keith Self of Texas and Ralph Norman of South Carolina — voted for lawmakers other
than Johnson, it appeared that he was at risk of losing the gavel to Rep. Hakeem Jeffries of New York, the Democratic leader.
But eventually, the six lawmakers who had initially withheld their votes changed them to support Johnson, R-La.
With three defectors, he was still short of the majority necessary to win reelection.
Johnson then huddled with two of the holdouts as the vote was held open for nearly an hour.
They returned together to the floor, and Self and Norman strode to the center of the chamber and changed their votes, handing Johnson the support necessary to win another term.
Massie held firm in opposing Johnson, voting instead for Rep. Tom Emmer of Minnesota, the No. 3 Republican leader. (© The New York Times)
with her every weekend and keeps up her spirits by leaving her voice messages.
Canabarro was born on June 8, 1908 to a large family in southern Brazil. Her birth was registered two weeks late and she was actually born on May 27. Her great-grandfather was a famed Brazilian general.
For her 110th birthday, she was honored by Pope Francis.
Local soccer club Inter — which was founded after Canabarro’s birth — celebrates every year the birthday of its oldest fan. Her room is decorated with gifts in the team’s red and white colors.
“White or black, rich or poor, whoever you are, Inter is the team of the people,” Canabarro says in one video posted on social media celebrating her 116th birthday with the club’s president.
Canabarro took the title of the oldest living person following the death of Japan’s Tomiko Itooka in December. She now ranks as the 20th oldest documented person to have ever lived, a list topped by Frenchwoman Jeanne Calment, who died in 1997 at the age of 122, according to LongeviQuest.
She’s Old –Bar None
Sister Inah Canabarro has claimed the crown of world’s oldest living person. The 117-year-old lives in Brazil and was so skinny growing up that her family didn’t think she would survive her childhood.
Canabarro says that her religion is the key to her longevity.
“I’m young, pretty and friendly — all very good, positive qualities that you have too,” the nun told visitors to her retirement home in the southern Brazilian city of Porto Alegre.
In a video filmed last month, Canabarro was reciting jokes, showing off mini paintings she used to paint, and praying. Her 84-year-old nephew spends time
Not Lyin’ Around
Tinotenda Pudu is a seven-year-old boy who went missing from his village in Zimbabwe late last month. Rescuers searched for days to find the youngster, who had gone missing from within a national park that is full of lions.
But Pudu is pretty resourceful. For five days, he survived on fruit and groundwater. He trekked around 30 miles on his own.
Rescuers had trouble locating the boy who had lost his way because of heavy rain, which made his footsteps disappear. Finally, they saw some of his footprints and found him the next morning.
Mutsa Murombedzi, member of parliament for the Mashonaland West region, which includes the national park, described the rescue as a “true miracle” in a post on X
She said the child had “wandered away, lost direction, and unknowingly headed into the perilous Matusadonha Game Park.”
According to the MP, Pudu at one
point heard the park rangers’ vehicle and tried to run toward the noise – but was late to reach them. Fortunately, the rangers came back to the area and saw “fresh little human footprints,” which led them to the boy.
“This was probably his last chance of being rescued after 5 days in the wilderness,” Murombedzi wrote.
The national park once had the highest density of lions in Africa, according to the non-profit African Parks, and is home to a diverse range of wildlife, including elephants, zebras, hippos, lions and buffalo.
“During this period, he survived on wild fruits and would dig a small hole along the dry riverbank to access underground water to drink, a technique that is well known in drought prone areas,” Zimbabwe Parks related.
Thankfully, Pudu is now safe and sound – and he’s not lyin’ around.
Surf’s Up
Alessandro “Alo” Slebir is a real dude. The 23-year-old was surfing with friends on December 23 at Mavericks, near Half Moon Bay, off the coast of California when he caught an enormous wave.
“You’re going so fast on those surfboards – you’re probably going 30, 40, 50 miles an hour – and that wave was so tall that it was sucking so much water coming back at you that it was a weird feeling, feeling the friction of the water underneath the surfboard. I’ve never felt that on really any other wave that I’ve ever caught,” Slebir shared.
It’s possible that, at 108 feet, Slebir surfed the world’s largest wave.
If the wave’s height is confirmed by Guinness World Records and the World Surf League, Slebir will hold the record for the largest wave surfed – a title currently held by Sebastian Steudtner, who rode an 86-foot wave off the coast of Portugal in 2020.
Sort of blows it out of the water.
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Davar B’ito Mah Tov: Master Maseches Megillah with Oraysa
For Lomdei Oraysa, “Yom Tov continues” was the tagline in a recent Oraysa ad, encouraging people to join as thousands of lomdim relished the feeling of being connected to Yom Tov long after the Tishrei season was over. Maseches Beitzah deals with the sugyos and halachos of Yom Tov, and by delving into its complexities, lomdei Oraysa held on to that connection for more than four months.
Now, as the glowing embers of the neiros Chanukah fade away, leaving us with the warmth of the Yom Tov of light, lomdei Oraysa are preparing to start learning the sugyos of Purim in Maseches Megillah.
While the natural order of the Masechtos in the Vilna Shas places Taanis after Beitzah, upon the advice of Gedolei Yisroel in Eretz Yisroel and the USA, Oraysa will be learning Megillah right after Beitzah, with Taanis following Megillah. This adjustment will give lomdei Oraysa the benefit and geshmak of Davar b’ito mah tov, delving into the sugyos of Maseches Megillah as they head into Purim.
This decision has created ripples of excitement throughout the world of Oraysa lomdim, as learning a Masechta during its most relevant time is always so rewarding.
With every passing Masechta, Oraysa sees bs”d extraordinary growth, with more chaburos and hundreds of individuals joining all over the world.
Oraysa is a worldwide initiative designed to unite and empower lomdei Torah through a structured daily seder limud. It provides a daily framework to learn, review, and retain Shas while delving into its sugyos, at a pace that works.
The Oraysa Amud V’Chazara program was developed in collaboration with leading Roshei Yeshiva and Gedolei Yisroel
to address the growing demand for a Gemara learning framework that balances consistent progression with meaningful review.
The program’s structured yet flexible approach makes it accessible to lomdei Torah across the spectrum, from kollel yungeleit to baalebatim and mechanchim. With Oraysa, every participant, regardless of their background or schedule, has the ability to grow in their limud haTorah and deepen their connection to their learning.
Oraysa has become a global movement, connecting approximately 30,000 lomdim in 370 chaburos across 100 cities worldwide. Participants are currently learning Maseches Beitzah, with plans
to begin Maseches Megillah on January 14th, Yud-daled Teves.
Join thousands of lomdei Oraysa as they embark on their journey into the sugyos of Megillah in the months leading up to Purim. Savor the satisfaction of learning the sugyos of a Yom Tov and come to Purim having studied almost the entire Masechta of Megillah, elevating your simcha on this special Yom Tov to new heights.
To join the program, for more information, or to help establish a chaburah in your community, contact Oraysa at 914.8.ORAYSA or email info@oraysa.org.
Kehillas Bais Yehudah Tzvi and Kollel Chanukah Mesibah
Chanukah at HANC
It was an action-packed week in HANC Elementary School in West Hempstead as the children enjoyed numerous activities that added fun and excitement to their celebration of Chanukah. Before the festivities even began, the children in third through fifth grade decorated lively dreidels, which were laminated and donated to the Esplanade Memory Care Facility, to spread the joy and light of Chanukah to the residents there who were not able to celebrate at home with their families.
On the first day of Chanukah, the students were provided with wooden dreidels to decorate and then they tested their spinning skills with their friends. The younger students in kindergarten and first grade enjoyed a lively game of Chanukah Bingo, enabling them to review the characters and objects relating to the holiday that they had learned so much about in the weeks leading up to Chanukah.
On Friday, the entire school participated in the mitzvah of hachnasat orchim, welcoming the students in the community who attend local public schools to join in a Glowing Chanukah Chagigah. As the parents and children entered the auditorium, the lights were off, but the room was sparkling with glow in the dark decorations, balloons and streamers. Beginning with the playing of Hatikvah on the electric keyboard by sixth grade student Nathan Miska, the fun began with singing of Shabbat and Chanukah songs. The enthusiastic group broke out into joyous dancing as sixth grade student Leo Cohn performed as the DJ for the spirited crowd. Joining the Director of HANC
West Hempstead Campuses, Rabbi Ouriel Hazan, on the stage, HANC parent and Maccabeat singer Meir Shapiro performed and taught the children how to beatbox. It was truly a fun and electrifying Shabbat assembly, full of extra ruach in honor of Shabbat and Chanukah.
The fun continued on Tuesday with delicious sufganiyot, donated generously by the HANC PTA. The children had a great time decorating their doughnuts with icing, candy, chocolate chips and sprinkles. This special treat added extra sweetness to a very fun holiday.
Just as the Maccabees had searched for a pach shemen (jug of oil) so many years ago, the students conducted their own search, looking everywhere around the classrooms to find the hidden jugs of oil. Different sized pictures of oil jugs merited different point values, and the class in each grade that earned the most points won a pre-winter vacation party for their class.
Adding a musical quality to the festivities, each day of Chanukah included a vote on the greatest Chanukah Song of all time. Each day, the classes watched the Maccabee Madness videos assigned for each day, and then voted on their favorite song. On the last day, when the list was narrowed down to two songs, the final tallies were counted and the students selected the song “Miracle of Light” by 8th Day.
By the end of the week of Chanukah, it was evident that it had been a busy, fun filled and enjoyable week for one and all. HANC wishes to thank the Mottahedeh family for sponsoring the Shabbat Assembly and the PTA for their generous support for the Chanukah programs.
Rambam Hosts Annual Intergenerational Learn-A-Thon
Rambam students and their families kicked off the new year with a special Intergenerational Learn-A-Thon last week. Students were joined by their fathers, grandfathers, uncles, brothers and more for a day of shared learning. The day began with an intergenerational davening in the shul, followed by a delicious breakfast.
After breakfast, source sheets were distributed to prepare for the shiur given by Rambam’s 11A Gemara Iyun Rebbe, Rabbi Henoch Bald. Rabbi Bald, who had a highly successful 18-year tenure as Head of School at Hillel Yeshiva High School in Ocean, NJ, recently joined Rambam as a Rebbe. The Rambam community is honored to have him share his wisdom with the students on a regular basis, and this event provided a wonderful opportunity for parents and grandparents to experience the Torah and insights he imparts to the boys.
Following the shiur preparation, Rabbi Zev Meir Friedman, Rosh HaYeshiva, and Rabbi Avi Hirschman,
Rosh HaMesivta, then introduced Assistant Principal Rabbi Avi Haar, head of the school’s Masmidim Extra Learning Program. Rabbi Haar presented the Masmidim students with plaques in recognition of their dedication to extra learning during nightly sessions and lunchtime.
Rabbi Bald’s shiur focused on the fundamentals of brachos focusing on a
sugya from Maseches Brachos. His shiur drew on sources from the Gemara,
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the Rambam, and other texts. Through his unique approach, Rabbi Bald provided new insights and meaning to this classic sugya and very important topic. Additionally, he shared personal experiences learning under The Rav, Rabbi Joseph Soloveitchik, in both Yeshiva University as well as in Boston, which inspired those in attendance.
It was meaningful to see three generations learning side by side in preparation for the shiur. Rabbi Bald made the shiur accessible to all attendees, providing a meaningful and impactful way to begin the new year.
Continuing a cherished DRS tradition, students gathered at their rabbeim’s homes for Chanukah parties that went beyond latkes and dreidels. These gatherings were filled with divrei Torah, games, and a sense of family that is central to the DRS experience. These moments serve to further strengthen the Rebbe-Talmid relationship that defines the yeshiva.
Injecting some lighthearted competition into the festivities, the school hosted a “Don’t Forget the Lyrics” competition. Students tested their musical memories
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by filling in the blanks of popular songs –some classics, some Chanukah-themed, and some just plain fun. The event was filled with laughter, surprising musical talent, and an energetic audience cheering on their peers.
On Friday of Chanukah, the yeshiva lobby was transformed into a scene of spirited song and dance. Students and rabbeim joined together for festive Hallel, followed by dancing with music provided by DJ, and DRS sophomore Aaron Cukier.
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JCCRP’s Chanukah Toy Drive
There are hundreds of families in your children’s schools who are living paycheck to paycheck and are struggling to make ends meet. Their children, needless to say, suffer as well; when parents cannot afford the basic life necessities of living in our community, they cannot afford to buy toys for their children either.
Although our collective worlds stopped last year on October 7, our community endeavored to celebrate Chanukah together this year. Chanukah, a time when good triumphs over evil. Chanukah, a time when we are joyous. As we fried our latkes, spun our dreidels, and gifted our children beautifully wrapped Chanukah presents, we cannot forget our struggling friends and neighbors locally. Needy children in your children’s schools pined to unwrap Chanukah presents as well. And thanks to JCCRP, those children were able to receive the Chanukah presents that they dreamed of.
JCCRP had a station at the Pre-Chanukah Chessed Expo at the Manchester, where mothers and daughters from the
community gathered before Chanukah to do some hands-on chessed for local children as well as those abroad in Israel. The mothers and daughters wrapped presents for local children in need.
This year, the JCCRP collaborated with Al Kanfei Nesharim z”l R’ Dov Wolowitz (Al Kanfei) to coordinate a beautiful Chanukah toy drive for local families in need and single mother families, gifting their children with brand new toys for Chanukah. 772 children received toys, each toy carefully selected with that particular child’s age and stage in mind. All families were vetted to ensure that they were struggling and in need of this form of assistance by the organizations that partnered to create the toy drive. These children were able to feel joyous on Chanukah, just like all of their friends. Gift cards were given to children 11 years and older so that they could choose their own Chanukah presents. This toy drive was conducted in an honorable manner, preserving families’ dignity. We are grateful that we were able to make such a tangible difference in the
lives of our community’s children, together with the community’s help.
A huge thank you to the JCCRP Chanukah Toy Drive committee who made this event such a success: Esther Satt, Daphna Mishaan, Devorah Rosner, Fraidy Osina, Hudis Saltz, Lara Klein, Naamah Aisenbaum, Rahely Fruchter, Rocky Stern, Sori Tamir, Tamar Samules, and Tamar Scharf. The Chanukah Toy Drive could not happen without their incredible devotion and commitment to the children in our community.
Thank you to the many stores and companies that contributed to the success of the Chanukah toy drive, including: BBY, BYAM, Beis Medrash of Lawrence, Beis Medrash of Harborview, Congregation Beth Sholom, DRS, HAFTR, Seasons Express, KMH, Shulamith, YILC, YKLI, YOSS, SKA, Rockaway Kosher, Seasons, KolSave, Gourmet Glatt, Oppenheimer Orthodontics, Preminger Pediatric Dentistry, Dr. Lightman Total Family Care, The Marian and Aaron Gural JCC and Dr. Denise Cohen Pediatric Dentistry and Future Care Consultants.
These locations and organizations served as drop off locations, collecting toys in designated bins for families in need. Thank you to the many sponsors of the toy drive. Every dollar donated went directly toward the cost of the toy drive gift cards. Donate to www.jccrp.org/donation to give back to our community and support our local children.
Young Israel of Woodmere Honoring a Decade of Leadership: Celebrating Rabbi Shay and Rebbetzin Rina Schachter
The Young Israel of Woodmere (YIW) has long been a cornerstone of our community, and this year, we celebrate a significant milestone in its journey. On March 10, 2025, we will come together to honor Rabbi Shay and Rebbetzin Rina Schachter as they mark their tenth year of leadership at our shul. This event is not just a celebration of their personal accomplishments but also a reflection of the thriving and compassionate community they have helped shape.
Rabbi Schachter’s journey at YIW began as the head of our Beis Midrash Program, where he dedicated himself to organizing lectures, attracting distinguished speakers, and strengthening the spiritual fabric of our congregation. His passion for Torah learning and his commitment to nurturing the intellectual and spiritual growth of our members quickly became evident. His wisdom, knowledge, and deep compassion for others have made him a beacon of guidance for our community.
As Associate Rabbi, Rabbi Schachter’s leadership expanded, and his influence
reached beyond the walls of our Shul. With more than 1,200 families calling YIW their spiritual home, Rabbi Schachter has built meaningful relationships, offered Halachic counsel, and been a steady source of support for both young families and seasoned community members alike. His impressive body of work includes over 1,000 online shiurim, allowing his teachings to impact not only our congregation but also Jewish communities around the world.
In the face of unprecedented challenges, Rabbi Schachter’s leadership has been nothing short of inspiring. The past 18 months have tested the strength of our community, but under Rabbi Schachter’s guidance, YIW has risen to the occasion. He has led efforts to support families affected by the recent hostage crisis in Israel, fostering personal connections and offering much-needed solace. Rabbi Schachter’s commitment to bringing former hostages, their families, and renowned Israel-focused speakers to our shul has made YIW a model of support, compassion, and unity for synagogues across the nation.
Equally deserving of recognition is Rebbetzin Rina Schachter, whose partnership in Rabbi Schachter’s work has been invaluable. Rebbetzin Schachter has played an integral role in shaping the vision and success of YIW, offering steadfast support to both Rabbi Schachter and the community as a whole. Her dedication to our Shul and her tireless efforts behind the scenes make her an essential part of their shared mission of Torah leadership and community building.
The 64th Annual YIW Dinner, scheduled for March 10, 2025, at 6:30 p.m., provides an opportunity to not only celebrate the remarkable ten-year journey of Rabbi and Rebbetzin Schachter but also to support the vital work of YIW moving forward. This annual event serves as a critical source of funding, supporting educational programming, community development, and initiatives that allow us to continue spreading Torah and Jewish values. The funds raised will ensure that Rabbi Schachter and the Shul can continue to inspire, guide, and elevate our community for years to come.
We extend a heartfelt invitation to
you to join us in honoring Rabbi Shay and Rebbetzin Rina Schachter for their decade of service, leadership, and dedication. Your presence at this celebration will not only honor their achievements but will also help sustain the important work that has touched so many lives.
Together, let’s show our gratitude for the Schachters’ leadership and commitment to Torah, community, and Israel. To join us please visit yiwoodmere.org to RSVP.
Bar Mitzvah Workshop
HANC
Middle School
On December 22, the seventh grade boys at HANC, together with fathers and grandfathers, came together in school for an enjoyable Bar Mitzvah program. The morning began with an inspiring davening. After davening, the program continued with a delicious breakfast. Following breakfast, the participants came back to the Beit Medrash. Each boy was presented with their choice of a set of personalized Machzorim, a personalized kiddush cup, or an Amazon gift card. In addition, the boys purchased a pair of tefillin for a boy in Zion Orphanage for his Bar Mitzvah in Yerushalayim. We thank Mrs. Zeitlin for coordinating the bar mitzvah gifts this year and Mr. Zeitlin for speaking at the breakfast.
Next, Rabbi Heshy Pincus, a noted Sofer, enthralled the crowd with a unique presentation about tefillin. Rabbi Pincus went through the process of how tefillin are made and many of the halachot relating to tefillin. One of the adults remarked that they had heard many tefillin presentations, but this one was the most amazing.
Following this presentation, the participants returned to the gym to learn about Bar Mitzvah dancing and how to act during the Bar Mitzvah. The featured presenters were The Shnitzel Guys. They are so entertaining and really know how to help the boys learn and have fun at the same time. This program definitely helped the boys get ready for the Bar Mitzvah season.
Literacy at Gan Chamesh
In connection with Hey Teves (an important date on the Chabad calendar when a court ruled that the library of the famed Frierdiker Rebb, belonged to the Chabad movement), Gan Chamesh began its Literacy unit. The children brought their favorite Jewish books to school and focused on reading and writing activities which highlight the importance of reading to the development of young minds.
Pickleball Stars Shine for Partners in Parnosoh
On December 22, the inaugural Paddle with Purpose men’s doubles pickleball tournament took over Pickleball America in Stamford, Connecticut. With 13 top-notch courts, the event attracted talented players from across the country, all competing to support Partners in Parnosoh through RCN/ Tomche Shabbos.
Players kicked off the day with swag
bags and customT-shirts before diving into a fast-paced round-robin format. After fierce matches, the top teams in advanced and intermediate divisions battled it out in intense semi-finals and medal rounds.
In the advanced division, Ari Barnett (Five Towns) and Eli Hanukah (West Hempstead) struck gold with flawless teamwork. Igor Rebel and Tzvi Reifer
(Chicago) earned silver, while Meir Arm (Monsey) and Rob Zimmer clinched bronze.
The intermediate division saw fatherand-son duo Yirmi and Steve Stein (Passaic) take gold after thrilling rallies, while Natan Burg and Gavi Pinsky (Teaneck) earned bronze with grit and heart.
Graze Steakhouse kept everyone fueled with gourmet food stations, while DJ
Sol amped up the energy with a vibrant mix of beats, making the night a celebration of community, competition, and a great cause.
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Israel Chesed Center to Host Unity Shabbat to Support Lone Soldiers and Raise Awareness for Nevut
In February of last year, the Israel Chesed Center held the inaugural “Shabbat B’yachad Nenatzeach,” Israel Unity Shabbat, an extraordinary event uniting Jewish communities across the Five Towns, Long Beach, West Hempstead, and Oceanside. Over 40 shuls and yeshivot participated, with 25 Chayalim joining these communities for a Shabbat filled with achdut (unity) and chizuk (strengthening). It was a powerful display of solidarity with the soldiers who serve Israel, and a meaningful experience that left an indelible mark on all who attended.
While the hope was that the war would be a distant memory by now, the reality is that many soldiers who have returned home are still struggling with the aftermath of their service. The need for support has never been greater, particularly for Chayalim Bodedim (Lone Soldiers) – those who serve in the IDF without immediate family in Israel. As these soldiers return to their homes in the U.S. and other countries, they face unique challenges,
including coping with the mental and emotional toll of their service.
According to the IDF, over 30% of Chayalim experience PTSD after their service, with many suffering from severe forms of it. While Chayalim in Israel have access to resources to help them navigate these challenges, Lone Soldiers returning to the U.S. often find themselves without appropriate support systems, even if they are surrounded by their families and communities.
Nevut, an organization dedicated to
supporting these Lone Soldiers who have returned to the U.S., plays a crucial role in providing the assistance they need. As the only organization focused on supporting Lone Soldiers in the U.S., Nevut works tirelessly to ensure that these soldiers feel less isolated and more supported as they reintegrate into civilian life.
In the spirit of the halachot of tzedakah, which emphasize that “aniyei ircha kodmim” (the poor of your city have precedence), Nevut believes in Chayalei Ircha Kodmim – that our local soldiers
should also be prioritized. This year’s Unity Shabbat will be dedicated to honoring Nevut and its mission. The event will offer an opportunity for both the Lone Soldiers and our communities to exchange chizuk and support, creating a meaningful and mutual bond.
Beginning on Purim and continuing through the weekend of March 14-16, we plan to come together for this year’s Unity Shabbat and to continue to stand with our brothers and sisters in Israel, supporting those who have risked everything to protect the Jewish homeland. This event will be a powerful reminder of our shared responsibility to care for those who have served, ensuring that the soldiers who have given so much do not face the challenges of post-service life alone.
For more information about this and other ICC events, or to volunteer at the Chesed Center, contact israelchesedcenter@gmail.com, or visit them at 1315 Peninsula Blvd., Hewlett, NY.
Protecting the Holiness of Our Families
Is there an age when parents should stop urging their children with matters related to Yiddishkeit? How involved should they be in the shidduchim process? To what extent should parents be monitoring their adolescent’s use of technology?
These were some of the questions asked of the Lander College for Men-Beis Medrash L’Talmud (LCM) leadership at a chinuch roundtable held during LCM’s first annual breakfast last weekend at their Kew Gardens Hills campus. Dr. Henry Abramson, the LCM dean, presented opening remarks, and audience questions were answered by LCM Rosh HaYeshiva Rav Yonason Sacks and Menahel Rav Yosef Sonnenschein. The roundtable was moderated by Rabbi Shmuel Marcus, Maggid Shiur.
In addressing the question about how hard parents should push matters related to their Yiddishkeit on their children, Rabbi Sonnenschein said that a heavy-handed approach isn’t always effective, giving the example of parents who use strong-arm tactics to get their kids to shul every morning.
“We find sometimes that there are young men who won’t wake up in yeshiva, but they always wake up at home, because their parents will threaten them in some way,” he said. “That approach won’t help them get up in the morning when they get to yeshiva, and it won’t help when they get older and get married, either. Instead, I would suggest that when children reach a certain age, you have a conversation with them and ask how you can help them fulfill this mitzvah that they themselves
want so much to fulfill.”
Speaking broadly, Rabbi Sacks said that having a child or student follow the rules only because of the potential repercussions of not doing so is “a fallback situation.” He noted a seemingly obvious comment by the Ramban, that with regard to the relationship between a father and son, one is obligated to love his children. In explaining the Ramban, Rabbis Sacks said that parents must ensure that their rules are imposed for the love for their children, nothing else.
“If your son’s rebbe were to ask, ‘When your parent does that, what do you think the motivation is? Where is it coming from?’ we hope that he will hear that it’s coming from absolute love,” he said. “If it’s coming from anything else, like a power struggle or the parents looking to overcome their own personal challenges through their kids, that’s where things become very difficult. It must be clear to your children that this is coming from the best place.”
Parental Involvement in Shidduchim
For the question of how involved parents should be when their children start dating, Rabbi Sacks said there must be a partnership between parents and children.
“It’s foolish for parents to be demanding and insistent and not consider the wants, the desires, and the needs of their sons and daughters. But it’s equally foolish to let them navigate this without proper guidance,” he said. “It can be uncomfortable, but sometimes it’s necessary to advocate for your children with shad-
chanim. I would urge you to seek advice from your rabbi and rebbetzin. ‘How do we go about this?’ Because this decision is going to determine what will happen to your children throughout their lives.”
Rabbi Sonnenschein said Rabbi Sacks was offering “golden advice,” then offered up some of his own.
“Sometimes you hear a talmid say, ‘Well, my mother wants me to do this. My father wants me to do this,’” controlling every aspect of a child’s dating. “We’re talking about him getting married! There has to be an element of trust. If I have to micromanage his dating to a point that I’m not treating him like an adult, then I should rethink if he’s ready for shidduchim.”
He made one additional point:
“I always tell my students, if your mother tells you something doesn’t feel right, even if she can’t tell you exactly why, you must stop and figure it out,” he said. “A mother’s gut feeling… you don’t want to mess with that.”
Use of Technology
As for how to regulate children’s use of technology, Rabbi Sonnenschein stressed that there are two important elements to consider: Yiddishkeit and safety.
“We have to make sure our kids are safe. There’s no two ways about it, and we need to have some sense of what’s happening, because the online world could be a very dangerous world. So we have to monitor it, and we should tell them it’s because we love them and we care for them,” he said. “On the Yiddishkeit side of it, we would rather our children not be exposed to so many apps or to social media, and we wonder what they’re doing on their phones.”
A potential solution, he suggested, is to put filters and protections on their phones. But that requires a consistent approach from the entire family.
“We should create a standard in our home that all our devices are filtered,”
Rabbi Sonnenschein said. “If my devices are not filtered, then it’s a very weak argument for me to tell my children to filter theirs.”
