The Observer Vol. 89 No. 12 – December 2024

Jewish OBSERVER

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Welcomes Back Mark Freedman

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Vanderbilt Chabad Opens New Building to Usher in a New Era

By BARBARA DAB

Rabbi Shlomo Rothstein and Rebbetzin

he Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville extends a warm “welcome back!” to Mark Freedman who will be the organization’s Interim CEO. Mark was the Federation’s executive director for seven years before his retirement in 2018. His permanent home is in Parkland, Florida, but he will be spending plenty of time in Nashville in the coming months. Among Freedman’s duties will be to play a key role in the search for a new permanent CEO. Federation President Aron Karabel says it is exciting to have Freedman back in the community. “With decades of experience in the Jewish Federation system, unique ability to build community, and deep relationships in and around Nashville, I know he will be an asset over these next few months to help us exceed our annual campaign goal, support and mentor our incredible professional staff, and find our next CEO.”

Freedman is happy to be back in Nashville and to continue to serve the Jewish community. “The Jewish Federation has always been, and will continue to be, the lead agency convening Jews of all backgrounds to express their commitment to Jewish values and Jewish life. The Jewish Federation is the catalyst that serves to reinforce and strengthen all of K’lal Yisrael. We should be very proud of all that we

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Nechama Rothstein began their tenure at Vanderbilt Chabad 17 years ago. Just in their early 20s when they arrived, they have grown from what Nechama says was a “big sister, big brother” relationship with the students into what they now say is a living example of Jewish family life. “We provide a full vision of vibrant Jewish life,” says Nechama.

Through the years, the two have dreamed of having a space big enough to meet the needs of the Jewish student community, and a place where they could raise their family. That dream is now a reality. The Lubeck Center for Jewish Life opened its doors this fall. The building, just a couple of blocks from the main campus, is the realization of an $8.3 million capital campaign. It rises three stories tall and includes public spaces for the students to congregate for meals, prayer services, and social events. The top floor is reserved for private living space for the Rothstein family.

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whose son Tommy graduated Vanderbilt in 2018. “While he was there, he not only got a wonderful education, but he

also met Rabbi Shlomo and Nechama and he shared with me how special he [Rabbi Shlomo] was, and how encouraging he was, and what a great teacher he was and what a great family they were,” says Lubeck, “I met them and I was likewise, duly impressed.”

Rabbi Shlomo calls the new facility a game changer in its ability to more seamlessly meet the students’ needs. “We recently had a student who died by suicide, and I was able to respond quickly and help comfort our students,” he says. In addition, Nechama says the building’s proximity to campus makes itvery accessible for college students who can drop by during their day to hang out, to study, or have a Shabbat meal.

One of those students is Sarina Samuels, a senior and president of the Chabad board. She says it has been exciting to see the building become a reality since its groundbreaking during her freshman year. “To really see the physical embodiment of the growth of Chabad, and also the fact that I was

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The Lori Ann Fishel Fund: Spreading Joy and Opportunity for Individuals with Disabilities

By BARBARA DAB

During her short life Lori Ann Fishel overcame many challenges, yet she never lost her love for living life to the fullest and doing it with joy. She was fortunate to have access to opportunities that provided her access and acceptance the community. And now, thanks to the Lori Ann Fishel Special Needs Fund, and the vision of Lori Ann’s family, others can have the same opportunities. The Fund was created to serve the needs of Jewish individuals with disabilities with an emphasis on activities that Lori Ann enjoyed. Lori Ann’s father James says, “Our initial plan was to take applications from individuals in the community that

had similar needs as Lori, our daughter, did, and the idea was to put a smile on her face even though she isn’t here.”

The fund has expanded to include gifts to organizations and individuals both inside and outside the Jewish community. One of those organizations is Our Place Nashville, a nonprofit that provides affordable housing for people with developmental disabilities. It is the type of place the Fishels looked for but never found locally for their daughter. “A place like this for Lori would have been an opportunity for not to have to leave Nashville. These people are doing just a wonderful job for a part of the community that doesn’t have that much opportunity.”

Our Place currently has 110 residents, or “friends,” living with able residents in interdependent communities. Between 2020 and 2022, Lori Ann Fishel fund gifts totaled $20 thousand. Carolyn Naifeh is the co-Founder and Executive Director of Our Place. In fact, she co-founded the nonprofit with the late Avi Poster, a beloved fixture in the Jewish community and a former board chairman. She says, “We were the first non-Jewish nonprofit that the Fishels gave money to, and that was a real compliment because it wasn’t their norm. And every time you step out of your comfort zone, that’s a badge of honor.” Naifeh says the Fishels gift was tai-

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Nechama and Rabbi Shlomo Rothstein of Vanderbilt Chabad enjoy the new live/ work building.

Campaign Update

By JASON SPARKS

As we come into the home stretch for the 2024 Annual Campaign, I wanted to take a moment to give an update on how we are doing.

November was a great month for us and in the first half of the month, we ended up closing over $200k in pledges and gifts in less than two weeks! The goal is in sight and the exciting part is that with the generosity and help of our community, it looks like we will not only hit our goal, but we will also surpass it! Our board is hard at work reaching out to our donors, as are our lay leaders, and the entire team of JFed Nashville is coordinating to engage in financial resource development.

Even though we changed our campaign year to match the calendar (JanDec) a few years ago, we frequently find that members of our community didn’t get the memo. That means that

December is our last chance to close out our 2024 Annual Campaign. No pressure or anything! The good news is that the majority of our donors make their gifts in the month of December, so we’ve got that going for us, which is nice.

Another tool in our arsenal that we haven’t deployed until recently is Corporate Gift Matching. Most of our donors don’t realize that their employers will gladly match their gifts to Jewish Federation. Organizations like Alliance Bernstein, HCA, Nissan, and many more offer this benefit to encourage the generosity of their employees. That means that your gift of $900 could become $1800 and make you a member of our Pomegranate Society. Or $2500 would double to $5000 and qualify you as a major donor! For more details just visit our website at jewishnashville.org/matching-gifts.

One thing I have discovered since I started here earlier this year is that over the past several years, while Jewish

Federation of Greater Nashville has been doing some incredible work for the community, we just have not done a good job of reaching out to our donors. Some of that comes from all of the chaos from the COVID era, and some of it is that for decades, JFed Nashville worked like a Swiss watch, there were amazing seasoned lay leaders that had been a part of the solicitation process, and at some point, we lost the thread and failed to engage them. When I have spoken to some donors who stopped giving to us in previous years, I am finding out that the reason they stopped wasn’t that they didn’t support Jewish Nashville; it’s simply that we didn’t reach out to them. Nobody asked.

When we launch the 2025 campaign, we will be much more organized. We will return to the good ol’ days of using pledge cards, while at the same time leveraging all of the technology that we have at hand. We will also be using our incredible Communications team – they really

Community Relations Committee

By DEBORAH OLESHANSKY

During our Jewish Federation Women’s Philanthropy program on Sunday, November 17, guest speaker Eve Barlow was asked about her thoughts on how to best combat antisemitism. In her answer she echoed what several other guest speakers, including author Dara Horn, have recommended to us at prior programs. Antisemitism is as old as Jewish tradition and has been something we and our ancestors have faced over the entirety of our peoplehood. Our best approach to address the challenge is to stay committed to building and strengthening Jewish community, take care of each other, celebrate our Jewish holidays with joy, and stand loud and proud in our culture, traditions and way of life.

Jewish Community Night with the Predators is one such example of the ways Federation partners to provide opportunities to celebrate and promote Jewish life. Building on the success of this event last year, we will again celebrate our heritage at the Predators

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lored to the mission of the Lori Ann Fishel fund. “They asked that the money support programming, and that’s when I got a feeling for who Lori Ann was, and the things that made her happy was what they wanted us to focus on.”

Our Place friends include members of the Jewish community. Kathy Urbach and her husband Bruce Holzman have waited over two years for a spot for their son AJ, who has Autism. “As you can imagine, we searched the entire country for the best fit for AJ. We wish for him, what I think most parents wish, a full, happy, purposeful life with the opportunity to be exactly who he is, which includes having a strong Jewish identity. Our Place has been nothing but accepting, respectful, and compassionate towards AJ as an individual with a dis-

are doing some incredible work. It’s also supremely important that we aren’t just reaching out to folks to ask for money; we need to continue our stewardship of our donors. Our fundraising process has to match the excellence of our charitable work, and the great news is that we have a plan and are getting there fast. So, personally, I would like to thank our community for its amazing generosity, both financially and with time. I’ve lived here for 20 years now, both of my children were born here, and while I was already proud of this very special community, I will say that over the last year I have learned to love Jewish Nashville even more than I already did. I am constantly overwhelmed by the philanthropic capacity of our community and the passion of my co-workers here at Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville. We are all very blessed and with your help, we can continue to grow, thrive, and keep our home safe. •

Loud and Proud Judaism

game on December 10. Last year, the game was during the week of Chanukah. This year the game is before the actual holiday, but we won’t let that stop us from an early celebration with brisket sliders and potato latkes. To attend the Chanukah themed party before the game, you will need a ticket to enter the arena. To purchase tickets and rsvp for the party: https://www.jewishnashville.org/ federation-calendar

Organizing opportunities for all of us to come together in celebration and support is the work that we do every day at the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville. The Federation serves to build and secure Jewish community and care for those in need with dignity, for

ability and a Jewish person.”

Of course, the Lori Ann Fishel fund’s main goal is providing support for Jewish people to participate in the activities and programs that help them live full lives. Through the years grants helped children be able to attend Camp Davis with the addition of an inclusion counselor, assisted congregants at Sherith Israel to hear during services using special hearing loops, and funded a student support specialist at Akiva School. And that remains the priority. According to Jason Sparks, chief development officer of the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville, funds like these also help to grow and sustain the Jewish community. “Because of the generosity of our donors like the Fishels, our Jewish Foundation can grant amazing opportunities to individuals and enrich organizations all over our community. For decades, the Jewish Foundation has grown as our collective philanthropy becomes

Jews in Nashville, Israel and around the world. We convene the Jewish community to address issues of mutual concern, and since much of antisemitism stems from ignorance, JCRC is also the vehicle through which we reach out to the greater community to introduce and educate about Jewish life, traditions, and practices.

In addition to providing this education, JCRC also advocates on behalf of the Jewish community. Here was some of our work in November:

• Participated in Hate Crimes Working Group, convened by Sen. Mark Pody to propose state level legislation to address antisemitism and other hate crimes in our state.

• Continued our ongoing relationship and cooperation with Nashville Metro Council. As was detailed in the November Observer, four bills aimed at curbing hate groups from promoting their vicious agenda in our city were recently passed by the council. Many of these bills came from conversation and meetings

stronger; ensuring that previous generations will continue to support and direct our community for generations to come.”

Urbach’s son is about to begin a new chapter of his life at Our Place, thanks to the Lori Ann Fishel fund. She says she and her husband are planning to move to Nashville along with AJ and hope to become active in the Jewish community.

“Our Place’s former Board Chairman, Avi Poster, of blessed memory, was a dedicated and wonderful advocate for all people

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Karabel says he is looking forward to working with Freedman again. “Though our community has significantly changed

between Jewish Federation, JCRC and local leaders.

• JCRC represented the Jewish Federation at a Vanderbilt University program with Dan Senor, author of Start Up Nation and The Genius of Israel.

• Worked with parents and families experiencing antisemitic incidents at both public and private schools. This is an ongoing effort and JCRC continues to connect with families and schools to provide training, resources and support. To submit a report of antisemitic incident: https://www.jewishnashville.org/ antisemitismreport If you are reading this and already have already pledged your support for the work of the Jewish Federation and JCRC, thank you. If you have not had a chance to do so, please consider making a pledge to the 2024 Annual Campaign before the end of December. Visit jewishnashville.org or contact FRD Director, Jason Sparks, jason@ jewishnashville.org •

with disabilities but had a special heart for Jewish people. And generous donors, like the Fishels, allow for Our Place to operate, grow, and serve more families. We are excited for AJ’s future, and we all look forward to becoming part of Nashville’s thriving Jewish community.”

