Five Towns Jewish Home - 8-23-18

August 23, 2018

Distributed weekly in the Five Towns, Long Island, Queens & Brooklyn

See page 7

Around the

Community

, l o o h c S o t k Bac e n i t u o R o t k c Ba Rabbi Yaffe: School Daze................ 72 School Lunch Survival Kit............... 82

40

Inspired Learning at Young Israel of Woodmere-Camp Kaylie Kollel

Tips for a Great Start........................ 88 Six Things Your Principal Wishes You Knew..................................................... 90

49

Hundreds Join in YOSS Concert on the Lawn Having a Ball at the Shalom Task Force Tournament

38 This Week We’re Talking to …

Camp Areivim

BACK FOR A 5TH Y EAR!

60 SEASONS LAWRENCE

330 Central Avenue, Lawrence, NY 11559

PAGE 27

Your Favorite Five Towns Family Newspaper

2

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

S I M P LY B E T T E R .

BEFORE. DURING. AFTER.

DELUXE SUKKAHS

The Largest

Selection of

Quality Sukkahs

30 years for over

GEVURAH MODULAR SUKKAHS

SUKKAH OUTLET OF QUEENS

WAREHOUSE & SHOWROOM SUKKAH OUTLET

SUKKAH OUTLET OF FIVE TOWNS

Main St. • Queens, NY

20 Brighton Avenue Passaic, NJ 07055

Central Avenue • Cedarhurst, NY

800.778.5624 COMING SOON!

973.778.5624

800.778.5624 COMING SOON!

NATIONAL SUKKAH OUTLET | 20 BRIGHTON AVENUE, PASSAIC, NJ 07055 | 973.778.5624 | SUKKAHOUTLET.COM

WORLDWIDE SHIPPING 1.800.778.5624 | PLACE YOUR ORDER TODAY!

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

3

4

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

INSPIRING JEWS ...

ONE BOOK AT A TIME

f ro m

NEW FROM RABBI PAYSACH KROHN!

Stories and practical ideas from the lectures of Rabbi Paysach Krohn Let's get motivated to...

4 Make our marriages strong and satisfying 4 Develop the talents that G-d gave us 4 Conquer our fears, raise secure children, seek perfection but accept ourselves and others the way we are… ...and live our lives to the fullest!

Rabbi Paysach Krohn’s humor, compassion, and insight come through in every word in this collection of his speeches and writings, and his fabulous stories entertain and enlighten while they motivate us to become the very best we can be.

The gross Edition

by Rabbi Ron Yitzchok Eisenman

A rabbi’s personal journey 4 A car breakdown on a dark highway leads to an unbelievable encounter…

4 A man behind the pizza counter teaches a fantastic lesson in Divine Providence…

4 A basket of laundry has the smell of Gan Eden…

PERFECT FOR ELUL!

POCKET SIZE NOW AVAILABLE!

by Rabbi David Ashear

Achieving a Life of Serenity Through Faith

Enter the world of a shul rabbi, brimming with unforgettable personalities, joyous events, and sometimes tragic misunderstandings. Rabbi Eisenman is Rav of Congregation Ahavas Israel in Passaic, New Jersey, and a renowned speaker and writer. Shul With a View is based on his popular column in Mishpacha Magazine, and includes much new material as well.

Emunah...

Believe it. Live it. Feel it!

The Living Emunah series has transformed the lives of tens of thousands of people.

The short and wise daily readings have become a vital part of their lives. They show us how emunah can change our response to something as small as a traffic jam on a busy day, or as great as a major life challenge.

4 Over 120,000 copies of this series in print!

4 Wisdom and stories from our sages to deepen our understanding of faith

Available at your local Hebrew bookseller or at www.artscroll.com • 1-800-MESORAH (637-6724)

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

THIS TUESDAY - WEDNESDAY ‫בס״ד‬

WHY ME?

It’s upto Me.

ONE

Give with Me. Every dollar matched

THIRTY SIX HOURS 08/28/18 - 08/29/18

ERY D O G IV E W IT H M E . EV

ONE

36 HOURS. 8.28.18 - 8.29.18

DOLLARS

Goal

LL AR M ATCH ED.

DOLLARS Patients ask themselves why.

You ask yourself how.

INSTEAD, TELL YOURSELF:

IT’S UP TO ME.

For patients navigating the medical world, Refuah Helpline provides connections that save lives when the seconds count.

Give with me by clicking the link below

D O N AT I O N S M AY B E M A D E B Y C L I C K I N G

CHARIDY.COM/REFUAH o r b y c a l l i n g 845.254.2221

5

6

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Dear Readers,

I

am going to be a bit sad to see the summer go. Gone are the carefree evenings, the late mornings, the flip flops and the sunscreen. When it’s summertime, you feel less guilty when the kids suck on ices as a snack or eat pizza for way too many nights for supper. Somehow, it’s more acceptable to not have dinner ready at 5 o’clock or for bedtime to slowly get delayed for an hour or two.

But come next week and we’re going to be back to routine – at least most of us! I know that my kids will be excited to start school again and greet their friends at the bus stop. Wearing crisp shirts and clean knapsacks with their sharpened pencils and bright binders, there’s an exhilarating feeling knowing that they’re standing at the beginning of a brand new year.

Wouldn’t we all love to get that feeling at more points in our lives, being able to start fresh and new?

The next few days are going to be a whirlwind of buying school supplies, uniforms, and snacks. But in between the preparations, we’re also trying to suck in as much of summer as we can, holding onto the last carefree moments of August as we spend time outdoors. I, for one, know that bedtime is going to have to get a bit more serious – that means no more late nights out or spontaneous outings to

the park after supper. And it’s not just my kids who need to head to bed earlier these days. I’m going to have to get used to getting up earlier and preparing lunches and knapsacks before I go to bed. Well, the freedom was nice while it lasted.

In this week’s issue we focus on the new school year. We have tips for starting the year off right; ideas for getting homework done in an easier, more manageable way; and suggestions for lunches that are both nutritious and delicious for your kids at school. “Six Things Your Principal Wishes You Knew” gives added insight into the partnership between the school’s administration and the parent body. The principal interviewed for that article, Mrs. S., reiterated that the key to a good year is remembering that parents, teachers, and principals are partners in your child’s success. We are all on the same team, rooting for our children, strategizing about the best way to get our children to succeed. Communication, engagement, enthusiasm and involvement are all integral to a good year. With those tactics in our pockets, we can be sure that this year will be one in which our children will thrive.

Wishing you a wonderful week, Shoshana

Yitzy Halpern PUBLISHER

publisher@fivetownsjewishhome.com

Yosef Feinerman MANAGING EDITOR

ads@fivetownsjewishhome.com

Shoshana Soroka EDITOR

editor@fivetownsjewishhome.com

Nate Davis Editorial Assistant Nechama Wein Copy Editor Berish Edelman Mati Jacobovits Design & Production Gabe Solomon Distribution & Logistics P.O. BOX 266 Lawrence, NY 11559 Phone | 516-734-0858 Fax | 516-734-0857 Classified: Deadline Monday 5PM classifieds@fivetownsjewishhome.com text 443-929-4003 The Jewish Home is an independent weekly magazine.

Opinions expressed by writers are not neces­ sarily the opinions of the publisher or editor. The Jewish Home is not responsible for typographical errors, or for the kashrus of any product or business advertised within. The Jewish Home contains words of Torah. Please treat accordingly.

Shabbos Zemanim

Weekly Weather | August 24 – August 30

Friday, August 24 Parshas Ki Seitzei 24

25

26

27

28

29

30

Sunny

Partly Cloudy

Partly Cloudy

Partly Cloudy

Partly Cloudy

Mostly Sunny

Sunny

82° 60°

78° 63°

83° 68°

88° 70°

88° 71°

88° 72°

88° 68°

Candle Lighting: 7:21 pm Shabbos Ends: 8:21 pm Rabbeinu Tam: 8:50 pm

Sponsored by

eretzhachaim.org

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

7

8

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Contents LETTERS TO THE EDITOR

8

COMMUNITY Readers’ Poll

8

Community Happenings

38

This Week We’re Talking to … Camp Areivim

60

NEWS Global

11

National

26

Odd-but-True Stories

36

ISRAEL

84

Israel News

19

World Builders

74

PEOPLE What Color was George Washington’s White Horse?

102

by Avi Heiligman PARSHA Rabbi Wein

66

Take the Battle to the Enemy by Rav Moshe Weinberger

68

JEWISH THOUGHT Faith in G-d G-d’s Faith by Eytan Kobre

70

School Daze by Rabbi Mordechai Yaffe

72

Not Just Another School Year by Rabbi Naphtali Hoff

88

HEALTH & FITNESS The Cost of Divorce by Dr. Deb Hirschhorn

80

Pack to School by Aliza Beer, MS RD

82

Back to School: The 2018 Primer by Dr. Hylton I Lightman

84

What Exactly is Neuropsychology Testing? by Laury Paul, PhD

86

FOOD & LEISURE Jerky for Dummies by Naphtali Sobel

92

The Aussie Gourmet: Cheesy Tuna Casserole

94

Dear Editor, There are wonderful girls who are in the late twenties to late thirties range of age and are a part of the Upper West Side scene. It is to be marveled at the plethora of truly wonderful young women, any of whom I’m 100% confident would make wonderful “ayshes chayilim” to any of you “choosey” Upper West Side (or Saw You at Sinai, or J-Date, or other “shidduch-not” websites that you all avail yourselves to) guys, not “ready” to (that 4 letter word) “commit” (sorry, 6 letters).

I can only imagine the point of view of a parent of daughters, that it must break their hearts when their daughter(s) call crying to them (after several dates with the same person), totally brokenhearted, that the guy just “texted” her saying, “I’m just not feeling it, but you’re a very nice girl and we can remain friends.”

Why don’t you guys take a moment and put yourself in that parents’ shoes, if you can find yourself capable of empathy? One day that parent actually may be you. Think of the intensity of that heartbreaking phone conversation with your daughter and tell me you wouldn’t agree with me?

All you “non-committal” guys ages 29 and up out there, what are you waiting for?

Open your eyes!

If you guys represent yourselves as frum young men, believing in Hashem with full emunah, you would be a lot more open-minded

and make decisions more “impulsively” (another “4” letter word) to actually commit as do your “10 year or so” younger peers married with families do.

You guys are “living in sin” in many ways, but primarily by not acknowledging that it is the Eibishter that put that girl in your life for a date in the first place, and not you, your shadchan, J-Date, Frumster, Saw You at Sinai, etc. You are living in sin by waiting for that “next” one, defying your emunah and frumkeit. You pound your chests on Yom Kippur to ask Hashem for mechila, you fasted, you spent many days at Selichos, you daven (even with a minyan) three times a day, you understand ben adam l’chaveiro, you “sell” yourself as frum maybe even machmir.

Why bother? Now if none if this really matters to you, then you needn’t read on. You’re not frum.

Sorry to break this news to you.

But if you consider yourself a yarei Shamayim, you have to take a hard second look at that wonderful girl who Hashem put next to you on your date.

And think and think again, unless she is totally/completely unacceptable to you for whatever significant reason, a “non-keeper,” like they say, then, possibly OK. But if you are already going out for 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 or more dates, and then suddenly decide “I’m just not feelContinued on page 10

LIFESTYLES Dating Dialogue, Moderated by Jennifer Mann, LCSW

76

Six Things Your Principal Wishes You Knew 90

92

Your Money

109

What a Good Idea by Rivki D. Rosenwald Esq., CLC, SDS

110

HUMOR Centerfold

64

POLITICAL CROSSFIRE Notable Quotes Brennan is a Hack by Mark Thiessen

96 100

Will What Happens in Turkey Stay in Turkey? by Robert Samuelson 101 CLASSIFIEDS

104

Have you ever flown a kite?

69

%

YES

31

%

NO

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

B R O O K LY N

LAKEWOOD

2

MONSEY

. DECADES .

A track record of

NEW PROGRAMS!

SUCCESS

APPLY NOW FOR FALL

T

LIST WAIT ONLY

LIS WAIT ONLY

BSN MSW MASTERS OF SOCIALWORK

BACHELOR oƒ SCIENCE

NURSING

PSYCHIATRIC MENTALHEALTH

NURSE PRACTITIONER MS PMH-NP

ADELPHI UNIVERSITY

FAMILY NURSE PRACTITIONER FNP

SCHOOL OF NURSING – LIU

BS/MS

OT

OCCUPATIONAL THERAPY

fall 2018 REGISTRATION BA BS

INSPIRATION . GROWTH

SEMINARY P R O G R A M

BACHELOR OF ARTS: SOCIAL SCIENCES BACHELOR OF SCIENCE: BUSINESS NATURAL SCIENCES

ONGOING REGISTRATION - CALL TODAY!

NEW YORK SEMINARY ORIENTATION:

Thurs, Aug 23

NEW JERSEY

B R O O K LY N / M O N S E Y

AU CLASSES BEGIN:

Mon, Aug 27

SEMINARY ORIENTATION BROOKLYN SITE:

SEMINARY CLASSES BEGIN:

Tues, Sept 4

Thurs, Aug 23

LAKEWOOD

GCU CLASSES BEGIN:

Sun, Aug 26

NEW! MINOR IN BUSINESS

SEMINARY CLASSES BEGIN:

Tues, Sept 4

DON’TMISSOUTONFINANCIALAIDDEADLINES Complete your application & registration today!

THE NEW SEMINARY.

DC DESIGN / 732.901.4784

Experıence a year of accomplishment THE NEW SEMINARY. DO IT QUICK. DO IT RIGHT.

y Applw no !

APPLICATION PROCESS OPEN FOR

FALL 2018

NY & NJ FINANCIAL AID AND ACADEMIC SCHOLARSHIPS AVAILABLE

N E W YO R K : 1492 EAST 12TH STREET, BROOKLYN, NY 11230 718.769.8160 f: 718.769.8640

THE New

Seminary asjv rbhnx

N E W J E R S E Y: 139 OCEAN AVENUE, LAKEWOOD, NJ 08701 732.366.3500 f : 7 3 2 . 3 6 7. 8 6 4 0

Rebbetzin Sora F. Bulka MENAHELES

Rabbi Yeshaya Levy MENAHEL

email: I N F O @ T H E N E W S E M I N A RY. O R G online: W W W.T H E N E W S E M I N A RY. O R G

9

10

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Continued from page 8

ing it,” think for a minute. Think about Hashem, think about your yiras Shamayim, think more deeply into this and make it work. Say to her, “Yes, I’d like to commit,” and in your mind always keep Hashem and your emunah in the mode of “yes, it CAN work.” I can go forth and build a bayis ne’eman with this person, which is the true point of it all.

Stop “shopping” around, and holding back on commitment. I guarantee you will not find that fantasy “better one” than what is next to you now, and you’ll just go deeper into loneliness until perhaps....it just might be too late.

Don’t be smarter than the Eibishter!

An anonymous reader, but really concerned, looking to do a shidduch crisis “modification”

Indian Head Resort in Warrensburg, NY, (near Lake George and Glens Falls), a bungalow colony with mostly NYC Jewish teachers and administrators. The parents ran the day camp and activities, and I learned to swim, play baseball, tennis, golf, and dance. We visited Fort McWilliam Henry, Ticonderoga, Story town, and later Gaslight village, Niagara Falls, and Lake Placid. The local Grand Union sold kosher products during the summer. There were farms where we picked corn, berries, fruits and vegetables I went to school at RPI in Troy, NY, 1966-71. The outing club went camping at a private island in Lake George. Students at RPI worked on projects to clean up Lake George and the Hudson River.

Regards, Ken Moskowitz

Dear Editor, Your article triggered childhood memories: I grew up in Brooklyn (Flatbush and Church Ave) in 1948-1958.

My father taught in Erasmus High School; we moved to North Woodmere in 1958. We spent summers in the Catskill hotels and bungalows, later in the Adirondack Mountains at

To The Editor, Could it be that ultra-conservative author Ann Coulter has unwittingly told us the REAL reason why Trump and the conservative-Republicans in the media and the U.S. Congress are so against accepting legal and illegal immigrants into the country and don’t want to offer citizenship to them and want them to be

deported?

Coulter has argued that the REAL reason why Democrats are so concerned about the plight of immigrants is that they believe that if they can get most of their votes one day that they will probably always win the presidency and control the Congress. Thus, the Republicans simply want to prevent this from happening.

If so, then it’s really all about votes and who will control the Presidency and the Congress.

Sincerely, Stewart B. Epstein Rochester, NY Dear Editor, To our community members: Please think of those who may be alone (e.g., singles, couples w/o children, widows, divorcees, single parents, etc.) and invite them for

Shabbos or yom tov meals. There are many yom tov days coming and it is depressing for those who are excluded during this time. Don’t assume that people have places to go for Shabbos or yom tov. Many communities have chessed committees that encourage people to call if they need a place to go for a meal. People should not have to request to be invited because it may be uncomfortable or embarrassing to do this.

Be proactive and invite people, who may be alone. When you invite these potential guests, invite them like you would any other guest. Please do not invite people by asking them if they have a place to go for Shabbos or yom tov. No one wants to feel like a chessed project.

A Concerned Community Member

Views expressed on the Letters to the Editor page do not necessarily reflect the views of The Jewish Home.

Please send all correspondence to: editor@fivetownsjewishhome.com.

Can You Answer These Estate Planning Questions?

‫בס״ד‬

How can I protect my family’s private information from being made public?

How can I protect my children’s inheritance?

Who will make my financial and medical decisions, if I can’t?

Are my parents prepared for the expense of long-term care?

You Can Get Answers To These Questions and More At www.mbinderlaw/jewish-law. Download Your FREE Report - ”7 Ways Your Family Is Vulnerable And How You Can Protect Them”.

Estate Planning, Probate, and Elder Law Planning (Medicaid), require counsel who is experienced, professional, and above all, caring. Monet Binder Law, P.C. has earned a reputation, through over 20 years in practice, for working with clients with patience, understanding and compassion, assisting them in realizing their goals to protect themselves and their loved ones, in the best way possible.

Serving Queens, Brooklyn and Long Island

Monet Binder Law, P.C. Executive Office Center 61-43 186th Street Fresh Meadows, NY 11365

Call Us for an appointment — The appointment can be at our office or your home, at your convenience:

718.514.7575

info@mbinderlaw.com www.mbinderlaw.com

All halachic documents are under the supervision of the Bais HaVaad in Lakewood.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

The Week In News

Afghans Rescue Captured Civilians

The passengers were traveling from Takhar and Badakhshan provinces in the north to Kabul to celebrate a holiday prior to this week’s attack, according to Abdul Rahman Aqtash, police chief in Takhar province. The day before, President Ashraf Ghani had proposed a holiday ceasefire, saying it would be conditional on the Taliban halting attacks.

In a message released Saturday in honor of the upcoming holiday, Taliban leader Maulvi Haibatullah Akhunzadah said there would be no peace in Afghanistan as long as the “foreign occupation” continues.

He restated that the group will only negotiate directly with the United States, which it blames for the 17year war.

Kofi Annan Dies Close to 150 hostages, including women and children, were rescued by Afghan forces on Monday just hours after being ambushed and captured by a Taliban group.

The terrorists stopped buses in the Khan Abad district of Afghanistan and ordered the passengers to come with them. Afghan forces responded quickly and were able to free 149 people and kill at least seven Taliban fighters.

The militants managed to escape with 21 captives following the battle in Kunduz province. Officials said tribal elders were already trying to negotiate their release. Esmatullah Muradi, a spokesman for the governor in the northern province, said the Taliban have demanded the national identifications of the captives to determine their fate. The identities of the captives have not been made public but they are believed to be mostly civilians.

For the last 17 years the Taliban has been at war with the U.S.-backed Afghan government, and in recent weeks attacks have increased.

Several weeks ago the terrorists attacked Ghazni, a strategic city only 75 miles from the capital, Kabul.

They seized several neighborhoods and captured security forces. It took the Afghans five days to drive them out with the help of U.S. airstrikes and advisors. At least 100 security forces and 35 civilians were killed in the attack, according to Afghan officials. The Defense Ministry said about 200 militants were killed.

Kofi Annan, the seventh secretary general of the United Nations, died at the age of 80 on Saturday after a short illness in Switzerland.

The diplomat from Ghana was regarded as a peacekeeper. He was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 2001; was the first black African to head the United Nations; and led the organization for two successive fiveyear terms beginning in 1997.

During Annan’s tenure as under-secretary-general of the UN and head of peacekeeping Annan had to deal with the Rwandan genocide of 1994. He and his team came under harsh criticism after it emerged that they ignored information that was passed down to them warning a genocide had been planned.

He addressed his failures when he visited the African country in 1998. In a speech, Annan said: “We must and we do acknowledge that the world failed Rwanda at that time of evil. The international community and the United Nations could not muster the political will to confront it. The world must deeply repent this failure.”

Despite the controversy, Annan

11

12

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

was elected UN general secretary in 1997, becoming the first black African to be voted into the position.

Annan would later set up two separate inquiries about the UN’s handling of tragedies in Rwanda and Bosnia.

Throughout his career at the UN Annan demonstrated a commitment to raising the African agenda on an international scale. In 2001, he launched a campaign to tackle Africa’s HIV and AIDS epidemic.

He warned world leaders that the disease was ten times deadlier than armed conflict on the continent.

Annan was known for his impressive mediation skills, especially when dealing with crises in the Middle East, and is credited with having prevented a bombing in Iraq in 1998. In 2008, he launched a peacekeeping attempt in Kenya after violence broke out following former President Mwai Kibaki topping election polls over opposition leader Ralia Odinga in 2007.

In 2001, he and the UN jointly received the Nobel Peace Prize for their efforts to reform the UN and give “priority to human rights.”

In 2006, Annan, at the age of 69, stepped down from the post.

Qatar Bails out Turkey with $15B At Comprehensive Audiology, we are committed to providing excellent care for adults and children with hearing loss, taking the time to understand and educate each of our patients, and ensuring each patient’s satisfaction.

Hearing Evaluations

Hearing Aids

Custom Hearing Protection

Custom Swim Plugs

Aural Rehabilitation Programs

Auditory Training Assistive Listening Devices

516-387-4000 • 261 Broadway, Lynbrook, NY 11563 info@comprehensiveaudiology.com • www.comprehensiveaudiology.com

Turkey has come up with a benefactor that will try to help bring the country back from its deep financial crisis. President Recep Tayyip Erdogan was able to convince Qatar to invest $15 billion in the country after a 3½ hour meeting with Qatar’s Emir Sheikh Tamim Bin Hamad Bin Al Thani.

The meeting was the latest in a string of steps that Erdogan has taken to bail out his economy ever since its economy spiraled out of control and a feud with the United States over a detained pastor has put his relationship with Donald Trump on ice. Turkey has held Andrew Brunson

under arrest for the past two years.

Erdogan accuses Brunson of aiding a coup attempt against him, and the United States has said that they will not negotiate with Turkey until he is released.

Qatar’s pledge is being seen by many as repayment to Turkey for standing by its wealthy neighbor when many Gulf States cut off diplomatic ties with Qatar, following Saudi Arabia’s lead.

Erdogan is also trying to establish a better relationship with his traditional European allies. He spoke with German Chancellor Angela Merkel and French President Emmanuel Macron last week to shore up the economic agreements between their nations.

“Conspiracy to Kill” Kim Jong Nam

Last year, Kim Jon Un’s half-brother, Kim Jong Nam, was brazenly murdered in an airport terminal in Kuala Lumpur in Malaysia by two women who threw VX nerve agent, a deadly chemical agent, on his face. The two accused women appeared in a Malaysian court last Thursday. Although they claimed that they thought they were part of a stunt when they were first arrested, the judge referred to evidence that the attack was a “well-planned conspiracy” to kill. Even so, High Court Judge Azmi Ariffin said there was a lack of evidence of a political assassination but also said he wasn’t fully convinced by defense arguments that the women were led to believe that they were a part of a TV show involving a prank and a hidden camera.

Indonesia’s Siti Aisyah and Vietnam’s Doan Thi Huong face the death penalty if convicted of the February 13, 2017 attack. The already six-month long trial was extended until February of next year. Aisyah, 25, and Huong, 29, will testify un-

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

For more visit www.bganfoods.com / breaded

13

14

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

seen in the video running away from Kim – a police investigator testified that it was Aisyah. Kim died within two hours of the attack.

The defense maintains that the two women were used as pawns in a political assassination with direct and obvious links to the North Korean Embassy in Kuala Lumpur. Kim, the eldest of the family, had been living abroad for years after falling out of favor with Kim Jong Un. Malaysian officials have never officially accused North Korea of being behind the attack and have made it clear they don’t want the trial politicized. The judge acknowledged that the four North Koreans played a “substantial role” and were “part of the chain that led to the murder” of Kim.

UK Labour Leader Rubbing Elbows With Hamas Terrorists

der oath in their defense. There are four other North Korean suspects in the case who fled the country on the morning of the attack; they have not been apprehended yet.

Defense lawyers argued that the prosecution failed to prove that the two women had any intention to kill, a vital point in establishing they are guilty of murder. The judge counter-argued that it can be inferred that killing was their intention since they specifically targeted Kim’s eyes where the nerve agent would pene-

trate faster. He also pointed out that the two women fled to different restrooms after the attack and said it was unlikely that that decision was a “mere coincidence.” The judge noted that the suspects appeared worried and tense before washing their hands, but relaxed afterward, implying that they understood that they were handling dangerous material.

Indonesian Ambassador Rusdi Kirana told reporters outside court that he was stunned by the decision

but that his government will abide by it.

The trial proceedings revealed that the four men had been communicating with Aisyah and Huong by code names. They recruited and trained the women and supplied the banned chemical weapon used in the attack. Video surveillance captured the attack. Huong is seen approaching Kim shortly after he arrived at the airport. She clasped her hands on his face from behind and then fled. Another blurry figure is

Jeremy Corbyn, the leader of the United Kingdom’s Labour Party, sat on a panel at a 2012 conference with several Palestinian terrorists that had been found guilty of murder. A new report has been released which shows that Corbyn shared the stage with then-Hamas head Khaled Mashaal, who is on the UK sanctions list.

Husam Badran, the former leader of Hamas’s military wing, was also at the event. Badram oversaw multiple bombings during the Second Intifada, including the 2001 bombings of Sbarro Pizza in Jerusalem, in which 15 people were killed, and the Dolphinarium Discotheque in Tel Aviv, which killed 21. Abdul Aziz Umar, who was sentenced to seven life sentences for his involvement in the 2003 bombing of Jerusalem’s Cafe Hillel, in which seven people were killed, was also at the event. Both Badran and Umar were released from jail in 2011 as part of

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

15

16

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

the Gilad Shalit prisoner exchange.

After the conference, Corbyn acknowledged who his co-attendees were, saying that some of the speakers were freed “in return for the Israeli soldier Gilad Shalit.” He added that “their contribution was fascinating and electrifying.”

At the event, a video was taken of Badran saying, “The nakba [the Palestinian term for the ‘catastrophe’ of the community’s displacement during the 1948 Israel-Arab war] which made us refugees took place via force, and the return will be only viable through military and armed resistance and nothing else.”

News of Corbyn’s attendance broke three days after photos emerged of Corbyn standing next to Popular Front for the Liberation of Palestine chief Maher al-Taher at a commemoration ceremony for the Black September terrorists who took part in the 1972 massacre of 11 Israelis at the Munich Olympics.

British Jews and Israeli politicians have come out with a strong call for Corbyn’s resignation.

A spokesperson for Corbyn told the Telegraph that the Labour leader supports Palestinians in his quest for peace in the region. “Jeremy has

a long and principled record of solidarity with the Palestinian people and engaging with actors in the conflict to support peace and justice in the Middle East. That is the right thing to do,” he said.

Corbyn downplayed his involvement in such gatherings, saying that “claims about my actions and words are false.”

The photos look pretty convincing to everyone else.

U.S. Imposes Sanctions on Myanmar

The U.S. Treasury Department recently announced that it had imposed economic sanctions on Myanmar security forces for what officials are

calling their role in “ethnic cleansing” against Rohingya Muslims and “widespread human rights abuses” against other ethnic minority groups.

The widespread violence has caused 70,000 Rohingya to flee to Bangladesh and other parts of Asia.

The recent sanctions target four Burmese military and border guard commanders and two military units. The European Union and Canada had hit seven officials with sanctions.

“Burmese security forces have engaged in violent campaigns against ethnic minority communities across Burma, including ethnic cleansing, massacres, assault, extrajudicial killings and other serious human rights abuses,” Sigal P. Mandelker, a senior Treasury Department official, said in a statement.

The targets of the sanctions are the Burmese military commanders Aung Kyaw Zaw, Khin Maung Soe and Khin Hlaing; Thura San Lwin, a Border Guard Police commander; and the Burmese Army’s 33rd Light Infantry Division and the 99th Light Infantry Division. The details of the sanctions refer to the foreign assets or foreign financial ties of those commanders or members of those units.

“This is a message to the Burmese

military that there were risks to what you were doing,” said Brad Adams, the Asia director for Human Rights Watch. “Do I think this will lead to institutional reform? No, not yet. But these are building blocks.”

The State Department has been gathering evidence and is expected to publish a detailed report in the coming weeks.

Myanmar, formerly known as Burma, is dominated and ruled by the majority ethnic Bamar, who are mostly Buddhists, and has 135 ethnic groups recognized by the government.

Putin Dances

Russian President Vladimir Putin joined in the festivities on Saturday when Austria’s foreign minister, Karin Kneissl, married. The Russian leader was a surprise guest at the

OF THE BOSTONER BAIS MEDRASH

PROFESSIONAL CHILDCARE CHILDREN AGES 21/2 & 3 IN A LOVING ENVIRONMENT 0 PROVIDING THE FOUNDATION TORAH EDUCATION

OF

0 EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATIONALLY ENRICHED CURRICULUM 0 SPACIOUS INDOOR & OUTDOOR PLAY FACILITIES 0 MORAH CHANSIE IS A RECOGNIZED EXPERT WITH OVER 30 YEARS OF CHILDCARE EXPERIENCE 0 HELP YOUR CHILD REACH THEIR EDUCATIONAL POTENTIAL!!

Limited Space Available for Fall Registration Contact Rebbetzin Chansie Horowitz 516.371.6848

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

Each detail matters. From the earth in which the vines take root to the corks that seal the bottles, nothing in winemaking can be overlooked. That’s why our viticulturist takes great care to prepare and monitor the soil where our grapes grow, to make sure our wine is perfect from the very start, from where every great wine has its humble beginning.

From the earth. tabor earth ad.indd 4

3/8/17 5:31 PM

17

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

nuptials, in which Kneissl married businessman Wolfgang Meilinger. He was invited during a visit to Austria last year.

Putin came to the wedding with his dancing shoes on and danced with Kneissl, who was wearing white.

The wedding was held at a vineyard in Austria’s Styria state.

Kneissl is an independent who was selected for her post by Austria’s pro-Russian far-right party.

Putin handed the bride a bouquet of yellow and white flowers and brought along a troupe of all-singing, all-dancing Cossacks as a wedding gift. According to Sky News, Putin was a controversial guest to what was billed as a private affair that has drawn a lot of criticism from liberal-minded Austrians.

Putin attended the wedding before heading off to Berlin for talks with German Chancellor Angela Merkel later on Saturday. His meeting with Merkel took place at the German government’s guesthouse in Meseberg, north of Berlin. Topics during the bilateral talks included Ukraine, Syria and the planned Nord Stream 2 gas pipeline from Russia to Germany that the United States and some European countries object to.

New PM for Pakistan

Imran Khan has been elected prime minister of Pakistan. The 65-year-old former cricket star ran for the Movement for Justice Party.

He earned a whopping 176 votes, as compared to Shahbaz Sharif of the Pakistan Muslim League-Nawaz, who only won 96 votes. Sharif has promised to probe the nation’s soaring debt and start a “ruthless accountability” program.

Khan’s win was made certain by the third largest political group, the Pakistan People’s Party, abstaining from the vote and refusing to back Sharif.

Khan is now facing a rapidly deteriorating economy. Pakistan has seen its finances go downhill in large part thanks to U.S. pressures on

BABY

BOUTIQUE A F I N E L I N E O F L AYE T TE

CHANIE GOLDBERGER 6 4 6 . 8 6 7. 4 9 6 9 welcom eb abyb outique @ gm ail . com @ w e l co m e b a b y b o u t i q u e DELIVERY AVAILABLE

mazdesign 718.471.6470

18

the nuclear-armed nation over its support for insurgent groups. Khan has promised to both expand social spending and fix the economy. Pakistan’s reserves have dropped at the fastest pace in Asia this year – they now are at only $10.4 billion.

Pakistan has received huge stopgap loans from China, as it is a key country along its Belt and Road trade route. The International Monetary Fund is likely to help out the South Asian nation. U.S. Secretary of State Mike Pompeo said last week that the U.S. will be watching closely to see if Khan’s new government uses IMF funds to pay off the Chinese loans.

During his speech as prime minister, Khan said he hopes to have a “mutually beneficial” relationship with America and called for closer ties with China.

Land Seized from White Farmers in S. Africa

An audit last year by the South African government revealed that 72% of private farmland is owned by white people. According to the 2011 census, there are about 4.6 million white people in South Africa, accounting for 8.9% of the population.

Now the government is beginning the process of seizing farms from white farmers and “redistributing” land back to the black people.

This week the government made its first attempt to seize two farms.

They claim they are willing to pay for the land but the two owners stalled negotiations. Farm owner Akkerland Boerdery wanted 200 million rand ($18.7 million) for the land but the government only offered 20 million rand ($1.87 million) for the estate.

Earlier this year the owner received a notice that read, “Notice is hereby given that a terrain inspection will be held on the farms on April 5, 2018 at 10am in order to conduct an audit of the assets and a handover of the farm’s keys to the state.”

Akkerland Boerdery obtained an urgent injunction to prevent eviction until a court had ruled on the issue, but the Department of Rural Development and Land Affairs is opposing the application.

“What makes the Akkerland case unique is that they apparently were not given the opportunity to first dispute the claim in court, as the law requires,” AgriSA union spokeswoman Annelize Crosby noted.

The government is in the process of amending the constitution in order to allow for the expropriation of land without compensation. The seizures are intended to test the ability of the government to take land under existing laws, which the ruling African National Congress (ANC) has previously stated is allowable if “in the public interest.” According to media reports, there is a list of 139 farms that will be seized.

ANC spokesman Zizi Kodwa would not reveal details of the farms targeted and has attempted to play down investor fears, saying the proposed seizures were “tied to addressing the injustices of the past.”

“Over time I think the markets as well as investors will appreciate that what we are doing is creating policy certainty and creating the conditions for future investment,” he told City Press.

Reunions Between Brothers

About 200 South Koreans crossed the border into North Korea this week for a once-in-a-lifetime chance to meet with their estranged relatives that have been living in the dictatorship since the two countries separated decades ago. Another 337 people will have the opportunity to meet their relatives this coming week. The meetings were short – about 12 hours – but long overdue.

The reunions between family members have been heartbreaking as the oppressed relatives in North Korea have only been fed propaganda for the past 60 years and do not have

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

a fully formed perspective of their history. Many of the North Koreans are using the opportunity to score propaganda points for their authoritarian nation, and South Koreans have reported having heated and difficult debates during their reunions.

South Korea has urged their citizens to politely and quickly change the subject if politics come up.

More than 60% of those on the list for the reunions are older than 80; almost twenty percent of those on the list are at least 90 years old.

Every month, many of those on the list pass away before seeing their relatives.

The North sees these reunions as a critical opportunity to win concessions from the South, though they have rejected the South’s demands to increase the number of reunions.

Pyongyang, according to analysts, fears expanding the program because it would give North Koreans a better grasp on the outside world and would weaken its government’s grip on power.

They’ve Got Mail

About a year after a deal was signed between Israel and the Palestinians, nearly 10 tons of backlogged mail has been delivered to the Palestinian people. Some of the parcels that were handed over to Palestinian postal workers this week date back to 2010.

Hundreds of thousands of letters and packages are now being organized in a sorting center in Jericho.

Palestinian Telecommunications Minister Allam Mousa is blaming the massive mail delay on Israel, saying they did not implement the postal agreement that was made with Ra-

mallah quickly enough. The Israeli government has not released any details but only said that the agreement would be implemented. Many of the packages were held up for security and administrative reasons.

Israel’s Coordinator of Government Activities in the Territories said that the signing of an agreement “about a year ago” that had not yet been implemented was responsible for the delayed delivery of the mail. He called the deal a “confidence-building measure.” The memorandum of understanding that he is referring to was signed in late 2016 as a means of improving the postal system between Palestinians and Israel. The Palestinian Authority will now be handling international mail directly by way of the Allenby Bridge crossing between Israel and Jordan.

BREATHTAKING? ORDER YOURS TODAY!

Woman’s Tragic Death Likely Accidental

Forty-two-year-old Hava Roizen was killed in a hit-and-run by a Palestinian driver in the West Bank on Thursday night. The army announced that following a preliminary investigation it was “highly likely” that the car hit Hava by accident and that it was not a terrorist attack. The driver was a 63-year-old Palestinian who fled the scene and then turned himself into police later that day.

Hava lived in the settlement of Emmanuel. She immigrated to Israel from the former Soviet Union.

She was a photographer that would often hitchhike to her jobs. “She was incredibly dedicated to her job.

She’d travel wherever it was necessary, and I’d often see her returning to Emmanuel at very late hours,” said a fellow Emmanuel resident. He described Roizen and her husband as very humble people.

Though the Israeli authorities have deemed the case an accident, others are skeptical. Samaria Regional Council chairman Yossi Dagan insisted the case had all the hallmarks of a terror attack. “From

Timeless designs and fine craftsmanship are characteristic trademarks that set Today’s kitchen apart from all others.

Whether your plans include a new home or a home improvement remodeling project, we welcome the opportunity to create the design of your dreams and turn it into reality.

20 Years Experience

Free Remodeling Tips

Today's Kitchen 202-a Rockaway Tpke, Cedarhurst, Ny 11516 P (516) 371-1100 • F (516) 371-1101

19

20

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

the point of view of the military commanders in the field, and from our point of view as well, this is a terror attack for all intents and purposes,” he insisted. He pointed out that there were no signs of skid marks on the road and that the junction is very well lit. “This is a very grave incident,” Dagan added. “But we, the residents of Samaria, will continue to be strong and sanctify life.”

The driver is being held by Palestinian Authority police and, as of now, will go through the Palestinian Authority’s justice system.

Bibi Says There’s Nothing to Case 4000 Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu is “certain Case 4000 has collapsed permanently,” according to a statement that was released on his behalf this week. Netanyahu is suspected of making regulatory decisions to help Shaul Elovitch, the controlling shareholder in Bezeq, the country’s largest telecommunications firm, in exchange for pos-

itive coverage on Elovitch’s Walla news site.

Netanyahu is accused of making such regulatory calls while he was both communications minister and prime minister of Israel. “The data proves unequivocally that the coverage of Netanyahu in Walla under Elovitch remained as negative as it was when Walla was owned by Amos Shoken, and did not change in the slightest when Netanyahu became communications minister,” the statement notes. “In fact, it is other communications ministers who, upon assuming the position, received a huge boost in positive coverage – not just in Walla but in leading Israeli media platforms.”

Police officials are not backing down, despite Bibi’s confidence. A police statement said that the evi-

dence against Netanyahu is “strong, and the case is solid.”

Elovitch and Bibi were both questioned in connection to the case on Friday. This round of questioning is part of the 11th investigation that Netanyahu has faced since he took office. Police reportedly confronted Netanyahu with allegations that he fired former Communications Ministry director-general Avi Berger in 2015 and replaced him with Shlomo Filber at the request of Elovitch.