What’s more, he said, our children want to feel safe in our homes. “We have talmidim coming to us and telling us, ‘I had such a good zman, but there are devices unfiltered in my house and I’m afraid to go home.’”
Rabbi Marcus followed up with a hypothetical: What if you get your son a flip phone but all his friends have a standard smart phone? “Am I making him stand out unfairly?” he asked.
“It’s terribly unfair to place children in an environment and expect them somehow to go against the flow and go against the tide and to resist everything that’s going on around them,” Rabbi Sacks responded. “It’s not a path for success. Either they will fail at doing so, or they will be socially isolated, and that’s going to create other challenges.
“In thinking about choosing a shul, or schools and yeshivas to send your children,” he continued, “you should be asking, what is the yeshiva’s policy in terms of technology? What exactly goes on beyond the walls of the yeshiva? It should be an absolute priority in choosing a community, because what’s at stake is the wellbeing, the wholesomeness, the kedusha and tahara of our families,” said Rabbi Sacks.
“While a discussion about chinuch is always beneficial, the participants felt that something unique was taking place,” said Rabbi Sonnenschein. “Here were parents and mechanchim collaborating to improve their children’s chinuch. This sense of partnership is a hallmark of Beis Medrash L’Talmud. We are all hoping to be able to gather at more events like this which bring together ‘both sides of the family’-- the wonderful parents of our students with their rebbeim who are fully committed to the success of each talmid.”
Common Mistakes In Estate Planning – Part I
As most individuals realize, creating an Estate Plan that includes a Revocable Trust, pourover Will, Property Power of Attorney, Health Care Power of Attorney, Living Will, and Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act Authorization provides benefits both during life and at death. During life, the plan gives directions regarding your finances and medical care if you become incapacitated or are otherwise unable to articulate your preferences. At death, the plan provides instructions regarding who should distribute your assets, in what manner, and to whom. If only drafting and signing the documents were enough; however, as any qualified Estate Planning attorney can attest, there are numerous issues that cause the best-laid plans to go awry. This first article in a multi-part series will explore the most common mistakes in an Estate Plan and provide solutions for those problems.
As a threshold matter, the worst mistake is failing to plan. Many people procrastinate when it comes to their Estate Planning for various reasons, such as lack of money or time, an unwillingness to face their own mortality, or indecision regarding their affairs. The excuses never end. Failing to prioritize your Estate Plan or failing to ensure its completion leaves your affairs and your family in limbo both during life and after your death. Without a proper Estate Plan, the state of your domicile controls distribution of your assets upon your death. When you die without an Estate Plan, that’s called
dying intestate and the laws of intestacy in your state of domicile control what happens to your assets upon your death. Intestacy laws usually give at least half of your assets to your surviving spouse and distribute the remainder among your children, all outright. Outright distribution could have disastrous consequences for any special needs beneficiary by making them ineligible for the benefits that they were receiving. Outright distribution causes issues for a minor child by requiring a guardianship for such child to receive the assets. Finally, the distribution pattern may or may not match your intended plan of distribution. Creating a comprehensive estate plan that consists of the documents noted above avoids this result and solves the threshold issue of failure to plan.
Even with the documents noted above, an Estate Plan may not work as intended. For example, consider the couple that creates an Estate Plan when their children are young but then fails to update it as their children reach the age of majority, marry, and have children of their own. Each of those milestones represents a time that the couple should revisit their plan and update it accordingly. Even in the absence of major life events, it makes sense to review and update an Estate Plan every few years to ensure that it continues to accomplish your goals, especially as they change, and that it reflects any changes in the law.
Some individuals try to avoid creating an Estate Plan by using titling mechanisms to transfer their assets at death.
Practitioners often cite avoiding probate as one of the reasons for creating a Revocable Trust to govern the distribution of your assets at death. As any good Trusts and Estates attorney knows, probate avoidance comes in other forms. For example, taking title to an asset as joint tenants with rights of survivorship avoids probate as long as the other joint tenant(s) survive. However, using that form of joint ownership raises certain issues that using a Revocable Trust does not. Because joint tenants each have rights to the entire asset, a joint tenant could deplete a joint account without the permission or knowledge of the other joint tenants. In addition, joint tenants could share legal worries. Property owned as joint tenants with rights of survivorship becomes vulnerable to legal claims of each joint tenant, even if the other joint tenants had nothing to do with the legal issue. Transferring assets to a Revocable Trust, however, avoids those problems. Owning assets in a Revocable Trust allows the owner to maintain the use of the assets during life and prevents the creditors of another individual from getting to those assets while the trustor is alive.
The Revocable Trust also allows the trustor to include safeguards for the beneficiary that will continue after the death of that trustor.
Another tempting way for clients to avoid probate without creating a Revocable Trust involves holding title to real estate with a child or other beneficiary. This causes a myriad of issues. In addition to creating vulnerability to the creditors of
both owners like that of joint tenancy ownership, adding a beneficiary to the deed raises issues of gifting. If the beneficiary failed to contribute to the purchase price of the property, then adding the beneficiary to the deed constitutes a gift if the beneficiary’s interest exceeds the annual per donee exclusion amount, currently $18,000. Further, if the original owner wants to refinance, lenders will require the beneficiary’s approval and signature on those documents. Finally, if the original owner desires to sell the real estate, every other owner listed on the deed needs to approve the sale.
As this article demonstrates, while it’s tempting to use shortcuts such as titling assets as joint tenants with rights of survivorship, or adding a beneficiary on a deed, that generally causes more problems than it solves when it comes to Estate Planning. A true Estate Plan entails creating a Revocable Trust, pour-over Will, Property Power of Attorney, Health Care Power of Attorney, Living Will, and Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act Authorization, but that’s just the beginning. A comprehensive Estate Plan involves regular meetings with a qualified Estate Planning attorney to ensure the plan remains current both with the grantor’s goals and the ever-evolving estate tax laws.
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Be My Guest Hosted by the White Shul
By Chaya Feldstein
January 6, 2025, was a date posted everywhere in the neighborhood and spread through chats, school papers and in The Jewish Home. You have read about what we do. Last night’s event was no exception, in fact, just the opposite, crystallizing what it feels like to be a guest. It is the hope that you enjoyed the hospitality as guests; the refreshments and meet-and-greet committee, free raffles entry and pocket mirror, “Be the reason someone smiles.” Because of you, the chashuva people who came on an icy cold winter night, made it the success that it was. Part of the goal was the guests should feel so at home that they want to replicate this in in their own Mikdash Me’at as hosts.
The night began with Tehillim led by
Rabbi Neuberger, shlita, and beautifully introduced by Rabbi Eytan Feiner, shlita. The primary message that Rabbi Daniel Kalish, shlita, strove to promote: the greatness of every Yid should not be underestimated. Rabbi Daniel Kalish spoke about his late father, Rabbi Yehoshua Kalish, zt”l, and that is his father together with his mother, Rebbetzin Beatie Kalish, tblch”t, instilled in him and his siblings tremendous love for every Yid, which manifests itself in his role as the Menahel of Waterbury.
Rabbi Daniel Kalish spoke of the mitzvah of Hachnosos Orchim as akin to korbanos. That’s according to the Sefer written recently by his father Rabbi Yehoshua Kalish, zt”l, “Pnei Levana.” On Daf Chagiga, the Gemara explains that Hachnosos Orchim is different than any other aspect of chessed, which one could retreat from
after giving. What makes Hachnosos Orchim so extraordinary is the fact that it requires your full self-involvement, which is why it’s like one can reap the benefit of bringing a korban; full atonement when doing this mitzvah!
So, in essence, the host should thank the guest because without the guest, one cannot be host! What a powerful message.
Yeshiva Har Torah Celebrates Chanukah
Yeshiva Har Torah celebrated Chanukah this year with an array of meaningful and inspiring programs that illuminated the spirit and the lessons of Chanukah. To set the tone for the Chanukah celebrations, students in grades 3-8 were inspired by special musical Hallel programs led by Rabbi Eisenberger and Rabbi Levy. Through the singing and ruach, students were uplifted, creating an atmosphere of simcha that allowed them to internalize the lessons of Chanukah and to strengthen their connections to Hashem.
Our early childhood and first and second grade students in our state-of-the-art Early Learning Center enjoyed a special Chanukah carnival, where the students played games, participated in hands-on activities and created glow-in-the-dark T-shirts that added an extra sparkle to their holiday experience. Students danced under black lights at the Glow Chagigah, celebrating the festival of lights in a truly vibrant way.
For students in grades 3-8, the festivities included lively chagigot with music led by Mr. Craig Resmovits. The energy in the room was electric as students danced and celebrated together, showcasing the unity and simcha that define the holiday. A highlight for many was the teacher-student hockey game, where teachers and rebbeim faced off against the boys varsity hockey team in a thrilling match that had everyone cheering.
Special shows delighted students across the school. Early Learning Center students were treated to an engaging puppet show, while grades 3-5 enjoyed a comedy juggling performance that left them laughing and amazed. For grades 6-8, mentalist David Rosenfeld captivated the audience with mind-bending tricks and illusions, leaving everyone in awe.
A Chanukah-themed panoply brought a competitive and educational edge to the celebrations for students in grades 5-8. Teams worked together to answer questions, solve puzzles, and showcase their Chanukah knowledge, making learning fun and interactive. In addition, the seventh and eighth grade girls participated in a special program called Cafe Chanukah, where they enjoyed pastries and painting under the guidance of Mrs. Orit Lax, combining creativity, socializing, and fun.
A beautiful inter-grade program brought students together in the spirit of collaboration and mentorship. Students in grades 3-6 visited the Early Learning Center, where they worked with younger students to build menorahs and read Chanukah stories. The bonds formed during these moments highlighted the value of connection and the joy of sharing traditions across age groups.
The eighth-grade girls extended the light of Chanukah beyond the school walls with a visit to the Parker Institute. There, they engaged residents in a Chanukah crafts activity, bringing smiles and warmth to members of the community. This act of kindness embodied the true essence of the holiday, reminding everyone of the importance of spreading light to others.
The faculty also joined in the festivi-
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ties with a Chanukah party that was both uplifting and enjoyable. Highlights included a special YHT edition of Apples to Apples, delicious food, and inspirational remarks from our Rosh HaYeshiva, Rabbi Menchel. The event fostered a strong sense of camaraderie and reflection, strengthening the bonds among faculty members and fostering a positive school culture.
The Chanukah programming at Yeshiva Har Torah captured the beauty, creativity, and meaning of the holiday, leaving students and staff with cherished memories and a deeper appreciation for the miracles of Chanukah. Students and faculty alike look forward to the Chanukah programming each year, and this year’s activities were truly unforgettable!
HAFTR Shines Bright on Chanukah
As the lights of Chanukah dim, the glow of this year’s celebrations at HAFTR continues to warm our hearts. From Early Childhood to High School, each division came together to infuse the holiday with creativity, spirit, and unity, making this Chanukah truly unforgettable.
Our youngest learners brought smiles to all with their Early Childhood Chanukah parties. Brimming with creativity, students crafted menorahs, decorated latke plates, and sang beloved holiday melodies. The highlight was undoubtedly the Pre-K performance, where students radiated joy in a glowing musical display that captured the essence of Chanukah cheer.
In Grades 1 through 5, the festivities reached new heights with chagigot, engaging Chanukah activities, and a spirited Kindergarten sing-along. A captivating Drum Tales performance had everyone moving to the beat, while the Recorder Club added a melodic touch to the annual Menorah lighting ceremony. The week culminated with a spectacular Zot Chanukah mesiba for fifth graders, leaving them with cherished memories to carry forward.
Talmidim enjoyed the annual famous Dreidel Drop at Siach Yitzchok, where the boys sing and dance until the dreidel drops open, and the boys dive in to get their pecklech filled with gelt and treats
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Middle and High School students brought their unique ruach to the holiday, celebrating with their teachers, friends, and families. A particularly meaningful moment was shared during Middle School’s Rosh Chodesh and Chanukah tefillah at Congregation Beth Sholom, highlighting the spiritual connection that lies at the heart of the holiday.
Division-wide concerts, generously sponsored by the PTA, brought all corners of HAFTR together. Rabbi Ben delighted our youngest learners with his lively performance, while other concerts filled the halls with song, dance, and celebration, uniting the HAFTR family in joyous harmony.
The most moving moment of the week came during the school-wide Menorah lighting ceremony. As the candles burned brightly, their glow symbolized the unity and strength of our HAFTR community.
Through these celebrations, HAFTR illuminated every corner of the school with the joy, warmth, and meaning of Chanukah. With gratitude for this unforgettable holiday, we look forward to carrying its light and lessons into the year ahead.
Chanukah at Shulamith A Rambam Chanukah: 8 Days of Celebration
This past week of Chanukah at Shulamith was absolutely amazing! A huge thank you to our administration, teachers and staff for their dedication in making this week such a success for our talmidot; it was truly an unforgettable experience! The girls had a blast celebrating this special time, from countless games to class parties with chesed projects included, Karaoke to a trip to Urban Air and Color War— our girls were full of energy, creativity, and joy, all while making a tremendous Kiddush Hashem. We are especially proud of our Color War teams and our eighth grade who have led the most achdut-oriented competition we’ve ever seen! A special thanks to Mrs. Farbman and the incredible student council for
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planning, coordinating, and organizing every event to ensure the girls had an unforgettable time!
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The Chanukah season at Rambam was an action-packed experience for both students and teachers. The festivities kicked off with a lively chagigah featuring Tzvi Lampert, followed by delicious doughnuts generously sponsored by the Rambam Women’s League. The celebration also included singing and dancing with lots of ruach as well as a Chinese Auction, run by Senior Leadership, Elazar Schwartz and Avi Katz, that raised over $1,000 for the FIDF (Friends of the Israel Defense Forces).
Rabbis and teachers generously sponsored a variety of creative prizes, some of the highlights included: A oneon-one basketball game with Rabbi Ilan Schimmel, Rebbe and Director of Israel Guidance, a Settlers of Catan game with Principal Hillel Goldman and two lucky friends, a mystery gift from math teach-
er extraordinaire Mr. Jeffrey Ganeles, a batch of freshly baked cookies from Rebbetzin Renee Friedman, college merch and baked goods from Marcy Farrell, Director of College Guidance, and a special Dunkin Donuts trip with Rosh HaYeshiva Rabbi Zev Meir Friedman along with a friend.
The Chanukah celebration also featured class trips to Area 53, where students enjoyed activities like paintball, parkour jungle gyms, roller skating, and an adventure park climbing experience.
A special thank you to Rabbi Yitz Milworn, Director of Student Activities, for arranging the trip, and to Aaron Friedman, Director of Operations, for coordinating and helping to make it all possible. Students are already looking forward to the next Chanukah at Rambam!
Mercaz Academy Competes in CIJE Robotics Tournament
Mercaz Academy is not a newcomer to the CIJE VEX Robotics League; in fact, Mercaz fourth and fifth graders took third place in the Robotics Tournament at the elementary level last March. However, the middle school tournament seemed out of reach for Mercaz Academy, with its highest grade being sixth.
“Our school serves students from toddlers through sixth grade, but we are an elementary school rather than a middle school,” explained Lynda Last, Director of Educational Technology. “This puts our sixth graders at a competitive disadvantage at the middle school tournament, which is designed for sixth through
eighth grade students. With no seventh and eighth graders on our teams, I was concerned that our sixth graders would find themselves outclassed.”
But Mercaz sixth grade students were not deterred. Eager to continue developing their robotics skills, they asked Mrs. Last to coach them to compete in the school’s first middle school tournament
“They were determined, so I registered Mercaz Academy in the Middle School Robotics League and they got right to work,” said Mrs. Last.
The seven students formed two teams and built a model of the competition rink and their team robots. The robots would be required to throw soft rubber
balls through targets, with extra points for more complex moves. Over the course of many recess periods, the sixth graders tested their robots, modifying them as problems arose. When Tournament Day arrived, they were excited, energized, and ready to compete.
The Mercaz Academy teams did surprisingly well at the tournament, which attracted teams from schools as far away as Texas and Florida. In a field of 107 teams, one of the two Mercaz teams of sixth graders placed in the top third and the other Mercaz team earned a spot in the top half of the field. Encouraged, Mercaz Academy robotics team members have already started robot modifications
with the intent to fare even better at the next tournament in March.
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Dear Friends,
Let’s be honest.
End-of-life issues are rarely on our to-do list.
They’re uncomfortable, even daunting. Yet as Jews, we deeply value the sanctity of every moment of life and the importance of planning responsibly for proper end-of-life care – for ourselves, our families, and the broader Jewish community.
In this week’s parsha of Vayechi, Yaakov Avinu prepared for his final days with great care and foresight, ensuring that his family was properly guided for the inevitable. His example serves as a reminder that while none of us can escape the realities of life’s end, we do have the power to shape how we, and those around us, experience it.
The
WFor more than a decade, Shabbos Vayechi has become an annual prompt to consider the issues we so often push aside. It’s a time to think about end-oflife matters and most importantly, to act upon them. Topics we are highlighting this year:
Preparing a Halachic Living Will.
Having a conversation about burial.
Estate planning k’halacha.
Addressing cremation with the not-yet observant.
Strengthening Chevra Kadisha in every community.
In my many years of working with families before and after the passing of those close to them, I have witnessed firsthand the wide range of experiences
that illness and death can bring. Pain is inevitable. Unnecessary hardship – the kind that comes from lack of preparation – is avoidable. The difficulty of dealing with loss is greatly exacerbated when accompanied by regret.
If only…
…that young man had completed a halachic living will, designating an agent and a Rav to direct his medical and after-life decisions, ensuring they were not left in the hands of a hospital ethics committee or non - observant family member
…that couple had discussed their burial plans ahead of time
…that parent had created a will in accordance with halacha
…that person had spoken to his great aunt to confirm her plans for a Jewish
burial, instead of, chas v’shalom, cremation
…that city had a stronger chevra kadisha, enabling more immediate burial, and was better prepared for dealing with a meis mitzvah
If only…
We need to be responsible and take action to care for our lives and the lives of our family members — here and hereafter.
Shabbos Vayechi is the time.
With best wishes for bracha v’hatzlacha, Rabbi Elchonon Zohn Founder & President NASCK - National Association of Chevra Kadisha
Silent Wait—Klal Yisroel’s Singles are Longing for a Shidduch
e all know someone in our immediate vicinity who is single—friends, siblings, children—waiting patiently to meet their bashert, to stand under the chuppah, and to finally build a bayis ne’eman b’Yisroel. Their heartfelt tefillos echo through our homes and communities, reminding us how deeply they long for this milestone.
Now, we have an opportunity to take meaningful action and help bring their dreams to life.
For the eighth year in a row, ChesedChicago is taking action in an extraordinary way. On Sunday, January 19, 2025 / 19 Teves 5785, over 400 lomdim will unite to complete the entire Shas in just 24 hours, creating a powerful z’chus for
singles everywhere.
This monumental undertaking gives every member of Klal Yisroel the chance to participate. By sponsoring dafim, individuals can dedicate this unique segulah for up to five singles in need of a shidduch—children, siblings, friends, or even themselves.
A Donor’s Story:
“I wanted to let you know that I participated in Shas for Shidduchim in the z’chus that my sister would find her shidduch. B’chasdei Hashem, she got engaged shortly before Purim, and will be getting married soon.”
Participants who sponsor five or more dafim will receive a special gift—a beautiful Lucite shtender or a new book on
shidduchim—as a token of appreciation.
Beyond this impactful learning, sponsorships also support ChesedChicago’s vital shidduch and wedding assistance programs, providing crucial resources to singles at every stage of their journey.
Don’t wait—join this powerful initiative today and create a z’chus for the singles in your life. Visit Shas4Shidduchim.org to sponsor dafim and create a powerful z’chus for them
Gifted Gitty at TAG
to start their bayis ne’eman b’Yisroel.
ChesedChicago, founded by Dayan Shmuel Fuerst, provides critical assistance to families in need through over 80 programs, offering goods, services, and financial support. Ma’aser money may be used for daf sponsorships. For more info, visit Shas4Shidduchim.org or call 847-679-7799 x 170.
Gifted Gitty, the mascot for TAG’s Vachai Bahem theme, visited the Ganger Early Childhood for a month and reinforced some important mitzvos and hanhagos through exciting contests and prizes! Each week, she came to our classrooms teaching us something new! We were reminded of the importance of saying Modeh Ani and
doing negel vasser upon waking up, and saying Kriyas Shema before going to bed. Of course, the filled-in charts earned fun prizes! Wearing special bigdei Shabbos and the order of how a Yid puts on her shoes were emphasized too! The adorable hair bows and lace-up sneaker keychains are great reminders of the special things Yidden do!
HAFTR Israel Action Students Participate Miryam Institute Briefing
By Alexandra Fuchs
HAFTR High School boasts many clubs and teams, but one of the most relevant and impactful clubs is the Israel Action Club, led by Faculty Advisor Mr. Elie Hirt. On Tuesday evening, December 10, Mr. Hirt and club leaders Alexandra Fuchs, Aliza Markowitz, and Ava Green attended the Miryam Institute Annual Briefing event. The Miryam Institute, founded in 2006, is a forum for Israel focused on discussion, dialogue, and debate.
At the event, attendees heard meaningful and impactful words from both the Co-founders and CEOs Benjamin Anthony and Rozita Pnini, along with Almog Meir-Jan, who is a former hostage rescued from the Gaza Strip; amputee combat veteran (Operation Swords Of Iron) Boris Shtonda; New York Times columnist Bret Stephens; and Mosab Hassan Yousef, also known as “the son of Hamas,” who shared empowering words from first-hand experiences of his previous involvement with Hamas. The night was not only educational but also very powerful.
Almog Meir-Jan shared heartbreaking words about his experience in captivity. He described being taken hostage on October 7, 2023, and that “it was the biggest nightmare. I just wanted my mom
to know I was okay. I moved to seven locations the whole time with different conditions in each; some had rooms but no food, some had food but no showers. We [the hostages] all tried seeing the positive in every location that we went to.” MeirJan related that to deal with his boredom while in captivity, he often played with a deck of cards. He now has an image of cards on his leg, along with an image of the man who rescued him and the date that he was rescued. Meir-Jan shared the emotions that he felt when he was rescued by the IDF: “I wasn’t expecting a rescue to happen because I heard that one previously tried to happen and then it didn’t. When they [the IDF] came to our apartment, there was a lot of shooting and yelling from neighbors, and suddenly I saw flashlights on me and people calling out that they were the IDF and here to take me home. I was in shock and just told myself to accept it and say to them, ‘I’m with you, let’s go.’ I was really afraid and in shock, but I knew if I didn’t do anything now then I would miss out on my last chance of getting out. It was so amazing to hear Hebrew and see soldiers, after eight months of seeing only the faces of terrorists. The people of the IDF are the best people in the world. They are so strong, and it’s amazing how they risk their lives for others.”
The students then heard from Mos-
ab Hassan Yousef, who is known as “the son of Hamas.” Yousef, once a Hamas terrorist, was arrested by the Israeli police when he was 18 years old and put in jail. During that time, he realized how horrible the terrorist group Hamas was, despite being born into the organization. He decided he would leave Hamas and became a spy for the Shin Bet, providing them with insider information on Hamas. Yousef shared very compelling and touching words in support of the State of Israel and the Jewish people. Based on his own personal experiences being involved with terrorists he explained, “The most dangerous Hamas leaders are in Israeli prisons, including my own father. I don’t have compassion for these [Gazan] people because they do evil for political and financial gain. They oppress
Excitement Builds for JSL Winter 2025 Season
The JSL Winter 2025 season is off to an exciting start! This past Sunday, players showcased their impressive skills during evaluations across both basketball and hockey divisions. From dribbling and shooting to passing and defense, young athletes from K/P through 8th grade worked hard on their techniques, improved fundamentals, and most importantly, enjoyed every moment on the JSL - FM Home Loans courts!
Adding to the excitement, Winter 2025 brings our first-ever 1st and 2nd grade basketball division! These young players are starting early with skill-building sessions designed to give them a strong foundation in the game. We’re thrilled to see this new program come to life and look forward to watching these future stars grow and develop.
In the Men’s Basketball Division, the Fall playoffs kicked off and are already
delivering intense action and surprises. Community Testing Center defeated Wieder Orthodontics to advance to the second round. Growtha, the top seed, continued its dominant performance with a win over Future Care Consultants. Maidenbaum earned a strong victory
women, abuse and indoctrinate children, and what we are dealing with now is the result of many years of hateful propaganda.” Yousef then addressed the rise of antisemitism and hate on college campuses in America: “We’ve seen the unrest on American campuses in support of Hamas and Islamic jihad. No one is being held accountable anywhere, and we have evidence. The Biden Administration did not do anything about it, nor did they say what is happening in Gaza is not a genocide. They didn’t do that, and that was his [President Biden’s] responsibility. They can say it’s a tragedy but not a genocide. This is why the war has taken much longer than it should have.” Yousef then closed by saying, “I can’t wait for change to happen and for the hostages to come back and for Hamas to be destroyed.”
against Town Appliance. In an exciting upset, Hewlett Auto Body knocked out Emporio.
Next week’s matchups are sure to bring even more excitement, with Growtha facing Maidenbaum this Sunday at 7:00 PM followed by Community
Testing Center taking on Hewlett Auto Body at 8:15 PM, both at LWA gym. The Winter 2025 season is shaping up to be unforgettable, with energy and excitement building across all divisions. Stay tuned for more updates and highlights as the season progresses!
Dazzling Daveners
The Middle School HALB girls Dazzling Diamond Daveners enjoyed a special trip for their consistent excellence in tefillah this semester! First, they went to SKA and enjoyed coffee and jumbo cookies while learning about tefil-
lah with Mrs. Kaminetzky and the SKA juniors. Next, they enjoyed a game of bowling at Woodmere Lanes, and after working up an appetite, they went to eat at Hunkis and Gotta Getta!
Generational Bonding at The Premier
On Sunday, January 5, a group of middle school boys visited The Premier to spend a heartwarming afternoon playing board games with the residents. The visit was filled with meaningful interactions as the boys and residents bonded over shared activities. A special thank you goes to Devorah Singer, who initiated this wonderful project and accompanied the boys on their visit. Her dedication to fostering kindness and building intergenerational relationships has made a positive impact. We are proud of these young men for their acts of chessed and look forward to additional opportunities to bond with residents at the Premier.
Chazaq Chanukah Celebration
Chazaq, a prominent community organization dedicated to bringing inspiration and support to the Queens community, hosted an unforgettable Chanukah celebration last Sunday at the Young Israel of Jamaica Estates. The event was a resounding success, bringing families and community members together for an afternoon filled with joy, laughter, and Chanukah festivities!
Attendees were treated to a vibrant lineup of activities, ensuring that the holiday spirit was alive and well. Children were delighted by an array of interactive experiences, including face painting, balloon artistry, and creative arts and crafts. Guests were also able to enjoy a
delicious BBQ, adding a savory touch to the day’s festivities.
One of the standout features of the event was the exhilarating circus show by the Twin from France, which captivated attendees with its awe-inspiring acrobatics and high-energy performances. The Twin brought a unique and exciting element to the celebration, leaving the audience in awe.
The event was further energized by the incredible DJ Avraham, who kept the crowd dancing and in high spirits throughout the afternoon. His dynamic music set the perfect tone for the event, making it an unforgettable experience for both children and adults.