To learn more about the Lori Ann Fishel Special Needs fund, visit https:// www.jewishnashville.org/fishelgrant or contact Becky Gunn at becky@ jewishnashville.org . •

and grown since Mark was last here, I’m confident that he will successfully expand the Federation’s reach through engagement and outreach.”

You will hear more from Mark in the coming weeks but if you would like to connect with him, his email address is: markfreedman51@gmail.com, and his cell phone number is 210-410-1415. •

Editor’s Note…

Note from Emma

By EMMA CANTER

At Kiddush at West End Synagogue

a few months ago, I introduced myself to someone, who, in true Shabbat buffet line fashion, asked me my name (Emma), where I went to school (Brandeis University – no, I don’t know so and so’s niece), and what I do for work (Communications at the Jewish Federation with Barbara Dab – yes, she is an absolute gem). After a year and a half in Nashville and at the Federation, I’ve had this conversation countless times in countless buffet lines. I’ve learned how to navigate the flow, graciously respond to praise or criticism of the Federation, and of course promote The Jewish Observer.

On this day, in this buffet line, I fear I terribly offended my conversation partner – thoughtlessly, when discussing the Observer, I jokingly said that as a copy editor, I’m probably the only person who reads every single word of the newspaper. I was promptly put in my place. No, I was informed, I read every word of that paper every month. I laughed off the comment, but I should have said Thank you, or What did you think of Barbara’s story on the Transit Referendum, or do you want to volunteer as a proofreader. So now, to my buffet line friend who reads every word of the Observer, I say thank you for your support, and thank you for continuing to prove that The Observer matters.

In reflecting on this interaction, I realize how dedicated The Observer’s readership is. This year, as we celebrate its 90th anniversary, I’ve had the

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Letter to the editor

Iappreciated hearing the perspectives of Joanne Bregman et al. in their letter to the editor from October, but I want to point out that the assumptions that were made about what fuels terrorist activity and how to stop it are not rooted in research. Military strategies may disable terrorist organizations temporarily, but the ideologies behind the organizations cannot be eliminated through bombs or military means.1 Only the multifaceted and complex work of addressing the roots of a long-standing conflict will produce a lasting and sustainable peace into the future.2

This task is anything but simple, but it is of course worth it. And the longer that we let these brutal attacks continue on all sides, the harder the work towards a resolution becomes. Let’s demand a ceasefire and begin that work now. We can strive for a more peaceful future for all in the Middle East, while simultaneously giving Israel a better chance to achieve true security for its own citizens and for Jews around the world.

In the opinion piece I wrote in the September issue, I never drew a moral equivalency between Hamas and the Israeli government, but I do believe that

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the loss of each innocent life is a dire tragedy, no matter if they are Arab or Jewish. I hope we can agree that we need to do everything in our power to protect innocent life, and especially to protect young children, no matter who they are. The strategy that Israel continues to carry out and escalate in Gaza, and now in Lebanon as well, is not just devastating to the communities that have been targeted (and will be for generations to come), but it is also immoral according to Jewish teachings and it is counter-productive to building a truly safe and secure Jewish state. •

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1Stepanova, E. (2003). Anti-terrorism and Peace-building During and After Conflict. Stockholm International Peace Research Institute. https://www.sipri.org/ sites/default/files/files/PP/SIPRIPP02.pdf

2Call, C. T., & Cook, S. E. (2003). Introduction: Postconflict Peacebuilding and Democratization. Global Governance: A Review of Multilateralism and International Organizations, 9(2), 135-139. https://doi. org/10.1163/19426720-00902002

Jewish Values, War, and the Need for Honest Dialogue

By STEVE VENICK

Iapplaud Ms. Simon for the bravery she displayed in her September 2024 Op-Ed. She is the first person in these pages to express the deep concern that many feel about the way in which Israel has been conducting the war in Gaza in response to the brutal October 7th Hamas terrorist attacks. The atmosphere of heavy silence in the Jewish community and the fact that many are afraid to share what they think about the wars in Gaza and Lebanon should be troubling to all of us, especially given the importance of respectful debate and disagreement to the Jewish identity.

Unfortunately, the rebuttal Letter to the Editor in the October edition entirely missed Ms. Simon’s main point: that there are those who object to the way Israel has been waging war in Gaza and Lebanon not in spite of our Jewish values, but because of them. She cited core Jewish values such as tikkun olam (our duty to repair the world), pikuach nefesh (the commandment to save a life), and Rabbi Hillel’s summary of the Torah as “That which is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbors.” I would add b’tzelem Elohim (that all people are created in the image of God) to the list. With these Jewish values in mind, I join Ms. Simon when she says: “I do not believe that the war Israel has waged in Gaza is an accurate reflection of who we are, or our values as Jewish people.”

So I ask the authors: Did they not discuss Jewish values in their rebuttal because the values referenced above are not pertinent during times of war? While I can certainly understand prioritizing self-defense and survival when attacked,

if the above are truly core Jewish values, then shouldn’t they still guide our actions in some way? Or perhaps there are competing Jewish values that take precedence during war that the rebuttal authors could point me towards? These are not rhetorical questions, and in the spirit of machloket – a commitment to having difficult but productive discussions – I would encourage our Jewish community, institutions, and leaders to create opportunities for these difficult discussions to happen.

Furthermore, the rebuttal letter’s accusation of “moral equivalence” is a straw man argument. Ms. Simon condemned Hamas’ terrorist attack strongly and never implied moral equivalence. Insisting that Israel can and should be doing much, much more to prevent the death and suffering of innocent Palestinians is in no way the same thing as saying that Israel is morally equivalent to Hamas. For example, one can condemn Hamas for, in the words of the rebuttal letter, “seeking refuge in children’s bedrooms, schools, and hospitals,” and at the same time insist that Israel should not be bombing children’s bedrooms, schools, and hospitals, even if they are targeting Hamas. And to preempt a likely critique: I’m spending more time criticizing Israel’s war tactics than condemning Hamas because I already agree with the rebuttal authors that Hamas is a brutal terrorist organization. With that common understanding, we can spend our time on what we don’t agree on: how many innocent civilian deaths we are willing to allow before we say “enough.” Moral arguments aside, if the

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Leadership 615 Cohort 2: Shaping the Next Generation of Jewish Leaders in Nashville

By MICHAL BECKER AND EMMA CANTER

On October 27, we had the opening reception for Cohort 2 of Leadership 615. The fellows had the opportunity to build connections and engage in small group discussions centered around com munity and Jewish identity.

On November 3, we had our first session with Janet Aronson, the Associate Director of the Cohen Center at Brandeis University. We discuss the issue of belonging to a Jewish communi ty, and what a diverse community means. Where our community ‘tent’ starts and when it ends. Then we went over stats of the American Jewish Community and looked on different engagement and affiliation trends.

“Being a part of this incredible group of future leaders is a real honor. I’ve been involved with West End Synagogue for a couple of years, but I’ve never really given much thought to the Federation or its mission. This program has allowed me to zoom out in ways I never have before, thinking inter-congregationally and finding ways that Nashville’s Jewish community can move forward together,” said participant Alex Krew.

This year we are incorporating more reading materials and holding practice groups between sessions. This allows us to expand the conversation and dive even deeper into questions of Jewish identity, leadership, and our Nashville community.

Mark Goldfarb, the program’s generous sponsor, shared his motivations and hopes: “Although I moved to Park City, Utah, 5 years ago, I still feel very strong connections to Nashville. I raised my kids in Nashville and my daughter, son-in-law and their twin daughters now live there. Before I left, I was aware of an apparent gap between the prior generations who nurtured our growing Jewish community and the younger generations who seemed not as motivated, committed or involved. I was hoping to create a program that would engage and hopefully inspire younger Jewish Nashvillians. I was thrilled with the enthusiastic feedback from the first cohort and appreciated all their suggestions to enhance the second year of the program. Their advice — and, more importantly, their future

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leadership in our community — will prove invaluable.”

We have an excellent group that is motivated, engaged, and willing to

commit time and effort to go through this process with us. We are grateful to have these current and future leaders in our community. •

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Continued from page 3 purpose of Hamas’ strategy of operating in civilian areas is to provoke a “higher number of Palestinian deaths” in order “to make Israel look bad” as the rebuttal letter states, then shouldn’t Israel be doing much, much more to not fall into that trap? Hamas’ military capabilities are indeed significantly degraded, but who can deny that on a political and ideological level, Hamas’ terrible strategy appears to be working exactly as intended. The overwhelming sympathy and support for Israel in the aftermath of October 7th is entirely gone, and it is more isolated on the world stage than ever before. With this in mind, advocating for a ceasefire is not naïve: it is strategic.

Finally, is the way Israel is waging the war actually making it safer in the long run? Does anyone truly believe that the level of destruction being inflicted in Gaza is going to lead to less extremism and less terrorism in the long run? Even if Hamas is destroyed in the short-term, it is likely that something just as bad, or perhaps even worse, will take its

place. Sadly, we have seen this before. The Israeli invasion of Lebanon in 1982 forced the PLO out and created a “security buffer” in the short-term, but paved the way for Hezbollah’s rise in the long-term. And now forty years later, Israel is invading Lebanon again. No one is arguing for “appeasement” of “violence and terrorism,” but what history actually shows is that Israel’s long-standing policy of disproportionate military response in the name of deterrence almost always backfires in the long-run.

What can we do? First, in the name of the Jewish values of tikkun olam, pikuach nefesh, and b’tzelem Elohim, it is past time for American Jews to speak out for a ceasefire as the best way to bring home the remaining 101 hostages and stop the ongoing killing on innocent Palestinian civilians. Given the level of American military aid for Israel, American Jewish voices could truly make a difference. And second, it is time for our local Jewish community, institutions, and leaders to break down the walls of silence and start making space, in the spirit of machloket, for discussion about the wars in Gaza and Lebanon, and Israeli policy moving forward. •

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Eve Barlow on Resilience and Jewish Identity at Women’s Philanthropy Event

By BARBARA DAB

Last month, approximately 170 people attended the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville’s Women’s Philanthropy event featuring activist and influencer Eve Barlow. The moderator was Rebecca Kaduru, and questions ranged from Barlow’s background growing up in Glasgow, Scotland, to her post-October 7th trip to Israel where she visited the devastated areas. She also spoke about antisemitism, Zionism, and how women can find hope by standing strong in their Jewish identity and continuing to live as loud and proud Jews. •

Shlicha Corner

Introducing Krav Maga

By ZIV SHEMESH, COMMUNITY SHLICHA

Krav Maga is more than just a martial art; it’s a way of life. Developed in the 1950s for the Israeli Defense Forces, this unique Israeli system has become one of the most effective and widely practiced combat methods worldwide. Today, it serves as a cornerstone for security forces, police, and militaries worldwide. Beyond its effectiveness in combat, Krav Maga offers tools that impact every aspect of life—physical, mental, and emotional.

The beauty of Krav Maga lies in its practicality. Rooted in natural body instincts, it empowers practitioners to transform instinctive reactions into strategic advantages during high-stakes scenarios. It emphasizes the importance of remaining calm, thinking quickly, and acting decisively, even under intense pressure.

As a combat Physical Training Officer in the army, Krav Maga became a significant part of my professional and personal journey. In one of my roles as the Training Officer for the Armored Corps, I participated in an advanced Krav Maga course led by the Head of the IDF Krav Maga Section. I was the only woman in a room full of combat soldiers. As I often told my soldiers, “You don’t choose your attacker.” So, in life, we do not choose the challenges we face.

Two key lessons stood out to me during the course:

1. Overcoming challenges and facing opponents stronger than me: Strength is not merely physical; it encompasses strategy, determination, and resilience.

2. Learning to take a hit: How I respond to being struck is as important as how I deliver a strike. Am I approaching the fight with the limiting belief that my opponent is stronger than me, and will this affect my performance before the exercise even begins? The fear of the unexpected can paralyze me, or I can choose to trust myself.

One of the most essential lessons in Krav Maga is learning how to take a hit— not just physically, but also mentally and emotionally. In the military, we teach that if you find yourself in face-to-face combat, something has gone wrong. There

was an opportunity missed to foresee or neutralize the threat before it escalated. However, when you do find yourself faceto-face with danger, especially when it catches you by surprise, the first blow is often inevitable. In these moments, the real challenge lies not in avoiding the hit but in how you respond to it.

