The Observer Vol. 90 No. 2 – February 2025

Jewish OBSERVER

Federation 2024 Annual Campaign Surpasses Goal by Over $100,000

By JASON SPARKS

Wow. Jewish Nashville is amazing. We did it. On December 31st, 2024, at 11:59pm, we hit the highest campaign goal we have had in years, over $2.47 million, zooming past our goal of $2.35 million and taking in over 1,250 gifts, more than we have had since 2018. It really was a team effort and would never have happened without the extra efforts of the Board of Directors of Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville, some key community members that joined in to help, and all the professional staff at Federation. And of course, the most important element that made it happen was everyone who generously contributed to our Annual Campaign.

As Nashville has grown so rapidly over the last decade, I think what we all saw with the 2024 annual campaign was the beginning of Jewish Nashville catching up philanthropically. And we have a long way to go until we get to where we would like to be. Across the

OVER $2.47 MILLION OVER 1,250 GIFTS

country, there has been a surge in interest in Jewish life and connections. And we have seen that as well in Nashville. Many of the agencies and organizations we support saw growth far beyond what they expected. People who have lived here for several years suddenly found a reason to find a synagogue or religious school for their children. We have been helping groups like East Side Tribe and Franklin Jewish Social scale up and find their voices in our greater community. We have been providing a home and purpose for younger people with our NowGen program and by supporting organizations like Hillel and Moshe House. And of course, there is the amazing work that the team at Jewish Family Service does to make sure that nobody is left behind. Participation at Vanderbilt’s Hillel is at

an all-time high and we continue to see more interest in our preschool programs and day schools.

And the beautiful thing about federated giving is that we were able to be there to meet people wherever they showed up; regardless of level of observance, age, demographics, or political persuasion, we were able to help steward those community members when they needed it (and sometimes when they didn’t realize they needed it). And all of you who contributed to our campaign or volunteered were a part of that. It is the highest level of kindness to give to the community and trust that your gift would be put to good use by someone who needed it. And not only does your gift help our community, but you can also rest assured that it is being used

efficiently; Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville has a 4-star rating with Charity Navigator and a Platinum Transparency Rating with Candid.

The power of communal giving has become more important than ever. There were countless times that Jewish Federation rose as the voice of our community thisyear.. When we were faced with white supremacists in the streets, behind the scenes we were meeting with the mayor’s office, Metro Council, our state leaders, and Metro Police to build strategies to handle the current situations and plan for the future. We were able to partner with our colleagues at the Anti-Defamation League, and the Secure Communities Network to get ahead of any threats that were coming our way. Our Jewish Community Relations Committee team was relentless in responding to situations impacting students at public and private schools and in the fall. Several of us had a great series of meetings with Metro Nashville

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IDF Soldiers Journey of Healing: Transforming Lives at Camp Ramah Darom

By BARBARA DAB

“I slept through the night without nightmares for the first time in four years.”

“I am back in school, working towards a degree that will help me make a living.”

“Before this Journey, I could not sit through a class.”

“For the first time, I spoke with my wife for three hours after the kids went to sleep, about our Journey of Healing, and about the true reasons I took it.”

- Soldier participants in B’shvil Hamachar program

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ucked into the North Georgia mountains, Camp Ramah Darom has been a haven, and a “happy place,” for scores of Jewish children and teens for over two decades. In addition, as part of the Conservative movement’s Ramah camps, Darom opens its doors throughout the year to Jewish men’s and women’s weekends, United Synagogue Youth conven-

tions, and family holiday retreats. And now, for traumatized IDF soldiers, Darom is a place for serenity and healing.

The Friends of B’shvil Hamachar program will bring about a dozen IDF soldiers to camp, along with therapists, to help them deal with the traumas experienced during their service. The program, which began in Israel as B’shvil Hamachar , or Path for Tomorrow, 20 years ago, uses outdoor settings like ranches and camps to conduct therapy sessions and provide a safe space for soldiers to share their deepest traumas. Eli Zablud is one of the people responsible for bringing the program to the United States. His sister, Anat Samson-Joffe, is one of the original founders. He says, “You cannot heal one hundred percent from a trauma that happened to you during combat or military service. But you can definitely learn how to deal with what you went through and how to live with it.”

Zablud is a member of B’nai Vail,

a congregation in Vail, Colorado. B’nai Vail is the first organization in the US to participate in B’shvil Hamachar. Zablud says he was inspired to bring the program in 2014. “In the first Gaza war I knew somebody who was very badly wounded there. After talking with my sister in Tel Aviv, I knew I wanted to do something connected to the organization that she created.” When he returned to the US, he decided to bring groups to Vail Valley.

The next step was to propose the idea to Rabbi Joel Newman of B’nai Vail. Newman’s wife Janet says they immediately jumped on board and brought the first group to Vail, along with two psychologists. “They do a process that was unique at the time and now has been duplicated by others. It is IDF approved and endorsed process of helping people share their experience in a group setting. They tell their story, they have the support of the group, and the psychologists help them work through their feelings,” she says. The result is that the soldiers no longer feel alone and have a community of people with shared experiences they can turn to.

Newman says the experiences of welcoming the soldiers is powerful for congregants as well and lasting friendships are formed. A highlight is a mountaintop Shabbat service that. “We have 700 people that come to the top of Vail Mountain.

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Participants in B’svhil Hamachar in Vail, Colorado

Community Relations Committee

Stronger Together

By DEBORAH OLESHANSKY

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n the past few months Jewish community leaders have been busy working with state and local officials to consider a layered approach to handling the rise of antisemitism. These efforts include drafting and proposing both state and local statutes necessary to do everything in our power to prevent future public and high-profile activity by Nazi other white nationalist groups. This essential work is only possible through partnership with our elected officials, law enforcement professionals, and key lay leaders with the necessary expertise. As Rabbi Jonathan Sacks taught, “Jews cannot fight antisemitism alone. The victim cannot cure the crime. The hated cannot cure the hate. The only people who can successfully combat antisemitism are those active in the cultures that harbors it.”

One such partnership was a reception hosted at Sherith Israel for our state legislators as they began the 2025 Tennessee General Assembly session. Several bills have been proposed this

session for consideration to mitigate any future possible actions by these hate groups in our city and state.

When groups of Nazis march through out cities and state, waving swastika flags, they do not only seek to harass Jews, but they are also an afront to anyone who values civility, decency and respect. When white nationalist groups target our homes with vicious and threatening propaganda about Jews, they desecrate not only Jewish homes but violate and damage the sense of security of our friends and neighbors.

There is no easy fix to antisemitism –it has been described as the oldest hatred, and it is only abated when we stand together to loudly oppose it.

None of us can stand idly by and expect to maintain our sense of safety and security. As history teaches us, it starts with the Jews but does not end with the Jews. We cannot address antisemitism in a vacuum but only as part of a bigger endeavor to drive out the forces that breed all forms of hate and bigotry. No one in our state should be threatened or attacked simply for who they are, where they were born, who they love, how they worship, or even if they worship.

This work is not easy, and there is no single solution to the ills of hate and bigotry. JCRC will continue to work actively, and proactively to educate and advocate on behalf of the Jewish community of greater Nashville, and to pursue the civility, decency and respect necessary to ensure the welcoming, inclusive and secure community we want and deserve.

