Jacksonville Jewish News January 2014

SHALOM JACKSONVILLE Newcomers group travels to St. Augustine for a wine and cheese social.

CHAMPAGNE BRUNCH Olitzky speaks on outreach at women’s page 5 event.

PARENTING More grandparents are caring for grandchildren.

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Chanukah 2013

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At left: Michele Block Gan Yeladim kindergarten class crafts clay Chanukiyahs with help of local potter Tim Bullard.

By Jewish Federation of Jacksonville

You can now follow the Jewish Federation of Jacksonville on Twitter @ jaxjewish. We’ll keep you up to date on Federation events and happenings. And you’ll see the latest national and international news in the Jewish community.

Manilow concert benefits local organizations

Above: Beth El The Beaches Synagogue had over 150 people at its Chanukah celebration.

Below: Temple partnered with Jewish Family & Community Services to provide more than 60 gifts for foster children and Jewish elders.

Fifty percent of ticket proceeds go to local Jewish agencies and synagogues.

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See music legend, Barry Manilow live in concert and benefit your favorite local Jewish agency/congregation.

Music legend Barry Manilow, together with his management company Stiletto Entertainment, will bring his “Gift of Love” charity concert to Jacksonville Veterans Memorial Arena on Jan. 23.

Tickets are available for floor seats as well as certain sections in the bowl.

Fifty percent of ticket proceeds go directly to the local agency/congregation of your choice. Benefitting organizations include: • Jewish Federation of Jacksonville • Congregation Ahavath Chesed • Jewish Community Alliance • Jacksonville Jewish Center • Jewish Family & Community Services • River Garden Senior Services Don’t miss out on this special offer.

To purchase the charity tickets go to: www.starz.bz/agiftoflove.

At left and above: Torah Academy’s annual Chanukah party and raffle brought in approximately $23,000 for the school, making it one of the biggest fundraisers of the year.

JFCS hosts evening of awareness March 6

By Jewish Family & Community Services

Jewish Family & Community Services hosts You Can Count on Us, an evening dedicated to raising awareness for the charitable work that JFCS provides to the community. Honorary chairs for the evening include Linda and Laurie DuBow, and J. Wayne and Delores Barr Weaver.

JFCS has three goals for the evening:

to teach the community more about its programs; to get everyone excited about the road leading to its 100th year of work in Jacksonville; and to provide an atmosphere for the community to engage, connect and share their enthusiasm for JFCS. “We’ve always been so focused on providing the highest quality service to our clients. This event is an opportunity to tell our stories, show what we do, and get the

community excited about supporting that mission,” says Executive Director Colleen Rodriguez. “It’s about building friends in the community who share our zeal for helping people help themselves.”

The event, put together by a talented group of volunteers, is arranging a multisensory interactive experience combining film, art and installations. The evening’s

See JFCS, p. 5

Cohen highlights top Tikkun Olam experiences

By Israel Partnership

This summer Emily Cohen traveled to Israel with the Israel Partnership Tikkun Olam Summer Travel Program. She has highlighted below her Top Ten favorite experiences from her trip.

My top 10

By Emily Cohen 1. Women’s Courtyard: This is a place where teenage girls could go during the day to hang out when situations at home were not so suitable. Meeting the girls and doing Zumba with them was definitely a highlight for me.

2. The Bedouin tents: The Bedouin tents in the Negev was one of my favorites because all of

us got to be together, and we also got to meet Jewish teens from places all over the world such as the U.K., Australia and France, as well as places in America.

3. Jerusalem: At the beginning of our trip, we all traveled to Jerusalem, and my favorite part of that overnight trip was the bonding that we all did while staying in the youth hostel. Since it was only our second night in Israel, it was important that we all got to know each other a little better, which is exactly what we did.

4. The Western Wall: Going to the Wall was a very spiritual and beautiful thing. Seeing all of the women together and praying all at

See TIKKUN OLAM, p. 19

Emily Cohen, far right, poses with her fellow Tikkun Olam colleagues from Jacksonville and her new Israeli friends.

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FEDERATION/COMMUNITY NEWS

Federation Major Gifts set at The Cummer Museum

By Jewish Federation of Jacksonville

The Jewish Federation of Jacksonville will hold its annual Major Gifts event on Sunday, Jan. 26. Held in partnership with The Cummer Museum of Art and Gardens, Federation is looking forward to this extraordinary opportunity to change up the program this year.

In making the announcement, 2014 Campaign Chair Sandy Zimmerman said, “We are thrilled that this year’s major gifts fundraising event will be hosted by Cindy and Dan Edelman at The Cummer Museum.” Zimmerman expressed his appreciation to the Edelmans and noted how fortunate we are to work with The Cummer Museum, planning for this special morning.

Israeli artist and photographer Vardi Kahana will be the featured guest speaker at the program, with brunch beginning at 9:45 a.m. Her latest exhibit, “One Family,” will be on display at the museum from Jan. 24 to April 27.

Kahana will offer a special presentation, followed by a private gallery tour of the exhibit prior to the museum opening to the public

that morning. Kahana told Federation Executive Director Alan Margolies, “This is the story of one family; the story of a JewishIsraeli family after the Holocaust.

It is the entire narrative embodied in a single family. Ultimately, it is a story of hope and about moving forward.”

Cindy and Dan are thrilled to have Kahana’s works in Jacksonville, which is the only city in the United States scheduled to hold the exhibit. “Dan and I are pleased that the Cummer has chosen Israeli portrait artist Vardi Kahana as one of their major exhibitions of 2014 demonstrating their mission of inclusion,” Cindy said.

She added, “Working with great partners such as the Community Foundation, JCA, the Federation, the public library, WJCT and numerous individuals to expose our community to this work of ark has been very gratifying. It shows the depth and level of interest in the Holocaust and the concept of families as important topics. We hope that the Jewish community will come and be enriched by the experience.”

Michael Nussbaum is this

Kahan’s exhibit will run at The Cummer Jan. 24 to April 27.

By AMY CHAMBERLIN The Cummer Museum

Vardi Kahana, Three Sisters, Tel Aviv, 1992, photograph. © Vardi Kahana, Courtesy of Andrea Meislin Gallery, New York. year’s major gifts chair. Allison Jacobs chairs the Lion of Judah campaign for the Women’s Division. Major donors commit a minimum gift of $5,000 annually to the campaign. With approximately 100 families giving at this level, 86 percent of the $2,470,000 raised last year came from the Federation’s top tier of donors.

To learn more about the annual Major Gifts event, contact Alan Margolies, 448-5000, ext. 207.

Renowned cellist comes to Jacksonville

By Jewish Community Alliance

The JCA will open its Young Concert Artist Series with a free performance by cellist Cicely Parnas Sunday, Jan. 26, at 3 p.m. Twenty-year-old Parnas is recognized for her “velvety sound, articulate passagework, and keen imagination,” according to The New York Times. She is a first-prize winner of the 2012 Young Concert Artists International auditions. She made her Carnegie Hall debut performing

with the New York String Orchestra under the baton of Jaime Laredo.

Granddaughter of the illustriCicely Parnas ous cellist Leslie Parnas, Cicely Parnas started playing the cello at age 4 and made her concerto debut at 11 with the Woodstock Chamber

Orchestra. She has studied with cellists Sharon Robinson, Peter Wiley and Ronald Feldman. She earned an artist diploma from the Indiana University Jacobs School of Music. Parnas performs on a 1712 Giovanni Grancino cello.

The JCA’s Young Concert Artist Series brings young worldrenowned musicians to Jacksonville. Thanks to the generosity of the Berman Family, these concerts are free and open to the community. For more information, visit www.jcajax.org.

Purim Masquerade unveils at the JCA

By Jewish Community Alliance

The Jewish Community Alliance invites you to our first Purim Masquerade on Saturday evening, March 1. Partygoers will enjoy an evening of dancing, entertainment and delicious food until, in true Purim tradition, “You can’t see the difference between Mordechai and Haman.”

The JCA’s 2014 Purim Masquerade marks a new tradition for the JCA’s annual fundraiser, and this year’s event is chaired

by Allison Korman Shelton and Jamie Shelton and Adam and Sierra Frisch. “The evolution of this event is very exciting to us,” said Allison Korman Shelton.

“Last year we commemorated a special moment in the JCA’s

history with our 25th birthday party. The opportunity to provide sustainable support for the JCA by creating a fun evening that is sure to be enjoyed by all will certainly be something people respond to with enthusiasm.”

Executive Director Myron Flagler said he hopes the celebration, rooted in Jewish tradition and values, hits home for the community. “Purim is a holiday of merriment, rejoicing and a little bit of whimsy. JCA events have become known for exactly that, so it was a natural fit. However, Purim is also a time for matanot le’evyonim, charitable giving to those in need, and that is exactly where the proceeds from this event will go.”

Sponsorships are crucial to

the success of this evening to help raise money for many JCA programs, including senior activities, preschool, after-school care and camp tuitions for families in need. Last year the JCA awarded more than $330,000 in scholarships for children, families and senior adults.