Berger was reportedly pushing for reforms in the communications market that would have benefited Bezeq competitors.

Attorney General Avichai Mandelblit will make the final decision on whether to indict the prime minister or not. Mandelblit is said to be looking at all three of the current cases against Bibi together before he makes his decision. The final word on whether or not Bibi will go to trial probably will not be announced until late 2019.

Public Phones

Lawrence Hardware 589 Burnside Ave. Inwood, NY 11096 In the Stop and Shop Shopping Center

(516) 371-2900

LEITER’S SUKKAH DISTRIBUTOR Sunday 9:30-3:30 Mon-Thurs 7:30-5:30 Friday 7:30-4:00

Your one stop shopping for all Your sukkah and Yom tov needs

Let our knowledgeable staff help you with all your Sukkah projects Leiter’s Sukkah, Schach Mats and Bamboo, Travel Pop Up Sukkah, Sukkah Decorations, Sukkah lighting and Electrical Supplies, Lumber Cut to Size and Notched, Nuts, Bolts, Washers, Cable Ties, Bee Traps, Mosquito Repellent, Tables and Chairs, Fold Up Cots, Urns with Yom Tov Mode Switch, Shabbos Lamp, Hot Plates, Blechs, Water Filters- Aqua pure, E-Z Filter, Glatt Water and more….

DELIVERY AVAILABLE Extended Holiday Hours Coming soon

It was a weekend of myriad phone calls for some Israeli politicians after a list of private numbers of certain ministers were made public.

President Reuven Rivlin, Ministers Naftali Bennett and Ayelet Shaked and opposition leader Tzipi Livni were among those whose numbers were on the list online, which rapidly spread across the country via WhatsApp. Barak Cohen, the attorney and political activist who compiled the list, explained in a Facebook post that he believed that his actions were a “public service” and urged his social media followers to distribute the numbers “so that every citizen can benefit from accessible communication with their [public] servants.”

Cohen’s post is an example of “doxxing,” the practice of publishing people’s personal details, such as

addresses and phone numbers, on the internet, often for purposes of harassment. In this case, Cohen insisted that he was making the elected representatives more accessible to their constituents.

But those on the list were not amused.

Likud MK Sharren Haskel said that while she has always tried to be open and accommodating to the public, following the leak and the “immense amount of trolling” it caused she would no longer answer phone calls from unidentified numbers.

Tzipi Livni noted that the number posted as hers actually belonged to someone else, who was going through a family tragedy and requested that people not harass her.

Oren Hazan, a firebrand Likud MK known for stunts such as breaking diplomatic protocol in order to take a selfie with U.S. President Donald Trump, had a different take. In a tweet, he wrote that he wanted to thank Cohen.

“Thanks to him I was privileged to discover again how much love and sympathy I have from Dan to Eilat [i.e., from the north to the south of the country] and to gather a huge crowd of supporters who joined my path,” he wrote, thanking the “thousands” who called him with words of encouragement.

“I’m here for you, feel free to call.”

Terrorist Killed Attempting to Stab Policeman

An Israeli Arab was shot dead this week after trying to stab a Jewish policeman in Jerusalem’s Old City. The man was seen coming from the Temple Mount direction and then approached a group of policemen and attempted to stab at least one of them. The officers scuffled with the assailant and one of them killed him.

The terrorist has been indentified

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

Help Your Struggling Neighbor Bring In A Sweet New Year DONATE TODAY!

Help Feed A Family In Our Community This Rosh Hashana SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ROSH HASHANAH MEAL FOR A FAMILY OF 6 .................. $180 ROSH HASHANAH MEAL FOR A FAMILY OF 4 .................. $100 ROSH HASHANAH CHICKEN.......................................................$36 OTHER ...................................................................................................$18 ANY AMOUNT IS APPRECIATED 100% OF YOUR DONATION GOES DIRECTLY TO HELP FAMILIES IN NEED

TO MAKE A DONATION, PLEASE VISIT WWW.JCCRP.ORG/DONATIONS OR MAIL A CHECK TO 1525 CENTRAL AVE. FAR ROCKAWAY, NY 11691

FOR MORE INFORMATION PLEASE CALL BARBARA SATT AT

718.327.7755 EXT. 6113 OR EMAIL bsatt@jccrp.org

VOLUNTEER TODAY!

Help Package Rosh Hashanah Food For Local Families In Need VOLUNTEERS WELCOME ON: Tuesday, September 4th 12:00PM-4:00PM EVENING VOLUNTEER HOURS -

Wednesday, September 5th 7:00PM–10:00PM Thursday , September 6th 10:00AM–5:00PM Friday, September 7th 9:30AM–2:00PM AT THE JCCRP : 1525 Central Ave., Far Rockaway FOR MORE INFORMATION OR TO VOLUNTEER PLEASE CALL NAAMAH ADELMAN AT

718.327.7755 EXT. 6124 OR EMAIL nadelman@jccrp.org

21

22

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

�‰Š ��“ �� �“ ‰” Œ… • �� ™

“�š›‘ �‰

€š‘‘� ˜‰ ‘œ‘ ›‰š�‰ ˜‰ ‘œ‘

Â?‘’ “ Â

”•–—

˜ �“ “� �

 � � �

Â? Â? Â

Â? Â Â Â?

“Ž�� �� ‘ �� �� �  �’ˆ

'

 ��� �� ��  ­€‚ƒ ­‚„„…†  ��� ‡� ˆ‰Š ‹  ­€‚„­„‚Œ†Œƒ

as Ahmed Muhammad Mahameed, a 24-year old resident of the northern Arab town of Umm al-Fahm. Police said that Mahameed was carrying an identification card at the time of the attack and was identified as an Israeli civilian.

This newest stabbing incident comes on the heels of the police arresting a 26-year-old resident of Hebron inside the Old City as he was planning on carrying out a stabbing attack. A body search of the suspect

­ € ­ Â? ‚ƒ„…‚† ƒ‡ ˆ ­ Â?Â

•

revealed he was holding a knife and a can of tear gas.

The man was brought in for questioning after the suspicious objects were found. He originally said that he was only in Jerusalem to pray, however, police investigators then “carried out several interrogation actions through which they were able to expose the suspect’s real intentions,� a statement said. The suspect admitted to traveling from the West Bank without a permit in order

to stab any Israeli civilian or security force member he could find.

The Old City has been relatively quiet over the past year. Stabbing attacks have generally taken place in the West Bank and elsewhere.

Last month, a Palestinian terrorist climbed the fence of the Adam settlement and stabbed three people.

He killed Yotam Ovadia in the attack before he was shot by local responders.

‰Š ƒ‡…‚‹ ‚ ŒŽ ˆ ­ �ˆ ˆ ‚‚‹ƒ„

PepsiCo Buys SodaStream for $3.2B

This week, PepsiCo signed a deal with Israel’s SodaStream to acquire the home seltzer company for $3.2 billion in cash. The company will remain an independent unit within PepsiCo, with its own headquarters in Israel and maintaining its own brand. The deal will allow the Israeli firm to have “access to resources we may not have had until today,� the company’s CEO Daniel Birnbaum said on Monday. But it will also ensure the company keeps its young heart.

Set up in 1903 by Guy Hugh Gilby in the UK, the firm originally sold its aerating water devices to British upper classes and royal household, gradually expanding its operations globally. It was acquired in 1998 by Israel’s Soda-Club, founded in 1991 by Peter Wiseburgh, who from the late ‘70s was the sole distributor of SodaStream products in Israel. He also patented a new brand of at-home carbonated machines, and distributed them globally. But popularity of the product waned as bottled sodas sold by international giants became cheaper.

Even so, after the acquisition, SodaStream became the world’s largest home carbonation system. Financial difficulties, however, led to the sale of the firm in 2007 by Israeli private equity investment group, Fortissimo Capital Fund, which appointed Daniel Birnbaum as the CEO. In 2010 the company listed shares on the Nasdaq and in 2016 on the Tel Aviv Stock Exchange.

Under Birnbaum’s leadership the company rebranded itself as a fizzy water company, a brash David providing a healthier alternative to the drinks offered by its Goliath competitors, which in addition to using massive amounts of sugar also sell their products in “planet-killing� plastic bottles. SodaStream makes machines that carbonate home tap water in reusable bottles. “One SodaStream reusable bottle rids the world of up to 3,000 sin-

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

23

24

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

pay with points

UN Chief Has Four Ways to “Protect” Palestinians

travel planning hotels mileage redemption business travel

WHEN YOU THINK ISRAEL israel

airline miles

travel concierge

credit card points

consulting

THINK PEYD

WWW.GETPEYD.COM (646) 801 - PEYD (7343) INFO@GETPEYD.COM

gle-use plastic bottles,” the firm says on its website. And its bubbles make water a “fun and exciting drink” so consumers drink more water as opposed to sweetened beverages, the website says.

Birnbaum sees himself as a force for change in the Israeli society by employing diverse populations in SodaStream’s manufacturing efforts, including Jews, Arab, Bedouins and Palestinians.

SodaStream became a target of the pro-Palestinian campaign over

the location of its factory in the West Bank, before moving to a location inside the Green Line several years ago.

In October 2014, the firm announced it would close its West Bank factory in Maale Adumim and move to southern Israel, a relocation the BDS movement claimed was a result of its pressure. Some 500 Palestinian employees lost their jobs at that time. Israel gave the remaining 74 employees permission to enter the country and continue to work for SodaStream. The BDS movement asserted that SodaS-

tream discriminated against Palestinian workers and paid some less than Israeli workers. SodaStream said the opposite — that it provided work for hundreds of Palestinians on the same terms as Israelis.

For many years Pepsi Cola, as the company was then known, boycotted Israel, and its products could not be found locally, following pressure from the Arab world. The U.S. company finally entered the Israeli market in 1991, when the Arab boycott waned.

Antonio Guterres, the secretary-general of the United Nations, feels that the Palestinians in the Gaza Strip require more protection from Israel. Guterres presented four options in a report that was requested by the General Assembly in response to the surge of violence in Gaza, during which 171 Palestinians – mostly terrorists – have been killed in Hamas-led clashes since March.

Hamas has acknowledged that most of those killed were members of Hamas or other terrorist organizations.

The UN chief proposed providing a “more robust UN presence on the ground” with political officers to report on the situation in real time, in addition to providing more UN humanitarian and development aid to “ensure the well-being of the population.” He also would like to create a civilian observer mission that would be stationed near checkpoints, settlements, and other sensitive areas, with a mandate to report on protection issues. Lastly, he would like to deploy an armed military or police force to protect Palestinian civilians.

The UN chief was clear that cooperation by both Israel and the Palestinians would be needed to implement any of the choices he outlined.

The United States would also need to be on board, as a UN mandate for a protection force would require a decision from the Security Council, in which the U.S. has veto power.

Israel has come out strongly against the measures, saying they are based on a biased, one-sided point of view and that IDF soldiers at the Gaza border have opened fire only in accordance with army regulations.

Hamas is also accused of using the border clashes as a cover to carry out further attacks against the Jewish State.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

25

26

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

‫״למען ידעו דורותיכם״‬

the proven sukkah for a generation

Nazi, 95, Finally Deported

CELEBRATING HALF A CENTURY OF QUALITY SUKKAHS AT FACTORY DIRECT PRICING

The Sukkah thats proven to last a Lifetime!

NEW WOOD PANELS • MODULAR PANELS • SNAP SUKKAHS PORTABLES • CANVAS • BAMBOO • MEHADRIN MATS SHOWROOM: 3720 14TH AVE • BROOKLYN, NY • 718-436-6333

VALET PARKING

800-227-SUKA • WWW.SUKKAH.COM FIVE TOWNS:

LONG ISLAND:

LENTS TENTS 516-459-2241

ESROGIM.COM 516-252-7885

WE SHIP WORLDWIDE

/sukkahs

The last known Nazi collaborator living in the U.S. was deported to Germany this week.

Jakiw Palij, 95, had lived in New York City for decades. He had served as a guard at a Nazi forced labor camp during the Second World War. In a statement released by the White House after Palij landed in Germany early Tuesday President Donald Trump commended the actions of Immigration and Customs Enforcement for “removing this war criminal from United States soil.”

“Despite a court ordering his deportation in 2004, past administrations were unsuccessful in removing Palij,” the statement added. “To protect the promise of freedom for Holocaust survivors and their families, President Trump prioritized the removal of Palij.”

Palij lived quietly in the U.S. for years, as a draftsman and then as a retiree, until nearly three decades ago when investigators found his name on an old Nazi roster and a fellow former guard spilled the secret that he was “living somewhere in America.”

Members of New York’s Congressional delegation last year urged the Trump administration to deport Palij, whose citizenship was revoked in 2003 based on his wartime activities, human rights abuses, and immigration fraud. A federal court also ruled that he had assisted in the persecution of prisoners at the camp, though it stopped short of finding him responsible for deaths.

Palij was born in former Polish territory, an area now located in Ukraine. He immigrated to the U.S. in 1949 and became a citizen in 1957,

but concealed his Nazi service saying that he spent World War II working in a factory on a farm. Palij told Justice Department investigators who showed up at his door in 1993: “I would never have received my visa if I told the truth. Everyone lied.”

Palij later admitted to officials that he attended a Nazi SS training camp in Trawniki in German-occupied Poland and then served as an armed guard at its adjacent labor camp.

According to the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum, the Trawniki camp was part of “Operation Reinhard,” the Nazi operation to murder the approximately two million Jews residing in German-occupied Poland. On November 3, 1943, SS and police units shot to death around 6,000 Jewish inmates at the camp, killing almost all of its prisoners in a single massacre.

Palij said he was forced to be a guard.

Germany, Poland, Ukraine, and other countries refused to take Palij, and he continued living in the two-story, red brick home in Queens he shared with his wife, Maria, now 86. His continued presence there outraged the Jewish community. Local yeshivas – most notably Rambam Mesivta – and others frequently protested over the years in front of Palij’s home, chanting, “Your neighbor is a Nazi!” and “No SS in the U.S.” Germany’s Foreign Office said its decision to accept Palij showed the country was accepting its “moral responsibility.”

German prosecutors have previously said it does not appear that there’s enough evidence to charge him with wartime crimes.

Palij’s deportation is the first for a Nazi war crimes suspect since Germany agreed in 2009 to take John Demjanjuk, a retired Ohio autoworker who was accused of serving as a Nazi guard. He was convicted in 2011 of being an accessory to more than 28,000 killings and died 10 months later, at age 91, with his appeal pending.

Two Charged with Spying for Iran U.S. prosecutors announced charges on Monday against two men arrested on August 9 and accused

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

them of acting as agents of the government of Iran, covertly monitoring a Jewish center in Chicago and American members of an Iranian opposition group in exile in behalf of the government of the Islamic Republic of Iran.

Criminal complaints against Ahmadreza Mohammadi Doostdar, 38, a dual U.S.-Iranian citizen, and Majid Ghorbani, 59, an Iranian citizen and resident of California, were unsealed after an indictment was returned in the District of Columbia.

“Doostdar and Ghorbani are alleged to have acted on behalf of Iran, including by conducting surveillance of political opponents and engaging in other activities that could put Americans at risk,” Assistant Attorney General for National Security John Demers said in a statement.

“This alleged activity demonstrates a continued interest in targeting the

s • Spe on

25+ YEA

RS

receipt for $2,000 were found concealed in Doostdar’s luggage as he traveled through an airport in the United States to return to Iran.

U.S. authorities accused the men of continuing to work together this year, with Ghorbani traveling to Iran in March after telling Doostdar he was going there to conduct an “in-person briefing,” and discussing clandestine methods to provide to Iran photographs Ghorbani took of people who attended an MEK-affiliated Iran Freedom Convention for Human Rights in Washington, D.C., on May 4.

Service Member Killed in Crash in Iraq One U.S. service member was killed and several more were injured when their aircraft crashed in Iraq late on Sunday night.

The helicopter crashed while conducting a partnered counterterrorism mission in support of the Operation Inherent Resolve coalition to defeat the Islamic State, according to

a U.S. Central Command statement on Monday morning.

All personnel were recovered by coalition forces immediately following the incident, and three individuals were evacuated for further treatment. There are no indications the crash was caused by hostile fire, officials said.

“I’d like to express our condolences on behalf of the Department of Defense on the death of one U.S. service member and several others injured when their aircraft crashed yesterday in Iraq,” Pentagon spokesman Army Col. Rob Manning told reporters Monday.

This is the second time this year an aircraft has crashed while supporting the Inherent Resolve mission in Iraq. In March, all seven personnel aboard a U.S. HH-60 Pave Hawk

You need your CoO

You need your CPO

to oversee business operations, data analysis, measuring production efficiency and generally greasing squeaky wheels.

to oversee phone and IT setup at all your locations, communicating effectively, cost savings and reliable, rock solid clear phone communication.

sinesses bu

lizing for cia

United States, as well as potential opposition groups located in the United States,” namely the Mujahedin-e Khalq [MEK] or People’s Mujahedin of Iran, Acting Executive Assistant FBI Director Michael McGarrity said.

According to charging documents, Doostdar entered the United States around July 2017 allegedly to gather intelligence about targets considered enemies of the Tehran government, including Israeli and Jewish interests and the MEK, a dissident group that seeks regime change in Iran and that was listed by the U.S. State Department as a terrorist group from 1997 until 2012.

According to an FBI affidavit, Doostdar, on July 21, 2017, surveilled and photographed security features at the Rohr Chabad House, a branch of Chabad of Illinois that serves students at the University of Chicago-Illinois.

That December, Doostdar paid Ghorbani $2,000 in cash and received 28 photographs with names attached that Ghorbani is accused of taking of demonstrators at a September 20, 2017 MEK rally against the Iranian government in New York City.

The pictures and a handwritten

GET YOUR ONYX DEDICATED CHIEF PHONE OFFICER (CPO) TODAY AT NO EXTRA COST, WHEN SIGNING UP TO ONYX SERVICES.

• Business VOIP Phone Systems • Lowest rates and cost effective solutions guaranteed • Customized solutions tailored to your needs T: 855.ONYXTEL

516.575.8500

27

E: SALES@ONYXTEL.COM

W:ONYXTEL.COM

d instituti an

28

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

helicopter were killed in a crash, including two New York firefighters.

That incident occurred after the aircraft hit power lines in western Iraq’s Anbar province.

This latest crash comes as the U.S.-led coalition reports that it is close to defeating the last remnants of the Islamic State militant group.

Inherent Resolve forces have been focused on clearing ISIS fighters from the Middle Euphrates River Valley, one of the group’s last major holdouts, since May.

Silent Sam Toppled by Students Silent Sam was officially silenced this week when 250 protesters knocked over the Confederate statue on the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill’s campus this week.

A video and pictures from a student show the statue coming down on Monday as students chant, “I believe that we will win.” About 250 people were involved in the toppling. Protesters put up poles and banners around

the statue during the day, which was the first day of classes. By night, the statue fell down amidst cheers. Protesters were seen kicking and putting dirt on the statue.

In a statement on Tuesday morning, UNC-Chapel Hill Chancellor Carol L. Folt said she appreciates the actions taken by police to ensure the campus community’s safety during Monday’s demonstration.

“Last night’s actions were unlawful and dangerous, and we are very fortunate that no one was injured,” Folt said in an open letter posted on the school’s official website. “The police are investigating the vandalism and assessing the full extent of the damage.”

One person was arrested.

Silent Sam was erected in 1913 to remember the “sons of the University

who died for their beloved Southland 1861-1865,” according to UNC’s website. The United Daughters of the Confederacy gave the statue to the university in 1909.

The felling of Silent Sam came months after students and some faculty called for removal of the statue.

The UNC Board of Trustees held a listening session in November where attendees spoke in support of and against Silent Sam. Maya Little, a second-year PhD student in UNC’s History Department, said in November that the school was spending too much money “to maintain a statue that glorifies the enslavement of my ancestors. That was dedicated by a man who took pleasure in beating a black woman on our campus, that was erected by a group who praised the KKK as protectors of white womanhood.” Five months later, in April, Little put her blood and red ink on the statue. Little is facing expulsion and criminal charges for the incident.

Silent Sam is not the first Confederate monument to come down in North Carolina. Last August, authorities said seven people were arrested in connection with the toppling of the Confederate Soldiers Monu-

SUMMER SPECIAL! MUST BE USED BEFORE 9/1/18 NOT COMBINABLE WITH ANY OTHER OFFER

ment during a protest in Durham. The monument came down two days after the Unite the Right Rally in Charlottesville, Virginia, that left counter-protester Heather Heyer dead.

In Tennessee, crews in December moved two Confederate statues from parks in Memphis after city officials sold the land to a nonprofit. In New Orleans last spring, the city removed four Civil War-era landmarks. Baltimore also removed four Confederate monuments last August.

Fort Lauderdale Airport Shooter in For Life

January 6, 2017 started as an ordinary day at Florida’s Fort Lauderdale Airport, with travelers bustling

BRING IN THIS COUPON TO RECEIVE

20% OFF A NEW TREATMENT OF INVISALIGN OR BRACES

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

Suit Central

456 Central Ave, Cedarhurst NY 11516 516.791.1925

Sunday 11-6, Mon-Thurs 11-7 Friday 10:30-2:30

Home of the Famous Non-Iron Shirt

Regular • Slim • Extra Slim French Cuff • Spread Collar • & more!

BOYS’ SUIT SALE! BUY ONE GET ONE

50% OFF! Regular Price $199

BALTIMORE • BROOKLYN • CEDARHURST • CHICAGO • LAKEWOOD • MONSEY • TORONTO Sale ends 8/30/18. Must mention this ad. Not valid with any other offer, special or discount. We are not responsible for typos.

All prices are subject to change without notice. Other restrictions may apply.

29

30

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

certain that he had the “capacity” to understand the charges and consequences of pleading guilty. According to Miami psychologist Heather Holmes, who evaluated Santiago on six different occasions since he was imprisoned, the suspect was fully able to follow the proceedings. She said that “he’s the most stable that I’ve ever seen him.”

Are Democrats Becoming Socialists?

to their destinations – until Esteban Santiago opened fire. At that moment, lives changed forever. The mass shooting left five innocent people dead, six injured, and hundreds of others traumatized from the attack.

Santiago was sentenced to life in prison this week at a Florida court

by U.S. District Judge Beth Bloom who called the attack “85 seconds of evil.” He imposed five consecutive life sentences for those murdered and an additional 120 years for those wounded. Generally murder cases are held at

state court but Santiago was charged federally because the mass shooting took place at an international airport.

The attack was proven to be deliberate. The trial established that Santiago took a one-way flight from Anchorage, Alaska, to Fort Lauderdale.

He had his weapon in his luggage, and upon arriving in Florida he went to the bathroom to load his handgun and opened fire in the baggage claim area. The entire incident lasted just 85 seconds before Santiago attempted to exit the airport. There, he encoun-

tered a Broward County deputy sheriff and surrendered almost immediately.

Santiago pleaded guilty to the charges in a plea agreement in order to avoid the possibility of the death penalty.

Born in New Jersey and raised in Puerto Rico, the defense described the 28-year-old Iraq War veteran as a mentally disturbed individual suffering from schizophrenia. During the trial the judge demanded that Santiago undergo a full psychiatric competency evaluation in order to make

A Gallup poll found this week that among Democrats, 57% have a favorable view of socialism, while only 47% have a similar take on capitalism. The poll has many concerned as the country gears up for the next presidential election in 2020.

The influence of “Democratic Socialism” is widespread. “Bernie Sanders lost the war but won the battle to reshape the party,” noted Brad Bannon, a Democratic strategist. Bernie Sanders had introduced a “Medicare for all” bill that has been heavily embraced by many prospective Democratic presidential candidates.

Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, arguably the biggest star in the Democratic Party this summer, labels herself as a Democratic Socialist. Ocasio-Cortez won the Democratic primary in New York’s 14th congressional district, defeating the incumbent Congressman, Democratic Caucus Chair Joe Crowley, in possibly the biggest upset of the 2018 midterm elections.

Analysts are mostly saying that the movement to the left among Democrats is good for President Donald Trump. Many Democrats are concerned that they will lose possible Trump voters and Independents, who would normally be more on the fence. Republicans are very hopeful in 2020 as Democrats lean more to the left.

Bernie Sanders is not as worried.

In an interview on CBS’s “Late Show,”

31

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

INSPIRING JEWS ...

ONE BOOK AT A TIME

f ro m

m u n e o n t M a l a N g e n w i c P u roject d o r t n I 4

‫כי‬

‫צד ה‬

‫פ‬ ‫רק ר‬

‫עדים‬

ֵ‫א‬ ‫ינָ ן�נ ֲע‬ ‫שִׂ ין בֶּ ן‬

‫ם‬ ‫הוּ�זמּוּ‬

ִ‫יוָ ן דְּ א‬

ֵ‫י�מהּ כּ‬

ֵ‫תּ‬

e g, h ְ‫גּ‬ is anin ‫אשון‬ me ah. H ‫רוּשָׁ ה‬ ‫תוס‬ m alal; ָ‫�וחֲ לוּצ‬ ‫פות‬ ‫מ‬ ,‫ה‬ a ch eat teru ‫כ‬ ‫ו‬ ‫א‬ “ is ‫ת‬ �‫כ‬ ust ‫גּ‬ on h or s ‫ם‬ m e ְ‫בּ‬ a 3 th od ren h to ‫ שֶׁ לֹּא‬AFOS ah), do av is KEITZAD hild S ְ ֵ‫יוּ�זמּוּ א‬ lutz d c not w litzah HA’EIDIM — .‫ב‬ TO cha ed to ere s a ‫ד“ה‬ ֶ‫יך ֵי ָעשׂ‬ CHAPTER fath r doe es ch ben hibit ‫ה‬ ‫מעי‬ r ‫ד‬ g � o ‫ע‬ e ‫ין‬ ro iv ‫ל‬ in ONE ִ‫פּ‬ [’‫]א‬ ֶ‫יה‬ hah fore p ell. hav broth o rece s to MAKKOS t ‫ם‬ s ru u e h k w e ְ‫בֶּ ן גּ‬ itho . If th an w see ben n g is there ed as ‫ר‬ e s w ָ‫וּשׁ‬ 2a — b m m s fi fo r die ibu . A wo n (a h, and quali osa hah o ing ָ‫ה? דְּ ה‬ y T o ֵ‫כ‬ d , s d ‫י‬ is e n h s n a a e d sba ‫הוּא‬ ssio n geru pon b ‫ֵעדוּת‬ call halitza has Kehun s, are u u h d c is ‫תוספות‬ c an the dis s a be nah u � ‫ֶשׁ ִאי‬ tion whose rriage alled ing ain a hen m ‫א �תּ‬ era hu an his ma ony c is m alified e Ke ‫ ה י� כוֹל‬follow a Ko ed fro er gen om m th T rry fi e u In h � ְ‫ל‬ rth ma quali .‘‫א ְוֹמ ִרים כו‬ d w ther. a cere es. is disq s from ‫ הזִּ י �מהּ‬ny (se ll fu is ony ֹ‫ל‬ rrie ctiv ‫וּצה ֵאין‬ ma d’s bro rough tim a is d , and a bje ohen selve ‫ א ְשׁ �מהּ‬stimo � s ‫ל‬ o ‫ח‬ A ֲ te ‫ן‬ ‫בּ‬ K is o m s te ֶ ‫וּשׁה אוֹ‬ f w es ah: usban her th � ‫וּא ֶבּן גְּ ר‬ son s tw ertain ed the rule o called litz uss s h y Je c ‫ישׁ ְפּלוֹנִ י ֶשׁה‬ fi s ha t ase Cha y her disc rdinar afo that a quali lmudic is no ‫ידין �אנוּ ְבּ ִא‬ ♠ rele o TOSAFOS rr Tos nah . a h fy dis ma er, he ִ ‫ְמ ִע‬ fos: o testi eing t the T azama estion Mish that an h en e h h ic ah.

Tosa tb y qu rry or b ima halutz tive of sses w ite no ontrad law of this why th timon h c to sha rohib e u jec witne desp s to c in ot tes rs r th b e is a p e la O d y to answ m exp nd n en g ng the t their ‫כיצד‬ b The in wh elieve h see bject a o to a a n ti ♠ b s la u tw h, ic s th bee n is iola exp ah are in, wh not s l give e aim alutza ohe s for v dicate d not hen ch em at is s wil n, h lutz u in K s in ey ha e Ko e ’‫ים כו‬ cha d zom ony th Tosafo cussio or ben b certa malk alku th th ‫ֵאין א ְוֹמ ִר‬ n at a receive eive m that if ualified should ‫לוּצה‬ fou , testim box). nd dis shah — If witne ָ ‫אוֹ ֶבּן ֲח‬ th ru ֵ d c o y ‫ע‬ d q s e e y n c sses say, ‫וּשׁה‬ r g ָ ‫וּא ֶבּן גְּ ר‬ fie , the ‫ דוּת‬grou s’ se ean ve dis stimon “WE TEST thought ben ‫ְפּלוֹנִ י ֶשׁה‬ k testi in emin h m to be a IFY AB ha Bac Tosafo n is a ‫ָאנוּ ְבּ ִאישׁ‬ OU valid Ko sses zomem e zom ,” whic would such te “TH e e n E ‫ְמ ִע ִידין‬ hen) THAT T THIS-AND-THIS SON OF In Koh wit to be A CHAL PERSON at th timony y and d why HE IS TH if a th UT zom t t (who wa d ZAH,’’ [1] emin, WE E SON tha zer. tha foun e fact d “tes stimon erstan y and then s OF A GE n DO NOT s o e li le RU m d h the witne r gerushah a SAY tha ma stim ) it t these wi sses were SHAH,” OR h ru ey we ony. T ered v d the te to un (son of a te a t n (b tnesses be lt gerushah) p h m th found to Kohen’s  If, cce come dis Mis and e testi consid accepte difficu and place; rat or ben ch be qualified alutzah her, they The tzah, tion that we aazamah, proved. ent gave. [2] s fals itially have nds it as (so e rec ben n g lu of eiv u a chalutza e malku dis hm is Q cha t givin was in t would afos fi hh s for the h) in the fos’ The rule throug they bethe punise. As theto rt false tes ur [3] Tos ins timony the e co osa aga in cou c ld m d. : n ct pla y tion ment lying, th testifie To T zamah ve the shou give e fizam rst t subje o /Th nah  und w of Hato disproer zamamannot bde in♠thHa state n to be m they In is o e tr Pu t od r nis uction  hmen g o c w h La thawitnesse te nyof sho st wh s testifies ah t of Zomemin: ack , or a’as the sible cep o by saying Hazamah in tz ainst a  B bject to l be pos ent of kzomeminis not ac‫ ֵע‬, testimwh to them, haluag is aga ted: pe a rso pro c “Yo n, and the cess of dis p at you cla Su it wil nishm me enretowi ben ruovwe n qu ony ‫דוּת ֶשׁ ִאי‬ acce orto ) u Not have p see ben th us on that day another set of witne alifying witnesse tim false throuhahim eco t Is ly if: (a the p not b eir tes �‫�א �תּה י‬ in a dif s. A set s gh sezam sses dispro s], ifahd as an at ittha - t ‫כוֹ‬ Tha to anpe gerultynesha ves the firs wled time (Mishnah 5a) ferent place,” so aresecal ny ses on e them es can tim, th � ‫ל �ל ֲהזִּ י‬ lifie , h be na t set e ‫מּ‬ s imo iv wit heisdid ss qua nont[tde mezomemin (plott . The first set of wi you could not ha s a Zoeme e mi o s a ser Test witne to g witne eir vic � ‫הּ לֹא ְשׁ‬ d c ve. ve seen n ers e n e tne h e tne ), since the ♠ om sses, wh h s n] b or ohe cwh wsse e [tom ethe om wi sible n, the e on th ‫ מהּ ֵעדוּת‬mony.

F o K c y rec we e s fr n plo eiv re a o e h tte in proven d to make v tifiedKo p t b ny etes osh msame punis ‫ ְדּ ָה‬e—the fies ָ‫ — ֵכּיו‬S Yo aso impos 41a): d testi ֵ‫כ‬ be . o n so Th ti u e ‫י‬ [a me l h re is o n is all on il n hm th to n e e d e liable ‫ הוּ‬tau ent the ri w ght by ְ‫ן‬ lle to cahim st w so, do ‫א ָה‬he h id som ed ‫ דּ ִאם‬d thus zam t ca hed if am ow ‫ֱא ֶמת‬as plo gaintted to vethe verse (Devarim y tried to give to for plann s (San is no whic ֵ ‫הוּז� מּוּ‬ an ִ — —[‫ם‬h‫]כּ ֲא ֶשׁר? ז� �מ‬, a to his � when a the perso 19:19): ‫יו‬ h hdo y y ony ָ‫אינ‬ nt, ‫ ֵאי ְ ♠ אם ֵכּ‬Mioshn brother. ‫שׁוֹת לְ �א ִח‬ n against ny ah e Koh ich mean the ara sa azama os,uld stim ‫ ן נ� ֲע ִשׂין‬ishme ֶ ְ‫ך יֵ ָע ֶשׂה ן גּ� ם בּ‬Thetim Thus, thi “as are h d w theyheinplo s punishm ‫ם לוֹ �כּ ֲא ֶשׁר ז� �מם �ל ֲע‬ t te n tted.” en th’s Rulingydis Gem w of ancu tesrusha tha ָ ‫ בֶּ ן גְּ רוּ‬ah pu �‫ �על ִפּי ֶה שׁלֹּא יוּז‬eir ge ‫ית‬ y g ֶ ‫ו ֲע ִשׂ‬,� ent is kn th en s astcas sse h if g , or h la n a o ‫שׁ‬ ch ow e in ‫ ם בֶּ ן גְּ מּוּ‬h thfoundemtoin alu ‫ה‬ mtza . W r te roeofsof witne n as ka’ash am th p ee be irme nish ‫ו� ֲחלוּ‬ g m dfo testi s bashis(an sses who er haz es, hed thunsaldisqu mi s e e zoqualify thzo testify tha asto ! ‫ ָצה‬e the ‫ רוּ ָשׁה‬throu to bdis elv n itn. pTh uneis Mi ditio ehpted, alified from the the d d , ems eiv It is ah froom athe n re Keor adshana Kehunah), t a Kohen is the malkucc epte vicmtim cc rules that ֵ — accepte not rec tzah th memin chalutz t show s y ‫תּ‬ [F hu for so a ‫י‬ e eve .] an na n � n vio ). d ‫מ‬ d n h, of ir lat, ing y th the witne if the wi asuka’ash a ‫הּ‬ bee alm be mo allny the e zo r ben are no in Tzthe lachpro , do chalu tnesses sse er e in ld b d ag zam s v hib g T are ain e u in em a am itio a are Koha fi then to mst yourf, fel ld h ei H n of (Sh would see ori the n wo mem h o esses nim, we uali bso emos 20: e zno ei Yose h m to req r be o e; own sha oulowa(se do not 13), ‫�שׁ ֶקר‬ disq d rea k y are to uire; rat a li uthe ef rs e Gemara below be z shah o not sh geru e witn y w M ‫ה ְב ֵר ֲע �ך ֵעד‬ ing beis un Disqu r t given the , 2b, and n (Nim stimon tzano u es fo♠ ֶ‫ל ֹא �ת ֲענ‬, Do her, they receive say To ka’asher O of ely e ali ger es] are as a be t if th teficati not bear ply ony. If the zamam pu safos 4b ‫ד“ה ורבנן‬ ndon falsor th Ben Gerus a s false testisim n er aeiv ). See be o nishmen hah and Nrec for testim ny, the ce it nes alified ue th at wh a s ed low th t.