JCRC Activity

• Active participation in the Hate Crime Working Group convened by Sen. Mark Pody, which has resulted

in several bills for consideration by the 2025 General Assembly

• Active participation in meetings with city officials to update necessary city ordinances

• Ongoing cooperation with Metro Nashville Police Department to ensure all officers are trained about the Jewish community. This is in addition to the established tradition in which all new MNPD Cadets visit the Gordon JCC and tour the Nashville Holocaust Memorial.

• Ongoing work with Metro Nashville Public Schools and other local private schools to address issues of concern by Jewish students and families.

SAVE THE DATE:

JCRC Social Justice Seder Thursday, April 3

Door open 5:30

Program and dinner from 6-8pm

For additional information about JCRC please contact Director, Deborah Oleshansky, deborah@jewishnashville.org

Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville Approves Emerging Needs Grants for First Quarter of 2025

By MICHAL BECKER, CHIEF IMPACT AND PLANNING OFFICER

On January 14, the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville’s Board approved the grants committee recommendations for our Emerging Needs grants for the first quarter of 2025. What does this long sentence mean?

It means that thanks to our generous donors, the Jewish Federation has the tools and resources to support new and developing programs that address many ways of being Jewish in Nashville. It provides many ways for Jewish people in Nashville to feel that they belong. That they have their place.

The Federation’s grants committee reviews the Emerging Needs grants once a quarter and then submits their recommendations to the Board for approval. Among the grants approved by the board in January are:

• Support for Moishe House programs.

Moishe House has a pivotal role in the engagement of post-college young adults in our community. They are based in East Nashville but collabo-

rate with many other organizations around town.

• A grant to East Side Tribe to continue building a flourishing community in East Nashville, and also involved many participants from all over the region.

• A very important program run by Vanderbilt Hillel, which aimed to give students essential tools to hold conversations with their peers on Jewish perspectives about Zionism.

• Scholarship grants for Kehilla High School’s students, to reduce the barriers to receiving a Jewish Education.

• Support for Congregation Micah’s Micah-nections, a program that provides engagement opportunities such as informal holiday gatherings, Shabbat dinners, Jewish text study, and more.

• A grant for NCSY that supports inspiring and empowering Jewish teens and encouraging passionate Judaism through Torah and Jewish tradition. The Jewish Federation is proud to be able to support our partners and to build together a flourishing Jewish community. •

JFS Presents: The (M) Factor –

Breaking the Silence on Menopause

By BARBARA DAB

Menopause is the transitional time when a woman is in her late 40s and 50s marked by a decrease in estrogen production and symptoms that can include hot flashes, mood and sleep disturbance, and other physical and emotional changes. Every woman will eventually experience it, assuming she lives long enough, and yet, the topic has been and remains taboo.

A new documentary, “The (M) Factor: Shredding the Silence on Menopause” is looking to break what it calls the cycle of shame for women. Jewish Family Service will be screening the film, followed by a panel discussion with experts in the field, on February 9th. Pam Kelner, executive director of JFS, says this program is an important part of JFS mission to both educate and empower the community, “In addition to the screening of the film, we have put together a panel of experts who will shed light on a topic that is generally shrouded in mystery and stigma. Women who attend this event will be empowered to make more informed health decisions. I am personally looking forward to being in community with women and learning more.”

According to the film, 55 million women in the United States are currently experiencing menopause, but often even doctors are not interested or equipped to help their patients. “There’s a lack of interest among clinicians,” says Dr. Nancy Lipsitz MD, an OB/ GYN and Menopause Society Certified Practitioner, “Some OB/GYNs really

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only want to focus on obstetrics and seeing younger people. And there’s not a lot of knowledge and training with perimenopause and menopause.”

Lipsitz says this lack of attention to women’s symptoms reflects societal bias around women’s aging. “Older women say they feel invisible. So, can [their symptoms] be attributed to normal aging versus true hormonal decline? I think there is a tendency for women not to be listened to.”

One of the key issues discussed in the film is the use of hormones to help alleviate symptoms. For the last two decades doctors have debated the safety and overall benefits of hormone therapy with the pendulum swinging back and forth which also adds to confusion for patients. “We have a good 20 years of people who went through their training starting any time after 2002 when the Women’s Health Initiative came out, that during their training there’s a fear of hormones amongst the clinicians to not prescribe.”

The Women’s Health Initiative (WHI) was a long-term national study of women’s health that focused on cardiovascular health, cancers and osteoporosis. The WHI investigated the use of estrogen hormone therapy to prevent chronic disease, but the results led doctors to stop prescribing them for menopausal symptoms. Now however, Lipsitz says the pendulum has begun to swing back. “Before the WHI study we treated everyone with hormones. Then the study came out and everyone stopped the hormones. And now we don’t want to go back to

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square one, but these things are nuanced. Hormones are not a panacea. There’s definitely a role for them.”

Lipsitz says this debate around hormone therapy is just one example of what women go through just to try and become informed. “There are not many areas of medicine where you’re going to have so much controversy or feelings about it. Where people come and say, ‘My doctor doesn’t believe in hormones, or won’t prescribe them.’”

In addition to addressing the most common symptoms, which typically begin around age 51, Lipsitz says today’s more effective genetic testing for ovarian cancer can lead to early menopause for younger women, something that Ashkenazi women are at higher risk for than the general population. “One out of 30 Askhenazi women carry the BRCA

gene, versus one out of 300 or one out of 400 in the general population. So, we do have a higher number of women than average who may have their ovaries removed at a younger age.” She says that can increase the risk of menopausal symptoms and other medical problems. In addition to the physical symptoms, menopause can affect a woman’s mental and emotional health. Lynn Barton, LCSW, is also one of the panelists for the event. She says although women do not usually contact her for health problems, often during therapy sessions, she uncovers how overall physical health, like menopause, is affecting their emotional health. “We start to look at how that might impact or exacerbate feelings of depression, feelings of anxiety, feelings of fatigue, or lost in a fog.”

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Letter to the Editor

Be Loud,

Proud, and Engaged Judaism

Brava Deborah Oleshansky, for “Loud and Proud Judaism.” It makes me proud to be part of our JCRC which works diligently to combat antisemitism in our community and in all of Tennessee! As an educator, I believed in teaching that ignorance leads to fear which leads to racism and all that comes with that, such as violence. Education is key but must proceed without book bans and restrictions on topics such as the Holocaust.

The political engagement of the JCRC in our local and state politics is vital. Protecting our Democracy begins at our local and state levels.

All that the JCRC does reminds us of how important engagement in our National Elections is as an essential tool in combatting antisemitism. Whether you voted Republican or Democratic,

for financial reasons or Israel Support, it is well documented how the incoming administration supports right wing Christian Nationalism. Separation of Church and State cannot be canceled. My generation remembers forced prayer in Nashville schools and the “in Jesus’ name we pray” later changed to a “moment of silence.” We are back there again. The real threat is in the fact that those who support this, associate Christian Nationalism as a “positive influence of faith and morals in society” which implies all other religions are immoral, etc.