The Purim Masquerade will have a sub-theme that will change each year, allowing for a fresh take on the idea. Dress up will be optional, but masks and other theme-related items will be provided to help everyone get into the spirit of the event.

For more information or sponsorship opportunities for the event, please contact Lior Spring at 730-2100 x318 or lior. spring@jcajax.org. We look forward to seeing you there.

In this exhibition, Vardi Kahana documents four generations of her family, beginning with her mother and two aunts who were Auschwitz survivors. In the artist’s words: “This is the story of one family. It is the entire Jewish-Israeli narrative embodied in a single family. This is my family. To the big question of Jewish-Israeli identity, the photographs of my family provide a kaleidoscope of answers.

The point of departure for the exhibition is the photograph of my mother, Rivka, and her two sisters, Leah and Esther. Consecutive serial numbers are scorched on their left arms: A7760 A7761 A7762. Thus, in this order, they lined up in Auschwitz in the spring of 1944 to be tattooed.

They didn’t know then whether they would live to see the next

JCA Book Festival closes with special event

By Jewish Community Alliance

The Jewish Community Alliance will close its 17th Annual Book Festival with a special event featuring author A Jay Cristol Sunday, Jan. 12, at 10 a.m.

Cristol is a federal judge in South Florida and the author of “The Liberty Incident Revealed: The Definitive Account of the 1967 Israeli Attack on the U.S. Navy Spy Ship.”

More than 45 years after the

By Jewish Community Alliance

The J Institute kicks off its winter season with an exciting array or programs designed to educate and inspire. The New Year, New You series of programs is aimed at improving your body, mind and spirit. Our High Intensity Interval Training classes will get you moving, while the Nutritional Cleansing program will help you get back into healthy eating. The J Institute can help you get organized, improve your listening skills, plant a rose

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deadly attack on the USS Liberty

by Israel’s Air Force and Navy in 1967, the incident is still a matter of controversy. After years of intensive research in Israel and the United States, Cristol establishes definitively that the Israeli attack was a tragic mistake.

Cristol served as a naval aviator in Korea and Vietnam, as a military and civilian lawyer, and spent a decade researching the Liberty incident. His collection of research material on this subject is considered to be the largest and most complete of any collection on the subject in the world.

The book will be available for sale and signing. The event is free and open to the community.

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day. Today all three live in Israel; they have 31 grandchildren, and two of them have 50 great grandchildren.

I started photographing my mother during my studies…[and] over the years I expanded the documentary practice to photograph my extended family as well: uncles, aunts, cousins and their offspring. Four generations.

The more I advanced in the documentary process, the better I realized that my family represents the very essence of JewishIsraeliness. Documenting my relatives’ lives sent me on long journeys the length and breadth of the country, as well as overseas.

I crossed ideological and mental boundaries. ...

Today, when we are parents ourselves, the need for extended family intimacy has become dulled. I am certain that in the next generation this tie will further lose the little left of our parents’ pact ever-so-vivid during my own childhood. Is it the ideological gap that pushes us apart, eliminating any chance for common ground whatsoever?

Probably.”

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garden and learn how the new Affordable Care Act affects you, all within the first 30 days of the year.

In addition, the fall Lean In Circles have been so successful that new circles are forming in January for those of you who missed joining us in the fall.

For more information or a detailed listing or upcoming programs check out www.jcajax. org/ji or contact Dorri Kraus at dorri.kraus@jcajax.org. We look forward to seeing you in 2014.

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St. Augustine: Here we come

By ISABEL BALOTIN Shalom Jacksonville

Newcomers, friends and snowbirds in the St. Augustine area are invited to a Wine and Cheese afternoon social on Sunday, Jan. 26, from 2 to 4 p.m. Hosts Mimi Selig and the Jewish Federation’s Shalom Jacksonville are looking forward to greeting the newest arrivals and meeting some longtime residents.

Many new and exciting things are happening in the Oldest City.

Find out more about the vibrant Jewish community and meet some of the friendliest people in town.

If you live in Vilano Beach or St. Augustine Beach, St. Augustine

area, World Golf Village or Palencia, you are invited to join us and bring a friend or neighbor.

Special appreciations to Mimi Selig for so graciously offering her home and The Gifted Cork and The Gifted Gourmet of St. Augustine, owned by Jeanne Maron and Howard Caplan, for donating some of the refreshments.

If you prefer to call in a reservation, please call Isabel Balotin, 904-448-5000 x 206 or email: shalomjax@jewishjacksonville. org.

Also, save the date for Shalom Jacksonville’s Riverside Brunch, Sunday, Feb. 9, at the home of Laura and Peter Bailet.

January Java is perking

By ISABEL BALOTIN Shalom Jacksonville

Start off the new year with a fresh cup of java and lots of friendly conversation at our monthly Jewish Java on Wednesday, Jan. 8, from 9 to 10:30 a.m. at the Village Bread Café, 10111 San Jose Blvd. Please note the date change.

Join our friendly regulars and make new friends in a casual atmosphere. Purchase a bagel, Danish or breakfast and get a free cup of coffee or tea. This month we are delighted to welcome Leslie

Held who will share some of the volunteer opportunities available at River Garden Senior Services.

We meet the first Wednesday of every month and invite everyone to join us no matter how long you have lived in Jacksonville.

For more information about the Jewish community, please contact Isabel Balotin, 904-448-5000 x 206 or shalomjax@jewishjacksonville.org.

Shalom Jacksonville is a program of the Jewish Federation of Jacksonville and is the official Jewish welcome wagon of Northeast Florida.

Center Sisterhood discusses addiction and recovery

By Center Sisterhood

Please join the JJC Sisterhood for the next installment in our Hot Topic series, when we discuss current topics of interest to the Jewish community with our own Rabbi Jonathan Lubliner. This

3-year-old program has been gaining in popularity and is attracting attendees from throughout the community.

Our next topic, on Wednesday, Jan. 18, at 10 a.m., is addiction and recovery: What is the Jewish view?

Through your eyes

By HAZZAN JESSE HOLZER Jacksonville Jewish Center

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his month we celebrate the Jewish Holiday Tu B’shvat, also known as Rosh Hashana L’ilanot, the birthday of the saplings.

Soon thereafter, Leora and I will celebrate the first birthday of our own sapling, Rena. This is Rena’s first Tu B’shvat, just as she has celebrated holiday firsts after holiday firsts this past year.

Having an addition or loss in one’s family always puts a spin on liminal moments throughout our Jewish calendar.

To celebrate holidays when someone is missing is tempered by the joy we feel when we see a new addition experiencing Jewish communal life for the first time. Our own holiday moments have blossomed seeing them through Rena’s eyes.

As each year passes, the snapshots of Jewish time will change as well. This goes beyond the holiday gatherings. Our lectionary cycle of Torah reading remains the same year to year, but our lives change our interpretation of the text, as we are never the same person year to year.

We empower ourselves to make the words come alive and find relevance in for us today.

In January, four vastly different Torah portions are read over the course of four Shabbatot.

Each of them teaches us something different about ourselves,

giving us the tools and instructions to build a better tomorrow.

Imagine one take-away a week to guide your life. One value set to work on. In each Torah portion, I look for inspiration to make me a better parent, a better husband, a better leader, a better Jew, a better human being.

Parshat Bo: Our portion states, “Bo el Paro,” come unto Pharaoh.

Moses, having been shot down time and time again by Pharaoh, is asked to come to Pharaoh knowing his heart was hardened, knowing seven plagues had not swayed his decision.

Parshat Bo, for me, is about taking risks, taking chances in an uphill battle because success is predicated on participation in the challenges brought before us.

Bo inspires us to find meaning and purpose in the discomforting places and moments that fill our lives.

Parshat B’shalach: Parshat B’shalach (falling on Shabbat Shira, the Sabbath of Song) takes us on a journey from Egypt to the desert by way of the Sea of Reeds.

After escaping the Egyptian onslaught, the Israelites break into jubilation. The text states, “Then Moses and the Children of Israel sang this song (Ex. 15:1).”

Moses, the quiet, humble leader has his first song with backup vocals from the Jewish people.

Delivered from slavery, transformed by miracles, the group sang together as one. B’shalach

RABBINICALLY SPEAKING

Jacksonville Hadassah makes Chai Tribute

By Jacksonville Hadassah

Where were you in 1925?

If you were in Jacksonville in 1925, then you may remember it as the year our local Hadassah chapter was chartered (the chapter was actually formed in 1914). From the first president (1925-26) Lucy Robin, may her memory be for a blessing, until the current president, Leah Ben Yehuda, there have been 50 chapter presidents and over 100 group presidents.

On Monday, Jan. 20, Hadassah will host a Chai Tribute Luncheon recognizing the dedicated and inspirational women who have made an impact through their leadership of Jacksonville Hadassah. Please plan to attend this special program

honoring all the past presidents.

We hope you will join us as we honor our past, reconnect with friends and look forward to the future.

The luncheon will be held from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. at Enza’s Italian Restaurant, 10601 San Jose Blvd. The cost is $40 (lunch plus chai, $18). For additional information or to RSVP contact Liat Walker at walkers.beach@gmail.com or (904) 591-6984.

