Jacksonville Jewish News October 2013

YOUNG ADULTS Israeli visitors join Sukkot celebration: ‘Sukkahs, Jaffas & Tapas.’

LOSS Community mourns the loss of beloved page 2 teacher.

PARTNERSHIP Jacksonville teen explores her roots in Israel.

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Kickoff program features JAFI CEO Community comes together for 2014 campaign kickoff

By Jewish Federation of Jacksonville

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The Jewish Federation of Jacksonville will kickoff the year on Wednesday, Oct. 9, with an exciting campaign opening event at the Jewish Community Alliance beginning at 7:30 p.m.

Hosts for the program are 2014 campaign chair, Sandy Zimmerman; Women’s Division campaign chair, Jen Plotkin; and Andrew Jaffa, who is chairing the young adult’s campaign. The program will feature CEO of North America for the Jewish Agency for Israel, Misha Galperin.

The entire community is invited. There is no minimum gift requirement. Everyone will be asked to make a pledge to the new campaign.

The 2013 campaign is but a few thousand dollars shy of the $2,470,000 projection that allocations were based on this past spring. Part of the Oct. 9 event will be dedicated to highlighting the outstanding work carried out

by Federation’s local recipient organizations.

Dessert and coffee will be served. RSVP to the Federation at donnao@jewishjacksonville.org will be appreciated.

For further information, please contact Executive Director Alan Margolies at 448-5000, ext. 207.

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YLD GO launches with ‘Honey’

By JEANINE HOFF

Young Leadership Division Director

The smashing success of YLD’s first women’s event, Honey with Henny, has helped launched the new joint initiative between the Young Leadership Division and the Women’s Division at the Federation known as YLD GO (girls only).

The program was designed to help bring younger women in our community together to socialize, share stories, network, and add additional meaning to their holiday celebrations.

The event, hosted by Henny Fisch in conjunction with Doing Dishes, brought together a standing-room-only crowd to enjoy wine and make beautiful honey pots for Rosh Hashanah. Henny shared some personal stories of Rosh Hashanah and her personal connection to Federation. Henny recently led the Jax 11 on a mission to Israel through JWRP and is the preschool director at our partner agency, Torah Academy.

Look for other upcoming YLD GO events including Tu B’What? a fun how-to-guide on Tu B’Shvat, and A Pinteresting Passover – Seders with Style, featuring exciting ways to spice up your Passover Seder using the social networking site Pinterest.

Spotlight: River Garden teams up with JFCS

By ILENE SCHINASI

Meals4You Program Coordinator

Jewish Family & Community Services, in partnership with River Garden Senior Services, is pleased to announce a new home-delivery meal program.

Our mission is to provide tasteful, nutritional meals to Jewish seniors, individuals recuperating from illness or hospitalization, or those not able to cook for themselves. The meals are lovingly prepared by River Garden staff and delivered by caring JFCS volunteers every Tuesday.

This collaboration will bring greater visibility and increased quality to an already outstanding service. JFCS is looking forward to expanding its reach to short-term rehabilitation patients and

See SPOTLIGHT, p. 19

JFCS Executive Director Colleen Rodriguez and River Garden CEO Marty Goetz announce a collaboration for home-delivered meals to the Jewish community.

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COMMUNITY NEWS

Galinsky Academy hires new specialist

Carol Wagnon

By The Galinsky Academy

Carol Wagnon joined the Galinsky Academy in late May as the development director, a new position to help better steward donors, explore all aspects of development beyond annual giving, motivate volunteers and create benchmarks for annual giving.

She comes with a 30-year career in education. She has extensive experience in the classroom and administration and has worked in public and private school settings. In Jacksonville, Carol dedicated 13 years to the growth and development of The Bolles School.

She began the advancement program at Providence School, whose meteoric rise to success has become the stuff of legends told at Christian school conferences across the nation.

Carol also worked in a farreaching realm of education when she served as director of development for WJCT public television and radio, whose audience of 1.5 million stretches from Daytona Beach, across Northeast Florida and far into Georgia. While at WJCT, in addition to raising funds to support the annual operational and broadcast budget, Carol led the capital campaign that enabled the station to successfully complete the expansive and expensive technological conversion to digital broadcasting. The dollars she has raised through annual, capital and endowment campaigns number in the millions, but Carol will be the first to tell you that she is most proud of the friends, not the funds that she has raised through the years. She says that her greatest joy is making dreams happen for both the institution and the benefactor.

Temple expands to Julington Creek

By Congregation Ahavath Chesed

Creek and Greet — Congregation Ahavath Chesed, The Temple, a Reform Congregation, is coming to the Julington Creek area. New and prospective members are invited to a progressive dinner on Saturday, Oct. 26, from 5:30 p.m. to 10 p.m. We’ll begin the evening with drinks and appetizers, continue on to dinner and conclude with a Havdalah service and dessert at the homes of our hosts and hostesses. Please call Christa in the Temple office at 733-7078 for more information.

Community remembers beloved preschool teacher

By JEANINE HOFF

Esther Ohayon works with her students at DuBow Preschool.

Young Leadership Division Director

The Jacksonville Jewish community is remembering beloved Dubow Preschool teacher Esther Ohayon, who lost her life Sept.

20 after she and her daughter were struck by a car while trying to cross San Jose Boulevard at Haley Road.

They were walking to Kol Nidre services.

“Miss Esther,” as she was known to the many children she taught over the years, was a staple in the Jewish community. She was actively involved in Etz Chaim Synagogue, the Jacksonville Jewish Center and Chabad.

Her teenage daughter Orly, who was seriously injured in the accident, is also an active member of our Jewish community, serving as a member of NCSY and being a former graduate of the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School. Despite Orly’s extensive injuries, she is doing well and is expected to recover.

Etz Chaim Synagogue Rabbi Yaakov Fisch shared Orly’s condition in an email to the community, “We are drawing strength from Orly and her faith in this dark hour. While she is in serious condition, her doctors anticipate for her to have a complete recovery.”

Esther lovingly taught the 3-year-old preschool class alongside “Miss Janet” Kriss.

“It is in such times as this, that I feel blessed to work and live in a community such as ours,” Jon Mitzmacher, head of the Galinsky Academy, said. “The collective strength and love it possesses will be relied upon by us all as we do only what we can – to ensure Esther’s memory everlasting, to pray for Orly’s recovery, and to finally learn the lesson of life’s fragility and ensure we treat each day as if it could be our last.”

On a personal note, he said, “Miss Esther was Maytal’s [Mitzbacher’s daughter] teacher, and Orly was in my first graduating class.

I, too, struggle with a world in which such tragedy occurs.”

Jacksonville Jewish Center Rabbi Jonathan Lubliner shared his personal connection to Esther.

“I am deeply saddened … our twins, Elior and Itamar, had Esther as a teacher in the preschool, while Orly was my student in eighth grade at MJGDS,” he said. “As the Center’s rabbi it is difficult to absorb the fact

that I won’t see Esther’s quiet and smiling face around the synagogue anymore.”

Lubliner also shared his thoughts on Orly.

“Mother and daughter shared many similar traits: kind, thoughtful, caring. I can’t remember ever hearing either of them say anything pejorative about another human being. Though we grieve Esther’s passing, she truly leaves our community with a precious legacy. The Jerusalem Talmud teaches that a person’s truest memorial is measured by her deeds, not her monument. The palpable difference she made in the lives of so many children is her enduring memorial. We will remember Esther with gratitude for her selfless gift of love, and we will do everything we can to help Orly travel the difficult road ahead.”

DuBow Preschool Director Shereen Canady, who worked closely with Esther over the past eight years, remembers her kindness and warmth.

“Esther has touched the lives of so many of us at the preschool and in the Jewish community. She gave so much of herself and always put her family, the children at our school and our community as her highest priorities. She was one of the kindest, most compassionate women I have known,” Canady said in a statement to the preschool families. “We were so

fortunate to have Miss Esther in our lives. We will miss her smile, her beautiful voice, the smells of her cooking in our hallways, and just watching her with the children.”

Esther’s cooking was very popular with the children. Wednesdays were known as “Cooking with Miss Esther Day” in which she would make a variety of foods and treats for the children. She also enjoyed taking care of the garden and was often seen watering the flower pots that line the entryway to the DuBow Preschool each morning as the children arrived at school.

Stories and memories about Esther have been shared all over Facebook and in the media with many remembering her great smile, compassion and gentleness. Friends from around the country and Israel, and even strangers, have also rallied in support of Orly, both emotionally and financially. A fund was started by Karen Brown, Orly’s cousin; Deborah Shapiro of Etz Chaim; and Rabbi Shaya Hauptman, Orly’s NCSY adviser; to help defray the costs of her extensive medical treatment and Esther’s funeral expense. Funds are also being collected at Etz Chaim through Rabbi Fisch’s Discretionary Fund.

Eshter Ohayon was buried next to her husband in Israel.

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Why support the River Garden Gala

By River Garden Senior Services

You can help make a difference in the lives of River Garden residents – your parents, grandparents, neighbors and friends.

Proceeds from the Gala support River Garden’s mission to serve the community with caring and excellence, assisting us in earning an unprecedented six Florida Governor’s Gold Seal Awards for Excellence in Long-Term Care. River Garden is among the top facilities in the city and perhaps the Southeast, providing long-term care/memory care, adult day care, outpatient therapy, short-stay rehabilitation, home health care and independent living. More than half of our long-term residents are medically indigent and therefore dependent on Medicaid. Each year, we must raise more than $1.2 million to offset our Medicaid deficit and maintain the highest standards of quality care for our residents.

The gala provides a significant portion of this figure, and River Garden has come to depend upon these invaluable

funds raised by the gala.

Nov. 16 will be a night to remember. In addition to cocktails, the Motown Alley Silent Auction and dinner, you will be entertained by Anita and her Motown Review at the Renaissance Resort at the World Golf Village.

We are pleased to honor longtime friends Lilo and Harry Frisch for their support and friendship.

River Garden is grateful to our presenting sponsor, SunTrust Bank, for their continuing partnership as well as all our loyal sponsors and friends. Chairs Arlene and Tony Adelson, and Diane and Mitchell Rothstein encourage the entire community to join us for this special evening.

Individual ticket prices begin at $250 and a special junior patron price of $175 for the 40 and younger crowd is a great bargain. For more information or reservations, call Kathy Osterer at 904-886-8430 or e-mail kosterer@rivergarden.org.

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JFCS to hold program on Parkinson’s

By MARIE GABBAMONTE

panelists will include family Jewish Family & Community Services member Donna Carter and JFCS care manager Naomi Mirensky.