“Loud and Proud, yes! Let’s remained engaged as to what is already happening at a fast pace with more to come. •

Rae Levine Nashville, TN 37209

Editor’s Note

The new year is well underway, and I hope you are all off to a good start.

I’m happy to report I have now been the editor of this historic publication for five years! These past years, much like most I am quite sure, have been filled with change, chaos, joy, wonder, and exciting local, national, and world events. It has been an honor and a privilege to bring stories of these things to you and to become a part of this newspaper’s 90-year tradition.

I’m sure many of you now read The Observer on our website. But I am sure many of you are like me and enjoy reading the news in print, maybe with a steaming cup of coffee or tea on the side.

The Jewish Federation is dedicated to the values of local journalism and is committed to continuing The Observer into the future. But as you can imagine, the cost of producing a print newspaper has skyrocketed along with many other of life’s pleasures.

A few months back, we included fundraising envelopes in the pages of the newspaper to highlight our work and to ask for your support to help us meet the rising costs of producing this publication. I am pleased to announce that thanks to your generosity our campaign raised approximately $17,000, more than any year in recent memory! Thank you for your support of our work and your dedication to local Jewish journalism. I always enjoy your letters, even when they challenge or criticize something. And I continue to welcome the feedback. At its best, journalism serves to engage and inform a community, reflecting its values and serving as a living document of current events. I hope we have done that for all of you and promise to continue raising the bar. Wishing you all a prosperous 2025 filled with good health, and good times with those you hold most dear. •

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Creating Connections: The Impact of Jewish Summer Camp and One Happy Camper Grants

By BARBARA DAB

When Jennifer Gorodetsky’s daughter Gwen was old enough for her first summer at camp, there was some reluctance to send her. “I’d always been told camp is important. But I never really bought into it because I always thought that we go to Hebrew school, we go to services almost every Saturday, and we’re tight with the Jewish community. I didn’t see why this was so important.”

Add to these reasons the high cost of two weeks at sleep away camp, and Gorodetsky just was not convinced it was best for her family. Asking for financial assistance also did not feel quite right. Gorodetsky is a physician who felt she could support her family, but years of paying off student loans had taken a financial toll.

Then, Sharon Paz, director of lifelong learning at West End Synagogue, suggested Gorodetsky apply for a grant from One Happy Camper, just one of The Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville’s grant programs that helps families with summer camp expenses. “She encouraged me to do it, and of course it was great,” says Gorodetsky.

One Happy Camper is just one example of how the Jewish Federation continues its mission to support the Jewish community and foster a sense of connection and belonging. Michal Eshkenazi Becker, chief impact and planning officer for the Federation says, “An essential part of this communal responsibility is the Jewish

Federation’s scholarships and grants. An essential part of these grants is summer camp financial assistance.”

According to the Foundation for Jewish Camp’s 2024 report 94% of families surveyed said that overnight camp helped their child feel part of the larger Jewish community and its peoplehood. Becker says, this is why the Federation supports several options to help families send their children to camp. “We give grants to Camp Davis based on financial need, we provide scholarships for sleepaway camps for families, based on financial needs, and we provide grants through One Happy Camper, which is not need

based and is for first time campers to Jewish overnight camps.”

The cost of summer camp, both day and overnight, has skyrocketed and more families like Gorodetsky’s are applying for grants from programs like One Happy Camper. The 2024 report shows household incomes of more than $200 thousand has increased from 17% to 32% in the last nine years. “It’s expensive to be Jewish,” says Becker.

already have an a plus.” Orlow says this need for belonging is even more important since October 7th. “It’s sort of exponentially a sense of desire for being in places where I belong. I don’t have to apologize for who I am.”

Since the One Happy Camper incentive is only for one year, success might be measured by the number of families that send their children to camp the second year, with no incentive. The 2024 survey found 87% of families send their children in year two. Case in point, Gorodetsky has already enrolled her daughter for this coming summer at Camp Ramah and hopes to use the incentive in a few years for her younger daughter.

Marisa Braunstein, program manager for One Happy Camper, says the numbers support Becker’s assertion that participation in Jewish camp helps connect families to the local Jewish community. In the 2024 parents’ report, she says, “60% of One Happy Camper recipients report having a higher degree of involvement and engagement with their temple or synagogue after the summer at camp.”

And a fact that might be music to the ears of Becker and other Jewish professionals, 80% of OHC respondents believed the incentive “positively” affected their family’s connection to the sponsoring organization. Becker says, “Our job at the Jewish Federation is to support a flourishing Jewish community, and we do it by raising money to support Jewish programs, but also to make them more accessible to our community.”

The One Happy Camper program is a one-time grant for children who have not yet attended a Jewish sleep over camp and are enrolling for at least twelve nights. Families choose from a wide variety of Jewish camps nationwide. Rabbi Avi Orlow is the scholar-in-residence for the Foundation for Jewish Camps. He says, “Every camp is not right for every kid, but there is a Jewish camp for every kid. And if we can find that right home, it’s not going to just be a home for the summer, it’s going to be a home for a lifetime of other Jewish choices they’re going to be making.”

The choice for the Gorodetsky family was Camp Ramah Darom. And despite Gorodetsky’s reservations and her own personal fears, her daughter had a great summer. “She said, ‘I was around people who are all Jewish. I don’t feel like an outsider.’ She had this amazing camp experience.”

That amazing time is exactly what Orlow says is the goal of One Happy Camper. “We’re a community of belonging and camp is a manifestation of that belonging. You just show up and you

And while some grant programs are need based, an important distinction, says Orlow, is that One Happy Camper is not. “One Happy Camper is about lowering the barrier. We have many different strategies for helping camps accommodate different needs so that for example kids can be on varsity soccer and still go to camp.” He adds that there is another focus too. “The other part of our work is raising the bar. How are we creating better impact, more return on investment for every camper. And our staff is out there right now planning it.”

But from a practical standpoint, families who utilize grants and incentives report reaping the rewards throughout the year. Gorodetsky says, “I think when people think about it maybe they think it helps just one type of family. But it helps a lot of different types of families. It’s brilliant.” •

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Navigating the Business of Death: The Importance of Advance Planning and Family Support

By BARBARA DAB

When a loved one dies, most people focus on the here and now. What were their funeral wishes? What does our religious tradition require? Who do I call first to make the arrangements? Did my loved one even do any advance planning? And how much will all this cost?

It is usually only later, after the funeral, burial, and shiva that the next questions arise, mostly dealing with business and financial issues. Who is the executor? Where are the financial records located? Was there a safe deposit

box? How did my loved one want their business affairs handled? What bills need to be addressed immediately? What is to be done with any pets? And even, where are the passwords and login information for all the accounts stored?

These questions are often the most overwhelming to answer. When Mollie Lacher’s father died she watched as her brother spent hours sorting through everything and a few years later, her brother-inlaw died unexpectedly at age 42, and she decided to do something to help families. “It is important to do formal estate planning. But then there are these little other

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Mollie Lacher of Sunny Care Services will talk about planning for a loved one’s death and dealing with the details on February 20th 6-7pm.

areas and holes that aren’t covered in a typical estate plan,” she says.