This is where the three F’s—fight, flight, or freeze—become crucial: fight to regain control, flight to escape the threat, or freeze under the weight of fear.

Every encounter in Krav Maga presents a set of problems that demand immediate solutions: how to handle a stronger opponent, respond to unexpected techniques, or neutralize a threat quickly. Through training, you learn to identify challenges, analyze them, and act effectively. This lifechanging lesson transcends the mat. It builds confidence, not through the avoidance of conflict, but through the understanding that no matter what life throws at you, you have the strength to fight back. It becomes a mindset you carry into every aspect of life—from work to relationships to daily interactions.

Research shows that over 90% of our communication is non-verbal— through movement, expression, and body language. Krav Maga sharpens your awareness of these subtle cues. In the military, we’ve analyzed post-attack debriefs and found that soldiers who carried themselves with confidence— standing tall and focused—were far less likely to be targeted. On the other hand, poor posture, exhaustion, or lack of concentration often invites threats. Krav Maga teaches not only how to defend yourself but also how to project strength and awareness, using your body language to deter potential aggression.

Krav Maga isn’t just a method of self-defense—it’s a journey of selfdiscovery, confidence-building, and personal growth. It connects you to your inner strength, sharpens your mind, and prepares you to face life’s challenges with confidence and resilience.

I invite you to attend a six-session Krav Maga workshop at the JCC in January. You’ll learn the principles of Krav Maga and uncover the power within you.

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Heart of the Matter

By NANCY DORMAN

Ijoined the team at Jewish Family Service this fall after a 35-year career as a civil servant with the state of Tennessee. During that time, I had several great jobs but primarily worked as a manager for Tennessee State Parks recruiting and training young people for summer employment in the parks. It was great fun and leaving was hard, but I had other things that I wanted to do.

I wanted to work for an organization that made a difference in the world and in the lives of individuals. I wanted to work at a place where my skills were valued and would be put to good use. I wanted to work with people who truly care about others and about making the world a better place. But most of all, I wanted to make connections with individuals. And I bet you already know the next part. Jewish Family Service has not been a disappointment.

The overall Helping Hands program is actually made up of several different programs. On my first day, I attended and participated in one of them…the Golden Lunch Bunch at the Temple. Much to my surprise, there were 3 people attending the lunch that I already knew so I already had a little bit of a head start as the new girl. The other neat thing that first day was meeting Bill Sleeter, the musical entertainment. A few years back when my mom was still living, she lived at the Maybelle Carter Senior Living in Madison and Bill was a regular entertainer there. He puts on a great show. Anyway, I really enjoy the Golden Lunch Bunch. Not only is it a great group of people who attend but the volunteers who do all the behind-the-scenes work are terrific as well. And as with so many of the Helping Hands programs, it would not happen without the help of volunteers.

The next program I was introduced to was the Helping Hands Art program, also known as OMA or Opening Minds through Art. JFS hosted an art exhibit in the gallery outside our office at the JCC and I was able to see first hand how this program works. Helping Hands through Art is a program for people living with dementia. The program facilitator, Eileen Wallach, works on a one-on-one basis for the creation of art and no art experience is needed. I also attended one of the sessions in person and could see how the experience really gives participants a feeling of accomplishment.

Another cool thing that volunteers in the Helping Hands program do is provide Shabbat services at senior living facilities for people who are unable to travel to their synagogue for services. The Helping Hands program provides the wine, challah and all the other supplies necessary for a Shabbat service. This program is a great opportunity for individuals, families or social groups to have a one time or ongoing experience with Jewish seniors. At the facilities I visited, I have been so impressed by the stories these seniors have to tell. I really feel like my life has been enriched by these conversations.

Finally, I would be remiss to not mention my wonderful new co-workers. The staff at JFS are truly remarkable. Every single person on this small but mighty team is committed to helping others.

Sometimes, the world can feel overwhelming, but there is so much power in community. Working together, we lift one another up, create lasting change, and keep moving forward together. If you would be interested in learning more about the Helping Hands program either to volunteer or as a participant, don’t hesitate to reach out and let me know. •

Nancy Dorman is the Helping Hands Coordinator at Jewish Family Service and can be reached at helpinghands@jfsnashville. org or (615) 354-1686

Vanderbilt Chabad

Continued from page 1 going to Shabbat dinners with 20 people and now I’m going to Shabbat dinners with a couple hundred on average.”

Samuels says another important feature of the new building is that it allows for spontaneity in programming. “The space is solely ours. So from an administrative perspective it’s super helpful. If we want to have an event, we don’t have to worry about booking anything or talking to the university.”

Flexibility and responsiveness are all part of Chabad’s overall approach, according to Nechama. “My role is to connect people to Judaism, to each

other, to leadership roles. And we help affirm Jewish pride at a time when it is needed,” she says. She adds that the new space comes at a moment when students are looking for a safe haven. “Having the space is comforting already.”

Rabbi Shlomo says that comfort extends to the university administration. “People don’t realize how much adults and leaders on campus make a difference,” he says, “The administration is very supportive, and Vanderbilt is a warm, comfortable place to be Jewish.” He adds that Chabad is committed to being a safe place where students can express themselves and learn how to get along with differing views, and says he regularly fields calls from families

looking to Vanderbilt for their students.

Lubeck agrees and says it is Vanderbilt’s campus culture that inspired him to participate in Chabad. “With Vanderbilt’s strong Jewish population and with an amazing rabbi and rebbetzin, and with what I felt was very important balance and appropriate support for the Jewish community from the Vanderbilt administration that this was a place we wanted to invest.”

Lubeck says despite the obstacles and delays during construction he is pleased with the outcome. “We’re thrilled to see how not just the Chabad community but the Jewish community at Vanderbilt has responded to the new building and how much use it’s getting

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and how many more people are attending all the events.” Samuels agrees. “It’s been beautiful to see when I first started being on the board, we talked about doing Shabbat 500. We were very concerned that we wouldn’t hit 500 people, it would be embarrassing, should we even try. And we had over 500 people for Rosh Hashanah.

To date, the campaign is looking to finish the capital campaign with a final push for $1.8 million to reach its goal. “It is hard work, although we make it look easy,” says Shlomo. Still despite all the travel, the construction mess, and the fundraising, Nechama says, “Anyone can make a building, but the overall Chabad approach is where the magic is.” •

A Week in the Life of Vanderbilt Hillel

By SHANNON SMALL

Vanderbilt Hillel had an incredible October. One specific week of October illustrates all Vanderbilt Hillel has to offer Jewish students at Vanderbilt University.

During the third week of October, Vanderbilt Hillel students connected with our local Jewish community. Fourteen students visited five families for the “Sunday Night Family Dinner” program. Thank you to Avi and Rachel Spielman, Erin Coleman, Jason and Abby Sparks, Daniel and Dalia Cohen, and Sean and Keri Ross for hosting the students in their homes. In addition, the Nashville Council of Jewish WomenNashville Chapter (NCJW) joined students for “Shabbat for a Cause” where they spoke to students about their plans for voting and enjoyed Shabbat services and dinner.

In addition to connecting with our local supporters, Vanderbilt Hillel students engaged in two Tikkun Olam projects. First, students baked challot and sold the loaves on campus as part of Challah 4 Hunger, a national program addressing food insecurity. This program is supported by the National Council of Jewish Women-Nashville Chapter. The proceeds will be donated to the Nashville Food Project to address food insecurity. This year, students have sold over 400 loaves and raised over $2,000. In addition to challah baking, Vanderbilt Hillel’s Tikkun Olam Makers (TOM) had their Make-a-thon Weekend. TOM is a national organization that encourages students from a variety of disciplines to unite to create and engineer solutions for individuals with disabilities. The event was held the weekend of October 25th at the Wondr’y in their Maker’s Space. Charlotte Castle summarizes in a Hustler article, “The event involved 12 teams of “Makers,” members of the club, creating accessible and open-source solutions for “Need Knowers,” people with disabilities or other unmet needs. The event culminated in a showcase on Sunday where each team finished its prototype and presented its work.” For additional information about this event, the Hustler article can be found at this link: https://vanderbilthustler. com/2024/10/29/tikkun-olam-makershosts-seventh-annual-makeathon/ Alongside their community service efforts and connecting with local supporters, students can take part in education programs focused on the Holocaust. Vanderbilt Hillel co-sponsors with Vanderbilt University The Holocaust Lecture Series (HLS). Ari Dubin, Vanderbilt Hillel Executive Director, co-chairs this series. HLS hosted an event in remembrance of the Holocaust featuring a performance of Symphony of the Holocaust by Shony Alex Braun, a film screening, and Q+A. Composed entirely of students from the Blair School of Music,

the symphony was led by Maestra Noreen Green, Conductor of the Los Angeles Jewish Symphony, and Adam Millstein, violin soloist and Program Director of the Ziering-Conlon Initiative for Recovered Voices. Following the performance, Dinah Griffin, the daughter of Shony featured in the film, joined Maestra Green and Mr. Millstein in a panel discussion.

For those students who enjoy Vanderbilt Hillel’s social programs, we hosted our annual Sukkot Fall Fest. The booths included Israeli candy and a color by number Israeli flag activity, Challah 4 Hunger bake sale, fun card games with prizes, a Simchat Torah service/program, pumpkin decorating, and filling out Sukkot cards to send to the students’ families. Acapella and dance groups from Vanderbilt University performed, and the food included Matzah ball soup and a pasta bar.

When students aren’t attending programs, they are planning for them. Each week, several student committees meet to plan for future programming weeks at Hillel. These committees include: Member and Programming who plan social programs, the Jewish Life Committee that organizes Shabbat and Holiday programming, ‘Dores for Israel-our Israel Advocacy group that provides educational opportunities for students, Gift of Life for students who want to plan mega drives to swab people to find bone marrow and stem cell matches for people with cancer, and First Year Engagement who focus on engaging our first year students.

For questions about Vanderbilt Hillel, reach out to Shannon Small, Development Director, at Shannon. small@vanderbilt.edu •

Sunday Night Dinner. Pictured Dalia Cohen and Ilana Drake at the Sunday Night Dinner program. PHOTO CREDIT: DANIEL COHEN

NCJW Shabbat with Vanderbilt Hillel. Pictured: Left to Right: Harriet Workman, Stephanie Kirschner, Jennifer Goldstein Hoffman, and Jordana Loeb at the NCJW-Nashville Chapter and Vanderbilt Hillel Shabbat for a Cause. PHOTO CREDIT: SHANNON SMALL

Challah 4 Hunger: Pictured Vanderbilt Hillel Students making challot for Challah 4 Hunger program. PHOTO CREDIT: SHANNON SMALL

Vanderbilt students at the Maker’s Space in the Wondr’y. PHOTO CREDIT: MALKA DESALE

Sukkot Fall Fest. Vanderbilt Hillel students in the Sukkah for Sukkot Fall Fest.

PHOTO CREDIT: RACHEL PACERNIK

A Rabbi and a Doctor Discuss a Perfect Child

By RABBI MARK SCHIFTAN AND DR. FRANK BOEHM

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rank: During my fifty years of practice, I participated in the care of thousands of pregnant women and have attempted to answer the many questions that each patient invariably wants answered. While these questions are often specific to each patient’s pregnancy, one common question usually surfaces at some point in our discussion, ‘’Is my baby, okay?’’ Because it is so difficult for me to define ‘’Okay’’ this question has always been a tough one for me to answer.

At the heart of this question lies a pregnant patient’s desire to know if her unborn child will be perfect (normal and healthy), a very reasonable concern. Once again, however, defining perfect is not an easy task.

Most pregnant women do not realize that approximately 2% of the four million births each year in this country involve the delivery of a child with a significant congenital defect. That translates to one out of fifty births! These birth defects include hundreds of diverse types of anomalies such as spina bifida, heart abnormalities, limb deformities, metabolic disorders, and chromosomal abnormalities such as Down syndrome.