Note: So many local women have made their impact through Hadassah. If you have any photos of past presidents or Hadassah activities that can be used for the Jan. 20 program (they will be returned to you), contact Liat at 591-6984 or Helen Hill at 504-8251.

Center Sisterhood Shabbat focuses on angels

By Center Sisterhood

“I am sending an angel before you to guard you on your way to and to bring you to the place that I have made ready.” (Exodus 23:20) This is the chapter and verse of Torah which has inspired the Center Sisterhood this year in preparing for Sisterhood Shabbat.

The women of the Sisterhood of Jacksonville Jewish

Center serve as angels in our community readying our home, welcoming members, supporting the Galinsky Academy, sending children to camp, providing social and educational opportunities and so much more.

Center Sisterhood invites you to join us for Shabbat services on Jan. 25 for Sisterhood Shabbat as we explore the role of angels in Judaism and how each of us can be an angel here on earth.

teaches us that moments, both bitter and sweet, are meant to be experienced as community.

B’shalach teaches us that while Moses was a risky pick to lead the Jewish people, he was the right pick. Not the loudest, not the most connected. Maybe it’s OK to invest a little time and energy on those who show humility as their greatest strength.

Parshat Yitro: Yitro, Moses’ father-in-law, is taken aside to hear the story of the Israelite journey from Egypt. When he hears about the tragedy that befell the Egyptians, the text states, “Vayichad Yitro.” A rare word, Vayichad comes from the word for goosebumps.

The text teaches us about the value of sensitivity. We must be sensitive to the fact that we all come with our own baggage, our own expectations. Some come from a place of happiness and positivity, others from a place of pain and brokenness.

Parshat Mishpatim: The Torah portion known as laws. We get a wide variety of dos and don’ts ranging from laws concerning bribery to laws concerning the holidays.

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River Garden Auxiliary holds donor luncheon

By River Garden Auxiliary

On Tuesday, Jan. 28, River Garden Auxiliary will hold its annual fundraising program starting at noon. You can bet you will have a joyous time. The lunch will be delicious, and the program will have you singing.

The Douglas Anderson Trio is coming prepared with songs of the 40s and 50s, and we will all join in for a nostalgic sing-a-long.

Greet your friends, eat together and sing together for a fun time.

Minimum donation is $36 and includes lunch; however, bigger donations are always welcome, needed and really appreciated.

Call Debby Katz for more information at 287-0960.

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Women’s Division hosts Olitzky at Champagne Brunch

By ERIN COHEN

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The Jewish Federation of Jacksonville Women’s Division is honored to host a special guest at the annual Champagne Brunch.

Rabbi Kerry Olitzky, executive director of the Jewish Outreach Institute, will join us for what promises to be a provocative and inspiring dialogue titled, “Intermarriage as an Opportunity for the Jewish Community: Separating Fact from Fiction.” Olitzky is a world-renowned speaker and author on this subject and will offer his most heartfelt thoughts on the topic.

“Intermarriage is an issue in the community because of its sheer magnitude, and our response to it will determine the future landscape of our Jewish community,” Olitzky states. “I have found that with the exception of the insular communities, such as Kiryat Joel and Monsey, virtually everyone is impacted by interfaith marriage.”

The Champagne Brunch is Sunday, Jan. 12, at 10 a.m. at Bella Sera in Riverside. Tickets are $36 per person, with a minimum gift of $52 to the 2014 Federation Annual Campaign. For this special program, the Women’s Division encourages spouses to attend.

In addition to his role at the institute, the only national independent organization dedicated to bringing Judaism to interfaith families and the unaffiliated, Olitzky is also a fellow at the Center for Jewish Studies, Graduate School and University Center, City University of New York. Formerly, he served as vice president of the Wexner Heritage Foundation and was national dean of Adult Jewish Learning and Living of Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion where he served on the faculty and adminis-

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Continued from p. 1 master of ceremonies will be former WNBA president, Donna Orender. The evening will focus on a dinner centered around immersing the audience in storytell-

Rabbi Kerry Olitzky tration for 15 years following his tenure at Congregation Beth Israel in West Hartford, Conn.

A leader in the development of innovative Jewish education, he has shaped training programs for clergy of all faiths, especially in pastoral care and counseling in the Jewish community. He has done pioneering work in Jewish Twelve Step spirituality, as well as Jewish gerontology. Olitzky also serves as a fellow and consultant to Synagogue 2000 and is a partner with the Kalsman Institute on Judaism and Health at Hebrew Union College - Jewish Institute of Religion.

He is also the author of many books and articles in a variety of fields. Among his most recent publications are: “The Rituals and Practices of a Jewish Life: A Handbook for Personal Spiritual Renewal,” with Dan Judson; and “Making a Successful Jewish Interfaith Marriage: The Jewish Outreach Institute Guide to Opportunities, Challenges, and Resources” with Joan Peterson Littman and “Introducing My Faith and Community: The Jewish Outreach Institute Guide for the Christian in an Interfaith Marriage, Jewish Ritual, Jewish Holidays,” both with Rabbi Daniel Judson; “Twenty Things for Grandparents of Interfaith Grand-

Edwards and Diane Rothstein; the event committee: Joan Levin, Marcy Sandler and Debra Setzer; and our Women’s Division Board: Risa Herman, Jen Plotkin and Al-

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The Women’s Division held its annual Lion of Judah event Dec. 4.

The beautiful luncheon was hosted by Chase Zimmerman. We are grateful to Chase for her kindness and generosity that enabled us to make this afternoon a success. We are also thankful to our LOJ Chair Allison Jacobs; event committee: Jill Abel, Wendy Efron, Diane Rothstein, Judy Silverman; and photographer, Larry Tallis.

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Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool

Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool students will return to school after winter break to find some new sights. Throughout January and February, Block Gan will prepare for a state-of-the-art child-centered kitchen, five new classroom bathrooms, and open and engaging resource spaces in the Teddy Bear spaces.

Demolition began during winter break in the Teddy Bear Kitchen, and construction will continue through mid-February.

Meanwhile, temporary adjustments and rearrangements will give students the opportunity to embrace the changes and learn about the process of building construction.

Students and teachers will begin a school-wide study of construction using the projectapproach, which includes engaging conversations about how and why renovations take place.

Teachers will address reasons for construction, which parts of the building are being renovated, what kinds of supplies and tools are used, and the sequence of events that construction workers must follow.

In the months ahead, Michele Block Gan Yeladim families can look forward to exciting changes and enhancements, while students will witness and learn about the process, first-hand.

The renovation will reinforce the warm and welcoming culture of learning for students and families.

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Block Gan Bountiful Basket fundraiser a success

By MOLLY SWEET

Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool

Every November, there is always an extra hum of excitement in the JCA lobby. For two weeks, it becomes the staging ground for the Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool Bountiful Basket silent auction. Elaborately decorated gift baskets cast a cheerful glow across the room as the anticipation of the auction bidders ripples throughout the entire building.

This year, the auction raised more than $5,000. The money will go toward funding playground enhancements for Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool.

Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool would like to thank

fundraising co-chairs Krista Weller and Daniele DucrosBryant and their amazing crew of volunteers including: Ginette Aponte, Jamie Borland, Linda Bossinger, Robyn Cantor, Brooke Dunagan, Gretchen Ehlinger, Amy Meyer, Stacy Aubrey Miller, Maggie Rubin, Jill Sessions, Irina Spinella, and Jamie Winchester.

We’d also like to thank our generous families and the following companies: Basketique Inc., Eye Center of St. Augustine, Florida Theatre, Jacksonville Suns, JCA Fitness, JCA Tennis, Julington Creek Animal Hospital & Walk, Kurt English Distinctive Photography, Latitude 30, Massage Green, Riverside Fine Arts, and Vestcor Family Foundation.

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EDUCATION

Congregation Ahavath Chesed supports FANN

By RONNI TICKER

Congregation Ahavath Chesed

When Terryl Lewis Speer enrolled Faith and Dawn in Temple Institute of Religion, the religious school of Congregation Ahavath Chesed, she sent them with tzedakah money and a can of food, as she had done when she was a child. “Temple was a second home for my sisters and me growing up,” says Terryl.

“Every time we came, we brought in change for Tzedakah and a can of food. It is good for my daughters to participate in caring for others,” continued Terryl. “My parents did and gave, it was just what we did, too.”

Sara Branly, a seventh grade student at TIR, feels the same way. Sara chose to make raising the importance of weekly contributions to the food pantry her

Tzedek (righteousness) project, part of her B’nei Mitzvah requirements at Temple. “I want to support FANN because I know how important it is to feel full, and I want to encourage my fellow students to help those less fortunate.”

When Sara learned that the first grade was studying hunger as part of their G’milut Chasadim (acts of loving kindness) curriculum, she asked to get involved. “I felt good that I wouldn’t have to do this alone,” said Sara.

On a recent Sunday, Sara visited the first-grade class and helped them make posters to raise awareness about hunger throughout the school and the Temple.