L u Be ch e , tr u note 20, n Chalutza alitzah (a lk fals timo e, sin ce for ruch ma disq surely h: A woma chalutza ive nt for the tes their li rt. Sin in A h) may no n who wa e u rece d1. r d t marry it is s divorced not unishm ccepte us fo e of co beis They claim that a Kohen (a gerusha they witnes being div oes a p (Mishna alk utsid that h) orc sed this Ko h 13a). If ne d the em ave o receive cha ed from a previo hen’s mo sh 3. O us is ever h receiv e lie bvious e do es us husba ther pu litzah fro o alk not id th ld n

.‫ב‬

 ‫ק ראשון‬

‫ פר‬

‫עין משפט‬ ‫נר מצוה‬

.‫ב‬

‫ראשון מכות‬ ‫פרק‬

'‫פ"כ מהל‬ ‫אין א א מיי'הלכה ח סמג‬ ‫חלוצה‬ :‫עדות טוח"מ סי' לח‬ ‫עשין קי‬ ‫שהוא בן גרושה או בןאינן נעשין בן‬ ‫פי"ח הל' א‬ ‫)א( ב ב מיי' שם‬ ‫אנו באיש פלוני כיון דאם הוזמו‬ :‫סמג שם‬ ‫פיהם בן גרושה‬ ‫ תימה‬.'‫אומרים כו‬ ‫פ"כ הל' י‬ ‫על‬ ‫ג מיי' שם‬ ‫בשלא יוזמו איך יעשה שאי אתה יכול להזימה ג‬ :‫סמג שם‬ ‫א"כ גם‬ ‫ כיון דלוקין הוי‬R ‫הויא לה עדות‬ ‫וחלוצה ואמאי הא‬ ‫וי"ל‬

‫מעידין‬

‫כיצד העדים‬

:‫מאי קאמר‬ ‫ בגמרא מפרשבפנינו נתגרשה‬.'‫זוממין כו‬ ‫מסורת הש"ס‬ ‫גרושה‬ ‫ואין זה עדות שפיר אתה יכול‬ ‫ אם הוזמו דהכי הוא האמת‬.‫אומרים‬.‫ שהוא בן גרושה‬:‫כיצד העדים נעשין כהן‬ .‫איש פלוני‬ , ‫מהר"מ‬ ‫זמם והוי‬ ‫ אין ז( כאשר זמם אלא‬:‫חלל ופסול‬ ‫מאי קאמר פרק‬ ‫א( גירסת‬ ‫ג( מהר"ם‬ ‫כאשר וקשה דא"כ‬ ‫את שנולד והרי הוא וחלוצה לקיים בו‬ ,[.‫]לקמן ה‬ ‫גבי‬ (‫ב‬ ‫ אמו ו( קודם‬,‫ ע"ש‬.‫סנהדרין פט‬ ‫גרושה‬ '‫ ו( ]עי‬,[‫ ד( בילקוט‬,‫מ"ז‬ ‫ והן כהנים יעשה זה בןובגמרא מפרש‬,[‫יט‬ ‫ה( ]ליתא‬ ‫]דברים‬ ‫את הארבעים‬ ‫שהרג את‬ ‫רש"א ז(דהא ט( רש"ל סופג‬,[‫תוי"ט‬ (‫ח‬ ‫ האי כיצד‬.‫ שחייב גלות‬:‫ כ( ]דף טעמא‬,[.‫יב‬,‫]כריתותאם‬ (‫ י‬,‫מ"ז‬ ‫רש"ל‬ ‫ גמ' ה"ג מיבעי ליה‬:‫ הנפש בשוגג‬ ,[‫ ל( ]עיין רש"א‬,[‫ ע"ש‬.‫מה‬ .'‫ כו‬ ‫( אבל אמרו‬.‫ אין העדים נעשין זוממיןה‬ ‫מ( צ"ל‬ ‫דקתני לקמן )דף‬ ‫ ועיין‬.'‫כו‬ ‫העדים נעשין‬ ‫שבאין‬ ‫יכול‬

‫ כיצד אין‬:'‫אתה בד'יכול מיתות ב"ד ועוד כו‬ ‫ לוקין וי"ל דהתם כיון את הנפש לא‬ÛËÂà ‫לא מקיימת‬ ‫ נ( חייבי להם‬,‫רש"א‬ ‫וזממו להרוג‬ ÇÒ ‫במלקות דהא‬ ‫ דהאמאי קא בעי‬.‫ ס( רש"ל זוממין מיבעי ליה‬,‫פשיטא מהר"ם‬ ‫ מיתה כאשר זמם‬ÑË ÆØÇÎÉ ÑËÅËÔÐ ÑËÐÐÇÈ ÏËÛÔÒ .‫ ועוד‬:‫כאשר זמם‬ ‫גבי הזמה‬ .‫מיתות‬ ‫הוא כפירוש‬ ‫מיקיים‬ ‫זוממין הא קתני‬ Ñà ‫ ע( רש"ל‬,‫מ"ז‬ ‫דקתני‬ ‫ בהדיא כתיב נפש בנפשיכול להזימה‬ÆØÇÎÉ Ñà Ç Ç ÆÛÇÚÄ Ñà ÂÇÆÛ ÏËÅÔÆ ‫בהו כיצד נעשין‬ ,'‫הקונט‬ ‫ דעדות נפשות ולא חשיב כוון אלא‬ÇÒ ÑËÅËÔÐ ÆÛÇÚÄ Ñà ÆÈ ÆÛÔË ËÒÇÎÖ ‫תנא לקמן כיצד דין זוממיןהמזימים‬ ÏËÔÃÚ ÆÙÇÎ ÏËÚÐÇ ‫לה אבל אמרו להם והלא‬ ‫ במלקות אבל הכא שלאחלוצה דליכא‬ÏËÚÐÇ ÑË ÜÇ '‫השלם במתני‬ ‫מעידים עדות זה‬ ÎÄÎ ÃËËÉ ÂÇÆÛ ÂΠ ÇËÜÉÜ ‫פלוני‬ ‫ לשווייה בן גרושה >ובן שלקו חשיב‬ÂÆ ‫תורה אור �כּ ֲא ֶשׁר היאך אתם‬ ÏËÔÃÚ ÆÙÇÎ ËÒÇÎÖ ÛËÂà ‫עמנו אותו היום במקום סליק‬ ‫לוֹ‬ ‫ ועי"ל‬R ‫ כי אם לאו בעלמא כיוןלהזימה‬ÆËÎ ËÔÃËÐ ‫ �ו ֲע ִשׂ ֶיתםשׂוֹת ְל�א ִחיו הייתם‬.1 ‫ מסנהדרין‬.‫קאי‬ ÑËÐÐÇÈ ÏËÛÔÒÂΠÇËÜÉÜ ÆÈ ÆÎÄË ‫דהוא‬ ‫ שפיר עדות שאתה יכול וחלוצה לא‬ÌÂËÆ ÏÆÎ ÇÚÐ ‫ התם‬:'‫ כו‬: ‫�ז� ִמוּב�םע ְר�תּ ��לה�ֲערע ִמ ִקּ ְר ֶבּ�ך‬ ‫אלו הן הנחנקין‬ ¨ ¢¤ ¢¤ ¥ ± ³¥¢²© ÏËÅÔÆ ‫דגבי עדות דבן גרושהיכול להזימה‬ ‫¡ דתנן בשילהי‬¢ ¡¢ ¦¢± ± ¥« ÏÜËËÆ ÏÜ ÏÇ Â (‫ ב‬ÎàÑÐÙÎ ËÒÜÙ ÑË ÅØËÍ ‫דיש זוממין שנשתנו‬

‫כלל באתה‬ £± ³ ‫שאתה‬ ¥ ¥

‫חיישינן‬ ‫עדות‬ ËÆ ÇÜÇÂà ËÚÆÛ ÅÐ (‫ א‬ÅÇÔÇ ‫סיומא דסנהדריןהזמה כדקתני כל‬ ² ¢ § ¢ ² ±§ ¥ ¨©¢§¢¢°§

‫ דמהיכא נפקא לן דבעינן והא מוכח‬ÎÎÍÐ (‫ ג‬ÑËÐÐÇÈ ÇΠËÚÆ ‫מדין‬ ÑËÅËÔÐ ÏÜ ‫לאותה מיתה‬ ± ¥ ° ² ¢ ¥ ‫גליון הש"ס‬ ‫להזימה מכאשר‬ ÑËÐÐÇÈÆ ÎÍ Ã (‫ד‬ ‫במקצת מקדימים‬ ‫זמם נכתב לגבי‬ ËÒÇÎÖ ÏÇÙÐÃ Ç ‫מיתה אחרת‬ ¨§ ¢¥ ¨©¢ ²

‫יכול‬ ‫דכאשר זמם לא‬ ËÂÙ ÏÜÆ ÂÒÜ ‫ד"ה מעידין‬ ‫ כו'עי' הזוממיןאין להם לצפות‬.‫דלוקין‬ ¢ § ‫קאי כלל‬ ÒÐÔ ‫שנגמר‬ ²« ¢ § '‫תוס‬ ¢ ² ¦³ª ÑËÐÐÇÈ ÑË ÇÎÂÅ ‫ בגמרא גרושה )ב( ולא‬ÑÆÍ Üà ËÐÐÇÈÐ ×ÇÉ Ä ‫דף כלומר‬ ‫מיתה‬ ‫וי"ל כיון‬ ² ‫התם‬ ‫לאותה‬ ‫מקובצת ב"ק‬ ‫ עדות דבן‬ÂΠÆÜËÐ ÆÜËÐ ÆÜÇÂÎ Ñ ‫בת‬ ‫משכימין‬ ‫שבעולם ? אבל‬ ¨©¢ ² ¥ ¥¢ ¤ §¯« ÆÜÇÂÎ ÑËÐËÅÙÐ ‫ חוץ‬:‫שיטה ע"ב ד"ה עדות שאי אלא של נדון‬ ‫בשום צד‬ ËÐËÅÙÐ ‫מזוממי דינה‬ ‫ )ולהכי שייך בזה‬A .‫ודאי כאשר זמם ריטב"א‬ ‫עה‬ ‫ בא"ד בה דינו‬:‫להזימה‬ ‫שאע"פ שנגמר‬ ‫ עליהנערה המאורסה‬ÑËÂÛ ÏËÚÉ ÑËÐÐÇÈ ÏËÅÔ ÛËÇ Ü ÑËÂÛ ÆÎÔÇÃÇ ‫כדילפינן‬ ¢ ¥ ² ¤ ¢¥ ‫בה מיקטלי‬ ‫אתה‬ ‫ נשואה‬.‫ כהן‬.‫ועי"ל יכולדגבי עדות דב"ג‬ ‫ גבי‬ÜÇÙÎÐ ÂΠÚÙ ‫דאם התרו‬

‫בחנק‬ ¨©¢± § ¥ (‫בלא הזמה‬ ‫בזה מסוגיא‬ B ‫ קאי נמי עליהן ח( ואילו איהי‬ÂÇÆÛ ËÒÇÎÖ ÛË ËÔ ÎÍ ÆÐÈÆ ÑËÅÚÉ ÆÜËÐÎ ‫רא"א לשריפה על פיהם הם בשריפה ואין‬ ‫קשה לי‬ ³¢§ ³ .‫ שם‬¢ ‫דכתובות דף ע"א‬ ‫בשהוזמו‬ ¨³¢§ ¥ ‫התרו וכיון‬

¢­ ‫ אינהו )והתם מיירי בלא‬ÆÛÔË ÏËÚÐÇ Âà ÇÒ ÑËÅËÔÐ Å ÑÆà ÑËÛÇÔ ‫( היאאלא בחנק כשאר‬.‫זוממין לגממונא משלם התם )דף צ‬ ³¢§ ² .‫תוס' ישנים‬

‫עלייהו( לכך בעינן‬ ‫עדים‬ (‫הוזמו ט‬ ‫משום דלאו‬ ØËÍ ÏËÔÃÚ ‫משמע בועלה בשריפה משכימין למיתה‬ ‫מלקי לא לקי‬ ® ¥ ¨¢©¢§ °§ ‫אמאי‬ ÂΠÇËÜÉÜ ÑË ÆØÇÎÉ Ñà Ç ÆÛÇÚÄ Ñà ‫דכאשר זמם קאי‬ ‫איש והזוממין‬ ³ ±¢¥ ¨ ¤ ‫כאשר זמם‬ ‫להזימה ויש לדקדק‬ ‫בני התראה‬ ± ² ¥ ÆØÇÎÉ Ñà Ç ‫ראוי לומר אשת‬.‫התראהנינהו‬ ± © « ¡¥ C ‫פלוני‬ ‫שחייבו את הבועל‬ ‫ אתה יכול‬ÔÛÇÆË Ú Â ËÎË ‫דאי בני‬ ¨³¢§ ¥ ¥ ¤¢ ³ ¨¢³§ §

‫באיש‬ ‫לקי והא אם‬ ÆÛÇÚÄ ÑÃ ÆÈ (‫דכתיבלאחותו )שם‬ ¢² ¥

‫ לא נקט מעידין אנו הוה שייך בין‬ÂÚÙ ÚÐÂÅ Ð ËÒÆÒÐ ÏËÔÃÚ ‫יותר דמלקי דממונא לא‬ ‫לעשות לאחיו ולא זוממין אחרים‬ ³ ³¢§ ³¢§ ¥¤ ‫יהיה הדין כל העדות‬ ‫עוד יש‬ ‫ שהוא ממזר כו' דזה ובן גרושה לא‬ÇÔÚÈÎ ÂÎÇ ÛËÙÎ ÑÃ Û Ú ÂÆ Ü ÆÙÇÎ ‫הזמה כלל‬ ¨ ² « § ‫משלם בטלהשאי אתה יכול‬ ‫בכהנים‬ ‫דומה וקאמר הכא בהן דין‬ D .‫דנקטיה תוס' שאנץ‬ ÇÎ ÏÐÈ ÚÛÂÍ ÚР(‫ ה‬ËÇÎ Ñà ‫אותן‬ ‫דהוי עדות‬ ³¢§§ ¦ ¢©²§ ‫ בישראל ביןבכהנים ויש ליישב‬ÑÒËÔà ÆËÔÚÈÎ ÇÎ ‫להזימה דבזה אין דהזמה שאין‬ ÇÎ ÏÜËÛÔÇ ‫מקיימיןועלה מפרש כיצד הזמה‬ ¥« ³³¢§§ ¨¢§ § ‫כדאיתא‬ ÓÖËÎ ÂÎÇ ÆËÅËÅ ‫דהא אלא מלקות‬ ‫דהא קרא‬ ‫ פסיל אלא אזוממי בת כהן‬ÚÐÇ ÂÅÖ ± § ¢©² ¢¢ ³©² ‫לב"ג על הממון‬ Î ÇÆÇÎÓÖËÎÇ ‫ ולא‬:'‫העדים שאין מקיימין בהןאנודיןכו‬ ‫משום דקאי‬ ¥¤ §¥« :‫דשייך בכהונה‬ Úà ÂÍËÎÇ ¤ ± § ¨ ¢© ³ ³¢§

‫קאי‬ ‫ וא"כ‬.‫אתרו‬ ‫מעידים‬ ‫ בגמרא ולכך נקט מידי פלוני שחייב‬ÎÎÉÎ ÂÃÆ ÎÎÉÜÐ ÜÇÛÔÎ ÏÐÈ ÚÛÂÍ ‫והוא כהן‬ ¨¢© ¢©² ³¤

‫משכחת בלא ל"צ התראה‬ ‫באיש‬ ‫אם‬ ÇÒËÂ ÎÎÉÐÆ ‫דמלקי נעשין זוממין תעשהו חלל‬ ³±¢ ‫הם‬

¥° ¢ ² ¥« ³³¢§ ‫ מעידין אנו וא"ת היאך‬ÆÎ ÕËÙÜÐ ÎÎÉÜË ÂÎÛ ÑË ‫ ואם‬.‫אדרבה לומר יותר כלל לזרעו‬ ÆÐÇ Ç Ù ‫ בעינן כאשר‬:‫לעולם‬ « ¥²

ÑËÐÐÇÈ ÏËÅÔ ‫אפשר יהיה בממון‬ E .‫ בעדותן והא יכול ריטב"א‬.‫גלות‬ ‫לקי ולא‬ .‫ישנים‬ ‫קאי עלה‬ ÜÚÇÜ ÜÎÊÃÅ ÇÒË ÎÎËÉ ÂÎ Ç ‫עכ"פ פסלת את זרעוזמם לפסול את הנדון‬ '‫ תוס‬¥« (:‫ג‬ ‫לחייבו גלות‬ ±© ¥ © ²¥ ¡²­

‫מציעא )דף‬ ÆÐÇ ‫דין‬ ÑÍ Ï ÂÒËÃÚ .‫ והוא המחלל אינו מתחלל‬.‫ א"כ זמם‬.‫הזמהכאשרולא זמם‬ ‫יכולים בפ"ק דבבא‬ F §¥ ¢³±³ ²°§ ±­ª ² ‫מקתו ואיכא‬ ‫שמחלל את‬ :‫ועשיתםצריכין התראה זמם ואת זרעו‬ ¨ ²¥> @ G

‫הייתי כדאמר גבי אכלת חלבשנשמט הברזל‬ ‫אם‬ .‫ ריטב"א‬¢¥ ‫הגולין )לקמן‬ ‫משכחת בממון‬ ‫כאשראם לא כהן הנושא את הגרושה מתחלל מן‬ ‫רגלים לדבר‬ ¢ ¥ ¨¢§§ ¦¢ « ¨¢²«©

‫לומר מזיד‬ ‫פרק אלו הן‬ ‫ובאתרו‬ ‫דמיירי כשראו בו‬ ‫ אם‬.‫אם כן‬ ¦ ¢° ¥« ³ «§²§ ‫דיש לנו לומר‬ ‫ עד‬.‫ממון יהיה בכלל זרעו אין הוא עצמוולא חילל‬.‫בלא אתרו‬ ‫מהא‬ ‫דתנן דשאני שונא‬ :'‫דין כו‬ ¨¢² « ‫ וי"ל‬:‫הזמתם‬ ¥ ¨ ‫ הבא לחלל‬:‫ישלמו שאי אתה יכול הכהונה‬ ‫למימר דלא נתכוין אבל קשה לדבר וי"ל‬ § ³± ³ ‫ בודאי‬A ‫העדים‬ ‫לחלל ולא חיללו אינו בטלת תורת‬ ¨¢§§ ¨¢²«© ¨ ²¥ ¢

‫עדות‬ '‫בעינן כו‬ ‫גולה כיון דראו דהוי רגליםכגון דשתיק כשאמרו לו כל הזוממין‬ ‫ד"ה‬ ‫בעדים זוממים‬ ‫ומה‬ ‫שרצה‬ .‫¨ שם‬³ §§

.‫ אשתו נפסלת‬:‫להזימה‬ :‫דמיא‬ ‫גולה‬ ‫גולה ואמאי אינו‬ ³¥¢ ³ ‫יענו‬ ‫לר"י זומם לדרוש ק"ו זה‬ ‫וי"ל דמ"מ‬ ¢ ¢ ‫ניחא משונא ומ"מ אוהבאבל כיון דשתק כהודאה מקדימין שלא‬ ‫עדיין קשה‬ ®±³§> @ >G ‫דמצרי שני באת‬ ‫לכאורה‬ ¨¢§§ ¨¢²«© ¦¢ « ¯¢¤ ‫אינו‬ ‫האי גוונא דומיא דאוהב לדבר והשתא‬ ‫י( בלא אכלתי חלב‬ .‫דף סט‬ ‫ אבל ודאי אם‬B ‫ובכתובותכ( פירש שרוצה לומר‬

¤ ¨³¥¢ ³§ ¨¢§ ¢© ¯¢¤ ‫דליכא רגלים‬ :‫ביבמות פוסל את אשתו‬ ‫במיתה )ג( שהמיתו‬ ‫דשונא אינו גולה לאו כידמיירי שפיר‬ ‫הרגתיו שוגג אלא מזיד כמו קמ"ל פשיטא‬ ‫אינו‬ ¢± ³¥¢ ³ ³² ¥ ‫דרוצח וגואל‬ (:‫דף מה‬ ‫להמיתן‬ ‫דמאי‬ ‫(דבשנאה הכהו @ ועוד י"ל לתרץ ולומר לא‬:‫דף ט‬ ¢±¢¢ ¥ ‫הכתובה‬ ¥ ‫שאין להם נס והמלטה וקשהפירושו ודאי אתה צריךפרק נגמר הדין )סנהדריןלהמיתן במיתה‬ ‫לא הרגתיו יכול‬ ‫טפי‬ ³± ³ ¢¥ ° ²±¢­ ¥ ‫ותירץ‬ ‫מקדימין הכי‬ ‫וקשה דאמרינן‬ ‫שאין אתה יכול‬ ±°¢«§ ‫הבאים כאחד‬ ‫אי הוה אמר‬ ‫הגהות הב"ח‬ ¢² ±­¥ ± ‫ פי' הקונטרסלכך פירש ר"י‬.‫לאותה מיתה‬ (:‫לא‬ ‫הזוממין‬ ¬ ª ‫כתובין‬ ‫דף‬ ‫ב"ד‬ § ‫)ב"מ‬ ¨§°¥ ¢©³° § ‫מ( אבל‬ ‫שאינה מד' מיתות‬

'‫וכו‬ ‫פשיטא‬ '‫וגואל הדם ב‬ ‫ל( הכה תכה‬ ‫)א( ד"ה‬ ³­ ¢ § ‫ מקדימין זה קשה דמאי קמ"ל שנוכל כדתניא‬:‫מעידיןדהכי‬ ‫דבתוספתא )פי"ב דסנהדרין( תניא )ד( הוי רוצח‬ ¢ ¤ ¦ ¥ ±§ ¥ ‫להמיתם אף במיתה‬ ‫ בועלה‬.‫אחרת‬ ‫בן גרושה‬ ‫ הדין וגם נמיתם בכל מיתה‬ ‫למיתה‬ ¢² ±­¥ ±°¢«§ ‫תיפוק‬ ‫דובערת הרע מקרבך ואמאי מומתין מהם‬ ‫קשה‬ ‫גרושה‬ ³­ ‫מקדימין לאותה מיתה אלא ולא לאחותו‬ ¥« ¢ ° ¦ ²§ § ¢¥ ° '‫)ב( כל כו‬ ‫שלא נלמוד שאר‬ ‫ יכול אפ"ה כתובין הבאין כאחד וכןליה קרא‬ ‫דרשא דלאחיו‬ (‫ )ג‬:‫ולא‬ ¢±¢¢ ¨¢°© © ‫לחייבה שריפה‬ ‫ודריש‬ '‫ב‬ ‫ וא"ת למה לי‬D ‫מן הבאין כאחד לענין כהן ובועלה שאין‬ ‫באו‬ ‫במיתה‬ °±­ ‫מהיא‬ ‫ הדם הוו ממיתם בכל‬ .‫ § שם‬ ‫ זוממי בת‬:‫מיתה הוו ב' כתובים מיתות‬ ‫ולא לאחותו‬

‫זוממיה וי"ל הואיל וזוממיה דרשינן נמי‬ ‫ בהן אתה‬ ¥ ° ‫ שם‬¢²¢¥² ‫וגואל הדם‬ ‫לאחיו‬ ‫אחיו‬ ‫חייבי‬ ¦ ² ?G ‫כשהבועל‬

¨¢ ² ¥ ¨¢ ¢­

‫ אפ"ה ה"ר יוסף דרוצח ב"ד פשיטא נמיתם ככל דכתיב לאחיו )ה( דדרשינןהיא ולא בועלה היא )ו(ולאאחיו( אבל כיון דכתיב אמינא דה"מ‬ ‫וזוממי בת כהן‬ ‫מחללת‬ ‫הוה‬ ‫מיתות‬ ‫ ואמאי‬

‫מן‬ .‫ שם‬° ¥ ¥ @G ‫הכירו הבועל לא‬ (‫ )ד‬:‫נמיתם‬ ‫ אבל נ( מד'היא ולא בועלה‬C ‫ זוממי‬ ‫ או שלא‬E ‫( את אביה היאממעטינן זוממין ס( )אלא מהיא וי"ל דאי מאחיואחד‬.‫)סנהדרין נא‬ ‫נגמר הדין‬ (‫ )ה‬:‫ הוי‬ ‫למעוטי זוממין‬ ‫ט' שנים ויום‬ ‫ דדרשינן‬:‫ לאחיו‬ ‫ולא‬ ‫מילתא ושוב פשטה מפרקזוממי זוממין‬ ‫מהיא דנפקא לן דדרשינן דהיא אלא בבועלה אמאי איצטריך‬ ‫כו' לאחיו‬ ‫והשתא למה ליה‬ ‫עדותן כגון שהיה קטן בןמסופק בהאי‬ ‫מיעוטא‬ ‫ אבלוכו' ליה‬ ‫בבועלה כגון רבינו חננאל‬ ‫ מן‬ ‫אחיו‬ ‫)ו( דכתיב‬ ‫דכתיב לא יבא‬ ¥ ¯¨¦ £ ¨ ‫לאוקומי אבל קשה כיון דכתיבלא היה נדון על פי ענין ומתחלה היה ר"י כהן וזוממי )ח( זוממין דליכא דין מיתה‬ ‫כיון קשה כיון‬ ‫למעוטי זוממיה‬ ‫בכל‬ ‫לאחיו אבל אם‬ ‫ועוד מדקתני כיצד‬ ¥ ¨¤ ¥ ¤¤ ‫אבל‬ ‫וי"ל דאי‬ :‫זוממין למעוטי זוממין בת כהן ובועלה או בתשמע מינה דאיירי כגון מיתה בבועל‬ ‫נדון קרינן ביה‬ '‫ וכו‬ ‫הוא זה אינו‬ ¥ ¯ ¦ ¢ª (‫ולא )ז‬ ‫שתי מיתות כגון‬ ‫אלא‬ ‫דין‬ (‫ )ז‬:‫ הוה‬ ¯ ¦ ‫לאחיו קמ"ל היא‬ ‫ היה‬

¡ ¬ ¢ ‫משום הבועל שהוא בחנק בחנק אע"פ דליכא תמצא לומר דלשון הזמהמצרי שני דאינן‬

:‫ למעוטי‬ ‫מעין‬ ¥ ¯ ® > ¡ ¬ ¡ ‫( דקאמר מיתה אחת זוממי זוממין‬.‫וזוממי קרינן ביה מו‬ ‫ולא‬ @ ¥¦ ¯­ :@G ‫בחנק אלמא דהוה זוממיןלפרש ועוד כלומר ואם היכא שמעידין שהוא ולא לאשתו‬ (‫)ח‬ £ £ ¨¤ ‫מיתות בלא‬ ‫זוממי )סנהדרין דף‬ ‫ קשיא‬.‫וליכא‬ ‫יש‬ ‫כאשר זמם לו‬ ¥ ¯ £ ® £° ‫ומה‬ ‫ ועוד כאשר זמם‬F '‫והשתא למה וכו'ליה זוממי תיפוק ליה דאיכא שתי ואפ"ה קאמרי זוממי זוממיןקתני )ט( לקמן וכו‬ ‫וכתיב ועשיתם לו‬ £ ¨ ¯ ¢ ¢ ‫כיצד וכו' הא‬ ¢¨ ¥ ¡ ‫קטן כדפירשתי‬ (‫ )ט‬:‫ בחנק‬ ‫ בעינן דפסלה בביאתו‬:>G ‫קושייתא קמייתא‬ ¢§ª ¢ ‫בעי‬ ¯ (‫ א‬¢ ¨® ¢ ¢ ° ¤¤ ¤ « ° ¤

‫אשתו נפסלת‬ ¢ £¤ ®¯ ¡ ¥ ¡ ‫ ולאלומי‬G ‫ שהוא ע( פיר' הקונטרס דמאיכדקתני‬:‫ וכו' קתני לקמן‬ ° ¢ ¥ ¤ ­¤ ® ¢ ®¤ ¤¢ ª ¢¢ °¤ ¦ ‫ועוד‬ ‫ וי"ל דמ"מ‬R ‫נפסול‬ ¢ £° ¯¨ .‫לקמן‬ ¢¢ ¤ ‫קאמר‬ ¡ ¥ ¤¤ ®¤ ¦¯ ¡ ¥ ¤¤ ¢¡ ­ £° £ ¨ °® ° ­ ®¤ ª ® ‫דעל כרחך דין הזמה אם לפסלו א"כ‬ ¯ ® ¥ ¦° ¥¦ ­®ª ° ¯¨¢ £¤

°¢ ¡ ¥ ¤¤ ¢ :'‫סוטה כג ב‬ ‫? כי‬G ‫לפסול זרעו‬ ¦ ® ®¯ ¡ ¯¨¦ ¯¨ £ ®¤ ¥ ® ¦ ¢ª '‫קידושין עז ב‬ © ­°¤ ¢¢ °

¡ ¯ ® ¢ ¦ ¢ £ ­¤ ¦¤¨ '‫להדיא בקרא ועי‬ ‫באין‬ ¥ ¯ ¢¯ ¥ £° £° ¢ ¢§ ª¢ ‫דכתיב‬ ¦ ¢ª ¦

‫מוסף רש"י‬

(.‫)סנהדרין דף מא‬ ‫להזימה‬ ‫לא‬ ‫ שהיו‬ ‫היו בודקין המאורסה דאיהי‬

,‫הנידון‬ ‫עדי נערה‬ ‫דאינהו לא מיקטלי מחייבין את‬ ‫לאסרה על‬ ‫דכיון‬ ‫כלומר וכל‬ ‫מיקטלאשיכולין לומר‬ ‫אתה נידונין כמיתת‬ ‫עדות שאי‬ ‫משום‬ ‫הבועלים‬ ‫מבועל בת‬ ‫חוץ‬ ‫בעלה באנו והויא להקאמר והא מ"מ‬ . _ XRaLMYZ ‫הנבעלת‬ ‫להזימה ומאי‬ ‫כהן‬ ‫לחייבה‬

‫מוסף תוספות‬

³ ¥ ¢¢ ¥ '‫ תוס‬£ §ª > ³ °¥§ ¨©¢ ±§ ¨©¢±§ ? ‫שאנץ‬ ³ ¤ ¨ ¦ ¢ § ¢ ¢§° ¥ ± ³ª§

«²± ±²­ ¥ ¤¢ ±° ¦¥ «¥ ¦§ ±² ¤ ¢§ ¢°¥ ¥¤ @ :‫עה‬

‫שטמ"ק ב"ק‬ ² ¦ ¥ ±©² ¢« ²

‫נקט לה בכ"ג‬

Q.

Yaakov and Ilana Melohn Edition

TRACTATE MAKKOS complete in one volume

We heard it so many times: "I’d like to broaden my learning..."

"I’d like to learn Tosafos with my son, but I don’t understand it well enough…"

‫עי' רש"י ורבינו‬

'‫גמ‬

(‫א‬

¢¢ ¢

 Chapter

One 

 ‫“ה ְמ ִע ִידין‬ ‫ד‬

¯ ° ¦ ¢ª £ ­¤ ¢¢ ¢ ¥ ¡°¦ £ ¨® ¢ ¢ ¢ §ª¢ ¦ ¥ ¨¤ ¬ ¡ ¦ ¢ª ° ¤¢¨ ° ­¢¤ ¦ ¢ª ® ¯ ¯ ® ¥ ¢ ¦ ¢ª ¯ ¢¨ ¢ ¢ ®­ ¨ ¨ ¢¢ ¢ ®¤ ¢¡ ¡ ¢ ¢¡ ¤ £ £¤ ¯ ¨ ¢¢ °¤ ¦ ®¯ ¡ ¥¦ ¨ ¢ ¢¢ ¦¤¢ ¢¨

SPECIAL INTRODUCTORY PRICE!

m wou it is uld y sa din emin co s if the alkus, m zom ld be a ceive wou do re y e th

If their tes nd (Rashi m a previo ), timony is qualified accepted, us husband’s bro or fro the the Kohen a forbidden m the Kehunah, becomes r. bec his mothe marriage betwe ause he was bor disn fro en his Ko r, a gerush hen father m ah or cha 2. Usual lut and zah ly, zomem . in receiv e the ka’ asher zam am

"...Please do for Tosafos what you did for Gemara!"

nishment inflict on , which is the pu the person nis zomemin about wh hment they trie d to wit om they testifi disqualify nesses, however, despite hav ed. These their victim ished wit ing tried from the h disqua Kehunah to lificat with malku , are not puns for violat ion. Instead, they false testim are punis ing hed ony. See bel the prohibition aga min do not receive the ow, note 20, for wh inst giving y these zom punishm ent they tried to im epose.

It’s finally here: The INAUGURAL EDITION of the ArtScroll Tosafos: 4 An introduction to each Tosafos that gives vital background information and defines important terms 4 A flowing translation in the format of the Schottenstein Talmud 4 Tosafos’ questions and answers clearly explained 4 Notes adding more information 4 A summary after each Tosafos that shows the flow of the entire Tosafos

N:

RATIO IN PREPA

TRACTATES! BERACHO

With The ArtScroll Edition Tosafos, you'll elevate your learning to a higher level.

DEDICATION OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE!

Available at your local Hebrew bookseller or at www.artscroll.com • 1-800-MESORAH (637-6724)

2a

32

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

he said that Democratic Socialist ideas are “mainstream” and “are supported by the vast majority of the American people.”

Come November, Democrats may just feel the “bern,” and not necessarily in a good way.

Musk Speaks

Elon Musk has earned a reputation for being a brilliant businessman and engineer. He has spearheaded many innovative projects and products.

Musk, 47, often shares his thoughts and emotions on Twitter, which has earned him a strong following. However, a recent Tweet may have caused more damage than intended.

Tusk serves as the chairman and chief executive of the electric car maker Tesla. Last week, on August 7, just after noon, he sent out an unexpected Tweet that read, “Am considering taking Tesla private at $420. Funding secured.”

The idea that Musk was considering turning the publicly traded company into a private one sent shockwaves through the business world.

The first reaction was that Tesla’s shares soared. Within two hours Tesla’s shares rose 7%; by the end of the day shares were up 11%. But many are saying that because the news was delivered via social media, many investors and board members were livid that they were not briefed beforehand.

Now, many of the people on the inside are looking at Musk’s social media use as a disadvantage and a sign that he is not fit for the job. There is talk that the board is searching to hire a No. 2 executive to help Musk with his daily talks. After his excessive Twitter use, his self-confession of relying on Ambien to sleep, and his erratic behavior, many are demanding that he slow it down. But Musk has explained that he was simply attempting to be transparent when he issued that tweet.

In a recent interview with The New York Times, Musk said that he

came up with the number $420 after offering a rough 20% premium.

It is believed that such a transaction would be worth over $10 billion.

Musk’s use of words may have gotten him into a little hot water. Apparently the funds were not exactly as “secure” as they were made out to be. Musk explained that his comment was made based on a potential investment from Saudi Arabia’s government. The investment fund is worth at least $250 billion which would allow them to finance Tesla going privately with ease.

Allegedly Musk met with investors from Saudi Arabia on July 31 at the Tesla factory in the Bay Area but no commitment was made. Others have been speculating that Musk’s rocket company, SpaceX, will bankroll a transition at Tesla from public to private.

According to the Bloomberg Billionaire Index, Elon Musk’s net worth rose as of last Friday to $24.6 billion, marking Musk’s highest net worth.

But money has its price. During the hour-long interview, Musk acknowledged his exhaustion, at times choking up when he was speaking. He said he and others had been working 120-hour-long weeks recently. He added that he has not taken off time from work for more than a week since 2001.

“There were times when I didn’t leave the factory for three or four days — days when I didn’t go outside,” he said. “This has really come at the expense of seeing my kids. And seeing friends.”

In fact, on June 28, his birthday, Musk spent the full 24 hours at work.

“All night — no friends, nothing,” he said, struggling to get the words out.

Debris from WWII Ship Recovered On July 17, a team of scientists, divers, and archaeologists discovered debris from an explosion in 1943.

The excavation, partially funded by the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration, discovered the missing section of the USS Abner Read that was hit with a severe explosion on August 18 almost exactly 75 years ago.

The explosion split the 75-footstern section of the ship off and it plummeted deep into the ocean taking 71 U.S. sailors with it. Investiga-

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

ATTEND AN OPEN HOUSE IN NYC OR BROOKLYN! APPLY NOW FOR FALL ‘18

Chana Lazar, Touro MSW, ‘12 Children’s social work therapy

←

Interested in a clinical position or opening your own social work practice?

Earning a Master’s in Social Work from Touro will help you move ahead!

NEED MORE INFORMATION? Contact Miriam Turk, LCSW at miriam.turk@touro.edu | 646.630.1471 Alan Singer, PhD, LMSW | alan.singer4@touro.edu | 347.532.6348

ATTEND AN OPEN HOUSE THIS SUMMER! Visit gssw.touro.edu to register for an Open House in

Congratulations to Dean Steven Huberman for being honored as a Top Leader in the social work profession.

Manhattan | Brooklyn Generous scholarships • NEW! MSW Flex program, with online option Small classes, personalized attention • Extensive alumni network

Awarded by the National Association of Social Workers

Touro is an equal opportunity institution. For Touro’s complete Non-Discrimination Statement, visit www.touro.edu.

33

34

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

tors were unable to recover the debris at that time. Miraculously, the rest of the ship was rescued and brought to the port.

After years of work the massive stern was recovered last week about 300 feet deep off the coast of Kiska Island, a part of Alaska’s remote Aleutian Islands chain. Divers were also able to recognize and recover a gun and rudder control.

“We’ve entered a new age of exploration,” Mark Moline, director of the School of Marine Science and Policy at the University of Delaware and co-founder of Project Recover, said this week. “New sensors and improved underwater robots that can bring back real-time images are driving new discoveries.”

Brennan has Clearance Revoked

Trump has officially slammed the door in John Brennan’s face. On Wednesday, the president confirmed that he has revoked security clearance from John Brennan, former CIA director.

“I have a unique constitutional responsibility to protect the nation’s classified information, including by controlling access to it,” Trump explained. “Today, in fulfilling that responsibility, I have decided to revoke the security clearance of John Brennan, former director of the Central Intelligence Agency,” Trump said in a statement dictated in the White House briefing room by his press secretary Sarah Sanders. “Mr. Brennan’s lying and recent conduct characterized by

increasingly frenzied commentary is wholly inconsistent with access to the nation’s most closely held secrets.”

It is common practice that top national security officials retain their security clearances after leaving government as a professional courtesy. Additionally, oftentimes former agents are called in at a later date to consult on national security issues.

This is the first time a former national security official has seen his security clearance revoked. As of now, the White House did not release evidence that Brennan misused his security clearance since resigning from his post. In response, Brennan furiously tweeted, “This action is part of a broader effort by Mr. Trump to suppress freedom of speech & punish critics. It should gravely worry all Americans, including intelligence professionals, about the cost of speaking out. My principles are worth far more than clearances. I will not relent.”

Aside from serving as the CIA Director, beginning during the Obama administration, Brennan was also a homeland security advisor. Additionally he served as the inaugural director of the National Counterterrorism Center under President George W. Bush after serving more than two decades as a career CIA official. He is a vocal critic of President Trump.

Trump said in a statement Wednesday he is still considering revoking the security clearances of several others: former Director of National Intelligence James Clapper, former FBI Director James Comey, former CIA director and National Security Agency chief Michael Hayden, former deputy attorney general Sally Yates, former national security adviser Susan Rice, former deputy FBI director Andrew McCabe, former FBI officials Lisa Page and Peter Strzok, and Bruce Ohr, a current Justice Department official.

“The President has a constitutional responsibility to protect classified information and who has access to it, and that’s what he’s doing is fulfilling that responsibility in this action,” Sanders explained.

Michael Cohen Pleads Guilty Michael Cohen, a former lawyer for Donald Trump before he was president, completed his betrayal of Trump when he pled guilty in federal

court on Tuesday to several crimes, including tax evasion, bank fraud and campaign finance violations. As per his plea deal with prosecutors, Cohen will be sentenced to three to five years in prison. His sentencing is scheduled to take place on December 12.

Cohen’s legal troubles started in April when the FBI raided his home and offices as part of an investigation into his personal business dealings.

Although he had declared during the 2016 presidential campaign that he would “take a bullet for Trump!” upon being arrested he folded like a cheap suit and declared that he would be willing to testify that during the presidential campaign Trump ordered him to pay hush money to several individuals. President Trump denies that assertion.

On Tuesday, Cohen pled guilty to evading personal income tax from 2012 through 2016; making a false statement to a bank in order to obtain a loan in 2015; and making an “excessive campaign contribution,” the only charge involving Trump.

Michael Cohen is represented by noted Clinton consigliere, Lanny Davis. Mr. Davis represented Bill Clinton during his impeachment and is one of Hillary Clinton’s closest advisors. In a book he published earlier this year, he called for Trump’s ouster from office, on the grounds of incapacity.

After Cohen entered his plea, Davis said in a statement, “Today he (Cohen) stood up and testified under oath that Donald Trump directed him to commit a crime by making payments…for the principal purpose of influencing an election. If those payments were a crime for Michael Cohen, then why wouldn’t they be a crime for Donald Trump?”

Although “campaign violation” has an ominous sound to it, attorney Alan Dershowitz, on Fox News, compared it to “jaywalking” for campaigns.

“Every administration violates the election laws, every candidate violates the election laws when they run for president. Usually they pay a fine or something like that happens.

Here they are trying to elevate this in to an impeachable offense or a felony against the president,” Dershowitz said.

In 2013, then-President Obama’s campaign was fined $375,000 for campaign reporting violations, in what left-wing politics site, Politico, called “the largest fees ever levied against a presidential campaign.” More recently, Donna Brazile, who took over the Democratic National Committee on an interim basis in the middle of the 2016 election, wrote in her tell-all book that Hillary Clinton reached a financial arrangement with the DNC, which, according to many, is a classic campaign finance violation. It remains to be seen whether Mr. Trump will be held to the same standards as Mr. Obama and Ms. Clinton or if impeachment will be the only remedy for him.

Hours after the deputy U.S. attorney for the United States Attorney’s Office for New York’s Southern District stood in front of the courthouse and decried Cohen’s “pattern of lies and dishonesty,” Lanny Davis took to the airwaves and declared that his client is willing to testify that Trump colluded with Russia. All credibility aside, the left may finally have the smoking gun they have been looking for.

Mollie Tibbetts Killed by Illegal Immigrant

After weeks of searching for Mollie Tibbetts of Brooklyn, Iowa, officials finally located her body. Cristhian Bahena Rivera, 24, has been charged with the murder of the 20-year-old girl. Rivera is in the country illegally.

Mollie went missing after going for a jog. Since her disappearance on July 18, the nation had their eyes on Iowa, hoping that the young girl would be found safe and sound. Her community and dozens of investigators ran after every lead, putting her photo on yard signs, in store windows and on thousands of t-shirts.

A week ago a neighbor gave police their surveillance videos and footage

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

35

36

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

showed Mollie running through an area east of Brooklyn with a car moving close to her. The black Chevy Malibu drove back and forth numerous times before it started following her, according to an affidavit. Investigators linked the car to Rivera and “from that we were able to track his pattern in the routes in which he took,” they said.

Rivera confessed to the crime. He told authorities he saw Mollie running and “pursued her in his vehicle.” Later, he parked the car and started running near her.

“And then, at one point, he tells us that Mollie grabbed ahold of her phone and said, ‘You need to leave me alone.

I’m going to call the police.’ And then, she took off running and he, in turn, chased her down,” said Rick Rahn, a special agent in charge at the Iowa Division of Criminal Investigation.