Chanukah Treats at Lev Chana
Students at Lev Chana enjoyed Chanukah with lots of fun activities, but some of the favorites were making edible treats! Children made their very own doughnuts and dreidels and then got to eat them!
Celebrating Our Heritage in Long Beach
The third and fourth grade boys at HALB went to the Sephardic Congregation of Long Beach to say hallel on the last day of Chanukah. The morning was extra special because the Sephardic Congregation of Long Beach is the shul that HALB Principal Mr. Altabe and HALB Executive Director
Zusha Inspires DRS with Song
The halls of DRS lit up with the energy of Chanukah as students, rabbeim, and the whole school community came together for a week packed with celebration and connection. It wasn’t just about lighting candles – it was about lighting up the yeshiva with joy, spirit, and maybe a few extra doughnuts.
The highlight of the week was a breathtaking concert by the one and only Zusha. If you’ve ever experienced their music, you know it’s not just a show - it’s an experience. Their soulful niggunim and powerful melodies filled the room, transforming the gym into what felt like
an intimate kumzitz for hundreds. As the music swelled, students and staff joined in, creating a moment that was both electric and deeply spiritual.
For those new to Zusha, their music is something special. It starts simple—a melody, a harmony—and slowly builds into something much bigger, layering raw emotion and masterful musicianship. By the end, you’re not just listening—you’re completely immersed. Their passion was palpable, and the connection they created through their music reminded the talmidim of us why Chanukah is such a powerful time to reflect and celebrate.
Mrs. Mittan grew up in and both families were founding members. The boys learned about the halachos of Chanukah and about the special Sephardic heritage of the Long Beach community. They then had a gala breakfast where Mr. Altabe shared memories from his childhood and HALB’s founding in Long Beach.
Rav Dan Segal’s Secret About Dirshu Siyum on Yerushalmi Seder Zeraim at Home of Rav Moshe Sternbuch
By Chaim Gold
It happened at the home of the famed Mashgiach, HaGaon HaTzaddik, HaRav Don Segal, shlita. Senior members of Hanhalas Dirshu, led by Dirshu’s Nasi, Rav Dovid Hofstedter, shlita, came to receive Rav Don’s bracha upon the completion of Masechta Shabbos in the Amud HaYomi program and Seder Zeraim in the Kinyan Yerushalmi program.
During the course of their conversation, the size and scope of Dirshu’s myriad programs was discussed and the Mashgiach said something absolutely remarkable. “I want to reveal a secret to you regarding Dirshu. There may be some people who encapsulate Dirshu’s contribution to Klal Yisrael as a type of ‘luxury.’ They may say things like Dirshu ‘is a wonderful thing,’ or ‘it is a gift from Heaven.’ They may say, ‘It is wonderful that people are learning in the various programs and are taking tests…’ But that is not how I see it. To me, Dirshu is not a luxury in any way, rather it is a necessity for Klal Yisrael. It is critically vital for Klal Yisrael! Klal Yisrael needs Dirshu! Its programs are a hatzalah for Klal Yisrael and are the hatzlacha for Klal Yisrael. Dirshu is no less than a maamid and a matzil!”
When Rav Don was asked to which component of Dirshu he was referring –the halacha programs or perhaps the fact that there are tests that one can take on each of the programs – he replied, “Of course, the tests are important, it is very important that a person should know what he learns and have it ‘in his hands,’ with instant recall, but that is not what I meant. I meant the very fact that there is an organization like Dirshu that is promoting and facilitating limud haTorah on such a size and scope. In this galus, all we have left is Torah, ‘ein shiur rak haTorah hazos.’ We need so much hatzlacha and so much Hatzalah! There are forces out there that seek to destroy us. Who will save us? Only Torah. Torah is meigin u’matzil, Torah shields and saves!”
After taking the time to review all the various programs encompassing the Gemara programs, halacha programs and mussar programs, about which Rav Dan was especially pleased, he took pains to reiterate. “I am not saying this just to be nice or just to be mechazek you. I am
saying that Dirshu is the hatzalah of Klal Yisrael because that is the unvarnished truth!”
“You, the Lomdim, are the Wealthiest People!”
In addition to the visit to Rav Dan Segal, Dirshu celebrated a major siyum on Talmud Yerushalmi Seder Zeraim that the Dirshu Kinyan Yerushalmi program has just concluded. The event held at the home of the senior Posek of the generation, HaGaon HaRav Moshe Sternbuch, shlita, Raavad of the Bedatz of the Eidah Hachareidis, was attended by numerous maggidei shiur in the Kinyan Yerushalmi program as well as the hanhala of Dirshu, led by Rav Dovid Hofstedter.
Rav Sternbuch, who was clearly deeply moved to see so many maggidei shiur representing thousands of participants in the program, went out of his way to address the event. At his advanced age, delivering a public address takes tremendous energy, but he still felt compelled to express his deep feelings upon witnessing the siyum. Rav Sternbuch said, “It is a tremendous simcha to see such a tzibbur that has completed the entire Talmud Yerushalmi on Seder Zeraim! This is especially significant because in past generations few merited such an accomplishment. No one ever dreamed that there would be an era of such a tremendous uptick in limud haTorah among the masses, like there has been in our times. Yes, on the one hand, there is yeridas hadoros. Yes, our generation is, in many ways, inferior in comparison with previous generations. Yet, at the same time, there are tremendous strides being made in limud haTorah. The completion of the Yerushalmi Zeraim by so many lomdim at one time is simply unprecedented,” exclaimed Rav Sternbuch with great emotion.
He then addressed the lomdim directly, saying, “I want the lomdim to know something. You are the wealthiest people! No one can even compare to your wealth!
A person who learns an entire masechta has earned a rechush gadol, a tremendous treasure, eternal riches and wealth. How much more so when one learns an entire seder like Zeraim. You may not feel wealthy, but the fact is you are the wealthiest people in our generation! If you would just realize how wealthy you
are, you would walk around as the happiest people in the entire world!”
The Greatest Antidote to Today’s Danger
Rav Moshe added that there is another component that makes learning Yerushalmi Zeraim so important. In Eretz Yisrael, Seder Zeraim is not just a limud that is not relevant on a practical level. On the contrary, all the Gemaros that you learned are relevant to the halachos that we must observe all the time here in Eretz Yisrael.
Rav Sternbuch then commented, “Here, in Eretz Yisrael, at this time, the country is in danger. There are all kinds of enemies seeking to infiltrate our land and place all of us in sakana. There is no doubt that learning about the mitzvos that are relative to the land can invoke a great zechus on behalf of the land and neutralize all those who seek to uproot us from the land that Hashem has given to us! We have no idea how much the learning of this area of Torah illuminates the heavens,” Rav Moshe concluded.
The Most Appropriate Place for a Siyum on Zeraim
Rav Moshe was introduced by HaGaon HaRav Mattisyahu Deutsch, shlita, a prominent Rav in Ramot and a Dayan in the Eidah Hacharedis. Rav Deutsch pointed out that there is no place more appropriate for making a siyum on Seder Yerushalmi Zeraim than at the home of Rav Moshe Sternbuch, because Rav
Moshe is known as the “pillar of Seder Zeraim” in our generation.
Rav Deutsch described for the assemblage how Rav Moshe merited to discuss many areas of Seder Zeraim with the Chazon Ish, and how it is known that the Chazon Ish, perhaps more than anyone else, was instrumental in seeing that the halachos of the mitzvos hateluyos ba’aretz should be observed in Eretz Yisrael.
“I remember,” Rav Deutsch recalled, “more than thirty years ago, I once asked the Minchas Yitzchok, HaGaon HaRav Yitzchok Yaakov Weiss, zt”l, Gaavad of the Eidah Hacharedis, which sefer I should learn if I wanted to understand the halachos of Shemitta. He immediately mentioned, ‘Sheviis K’hilchasa,’ the sefer authored by the gaon HaRav Moshe Sternbuch, who is sitting here.”
Rav Sternbuch, in his closing remarks, praised and hailed Dirshu and its nasi, Rav Dovid Hofstedter, for facilitating nothing less than a revolution in the learning of Seder Zeraim on a size and scope that was once thought impossible.
Perhaps the closing words of the wellknown mashpia, HaGaon HaRav Shimon Spitzer, shlita, a Dirshu Kinyan Yerushalmi maggid shiur who made the siyum, encapsulated the elevated feelings in the room, when he said, “May we all be zoche to continue and gather here together once again for a siyum on the entire Shas Yerushalmi!”
Chabad of the Five Towns Chanukah Celebrations
The Five Towns community experienced a magical Chanukah, thanks to the leadership of Rabbi and Chanie Wolowik and Rabbi Meir and Hadassah Geisinsky of Chabad of the Five Towns. Each night of Chanukah brought a unique and vibrant celebration, drawing families and individuals of all ages to participate in the joyous festivities. From dazzling menorah lightings to exciting activities, the Chabad Center ensured that every night of Chanukah was a memorable one.
The celebrations kicked off on the first night with Cedarhurst Mayor Ben Weinstock lighting the largest Menorah in Nassau County followed by the Car Menorah Parade, a procession through the streets of the Five Towns. Over 50 cars, each adorned with menorahs, traveled through the neighborhoods, bringing the light of Chanukah to the entire community.
The second night featured a Light Up the Night event, an evening that illuminated the celebration with Chanukah glow paraphernalia. The park glowed with the warmth and beauty of Chanukah, and families gathered to watch Rabbi Moshe Weinberger light the Menorah
while enjoying music, dancing, and delicious Chanukah treats.
On the fourth night, Chabad hosted a Musical Havdalah led by Mordechai Levovits. The evening was filled with music and beautiful melodies, allowing the community to come together to usher in the end of Shabbat and begin the new week of Chanukah in a spiritually uplifting way.
Night five of Chanukah was a highlight for families with children, as Chabad partnered with the Gural JCC to present the Glow Robot event. An interactive robotic experience, where children could engage with high-tech robots that lit up and danced in sync with the Chanukah spirit.
On the sixth night, Chabad of the Five Towns hosted a Drive-In Concert at North Woodmere Park, co-sponsored by Nassau County Executive Bruce Blakeman and Sholom and Iris Maidenbaum and Maidenbaum and Sternberg. This innovative event allowed over a thousand people to enjoy a concert from the comfort of their cars, creating a sense of nostalgia while embracing modern-day convenience. The concert featured live performances of Chanukah songs and
The Gelt Drop on the seventh night was eagerly awaited, and this year’s event was a crowd favorite. Chocolate gelt were dropped from parachutes by Sruly Max, our esteemed friend and supporter, delighting children and adults as they rushed to catch dreidel and menorah parachutes filled with chocolate gelt!
The finale of Chabad’s Chanukah celebrations took place on the eighth night, The Gourmet Glatt Community Wide Concert. The concert provided a fitting end to a week of joyful events, leaving everyone in high spirits as they concluded the holiday.
In addition to the many menorah lightings organized by Chabad, a variety of activities brought the light and joy of Chanukah to every part of the community. From the Gan Chamesh Funhouse for the little ones to the Challah Bake for Women, Friendship Circle’s Chanukah Bowl, and Smile on Seniors’ SingAlong, everyone had a chance to celebrate. Teens showcased their creativity at the CTeen Master Chef Competition, families gathered for the Community Chanukah Party, and children deepened
their connection to the holiday through Hebrew School and Friendship Circle Winter Camp. These events ensured that the miracle of Chanukah was not only commemorated but truly illuminated the hearts of all.
We thank the Village of Cedahurst for the 30th annual public menorah lighting in Cedahurst Park. Thank you to our generous sponsors: Our diamond sponsors Mr. and Mrs. Ben Brafman, and our generous sponsors Cazenove Judaica, Gourmet Glatt, Nassau County, Maidenbaum and Sternberg, Mittman Electric, and Three Star Photography,
“Chanukah is a time to bring light into our lives and into the world. It was incredible to see our community come together, night after night, to celebrate the miracles of this holiday,” said Rabbi Wolowik. “We are grateful to everyone who helped make these events a success, and to all the families who joined us to celebrate. Together, we truly brought the light of Chanukah to the Five Towns.”
For more information about what Chabad Five Towns can offer or to partner with us go to www.chabadfivetowns. com.
New Offerings at Touro to Address Rising Antisemitism
As antisemitism rises around the country and the globe, education is critical to combatting this scourge. Learning about the historic roots of antisemitism through the centuries and training teachers to empower Jewish students of all ages with knowledge and advocacy skills is the focus of a number of new programs at Touro.
This spring, a special course from Touro’s Graduate School of Jewish Studies on the history of antisemitism is making its debut for students as well as interested community members. Additionally, Touro is launching a master’s degree in Holocaust, Genocide and Tolerance Education through its Graduate School of Education, beginning in summer 2025.
History of Antisemitism Course
Open to All
The history of antisemitism course addresses the origins of antisemitism, its evolution throughout the ages, what factors have influenced its rise and how those factors shape the way antisemitism is expressed in various time periods and locations. The history of antisemitism course begins January 26 and is offered Sunday mornings on Zoom. This course is open to matriculated students at Touro’s Graduate School of Jewish Studies and anyone in the community who wishes
to audit it.
“Since last October 7, antisemitism has erupted around the world, in the Middle East, and throughout Europe and North America,” said Dr. Moshe Sokol, dean of Touro’s Graduate School of Jewish Studies. “While antisemitism was always present in the United States, the sheer number and magnitude of antisemitic acts, around college campuses and in public spaces throughout the country has no precedent in U.S. history.”
The course features lectures by historians and members of Touro’s expert faculty. Topics range from antisemitism in the Greco-Roman world, medieval Christian and Islamic forms of antisemitism to Nazism and the Holocaust, antisemitism in the 21st Century and theological responses to antisemitism.
Master’s Degree in Holocaust Education
The master’s degree in Holocaust, Genocide and Tolerance Education is a two-year program designed for elementary, middle and high school teachers in yeshivot and public schools as well as museum educators.
This program offers comprehensive training in pedagogy and content and will cover Teaching about and Combatting Antisemitism, Lessons in Courage and
Tolerance Education
Resilience, Psychology and Philosophy of Evil and Holocaust Literature.
Led by psychologist and professor at Touro’s Graduate School of Education
Dr. Jeff Lichtman, the master’s in Holocaust Education is open to anyone with a bachelor’s degree who seeks training in this area.
“As society becomes increasingly polarized and plagued by intolerance, we can offer an antidote by training teachers to educate our children about the Holocaust and antisemitism,” said Dr. Lichtman. “It’s not just to learn about what happened during World War II and the
HAFTR Invitational Scott Satran Memorial Tournament
This past weekend, the 38th Annual HAFTR Invitational Scott Satran Memorial Tournament brought together basketball, camaraderie, and meaning, delivering a spectacular celebration that transcended the court. As the longest-running invitational in the Yeshiva League, the tournament once again exceeded expectations, cementing its status as a cherished highlight of the year.
The event welcomed 12 teams nationwide, including Florida, Maryland, Georgia, New Jersey, and New York. While the on-court action was electrifying, the tournament’s heart lay in its ability to forge friendships and foster unity. This was especially evident during Shabbat, as players bonded over shared values and meaningful experiences that extended far beyond basketball.
This year’s tournament held a poignant layer of significance due to the situation in Israel. On Friday night, participants had the privilege of joining the
Satran family in celebrating the Sheva Brachot of a granddaughter. The evening also featured a powerful talk by Reuven Magnaji, an IDF soldier, whose story inspired and moved all who attended.
These moments underscored the tournament’s purpose: creating community, honoring resilience, and celebrating shared values.
On the court, the competition was fierce and thrilling. HAFTR’s team fought valiantly, finishing with a 3-3 record and advancing to the tier 2 finals before falling to North Shore Hebrew Academy. Despite the loss, the weekend was a testament to the dedication and skill of HAFTR’s seniors, who were honored for their years of commitment to the program. Joey Hoenig, HAFTR’s Athletic Director and Basketball Coach, reflected on the weekend, saying, “This tournament is always about more than just basketball. Hearing the story of Scott Satran, celebrating with the Satran family, and learning about Israel’s resilience
from someone who has lived it made this year especially meaningful. And, of course, the basketball was phenomenal.”
The tier 1 championship game saw DRS end Magen David Yeshiva’s five-year winning streak with a stunning victory, capping off a thrilling tournament.
HAFTR expressed immense pride in hosting the event, emphasizing the success of fostering connections, sportsmanship, and community spirit. Special thanks were extended to all who made the weekend possible, including host
atrocities perpetrated against the Jews in concentration camps. This program will also train teachers to teach children how to learn from the past to address current and future antisemitism.”
For more information on the history of antisemitism course contact Karen Rubin at karen.rubin@touro.edu or 646777-9581. For more information on the MS in Holocaust Education, contact Dr. Jeff Lichtman at jeff.lichtman@touro. edu or 646-565-6115. Scholarship and tuition assistance is available.
families, the maintenance crew, and the enthusiastic spectators who filled the gym with cheers and ruach.
As the final buzzer sounded, the HAFTR Invitational Scott Satran Memorial Tournament left participants with unforgettable memories of a weekend where competition, unity, and inspiration shone brightly. HAFTR eagerly looks forward to continuing this remarkable tradition next year, celebrating the values that make the tournament a cornerstone of the Yeshiva League calendar.
Infinite Love
By Rebbetzin Tziporah Heller Gottlieb
Love and Mitzvos
Love means seeking. The path of mitzvos is one that works for every Jew. You are an individual. Your means of seeking Him will reflect that individuality as you walk on the path He paved.
Love is connection. No loving connection can be one-sided. Hashem taught you how to love Him and also how to experience His love for you. One of the secrets of loving and connecting to Hashem is mitzvos.
Every mitzvah that He commanded is a statement of love. Every mitzvah that we perform is a way of creating a meaningful relationship with Hashem.
You may take mitzvos seriously. You may even move beyond the letter of the law by practicing what is called “lifnim mi’shuras ha’din — over and above the strict letter of the law.” You may, for instance, give tzedakah beyond the halachically required minimum. You may say Tehillim when you are in distress or hear the news and know you must do something beyond acting as though what you just heard didn’t touch you. You may be the kind of person for whom learning is the most essential part of your day.
You are serving Hashem, and you are doing an admirable job. The instructions that He gave you are meant to change you, and they do.
What If It Doesn’t Work?
But what if you’re doing the mitzvos,
and doing them well, but you’re not feeling transformed by them? What if you’re not getting the connection to Him that leads to love?
Here’s the bad news: Playing by the rules does not guarantee having a deep relationship with Hashem. The One Who gave you the instructions can remain distant from you because you have not only to serve Him, you have to seek Him.
The story is told of a rebbe who, as a child in Russia, played Hide and Seek.
The rules of the game differ from what we Americans play. In Russia, one player hides, and the rest of the children have to try and find him. (Maybe the KGB agents started their careers by playing this version of Hide and Seek.) Our hero, the little boy, was “IT,” and he found a really good hiding place. He waited a good five minutes and was still safe. After ten minutes, he was hot and bored. Worst of all, a disturbing thought entered his mind. He hesitantly emerged and was greeted by silence. The tears began to blur his vision as he ran home. When his father saw him, he asked his little boy what was wrong.
“I’m hiding, but no one is looking for me.”
“That is just what the Shechinah feels,” was his father’s unforgettable answer.
But here is some good news: To some degree, every time you do a mitzvah, something is happening to you. You say the words “King of the Universe” with every blessing. No one hears these words — except for you! Even if some of the time you are reciting them without a great deal of thought, the meaning seeps in some-
what. When you say King, you don’t mean an earthly ruler. You mean something beyond human vocabulary. You mean Hashem.
But let’s hope you want more. How do you go about actively seeking Hashem?
Beyond Words
As Ramchal points out in Daas Tevunos, Part I, Hashem is far beyond the limits words force upon you. For example, if I were to point to this book and say, “It’s a book,” I am telling you two things. One is that the object you are looking at isn’t anything other than a book. It’s not a chair, my neighbor, a bowl of soup, or any other one of innumerable possibilities. And two, whatever the word book has come to mean to you, the object you are looking at fits that description. But words don’t work when you describe Hashem. He is far beyond the myriad facets of history, physical components, and personal experience.
So how do you know — and learn to love — Hashem, if you don’t have the vocabulary to describe Him? You can de-
scribe the way He interacts with you. You can talk about the miracles of nature or your own private miracles that you see at times in your life. The more you let your heart open to what He does, the more you understand and “see” the ways He relates to His world and, more relevantly, to you.
Reprinted from Infinite Love by Rebbetzin Tziporah Heller Gottlieb with permission from the copyright holder, ArtScroll Mesorah Publications.
JANUARY 8-14
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Strange Inventions
Cereal Serving Head Crane deviCe
Designer Dominic Wilcox
created a Cereal Serving Head Crane Device. The arms are powered by syringes containing milk that act in a similar way to hydraulics on large industrial diggers. Push and pull the plungers to move the arms and then shovel cereal from the box to your bowl. The final move is to press down the white plunger that squirts out milk into the bowl ready for eating. Coming soon: Shabbos version for eating cholent.
noSe StyluS
Designer Dominic Wilcox came up with this one as well, for those who want to multi-task. It is not muktza
You
Gotta
be Kidding Me!
The phone rings at FBI headquarters. “Hello?”
“Hello, is dis here da FBI?”
“Yes. What do you want?”
“I’m callin’ ta leave whut cha call one o’ them annoneemus tips. That Bubba fella over in Deep Holler is hidin mariwanna in his farwood.”
“This will be noted,” the FBI said.
Next day, a whole slew of FBI come over to Bubba’s house. They search the shed where the firewood is kept,
on Shabbos if you are wearing it just for the cool style of it. (But please confirm with your LOR.)
Hey Fever Hat
Japanese inventor Kenji Kawakami came up with this gadget designed to dispense a continuous flow of tissues. The Shabbos version is just to walk around with a box of tissues on your head.
SelFie toa Ster
This device made by Hammacher Schlemmer brings new meaning to “eating your face off.” If you have this device, you ought to be included in the Meshubeirach L’hammacher Schlemmer next Shabbos.
break every piece of wood, find no mari juana, apologize to Bubba, swear at the anonymous tipper and leave.
A few minutes later the phone rings at Bubba’s house. Bubba answers and the voice says, “Hey, Bubba! Did tha FBI come?”
“Yep! Sure did,” he answered.
“Did they chop yur farwood?” the voice asks.
“Yep, they sure did.”
“Okay, Bubba,” the voice said. “Now it’s yur turn ta call. I need muh garden plowed.”
Inventions Trivia
1. Mechanical engineer Whitcomb Judson developed this idea just in time for the Chicago World’s Fair in 1893 but was overshadowed by the Ferris wheel. Nowadays, it’s on everything from pencil cases to coats, pants, boots, backpacks and a plethora of other items. What was it?
a. Patch kits
b. Buttons
c. Plastic fasteners
d. The zipper
2. When was sliced bread introduced?
a. 1257
b. 1786
c. 1895
d. 1928
3. Where was Coca Cola invented?
a. Kentucky
b. England
c. Georgia
d. New York
4. What was the TV remote called when first invented in the 1950s?
a. Lazy bones
b. Detached activation device
c. The Ultrasonic
d. Cellular remote
5. Who invented the concept of two pages facing each other which are filled with great fun facts, information, humor and anything else that interests this particular brilliant inventor (which is not much else)?
a. TJH Centerfold Commissioner
b. TJH Centerfold Commissioner
a. Thomas Edison
b. Adley Trenton Todem (a.k.a. “AT&T”)
c. Alexander Graham Bell
d. Elisha Gray
Answers:
6. Who invented the telephone?
1) D- Judson’s original concept of the “clasp-locker” was a hook-and-eye device intended to replace shoelaces and buttons on boots. Nowadays, if you look at your zipper, you’ll usually see the initials YKK. It stands for Yoshida Kogyo Kabushibibaisha, the world’s largest zipper manufacturer.
2) D-Otto Frederick Rohwedder of Davenport, Iowa, USA invented the first loaf-at-a-time bread-slicing machine. A prototype he built in 1912 was destroyed in a fire, and it was not until 1928 that Rohwedder had a fully working machine ready. The first commercial use of the machine was by the Chillicothe Baking Company of Chillicothe, Missouri, which produced their first slices on July 7, 1928.
3) C
4) A-The first TV remote control, called “Lazy Bones,” was developed in 1950 by Zenith Electronics. The Lazy Bones used a cable that ran from the TV set to the viewer. By pushing buttons on the remote control, viewers rotated the tuner clockwise or counterclockwise, depending on whether they wanted to change the channel to a higher or lower number.
5) A and B – The best inventor ever… me!
6) C-In the 1870s, Elisha Gray and Alexander Graham Bell both
independently designed devices that could transmit speech electrically (the telephone). Both men rushed their respective designs to the patent office within hours of each other; Alexander Graham Bell patented his telephone first. Elisha Gray and Alexander Graham Bell entered into a famous legal battle over the invention of the telephone, which Bell won. By the way, Bell disliked telephones so much that he refused to have one in his office. When Bell passed away in 1922, every telephone served by the Bell system in the USA and Canada was silent for one minute.
Invention Key:
5-6 correct: You really know a lot of useless information.
2-4 correct: Not bad. I am sure you are really proud that you knew where Coke started.
0-1 correct: A famous entrepreneur who owned a car company once sued a journalist for publishing an article in which he accused the carmaker of being dumb. At the trial, the attorney for the defendant quizzed the entrepreneur on several random topics, in order to show that, in fact, the entrepreneur was dumb. The entrepreneur responded that not knowing about random facts didn’t make him dumb because if he really needed that information he could just buy a $2 encyclopedia; it’s the guy who actually spends his time memorizing the useless information as opposed to spending his time building car companies who is dumb. So, as long as you own a car company, don’t feel bad.
Torah Thought
Parshas Vayechi
By Rabbi Berel Wein
This book of Bereishis, which comprises a substantial part of the entire written Torah, contains within it almost no commandments and is basically a book of narrative tracing the development of one family – eventually seventy in number – and of the difficulties that this family encountered over generations. So what, therefore, is its main message to us living in a far different world, millennia later?
I think that the message of Bereishis is the obvious one of family and its importance. The Torah purposely and in minute
of this book. The Torah does not sanitize any of its stories nor does it avoid confronting the foibles and errors of human beings.
The greatest of our people, our patriarchs and matriarchs, encountered severe difficulties in attempting to create cohesive, moral and cooperative families. Yet they persevered in the attempt because without this strong sense of family there can be no basis for eternal Jewish survival. There is tragic fall -out in each of the families described in Bereishis and yet somehow the thread of family continuity is maintained and strengthened until the
The task of family building remains the only sure method of ensuring Jewish survival.
detail describes for us how difficult it truly is to create and maintain a cohesive family structure. Every one of the generations described in Bereishis – from Kayin and Hevel till Yosef and his brothers – is engaged in the difficult and often heartbreaking task of family building. There are no smooth and trouble-free familial relationships described in the book of Bereishis. Sibling rivalry, violence, different traits of personality, and marital and domestic strife are the stuff of the biblical narrative
family grows into a numerous and influential nation. This perseverance of family building, in spite of all of the disappointments inherent in that task, is the reason for the book of Bereishis. It is the template of the behavior of our ancestors that now remains as the guideposts for their descendants.