We are happy to announce Parkinson’s disease is a the return of our quarterly Conchronic, degenerative neurologiversation Cafe cal disorder that affects one in series. The 100 people over age 60. It does first program not just affect the person living will be held on with the disease.

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Book Festival features Congresswoman

By JENNIE CHAMBERLIN Jewish Community Alliance

The Jewish Community Alliance will open its 17th Annual Book Festival with a special event featuring Florida Congresswoman Debbie Wasserman Schultz Thursday, Oct. 17, at 7 p.m.

Wasserman Schultz was the youngest woman elected to the Florida state legislature and the first Jewish congresswoman ever elected from Florida.

Wife, mother of three, and breast cancer survivor, she is the chair of the Democratic National Committee. She will discuss her new book “For the Next Generation: A Wake Up Call To Solving Our Nation’s Problems. “ The evening will feature a question and answer session, and her book will be available for sale and signing. The event is free and open to the community.

The JCA will continue its

Annual Jewish Book Festival, chaired by Lonnie Steinberg and Cecilia Cristol, from Nov. 4 to 14 with several events.

Monday, Nov. 4, at 7 p.m.: Dr. Lloyd Sederer, author of “The Family Guide to Mental Health Care.” This event is co-sponsored

Coming soon: a new experience for young adults

By JEANINE HOFF

Young Leadership Division Director

Beginning in the fall, the Young Leadership Division of the Jewish Federation of Jacksonville will re-launch with a new name, new logo and new website as part of a new initiative designed to reconnect with members of the community.

Aimed at enhancing engage-

ment, this new vision looks to be more inclusive, bring in more people, and add meaning to its events.

Several new programs include YLD GO (girls only) and Shark Tank, based on a successful program which premiered at JFNA’s Tribefest in 2012.

The re-launch will be guided by the YLD Steering Committee led by Co-Chairs Nancy

By MOLLY SWEET

Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool

Every year, Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool sustains a curriculum that boasts dynamic and enriching opportunities for its students. The school’s commitment to teaching health and wellness is exemplified in its Discover CATCH (Coordinated Approach to Children’s Health) program.

Discover CATCH provides physical activity opportunities throughout the day and helps students make healthy diet choices.

Last year, Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool became one of the first JCC preschools in the nation to pilot the program.

With the resources available in the Jewish Community Alliance building, students meet with coaches in the gym, yoga instructors in the exercise studios and have year-round swim instruction in the pool. “Our goal is to keep children’s swim skills current all year long so that they don’t lose the progress they made during the

summer months,” said Rochelle Golomb, Early Childhood Education assistant director.

In addition to incorporating physical education into the school day, Discover CATCH aims to teach students about their diet choices and shows them how to recognize which foods are healthy, or “go foods,” and which

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Tuesday, Nov. 5, at 7 p.m.: Marion Grodin, author of “Standing Up: A Memoir of a Funny (Not Always) Life” Friday, Nov. 8, at 1 p.m.: John Schwartz, author of “Oddly Normal.” This event is co-sponsored

by Jewish Family & Community Services.

Sunday, Nov. 10, at 7 p.m.: Matthew Levitt, author of “Hezbollah: The Global Footprint of Lebanon’s Party of God.” This event will be preceded by a patron’s cocktail hour available to book festival patrons only.

Tuesday, Nov. 12, at 1 p.m.: Joshua Henkin, author of “The World Without You” Wednesday, Nov. 13, at 7 p.m.: Eric Goldman, author of “The American Jewish Story Through Cinema” Thursday, Nov. 14, at 7 p.m.: Larry Tye, author of “Superman: The High-Flying History of America’s Most Enduring Hero”

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“In addition, the JCA remains on the forefront by being one of the first JCCs in the nation with plans to roll out the CATCH program to other like-minded agencies in North Florida this winter,” said Theresa Levy, Early Childhood Education director.

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Facebook COO helps JCA’s J Institute kick off Lean In Circle The program will continue on Nov. 14 and Dec. 16. In order to participate, sign up in advance and plan to attend three meetings. The program cost for the

By Jewish Community Alliance

The excitement was palpable as women from all over Jacksonville gathered to learn about the new Lean In Circle forming at the JCA. Lean In Circles have become an international phenomenon with 7,000 circles worldwide and over 70,000 members.

“The J Institute is among the first Jewish community centers in the country to initiate a Lean In Circle,” said J Institute director and circle manager Dorri Kraus.

“Thanks to the efforts of our Lean In Circle facilitator, Andrea Mail, we kicked off our program with a special message from Facebook COO and New York Times best-selling author Sheryl Sandberg herself.”

According to Kraus, the purpose of the September meeting

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was to introduce women to the power of connecting with peers through participating in a Lean In Circle. Now that the word is out, the J Institute has scheduled to kick off the first of three circle meetings on Oct. 14 at 7 p.m.

Sisterhood receives international award

By Temple Sisterhood

Congregation Ahavath Chesed’s (The Temple) WRJ Temple Sisterhood has been honored with the distinguished Silver WRJ Or Ami “Light of My People” Award for social justice.

The winning program, Jacksonville Jewish Historical Tour, recognized Temple’s historic role in Jacksonville with bus tours of local historic Jewish sites. Jewish historians, archivists and founding families served as docents. Susan Board, co-president of Temple Sisterhood and tour organizer said, while sharing her excitement about the award, “Sisterhood hopes to have kindled an interest in Jacksonville Jewish history that we plan to keep live in Northeast Florida. There is so much to learn here in our backyard!”

Temple Sisterhood will be recognized during WRJ’s 49th Assembly & Centennial Celebration, Dec. 11-15 in San Diego.

The winners will also be featured on WRJ’s website and in

other WRJ resources representing WRJ’s continued commitment to tikkun olam. Sixty-six applications from WRJ affiliates in the United States, Canada and Israel were considered. The selection criteria included quality, program content, replication potential and impact.

Established in 1973, the WRJ Or Ami “Light of My People” Award recognizes social justice, community service and educational programming that is exemplary and serves as a model for other WRJ Districts and women’s groups. The awards are given biennially and coincide with WRJ’s Assembly.

Women of Reform Judaism, founded in 1913, is the women’s affiliate of the Union for Reform Judaism, the central body of Reform Judaism in North America.

WRJ represents about 65,000 women in nearly 500 women’s groups worldwide and promotes women’s issues and leadership through education, programming and advocacy.

River Garden Auxiliary presents games, gals and goblets

By River Garden Auxiliary

Please join us on Wednesday, Oct. 16, from 6:30 p.m. to 10 p.m. for an enjoyable evening. There will be wine, a little nosh, door prizes, and a lot of fun. This game night will be held at River Garden, 11401 Old St. Augustine Road.

Bring your group for Mahjong, Canasta, bridge, Scrabble, etc.

If you’re not in a group, we will try to put one together for you. A

lot of planning is going into this evening and, because of that, we need your advanced reservation

by Oct. 10.

Please mail your check for $15, made out to River Garden Auxiliary, to: Michele Steinfeld, 3828 La Vista Circle, Jacksonville, FL 32217. Include your name, the names of the people in your game, and what you’ll be playing. We look forward to seeing you.

three meeting series is $24 for JCA members, $36 for nonmembers. All circle meetings will be held at the JCA. Space is limited and advance registration is re-

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Israel education program features Barbara Goldstein

By HELEN HILL

Jacksonville Hadassah

Barbara Goldstein, deputy director of the Hadassah office in Israel, will be the guest speaker on Monday, Oct. 14, from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. The brunch program will be held at the Jacksonville Jewish Center, 3662 Crown Point Road.

Jacksonville Hadassah is proud to be one of the limited venues for Goldstein’s speaking engagements while in the states. We are partnering with the Daytona Beach, Palm Coast and Gaines-

ville chapters of Hadassah. The purpose of her tour is to educate, motivate and inspire Hadassah members, associates and the general community, instilling pride in the state of Israel and Hadassah’s legacy of being an involved and engaged partner.

Goldstein was born in New Jersey to a family deeply committed to Jewish causes, Zionism and Israel. She served in a variety of positions from region president of Southern New Jersey to National Vice President of Hadassah. In 1973-74 she and her husband

Hazzan (Cantor) Mordechai Goldstein lived in Jerusalem, a life-changing experience for her.

She served as a volunteer in the Public Relations Department of the Hadassah Medical Center, working directly with the wounded soldiers, reporters, congressmen and other dignitaries. She made Aliyah 17 years ago and, in 2011, was chosen to light the beacon in Israel’s Independence Day ceremony, one of the country’s highest honors. Today in Israel, she represents Hadassah on the prime minister’s special com-

mittee on the Legacy of Theodor Herzl and on the boards of the Jewish National Fund, Hadassah Neurim, Meir Shfeyah and Ramat Hadassah.

Known as B.G. by everyone she meets, her talks are colorful, funny and inspirational. Advance reservations strongly recommended. The cost of brunch is $25.

Please RSVP to Beth Shorstein at (904) 868-4400, bshorstein@ gmail.com or you may mail your check to: Beth Shorstein, 11045 Riverport Court, Jacksonville, FL 32223.

Barbara Goldstein

Sisterhood holds annual River Garden Auxiliary Opening Mah Jongg tournament Luncheon features entertainment

By Temple Sisterhood

By River Garden Auxiliary

The River Garden Auxiliary invites you to join them for their Opening Luncheon with an afternoon filled with fun games, fabulous food and fantastic entertainment on Tuesday, Oct. 22. Doors will open at noon; lunch will be followed with entertainment by Guy and the Yehudas.

Guy and the Yehudas is an authentic Jacksonville Klezmer band. The new band has been dazzling audiences with their brilliant technique and style since late 2012.

Each member of the group is unique.Clarinetist Joseph Yorio, the newest member of the group, teaches at Jacksonville University. John Wieland is a principal bassist with the Jacksonville Symphony and bearded accordion player Dennis

Hunsicker has a four-year degree in accordion.

According to Wikipedia, Klezmer music was part of the traditions of the Jews of Eastern Europe. Played by professional musicians called klezmorim, the genre consisted largely of dance tunes and instrumental display pieces for weddings and other celebrations. We hope that you enjoy this soulful music that seems to touch everyone who hears it. Feel free to get up and dance with us.

Please reserve your seat today by either calling Andy Raitt at 737-6451 or by emailing Gayle Bailys at gdbjax@aol.com. The deadline to reserve your seat is Friday, Oct. 18. The cost of attending the River Garden Auxiliary Opening Luncheon will be $10 before Tuesday, Oct. 15, and $15 after this date. We look forward to seeing you.