Lacher started her business, Sunny Care Services, in the wake of her family’s traumatic losses to help other families fare better during a difficult and painful time. “You don’t really understand how chaotic and messy it can be unless you’ve gone through a loss yourself.”

One of the key components of advance planning, says Lacher, is to tackle that estate plan, and to make sure to document those things that are often left out. Lacher’s company works with families to create plans and provide assistance after a loss has occurred. “We get

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even more granular down to things like utilities, how you pay your mortgage.”

Lacher believes some of the problems dealing with the business of death is endemic to American culture. “It’s set us up to be very guarded about it. We’ve made so much of the conversation taboo. There’s this portrayal that if I ask my parents about it then I’m just being money hungry,” she says. Rather, she says it is kind to be transparent.

To help facilitate this difficult conversation, The Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville, through the Life & Legacy program, is hosting a presentation by Lacher. Norma Shirk, Life & Legacy coordinator for the Federation, says it is an important part of legacy giving. “Life & Legacy is about the future and family planning,” she says, “You plan to leave gifts later on but also take care of your family now.”

Shirk went through a similar experience as Lacher. Her father lived with serious health issues for much of his life but put off planning the basic details of what would ultimately come. “He had a massive stroke and was dead within an hour,” says Shirk, “I and my brothers had to deal with a lot of things.”

The program is scheduled for February 20th from 6-7pm at the Gordon Jewish Community Center. It is open to anyone interested in what Shirk says will be a planned, process driven session. For more information or to register visit https:// www.jewishnashville.org/mollielacher or contact Norma Shirk for more information at norma@jewishnashville.org. •

Social Justice Seder 2025

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Thursday, April 3

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6-8pm: Seder including full meal

Special Guest: Sloan Luckie, Goldman Sachs, Founder, Plant Chicago

Seder Leader: Rabbi Saul Strosberg Event Co-Chairs: Danny Goldberg and Sarah Roth

For additional information please contact Deborah Oleshansky, JCRC Director deborah@jewishnashville.org

Hinduism: “This is the sum of duty; do not do to others what would cause pain if done to you.”

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Buddhism: “Treat not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful.” –Udana-Varga 5.18

Christianity: “In everything do to others as you would have them do to you; for this is the law of the prophets.” –Jesus, Matthew 7:12

Sherith Israel Celebrates Rabbi Saul Strosberg and Rabbah Daniella Pressner’s 20th Anniversary

By ROBERTA GOODMAN

It’s hard to believe, but 2025 marks the 20th anniversary of Rabbi Saul Strosberg and Rabba Daniella Pressner joining the Nashville community. As a couple and as individuals, they have had a profound impact throughout both the Jewish and broader communities. As the beloved leader of Congregation Sherith Israel, Rabbi Saul has built a vibrant, active synagogue and his success can be seen every week in the many young families with little children at weekly Shabbat services as well as the deep sense of community that transcends age, observance levels, political views and economic status. His commitment goes far beyond the pulpit, reaching people in spiritual need throughout our community.

Beyond Sherith Israel, Rabbi Saul has been a force in Jewish education as a supporter of Akiva School and founder of both the Jewish Middle School and Kehillah High School. He has been

active in bringing together the broader Jewish community through music, chesed, and support of the State of Israel. In addition, he has strengthened our relationships with our Christian neighbors, particularly in support of Israel.

Rabba Daniella is, of course, Akiva’s Head of School and has built its enrollment, the General Studies and Jewish academic programs, and ethos. She is the living embodiment of commitment to Jewish education and a role model for our community’s children. Beyond Akiva, she has been a lay leader of Jewish Family Services and deeply involved in envisioning Jewish education in Nashville, as well as a generous and tireless hostess. With her lifelong passion for Jewish learning and education, she also serves on the Board and Strategic Planning committee for Yeshivat Maharat.

Both Rabbi Saul and Rabba Daniella lead by example, with wisdom, with empathy, with insight, and

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without ego. They are both much loved both at Sherith Israel and throughout our community.

This year also is the 120th anniversary of the founding of Congregation Sherith Israel, so it is a double simcha. While much has changed during the Shul’s 120 year history, what remains the same is the commitment to Orthodox practice combined with openness to Jews of all levels of observance. Rabbi Saul is the epitome of of this commitment as the Shul enters its next 120 years. And his and Rabba Daniella’s leadership have revitalized the Shul as evidenced each week with the many

young families actively engaged in the Shabbat service and with one another during the Kiddush luncheon.

To celebrate these dual milestones, Congregation Sherith Israel will be honoring Rabbi Saul and Rabba Daniella and celebrating its 120th anniversary at its annual fundraiser. The event will be held on Sunday March 2nd from 5 pm to 7 pm at the Gordon Jewish Community Center.

The event will feature a video celebrating the Strosberg-Pressner family as well as montages of photos from their lives, a retrospective of the Shul’s 120 years, wonderful food catered by Goldie Shepard, and plenty of time for schmoozing amid a warm and informal gathering of those who know and love this special couple. There will not be a lot of speeches for neither honoree wants them, something that will not be a surprise for those who know them well.

The event organizers will be compiling a personalized book of messages/ letters to be given to Rabbi Saul and Rabba Daniella in commemoration of this milestone to which donors and attendees will be invited to contribute. It will not be distributed to attendees so that contributors will be able to convey their personal reminiscences, feelings and wishes privately.

Reservations may be made on-line at https://www.sherithisrael.com/event/ annual-fundraiser-3925---shul-at-120. html. If you have any questions about the event, please contact Roberta Goodman at roberta_walter_goodman@yahoo.com. •

Rabbi Saul Strosberg and Rabbah Daniella Pressner have served the Sherith Israel congregation for 20 years.

By MARTIN SIR

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A Two-Pronged Approach for Israel: Balancing Military Strength with Nonviolent Pathways

hank you to the Observer for encouraging diverse perspectives to unify us for the “sake of heaven.”

Israel’s Declaration of Independence asks us in the diaspora to help Israel achieve a safe state and its goals, including “…freedom, justice and peace as envisaged by the prophets of Israel…”

We may be in a rare time in history to help Israel secure its safety and achieve its aspirational goals. From my lay perspective as a concerned Jew, I propose a two-pronged approach.

The first prong:

Not until recent history has Israel had the military power to protect itself and bring our enemies to the peace table. Hopefully, with this power, we will soon see a return of all the hostages and a sustainable ceasefire. Visualizing a new peaceful reality for the “day after” can inspire the second prong.

Many see a flaw in total reliance on the military prong: it results in tempo-

By LIBBY WERTHAN

All throughout our history, the Jewish people have faced critical moments – from the destruction of the Temple to October 7. And yet, even when all odds are against us, we have flourished. Why?

In each instance, we have found a way; the creation of Rabbinical Judaism after the loss of Temple worship; the establishment of Israel as an answer to the Holocaust.

In my lifetime, I experienced the birth of the State of Israel, the release of Soviet Jewry and the rescue of Ethiopian Jewry. And now, in the blink of an eye, we are once again facing a pivotal moment. Unbelievably, the vicious attack on October 7 by Hamas did not result in sympathy for the horrors perpetrated against us but instead unleashed a worldwide spate of antisemitism.