First-grade teacher Rochelle Miller welcomed Sara’s participation.” Sara is really helping the students understand that there are people who need help, and they can help them. Sara is great in the

classroom. She is closer to their age and they look up to her.” The students visited Winn-Dixie in Lakewood to shop for food with their class tzedakah money and learned how Winn-Dixie helps feed the hungry in Jacksonville.

Sara reports, “We have made a lot of progress. The first graders have made it their responsibility to keep the food collection box full. And their actions have reminded their older sisters and brothers that they should help, too. As Jews, we know the value of giving, especially when people are less fortunate and we can help to keep them alive.”

Sara, Terryl and the first graders at TIR are working hard to do just that.

Feed a Needy Neighbor is the Jewish Family & Community Services program that provides food for the hungry year round. Since

no one succeeds on an empty stomach, JFCS collects nonperishable food for the Winn-Dixie Food Pantry open to all our needy neighbors in Jacksonville. Every-

one can help. Whenever you come to Temple, bring some canned food. Temple is always working to help keep the JFCS Winn-Dixie Food Pantry shelves full.

Center and preschool offer family programming

Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool presents kindergarten open house

By SHEREEN CANADY

By MOLLY SWEET

Is there something great happening in town for my family?

“Of course” is what we tell families who are looking for fun, engaging experiences with their baby, toddler and preschool-age children.

We offer several opportunities for families with little ones to meet other families, to build relationships and enjoy time together. So what is going on at the Jacksonville Jewish Center and DuBow Preschool?

Saturdays - Gan Shabbat This special, interactive preschool service is especially designed for families with children, birth to 5 years old. On the first Shabbat of each month, we celebrate a certain age group.

On Dec. 7 adorable 3 year olds are the stars. On Jan. 4 we will celebrate babies and 1 year olds.

All families are welcome to attend every Saturday at 11 a.m.

Sundays at the Park Back by popular demand, we will be meeting at the DuBow Preschool playground, one Sunday soon.

Wednesdays – Family Music & Movement Class at 10 – 11 You and your child will enjoy the rhythms in this class. You are given a CD to play during the week and then come together for a musical hour of singing, dancing, playing instruments and make-believe. www.familymusicandmovement.com Fridays – Shalom Baby Free Playgroup Come join us as we play, talk, celebrate Shabbat and more.

Another wonderful resource that many of the moms enjoy is becoming an active member of the Jewish Mom’s Playgroup.

To learn when and where they meet next, visit jewishmothers@ groups.facebook.com.

For details about all these activities and what we have planned for the future, call Shereen Canady, at the DuBow Preschool at 268-4200 ext.

143 or visit our website www. dubowpreschool.org.

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Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool will host a kindergarten open house for prospective families Thursday, Jan. 23, from 7 to 8 p.m. Parents and students are invited to learn about the diverse curriculum and see why Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool continually provides unparalleled excellence in early childhood education and is regarded in such high esteem across North Florida.

The kindergarten teachers, Mrs. Bull and Mrs. Jacoby, have a wealth of experience and teach a comprehensive curriculum of age-appropriate core skills. Major focus areas include literacy and language, science and technology, social and emotional skills, fine and gross motor skills, the arts, cognitive skills, listening, math, reading, visual discrimination, social studies, handwriting and Jewish studies.

In addition to the core curriculum, the school’s unique access to Jewish Community Alliance gives students the opportunity to participate in extracurricular activities that many schools cannot offer. Students have physical

education in the gymnasium, yoga with the fitness instructors, swim lessons in the indoor pool and gardening around the campus. Many students also take part in the JCA’s after-school program, which offers enrichment classes such as pottery, chess club and music.

Perhaps one of the most significant advantages of the Michele Block Gan Yeladim kindergarten program is the low teacher-student ratio.

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At Michele Block Gan Yeladim kindergarten, students successfully and smoothly transition to all local private, public, charter and magnet elementary programs. They leave with a strong foundation in the core fundamentals and standard subjects, but also with a well-rounded love of learning, nurtured by real-life educational experiences. For more information or to attend the open house, call 904-730-2100 ext. 237 or email theresa.levy@jcajax.org.

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EDUCATION

Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool shares art appreciation

By MOLLY SWEET

Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool

Have you ever met a 5-yearold who could tell you the distinguishing features of Vincent Van Gogh’s painting style? At Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool, you might meet several of these young scholars.

Over the past few months, students have been studying different forms of visual art. Michele Block Gan Yeladim’s partners with The Cummer Museum, and the Museum of Contemporary Art provided students in-house visits by guest art educators. One such guest artist was Raymond Cohen, the JCA’s artist-in-residence. Ray-

mond and his daughter, Morah Karen Morse, the Judaics resource teacher at Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool, shared a special lesson about life as an artist.

A show of Raymond’s paintings was displayed during October in the JCA’s Vandroff Art Gallery.

Following Raymond’s example, the junior kindergarteners last month constructed an art gallery in the classroom hallway and curated an exhibit of their original work. This real-life museum experience featured ticket sales and docents explaining the

mediums, styles and techniques used. Visitors were treated to an impressive display of knowledge and appreciation of art by proud junior kindergarteners. Parents, JCA staff and members could view the exhibit for a reasonable cost – a penny.

DuBow school keeps busy afternoons A DuBow Preschool student colors a dreidel in the full-day program.

By SHEREEN CANADY DuBow Preschool

The DuBow Preschoolers who stay for the Full Day Preschool Program are busy learning, playing and exploring every afternoon.

After lunch, the children attend an afternoon resource class at the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School.

They enjoy art in Mrs. Gutterman’s studio, music with Mr. “S” (Evan Susman), the Accelerated Reading Program and storytelling with Mrs. Halit in the “big library,” and P.E. in the gym with Coach Goldman. In art class they experiment with a variety of art media and learn about famous artists. The children enjoy singing along with Mr. S and his guitar.

Recently they learned “Ocho Kandelikas,” a Ladino Chanukah song with Mr. S. and their MJGDS fourth and fifth grade buddies.

Their families were impressed by their performance of this song on the Jacksonville Jewish Center stage at our Chanukah Musical.

For children who stay for our late Kids Club, their afternoons are packed with enriching, fun activities. They enjoy outdoor exploration, story time and a themed craft or activity. Fridays are cooking days; they have fun making yummy, nutritious snacks.

To learn more about our afternoons, take a peek at our website, www.dubowpreschool.org, click on Parent Portal and choose the Kids Club blog. Registration for the 2013-2014 school year has begun. Call us today to schedule a tour at 268-4200 ext. 143.

Thursday, January 23, 2014 At the Martin J Gottlieb Day School in Mandarin

The evening program will include a bedtime story, lullabies, a craft and a bedtime snack.

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‘Ahoy there’ signals Etz Chaim’s gala

By Etz Chaim Synagogue

Last year we were elegant flappers, this year we will be “boarding” the Etz Chaim of the Seas at the Etz Chaim “pier:” 10167 San Jose Blvd. Boarding time is 8 p.m. Saturday, Jan. 25. Please join us, resplendent in your formal wear as our captain mingles with the “cruise party.”

Cruises are well-known for entertainment, and this cruise is no different. We have scurried the locale for the best in entertainment and have found the best. In 2011, Channel 4 News reported that David Ferman set a world record by juggling 10 balls in the air at once, catching the balls a record number of 26 times. David was awarded the title, world-class juggler, in 2011. Ferman has since perfected his acumen in many programs, including America’s Got Talent.

That is not all. This is the night that the captain mingles with cruise party guests. There will be cocktails and hors d’ oeuvres for starters. When the doors open to our dazzling social hall, guests will be treated to delectable delights. Meat carving stations, salad bars, pastas, and breads – so many of your favorite foods cooked to perfection, topped off by a sweet table to die for.

Would our gala be caught without offering you door prizes, giveaways, and the world famous salami toss? Most certainly not!

You really must run, not walk to purchase your ticket: $100 per person and $180 per couple.

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Angels and patrons for the gala are needed and appreciated. Your sponsorship upgrades, available from $613 to $5,400plus, entitle you to reserved seating, donor recognition, and for those very special sponsorships, a seat at the captain’s table. For more details please call Rena Schochet at 408-202-5459.

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SYNAGOGUE NEWS The Temple hosted the 95th Annual OneJax Interfaith Service of Gratitude on Nov. 21. This year 17 clergy from the Jacksonville community dressed in their vestments to offer thanksgiving in the style of their faith traditions. Rabbi Joshua Lief offered the sermon and Rabbi Matthew Cohen read Torah. More than 560 pounds of canned and dry foods were collected for Second Harvest Food Bank.

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On Jan. 18, Congregation Ahavath Chesed will host Stars of the Symphony at 8 p.m. Michael Butterman will conduct the symphony including Glinka’s Overture to Russian and Ludmilla.

“The Jacksonville Symphony and Temple each have a long history in our Jacksonville community. It is a special pleasure to have the symphony perform in our house. Our Temple family appreciates all forms of music and we are thrilled to bring the symphony into our neighborhood.