The Temple Sisterhood is preparing for the Fourth Annual Mah Jongg tournament, which will take place on Sunday, Nov. 3. This fabulous event promises to be bigger and better than ever. Each year Mah Jongg players from near and far come to Jacksonville to participate in the only tournament in the area.

Grab your 1 craks and 2 bams and plan to spend a fun–filled afternoon while meeting new players.

Tell your friends and fellow Mah Jongg players about the hottest event in North Florida. All Mah Jongg players are welcome, and there will be prizes galore.

Registration will be at 11 a.m. followed by lunch, and the tournament begins at 12:30 p.m. There

will be three rounds of Mah Jongg games, and prizes and awards will be presented at the conclusion of the tournament. Door prizes as well as tournament prizes will be awarded.

Mah Jongg items and gifts will be on sale during the tournament.

Registration is $20, and tournament forms are available at the Temple, 8727 San Jose Blvd., or online at www.thetemplejacksonville.org. The deadline for registration is Oct. 18. Co-chairs Ann Stone and Sheila Horowitz are expecting a huge turnout for this exciting event and encourage all who are interested to send in their completed forms as early as possible.

For further information, please call Ann Stone (565-2772) or Sheila Horowitz (234-7104).

Jacksonville Hadassah invites you to join

Barbara Goldstein Deputy Director Hadassah Office in Israel for a very special program on

Monday, October 14, 2013 11:00 AM - 1:00 PM at the Jacksonville Jewish Center 3662 Crown Point Road $25 per person includes a delicious brunch

RSVP by phone (904)

868-4400

or e-mail bethshorstein.@gmail.com

Barbara Goldstein’s life has been guided by a passion and commitment to Judaism and Zionism. “I live according to the Ethics of the Fathers,” she says. “The task is not mine to finish but I must be part of it.”

With humor and a down-toearth approach, “B.G.” will inspire and motivate you.

Partnering with Daytona Beach, Palm Coast and Gainesville, Jacksonville is one of a few venues selected for her national speaking tour. Be sure to make your reservations early!

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YLD and Shalom Jax present a Thanksgivikah Celebration

By JEANINE HOFF

Young Leadership Division Director

Don’t forget to save the date of the afternoon of Nov. 24 for the annual YLD and Shalom Jacksonville Chanukah family celebration. Since Chanukah falls early this year, we will combine fall and

Chanukah in a pre-holiday event.

Special activities will be planned for the kids including several new contests.

More details to follow. If you are not receiving email invites from YLD or Federation, please call 904-448-5000 so we can add you to our email list.

Reflections on a tragedy

By RABBI YAAKOV FISCH Etz Chaim Synagogue

T

his past Yom Kippur our community was afflicted with a horrible tragedy.

During Kol Nidre services, I was giving my sermon to our Sephardic Minyan. (A couple of years ago we started this service for all Jews of Middle Eastern and North African descent, and their service is steeped in their rich Sephardic Heritage). Someone had come into the minyan and informed us that there had been a major accident on San Jose Boulevard and that one of our congregants en route to services at the Sephardic Minyan had been fatally struck.

We learned that Esther Ohayon, a beloved member of our community, was killed in this horrific tragedy and her daughter Orly was taken to the hospital and was in critical condition.

Our Yom Kippur quickly turned into a day in intense grief.

We still continued with services until the end of Yom Kippur but we were in this dark cloud that seemed to be suffocating.

How is it that such sweet, loving and righteous people could have that inflicted upon them on the way to synagogue? Weren’t they on their way to offer prayers to G-d and connect with Him on the holiest day of the year?

It is not inappropriate to question G-d and ask questions of this nature. Indeed, we learn about Gideon in the Book of Judges,

who questioned G-d after all the suffering that the Jews of his generation had to endure at the hands of the Midianites. He said “Where are all your wonders and miracles that accompanied the Jews when they left Egypt?”

I do not pretend to know the answer to the age-old question of how good people can suffer and evil people can prosper. I do know what the Torah teaches us on this difficult issue.

It is written in the end Deuteronomy that from the time the Temple was destroyed and the Jews were exiled from our homeland, G-d has concealed His face from us.

This is referred in Hebrew as Hester Panim. The state of Hester Panim allows a world in which acts of terrorism, natural disasters and devastating tragedies occur without understanding the reason for all of this. This state of concealment causes us to be confused and despondent when confronted with events of this nature. Had the presence of G-d been less concealed, we would not be struggling to understand His will.

However, we continue to pray for this era of Hester Panim to be over and done with. Indeed, that is a central theme of the High Holiday liturgy. We plead with G-d for Him to come closer to us and be less concealed.

Life is full of joyous and sad moments. In a moment like this we have to reflect on how fragile life is and how we must take advantage of each and every day.

We have to be cognizant of all the

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blessings that we do have in life.

Let us show appreciation to those closest to us. We should not take anything for granted including our families. It is important to tell your spouse “I love you” or hug your child. If there is an opportunity to help someone in need, it is important to take advantage of those opportunities and not put them off.

I would also like to point out about how much goodness and kindness this tragedy has generated. People all over the world have come together for prayer and tzedaka in a very meaningful way. There was a prayer session at the Kotel in Jerusalem attended by dozens of Orly’s friends in Israel. Individuals from all over the world have contributed funds for the benefit of Orly. Locally, there has been an outpouring of generosity from all synagogues and agencies in our Jewish community. My phone did not stop ringing for days with people offering how they can be of some help. It is nothing short of inspiring.

I think it is a very fitting tribute to Esther. She attended Chabad and Etz Chaim and taught at the preschool of the Jacksonville Jewish Center. She was a person that transcended the differences we sometimes have and connected in a very meaningful way with all Jews regardless of their denomination or observance. Even in her death she continues to unite the Jewish people in a way that is meaningful and inspiring.

May her memory always be a blessing.

It’s all about relationships

By ISABEL BALOTIN Shalom Jacksonville

In the advice column in a recent morning paper, a writer complained that when he goes to the bank, a greeter meets him with good wishes, hellos and “What are your plans for the day?” The complainer continues, “When the tellers chitchat with customers at the window, this takes up the time of people who are waiting for service.” He wants to know how to get the tellers to shut up and get the line moving, as he only wants to do his business and get out.

Really, Mr. Kvetch (complainer)? What’s the rush? How long are you actually kept waiting?

Most of the tellers can multi-task

and rarely continue the conversation once the transaction is completed. Maybe the bank should establish an express line with a robot or a teller machine just for kvetches like you?

Frankly, I like the friendliness of some businesses and of our Jewish agencies. Many finally understand that expressing a sincere welcome is the first step in relationship building, and each subsequent visit and positive interaction is an opportunity to build a loyal customer/member base. Let’s face it; relationship building is an important key to success.

Too often we ask someone how he is without expecting an answer. Yet some people like to

share with us a little something about their lives. Ask a new person a friendly question. Then take another minute or two to really listen to the answer and be sincere in your responses. People want to feel that they have worth and that their presence makes a difference.

Let us not leave it to someone else to be the friendly one. Showing sincere caring for one another builds a sense of community.

Federation’s Shalom Jacksonville is the official Jewish welcome wagon of Northeast Florida.

If you are new to the area or are newly interested in Jewish life, please contact Isabel Balotin, 904448-5000 x206 or shalomjax@ jewishjacksonville.org.

Sukkahs, Jaffas & Tapas celebrates with YLD series of new programs for young adults in the Jewish community designed to coincide with the upcoming re-launch of the Young Leadership Division.

The evening not only featured great friends, appetizers and drinks, but educators from our Partnership region of Hadera-

By JEANINE HOFF

Young Leadership Division Director

Andrew and Sylvia Jaffa welcomed members of the Young Leadership Division of the Federation to celebrate Sukkot in their lovely Sukkah. Sukkahs, Jaffas, & Tapas was the first in a

Eiron, Israel.

The educators shared their experiences as teachers in Israel and how several classrooms in the region are being twinned with classrooms locally including classes at the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School and Torah Academy of Jacksonville.

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PERSPECTIVES

First businesses: Immigrant opens clothing stores

By HAZEL MACK

Special to the Jewish News

French Novelty Shops and its younger sister, Strawberry Fields, have a history dressed in the Middle Eastern fashion of Scheherazade, cloaked in Old Testament wisdom, and bound with close family ties. Over both is the umbrella firm of S. Mizrahi Sons, Inc. The patriarch of the Mizrahi family is Salim Mizrahi.

Born in 1874 Tripoli, Syria, Salim was a tailor, son of a Jewish physician. He travelled to Smyrna, Turkey, where he married Estrea Pardo. The couple returned to Tripoli to raise a family. Two daughters and two sons were born to Estrea and Salim, but an epidemic took the lives of the two sons.

Sensing the rising wave of anti-Semitism in 1901, Salim sold his business and invested heavily in olive oil, which he brought with him by boat to the United States. Estrea and the two children were allowed to enter through Ellis Island, but the olive oil wasn’t.

Because of an eye infection, Salim was refused entry. Estrea and the children stayed in New York, while Salim went to Mexico where immigration officials were less observant.

He entered the United States and joined his family in New York where he found work as a peddler of fine laces.

By 1910 Salim and his growing family moved to Jacksonville with his laces. Two more children were born here. He opened his first store in 1911 at 325 Laura St. and named it the French Novelty Shop. All of his merchandise was imported from France, Switzerland and Belgium. He opened boutiques in the Windsor and Seminole hotels, and expanded his line to include children’s wear.

In the mid-20s, he moved his store to 34 W. Adams St. and closed his boutiques in order to concentrate his efforts in one location. Salim had the idea that this would be an ideal location.

As business grew he opened a ladies’ sportswear department named Fields. They occupied adjoining stores on Adams Street and one around the corner on Laura Street.

Wanting to have the entire operation under one roof, French Novelty rented the former location of Morrison’s Cafeteria at 119 West Adams St. As the business grew, the family became more involved in the operation. The sons, Joseph and Ralph, managed the business, and the girls, Rebecca, Molly and Julia, became buyers. Salim died in 1949, and it was Estrea Mizrahi who cut the ribbon to the new store in 1952. In the 1980s, there were 15 French Novelty Shops throughout North Florida and South Georgia. The company activated the dormant Fields Corporation in 1978 naming it Strawberry Fields, a chain of 35 stores specializing in promotional ladies’ fashion. Jack Mizrahi, a

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grandson of Salim, headed this division.

Jack Mizrahi still heads French Novelty and Strawberry Fields.