The task of family building remains the only sure method of ensuring Jewish survival.
Shabbos shalom.
From the Fire
Parshas Vayechi Constant Renewal
By Rav Moshe Weinberger
Adapted for publication
by
Binyomin Wolf
Rav Shraga Feivish Schneebalg, a Dayan in London, in the fifth volume of his responsa, Shraga Meir, writes an amazing thing. He says that many people ask him difficult questions to which there is no established answer. He must therefore spend a significant amount of time reanalyzing the classic sources to unearth novel interpretations to address people’s challenging questions. And without any sense of irony, the Rav writes, “Am I not a simple Jew, just like all other Jews?” He recounts how at one point he was upset that the demands of his position as Dayan did not enable him to simply study and review Chumash, Mishna, Halacha, and Gemara like he used to. One day, he decided that he would no longer involve himself in answering questions that required him to plumb the depths of the seforim to uncover novel understandings of the sources. Instead, he would go back to a simple life of learning and reviewing.
The Rav recounts that the night he made this resolution, he had a dream. In it, he saw the pasuk in this week’s parsha (Bereishis 48:20), “And he placed Ephraim before Menashe.” He dreamed that the two names in the pasuk hint at two ways of studying Torah. The root of Menashe’s name is related to the word l’shanos, meaning to repeat or review. One way to study Torah is to concentrate on covering ground and reviewing what one has learned. But the other way of studying Torah is related to Ephraim’s name, which comes from the root word l’phros, meaning to be fruitful and creative, always giving birth to novel ideals and interpretations. In his dream, Rav Shraga Feivish understood that “and he placed Ephraim before Menashe” means the way of bringing forth novel understandings of Torah and halacha takes precedence over the
way of simply reviewing the Torah one studies. Needless to say, the Rav continued answering the people’s questions and bringing more novel understandings of Torah into the world.
The same is true with respect to Yiddishkeit and any aspect of it. There are those who believe that the Jewish way is to do mitzvos the same way one has done in the past, with the same intentions and intensity (or lack thereof) that he did them last year and the year before. But the pasuk “and he placed Ephraim before Menashe” teaches that the better way is to be fruitful; to consistently change and bring novelty into the way one does mitzvos, keeping in mind that while change should not be implemented for its own sake, things should also not stay the same simply because “that is how it has always been done.”
Similarly, Rav Tzvi Elimelech of Dinov, zy”a, in Derech Pikudecha, writes, with regard to the mitzvah to be fruitful and multiply, that even those who cannot get married or have children can fulfill the mitzvah. The underlying root of the mitzvah is to be fruitful, to be productive. And this can be accomplished by bringing novel ideas, new ways of fulfilling mitzvos, and new aspects of kiddush Hashem into the world. By being productive and not being satisfied with the way things have always been, one brings new “children,” new aspects of G-dliness, into the world.
As we welcome the blessings of Ephraim and Menashe into our lives, we must have in mind the following teaching of the Divrei Yisroel of Modzitz, zy”a, in the name of his grandfather Reb Chatzkal of Kuzmir, zy”a, on the pasuk (Bereishis 48:20), “With you, becha, the Jewish people will bless…” The Divrei Yisroel asks: Why does Yaakov refer to Ephraim and Menashe in the singular
“with you, becha” instead of the plural “ba’chem”? The Rebbe answers that it is because blessings cannot rest in a group of people who are divided. “There is no vessel which can contain blessing other than peace” (Uktzin 3:12). Ephraim and Menashe must be like one, such that they may be referred to in the singular. Therefore, even if there are differences of opinion between them, they recognize that they are “on the same team” and there is no animosity between them.
This is connected to a teaching of Rav Yisroel Rizhiner, zy”a, on the pasuk (Bereishis 49:1), “Gather together, and I will tell you what will happen to you at the end of days.” The Rizhiner explains that the Hebrew word for “will happen, yikareh,” is related to the word cold, kaar, because at the end of days, there will be a profound coldness that will consume the Jewish people. Their Yiddishkeit will be old, by rote, and filled with coldness. But Yaakov gives us the antidote when he says, “Gather together.” The only way we can overcome the oldness and the coldness of this last generation is to gather together with one purpose. We may not always agree, but we must recognize that we are one and must work flexibly together with mutual love and respect.
Finally, there is one additional key to approach a time of renewal. The Satmar Rov, zy”a, in 1954, made a remarkable statement to his chassidim, who were composed almost entirely of survivors of the War: “Every one of us must contemplate why we did not merit to be sacrificed on the altar by giving up our lives to sanctify G-d’s name. It must be that Hashem decreed regarding us that we remain alive
for a purpose. And what is that purpose? To establish new generations for Hashem and His Torah. [Yaakov Avinu referred to] ‘The angel who redeemed me from every evil’ [ibid. at 48:16], from the fiery furnace [of the crematoria] for a purpose. [What is that purpose?] ‘May he bless the children.’ [He saved us to] allow us to establish a new generation of believers in G-d.”
Remarkably, the Rebbe, like many survivors, could not initially understand why he and the other few survivors lived while their parents, brothers, sisters, children, relatives, and friends were all murdered. He concluded that the purpose of their survival was the creation of a new, young generation of believers. The purpose of renewal is to be fruitful, to bring forth a generation of Jews who would serve Hashem even more deeply.
The Chidushei Harim, zy”a, offers another novel interpretation of the pasuk quoted by the Satmar Rav. Yaakov Avinu asks that the angel “bless the children.” The word for children, “naarim,” is related to the word hisorerus, meaning inspiration or renewal. A Jew is always able to start anew with a fresh outlook and approach. That is our people’s greatest blessing.
May the entire Jewish people merit to renew itself to serve Hashem with new vigor and excitement in a way of peace and love to increase the revelation of G-d’s presence in the world generally and in our own lives.
Rav Moshe Weinberger, shlita, is the founding Morah d’Asrah of Congregation Aish Kodesh in Woodmere, NY, and serves as leader of the new mechina Emek HaMelech.
Think. Feel.Grow.
The Birth of Torah She’baal Peh Creating Light Within the Darkness
By Rabbi Shmuel Reichman
Eight-year-old Josh sat in his living room excitedly opening his birthday presents. He had already received some new toys from his grandparents, but his parents told him that their present was extra special. He’d be able to use it to light up whatever he wanted, to make unique shapes on the walls, and to play games in the backyard. As he took his brand-new flashlight out of the box, he excitedly flicked the switch to turn it on. Nothing happened. He flicked the switch off and back on, and again nothing happened. He pointed it around the room, then ran outside to the backyard and pointed it around out there as well. It must be broken, he thought sadly, as he trudged back into the house and dejectedly ate his birthday cake.
That night, he went to sleep with all his toys in his room, even his broken flashlight. As he was falling asleep, his mom knocked loudly on the door. He opened it and quickly noticed that all the lights in the house were off. His mom asked if she could use his flashlight, as there had been a power outage. He took his flashlight and started explaining to her that it didn’t actually work. As he flicked it on, though, the hallway was suddenly bathed in light! As he moved around the house, the flashlight filled the dark house with a warm glow of illumination. His parents, noticing his confused expression, explained to him: “Your light is powerful beyond measure, but in the presence of sunlight, your flame is subsumed. Only in the dark, when the light has faded, can your small flame shine bright and be seen for what it truly is.”
Twelve Lines of Separation
The Jewish divorce document, called
a get, is written according to a very specific format. One requirement is that it must be written across twelve lines. Tosafos (Gittin 2a) asks why this is so, first suggesting that perhaps it is because the word “get ” has the gematria of twelve. Tosafos then gives another, much more enigmatic explanation: In total, there are twelve lines separating the five books of the Chamishah Chumshei Torah , as there are four lines of separation between each sefer in the five books of Torah. Since a get is a document of separation, separating man and wife, it therefore adopts this feature of separation from the Sefer Torah, requiring twelve separation lines as well.
This is a compelling answer, because the Torah is the original “document” of the world, so it therefore seems reasonable to model the get, a halachic document, off of the foundational document of Torah. The document of separation ( get) therefore contains twelve lines, corresponding to the twelve lines of
separation in the Torah. (This is the opinion of the Ri”y, in the name of Rav Hai Gaon and Rav Saadia Gaon.)
However, there is a major problem with this answer. Between each sefer in the Torah, there are four blank lines, but there are five books in the Torah for a total of sixteen lines! Why, then, are there only twelve lines in a get ?
Tosafos explains that the lines between Bamidbar and Devarim are not regarded as lines of separation because Devarim is not considered a separate sefer ; it is purely a repeat of everything that came before it. To a large degree, Sefer Devarim repeats many of the episodes found throughout the rest of Torah. This idea is reflected in the various names that are used to refer to Sefer Devarim:
• Chazal refer to Sefer Devarim as “Mishneh Torah,” which means a repeat or second Torah.
• The Latin name for Devarim, “Deuteronomy,” means “second law” and originates from the Greek words
deuteros nomos (second law)
However, we are still left with a question: Why does Devarim’s status as a repeat sefer preclude its four lines of separation from being included in the lines of a get? There are still four lines separating Bamidbar and Devarim! Furthermore, the very nature of Sefer Devarim’s transmission appears highly problematic. The commentators explain that Moshe spoke the words of Devarim of his own volition, and Hashem then “ratified” these words as part of Torah. How can Moshe’s words be included in the Torah? The fundamental nature of Torah is its Divine authorship! In order to answer these questions and understand the deep nature of Sefer Devarim, we must develop an essential principle.
Explaining the Historical Transition
We have previously discussed the two unique stages of history and their respective features. We will now take a step back and attempt to understand why this transition occurred.
To briefly review:
• The first stage of history lasted from Creation until the time of Purim and Chanukah. This stage was highlighted by the miracles of yetzias Mitzrayim and Matan Torah and the presence of nevuah . During this period, Hashem’s revelation in this world was apparent and clear. The physical world was naturally seen as an expression of a spiritual reality, and it was easy to source the physical back to the spiritual.
• The second stage, which began around the time of Purim, marked the end of open miracles and prophecy. We no longer experience open miracles,
only hidden ones. Hashem is no longer openly manifest and clearly visible in this world; we no longer naturally source ourselves back to Hashem. (This is a theme deeply connected to Tishah B’Av, when we lost the Beis Hamikdash, our place of unique and incontrovertibly clear connection to Hashem.) In this stage, the world denies Hashem’s involvement in the world, claiming that life is meaningless, disconnected from anything higher. This age is one of atheism and nihilism, of accepting only that which can be quantified using science, logic, technology, and the five senses. Our challenge, therefore, is to choose to see Hashem; we must choose to see past the surface, to uncover the miraculous within the natural, the infinite within the finite, and the ethereal within the mundane. (The Anshei K’nesses Hagedolah were the leaders of the Jewish People during this Second Temple Era, and they took it upon themselves to ensure that we did not become consumed by this new age of secularism and atheism. In order to help us source everything back to Hashem — to link this physical world to something higher — Chazal instituted standardized tefillah and brachos to be said throughout the day, the yearly cycle, and the various stages of life. Without open revelation of Hashem’s attachment to, and involvement in, this world, these frameworks help us maintain awareness of that connection.)
It is clear that we now live in the second stage of history — one of darkness, distance, and seeming disconnect from Hashem. It is also clear that this was not always the case. We must therefore address the question of why this transition took place. Why did the very nature of reality shift at this point in time? Why did we need this new challenge of free will?
Inspiration and Actualization
The secret behind this transition is one of the most foundational concepts of Judaism, a phenomenon we have previously introduced. The Arizal, Ramchal, Vilna Gaon, and many other Jewish thinkers explain that every process contains three stages:
• The first stage is the high, the inspiration, the experience of perfection and clarity.
• Next comes the second stage: a sudden fall, a complete loss of everything that was experienced in the first stage.
• Then there is the third stage, a return to the perfection of the first stage. However, this third stage is fundamentally different from the first. It is the same perfection, the same clarity, but this time, it’s a perfection and clarity that you have earned. The first time it was given to you; now you have worked to build it for yourself.
reason that we can choose to witness the truth and depth of the world, to see Hashem in everything, and to connect to the divine in all that we do. In a darkened world, we are uniquely able to cast our own light.
Accompanying this transition from the first stage to the second was another unique shift, one that has become
It is clear that we now live in the second stage of history — one of darkness, distance, and seeming disconnect from Hashem.
The first stage is the ideal, a gift to help you experience the ultimate goal, the destination. It’s a taste of what you can and hopefully will ultimately accomplish. But it’s not real; it’s given as a gift and is therefore an illusion. It serves only as a guiding force but cannot compare to the genuine accomplishment of building something yourself. It is therefore taken away to allow for the second and most important stage: building it yourself, undergoing the work required to attain this growth in actuality, and working for the perfection that you were shown. A gift isn’t real but something chosen and earned is. We are in this world to choose, to assert our free will, and to create ourselves. Once we have tasted the first stage, we know what we are meant to choose and what we are meant to build. The third stage is a recreation of the first stage. While it appears to be the same, it’s fundamentally different: it’s real, it’s earned, it’s yours. The first stage was a gift, an illusion; the third is the product born of the effort and time you invested.
The first stage of history was a gift, an experience of the ideal. It was not difficult to find Hashem or to connect to that which is higher. Hashem openly revealed Himself through nevuah and miracles, it was a time of transcendence. We then lost that ideal. Nevuah and avodah zarah were removed from the world, the Beis Hamikdash was destroyed, and a cloak of darkness fell over existence. We are now in the second stage, where we must rebuild toward the original goal, toward the transcendent ideal. We no longer have open revelation with its accompanying prophecy and clarity. However, it is precisely for this
the very lifeblood of the Jewish People. When the curtain fell over the first stage of history, the stage of Torah She’baal Peh was born. (It is important to note that Torah She’baal Peh itself originated at the same time as Torah She’bichsav, but the emphasis on Torah She’baal Peh and its development took place during this second stage.)
In our next article, we will delve
deeper into this fascinating topic and try to understand it on an even deeper level.
Rabbi Shmuel Reichman is the author of the bestselling book, “The Journey to Your Ultimate Self,” which serves as an inspiring gateway into deeper Jewish thought. He is an educator and speaker who has lectured internationally on topics of Torah thought, Jewish medical ethics, psychology, and leadership. He is also the founder and CEO of Self-Mastery Academy, the transformative online self-development course based on the principles of high-performance psychology and Torah.
After obtaining his BA from Yeshiva University, he received Semicha from Yeshiva University’s RIETS, a master’s degree in education from Azrieli Graduate School, and a master’s degree in Jewish Thought from Bernard Revel Graduate School. He then spent a year studying at Harvard as an Ivy Plus Scholar. He currently lives in Chicago with his wife and son where he is pursuing a PhD at the University of Chicago.
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Headlines Halacha
An Out-of-the-Box Method of Teaching All About Asarah B’Teves
By Rabbi Yair Hoffman
What follows may be an innovative way in which to teach all about the upcoming taanis of Asara b’Teves:
The Dream of Asarah B’Teves
Setting: A simple beis medrash – late at night. Seforim are scattered across a wooden table.
ACT I: The Study
[Young ELCHONON sits at a table strewn with seforim, his head nodding as he struggles to stay awake. Two seforim are before him. He reads from the first and then the second. The second is a large copy of the Avudraham open before him.]
ELCHONON: (reading aloud, voice heavy with exhaustion)
Hmm, so this sefer says that Asara B’Teves was when Nevuchadnezar of Bavel and his massive army surrounded Yerushalayim, beginning a terrible siege that would eventually lead to the destruction of the First Beis HaMikdash. Thousands of enemy soldiers stretching as far as the eye could see, cutting off all food and supplies to the holy city.
Now, I will look at the Avudraham. “If Asarah b’Teves were to fall on Shabbos, it would not be pushed off...Hmm…strange, I wonder why that might be...” (his head drops)
[The stage dims, then brightens with an ethereal blue light. The beis medrash transforms into a beis medrash in Shamayim. Elchonon is dreaming.]
ACT II: The Dream
[Enter the AVUDRAHAM, dressed in medieval rabbinic garb, accompanied by a soft light.]
AVUDRAHAM: (gently)
Arise, young seeker. I am Rav David Avudraham (c. 1300-c. 1380) of Seville, Spain, author of the comprehensive work on Tefillah and Minhagim. You seek to understand why I wrote that Asarah b’Teves is different from all other fasts, so unique that it would not be pushed off even by
Shabbos itself. Your dedication to understanding has brought forth Gedolei Torah in this dream of yours – Gedolei Torah from across the generations to explain.
ELCHONON: (startled awake)
Rebbe, you base this on the pasuk in Yechezkel that says, “B’etzem hayom hazeh – On that very day.”
AVUDRAHAM:
Yes, as I wrote based on the verse “B’etzem hayom hazeh – On that very day” (Yechezkel 24:2), this phrase equates this fast to Yom Kippur in its power. This teaches us that even if it were to fall on Shabbos – which it never does in our fixed calendar – it would not be pushed off.
[Enter RAV YOSEF KARO, dressed in 16th century Tzfat rabbinic garb]
RAV KARO:
I am Rav Yosef Karo (1488-1575), author of the Beis Yosef and Shulchan Aruch. In my Beis Yosef, I questioned this interpretation, writing, “V’lo yadati minayan lo zeh, I do not know from where he derived this.” Yet, as you shall see, Gedolei Torah through the generations found profound meaning in this distinction. Let them share their wisdom.
[Enter RAV YONASAN EIBESCHUTZ, dressed in 18th century rabbinic garb]
RAV EIBESCHUTZ:
I am Rav Yonasan Eibeschutz (16901764), author of Yaaros Dvash and Kereisi u’Pleisi, who served as rav of the three communities of Altona, Hamburg, and Wandsbek. In my Yaaros Dvash, I explain why Asarah b’Teves stands apart: Within this day lie the seeds of three devastating tragedies. The siege of Yerushalayim was not merely one event – it was the beginning of the destruction, the galus exile, and the loss of the Beis HaMikdash. Each alone would merit our fasting; combined, they give this fast unparalleled power.
[Enter the BNAI YISSASCHAR, dressed in Chassidic garb]
BNAI YISSASCHAR:
I am Rav Tzvi Elimelech Shapiro of Dinov (1783-1841), known by my work Bnai Yissaschar. As a student of the Chozeh of Lublin, I reveal the deeper meanings in the calendar. Let me explain why this fast is different: Consider why we fast on the ninth of Av, not the tenth when most of the Temple burned. It is because beginnings carry the greatest weight. Asarah b’Teves marks the start of our greatest loss, and this gives it power beyond other fasts, power that could even override Shabbos. Because beginnings matter – whether they are the beginning of something good or something very
bad. We have to hold on to beginnings and recognize them. Encourage it if it is something good, and stop it, if it is something bad.
[Enter the CHASAM SOFER, radiating intensity]
CHASAM SOFER:
I am Rav Moshe Sofer (1762-1839), better known as the Chasam Sofer, who led Hungarian Jewry from Pressburg in the early 19th century. My explanation in Toras Moshe reveals a fundamental difference: Every other fast day mourns a tragedy that has already occurred. But Asarah b’Teves stands alone: it is a fast that looks forward, not backward. Through our fasting and teshuva on this day, we have the power to prevent future tragedy. This potential for transformation makes it a true joy, an oneg, thus it could override even Shabbos.
[Enter RAV CHAIM SOLOVEITCHIK and the MINCHAS CHINUCH together]
MINCHAS CHINUCH:
I am Rabbi Yosef Babad (1801-1874), author of Minchas Chinuch, who served as Rav of Tarnopol.
RAV CHAIM:
And I am Rav Chaim Soloveitchik of Brisk (1853-1918), whose analytical method revolutionized Talmudic study.
MINCHAS CHINUCH:
Together we share a legal insight into why this fast is unique. All other fasts have flexibility – they can be observed on different days within their month.
RAV CHAIM:
But Asarah b’Teves is fundamentally different. The prophet Yechezkel’s words, “On that very day,” create an absolute requirement. This specificity gives it unique power that could override even Shabbos. ELCHONON: (thoughtfully) If I may summarize what I have learned from each of these explanations:
From the Yaaros Dvash, we learn that sometimes what appears as one event contains within it multiple tragedies. This teaches us to look deeper into the signifi-
cance of historical events.
From the Bnai Yissaschar, we learn the profound importance of beginnings –that the start of something can carry more spiritual weight than its conclusion. This teaches us to be especially mindful of how we begin things.
From the Chasam Sofer, we learn that some fasts are not just about mourning the past but about actively shaping the future. This teaches us about the power of teshuva and our ability to affect change.
From the Minchas Chinuch and Rav Chaim, we learn that sometimes the specific timing of an event carries unique significance that cannot be changed. This teaches us about the precise nature of divine timing.
AVUDRAHAM: (warmly) We have high hopes for you, my son. You understand well that each explanation reveals another facet of this holy day’s significance.
[Enter the CHOFETZ CHAIM, his face shining with kindness]
CHOFETZ CHAIM:
I am Rabbi Yisrael Meir Kagan (18391933), known as the Chofetz Chaim, author of the Mishnah Berurah. Let me share the detailed halachos that guide us in observing this unique fast:
The fast begins at alos hashachar, dawn. This differs from Yom Kippur and Tisha B’Av which begin the night before. If one plans to eat before dawn, they must have this intention before going to sleep. Men must be especially careful –they may only eat more than a k’bayah of mezonos if they begin more than 30
of chinuch for mourning should eat only simple foods to participate in the mourning. A sick person need not fast, even if not dangerously ill. Pregnant or nursing women are exempt from this fast, though they should eat only as needed. If one accidentally ate, they must continue fasting. If one made a bracha and
Unlike Tisha B’Av, showering is permitted on this fast, though the Mishnah Berurah notes that a baal nefesh should be stringent about hot water. Washing one’s face, hands, and feet in hot water is permitted for all.
[The lights begin to fade]
AVUDRAHAM: (to Elchonon)
This fast contains the power of beginning, the weight of multiple tragedies, and the potential for transformation through teshuva.
minutes before dawn. Women, as ruled by Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach, have no such restriction.
All healthy adults must fast, including women. A girl who is 12 years or older must fast, as must a boy who is 13 years or older. The custom of some women to avoid fasting during the three fasts is incorrect and should be discontinued, as it contradicts the Shulchan Aruch.
Children who have reached the age
then remembered it was a fast day, they should taste a small amount to avoid a bracha l’vatala.
Regarding tefillos: During Shacharis, we add Avinu Malkeinu and the special Selichos. At Mincha, we add the Aneinu prayer and say Sim Shalom instead of Shalom Rav. One who is not fasting should not recite Aneinu. When praying without a minyan, the 13 Attributes of Mercy are not recited.
Remember, my son, though the final halacha does not follow my view about Shabbos, you have grasped well that the deeper meanings remain. This fast contains the power of beginning, the weight of multiple tragedies, and the potential for transformation through teshuva.
ELCHONON: (with deep appreciation)
Thank you, my teachers, now I understand why this day carries such weight...
[The stage returns to the original study hall. Morning light streams through the windows. ELCHONON wakes at his table, the Avudraham still open before him.]
ELCHONON: (thoughtfully)
“On that very day...” Now I understand both the halacha and its deeper meaning.
This article should be viewed as a halachic discussion and not practical advice. The author can be reached at yairhoffman2@gmail.com.
School of Thought
Magic
By Barbara Deutsch
Pitmaster is a Jerusalem meat restaurant geared to enthusiastic carnivores. There is one dinner seating; a reservation needs to be booked months in advance for the almost-200 seats. The meal itself is a chavaya, an experience that includes wine, beer, and seven courses of different kinds of deliciously prepared “meat.”
Our Toronto-based family, daughter Meredith, son-in-law Jonathan, and three of their four boys like to eat meat; Bob and I, not so much. Last year, when the Levys came for their yearly New York visit from Toronto, we partook in a “Carnivore Tour” of Manhattan, Brooklyn and Cedarhurst; it was pricey and not consistently good; we had so much fun.
Barbacoa in Cedarhurst took top prize for the burgers, with Brooklyn’s Bison and Bourbon winning best allaround meat lover’s experience.
No venue comes close to Pitmaster. The line for seating starts early even though you already have a preassigned seat for the family-style setting. You are purposefully seated with strangers. With our family’s camp and yeshiva backgrounds as teachers and division heads, we both knew a good number of the people. In Israel, everyone knows someone who is connected to someone else. We are Jews, after all.
An enthusiastic hostess stands on a chair at the door and greets you warmly; she sets the scene and tone. To separate the different meat courses, bells ring for silence. There is an introduction by the Pitmaster, singing, dancing and drinking that informs the robust atmosphere. The array of meat choices begins with the low grade chopped meat to the premier, kosher sirloin. Our number three grandson, thin as a pole, devoured seconds and thirds of the last course. He ate the paper-thin pieces of steak like a
handful of potato chips.
A unique and amazing aspect of living in Israel for any chag is the ability to completely immerse yourself into the celebration of all aspects of the holiday’s culture; the customs, the traditions, the tefillot and the foods are all somehow “more and better” in Israel.
Various shapes and sizes of the outdoor menorahs line the streets and alleyways up and down Jerusalem. Tourists and citizens come from all over the world and Israel to honor and experience the displays of light and fire. It’s gorgeous.
As seems to be our developing way of living in Israel, we do our best to take
Every eatery in the Jewish world seems to have some kind of take on the doughnut; imagine what is going on in Israel. Admittedly, I am not a doughnut connoisseur, the calorie-dense chocolate Entenmann’s is my all-time favorite. And as for the Chanukah variety, a plain, overfilled jelly is my favorite. In Jerusalem, the fan favorite, though not mehadrin, is Roladin’s amazing variety. When we lived in America, we attempted to try them all, with Glick’s in Cedarhurst or Sesame in Brooklyn our clear favorites for filling, texture, appearance and taste. Though we came early and stood on long cold lines, we were never able to score a cronut from Le Chocolat; we hear they are amazing.
I felt goosebumps run up and down my back as the entire square, filled with thousands of people of all stripes, sang the tefillot and said amen in one voice.
advantage of all and any of the cultural, learning, exploring and gastronomical adventures that are at our fingertips in Jerusalem. We don’t want to miss a thing.
One can spend days in any of the many historical and present day exhibits at the Israel Museum. We took an in-depth Chanukah tour of the Hellenist Period exhibits with Shulie Mishkin, the noted historian, and Yael Ziegler, Tanach scholar, of the time when the Greeks ruled the world.
rooftop menorah was, in fact, in back of me. The Menorah was being lit atop the tallest building in the square, and I missed seeing it. Huge flames, barely contained by their containers of oil, flashed high above our heads behind me. I felt goosebumps run up and down my back as the entire square, filled with thousands of people of all stripes, sang the tefillot and said amen in one voice. In their eloquent speeches, the rabbis did not forget the fallen and the imprisoned. Even this joyous lighting of hope is shadowed by the loss of so many.
A number of the Pitmaster diners were soldiers, rifles slung over their shoulders (active chayalim must have their guns with them at all times) making the most of their night off. I cried watching them enjoy.
We are marking our six-month “Aliyaversary” in a couple of weeks. Every single moment of every day we have lived here as Israelis has been tinged with magic.
Chanukah, the holiday of light, comes during the darkest days of the year. The Jerusalem Botanical Gardens featured a magical light show that delighted our Israeli family. Every one of our kids can be seen smiling in the hundreds of pictures that we took with all of the animals made out of the thousands of lights.