Our own children, college students, were the first to feel it. They were totally unprepared for the onslaught of hatred they experienced on the university campuses.

My generation of American Jews experienced a golden period for Jews. The doors to universities, to professions, to business opportunities were opened to us and our reaction was to become part and parcel of American society. We threw off vestiges of the past. We became cultural and communal Jews. We felt Jewish to our core. What we didn’t realize was that we were so busy becoming secularly educated that we lost sight of being Jewishly educated. In fact, for most of us the words, Jewish Education, bespoke of dimly lit rooms with bearded black clothed men sitting around a table studying large tomes in Hebrew. It reminded us of dress and religious observances we felt were counter productive in this amazing America.

And here we are, assimilated, financially comfortable, sensitive to Jewish and secular causes. Totally unprepared, as were our children on the campuses. Once again being threatened.

rary security and creates perpetual war with new generations of terrorists from Palestinian youth.

The second prong:

Envisioning and creating nonviolent paths that change the hearts and minds of Palestinians to break the cycle of violence.

Many are skeptical of the second prong as naive and unrealistic. But please hear me out. What if it were to work?

Human history changed in the last century with the non-violent philosophy and practices of Ghandi and King.

The non-violent practice for Israel in the second prong would be as Rev. Dr. Bernard Lafayette, a non-violent Civil Rights activist of the 1960’s, recently opined about the Gazan war: “You can’t just tell people to stop fighting and killing. You have to show them an alternative. And, you have to start with the children.”

With the creativity of the Jewish mind and aspiration of the Jewish soul for peace, we can help Israel and Palestinians imagine and create that non-violent path.

Living in the relative peace of the

diaspora, we can build bridges with Christians and Muslims for this non-violent path. The sacred text of all three Abrahamic religions, from the Cain and Abel story, teaches: “To save a life is to save an entire world.” This relationship building will help American Jews be more secure.

This second prong can include an internationally funded “Marshall Plan” with preconditions to recipients of the funds. The preconditions can be many, but might include:

1. Widespread therapeutic intervention to treat those traumatized and suffering from this war and previous wars (on both sides).

2. Grassroots education on nonviolent practices, beginning with youth, for building the “beloved community” as envisioned by Dr. King and Rabbi Jonathan Sacks in his “Politics of Hope.”

3. A new government in Gaza that recognizes Israel’s right to exist in secure borders and a government

The Imperative for Jewish Education

Jewish education today is a far cry from the black bearded men around that table. Anyone that has visited our schools knows that well.

When we moved to Israel, in 1990, I felt comfortable in my Jewishness. That is until I came to learn that I was lacking even the most basic tenets of Judaism. I was shocked with what I didn’t know. I knew customs, rituals, holidays but what I realized is the essence of Judaism lies in the intellect, in philosophy. How does one relate to the higher power we call G-d; how does one relate to his fellow man; how has Judaism changed and developed throughout the years; what was the difference between the Torah, the Talmud, and the Mishna. I spent 25 years learning what I didn’t know. It was the most intense intellectual experience of my life, and the most rewarding.

When we returned to Nashville, it was booming. But Jewish education still stopped with Akiva graduation, age 12. I had been denied a Jewish education in my youth. I was dismayed that little had really changed. A city with the vitality of this new Nashville should certainly provide its youth with K-12 Jewish education. I spoke to rabbis and community leaders, all of whom told me that Nashville couldn’t sustain more advanced Jewish learning.

Despite, the negativity, a small group of community leaders sought out Rabbi Saul Strosberg, whose innovative thinking had created the middle school. We saw the potential and value of this small but vibrant school and lent our support and organizational expertise to it. With its success came Kehilla High School, now just three years old.

What couldn’t be done is being done. These schools are producing students steeped in Jewish knowledge values and strength in their Jewish identity. At the same they are getting an excellent academic college preparatory education.

Once again, the Jewish people are

in Israel committed to a two-state solution.

It is our hope and challenge to create a reality, as we have in America, where Israelis and Palestinians do not have to “rise early to kill their enemy before they are killed.”

We have resources in Nashville to help envision a nonviolent path. Vanderbilt’s James Lawson Institute and John Lewis’ alma mater, American Baptist College.

The peaceful approach of the second prong will gather international support and put pressure on Iran and our other enemies. While Israel does not currently have a partner for peace, this visioning can create that partner.

Even though we have tried many times in the past, it would be a shame, given the horrors of war, for us not to try again with innovative methods. As with Northern Ireland, now may be the time.

We may finally see what Golda Meir longed for…a time where “Arabs love their children more than they hate us.” •

required to act. We must produce a generation that is knowledgeable, secure, strong and prepared.

To paraphrase an article I read recently, the strength or fragility of

a Jewish community lies with its day schools. The Nashville I know has always stepped up, been a leader. Now is the time. We need Jewishly educated children to lead the way. •

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Vanderbilt Hillel Hosts “The Roast of Ari Dubin” Fundraiser to Celebrate Two Decades of Leadership

By SHANNON SMALL

On Sunday, February 23, at 5:30 p.m., Vanderbilt Hillel will pay tribute to a beloved leader and community figure, Ari Dubin, as he marks twenty remarkable years as Executive Director of Vanderbilt Hillel. Titled “The Roast of Ari Dubin,” the evening promises a delightful mix of lighthearted teasing and heartfelt honors for a man who has dedicated himself to nurturing Jewish life on campus.

Ari Dubin, originally from Houston, TX, has been at the helm of Vanderbilt Hillel since July 2005. Under his guidance, the organization has grown significantly, becoming a vibrant hub for Jewish students, fostering inclusivity, engagement, and cultural programming. Ari’s educational background includes a BA in Psychology from American Jewish University and a M.Ed. in Educational Psychology from the University of Texas. Before joining Vanderbilt, he served as the Assistant Director of Duke Hillel and held various leadership roles at the JCC in San Antonio and MetroWest JCC,

all of which have equipped him with the skills and passion to elevate the Hillel experience.

The fundraising event will feature an array of humorous anecdotes and affectionate roasts from staff, friends and former students, all while honoring Ari’s

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By ZIV SHEMESH, COMMUNITY SHLICHA (EMISSARY)

Binvaluable contributions. Attendees can expect an evening filled with laughter, camaraderie, and reflections on Ari’s impact on the Vanderbilt community. Ari lives in Nashville with his wife, Abbie, and their two daughters, Davi and Emmie, who will undoubtedly be in

attendance to cheer on their dad. This event not only serves to honor Ari but also to support the future of Vanderbilt Hillel, ensuring that the vibrant Jewish community he has cultivated continues to thrive.

Brian Small, former Assistant Director at Vanderbilt Hillel and Roastmaster General for the event, says, “It’s an honor and a privilege to be able to do this for my friend and former colleague. I’m trying to make it as entertaining and fun for everyone as I possibly can as Roastmaster General. It will all be for a great cause supporting Hillel, which is something I’m very passionate about.”

Join us for a night of laughter and gratitude as we celebrate Ari Dubin — a true champion of Jewish life at Vanderbilt.