According to Rivera he does not remember what happened next and only realized that he put Mollie’s body in his trunk later on. He dumped her corpse in a cornfield and led investigators to her body.

Mollie, a psychology major, would have started college again this week in Iowa City, about 50 miles east of Brooklyn.

part of the investigation into Russian interference in the 2016 U.S. election.

Prosecutors said Manafort collected $65 million in foreign bank accounts from 2010 to 2014 and spent more than $15 million on luxury purchases in the same period, including high-end clothing, real estate, landscaping and other big-ticket items.

They also alleged that Manafort lied to banks in order to take out more than $20 million in loans after his Ukrainian political work dried up in 2015, and they accused him of hiding the foreign bank accounts from federal authorities. Manafort received loans from the Federal Savings Bank after one of its executives sought a position in the Trump campaign and administration, according to prosecutors.

Manafort, 69, has been in jail since June after his bail was revoked following new charges of witness tampering against him.

He still faces a second set of criminal charges in a Washington, D.C., federal court for failure to register his foreign lobbying and of money laundering conspiracy related to the same Ukrainian political work that was central to the Virginia case.

Manafort Guilty A Diploma at 105

It was a guilty verdict for Paul Manafort on Tuesday on eight counts of financial crimes. Jurors in the case were not able to reach a verdict on ten other charges, and a mistrial was declared for those counts.

President Trump’s former campaign chairman was found guilty of five tax fraud charges, one charge of hiding foreign bank accounts, and two counts of bank fraud. He faces a maximum of 80 years in prison.

Trump reiterated that the charges Manafort was convicted of on Tuesday have “nothing to do with Russian collusion” and criticized Robert Mueller’s investigation for arriving at this point.

Manafort was charged with 18 counts of tax evasion, bank fraud and hiding foreign bank accounts in the first case Mueller brought to trial as

Bill Vogt finally received a piece of paper he dreamed about all his life. At 105 years old, Bill is now a graduate of San Diego State University.

In Bill’s mind, though, he should have received the diploma decades ago.

In 1931, Bill started at the college, driving from his home to school in a Model T. He majored in business – it was called “commerce” at the time – and had a lot of fun as an undergraduate, perhaps too much fun. Admittedly, he wasn’t a great student, and he and his friends spent a bit too much time looking for booze and not too

much time hitting the books. In what should have been his final semester, one teacher refused to grant Bill a credit for his class and so Bill came up short for graduation. He went back for another term and should have went to the next graduation ceremony, which was months later. But there were other things on his mind at the time – it was the Great Depression – and finding a job took priority.

He never did pick up his diploma and worked at a title company. With World War II looming, Bill signed up for the navy and served in the Korean War as well. He also worked at the Pentagon and then later as a school administrator.

This past May, Bill decided he wanted to join the school’s alumni association, as a life member. He was intrigued by an offer of a free wooden diploma frame with the membership.

But he didn’t have his diploma.

Last Thursday, Bill was overjoyed to see the important piece of paper.

At a small gathering on campus, the school president handed Bill a worn diploma, meant to look weathered, as if it had been produced in 1935. His major was even listed as “commerce,” a major no longer offered at the university.

“I hope I haven’t been a disgrace to the school,” Vogt quipped.

School officials believe he is the oldest of their alumni, and maybe the only one still living who attended when the campus was a teachers’ college located in the University Heights neighborhood.

“I’m going to hang it on the wall with pride,” Bill said of his newfound treasure.

According to Bob, Bill’s 69-yearold son, his father is still learning. Bill is always reading – newspapers, magazines, books. According to Bob, he already has an epitaph in mind, one that helps explain why his father went to college in the first place, all those years ago: “Curiosity didn’t kill this cat.”

Opera Attack

If you are living next to “Eva” in Slovakia, you know Giuseppe Verdi’s

La Traviata opera by heart – and it’s driving you nuts.

According to a Hungarian news site, a woman has been charged with harassment and malicious persecution for repeatedly playing the same opera song over and over and over again to drown out her neighbor’s dog’s barking. She started the opera-playing 16 years ago – and has never stopped.

“I love Placido Domingo,” one woman told a Hungarian news site, referring to the singer whose version Eva played. “But not like this!”

Local residents refer to Eva’s home as the “Opera house.”

Eva faces up to six months in jail if found guilty of the charges.

Returning to the Scene of the Crime

On a quiet Friday in Ottawa in October 1958, Boyne Johnston walked out of the Imperial Bank of Canada with a sack of $260,000. Johnston was the chief teller there and took the money from the safe knowing that workers typically missed counting cash on that day. He also put a timer on the safe so it couldn’t be opened until Monday.

Enjoying his newfound wealth, Johnston took his wife and mother out to eat that day and then fled to the United States.

In the U.S., Johnston hopped from city to city and was eventually caught in Denver while he was sipping champagne. A waitress recognized him from his wanted poster, which described him as a “neat dresser, night club habitue, a champagne drinker.”

He was sentenced to four years in prison and got out early in 1960.

Now, sixty years later, Johnston returned to the scene of the crime.

The bank is no longer there. In its stead stands the Rivera restaurant.

On August 10, 2018, Johnston and his friend had lunch at the Rivera and got a tour of the premises. Its wine cellar used to be the bank safe, where it all

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

started six decades ago.

When Johnston’s friend made the reservation at the restaurant, he told the host, “I’m bringing my friend back to the bank that he robbed.”

Standing in the old bank’s vault, Johnston regaled his friends and Riviera’s head chef over a glass of champagne with tales of his time on the run and the purchases from his stolen goods (including a Corvette).

“He [took] us through where everything was when it was the bank, and how he did it, how he pulled off the robbery,” Alex McMahon, the restaurant’s wine director, said, adding that the experience was “really cinematic.”

McMahon said Johnston told them robbing the bank all those decades ago was worth it because it taught him to value life. “He said the experience that he’s the most grateful for is the experience of going to prison [and how] you’ll never understand how amazing it is to get to live a free life until you’ve experienced that,” McMahon said. “He said that every day after he got out of prison has been the best day of his life.”

Johnston was known for his politeness. Even when he was brought back to Canada, authorities said they didn’t need to place him in handcuffs or leg shackles. They also took him out for a beer in Chicago, Johnston said.

The money that Johnston took would be worth about $2.2 million today, according to the restaurant.

Johnston also left a lasting mark on Riviera; before he left, he reportedly signed his name and prisoner number on the wall of the cellar.

Rubik’s Underwater

Vako Marchelashvili knows that practice makes perfect. For the past six months the Georgian teen has been spending several hours underwater with numerous Rubik’s cubes.

On Friday, he knew that it was time well-spent.

The 18-year-old spent 1 minute and 44 seconds submerged in a glass

water tank and solved six Rubik’s cubes while holding his breath at the Gino Paradise aqua park.

“I trained a lot planning to break a record – and to ensure my safety because even a small mistake could be dangerous and life-altering,” Marchelashvili said afterward. “I think my result will stay as a record for a long time. I hope to break many other records.”

The current record holder, Anthony Brooks of New Jersey, was able to accomplish the feat with five Rubik’s cubes. Once Marchelashvili’s stunt will be verified by Guinness he will officially be crowned the world champion.

I’m still working on solving my first Rubik’s cube – but first I have to find it.

No Kids Allowed

Want to take the kids out to eat tonight? Steer clear of Oma’s Kuche in Germany. After 5pm, the eatery has banned children from its doors.

Rudolf Markl, the owner of the restaurant, wants to turn his eatery into “an oasis of peace.” No children under 14 are allowed in after 5pm after he saw parents who “cannot control their children.”

According to him, children at the restaurant frequently bother other guests by pulling on tablecloths and throwing wine glasses at the tables. “[Parents] acknowledge it with a smile, keep on eating, and don’t care at all,” he said.

“We have somehow reached that point where you say: This just can’t go on like this,” he told the DPA news agency, noting that the breaking point came when several unsupervised children damaged antique photo stands that were used to decorate the restaurant.

Some are bothered by Markl’s decision to ban a whole age group, but he stands by his idea. Germany’s Anti-discrimination Office said Markl may also face lawsuits over his decision.

A German restaurant banning a whole group of people from entering?

Sounds familiar.

37

38

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Around the

Community Shalom Task Force Tournament Draws Hundreds

Event chairs Sarah Boczko, Aliza Solomon, and Bailey Sigman

I

t was the event that almost didn’t happen. There were storm clouds and torrential downpours on and off all day, and everyone worried that Shalom Task Force’s 2nd annual Spin to Win ping pong tournament and barbeque would be canceled. But by the time of the tournament’s first serve, glimmers of a clear blue sky peeked through the clouds for a beautiful evening.

The event was graciously hosted by Ian and Sarah Boczko at their Woodsburgh home and co-chaired by the Boczkos, Aliza and Jared Solomon, and Bailey and Brian Sigman.

It was an amazing success, with over 200 people attending and providing critical support for Shalom Task Force’s Men’s Education department.

This year, the competition was

Tournament winners Shalom Walfish, Tzvi Walfish, and Dr. Jonathan Ackerman with Estee Ackerman and Glenn Ackerman

brought up a notch with Orthodox Jewish ping pong champion Estee Ackerman playing participants in one-on-one matches. Spectators watched her in amazement as they chatted with friends and enjoyed a delectable barbeque catered by Carving Block. The tournament, which ended close to midnight, was won by returning champion Dr. Jonathan Ackerman with new teammates Tzvi Walfish and Shalom Walfish.

Bailey Sigman delivered opening remarks and presented gifts to Estee and her father, Glenn Ackerman. She thanked them for generously running the tournament and supporting the agency in this role.

Shana Frydman, PhD, LCSW, the new executive director of Shalom Task Force, shared how grateful she was to everyone who came out

to show their support. “One thing we all have in common, everyone in this room, if we know it or not, is that we all know someone who is a victim of domestic violence,” she said.

“Victims have somewhere to call and they will be heard, believed and helped.” She challenged everyone to be “ambassadors to the community, so that there is somewhere to turn, and we can take away the stigma of getting help.”

Rabbi Ari Sytner, PhD, LCSW, Shalom Task Force’s new Senior Educator, shared his recent experiences presenting workshops and discussing healthy and unhealthy relationships with teens and young adults.

He reflected on the critical need for youth to feel supported in creating healthy relationships and personal boundaries, and noted how willing

teens were to discuss these topics in a safe setting.

Founded 25 years ago, Shalom Task Force promotes safe and healthy families. It operates a national domestic abuse hotline for Jewish victims as well as Sarah’s Voice, which provides free legal advice and services to survivors. Shalom Task Force also provides rabbinical and professional training on domestic abuse and offers prevention workshops to over 2,000 young men and women each year in the United States and Israel. To reach the Shalom Task Force Domestic Violence Hotline, call 718-337-3700 or 888883-2323 (toll-free). For more information, visit www.shalomtaskforce.org.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

39

40

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Around the Community

YIW – Camp Kaylie Summer Kollel: A Resounding Success

T

he sweet sounds of Torah permeated the halls of the Young Israel of Woodmere over the last several weeks, as the YIW Post-Kaylie Summer Kollel ran in full swing. More than 40 young men learnt mornings and evenings before many of the participants left to study for the gap year in Israel.

“I thoroughly enjoyed the enthusiastic positive energy, the boys’ tremendous motivation, as well as the high level of learning that took place on a daily basis,” said the Rosh Kollel Rav Yosef Nusbacher, senior Rebbe at Yeshiva Shaalvim. “It is an exceptional credit to the students of the Kollel, as well as the community at large, that the program was so successful and well received.”

“The goal was to create structured learning for the boys, especially at this critical juncture leading up to their year(s) of spiritual growth in Israel,” said Meir Avracen, coordinator of the Kollel. “It also served the very important purpose of enhancing the Kol Torah within the Young Israel of Woodmere, an institution that’s already widely known for its valuing of Torah learning.”

Every day, from Sunday through Friday, following davening and breakfast, dozens of motivated boys gath-

ered to learn an energetic morning seder under the tutelage of Rav Nusbacher. Rav Nusbacher delivered daily shiurim on sugyot in Arvei Pesachim, which were followed by scrumptious lunches and basketball intramurals in the YIW gym. The Kollel members returned at nights as well, to partake in a dynamic night seder program. Rav Shay Schachter, Rosh Bais Medrash at YIW, gave the Kollel a number of engaging shiurim, as did numerous guest rabbonim, including Rav Mayer Twersky, Rav Daniel Feldman, Rav Aryeh

Lebowitz, Rav Shalom Axelrod, Rav David Fohrman, and Rav Yoni Levin.

Additionally, the kollel had a guest morning shiur from Rav Michael Rosensweig, Rosh Yeshiva at Yeshiva University. “The fact that so many serious talmidei chachamim were willing to take from their precious time to share Torah with us served as a testament to the value and importance of our Kollel,” said Benyamin Bortz, a member of the kollel and incoming Shana Aleph student at Yeshivat Sha’alvim.

“It was amazing to see so many young men of our community, spending their time off in the summer engaged in serious talmud Torah,” said Rav Shay Schachter. “Walking through the hallways of the Young Israel of Woodmere, one was overtaken by the sounds of a shiur in the main shul for women, Rabbi Well’s retirees’ kollel for men in the Moshe Shostain Beis Midrash, and a group of close to 50 young men arguing over a line in Tosfos in the Leon Meyer Beis Midrash. Countless members of our shul told me how inspired they were to watch the great enthusiasm and energy of these young Kollel members, and how proud and confident they are of the bright future that lies ahead for the Jewish people.”

A father-son breakfast and morning of learning, as well as a lavish concluding banquet, closed the Kollel on a tremendous high. Members walked away with commemorative sweatshirts, but more importantly, with a wealth of Torah knowledge to jumpstart their journeys in Yeshiva.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

41

& PRESENT Wo r l d R e n o w n e d S p e a k e r & A u t h o r

Rabbi David Ashear

Emunah & The Key To A Successful Rosh Hashana

Tuesday August 28, 2018 8PM Men and Women Welcome Admission Free

Sponsored by: Roni & Zahava Benjamini for the Refuah of Refael Yakov Issacar Natan Ha'Cohen ben Alta Elka Shelomo Israel ben Sara Devora bat Rachel Lior ben Sara L’Iluy Nishmat Shabsy ben Yitzchok Isaac

by Yaacov & Rivka Mordechai for the Hatzlacha of their family & Cong. Shaare Emunah

by Ben & Elana Mari L’Iluy Nishmat Chasiya bat Sara

by Tzion & Sharon Halali for the Hatzlacha of their family all of Am Israel

Shaare Emunah

Sephardic Congregation of The 5 Towns 539 Oakland Ave, Cedarhurst, NY 11516

For More Info: Call 718-285-9132, Email Events@Chazaq.org or visit www.CHAZAQ.org

42

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Around the Community

All on Board at Camp Nageela

L-R: Mrs. Basi Shenker, Rabbi Dovid Shenker, Michael Schick, Wendy Turetsky, Mark Ramer, Izzy Wasser. Other Nageela board members not pictured here include Chanoch Gold, Meyer Mintz, and Shya Hersh Schwartz

J

EP-LI’s Camp Nageela was in full session with Nageela Boys last week when Camp Nageela board members came up to visit. They toured the camp and facilities including its outdoor and indoor pools, petting zoo, and newly-expanded “paintball park,” adjacent to a picturesque scene with a bridge, wading river and nearby waterfalls in the forest. There couldn’t have been a better location to brainstorm ideas on how to continue

the camp’s 30+ year legacy of excellence in building the neshamas of our Jewish children.

Nageela board members also scoped out locations for the building of a new Activity Center which will include a classroom, baking room, music room, gymnastics and workout room, art and ceramics room, game room, and more! Room dedications and donation opportunities are available.

We thank our board and all sup-

porters for providing our campers with another Joyfully Jewish summer at Camp Nageela and look forward to more exciting and fun programming such as the one-on-one learning and Shabbatons to keep our kids connected year-round. Camp Nageela is still in full swing, now and year-round hosting groups at its sprawling campus, along with hosting as many camp families as possible to participate in Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur together.

For more information or to invest in helping Jewish children from diverse backgrounds continue to be firmly rooted in Jewish tradition through JEP-LI & Camp Nageela’s Torah-infused programs this year, please contact Jennifer S. Zwiebel at 516-374-1528 or jenz@jepli.org.

Visit us online at campnageela.org or jepli.org.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

43

44

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Around the Community

The Modzitzer Rebbe, Shlita, to Visit the Five Towns

“I

sh Hoashkolos” is a term used by Chazal to describe a multi-talented person. It is a very unique person who can combine being a Chassidic Rebbe, a Rosh Yeshiva, a posek, a leader of Klal Yisroel, a prolific musical composer and yet be extremely down to earth. The Five Towns will be privileged to have such an honored guest this coming Shabbos (Parshas Ki Seitzei, corresponding to August 24-26) in their midst, the Modzitzer Rebbe, shlita.

The Modzitzer musical legacy is famous throughout the Jewish world.

It began in the 1880s, when a group of chassidim started a trading post next to the Russian fortress of Ivangorod, located in the area of Radom.

They asked their Rebbe, Rav Shmuel Elyohu of Zvolin, for a rabbi for their community. He sent them his son, Rav Yisroel Taub (the Divrei Yisroel), who commented in Polish “Przyjemny Umieszczać” (a nice place),which evolved into Modzitz! He was famous throughout Jewish Poland for his musical compositions. His magnum opus, Ezkerah, was composed while he was having his leg amputated in 1914, as he couldn’t be anesthetized properly due to his medical issues.

The Divrei Yisroel was succeeded by his son, Rav Shoul Yedidyo Elozor Taub, in 1920. He was famed for his beautiful voice and phenomenal musical compositions. The Imrei Shaul opened a Yeshiva, Tiferes Yisroel, in Otwock, a suburb of Warsaw. This yeshiva was focused on training younger rabbinical students in halacha and how to reach halachic decisions correctly. The Ponovizher Rov once commented that his musical prowess overshadowed his great Torah knowledge in the people’s eyes. Rav Shaul escaped the Nazis and received the first visa allowing a Polish refugee to use the Trans-Siberian Railway from Moscow to Vladivostok, which set the precedent for the Mirrer Yeshiva to follow the same route

The Rebbe at the yeshiva in Yerushalayim named after Rabbi Aharon Brafman, zt”l

and proceed from there to Shanghai.

After spending six and a half years in Williamsburgh, he was able to fulfill his life’s dream, and he moved to Eretz Yisroel. But his dream was cut short; he was niftar five months after his arrival at the same time of the UN vote on the partition of Palestine, November 29, 1947.

The Imrei Shaul’s oldest son, Rav Shmuel Eliyohu (the Imrei Eish), went with his father on a visit to Eretz Yisroel in 1935 and refused to go back to Poland. He had his wife and son come to him in Eretz Yisroel, where they settled in Tel Aviv.

The Imrei Eish immediately became active in the Tel Aviv Rabbinate, under the British Mandate. Upon his father’s petirah, he was appointed as his father’s successor, receiving his first kvittel from Rav Aharon Rokeach, the Belzer Rebbe. Many of his musical compositions are world renowned, sung in all circles with joy and gusto. In 1980, the Imrei Eish reopened the Modzitzer Yeshiva that had been destroyed during the Holocaust, appointing his grandson – the current Modzitzer Rebbe –as the Rosh Yeshiva. In the fall of 1983, he

Love beef jerky?

Page 92

came to the USA in failing health, as the Yeshiva was in danger of closing.

The Imrei Eish stayed for a grueling month of fund-raising activities, successfully staving off the closing of the Yeshiva. Within four months of returning to Eretz Yisroel, he was niftar.

The Imrei Eish was succeeded by his son, Rav Yisroel Don Taub (the Nachlas Don) in 1984. Prior to becoming Rebbe, he was the Safro Ddayno (recording secretary) of the Tel Aviv Beis Din. His reputation was impeccable, with the members of the Beis Din relying on his vast Torah knowledge to find sources for the most difficult issues. During his shiva, Chacham Ovadia Yosef told his family that he referred all questions regarding eiruvim and mikvaos in the metropolitan Tal Aviv area to the Nachalas Don, relying on him completely for the correct solution.

He was also a prolific composer, but this was overshadowed by his world renowned Torah knowledge.

The Rebbe, shlita, is continuing this tradition since assuming the mantle of leadership of the Modzitzer Chassidus upon his father, the Nachalas Don, zt”l’s petira. The Rebbe composes a new set of niggunim for the yomim noraim in the tradition of the Modzitzer Rebbes, as well as during the year. Among his compositions that have spread in the Jewish world are Zchor Ahavas Kdumim, Tov Lhodos (composed for family weddings), and Yhei Shlomo Raboh (composed for yomim noraim 5772).

In his youth the Rebbe studied in the Ponovezh Yeshiva, under the tutelage of Rav Shteinman, Rav Povarski and Rav Shach. His Rebbeim had great praise for him, even as a youngster. He eventually became the Rav of his grandfather’s (the Imrei Eish Zatzal) Beis Medrash, located at Dizengoff 36, Tel Aviv. Subsequently he became the Rosh Yeshiva of the Modzitzer Yeshiva and the Rov of the Modzitzer Chassidim. His various rabbinical duties gave him exposure to many facets of Jewish life and to many Jewish communities throughout the world. This appreciation by so many people recently led to a unique honor. The Rebbe is the only Chassidic leader who has been honored with giving the opening shiur at the Ponovezh Yeshivas Yarchei Kalla, an honor which is only given to one of the greatest Torah scholars of the generation.

Being a fifth-generation member of the Moetzes Gedolei Hatorah, the Rebbe, shlita, is very involved in inyonei ha’klal. The Rebbe has placed an emphasis on making it easier for the Chassidic/Chareidi population to be absorbed into the mainstream workforce without compromising their religious standards. With such a workload, one would expect such a leader to be almost unapproachable. The Modzitzer Chassidim find him very accessible, encouraging and understanding, helping them to resolve their issues. During the year, the Rebbe receives visits from many different groups, spending time with them and encouraging them to elevate themselves to higher spiritual levels.

When coming to the Modzitzer Rebbe’s tish, one sees all types sitting together, becoming inspired. One sees shtreimels and spodeks, kapotes and bekishes, fedoras and kippot serugot – a veritable Jewish spectrum.

As soon as the zemiros begin, all the differences fall away as they all sing together in service to Hashem.

It is very difficult to encapsulate all the facets of the Modzitzer Rebbe in a short newspaper article. This coming Shabbos, the Five Towns and Far Rockaway communities will be able to meet the Modzitzer Rebbe in person and share an indescribably uplifting spiritual experience.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

45

46

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Around the Community The summer at Machaneh Hakayitz ended with a splash

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

YESHIVA GEDOLAH ATERES YAAKOV Rabbi Meir Braunstein, Shlita, Rosh Yeshiva, Yeshiva Gedolah Under the leadership of Rabbi Mordechai Yaffe, Shlita, Rosh HaYeshiva

Lifelong Kesher With A Rebbe

3 Sedarim With Shoel U’meishivim

Centrally Located

THE IN-TOWN YESHIVA

with the Eretz Yisroel flavor

Affiliated with YIEP Graduate Degree Programs

1st Year Bais Medrash Program

Active Kollel

Mishmar, In-Shabbosim, Siyumim

Be A Mashpia For Mesivta Bochurim

Beautiful Bais Medrash

Rabbeim: Rabbi Yisroel Gold Rabbi Yecheskel Rodkin Rabbi Avrohom Hartman

To apply for the upcoming zman, please call

yg@ateresyaakov.com

516.374.6465

Lawrence, NY 11559

131 Washington Ave

47

48

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Around the Community

Touro College of Pharmacy Names COO, Associate Dean for Student Affairs

D

r. Abraham Jeger was appointed Chief Operating Officer (COO) and Associate Dean for Student Affairs at Touro’s College of Pharmacy (TCOP), Dean Henry Cohen announced last week.

Dr. Jeger served at the New York Institute of Technology College for more than 40 years, most recently holding the title of Assistant Dean for Academic Outreach and Site Development, where he formed new and critical partnerships for academic affiliations and developed a vital school-wide mentoring program. He also holds the rank of Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Medicine, and has published more than 80 research contributions including journal articles, book chapters, and conference presentations.

“The entire TCOP family is honored that distinguished scholar and veteran administrator, Dr. Abraham Jeger, will be joining us as COO and Associate Dean for Student Affairs.

His rare combination of decades of higher education leadership, extensive

student counseling experience as well as teaching and scholarship in a health care setting makes him the perfect choice to help lead TCOP to an outstanding future,” said Cohen.

Dr. Jeger earned his PhD in Psychology from the State University of New York at Stony Brook and his bachelor’s degree in Psychology from Brooklyn College where he graduated Summa Cum Laude. He has received distinguished awards including a Citation for Rural Medical Education, NYITCOM’s Standard of Excellence Award, and the Lifetime Achievement Award from the Association of Osteopathic Directors and Medical Educators.

Dr. Jeger’s vast experience in student services ranges from integrating academic resources, psychological support, and career advisement to serving as faculty advisor for student organizations, leading student community service activities and outreach programs, directing the clinical clerkship program for third and fourth year students, and providing expertise and

presentations to faculty and hospital administrators on effective communication and leadership. He is a member of the American Osteopathic Association, the American Psychological Association, and the New York State Psychological Association.

“I am humbled by the confidence, and greatly appreciative of the privilege, to join the TCOP leadership team. I’m especially enthusiastic by the opportunity to collaborate with Dean Henry Cohen, the entire TCOP faculty, its student body, and the extended Touro family, as we forge ahead to take the College to its next qualitative leap,” said Dr. Jeger.

Touro College of Pharmacy develops the next generation of pharmacists dedicated to promoting wellness, especially within underserved populations in Harlem and beyond, while also expanding the roles and competencies of the profession to drive improved patient-centered care processes and outcomes.

Dr. Jeger resides with his wife, Rochelle, in Lawrence. Born to par-

ents of Holocaust survivors in Sighet, Romania, English is his 5th language.

The Jegers are blessed with four children, and numerous grandchildren.

Dr. Jeger’s religious education included Yeshiva Chofetz Chaim in Manhattan and Mesivta Torah Vodaath in Brooklyn. In addition to his professional commitments and rich family life, Dr. Jeger has been leading a weekly study group on classical and contemporary Jewish Thought at Congregation Bais Avrohom Zev of Lawrence during the past 16 years. Some of his original essays have been published on-line at www.Torah.org.

Catching Up with the Grads!

K

ulanu Academy is celebrating 18 years of service to our community. Thanks to the vision and support of the founding mothers, the extraordinary efforts of the board, the executive director and her professional staff Kulanu has experienced tremendous growth and success. The accomplishments of their graduates, adult clients and current students are a testament to the excellence of the programming.

As a kick-off celebration of the Kulanu Chai Year, a Family Barbeque and Beach Party Reunion was held on the evening of August 15th in Atlantic Beach. Host Howard Taub, owner of the Sunny Atlantic Beach Club, provided the picturesque setting and was on-hand to assure that all 150 guests had a memorable evening. Yoeli Steinberg and Gourmet Glatt provided the delicious barbeque with the grilling and culinary expertise of Eli Hoffman and Kulanu’s own Nissim

L-R: Alumni Yigal R, Melissa S, Jordan S, Executive Director Dr. Beth Raskin, Simon P, Garrick S, and Bob Block, Corporate Fundraiser

Begelman and Akiva Goldstein. Kulanu’s former employee, DJ Gerry Hanson, provided music that set the tone for friendly conversation as Kulanu alumni and their families socialized .

The proud Kulanu graduates agreed that this evening would be the start of something new and exciting.

“Let’s do this more often” many declared, and the new Kulanu Alumni

Club was born. The club will be a vehicle for Kulanu students and clients to keep in touch with each other and to remain involved with Kulanu. The professional staff will plan future club events and will offer many volunteer opportunities so that graduates, who desire, will be able to “give back” to the Kulanu community. The spirit of Kulanu truly brings out the best in

“All of Us.” Watch for the Kulanu Alumni Club on October 14th as they join the Kulanu contingent of marchers proudly participating in the Autism Speaks Walk at Jones Beach.

For more information, call Amy Eisenberg at 516-569-3083 ext. 138 or Bob Block at ext. 107.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

49

50

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Around the Community

Long Beach Summer Kollel

T

his summer the Young Israel of Long Beach inaugurated a new program which became known as the Long Beach Summer Kollel.

During the course of six weeks, twelve young men from Yeshiva University and Touro College spend their days at the Young Israel of Long Beach where they learned the halachos of refuah b’Shabbos.

The day began at 8:30 AM with the davening of Shacharis followed by breakfast and first seder until 12:00 noon at which time one of the Roshei HaKollel delivered the day’s shiur.

Luncheon followed, and the second seder commenced at 2:00 PM until 5:00 PM. In addition to the personal growth in learning there was an outreach component whereby the chevrei hakollel would learn individually with members of the community on present, topical shiurim. The initial Kollel program generated further programs which included a Sunday morning breakfast and learn session, a Thursday evening BBQ followed by shiurim, and a teen/children program during which the Kollel members had an opportunity to bond with

the youth of community. A further outgrowth included a daily shiur following the morning minyan given R’ Hudi Chinskey for several teens that had returned from camp. There were also several guest speakers who delivered shiurim.

Rabbi Yaakov Weisenberg served as Rosh Kollel. He is an assistant rabbi at the Young Israel of Long Beach and teaches at Rambam Mesivta.

Rabbi Weisenberg has semicha and a Masters in Jewish education from YU and was a member of the Yadin Yadin Kollel at YU. Program participants included David Amster, Ben-Henan, Yisrael Ben-Porat, David Tribuch, Benjamin Kurtz, Yitzchok Turner, Mitchell Kurtz, Jacob Lazarus, Ephraim To-

var, and Joseph Schafler.

This past Thursday evening a seuda pereida (farewell dinner) took place to mark the conclusion of this wonderful program which during its brief existence program most definitely had an impact on the community. The program included a kumsitz which was warm and heartrending after which Rabbi Chaim Wakslak, the rav of the community, provided words of chizuk. Rabbi Wakslak presented a brief halachic overview of whether there was a prohibition of taking medication on Shabbos for a person who was not a choleh at all.

The halachic categorization would resolve questions such as may a person take vitamins on Shabbos, amongst other similar circumstances. The

chevrei hakollel presented the rav with a set of “Orchos Shabbos” as a token of appreciation. Rabbi Weisenberg then addressed the assembled and related an idea of the Arizal on Parshas Shoftim and Medrash Eicha which highlighted the significance of developing a chaburah unified in the study of Torah. Following the words of Torah, each participant was presented with a certificate and their stipend. The program concluded with a rikud and wishes that this program be repeated next year in Long Beach, if not in Yerushalayim.

Much of the credit for both the conceptualization and administration of the program goes to R’ Hudi Chinkey, who is an assistant rabbi of the YILB.

Dr. David Lieberman in Lido Beach

O

ver the weekend, the Lido Beach Synagogue hosted renowned author and commentator, Dr. David Lieberman, as a scholar-in-residence. Dr. Lieberman is an award-winning leader in the fields of human behavior and interpersonal relationships. He has trained the FBI, the U.S. military and many health professionals and has appeared on national television and radio shows. He has published 11 books including two New York Times bestsellers which have been translated into 27 languages with over three million copies worldwide.

Not to mention, he was one of the featured speakers at what is perhaps the Torah world’s most widely heard annual lecture this year, the Chofetz Chaim Heritage Foundation’s Tisha B’Av event.

The Shabbos program began with a lavish Friday night dinner attended by over 50 congregants who heard

Dr. Lieberman provide insights into managing relationships with difficult people. During his Shabbos morning sermon, Dr. Lieberman discussed how free will works and what it means for a person to be “free” and act “freely.” At the afternoon Sisterhood program at the home of Reize and Howard Sipzner, there was a lively discussion on self-esteem and how to handle difficult interpersonal situations. To wrap up the Shabbos, Dr. Lieberman commented during Shalosh Seudos on the benefits of achieving a “Life with an Attitude of Gratitude.” Attendees at the various lectures and discussions appreciated Dr. Lieberman’s thoughtful insights, engaging delivery and willingness to tackle a variety of questions.

Rabbi Eli Biegeleisen, the recently appointed rabbi of the Synagogue, noted, “Dr. Lieberman provided many practical pointers on healthy, productive relationships and char-

acter traits, all in the construct of a Torah and menschlech view of proper human behavior. It was a very meaningful Shabbos for all of us in Lido Beach.”

Just a stone’s throw from the bustling Five Towns on Long Island’s South Shore, Lido Beach has had an Orthodox Jewish community for over 50 years in a friendly, small town neighborhood featuring afford-

able homes and an active shul. There are daily minyanim and classes for all levels. The area features numerous kosher stores, an eruv, a mikveh, easy transportation into Manhattan/ Brooklyn, and free busing to all Far Rockaway and Five Town schools.

And of course, there is the beauty of the beach, even in the non-summer months, and many different community programs year-round.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

INSPIRING JEWS ...

ONE BOOK AT A TIME

f ro m

EXPLORE THE LIFE AND WISDOM OF A GADOL HADOR!

INSPIRATION AWAITS…

l-time-bestselling biography By the author of the al Kanievsky:

in Rebbetz y Mother to All r A Legenda

T

he biography of Rebbetzin Kanievsky transformed the lives of countless families and has become a mainstay of school curriculums worldwide.

Written in the same engaging, down-to-earth style, this new biography is filled with hundreds of vignettes that will instruct and inspire. With his trademark sensitivity, gentle wit, and good humor, Reb Aharon Leib drew from his deep fount of Torah hashkafah and incredible understanding of human nature to guide thousands of parents, educators, young adults, and children.

This biography will improve your life and help you attain levels of greatness you never thought possible. Bring Reb Aharon Leib into your home and raise your family’s sights.

Includes hundreds of photos, some never before published!

Reading this book will teach you: 4 What we can do to be inspired, and inspire others 4 How to make Torah study an integral part of our lives

Includes a special section on Rebbetzin Tamar Shteinman a”h...

who stood by her husband’s side for 58 years as a paradigm of self-sacrifice for Torah. Her warmth and encouragement to others serve as an example for all of us to emulate.

4 How a wife can help her husband reach greatness 4 How love and chinuch are inseparable when bringing up children in the millennium generation 4 How to be a happy person without materialistic pleasures

Available at your local Hebrew bookseller or at www.artscroll.com • 1-800-MESORAH (637-6724)

51

52

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Around the Community

Kids of Courage Takes Las Vegas

By Noach Haller

I

recently joined Kids of Courage on their annual summer trip. What an adventure it was!

Spending 8 days with 350 people who are as close as family is a unique experience that words cannot describe. There are smiles everywhere and the joy is contagious.

This year’s destination was Las

Vegas. Sounds like a strange destination for a summer trip? Yes, 110 degree weather and the desert climate might hold some people back – especially a group including over 100 children and young adults with serious medical challenges. But not Kids of Courage.

Kids of Courage is a groundbreaking volunteer-centric organization, dedicated to the support of medi-

cally fragile children and their families, day and night, 365 days a year.

Founded in 2008, Kids of Courage is committed to changing the way people look at illness, and opening up a world of hope and opportunity for every such child and family, no matter how serious the diagnosis.

Each summer the Kids of Courage staff creates a traveling hospital and selects a destination around the country. Volunteer staff include doctors, nurses, several medics and other medical professionals, as well as a full media and programming team.

Additionally, twenty logistics personnel work seamlessly 24 hours a day ensuring that everyone is safe, has something cold to drink, gets lifted on and off the bus in the proper way, and so much more. From the moment of arrival, it was one adventure after another; Dune Buggies, Adventuredome, swimming in the Olympic-size pool at the beautiful Westin Lake Las Vegas, zipping down the water slide, Madame Tussaud’s, Cirque du Soleil, Speedvegas, an exclusive David Copperfield show, and so much more!

Why do all this, you may ask?

Because Kids of Courage gives the

campers, also known as Couragers, the opportunity to do everything you and I might do, no matter which disabilities they may have. Kids of Courage is about what the campers can do and not what they can’t do.

It’s about going beyond physical limitations and living life to its fullest.

We are called Kids of Courage in part because it may take courage to attend a trip like this – both for the campers as well as the staff. But once you are there, every need is taken care of, and the excitement and fun is ‘round the clock. From wake-up to bed time, there is an energy that you can feel from all of the participants.

Now that this adventure is over, the next one is already in the works.

We are all looking forward to the winter ski trip and the Miami Marathon in January 2019 where staff, family, and Couragers will enjoy another life changing adventure. Join us, change lives, and show your support for hundreds of inspiring individuals.

For more information please visit kidsoc.org or RaceForCourage. org or email race@kidsoc.org. Every donation and runner counts!

What color was George Washington’s white horse?

Yes, this is a trick question.

Forgotten Heroes on page 102

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

GOSR SERVICES: Case Management- GOSR Case Managers can coordinate services to the following: Kosher Food Pantry SNAP Enrollment NOEP (education to increase aware ness and participation in the underutilized SNAP, Summer Food Service Program, and School Breakfast Program in New York State) Medical Insurance Enrollment (Medicaid, Medicare, Child Health Plus, Essential Plan and other Qualified Health Plans available through the New York State of Health Marketplace) Mental Health Counseling and Career Counseling Crisis Intervention

 Career Counseling  Housing Case Management

CALL 718.327.7755

EMAIL info@jccrp.org

1525 Central Avenue Far Rockaway, NY 11691

WWW.JCCRP.ORG

53

54

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Around the Community

The Sukkah that Builds Itself

I

t’s an overly humid day with overcast skies that has it look more like an oddly hot November morning when we visit Tri State Awnings to take a peek at their newest sensation. The weather definitely played its part in making us think Sukkos in August! So, what gives?

Why did reporters drive miles to Sloatsburg, New York, in search of the elusive wonder sukkah?

The shop has all the look and feel of commercial grade products. Orders are coming in droves, and the fulfillment center is preparing for tomorrow’s installation rounds. One salesman is kind enough to give us a demo and he’s just about done in about 32 seconds. No kidding! I’m about to ask him how the sukkah works, and it’s zipped, ready to go.

“This has got to be the fastest sukkah I’ve ever seen in my lifetime. Quick enough to enter the Guinness Book of World Records.” Perhaps, but no time for that. Sukkos is coming and these dapper fellas need to make it to the Brooklyn homes in time.

For starters, I claimed my very

own Instant Sukkah before the missus would change her mind and revert to having me actually build one for 3 days and then some. I now know the sukkah cleverly comes in over 6 prints (I chose Jerusalem Stone.

Western Wall comes to Cedarhurst) and becomes a complete room when used with the ever-present awning.

If this isn’t the best day in guy’s life, I don’t know what is. Gone are my days of unloading the plywoods and pretending to be a construction guru.

This sukkah simply stores itself beneath the awning frame.

I’m practicing the moves that look simpler than swaying back and forth with the lulav. Unroll and zip. Unroll and zip.

Available for order (while supplies last), the sukkah is available at Tri State Awnings.

Tri State Awnings is the regional provider for outdoor enclosures such as awnings, storefronts and staircase covers. The Instant Sukkah is set up in just 30 seconds and is now available for purchase.

Rav Yaakov Bender, rosh hayeshiva of Yeshiva Darchei Torah, in conversation with Rav Pinchus Wachsman, maggid shiur, after delivering the first shmuess of the Elul zman last Friday

Marc Katz Named OHEL’s New Chief Operating Officer

O

HEL Children’s Home and Family Services is pleased to announce the appointment of Marc Katz as OHEL’s new chief operating officer. Marc will be based out of the new OHEL Jaffa Family Campus in Flatbush, which is a center of excellence, providing developmental, mental health and medical services.