Nothing compares with the magnificence of lighting the menorah at the Kotel. Of course, I was facing the Kotel – it is the Kotel, after all – and the
We do not take our blessing for granted.
Barbara Deutsch is the former associate principal at HANC, middle school principal at Kushner, and Dean of Students at Yeshiva of Flatbush. A not-retired educator, she is trying to figure out life in Israel through reflections on navigating the dream of aliyah as a wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and friend.
Amb. David Friedman
The One and Only Solution to the Israeli-Palestinian Conflict
By TJH S Taff
TJH: When did you start writing your new book, “One Jewish State”?
Amb. David Friedman: After October 7. I started writing it in April or May of 2024, and I finished it eight to ten weeks later, in July.
I could be very self-disciplined if I need to be. And so, I went into my office around six days a week for at least eight hours a day, every day. I did all the research and writing myself. I had no one helping me.
Where were you on October 7? What was your reaction to the massacre?
I was in Yerushalayim with my children and grandchildren. I get asked a lot, “What do you remember most about that day?” Well, Jerusalem was under attack on October 7.
Amb. David Friedman served as the U.S. ambassador to Israel during Donald Trump’s first term in office. During his ambassadorship, he played a key role in the Abraham Accords, which normalized relations between Israel and several Arab nations. Amb. Friedman, who helped reshape Israel’s relationship with the United States, was also instrumental in orchestrating the relocation of the U.S. Embassy in Israel to Jerusalem and America’s recognition of the Golan Heights as Israeli territory.
A few weeks ago, TJH sat down with Amb. Friedman to discuss his new book, “One Jewish State,” which argues against the two-state solution and promotes a different approach to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. We also spoke about his ambassadorship and his thoughts on the October 7 massacre, the Middle East’s future, and the incoming Trump administration.
Below are excerpts from our conversation:
There were sirens. There were missiles coming in. And we were in and out of shelters all day long.
At one point, my oldest grandchild, who was about twelve-and-a-half, asked me, “Saba, these people are trying to kill us, right?”
I responded, “Well, they’re certainly trying to harm us.”
And she said, “But they have no idea who we are. They don’t know who I am, they don’t know who you are. Why would they try to kill us if they don’t know who we are?”
And that stayed with me. I had hoped that we were past that period in our collective history where people wanted to kill us just because we’re Jews. And I realized that, unfortunately, we’re going to leave yet another generation with this curse of having to deal with a very violent world that wants to kill Jews.
I’ve been back in Israel maybe eight times since then. We’ve been watching the country slowly try to climb out of this trauma. It could take a generation for the trauma to really be gone; for people to sleep well at night, especially people who live in the north or the south of Israel. The trauma may never go away, at least for the people who were directly harmed: people whose family members were taken hostage, people whose children or parents died in battle, people who have lost limbs. The whole country’s been wounded massively, and the trauma is enormous. But the country has such unique resilience that it is starting to, at least, look over the horizon and see the future. I would say the turning point in the collective mood of the country, that I was able to observe, was the beeper operation in Lebanon. It was a clear sign that G-d is with us, we’re going to
survive, and that we’re going to be okay.
I don’t mean to minimize the trauma because it’s enormous, but the country today is way more secure and safe than it was on October 6, 2023. When I was ambassador, I knew the risks well, especially in Lebanon and Syria. Those risks were enormous, and now they’re gone. No one ever thought we’d see a day where you could say Hezbollah is 80% degraded, where Iran is out of Syria, Assad is gone. The people in the region understand what Israel does when it’s attacked. They look at Gaza, they look at Lebanon. Nobody wants to see that again. There are no weapons in Syria at all. Israel wiped everything out.
So, the country still has a lot of challenges. They have to rebuild their economy, they have to treat their wounded, they have to help nurture those suffering from PTSD. There’s a lot of anguish, and I don’t know when that will go away. But there is at least a horizon you can look towards and say, “Not only are we going to survive, but Israel’s going to come out of this stronger than ever.” Undoubtedly, the only superpower in the region is Israel.
What motivated you to write your newest book?
For the first two or three months after October 7, I was primarily on the news. I stayed in Israel for a while. I was doing Fox and Newsmax every day, giving them a report from the scene. Three things happened that drove me to write the book.
Number one, the polling in Judea and Samaria of the approximately 2 million Palestinians there—over 80% were celebrating the atrocities of October 7. These are the people that everybody says, “We’ll have a two-state solution and put these people in charge.”
Number two, Biden came out and said, “Look, at the end of the day, we can’t take our eye off the ball. We have to have a two-state solution.”
Those were the two immediate things that motivated me to do something, because there’s never going to be a more obvious time than now to make the case to bury the two-state solution. And I felt I had to do it, because I have the American perspective, the Israeli perspective, and the credibility of being an ambassador. I was able to secure peace agreements with the UAE, Morocco, Bahrain, and Sudan, without giving up any land.
Number three—the thing that really drove me over the edge—is that I do some business in Israel. I was meeting with one of the giants of the high-tech industry. He’s a billionaire and an incredible Israeli patriot, and he’s also completely secular. This person has done as much for Israel as anybody. We owe him a tremendous debt of gratitude. We were sitting and we were talking about business. After a little while, we started talking about politics. I said, “What do you think about the situation in Judea and Samaria?”
And he said to me, “I don’t really go there anymore. I haven’t been there since I was in the army. I don’t want to rule over two million Palestinians. I don’t want my kids to risk their lives there.”
And I said, “Well, are you observant at all?” He responded, “I’m not. Look, my parents are Holocaust survivors. I have a lot of issues with G-d.”
I said, “I understand. I’m just curious; I’d like to get your reaction. Let’s just pick a place randomly. We’ll pick Shiloh. Shiloh is an important place in Jewish history. Yehoshua takes the Jewish people into the land of Israel. Moshe is buried on the Jordanian side, then Yehoshua takes over and takes the Jewish people into the land of Israel. They spend seven years in Gilgal, then they go into Shiloh. And they were in Shiloh for 369 years. It was the Jerusalem before there was a Jerusalem. It’s where the Tabernacle rested, where the tribes all came to be assigned their different territories. It’s where Shmuel, the third most important prophet in Judaism after Moshe and Aharon, lived. And it’s also where Chana taught the world how to pray.”
So, I said to him, “Look. This is up to you. What do you want to do? Do you want to keep Shiloh, or do you want to give it away? If you want to keep it, okay, there’ll be some turbulence. Most of the world’s going to say you don’t have a right to it. But if you keep it, you know you’ll keep this as part of our history. If you give it away, you should understand that you will eventually see a video of Palestinians coming in with bulldozers, trucks, shovels, and blowtorches. And they will destroy every single inch of archaeological evidence of Jewish life 3,000 years ago in Shiloh, of which there’s an abundant amount of evidence. So, what do you want to do?”
He said to me, “We have to keep it. It’s who we are.”
I said, “Yeah, but it’s only the Bible. You don’t believe in G-d, so obviously, you don’t think the Torah was written by G-d.”
He responded, “Look, I don’t care who wrote the Bible. It doesn’t matter. Whatever it is, it’s who we are. It’s our book. We’re the People of the Book. It’s in our DNA. It’s why we’re here today after 3,500 years, while nobody else is still around from that period. And if we lose Shiloh, we’ll lose our entire connection to our Jewish history.”
I heard that, and I said to him, “By the way, there’s twenty more stories like Shiloh elsewhere. So, how come you felt totally differently twenty minutes ago?”
He told me, “I just never thought about it this way. Nobody ever told that to me in that way.”
I wish I could have that conversation a million more times, but since I can’t, I decided to write the book instead. The book is very much designed to kill the twostate solution, which I believe would be a great tragedy for the Jewish people and for the region. But it was also
written to give the reader a sense of not just why a twostate solution doesn’t work, but why it’s so important for Israel to have sovereignty over its biblical heartland.
One of the things I made sure of when I wrote the book was to get it translated into Hebrew. So, the book is everywhere books are sold in Israel. We had a book launch in late October 2024, and we had twelve senior members of Likud show up.
I think the people of Israel were waiting for this book to be written, not by an Israeli, but by an American who is looking at the global picture. And that’s what’s different about this book from other books. I’m not the first person to say Israel should have sovereignty over Judea and Samaria; not even close to the first. A lot of people have done really important work making that case. But this book is the only book that explains why it’s good, not just for Israel, but why it’s good for Palestinians, why it’s good for the region, why it’s good for America, why this is important from all different perspectives. So, whether you care about national security, regional stability, economics, faith, or human rights, this is the right solution under all those different vectors.
That’s fascinating. One of the interesting things about the book is that it’s about faith, but it’s also written for a secular audience. Where does belief in G-d fit into this?
I have a chapter in there that talks about where faith comes in. On the one hand, I make the point that you can’t have a national policy based entirely on faith; that would be irresponsible. But at the same time, America is not a faithless society. Israel certainly isn’t, either. We have “In G-d We Trust” on every every item of currency. You don’t have to believe in G-d to understand the significance of the Torah. I mean, the Bible sells 2,000 copies every hour in the United States; 20 million people buy it a year. The Declaration of Independence is a transformational document. Why is America different from all those other countries? The Declaration of Independence is a transformational document because the Founding Fathers said, for the first time in history, that every human has the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness—which are all Torah values that come from G-d. They don’t come from the king, they don’t come from the president, they don’t come from Congress. They come from G-d, which means nobody can take them away.
That was the Declaration of Independence. How did the Founding Fathers know all these things? By reading the Bible. The wellspring of American society is the values in the Bible. We have to be very careful rejecting those values. That’s how we became this incredible country, the likes of which no one has ever seen before on this planet. The strongest country on Earth, the most moral country on Earth, the most democratic country on Earth. How? Because the founders were Bible scholars. Israel gets a hard time about being a Jewish state. But there are 40 Muslim countries. There’s a Church of England, and there’s a Catholic Church that’s very powerful throughout Europe. But there’s only one Jewish state, the size of New Jersey. And it’s the only state that’s really founded on the same biblical values that America was founded upon.
So, whether you believe in G-d or not, understand that the Bible is, in very real terms, the origin of the most important values that we have in America and Israel.
Many people in Israel are hesitant to speak about our biblical and divine entitlement to Judea and Samaria. If you ask Israelis why Israel should have sovereignty over Judea and Samaria, the answer would be: We can’t have a Palestinian state. It would be a national security threat that we couldn’t overcome. It would result
Those are very powerful arguments. You are a religious Jew. Do you believe that an ambassador to Israel should be religious?
in a border that, at its narrowest between Tulkarm and Netanya, would be eight miles wide, and it would enable the country to be split in half.
These are all valid arguments, but the strongest argument for the State of Israel, in my mind, should be the Bible. G-d gave this land to the Jewish people; it’s not up to us to give it away. And if you don’t like it, take it up with G-d.
I was blown away years ago when I was old enough to understand the meaning of the first Rashi. Rashi asks the question: “Why are we starting with Bereishis ? Why are we starting with the creation of the world? Who cares? We’re a people of commandments. We’ve been given 613 commandments. And the first commandment doesn’t show up until Shemos. Why doesn’t the Torah begin with the first commandment?” And the answer he gives is: “Because the nations of the world will come and say, ‘You stole the land of Israel.’ And therefore, here’s your answer. G-d created the world. Therefore, He owns the world and can give the land to whoever He wants.”
He gave this land to the Jewish people. And it belongs to us. We have a straight line of title from the Creator of the world. And that’s why we have the story of Creation. A thousand years ago, Rashi was talking about the world challenging the rights of the Jewish people to the land of Israel. So, we ought to lead with this. People respect faith, and people respect Israel’s claim to be an ancient people. How does Israel give away land that was directly given by G-d? And in the cases of the three most religiously significant places in Israel, which are the most disputed areas, they were bought by the Jewish nation. Chevron was purchased by Avraham, Dovid HaMelech bought Har HaBayis, and Yaakov bought Shechem. These places that are of enduring importance and value to the Jewish people weren’t just conquered; they were also purchased.
Well, I believe that to understand the U.S.-Israel relationship, you need to be well-grounded in knowing what the Bible says, and you need to have respect for the text. How you worship and what you believe, I’m not sure is as important. There are certain people who will understand, just from a historical perspective, why it’s so important for the Jewish people, as indigenous people in the land, to have this territory. I think being a person of faith is an advantage; it gives you a better perspective.
We’ve had several Jewish ambassadors preceding me. And I don’t want to speak for their religiosity, but some of them claimed to be more religious, some less. That’s between them and G-d. But there are some people—I won’t mention names—who came in as religious Jews but bent over backward to prove that their faith wasn’t relevant to their diplomatic efforts. As for me, I never apologized for my faith. And frankly, there are people of faith throughout the U.S. government and other governments throughout the world. It’s a part of who you are. You bring to a job the package of your life experiences and your beliefs. Mike Pompeo never apologized for being a devout Christian, and neither did Mike Pence or Mike Huckabee.
Speaking of Mike Huckabee, what are your thoughts on President-elect Trump nominating him to be the U.S.’s next ambassador to Israel?
He is going to be a terrific ambassador. My wife and I are very close with Mike and Janet Huckabee. We’ll probably spend the weekend together before his Senate hearing, and I’ll share with him all my insights.
He’s the first evangelical Christian ever to have this position. His faith is every bit as strong as mine about the importance of Israel keeping Judea and Samaria. He wrote a blurb at the beginning of my book saying exactly that. And, frankly, given the support of the evangelical Christian community for the state of Israel, I think they deserve to have a representative in Israel. I can’t think of anybody better than him. I think he’s just terrific.
You accomplished so much as ambassador. You played a key role in the U.S.’s decision to recognize the Golan Heights, in the moving of the embassy, and then in the Abraham Accords. How did you accomplish all of that?
I’ve always believed that Israel’s ability to expand its diplomatic relationships with Muslim nations was a function, not of how America holds Israel back, but of how strong the relationship is between America and Israel. The experts before me had a counterintuitive approach. They believed that when the Arab world sees Israel’s being reined in—that they’re not building anymore in Judea and Samaria—that’s how you’ll bring in all these countries.
John Kerry, when he was Secretary of States, said it’s impossible to make any advancement with any of the Gulf countries unless you first create a Palestinian state. I had the opposite view. I believed that these countries were looking for partners. It’s a very rough part of the world. Israel’s the strongest military there, and America is the strongest superpower in the world. So, I believe that the more America shows its alignment with Israel, the more other countries will say, “That’s a great relationship. How do we get in on it? How do we join this circle of trust?”
Strengthening Israel is the path toward peace, not the path toward confrontation. And so, we started off by pursuing that relationship of strength. The first thing was to move the embassy, which I think really sent a message to the moderate Sunni nations in the region that we’re with Israel; you’re wasting your time trying to push us apart. Why don’t you jump on board instead of trying to fight this relationship?
And then, from there, we recognized the Golan Heights, which was just an incremental step in the process of strengthening Israel. It was the strength of the relationship between Israel and the U.S. that was the key.
With Trump returning to office, what do you think lies ahead for the U.S.’s relationship with Israel?
Let me start with some objective facts. Before President Trump even selected his Secretary of Defense, he picked the ambassador to Israel. This time around, the ambassador to Israel was the sixth or seventh position he filled. Trump has already picked an envoy to the Middle East and an envoy to the Gulf nations. He’s got Marco Rubio, and he’s got Mike Waltz. Trump is very engaged in this issue. There was a report that he recently had a conversation with Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu about the hostages.
I was with Trump a few days after the beeper incident, and he was just stunned by the audacity, the success, the ingenuity, the cleverness, and the boldness. I believe President Trump sees the relationship with Israel, going forward, as a linchpin in his overall foreign policy to create a safer world. He’s going to do everything he can to pressure Hamas to get the hostages out.
Do you think Trump will support a two-state solution?
He was asked, I believe, in Time Magazine, if he would support a two-state solution. I thought his words were very measured. He said he would only support something that works and that he’s not committing to any particular solution as of now.
He said the same thing in 2017. But now, we have a whole new set of data points. We have October 7. We have the Palestinians’ response; we have the Palestinians’ view of a two-state solution. It’s not even a two-state solution; it’s really this massive control by Palestinians over the most sensitive territory in Israel. I don’t think Israel would ever do it, and I think Trump knows that Israel can’t be put in that position again.
If you’re going to ask me what Trump thinks about “One Jewish State,” the answer is, I don’t know. I haven’t raised this issue with him yet. But I think he knows I will
do everything I can to advocate against any two-state solution. And I think the anti-two-state solution movement is growing. The book has, thankfully, sold very well. Quite frankly, I would like this book to be a textbook in high schools around the world, or around the country, at least, so that people can get a much better understanding of this. I’m hoping this book will be the template for a future solution. And I try to make the case in so many different ways.
What would you say to Arab countries, such as Saudi Arabia, who demand a Palestinian state before normalizing ties with Israel?
We have to go to the Saudis and the Emiratis and explain to them, “Look, if you care about the Palestinians, that’s fine. We should all care about them. They’re living
“Whether you believe in G-d or not, understand that the Bible is, in very real terms, the origin of the most important values that we have in America and Israel.”
there. We have a responsibility to them. They’re human beings. But the fact is that they don’t want a state. I know most of them don’t want a state. They have no track record of self-governance, human rights, transparency, freedom of speech, or any of the freedoms we take for granted. The people that live there don’t want a state. They want a better life. What they want is better trade, roads, hospitals, schools, and the opportunity to advance, just like the Arabs in Israel.”
Arabs in Israel have the best standard of living for Arabs in the world. So that’s the message to the Saudis: “If you care about them, we’ll help you. Israel and America will help you bring Palestinians up to a higher standard of living; that’s in everybody’s interest, but not through a state. It will become a terror state. It’ll be taken over by
whatever terrorist of the month happens to be in power, and we’ll all regret it.”
You’ve had discussions with Saudi officials. Do you believe they actually care about the Palestinians?
I’m not going to reveal my own conversations, but there have been many reports about the Saudis. It doesn’t seem like they care. They think the Palestinians are their own worst enemies. They think the Palestinians have done a lot to harm themselves and to damage other countries by stoking resentment and hatred. So, they’re not fans.
No one should be fans of the Palestinians. I mean, Palestinian leaders have never had a positive message. Their entire goal has always been destroying Israel. It’s never been about building up the Palestinians. Jews left Gaza in 2005. There hasn’t been a Jew living there for nineteen years. The Palestinians were given this beautiful beachfront territory and lots of money from America, the E.U., the Gulf, and the United Nations. They could have taken that money and built themselves a beautiful little state there, a Palestinian state.
But instead, all they built were terror tunnels and weapons of mass destruction. This isn’t theoretical. The Palestinians elected Hamas. Everybody knows that the Palestinians, at the leadership level, are a movement of destruction. The people, on the other hand, are just people. I mean, most of the people have been radicalized. It’s going to take a while to deradicalize them, but the only way to do it is by creating a better standard of living for them.
The cherry on top is that this happens to be G-d’s message to us, as well. In the course of doing this, we’re fulfilling the covenants He made to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. We’re realizing the prophecies that He gave to Jeremiah, Isaiah, and Ezekiel. It’s a win-win-win-win situation.
My favorite line in my book isn’t a line I wrote; it’s a line from Mike Pompeo’s foreword: “Why should anybody be surprised that fulfilling G-d’s will results in the best outcome for all the people who live in this territory?”
What should Israel do to adopt the solution outlined in your book?
If you polled Israelis tomorrow about whether they’re ready to assume sovereignty over Judea and Samaria, they likely wouldn’t be ready to vote yes. It’s complicated, it’s a big deal. It’s not an overnight thing. You have to really
put a lot of work into it and answer a lot of questions. How does it affect the economy? How does it affect security? How does it affect national governance? How does it affect travel? Those are all legitimate points, and it has to be worked through. I think they’re all solvable, but until they’re solved, I don’t think it’s fair to ask anybody to sign off on it.
This isn’t something that Israel should do with 61 seats in the Knesset. I think that would backfire. I think this is such an important decision that it really needs national support. I think this book, translated into Hebrew, makes a good case that will convince 75% of the Israeli population to support it. I would do a referendum, and I would set the bar at 60-65. I think a referendum would give this so much more credibility as it moves forward. People will complain, but there’s a difference when you say I have a national referendum versus a bunch of guys in parliament voted for it.
Donald Trump is only going to be in office for the next four years. Do you think your peace plan could be implemented by 2028?
I think it could be done in four years. We also have an election coming up in Israel in around a year and a half. The results will give you a sense of where the Israeli public is, even before a referendum. But this is something that needs to be discussed and vetted so people understand this is coming. I don’t think this could get done within one or two years, but I think it could be done within four.
Was your role as ambassador different from the one played by your predecessors and U.S. ambassadors to other countries?
Whenever an American came to Israel, whether it was the National Security Advisor, the Secretary of State, or the Secretary of Defense, to meet with their Israeli counterparts, I was in the room. I had a lot of meetings with the Israeli government, where I was the only one in the room. I think the level of trust was such that I had far greater access than what prior ambassadors had.
One of the marching orders I got from President Trump was: “I’m appointing ambassadors in the U.K., France, Italy, etc. They’re going to live in beautiful mansions and do black-tie events. That’s not going to be your role.” This was after eight years of Obama. This was after December 2016, when Obama allowed a resolution to pass at the U.N. declaring that even the Western Wall is illegally occupied territory. So, President Trump told me to fix this: fix the U.S. and Israel’s relationship because it’s been damaged. And so, I came there with that mandate from the president. Nothing meant more to me than to strengthen the U.S.-Israel relationship. So yes, I came with a different agenda than my predecessors, I’m sure.
When you were ambassador, what was your typical schedule?
The day essentially started at seven and ended at midnight.
There are multiple aspects of being an ambassador. For one, you’re the face of America in the country. And when Israel ranks their relations with other countries, number
“Why should anybody be surprised that fulfilling G-d’s will results in the best outcome for all the people who live in this territory?”
one is U.S., number two is U.S., number three is U.S.—you don’t get to the next country until you’re at number fifteen. The U.S. is everything to Israel. So, when you’re the face of America in Israel, everybody wants a piece of you.
I love Israel; I love the Israeli people. And more than anything, I think what came across was my love for the people. I went to be menachem avel every terrorist victim’s family. I went up to Druze communities because there were times when there were Druze that were killed. I told them that President Trump is mourning their loss, and it meant a great deal to them. I often went over the Green Line, which no ambassador had ever done before.
Every day, I would be speaking at three or four different places. It could be opening up a bunch of events. For ex-
ample, Ford Motor Company’s opening up its tech center in Tel Aviv, and I’m cutting the ribbon. It could be that JNF is inaugurating a school in the south where the entire school is a shelter, so kids don’t have to leave their classrooms during rocket fire. I went to a lot of yeshivas. I had many meetings. Sometimes, I’d meet with the Belzer Rebbe, the Chief Rabbi of Israel, the head of IDF, etc. People would make appointments with my staff three months in advance. Beginning at four o’clock in the afternoon, Washington starts to wake up. So, now there’s diplomatic affairs. It never ends. As ambassador, you’re managing the most dynamic relationship between two countries in the world. I did it for four years, and it was the greatest honor of my life. If you love the Jewish people and you love the State of Israel, it helps a lot.
I used to walk for fun when I had nothing else to do. If I had a couple of hours, I’d go into the shuk in Machane Yehudah. I was the second most protected person in the country. I had eight full-time bodyguards and traveled in a three or four armored car caravan wherever I went.
That’s a heavy schedule. Do you think Trump has changed significantly since 2016 in terms of his leadership skills?
Definitely. He’s had the invaluable experience of being president for four years. Nothing trains you for being the president like being the president. So, he’s coming in with four years of experience. He learned a huge amount. Most importantly, he understands the risks of not having loyal staff members on the job. Many of the people he selected for his first administration were recommended to him, but he didn’t know them. They didn’t know him. He hired them because he thought they were best for the job. It’s important to be competent, but it’s also important to share a vision with the president and to be loyal, to follow the mission that you’re given by the president. He’s not going to make that same mistake twice. He’s got the right people right on the job.
Every single person that he put into an important job this time around, I know well. Secretary of State Marco Rubio, a phenomenal pick. Mike Waltz for NSA, phenomenal. Pete Hegseth at Defense, phenomenal. Mike Huckabee, phenomenal.
I think Trump has become more mature, which is a direct result of him being one centimeter away from getting assassinated. I think he understands now that he’s been put in this office by a collection of forces, at least some of which are supernatural.
Do you see yourself having a future in politics?
I think the Israel file is full right now, but I wouldn’t be surprised to receive a call from the president asking me to get involved in some way, whether in an official capacity or as an advisor. The people who are charged with this value my opinion and will be happy to hear from me. So, I anticipate having some involvement, but it’ll be different than the last time.
There are plenty of people in the administration who are going to protect Israel. I worried about Israel a lot during the Biden administration. I don’t have those fears now. Israel, on its own, has performed miracles, and I believe the new administration appreciates what Israel has done and wants to help Israel actualize all these opportunities. I think we’re on the right track.
NNomi Spain-Levy Finding Judaism, Finding Roots
By Eliyahu RosEnBERg
omi has three things in common with her friend Ruth: They’re both Korean. Both of them converted to Judaism. And interestingly enough, their families share the same last name: “Cho.”
One day, that third commonality sparked a conversation that got Nomi thinking. The chat went a little bit like this:
“My last name is Cho. And your mother’s last name was also Cho, right? Wouldn’t it be crazy if somehow we were related?” Ruth mentioned.
“Yeah, that would be so funny!” Nomi replied.
Well, Ruth decided to act on her curiosity. Thus, a short while later, Nomi found herself holding a 23andMe DNA test kit in her hands—a small gift from her friend.
Looking at the box made Nomi feel a little queasy. Being that she was adopted,
In Her Words…
Nomi felt scared of what the test results would tell her about her past and what it would hold for her future. The prospect of finding her Korean family, or discovering her roots, was frightening, uncharted territory that came along with the risk of rejection. Nomi wasn’t quite ready for that.
Thus, she stuck the test onto a shelf in her home and forgot about it for a while. But a year later, Nomi finally pushed her fears aside. She did the test and mailed it to the lab, quietly hoping to hear back that she has just enough Jewish genes to perhaps make her conversion make sense.
Two weeks later, she found the results in her email inbox. It told her she’s 50.1% Korean, and on her father’s side, mostly Norwegian and partly English and Italian.
“And then it says, ‘You have connections.’ And so, first, I click on my father’s side, and it shows fourth generation cous-
you can only do your mission in life if you have all the tools. a nd you don’t have all your tools if you’re ignoring, denying, or trying to stifle a big part of yourself.
When i reflect back on just the last couple of years, or the last 20 years, or the last 40 years, so much of my story is about connecting to myself, connecting to hashem and having this higher, spiritual relationship, connecting to a community, connecting to roots somewhere. i felt so rootless for so many years.
Make peace with yourself, with all the parts of yourself. no part of yourself is meant to hurt you or to be hidden.
ins. And I’m like, ‘Okay, I’ll never meet these people. We probably won’t have anything in common,’” Nomi explains. “And then, I click on my mother’s side, and it shows I have two first cousins.”
Her heart began to race. She stared at the screen in disbelief. After thirty years, could it really be this easy for her to find her long-lost Korean family?