We invite the entire community to join with us for this very special evening. Mr. Butterman will explain each piece so we can learn and appreciate throughout the performance,” said Karen Stone, chair of Temple’s Music Committee.

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Jews impact American culture

SYNAGOGUE/EDUCATION NEWS

On Shabbat noon, lunch will be served, and Whitfield will Dr. Stephen Whitfield, an discuss the role of the Jewish expert in American Jewish studcommunity in promoting Africanies and a Brandeis professor at American culture. February is Brandeis University also Black History for more than four Month. decades, will return to Both presentations his hometown congreare intended to progation, Congregation mote an understanding Ahavath Chesed, on of what he calls “the Jan. 31. interplay of the Jewish As Whitfield and American ingrereturns home, the condients that became so gregation will return intertwined that they to its classical reform could no longer be Stephen Whitfield roots. It is Temple easily separated, and tradition to use the yet the effect was to Union Prayer Book for ensure that citizenship Kabbalat Shabbat worship on the and ethnicity would be apprefifth Friday of the month. ciated as compatible, even as Whitfield’s presentation at reinforcing one another.”

7 p.m. Friday is titled, “Jews A special thank you to Dr. in the Shaping of American Larry and Kathy Kantor whose Music: From Tin Pan Alley to generosity, through the Dr. Larry Broadway.” He will argue for a and Kathy Kantor Fund for Jewdistinctive contribution, such as ish Preservation, enables Temple the promotion of more incluto host this special Shabbat expesive democratic culture through rience. The entire community is music. welcome.

By Congregation Ahavath Chesed

Yiddish folk singer Maida performs at Temple Bet Yam

By Temple Bet Yam

On Sunday, Feb. 9, at 4 p.m., singer Maida Feingold will present a program of Yiddish and English songs of social significance at Temple Bet Yam in St. Augustine.

Maida is an accomplished singer-guitarist with a beautiful voice, engaging style and rare bilingual repertoire that delights audiences of all ages. She is a frequent performer at music festivals, on the radio, and with traveling Yiddish theatrical groups.

Maida will sing songs of social significance, both in Yiddish (with translations) and in English, drawing from the songs of struggle sung by Jewish immigrants in the sweat shops to the songs sung on picket lines, freedom songs and songs of protest from the 60s. She delights in having the audience join in as much as possible.

Temple Bet Yam invites the public to join them for this wonderful performance. Tickets are $18. Please mail checks, payable

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Online Hebrew: kid tested, family approved

By RONNI TICKER

Congregation Ahavath Chesed

The Behrman House Online Learning Center is making a splash at the Temple Institute of Religion, the religious school at Congregation Ahavath Chesed.

As a fun, interactive learning platform, the online learning center integrates existing, proven pedagogy and Hebrew materials in an easy-to-use, formatted online system that supports classroom work at TIR. It is also a great tool for bringing Jewish learning into the home providing students and parents with much-needed Judaic resources and an opportunity for lifelong Jewish learning. It is current, the way our kids learn and it works.

Parents and students are happy with the program. One parent shared that after having spent a few minutes on the site before breakfast, her young daughter waved goodbye to her father saying, “Shalom, Abba.” The

mom prompted the dad and he responded, “Shalom yeladim,” as the family pulled out of the driveway on their way to school.

Priceless.

The site is flexible. Parents can choose Hebrew pronunciation by a male or female with an Israeli or American accent.

Teachers post lessons and students can practice several times

during the week.

Five to 10 minutes at a time three to four times during the week is what a child needs in the early years of language acquisition. So far so good. Kid tested.

Family approved. Want to learn more? Contact Ronni Ticker, director of the religious school, at rticker@thetemplejacksonville. org or 733-7078.

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Maida to Temple Bet Yam, to: Temple Bet Yam, P.O. Box 860098, St. Augustine, FL 320861146. Please place the notation “Maida” on the memo portion of the check. Tickets will be waiting at the door. For questions contact Andi Marx at amarx46@comcast. net, 904-460-9569, or Terre Wallach at terretsp@bellsouth.net.

Early reservations are strongly suggested. Temple Bet Yam is located at 2055 Wildwood Drive.

Benching it

Shabbat Shirah Shabbaton

at the Jacksonville Jewish Center

Friday & Saturday, January 10 & 11, 2014

Featuring Scholar-in-Residence

Jon Adam Ross

Widely-acclaimed Jewish Theater Artist Friday evening, January 10 5:30 PM: Shabbat Service Mr. Ross will participate as a “guest from the past” during our lively Kabbalat Shabbat service.

6:45 PM: Shabbat Dinner During dinner, we’ll experience a biblical cocktail party as we learn about characters throughout Jewish history. Advance dinner reservations are required ($18 for adults, $12 for children under age 12).

Shabbat morning, January 11 at 9 AM Shabbat Shirah Service, including a bibliodrama to enhance our Torah reading, as well as an interactive sermon with our scholar-in-residence.

The signature event of the weekend is

WALKING IN MEMPHIS: The Life of a Southern Jew Saturday, January 11 at 8 PM

They did it! It took four long weeks, but the Torah Academy middle school boys finished building their park bench in art class. Their bench – sanded, primed, painted and put together by the boys themselves (with a little help from Art Rosenthal and his drill) – is now ready to be sat on in the Torah Academy playground. Come take a look and have a seat.

The performance weaves itself through Jon's childhood as a Jew in the Southern city of Memphis, Tennessee. It is a unique journey of passage, and it is made all the more so by the characters Jon inhabits. Walking in Memphis has been performed Off Broadway and in 45 cities around the world. $20 per person. Advance reservations are required.

Call 292-1000 for reservations for the Friday night dinner and Saturday night show.

Co-sponsored by the Joseph & Dorothy Mizrahi Jewish Music Fund & The Jacksonville Jewish Center Performance Artist Series.

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RIVER GARDEN 2013 FEDERATION ALLOCATION: $192,000

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JEWISH COMMUNITY FOUNDATION OF NORTHEAST FLORIDA

Faces of CJL: Dr. Albert Wilkinson of blessed memory

By Jewish Community Foundation

“He did so much for people in this community,” said Rabbi Joshua Lief. “The Albert I knew was the kindest, most generous person I ever met.”

Dr. Albert Wilkinson, of blessed memory, was a lifelong member of The Temple and, by all accounts, a pillar of the Jacksonville Jewish community. Just a few months before he passed away last July, he sat down with Iris Kraemer to record his thoughts on life and leaving a legacy for future generations. His words and memory are a blessing for his family and for us all.

“I think there are many legacies

in our community that support various outstanding organizations, but there has not been a collaborative Jewish legacy program. I attended the first meeting in which the Create a Jewish Legacy concept was promoted, and I think it is a magnificent concept. I would encourage all Jewish individuals, who are able, to consider establishing a significant legacy in their will.”

Wilkinson felt it was “important to the future of Judaism in Jacksonville for the Temple and other Jewish institutions to remain strong.” To him, a Jewish legacy could keep them strong, and he had his own plans to achieve several goals through his own legacy.

all over the country.”

“Jewish Family & Community Services is part of my legacy. I am a pediatric surgeon by profession, so obviously I have a special interest therein.”

“Also, I would like to see a significant fiscal legacy develop with stipulations to allow individuals to borrow money — establish a loan — I feel very strongly about that.”

Wilkinson suggested that members of the Jewish community do what they can to secure a strong Jewish community for our children, grandchildren and future generations. “Be as generous as you can. Leave money to the institutions. That will affect Judaism in future generations.”

“My involvement in the Jewish community has meant a lifetime

The late Dr. Albert Wilkinson “My mother passed away at River Garden. I certainly want to see part of my legacy continue its absolutely magnificent contribution to Jacksonville and to Jewry

of belonging to a reform Temple, Congregation Ahavath Chesed,” he explained. “My grandfathers were founders of the Temple. My wife Linda and I were married by Rabbi Sidney Lefkowitz in the Temple on St. Johns Avenue. I have known all the Temples from the very first one, which no longer exists.”

“Perhaps the strongest evidence of our involvement in Judaism is that we have four children, all of whom live in Jacksonville and all belong to the Temple. Then there are nine grandchildren, all of whom were confirmed in the Temple. Is that not a testimonial?”

Thank you, Dr. Wilkinson, for your many contributions to the Jewish community — a wonderful Jewish legacy, indeed.

Donor creates a charitable trust

By Jewish Community Foundation

Elliott Horovitz surrounds himself with his wonderful family and shares with them blessings of a Jewish life and community. His extended family — 20 in Jacksonville alone — gathers weekly to observe Shabbat. They come together to celebrate their Jewish heritage with candles, challah, wine, prayers and love. Sunday nights bring more nachas. That night is reserved for grandpagrandchildren-great-grandchildren dinner outings.

“My family is my Jewish legacy,” Elliott proudly exclaimed.

“All are actively involved in this Jewish community. I have a very blessed family.”

Elliott feels that the continuity of our Jewish community is a shared responsibility and one

that requires careful thought and action. His strong beliefs and determination to make a difference compelled him to make a planned gift to the Jewish causes that mean the most to him.