Marc was the senior director for operations before being named as chief operating officer.

Marc’s sensitivity to client care, coupled with his service-oriented personality, will help many individuals and families in the many communities served by OHEL. With the vast changes in New York healthcare affecting patients and providers, Marc brings a record of diverse professional experience, which will additionally help facilitate a smooth transition to managed care.

Joining OHEL over 16 years ago as a supervisor, Marc has assumed successive positon of management responsibility from OHEL’s residential programs for men and women with psychiatric disabilities and developmental disabilities, to community based programs, and mental health outpatient centers.

Marc worked directly with the late Asher Fogel, a”h, OHEL’s previous chief operating officer, for over 10 years and was instrumental in working with him to build upon OHEL’s

innovative and peerless programs. “It is a privilege to serve as the COO and to further heighten Asher’s vision,” Marc said. “While OHEL started as a foster care agency 49 years ago, today we meet the ever increasing and diverse community needs for those challenged by disability and everyday people facing various demands of life. A main challenge for OHEL is to break down stigma in the community. My goal, as that of my colleagues, is to continue to nurture a community that is proactive in seeking the help when needed and to elevate lives every day.”

The co-presidents of OHEL, Moishe Hellman and Mel Zachter, and the Board of OHEL are excited to see Marc continue his tireless work on behalf of OHEL’s children and families.

55

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

in all of g in ic r p y a d Best every Long Island! & s n e e u Q , Brooklyn DAY!

(

Special Summer Hours Thru Labor Day

VERY E S T C U D O R NEW P

All Purpose or Unbleached

1

$ 99 5 LB

Apple & Eve Juice Boxes Assorted 8 Pack - 6.75 oz

5

2/$

Glick’s High Gluten Flour

Avenue A Sugar

$ 99 5 LB

$ 89 4 LB

1

1

Betty Crocker Fruit by the Foot, Gushers, Fruit Roll-Ups

Sheila G’s Brownie Brittle Assorted

3

2

2/$

$ 19 4.5 oz - 5.4 oz

5 oz

Assorted

Market & Main Coffee Pods

$ 99 12 Pack

$ 49 13 oz

$

Allegra Pasta

Colonna Pasta Sauce

Go Go Squeeze Applesauce

6

Except Egg Noodles

69¢

1099

$

108 Slices

Strauss Ice Cream Assorted

3

$ 99 48 oz Mehadrin Corned Beef 1st Cut Brisket

8

$ 39 LB Plum Tomatoes

79¢

Quaker Life Cereals

2

Assorted 16 oz

Shemesh American Cheese

Free Parking

Sunday - Tuesday Until 8PM

LB

99¢

24 oz

Assorted

1899

80 Count

Schwartz Honey

3

$ 49 2 LB

Norman’s Greek Yogurt

Salad Mate Dressings

89¢

$ 99 12 oz

Assorted

5.3 oz - 6 oz

Assorted

3

KolSave Gefilte Fish

Hod Lavan Sliced Turkey

$ 99 2 pk

$ 99 10 oz

6

Minute Roast

5

$ 79 LB

Green Grapes

1

$ 89 LB

Assorted

3

Whole or Cut-Up Chicken

2 Pack Cut in 1/4s or 1/8s

2

$ 19 LB

Fancy Eggplant

79¢

LB

much Prices Good Sunday, August 26th More for Less through Friday, August 31st, 2018 Keilim Mikveh on Premises | Pre-Shabbos Buffet Every Thursday & Friday!

Over 150 Spaces!

Savings Plaza | 11 Lawrence Lane, Lawrence, NY | (516) 371-6200 | info@kolsavemarket.com | /kolsavemarket Hours: Sunday-Tuesday: 9am-7pm | Wednesday: 9am-10pm | Thursday: 9am-11pm | Friday: 8am-till 2 hours before Shabbos Prices Good Sunday, August 12th through Friday, August 17th, 2018

SAMBELSKY.com

Avenue A Flour

TM

56

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Around the Community

Ellie Sapirowitz, an 86-year old resident at Gurwin Jewish Nursing & Rehabilitation Center in Commack, took the mound Bethpage Ballpark to throw out the game’s ceremonial first pitch to mark Jewish Heritage Night on Saturday August 4.

Sapirowitz was joined by Gurwin CEO Stuart Almer and tossed a strike to Ducks Manager Kevin Baez (#10).

Avnet Campers Share Summer Highlights

I

t’s hard to believe that Avnet’s summer of 2018 has come to an end after a full year of planning and two months of jam-packed fun.

Since everything we do is all about providing our campers with the best experience, we asked them to tell us about the highlights of the season.

Here are their favorite things about Avnet – in their own words: Naomi M. – “Color War breakout was cool because they used red and blue ices from Rita’s, and we got blue and red capes for our teams.”

Jacob L. – “I learned how to swim in the deep water in the pool.”

Esti G. – “As a chesed, we hosted kids from JCC’s Camp Friendship, played sports with them, had races and it was a lot of fun. It was so nice to make them smile.”

Rachel S. – “Our trip to Hershey Park was great because we got to go on really nice buses, stay out late, go on cool rides, and it was only for the older division of girls.”

Sarah Z. – “The late night that we had was fun because we had relay races and went to Warren Levi for marital arts class.”

Rael E. – “I liked the different sports. We got to play hockey, softball, and basketball! I got much better at them.”

Elizabeth S. – “I made a lot of new friends that don’t go to my school. I’m going to miss them.”

Sara D. – “I loved the trips to places like BounceU and the show at Broadhollow.”

David S. – “I loved the french toast, Mac and Cheese, and the pizza.”

Libby S. – “My counselors were

so nice and they made everyday fun in our bunk. I’m going to miss them.”

Avi R. – “Color War breakout was cool because we all got together in the fields and got ices. A sticker on the bottom said ‘Color War Breakout.’”

Josh O. – “I liked our late night because we swam and had a really fun bucket brigade and relay races.”

Rachel Z. – “The Mesorah Experience was amazing because I got to try sleepaway camp for the first time with my friends and my Avnet counselors.”

Molly W. – “I loved going to Escape the Room because my friends and I had to work together to get out.”

Eliana S. – “Aladdin on Broadway was awesome. It was so cool how they used all the effects to make it seem so real.”

Mikayla C. – “I love the lunch here. The Mac and Cheese and Hawaiian Chicken are so delicious!”

Daniel S. – “I know we’re talking to campers, but I had to get one in…

This was an incredible summer. Our campers built friendships and showed real enthusiasm for our activities. The feelings of happiness, fun and excite-

ment really reverberated through our campus. I want to thank everyone for making Avnet such a happy place. I can’t wait for next summer!”

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

INSPIRING JEWS ...

ONE BOOK AT A TIME

WITH

by Rabbi Avraham Yeshayahu Shteinman

Comments, laws, customs, stories, and perspectives on Elul, Selichos, and the Yamim Nora’im

Written by Rav Chaim’s grandson, who spends time daily with him, this sefer includes: 4 Rav Chaim’s personal customs and practices 4 Rav Chaim’s answers to questions on the laws and customs of Selichos, Elul, Rosh Hashanah, Aseres Yemei Teshuvah, and Yom Kippur 4 Rav Chaim’s comments on the meaning of the prayers and the Torah readings of the Yamim

Nora’im, as well as Selichos, Vidui, and the Thirteen Attributes of Mercy 4 His inspirational words on repentance 4 Many personal stories, especially about Rebbetzin Kanievsky a”h Dedicated by The Jaffa Family

SELICHOS BEGINS MOTZEI SHABBOS, SEPTEMBER 1st

CLASSIC ARTSCROLL SELICHOS

SCHOTTENSTEIN EDITION

INTERLINEAR SELICHOS

English translation below each Hebrew word and an anthologized commentary

Full English translation facing the Hebrew page and an anthologized commentary

Available in full-size and pocket-size

Available in full-size and pocket-size

Dedicated by Jay and Jeanie Schottenstein

Rabbi Yissocher Frand

TESHUVA 5779

by Rabbi Heshy Kleinman

An Effective Day-by-Day Guide

2-CD Set

Disc 1: TESHUVA: Unlocking Hashem’s Bounty Disc 2: Special Interest: The Incredible Importance, Power, & Effect of Mikva

Rabbi Heshy Kleinman, who changed the way tens of thousands of Jews pray through the bestselling classics, Praying With Fire, Praying With Fire 2, and Yearning With Fire, now shows us how to truly take advantage of this powerful gift, teshuvah. In only five minutes a day, we will learn: 4 4 4 4

The abundant benefits of teshuvah Strategies to clear the path to repentance The laws of teshuvah Techniques to ensure that our repentance lasts

THE FOLLOWING ARTSCROLL SEFARIM ARE AVAILABLE FOR YOUR DAILY LEARNING PROGRAMS:

The Schottenstein Edition Talmud Bavli and Yerushalmi; Yad Avraham Mishnah Series; Schottenstein Edition Mishnah Elucidated; Ryzman Edition Hebrew Mishnah; Kleinman Edition Kitzur Shulchan Aruch; Kleinman Edition Daily Dose of Torah.

This Shabbos, Elul 17: Daf Yomi Bavli – Menachos 15 / Daf Yomi Yerushalmi – Berachos 22 / Mishnah Yomi – Sotah 6:1-2 / Kitzur Shulchan Aruch Yomi – 221:3-8

Available at your local Hebrew bookseller or at www.artscroll.com • 1-800-MESORAH (637-6724)

57

58

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Around the Community

Tabor Winery: When Technology and Jewish Innovation Revolutionizes Wine

By Yael E. Geller, MPH

N

estled in the foothills of the picturesque Mount Tabor is something unique only to Israel: Tabor winery, one of many wineries situated in the Galilee region of Northern Israel. However, there are many aspects of this family-established winery which set it apart from other wineries in the region and in Israel.

Tabor winery was started in 1999, and at the time was producing a mere 1,500 cases of Merlot and Cabernet Sauvignon. The 2000s was a time of growth and prosperity not only for the expansion of the production line, but also for the variety and quality of the wines. In 2005 something amazing happened. The Coca Cola Company of Israel acquired the majority of shares in Tabor winery, expanding its portfolio into the wine industry.

One would think that this acquisition would industrialize the winery and create mass-produced, uninspiring wine. The exact opposite has happened for Tabor; in fact, Tabor has had the luxurious ability to purchase the highest standard and state-ofthe-art equipment without compromising on their family business values. Exploring what Tabor winery has accomplished in that short period of time is both fascinating and impressive. In 2017, Tabor produced a whopping 250,000 cases of 15 different grape varieties.

The winemaking process at Ta-

bor is like a smooth running orchestra with many different instruments, which must be played in a specific way in order to create the most beautiful symphony that is held in each bottle of wine. At the helm is head winemaker, Arieh Nesher, who has been with Tabor since 1999 and has been making wine for 46 harvests! Arieh’s experience, in conjunction with assistant winemaker Or Nidbach, are a team to be reckoned with. They are responsible for producing some of the most flawless, delicious wines coming out of Israel today.

In 2009, Tabor decided it was time to take their winemaking to the next level. What could Tabor possibly add to their already impressive operation that many other wineries did not have the foresight and resources to obtain? The answer to this question is Michal Akerman. Michal is an agronomist, and holds the position of head viticulturist. Agronomy is a field of science dedicated to the technology and science of plants which are used for food. One may wonder what an agronomist would be doing at winery.

The field is far more complex than explained above. Agronomy includes other subcategories and fields which have to do with the production of plants including plant genetics, physiology, and soil science.

Meeting Michal at Tabor is fascinating. Michal’s passion is so tangible that speaking to her about her job at the winery can get anyone excited even if they’re not sure what her day

may look like. The viticulturist understands how to grow the best grapes possible based off of their research of the land and vines. This is a challenge for most wineries since climate, soil and disease can be unpredictable throughout the process of winemaking from growing grape vines up until the wine is in the bottle. This science is so critical to the winemaking process, but there is no reason to sweat it. Tabor winery has it under control and their wines speak for themselves when it comes to showing Michal’s talent. It is Michal’s job to choose which type of grapes to grow and the location and type of soil which they can thrive in. Michal is not afraid to get her hands dirty – and that is in a literal sense! Her passion for her job is contagious as she explains the complexity of the components of the soil unique to Israel, which Tabor uses for its vineyards.

There are so many factors that go into the making of the wines at Ta-

bor it is no wonder they have become world renowned for their impressive diverse portfolio of wines. In the last three years alone Tabor winery has been invited to the Wine Spectator Experience, arguably the most prestigious wine show in the world, held yearly by the Wine Spectator Magazine in the major U.S. cities, and received the critics choice award every year! Tabor is the only Israeli winery to have mastered this accomplishment.

In 2012, a new variety was introduced into Israel by Tabor. The Roussanne grapes are originally grown in France in the Rhone Valley. The Roussanne was wildly popular (and still is!) which led Tabor to consider taking their white wine production to the next level. Tabor, always a few steps ahead of the rest of the industry, has decided to take the lead in the industry and has set a goal to have half of their wine production to be comprised of white varietals by 2020.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

59

Around the Community Right now Tabor has 12 white wine labels and continues to plant and experiment with more varieties.

If your mouth is not watering yet stay tuned because we are going to start discussing the offerings of Tabor winery which are on the market now and which foods they would pair beautifully with.

Tabor Mt. Tabor Chardonnay 2017: When I first tasted this wine I could hardly believe it. It is such a great value, quite an affordable wine that delivers big time! It is fresh and vibrant with delightful citrus and tropical notes of ripe pineapple and guava with zingy acidity. Great with sushi, light snacks such as chummus and pickles, or with a chicken salad.

Tabor Adama Barbera Rose 2017: It is no wonder that Tabor has jumped on the rose bandwagon. Rose has been the drink of choice throughout the spring and summer seasons for the last few years. It is quite possible that Tabor pioneered this trend in Israel with their first rose, all the way back in the mid 2000’s! Their current start rose which has been winning awards every year since it was first introduced with the 2013 vintage is made of 100% Barbera, an italian variety which is famous for its natural acidity, as well as notes of red fruits.

The current offering of the 2017 Tabor Adama Barbera Rose is mouthwatering with a nose of unripe strawberries, watermelon, and raspberries.

The mouthfeel is luxurious with notes of grapefruit pith, red currants and ripe strawberries. If the description does not tempt you, the deep strawberry color will. This wine would pair perfectly with an appetizer of fresh wild-caught cod ceviche with lime, scallions and some red chilies.

Tabor Adama Sauvignon Blanc 2017: Contrary to popular belief, Sauvignon Blanc is the parent of Cabernet Sauvignon, not its little brother.

Indeed, Cabernet Sauvignon is actually a hybrid of Sauvignon (Blanc) and of Cabernet Franc. These varieties are famous for producing some of the best wines in the world. This is a personal favorite of mine. Every year we wait for this release. The nose is intoxicating with hints of lemon peels, grapefruit, honeysuckles and candied ginger. The mouth is as impressive with bracing acidity, which makes you keep going back for more.

This would pair beautifully with a warm mushroom risotto appetizer.

Tabor Single Vineyard Tannat 2014: A first for the land of Israel and Tabor winery. Planted by Michal Akerman, this grape, which gained its fame in the Madiran region of France, has never been grown or bottled in Israel until Tabor introduced it with the 2013 vintage. This full-bodied, rich and tannic wine is fascinating with its aromas of roasted herbs, oriental spices and black fruit notes and would pair beautifully with an herb crusted rack of lamb.

Tabor also makes several mevushal wines which would complement any simcha or occasion, such as the sparkling Brut 562, the Mt. Tabor Cabernet Sauvignon, Merlot and Shiraz, the T Cabernet Sauvignon, and the Limited Edition. The Tabor Limited Edition is, in my humble opinion, the best mevushal red wine produced

by Israel to date. I could not believe it was mevushal when we came across this wine on a recent Shabbos!

Tabor Malkiya: The name of this wine actually does do it justice as the queen of red wines produced in Israel. This wine is made of 100% Cabernet Sauvignon and is fit for the king or the queen. It has a luxurious nose of blueberries, freshly ground coffee, new leather, and wet earth. The mouthfeel is coating and silky with flavors of black fruits, pencil shavings, and a hint of cranberries. This wine can stand up to your yom tov standing rib roast with a coffee rub or smoked French Roast. Nothing says it is yom tov like a beautifully complex wine like this.

Tabor has offerings at every price point to satisfy the newbie to the well-seasoned wine drinker. I like to suggest people start at the Mt Tabor wines and work their way through each series to get a feel for what Tabor is all about. It is also well worth it to visit their brand new visitors’ center in Kfar Tabor. For a tour or tasting reservations please call +9724-6760444. The current series offered by Tabor are Mt Tabor, Adama (a personal favorite), Adama II, Brut 562, Single Vineyard, Limited Edition and Malkiya.

L’Chaim!

Yael Geller holds a Masters of Public Health from George Washington University and is a long-time wine enthusiast.

Get Connected Try the hearing aids that stream

directly from your phone!

Call 516-295-1300 to receive a complimentary hearing evaluation and try these devices for 45-days, RISK-FREE

Dr. Shalom Motechin 513 Chestnut St. · Cedarhurst, NY 11516 | 516-295-1300 921 49th St. · Brooklyn, NY 11219 | 718-283-8456 hearingsolutionsli.com The following insurances are accepted as full or partial payment, depending on the plan: Oxford, United Health Care, Empire Blue Cross Blue Shield, Healthfirst, Empire Plan, United Federation of Teachers.

60 70

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

This Week TJH Speaks with...

1, 2, 3…8 weeks of amazing summer fun! For two months of the year our children bask in the sun, swimming, singing, and soaking up the fun every day. How are they spending their time away from their desks? In this feature series we speak with camp directors and head counselors to learn more about our community’s amazing, spectacular, incredible, marvelous, unbelievable (you get the point!) camps.

Camp Areivim

By Susan Schwamm

Camp Areivim, one of the premier all-boys camps in the Five Towns, opened almost a decade ago and has since grown to over 800 campers. This week, we spoke with Rabbi Yanky Hersh and Rabbi Yossi Bennett, Camp Directors, and Rabbi Yosef Friedler, Assistant Director, to learn more about the nonstop ruach at Camp Areivim this summer.

Rabbi Hersh, you opened Camp Areivim nine years ago.

Tel l us your story.

YH: I grew up in Flatbush and learned in Yeshiva Torah Temimah. When I was 17-years-old, together with a group of friends, I started a camp in the Ukraine. That’s for another time, but it was an incredible experience that gave me tremendous insight into how to develop a successful camp program. When I got married, I became a rebbe in the Hebrew Academy of Cleveland. After my first year teaching, I was asked to head their day camp and did so for six years.

Eleven years ago, I moved to Far Rockaway and became a 5th grade rebbe at Yeshiva Ketana of Long Island.

After my first summer, a number of parents of the yeshiva approached me and asked me to start a camp f o r their o l d e r boys who weren’t go-

ing to sleepaway camp. One thing turned into another, and Camp Areivim was born at the beautiful new campus of Yeshiva Ketana of Long Island. In the first year of Camp Areivim, we had under 50 campers. It was a tremendous success.

Most camps start with younger ages and eventually build up; we started with older boys and built down. Seven years ago, we branched out to younger age groups and added more divisions over the years.

Five years ago was the first year that we introduced our preschool division, called Areivim Freshies, making Camp Areivim the premier boys’ summer camp accommodating boys ages nursery through 8th grade. It’s nine years later, and our enrollment has grown to over 800 local boys in 2 separate campuses, b’li ayin horah.

Give us some detail s of how the camp is structured.

YH: Interestingly enough, although the camp has grown tremendously, I wanted to keep my original intent in providing each age group with their own personalized program. I’m extremely proud

of how the camp has become four incredibly age-appropriate divisions that run like well-oiled machines. Each division has its own individualized program highlighted in each one of their own weekly newsletters: The Freshies Flash, The Areivim Junior Herald and The Areivim Times for the Seniors and MITs. It could have only happened by having an extremely dedicated head staff.

All of the division heads are able to perform an unbelievable balancing act! They are incredible at being responsible and organized while at the same time giving non-stop fun to the campers.

Our Freshies division is for boys in nursery, kindergarten and Pre1A. Mrs. Chana Bayla Orlansky directs this division together with her Assistant Director, Mrs. Estee Leff, and with their signature warmth, love, experience, organizational skills and bubbly personalities, it’s no wonder that our topnotch program is so successful.

Rabbi Yosef Friedler, an incredible machenech who teaches alongside me during the year as a 5th grade rebbe at YKLI, directs our YKLI campus which houses our Freshies and Junior divisions.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018 The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015

Our Junior program is f or b o y s in 1st, 2 n d , and 3rd grades.

It is headed by the tremendously experienced and caring Rabbi Tzvi Medetsky, who puts lev v’nefesh into designing a program that is perfectly suited to this age group. He is assisted by a number of extremely talented and organized division heads: Rabbi Tzachie Diamond, Rabbi Boruch Oppen and Shimmy Isaacson. This year we also hired Rabbi Yosef “Joey” Newcomb who adds enormous energy and geshmak to the division – “How ah’ yah?!”

The Senior Division is housed in the beautiful Mesivta Ateres Yaakov building and is for boys in 4th-8th grades. Rabbi Yossi Bennett, another exemplary mechanech and S’gan Menahel at Mesivta Ateres Yaakov, directs the Senior Campus. He is my right-hand man in running all of the day-to-day and behind-the-scenes aspects of camp. Besides being so friendly and personable with both staff and campers alike, he is phenomenal at taking care of every last detail of every program, ensuring that everything runs smoothly.

Rabbi Tsvi Greenfield, an incredibly popular rebbe at Mesivta Ateres Yaakov, serves as the Head Counselor for the Senior Division. Rabbi Greenfield is known for his warmth and keen insight into children. He is assisted by Rabbi Yehoshua Robinson, our MIT Division Head and Extreme Night Activity Coordinator.

The M.I.T.s participate in camp responsibilities, help out in

the canteen, on bus routes and in shul. They serve as our gabbaim, ba’alei tefillah, and ba’alei kriah.

They have their own extremely intense leagues and are even Color War captains. They enjoy specialized activities and overnights all over the East Coast every other week of camp.

In addition to the overnights, we incorporate an awesome night activity program called MIT Extreme, for our 7 th and 8th grade campers. This includes late night local activities, inter-camp games, sports tournaments, Rita’s, Carlos & Gabbys – the campers just love it!

Overnights! That sounds fun. Tel l us more.

YB: The Seniors and M.I.T.s go on specialized overnights every other week. They go all over the East Coast. We’ve gone to Connecticut, Philadelphia, the Catskills, the Poconos, Boston, Maine, New Hampshire, Niagara Falls, Lake Placid, Lake George and Lakewood, to name a few.

The overnights include really amazing activities and adventures. Some of our activities included white water rafting, banana boating, trampolining, zip-lining, horseback riding, kayaking and rock climbing. We visited Six Flag’s Great Escape, Dorney Park, Six Flag’s New England, Dave & Buster’s, Sahara Sam’s, Mountain Creek Water Park, Clementon Water Park, and Connecticut Sports Center, amongst so many other amazing locations.

This year, we went on a 3 day overnight to Washington, Baltimore and Philadelphia! With exciting and fun-filled stops all along the way up and down, it was simply amazing!

Wow! That sounds incredible. Wish I coul d have joined! What trips do the Juniors enjoy during the summer?

YF: The Juniors go on really exciting trips as well!

They have day trips at least once a week and numerous late nights throughout the summer.

This year, we had an amazing late night trip to Coco Keys Water Resort in Mount Laurel with state-of-the-

61 71

art coach buses! It was a fantastic trip!

Other trips this summer included SkyZone, Bounce!, Adventurers, Adventureland, the Cyclones Baseball Game, Legoland, Mini Golf, Paintball, Laser Tag, and much more!

Sounds like a party! What do you feel makes your camp particul arly special and unique?

YH: It’s really a home away from home. We try to develop the achdus that makes the kids feel “we’re all in it together.” The atmosphere at camp is infectious. When parents or anyone else come to visit the camp the response is always, “Where

BY THE NUMBERS 5,000,000+ 80,000+ 20,000+ 5,000+ 1,000+ 800+ 200+ 9+ 2 1

Points accumulated at Dave & Buster’s

Tickets distributed throughout the summer

Dollars’ worth of FREE canteen given out this summer Hot dogs and hamburgers consumed just on overnights!

Bardle Ceedle caps distributed this summer Of the finest and sweetest Torahdikeh campers

Of the most geshmak and incredible staff members Years of Camp Areivim

State-of-the-art campuses

Amazing summer experience – at Camp Areivim!

72 62

OCTOBER 29,2018 2015| The | TheJewish JewishHome Home AUGUST 23,

was this when I was a kid?!” It’s really incredible!

YB: From the head staff all the way through the campers in the Freshies division, there is this unique feeling of “all being in it together.” This is a focus of ours, as you can tell from o u r logo.

Our staff is h a ndpic ke d t h r oug hout the school year.

O u r morahs in the Freshies division are married, highly experienced and understand the sensitivities of the children. The same goes for our other divisions in which, aside from having caring and responsible bochurim for counselors, they are joined by other married kollel yungerleit as well.

YH: We gear our program to what the boys want and need. We understand the need for longer camp hours the older the boys get. Whereas our Freshies division is dismissed at 3:30 daily, and our Juniors at 4:30, our Senior and MIT divisions have a full day beginning with minyan at 9:00 through dismissal at 5:30! The older the camper, the more he needs to be engaged in a kosher, Torahdikeh, fun environment. The kids enjoy themselves, come home, and are wiped!

YF: Our campers are engaged and occupied with activities at all times. There’s very little downtime.

Even during lunch, every day, we have some sort of competition. We’ve had Sushi Day, Ice Cream Lab, a Chopped competition, the Great Egg Chal-

lenge, wacky races, zany contests and ich veis vos!

The staff are constantly involved with the kids!

We try to accommodate every camper so that he is engaged in activities that are important to him.

We make sure that we always have a healthy balance of activities.

I know you also have a great learning program. Tell us about it.

YF: Our learning director, Rabbi Tzvi Finkel, is unbelievable! He runs all of our learning programs. He is very hands-on and is involved in all the learning in every age group. He is also extremely creative! He has introduced a number of

Every day, at the end of the day, we look at each other and say, “This was the best day of camp!” extracurricular learning programs with fantastic incentives for learning over Shabbos (Masmidei Areivim), reviewing shnayim mikrah v’echad targum, age-appropriate kriyah programs, and all sorts of other ideas. He is so encouraging and ensures that the learning in camp is both serious and geshmak!

YB: Our rebbeim are quite experienced and know how to motivate our campers. Even the Pre-1A bunks in the Freshies Division have a

rebbe in the morning, focusing on kriyah, ensuring that the summer is a bridge to the coming school year.

The goal is that our boys should feel the s i m cha and war mth of learni ng a nd to come into the next school year on a high.

YH: I actually had a rebbe call me. He was very surprised that a certain boy who had entered his class who was just an average boy the past year was now at the top of his class.

The rebbe said that he asked the boy what had changed and he said that he had a great summer of learning at camp. This boy happened to have won our Masmidei Areivim learning contest having learned over 20 blatt of Gemara over the course of the summer!

That’s beautiful. Can you tell us a little more about the Freshies program?

YH: We already mentioned the rebbeim in the Freshies division, but the Freshies also have their own sports clinics given by Rabbi Boruch Oppen who focuses on a different sport each week. They learn from

The Jewish Home | OCTOBER The Jewish Home | AUGUST 29, 23, 2015 2018

a very young age the rules, fundamentals and how to play each sport.

We have a Wheel of Fun Park with 30 different wheeled vehicles. They have their own swimming pools, inflatable water slides, jungle gyms, and arts and crafts room as well.

They also enjoy age-appropriate trips throughout the summer such as bowling, sprinkler parks, the fire station, Fun Fusion, Bounce U, Chuck E. Cheese, Adventerers, puppet shows…

Tel l us about your campus and facilities.

YH: This year we expanded to 2 separate facilities. The Freshies and Junior Divisions are located on the Yeshiva Ketana of Long Island campus.

We’re in their state-of-the-art building and enjoy their sports facilities on the adjacent properties. We have an outdoor hockey rink, volleyball court, soccer field, 2 dodgeball courts, baseball turf and football turf (the same turf used in the Meadowlands!).

We also have outdoor basketball courts, an indoor gym, two gaga pits, and two massive 50-foot pools.

The Senior Division is located on the Mesivta Ateres Yaakov campus with a state-of-the-art, brand-new college regulation gymnasium. This separate campus gives our senior campers the opportunity to have t h e i r ow n, exclusive space t o enjoy a c tiv ities age-appropr iate

for older boys.

73 63

League commissioners who oversee all the League activities. The counselors really get into the games hyping up the campers. We emphasize achdus, sportsmanship and menschlechkeit and always include honorable mentions in our weekly league highlights.

The summer is actually coming to a close. Can you narrow down the This is our final “camp chat” of the summer. Any la st words summer to a to share before everyone goes back to school?

YH: I truly believe that camp is a stepping stone singl e highlight?

Y B: It ’s ha rd to say “highlight.” So many things are going on at our camp. Every day, at the end of the day, we look at each other and say, “This was the best day in camp.”

Different kids enjoy different things. It’s important to pinpoint and try to tap into what each child enjoy most and thrives from. Every camper has his own highlight!

YF: It’s hard to say. We do so much and we present everything in such a fun way. Sometimes even the most ordinary of things becomes so much fun because of the way the staff gets into it!

YH: If I had to pick, I’d say that for the Freshies they love their huge commercial water inflatables!

It’s like a carnival for them every day! For many Juniors, their double-period, hour-long swim in our two 50-foot pools is the highlight of their day.

For most of the Seniors and MITs it was definitely the overnights and for others it was the intensity of the Leagues!

Tel l us more about Leagues.

YH: Each division has their own designated Leagues. Our leagues are a very competitive and exciting part of camp! We play a lot of sports – baseball, hockey, flag football, soccer, volleyball, dodgeball and basketball – both indoor and outdoor. Baruch Hashem, our campuses have ample grounds and facilities for it all, and the boys play different sports each day. We have designated

for the coming year. We put an enormous amount of energy creating a Torahdikeh environment for our campers.

I also feel that a camp setting is the best place for a child to work on bein a d a m l’chavero. At camp, the entire day is spent interacting w it h ot her children. Our staff is consistently involved as positive role models to their campers. There is very little downtime, and the campers need to be occupied with kosher fun. I often say that the two months of the summer can sometimes have a bigger impact on a child than the ten months of the school year.

It gives me tremendous chizuk when I see over 800 campers safely and happily engaged in all the camp fun. It’s a great feeling. I hope to continue, BE”H, being involved in making positive impressions on our boys’ lives – next year, in Areivim Yerushalayim!

OCTOBER 29,2018 2015| The | TheJewish JewishHome Home AUGUST 23,

TJH You gotta be

kidding

Yankel and Rose interrupt their shopping to go to the dentist. “I want a tooth pulled, and I don’t want any numbing because I’m in a big hurry,” Rose says. “Just extract the tooth as quickly as possible, and we’ll be on our way.”

The dentist is quite impressed.

“You’re certainly a courageous woman,” he says.

“Which tooth is it?”

Rose turns to her husband Yankel and says, “Show him your tooth, dear.”

Riddle me this?

I am not alive, but I grow; I don’t have lungs, but I need air; I don’t have a mouth, but water kills me. What am I?

?? ?

See answer to the right

Centerfold Stuck in Camp Mode?

If you exhibit four or more of the following signs, you are stuck in camp mode and are having a hard time integrating yourself back into society at large.

You bring your own jar of pickles to the Shabbos table.

When your father brings out the ices, you attack him.

When your father says it’s time to bench, you jump up on the chair (that your mother just reupholstered).

Right when you wake up in the morning you immediately run to see if the day’s activities are posted on the fridge.

When you want a cup of ice, you tell your mother that you think you sprained your finger.

You sleep with a flyswatter.

When your mother tells you to make your bed, you ask, “Why? Is it visiting day tomorrow?”

You eat 3 hot pretzels for supper (which is the only meal of the day).

When it’s raining outside, you take soap and shampoo and shower outdoors (because you are so funny).

You take Laffy Taffys from the family’s nosh cabinet and store them under your bed.

You insist on wearing the same pair of socks for three days straight.

When your mother asks you why you insist on wearing a blue shirt every day, you respond, “Blue rocks, red stinks!”

When you see someone replacing the garbage bag, you say, “Hey, I didn’t know those things are replaceable!”

Answer to Riddle Me This: Fire.

30 64

The Jewish Home | OCTOBER The Jewish Home | AUGUST 29, 23, 2015 2018

Dog Days Trivia Information obtained from National Hot Dog & Sausage Council, Washington, D.C. 1. Name the only Major League

Baseball ballpark that sells more sausages than hotdogs per season? a.

Yankee Stadium in New York b.

Wrigley Field in Chicago

c. Dodger Stadium in Los Angeles d. Miller Park in Milwaukee 2. What is the average weight, fully loaded, of a baseball park hotdog vendor’s bin? a. 10 lbs

Memorial Day and Labor Day? a. 80 million b. 300 million c. 750 million d. 7 billion 5. In which city are the most hotdogs eaten?

b. 25 lbs

a. Dallas

c. 40 lbs

b. New York City

d. 100 lbs

c. Chicago

3. It is well-known that Babe Ruth loved hotdogs. In fact, he once ate how many hotdogs between two games of a doubleheader? a. 2 b. 5 c. 8 d. 12 4. How many hotdogs do Americans eat between

 Answers

d. Los Angeles 6. How much does Thomas Makkos pay the city every year to sell hotdogs at a pushcart outside of the New York Metropolitan Museum of Art? a. $17,050 b. $24,320 c. $68,552 d. $415,670

 Wisdom Key 4-6 correct: You are really good at hot dog trivia. Give yourself a pat on the back...if your hand can actually reach that far.

1-3 correct: You are just a typical American...make sure to get your 47 hot dogs this summer.

0 correct: Truth is, I can’t figure you out. You played the game so you can’t be such a “stiff.”

But you didn’t even get 1 answer right! Maybe you are just in a hot dog-induced coma.

31 65

4. D. Americans eat 7 billion hot dogs during 3. D. Legend has it the Babe once ate 12 hot dogs and drank eight bottles of soda between games of a doubleheader.

2. C. A fully loaded bin weights approximately 40 pounds—and vendors typically walk 4 to 5 miles per game, up and down steps.

1. D. Out of all 30 MLB parks, Miller Park in Milwaukee is the only one in which sausages outsell hotdogs per season. Miller Park is home to the famous “Sausage Race” during each game.

6. D. Thomas Makkos pays $415,670 per year for the city’s top dog spot, which is right outside of the Met. That’s right—what do all of those “cultured stiff shirts” want after staring at Rembrandts for 6 hours? A hot dog with sauerkraut and baked beans! A bunch of frauds!

5. D. Los Angeles residents consume more hot dogs than any other city, beating out New York and San Antonio/Corpus Christi, Texas. peak season, from Memorial Day to Labor Day. That’s 818 hot dogs per second. Pass the Imodium.

66

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015

3

Torah Thought

Parshas Ki Seitzei

T

he Torah in this week’s reading speaks about wars against our enemies. Unfortunately, over the long period of Jewish history, and today as well, there is no shortage of enemies arrayed against Israel and the Jewish people. The Torah does not enumerate who these enemies are, it just states generally that there certainly will be enemies and constant struggles and challenges, a strange but unremitting enmity towards the Jewish people, the Jewish state and Judaism itself.

And, to complicate this matter even further, rabbinic literature has identified the major enemy to be overcome as the personal weakness of all the Jewish people generally and of individuals Jews in their own right. Part of the problem of all great military strategists has been to identify the true enemy and to deal with the core of the problem and not only with the periphery. That is why espionage, spies, informants and military intelligence are so much a part of warfare from time immemorial.

It is therefore important to note this observation of the rabbis that our main enemies may not be external foes and forces but rather internal weaknesses as lack of confidence in our true mission and ourselves. Throughout human history the symbol of the Trojan horse has dominated the imagination and planning of all armies and governments.

Of course, overwhelming external force, that no amount of internal courage and selflessness could overcome, has conquered nations. But it is no less true that mighty empires have also collapsed because of internal weaknesses and unsustainable constraints.

Life is a constant struggle with ourselves, with our base instincts, with our selfishness and greed, our desires and lusts. It is a war that we

The Torah instructed us to survive these wars by always choosing life over death, right over wrong, holy values over temporary temptations.

The problem is that many people do not realize that they are engaged in such a struggle and arrive at the battlefront unprepared and ill armed.

Knowing next to nothing about their identity and character, Jews, ignorant of the lessons of Jewish history and the values that have been taught to us by previous generations, are unable to identify the enemy. They form a circular firing squad that is self-destructive to themselves and others.

Freedom becomes licentiousness and achievement is forced to give way to entitlement and never-ending dependency upon others. Any careful study of the words of the prophets of Israel during first Temple times will

Life is a constant struggle with ourselves, with our base instincts, with our selfishness and greed.

fight with ourselves daily and it is a cruel war because it knows no compromise nor ceasefire. The example of the non-Jewish woman taken in war by the lust of the moment, described for us this week’s Torah reading, is meant to be the paradigm for all our struggles to remain upright and human despite financial, physical and political temptations.

notice that they reviewed all the external enemies that they then faced, and in the end eventually conquered Israel as being manifestations of the internal enemy that was destroying Jewish spirituality and sense of godly mission and purpose. This is a lesson that our generation should certainly also take to heart.

Shabbat shalom.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

Which one of these children needs Chai Lifeline?

(Hint: They all do.)

Chai Lifeline is renowned for the care and love it bestows on children fighting cancer. But that’s only the beginning.

Chai Lifeline serves thousands of children with medical challenges that aren’t evident on the outside, everything from Crohns Disease to cystic fibrosis to heart disease and illnesses so rare only a handful of children have been diagnosed. And still, that’s only the beginning.

Chai Lifeline includes siblings and parents, too, with programs geared towards the entire family.

We care for more than 5,000 children and their families around the world and across the street.

Chances are, you know them. They just don’t look sick.

Whenever, wherever we’re needed, Chai Lifeline is there.

Chai Lifeline. Comprehensive, compassionate, professional assistance for families facing illness, loss or trauma.

151 West 30th Street, New York, NY 10001 I (877) CHAI-LIFE I (212) 465-1300 I www.chailifeline.org

Regional Offices: Greater New York I Southeast I West Coast I Midwest I Mid-Atlantic I New Jersey I Canada I England I Israel I Belgium Hospital Support: Meals | Transportation Assistance | Hospital Visits | Respite Children’s Programs: Arts and Recreational Activities | After-school programs | Sibling Programs | Educational Assistance in Limudei Kodesh Counseling for patients and siblings | Camp Simcha/Camp Simcha Special Family Programs: Advocacy and Information | Retreats | Insurance Advocacy | Family Recreation | Family Counseling | Bereavement Services Community Programs: Project CHAI, support for schools, camps, and communities facing crisis or trauma.

67

68 64

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

From the Fire

Parshas Ki Seitzei Take the Battle to the Enemy

By Rav Moshe Weinberger Adapted for publication by Binyomin Wolf

I

t says in the pasuk at the beginning of the parsha (Devarim 21:10), “When you go out to war against your enemy and Hashem your G-d delivers them into your hand...” This pasuk promises us absolute victory. This differs markedly from the description of war found in Parshas Beha’alosecha (Bamidbar 10:9), where it says, “When war comes to your land against an enemy who oppresses you, you shall blow the trumpets...” The psukim there describe desperate pleas to Hashem for salvation in the war. Why are we assured a smooth victory here in Parshas Ki Seitzei but the victory seems so hard-fought in Parshas Beha’alosecha?