To RSVP for the event, visit this link: give.classy.org/roastofaridubin

To make a donation in honor of Ari Dubin, visit this link: give.classy.org/ ariroast2025

For questions about the event, contact Shannon Small, Development Director at Shannon.small@vanderbilt.edu. •

Read with Ziv – Exploring Israel Through Books

ooks are journeys that transcend boundaries, offering a window into another person’s world. Reading Israeli literature is more than just learning about Israel; it is an emotional experience that bridges the gap between cultures. It brings us closer to the people living there, helping us understand their inner worlds, dreams, fears, and aspirations. It breaks down stereotypes and reveals the human faces behind the culture. When a reader finds themselves identifying with an Israeli character, something profound happens –the foreign becomes familiar, the distant feels close, and Israeli culture becomes woven into the reader’s own experience.

I am excited to share with you some of my favorite books by Israeli authors. The fiction offers a deep dive into Israeli culture and experience, while the nonfiction provides universal insights that resonate with readers worldwide.

Beaufort by Ron Leshem

see. And to the thirteen young men in his command, twenty-one-year-old Lieutenant Liraz “Erez” Liberti is a taskmaster, confessor, and the only hope in the face of attacks that come out of nowhere and of missions seemingly designed to get them all killed. But in their stony haven, Erez and his soldiers have created their own little world, their own rules, their own language. And here Erez listens to his men build castles out of words, telling stories, telling lies, talking incessantly of women and dead comrades. Until, in the final days of the occupation, Erez and his squad of fedup, pissed-off, frightened young soldiers are given one last order: a mission that will shatter all remaining illusions—and stand as a testament to the universal, gutwrenching futility of war.

Homesick by Eshkol Nevo

who was killed in Lebanon. The younger brother left behind, Yotam, forgotten by his parents, turns to Amir for support.

Further down the street, Saddiq watches the house while he works at a building site. He knows that this house is the one from which his family was driven by the Jews when he was a boy, and to which his mother still has a rusty key. Despite friendships that develop and lives that become entwined, tensions among this melting pot of characters seem to be rising to the surface.

This enchanting and irresistible novel offers us windows into the characters’ lives. Each comes from somewhere different but we gradually see that there’s much about them that’s the same. Homesick is a beautiful and moving story about history, love, family and the true meaning of home.

light our way. The choice is ours.

A Brief History of Love by Liat Yakir Is love about chemistry or do biology, evolution and psychology all have a part to play?

To the handful of Israeli soldiers occupying the ancient crusader fortress, it is a little slice of hell—a forbidding, fear-soaked enclave perched atop two acres of land in southern Lebanon, surrounded by an enemy they cannot

It is 1995 and Noa and Amir, a student couple, have decided to move in together. Noa is studying photography in Jerusalem and Amir is a psychology student in Tel Aviv. They choose a small apartment in a village in the hills, Originally called El-Kastel, the village was emptied of its Arab inhabitants in 1948 and is now the home of Jewish immigrants from Kurdistan. Not far from the apartment lives a family grieving for their eldest son

Happiness and Other Small Things of Absolute Importance by Haim Shapira

We all want to be happy but what is happiness? Haim Shapira navigates the terrain of happiness, exploring and contemplating an eclectic range of theories and insights into the conflicts we face on our journey to creating our own happiness.

Love is one of the most complex and confusing emotions in the human experience. It consumes so much of our lives and yet we don’t truly understand it – what it is on a biological, chemical and evolutionary level. This book takes you on a fascinating journey to explore the science of love, looking closely at the interplay between genes, hormones, emotions and relationships. Discover everything you need to know about why you are attracted to certain people, the brain’s role in your emotions, how to pick “the one” and how to preserve that love over time. Learn how to have better, healthier and more loving relationships by understanding the inner workings of love in your body.

Badulina by Gabi Nitzan

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What is your happiest moment? How can you know it? Do we waste time or does time waste us? Are questions about meaning truly meaningful? What’s really important? Drawing on literary and philosophical sources ranging from Alice in Wonderland and The Little Prince to Leo Tolstoy, King Solomon and Friedrich Nietzsche, Haim Shapira invites us to challenge our perspectives on happiness and provides us with alternative ways to appreciate what is important. As Haim concludes it is in the spaces between the possible paths that we might take that we are able to find a place of grace, and where the things that matter to us will

When the King & Queen of Badulina first entered his restaurant in India, author Gabi Nitzan could not have guessed that his life - like the lives of hundreds of thousands of people all over the world - will change forever.

Badulina is a tiny kingdom in Europe where everybody is raised on the belief that there is one single choice to be made in life, no matter the situation: Either you react like a victim - or you react like a King or a Queen.

In a journey that spreads over the Himalayas, Tel-Aviv, Egypt and Mexico, Nitzan learns why the royal couple isn’t married, goes on a dragon hunt with the King, becomes dangerously involved in a summit with the president of the US, and falls hopelessly in love with the Queen. •

Franklin Jewish Social: An Evolution

By ELLEN MONEN

It was March 2023. I was browsing Facebook when a post from Moms of Franklin caught my eye.

Annie, a California mom, was “in the process” of moving her family to the area. She asked, “Where are the Jews in Franklin?” Then she elaborated, “I know there are Jews in Brentwood and Nashville, but I’m specifically looking at Franklin.”

There I sat chuckling to myself, “Here we are! Most of us fit into one house.” And then I checked the comments — HOLY…. WHAT IS HAPPENING HERE?! I scrolled through to see again and again, “We are Jewish. We would love to meet other families in the area…”

As a branding and identity specialist who dabbled in social media for clients many times, I knew I needed to do what any good Jewish mother would do. I HAD TO find THOSE children of THESE MOMS of Franklin so that MY children could see they are NOT the only ones who celebrate Hanukkah.

And so, I did. I created a private Facebook group called Jewish Franklin, TN. People began pouring in, while the rest of us watched giddily in shock, with every single one.

At 41 members, we were in a state of awe — 41 Jewish people WITH families who live here in Franklin!?! That means more like 120 plus.

The group continued to grow. We were welcoming Jews unknown to the Nashville community, some even from the outskirts and others from the Nashville community itself. The Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville offered support and ideas. Michal Eshkenzai Becker,chief impact and planning officer for The Federation says, “Supporting groups like Franklin Jewish Social is a big part of the Jewish Federation’s mission to grow our community.We are here to professionally guide them, help them with issues in planning events, and support them through our grants. We are so proud of what this group has accomplished.”

Over time, we hosted playdates, Shabbat potlucks, comedy and movie nights, a white elephant party, ladies’ happy hours, cooking class, brunch gatherings, a Yom Kippur break-fast, walking, coffee and book clubs and even

one massive Passover seder, all pulled together by random but very dedicated volunteers who just wanted to know other Jewish people.

Then came October 7th.

There we were, alone together in a city that embraced its Christian values but did not even know it housed Jews. Many of us believed we were in the safest place possible while others feared the worst.

entertainment by Grammy award-winning Dennis Scott with Rabbi Danziger leading the story and blessings, two food trucks, and a beautiful sea of menorah candle lights. Local city officials, Senators and Representatives were involved, and we received huge support from our neighbors.