When you consider that each of us begins with the union of sperm and egg, which creates one cell and this one cell continuously divides to create the trillions of cells that result in a living child, it is truly a miracle that any of us are born, much less that we are born perfect. It is with this in mind that I explain to patients that each birth is a miracle

and that the uniqueness of each of us is what makes us perfect. I also try to explain that normal is in the eye of the beholder. The gift of life can be ‘’perfect’’ even in the presence of serious problems.

Mark, I am sure that you have dealt with families whose child was born with problems and needed guidance in how to deal with such a situation. How have you dealt with these families?

Mark: Frank, you have introduced the most sensitive religious topic I can imagine: The worth of each new life, the value of every new soul. Who decides whether that newborn child, or fetus, is “perfect”— or “perfect enough” — to guarantee both their spiritual sustainability, as well as physical viability, to fully welcome their birth as nothing short of a miraculous event in our lives?

Some faiths believe that the decisions whether to choose to bring such a child into the world is not ours to make, that God alone makes that decision. The wisdom offered by these faiths is that “God knows us — each of us, individually, before we are even born.” As such, each child is of immeasurable worth, each child is created through God’s plan and agency, and as such, we are commanded to welcome that child and to nurture them towards maturity, no questions asked, no matter what. It presents every prospective parent with an often heart wrenching decision.

Judaism offers a distinctly different view: That the fetus is to be viewed as a potential human life, but not a viable, independently functional human being, until the majority of the infant has appeared from the mother’s womb. Only

then is it viewed as a complete and viable living being.

The distinction here is critical, because it affords each set of parents the ability to be partners with God in making the painful decisions should their potential child be somehow “not okay,” and therefore “less than perfect.” The decision as to whether to bring that child into the world, or not, is one left up to those parents to make. That being said, the choice, in my experience, is never easy: it is among the most brutal, most difficult decision we will ever have to make. Who decides the worth of each life and the value of each soul? How do we reach that determination with a peaceful heart and a comforted conscience? Our Jewish faith can offer such a path of options to make such a decision easier to make, and certainly easier to bear its consequences.

Frank, your reflections on all of this?

Frank: To let you know my reflections on what you have just written, I must get personal. My son Tommy and his wife Lisa were expecting twins in 2003— a girl and a boy. I vividly remember the excitement as my wife Julie, and I waited during the delivery and cried with joy as we each held a child in our arms in the recovery room. Marly and Seth were perfect. What dreams and expectations we held for these two precious bundles of joy!

Several hours later, however, we were confronted with the fact that Seth carried a diagnosis of Down syndrome while his sister Marly did not. Our family was filled with emotions, from the high that came with the birth of the twins to a low at learning of Seth’s disability and

knowing that he would be different with possible life-long problems.

Later that evening, holding Seth in my arms and gazing into his angelic face, I was overcome with an instant and unconditional love for my grandson. As the tears rolled down my cheek, I understood that despite his diagnosis, to me and those who love him, Seth is a perfect child, to be loved and nurtured, the same as his sister Marly. Our dreams and expectations for him may now be different from those for his sister, yet they are dreams and expectations, nonetheless.

To me, Seth was perfect. His smile lights up a room and his laughter brought warmth to all who held him. He loved to cuddle and gaze into the eyes of those who held him, and he embraced his sister with what can only be described as pure affection and love.

Seth is one of many children who are born with birth defects and complications, yet, like so many others, Seth has embarked on a journey we call life. That life will be filled with challenges for him and his family, yet that is also true of each of us as we embrace life with its ups and downs.

As we enter a world in which more genetic information is available for us to consider in defining who is a perfect child, I hope we have room in our world and hearts for those like Seth who are challenged and different, because challenged and different can still be perfect. •

Rabbi Mark Schiftan can be reached at mschiftan@aol.com

Dr. Frank Boehm can be reached at frank.boehm@vumc.org

Get Ready for Hanukkah at the Gordon JCC

By RACHEL CLARK

If you can believe it, Hanukkah is right around the corner and the Gordon JCC is excited to announce that our Hanukkah Store is officially open, and that Hanukkah Fest will take place on December 15!

The Hanukkah Store is filled with candles, gelt, gifts, and more! Stop by the lobby and stock up on all the things you need to celebrate the Festival of Lights. Payments for Hanukkah Store items can be made at the JCC Front Desk. Hanukkah Fest will take place on December 15 from 3-6pm at the J. Come join the fun for kids’ games,

crafts, entertainment, and of course, food! No Hanukkah Fest would be complete without Bernie’s Famous Latkes, and a full meal will be served as well. This year, we are excited to add two new pieces to our event: Mr. Steve, who will play two kids music shows in the library, starting at 4pm, and our Hanukkah Bazaar. Vendors will line the hallway outside the auditorium selling everything from candles to tea towels, and gifts of all types! Hanukkah Fest at the Gordon JCC is a tradition filled with joy, excitement, and fun, and we hope to see you there!

Tickets and more info can be found at nashvillejcc.org/hanukkahfest. •

Winter Break Camp at Camp Davis Clubhouse

By MAX O’DELL, ASSISTANT DIRECTOR OF CAMP DAVIS AND CHILDREN’S SERVICES

Do your kids want to reconnect with some friends and staff from Camp Davis during their winter break? Send them to the J for Winter Break Camp at Camp Davis Clubhouse. We will have Camp Davis Staff returning and some

awesome activities including gym, arts and crafts, swimming, and many more. We have two weeks available, the week of December 23rd and the week of December 30th. The Tuesday of both weeks we close at 3pm, no aftercare. There will be no camp on either Wednesday due to the holidays. Packages are available. Please email Max at max@nashvillejcc.org if you have any questions. •

Building Bridges: Metro Council Member Sheri Weiner’s Reflections on Cultural Exchange and Community Bonds in Japan

By BARBARA DAB

This fall, Metro Council Member

Sheri Weiner (District 22) was one of 29 people, including Mayor Freddie O’Connell and council members Terry Vo (District 17), Tonya Hancock (District 9), and Zulfat Suara (Metro Council At-Large). The trip was part of the Sisters Cities of Nashville (SCN), a chapter of Sister Cities International, based in Washington, DC. The volunteer organization aims to create connections and shared experiences between Nashvillians and friends around the world.

Weiner shares some reflections about the trip in the interview below.

1. Talk a little about the overall goals of the trip and some key takeaways that resonate with you.

Our first takeaway was immediately apparent: the Japanese are filled with respect for others, for their community and their natural resources. For example, we did not see a single public trash can nor was there any trash (as in not one bit) on any public street in any of the communities we visited. We drank a lot of tea – as sharing a cup is considered a sign of hospitality. Their crime rate is negligible.

These examples are just the tip of the iceberg of the overwhelming feeling of calm we experienced while visiting there. There are differences beyond language to include their focus on the good of the whole (community), workplace loyalty (people tend to stay with their company for a long time), and relationship structure. Personal space - in the US we shake hands and/or hug while in Japan they bow and have a very respectful way of exchanging business cards. They emphasize a blending of traditional and contemporary as they are very tied to their history and ancestry.

We visited and met with four of the staff at the United States Embassy, enjoyed tea and learned Zen Buddhist meditation with the Chief Abbott, toured Temples and Shrines, enjoyed their waterfront scenery that surrounds them, met with the Kamakura Mayor and several Council members celebrating our decade’s long relationship.

2. What was your experience visiting the synagogue and Jewish community?

When I travel abroad, I always check out the Jewish community and visit a synagogue whenever I can. This visit was like going home. Alison, my daughter, and I were greeted by Rabbi Andrew Scheer who many of our Jewish Nashvillians may remember from when he served here as an intern at Sherith Israel. He, his wife and two children welcomed us (they are adorable) as did several members of the congregation. Of course, we played a robust game of Jewish geography, and I was amazed by the number of Middle Tennessee connections there were.

There was primarily a Western influence in the faces of the attendees, and a diverse make up of services that morning which, I understand, is typical. Interestingly, Rabbi Scheer surprised me with the request to give the sermon that morning. It was actually an easy ask in that I was able to share with the “what” I’m sharing with you now (as our visit was at the end of our trip) and fielding questions about the tenor of our upcoming elections.

3. Is the Jewish community there experiencing antisemitism and if so, how is it manifesting?

Let me preface this by sharing I spent a lot of time with Benjamin Boas, born and raised in Westport, CT who, at a very young age, became enamored with Japan. A Fulbright scholar, he is an expert on Japanese culture, fluent in the language, a member of the Jewish Congregation of Japan, and was instrumental in planning and executing (with former councilmember and President of Sister Cities Mina Johnson) a flawless and robust experience there. He, Alison and I spent a lot of time together and have formed a bond with him, his wife Mika and their children. In fact, they are

planning to visit Nashville in 2025. He shared that most Japanese know nothing about Judaism or the Jewish community there. He won’t say there is zero antisemitism, but he rarely sees or hears of it. That said, their congregation is equipped with cameras, a secure entry system out of an abundance of caution.

4. What impacted you the most about your visit to the Jewish community?

There are two Chabads (that we did not get to visit) and the Jewish Congregation of Japan (JCJ) serving as the cultural centers for the Japanese in Tokyo. We were also in Yokohama and Kamakura and, like so many of the other cities in Japan, there was no Jewish community center or syna-

gogues. Benjamin and his family live in Kamakura and travel to Tokyo to participate at JCJ. Interestingly, roughly 25% of their membership attended services that morning (without a family of life celebration).

5. How has the Jewish community reacted to October 7th and the yearlong conflict? Are there hostages from the community?

While there are no hostages from the community, he did share that public opinion is very much against Israel in terms of the Gaza conflict and, increasingly, towards Israel in general. He recently saw a news program that compared the wall separating Gaza from Israel to a wall at Auschwitz. •

PHOTO CREDIT FOR ALL PHOTOS: SHERI WEINER

Kehilla High School to Offer New Fellowships to Nashville Jewish Students

By ROMY CLORFENE

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ehilla High School and the Board of the Jewish Upper Schools of Nashville are excited to announce the launch of the Hineini and Beresheet Fellowships, aimed at empowering Jewish teens in Nashville. These fellowships offer students not only an exceptional education but also the chance to gain mentorship from prominent leaders in the Jewish community. Through this initiative, Kehilla seeks to cultivate the next generation of Jewish leaders, equipping them with the skills and experiences necessary to shape the future of Nashville’s Jewish community.

The two Fellowships come at a time of renewed focus on Jewish resilience and community building. “With Israel so much on our minds in the last year, I can’t help but think about the original state builders,” shares Kehilla’s Head of School, Sarah Roth. “In order to create a nation that could rescue its citizens from violence, highly educated Jews in 1894 and 1944 had to move to a new land and build economic and political independence—not only by their hands but also by their presence, and by calling others to join them. This is exactly what Nashville Jewish schools need to thrive. Israel needed its founding families, and so do we.” The fellowships reflect this need, honoring students and families who are actively contributing to Nashville’s Jewish future.

The Sandy Averbuch Hineini Fellowship is awarded to students who have demonstrated diverse talents and leadership potential within the Jewish community, showing promise in areas such as academics, social engagement, spirituality, and more. Like the early leaders of Israel, who evolved from rebels to statespeople as their new nation required, Hineini Fellows are prepared to apply their skills in various areas to support Jewish life. The Sol Stern and Rose Stern Bereishit Fellowship honors a student and family that have demonstrated ongoing commitment to the development of the Jewish community and of robust Jewish education in Nashville. Like the original pioneers who worked to build the State of Israel, Beresheet Fellows show willingness to turn beliefs into action, even when it requires hard and sustained work and even some personal sacrifices. Both fellowships will be funded by donors from the local Jewish community who share a commitment to the expansion of Jewish educational options in middle Tennessee.

Eligible students must have attended Akiva and JMS, another Jewish day school, or JMS for the duration of their family’s time in Nashville. Additionally, they should have maintained a strong academic record throughout middle school, regularly participated in a Jewish organization in Nashville, and developed a meaningful personal connection to Jewish people, texts, practices, beliefs, or traditions. Roth says, “My educational philosophy is centered on helping adolescents find and develop their strengths through meaningful, self-guided learning that they can see makes a difference in their communities. Through the new fellowships, I hope the chosen recipients can see themselves

almost as pioneers who have the power to positively impact the Jewish people.”