The Kotzker explains that the difference is that the war described in Parshas Beha’alosecha is one where “Ki savo’u milchama b’artzichem,” we have waited passively for the enemy to enter our land. That is why we have to blow the shofar and beg and plead for victory. But in our par-

sha, where we bring the battle to the enemy, we do not allow them to enter Eretz Yisroel. Instead, we initiate a preemptive strike. Therefore, Hashem delivers the enemy (relatively) easily into our hands.

The mussar seforim, and particularly Michtav Me’Eliyahu, speak of three territories in any war. Those territories are (i) the enemy territory, which is completely in the enemy’s hands; (ii) the territory which is completely under one’s own control; and (iii) the battleground which is up for grabs by both sides. The goal with respect to the battleground is first, not to let the enemy’s forces increase their territory, and second, to push forward deeper and deeper behind enemy lines to increase one’s own territory.

Similarly, in our war with the evil inclination, there are certain areas which are completely under our control and over which the evil inclination does not even attempt to fight, such as keeping Shabbos,

putting on tefillin, and fasting on Yom Kippur, etc. Such matters are completely within our domain. On the other hand, there are matters which, although they are part of halacha, seem totally within the domain of the evil inclination and over which we feel that we are not yet ready to fight, such as, for many of us, constant awareness of Hashem’s presence, saying every bracha with intense concentration, etc. While we hope to master these areas one day, for all practical purposes, these areas are completely in enemy hands for now.

We also have the “battlefield,” the aspects of our service of Hashem which are challenging but attainable. This area is called the nekudas ha’bechira, the point where our ability to choose is most pronounced. If one is honest with himself about the matters in this battlefield, he knows that if he pushes himself a bit, he can conquer more of this territory from his evil inclination. This is the

battleground into which we can “ki seitzei la’milchama al oi’avecha,” go out of our comfort zone, into enemy lines and push the enemy further from the home front. When one takes the initiative and fights those big battles, it automatically brings a number of smaller matters in the conquered territory safely into one’s own dominion as well. The main thing is to bring the battle to the enemy and not wait passively for the inevitable onslaught of the evil inclination.

This is discussed by Rav Moshe Chaim Luzzatto (the “Ramchal”), in Mesilas Yesharim, which every Jew should study in its entirety. In the first chapter, the Ramchal writes: Indeed Hashem placed man in a place with many obstacles which push a person away from Hashem, i.e., the physical desires which, if one allows himself to be drawn after them, distance a person continually from the true good. It is therefore apparent

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018 The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015

that man is truly placed in the midst of a fierce battle. All matters of this world, whether difficult or pleasant, are a test for man; poverty on one hand and wealth on the other. As Shlomo Hamelech said in Mishlei (30:9), “Lest I be satisfied and deny [Hashem] and say, ‘Who is Hashem?’ and lest I become impoverished and come to steal...”

[Similarly, there is] tranquility on one hand and suffering on the other. Indeed, one is beset by battles on all sides. If one is valorous and is victorious in the battle on all fronts, he will become the perfected man who will merit to cling to his Creator.

The bar mitzvah is the beginning of this life-battle. That is why, starting at the bar mitzvah, one is called a bochur (young man), which has the same letters as bo’cher, which means to choose. That is when one’s obligation to fight this battles in the area of free choice, the nekudas ha’bechira, the battleground of free choice, starts in earnest.

Rav Levi Yitzchak of Berditchev has a powerful lesson for people in that situation based on the mitzvah of shiluach ha’kan, sending away the mother bird, from this week’s parsha (Devarim 22:6). He says that the chicks are like those of us who are too weak or lack the intellectual capacity to take the initiative to awaken ourselves spiritually to grow and push ourselves to get closer to Hashem. The mother bird (the tzipor, which is related to the word tzafra, meaning the clarity of morning) is Hashem’s presence which is rovetzes al ha’efrochim, laying on the chicks, delivering Divine inspiration to keep her children connected and inspired even if they cannot initiate that inspiration and growth on their own.

This mitzvah of shiluach ha’kan sending away the mother bird, does not mean that we should send away the Divine presence, but rather that we should not rely on our parents, rebbeim, or even Hashem to take charge and bring us closer to Him. We must go out to battle, take the initiative, and draw ourselves closer to Hashem. Then “u’nesano Hashem elokecha b’yadecha,” Hashem will see that we accomplish the growth

we set out to achieve.

A bar mitzvah boy, a bochur, must be a bo’cher, one who takes the initiative and chooses to engage in battle with the evil inclination by bringing the war to the enemy’s ter-

which I will give to the yeshiva on the condition that you, the Chofetz Chaim will learn Mishnayos for the sake of my neshama during the first year after my death. The Chofetz Chaim answered, “Why wait until

We must go out to battle, take the intiative, and draw ourselves closer to Hashem.

ritory and fighting on his own terms, rather than the enemy’s. He should not rely on his wonderful parents, grandparents, rebbeim, or anyone else. He should be a bo’cher, one who chooses, and not a bo’reach, one who runs away from the battle. Instead of waiting passively for the battle to come to him he should stand on his own two feet and enter the battle.

This is all of our jobs as well in the month of Elul. The Gemara in Shabbos 88b teaches that when the Jewish people stood ready to accept the Torah, “Hashem turned the mountain over their heads like a barrel and said, ‘If you accept the Torah, it is well. And if not, there will be your grave.’” The tzaddikim ask why it says your grave will be “there.” It should have said your grave will be “here.” They explain that the greatest grave in the world is “over there.” When a person says, “I can’t really serve Hashem here, where I am right now. Such a person says, “over there,” one day, when I make aliya/when I get married/ when I get a new job/when I can go to that yeshiva, then I can be a real Jew. The pasuk is teaching us that the attitude of “over there” is death, it is our grave.

A very wealthy Jew once came to the Chofetz Chaim and said, “I have a business proposal for you. I have six sons, and in my will, I will divide up my estate into seven portions. Each of my sons will receive one portion and one portion will be for myself,

after your death to give one seventh of your property to the yeshiva? Why not give it now, and instead of me learning Mishnayos for the sake of your neshama, why don’t you learn those Mishnayos right now?!”

The Medrash Tanchuma (Be-

69 65

shalach 15) explains that the pasuk in Devarim 10:12, “And now, Israel, what does Hashem your G-d ask of you...” by noting that “and now” implies teshuva. Why? Because the secret of doing teshuva is recognizing that the time is “now!”

The secret to truly living and not descending to the grave of “over there” in this world is taking the initiative in those areas of life that are within our grasp to conquer and not being afraid of the battle, but bravely taking the battle to the enemy’s territory. When we do that, then Hashem will help us conquer that enemy territory.

In the merit of our bravery in battle, may we merit complete victory in the battle against the evil inclination and the coming of Moshiach soon in our days, Amen.

Rav Moshe Weinberger, shlita, is the founding Morah d’Asrah of Congregation Aish Kodesh in Woodmere, NY, and serves as leader of the new mechina Emek HaMelech.

70 20

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

Between the Lines

Faith in G-d G-d’s Faith

By Eytan Kobre

W

hen he lived in London, R’ Yechezkel Abramsky would offer words of inspiration to local non-observant youth, inviting them into his home and nourishing their bodies and souls.

But when his non-observant students learned the law permitting a Jewish soldier in battle to marry a non-Jewish female captive – because, if not permitted, the solider might marry her against Torah law (Rashi, Devarim 21:11) – they were incredulous. Is the Torah so malleable as to permit that which is prohibited simply because it is a struggle to obey the word of G-d? Does G-d have so little faith in the human capacity to withstand temptation? Does G-d not believe in His own people?

R’ Chazkel explained that they had it all wrong. The law permitting marriage of a female captive actually reaffirms G-d’s faith in us. That the Torah permits a Jewish soldier to take a female captive for fear he would not

be able to overcome temptation is an implicit recognition that, in all other instances, G-d believes in our ability to rise to, and overcome, the challenges we face.

We make a big deal about our faith in G-d, and rightly so. It is “the foundation of all foundations and the pillar of all wisdom to know that there is a Creator who created the universe with profound wisdom” (Rambam, Yesodei HaTorah 1:1). Without a perfect faith in G-d, we forsake our Jewish identity.

But G-d also has faith in each of us.

Just knowing that someone believes in us can be a source of immense strength. And that’s what G-d does. He believes in us – perhaps more than we believe in ourselves.

No matter how many times we fail, He forgives us; no matter how many times we fall, He lifts us. As we remind ourselves in this auspicious month of Elul, “My father and mother [might] abandon me, but G-d will

gather me in” (Tehillim 27:10). We fail, we fall, we stumble. But G-d is always there for us.

And He has since time immemorial (Sanhedrin 38b).

Before creating man, G-d gathered a group of angels and put the question to them: create man, good idea or bad idea? “Bad idea,” they said. “Man will only sin.” G-d destroyed those angels.

Then G-d created a second group of angels and asked them the same question: create man, good idea or bad idea? “Bad idea,” they said. “Man will only sin.” G-d destroyed those angels too.

Then G-d created a third group of angels and asked the same question.

“Master of the Universe,” they declared, “the first and second groups of angels advised against creating man, and look how that ended. The Universe is Yours. Do as You wish.”

So G-d created man.

When mankind later sinned during the Generation of the Flood

and the Generation of the Tower of Babel, the third group of angels said to G-d, “Were not the first and second angels correct?” To which G-d responded by quoting the verse, “Even to old age I will not change, and even to grey hair, I will carry [you]” (Yeshaya 46:4). I’m not giving up on man. I believe in man.

G-d created mankind, and He has faith in mankind. Whenever we fail or fall or falter, G-d says, “Even to old age I will not change, and even to grey hair, I will carry [you].” G-d does not lose faith in us.

Perhaps this is the reason that G-d is described as “the G-d of faith” (Devarim 32:4). He is the “G-d of faith” by virtue of His faith in each of us, “He had faith in the world and created it” (Sifri, Devarim 307; Yalkut Shimoni, Devarim 942). We start each day with the reassuring and empowering thought that “Your faith is great” (Eicha 3:22-23; Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 1:2). We thank G-d for having faith in

The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015 The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

us. Because if G-d returns our souls to us, it means He still believes in us and in our ability to carry out His mission. Indeed, every person is obligated to say, “The world was created for my sake” (Sanhedrin 4:5). Because, in a sense, it was.

If the Torah were to be condensed into a single thought, it would be this: “and the righteous lives by his faith” (Makkos 24a; Chabakuk 2:4).

Whose faith? The straightforward understanding refers to the faith of the righteous in G-d. But perhaps it is also that “the righteous lives in His faith” i.e., G-d’s faith in the righteous.

It is G-d’s faith in them that keeps them going.

And it always has.

The story is told of a man who described himself as the last Jew. Before the Holocaust, he had lived in Warsaw, and when the ghetto was liquidated, he managed to escape to a nearby forest, where he hid in the small crevice of a rock. He ventured out only at night to scavenge for some-

thing meager on which to subsist, isolating himself completely from all human contact. Given what he had seen as the ghetto was being liquidated, he was sure he was the last Jew alive.

Who could blame him?

After the war, when asked how he was able to survive such dire circum-

(Tehillim 92:3). In the “mornings,” when things are bright and sunny and good and looking up, it is easy to speak of G-d’s kindness. But at “night,” during the trying times, we must lean on G-d’s faith in us.

The familiar, fictional story is told of a man who dreamed he was walk-

At “night,” during the trying times, we must lean on G-d’s faith in us.

stances even while believing that all his Jewish brethren had been annihilated, “the last Jew” would explain that it wasn’t his faith in G-d that kept him going. It was knowing that G-d had faith in Him. That’s what kept him alive in those darkest of times.

“To tell of Your kindness in the morning and Your faith in the nights”

ing on the beach with G-d. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life, and, for each episode, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand: one his, the other G-d’s. Most periods of this man’s life were marked by the two sets of footprints. But he noticed that, at times – always at the very lowest and saddest points in his life – there was

21 71

only one set of footprints.

This bothered him a great deal, and he decided to ask G-d about it.

“I notice that during the most taxing times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. Why did You abandon me when I needed You most?”

“My son,” came the reply, “I would never abandon you. During your trials and sufferings, where you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you.”

Everyone has problems. For some, it’s health. For some, it’s family. For some, money. For some, finding a soulmate.

Whatever the difficulty, we need to have faith in G-d. We know that.

But sometimes in life, especially in those dark times, it’s not so much about our faith in G-d. It is about His faith in us.

Eytan Kobre is a writer, speaker, and attorney living in Kew Gardens Hills. Questions? Comments? Suggestions? E-mail eakobre@outlook.com.

72 8

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

Rabbinical Reflecti ns

School Daze

By Rabbi Mordechai Yaffe

A

s the long days of summer wane and we prepare both practically and emotionally for another academic year, I would like to share one of my longstanding sentiments. I have generally been reluctant to share this opinion with others since it might seem to be an inconsistent belief for someone who leads an educational institution. I believe that we have created our own impediment by incorporating our learning of Torah into “schools.” Now, before you conclude “well, he’s lost it,” please allow me to explain fully.

Compulsory education has been in effect throughout the United States for more than a century. In fact, the last holdout, Mississippi, passed this into law in 1917. Most states require students to remain in school, either public or private, until 16 or 17, some until 18, and in Texas the law requires school attendance until age 19. Currently, New York State requires its students to attend school until 16 years of age.

A century ago, Jewish immigrants

struggled to inculcate their religious identities into their children while simultaneously attempting to integrate into the greater American culture.

Lacking the many choices of full-time accredited yeshivos that we currently enjoy, many families utilized the only option available to provide their children with a Torah education while remaining in compliance with the law. They sent them to what became known as a “Talmud Torah” where the children learned with a rebbe, sometimes for several hours, after their day in public school. The flaw in this system was that the learning of Torah was quickly relegated to being of lesser importance (a tremendous understatement) and in many cases stopped altogether post bar mitzvah. At that time, there was no better choice to be had, but that generation was in great danger of being lost to Judaism before day schools and yeshivos emerged. I can attest firsthand that upon graduation at bar mitzvah age, it was not mortarboards that were tossed into the air, but rather yarmulkes.

The advent of full day yeshivos greatly ameliorated the situation and was a probable main contributor, if not the main rescue of Torah education in the 20th century. The historic upsurge of widespread true Torah scholarship over the course of the last two generations gives testament to the achievements of the educational system as a whole. That system of yeshivos saved me from becoming another Jewish statistic, and I am exceptionally grateful for all that it provided for both myself and my children. That being said, I believe the yeshiva “system” has drawbacks of its own, which have significant impacts on the psyche of our children.

Incorporating both limudei kodesh and limudei chol into our yeshivos has enabled our children to benefit from a rich blend of chinuch and education. Unfortunately, it also risks having our talmidim perceiving limud haTorah as just another “subject.” The subtlety of the matter can sometimes be lost on our young charges and it’s not completely their

fault. After all, we assign tests and give grades for limud haTorah, as we do for any general studies subject. It is not uncommon to hear the words, “I have a math test, a Gemara test and a history test this week” in the same sentence, which exacerbates the problem. Even though talmidim often ask to learn “l’shma,” the reality is that a testing/grading system may be the only way to consistently achieve engagement in the early years. I do find that this is less the case as talmidim mature, but it is definitely a process.

Many yeshivos take pains to break limudei kodesh into longer sedarim instead of general studies style “periods” and separate the day into separate kodesh and chol portions to emphasize that limudei kodesh learning is not just another subject in their day. When talmidim ask me if we have school on a particular Sunday or Friday, my reply is always, “No, but we have yeshiva.” I’m not sure, however, that any of these measures truly resolve the basic problem.

I want to be clear that I am a

The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015 The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

staunch advocate for a superior general studies education and I’m proud that there is no shortage of such offerings in our community. I am quite confident that we are not a target of YAFFED - Young Advocates for Fair Education (no connection to Yaffe).

The well-known aphorism, “I never allowed schooling to interfere with my education” is incorrectly attributed to Mark Twain, but although Twain was a self-taught man with no formal education beyond primary school, he did write that “the self-taught man seldom knows anything accurately” and “does not know a tenth of as much as he could have known if he had worked under teachers.” He cautioned that the man who bragged of his lack of formal education was merely “fooling other thoughtless people into going and doing the same as he himself has done” (posthumously published essay “Taming the Bicycle,” written in 1884). However, as much as we value a secular education, Torah learning is not the equivalent of secular academ-

ic studies. Torah learning teaches us how to live optimal Jewish lives and recognize the real truths of our world.

Drawing an equivalency between the two is not healthy – and certainly not accurate.

I don’t have one easy solution to this challenges. However, I think we

challenging intellectual pursuits.

When we teach Torah, we must constantly remind our children that they are receiving divrei Elokim chaim, the living embodiment of the ratzon Hashem. They need to see the love and enthusiasm that their rabbeim have in the transmission of our mil-

We must strive to bring a level of awareness as to why we are learning Torah, why it is so critical to us, and why its study is not equivalent to the most challenging intellectual pursuits.

must strive to bring a level of awareness as to why we are learning Torah, why it is so critical to us, and why its study is not equivalent to the most

lennia of mesorah. They need to see their parents and their communities value growth and achievement in Torah. They need to see commitment

• FREE Pickup and Delivery always!

• Wash & Fold Laundry Service • Expert Tailoring, Same Day Work Available • Special Discounts for Rabbis. Teachers.

Hatzolah and Chaverim • Shomer Shabbos Owned and Operated

Call (718)887-9886

and dedication to the learning of our beloved Torah by people who are not in “school” anymore, but who remain connected nonetheless through daily consistency and enthusiasm. Most importantly, they need to know that it is through the Torah that we connect to Hashem Yisborach and achieve devaikus with Him. This is no small ambition, but working assiduously towards this goal may just help our children perceive and value the “yeshivos” within our “schools.”

Rabbi Mordechai Yaffe is the Rosh HaYeshiva of Ateres Yaakov, a local Mesivta (MAY) and Yeshiva Gedolah, with over 220 talmidim, and the rav of Kehillah Ateres Yaakov. Besides his decades as an experienced mechanech, Rabbi Yaffe holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and is licensed to practice in the State of New York. Any topics of interest, questions or comments can be sent to editor@fivetownsjewishhome. com.

s to do y a w t ien onven leaning. c 3 w t No ry c p off a o r d your d d an ick up me. p y l k o Wee your h and pickup ff o drop . e d i s b ervice s Cur e r o t In s

or call/text (917) 612-2300 email otmdrycleaners@gmail.com for the next scheduled pickup.

Sign up FCC- Fr now for our equ Club an ent Cleaner d ge with ea t savings ch orde r

68-26 Main Street, Flushing, NY 11367

9 73

74 40

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

World

Builders

A Hero on an Ambucycle

By Raphael Poch

Sophie Donio having just delivered a baby in Eilat

S

o what’s it like to be a superhero? Most people won’t really ever get to know the answer to that question, but some people do things that are so incredible that even though they don’t have powers, it seems like they are indeed superheroes. Sophie Donio from Eilat is one such person. She is Israel’s first female EMS ambucycle driver. She is a single working mother, a therapist and a diving instructor who originated the therapeutic program at the Dolphin Reef. When she isn’t working or taking care of her children, both at home or in the diving center, Donio gives her free time to volunteer with United Hatzalah as an EMT first responder and rush out to save the lives of people she has never met.

Donio is one of 5,000 volunteers

across the country who put themselves in danger in order to save lives. She, together with her peers, performs CPR, delivers babies and

Sophie performing CPR in Eilat

nesses. She is one of the people who work behind the scenes, when others need it most, in a job that is often thankless.

“I volunteer because I get a great feeling knowing that I can help someone and be there for them when they need me.”

provides first response medical care to victims of traumatic events or ill-

Donio truly exemplifies what it means to be a woman giving back to

her community in spite of incredible odds. Originally from Paris, she moved to Eilat 28 years ago. In the Dolphin Reef, she founded the program “supportive experience with the aid of dolphins” for children 6 to 16 years old who face various challenges and mental difficulties, such as post-traumatic stress disorder, autism, dyslexia, Down syndrome, depression, cancer, sexual abuse and behavioral problems.

“I’ve been working on the water at the Dolphin Reef since 1990 when it began, and water accidents are very rare,” said Donio, who says the lack of drownings and water emergencies is because of the calmness of the Red Sea. “I volunteer because I get a great feeling knowing that I can help some-

41 75 41

The Jewish Home | OCTOBER The Jewish Home | AUGUST 29, 23, 2015 2018 The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015

one and be there for them when they need me. That’s the reason I do what I do and that’s why I’m there,� she explained.

Donio works with hundreds of children each year who come to take part in the educational classes at the dolphin reef. She said that she has time to volunteer, usually after the classes end for the day and before she is needed at home. But should an emergency occur nearby, she’ll drop everything and rush out to save a life whenever needed.

Donio mentioned one particularly stressful incident when, after performing CPR on a 14-year-old girl for almost an hour, she, together with the other EMS first responders, succeeded at bringing the girl’s pulse back. However, the girl later died in the hospital and it was discovered that she had suffered from swine flu and that Donio and the other responders endangered their own lives by simply touching the girl. Donio also mentioned that she found out

Sophie on her ambucycle

afterward that the girl was in the same school as her son, which made her very anxious. Thankfully, there were no other casualties following the incident.

Donio is breaking down barriers

in addition to saving lives. Donio is the first woman in United Hatzalah to have been given an ambucycle. She is trailblazing a path for other female first responders in the organization to receive one as well.

Founder and president of United Hatzalah, Eli Beer, said, “For many years I have been trying to get our women volunteers to drive ambucycles. Currently, all of our female volunteers are using their own private vehicles or electric bicycles to respond to medical emergencies.

Sophie was our first ambucycle driver, but hopefully not the last. I heard that Sophie wanted to join the ambucycle unit and I told everyone who was involved in making that happen that we needed to make the process as smooth and quick as possible. I want many others to follow her. “We are very proud of the work that she has been doing,� he added. “She has saved many lives already and is an inspiration to her chapter, the organization as a whole, and women who want to help save lives everywhere. We are doing everything we can to encourage Sophie and those like her who stand as a shining example of the selflessness and courage to other women.�

KOLAINU BOYS CHOIR IS COMING BACK TO THE 5 TOWNS!

The DramancE Experie

ONL 25 SPOYT

NEW FALL 2018R! ONLY

$65!

! d e n i g a m I Re

PER GR

OUP

S

RECORD YOU OWN SR MOOBILNEG WITH OU R! STUDIO-ENGINEE

ARCH

OCTOBER-M

ONE SEMESTER- DOUBLE

ď‚Ť

Theater trip to a LIVE show!

Meet and greet the cast!

ď‚Ť ď‚Ť ď‚Ť ď‚Ť

Creative Dramatics Improvisation techniques Pantomime & Creative Movement

Grand showcase performance in the Spring!

Ask about our new pricing schedule.

THE FUN!

EXTRA! EXTRA!

4 WEEK BACKSTAG E EXPERIENCE PROGRAM (Add itional Fee)

Learn what it takes to be a pro back stage!

Create realist

ic props, bec ome a costume des igner, and much, much more! * Sundays in May

IMAGINE yourself being a part of all this! www.d4lonline.com

ďż˝ Follow us at:

@drama4lifer

d4lonline

FOUNDING DIRECTOR: RINA C. HIRSCH, M.A. ASSISTANT DIRECTOR: ARIANA WOLFSON

with HADASSAH FERTIG • ELIANA HIRSCH • MIRI GRANIK • ASHLEY PANETH

Call Now for more information: 516-385-1959 • or email: D4Lonline@gmail.com

SESSIONS BEGIN MONDAY OCT. 8TH! This was the best program we could have signed up for!

Chaim & Aliza Stern — Kolainu 5 Towns Parents He loves singing, and Jewish music in general, and he loved the fun, positive environment your’e creating.

I asked him if there’s anything you should change. He said, “Nothing!�

Shany Belsky — Kolainu 5 Towns Parent

9 WEEK PROGRAM: MONDAYS KEHILLAS BAIS YEHUDAH TZVI OF CEDARHURST (RED SHUL) 395 OAKLAND AVENUE, CEDARHURST

GRADE TIME 1 5:15-6:00 2-3 6:10-7:10 4&UP 7:20-8:20

REGISTER AT KOLAINUCHOIR.COM OR CALL 203-816-0876 FOR MORE INFO • • • •

•

•

60 76

OCTOBER 29,2018 2015| |The TheJewish JewishHome Home AUGUST 23,

Dating Dialogue

What Would You Do If… Moderated by Jennifer Mann, LCSW of The Navidaters

Dear Navidaters,

The only reason I’ve gone out with Mendy four times already is because everyone – from my parents, to our shadchan, to friends who know him or know of him – cannot stop singing his praises to me! The fact is that he has the best of credentials. He comes from a lovely family, has an impeccable resume, wonderful middos and is extremely polite. All this is true. He is a great catch!

The problem is that he bores me to tears! I find it very difficult to engage him in conversation, and, trust me, I’m doing all the engaging. And when he does talk to me, something about his tone, or style, or what he has to say, or how he says it, puts me to sleep. I find my mind wandering because it’s just so hard to stay focused on him.

I know that part of the problem is me. I like smart, interesting, fast-thinking people, who can engage in very stimulating conversations. When I try to explain this to my parents, who are pressuring me tremendously to keep dating Mendy and give him more of a chance, they think I’m being silly and not focusing on what really matters. I do appreciate all of Mendy’s wonderful qualities and I’m sure he’ll make a fabulous husband for some lucky woman, and I don’t mean this sarcastically. Should I put aside the fact that I find him so boring in lieu of all his other great qualities and perhaps ultimately marry a man who puts me to sleep?

Disclaimer: This column is not intended to diagnose or otherwise conclude resolutions to any questions.

Our intention is not to offer any definitive

conclusions to any particular question, rather offer areas of exploration for the author and reader. Due to the nature of the column receiving only a short snapshot of an issue, without the benefit of an actual discussion, the panel’s role is to offer a range of possibilities. We hope to open up meaningful dialogue and individual exploration.

The Jewish Home | OCTOBER The Jewish Home | AUGUST 29, 23, 2015 2018

The Panel The Rebbetzin

The Mother

Rebbetzin Faigie Horowitz, M.S. o. Why should you keep dating someone because he has a great resume and is a good catch?

If Mendy’s interests do not interest you, how can you move ahead in this relationship? If his personality does not engage you and you have little to share, why would you keep going out? If you put forth all the effort and he doesn’t, it’s a one-way street.

The big question here is why are you listening to other people and not to yourself? But that I cannot answer. Only you can answer that question.

Sarah Schwartz Schreiber, P.A. our situation (“He’s Perfect but Not for Me”) is what keeps the Ribbono Shel Olam eternally occupied.

Specifically, your experience validates the fact that you can pair two compatible resumes and still not create a happy couple. What’s missing? That unquantifiable, unpredictable chemistry that happens when two strangers meet, connect emotionally, and click with one another. A divinely orchestrated phenomenon.

You can continue to date Mr. Ambien just for your parents’ sake (do they seek an impressive son-

N

Y

in-law or a husband who will make their daughter happy?). Still, you are likely to end up in the same place: single, bored and frustrated.

Yet, before you call it quits, do some soul searching, especially if this is a recurrent theme in you dating history. Are you feeling inferior to Mr. Perfect or fear commitment even when served a great catch on a silver platter? Finally, in the words of Rav Avigdor Miller, zt”l: “If you’re not feeling a click, maybe fix your clicker!”

The Shadchan Michelle Mond hen they say, “Find the man of your dreams,” they certainly

W

Though personality and chemistry is almost impossible to quantify and describe in a resume, I believe it is the basis of any solid relationship.

61 77

78 62

AUGUST 23, OCTOBER 29,2018 2015| The | TheJewish JewishHome Home

did not mean it literally. It is possible for a man to have an impeccable character and fine middos, but not be the ideal match for you.

It seems that you go for a more outgoing, driven, leibedig type of personality. In your letter, you consider this your problem, but I am not so sure it is. There is no reason you should feel pressured to continue dating someone who is so boring that he puts you to sleep!

By the undertones of your letter, I am sensing that your parents are in fed-up mode. They feel that you are being so picky with every good guy that comes along. It is smart for any single person to have a “Top 5” list of things that are most important to them. Then, when it comes to other areas, it is important to be open and flexi-

ble.

If finding a guy with an engaging personality is in your top 5, then you know this guy may not be the one for you. When the right one does come along, you will feel a lot more confident. However, there may very well be things you have to get used to. Nobody is perfect; not even the man of your dreams.

Hatzlacha!

The Single Tova Wein veryone decides for themselves what qualities are non-negotia-

E

ble and what qualities are not when it comes to a future spouse. It is not anyone else’s place (not even the parents) to tell another person what they should or shouldn’t overlook.

Though personality and chemistry is almost impossible to quantify and describe in a resume, I believe it is the basis of any solid relationship. Without that connection, that desire to be with that other person, that draw and attraction to the inner core of another person, what good does anything else do for you?

You find Mendy boring. That doesn’t mean he’s a bad guy. Clearly, he is a very good guy. But he just doesn’t do it for you. Why continue to date someone who not only are you not looking forward to seeing, but it sounds as though you dread each and every date, with

No one should be coerced or forced down the aisle.

little to talk about and the anticipation of a very boring time? Maybe your parents and others can’t appreciate where you are coming from, because they have some of their own ulterior motives, but your concern is certainly a powerful one. My advice to you is to listen to your gut and move on!

Pulling It All Together The Navidaters Dating and Relationship Coaches and Therapists

T

here are many fine, successful, good quality human beings out there. It doesn’t mean that you are meant to marry all of them. You aren’t drawn to quieter types. This isn’t a flaw. Are your friends quiet with not much to say or share? If you aren’t drawn to quieter friends, it comes as no surprise that you don’t feel chemistry or a connection with this quieter man.

While I always encourage people to give dates a second or even third chance in certain circumstances, spending time with this person should never feel dreadful or burdensome. I’m sure your parents are well-intentioned, but they should not be encouraging you to forego your intuition and happiness

to marr y someone who is a “great catch.” Their role is to be supportive and to encourage you to trust your instinct.

As other panelists mentioned, we are all entitled to what we prioritize in a relationship. We can’t have an endless grocery list, but certainly a Top 5 list of non-negotiables is important. I review clients’ Top 5s regularly and I must say that “personality” or “having chemistry” are wonderful Top 5 candidates. You’re right – Mendy will make some other woman happy. Very happy! The Mendys of the world deserve to be able to make their spouses happy.

It is very important that a man be able to fulfill his wife for his own sense of well-being and self-esteem. Take that away from a man, and it is a recipe for a marital disaster. (The same is true for women.) While it is true that love grows over the years, repulsion or boredom generally do not change. No one should be coerced or forced down the aisle.

With all that being said, if you find yourself in a pattern of being perpetually bored by men, you may want to take some inventory and figure that out. If this is not the case, then my answer to you is no, you do not have to marry a man who puts you to sleep. You will have to learn how to trust your intuition and tune out your parents who are unknowingly tampering with it.

Sincerely, Jennifer P.S. Here is a tip I give to men and

women who find themselves dating a quieter person and aren’t quite ready to throw in the towel. On your next date, take the passenger’s seat. In other words, don’t lead the conversation. See what happens when you are no longer responsible to drive the conversation. If he doesn’t take the lead, or he does but in a way that isn’t satisfying, then you will know beyond a shadow of a doubt what it is that you need to do.

Esther Mann, LCSW and Jennifer Mann, LCSW are licensed psychotherapists and dating and relationship coaches working with individuals, couples and families in private practice in Hewlett, NY. To set up a consultation or to ask questions, please call 516.224.7779.

Press 1 for Esther, 2 for Jennifer. Visit www.thenavidaters.com for more information. If you would like to submit a dating or relationship question to the panel anonymously, please email thenavidaters@gmail.com. You can follow The Navidaters on FB and Instagram for dating and relationship advice.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

IS MY CHILD H OWT R G BESTINDSET M

SUCCEEDING

IN SCHOOL?

CHOOSE TO NURTURE POTENTIAL BUILD CONFIDENCE

AT ER G R E ES S C S UC

ENSURE ACHIEVEMENT CALL CAHAL TODAY!

& NCE E D I F M CON -ESTEE F S EL

MAI YESHIVA N ST R EA MI

NG

R EA C POT HING ENT IAL N EW T S T R EA C H I N ATEG G I ES E A LIZ U D I INDIV PPORT SU

D

IFIED T R E C ER S H C A TE BEI M B & RE

UE U N IQ I NG N L EA R R A M G PRO

G ATIN P I C I PART OOLS: SCH M BYA BBY TR HAF B HAL C HAN Y MA mith a l u Sh TAG YDT I YKL S YOS

@CAHAL 516-295-3666 cahal@cahal.org www.cahal.org

CAHAL community program

CAHAL program

79

80 52

AUGUST 23, OCTOBER 29,2018 2015| The | TheJewish JewishHome Home

Dr. Deb

The Cost of Divorce

By Deb Hirschhorn, Ph.D.

T

here are emotional costs, violence risks, financial costs, unwanted impacts on children, and even health and longevity costs to getting a divorce. Let’s look at all of them.

If your marriage is so very bad that you are on the brink of divorce, then that is precisely when you should not divorce. Here’s why: • Emotional: Whatever made you angry has no chance of being resolved in court. In court, the differences are exaggerated and the feeling of not having been treated fairly increases.

Listen, we marry for love. Love means, first of all, accepting and even adoring the other person for who they are. There’s an expectation, when you stand under the chuppah, that you will always be loved and adored, treated with kindness and compassion, and get tangible signs of this, whether through words, deeds, or things.

As we stand in front of the judge in divorce court, there’s a feeling of being cheated out of these things, the deliverables that we never got.

And that feeling cannot be fixed by divorce. On the contrary, divorce increases it.

Divorce makes that feeling worse because it prevents us from ever getting “paid” on the “balance due” of love, kindness, etc. that is in our emotional bank account. Statistics bear me out: Just Google “How long is the longest running divorce” and

you’ll see what I mean. Let me give you just one example of the many listed from all parts of the world.

In 2005, the New York Post reported a 21-year running divorce. On the surface, it was about money. But really? You’d take out your own guts in court battles over money? Is the money really so wonderful and delicious that you’d endure that pain for it? No. Of course not. Here’s a sam-

divorce has destroyed me financially.

I lost my job because of this, and my second marriage, too… But I won’t stop fighting, even if I have to live in a pup tent.”

Ah. So it’s not about money after all. Thought so.

According to the U.S. Department of Health in a 2007 report, marriage has positive health benefits such as reduction in heavy drinking,

For people who are dreadfully unhappy, counseling should be the first option because people can change and do change.

ple of the news report that proves my point: “. . . she sued him for abandonment, and he countersued for ‘cruel and inhumane treatment.’

He’s accused her of ‘humiliating and demeaning’ him, and calling him a ‘bozo’ in front of the kids.”

What’s this really about? Getting attention. Getting respect. Regular, simple, normal stuff.

Finally, displaying his bitterness for the world to see, the oncewealthy Wall Street guy who spent everything on the divorce said, “This

shorter hospital stays, fewer doctor visits, and reduced depressive symptoms and reduced nursing home admission. On the other hand, divorced people have increased depression that remains for years after the marital breakup – regardless of who initiated it.

Bottom line: Divorce is never for economic reasons. It’s always emotional. So why go to court? You will never get your emotional needs met there.

So what to do if you absolutely can’t live with a person who is mean

and refuses therapy? I would suggest pre-divorce counseling so as to help the spouse that is out of control find ways to self-soothe when feathers are ruffled. There is also a form of a court case in which the lawyers are trained to avoid court battles. These are called Collaborative Attorneys.

Of course, if the spouse is reasonable, the most peaceful option is mediation.

• Violence: According to eminent domestic violence researcher, Lenore Walker and others, violence escalates when you divorce and for two years afterwards. If there was no violence, verbal aggression can also escalate to violence.

There’s a sane reason for this.

Think about the point I just made above: You want to be heard, you want to be validated. Now the violent person has the same feelings, the same wants and needs to be validated and valued. But with a difference – he (or she) hasn’t had much validation in their life. So they’re in enormous pain, and most likely walking around in that level of pain all the time.

Now what does it mean to the abuser when you leave? To them it equals abandonment. Imagine a tiny baby who didn’t get their bottle. They’re screaming, flailing their arms, beside themselves. That’s about what the abuser is experiencing when you leave. And besides abandonment, it’s also a slap in the face. It says, “You’re not good

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 29, 23, 2015 2018 The Jewish Home | OCTOBER

enough.”

What’s interesting is how personally the abuser takes it. They never think for a minute, “Oh, my partner is afraid of me!” Never crosses their mind. They’ve been immersed in their victim thinking for way too long for that.

So if you’re going to say, “Well, I certainly don’t want to be with someone like that,” I agree. But people do change, can change, and were designed to change. (See previous articles or my posts on my website or my Facebook group for more on that.)

On a practical note, if there actually is or has been violence, it is wise to live separately until the violence is under complete control and even the violent spouse can get on board with this solution because he/she would really not want to hurt someone he/ she loves. No one should ever accept violence.

• Economic: According to a 2011 article on the CNBC site, mediated divorces can cost between several thousand dollars to $7,000, but litigation could cost as much as $50,000. An author, Brette Sember, noted that people are usually not prepared for the amount of the retainer and further unprepared for the bills that follow. The article advises coming in having discussed carefully how everything would be divided. Is there something in this scenario a bit incongruous?

According to attorneys.com, attorneys are paid between $100 and $450 an hour. I have never met a $100 attorney in my life although they may bill that for paralegal time.

This site indicates the retainer is from $500 to $10,000.

HuffPost points out, in a 2015 article, that divorce can be accomplished as a DIY for $300, a mediation for between three and seven thousand, or with attorneys from $15,000 to $32,000 unless it goes to trial. Then watch out.

But the economic costs of divorce go beyond the lawyer. That is only the beginning.

• Other economic: Now two households will have to be supported. Whatever your expenses were, now it’s double.

Let’s add other “hidden” expens-

es: houses which no longer have cash value; health insurance; college for children; small but meaningful items in the home such as artwork, memberships, airline miles. The CNBC article adds transportation for the children from one home to another; counseling; and the crisis that occurs when support ends.

Don’t forget the time you must take off from work to see your attorney or to go to court.

A Wall Street Journal article reported a 2011 study that says the children of divorce often are left having to pay for their college education. The study showed that divorced parents pay a smaller percentage of tuition costs than parents who stayed married. This holds even when parents re-marry.

Again from divorce.com, divorced single women end up below the poverty limit in a quarter of cases and are more often the victims of violent crime than their married neighbors.

Divorced men, on the other hand, have lower incomes over a lifetime than their married peers. They also have a shorter life expectancy; how about that?

The Institute for American Values published a report in 1998, cited on the website familyinamerica.org, [http://www.familyinamerica.org/ index.php?doc_id=19&cat_id=4] explaining that since the adults and the children of divorce earn less, the cost to taxpayers comes to $112 billion a year because of antipoverty, criminal justice and education programs as well as the loss of taxes from lower-earning people.

I was impressed by the scholarliness of the familyinamerica.org article and I recommend it.

• Emotional impact on children: According to divorce.com, research shows that children of divorce have a lower probability of completing college and end up making less money from their work than children from intact families.

Children of divorce remain married half as often as children from intact families. Interestingly, children from intact families have not only better physical health in adulthood but they even have increased longevity, according to the U.S. De-

partment of Health in 2007.