What was once a company with 50 stores, is now down to two “brick-and-mortar” stores, one

store on Blanding Boulevard and one on Dunn Avenue. French Novelty sells to customers worldwide from its online store, www.frenchnovelty.com. French Novelty is celebrating 102 years of history in Jacksonville.

The French Novelty Store at 119 W. Adams St.

The inside shows all the beautiful lace things and an unidentified salesman.

The outside of the store is at 235 Laura Street, with Salim Mizrahi standing out front

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EDUCATION

Early Childhood Symposium announces workshop presenters

By ROCHELLE GOLOMB

Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool

The JCA’s Michele Block Gan Yeladim is excited to announce the workshop presenters for its 5th Annual Early Childhood Symposium, “Play: Where Learning Begins,” on Tuesday, Oct. 15. This annual early childhood

symposium has gained a reputation for stimulating and engaging educators and parents on topics related to young children in the preschool years.

Tracye A. Polson, a licensed clinical social worker, will facilitate a dialogue on superhero play; local artist and potter Tim Bullard will conduct a fun,

hands-on clay experience; and early literacy master teacher Gail Long will present research-based benefits of play and how they link to literacy.

Noted early childhood expert

Rebecca Isbell will present the keynote as well as a workshop and morning after coffee talk on the many benefits of play. Isbell’s books will be available for purchase and signing.

This event is open to the public and includes a catered kosher dinner. Jewish educators receive a special discount rate. Please call 904-730-2100 ext. 259 or email rochelle.golomb@jcajax.org.

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Community University gets an official logo

By JEANINE HOFF

Young Leadership Division Director

Community University, the annual day of learning and celebration, is set to take place on March 9, 2014, at the Jacksonville Jewish Center. The program – which is presented jointly by the Jewish Federation of Jacksonville and the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School, in conjunction with our synagogues and schools – will for the first

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From the “King of Citrus” and groves three times the size of Manhattan, to sixth generation dairy farmers, Jews in the Sunshine State are better known for serving up delicious corned beef on rye than for their work in the fields. Growers, Grocers & Gefilte Fish spans nearly 200 years of Florida Jews in the food industry, with artifacts, figures and photographs that will feed your memories and tempt your taste buds.

Educator’s Council launches school year with new leaders

By JEANINE HOFF

Young Leadership Division Director

The Jacksonville Jewish Educator’s Council; which is comprised of the heads of each of our Jewish day schools, preschools and religious schools; held its first meeting of the year under new leadership.

The council; now led by Jon Mitzmacher, head of the Galinsky Academy, which includes the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School; was designed to help promote collaboration between each of the

schools and organize professional development opportunities for educators.

In addition, the council welcomed new members Joshua Wise, head of Torah Academy, and Henny Fisch, preschool director at Torah Academy. This year several classes will engage in classroom twinning with classrooms in Jacksonville’s partner region of Hadera-Eiron in Israel.

The council will also collaborate on preschool through middle school programming for Community University 2014.

Galinsky Academy unveils new websites

By Galinsky Academy

The marketing committee of the Galinsky Academy has been busy over the past year and a half.

Last school year, the committee rolled out new logos for all four academy schools - DuBow Preschool, Martin J. Gottlieb Day School, Bernard & Alice Selevan Religious School and Makom Hebrew High School. Following

the logo creations, new marketing materials were created and a social media plan was put into place. The final item on the marketing agenda came to fruition in mid September.

All four schools received new designs for their websites, and they are now user-friendly for prospective families to learn more about the schools. Please visit the new websites by going to www. galinskyacademy.org.

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EDUCATION

What’s the buzz at Block Gan?

MJGDS’s new year

By MOLLY SWEET

Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool

The start of the 2013-2014 school year brought plenty of buzz to the Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool, but there’s one age group in particular noticing some growth spurts. Enrollment is at an all-time high in the 1-year-old Busy Bees. Spots are in such great demand that school administrators opened up a fourth class.

“I love welcoming new little friends and their families to our school. At the JCA, we offer peace of mind to parents that their precious children receive the best possible care in a warm, nurturing and engaging environment,” says Early Childhood Education Director Theresa Levy.

When asked about enrollment being up in three other age groups, Levy said, “We have an amazing team of teachers here at the JCA. They are the heart of our school.”

“Over a dozen of our faculty members have been with the J a decade or more. They are clearly very good at what they do and passionate about their work. You can’t fake that.

Music classes begin at DuBow Preschool

By EMILY CARPENTER DuBow Preschool

Sept. 4 kicked off the start of Family Music & Movement — a new program for babies and toddlers at the DuBow Preschool (open to anyone in the community).

Kids get to experience (hold and play) nine different instruments during each class. It’s a great introductory class for parent and child, because together they explore rhythm, dance, cooperation and a host of other concepts. Come to the free trial class Oct. 15 at 10 a.m. The next free trial class isn’t until December, so please RSVP soon (18 spots maximum) at Emily@familymusicandmovement.com or 904-268-4200, ext.143.

Above: Students at the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School celebrate the month of Elul by blowing the shofar for the student body.

At left: Fifth-grade students make honey cakes for Rosh Hashanah with parent volunteer, Sylvia Jaffa. MJGDS middle school students later delivered the cakes during mitzvah trips to seniors at River Garden and Mt. Carmel to wish them a sweet New Year.

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What’s going on in the Shalom Baby meets weekly Discovery Studio at the DuBow Preschool?

By DuBow Preschool

Do you have a baby or toddler?

Are you looking for a group of moms or caregivers who want to meet to socialize and share this wonderful time of your lives?

Last year our Shalom Baby group grew and many of our regulars said they wished they could come together every week. So, beginning on Friday, Oct. 4, we will begin meeting most Fridays.

Twice a month the group will be led in favorite songs, a parenting topic and in a Shabbat celebration by Director Shereen Canady, Robin Morris and Michelle Margol, the Jewish studies teachers at the DuBow Preschool. We will also have special visitors and

By DuBow Preschool

September was a fantastic month in the Discovery Studio. Greg Nagel, our science teacher completed his unit, Little Explorers.

The preschoolers enjoyed dressing up as explorers with vests and hats, and using exploring equipment including magnifying glasses, tweezers, collection boxes, shovels and nets.

They took a nature hike in the Jacksonville Jewish Center woods and collected living and nonliving natural objects, plants and animals that filled up the tanks and cages in the Discovery Studio.

Next, Mr. Greg helped the children discover how to identify the needs of living things and properties of nonliving objects.

On Sept. 16, the education director for the St. Johns Riverkeeper, Jennie Busey, helped us wrap up the final day of our Little Explorers theme.

Her program, “Can You Swim Like A Manatee And Bark Like An Otter?” was a wonderful culminating activity.

Even our youngest students need to know they play a big part in keeping our river healthy. She introduced a few animal species through books,

all loved ones and their babies and toddlers. For more information, contact Shereen Canady at 268-4200 ext. 143. We hope you will join us.

JCA presents ‘Music Around the World’

By Block Gan

imaginative movement, and sounds. After meeting these animals, she talked about what we all can do every day to help keep these animals and their homes healthy and happy.

As we ended the month and move into October, our theme, Fantastic Superheroes, is sure to be a super hit and a great opportunity for more learning.

Mr. Greg taught our budding scientists about the “super” abilities of superheroes such as super speed, strength, flying, swimming, sight, fire and ice.

They picked a superhero for each of these abilities and talked about what the hero can do. We even had a fantastic superhero dress-up day. Then, Mr. Greg, helped the children explore the science behind these abilities with super cool activities.

MJGDS makes an investment in STEM

By Martin J. Gottlieb Day School

Karianne Jaffa joined the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School faculty as the new kindergarten through eighth grade science teacher. All grades, not just middle school, will now visit the science lab under Mrs. Jaffa’s instruction.

Jon Mitzmacher, head of the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School, explained, “The expansion to the lower school is an investment in STEM, which is an investment in the future of all the children.

After focusing in recent years on the T of STEM – technology – we are now making an investment in the S – science – by creating a first-time, full-time K-8 science instructor. We want to ensure our students grow up with a foundation of discovery and exploration that will not only allow them to excel in science, but inspire them across all their subjects.”

Jaffa comes to MJGDS with a Master of Science in education and has over 12 years of teaching experience. She is coming to the Day School from Liberty Pines Academy in St. Johns, where she designed inquiry-based science investigations that led to real world applications and created performance lab tasks. She cotaught in a support-facilitated

special outings at times. On other Fridays, our participating moms or dads will lead this group. This is a free playgroup open to the Jewish community. We welcome

This fall the JCA will host a new J Café series for the Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool families: “Music Around the World,” an interactive performance series that will take listeners on a sonic tour around the world.

Molly Sweet, a local musician and music educator, will join us to present a three-part series of concerts to highlight the music of cultures around the world. Sweet studied music performance with an emphasis in ethnomusicology at Florida State University and, with the help of

her colleagues, will perform this multicultural music repertoire.

“Art is the vehicle by which we communicate and transmit our culture to the world,” Sweet said.

“I wanted to learn about how people understood and appreciated music in other parts of the world. By adopting an anthropological approach to the study of art, we gain a greater appreciation for the customs and ideas of every culture.”

“Exposing children to world music is a great way to foster a sense of open-mindedness, tolerance and curiosity about the world and the many different people in it.”

Students learn lesson in helping others

By SHEREEN CANADY DuBow Preschool

In October Ilene Schinasi, “Ms. Ilene,” will be coming to the DuBow Preschool to read “Bagels From Benny.” In the story by Aubery Davis, a young boy (Benny) wants to thank God for creating the wheat for his grandfather’s delicious bagels. He decides to secretly place a bag of bagels in the Holy Ark each Friday. Each

week, unbeknownst to Benny, a poor man finds the bagels and takes them home to eat, believing they are a gift from God. When the little boy discovers the truth, that God hasn’t been taking the bagels, he is greatly disappointed, until his grandfather explains to him that, in fact, there is no better gift to God than helping a person in need.

After reading the book, we will have a great discussion on

the ways our preschool friends can help others in need. Then Ms. Ilene and the teachers will help the children make their own tzedakah boxes using recycled water bottles. These boxes will be sent home, and we will all collect tzedakah until Thanksgiving. At that time, we will bring them back to school to purchase turkeys for needy families, as we do each year with the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School.

We selected the works, arranged the loans, wrote the catalog, and curated the exhibition to bring Jacksonville the first ever Michael Goldberg retrospective.

Karianne Jaffa inclusion class and modified instruction to maximize the learning potential of students, and created the school’s Science Olympiad Team to compete in one of the premier K-12 science competitions in the nation.