To achieve this goal, selected students will work with the Head of Kehilla as well as community mentors to design and carry out a project that facilitates teens’ participation in community life and their engagement with Jewish education and practice.

“One of the things I keep hearing as Nashville grows and as Jewish Nashville grows with it is the desire for a robust Jewish education throughout their children’s pre-college schooling -- but many don’t know that it exists now,” says Roth. “We know that both old Nashville families and those new to the area love Akiva and often ask one

another what is needed to keep their kids in a similarly warm, progressive, and rigorous Jewish school beyond 6th grade.” However, Roth shares good news, “We are already building it.”

The Jewish Middle School of Nashville (JMS) has been thriving for 10 years and its success led to the founding of Kehilla High School in 2022.

In offering these fellowships, Kehilla High School is not only recognizing the dedication of Nashville’s Jewish community but also investing in its future. Roth acknowledges, “Often, students and families that care deeply about their Judaism and participation in a Jewish community are also those that care deeply about education, learning, and

living up to one’s academic potential. It is no surprise that such families might initially hesitate before committing to a new school.” The Beresheet and Hineni Fellowships are designed to reward those who are willing to be first-generation builders of a learning “nation.” These fellowships use a framework of Jewish learning and values to ensure that students excel not only as college applicants but also as mensches, ready to live up to their Jewish and leadership potential. •

Romy Clorfene is a Vanderbilt student majoring in Human and Organizational Development with a minor in Business, and a past regional secretary for BBYO.

Cheers to 45 years!

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By LORETTA SAFF

An important way to find your road to happily ever after is to ask yourself, ‘What am I passionate about?’

Making a list of what brings you happiness (including some things you used to really enjoy) will help point you in the right direction for the future.

That said, my column for the month of December showcases one of my answers: DECEMBER means CHANUKAH and Chanukah means…LATKES.

And I’m passionate about the joy latkes bring me. Here’s why:

We all know the tale that the Chanukah story tells

“The Jews beat the Syrians – but ugh! The Temple smells!”

They had to rebuild and worked hard to repair -

But when finished, only light for one day was found there.

The Jews lit what they had, turning it over to fate.

Then – a miracle happened – the oil burned for eight!

So, while outside sleigh bells ring, and we hear “Ho! Ho! Ho!”

We Jews light our eight candles for a December glow!

And because Jews are not wasteful and seeing oil’s clout

“Let’s fry potato latkes,” they said with a shout!

On fry pan, on oil, on potatoes and grater, Let’s hear latkes sizzle – no waiting for later!”

Most years I make them classic, for me that’s a rule.

Family hangs around the kitchen to taste while they cool!

Sometimes I’ll use sweet potatoes to surprise the crowd.

They grab from the platters, and I laugh out loud!

So why do I tell of this family fun,

This tradition that I share with everyone.

Because my road to happy is paved with that disc

A round latke brings smiles – the feedback is brisk.

Of course, there’s more on my happiness list,

But because it’s December, this shouldn’t be missed.

I’ll make them for family, for guests, or a school.

It makes me so happy – their hugs are my fuel!

And so, get started – write what brings smiles and laughter.

Make a list of your passions for your happily ever after!!

You’ll see the road clearly; your GPS won’t fail.

And you’ll prove that it’s not ‘just a fairy tale’!

Now it’s your turn. Be honest! •

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Adina Barocas to Receive WES Volunteer Award on December 7

By JUDITH SAKS

West End Synagogue will be honoring Adina Barocas with this year’s Social Action Volunteer Award. The honor is given to a synagogue member who has volunteered in the broader Nashville community.

The presentation will be made during Social Action Shabbat at 9:30 a.m. on Saturday, December 7. All are welcome to the service and special kiddush luncheon.

Adina Barocas to receive this year’s Social Action Volunteer award at West End Synagogue.

Adina has served as the overall chair of the WES Room in the Inn Monday night winter shelter for the last three years. She has been responsible for arrangements with the Room in the Inn program, preparations for each week such as getting the beds (mattresses) ready, washing blankets from the week before (a job split with two others), putting up appropriate signage, shopping for and making lunches and getting breakfasts set up, as well as on Mondays often being the person in charge until the overnight volunteer arrived.

What motivates her? “I get such a

feeling of pride and accomplishment by giving these men a warm and safe place to sleep along with food and clothing,” she said. She sits and talks with the men and learns “so much about life, their circumstances and their difficulties. I am blessed with everything I have now, and want to give back,” Adina added. “I can’t imagine the situation they are in.”

She herself, along with son Sam, has served as an overnight volunteer. During last January’s big snowfall, even though she was out of town, Adina coordinated with the downtown Room in the Inn program and with transportation, enabling WES to take on an extra night of shelter that week. And with the bitter cold continuing, she volunteered to take on yet another extra shelter night the following week for which she and Sam provided the food and served as the overnight volunteers. The volunteer award includes a $1,000 donation to the awardee’s choice of charity. Adina has chosen to split the donation between Abe’s Garden and Room in the Inn. •

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Camp Davis Summer 2025 Registration coming soon!

By ANDREW FISHMAN, DIRECTOR OF CAMP DAVIS AND CHILDREN’S SERVICES

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amp Davis has a big birthday to celebrate this year - we are turning 95! Whether your kids had a blast with us last summer or you are new to town, Camp Davis can’t wait to welcome you or welcome you back for what will surely be a special summer. We have a ton of awesome specialty camp options this summer - including Pickleball, Robotics, the third summer of Theater Camp, and THREE WEEKS of Fashion Camp! Our time-tested traditional camp model is also going to be even more fun than ever with more tie-dye, new activities, and big smiles! Camp Davis welcomes all

children of all backgrounds and abilities, and we truly have an option for everyone Registration for Summer 2025 will open on January 6th for JCC members and January 13th for non-JCC members. Our early bird special only goes through January 17th so register early and secure your spot and savings! Please note that many of our popular specialty camps will fill up right away!

Head to campdavisnashville.com for more info. •

Gordon JCC Adult Program Happenings:

TGIT – December 2024

December 5th

Alzheimer’s Association will present the first of a two-part series and educational session on all things Alzheimer’s. This will be an informative session for all those affected by or have family or friends affected by Alzheimer’s. Join us to learn about: The impact of Alzheimer’s. The difference between Alzheimer’s and dementia. Alzheimer’s disease stages and risk factors. Current research and treatments available to address some symptoms. Alzheimer’s Association resources.

Lunch – Salmon, salad, sides, Birthday cake and ice cream.

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December 12th

Kehilla – Chanukah Program with the students of Kehilla. An intergenerational program full of Chanukah fun, games and activities.

Lunch – Latkes, salad, sides, and dessert.

December 19th

Alexis Tischler – Alexis will be performing Broadway show tunes and originals. Alexis received the Theatre Award Recipient of the Year and is a publisher poet. She performed as Hodel in Fiddler on The Roof at The JCC in Boca Raton FL. The JCC has always held a special place in her heart! This promises to be a heartfelt occasion all around.

Lunch: Chicken, salad, sides, dessert

December 26th

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Chabad of Nashville to present the $500k Challenge

Chabad of Nashville will be hosting a very exciting year-end fundraising campaign, “Securing Our Future. –250/250 Challenge” which will kick off Tuesday, December 10, at 10:00 AM, and will continue until Thursday, December 12, at 10:00 PM. If $250,000 is raised in 60 hours, it will be matched by $250,000 from several generous matchers, friends and supporters of Chabad of Nashville.

“Tzedakah (charity) is equal to all the other commandments combined.” This meaningful fundraising campaign will provide the Nashville community with 60 hours of tremendous opportunity to support the influential and far-reaching work of Chabad of Nashville across Middle Tennessee.

In a world of challenges, there is one approach to SECURE OUR FUTURE and keep Judaism alive.

At Chabad of Nashville, happiness is at the core of Jewish life, and everyone who walks through their doors gets to experience it. Chabad is a lighthouse of Judaism in Middle Tennessee, ensuring everyone in our community gets a taste of “Judaism done Joyfully.”

This Matching Campaign will also benefit the Revere Montessori Jewish Preschool: At the heart of its mission, is

nurturing the youngest in the Nashville Jewish community with a joyful, loving environment, ensuring every child receives a solid Jewish foundation.

Chabad of Nashville offers Support, Compassion, and Safety: Their programs and events remind us all that we are part of something greater. Chabad runs services for visiting the sick and helping those in crisis to ensure no one is left behind. And with all of the darkness and the anti-Semitism raging in the world, Chabad employs full-time security at all of their events, at a tremendous financial cost, to ensure everyone feels comfortable.

Chabad’s outreach knows no bounds; if you are in need, Chabad is here for you!!

A few recent stories of people that were impacted by the work of Chabad of Nashville include:

- A young person was at the lowest point of his life in rehab, ready to give up.

With heart and soul, Chabad stepped in, offering him warmth, love, and ongoing support. Today, he’s thriving and living a renewed life.

- A Jewish man in prison felt isolated and lost. With visits and encouragement Chabad helped him rebuild his life through therapy and self-improvement.

Today, he’s healthier both emotionally and spiritually.

- A family struggling financially feared their child would have to leave our preschool. Chabad reassured them that their child’s place was secure, and raised funds to help cover their rent. Though life is still challenging, they are in a better place now.

- A wandering Jew came through Nashville seeking purpose in life. He stepped through the doors at Chabad of Nashville, and was welcomed him with an open heart. Words of hope and courage made him feel he had a new family.

- A young mother passed away, leaving two small children behind. Chabad of Nashville stepped in to provide a proper Jewish funeral and share support and comfort with the family during this crisis. These stories are just a glimpse of daily events and occurrences at Chabad of Nashville. You can be part of all of this and more. Most of Chabad’s supporters don’t give just because of what Chabad does—they give because of the relationships built with them. And that’s what Chabad cares about the most.

Chabad of Nashville has set an ambitious goal for this match-a-thon to raise a total of $500,000 in the campaign’s 60 hours. Thanks to several dear friends,

Chabad has secured matching funds, which means every donation during the campaign will be DOUBLED.

For every $1 that will be donated during the campaign, Chabad of Nashville will receive an additional $1, all donations will effectively double in value. Essentially, each $100 charitable donation will be doubled and will translate into $200.

Special for this year, there will gifts presented for donors of certain levels. Each $1800 donor will receive a beautiful Mezuzah scroll from the Holy Land of Israel, and each $3600 donor will receive a gift of a personalized hand carved Challah board, and each $5,000 donor will receive a beautiful silver kiddush cup set.

All names of participants in the Chabad of Nashville 250/250 End of Year campaign will be included in a special prayer that we will be recited on their behalf, for a year of good health and success in all of their endeavors.

For more information about the 250/250 Challenge and to learn about how you can make a difference, visit www.chabadnashville.com/match on Tuesday, December 10, at 10:00 AM, thru Thursday, December 12, at 10:00 PM, or call 615-646-5750. •

IT’S A WRAP!! The 24th Nashville Jewish Film Festival

We smiled as we shouted this movie-making phrase that tells actors and crew that filming of a particular scene or movie has finished. Our 2024 Nashville Jewish Film Festival (NJFF) completed its successful three-week run November 7th with closing night at The Belcourt Theatre. Over 150 people were in attendance, and after champagne, babka, Mandelbrot, and an entertaining intro by Rabbi/comedian Michael Danziger, the screening of the film THE CATSKILLS brought back memories of growing up Jewish and summer fun.

This year’s festival included the screening of ten films – eight in person in three venues in Nashville (The Belcourt, The AMC Bellevue, and the Gordon Jewish Community Center), along with two films offered virtually. In addition, there were two lunch-time matinees.

Thank you to all the generous sponsors and supporters of the 2024 Nashville Jewish Film Festival. We are grateful for your generosity and support of this major cultural event for Jewish Nashville.

