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BRITAIN’S BIGGEST JEWISH NEWSPAPER 17 September 2020
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28 Ellul 5780
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Issue No.1176
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Three years of making matches Jewish matchmaking service We Go Together is celebrating three years of helping singles in the Jewish community. Set up by Lady Daniela Pears on Rosh Hashanah 2017, the free personalised introductory service has since found many matches for people of all backgrounds and denominations within the British Jewish community. Since lockdown began, demand for We Go Together’s services has grown even stronger – with face time dates and socially distanced walks in the park allowing people new ways of dating with more meaning and less pressure. Open to anyone in the Jewish community between 28 and 80, We Go Together matches people based on their energy, aura, lifestyle, values, interests and Jewish practice. Daniela – who is passionate about charity work and has been heavily involved with Mitzvah Day and JAMI – had a very personal reason for setting up this service. She said: “The inspiration comes from my mother who had been on her own for 30 years, after my father tragically passed away when I was 12. It is very sad to see wonderful people with so much life to enjoy but no one to share it with. “I realised that there are so many charities for our Jewish community but there was a definite gap to help people, who choose not to be alone, to find happiness in long term partnerships.
“Now heading into our fourth year, together with my wonderful committee, we work closely across all UK Jewish denominations to ensure that any Jewish person can use our free service.” What sets We Go Together apart from dating apps and websites is that Daniela and her team really get to know their clients. Roberta said, “in the early years, my friends did introduce me to single men but the only thing we had in common was that we were single.” After registering people are invited to an informal interview, now over Zoom or FaceTime, to discuss their values, interests and what they are looking for in a future partner. With many people never having articulated this before – they find the experience and encouragement of the We Go Together team invaluable, as is the chance to talk again after a date. Daniela added: “Dates are still the best way to get to know if a couple will click. Even when they don’t go as
well as we or our clients had hoped, it still affords us the opportunity to get important feedback, which in turn helps us finesse our matching for both parties. “And when the date does go well and the chemistry is there… you know you’re on your way to a great Jewish match!” If you or someone you know is looking to find their perfect Jewish partner, please sign up at www.wegotogether.net/contact-us
The We Go Together Committee would like to wish all their current and future clients a wonderful and promising new year!
Lady Daniela Pears (right) with her mother, Roberta Benscher (left), the inspiration for We Go Together