Children risk becoming school dropouts; they have a higher probably of ending up in prison for felonies by age 30. Note: this information is from divorce.com, the site that lists attorneys and advertises “easy, fast, etc.” I further quote: “the assumption that children of divorce are better off than if they lived in dysfunctional two parent families is wrong except in very high-conflict households where the threat of abuse meant physical separation was the only immediate choice. This means the effects of divorce are usually worse for the kids than the turbulence created by the parents staying together and attempting to work out their problems.”

That same website points out that about 40% of children don’t live with their father and 50% rarely see him. That’s fatherlessness and a contributor to crime, adolescent pregnancy, child abuse, and violence against women. 33% of children of divorce believe their father doesn’t

81 53

love them.

When parents do try to co-parent, their ability to handle conflict does not improve; in fact, many children, caught in the middle of the constant bickering, believe the divorce was their fault.

For people who are dreadfully unhappy, counseling should be the first option because people can change and do change. Many people do try therapy with poor results.

This is unfortunate because studies do show that therapy works and helps to save marriages. I would suggest trying several therapists before giving up.

For those who refuse to work on themselves, divorce may be the only option. In that case, Collaborative Divorce or Mediation are ways to end the plague without the bloodletting of aggressive court litigation.

Dr. Deb Hirschhorn is a Marriage and Family Therapist. She can be reached at 646-54-DRDEB or by writing drdeb@ drdeb.com.

22 82 22

OCTOBER 29,2018 2015| The | TheJewish JewishHome Home AUGUST 23, OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

Pack to School Lunch Survival

By Aliza Beer MS, RD

I

t’s that time of the year again! Back to school season is upon us. The regular school routine includes packing school lunches and snacks, which can be a challenge. Many parents struggle with trying to balance nutritious choices with what their child will actually eat. Staying organized by planning ahead and having a variety of fresh, fun, and healthy ideas helps make life easier when dealing with school lunches.

Here are a few helpful tips to keep in mind when packing school lunches: • Plan Ahead: Make lunches ahead of time, preferably the night before. Leaving lunch prep to the morning will only create chaos and stress and probably not the healthiest lunch around. Plan the menu together with your child for the week and go food shopping on Sunday.

• Mix it Up: Include a variety of foods so your child doesn’t get bored.

Switch things up and pair different snacks, fruits, carbs, and protein.

• Keep Food Separate: Having a lunchbox with separate compartments and/or liners will help you remember to include all the components of a balanced meal. Keeping the carb, protein, fruit, and veggies separated also makes it fun for the kids when they open up their lunchboxes. It’s also perfect for picky eaters who don’t like their foods to touch. Adjust the portion sizes based on your child’s appetite and age.

• Food Safety: Remember that the lunch will remain at room temperature for several hours, so perishable items will need an ice pack to stay cool.

If you are sending soup, a thermos is the best way to keep it hot.

• Water: Water, seltzer, fla-

vored-water and flavored seltzer, lowfat milk, and unsweetened lemonade are great options for your child’s drinks.

Most lunches should consist of a whole grain carb, a protein, veggies and fruit. Many yeshivas are nutfree schools, so avoid sending nuts or food products containing nuts. I’ve compiled a list of lunch meal options.

Please feel free to mix and match, according to your child’s likes and dislikes, or substitute for the child that is gluten-free or dairy-free.

• Greek yogurt with fiber cereal and berries; peppers and cucumbers; grapes and a mini zucchini muffin.

• Whole wheat mini bagel with lowfat cheese, lettuce and tomato; sugar snap peas, and a pear.

• Turkey (can be smoked or Mexican) on a whole-wheat wrap with pick-

les; baby corn; and two tangerines.

• Egg salad on whole wheat or whole grain bread; sliced tomatoes; jicama, and unsweetened applesauce.

• Grilled chicken Caesar salad with whole wheat croutons or with whole grain cereal, or crackers crumbled up with low fat Caesar dressing, cucumbers, celery, peppers; and sliced cup of peaches in its own juice, not syrup.

• Tuna in a pepper with rice cakes or melba toast; mini carrot muffin; and an apple.

• Whole wheat or brown rice pasta with low sugar tomato sauce and part skim shredded mozzarella; string beans; and two plums.

• Turkey or chicken burger on a whole wheat parve sandwich or bagel thin with lettuce and tomato; pickles; coleslaw made with low fat mayo; and a cup of sliced mango.

The Jewish Home | OCTOBER The Jewish Home | AUGUST 29, 23, 2015 2018

• Hummus and whole grain crackers; Israeli salad; broccoli muffin; and strawberries.

• Greek salad with light feta cheese; whole grain crackers or melba toast; a cup of pineapple.

• Whole wheat pita with baked falafel balls; techina; Israeli salad; and a large peach.

• One to two rolls of sushi, preferably brown rice. If there is no fish and it’s only a vegetable roll then add 2 light cheese sticks or a yogurt; and a cup of blueberries.

• Salad consisting of lettuce, cucumbers, tomatoes, peppers, corn, chickpeas, avocado, pickles, and a protein like a hard-boiled egg or turkey cubes or chicken; apple chips for dessert.

• Breaded and baked chicken cutlet with hummus; peppers and cucumbers; cauliflower muffin; and unsweetened applesauce.

• Pesto chicken with zoodles; baby carrots; corn; and sliced oranges.

• Roast beef sandwich on whole

wheat bread; zucchini leek soup; and a cup of mixed melons.

• Veggie burger on a whole wheat bagel thin, with mashed cauliflower; hearts of palm; and unsweetened dried mango.

What do you do with the picky eater who doesn’t love fruits and veggies?

Try “hiding” them in veggie kugels and soups. For the child that doesn’t like fruit I have found that all natural

organic fruit leathers or unsweetened applesauce or dehydrated apple chips will do the trick. Give them whatever healthy foods they will eat as often as possible. Continually persist in trying to introduce new healthy foods.

What do you do with the child that eats school lunch? Unfortunately, school lunches are notorious for being high in sugar and fat and low in fiber and veggies. Discuss the menu with

your children in advance and positively encourage them to make healthier choices, like the salad bar if that’s even an option. Motivate them to make smart choices when they portion their macaroni ‘n’ cheese, ziti, lasagna, hot dogs, or fried chicken, and to take extra helpings of the veggies or fruit if they are still hungry. Pack them healthy and filling snacks like fruits, veggies, 100 calorie bags of popcorn or whole grain pretzels. Stress the importance of drinking water throughout the day.

Preparing your children with well-rounded nutritious lunches will give them the energy needed to focus and succeed in school and will instill healthy eating habits that they will carry through their growing years into adulthood.

Aliza Beer is a registered dietician with a master’s degree in nutrition. She has a private practice in Cedarhurst, NY. Patients’ success has been featured on the Dr. Oz show. Aliza can be reached at alizabeer@gmail.com.

24 hour emergency service

ravel with t e yo w

u

ear Round -Y

e the We servic ion e Catskill r g

info@kingscountyauto.com www.kingscountyauto.com

23 83

718.399.9500

168 Walworth Street Brooklyn, NY 11205

84 48

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

Health & F tness

Back to School The 2018 Primer

By Hylton I. Lightman, MD, DCH (SA), FAAP

I

love this time of the year. Backto-school. It engenders warm, fuzzy feelings of optimism and hope as we embark on a new school year with the Jewish New Year not far behind. Even people who have “aged out” of this phase of back-toschool are caught up in this mood which is pregnant with possibilities.

Like anything else, some planning can help to make a “win-win” for back-to-school for you and your children. Here are some proven tips to help your family during this important time.

The Sleep Schedule This is a public service announcement advocating for sleep, sleep and more sleep. Getting enough sleep is critical for success in school, including college and graduate school – and for most areas of life.

Sleep is synonymous with health.

Getting sufficient sleep contributes to improved attention, safer driving, less health risks, and a more consistent mood. Honestly, most people are nicer when they have slept.

Quick reminder: school-aged children need 9 to 11 hours of sleep nightly and teens need 8½ to 9½ hours. Yes. Those are real numbers.

What should we do to achieve this?

First, pay attention now to timing. Shift slowly and start getting ready now. Labor Day weekend is

still way off at the end of next week but remember that many Jewish schools are beginning already next week. If bedtime has migrated to 10pm, for example, and you’re hoping to have your kids sleeping by 8pm for school, start now. Move bedtime forward about 30 minutes every 3 to 4 days.

Next: Screens, phones, iPads, computers, etc. It’s no secret that using any kind of screen and exposing ourselves to the light they emit handicaps our natural sleep hormone melatonin from rising and helping our brain drift off to sleep. There should be a hard “cut off” time nightly when all the “toys” are laid to rest. One hour prior to the desired sleep time is the minimum. Rather than having them languish on night tables or desks in rooms, have all screens, tablets, phones, and laptops transition back to “sleeping” in the kitchen.

Backpack Safety There’s something endearing about seeing kids with their knapsacks, trudging off to school or getting off the bus in the afternoon. Backpacks are a popular and practical way for children, teenagers and college students to carry schoolbooks and supplies. But they must be used correctly as they are designed to distribute the weight of the load among some of the body’s strongest muscles.

When choosing a backpack, look for: • Wide-padded shoulder straps: Narrow straps can dig into the shoulders, causing pain and restricting circulation.

• Tw o shoulder s t r a p s: One-shouldered bags running across the body cannot distribute the weight evenly.

• Padded back: This protects against sharp edges on objects inside the backpack and increases comfort.

• Lightweight backpack: The contents are heavy enough. Let’s not exacerbate things.

Do the following to prevent injury when using a backpack: • Always use both shoulder straps.

• Tighten the straps so they are close to the body. The straps should hold the pack two inches above the waist.

• Pack light. This sounds obvious but please, the backpack should weigh no more than 20% of the person’s weight.

• Organize the backpack to use all of its compartments. Pack the heaviest items closest to the center of the back.

• Use school lockers instead of shlepping everything from room to room, up and down stairs. Parents may have to speak to schools about allowing enough time for this.

• Use both knees when bending

down.

• Learn back strengthening exercises to carry the knapsack.

Making the First Day Easier My dear parents, you don’t have to wait until the first day of class to ask for help. Schools are open to address any concerns a child or parent may have. The best time to get help might be now, a week or two before school begins.

Many children become nervous about new situations, including changing to a new school, classroom or teacher. This may occur at any age or stage. If your child seems nervous, it can be helpful to rehearse entry into the new situation.

Take them to visit the new school before the first day of school. Perhaps they can visit the playground in order to become more familiar with their new environment. Remind them they will see old friends and will meet new ones.

Touch base with your child’s new teachers at the beginning or end of day so that the teacher knows how much you want to be supportive of your child’s school experience.

Eating during the School Day You know this but it bears worth repeating.

Studies show that children who eat a nutritious breakfast function

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018 The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015

better. They do better in school and have better concentration and more energy. Some schools provide breakfast. If yours does not, make sure your child eats a breakfast that has some protein.

Most schools regularly send schedules of the lunch program in school or have them posted on the school’s website. With this advance information, you can plan on packing lunch on the days when the main course is one your child prefers not to eat.

Look into what is offered in your school’s vending machines. All foods sold during the school day must meet nutrition standards established by the U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA).

Perhaps the time has come for a groundswell revolution of parents petitioning schools to make fruits available for students. Mom and Dad, you can and should send fruits with your children to school.

But let’s also aim for a sugar-free or very minimal sugar environment.

When a child hits the afternoon energy lows, the front desk should have apples waiting. Or the vending machine, should have zero junk snacks, along with low-fat dairy products (Cholov Yisrael, of course) and water.

Please don’t tell me these are tacky ideas. I invite you to submit your suggestions how we can begin putting sugar in its place so it topples from its ubiquitous place in our children’s lives (especially schools) and is relegated to an unimportant position while we energize our children properly.

Remember: Each 12-ounce soft drink contains approximately 10 teaspoons of sugar and 150 poisonous calories. Drinking just one can of soda daily increases a child’s risk of obesity by 60%. Not enough said but I’m leaving it alone for now.

Developing Good Homework and Study Habits Starting at a young age, create an environment that is conducive to doing homework. Children need a consistent workspace. Some like the desk in the bedroom. My children have an affinity for the dining room

table. What matters is the space is quiet, without distractions, and promotes study.

Establish a household rule that

pervision (this does not mean doing their work) can help overcome homework problems. When your child tastes success in this area, he

Getting enough sleep is critical for success in school, including college and graduate schools - and for most areas of life.

television and other electronic distractions stay off during homework time. Many of our children need the computer for homework. Parents: monitor, monitor and monitor, and I’m not talking about a noun that’s part of the computer setup. Be vigilant and know what goes on.

Need guidance? Reach out to Smart Connections at http://www. smartconnectionsny.com/.

Be available to answer questions and offer assistance. Never do a child’s homework for him.

If a child is struggling with a particular subject, speak with the teacher for recommendations on how you or another person can help the child at home. If you have concerns about the assignments your child is receiving, talk with his teacher. But not the first week of school. Let things settle in a bit.

Teachers are also overwhelmed with the school year kick off.

Help your child remember his homework assignments by tracking them on a homework sheet (younger grades) and then graduating to a homework assignment book.

Some children need help organizing their homework. It’s okay to be a “helicopter parent.” I will be extolling the virtues of the helicopter parent in a future article. For our purposes now, the best way to build independence in a child is to help them to become self-sufficient.

And the earlier you start, the better. Some kids need help organizing their binders, notebooks, whatever.

Checklists, timers and parental su-

will want to do more.

Medications One last note. The topic is medication. Your child may be medicated for ADD or ADHD, perhaps 365 days per year, perhaps on school days only. If your child’s medication regimen is on hiatus during the

85 49

summer, before returning to school is the best time to reintroduce the medication protocol. Your child will then have time to adjust. Perhaps the dosage has to be tweaked.

Please start this process the week before school resumes.

Structure your child’s environment for success. Plan for healthy sleeping and healthy eating. Make sure your child has the physical “props,” including knapsacks and homework assignment books, to succeed. Go to the back-to-school nights where you meet the teachers and hear directly from them about the plans for the school year. Help build your children from the inside out and grow from strength to strength.

As always, daven.

Dr. Hylton I. Lightman is a pediatrician and Medical Director of Total Family Care of the 5 Towns and Rockaway PC. He can be reached at drlightman@totalfamilycaremd.com, on Instagram at Dr.Lightman_ or visit him on Facebook.

24 86 24

OCTOBER 29,2018 2015| The | TheJewish JewishHome Home AUGUST 23, OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

Health & F tness

What Exactly is Neuropsychology Testing?

By Laury Paul, PhD

I

t can begin with a phone call from the school. The dreaded phone call. I say dreaded because if the school is not calling to ask me when I am available to attend an awards ceremony for my child’s achievements, I will likely be dreading the call. The challenge will typically involve some difficulty academically or behaviorally, sometimes both. The call will suggest you begin to consider having your child evaluated. You, as a parent, will likely be wary of this suggestion.

Are they really trying to help or are they sending me a cryptic message about placement issues and future enrollment?

First thing, stay calm. My initial phone call with many parents is filled with anxiety about the request for an evaluation. Having worked alongside schools for many years, I can attest to the fact that the school is working with you to best help your child.

Your child needs an evaluation.

Where should you find the right psychologist? Your school’s recommendation? Your pediatrician? A friend’s recommendation? It is a difficult question. You wonder about the psychologist recommended by

your school. Will he or she primarily be concerned with your needs or the school with whom they seem to have a relationship? Will you be penalized for not using the school recommendation? Will the school trust the provider you use?

A neuropsychologist of reputable standing will have your best interest at heart even if recommended by the school. The fact is that they are ethically and legally bound to provide you with both best practice suggestions and with complete confidentiality. A recommendation from your school psychologist will likely have an increased knowledge of the school and dynamics at that school and such insight could prove helpful. It is also completely fine to go out on your own and use someone not on the school list. Schools do not penalize parents for finding their own psychologists and it is very important that you have a good rapport with the person who is going to evaluate your child. After all, you are embarking on a long journey.

It is important to understand exactly what is neuropsychology testing.

A neuropsychologist evaluation is a series of tests that give insight

into how each individual brain processes information answering crucial questions: what type of learner is your child? How does your child process novel information? What are your child’s strengths and challenges in learning? It is not a pass or fail test. A poor score on one test is not necessarily representative of ability.

An analysis of test results will exhibit a pattern in performance and that is what the evaluator is looking to identify: patterns not outliers. To prepare yourself, below are brief explanations of the seven areas of testing.

A typical battery will have a measure of intelligence. What is intelligence? For our purposes, we will say that definition is a compilation of general ability. A typical IQ test include tests of verbal ability, nonverbal components, processing speed, and memory. An IQ score is a good foundation for our expectation of where other tested areas should fall on the spectrum of performance. IQ scores will be reported in terms of percentiles, meaning where along the spectrum of the population your child’s scores fall. IQs that range from the 25th percentile to the 75th percentile of

the population indicates an “average” IQ. For example, if your child’s IQ is in the 63rd percentile, that means that your child performed better than 63 percent of the children who were tested in the population; it does not mean that your child answered 63 percent of the information asked correctly.

The battery will then also include tests of achievement, essentially testing what your child is learning in school. Basically, these are skills in reading, writing, and math. This area will show if your child is learning at grade level and how he or she compares to classmates.

Next tests will concentrate on memory and learning. How does your child learn and how should they study most efficiently?

There are tests of attention. One could write a whole article (or volumes of books) on attention. Too many students have come through my office doors with a diagnosis of ADHD given by a well-meaning practitioner before a full evaluation is completed. Often, attentional testing will reveal that attentional difficulties are not present on testing.

An evaluator will also look at

The Jewish Home | OCTOBER The Jewish Home | AUGUST 29, 23, 2015 2018

executive functioning. Executive functioning has become a very popular topic in recent years. Executive functioning can best be understood as how your mind organizes information. Executive functioning testing allows us to understand if your child has flexible thinking, can plan and prioritize, and can use feedback from the environment. Executive functioning difficulties can result in challenges with self-regulation, discomfort with switching between tasks or when rules to a task shift, and/or time management, to name a few.

An additional component to neuropsychological testing is the emotional/social component. Difficulty with academic subjects or in an academic environment may stem from a learning issue, but it may also come from an emotional base. Anxiety can result in decreased concentration and focus. It is important to test for emotional functioning to separate the emotional from the cognitive.

If this sounds like a lot then you have truly come to understand what you and your child are embarking on. A typical evaluation can last anywhere from 8-12 hours and is usually conducted over a few sessions. On occasion, there is the need for addition-

in which you can help your child. It can also help the school learn how to help your child. Ultimately, your child will be empowered to help themself, and that is the best outcome. I have had children call me years after testing and say, “Dr. Paul, I am having a

Ultimately, your child will be empowered to help themself, and that is the best outcome.

al tests. I often find myself contemplating results before parents come in for the feedback session,n and it is amazing how the information shared is not typically a huge revelation. It is usually information parents were aware of but is now given a context

hard time in this class, can you give me strategies for the final?” I have had parents call a few months after testing and report that they are now witnessing a changed child. Kids with academic difficulties can enjoy school. Homework does not have

25 87

to last the entire evening and overwhelm the household.

Now you know what to do when the struggle begins and you have a cursory understanding of the admittedly long journey ahead. You have the tools to improve academic ability and behavioral functioning but, most of all, you have tools to reduce the negativity your child is feeling. There is the old adage that we are ever only as happy as our most unhappy child.

When children struggle academically, they develop frustration and sadness.

What is neuropsychology testing? It is a set of tools that allows us to identify how your child is learning and to help them learn better. Forego the feelings of dread and let’s get down to helping your child.

Dr. Laury Paul is in private practice on the Upper West Side of Manhattan.

She specializes in neuropsychological testing as well as therapy for individuals and families. She can be reached at DrLauryPaul@gmail.com.

Low Cost Quality Insurance Our Specialty Free Consultation

Free Policy Evaluation

SPECIAL DISCOUNTED PROGRAMS FOR A SYNAGOUGE,YESHIVA, NURSING & ADULT HOME FACILITIES (SAVE UP TO 50% AND MORE)

GET YOURS TODAY! “Naphtali Hoff has achieved the implausible: a new management book that is fresh, novel, and highly-readable. Dr. Hoff draws on current industry trends and his own rich leadership expertise to deliver a book that has actionable insights and strategies for organizational leaders. While marketed to “the new boss,” I believe that this book is equally valuable for veteran and aspiring leaders, too.”

— RABBI HERSHEL LUTCH, MBA, EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR, MEOR

Large Commercial Insurance Policies Life Insurance Disability Insurance Self Employed Health Insurance Long Term Care Insurance Rabbi S. M. Leiner, CLTC Licensed Independent Broker for all types of Insurance Call: 917-543-0497 - Leave a message Mail: Rabbi S. M. Leiner, CLTC P.O. Box # 7655 600 Franklin Ave. Ga Garden City, NY 11530

BECAUSE EVERY NEW LEADER DESERVES TO HIT THE GROUND RUNNING AND ENJOY SUSTAINED SUCCESS 1. Achieve immediate, sustainable success 2. Manage effective change 3. Provide clear, useful feedback 4. Connect with your team 5. Maintain work-life balance And so much more!

Available on Amazon and at other fine online retailers.

BecomingtheNewBoss.com

88 16

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

A Fulfilled L fe

Not Just Another School Year

By Rabbi Dr. Naphtali Hoff

B

ut the land, to which you pass to possess, is a land of mountains and valleys and absorbs water from the rains of heaven, a land the L-rd, your G-d, looks after; the eyes of L-rd your G-d are always upon it, from the beginning of the year to the end of the year. (Devarim 11:1112) The above verses describe our holy land and the special divine providence that it enjoys. What is curious is the final segment, which details how such oversight will occur “from the beginning of the year to the end of the year.”

While the translation may not reflect any inconsistency, the original Hebrew states that it will occur from “from the beginning of the year (“hashana”) to the end of year (“shana,”omitting the prefix “hey”).

Rabbi Paysach Krohn explains that this change of expression can be understood to reflect what one might call our new year’s resolutions. As we approach the yamim noraim, we begin to reflect intently on the outgoing year. We think about past errors and ways through which we will improve ourselves and our lives. “This year will

be the year,” we tell ourselves. However, for most of us, such remorse and resolve tends to be fleeting. Following the days of inspiration and introspection we begin to lapse back into the behaviors and attitudes of yesterday, converting “the year” into just another “year,” leaving our resolutions for change behind.

Throughout the Jewish world, tens of thousands of children and young adults are heading back to the classroom for another year of schooling.

The excitement of a new year is palpable for children, parents and teachers.

But a funny thing often happens along the way. Our initial enthusiasm dissipates, sometimes within but a few days. We start to think of school less in terms of growth potential and achievement and more about the daily grind, an endless process of work, discipline, assignments and the like that for too many converts opportunity and passion into burden and indifference (if not outright contempt or despair). What can we do to make this school year the one that fulfills all of its promise? How can we make this

year the best one ever?

While there is no formula that will work for all of us, there are some strategies that, if followed carefully and consistently, can help our children and ourselves gain the most from the upcoming school year.

1. Adjust your mental paradigm – Too often, we think of tasks and processes as sprints. Our goal is to get off to a quick, strong start and we don’t anticipate having to sustain our effort for all that long. To succeed at school requires a different approach.

Children, as well as the adults who teach and support them, need to take a long term view of things. This may include general persistence and strong study habits. It also refers to a mindset that we are in it for the long haul, with much to do before we can say that we’re finished (at least with this year’s work). Oftentimes, we become disillusioned because we feel that we should be done and resent the fact that we still have a ways to go. If we can program our minds from the outset to think in terms of distance and longterm goals, it will be easier for all of us to keep going until the very end.

2. Clue them into the goals – Too often, children and parents don’t really know what the year’s goals and objectives are. Most would probably say “to finish X grade.” As a former teacher, I would submit that teachers also (particularly newer ones) may enter the year with a nebulous sense of what needs to happen in order for the year to be considered a success. Teachers can help themselves and their charges by offering a list of objectives (“by the end of third grade, you will have learned … and be able to…”). Even if certain individual students are unable to achieve those goals as they are presented (more about that in a bit), they give the class and the year a sense of direction and purpose.

3. Communicate early and often – It is crucial for parents and teachers to develop strong lines of communication. This is true on the high school level, and all the more so in primary grades. Of course, such communication should be two-way and proactive.

However, I suggest that parents in particular take the initiative and not wait for conferences or for things to go sideways. I can personally attest from my

The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015 The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018 The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015

experience as a teacher as well as principal that involved parents are usually great advocates for their children. This is not to say that parents should overdo it. Rather, arrive at an early understanding as to when would be a good time to catch up, and endeavor to stay consistent throughout the year, even when things appear to be going well.

This will minimally result in the child receiving more positive feedback and may even allow for the adults to identify an issue and troubleshoot it before it becomes something bigger.

4. How to you define success?

– Oftentimes, success in school is narrowly defined. We place on the academic pedestal those students who are able to achieve in the context of text-based learning, with a strong combination of auditory processing, note taking, memorization and test taking skills. The rest, including those students who require additional academic supports and/or a different set of curricular expectations, typically do not thrive in such settings and are

forced to endure years of perceived mediocrity or worse in their most important area of self-definition and social status that they have during their formative years. And we all know what happens to children who develop low self-esteem and a general sense of dis-

organized, and don’t let things get past them. Almost nothing causes greater stress in the morning than a child or two that overslept, can’t find what they need, realizes that they didn’t do an assignment, etc. Moreover, when a child goes to sleep knowing that she

Involved parents are usually great advocates for their children.

connect and disenfranchisement with their learning.

5. Develop a routine – Establishing a proper daily routine can be very healthy. Routines ensure that children and their parents remain focused and

is ready for the next day, she is more at peace and more relaxed. The goal is to keep the stress level down while also minimizing the association between school and stress.

6. Daven – We all want for our

17 89 17

children to be happy and successful.

Certainly none of us want for them to experience a poor year, particularly with all of that money that we pay in tuition. Daven regularly that they should succeed.

Of course, the above list represents but a handful of suggestions that can help to ensure a successful year from beginning to end. May all of our tefillos be answered and may we shep much nachas from our children throughout the most amazing and successful year that is now upon us.

Rabbi Naphtali Hoff, PsyD, is an executive coach and President of Impactful Coaching & Consulting. For a free, no obligation consultation, please call 212.470.6139 or email nhoff@impactfulcoaching.com.

Check out his new leadership book, “Becoming the New Boss”, on Amazon and on the book site, BecomingtheNewBoss. com. Download his free eBook for understaffed leaders at ImpactfulCoaching. com/EPIC.

76 90

6

OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Things Your Principal Wishes You Knew

By Susan Schwamm

T

hree-ring binder? Check.

Ticonderoga #2 pencils?

Check.

Filler paper? Check.

Hole puncher? Reinforcements?

Erasers? Check, check, and check.

As children are readying their knapsacks for the first day of school, teachers and principals are preparing their lesson plans and class lists for the beginning of a wonderful school year. This week we spoke with Mrs. S., principal of a large girls’ high school on the East Coast, to learn more about how parents can best prepare their children for the new year. Here are the top six things your principal wishes you knew.

1. Be Your Child’s Advocate You know your child best. And, as in all situations, you are your child’s best advocate. So make sure to communicate with your child’s

teachers and principals about any challenges or needs that your child has. Is there an unusual circumstance in your family or in your child’s life? Is there a sick sibling at home? A grandparent living with you? A severe allergy or anxiety? A weekly mandatory doctor’s visit?

Make sure to communicate that with your child’s principal and teacher. If the principal is aware of that challenge or situation, he or she can make sure the right people in school are aware of it as well.

It’s best to get in touch with the school before school starts about these issues, but if you haven’t yet done so, you can give them a call now. They are more than happy to speak with you to help make school a better experience for their students.

2. Reach Out Your child is spending most of

his or her day in school with her teachers and friends. You’re all part of the same team! During the first few days of school reach out to your child’s teachers to introduce yourself to them with a phone call or a short email. Be positive! Thank them for a wonderful first few days and tell them you’re looking forward to a wonderful year. Keep the lines of communication open during the year. Periodically check in with an email, note or phone call to hear more about what’s going on in school. A short note with a positive message is always appreciated, but more than that you want to remind teachers that you’re interested in your child’s progress.

3. Take Our Recommendations Seriously Principals very often are in touch with parents if there is a need for

evaluations or referrals for certain therapies or disorders. Sometimes a child can benefit from tutoring in a certain subject or sessions with a therapist to learn how to deal with their peers or their workload. Principals will only make those recommendations with much deliberation and when seeing a pattern of behavior to warrant those recommendations so take them seriously. They put in a lot of thought before picking up the phone to call you.

4. It’s Their Homework Homework. There, we’ve said it.

But parents shouldn’t be dreading homework every night. It’s your job to provide the time and space for your children to complete their homework assignments every night.

But it’s not your work. It’s your child’s responsibility to get homework done. Make sure to commu-

The The Jewish Jewish Home Home || OCTOBER OCTOBER 29, 29, 2015 2015 The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

nicate that clearly with your child – and be firm. Do not tell them the answers just to get out of their tantrums. That’s detrimental to your child in many ways.

If you see that your child is really struggling with his or her homework – whether they’re not yet on the level or that it’s taking them too much time – be in touch with your child’s teacher. They want to know if your child is not keeping up with the rest of the class and can help work with you and your child to provide homework assignments that are more on their level.

5. Be a Cheerleader Get out the pom-poms. Mrs. S. advises that you become a cheerleader for your child and for his or her school. Your school will be more responsive to you if you are positive about their programs. That doesn’t mean that you can’t come to them with constructive feedback, but all in all, if you’re sending to the school it’s assumed that you are generally

happy with it, so let it show!

Children also have big ears and are impressionable. If the atmosphere at home is negative when it comes to school, children will likely follow in their parents’ unenthusi-

style and compliment them in front of your children.

Don’t jump to conclusions based on first impressions. Some teachers may not be the most impressive performers on parent-teacher night but

Having enthusiastic parents leads to enthusiastic, excited students, and they’re always a joy to have around. astic footsteps. And that’s a shame.

This also goes for your children’s teachers. Be excited about the teachers that your children have. Point out the positives in their teaching

are a star in the classroom.

Having enthusiastic parents leads to enthusiastic, excited students, and they’re always a joy to have around.

77 77 91

6. Speak Out If something is bothering your child, communicate. Call your child’s teacher and make sure to communicate what’s been going on. Ask questions. Find out what has been taking place in the classroom. Remember, if you called your child’s teachers early on in the year just to connect, you already have a relationship with them, which will make this conversation easier. Your child’s teacher wants the best for your child and you can work together to make that happen.

If you feel that your child’s needs are not being addressed, your child’s principal is here to help. But please don’t call the principal before addressing the issue with your child’s teacher. That would only make the situation awkward and would make the teacher feel offended by the snub.

Remember, parents, teachers and principals are partners in children’s success. Working together, children will shine and grow, and this year will be one of great progress.

92 68

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

Chef

Trnare tristique. Morbi tempor eros quis eros ultricies, vitae pulvinar felis rutrum. In vitae lacus eget erat interdum vehicula quis non tellus.

Talk

Jerky for Dummies A Guide for the Uninformed

By Naphtali Sobel

Bitlong, South African jerky

T

he term jerky originates from the native Peruvian Spanish word charqui, which means dried meat. Subsequently the term charqui, or jerking, was used to mean the process of making jerky as well as referring to dried meat. This process included cutting thin strips of meat and drying it in the sun and or by open fire. The Spanish called this process barbecue. Jerky was sometimes dried on a frame placed in front of a fire called a boucan, which was a method commonly used by ship farers to preserve meats for their journeys. Subsequently, the name buccaneer was used to describe pirates, because of the association with this method of drying meats. The result of this process is a delicious, protein-packed snack or meal that can be taken on the run or on all sorts of trips where refrigeration is unavailable.

Pemmican, a beef jerky energy bar

The reason why jerky has an extended shelf life is because water is a vehicle for bacteria to grow. Bu drying out the meat you are preventing spoilage. Additionally, the addition of salts, spices and sugars also fight and kill off bacteria growth, prolonging shelf life.

Beef sticks are also a stereotypical delicious jerky form. There are varieties of salmon jerky and turkey jerky but for me if it’s not from a four-legged animal then who are we fooling?

Another Native American-form of jerky is called pemmican. This word is actually derived from another native word that means grease.

It was and still is made in parts of Quebec from deer, moose, or buffalo meat as well as from other game animals. Unlike standard jerky, this product was often powderized, mixed with available berries, espe-

cially cranberries, and then topped with a layer of fat. The layer of fat preserves the meat by protecting it from the air or oxidation, much like duck confit or duck rillettes are covered in fat. Pemmican is essentially calorie-filled jerky meets trail mix meets energy bar.

Biltong is a South African type of jerky. Although similar to jerky, there are some fundamental differences. Vinegar is almost always used in the biltong process and jerky almost never has vinegar. Biltong is always air-dried, but jerky can be air dried, pit smoked, dehydrated, and so on. Traditional biltong spices are salt, vinegar, black pepper, and coriander, which is very similar to pastrami which contains heavy amounts of salt, pepper and coriander. Interestingly, the original pastrami or basturma is also an air dried/smoked meat and is some-

times prepared as a whole roast and sometimes cut into strips as a jerky form. Bresaola or bunderfleisch are also somewhat similar to jerky and more similar to biltong as it is often cured with wine or vinegars, but is usually processed as a whole muscle and is only later thinly sliced. Jerky is seasoned with just about anything from coke, to teriyaki, to maple or sriracha or anything else fathomable and can often be sweet as well.

Jamaican jerk chicken is called jerk from the word charqui for the same reason jerky is called that since it is cooked in a similar barbecue open flame form. Jamaican jerk chicken was originally cooked in dug pits but is now more commonly made in old propane tanks, or offset smokers, just like you would see in Texas. Another theory for the name jerk chicken is because it’s flipped or jerked or poked and prodded on the

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018 The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015

grill. Pimento wood is the traditional wood of choice to cook the chicken, and it can be made with a dry or wet rub. Spices always include allspice and scotch bonnet peppers, and usually contain cloves, cinnamon, nutmeg, thyme ginger, garlic, brown sugar and salt or sometimes soy sauce as Jamaica has a large Chinese population. At times, fruits such as mango are pureed into wet rubs as a variation.

I would like to leave you with a Jamaican jerk chicken recipe so you do not need to hang jerky on clothesline in your houses. For those living in dormitories, I would definitely suggest making homemade jerky. And invite over all those guys from the next dirah.

Naphtali Sobel is an experienced chef and food consultant. He is available as a personal chef and for consulting. He can be reached at napsob87@gmail.com.

R EC I P E

FO R

Yo u

FRO M TH E KIT CH EN OF

N aphtali Sobel

J amaican J erk Chicken IN GR ED IEN TS 6 chicken cutlet pieces, cut into 4 limes, juiced 1 cup water 2 tsp allspice 2 tsp dried thy me ½ tsp nutmeg 1 tsp salt 1 ½ tsp pepper 1 tsp brown sugar 1 tsp ginger 2 TBS oil 2 onions, chopped 1 ½ cups chopped scallions 6 cloves garlic, chopped 2 habanero peppers, chopped

PR EPAR AT IO N chunks

water in a bowl Place chicken, lime juice and and set aside. , brown sugar, Place allspice , nut meg , salt oil in a blender. and per thy me, ginger, black pep ons, scallions, oni in add Blend until smooth. Then ost smooth. alm il unt s garlic and habanero pepper l wit h the bow the to e Add most of the mix tur . Marinate ting bas for use chicken; reserve a bit to rs. hou two in the fridge, covered, for Oil grates. Cook Preheat grill to medium heat.

Turn often and l. gril ted chicken slowly on prehea eness. don ired des baste frequently. Cook to

93 69

94 66

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

In The K

tchen

Cheesy Tuna Casserole

By Naomi Nachman

This delicious casserole is a quick and easy dinner to throw together when you are in a hurry. I love the creaminess that the mushroom soup gives the pasta, and the cheese gets all oozy. The crunchy topping also gives it great texture.

Ingredients 1 (12 ounce) package egg noodles ¼ cup chopped onion 2 cups shredded cheddar cheese 2 (6 ounce) cans tuna, drained 2 (10.75 ounce) cans condensed cream of mushroom soup 1 cup panko crumbs or French’s Onions Ring

Preparation Bring a large pot of lightly salted water to a boil. Cook pasta in boiling water for 8 to 10 minutes, or until al dente; drain.

Preheat oven to 425°F. In a large bowl, thoroughly mix noodles, onion, 1 cup cheese, tuna, and soup. Transfer to a 9x13 inch baking dish, and top with panko crumbs or onion rings and remaining 1 cup cheese.

Bake for 15 to 20 minutes in the preheated oven, or until cheese is bubbly.

Naomi Nachman, the owner of The Aussie Gourmet, caters weekly and Shabbat/ Yom Tov meals for families and individuals within The Five Towns and neighboring communities, with a specialty in Pesach catering. Naomi is a contributing editor to this paper and also produces and hosts her own weekly radio show on the Nachum Segal Network stream called “A Table for Two with Naomi Nachman.” Naomi gives cooking presentations for organizations and private groups throughout the New York/New Jersey Metropolitan area. In addition, Naomi has been a guest host on the QVC TV network and has been featured in cookbooks, magazines as well as other media covering topics related to cuisine preparation and personal chefs. To obtain additional recipes, join The Aussie Gourmet on Facebook or visit Naomi’s blog. Naomi can be reached through her website, www.theaussiegourmet.com or at (516) 295-9669.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

FAUX LEATHER TABLECLOTHS $3999

and up

Available in all sizes

MALIBU IVORY/GOLD

PA S E D E N A

LAGUNA GREY/WHITE

M A L I B U S I LV E R / W H I T E

VENTURA

WINDSOR

VISIT US AT ONE OF OUR CONVENIENT LOCATIONS: BORO PARK 4518 13TH AVE. 718.854.2595 CEDARHURST 134 WASHINGTON AVE. 516.218.2211 • LAKEWOOD TODD PLAZA 1091 RIVER AVE (Route 9) 732.364.8822 OR PLACE YOUR ORDER ONLINE AT THECLOSEOUTCONNECTION.COM

SONOMA

ON INSTAGRAM @THECLOSEOUT

Upscale. On Sale.

95

26 96

OCTOBER 29,2018 2015| The | TheJewish JewishHome Home AUGUST 23,

Notable Quotes “Say What?!”

If ICE is in the business of removing despicable Nazis, can they please head over to the White House?

- Tweet by comedian Kathy Griffin after a 95-year-old Nazi, Jakiw Palij, who had been living in Queens, NY, for decades, was deported back to Germany on Tuesday

I’m riddled with shame. White shame. This isn’t helpful to me or to anyone, especially people of color. I feel like there is no “me” outside of my white/upper middle class…identity. I feel like my literal existence hurts people, like I’m always taking up space that should belong to someone else.

Home Depot just had its best quarter in company history. When asked what they’ll do with the money, Home Depot said, “Hire a second employee.”

– Jimmy Fallon

These are very serious charges and reflect a pattern of lies and dishonesty over an extended period of time.

- Deputy U.S. attorney Robert Khuzami, speaking to the press after a guilty plea by President Trump’s former attorney, Michael Cohen, who is now the truth agent that will spill the beans to Special Prosecutor Robert Mueller

There is one race that cannot be criticized. If you are anti-Semitic, it seems almost as if you are a criminal. Anti-Semitic is a term that is invented to prevent people from criticizing the Jews for doing wrong things.