In November, Helen Crowley posted an ask about a menorah lighting. We knew time was of the essence. Many of us had awakened to a new sense of Jewish pride that we did not previously even know lived within us. And yes, that was even after moving to an area with full understanding that we were just a little too far to easily take part in any sort of Jewish community.

Just days later, I happened to be at a small event where the City of Franklin’s Mayor Ken Moore spoke. I approached the mayor and asked if the City would be open to hosting a public menorah lighting. Funny enough, he had already heard from someone else in the group via email. The next thing I knew, he was introducing me with open arms to the City’s event planner.

Fast forward a few weeks — we were given a beautiful venue and the City’s support. They said they had no idea we were here, to which we responded, “neither did we.”

A week later, we were surprised with new Hanukkah light post banners decorating the streets of the historic district.

When the Federation caught wind of our plans to host Franklin’s first public Hanukkah, they offered to cover a large portion of our costs and even present the insurance. Volunteers jumped in for additional fundraising, supplies, talents and support. It came together so quickly, along with a clear picture of just how strong, supportive and multi-talented our little community was.

The City of Franklin’s first Hanukkah celebration took place. Planned in a miraculous eight days and eight nights, this literal miracle came together without an event planner… and with very little sleep.

We were honored to host musical

Gordon JCC Adult Program Happenings:

TGIT – February 2025

February 6th – Ginger Sands

Back by popular demand! Ginger Sands is a musician & certified mindfulness educator based in Nashville, TN. With Laughing Sun Records, Ginger has released a catalog of albums that span folk/ rock, Americana and family music genres. Her most recent EP, “Catharsis,” featuring message music that reflects a vision and hope distilled out of the cultural challenges of the current times.

Lunch: Tomato soup, sandwich, chips, salad, birthday cake and ice cream.

February 13th – Kem Hinton -The Good The Bad The Ugly. One More Try!

Architect and historian Kem Hinton

returns to take us on a journey through the new Nashville. The good bad and ugly of Nashville development!

Lunch: Salmon, salad, sides, dessert

February 20th – Andrea Czspruiz returns for our ongoing Health & Wellness series

Physical therapist Andrea Cziprusz’s knowledge and presentations are always chockful of useful information to keep us aging active and well.

Lunch: Chicken, sides, salad, dessert

February 27th – Singer | Songwriter | Keyboardist Jesse Alex

Jesse Alex is on a mission to expose truth through art, sound, and love and whose music defies boundaries.

Lunch: Chili, salad, sides, dessert •

The night was beyond our wildest dreams with over 400 attendees, so many that we ran out of parking. But the best part — when the evening ended, the first thing the city representatives said to Erin Wood and me was, “You have already outgrown this venue. Next year will be bigger!”

By March, the city of Franklin had already reached out to get us on their 2024 calendar. We selected Franklin’s historic Public Square this time. They told us to expect at least double the crowd. The streets would be shut down and secured. A stage was encouraged. More food trucks were a must. We said –whoa – and ran with it!

Erin and I poured our hearts and lives into producing a meaningful night with the help of so many others. We were inspired by the state of this world and dedicated to the memory of Rose Lubin z’’l, whose grandmother, Franklin resident Eva Marx, would be present.

A few months out, Meital Nisim, who we called our Israeli angel, magically appeared and took on the role of Assistant Producer and Emcee — in 2023, that magical person was Liat Zilberman.

The Promise Sessions organized musi-

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Acal entertainment, and The Star of David designed and curated the art show and market. Rabbi Saul led the candle lighting, and Patricia Heaton of O7C spoke just after Eva Marx and Franklin’s Police Department’s Max Winitiz.

We saw that we were growing into a full-fledged festival for the entire community, neighbors, allies and all by year two! We invited all the Jewish organizations we had contacts for and made calls for volunteers. The goal was to create a true festival for hope and healing — The Miracle of Light.

Through the planning process, we changed our name to accommodate a new local friend — Williamson Chabad – the county’s first rabbinical presence, choosing its home after seeing our group’s growth and evolution.

And that is how we became Franklin Jewish Social. The new name felt most appropriate — we are not affiliated with any institution or sect of Judaism. We are a bunch of locals seeking to live kind and meaningful lives, just BEING Jewish together.

Here we are now utilizing the rigorous vetting system known as Jewish Geography, which has brought in over 500 locals from far and wide. We have a private group and a public-facing page for allies, both of which can be found through our website — franklinjewishsocial.com.

FUNNY FACT: Sweet Annie, who inspired this all, never actually moved to Franklin. But she will always be a part of our mishpacha. •

of the Matter

s we gather to celebrate Tu B’Shevat, the Jewish New Year for trees, I am reminded of a cherished family tradition. Each year, on our daughter Shoshana Ella’s Hebrew birthday, which coincides with Tu B’Shevat, we would prepare a special dessert: chocolate pudding layered with crumbled Oreo cookies to resemble soil, filled with gummy worms, and adorned with a small plastic plant symbolizing a tree. This playful treat was more than just a celebration of her birthday; it was a meaningful way to connect our kids with our heritage, planting deep Jewish roots, connection to the Land of Israel where the trees were blooming, and creating positive memories.

In Judaism, the comparison of a person to “a tree of the field” (Deuteronomy 20:19) offers profound insights into personal growth and resilience. Just as a tree requires four essential elements— soil, water, air, and sunlight—to thrive, individuals need a strong foundation, nurturing environments, and supportive communities to foster resilience. The soil, providing nourishment and stability for a tree’s roots, parallels the importance of a solid base – whether that be a home, synagogue, school or the JCC– the soil where we can be ourselves, make our mistakes, and still be accepted, loved and nourished where values and morals are cultivated. In challenging times, having a haven allows us to return, refresh, and continue growing.

For over 1700 of our clients, Jewish Family Service (JFS) is that haven and

solid base where our staff is dedicated to helping individuals and families establish and strengthen these vital roots. Our comprehensive services are designed to support the community through various life stages and life challenges, ensuring that everyone has access to the resources they need to flourish. Two examples include: Counseling Services: Life’s challenges can be overwhelming, but no one must face them alone. Our licensed social workers offer counseling for individuals, couples, families, and children, providing a safe space to navigate personal and relational difficulties. By fostering mental and emotional well-being, we help clients build resilience and develop coping strategies.

Food & Financial Assistance: Financial hardships can destabilize even the strongest of foundations. JFS provides emergency financial assistance, including help with utility bills and rent, as well as material support such as kosher food boxes and school supplies. By alleviating these stresses, we enable individuals and families to regain stability and focus on growth.

This Tu B’Shevat, as we celebrate the renewal of nature, let us also reflect on the importance of nurturing our own roots and extending our branches toward a brighter future. By fostering strong foundations—through family traditions, community support, and personal growth—we build the resilience needed to withstand life’s storms and continue to grow.

If you or someone you know could benefit from our services, please reach out at (615) 356-4234 or info@jfsnashville.org. We are committed to being the fertile soil that supports your journey, helping you stay grounded, foster resilience and flourish. •

The Jewish Observer 90th Anniversary

Continuing our 90th anniversary celebrations of The Observer, we are including some archives from 1935.