“It showed I have a male cousin and a female cousin. And it said they’re open to connection,’” Nomi continues. “I email my female cousin. And within six hours or so, I get a message back. She says: ‘We need to talk.’”
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Nomi always knew she was adopted.
“I was quite proud of the fact that I was adopted,” recalls Nomi Spain-Levy. “In fact, I remember, in fifth grade, a kid on the bus was teasing me about being adopted. My parents had told me how to deal with that if it ever happened. And I said something like, ‘Well, I was chosen, and your parents got stuck with you!’”
Nomi was born in 1982, just two years before her biological mother passed away. Her biological father, feeling unfit to raise his two children, put Nomi (or Jessica, as she was then known) and her younger brother Justin in foster care. And shortly thereafter, when she was four years old, the two kids joined a new family.
“I don’t know if I remember this, but I’ve been told this story so many times by my adoptive parents that I think it’s a memory,” she recounts. “When my biological father brought us to our new home, I jumped out of the car and I ran over to my adoptive father, my dad, and I said, ‘You’re my new daddy!’ And I jumped into his arms. My biological father was standing there with his girlfriend and my new mother. And my brother, I remember, was much more shy.”
For the next thirteen years of her life, Jessica experienced what she calls a “stereotypically happy childhood.” Set in Minnesota, she had an idyllic midwestern, Catholic childhood, marked by fond memories of going to the lake, visiting the cabin, riding her bike around the neighborhood, and playing in the stream adjacent to her home. Nomi recalls spending warm weekends with her adoptive parents’ family, who showered her with love and total acceptance.
“When I was around seventeen, things shifted, I would say. I was having a hard time with my adoptive family. And this was the ‘90s, so nobody was sending me off to talk about my feelings or to process anything or to really dig deeper into what was going on,” shares Nomi. “And after some hard times, I ended up moving out, and I moved in with a Jewish family, who was the family of a good friend of mine from school. I’d always grown up with Jewish friends and I’d gone to bar and bat mitzvahs. So, when I moved in with this family, it was just a much more intimate look at Jewish life.”
Though the family wasn’t Orthodox, they were observant enough for Jessica to find their traditions absolutely fascinating. She recalls her friend’s grandmother, a Holocaust survivor, lighting Shabbos candles at their home, and everyone sitting down to eat a meal Friday night.
And on Rosh Hashanah, the family, joined by Jessica, went to the stream behind their house to do Tashlich. There they were, reading from a book and tossing bread into the water. It all seemed so funny to Jessica but also so warm and beautiful— so powerful that it no doubt later played a role in her decision to convert.
When adulthood arrived, Jessica enrolled at the University of Minnesota.
And during her time in college, she also worked two jobs: In her words, as “a really bad” and “forgetful” waitress who “wasn’t getting many tips,” and as a decently paid model for Marshall Fields. For that latter job, she’d pose in pictures for the company’s catalog, showing off products such as backto-school supplies and sweaters.
“One day, my agency called me, and they said, ‘You know what? There’s a woman here scouting for Asia. And you’re half Korean. So why don’t you meet her?’ So, I met this woman for around five minutes,” Nomi recalls. “And she says, ‘Okay, great. In two weeks, I’m sending you to Asia. Don’t cut your hair.’ I asked no questions. I was basically like, ‘Okay, I guess I’m going.’ Today, I would never recommend somebody doing that. This was around 2001, so it was a different world.”
She’d never traveled to Asia before. Yet, two weeks later, Jessica was in Hong Kong; in a loud and overwhelming city filled with bright lights, not one iota similar to her quiet hometown in Minnesota. Jessica felt “out of her element,” but it was a fun and well-paying job. Hong Kong. Korea. Thailand. She was constantly moving places and working non-stop.
One day, while in Asia, Jessica met a man named William, and the two became good friends.
“We’d meet sometimes after work for a coffee. And one day, he says to me, ‘You know I’m Jewish?’ And I just responded very casually, ‘Well, I’m going to convert someday,’” shares Nomi. “And he says, ‘Hmm, I’m Sefardi. I don’t believe in conversion.’ At that point, I didn’t even know the difference between Ashkenazi and Sefardi. I knew his family was from Morocco, but I don’t think I knew the cultural differences. We kept hanging out, and then finally, one day he calls me up and he says, ‘Do you want to go out to dinner tonight?’”
Jessica accepted his invitation, and from there, their relationship started to blossom. He wasn’t yet frum, and she wasn’t yet Jewish.
stronger, as she read books about Shabbos and other Jewish topics. Eventually, Jessica spoke to a rabbi in Hong Kong and told him she wants to become a Jew.
“You can do a conversion here in Hong Kong, and Chabad can facilitate it,” the rabbi told her. “But if you want to have an Orthodox conversion and really understand Jewish culture and life, you should move to a big Jewish community.”
And so, that’s what she did.
“I picked up and moved to Los Angeles,” Nomi explains. “I went to the Beis Din, and I applied to do my Orthodox conversion. And I read all the books. And I went to all the meetings. And I got a tutor. I started learning, and I loved it. And during this time, my boyfriend, who is now my husband, was living in Hong Kong. And every time he would come visit me, I would be more religious. So, he would come, and I’d be like, ‘Now I’m wearing skirts.’ And then he’d come again, and I’m wearing long sleeves. And then he started spending more time in Los Angeles. And I was learning, and he was learning.”
A year and a half later, Jessica finished her conversion, officially becoming Nomi. Three months later, she and her husband got married. The couple made aliyah, moving to Yerushalayim, five months after that.
Today, Nomi Spain-Levy and her husband live a frum lifestyle in the warm Jerusalem neighborhood of Rechavia with their four boys, ages 18, 16, 13, and 10, and their dog Rosie. She loves her neighbors and her neighbors love her.
Nomi is now a practicing nutritionist, coaching and supporting people through her business and website, Nomi Knows Nutrition.
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Nomi’s conversion story was ultimately a journey of self-discovery and acceptance.
around ten years ago, she resisted searching for them because she felt she wasn’t yet ready to cross that bridge. But around a year ago, after doing a DNA test, Nomi accidentally found her mother’s side of the family. She then reached out to one of her female cousins, who emailed her back, “We need to talk.”
“Do you have a brother named Justin?” her cousin asked during their phone conversation.
“Yeah, I have a brother named Justin,” Nomi responded.
Then, Nomi’s cousin started to cry. And Nomi began crying, too. This was really happening. Nomi had found her long-lost family.
“Oh my gosh! We have a picture of your mother in our house. We talk about her! You have to talk to my father!” Nomi’s cousin said excitedly.
Within 48 hours, Nomi found herself on a Zoom call with her entire Korean family: three uncles, an aunt, and ten cousins.
“They didn’t know we were adopted. They had looked for us under my father’s name… And we had this great meeting,” recalls Nomi. “A couple months later, I flew in by myself to meet everybody. And I had cousins that flew in from Austin with their kids… I had always thought that my mother was this immigrant who came over from Korea, and she had a very hard life and then she died. It was just this sad story. And then I found out that my mother was really this powerhouse hustler. She had this amazing story that goes back to 1950 when she was born.”
her love of “fancy things” from her mother.
“I have an amazing relationship with my adoptive family and I’m so grateful to them. They come to Israel, and they’re such a part of my kids’ lives. They’ve accepted my conversion, and they’ve seen all the sides of me,” explains Nomi. “And then I meet my biological family, and we have a similar sense of humor. They told me I reminded them of my mother, which was something that made me so happy. I didn’t realize how much I wanted roots. I didn’t know I was going to get this warm, supportive family that had been looking for me. And I think there’s so much about being a convert and being adopted and then being an immigrant living in Israel for twenty years and not speaking great Hebrew. You always feel a bit unrooted. And then I met this whole group of people, and it was so centering and so validating to who I was.
“They were so accepting of my Jewish life and accommodating with my kashrus. My cousins actually went to Costco and Trader Joe’s, and they bought everything they could find with an OU symbol. So my kids ate like kilos of Oreos! But it was love. Food is love. And they wanted to feed us,” shares Nomi. “So, I think, at the end of the day, this whole story with my family turned out to be really the best possible outcome. And it feels so integrated and so validating. And for the first time, after so many years, I have roots that I never knew I would have. It’s been just such a centering process.”
But as time went on, her interest in converting to Judaism grew
At first, when she became Jewish, she wanted nothing more than to fit in with the yeshivish Israeli society. She didn’t want to stand out, in fear of being rejected by others. But by working on herself, Nomi has come a long way in accepting her uniqueness.
Although she became quite curious about her Korean family and roots
Her mother, the oldest child in her family, helped raise her younger siblings and bring home money when she was a teenager, after losing her father at age ten. In her 20s, she married an American soldier and moved to the United States, and she eventually managed to bring her family to the U.S., as well. Together, she, her siblings, and her mother lived in one apartment and bought a convenience store with money they saved up.
Nomi’s meeting with her Korean family brought her a lot of clarity. She realized she inherited her people-pleasing nature from her mother’s side, and she inherited
Nomi Spain-Levy’s advice to those going through hard times, like she did when she was younger, is as follows: “Make peace with yourself, with all the parts of yourself. No part of yourself is meant to hurt you or to be hidden. It’s a tool. It has to be balanced and used in the right way. Everything you see around you is a mirror. And use that to really understand yourself: You get really triggered by that person. That person really bothers you. That event that just happened really sits in your head and hangs over you, and you just want to tell everybody about it because it’s just irritating you—it comes back to you. And if you learn how to read that map back to yourself, you become so powerful, you become so intelligent.
“And you become very authentic.”
Dating Dialogue What Would You Do If…
Moderated by Jennifer Mann, LCSW of The Navidaters
Dear Navidaters,
My question to you is regarding a widower in my community who seems like a nice man I would be interested in. Doing anything too soon seems inappropriate. I wonder what is the right timeframe and approach for a woman interested in such a grieving man? How does one approach him and respect his loss at the same time? How long should a widow or widower mourn before trying to meet someone new?
Thank you, Esther*
The Rebbetzin
Rebbetzin Faigie Horowitz, M.S.
Iam impressed by your sensitivity and respect for the gentleman and your desire to be appropriate. There are no rules with regard to a widower considering remarriage. It is considered respectful to the first spouse and children not to remarry within the year.
Nonetheless, people start making suggestions right away. One of the leaders of an organization for widows has said that by the time one thinks the widower is ready,
he is already married.
Since you both live in the same community, I suggest that you approach a friend that you trust and who has credibility in the community. Ask him or her to approach the rabbi or a trusted neighbor/friend of the gentleman to find out what is going on. Is he interested in remarrying? What is he looking for? Where are his kids with this? Has he been through grief therapy? To whom should suggestions be made?
Keep in mind that some people who have been through a long illness with a spouse may want to remarry sooner than expected. Others may need more time to grieve, especially those who lost a spouse
very suddenly. One doesn’t know what the first spouse has said about the topic of remarriage. Information and people in the know will help guide you.
Be wise as well as strategic in your pursuit.
The Shadchan
Michelle Mond
Thank you so much for this question. It highlights your sensitive and thoughtful nature. You are correct when you state,
“Doing anything too soon seems inappropriate.” Grieving a loss is extremely personal, and there are no set timelines. If you think it may be too soon to broach the topic, it probably is. You will need to give this widow time and space, possibly offering help as needed just as a friend. Continuously check in on your boundaries to make sure you are not overstepping, just giving the option for friendship and/or help as needed. You will have to look for clues in order to gauge whether the widow is starting to date. Is he talking about the singles events he went to? Is he suddenly talking about the date he went on last Tuesday? Then you will
Disclaimer: This column is not intended to diagnose or otherwise conclude resolutions to any questions. Our intention is not to offer any definitive conclusions to any particular question, rather offer areas of exploration for the author and reader. Due to the nature of the column receiving only a short snapshot of an issue, without the benefit of an actual discussion, the panel’s role is to offer a range of possibilities. We hope to open up meaningful dialogue and individual exploration.
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know he is for sure on the market. There are other clues that might not be so obvious. When you start seeing this man venture out into social circles and going to events, spending more time shmoozing at the shul kiddush, this might be a clue that he is ready to form new relationships, but recognize that may not mean he wants a romantic relationship. Not every widow/ widower wants to get remarried; some just want companionship or friendship. You have to be socially appropriate, have proper boundaries and have a good intuition. Hopefully you will get the information you need at the proper time, and it will be well received!
The Zaidy
Dr. Jeffrey Galler
You are in a very delicate predicament.
On the one hand, you don’t want to approach too early and be seen as cold and insensitive. On the other hand, you don’t want to risk missing a good opportunity by waiting too long and finding that he is already seeing someone.
I made some inquiries, and in my community, the consensus seems to be to wait at least six months. However, clearly, there is a wide range of opinions and possibili-
Pulling It All Together
ties, and a lot depends on individual circumstances.
The best advice would be to act sooner rather than later and ask your local rebbetzin to please inquire on your behalf, discreetly and anonymously. Or, you could ask a trusted friend or acquaintance to inquire on your behalf, discreetly and anonymously.
Alternatively, if you are sufficiently bold and extroverted, you might wish to just happen to meet the gentleman, “completely by coincidence,” at some shul event, or committee meeting, or philanthropic endeavor, and casually introduce yourself.
In 19 BC, the poet Virgil wrote, “Audentes fortuna iuvat,” fortune favors the bold.
Good luck.
The Reader’s Response
Hannah Heller Tutor, Teaching Associate, and Women’s Health Educator
Dear Esther,
I am impressed with your sensitivity to the needs of the new widower. As a widow myself, I can tell you that everyone’s grief journey is different. There isn’t one set pattern or timeframe for being ready to move on to another relationship.
while for others, it can take years. What matters most is not the amount of time that has passed, but where he is emotionally in his healing journey.
As you would with anyone who has suffered a loss of an immediate family member, it is a wonderful gesture to bring food, invite him for Shabbos meals (have other guests over, of course, so it isn’t awkward), and offer to help him in whatever way you can. If there are kids at home and you have kids at home, inviting his kids to come over or to join your kids in an activity is meaningful and shows that you are thinking of all of them. If all of you are empty nesters, try including him in a group for a shul or community activity. These are ways to try to get to know him and any family members living with him.
After you have established this connection, perhaps a relationship will grow. He may or may not be ready to date yet. You can ask his rabbi or his close friends to ask him privately if he is interested in dating yet and, if so, if he would like to go out with you. This would happen after he has had a chance to get to know you in group settings. If he is not ready to date or if he is not interested in you, don’t take it personally. He may not be ready to move on and even if he thinks he is ready to date, he may not want to risk losing a friendship with you as someone in the community who cares about his welfare.
This new widower is fortunate to have you as a neighbor regardless of whether or not you ever go on a date with him. May we all celebrate happy occasions and be comforted from our losses.
Dear Esther,
Thank you for your thoughtful and compassionate question. It’s heartening to see that you want to approach this situation with both sensitivity and respect. Navigating these waters can be delicate, but with the right approach, it can also be meaningful for both of you.
Grief is deep - ly personal, and there’s no one-size-fits-all timeline for mourning. Some widowers may feel ready to open their hearts after months,
If you’d like to express interest while honoring his grief, I recommend starting with simple, genuine gestures. Engage him in light conversation, ask how he’s doing, or share a kind word about his late spouse if appropriate. These actions show that you see him as a whole person, including his loss, without pressuring him.
Lastly, remember that if he’s still processing his grief, his hesitation or distance isn’t about you. Allowing space for his journey will naturally show your understanding and compassion.
Approaching this situation with care, patience, and sincerity can lead to a strong foundation for connection, whether as friends or something more.
If you sense he’s open to a deeper connection, you might let him know, gently and respectfully, that you admire him and would enjoy getting to know him better. Be mindful to offer this as a possibility, not a demand. It gives him the freedom to respond based on where he is emotionally.
Wishing you the best, Jennifer
Health & F tness
The Gut-Brain Connection How Your Belly Might Be the Key to Better Mental Health
By Rivka Kramer, PMHNP-BC
Imagine this: Your gut is like a bustling city of microbes, bustling around, making decisions, and sending messages to your brain. But here’s the kicker – your gut doesn’t just digest food, it talks to your brain, too. This cozy little chat between your gut and your brain is called the gut-brain axis, and believe it or not, it’s one of the most exciting discoveries in mental health research today. So, what does that mean for you? Could a happy gut mean a happier brain? Spoiler alert: it totally can. In fact, the health of your gut might just be the secret to feeling better mentally, emotionally, and even physically. Let’s dig in (pun intended) and see why keeping your gut in check could be the key to your mental well-being.
The Gut: Your Second Brain?
First off, let’s get a little science-y for a second (I promise it won’t be too nerdy). You’ve probably heard about the gut-brain axis, but you might be wondering, what does that even mean?
The gut-brain axis is essentially a communication highway that runs between your gut and your brain. It’s not a one-way street—your gut sends messages to your brain, and your brain sends messages to your gut. In fact, your gut is home to millions (okay, trillions) of bacteria, fungi, and other tiny creatures collectively known as your microbiome. And here’s where it gets interesting: your gut and your brain are constantly chatting through this microbiome, using your vagus nerve, the enteric nervous system (aka your “second brain”), and a host of other signaling pathways.
This little microbiome also produces neurotransmitters like serotonin (your “feel-good” hormone), dopamine (hello, motivation), and GABA (the anxiety-calmer). And guess what? About 90%
of serotonin is produced in your gut, not your brain. Yep, your gut is practically a mental health factory!
How Gut Health Affects Your Mood (And Why It’s More Than Just Digestion)
You might be thinking, “Okay, I get it—my gut is important, but how does it actually impact my mood and mental health?” Great question! The gut doesn’t just digest your food; it plays a major role in regulating your emotions, stress levels, and cognitive function. Here’s how:
1. Your Microbiome: More Than Just Gut Bacteria
Picture your microbiome as a crowded party inside your gut. There are friendly bacteria, helpful fungi, and even some bacteria that are kind of party crashers. Ideally, the good guys outnumber the bad guys. When this delicate balance is thrown off—say, because of a poor diet, stress, or antibiotics—the whole party gets out of control.
That imbalance can lead to symptoms of anxiety, depression, and even brain fog. Why? Because the gut sends
messages to the brain, influencing how you feel. If your gut bacteria are misbehaving, your brain might start to feel the effects, leading to mood swings, irritability, or even a low-grade feeling of dread.
2. The Role of Inflammation: More Than Just a Gut Issue
When things go haywire in your gut, it can also cause inflammation—the body’s natural response to stress or injury. Normally, inflammation is a shortterm defense mechanism, but chronic inflammation can cause major problems. This goes beyond your gut; it can spread to the brain.
When you experience neuroinflammation (brain inflammation), it can contribute to mental health conditions like depression and anxiety. Think of it as an overactive alarm system in your body that never shuts off. Too much inflammation, and your brain can get stuck in fight-or-flight mode, which isn’t fun for anyone.
Gut Health to the Rescue
Now, let’s make this a bit more relatable with a few stories that show how gut
health can be a game-changer for mental well-being.
Sarah’s Anxiety and Gut Health Reset
Meet Sarah, a 32-year-old teacher who was constantly battling anxiety. For years, she felt like she was walking on eggshells, always overwhelmed by stress, no matter how hard she tried to manage it. She’d tried medication, therapy, and mindfulness techniques, but nothing really clicked. That is, until she met a doctor who suggested looking at her gut health.
It turned out that Sarah’s gut microbiome was way off balance—too many harmful bacteria and not enough of the good guys. She was also dealing with chronic inflammation, which could have been contributing to her anxiety. Her doctor suggested a gut reset: probiotics, fermented foods like kimchi and yogurt, and a clean diet free of processed sugars and dairy. Fast forward a few months, and Sarah began to feel like a new person. Her anxiety levels dropped, she had more energy, and she could think clearly without being weighed down by worry. It wasn’t magic, but it was a powerful shift that came from taking care of her gut. Who knew?
Yaakov’s Battle with Depression and the Gut Fix
Yaakov, a 45-year-old young man, had been dealing with depression for years. He’d tried all the usual routes— therapy, antidepressants, the works—but still felt like something was missing. After a long struggle, he started working with a doctor who helped him understand how his gut health could play a role in his mental health.
Turns out, Yaakov’s gut was a bit of a wreck. He had digestive issues, bloating and was eating a diet heavy on processed foods and sugar. His doctor suggested
a gut-health overhaul: cutting out processed foods, adding in probiotics, and incorporating more fiber-rich veggies and fermented foods like kefir.
Yaakov didn’t expect much, but within a few weeks, he began to notice a difference. His depression symptoms lessened, and he started feeling more motivated. No more brain fog. No more feeling “blah” all the time. He felt lighter, both physically and mentally.
The Science Behind the Gut-Brain Axis
Okay, you’re probably thinking, “This all sounds great, but is there actual science behind it?” You bet there is! Here are some key takeaways:
• Probiotics: Studies have shown that probiotics—good bacteria found in foods like yogurt and sauerkraut—can help reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety. They help restore balance to your gut microbiome, which can have a direct effect on your mood.
• Prebiotics: These are the foods (like fiber-rich fruits and veggies) that feed your gut bacteria and keep them healthy. When you feed the good bacteria, they thrive, and your mental health benefits.
• Gut Health and Mental Disorders:
There’s growing evidence that conditions like depression and anxiety can be linked to imbalances in the gut microbiome. Research even suggests that treating the gut could help alleviate symptoms of these conditions.
• Fecal Microbiota Transplantation (FMT): Yep, you read that right. Fecal
brain connection? Here are some easy and fun ways to support both your gut and your mind:
1. Eat a Gut-Friendly Diet Load up on fiber-rich foods like fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and legumes. Don’t forget about fermented foods like kimchi, sauerkraut, and kefir—your gut will thank you!
When this delicate balance is thrown off—say, because of a poor diet, stress, or antibiotics— the whole party gets out of control.
transplants (gross-sounding, but effective) have been used in research to treat gut-related mental health conditions. This process involves transferring healthy gut bacteria from a donor to a patient to help restore microbiome balance.
How to Improve Your Gut Health for a Happier Brain
Now that you’re fully convinced that your gut might be the secret to mental wellness, how can you nurture that gut-
2. Take Probiotics Consider adding a high-quality probiotic supplement to your routine if your gut’s been feeling out of whack. But always check with a healthcare professional first.
3. Cut Back on Sugar Sugar is like a party crasher for your microbiome. Too much can upset the balance of bacteria in your gut, leading to inflammation and mood problems. So, cut back on sugary snacks and drinks.
4. Exercise Good news: exercise
not only boosts your mood but also helps maintain a healthy gut. Even a brisk walk every day can help!
5. Manage Stress Stress can throw your gut out of whack, so find ways to manage it—whether through meditation, yoga, deep breathing, or simply taking a walk in nature.
The Gut-Brain Connection is Real
The gut-brain connection is real, and it’s not just some new-age, “hippie” trend. It’s science-backed and growing more important by the day. By taking care of your gut, you’re doing more than just keeping your digestion in check—you’re also giving your brain a boost. So next time you’re feeling stressed or down, remember that your gut might just be sending you a signal. Listen to it, nurture it, and watch as both your mind and body thank you.
Rivka Kramer is a Board Certified Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner. She has an Integrative psychiatric private practice based in Cedarhurst, NY. She serves as a member of the board of JANPPA, the Jewish American Nurse Practitioner Psychiatric Association. She can be reached at 516-945-9443.
Parenting Pearls A Mom’s Tips for Sick Kids
By Sara Rayvych, MSEd
We’re officially into winter and the season of sneezes and sniffles. Along with the snow and sledding comes the extra colds and other unpleasantries that are more prevalent this time of year. Even a mild illness leads us to greater appreciation of the complexities of our bodies as a microscopic organism can wreak havoc, causing pain and misery.
As difficult as it is when an adult is sick, children have their own unique challenges. They may not understand what’s happening to them, and they can confuse days and nights. Rather than rest quietly, they have no problem waking up an entire household to share their misery.
As their loving parents, it’s painful for us to see our sweet child sick. We feel horrible they’re suffering, as well as helpless that we can’t take this away from them. We have the additional obligation of being responsible for their care and doing our hishtadlus to guide them towards better health.
I’m not a medical professional, and I have tried to stay away from giving medical advice. Please reach out to your family’s own healthcare provider with
any questions or concerns. This article is simply intended to provide a few tips and tricks towards easing the challenges that come along with mild childhood illnesses.
Keep Hydrated
Parents will often be told to “keep them hydrated.” Dehydration is a serious, life-threatening situation, and parents need to know the symptoms to watch for. Please ask your child’s provider for the appropriate guidelines.
I have personally found that water bottles, sippy cups or other spill-proof containers allow children to have water close but with less risk of spilling. Some kids might prefer a water bottle with a straw. These options all allow the patient to keep water next to them in bed, increasing the chances they’ll drink. Anything that encourages drinking is good, and I’ve found that sometimes kids just enjoy the novelty of a different way to drink their beverage. Whatever you choose should be something convenient that the child will actually drink from and can hold enough water for their hydration needs in between refills. Kids need to drink but are often
less than eager to comply. Reminders throughout the day to drink are helpful. I’ve often found that children completely forget to sip their water until they get that reminder. Parents should periodically check the fluid level of the child’s water bottle, refilling when necessary. If the water level isn’t going down, then you know they’re not drinking.
Sipping throughout the day is generally better than guzzling, with the latter causing the patient to feel worse. There are many options to drink besides water, including juice, hydration solutions, and ice pops with electrolytes. Your child’s provider can best advise which option is best for your child’s particular condition.
Vomiting
Stomach bugs are incredibly unpleasant and messy. I don’t have any tricks to make stomach bugs more cheerful, but I have found there are ways to help minimize the mess. In addition to containing the inevitable mess, my goal was also to maintain a quick clean up time so everyone can get back to bed as soon as possible.
Keep a bucket lined with a garbage
bag next to the child. Use a thick plastic bag and check it for holes first, keeping spare bags nearby. Little kids may not be able to correctly use the bucket on their own, but parents can assist, avoiding a long rush to the bathroom and increased mess.
We want to minimize the amount of “stuff” that gets soiled. Placing a towel or disposable waterproof under-pad under the child’s head and upper body will (hopefully) prevent the need to change the entire sheet. Oversized t-shirts that you don’t mind soiling, such as old camp shirts, can be a better pajama choice. The easy on and off allows you to quickly remove and replace the soiled clothing. Unless needed for warmth, avoid keeping extra blankets and other items on or next to the child’s bed. I like to keep extra towels (or disposable pads) and t-shirts near the bed area so I can quickly replace the soiled ones. The faster we can get the child cleaned and fresh, the sooner the child calms down and everyone gets back to bed. Nobody likes throwing up, but little kids get very confused and unsure what is happening to them when they feel the urge to vomit. Parents should expect a
young child to be extra upset when they have a stomach bug, and they may require extra time to soothe.
General Principles
It’s frustrating and hard to function when sleep deprived, but it’s inevitable when a child is sick. It’s upsetting for children (and adults) when they get sick and expected that it may take some time for kids to get back to themselves. Parents should anticipate the extra sleep loss and crankiness (both child and adult) that comes with childhood illnesses, have realistic expectations, and try to find a little extra patience and compassion for their young, miserable patient.