Jaffa is excited to pass on her love for science and enthusiasm for inquiry-based and handson science experiments to all MJGDS students.

“I really value the high level of academics and personal touch given to the students at MJGDS. I look forward to inspiring students to explore, design experiments and problem-solve through real world scenarios while implementing technology in the lab classroom.”

The first concert will take place Saturday, Nov. 16, and highlights the music of Latin America. The sonic tour will include traditional music styles from countries such as Brazil, Mexico, Venezuela and Peru. Dancing and jamming are encouraged so bring your favorite musical instrument.

The second concert in the series, on Sunday, Feb. 23, will dig up the roots of American music, including blues, jazz, old time and ragtime — the ancestors of today’s American popular music.

Wrapping up the concert series will be Klezmer music with a Shabbat dinner on Friday, May 2.

These concerts are open to the community, so bring the whole family.

For more information, email rochelle.golomb@jcajax.org or call 904-730-2100 ext. 259.

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EDUCATION

Torah Academy of Jacksonville adopts Tal AM

By Torah Academy

While Torah Academy has always had a strong base in Hebrew – students can read and write in Hebrew by the time they leave kindergarten – Hebrew as a spoken language was not a formalized course of study.

It was important to the Torah Academy Board, Education Committee and parents to make Hebrew language studies an official part of the curriculum, so a decision was made this spring to adopt the TaL AM Hebrew Language Arts Program.

TaL AM is a dynamic method of Hebrew study for grades 1 to 6 in use in over 340 schools across the globe. It employs sensory exercises – through books, music, games and more – to help learn Hebrew and strengthen students’ relationship to their Jewish heritage.

It is one TaL AM mission to create a strong connection

between students and the state of Israel through a unifying language. Two of Torah Academy’s Judaic studies teachers, Rabbi Mayer Rabinowitz and Orit Kaiser, attended TaL AM’s training institute this summer and received certification in the program.

“A core component of Torah Academy’s mission is a passion for the land and people of Israel,” says Torah Academy’s new principal Joshua Wise. “By adopting the TaL AM program, we are helping our students connect to Israel on a new level. Additionally, as students absorb the style and grammar of Modern Hebrew, they will develop confidence in their analytic skills, which will carry over into their text study of chumash and navi in the original sources. They will create key foundations upon which other exciting community-based programs, such as our Israel Partnership program, will flourish.”

We’ve got that Shabbat feelin’ at the DuBow Preschool year olds), Kofim (2 year olds) and twice a month by our Shalom Baby group. We meet in our special Jewish Studies room to open our mini-arc, take out our torah and celebrate with songs and stories.

Next, our older children, lead by their class’s imas and abas, participate in a musical walk to the Jacksonville Jewish Center Chapel. Morah Rachel, Morah Miriam, Hazzan Holzer, Rabbi Olitzky, Rabbi Lubliner and Director Shereen Canady first sound

By SHEREEN CANADY DuBow Preschool

Fridays are extra special at the DuBow Preschool. Every week each class picks an ima (mother) and an aba (father). Their jobs are very important. These children are the leaders of their class for the week. The most exciting part of their job takes place on Fridays when our school celebrates Shabbat.

Our first Shabbat celebration is attended by our Doobonim (1

PTA kicks off new year

before school began.

The pool party brought out many new families. The following morning, the PTA provided a Back to School Parent Breakfast, which was well-attended and gave parents an opportunity to schmooze, and learn more about the PTA and how to get involved.

The PTA calendar is full with fun and feel-good events for the school year.

Should you want to get involved or volunteer for a specific event, please contact Yakov Feig at yakovf@comcast.net.

By The Galinsky Academy

Under the leadership of new PTA President Yakov Feig and a fabulous committee, it’s evident that it’s going to be a great year. PTA sponsored a fun backto-school pool party Yakov Feig the Sunday

their drums, guitar and noise makers outside the VPK classrooms.

The sound begins the Shabbat parade.

Next stop is to pick up the Parparim (3 year olds). The joyous sounds of the children, teachers and clergy fill the halls of the DuBow Preschool and Center.

The parade ends in the chapel.

The ruach and fun continues as each class leads the entire group in their favorite Shabbat songs, complete with props, masks and hats. The children proudly put change in the Tzedakah box or canned fruit in the Jewish Family & Community Services basket.

We sing about the mitzvah of giving and, together, welcome Shabbat.

Parents also play an important role in our Shabbat celebrations.

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SYNAGOGUE NEWS

What’s new at TIR?

By RONNI TICKER

Temple Institute of Religion

Temple Institute of Religion, the religious school of Congregation Ahavath Chesed, is a vibrant sacred community where students and families explore Jewish values, traditions, teachings and spirituality.

Judaic studies: Last year, the pre-kindergarten through second grades piloted experiential, project-based learning. It was a rousing success engaging students through art, cooking, music, Jewish literacy and more. This year,

TIR is rolling out experiential learning to all grades. In addition, second and sixth grades are piloting the URJ Chai Curriculum – based on the three pillars of Torah (Jewish learning), Avodah (worship) and G’milut Chasadim (acts of loving kindness).

Hebrew: There are two Hebrew initiatives this year: Connecting Kids to Prayer is an experiential learning curriculum for grades 3 to 6. For grades 2 to 4, TIR is piloting blended learning with access to an online learning center filled with tools and interactive games to help parents and

Playground dedication Etz Chaim and Torah Academy dedicated their playground on Aug. 18. A ribbon-cutting ceremony was planned to thank the generous volunteers who helped build and finance the playground.

Friends noshed on great BBQ and watched the children on the newly renovated play area and outdoor classroom. The playground was renamed the Iris and Mark Kraemer Playground and the classroom was renamed the Lewis ‘Lukie’ Ansbacher Outdoor Classroom.

students practice Hebrew reading at home. Kids enjoy the games, and parents find it a great way to learn – or relearn – the language alongside their child, improving everyone’s comfort level in worship and spiritual connection during prayer.

To nurture friendship in the classroom, TIR is instituting a grade-wide period in first through eighth grades. With the express goal of having each child invite the class to his or her B’nai Mitzvah, this is valuable time for socializing, learning and exploration with the entire class. The teachers

have planned exciting projects focused on Torah, Avodah and G’milut Chasadim.

Family engagement continues to be a cornerstone of TIR. In addition to grade-wide programs, there are Third Friday Young Family Shabbat activities and

dinners with Parents Associationsponsored events. Once a month on Sunday mornings, the day begins with T’filah, the entire school and parents join in worship with our rabbis.

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Temple selected as host for URJ camps corps

By Congregation Ahavath Chesed

Congregation Ahavath Chesed was selected in the first cohort of URJ congregations to participate in an innovative national effort to strengthen the connection between the congregations and its summer camps.

“Jewish summer camp is a powerful experience for kids.

Campers live a Jewish life 24/7, making decisions on their own and with their peers. They make

friendships that last a lifetime, regardless of the geography that separates them throughout the school year,” said Rabbi Matt Cohen. “I spent five days at Camp Coleman last summer. I understand the magic of camp.

I want every child to have the experience.”

Cohen will lead Temple’s efforts with Arielle Johnson, Temple’s URJ Camp Service Corps fellow. “When I met Arielle at Camp Coleman last

summer, I was hoping she would come to Temple. Our kids will connect with her. Her spirit is infectious. Together we will be able to create camp-like experiences for our Temple kids throughout the year.”

The goals of the program are to increase engagement in Jewish life; to invest in the training and mentoring of the next generation of Jewish leaders; and to increase the number of children attending URJ camps and Israel programs.

Kehillah Chadashah builds on three pillars

By Kehillah Chadashah

Throughout the year, Kehillah Chadashah builds its worship and activities on these three pillars: Torah, service and acts of kindness – study, spirituality and community. A small congregation, we create a close and caring community that honors traditions, and respects each other and varying views. We work all year to repair the world, collecting the shards of light from within and around us.

In addition to the High Holy Day services and other holiday and festival observances, we hold Shabbat Services twice a month. One is a Kabbalat Shabbat service, incorporating a pot luck dinner and discussion.

Each month we raise awareness of the needs of our community, local and larger, and take steps to do our part to address them.

For the High Holy Days, while we enjoyed our apples and honey, we collected apples and apple

products for Apple Month and Hunger Action Month to donate to the local food pantry. October is Eat Better, Eat Together Month, during which we will have our first Kabbalat Shabbat service and dinner on Oct. 18. We will eat and pray together. Members bring healthy food products to donate to the local food pantry.

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JEWISH COMMUNITY ALLIANCE

JCA presents ‘Composing a Heart’

By Jewish Community Alliance

The JCA will hold a special 25th birthday celebration event Sunday, Oct. 6, at 3 p.m., with its presentation of “Composing a Heart,” a multimedia concert dedicated to the children of immigrants. With spoken word, taped recordings, original music and photographs, “Composing a Heart” engages audiences in a series of skillfully delivered and captivating stories about an immigrant family’s history.

Co-created by clarinetist and storyteller Bess de Farber and award-win-

JCA hosts its first member trip to Israel

Clarinetist Bess de Farber

‘Composing a Heart,’ a multimedia concert dedicated to the children of immigrants, uses spoken word, recordings, music and photographs to tell the story of one immigrant family’s journey.

ning musical theatre composer Craig Ames, the presentation celebrates the lives of de Farber’s parents with stories of their immigration to Florida from Poland and Argentina. De Farber has been featured in recital and chamber music programs throughout the country and pianist Craig Ames is a composer and musical director living in Boca Raton.

This special concert will be preceded by a short oral history performance of immigrant stories found in the Judaica Library of the George A. Smathers Libraries at the University of Florida.

“Composing a Heart” has been presented in concert at noteworthy venues around the country, includ-

ing the Levis JCC and the Caldwell Theatre in Boca Raton, the University of Florida, Jewish Museum of Florida, and Steinway Hall in New York City, as well as on National Public Radio. This event is co-sponsored by the George A. Smathers Libraries, University of Florida; Isser and Rae Price Library of Judaica, University of Florida; Center for the Arts and Public Policy, University of Florida; Center for the Humanities and the Public Sphere, University of Florida; and the Jewish Community Alliance.

This event is free and open to the community. Advance reservations are appreciated.

In April 2013 the JCA hosted its first member trip to Israel. The JCA member Israel experience gave participants 10 days to experience the tastes, sounds and sights of Israel. Led by JCA Executive Director Myron Flagler, tour members had a fabulous time while establishing lasting friendships. From left to right: Jules Sidle; Myron Flagler; Susan Sidle; Shari Robbins, tour educator; Linda Rodman; Sandy Mitten; Bob Fischer; Phyllis Fischer; Lorrain Jenkins; Paula Stewart; Laverne Cantor; and Andy Cantor.