Producer $3001 to $7,500+

Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville

Maria and Bernard A. Pargh

Sandra Schatten Foundation

Director $1001 to $3,000

Annette Eskind

Donna and Jeffrey Eskind

Laurie and Steven Eskind

Star $601 to $999

Shary and Rod Essig

Lynn and Scott Ghertner

Jane Haggard, in honor of Laurie, Loretta and Fran

Sheri Lanoff

Barbara G.Levy

The Danner Foundation/Gail Greil

The Navigation Trust (plus $300)

We had several fun events surrounding our screenings. We began with the celebratory Opening Party at AB, then a full room at the JCC’s new Madeline Pargh Art Center to learn a card game called YANIV, which was taught by the visiting director and actor of a film by the same name. Included too, was a delightful Saturday-night full-house pizza party at The Well before the screening of the comedy, RUNNING ON SAND.

The NJFF prides itself in offering entertaining, educational, and thought-provoking films to our Nashville audience. Special guests are invited to speak, and they enhance the film-going experience with their background and expertise along with leading an after-film Q&A.

Next year will be our 25th (SILVER!) anniversary, and we are excited. We are

Gary Gutow, Jessica and Dan Viner

Co-Star $326-$599

Roberta and Mark Bergman

Craig Sussman

Jody and Michael Dobrin

Rae and Bruce Hirsch

Vickie Horne

Jackie Roth Karr

Michael and Ellen Levitt

Gil Fox and Terri Minnen

Marlene Eskind Moses

Missy and Phil Russ

Loretta and Ed Saff

Harriet and Rabbi Mark Schiftan

Suzanne and Jimmy Schulman

Joan B. Shayne

Nan Speller

Shirley and Stuart Speyer (plus $400)

Cathy and Tony Werthan

Libby and Moshe Werthan

Zeitlin-Sothebys Real Estate

Supporting Cast $176-$325

Julie and Frank Boehm

Jamie and Jeremy Brook

Betsy Chernau

so very proud to have had our Nashville community’s support and kindness over all the years.

If you would like to volunteer to be part of our Silver Anniversary year, please let us know. We need help to

Linda Kartoz Doochin and Michael Doochin

Julie Eskind Galbierz

Nancy Gold

Bernice Gordon

Sara Cohan and Eric Newell

Erin and Greg Zagnoev

Cameo $175

Adele and Roy Berkon

Didi and Brian Biesman

Sharon Charney

Cynthia Stone and Mark Glazer

Lorna Graff

Mary Loventhal Jones

Jay Kholas

Paula Kholas

Losa Kranc

Jessica and Rabbi Joshua Kullock

Rabbi Laurie Rice

Brenda Rosenblum

Susan Kroop and David Shaffer

Linda and Jeff Schoenblum

Ruth Smith

Neil Smith

Barbara Speller

Ann Stern

make it the best festival year yet! For more information, contact Fran Brumlik at 615-356-7170. • Happy Chanukah! Laurie, Loretta and Fran

Alyse Sprintz

Jan Riven

Sarah Roth

Young Professionals $75.00

David Roffwarg

Polly Roffwarg

Kelly Unger

Contributions

Suzanne Cohan

Dara and Craig Freiberg

Hal and Phyllis Helderman

Betsy and Ridley Wills in Honor of Laurie Eskind

Barbara Turner

Hosts

Gilda’s Club of Middle Tennessee

National Council of Jewish Women

Nashville Section

Nashville Hadassah

Akiva/JMS

B’nai Brith Social Club

Tennessee Holocaust Commission

Jewish Studies Program of Vanderbilt University

Loretta Saff, Fran Brumlik, Laurie Eskind at the Nashville Jewish Film Festival opening night party at AB.

At the movies with the 24th Nashville Jewish Film Festival

Nashville Community Hears Heart-Wrenching Stories from Israeli Terror Victims

By LEERON RESNICK

Imagine choosing to go left instead of right. Imagine picking the wrong hiding spot when terrorists are closing in. Imagine not speaking to your child for over a year. For Israelis Din Tessler and Tami Braslavski, these unimaginable situations are a daily reality.

On November 4th community members gathered at Chabad of Nashville to hear their stories of suffering from the impact of that dark day in Israel’s history. The event was organized by Elizabeth Dorros, co-founder along with actress Patricia Heaton, of the October 7TH Coalition (O7C), a network of Christians standing visibly and vocally against the rise of antisemitism in our country. Featured speakers were Tessler, a survivor of the Nova Festival attack, and Tami and Amit Braslavski, who’s loved one, Rom Braslavski, is among the 101 hostages still held captive in Gaza. Their testimonies moved an audience of 200, including Governor Bill Lee and his wife, Maria. Community member Eva Marx, grandmother of fallen soldier Rose Lubin, who lost her life defending Israel one year ago to the day, was also recognized during the event.

Tessler, who was working as a security guard at the Nova Festival, shared the harrowing experience of hiding for 17 hours, surviving, as he says, “by a miracle from God.” Among the hostages still held is his best friend, Bar Kuperstein, making the trauma even more personal. The event’s purpose was to bring a human face to these stories and remind the com-

munity of the reality facing these families every day.

“Don’t forget them,” Tami Braslavski urged, while her son Amit shared a heartfelt lesson he has taken from this ordeal, “Don’t waste time on worrying about nonsense. You never know what will happen tomorrow. Cherish the time with your family, no matter what.”

Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel of Chabad of Nashville, shared, “Though we may not understand why the tragedy of October 7th happened, we know one thing: the Jewish people endure, holding tightly to one another in the darkest of times, finding light even in the deepest night. To ensure our continuity and survival, we remind the world that, despite the darkness, —there is a Master of the Universe, who is greater than the hardships and trials we face. Jews by nature are beyond nature and that G-d’s presence ensures our survival. Every time you do a mitzvah, every time you put on tefillin, light Shabbat candles, or give charity, you are keeping the Nation of Israel alive. You are keeping Am Yisrael Chai.”

These families, survivors of terror and ongoing trauma, rely on community support to face each new day. Nashville will continue to stand with them, amplifying their stories and waiting for the day when all 101 hostages, including Rom and Bar, return to the arms of their loved ones.

The event was made possible by support from the Jewish Community Relations Committee, Chabad of Nashville, Sherith Israel, O7C, and Tennessee Stands with Israel. •

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December in the Galleries: Featuring the work of the Nashville Collage Collective, Colette Wise, Marty Walsh, James Threalkill, and Pamela Dove

The Janet Levine March Gallery will feature the work of the Nashville Collage Collective. The Collective is a unique forum where local artists can share materials and ideas while they support each other in the exploration of collage techniques, collaboration and exhibition of work. Members have gathered regularly for the past 14 years to work side by side at free-form workshops which have taken place at venues such as Turnip Green Creative Reuse, Zeitgeist Gallery and the home studio of organizer Lisa Haddad.

Artists come from a wide array of artistic backgrounds - assemblagists, sculptors, fiber artists, painters and collaborators - all bringing their unique techniques and processes to Collage. This year they present a great variety of wall-collages as well as 3-D items that are more gift-oriented in the Gordon JCC’s Sig Held Gallery - over 20 artists will be participating, and the range of experimentation and variety of materials is stunning!

The JLMG2 Gallery will feature the work of Colette Wise and Marty Welsh. Nashville-based painter Colette Wise was born and raised in Canada. Art, in its many forms, has always been central to her life. Colette is a professional singer, songwriter, avid photographer, gardener, and painter.

In 2017, Colette Wise began to lose her eyesight from a genetic disease. However, she drew strength from her love of art and began painting what she saw, arranging images to create an intriguing visual poem.

Her loss of sight has drawn her closer to Tonalism, as she sees in more muted values. Colette’s work inspires others with and without disabilities to find courage and hope to create. Marty’s reCYCLEd wall clocks combine his current interests and vocation. He is a cycling enthusiast and utilizes recycled bike components as design elements. His work as a custom woodworker provides a variety “off-fall” materials available that he rescued from the waste stream. He creates functional, one-of-a-kind works of art using otherwise throw-away materials. The only purchased items in these

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The Sig Held Gallery will feature the art of James Threalkill. James Threalkill is originally from Nashville, Tennessee and played wide receiver at Vanderbilt University after a three-sport career at East Nashville High School. James won an Emmy Award for his creation of a mural painting program with youth from the Edgehill Community in South Nashville. James illustrated a children’s book series entitled; “Visions; African American Experiences” that was featured on Sesame Street. James’ work has been featured on major television programs and in movies. His work has been collected internationally including locations in South Africa where he met President Nelson Mandela, and in South

America by the U. S. Embassy in Bogota’, Colombia.

James currently works out of his studio in Murfreesboro, Tennessee.

The Old Lobby will feature a special one night sale by Kate Ratliff featuring of Asian beads and clothing and a fun evening of jewelry making with the collection of Asian beads.

The Senior Lounge will feature the work of Pamela Dove.

The House gallery will feature the

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Under One Roof collaborative exhibit. The Exhibition Dates are December 5th – 31st.

The Artist reception will be held on December 11th from 6-8 pm and feature music a pop-up jewelry sale by Chandler Dezigns and music by DJ Joseph Harris and Henna by Fizza.

The exhibitions are free and open to the public. For more information, contact the GJCC at 615.354-1699, Curator Carrie Mills at carrie@nashvillejcc.org, or go to www.nashvillejcc.org. •

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Nashville’s congregations

Here are the websites for all five Nashville Jewish congregations, with information on services, upcoming events and more:

Congregation Beit Tefilah Chabad, www.chabadnashville.com

Congregation Micah, www.congregationmicah.org

Congregation Sherith Israel, www.sherithisrael.com

The Temple – Congregation Ohabai Sholom, www.templenashville.org West End Synagogue, www.westendsyn.org

The Observer provides congregational listings of events and services as a complimentary service to the community. If your congregation is not listed, it is because we did not receive the information in time to meet our publication deadline. Please give your rabbi, executive director, or synagogue volunteer a gentle nudge.

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Pop Up Chanukah Gift Shop comes to Nashville

Candles, Gelt, menorahs, and gift items are all waiting for you at Chabad of Nashville’s POP UP

Chanukah Gift Shop. This will be “your one stop shop for all your Chanukah needs.”

At the pop-up gift shop will find a nice selection of Menorahs, candles, Chanukah gifts for all ages, decorations, dreidels, games, chocolate gelt, gift wrap and more.

The Chanukah Gift Pop Up Shop will be open from December 1 – 27, Monday thru Friday, 9:30 AM to 4:30 PM, and is located at Chabad of Nashville, 95 Bellevue Road. For more information call 615-646-5750.

Get Your Authentic Sufganiyot right here in Nashville

Jelly donuts are one of the most symbolic dishes of Chanukah, but have you ever wondered how that came to be? Of all the delicious fried foods to nosh on — fried pancakes, fried chicken, fried green tomatoes, schnitzel — how did the jelly donut, or sufganiyah , a.k.a. the Jelly Donut rise to popularity?

Every culinary culture has a doughy pastry fried in oil, a local version of the doughnut. Jews are no exception. Wherever Jews have lived throughout history, they’ve made a tradition of creating a special Chanukah version of fried dough to celebrate the Miracle of Oil. Ashkenazi Jews emigrating from Germany brought the Sufganiyot tradition to Israel in the 1930s.

This year Chabad of Nashville will be offering the opportunity to order Sufganiyot (authentic Jelly donuts) for your Chanukah celebration. All order can be placed at chabadnashville.com, and are to be made by December 10. Who can resist these fluffy pillows of dough this Chanukah. These always fly off the table. Make sure to get one before they’re gone!

Sufganiyot orders can be made online at chabadnashville.com

Chabad to Distribute Free Menorah Kits To Go

Traveling this Chanukah, need a Menorah To Go? Chabad will be distributing free Chanukah kits that include a menorah, candles, a Dreidel, and a Chanukah gift to all who need one. Feel free to come by the Chabad Center to pick one up. For more information please call 615-646-5750, or go to www.chabadnashville.com

What Will You Be Doing on December 25?

On Wednesday, December 25, at 5:00 PM, Chabad of Nashville will be hosting “Donuts N’ Dreidels,” a community Chanukah Celebration for family and friends, with the lighting of a giant Menorah, music, a special surprise show for children, and Sufganiyot, Chanukah gelt and dreidels for all participants. See Chabadnahville.com for more details and to RSVP.