While I do not have a medical degree and I will not give any advice regarding anything related to medicine or medical treatments, I will simply remind parents about the importance of accurate dosing. It’s crucial to know the correct amount of anything you need to administer to your child, whether it’s over the counter or prescribed. Don’t hesitate to clarify any uncertainties with your child’s healthcare provider or pharmacist. In addition to knowing the correct
dose, it’s crucial to accurately measure the dose. Only use measured medicine cups or droppers; don’t rely on guesswork or kitchen measurements. Many medications come with their own dosing cup or syringe, but many pharmacies will have extras if you need.
Inconveniently, most childhood illnesses are contagious and can easily
ask, clarify or mention any concerns. As parents, you know your child best and can understand their needs. Parents also may see things that doctors don’t get the opportunity to see during an exam. One time, my son had left the doctor’s office only two or three hours earlier, but I suspected the infection had spread since the visit. I called the doctor who
As their loving parents, it’s painful for us to see our sweet child sick.
spread within families. Frequent hand washing, sneezing into elbows or tissues and other measures to keep germs contained will help mitigate – but not eliminate the risk of spreading.
Many parents are embarrassed to ask questions, afraid to sound foolish or for some other reason. Providers – especially those in pediatrics – are used to all kinds of questions. Don’t be afraid to
sent us straight to the emergency room where our son was admitted for a few days’ stay. I was grateful to have called despite my initial hesitations to reach out so soon after the doctor saw him. When possible, it’s best to ask during regular hours than to delay asking until later, but don’t push off asking an important question until morning just because the office is closed. It can also be
helpful to ask your provider in advance when you should call, such as symptoms worsening, etc. It’s always better to call than to risk missing something important.
Stressed and sleep-deprived adults are not at their best, and it’s easy to become confused. I have found it’s helpful to write down any medical instructions (such as dosing, when to follow up, etc.) while I’m still in the office, allowing me the opportunity to clarify anything with the provider.
Mild illnesses are a normal – but unpleasant – part of childhood. Knowing it should pass within a few days, and doing what we can to ease the challenges, can go a long way toward making this time slightly less miserable. Ultimately, all refuos are in the hands of Hakadosh Baruch Hu. May Hashem bless us all with good health and quick recoveries.
Sara Rayvych, MSEd, has her master’s in general and special education. She has been homeschooling for over 10 years in Far Rockaway. She can be contacted at RayvychHomeschool@gmail.com.
School of Thought
By Etti Siegel
Q:Dear Etti, Kids are getting sick left and right – what a season we are having. I think I am a good teacher, but I am confused about what to do when students are not in my class. What are my responsibilities as a teacher to my sick students?
-A Caring Teacher
A:Dear Caring Teacher, Your letter was short, so I assume by your signature that you care and already do many of the things I will elaborate on here.
When children are home because they are sick, they are wondering if anyone misses them. I have heard too many times how children decided they weren’t cared about by their teachers or classmates because when they were out of school no one called.
I heard from a successful teacher that high school was a nightmare, no one cared about her, and her proof was that she was sick for a whole month and she received no phone calls from any of her teachers or from the administration. She began cutting class pretty often after that. So disturbing, and so sad.
I heard from a different teacher that she dropped off letters from the class with candies and nosh and never heard anything from the family or sick student. Upon reflection, the teacher admitted that the family was so busy with the student’s care that remembering to say thank you was probably not high on their list of priorities, and she could not have lived with herself if she did not drop off those packages.
I will digress from the question and share this poignant story I once heard and shared with that teacher in response and reminded her how little we know about what is going on behind the scenes:
There was a student who refused to do any work. She was moody and nonresponsive and would take papers and tests and just write her name and do nothing else.
Her teacher would always write notes on top of her tests and papers, some variation of, “I appreciate that you are in my class and hope that one day you will be able to fill out some of the material on the sheet/test.” She would take her paper back and stuff it in her bag without looking at it.
When children are home because they are sick, they are wondering if anyone misses them.
The teacher questioned whether she was making any difference, but continued, mostly to protect the girl’s privacy as she distributed all the papers to the class each time.
At conferences, the mother shared that her daughter carefully cut out every single note and put it on her bulletin board to look at and reread each night.
So small acts of caring do matter! A lot!
Back to our question, now that we know how important it is to notice all children, especially one who is absent and sick…
There were many things I did in my class when I taught and a child was absent.
We put the child’s name on the board with her phone number, to remind everyone to call that night. If the whole class wrote it down for homework, I hoped at least half would call. This was done even if a child was only absent one day.
If a child was absent a second day, her name went on the board again. In the days before cellphones, I had the class trek down to the side office on the first floor, and we all gathered around the speakerphone as I dialed. The children were quiet and excited as I spoke and
asked the mother or babysitter if the sick child was available for a call from the class. When the child took the phone, we all chanted, “Refuah shelaima” together, and then each child said something and went back to class where work was waiting on their desks.
Of course, I called on the second day, checked in with the parents and my student, and every day after that as well.
I also made sure to let the principal know by the third day, so that she could also call.
Once cellphones entered the picture, we were able to call the absent student from the classroom, and I was also able to ask if she was able to listen as we learned. I would often teach Chumash or other material with my cellphone on speakerphone.
Of course I let the principal know I would need the cell phone that day, as many schools have a “no phone in the class” rule.
If a child was absent even longer, I might have the class make cards and fun pages and prepare a package to send home with a sibling or neighbor including copies of work missed.
If a child is absent for a lengthy period of time, due to some serious illness, I might have a few children be responsible each day for writing cards and letters and call her, instead of overwhelming her every day with every student, which peters out after a while as the newness wanes.
When I taught boys, I found they cared about being noticed too. Who doesn’t?
Thank you for caring and hoping this gave you more ideas,
- Etti
In The K tchen
Citrus Salmon with Date and Herb Paste
Food and Prop Styling by Shiri Feldman. Food preparation by Leah Hamaoui.
By Naomi Nachman
I wrote this recipe for Mishpacha magazine a little while back, and it is always a hit with my guests. I am sharing it here during the winter months when citrus fruits are at the peak of their season, bursting with vitamin C and flavor.
Ingredients
◦ 1 side baby salmon fillet (about 2 pounds)
◦ 2 cups pitted Medjool dates
◦ ¾ cup boiling water
◦ 2 tablespoons olive oil
◦ 1 tablespoon balsamic vinegar
◦ 2 cloves garlic or 2 cubes frozen garlic
◦ ¼ cup fresh parsley
◦ ¼ cup fresh dill
◦ 1 teaspoon kosher salt
◦ 1 orange, thinly sliced
◦ 1 lime, thinly sliced
◦ 1 lemon, thinly sliced
Preparation
Preheat oven to 400°F.
Place salmon on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper.
Place dates and boiling water in a small bowl and soak for half an hour until soft. Blend in a food processor.
While the machine is running, add oil, vinegar, garlic, and fresh herbs; blend until a paste is formed.
Spread paste over salmon. Place citrus slices over the salmon in an alternating pattern.
Bake for 20 minutes.
Naomi Nachman, the owner of The Aussie Gourmet, caters weekly and Shabbat/ Yom Tov meals for families and individuals within The Five Towns and neighboring communities, with a specialty in Pesach catering. Naomi is a contributing editor to this paper and also produces and hosts her own weekly radio show on the Nachum Segal Network stream called “A Table for Two with Naomi Nachman.” Naomi gives cooking presentations for organizations and private groups throughout the New York/New Jersey Metropolitan area. In addition, Naomi has been a guest host on the QVC TV network and has been featured in cookbooks, magazines as well as other media covering topics related to cuisine preparation and personal chefs. To obtain additional recipes, join The Aussie Gourmet on Facebook or visit Naomi’s blog. Naomi can be reached through her website, www.theaussiegourmet.com or at (516) 295-9669.
Mind Y ur Business
Creating a High-Achieving Team
This column features business insights from a recent “Mind Your Business with Yitzchok Saftlas” radio show. The weekly “Mind Your Business” show – broadcasting since 2015 –features interviews with Fortune 500 executives, business leaders and marketing gurus. Prominent guests include John Sculley, former CEO of Apple and Pepsi; Dick Schulze, founder and Chairman Emeritus of Best Buy; and Beth Comstock, former Vice Chair of GE; among over 400+ senior-level executives and business celebrities. Yitzchok Saftlas, president of Bottom Line Marketing Group, hosts the
Innovate e very Day
weekly “Mind Your Business” show, which airs at 10pm every Sunday night on 710 WOR and throughout America on the iHeartRadio Network.
Since 2015, Yitzchok Saftlas has been speaking with leading industry experts on the “Mind Your Business” show, sharing insightful business and marketing strategies.
In this article, we’re covering tips from 5 business experts on how to build and foster high-achieving teams.
Steven Gaffney, Communications Consultant for Fortune 500 Companies
So often, when you think about innovation and why things don’t happen in an organization, it’s because if you ask employees, “What about innovating around this idea,” they’ll say, “I don’t have time.” What they’re missing is that innovation is not an extra to-do. It should be part of our job every single day. When it comes to consistently high-achieving organizations, an important element is the ability to innovate day-in and day-out. It’s about taking your entire job and putting it in an innovative mindset.
The other thing I realized is that when the motivation is high enough, people will find the time for innovation. I give people an exercise, proposing the following: Your boss came in and offered you your dream project, but there’s a downside. You can have the project, which will take about half of your time, but you still need to do your regular job. I then ask people what they would do. And they come up with incredibly innovative ways on how to do their job in half the time. And so, the lesson learned is, when the motivation is high enough, people find the time.
e mbrace accountabI l I ty
Jerel Benjamin, CEO of ProfitGOLD Group
Accountability is the skeletal system of the entire company. Accountability is really nothing more than a fancy way of saying when everyone does what they say they’re going to do. The issue that many CEOs and executives are running into is that more and more of them are settling. They’re just dealing with whatever is being produced by the team. They’re almost afraid to rock the boat and hold the key personnel accountable, and as a result, they’re getting a very mixed bag of production. Whether that be in a service industry, product industry, or even supply of information industries, there’s no standard. Those lines are becoming more and more blurred, because key personnel are not being held accountable. Now, the catch is, when I use the word “accountability” with a lot of clients, they almost see it as black and white. They think “accountability” just means that I’m going to hold you accountable by terminating you.
That’s not the only shade of accountability. Accountability is actually a very positive thing. What it is doing is setting clear outcomes, so that the person who has been assigned to handle that particular task, knows from the beginning to the end, the outcome that you’re trying to achieve. What business owners need to realize is that type of certainty is what raises the bar in the way the company operates. But it also drastically reduces the attrition rate, because people want to work for a company where they clearly know what landmarks they’re trying to achieve and know it without someone always having to verbally confirm it.
When motivation is high enough, people find the time.
I Dent I fy I ng H IgH Performers
Norm Trainor, Founder and CEO of The Covenant Group
There are five ways in which players achieve and sustain peak performance. Number one is our “mindset.” The way we act is typically shaped by the way we think. Number two is “target.” The narrower your focus, the bigger your opportunity. High performers have a clear sense of what they’re looking to achieve. Number three is “engage.” The way in which they enter into a relationship, for example, sets the stage for everything that follows. Take high-performing salespeople, for example. They really manage that initial interaction. In other words, if you know how to open, you don’t have to close. Number four is “commit.” This is how you take people through the process of buy-in, whether it’s the sale of a product or service or gaining commitment to an organizational goal. And finally, number five is “expand.” The natural result of relationships is toward erosion of sensitivity and inattentiveness. In other words, if you want to grow relationships, you have to work at them. High performers have a strategy for growing in their relationships, work, and life.
bu I l DI ng a s ales t eam
Ted Miller III, CEO of Training Mastery 3
Care enough about your team to find the right people and to put them in seats where they are expressing their zones of brilliance. For example, the characteristics that you’re looking for in great salespeople are a deep-rooted compassion and sincere interest in helping your clients succeed. Those that care more, sell more. At the end of the day, people will smell what I call “commission breath.” If the salesperson doesn’t care, and they’re in it just for the money, the client is going to smell that a mile away, and that relationship will fall apart. They need to be a person of virtue, not a person of convenience. But you don’t want to just recruit people with compassion. That’s what I did originally. Everyone told me, “Ted, you’re so nice,” and I was the top producer. So, I figured that niceness must be what’s making me the top producer, and I hired all of these other nice people. And so, I continued to ring that sales bell, but these other hires never rang anything. It wasn’t just the compassion, there was another “C” at play. Confidence. Sales is often nothing but a transmission of confidence from one individual to the next. And so, if they don’t have enough confidence in themselves, they’re never going to have the ability to express certainty around your product or service. In sales, the one with the most certainty is going to win every negotiation. So, you have to find a salesperson that has both a high degree of confidence and high compassion. That’s the kind of person that is set up for success in sales. You want to have a pre-screening methodology to filter out those two C’s fast. Otherwise, you’re set up for failure in that arena.
s tart W I t H yourself
Jeanne M. Stafford, Leadership Advisor and Collaboration Specialist
When getting a team to collaborate, you make it happen by realizing we’re not here to understand each other, at first. We’re here to understand ourselves, and we’re here to understand what goals we have in common with the people we’re working with. The joy we receive by getting to understand and know people along the ride of achieving success together is greater than anything you could get at “hello.” What we learn by working together on a common goal is invaluable. That’s what true collaboration is. It’s trusting that our end game is the best thing to focus on together. The number one thing everyone wants to do is change the people that we are working with. It’s top of mind for most people that I need to work with. We energetically desire to change each other, to get someone to do something. And I advise clients and audiences all the time that if you’d like to use your energy for that, go for it, but it is the worst use of your energy, talents, and ability to make things happen.
The best focus of our energy is on ourselves. To become so knowledgeable about what it is we stand for, in a way that others are moved toward our goals. But putting our energy toward changing another person is a terrible use of our resources.
Notable Quotes “Say What?!”
It seems almost that there’s been this oppressive fog over the country that has affected the way so many people talk and are able to think about things, and that that has begun to lift. There’s this aspect that it’s actually kind of cool to be a Trump supporter among young people, but more than that, it’s cool to express different ideas and to explore different ways of thinking.
- Mollie Hemingway on Fox News
And that’s what we hadn’t had really for the last decade, where you had this complete control over the discourse and what people were allowed to say and think.
– Ibid.
The votes for President of the United States are as follows: Donald J. Trump of the state of Florida has received 312 votes. Kamala D. Harris of the state of California has received 226 votes.
- Vice President Kamala Harris, in her capacity as President of the Senate, announcing the final results of the 2024 presidential election during a special session of Congress on January 6, 2025
The recent elections also feel like a cultural tipping point towards, once again, prioritizing speech. So, we’re going to get back to our roots and focus on reducing mistakes, simplifying our policies, and restoring free expression on our platforms.
- Meta founder Mark Zuckerberg announcing new rules surrounding content moderation and censorship on Facebook and Instagram
The fact-checkers have just been too politically biased and have destroyed more trust than they’ve created, especially in the U.S. So, over the next couple of months, we’re going to phase in a more comprehensive community notes system.
- ibid.
Second, we’re going to simplify our content policies and get rid of a bunch of restrictions on topics like immigration and gender that are just out of touch with mainstream discourse. What started as a movement to be more inclusive has increasingly been used to shut down opinions and shut out people with different ideas, and it’s gone too far. So, I want to make sure that people can share their beliefs and experiences on our platforms.
– ibid.
Guy Who Said Facebook Was Not Suppressing Free Speech Announces Facebook Will Stop Suppressing Free Speech
- Babylon Bee headline
We made it about Trump, and we didn’t make it about voters. How could I, at 80 years old, been doing this for 50 years, lapse into that level of stupidity?
- Renowned Democratic strategist James Carville on CNN, reflecting about the Democrats’ loss in the 2024 elections
It was very disturbing to learn late in the year about just how bad – how poor [Pres. Biden’s] health has become. And, like many, I did not realize that it had gotten to that point.
- Democratic strategist and CNN political commentator Karen Finney
This is not a terrorist event. What it is right now is there were improvised explosive devices that was found and we are working on confirming if this is a viable device or not.
- Special FBI agent Alethea Duncan speaking to the media the morning after an ISIS terrorist mowed down 15 people in New Orleans and planted to improvised explosive devices
DEI in Action: New Orleans FBI Special Agent with Nose Ring Says Two Improvised Explosive Devices “Not a Terrorist Event”
- Gateway Pundit headline
The people on both sides of the Taiwan Strait are one family. No one can sever our family bonds, and no one can stop the historical trend of national reunification.
- Chinese President Xi Jinping in his New Years speech insinuating that China is going to try to take back Taiwan, something that most people in Taiwan oppose
Hey, look, I wish him well. He had a chance to do it in the debate. And that didn’t work out too well for him.
- President-elect Donald Trump when asked by a reporter about the report that Biden thinks he would have beaten Trump
Today, Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau announced his resignation. He resigned at 11 a.m. He’s just like all of us — he got back from vacation, then after one hour of work, he was, like, “I’m out.”
- Jimmy Fallon
In Canada today, Prime Minister Justin Trudeau announced that after nine years in office, he will step down to focus full-time on being handsome.
-Jimmy Kimmel
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– Statement by Allstate CEO Tom Wilson after 15 people were slaughtered in an ISIS terrorist attack in New Orleans on New Years
Allstate CEO Explains If Americans Were Nicer, Islamists Wouldn’t Have to Murder Them
- Babylon Bee
We’re going to be changing the name of the Gulf of Mexico to the Gulf of America, which has a beautiful ring. That covers a lot of territory. The Gulf of America. What a beautiful name. And it’s appropriate.
- President-elect Donald Trump at a press conference
I might be the oldest president, but I know more world leaders than any one of you have ever met in your whole [gosh darn] life.
- President Joe Biden’s odd response when asked by a reporter about Trump’s immigration policies
They say we’re going to have a smooth transition. All they do is talk. It’s all talk. Everything they do is talk, “We’re going to have a smooth transition.” And then they take 625 million acres, and they essentially landmark it, so you can’t ever drill there again. Well, we’re going to be drilling soon.
- President-elect Donald Trump at his press conference commenting about Biden signing an executive action on Monday that will ban future offshore oil and gas development in parts of the Pacific and Atlantic oceans
Meta Says Fact-Checkers Were the Problem. Fact-Checkers Rule that False.
- New York Times headline about Meta’s new rules
I’d like to offer whoever wrote this headline at The New York Times a job at @TheBabylonBee.
- Kyle Mann, editor-in-chief of The Babylon Bee, in response
There’s a lot of talk about Greenland, for example. And I know there’s a lot of freak-outs, you know, and of course I would never support taking it by force. But I do think it’s a responsible conversation if they were open to acquiring it and, you know, whether just buying it outright.
- Sen. John Fetterman (D-PA) on Fox News commenting on Trump’s call for the U.S. to purchase Greenland
[Trump] hasn’t even taken office in two weeks. And, you know, we really need to pace ourselves if we’re going to freak out over every last tweet or every last conversation or press conference. - Ibid.
Biden Issues Imminent Terrorist Threat Warning Due To the 11 Terrorists He Just Released From Prison
- Babylon Bee headline
Political Crossfire
The 10 Best Things Biden Did in 2024
By Marc A. Thiessen
As the Joe Biden era comes to a close, I once again offer my annual lists of the 10 best and 10 worst things the president did in the past year (a tradition I started in the first term of Donald Trump and will continue in the second). In the spirit of the season, I will lead off with the best.
10. He helped get NATO allies to spend more on our collective defense. At the 75th anniversary NATO summit in Washington, NATO announced that non-U. S. members were projected to spend $510 billion more on defense this year than they did in 2016. Of course, $400 billion of that increase was due to commitments made during Trump’s first presidency (while much of the rest can be attributed to Russian President Vladimir Putin’s invasion of Ukraine). Still, presidents get credit for what happens on their watch, and on Biden’s watch, the number of allies meeting their commitment to spend 2 percent of GDP on defense rose to an all-time high of 23. Biden also gets full credit for welcoming Sweden as a new member this year, an achievement that strengthened the alliance.
9. He killed the top Islamic State commander in Iraq. Biden launched an Aug. 29 raid that devastated the group’s top leadership in Iraq, killing its top commander, Ahmad Hamid Husayn Abd-alJalil al-Ithawi, and its top bombmaker, Abu Ali al-Tunisi (who had a $5 million bounty from the U.S. government on his head). He also launched a raid that killed Mushtaq Jawad Kazim al-Jawari, the leader of an Iranian-backed militia in Iraq responsible for planning and carrying out attacks against American personnel.
8. He imposed new restrictions on the sale of advanced chip technology to China. For the third time
in his presidency, Biden imposed new prohibitions on the sale of chips and specialized machinery to make cutting edge chips to China. He also added more than 140 Chinese entities to a restricted trade list, with the goal of stopping Beijing from producing its own advanced chips that can be used for cyberattacks, new military technology to threaten the United States and its allies, and surveillance systems to repress the Chinese people.
7. He sent the largest package of military aid to Taiwan ever. In September, Biden approved $567 million in new security assistance to Taiwan – the largest such package to date, significantly outpacing the $345 million package sent in 2023 – sending the aid directly from U.S. stockpiles, the speediest method of delivery. Biden also signed legislation in April that included $1.9 billion to replenish military materiel provided to Taiwan and $2 billion in Foreign Military Financing (FMF) for Taiwan and other Indo-Pacific allies, a program normally reserved for sovereign nations.
6. He strengthened the U.S.-Japan alliance to counter China. Biden hosted Prime Minister Fumio Kishida for a state visit and announced “the most significant upgrade of our alliance since it was first established” – including the formation of a joint defense council, a new “Joint Force” operational headquarters led by a three-star commander, joint military exercises with Britain, and new trilateral military cooperation between the U.S., Japan and the Philippines, with Japanese warships patrolling the waters off of the Philippines for the first time. The strengthening of our Pacific alliances will be among his most enduring legacies.
5. He secured passage of nearly $32 billion in military aid to
Ukraine. The arms package ensured that Donald Trump will not inherit a military disaster in Ukraine when he takes office. Biden also sent U.S. antipersonnel land mines to Ukraine to stop the advance of Russian troops, belatedly delivered F-16 fighter jets and long-range Army Tactical Missile System (ATACMS) to Kyiv – and, in his final weeks in office, finally allowed Ukraine to use the missiles to strike Russian territory (from which Russian forces had been targeting Ukrainian civilians, troops and critical infrastructure with impunity). He also successfully pushed the Group of Seven to approve using Russian frozen sovereign assets to support Ukraine.
4. He defended Israel from the air with U.S. fighter aircraft. When Iran attacked Israel in April, Biden deployed U.S. fighter pilots over the skies of Jordan and Saudi Arabia to defend Israel, shooting down 80 attack drones and six ballistic missiles before they reached Israeli airspace. U.S. forces coordinated with Israel to repel another Iranian attack in October. Biden also deployed the Terminal High Altitude Area Defense (THAAD) missile defense system to Israel to combat the missile threat from Iran and its terrorist proxies. The U.S. military used THAAD in combat for the first time on Friday to intercept a ballistic missile fired by Houthi rebels in Yemen.
3. He signed legislation to ban TikTok. The Chinese-owned social media app has more than 170 million American users, giving the Chinese Communist Party the ability to collect unprecedented reams of information on them, including search and browsing histories, keystroke
patterns and biometric identifiers, faceprints and voiceprints, passwords, location data, and message drafts. The bill Biden signed would ban TikTok in the United States if its Chinese parent company does not sell it to a company that isn’t Chinese within a year.
2. He began the mass deportation of illegal immigrants. Biden unleashed the worst border crisis in American history, while dramatically reducing deportations to just 59,011 in his first year in office. But in year four, he finally reversed course – increasing deportations to 271,484, the highest level since 2014. He also implemented new rules that sharply restrict asylum claims, causing illegal border crossings to plunge in 2024 – all without any additional authorities or resources from Congress, which shows that the Biden border crisis was a crisis of choice all along.
1. He finally decided not to run for a second term. To anyone who watched Biden falling asleep during his meeting with world leaders in Angola or read the Wall Street Journal ’s stunning exposé on how the White House functioned with a cognitively diminished president, it was obvious he was not capable of serving four more years in office. Biden took far too long to act (and only did so when his hand was forced by Democrats panicking over his disastrous debate performance), but he eventually did the right thing and stood down.
In my next column, I will review the 10 worst things Biden has done this year.
Political Crossfire
The 10 Worst Things Biden Did in 2024
By Marc A. Thiessen
President Joe Biden’s final year in office was a disastrous capstone to a catastrophic presidency. In my last column, I offered my list of the 10 best things Biden and his administration did in the past year. Here are the 10 worst. It was hard to pick just 10.
10. He withheld critical weapons from Israel. Bending to pressure from his left-wing base, Biden blocked delivery of 2,000-pound MK84 bombs that Congress approved, and slow-rolled others, including 500-pound MK82 bombs and other weapons. These delays and Biden’s pressure on Israel not to carry out an offensive in Rafah (where the Israel Defense Forces found and killed Hamas leader Yahya Sinwar in October) helped drag out the war.
9. He wasted billions of taxpayer dollars on failed green-energy giveaways. As of November, his administration had delivered just 93 trucks after Congress provided $3 billion to buy electric vehicles for the U.S. Postal Service, and the administration had completed only about 200 charging stations in two years from a $7.5 billion program. The Trump administration should repeal Biden’s climate spending and use it to cut taxes on tips for working Americans.
8. He failed to punish the International Criminal Court. Prosecutor Karim Khan not only indicted the Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, he threatened to prosecute members of Congress who pushed back on the ICC’s illegitimate actions. Yet unlike Trump, who as president imposed sanctions on the
ICC for its investigations, Biden imposed no costs on the body, opposing sanctions in Congress and adding none of his own.
7. He broke his promise not to support court-packing. After telling Americans he was “not a fan” of the idea to add extra justices to the Supreme Court, Biden announced his support for a scheme that was court-packing by another name, in which he would negate Supreme Court justices’ constitutionally mandated lifetime appointments and replace them with 18-year “term limits.”
6. He and his administration engaged in a coverup of his cognitive decline. The White House repeatedly misled the American people about Biden’s mental fitness – assuring them, in Vice President Kamala Harris’s words, that the president was “vibrant,” “tireless” and “absolutely authoritative in rooms around the globe” – only to have those falsehoods exposed by a single debate performance. If Biden and his aides had been honest sooner, Democrats could have held a competitive primary and picked a more capable and appealing nominee.
5. He broke his promise not to pardon his son. NBC reported the deception was intentional, and that following Hunter’s conviction in June “it was decided … he would publicly say he would not pardon his son even though doing so remained on the table.” Biden justified his reversal by claiming that “raw politics has infected this process and it led to a miscarriage of justice” – essentially accusing his own Justice Department of engaging
in politicized prosecutions and validating Trump’s critique that his administration was weaponizing the justice system.
4. He halted the federal executions of serial killers, child molesters and a cop killer. Biden, who is Catholic, said that he was “guided by my conscience” to grant clemency to 37 federal death-row inmates who had committed horrific crimes. But he made support for abortion the centerpiece of his reelection campaign (before he dropped out). The president has it backward: The Catholic Church teaches the death penalty is a matter of “prudential judgment” while abortion is an “intrinsically evil” act.