JCA happenings Vandroff Art Gallery

The Vandroff Art Gallery will exhibit the paintings of Raymond Cohen from Oct. 4 to Oct. 30. A native of Jacksonville, Raymond studied commercial and fine arts at the Long School of Art and attended the University of Florida.

He began his professional career as art director of Cohen Brothers Department Stores and in 1970 founded the Raymond W. Cohen Advertising Agency, a leading agency in North Florida. After retiring, he is best known as a consultant, creative writer and illustrator.

JCA Film Series

The JCA Film Series continues with “A Serious Man” on Sunday, Oct. 20, at 2 p.m. Academy Award-winning directors Joel and Ethan Coen return to their comedy roots with this original and darkly humorous story about one ordinary man’s quest to become a serious man. This film is part of the series of the Jewish American influence in film, and is free and open to the community.

A night of comedy with Mad Cowford

Join us for a night of fun and laughs! Mad Cowford will be performing at the JCA. The Jacksonville-based improve theater group will perform Saturday, Oct. 12, at 8 p.m. The fee is $15 for members and $25 for nonmembers. Beer, wine and nosh will be served.

Veg out: transitioning to a plant-based diet

Join the J Institute Tuesday, Oct. 1, from 7 to 8:30 p.m. as we welcome nutritionist and holis-

tic health practitioner Dr. Jon Repole. Learn how to transition to a plant-based lifestyle that is both healthy and satisfying. This program is free for members and $5 for nonmembers. Advance registration appreciated.

fare will be served. The fee is $12 for members and $18 for nonmembers. Registration required

by Oct 7.

Food as fuel: eating to build muscle

The J Institute welcomes acupuncture and traditional Chinese medicine physician Jamie Catlett Thursday, Oct. 24, from 7 to 8:30 p.m. Jamie will shed some light on some traditional techniques and explain why they work. This program is free for members and $5 for nonmembers. Advance registration appreciated.

Join JCA personal trainer and professional body builder Eric Diggs Monday, Oct. 7, from 7 to 8:30 p.m. as he discusses the importance of proper eating to build muscle and tone the body.

The fee is $5 for members and $8 for nonmembers. Registration is required with the JCA registrar

by Oct 2.

Quick Start tennis program

Join a revolutionary tennis program that utilizes equipment tailored to age-appropriate standards so that kids can learn, rally, play and compete in a way that is fun and keeps them coming back for more. Pee-wee Quick Start is for ages 4 to 6 and is Thursdays from 3:30 p.m. to 4:15 p.m. Juniors Quick Start is for ages 7 to 10 and is Tuesdays from 4:30 to 5:30 p.m. The five-clinic fee is $60 for members and $90 for nonmembers. For more information, contact Reggie at 904-730-2100 ext. 317.

Fashion funtastic

Wardrobe consultant Gari Greenwald will share fashion dos and don’ts at the J Institute Thursday, Oct. 10, from 6 to 7:30 p.m. Gari will show you how to pull together outfits that flatter your figure and compliment your personal style. Wine and light

Using traditional Chinese medicine

Cardio tennis

Cardio tennis combines the best features of tennis with cardio exercise, delivering a full-body calorie-burning workout. The program is for ages 16 and over, and will be held Wednesdays, beginning Sept. 11, from 8 to 9 a.m.; Thursdays, beginning Sept.

12, from 7 to 8 p.m.; or Sundays, beginning Sept. 15, from 8 to 9 a.m. The four-clinic fee is $60 for members and $90 for nonmembers, and advance registration is required. For more information, contact Reggie at 904-730-2100 ext. 317.

Men and women’s tennis

The JCA offers a variety of programs for men and women’s tennis at all levels, including our men’s 3.0 – 3.5 clinic, ladies’ A, B, and C teams, and Working Women’s Tennis. For more information about the JCA’s tennis programming, please check out the JCA Fall Program Guide or contact Reggie at 904-730-2100 ext. 317.

Swim lessons at the JCA

Learn to swim or learn to swim more efficiently with the JCA. The JCA offers a wide variety of options for swimmers. The JCA Swim School was developed for participants who seek a fun and safe environment to learn the art of swimming. Children will experience a group lesson structure in small groups, building on skills and learning new techniques in a comfortable heated pool. If more personal instruction is needed, our one-on-one private instruction for children, adults and seniors will lead you closer to your individual goal. A minimum of four 30-minute lessons is required for private lessons. For more information, call 904-7302100 ext. 240.

Music in the afternoon

Regina Torres, mezzo-soprano, returns to the JCA with more Broadway and light opera for your listening pleasure Wednesday, Oct. 9, at 2 p.m. This event is free for members and $5 for nonmembers.

Circle dancing

Circle dancing is for everyone who enjoys movement and music.

All dances will be performed slowly and in a circle. We’ll be moving to slow folk-style music, and instructor Joan Coffman will lead the way. This program is fun and for everyone who loves dancing. Join us Oct. 15 at noon for a really good time with friends. The fee is $2 per session for members and $3 per session for nonmembers.

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Art a Gogh Gogh

Art maven Cindy Edelman will delve into art from the Renaissance in this three-part course where you will learn to love many things. The first session is Wednesday, Oct. 16, from noon to 1:15 p.m. and will cover the art of Leonardo, Michelangelo and Raphael. The second session is Wednesday, Oct. 30, and will cover the art of Bernini, Caravaggio and Rembrandt. The third session is Nov. 6 and will cover Velazquez, Hals, Vermeer and Rubens. The fee is a nonperishable food items for FANN (Feed a Needy Neighbor). Suggested food items include peanut butter or several cans of tuna.

AARP Driving Course

Join us Monday, Oct. 21, and Tuesday, Oct. 22, from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. for the AARP Driving Course, designed for motorists 50-plus and taught by an AARP trained-driving instructor. Attendance at this two-day course will qualify you for a discount on your insurance. Bring your smile, your driver’s license and a check made out to AARP for $12. Call Sandy at 730-2100 ext. 322 for information and reservations.

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JEWISH FAMILY & COMMUNITY SERVICES

Delving into the secret world of domestic violence

By RACHEL WEINSTEIN Dupont Counseling Group

448-1933 www.jfcsjax.org

Briefs Players by the Sea

JFCS will host a fundraiser on Thursday evening, Nov. 21, at Players by the Sea at Jacksonville Beach. The play, “The Whipping Man,” is the story of a Jewish Confederate soldier who returns to his childhood home following the Civil War. Showtime is 7:30 p.m. and tickets are $35 each, which includes a 6:15 p.m. reception prior to the play. Call (904) 394-5727 or purchase your ticket on line at ww.jfcsjax.org.

Thank you volunteers

Jewish Healing Network volunteers were treated to an appreciation dinner last month. Karen Susman, JHN program coordinator, thanked them for their caring spirit and commitment to service. JHN volunteers visit Jewish patients in the hospital, in rehab centers and in their homes, whether ill, recuperating from illness or shut-in and feeling isolated from the Jewish community.

JFCS seeks volunteers What better way to start the new year than to reach out and help others. If you would like to volunteer with the Jewish Healing Network, or in the JFCS offices, please call Karen Susman at 394-5737. We need you!

News from our Holocaust Survivor Services

As we enter into the new year with renewed hope and energy, let’s make a commitment to address a serious yet downplayed topic within our community – domestic violence.

October is National Domestic Violence Awareness month. This issue impacts many, even within the Jewish community, but it has become an avoided topic of discussion. Most of us know someone who is being abused in a relationship.

Whether it is physical, sexual, emotional or financial, abuse is abuse. And the statistics, particularly within the Jewish community, are startling.

According to Jewish Coalition Against Domestic Violence, although domestic violence within the Jewish community occurs at the same rate as within the general population, Jewish

women stay in abusive relationships two to three times longer than non-Jewish women.

For those in abusive relationships, denial becomes a form of survival, leading to greater risk to family members within the homes.

The reasons for domestic abuse vary; however, the bottom line is a need for more education, advocacy and awareness training about this issue.

Domestic violence includes many forms of abuse, and issues of power and control can be both physical and emotional.

The victims are often women who are intelligent, educated,

well-connected with support – but bear a secret of being emotionally and economically abused. Shame and fear are the primary reasons individuals often don’t seek help.

When there are children in the home, the impact is critical, and the effects can be tragic. Beyond the reaction of misdirected anger and acting out, witnessing domestic violence also deeply affects self-esteem development and a decreased ability for a child to build trust and connect positively with others.

These issues can last a lifetime. And as we all know, the older we become the more challenging it is to re-learn skills we have already been trained to use.

Dupont Counseling Group is committed to helping to eliminate possible barriers to seeking help.

We work in a variety of settings, including schools and community groups, to reach

out to those in need. We partner with other local agencies to help spread awareness and provide necessary counseling services within our community. We provide groups to the community to offer support and education in identifying signs of healthy – and unhealthy – relationships.

If you are considering counseling for yourself or recommending it to someone you know, the specially qualified and well-trained staff at Dupont Counseling Group is ready and able to help with this painful issue. In spite of the difficulties associated with this issue, education and awareness are accessible keys to breaking the cycle of abuse.

Please call our confidential intake line at (904) 394-5706 to schedule an appointment. We accept a variety of insurances and also have a sliding fee scale available to the Jewish community.

Join us for Bikkur Cholim Shabbat

By KAREN SUSMAN Jewish Healing Network

Jewish tradition teaches us that it is our responsibility as a Jew of Bikkur Cholim – to visit the sick. At Jewish Family & Community Services our volunteers and staff perform the mitzvah of visiting the sick at our area hospitals and the elderly at nursing facilities every week.

In Jacksonville and throughout our area synagogues, we will

commemorate Parashat Vayera and these individuals who visit the sick at Bikkur Cholim Shabbat, Friday evening, Oct. 18, and Saturday morning, Oct. 19.

The angels in Parashat Vayera serve as messengers, comforters, healers, providers of hope and guardians. When we step back from the Torah portion and re-

Announcing: Compass to Care

flect upon it, we are challenged to identify the “angels” who perform or have performed these roles for us at various, perhaps crucial, times in our lives.

They are not celestial beings but are made of flesh and blood, just as we are. They are the people in our lives who offer us protection, comfort, healing and hope.

They may be friends, family members, therapists, coworkers, teachers, spiritual leaders

or even strangers. They are the people who remind us to believe in ourselves or to believe in a higher power; whose presence and whose words may seem to come out of nowhere.