Chabad to host two TGIS celebration in

December

Start your Shabbat off right with good friends, great conversation, and excellent kosher cuisine, all seasoned with the perfect amount of spirit and joy. TGIS is a Club Med Shabbat: An all-inclusive Shabbat experience. Enjoy a Friday night Shabbat dinner replete with traditional dishes. Blended with spirited singing, a Chasidic tale, and a chance to meet some wonderful new people.

TGIS will be held on Friday evening, December 13, at 6:30 PM at Chabad of Nashville.

At Our Congregations…

On Friday, December 27, there will be a special Chanukah edition of the TGISThank G-d It’s Shabbat celebration. The event will include a sit down festive Shabbat dinner, and will include all of the Chanukah trimmings, latkes, donuts, chocolate gelt and more.

There is no cost to attend the TGIS Shabbat experience, however we kindly request that you RSVP by letting us know you will be attending at chabadnashville@ gmail.com

Meet in Person for Prayer and Cholent

Chabad of Nashville is a happening place on Shabbat mornings. Join community and Friends for Shabbat morning services, replete with joyful prayer, kavanah, simcha and great energy.

Join Chabad on Shabbat mornings at 10:00 AM for prayer and Torah reading, inspiring learning and a weekly sermon, followed by a hot cholent, freshly baked Challah, a gourmet buffet lunch, and a weekly farbrengen with some friendly L’Chaim.

Wanted to learn the Mishna, was not sure where to go, here is your chance

Have you ever wondered what is the Mishna? Who wrote it? What is it all about?

Chabad Of Nashville is offering an all new learning opportunity with a weekly Mishnah class from the comfort of your home!

What is the Mishnah? The Mishnah is the main text of the Talmud. It is the first compilation of the oral law that was authored by Rabbi Yehudah HaNasi (Judah the Prince) following the destruction of the Second Temple in Jerusalem, in 200 CE.

Join “The Study of the Mishna,” on Thursday evenings at 8:00 PM for 30 minutes on Zoom. This class is suited for beginners and advanced curious seekers of wisdom. Chabadnashville.com/zoom

@ Micah

Congregation Micah - an inclusive, innovative synagogue exploring and celebrating Jewish life - is committed to building community and repairing the world! We offer creative and diverse ways to live a Jewish life in Tennessee and beyond, using the rich beliefs and practices of Progressive Judaism as our foundation. Visit our 30+ acre campus or access our virtual programs from our website, www.congregationmicah.org. Like us on socials: Facebook, and Instagram @MicahNashville; sign up for our e-blasts; learn and pray with us in-person, or livestream our service on our website, YouTube, or Facebook. In our tent, there is room for everyone!

Weekly Events

Sanctuary Shabbat Services: Fridays at 6 PM

At Micah, we approach God in many ways: the inspiration of words, the beauty of sacred space, the authenticity of our intentions, and through the power of music and song. Join us in-person or virtually for services this month that will be as diverse as they are engaging, as moving as they are participatory. Come early and schmooze with us starting at 5:30 PM! Light refreshments are served.

Saturday Morning Torah Study: 9 AM on Zoom

Deep conversations about the text with thoughtful and caring people led by the clergy.

Mah Jongg: Tuesdays from 12:30 PM- 3:30 PM

Join our players for an afternoon of fun in the social hall! For more information, contact Paula: pgkwn@comcast.net.

Schmooze & Views: Thursdays from 10:30 AM- 11:30 AM

At Micah, we keep politics off the pulpit but not out of the building. Share your views in a round-table discussion on current events facilitated by Rabbi Flip and Dr. Bob Smith..

December Events

Micah-Nections Late Night Shabbat and Dinner: Friday, December 6 at 7:30 PM

Unwind from your week, unlock the magic of Shabbat, and experience the power of community with our social group for young adults in their 20s and 30s. Moving music, delicious dinner, delightful drinks, and deep discussions await at this late-night Shabbat service. RSVP Required.

Shabbat Sing: Saturday, December 7 at 10:30

Cantor Josh leads an informal Shabbat themed sing along. Raise your voice, or bring an instrument if you wish as we celebrate Shabbat in song; guaranteed to leave you feeling uplifted. Followed by a simple kiddush. RSVP Required.

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Shabbat Chanukah and Micah’s Got Talent: Friday December 13, services begin at 6, followed by dinner and talent show

Our Chunukah dinner and service stars not just a menorah, but you as well! Back by popular demand, Micah’s Got Talent is your chance to showcase your Skills! Whether you sing, dance, play an instrument, do gymnastics, or are a Rubik’s cube master, step into the spotlight and let the community see what you do best!

Micah Minis and Brunch: Saturday, December 14 at 9:30 AM Sing and dance with our Clergy! This family-friendly Shabbat experience is aimed at ages 7 and younger. Stick around after the service for brunch!

Micah Reads: Monday, December 16 at 7 PM on Zoom Education Director Julie Greenberg leads the discussion on “The Frozen Rabbi” by Steve Stern on December 16.

@ Sherith Israel

Friday Night Post-Thanksgiving Shabbat Dinner

Friday, December 13, 2024

4:25 pm Davening, 5:25 pm Dinner

$25 adults. $14 kids. $90 family. RSVP’s due by 12/10 www.sherithisrael.com

Annual Sherith Israel Latke Supper

Sunday, December 29

5:00 pm Lighting the Limor Menorah 5:15 pm Dinner $20 adults, $12 kids, $80 family. RSVP’s due by 12/26 www.sherithisrael.com

@ The Temple

Exploring the Prayerbook

Every Friday from 5:00-5:40 PM before Shabbat Services

Start Shabbat with a little study each week. We will explore the prayers of our Shabbat Service and discuss and discover how these ancient Jewish texts still speak to us today.

Shabbat Schedule for December

Our Shabbat Services will be held in person at The Temple. You can also watch via zoom from thetemplehub.org.

Friday, December 6th ~ 6:00 PM

Friday, December 13th~ 6:00 PM-PRE CHANUKAH SERVICE AND FESTIVE ONEG

Friday, December 20th~ 6:00 PM

Friday, December 27th ~ 6:00 PM – BLUE JEAN SHABBAT & CHANUKAH CELEBRATION

Pre Chanukah Service and Festive Oneg

December 15th at 6:00pm

Chevrah Torah Study

Join us for our weekly Torah study on the portion of the week, led by the clergy. You can join us in person at The Temple or via zoom from thetemplehub.org

Tot Shabbat for families with young children.

December 14th at 10:00am- Chanukah Theme

For families with children up to age 5

Tot Shabbat offers families the chance to celebrate Shabbat with their young children in a creative way!

Next Dor (Pre) Chanukah Party with Moishe House

December 14th at 6:00pm

For more information or to RSVP, please contact Sheri Rosenberg at sheri@ templenashville.org

Women’s Torah Study

December 5th, 12th, 19th

10:30 AM

Ongoing weekly women’s Torah study led by Patty Marks. Available in person at The Temple and via zoom through thetemplehub.org

Lunch with the Rabbi

December 5th, 12th, 19th

Lunch at 11:30AM

Program12:00-1:00 PM

$15 per person for lunch

Engage with Rabbi Danziger and guests in a discussion of current and important issues from a Jewish perspective. RSVP on thetemplehub.org or by calling the Temple at 615-352-7620

Available in person and via zoom.

Zoom Room: thetemplehub.org

Monday Mah Jongg with Canasta

Join Us for MAH JONGG Mondays at The Temple!

December 2nd, 9th, 16th, 23rd and 30th

1:00pm

Drop in for Mah Jongg. We’ll have coffee and water. Bring your friends, a card, and a set and have some fun. Mah Jongg cards and sets are available for purchase in The Temple Gift Shop.

Golden Lunch Bunch

Will meet at Temple from 11:30-1:00pm on December 3rd: Jon Byrd

December 17th: Cantor Fishbein & Temple Preschool

RSVP to Jewish Family Service at 615-354-1686 or via email at helpinghands@ jfsnashville.org

Hike & Havdallah at Percy Warner

Presented by The Temple’s Worship and Music Committee

Saturday, December 21st

Where and When for the Hike? Meet at the Edwin Warner Park Nature Center on HWY 100 at 2:45 PM for a family friendly walk on a paved trail followed by Havdalah at 4:30pm.

Who? All ages! Bring friends and family.

For more information or questions, please contact Anne Davenport at adavlaw@ comcast.net

Titans Watch Party

Join us for our Titans Watch Party and BBQ

Noon @ The Temple

December 22nd

For more information, reach out to Sheri Rosenberg

Canasta Classes are Back at Temple!

Taught by member Lynn Reiner, an avid Canasta player and teacher.

Her love of Canasta, combined with her joy of teaching, radiates to all who learn from her.

The class consists of 4 sessions and it is strongly encouraged that participants plan to attend all 4 sessions.

The cost for all 4 sessions is $25 and space is limited.

Dates are:

Monday, December 2

Wednesday, December 4

Monday, December 9

Wednesday, December 11

All 4 sessions are from 4:00 pm to 6:00 PM.

Register at: https://www.templenashville.org/form/Canasta

@ West End

For links to the following online services or programs, please email office@westendsyn.org or visit our website calendar for more information https://westendsyn.shulcloud.com/calendar

12/4 – The Sandi Goldstein Learn & Lunch Program for ages 60+ – 11:00 a.m.

Reservations required, catered lunch following the presentation.

Speaker: Rabba Daniella Pressner

Lunch catered by Goldie Shepard at 12:00 p.m. Cost: $5.00

RSVP 615-269-4592 ext. 11 or office@westendsyn.org.

12/5 – Men’s Torah Group (in person) –12:00 p.m.

Join us for our Torah class for men. We are currently beginning with the Book of Ezra and will be eating pizza.

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12/6 – Potluck Shabbat – 6:00 p.m.

Join us for an intimate Shabbat dinner experience in the Sukkah with delicious food and fabulous company following Kabbalat Shabbat services. RSVP to spaz@westendsyn.org and plan on bringing a pareve or dairy dish to share with friends.

12/7 – Michael Mehlman Social Action Shabbat – 9:30 a.m.

Join us for the annual Michael Mehlman Social Action Shabbat as we honor this year’s Michael Mehlman Social Action Volunteer of the Year award winner.

12/8 - Pre-Chanukah Donuts and Coffee with Marc Jacobs - 9:00-10:30 a.m.

Come grab a pre-Chanukah treat and shmooze with our new Engagement and Program Director, Marc Jacobs. Marc wants to hear from you! What do you want to see at West End Synagogue?

12/8 – Music City Sisterhood Torah Fund –4:00-6:00 p.m.

Music City Sisterhood celebrates nature with an afternoon of learning featuring Joanna Brichetto, naturalist and author of “This is How a Robin Drinks.” RSVP required and can be completed at bit.ly/MCSTorahFund24.

12/11 – Women’s Torah Group (on Zoom) –11:00 a.m.

Rabbi Joshua leads our Women’s study group. We have just began learning the book of Joshua.

12/13 – Tot Shabbat – 5:30 p.m.

Friday night Shabbat services for Families with Young Children led by Nili Friedman & Sharon Paz. RSVP to spaz@westendsyn.org.

12/14 – Kid’ish Club – 10:30 a.m.

Inviting all 2nd – 7th graders for Kid’ish Club Shabbat morning from 10:30-11:30 a.m. Kiddush lunch to follow.

12/15 – Music & Me for families with young children 3 and under - 9:30-10:30 a.m.

At Our Congregations…

12/15- Beit Miriam Chanukah Carnival –10:30-11:55 a.m.

Join us for a Chanukah play put on by our high school students; a bounce house, Chanukah carnival activities, latkes, sufganiyot and Chanukah songs.

12/18 – The Sandi Goldstein Learn & Lunch Program for ages 60+ – 11:00 a.m.

Reservations required, catered lunch following the presentation. Speaker: Ed Cheng

Lunch catered by Goldie Shepard at 12:00 p.m. Cost: $5.00 RSVP 615-269-4592 ext. 11 or office@westendsyn.org.

12/27 – Hanukkah Hot Chicken and Latke Shabbat Dinner – 6:00 p.m.