“I believe it is very important that the synagogues and Jewish agencies we rely upon today will be available to our children’s children and the generations of tomorrow. That’s another important legacy for me to establish.”

Elliott chose to fund his legacy through a charitable remainder trust, “because it was like having your cake and eating it, too. I put money in a trust account, and got a nice tax deduction. I will receive a good income from the funds as long as I live. When I am gone, any money that remains in the trust will go into an endowment fund and be set aside forever. My

children and grandchildren will advise how the earnings from this money will be spent.”

“I am using a trust,” explained Elliott, “because it made sense for me. Anyone can set up an account according to his own needs. It is a heck of a deal, and I don’t know why everyone doesn’t do it!”

This gift will take care of Elliott’s financial needs now and the Jewish community’s needs after he is gone.

Elliott is an enthusiastic proponent of the Create a Jewish Legacy program. He was involved in the early days of the Jewish Community Foundation and served as its first executive director. Now serving as an honorary trustee, Elliott remains involved and committed to Foundation’s work to protect the financial security of our Jewish community.

Elliott and Roslyn Horovitz Now is the time to take steps to create your own Jewish legacy.

Begin by contacting Paulette Keifer at (904) 394-0720 or

pkjcf@jewishfoundationnefl.org to explore charitable remainder trusts and other funding options that may be right for you.

Reports say most American Jews are charitable givers

By Jewish Community Foundation

So says a series of reports based upon the National Study of American Jewish Giving. The Connected to Give reports explore research data to learn who is giving, their areas of interest, and how they give. Connected to Give is a collaborative project of private and community foundations and Jewish federations to map the landscape of charitable giving by American Jews.

The report concluded that American Jewish charitable activity is impressive and strong, particularly when compared to the broader population. Excerpts from the first and second reports follow. They reveal fascinating insight about the nature of Jewish giving.

Please visit connectedtogive.org to download the complete report series.

Key findings: • Most American Jews are charitable givers. 76 percent of American Jews report that they made a charitable contribution in 2012; median annual giving was $1,200.

• Most Jews who make charitable contributions give to Jewish and non-Jewish organizations. Among Jews who make

charitable contributions, nearly all of them (92 percent) give to a non-Jewish organizations and the vast majority (79 percent) gives to a Jewish organization.

• Engagement with Jewish community is a paramount driver of Jewish charitable giving and even drives giving to nonJewish organizations. The biggest factor influencing American Jews to make a charitable contribution is an individual’s connection to and engagement with the Jewish community. Whether it is religious service attendance, in-marriage, having Jewish friends, or volunteering for a religious or charitable organizations — any sort of connection to Jewish social networks or Jewish communities results in much greater likelihood of charitable giving.

• Jewish planned givers (who have pledged charitable contributions through provisions in wills or other estate planning documents) with a Jewish bequest are much more likely to make current-year charitable gifts to Jewish organizations.

Connected to Give affirms our willingness and desire to include Jewish organizations in our estate plans and to continue supporting them with annual cash gifts throughout our lives.

Remember the causes you love in your estate plan. The Foundation has the tools to help you. Please contact Paulette Keifer at (904) 394-0720 or pkjcf@jewishfoundationnefl.org for a confidential conversation about creating your Jewish legacy.

Excerpted from Jim Gerstein, Steven M. Cohen, and J. Shawn Landres. 2013. Connected to Give: Key and Planned Giving Findings from the National Study of American Jewish Giving. Los Angeles: Jumpstart.

Jax Jewish Community Receives

Prestigious National Legacy Grant Come hear what all the excitement is about!

Save the Date for the Create a Jewish Legacy and LIFE & LEGACY™ Kick-Off

Tuesday, February 25 Special Guest: Arlene Schiff, National Director LIFE & LEGACY, Harold Grinspoon Foundation

To create your Personalized Legacy Agreement including which causes will be your beneficiaries, contact the Foundation. Then, use the following language in your will and to change a beneficiary designation on other assets such as IRAs or life Insurance: “I give and bequeath to the Jewish Community Foundation of Northeast FL Inc., its successors and or assigns X %, (whatever % or dollar amount that is comfortable for you) of my residual estate or/asset.” Contact the Foundation with additional questions. The Jewish Community Foundation of Northeast Florida, Inc., does not provide legal or tax advice. This information is not intended, nor may it be relied upon, as legal, accounting or other professional advice.

Before making any financial decisions, always consult your own professional adviser.

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JCA to unveil new fitness facility

By Jewish Community Alliance

The JCA is excited to announce a renovation of its Fitness Center.

The extreme makeover will include new state-of-the-art flooring; a new reception area; a new functional, dynamic training

space; a customized free weight training area; an expanded personal training studio and a new color scheme for the facility.

The renovations will be completed by early 2014, in time for members to work on new year’s resolutions.

The fitness center will be

open normal hours during the renovation, and all other areas of Fitness and Wellness will remain available. Group exercise classes, the indoor track, the gymnasium, racquetball courts and the pool will be open as usual. For more information, please call Ali at 904-730-2100 ext. 324.

Tuesday, Jan. 21, from 1 to 2:30 p.m. No green thumb required.

Adult Flag Football League

JCA marks Chanukah with annual celebration

JCA happenings For more information or to register for programs at the JCA, call 730-2100 or visit www. jcajax.org.

Vandroff Art Gallery

The JCA’s Vandroff Art Gallery will host the Fiber Artists Network Exhibit until Jan. 8. The mission of The Fiber Artists Network is to increase awareness, understanding, and appreciation of fiber art in the art community and among the general public.

Fiber art includes use of natural and synthetic fibers and is defined as an artistic composition using the elements and principles of fine art. This is a juried show.

The Vandroff Art Gallery will host a joint show with the paintings of Beth Bright and Judy Culpepper from Jan. 10 to Feb. 5. Meet the artists at the show’s opening Sunday, Jan. 12, from 2 to 4 p.m. After retiring from a successful career as a performer and teacher in New York City, Beth moved to Florida, where her interest in art re-emerged and she resolved to learn to paint.

She is inspired by the paintings of Jan Vermeer, whose work is admired for purity of light and form. After moving to Jacksonville in 1974, Judy took painting classes, earned a degree from Jacksonville University in computer technology and minored in the arts. Upon retiring from the corporate IT world, she devoted herself to painting. She enjoys capturing everyday objects in interesting arrangements and light.

JCA Film Series

The JCA Films Series continues Sunday, Jan. 12, at 2 p.m. with “Orchestra of Exiles.” In the early 1930s, Hitler began firing Jewish musicians across Europe. Overcoming extraordinary obstacles, violinist Bronislav Huberman moved these great musicians to Palestine and formed a symphony that would become the Israel Philharmonic Orchestra. Huberman saved nearly 1,000 Jews and guaranteed the survival of Europe’s musical heritage. This event is free and open to the community.

Reservations are requested.

New year, new you: getting organized

Learn the tricks and techniques to getting and staying organized with professional organizer Karen Duncan Wednesday, Jan. 15, from 10:45 am to noon.

This program is free for members and $5 for nonmembers. Advance registration appreciated.

Rose gardening the easy way

What better way to celebrate Tu B’shevat than with roses?

Master gardener Jo Ann Hart will share tips and techniques for growing beautiful, fragrant roses

New year, new you: the power of listening

Learn the 10 behaviors of effective listening from psychologist and master life coach Dr. Elliott Rosenbaum Thursday, Jan. 23, from 7 to 8:30 p.m.

Whether you want to have more productive meetings at work or build stronger relationships, these tools offer you a new world of opportunities. This program is free for members and $5 for nonmembers. Advance registration appreciated.

Affordable Care: How does it affect you?

Even if you’re not in the market for new health insurance, the Affordable Care Act is going to affect you. Join Britney Higgins of Brown & Brown Insurance as she sheds some light on the act, highlights some of the important changes and answers your questions Thursday, Jan. 30, from 7 to 8:30 p.m. This program is free for members and $5 for nonmembers. Advance registration appreciated.

Lean in: New circles forming

In the fall, the J Institute initiated Lean In Circles as a response to Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg’s New York Times bestselling book, “Lean In: Women, Work and the Will to Lead.” The J Institute invites you to join in January as new circles are forming. If you missed it the first time around, now’s your chance. Session dates are Tuesdays, Jan. 28, Feb. 25 and Mar. 25, from 7 to 8:30 p.m. The three-session fee for the program is $24 for members and $36 for nonmembers.

Registration required by Jan 20.

If you participated in our fall Lean In Circles and wish to continue, you need to register for the winter sessions. Session dates are Mondays, Jan. 13, Feb. 10 and Mar. 10, from 7 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. The three-session fee for the program is $24 for members and $36 for nonmembers. Registration required by Jan 6.

New year, new you: nutritional cleansing

You just ate your way through December, and now it’s time to get back to healthy eating.

Why not start with a nutritional cleanse, also called a nutritional detox? Join holistic health practitioner Dr. Jon Repole as he explains what a cleanse is and how it works to purify the body Thursday, Jan. 9 ,from 7 to 8:30 p.m. This program is free for members and $5 for nonmembers. Advance registration appreciated.