3. He called Trump supporters “garbage.” Biden claimed afterward that he misspoke, but his plain words were clear: “The only garbage I see floating out there is [Trump’s] supporters.” Biden came to office promising to put his “whole soul” into “bringing America together.” Instead, he compared Republicans to racists and traitors, called them “semi-fascist” and “enemies” of America.
2. He broke his promise to avenge the Abbey Gate bombing. After the 2021 suicide bombing at the Kabul airport’s Abbey Gate killed 13 U.S. service members and injured 45 more, Biden warned: “We will not forgive. We will not forget. We will hunt you down and make you pay.” Yet, three years later, Biden prepares to leave the presidency having done nothing to punish those responsible for the deaths of the brave Americans who gave their lives carrying out his catastrophic retreat in Afghanistan.
1. He continued to slow-roll weapons to Ukraine with no strategy for victory. Biden didn’t provide Ukraine with long-range Army Tactical Missile System (ATACMS) missiles until April last year or F-16 fighter jets until July, and he did not to let Ukraine strike Russian territory with longer-range weapons until November - and this on top of sclerotic delays in providing Stinger and Javelin missiles, High Mobility Artillery Rocket Systems (HIMARS), Patriot air defense systems and M1 Abrams tanks. If Biden had given Ukraine all these weapons in 2022, when Russia was on its heels after failing to take Kyiv, Ukraine might have won the war long ago.
Other disastrous Biden policies that did not make the top 10: He allowed the Houthis to continue firing at U.S. military ships and commercial vessels in the Red Sea with virtual impunity; he continued to preside over net cuts in defense spending that have let our defense industrial base atrophy; he allowed U.S. forces to get kicked out of Niger, a major setback for U.S. counterterrorism operations in Africa and a victory for Russia; and he issued a shameful new National Security Memorandum (NSM-20) as a sop to the anti-Israel left of his party.
Taken together, my four annual lists of Biden’s worst actions in office tell the story of the worst presidency in my lifetime. January 20 cannot come soon enough.
Political Crossfire Emeralds for Sale
The Taliban Look Below Ground to Revive the Economy
By David Zucchino
BAZARAK, Afghanistan — In a chilly auditorium in Afghanistan, heaps of freshly mined green emeralds glowed under bright table lamps as bearded gemstone dealers inspected them for purity and quality.
An auctioneer asked for bids on the first lot, which weighed 256 carats. With that, the Taliban’s weekly gemstone auction was underway.
These sales, in the emerald-rich Panjshir province of eastern Afghanistan, are part of an effort by the Taliban government to cash in on the country’s vast mineral and gemstone potential.
Since seizing power in August 2021, the Taliban say they have signed deals with scores of investors to mine gemstones, gold, copper, iron and other valuable minerals, like chromite. These buried treasures offer a potentially lucrative lifeline for a feeble economy.
China has led the way in Afghan investments through its Belt and Road Initiative, an aggressive effort to spread
Chinese influence worldwide. Russian and Iranian investors have also signed mining licenses, filling the void left by the chaotic U.S. withdrawal from Afghanistan in 2021.
The U.S. government estimates that at least $1 trillion in mineral deposits lie beneath Afghanistan’s rugged landscape.
The country is rich in copper, gold, zinc, chromite, cobalt, lithium and industrial minerals, as well as in precious and semi-precious gemstones such as emeralds, rubies, sapphires, garnets and lapis lazuli.
Afghanistan also holds a trove of rare earth elements, according to the Office of the Special Inspector General for Afghanistan Reconstruction, a U.S. agency that will close this year. Such elements are used in an array of modern technology, like mobile phones, laptops and electric vehicles.
The Taliban are trying to do what the United States could not during its 20year occupation. The U.S. government
spent nearly a billion dollars to develop mining projects in Afghanistan, but “tangible progress was negligible and not sustained,” the special inspector general concluded in a report published in January 2023.
Many of the hurdles from that time could still apply: a lack of security, poor infrastructure, corruption, inconsistent government policies and regulations, and frequent turnover of government officials.
The Taliban are nonetheless giving it a shot, desperate for revenue after Afghanistan’s precipitous loss of aid with the U.S. withdrawal.
During the war, the United States provided roughly $143 billion in development and humanitarian aid to Afghanistan, propping up the U.S.-aligned government. Since 2021, the United States has given $2.6 billion in such aid, delivered by a private contractor in shrink-wrapped cash bundles on flights to Kabul, according to the special inspector general.
The Afghan economy has shrunk by
26% over the past two years, the World Bank reported in April. The sharp decline in international aid, the bank said, has left Afghanistan “without any internal engines of growth.”
On top of that, the Taliban’s ban on opium production has cost farmers $1.3 billion in income, or 8% of Afghanistan’s gross domestic product, the World Bank said. The ban has led to the loss of 450,000 jobs and reduced land under poppy cultivation by 95%, the U.N. Office on Drugs and Crime reported.
Mining could help replace poppies as a steady revenue stream. Turkey and Qatar, along with China and Iran, have invested in iron, copper, gold and cement mines. Uzbek companies have signed deals to extract oil in northern Afghanistan, according to the Ministry of Mines and Petroleum.
The Taliban are already collecting tax from emerald sales.
Under the previous government, the emerald trade was a corrupt free-for-all.
Warlords and politically connected dealers dominated the trade, and tax collection was haphazard at best. But as the Taliban government has instituted the weekly emerald auctions, it has controlled and taxed all sales. Dealers who buy emeralds at the auctions do not receive the gems until they pay the 10% levy.
The Taliban are taxing other precious stones as well, including rubies and sapphires.
Rahmatullah Sharifi, a gemstone dealer who bought two sets of emeralds at the auction, said he didn’t mind paying the tax.
“The government needs the money to develop the country,” he said. “The question is: Will they spend it on helping the Afghan people?”
In Panjshir province, where most Afghan emeralds are mined, the government has issued 560 emerald licenses to foreign and Afghan investors, said Hamayoon Afghan, a spokesperson for the Ministry of Mines and Petroleum.
The ministry has also granted licenses to mine rubies in Panjshir and Kabul Provinces, Afghan said, and plans are underway for emerald and precious stone licenses in three other provinces.
But many new licenses are for mines
that have yet to open. And many existing mines are hobbled by poor infrastructure and a dearth of experienced engineers and other technical experts.
Afghan conceded that the country needs more engineers and technicians.
Foreign investors bring in experienced
ed his shop’s door, closed the curtains and unlocked an ancient safe. He withdrew several caches of emeralds and rubies, each one wrapped in a plain white sheet of paper.
Ghazi’s largest set of emeralds was worth perhaps $250,000, he said. he
The U.S. government estimates that at least $1 trillion in mineral deposits lie beneath Afghanistan’s rugged landscape.
experts, he said, and they are obligated under licenses to employ Afghans and teach them technical and engineering skills.
Most of the emeralds bought at the weekly auctions are resold to foreign buyers, dealers said. Among the dealers buying emeralds one day in November was Haji Ghazi, who sells gemstones from a tiny cell-like room within a darkened warren of shops in downtown Kabul.
Two days after the auction, Ghazi bolt-
estimated that a much smaller cache of bright rubies was worth $20,000.
In a corner, Ghazi had piled heavy chunks of rock bearing thick blue veins of lapis lazuli, a semi-precious stone. Much of the world’s supply of lapis is mined in northern Afghanistan.
Ghazi sells most of his gemstones to buyers from the United Arab Emirates, India, Iran and Thailand. He said he missed the days, before the Taliban takeover, when the occupation brought eager
buyers from the United States, Britain, France, Germany and Australia.
In an adjacent shop, Azizullah Niyazi switched on a desk lamp to illuminate a collection of lapis lazuli, rubies, sapphires and emeralds spread across a small table. he was still awaiting his first customer of the morning.
Niyazi said sales were not as robust as during the 13 years he was allowed to sell gemstones one day a week from a small shop on a U.S. coalition military base. his profits soared as soldiers and civilian contractors lined up to buy gemstones every Friday — and they rarely haggled over prices, unlike Afghan or Arab buyers, he said. he paid a 7% tax on his profits, he said.
These days, Niyazi must travel to increase sales: He said he had opened a shop in China, where he makes regular visits. In Kabul, he sells to buyers from Dubai and United Arab Emirates, as well as from Pakistan, Iran and a handful of other countries.
He has few Afghan customers.
“Not many Afghans can afford to pay $1,000 or $2,000 for a stone to make a ring,” he said with a shrug.
© The New York Times
Political Crossfire Islamic State’s Mastery of Media and Message Radicalizes Globally
By Alissa J. Rubin
The Islamic State group has lost thousands of fighters to death or prison and suffered the demise of its self-declared caliphate in Iraq and Syria. But the global reach of the group, also known as ISIS, is still vast, in part because of its sophisticated media output and the people around the world who consume it.
On New Year’s Day, a man with an Islamic State flag killed at least 14 people when he drove into a crowd in New Orleans. Authorities say there was no evidence that the man, Shamsud-Din Jabbar, had active connections to the terrorist group. But the FBI said, “He was 100% inspired by ISIS.”
It is not yet clear which specific online content Jabbar may have seen or how else he may have been radicalized. Experts noted that the placement of the flag on the truck resembled one depicted by the Islamic State in a media campaign urging followers to “run them over without mercy.” And, authorities said, he posted several videos to his Facebook account before his attack in which he pledged allegiance to the group.
State newsletter — the group that wants to force all Muslims to adhere strictly to the faith’s earliest teachings has a very modern media strategy.
“Terrorism is essentially communications,” said Hans-Jakob Schindler, a former United Nations diplomat who is the senior director of the Counter Extremism Project, a think tank with offices in New York and Berlin. “It is not warfare, because obviously, ISIS cannot militarily defeat the West, right? They tried, and it didn’t exactly end well.”
A Terrorist Newsletter
How did the Islamic State group keep its influence alive? In part, by transforming its movement into a global franchise beyond the Middle East, with active chapters in Afghanistan, Somalia, Mali, Congo, the Caucuses and Turkey, among other places.
But the glue that holds the disparate branches together — and also helps to inspire “lone wolf” terrorists such as Jabbar who carry out their own attacks — is the Islamic State’s sophisticated media operation. Experts say that although it is doubtful that the media operation has a physical headquarters, it
is highly centralized and controlled by its media directorate. Much of its output appears to come from affiliates in Africa, which have recently been the most active in terms of attacks.
The group also puts out an online weekly newsletter called Al Naba, or The News, which contains details of the group’s latest exploits, implicitly encouraging followers to commit acts of violence.
“The Al Naba newsletter comes out like clockwork every Thursday, which is one of the more impressive things that the group is able to do,” said Cole Bunzel, a scholar of militant Islam in the Middle East at the Hoover Institution at Stanford University in California.
“They have an editorial; they cover the different provinces, as they’re called; they cover attacks from that week. They tally up the number of attacks and casualties that they claim. And that’s the main way that they stay connected with their global support base,” he said.
The most recent edition of the newsletter, published Thursday, did not mention the New Orleans attack, and the Islamic State has not claimed responsibility for it.
Al Naba was initially published through the messaging app Telegram and other platforms, constantly adapting as different channels were shut down, said Aaron Zelin, a Washington Institute fellow who has tracked the activities and propaganda of Islamist groups for more than 15 years.
Supporters of the group have also disseminated messages on Twitter, Facebook pages and other social media platforms, according to researchers. When their user profiles are blocked, they often just create new ones. The Islamic State has used decentralized internet tools that are harder to shut down and moved some of its messaging to the dark web, Zelin said.
Terrorism analysts say it has been easy for extremists to connect with potential supporters on social media because of the lack of effort both by some of the companies that operate the platforms and by governments to force a crackdown.
Schindler said that, in light of the New Orleans attack, both political parties should ask: “Why is this massive industry with these profits not helping our security services to prevent such attacks? Why do we not get a tip, as we
do from the banks and every financial institution in North America and worldwide, that there is a terrorist here, or a tip that there’s a radicalization process going on?”
Terrorism experts say the Islamic State group’s mastery of media and message is a key to its success. Al-Qaida, which the Islamic State split from in 2013, laid the groundwork, publishing online and print magazines and producing videos as well as social media.
“Kill Them Wherever You Find Them”
Last January, the extremist group revived a campaign directed at its global adherents: “kill them wherever you find them,” a reference to a verse in the Quran.
The idea, which first surfaced in 2015, was to encourage would-be followers to commit acts of jihad at home rather than traveling to Iraq and Syria. That notion became even more important once the caliphate was defeated.
During the period when the Islamic State group held ground in Syria and then Iraq (2013-17) and was eager to
gain adherents in the West, it was notorious for posting grisly depictions of violence, such as the beheading of photojournalist James Wright Foley.
Now, experts say an increasingly daunting challenge is that social media platforms are doing much of the work of spreading the Islamic State’s message, as algorithms that seek to boost engagement take some users deeper and deep -
this happens to be Islamic extremism or if you are in the radicalization process, your worldview shifts.”
On the Ground in Syria
In Syria, where the Islamic State group took advantage of a long civil war to seize a large swath of territory, only to lose it eventually to U.S.-backed fighters, the
“The Al Naba newsletter comes out like clockwork every Thursday, which is one of the more impressive things that the group is able to do.”
er into the extremist worldview.
“Terror groups don’t have to make a ton of effort to radicalize people anymore; the algorithm does it for them,” Schindler said. “The point of the algorithm is to keep the user on the platform, to give them what they like, and if
group has begun to rebound, accelerating its attacks. That trend might continue, because the regime of President Bashar Assad was suddenly toppled in December by another extremist group, Hayat Tahrir al-Sham, which was once associated with the Islamic State and al-Qaida.
The situation is still fluid, but some analysts fear that the Islamic State group could regain ground amid the chaos. The group’s newsletter has spoken dismissively of Hayat Tahrir al-Sham as “jihadists turned politicians,” but has not called for attacks on them.
Meanwhile, Hayat Tahrir al-Sham and other rebel groups say they should take over the role of guarding Islamic State prisoners in eastern Syria and manage the camps holding about 40,000 Islamic State fighters and family members — a job that has been done for nearly five years by the Kurdish-led Syrian Defense Forces, backed by the United States. Many terrorism experts question how Hayat Tahrir al-Sham, which once had links to the Islamic State group but then bitterly separated, might carry out the mission of suppressing it.
The Islamic State recently renewed its “Breaking the Walls” media campaign, which encourages the imprisoned fighters to break out of the jails in eastern Syria and free their families. If that succeeds, Zelin said, it would be a “disaster.”
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Liri Albag, one of five female IDF soldiers still being held hostage in Gaza, was the subject of Hamas’s most recently released video. The video of Liri alive was filmed on January 1. Available online on pro-Hamas websites, it shows the 19-year-old in emotional distress, shaking at times, as she begged for her life.
The hostages have been held in Gaza for 457 days. And the question of why they are still there, why has Israel been unable to bring them home, gets asked with increased frustration and alarm every day from all quarters.
On Saturday, we received an answer to that question. Shortly after news broke of the release of the video of Liri Albag, The New York Times published an interview with outgoing U.S. Secretary of State Tony Blinken. Blinken said that Hamas has refused to agree to release the hostages in exchange for a ceasefire for two reasons.
In his words, “There have been two major impediments, and they both go to what drives Hamas. One has been whenever there has been public daylight between the United States and Israel and the perception that pressure was growing on Israel, we’ve seen it: Hamas has pulled back from agreeing to a ceasefire and the release of hostages.
“The other thing that got Hamas to pull back was their belief, their hope that there would be a wider conflict, that Hezbollah would attack Israel, that Iran would attack Israel, that other actors would attack Israel, and that Israel would have its hands full and Hamas could continue what it was doing.”
Under harsh questioning from the Times’ anti-Israel reporter Lulu Garcia-Navarro, Blinken revealed that U.S. pressure on Israel began immediately after Oct. 7, 2023, and became a central feature of U.S. policy in relation to the war from its very earliest days. From the outset, the provision of unlimited supplies to Gaza—euphemistically referred to as
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humanitarian aid—has been the constant focus of U.S. pressure on Israel.
Almost immediately after the Oct. 7 invasion, then-Defense Minister Yoav Gallant announced a siege of Gaza. The move was self-explanatory. The Gazans had taken 256 Israelis hostage into Gaza. So long as they weren’t released, Gaza would remain under siege. Siege warfare has long been considered one of the most humane, least destructive forms of warfare, and it is legal under the laws of war.
The Biden administration would have none of it. Blinken described how he compelled Israel to resupply Hamas from day one of the war.
“We’ve said from Day 1 that how Israel does that matters. And throughout, starting on Day 1, we tried to ensure that people had what they needed to get by. The very first trip that I made to Israel five days after Oct. 7, I spent with my team nine hours in the IDF’s headquarters in Tel Aviv, six stories underground with the Israeli government, including the prime minister, including arguing for hours on end about the basic proposition that the humanitarian assistance needed to get to Palestinians in Gaza.
“And that was an argument that took place, because you had in Israel in the days after Oct. 7 a totally traumatized
society. This wasn’t just the prime minister or a given leader in Israel. This was an entire society that didn’t want any assistance getting to a single Palestinian in Gaza. I argued that for nine hours.
“President Biden was planning to come to Israel a few days later. And in the course of that argument, when I was getting resistance to the proposition of humanitarian assistance getting in, I told the prime minister, ‘I’m going to call the president and tell him not to come if you don’t allow this assistance to start flowing.’ And I called the president to make sure that he agreed with that, and he fully did. We got the agreement to begin assistance through Rafah, which we expanded to Kerem Shalom and many other places.”
So, to fend off an assault from an anti-Israel reporter, Blinken explained that President Joe Biden wouldn’t visit Israel until Israel capitulated to Blinken’s demand that it feed and water the people of Gaza who supported Hamas’s decision to take 256 Israeli children, babies, women and men hostage. Blinken also admitted that the reason that the 100 hostages are still in Gaza is that Hamas perceives the administration as pressuring Israel to capitulate to Hamas.
Blinken could have added that by demanding that Israel feed the people
of Gaza, he and Biden removed any fear Hamas leaders might have had that the people would overthrow them. Unconcerned with that prospect, Hamas felt no pressure to release the hostages.
It bears noting that when Blinken arrived on Oct. 12, 2023, Israel still didn’t know how many of its citizens had been taken hostage. It still didn’t have a clear assessment of how many people were dead. Hundreds of victims had yet to be identified due to Hamas’s mutilation and destruction of their bodies. Just last week, Israelis learned that half of the 1,200 Israelis butchered that day were beheaded.
What was most notable about Blinken’s admission was that he didn’t appear to believe that there was anything wrong with the policies he imposed on Israel. Many military leaders have argued persuasively that had Blinken and Biden left Israel to pursue its siege strategy, combined with airstrikes, Israel could have fomented Hamas’s capitulation, or at least its surrender of the hostages, by the end of 2024. While Blinken’s statements indicated that he is at least in partial agreement with that assessment, he gave no indication that he felt remorse for the devastating impact his policies have had on the hostages or for the fact that those policies are a primary reason that the war is still ongoing.
The question is whether his assessment will impact his actions in his last two weeks in office.
Last week, Michael Doran, senior fellow and director at the Hudson Institute and a former member of the U.S. National Security Council, told Dr. Gadi Taub on their Israeli Update podcast that the Biden administration intends to use its allegation that Israel is not providing sufficient supplies to Gaza to permanently undermine Israel’s international position. Doran explained that the administration intends to use Section 620(i) of the Foreign Assistance Act, which asserts “that any country that is blocking U.S.
humanitarian aid will have its military assistance cut off,” against Israel.
Seemingly backing up Doran, in his interview with The New York Times , Blinken alluded to a letter that he and Secretary of Defense Lloyd Austin sent their Israeli interlocutors in early October alleging that Israel had violated Section 620(i).
Doran said, “The January surprise is that there will be an official finding by the State Department that Israel is in violation of 620(i). It’s blocking humanitarian aid to Gaza, and then what will happen is that the president will waive the penalties for blocking of the humanitarian aid, but there will have been an official American finding.”
That finding, Doran explained, will be used as the basis of a U.N. Security Council resolution put forward by Algeria or Slovenia. It will also be used by the International Criminal Court, the European Union and other bodies to strike out at Israel.
Later last week, Channel 14 reported that the administration is enabling a resolution to be put forward at the U.N. Security Council that would require Israel to withdraw from Gaza and perhaps from Lebanon and Syria. The idea is that
other Security Council members would put forward the resolution and the U.S. will permit it to pass by abstaining, as the Obama administration abstained from Resolution 2334, which passed in the Security Council in December 2016, after President-elect Donald Trump was elected to his first term in office. That resolution declared all Israeli communities
national forces that have not held Hamas responsible for the suffering it has caused and continues to cause.
In his words, “One of the things that I found a little astounding throughout is that for all of the understandable criticism of the way Israel has conducted itself in Gaza, you hear virtually nothing from anyone since Oct. 7 about Hamas. Why
“I told the prime minister, ‘I’m going to call the president and tell him not to come if you don’t allow this assistance to start flowing.’”
in eastern Jerusalem, Judea and Samaria illegal.
Doran shared that there are two camps in the administration regarding the planned move. Many senior officials support moving forward. However, several senior officials oppose the move. He said that the ultimate decision will be made by Blinken.
Towards the end of his interview with the Times, Blinken lashed out at the inter-
there hasn’t been a unanimous chorus around the world for Hamas to put down its weapons, to give up the hostages, to surrender—I don’t know what the answer is to that. Israel, on various occasions, has offered safe passage to Hamas’s leadership and fighters out of Gaza. Where is the world? Where is the world, saying, ‘Yeah, do that! End this! Stop the suffering of people that you brought on!’”
The obvious answer is because
Blinken himself has devoted most of his energies to pressuring and castigating Israel.
Perhaps Blinken’s interview was a signal that he will not go forward with the plan that his subordinates have developed to subject Israel to a Security Council resolution and to further criminalization it at The Hague. Perhaps it was nothing more than an effort to rebuild his ties to the anti-Israel camp as he leaves office. Time will tell.
In the meantime, and not knowing how Blinken will act, the only way to avoid what Doran referred to as a “January surprise,” and facilitate the speedy release of Liri Albag and the other 99 hostages, is for the incoming Trump administration to apply massive pressure on Britain and France to veto any such resolution in the Security Council and to threaten Slovenia and Algeria with sanction if they advance the resolution in question.
Liri Albag’s video, like others that Hamas has released in recent weeks, is a reminder (if one was necessary) of why Hamas must be eradicated. Blinken’s interview was proof that the Biden administration has been the single greatest obstacle to the release of the hostages and the eradication of Hamas. (JNS)
Forgotten Her es 2024 Israeli Operations
By Avi Heiligman
Author’s note: Due to space constraints, we can’t talk about all operations. Missions like killing Sinwar and the pager operation were discussed in previous articles relating to the Israeli military in 2024.
Israel is currently fighting its longest war since its war of independence in 1948.
In response to the Hamas terrorist attack on October 7, 2023, Israeli forces invaded Gaza. In the subsequent months, the war expanded to fighting Hezbollah in Lebanon, invading parts of Syria after the fall of the Syrian government, and defending against and attacking Iran and the Houthis in Yemen. With the fighting on so many fronts, there have been numerous operations and missions that have put the terrorists and Iran in an offensive position. Here are some more of the Israeli operations and heroes from the past year.
Last January, reports coming from the IDF stated that Israel was using the method of pumping seawater into tunnels as a way to reduce the effect of terrorist activity in Gaza. Combat engineers identified certain tunnel systems that wouldn’t damage the surrounding area when pumped full of seawater. This was a much easier method of disabling a tunnel than filling it up with cement and is an alternative to using explosives. According to intelligence reports, these tunnels were determined not to have housed any of the hostages. The operation eventually ended, but from reports, it seems that using explosives is much more effective in achieving the desired results.
Rescuing hostages is very risky, and only seven were successfully set free in 2024 during IDF operations. Tragically, several other hostages were brutally murdered by terrorists. In February, two Argentine-Israeli citizens, Fernando Marman and Luis Har, were successfully rescued in a joint IDF, Yamam and Shin-Bet operation. Called Operation Golden Hand, it took place in the middle of the night after the IDF received reports of their whereabouts in Rafah. The Israelis forced their way into the building where the hostages were being held by using explosives to breach a door. At least eight terrorists were killed in the operation, and only one Israeli soldier was injured. Simultaneously, coordinated airstrikes began in the area that killed dozens more terrorists. The freed hostages were flown by helicopter to Israel where they started their recovery from their horrific ordeal.
Iranian operatives were active on all fronts of the war, and Israel targeted one particular Syrian man who was monitoring IDF troop movements on the Syrian-Israeli border. If captured alive, Ali Suleiman al-Asi could potentially provide them with vital intelligence. Anti-guerilla commando unit Egoz conducted the raid on July 18 and took the terrorist into custody without any casualties. The IDF said of his capture that they “prevented and disrupted a future attack and led to the exposure of the modus operandi of Iranian entities on the Golan Heights front.”
Others with ties to terrorist organiza-
tions were also the subject of Israeli raids. In November, Shayetet 13 captured a senior member of Hezbollah’s naval unit.
Shayetet 13 was very busy in 2024. In March, it was part of the force that surrounded Shifa Hospital in Gaza in just 12 minutes. At least 200 terrorists were killed, hundreds more were taken prisoner, and a large amount of weapons and intelligence material was confiscated.
During the last week of 2024, the IDF conducted operations in the Jabalia area of northern Gaza that resulted in over 100 dead terrorists. Hamas has been trying to recruit new members to bolster their thinning ranks, but these new terrorists are not having much success against experienced Israeli soldiers. Groups of armed Hamas members were trying to escape but fell into carefully prepared IDF ambushes.
The air force took part in many raids including retaliatory missions over Iran, eliminating high-ranking terrorists in Lebanon and Gaza, and striking Houthi targets in Yemen. The attacks on Yemen and Iran were in response to missiles and drones being used to attack Israel. In July, the air force undertook one of their longest ever missions and bombed a Yemini port, inflicting heavy damage to the Houthi base. On October 6, Israeli planes first targeted Iranian radar systems and put them out of commission. The next two waves struck at Iranian missile production facilities, launch sites, and military bases. Most of the Iranian air defenses were destroyed, and Israel used this opportunity to attack
and destroy Syrian aerial defenses. The December 19 attacks on Sanaa, Yemen, targeted Houthi infrastructure which included the destruction of eight tugboats and several power plants that were the source of energy for the ports.
This week, Israel announced responsibility for an operation in September that destroyed an underground rocket production facility. Shaldag commandos fast-roped from helicopters and took out the Iranian-run site that Israel had been monitoring for several years. Iranian Revolutionary Guards Corps operated the secret facility, and dozens of guards and terrorists were eliminated in the raid. Iranian influence in the region has suffered many setbacks, and they have lost many of their own men and proxies during Israeli operations.
2024 was a very busy year for the entire IDF. It is impractical to list all of the known missions and operations that took place in the region in addition to the ones presented in this article. Not all of their operations are declassified, but the ones that are known to the public demonstrate the IDF’s dedication to ridding the region of terrorist organizations. The heroes who serve in the IDF are constantly putting themselves in danger to protect and serve their country.
Avi Heiligman is a weekly contributor to The Jewish Home. He welcomes your comments and suggestions for future columns and can be reached at aviheiligman@gmail.com.
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