Join West End Synagogue as we celebrate Chanukah with a delicious Kosher Hot Chicken dinner catered by Slow Burn. RSVP at bit.ly/HanukkahHotChicken. RSVPs required.

Learning Opportunities

Talmud on Tuesdays

Rabbi Joshua leads a lively Talmudic discussion at 7:30 a.m. in person and on Zoom every Tuesday, immediately after morning minyan. Come and join us!

Torah Study on Thursdays

Come join us for breakfast and Torah study at 7:40 am following morning minyan

Jewish Ethics on Fridays

Between Kabbalat Shabbat and Maariv, every Friday we study together a portion of Pirkei Avot and we delve into the world of Jewish Ethics.

Religious Services

Shacharit (in person)

Our minyanaires are always looking for more people to strengthen the only egalitarian minyan in town! Sunday services are at 9:00 a.m. and Monday-Friday at 7:00 a.m. Thursday minyan is followed by breakfast.

Maariv (on Zoom)

Join us for daily Maariv at 6:00 p.m., Sunday-Thursday.

Kabbalat Shabbat

You are invited to join us every Friday for Kabbalat Shabbat in person at 6:00 p.m.

Shabbat Morning services

You are invited to join us every Saturday morning in person or by Zoom at 9:30 a.m. Great davening, insightful learning of the Torah portion and a yummy (and nutritious!) kiddush lunch following services! •

Happy Chanukah

Community Listings

Kvetch in the City

By CARRIE MILLS

to figure out where all this pain may have started.

Jewish Franklin:

Join us for the 5th night of Chanukah as we celebrate the Miracle of Light featuring The Promise Sessions on music and The Star of David on art.

Bring Your Own Menorah for ONE MASSIVE community lighting led by Rabbi Saul Strosburg right in the City’s center.

White Shepherd Coffee and The Pasta Bar will be set up and ready to serve warm drinks and dinner. A limited supply of kosher doughnuts will be provided, and there will be other surprises throughout the night.

The event is designed for all ages and all KIND people whether Jewish or not. We look forward to having the WHOLE City of Franklin join us to learn what Chanukah is all about.

Thank you for being such a beautiful and supportive community. We hope we can return the favor.

This event will be well-secured.

Rutherford Havurah:

Chanukah in the Boro 2024

Warmest Greetings from Jewish Murfreesboro!

We’re excited to invite you to our upcoming Chanukah party, a night filled with joy, delicious food, and wonderful company.

What to Expect:

Delicious Chanukah Food: Enjoy traditional Chanukah treats and other festive delicacies.

Fun Activities: Engage in exciting games and activities for all ages.

Warm Community: Connect with fellow Jewish Murfreesboro members and build lasting friendships.

Space is limited, so please RSVP early!

We can’t wait to celebrate Chanukah with you!

Location will be provided as part of registration confirmation.

Please go to https://jewishmurfreesboro.com/events to register.

East Side Tribe:

East Side Tribe is a grassroots social and spiritual community fueled by Jewish values and rooted in East Nashville. For our full schedule, go to eastsidetribe.org.

L’chaim Time! Happy Hour with East Side Tribe on December 5 at 6pm. Come hang out with other folks from East Side Tribe. Robby and Jesse will be holding down the fort at Roy’s Tavern. First drink is on us!

This is a great way to get to know more East Side Tribe folks — whether you’re a newcomer or a longtimer.

50s+ Potluck Shabbat Dinner! Friday, December 6 at 6:20pm. Join us for a 50+ potluck Shabbat dinner where we can gather and enjoy the start to the weekend. We ask that attendees plan on bringing a dish to share. Location will be provided to attendees the week of the event but will be a private residence in Green Hills.

Tribelings Tot Shabbat: Chanukah Edition on Saturday, December 7 at 10:30am. Grab your dreidels and join us for a special Chanukah edition of tot shabbat, featuring our friends Rabbi Mackler and Rabbi Shulman from The Temple. •

and who knows who I might meet in the heart of Fifth Ave. in the Village.

Iknow it’s going to be a bad day when I turn on the news, wait, I meant to say is…I know it’s going to be a bad day when I pick up my phone, which has facial recognition, and my own phone does not recognize my face. However, if I’m going to be truthful, lately I’ve been looking in the mirror and don’t even recognize my own face I’m so stressed out.

Speaking of which, anyone who knows me, knows two things about me: everything I feel is always written on my face and just in case it’s not, I can’t seem to stop myself from saying what’s written on my face when in fact it might serve me to stay quiet.

Both those things were in full motion last week when I found myself hanging the galleries once again while cranky as all get go and in full pain from God knows what I had done to my throbbing knee this time around.

While I was crying and complaining to everyone who happened to just say hello while hanging the art, I was trying

I think it probably started thirty years ago wearing the coolest pointiest pair of kitten heel shoes which I still own, and may I add, in 4 colors. My chiropractor for years begged me to stop with the pointy shoes, apparently to no avail.

As a matter of fact, I brought them to NYC on my last trip. Of course I should have known better. The coolest shade of red and oh so stylish, I had no choice but to wear them when I went downtown to visit my friend. After walking five city blocks, I realized I made a big mistake, my bunion was throbbing, plus, I was soon faced with going down one of those insanely steep escalators that are like five stories high wearing the kitten heels that I was sure would get stuck in the escalator grate and kill me. Amazingly, I made it downtown only to have to ice my feet as soon as I got to my friend’s place.

As good luck would have it, there was a party going on in her lobby, and while the red pointy shoes were a culprit, they most certainly completed my high style bohemian look, so to heck with bunions and foot pain which by now was most likely spreading to every muscle in my body. I was going to a NYC party…

It certainly was an eclectic mix of extremely wealthy older folks and accomplished young professionals, architects, writers, etc. from all walks of life and countries. I was so glad I had left my son’s place that day dressed in my best authentic New York style. I felt confident and unique which was confirmed by all the compliments I got from strangers along the way. That’s one thing I love about New Yorkers…they don’t hold back, plus, they appreciate and know style when they see it. To heck with my enflamed bunions and knees, those red pointy shoes were taking me where I needed to go.

The older woman throwing the goodbye party to the super of 40 years in the building insisted she take me up to her apartment and show me her prized fish tank. Jackpot! I love seeing how people live…especially in NYC. Her sprawling place was a mix of Liberace and the Housewives of New York. She was a gangbuster 89 years old, most likely only 89 pounds, with at least two face lifts in her velvet jumpsuit. Never too skinny or two rich as the saying goes.

When we went back down to the

lobby, I soon found myself in conversation with a younger man who said he really doesn’t live in the building anymore, though he still is holding onto his apartment. I begged him if I could rent it out. Coming as no shock to me, this being NYC and all, he said he keeps it for his dog. Since he still works in the neighborhood, he drops his dog there all day while he goes to work. Apparently, NYC has gone to the dogs. I love dogs though I draw the line at them hoarding NYC golden realty.

I drowned my disappointment in a glass of lobby party wine and headed back uptown to my son who was generously cooking dinner for me. Unfortunately, I did not factor in drinking and going down into the NYC transit system. Four stops in I realized I was on the wrong train and if I didn’t jump off at the next stop, I’d end up in God knows which borough I was not equipped to deal with.

I figured I’d dash back out to the street and get my drunken baring’s. Fifth Ave and 59th St. Not too shabby a location, however my stylish look was fading fast like Cinderella at midnight. Those pointy red shoes had their way with every joint in my body by now and there was Continued on page 30

Lifecycles

Birth Announcement

Asher Wolf Remer

Mr. and Mrs. Steven Remer announce the birth of their grandson, Asher Wolf Remer, on July 24th 2024 in Atlanta, GA. The parents are Jordan Remer, formerly of Nashville and Megan Remer of Atlanta. The proud grandparents are Esther and Steven Remer of Nashville and Charlotte and Joel Marks of Atlanta.

Obituaries

Nancy Lee Glynn

Condolences to the family of Nancy Lee Glynn who died on November 14. She was the mother of Colleen Heyman (Steve); grandmother of Caitlin Tisch (Bert), Anna Rose Harris (Josh), and Sam Heyman; great-grandmother of Xander, Wyatt, and Goldie Tisch and Rowan Harris.

Donations may be made to Congregation Micah, specifically to the

Congregation Micah Religious School.

Paul Lempel

Condolences to the family of Paul Lempel z”l (Pesach ben Asher HaLevi) who died on October 30. Paul was born on February 21, 1935, and died at age 89, four months shy of 90. He was from Eastchester, N.Y. Paul is survived by daughters, Andrea Lempel Federmann and Lisa Lempel-Sander; grandchildren, Liran Federmann of Nashville, Kaylee Federmann of Nashville, Bria Sander of New York and Ethan Sander of New York. He was predeceased by his wife Frances Cooperman-Lempel z”l and sonin-law Benjamin Federmann z”l.

Leon Levy

Condolences to the family of Leon Levy, 84, who died peacefully on October 31.

Leon was born in Atlanta, Ga., on March 31,1940. He grew up in Brownsville, Tenn., and resided in Nashville for 60+ years. Leon was an

excellent conversationalist, and he always had at least five books in progress. He attended the University of Tennessee for his undergraduate degree in business administration. He met his first wife, Gloria Dean Jett (D), at UT and they married in 1963. Leon worked in the garment industry and in real estate for over 60 years for multiple successful companies.

Leon embraced life with a passion for always being on the move. He was not one to sit around. He was a steadfast advocate for sobriety (43 years) and his faith.

He is survived by his daughter, Amy Jett Levy, CPA; brother, David Levy (Sarah Levy); and nephew, Jacob Hart Levy. He was preceded in death by his son, Leon Parke Levy, parents, Henry and Louise Levy and sister, Jonee Levy Hacker. Donations may be made to Congregation Ohabai Sholom, Nashville.

Clinton Thomas McCormick

Condolences to the family of Clinton Thomas McCormick, who died on October 19. He was the father of Thomas McCormick (Ali Friedman McCormick).

Leon’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis did not deter him from keeping his energetic, positive attitude and sense of humor to the very end. He was no longer able to manage five books at one time, but he did manage to maintain one book. And in his own words, “I know I’ve read this book, but I don’t remember it so I’m going to read it again.” His legacy will live on in the hearts of those who knew him and in the many lives he touched.

Kvetch

Continued from page 26 no way I could manage a 28 block walk uptown. I figured I’d try to manage making my way to 3rd Ave and catch a bus. I stood at the red light and glanced at the stranger next to me. He smiled. I was so caught off guard and a little bit tipsy, so I smiled back. Which I guess was the invitation for him to start a conversation by complimenting my coat. I asked him if he was in fashion, because quite honestly you do have to have an eye to recognize Prada. He asked me if he looked like he was in fashion. And quite honestly, he did not. At all. Which I bluntly told him. He asked if he could take me out, right then and there, which of course I replied no… and while he continued to chat, I told him to give me his name and number so I can

Tributes may be made in Clinton’s memory to Congregation Micah.

Helene Price

Condolences to the family of Helene Price, who died on October 24, mother of WES member Robert Price, on October 24, 2024. She is survived by her husband of 67 years, her son, Robert Price of Nashville, two more of her four sons and their wives, and seven grandchildren.•

make sure he is not a serial killer and I’d think about it, upon which I conveniently ran into Bloomingdales for my escape hatch. Lo and behold there was a train station downstairs, so I jumped on and made it safely back to the Upper East Side to a delicious dinner and the beginning of icing my joints for the next few weeks. Which brings me back to hanging the galleries last week, crying from knee pain and realizing as the afternoon passed, everyone I cried to, somehow started sharing a pain of their own they were silently harboring. The maintenance woman lifted her pants at the ankle to show me a wrapped leg, an artist who came to see the center told me her list of ailments. It dawned on me I was not alone. And while it’s been suggested I maybe over share at times, I started to realize, everyone seemed to have their own pain story too. Funny thing is, it seemed in the sharing, it all became a little less painful. Now, if I could just get the pained look out of my face so my phone would recognize me again… that would be a good start. And yes, stop turning on the news. •

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ROBINS INSURANCE

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Happy Chanukah