Adult Flag Football League for ages 18+ will be Sunday afternoons from March 30 to June 1 between 4 and 7 p.m. at Bolles stadium field. Form your own teams of six to eight players for five on five flag football, or register individually or with a friend and be placed on a team. The fee is $70 for members and $105 for nonmembers. Teams’ rosters must be submitted by March 23.

For any questions or to register a team, contact Geoff at ext. 254 or pespecialist@jcajax.org.

Youth Flag Football League

The JCA Youth Flag Football League for ages 4 to 16 will hold a mandatory skills evaluation March 9 at Bolles High School.

Ages 4 to 5 will be held at 1 p.m.; ages 6 to 7 will be held at 2:15 p.m.; ages 8 to 10 will be held at 3:30 p.m.; and ages 11 to 16 will be held at 4:30 p.m.

Age groups will be determined after the evaluations. If you cannot attend the skills evaluation, please call ext. 254 to schedule a make-up.

Practices for the league will occur one hour before the game at Bolles High School stadium field. Games will be held Sundays, March 30 to June 1, from 12:30 to 6:30 p.m., with a twohour time commitment. The fee is $100 for members and $150 for nonmembers. To volunteer to coach, contact Rio at ext. 250 or rio.robinson@jcajax.org.

Men, women’s tennis

The JCA offers a variety of programs for men and women’s tennis at all levels, including our Men’s 3.0 – 3.5 clinic, Ladies’ A, B, and C teams, and Working Women’s Tennis. For more information about the JCA’s tennis programming, please contact Reggie at 904-730-2100 ext. 317.

Swim lessons

Learn to swim or learn to swim more efficiently with the JCA. The JCA Swim School was developed for participants who seek a fun and safe environment to learn the art of swimming.

Children will experience a group lesson structure in small groups, building on skills and learning new techniques.

904.730.2100 wwwjcajax.org

By Jewish Community Alliance

The JCA celebrated Chanukah with its annual Chanukiyah lighting and member’s party on Dec. 2. The annual celebration drew hundreds of people as families gathered together to celebrate the miracle of Chanukah with traditional foods, music, games and more.

The highlight of the evening was the Chanukiyah lighting. Local sculptor David Ponsler, creator

JEWISH COMMUNITY ALLIANCE 2013 FEDERATION ALLOCATION: $205,000

of the JCA’s giant Chanukiyah, was on hand to celebrate with members during the JCA’s 25th birthday year.

Following the lighting, members enjoyed a latke and kosher hot dog dinner while participating in a sing-a-long of traditional Chanukah songs, along with games, crafts and other activities.

JCA families also participated in a mitzvah project by bringing gifts for Jewish Family & Community Services.

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JEWISH FAMILY & COMMUNITY SERVICES

Protecting special needs children through advocacy

By CINDY LAND

Special Needs Case Manager

448-1933 www.jfcsjax.org

Briefs Holocaust homecare services available

Holocaust Homecare Services are available to Jacksonville residents. A partnership between JFCS and Alpert Jewish Services in West Palm Beach enables JFCS to coordinate up to 25 hours per week of homecare services to Holocaust survivors, paid through funds of the Claims Conference. Services include light housekeeping; medication management; and assistance with bathing, meal preparation and errands. Please call Naomi Mirensky at 904-394-5777 for more information.

FANN Foods

Help us stock our food pantry.

For January: beef stew, baked beans, hearty soups, vegetables.

Parents of a special needs child want to make sure their child is happy and in a supportive environment. When it comes to discussing your child’s education with his/her teachers and the school’s administration, many parents feel they can handle it on their own.

Here are some reasons why you should consider working with us at JFCS to help you get the best support for your child.

1. Are you aware of the rights of a student with special needs and the school’s obligations?

2. Do you understand that an IEP is a legal document that has to be followed by all involved with the child?

3 Do you know what these acronyms mean? IEP, LRE, 504,

FAPE, IDEA, etc.?

4. Are you sure that you are receiving all appropriate services for your child?

5. Are you aware that as a parent you can ask to hold an IEP meeting anytime you feel that your child’s needs are not being met?

6. Your child’s annual goals should not stay the same from year to year. Parents should have input into their child’s goals.

7. A special education advocate can help you review and understand your child’s IEP. Below are a number of upcoming programs for families and teachers. Community education is important in understanding how children with special needs integrate in school and with other family. We would love to see you at some of these events:

Holocaust survivors feel the glow on Chanukah

1. For teachers: Engaging your students in successful classroom behavior. Join us on Thursday, Jan. 16, from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at JFCS, 6261 Dupont Station Court, East, Jacksonville, FL 32217. Two behavioral specialists from Hope Haven will present techniques and tools to improve behavior. Come join us for coffee and dessert, and take home helpful classroom strategies.

2. For families: Tools For Success Family Conference. This is a conference for and about families of children with special needs. Groups are determined by disability and age groups. There will be discussions on learning styles, transition for students’ educational laws, IEP information, and behavioral strategies.

This will be hosted at that Adam

W. Herbert University Center at UNF on Thursday, Jan. 30, from 8 a.m. to 3:15 p.m.

3. For families with special needs children: In honor of February being Jewish Disability Awareness month, JFCS will host an expert panel discussion on Tuesday, Feb. 18, at JFCS from 9 to10:30 a.m. Three speakers will answer questions on how to get testing for your child through the public schools; what your rights are as parents of a child with disabilities; and where to find resources available to your child, financial planning, trust planning, and educational information.

Please join us for an informative panel discussion. Breakfast will be served.

I’m here for you. I have over 25 years experience in special education. You can reach me at (904) 394-5760.

JFCS awarded $200,000

More good news

A $10,000 grant from The Landwirth Foundation was matched

by Baptist Health. The combined $20,000 will go toward our independent living programs, which support teens who will age out of foster care.

Heart health Conversation Cafe

Learn more about heart health by joining JFCS’s Conversation Cafe on Wednesday, Feb. 5.

Conversation Cafe is an opportunity for the community to learn more about health-related topics in a casual setting. Lunch is provided and attendance is free.

Seating is limited. To make a reservation, contact Keith Marks at (904) 394-5782 or kmarks@ jfcsjax.org

Jewish Family & Community Services was named the 2013 local recipient of Bank of America’s Neighborhood Builder Grant. The grant recognizes high-performing nonprofits that do great work in the community. The $200,000 grant will allow JFCS to create a holistic intake process, allowing clients to receive wrap-around services from the myriad of programs JFCS offers.

8 Notes of Hanukkah

Scotch, Cigars & Football

JFCS hosts its annual Men’s Event: Scotch, Cigars, and Football on Thursday, Jan. 9, at Epping Forest Yacht Club. Guests can sample high-end scotches and hand-rolled cigars, eat dinner, and discuss the ins and outs of football. David Lamm, well-respected radio host and sports commentator, will be the guest speaker. All proceeds will go to furthering JFCS’ mission of helping people help themselves.

Event sponsors include David Robbins; David Stein; and Harris Guidi Rosner Dunlap Rudolph, P.A. For more information, contact Marie Gabbamonte at (904) 394-5727 or mgabbamonte@ jfcsjax.org Since 1917, serving our COMMUNITY

for nearly

100 YEARS

Countdown to 100: 3 years and 5 months

By Jewish Family & Community Services The program was made pos-

A beautiful Chanukah gathering for Holocaust survivors and their families, co-sponsored

by Jewish Family & Community Services and the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School, was held on Dec. 8 at the Jacksonville Jewish Center. More than 50 people attended the event. The survivors enjoyed participating in the festivities, highlighted by a special performance from the Ramat Gan Dance Troupe.

sible by the generous support of The Pollan Family; The Ben Gottlieb Family; and Robert M. Morgan and Associates, Attorneys at Law. The survivors especially enjoyed sharing their stories with MJGDS students, who are compiling a Holocaust cookbook of stories, photos and recipes. Please contact Naomi Mirensky at 904-394-5777 for more information about the Holocaust cookbook or Holocaust family gathering programs.

JEWISH FAMILY & COMMUNITY SERVICES 2013 FEDERATION ALLOCATION: $288,000

JFCS had an incredible 6th Annual 8 Notes of Hanukkah music series.

Six senior centers around Jacksonville were host to local Klezmer band, Guy & the Yehudas. More than 100 seniors experienced the music, joy and festivities.

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LIFECYCLES/COMMUNITY Birth

Samantha Rose Grossman was one of four juniors inducted into the National Honor Society at Duval County Charter High School at Baymeadows. Sami was also a member of the Junior National Honor Society at Mandarin Middle. ....to the family of Shirley Ansbacher, life-long member of the Jacksonville Jewish Center.