May our eyes be opened to the angels in our lives and may our lips be opened to acknowledge them.

Call your local synagogue for information as to when they will be observing Bikkur Cholim Shabbat.

A big thank you to ...

A Spoonful of Memories: JFCS is working with the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School to compile a “A Spoonful of Memories Holocaust Survivor Cookbook.”

If you know of any survivors who may have recipes to contribute to this new volume, please send them to: Naomi Mirensky at nmirensky@jfcsjax.org or call 394-5777.

Eat & Schmooz

Wednesday, Nov. 27, is the date of the next Eat & Schmooze gathering for Holocaust survivors and their families. The November event will be held at the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School, where we will meet for a tasting of some of the recipes from the Cookbook.

Naomi Mirensky, left, meets with staff and residents at Augustine Landing to discuss plans for their first discussion program.

By JFCS

CALL2GO

To request a ride to Shabbat morning services, call our transportation line. Rides are free.

We also offer rides to medical appointments, to stores, and for other needs, at a reduced fee.

Serving our COMMUNITY for nearly

100 YEARS and ensuring that...

Do you wish you had a compass to point you in the right direction when seeking help for a loved one who is aging?

JFCS is kicking off a new outreach effort in two local senior residential facilities. Participants will join a monthly discussion group, facilitated by a JFCS social

worker. They will also have an opportunity to ask questions on how to navigate the often complex system of healthcare, understand different levels of supportive care and know where to go for community resources in the Jacksonville senior community. For more information, please contact Naomi Mirensky at 904-3945777 or Shelly Kulchin at 904-394-5723.

Marty and Mimi Kaufman are two of the many volunteers who raise awareness about hunger and lead High Holiday food drives in our community.

By Jewish Family & Community Services

• Edith Horowitz and the students of the MJGDS for bringing honey cakes to our Jewish Service clients.

• The Jacksonville Jewish Center’s Social Action Committee, Rhoda Goldstein, chair; and Operation Isaiah co-leaders Martin and Mimi Kaufman for collecting hundreds of pounds of nonperishable foods for the JFCS

Countdown to our 100th Birthday:

3 years and 8 months

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Winn-Dixie Emergency Food Pantry during the High Holidays.

• Congregation Ahavath Chesed; and JAFTY with Tommy Rosen, JAFTY president; and Emily Jackson, JAFTY social action VP; for helping to lead efforts for their High Holiday food drive.

• Beth El the Beaches Synagogue for collecting food for the Food Pantry during the High Holidays.

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Jacksonville Jewish News • October 2013

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JEWISH COMMUNITY FOUNDATION OF NORTHEAST FLORIDA The act of creating a legacy empowers you to complete the work of your heart and to enjoy the peace that it brings. By leaving a legacy, you will ensure that the traditions and institutions that mean so much to you in your lifetime will exist for future generations. Hear what others are saying:

“We are delighted to be a part of CJL. We feel that our gift and the gifts of many others will have a lasting impact on the future of the Northeast Florida Jewish Community.”

“From generation to generation … It’s important for us to continue to meet the needs of the Jewish community now, and to secure its future for those generations that will follow us.”

“Through the Create a Jewish Legacy program, our Jewish Community Foundation encourages us to remember Jewish agencies and synagogues in our wills and estate plans. Secure the financial future of the Jewish community and ensure that the generations to follow us will enjoy what we have today … a warm, vibrant Jewish community where we worship and congregate.”

“I remember the exact moment I went from being a casual contributor to a committed volunteer,” Judy recalled. “It was the day I learned the Joint Distribution Committee lacked sufficient resources to help Jews who had fled the civil war in Lebanon. I knew we had to help them … that it was our responsibility.”

Judy and Steve feel it is important to create Jewish legacies that will support the Jewish community in the future.

“It has been wonderful to share our lives’ passion with our children and grandchildren,” Steve remarked. “They understand our

commitment to the Jewish world.

Through our commitment to CJL, we have inspired our children to do things for the Jewish people in their own communities and in the state of Israel,” he continued.

“Our children don’t live in Jacksonville,” Judy explained.

“As passionate as we are about supporting local causes, it would be painful to think that when we passed away there would be a hit to the Federation campaign.

Endowing my Lion of Judah pin is a way of making sure our local community is provided for.”

Steve added, “I think the most meaningful event that occurred in Jacksonville was when we started the Foundation with the

“My hopes and dreams for the community are just what every Jewish mother wants: that it should remain strong; ... that we provide for one another.”

Faces of CJL: Jewish Federation of Jacksonville

By Jewish Community Foundation

For decades, Judy and Steve Silverman have worked tirelessly on behalf of Israel and Jewish communities, here and abroad.

Steve’s parents (of blessed memory) were devoted solicitors for their Federation, and their passion for Israel and the Jewish people became his own. Steve remembers, “During Israel’s 1973 war, I realized we could lose the state of Israel. From that point forward, I have dedicated myself to working on behalf of the Jewish community and Israel.”

commitment from all of the organizations. I think it made a difference to other communities within Florida and the Southeast to see that a small community could be cohesive. The strength of our agencies is built upon how we work together, how we are intertwined. Each is integral to the other. If we are going to be healthy as a community, we are going to be healthy together.”

“Many people don’t prepare themselves,” Steve observed.

“They say, ‘I’ll put it off until tomorrow.’ I hope our friends who have not created a Jewish legacy will think about how important it is to plan for this today and not wait until tomorrow.”

Steve and Judy Silverman

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By PAULETTE KEIFER and LESLIE KIRKWOOD Jewish Community Foundation

When asked why his family chose to establish a Donor Advised Fund at the Jewish Community Foundation and how they feel about the service, Andy Cantor replied, “To me, using a Foundation DAF is convenient, and it streamlined our philanthropy. In the past, we wrote checks to several organizations to make charitable gifts. At tax time, I had to find the acknowledgements or go back to each charity for a letter.”

Andy continued, “Now we write one check or make a gift of stock to the Foundation, and their professionals handle all the recordkeeping. We receive one letter acknowledging our gift – not a dozen letters from the charities we give to. When it is convenient, we decide which charities to support. Then we complete a simple request form that is available online, and the

Andy Cantor Foundation writes the checks.

They keep all the records, send all the checks, and even advise the charities to direct letters of thanks to us. At the end of each quarter, we get a statement showing the amount distributed and the current fund balance.”

“There are tax advantages, too,” Andy added. “When we donate highly appreciated stock directly to the Foundation, we increase the advantages. We take

a charitable deduction for the full fair market value of the gift on the day the stock is donated, and we don’t pay capital gains tax.”

“You have to be comfortable with the organization to which you entrust your dollars,” Andy remarked. “As a financial professional and Foundation Board and Investment Oversight Committee member, I am close enough to the Foundation to feel confident with their efficiency, expertise and professionalism. I’m impressed that DAF assets are managed, invested and overseen by the same committee that handles major funds for our Jewish agencies and synagogues.”

“For a minimum of just $5,000, you can start a DAF and simplify your philanthropy,” Andy concluded.

To explore whether a DAF is right for you, please contact the Jewish Community Foundation of Northeast Florida at (904) 3940720. We can help you with your charitable gift planning needs.

This information is not intended, nor may it be relied upon, as legal, tax-planning or other pro-

fessional advice. Always consult your professional adviser before making any financial decisions.

Welcome New Board Members!!

Four outstanding individuals recently joined the Foundation Board of Directors: Iris Kraemer

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Get to know them through featured articles in upcoming JJN issues.

We extend heartfelt thanks and gratitude to outgoing board members Scot Ackerman and David Robbins for their dedication and valuable contributions to the work of the Foundation.

To create your Personalized Legacy Agreement including which causes will be your beneficiaries, contact the Foundation. Then, use the following language in your will and to change a beneficiary designation on other assets such as IRAs or life Insurance: “I give and bequeath to the Jewish Community Foundation of Northeast FL Inc., its successors and or assigns X %, (whatever % or dollar amount that is comfortable for you) of my residual estate or/asset.” Contact the Foundation with additional questions. The Jewish Community Foundation of Northeast Florida, Inc., does not provide legal or tax advice. This information is not intended, nor may it be relied upon, as legal, accounting or other professional advice.

Before making any financial decisions, always consult your own professional adviser.

JEWISH COMMUNITY FOUNDATION OF NORTHEAST FLORIDA 2013 FEDERATION ALLOCATION: $88,422

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LIFECYCLES/BUSINESS Birth

Dafna and Douglas Rand (along with big sister Maya Rose) announce the birth of a son, Jonah Lev, on June 20, 2013, in Washington, D.C. Grandparents are Robin and Marco Rand of Jacksonville, and Esther Rosenman-Hochman and Richard Hochman of Lexington, Mass.

B’nai Mitzvah

Casey Danielle Balotin, daughter of Scott and Ellen Balotin, will be called to the Torah on the occasion of her Bat Mitzvah on Oct. 19, 2013, at the Jacksonville Jewish Center.

Sharing in the simcha will be her brother Parker; grandmother Isabel Balotin; and many other friends and family. Casey is in seventh grade at Martin J. Gottlieb Day School.

Engagement

Bob and Janis Fleet are pleased to announce the engagement of their son, Jared, to Marni Jacob, daughter of Karen and the late Mark Jacob of Delray Beach.

Jared is the grandson of Zelda King of Orlando, and Edwin and Phyllis Fleet of Tallahassee.

Jared graduated from the University of Florida with a bachelor’s and a master’s degree and works at Levy Marketing + Awards as a Marketing Consultant in Tampa.

Marni graduated from the University of Florida with a bachelor’s degree and received her Ph.D. from the University of Georgia. She is employed in the Department of Pediatrics at the University of South Florida as a clinical psychologist. A wedding is planned for March 2014 in Boca Raton.

20, 2013 in New York City. She is survived by her daughter Janie Sang. Other family members include Roslyn’s son Michael Fielman; and her grandchildren Jonathan Sang, Evan Fielman, and Joshua Fielman. … to the family of Matthew Howard who died Aug. 16, 2013, in South Florida. He is survived by his brother Michael (Marcia) Howard; nephews Ari, Benjamin, and niece Shoshana Howard; and other family members. Contributions may be directed to the Miriam Greenbaum Fund.

Sympathy … to the family of Paul David Becker who died Sept. 3, 2013.

He is survived by wife Sally Sue Becker; brother Eli Becker; children Russell Radcliffe (April), Rodney Radcliffe (Kristin), Wynne Radcliffe, and Kaeden Radcliffe; grandchildren Lauren Wemple (Lucas); and Kyle Radcliffe; and his nieces and nephew.