-Malaysia’s President Mahathir Mohamad, in an interview with the Associated Press on Monday

I consider myself an ally. I research proper etiquette, read writers of color, vote in a way that will not harm P.O.C. (and other vulnerable people). I engage in conversations about privilege with other white people. I take courses that will further educate me. I donated to Black Lives Matter. Yet I fear that nothing is enough. Part of my fear comes from the fact that privilege is invisible to itself. What if I’m doing or saying insensitive things without realizing it?

- From a New York Times article, titled “Can I Cure My White Guilt?”

MORE QUOTES

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

97

98

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015

27

I just feel that all these various diseases that we have and all these things that are happening in the world in part is because there are those who don’t believe in global warming.

- Stevie Wonder, talking about Aretha Franklin’s death from cancer

I’ll tell you, one of the things that I think for me is most important is the role that I serve on the various committees that I’m on, which are oversight committees, like — let’s be clear those committees exist to — to watch and question what is going on with our government, with the United States government.

So I’m on Senate Intelligence.

I’m on Homeland Security.

I’m on Judiciary. And the accomplishment then for me is a function of what I think my role should be, and often, especially in the last 18 months it has been to try and get at the truth. And so the accomplishment is and the goal is to always make sure that we are being and the system as being as transparent as possible, and that — you know, frankly that the American public has the answers, and that we’re being told the truth. And when that happens I feel a sense of accomplishment, and when it doesn’t happen I feel a sense of frustration.

- Sen. Kamala Harris (D-CA), when asked on a podcast to name her “ biggest win” as a senator

I don’t believe I’m being political at all.

– Former CIA Director John Brennan, who in the past has called President Trump “treasonous” and who is on TV every night bashing Trump, on Meet the Press on Sunday, after losing his security clearance

There were times when I didn’t leave the factory for three or four days — days when I didn’t go outside. This has really come at the expense of seeing my kids. And seeing friends.

- Tesla’s Elon Musk in an interview with The New York Times, talking about how hard he works and how run-down he feels

It is often a choice of no sleep or Ambien.

- Ibid., disclosing that he often takes medication in order to sleep

If you have anyone who can do a better job, please let me know. They can have the job. Is there someone who can do the job better? They can have the reins right now.

- Ibid., discussing the prospects of Tesla’s board of directors replacing him at the helm of Tesla

A man in Florida was recently arrested after running into a liquor store with an alligator and chasing people who were shopping there. I’m just going to say it: this emotional support animal thing has officially gone too far.

– James Corden

MORE QUOTES

28

OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

99

We’re not going to make America great again. It was never that great.

– Gov. Andrew Cuomo (D-NY) at a bill signing last week

Tell that to our great soldiers at World War I, World War II, Korean War, so many others…

His comments are an insult to the generations of brave Americans whose blood, and sweat and tears built our magnificent country.

- President Trump, at a rally, responding to Cuomo’s comment

Any politician who gets up and says that “our country was never great.”… You heard that?

I think that’s the end of that career.

It takes courage to exercise your right to protest injustice, especially when you’re 11! Keep up the good work Mariana.

- Tweet by Hillary Clinton to 11-year-old Mariana Taylor, a sixth-grader at a Maryland school, who kneeled during the Pledge of Allegiance

- Ibid.

Why aren’t we incorporating the cost of all the funeral expenses of those who die because they can’t afford access to health care?

- Democratic socialist congressional candidate Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez on CNN insinuating that government should pay funeral costs for all citizens

I would like a pollster to ask this question: How many people in the Republican Party think it would be okay for [Trump] to dissolve their own grandparents? I’m virtually certain that if it was a Donald Trump-related question, you’d get like 10 percent that would [say], “Donald Trump has the power to do whatever he wants — including kill my parents.”

- Pundit John Heilemann on MSNBC

It is not a disconnected fact … that American women entering the labor force from 1973 to 2009 added three and a half trillion dollars to our economy. … The net, new entrance of women — that is not disconnected from the fact that Roe became the law of the land in January of 1973.

– Chelsea Clinton

Vice President Mike Pence appeared today in Iowa to give a speech about taxes. I’m not saying the speech was boring, but it is being offered as a new setting on white noise machines.

– Seth Myers

So in the words of my late friend Aretha Franklin, show some R-E-S-P-I-C-T. - Al Sharpton – who will not be competing in the Scripps Spelling Bee any time soon – on MSNBC, using Aretha Franklin’s famous song to attack President Trump

6 100

OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Political Crossfire

Brennan is a Hack. Trump Turned Him into Spartacus

By Marc A. Thiessen

M

any in the intelligence community have been quietly dismayed by the hyperbolic partisan behavior of former CIA director John Brennan since Donald Trump took office. But by revoking Brennan’s security clearance, President Trump has managed to turn Brennan from an embarrassment into a martyr.

The response to Trump’s action has been like the scene in the 1960 movie “Spartacus” when a Roman general announces to a group of rebel slaves that they will be spared the punishment of crucifixion – but only if they turn in Spartacus, the leader of the revolt. One by one, the slaves stand up and shout, “I am Spartacus.”

As former CIA director Michael Hayden has pointed out, a similar scene is playing out today in the intelligence community. The first to yell “I am Spartacus” was retired Adm. William H. McRaven, former head of U.S. Joint Special Operations Command, who declared in a Post op-ed, “I would consider it an honor if you would revoke my security clearance as well, so I can add my name to the list of men and women who have spoken up against your presidency.”

Then 12 former CIA directors, CIA deputy directors and directors of national intelligence declared in a joint letter that they, too, were Spartacus: “You don’t have to agree with what John Brennan says (and, again, not all of us do) to agree with his right to say it, subject to his obligation to protect classified information.” The number of

signatories is now at 15.

They were soon joined by 60 former CIA officers, who signed a letter of their own and released it Friday evening declaring they were Spartacus. “Our signatures below do not necessarily mean that we concur with the opinions expressed by former Director Brennan or the way in which he expressed them,” they wrote, but “the country will be weakened if there is a political litmus test applied before seasoned experts are allowed to share

director Andrew McCabe (whom the inspector general determined had inappropriately authorized the disclosure of sensitive information and then misled investigators), Brennan lashed out at Trump, declaring on Twitter, “When the full extent of your venality, moral turpitude, and political corruption becomes known, you will take your rightful place as a disgraced demagogue in the dustbin of history.”

Brennan has also warned Republican members of Congress that “legislators

Note the pains the writers of both letters took to distance themselves from both the substance and style of Brennan’s attacks on Trump.

their views.” By Tuesday, the number of signatories had grown to 177 and included former senior officials from the State, Defense and Justice departments as well as the National Security Council and even NASA. Note the pains the writers of both letters took to distance themselves from both the substance and style of Brennan’s attacks on Trump. Brennan’s conduct has been deeply controversial in intelligence circles – and with good reason. After the Justice Department fired former FBI deputy

who try to protect [Trump] will face November reckoning.”

But, most egregious of all, Brennan accused Trump of treason, tweeting that Trump’s performance at his Helsinki news conference with Russian President Vladimir Putin “rises to & exceeds the threshold of ‘high crimes & misdemeanors’” and “was nothing short of treasonous.” This was both outrageous and absurd. A news conference, however embarrassing, is not an impeachable offense. On Sunday, an incredulous Chuck Todd told Bren-

nan on NBC’s “Meet the Press,” “You are the former CIA director accusing the sitting President of the United States ... of treason. ... That’s a monumental accusation.” Brennan stood by his ridiculous accusation.

Even some former officials deeply concerned by Trump’s policies and behavior have been taken aback by the barrage of partisan invective.

James R. Clapper Jr., who worked for President Barack Obama alongside Brennan as director of national intelligence, recently complained, “John and his rhetoric have become an issue in and of itself.” Retired Adm. Mike Mullen, who served as chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff under Obama, said Brennan’s partisan criticism of Trump “has put him in a political place which actually does more damage for the intelligence community.”

He’s right. Brennan’s actions have harmed the intelligence community, which prides itself on staying above the partisan fray, and have fed the narrative of a “deep state” seeking to undermine Trump.

But revoking Brennan’s security clearance has not hurt Brennan.

To the contrary, Trump has rescued Brennan from his own partisan hackery and given him an even greater platform from which to spew his bile.

Indeed, the president admitted as much on Friday, saying, “If anything, I’m giving him a bigger voice.”

Yes, Mr. President, you are – and that is a big mistake. (c) 2018, Washington Post Writers Group

4

OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

The 29, 2018 2015 TheJewish JewishHome Home| OCTOBER | AUGUST 23,

1017

Political Crossfire

Will What Happens in Turkey Stay in Turkey?

By Robert J. Samuelson

T

he pertinent and unanswerable question about Turkey is whether the country’s present economic turmoil is an isolated event, mostly confined to Turkey itself, or whether it portends a larger economic convulsion that shakes markets around the world. Among economists and other experts, there’s no consensus. Some foresee contagion: Turkey’s problems will spread. Others envision a one-country economic blip.

Which is it?

The answer obviously matters.

The global economy already faces obstacles to growth. American interest rates are rising, as the Federal Reserve tries to prevent higher inflation. President Trump’s trade wars are threatening. If we now add a slowdown of “emerging market” economies (China, Brazil and similar “middle-income” nations), the global expansion might sputter or halt.

Turkey’s experience is relevant. In recent months, its currency (the lira) has collapsed. At the start of 2018, it was trading at roughly 4 lira to the dollar; now that’s about 6 lira to the dollar.

This makes it harder for Turkish businesses and consumers to repay debts, which – more than in many other countries – are often made in dollars. To repay these debts, Turkish companies need to earn more lira, which can be sold for dollars. The more lira go to repay dollar debts, the fewer lira are left over to buy other things. Economic growth slows. If debtors can’t raise the dollars to repay

their loans, they default. Too many defaults, and growth stops.

Turkey’s debt problems are undeniably daunting, notes economist Hung Tran of the Institute of International Finance (IIF), an industry research and advocacy group. Consider: Between now and the end of 2018, Turkey faces debt repayments – principle and interest – of about $120 billion; in 2019, the total is about $200 billion. By comparison, Turkey’s economy (gross domestic

key’s GDP grew 7 percent, up from 3.2 percent in 2016.

To complicate matters further, Turkey and the Trump administration are feuding over the Turks’ detention of Andrew Brunson, an American pastor accused of anti-state activities.

Now comes the reckoning. Many observers believe that what happened in Turkey will stay in Turkey. Its economy is simply too small (about 1.4 percent of global GDP, according to some estimates) to influence the rest

Between now and the end of 2018, Turkey faces debt repayments - principle and interest - of about $120 billion; in 2019, the total is about $200 billion.

product) is about $850 billion. Some of these loans could be rolled over; how many is unclear.

Many debts were incurred by banks or private firms, encouraged by easy-money policies. The government pumped up the economy in the wake of a failed military coup in 2016 and in anticipation of a new election. The election was held in June 2018 and was won by President Recep Tayyip Erdogan. He was surely helped by the economic stimulus. Last year, Tur-

of the world. “It’s mainly a Turkish issue,” says economist C. Fred Bergsten of the Peterson Institute. He doesn’t expect large spillover effects – say, a slowdown of growth in Europe or capital flight from other “emerging market” countries, such as Brazil or India.

Not all economists are so hopeful.

Writing in The Hill, Desmond Lachman of the American Enterprise Institute predicts that “Turkey will default on its debt and impose capital controls.” (Capital controls are legal

restrictions on money movements in and out of a country.) He expects contagion – capital flight from heavily indebted countries – that will weaken the global recovery and hurt the U.S. economy.

Economist Tran of the IIF thinks that emerging-market countries that have problems similar to Turkey’s – poor policies, maturing debts, sizable current account deficits – are the most vulnerable to capital flight.

These include South Africa, Indonesia and Egypt. So far, the evidence is reassuring; the IIF’s most recent survey of capital movements didn’t detect any sizable money surges since the lira’s latest large drop.

Crowd psychology could trigger a panic. If investors expect other investors to sell, there could be a stampede for the door.

This story isn’t over yet. What’s uncontroversial, at least among many economists, is that Turkey will need to go to the IMF to end the present crisis. The IMF would provide a hefty loan (it’s doubtful anyone else would) and impose “tough austerity policies” designed to improve the economy’s performance, says Jacob Funk Kirkegaard of the Peterson Institute.

By their nature, these policies would be unpopular, especially with Erdogan, because they “could weaken [his] hold on power,” as Kirkegaard puts it. It seems likely that he would resent and resist them as long as possible. That could change everything.

Stay tuned. (c) 2018, Washington Post Writers Group

102 32 32

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

Forgotten Her es

What Color was George Washington’s White Horse?

By Avi Heiligman

A bronze statue of Alexander the Great on his horse, Bucephalus

A

nimals have been used by armies in warfare for as long as history has been written.

Hannibal used elephants to great effect and today dogs accompany soldiers into battle. Perhaps horses have been seen on battlefields more than any other animal in history. Certain horses in particular have made their way into military lore and some have attained legendary status. Here are some of the famous horses and their riders that have changed the course of history.

Thanks to the Targum, in Megilas Esther the name of Achashverosh’s horse is known. Shifragatzya played a major part of the Purim story. The horse was led through the streets of Shushan with Mordechai on board and Haman and his sons leading the way. This is presumably the same horse that Achashverosh used to lead his troops into battle on his way to conquer much of, if not the entire, known world.

One of the most famous horses of

the ancient world was Bucephalus.

Belonging to Greek commander Alexander the Great, the massive horse was black with a white star on his brow. Greek writings are full of fascinating legends about the horse but today these stories would be classified

George Washington with Blueskin

Marengo, the white stallion who brought victory to Napoleon numerous times

alus was killed during the Battle of Hydapses against the Indian Empire and was buried near a town named in his honor.

George Washington’s white horse was actually a gray horse that had a white shade to his coat. In fact,

cannon fire. The other horse’s name was Nelson, and both were retired to Mount Vernon after the war.

French Emperor Napoleon Bonaparte had 52 horses that he personally owned. The most famous of these horses was Marengo, who was purchased while Napoleon was in Egypt in 1799. He was ridden to Moscow and carried the great military commander on many campaigns including Austerlitz and Waterloo. The horse was oftentimes seen being ridden way more than any other horse and went through a lot to keep his rider in the saddle. Marengo, who through his career had been wounded eight times, was captured by a British officer after the French defeat at Waterloo and was brought to England.

On the opposite side of the battlefield at Waterloo, the Duke of Wellington rode on a horse named Copenhagen who had carried him through several military campaigns.

Many generals and officers during the American Civil War (1861-1865)

Confederate troops and admirers wanted a piece of the famous horse and cut off horse hairs from his tail as souvenirs.

as non-realistic fiction. In any case, Bucephalus went into many battles with Alexander riding on top. The great military commander was the only one the majestic horse would allow on his back. In 386 BCE, Buceph-

the founding father had two primary horses during the Revolutionary War with one being gray and other chestnut in color. Blueskin, the gray horse, was the favorite of Washington but sometimes would get nervous at

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018 The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015

Robert E. Lee and Traveller, a legendary horse

had favorite horses upon which they observed the bloodiest conflict on American soil. Confederate commander General Robert E. Lee became a legend upon his horse, Traveller. Lee had several other horses as well, including one named Brown Roan which went blind in 1862. Traveller was purchased specially for Lee for his look and grace in the field. The horse was iron gray in color, and Lee referred to it as “Confederate gray.”

However, during the Second Battle of Bull Run, Traveller became nervous while Lee was dismounted and holding him by the reigns. Lee was thrown to the ground and broke both of his hands on a stump. But Lee was soon back in Traveller’s saddle, and the horse soon became a legend. Confederate troops and admirers wanted a piece of the famous horse and cut off horse hairs from his tail as souvenirs.

Traveller died in 1871 and is buried next to Lee. Union commander General Ulysses S. Grant had three primary horses during the Civil War with Cincinnati being the one that he posed with for a famous picture. Starting at a young age, Grant became a very good horseman and owned many horses throughout his army career. Grant rode Cincinnati while on his way to Appomattox Courthouse to accept the Confederate surrender from Lee. Many statues were constructed of Grant riding high on Cincinnati.

A young Union cavalry officer with troops that were outnumbered by their adversaries stopped a Confederate cavalry charge during the third day of the Battle of Gettysburg.

George Armstrong Custer made a name for himself as his brigade stopped J.E.B. Stuarts’s men at the same time Pickett’s Charge was taking place. The Union victory was the turning point of the war, and Custer was in the thick of the battle. Custer owned several war horses with his favorite being Lancer. In 1876, his troops were overwhelmed by the numerous Native American tribes at the Battle of Little Bighorn. The entire cavalry detachment was killed and the only survivor was a horse named Comanche. He belonged to Captain Myles Keogh, and in 1891 Comanche was one of four horses to ever have been given a military funeral with full honors.

Other Civil War generals equally had great horses that they rode into battle riding high. Grey Eagle belonged to General John Buford, the cavalry officer who held the line at the beginning of the Battle of Gettysburg.

Confederate General Stonewall Jackson was riding Little Sorrel when he was killed at the Battle of Chancellorsville. J.E.B. Stuart was riding Virginia during the Gettysburg campaign.

Horses are very important to warfare. These are just of the famous horses that made their even more famous riders able to command their

103 33

Ulysses S. Grant loved horses but had a special bond with Cincinnati

armies in battles that changed the course of history. In a future article we will delve into horses that themselves became heroes of the battlefield.

Avi Heiligman is a weekly contributor to The Jewish Home. He welcomes your comments and suggestions for future columns and can be reached at aviheiligman@gmail.com.

104

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Classifieds

classifieds@fivetownsjewishhome.com / text 443-929-4003 SERVICES

SERVICES

Yoga & Licensed Massage Therapy Peaceful Presence Studio 436 Central Avenue, Cedarhurst Separate men/women Group/private sessions Gift Cards Available www. Peacefulpresence.com 516 -371 -3715

Alternative Solutions Geriatric Care Management staff will assist you with: * Obtaining Medicaid and Pooled Income Trust * In-home Assessments, Individual and Family Counseling * Securing reliable home care assistance * Case and Care Management services Dr. S. Sasson, DSW, LCSW (718) 544- 0870 or (646) 284-6242

Looking for a Weight Loss Program?

Presenting the BACH WEIGHT LOSS PLAN. It contains detailed Glatt Kosher menus of food items to buy and create your meals.

The plan is safe and easy to follow.

Does Not Require EXERCISING Send your name and address with a payment of only $79 by check (No cash please) To “Cash”, P.O. 97, Woodmere, NY 11598 You will promptly receive the plan by regular mail Important: Please record code 11ko/01 on your check Success is guaranteed If Not Satisfied, request a refund within 30 days.

SERVICES

SHALOM HANDYMAN Plumbing, heating, boiler, installation, sewer, locks, dryer vent cleaning and more…

CALL 917-217-3676 GERBER MOVING FULL SERVICE MOVING Packing Moving Supplies Local Long Distance Licensed Insured 1000’S Of Happy Customers Call Shalom 347-276-7422

RENT-A-SUKKAH Various sizes available Prices include: delivery, assembly, disassembly, lighting, extension cord.

All you have to do is decorate!

(516) 644-3348 hwaftr3@aol.com

HAIR COURSE Learn how to wash & style hair & wigs Hair and wig cutting, wedding styling Private lessons or in a group Call Chaya 718-715-9009

HOUSES FOR SALE PRICE REDUCED: Sprawling 4BR, 4BA Exp-Ranch, Oversized Rooms, LR W/Fplc, Formal Dining Rm, Large Den, Master Suite, Full Finished Basement, Storage Room & Office, Deck, Fabulous Property… $1.078M Call Carol Braunstein (516) 295-3000 www.pugatch.com

Carol Braunstein Call or Text

(516) 592-2206

cbraunstein@pugatch.com

www.pugatch.com FAR ROCKAWAY

RENTALS

Ced: Lrg 1BR Apt ...$1,795/mo Bright & Sunny 3BR On 2nd Floor, Ced: Renov 1BR..$1,895/mo Eik, Formal DR, Heat & Water F.Rock: 3BR,2nd Flr..$2,500/mo Included, Close To All, Hewl: NO FEE,2BR..$2,500/mo Move Right In...

Lawr: 4BR House..$2,995/mo $2,500/mo.

Apt In House

Beautiful & Sunny, Spacious Updated 1BR on 1sr Flr, Low Maintenance, MUST SEE...$199K

HOUSES FOR SALE House for Sale in Lawrence SHAARAY/CUMBERLAND AREA Near LIRR Legal 2-fam, easily convertible to a 1-fam $999K For sale by owner 516-318-9153 NORTH WOODMERE Beautiful spacious 4 bedroom colonial, finished basement, in ground pool, close to all. $939,000 Call Nat Farago 516-924-2971 nat1stoprealtygroup@gmail.com ML#3036766 HEWLETT: PRICE REDUCED Lovely Sunlit Split W/3 Bedrooms, 2.5Baths on Large Property, Gracious LR, Formal DR, Over Sized Den W/Fplc & Sliding Doors to Deck, Eik, Close To All…$585K Call Carol Braunstein (516) 295-3000 www.pugatch.com

Susan Pugatch (516) 295-3000 spugatch@pugatch.com

Co-ops & Condos Wdmr: Lovely 1BR..$99K Law: Lovely Jr 4 2BR..$179K Ced: Mint 2BR, 2BA..$339K Hewl: 2BR,2BA Top Flr..$339K F.Rock: 2BR,Shabbos Elev..$189K

HEWLETT: 56 Raymond Pl (11:30-1)$625K LAWRENCE: 42 Barrett Rd (12-1:30)$P.O.R

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

Classifieds HOUSES FOR SALE

HOUSES FOR SALE

Don’t Get Stuck With a Two Story House Ya Know, It’s One Story Before You Buy It But a Second Story After You Own It! Call Dov Herman For An Accurate Unbiased Home Inspection Infrared - Termite Inspection Full Report All Included NYC 718-INSPECT Long Island 516-INSPECT www.nyinspect.com

Can’t afford your property taxes?

Mortgage? Must sell for any reason?

Call for FREE Consultation.

Call now 212-470-3856 Cash buyers available!

LAWRENCE: NEW LISTING Beautiful & Spacious 4BR, 3BA CH Colonial In Prime Location, Eik, Formal DR, Wood Floors, Low Taxes, Wont Last…$969K Call Carol Braunstein (516) 295-3000 www.pugatch.com WOODSBURGH: NEW LISTING “One Of A Kind” Historic Stone Manor Home, 5 Bedrooms, Updated Eik & Full Summer Kitchen, Lush Property W/ IG-Pool, Patio & Waterfall + Cabana…$P.O.R Call Carol Braunstein (516) 295-3000 www.pugatch.com

COMMERCIAL RE CEDARHURST 500-3,500 +/- SF Beautiful, newly renovated space for rent. Ideal for Retail or Executive offices. Prime location. Convenient Parking.

Sam @516-612-2433 or 718-747-8080 ROCKVILLE CENTRE 5700 -S/F Warehouse Includes Offices with Large Windows Loading Dock / Ideal Location Walk To: LIRR - Chase Bank - Seven Eleven - Rite Aid 917-822-0499

2,000SF Retail Store W/Basement on Central Avenue

www.pugatch.com Call Ar thur For More Details (516) 295-3000

105

AUGUST525C 23, 2018 | The Jewish 7/16/18 Home 106 MILLER COMMERCIAL v2 5X3.qxp_2018

9:10 PM Page 1

Classifieds COMMERCIAL • LEASING • SALES

Executive Office Suites in Cedarhurst

BRAND NEW HIGH-TECH EXECUTIVE OFFICES • AVAILABLE PARKING • STEPS TO LIRR

AVAILABLE FALL 2018 DON’T MISS THIS EXCLUSIVE OPPORTUNITY

Raizie 917.903.1778 raizie@ftmr.com

516.374.4100 ftmr.com

New! Exclusive W. Broadway Woodmere 4000sf office space for 2 year lease 3 full bathrooms 14+ parking spots Call Raizie 917 903 1778

Life CAPTURE

I M A G E S LTD PHOTOGRAPHY I VIDEO

GABRIEL SOLOMON

GABE@LIFECAPTUREIMAGES.COM 516.499.9620 WWW.LIFECAPTUREIMAGES.COM

classifieds@fivetownsjewishhome.com text 443-929-4003

COMMERCIAL RE

COMMERCIAL RE

INWOOD OFFICE SPACE LOWEST PRICES IN TOWN! 500-7000 Square feet gorgeous office space with WATERVIEW in Inwood!

Lots of options. Tons of parking.

Will divide and customize space for your needs!

Call 516-567-0100

SF Medical Office Space Available, Reception Area, Waiting Room, Kitchenette, 2 Consult, 4 Exam Rooms, 2 Bathrooms, 30 Car On-Site Parking, For Lease …

Call Ian for More Details (516) 295-3000 www.pugatch.com

INWOOD 10,000 sq ft brick building.

Offices and warehouse. High ceilings.

Asking $16/foot.

Owner: 516-206-1100 mark@mbequitygroup.com EAST ROCKAWAY: Retail Stores on Busy Corner, 1000SF& Up Available, Great High Visibility Location, For Lease…

Call for More Details Broker (516) 792-6698 WOODMERE: BEST BUY Spacious 2BR Apartment, Washer/Dryer In Bldg, Elevator Bldg, Open Floor Plan, 1st Floor, Close To All...$199K Call Carol Braunstein (516) 295-3000 www.pugatch.com

LAWRENCE: Beautiful 2,000+/-SF Retail Space with Basement Available in Heart of Central Ave Shopping Strip, High Traffic Location, For Lease …Call Arthur For More Details (516) 295-3000 www.pugatch.com HEWLETT: Various Sized Office Space In Beautiful Suites With Plenty Of On-Site Parking in the Rear of Building. Available Immediately. Tenant Pays Own Utilities Directly. Can Be Combined For Up To A Total Of 6050SF, For Lease…

Call for More Details. Broker (516) 792-6698 ROCKVILLE CENTRE: Beautiful & Bright, Various Sized Office Space In Historic Building, Steps From RVC LIRR, Municipal Parking, Great Location, Near All, For Lease …Call Ian for More Details (516) 295-3000 www.pugatch.com

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018

107

COMMERCIAL RE

APT FOR RENT

CO-OP FOR SALE

HELP WANTED

5 TOWNS: LOOKING FOR: Restaurateurs, Orthodontists, Podiatrists, Chiropractors, Physical Therapists, Dentists, or Obstetrician/ Gynecologists. Spaces Available in Hewlett, Lynbrook, Rockville Centre, Valley Stream area. For Lease... Call For More Details Broker (516) 792-6698

FAR ROCKAWAY: NEW LISTING Bright & Sunny 3BR Apt In House On 2nd Flr, Heat & Water Included, Near All...$2,500/mo Call Carol Braunstein (516) 295-3000 www.pugatch.com

LAWRENCE: New Listing - Move Right In!!! Junior 4 Apartment, Prime Location in Lawrence. 2 Bedrooms with Terrace, Updated Bathroom, Kitchen with 2 Sinks, Close to RR, Shopping & Houses of Worship...$179K Call Carol Braunstein (516) 295-3000 www.pugatch.com

SHEVACH HIGH SCHOOL seeks AP Biology, AP Psychology, English and Trig Teachers for the 2018-2019 School Year.

Master's Degree & Experience required.

Please send resume to office@shevachhs.org

EAST ROCKAWAY: GREAT PROFESSIONAL SUITE - 1,500+/-SF Office Space in Professional Elevator Bldg W/Full Bsmt & Ample Parking, 3 Private Offices, Conference Rm, Bullpen & Reception Area, For Lease…

Call for More Details Broker (516) 792-6698 LONG BEACH: Office Space Available on 2nd Floor, 525 - 900+/- SF, Separate Bathrooms, Newly Renovated, For Lease…Call for More Details. Broker (516) 792-6698 WOODMERE: Various Sized Retail/Office Spaces Available with Amenities and Ample Parking, Great Location, Close to Major Highways & Public Transportation, For Lease… Call for More Details Broker (516) 792-6698

CO-OP FOR SALE FAR ROCKAWAY NEW LISTING Spacious & Updated 2BR, 2 Bathroom Apt on 1st Floor W/Terrace In Elevator Bldg, Parking, Doorman & Laundry Room On Premise...$350K Call Carol Braunstein (516) 295-3000 www.pugatch.com LAWRENCE: New Listing - Sunny 2BR, 2BA Apt In Elev Bldg, Hardwood Floors, LR/DR Combo, Screened-In Terrace, Near All...$279K Call Carol Braunstein (516) 295-3000 www.pugatch.com LAWRENCE: New Listing - Beautiful, Spacious, Sunny & Updated 1BR on 1st Floor.

Kitchen has 2 Full Size Sinks, Lovely Hardwood Floors, Very Low Maintenance, Near All...$199K Call Carol Braunstein (516) 295-3000 www.pugatch.com

FOR RENT BY OWNER FAR ROCKAWAY APT Recently updated smaller 2 bedroom apartment on first floor of 2 family house (NOT a basement) Available September 1 Located one block from Seasons Express/LIRR Asking $1450 Please call or text 929-225-3616

HELP WANTED Assistants needed for elementary school, afternoon session. email fivetownseducators@gmail.com Lev Chana Early Childhood Center, Hewlett, NY is looking to hire ASSISTANT TEACHERS FOR THE 2018-2019 SCHOOL YEAR. Candidates should have experience working with young children and be pursuing a degree in education or a related field.

Resumes to rgreen@halb.org F/T & P/T REGISTERED NURSE openings to work with adults who have developmental disabilities within residential settings in Brooklyn, Manhattan, or Long Island. Current NYS RN, min 2 years hospital experience. OHEL: 855-OHEL JOB, www.ohelfamily.org/careers

Torah Academy for Girls is seeking a qualified experienced Morah for lower grades as well as assistants for lower grades. Please email resume to Mlevin@tagschools.org The Ganger Early Childhood Division of TAG seeks warm, capable, enthusiastic Assistants for the September school term. Great working environment. Please email resumes to csender@tagschools.org Telecom installer ,experienced with Hosted Phone Systems & VIOP required.

Email your resume to sales@communicationsteam.net 718-844-7404

108

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

Classifieds

classifieds@fivetownsjewishhome.com text 443-929-4003

HELP WANTED

HELP WANTED

SEEKING NURSERY ASSISTANT TEACHER Warm, Motivated and Organized Great Salary and Excellent opportunity for growth!

Please send resume with references to morahseek@gmail.com or call/text 347-766-2618

LOOKING TO HIRE DELIVERY DRIVER FOR 5 TOWNS DRY CLEANING ROUTE. PU on Tuesday AM in Far Rockaway and 5 Towns and Delivery Thurs Aft/Eve back to 5 towns.

Must have own car/SUV/Minivan.

Will use company van for deliveries. Must have clean driving license. Great opportunity for retired/semi retired person.

If Interested please contact Marc at 917-612-2300

Yeshiva Ketana of Long Island is looking for a dynamic, positive and professional afternoon assistant for a general studies first or second grade position. Email resumes to office@ykli. org or Fax to 516-368-9199 HAMASPIK IS SEEKING community Habilitation staff to work day hours, evenings and weekends in the Five Towns, Queens, Far Rockaway & long Island, with high functioning developmentally disabled adults, children and teens. Shabbos staff also needed for Cedarhurst, Far Rockaway & Lawrence. Drivers’ license a plus.

Mileage will be reimbursed.

Please Call Chava: 718-408-5144 for more details.

ASSISTANT TEACHERS CAHAL is seeking an Assistant Rebbe for M.S. boys yeshiva, secular studies Assistant for H.S. boys Mesivta, AM Assistant for girls and PM Assistant for boys elementary school classes.

Send resume to shira@cahal.org or call 516-295-3666.

Seeking full time PHYSICAL THERAPIST for Special Education school located in Brooklyn. Experienced preferred.

Competitive salary. Room for growth. resumes@yadyisroelschool.org

Rabbi Dovid Fleischmann Certified Mohel

WWW.BABYSMOHEL.COM

Baby-Friendly Care

 Personalized Attention

Expert Skill and Dedicated Service you Deserve

516-314-3236 babysmohel@gmail.com

TJH Classifieds Post your Real Estate, Help Wanted, Services, Miscellaneous Ads here.

Weekly Classifed Ads Up to 5 lines and/or 25 words 1 week ................ $20 2 weeks .............. $35 4 weeks .............. $60 Email ads to: classifieds@fivetownsjewishhome.com Include valid credit card info

Deadline Monday 5:00pm

HELP WANTED

HELP WANTED

Pugatch Realty Corp., in Woodmere, is looking to hire and train a select group of motivated Realtors. If you are looking to build a career in real estate, or looking to take your existing career to the next level, there is no better place to start that the #1 Real Estate Brokerage in the Five Towns…Call Today (516) 295-3000 x 128. All calls kept confidential.

Seeking full time OCCUPATIONAL THERAPIST for Special Education school located in Brooklyn. Experienced preferred.

Competitive salary. Room for growth. resumes@yadyisroelschool.org

SHULAMITH EARLY CHILDHOOD is looking to hire a full time teacher assistant for the current school year.

Please email resume to earlychildhood@shulamith.org CATAPULT LEARNING Teachers, Title I Boro Park, Williamsburg and Flatbush Schools *College/Yeshiva Degree *Teaching experience required *Strong desire to help children learn *Small group instruction *Excellent organization skills Competitive salary Send resume to: Fax: (212) 480-3691 ~ Email: nyteachers@catapultlearning.com

5 TOWNS BOYS YESHIVA SEEKING Elem Gen Ed Teachers.

Excellent working environment and pay. Only lic/exp need apply.

Email resume to yeshivalooking@gmail.com Due to continued growth, THE YESHIVA OF SOUTH SHORE IS SEEKING ELEMENTARY SCHOOL TEACHERS. Cert/Exp required.

Please forward resume to monika@yoss.org Seeking a dynamic SPEECH THERAPIST for special education school in Brooklyn. Collaborative environment and room for growth. resumes@yadyisroelschool.org

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018 The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015

Your

109 15

Money

For Better or For Worse

By Allan Rolnick, CPA

T

he best marriages, so they say, age like fine wine. They gain richness, and color, and depth.

They ripen and mellow as experience piles upon experience, bonding the couple and deepening the intimacy as husband and wife stroll hand-in-hand through the majestic tapestry of life.

(Cue the rainbows, and unicorns, and George Harrison lyrics.)

Remy and Lara T. didn’t have that kind of marriage. Their union aged more like milk. No, scratch that.

Imagine strapping a toddler into his car seat to go see Grandma on a hot summer day. You hand him a sippy cup of milk to keep him pacified for the drive. Halfway there, he drops the cup and it rolls under the front seat — but you forget it’s there.

Three weeks later, when you can’t ignore the smell, you find the results.

What is it? Some mutant strain of … cottage cheese, maybe? Something even worse? That’s what happened to Remy and Lara’s marriage.

Ordinarily, the IRS wouldn’t care about couple of feuding spouses. But Remy is one of Wall Street’s fatter cats, a hedge fund manager who did well enough before the recession to treat 100 of his employees to a long weekend at Venice’s five-star Hotel Bauer. He’s struggled a bit since then

but he’s still worth $200 million or so. That’s enough to give the IRS a stake in the fight — although maybe not what you think.

From the outside, the T. family lived an enviable life. They split their days between a $15 million Park Avenue apartment, a $10 million Long Island house, a grouse-hunting estate in Scotland, a quail-hunting estate

happiness, and the couple filed for divorce in 2015.

Lara may not have loved her husband anymore. But she still loved the money. So, she hired a squad of accounting ninjas to “bring him to his knees.” And the ninjas were happy to oblige, working “around the clock” to sort through Remy’s “multi-layered complex web of business entities.”

They split their days between a $15 million Park Avenue apartment, a $10 million Long Island house, a grouse-hunting estate in Scotland, a quail-hunting estate in Georgia, and two more houses.

in Georgia, and two more houses.

(Seriously, did they really shoot so many birds they needed two estates for it?) They supported a personal trainer, a chauffeur, a private chef, and a -16seat jet. Apparently, though, all that money failed to buy

They even set up a dedicated conference area called the “War Room” for Lara to use. That effort helped convince a judge to bump her interim alimony from $17,000 to $45,000 per month.

But financial samurai don’t come

cheap, and when they sent Lara a bill for $4.2 million, she freaked. Now she’s fighting them in court, too!

Here’s where our friends at the IRS come in. The good news is, legal fees for arranging alimony are deductible.

So Lara should be able to write off at least part of her bill. The bad news is, the rules are about to change, and starting in January, alimony won’t figure into taxes anymore. So she better hope she can wrap things up fast!

Lots of people have had a painful breakup or two under their belts. But they’ve never had to put their accountants’ kids through college to sort it out!

Fortunately, not all accounting ninjas bill millions. Take us, for example. We can help make sure you aren’t paying more tax than you legally owe. And we promise not to bill you seven figures unless we save you millions more. So call us when you’re tired of overpaying, and we’ll even let you decide how to share it with your spouse!

Allan J Rolnick is a CPA who has been in practice for over 30 years in Queens, NY. He welcomes your comments and can be reached at 718-896-8715 or at allanjrcpa@aol.com.

110 42

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home OCTOBER 29, 2015 | The Jewish Home

Life C ach

What a Good Idea?!

By Rivki D. Rosenwald Esq., MFT, CLC

W

ho figured out this is a good idea?

You’re eyes are half closed. You don’t have a stitch of makeup on. You haven’t had a second to dress or the energy to do so. And often it’s absolutely freezing outside to boot. But you want a little early morning reading material. And your newspaper is going to be dependably delivered at least halfway down the length of your driveway, with no way to retrieve it without being seen by half the neighborhood. Terrific!

How about this one? You’re in a hotel, you’re ready for bed, you buy a soda, and take it up to your room.

You get all comfy and realize you want a little ice. Great, it’s down the hall. Of course, past the elevator.

And there’s no way to get it to come to you. Thank you, Mr. Hotel Owner!

Let’s talk about the ATM. It’s after hours. You’re alone at a closed bank. No guard, of course – it’s after hours. And you’re obviously taking

out none other than cash. What?

They think no one knows what you’re doing there? Sure you feel so safe! Another terrific idea!

Weddings: The order seems to be shmorgasboard, ceremony, celebration. But when is the most outrageous variety of food offered? Of

If you don’t get indigestion just gulping it down, you do as you notice the wedding party staring at you. That was a great idea!

Should I keep going on?

Who decided teachers should be off during recess? All day we are teaching kids to be respectful to

I can go on and on...there are just so many things that can use an upgrade!

course, when you’re looping through every street trying to race there for at least a tasty morsel. So would you say the result is not embarrassing at all? It’s usually you, the waiter yelling at you, and the bride and groom’s family who wind up as the only people not walking in for the ceremony.

one another. And just when we have an opportunity to see if they’ve absorbed any of this information, we leave them on their own! Poor kids!

And who thought of subzero fridges? Sure, they work for the counter depth. But you need a fridge nearby just to fit your food!

Umbrellas – they’re great until you get into your car but then the minute you do you’re completely soaked. Cars should use a blowing mechanism to dry off the umbrella as you enter. By the way, anyone who follows up on this, we split the royalties.

I can go on and on…there are just so many things that can use an upgrade!

But that’s life. There’s always something negative you can focus on. The good news is that there’s a lot of amazing stuff we can take note of as well.

So now, I’m going to start thinking about those. But what’s funny about that?! So I leave you to do that on your own. Now that’s a great idea!

Rivki Rosenwald is a certified relationship counselor, and career and life coach. She can be contacted at 917-7052004 or rivki@rosenwalds.com.

The Jewish Home | AUGUST 23, 2018 The Jewish Home | OCTOBER 29, 2015

111 43

112

AUGUST 23, 2018 | The Jewish Home

HUVYSGALLERY.COM