She is survived by husband Jordan Ansbacher; children Donna (Harlan) Helming, Brian (Susan) Ansbacher, and Michele (David) Cohen; grandchildren Amy (Josh) Berman, Lance (Rachel) Helming, Michael Ansbacher, and Lindsey Cohen; and great-granddaughter, Sadie. Donations may be directed to the charity of one’s choice. ....to the family of Dorothy Krantz Golden, who died Nov. 15, 2013, in Huntsville, Ala. She is preceded in death by her husband of 57 years, Harvey. She is survived by her children Cheryl (Pat) Thomason, Kelly (Jeff) Zelickson, Anne (Danny) Owen all of Huntsville; and Rick (Jeni) Golden of Houston; 14 grandchildren and one great-granddaughter; and her sisters Rochelle Shainbrown and Phyllis Strumlauf.

Contributions can be made to Temple B’nai Sholom, Huntsville.

...to the family of Dr. Terance (Terry) Shapero of Toronto, brother of Marilynn Goldfield (Ira). Shapero is also survived by a first cousin, Merle Shreiber Cherry (Ronnie), of Jacksonville; his wife of 32 years Shirley Shapero; sister Zelda Mandell (Irving); son David Shapero, all of Toronto; daughter Dana Shapero (Brad) of West Bloomfield, Mich., and many nieces, nephews, and cousins including nephews David Goldfield (Annie) of Jacksonville and Daniel Goldfield Sadot (Michal) of Modiin, Israel.

Contributions may be made to the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundatio or the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society of Canada. ...to the family of Henry Hochard, father of Howard (Lauren) Hochrad. Henry died Nov. 17, 2013. He is also survived by sons Todd and Herbert (Debra); and grandchildren Marissa, Chloe, Sara, and Ryan. Donations may be made to the Jacksonville Jewish Center. ...to the family of Roberta Phillips, sister of Dr. Ron (Sue) Elinoff. Phillips died Nov. 27, 2013. Contributions may be made to American Cancer Society or Temple. ...to the family of Sandra Ruby Schwartz, mother of Susan (Jeffrey) Neadle. Schwartz is

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Lauren and Michael Setzer welcome a son Jeremy Paul Setzer. Grandparents are Debra and Leonard Setzer, Carol Madow and Mark Diamond, and Yoko and David Madow. Great grandparents are Herb Stone and Lois and Selvin Madow.

Concetta and Jonathan Rand announce the birth of a son, Miles Joseph, on Nov. 22, 2013, in San Francisco. Grandparents are Robin and Marco Rand of Jacksonville, and Nancy and Joe Rini of Boynton Beach.

Fraternal twins Nathan Phillip Rubin and Natalie Vanessa Rubin were born Dec. 6, 2013, in Tampa to Lauren and Jason Rubin. Grandparents are Hank and Ellen Kopp of Jacksonville, and Steve and Monica Rubin of Tampa. Maternal great-grandmother is the late Phyllis Fried.

Accomplishments

Erin Frisch will receive her Bachelors of Science degree in nursing at Jacksonville University on Dec. 14. She was also recently inducted into the local Lambda Rho Chapter of the Sigma Theta Tau International Honor Society of Nursing. She is working as a pediatric nurse at Wolfson Children’s Hospital.

Briefs Dine with the Jax Jewish Singles

Come join the Jax Jewish Singles for Greek and European cuisine at Athens Cafe. There is something delectable for everyone’s taste. Please call for date and time, 221-8061 or email francine.smith@comcast.net. We welcome your suggestions for future events.

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A long-standing mah jongg group is looking for another player. The group has been meeting for over 30 years, and one of its players has moved to the cold north.

This group of “mature” women meet on Thursdays, noon to 4 p.m. Coffee and cake are served. Call Mildred for more information: 268-6198.

Alterations, mending, sewing projects, pickup and delivery.

survived by husband Arnold; sister Corinne Copnick; children Susan (Jeffrey) Neadle, Ned (Betty) Schwartz, Todd (Sondra) Schwartz and David Schwartz; and grandchildren Melissa, Sarah, Adam, Marc and Seth. Contributions may be made to the Jacksonville Jewish Center or the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation.

‘Men Are From Mars – Women Are From Venus LIVE!,’ starring Peter Story, is a light-hearted theatrical comedy based on the New York Times #1 best-selling book. This show returns to Jacksonville’s Times-Union Center’s Terry Theater from Jan. 14 to Jan. 17. Tickets start at $31 and are available at the Artist Series Box Office at (904) 442-BWAY (2929) and online 24/7 at www. artistseriesjax.org.

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FEDERATION NEWS

Grandparents raising grandchildren

By ISABEL BALOTIN Shalom Jacksonville

When Susan and Larry Tallis moved with their grandson to Jacksonville in 2011, they arrived as full-time guardians for 3-yearold Bryan. They adopted Bryan a year ago January.

The phenomenon of grandparents raising grandchildren has increased significantly over the past decade. At a time in their lives when thoughts of retirement and traveling are pleasantly pressing issues, raising a child or a grandchild somehow isn’t in the plan for most grandparents.

Newcomers come to new communities with a variety of needs.

Some can be filled by the Federation, others by Jewish Family & Community Services, the Jewish Community Alliance, River Garden or our synagogues and schools. Every now and then there is a need to be filled, and it takes a newcomer to create awareness.

I was the first person Larry called when he came to Jacksonville. In addition to his desire to share his photography talent with Federation, he shared with me his family nucleus. At that point he was not sure how permanent it would be but wanted to know if there were other people in the community raising grandchildren. At the time there was no organized group. For the last two years Larry has been vocal about the need for support groups for

grandparents raising grandchildren in our community, and he is willing to lead the charge. Larry sees that there is no commonality with young parents and little in common with “normal” or typical grandparents who are done raising their family and focusing on adult activities.

“Sometimes it would just be nice to be with people experiencing what we’re experiencing.

While others might crave good Chinese food, good pizza, Susan and I crave good adult conversation where we feel we fit in. Most of our commitment to Bryan is 100 percent joyful but it’s that every so often that we take a deep breath and say “wouldn’t it be great if there were others we could share with.”

Larry points out that there are many three generational families.

The difficulty of recent college graduates finding employment makes it sometimes impossible for young graduates to live on their own – and they return home to the nest.

While Shalom Jacksonville’s mission is to help newcomers and those newly interested in making Jewish connections to our community, sometimes we can help create awareness or facilitate the creation of a program. Then, hopefully, it will find a permanent home in our community. If you are interested in attending a meeting to discuss the formation of a support group, please contact

Larry Tallis: larry@tallisphoto. com or contact me and I will forward your number.

On behalf of the Jewish Federation and our partner agencies, I would like to thank Larry for generously donating his superb

photography services. Many of his photos can be seen monthly in the Jewish News and on our website.

For more information about our many newcomer programs, please contact Isabel Balotin, 904-

448-5000 x206 or shalomjax@ jewishjacksonville.org.

Shalom Jacksonville is a division of the Jewish Federation of Jacksonville and is the official Jewish welcome wagon of Northeast Florida.

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the same place at the same time was very amazing to me.

5. Neve Michael: Volunteering at this home for young boys and girls was so much fun! I love to work with children, so this opportunity to interact with children in Israel was one I will never forget.

6. Camel rides: Riding the camels at the Bedouin tents was a highlight for me because the last time I was in Israel, I was too scared to ride one, and I have regretted it ever since. I finally got my chance to ride a camel and it was an amazing experience.

7. Masada: Waking up at 4 in the morning to climb Masada was totally worth it. The view from atop the mountain was beautiful, and the activities we did once we reached the top were so much fun and quite informative.

8. Bahai Gardens: Visiting the Bahai Gardens was one of

my favorite activities because it is such a beautiful place, full of color, nature and green plants, which you don’t see much of around Israel.

9. Yad Vashem: The Holocaust Memorial Museum in Israel was one of my favorites because I have recently been more interested in learning about the Holocaust with all of the work and studies I have been doing in my English and history classes. I am very glad I had the opportunity to see this museum and learn so much more about the Holocaust.

10. My host family: Staying with a host family in Israel was a memorable experience for me because I believe it really gave us a chance to get closer to our Israeli friends and also let us Americans see what it’s like living in a typical Israeli home.

Please contact Jill Abel at jilla@jewishjacksonville.org for more information about this program for summer 2014. Applications are now being accepted.

Sunday, January 12 • 10 a.m. • Bella Sera in Riverside $36 per person includes brunch and program With a minimum gift of $52 to the 2014 Annual Campaign (Spouses welcome to attend)

Featuring special guest Rabbi Kerry Olitzky Executive Director of the Jewish Outreach Institute

Brunch chairs: Mary Edwards and Diane Rothstein For more information, contact Erin Cohen at 448-5000 x205 or erinc@jewishjacksonville.org

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ONE FAMILY Photographs by Vardi Kahana January 25 through April 27, 2014 In this exhibition, Vardi Kahana documents four generations of her family, beginning with her mother and two aunts who were Auschwitz survivors. In the artist’s words, “This is the story of one family. It is the entire Jewish-Israeli narrative embodied in a single family. This is my family.”

Jacksonville is the only city in the United States scheduled to exhibit Vardi Kahana’s work, so don’t miss this unique opportunity.

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Image Credit: Vardi Kahana, Three Sisters, Tel Aviv, 1992, photograph. © Vardi Kahana, Courtesy of Andrea Meislin Gallery, New York.

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