Contributions may be made to Dreams Come True or Community Hospice of Northeast Florida. … to the family of Roslyn Fielman Cohen who died July

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COMMUNITY/SYNAGOGUE NEWS

Theories receive stamp of approval

By RABBI MERRILL SHAPIRO Jewish Historical Society

“That’s a bunch of baloney” was the expected response to the theories proposed by the St. Augustine Jewish Historical Society when they were published in Journal of Spanish, Portuguese and Italian Crypto Jews. “Instead,” says society President Rabbi Merrill Shapiro, “we received accolades from across the country.

Even some Israeli academics are interested in our work!”

The journal is a publication of the Society for Crypto-Judaic Studies in collaboration with Florida International University.

Its editor, FIU Professor of Sociology Abraham Lavender, has been especially helpful and supportive of the work of the St. Augustine

Jewish Historical Society. The journal is peer- reviewed, and an academic editorial board must determine if articles are suitable for publication and meet rigorous standards of credibility and research.

The article, “The Search for the Echoes of Conversos in St. Augustine,” proposes five theories of the colonial First Coast. The first theory deals with the undocumented passengers taken aboard the galleon of Pedro Menendez de Aviles, the leader of the efforts to establish a Spanish presence in Florida. The second theory deals with the apparent delay of the landing in Florida until after Yom Kippur, 1565. The third theory proposes that the name of the Catholic mission established in St. Augustine, Nombre de Dios, re-

fers to the ritual of the high priest on Yom Kippur, who pronounced, in the Holy of Holies, the Nombre de Dios, the Name of God. A fourth theory responds to what seems to be Jewish family names among the early settlers; while the fifth and final theory responds to the discovery of Native American remains buried facing east, a peculiarly Jewish tradition.

Members and researchers working with the historical society await more responses and are eager to learn from theory supporters and critics alike. Most surprising is the frequency of responses asking the question, “Why has no one thought of this before?”

Information about the journal and how to obtain copies is available at http://www.cryptojewsjournal.org/

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SYNAGOGUE NEWS

Temple offers a taste of Teshuvah

By RABBI JOSHUA LIEF Congregation Ahavath Chesed

While we likely think of apples and honey or round challah loaves as symbolic foods for the Jewish New Year, our ancestors who compiled the Talmud were not Ashkenazic Jews from Eastern Europe. In the Babylonian Talmud, in tractate Keritot, the sage Abaye teaches that on Rosh Hashanah, those seeking good fortune should eat gourds, leeks, fenugreek and dates.

Gourds, in Aramaic, are “k’ra,” similar to the word for “call,” that our good deeds should be “called out” before God. Leeks are “karsi,” similar to the word “karet,” “to be cut off,” from the Jewish people, which is the punishment for not observing the fast on Yom Kippur. By

eating them, we show God on Rosh Hashanah that we plan to observe Yom Kippur, as well.

The herb fenugreek is “rubiya,” similar to the word for “multiply,” that our blessings might be multiplied in the year ahead.

Lastly, in addition to being sweet like honey, dates are “tamri,” related in Aramaic to the word for “finished,” that there should be an end to our sufferings (or an end to those who make us suffer, depending on whom you ask).

The dish honors a Moroccan tradition of a seven ingredient couscous for Rosh Hashanah, itself the start of Tishri, the seventh month of the calendar.

The roundness of the chickpeas symbolizes the circle of the year.

The lamb symbolizes the story of the binding of Isaac, which happens to be the scriptural portion for the holiday, just as we blow the shofar on Rosh Hashanah because Abraham lifted his eyes and saw the ram, caught in the thicket by its horns. Additionally, from that same Akedah story, the blessing Abraham receives from God is that his descendants would be, “as numerous as … the sands on the shore of the sea,” (Genesis 22:17), represented here by the grains of the couscous itself.

To see the recipe, go to http:// www.thetemplejacksonville.org/ wfmenucpanel/worship/highholy-days/taste-of-teshuvah

Rabbi Fred Raskind installed

By CAROL GLADSTONE Temple Bet Yam

Rabbi Fred Raskind will be installed as the new spiritual leader of Temple Bet Yam in St. Augustine on Sunday, Oct. 13, at 3 p.m. The congregation invites the public to join them for the ceremony and reception.

Raskind moved to St. Augustine in August and conducted his first service on Aug. 23. Before coming to Temple Bet Yam, he served as rabbi of Congregation B’nai Abraham in Hagerstown, Md., for 10 years. Within that

community he was active in the Interfaith Coalition, Hagerstown Area Religious Council and TORCH club. Raskind graduated from Boston University and then attended Columbia University where he studied philosophy and comparative religion. He also took coursework at three divinity schools: Boston University, Union Theological Seminary (NYC) and Lutheran Theological Southern Seminary. He was ordained at Hebrew Union College, N.Y., and later served on pulpits in South Carolina, Georgia, Alabama and Florida. Raskind also served for two years as part-time Jewish chaplain at the VA facility in Martinsburg, W.Va. The installation ceremony will be conducted by Rabbi Stephen H. Pinsky, rabbi emeritus of Temple Beth Torah in Wellington.

Prior to his installation at Temple Beth Torah in 1996, Pinsky served as the regional director of the Midwest Council of the Union for Reform Judaism. He earned his bachelor’s from Franklin and Marshall College and his Master of Arts in Hebrew letters from Hebrew Union College. He was ordained in 1971. He served congregations in New York, New Jersey, Minnesota and Florida.

In 1996 Pinsky was awarded the Doctor of Divinity (honoris causa) from Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion celebrating his 25th anniversary of rabbinic service.

Temple Bet Yam is a Reform congregation, located at 2055 Wildwood Drive in St. Augustine.

For more information, call 8191875 or visit the Temple’s website at www.templebetyam.org.

Temple and River Garden partner to share light

By GOLDIE LANSKY

Congregation Ahavath Chesed

Serendipity: A Temple chandelier is shattered. River Garden renovates The Coves dining room.

Result: The residents at The Coves enjoy their new chandelier, and Temple has light.

One morning several months ago, I arrived at Temple and found one chandelier in the Block Social Hall in pieces all over the floor.

Luckily, it had fallen during the night so no one was injured. Since we had matching chandeliers, we spent many weeks, without success, trying to find a match for the remaining fixtures which had been purchased decades ago. The only remaining solution was to remove the fixtures and look for new ones.

Many longtime Temple members are now residents at The Coves. They shared their excitement about the renovations planned. Jack Coleman, a past president of Temple began asking, “What is the future of the dining room chandelier?” Marty Goetz, CEO at River Garden and a Temple member, made one phone call to Temple and the gift was made.

This is just one short chapter in a long book, still being written, about the relationship between The Temple and River Garden.

Our congregants are among their residents. Some of their volunteers are our congregants. Some of their staff members are Temple members. We are inextricably bound together – and that is a bright light in our community.

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Temple Bet Yam holds brunch

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On Oct. 24 Temple Bet Yam will hold its annual Brunch and Card Party at Panama Hattie’s at St. Augustine Beach. The event will start at 10 a.m. with mimosas and a continental breakfast.

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FEDERATION NEWS

Partnership helps teen find her roots

By LEVANA OSHER Israel Partnership

I recently participated in the Israel Partnership Exchange Program through the Jewish Federation of Jacksonville. I spent two weeks in Israel. I had a three-day break and then welcomed the teens from Israel to Jacksonville. I believe this program is great and amazing, and builds strong connections between us and the Israelis. While in Israel, I became very close to my host teen Nitzan, along with the other five Israeli girls. We spent two weeks travelling around Israel.

This trip allowed me to experience so much of Israel in such a short time and still have time to make new connections and new friends.

I really love this partnership program, and it does a great thing by helping the teens involved learn more about ourselves. I learned that I can get along with teenagers and become friends because we share a common heritage. It not only lets you see another culture and country and experience it, it also allows you to make lifelong connections with teens and their families from so far away. This exchange has allowed me to do so many things that I never thought I could.

We went sightseeing and volunteered our time, as well. My favorite part was when we spent two days in the desert. We slept in a Bedouin tent and did activities like baking pita bread and stargazing. I really enjoyed every free moment I got to spend quality time with the group.

While I was in Israel, I was able to make connections with Israeli teens that I have never met before and also find out more about my family roots. The visit to Mt. Herzl was especially important to me as I was able to visit the memorial for my great-grandfather (Rachamim Mirsky z”l) who was killed in 1948 defending Jerusalem.

The entire group was able to learn about my family history as I put a candle and stone at his memorial.

Nitzan Garten, left, While the Israeli teens and Levana Osher were in Jacksonville, I became at Tel Aviv port even closer with them in my

Jewish Java moves to Village Inn

By ISABEL BALOTIN Shalom Jacksonville

Nitzan Garten, Levana Osher and Vered Waks kayak on the Jordan River.

Gabi Cohen, Rachel Harriff, Emily Cohen and Levana Osher visit the Kotel in Jerusalem. hometown. I enjoyed sharing my home and showing off my school to my guest, Nitzan. I taught her about our Jewish culture and practices here in Jacksonville. We shared our favorite foods together and did a little shopping, too. My favorite time with the group was spending time with the Israeli teens when they were at Camp KiTov. The campers loved the projects, games and falafel the group made. This trip and this whole month were amazing and I really loved it.

“If you or anyone you know is interested in traveling to Israel with the Israel Partnership Teen Exchange Program, please contact Jill Abel and the Jewish Federation of Jacksonville at jilla@jewishjacksonville.org or 448-5000 ext. 200.”

Our October Java will be held at the Village Inn, 10140 San Jose Blvd. We are looking forward to greeting you there.

All newcomers and friends are invited to our Jewish Java on Wednesday, Oct. 2, 9-10:30 a.m. This coffee and schmoozing program is the perfect place to meet new friends, a neighbor or old friends and, at the same time, find out the latest happenings in the community. Enjoy a Dutch-treat breakfast and free coffee and tea and pie with purchase. Reserve the first Wednesday of every month for Shalom Jacksonville’s Jewish Java. Next Java is Nov. 6. For more information, please contact, Isabel Balotin, 448-5000 x 206 or shalomjax@jewishjacksonville.org.

Shalom Jacksonville is the official Jewish welcome wagon of Northeast Florida and is a program of the Jewish Federation of Jacksonville.

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Newlyweds Andy and Nicole Brown graciously opened their new home for the annual Mix ‘N’ Mingle Break-the-Fast following Yom Kippur. The local tradition, which dates back several years, welcomes those new to the community or unaffiliated to break-the-fast with a pot luck dinner. The group also hosts a Passover Seder in the spring.

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