West End Synagogue Continues its Annual Christmas Tradition

By JUDITH SAKS

Continuing a longstanding tradition, West End Synagogue members spent Christmas morning bringing cheer to Vanderbilt University Medical Center staff working on the holiday. They wheeled carts filled with donuts

and pastries to all floors and set up tables in the lobby to serve visitors to the hospital. Kroger 70S and Belle Meade Publix generously donated the treats. Vanderbilt supplied the coffee, juice and paper goods that helped bring smiles to Vanderbilt staff, visitors and WES members. •

A Whole Lotta Lights: Hanukkah Celebrations Around the Region

By BARBARA DAB

This year’s public Hanukkah celebrations and menorah lightings had record numbers of people from around the region showing up. Nashville Mayor Freddie O’Connell presided over the city’s annual menorah lighting, accompanied by public officials, rabbis, and community members. Down South in Franklin, the second annual Miracle of Lights festival took place in the town square. Close to 1,000 people enjoyed latkes, donuts, and other seasonal delicacies while shopping for Judaica and

listening to the sound of music courtesy of the Promise Sessions and Cantor Josh Goldberg. See the full story in this issue, and in the meantime, relive the fun through the photos.

Chabad of Nashville was also busy celebrating Hanukkah. Menorah lightings and events included a lighting at Chabad with Mayor Freddie O’Connell and Metro Council members Sheri Weiner and Jacob Kupin. Approximately 300 people attended. And at the state capitol, Rabbi Itzchok Tiechtel celebrated the holiday with Governor Bill Lee and members of Nashville’s Israeli community. •

At Our Congregations…

Nashville’s congregations

Here are the websites for all five Nashville Jewish congregations, with information on services, upcoming events and more:

Congregation Beit Tefilah Chabad, www.chabadnashville.com

Congregation Micah, www.congregationmicah.org

Congregation Sherith Israel, www.sherithisrael.com

The Temple – Congregation Ohabai Sholom, www.templenashville.org West End Synagogue, www.westendsyn.org

The Observer provides congregational listings of events and services as a complimentary service to the community. If your congregation is not listed, it is because we did not receive the information in time to meet our publication deadline. Please give your rabbi, executive director, or synagogue volunteer a gentle nudge.

@ Chabad /Congregation Beit Tefilah

Saturday Night Live: An Evening of Soulful Music at Chabad

Chabad of Nashville to host Saturday Night Live, and evening of Soulful Music, featuring some of Nashville’s most talented musicians, On Saturday night, February 8, at 7:30 PM.

Soulful Music will be an evening of immersive musical experience, featuring Chasidic melodies, fascinating narratives, and motivational messages—woven together into an enjoyable musical introduction to the transformative voice of your very own soul.

Beyond its soulful sound, melody called the Nigun, or melody, provides a language for the spiritual side of life. From yearning lows to sudden highs, hopeful bridges to striving refrains, experience the journey of a Jewish soul in its own words. It will be an evening of Jewish music and Chassidic songs that will inspire the heart and express the soul.

An Evening of Soulful Music with Chabad will take place on Saturday night, February 8, at 7:30 PM at Chabad of Nashville. Participants will enjoy an Israeli falafel bar and drinks, while enjoying and evening of Soulful Music with several of Nashville’s most talented musicians.

There is no cost to attend, however one needs to RSVP at chabadnashvillle.com. For more information call 615-646-5750 or go to chabadnashville.com RSVP at chabadnashville.com

Kosher Pop-Up Deli coming to Nashville

If you love the delights from New York Jewish delicatessens, Chabad of Nashville foodie event in may call to you.

On Sunday, February 9, from 2:00 – 5:00 PM, Chabad of Nashville will host a pop-up Kosher New York Deli packed with the tastes and aromas of authentic cuisine. This will be an opportunity for the Nashville Jewish community can enjoy sandwiches packed with one-quarter pound of authentic, kosher deli meat including pastrami, corned beef and turkey that are imported from New York.

It’s been years in the making.

“Manypeople, have been asking us to do this,” said Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel. “While a full-time deli is not feasible at this time, an occasional pop-up might be. We’ll see how this goes.

“The fastest path to the heart is through the stomach,” he added, “and we want this to be a celebration of Jewish American culture for Jews and non-Jews.”

People can take their chances the day of the event but are urged to pre-order during the dates of February 2-6, to guarantee availability, Sandwiches will be available to pick up on Sunday, February 9, from 2 to 5 p.m. for pickup or dine-in at the Chabad Center’s spacious Social Hall, which will be set up with tables for seating.

This pop-up deli, which is taking advance orders by logging on to www.chabadnashville.com or calling 615-646-5750 is not kosher style, but the genuine article, Tiechtel said.

“Gourmet Hamantashen available Now in Nashville”

Leave it to the Jews to have a cookie inspired by cultural annihilation!

Hamantashen are the triangle-shaped filled cookies most commonly associated with Purim, the most joyous of all Jewish holidays. Hamantashen, the classic Purim cookies, are eagerly awaited by everyone young and old. They are versatile and can be made from a good sweet yeast dough, flaky dough or from a traditional cookie dough. The fillings can be mixed and matched.

The Hamantash cookie is eaten on Purim, when we read from the Book of Esther, the Megillah, and celebrate the Megillah, and celebrate the triumph of good (Esther) over evil (Haman, who planned to destroy the Jewish people.) Purim is the most joyous of all Jewish holidays.

Chabad of Nashville is offering delicious Hamantashen to share with family and friends, while celebrating the joyous holiday of Purim!

These gourmet Hamantaschen will be baked by an authentic Hamantash bakery in Brooklyn New York, and will be offered in three different flavors, Raspberry, Poppy Seed and chocolate chip, and will all be dipped in chocolate, to give a rich smooth taste.

Orders can be placed at chabadnashville.com/hamantashen, and need to be placed by February 23, for on time shipping before Purim. Purim will be celebrated this year on Tuesday, March 14, 2025.

For more information, feel free to call 615-646-5750

Chabad to host two TGIS celebration in February

Start your Shabbat off right with good friends, great conversation, and excellent kosher cuisine, all seasoned with the perfect amount of spirit and joy. TGIS is a Club Med Shabbat: An all-inclusive Shabbat experience. Enjoy a Friday night Shabbat dinner replete with traditional dishes. Blended with spirited singing, a Chasidic tale, and a chance to meet some wonderful new people. TGIS will be held on Friday evening, February 14, and on February 28 at 6:30 PM at Chabad of Nashville.

There is no cost to attend the TGIS Shabbat experience, however we kindly request that you RSVP by letting us know you will be attending at chabadnashville@gmail.com

Craving Community? There is hope!

Craving Community? There is hope! Join people like yourself for our weekly Shabbat morning service. For the whole family. Come for all, come for part.

Join us for our weekly Shabbat service and community experience. Services are warm, welcoming, joyous, and friendly, and they will include some traditional prayers in Hebrew, explanations and English readings, Torah reading and inspirational talk.

The traditional service is designed to guide you step-by-step and will make you comfortable regardless of previous exposure and background. This, coupled with modern Jewish melodies and an easy to read prayer book translation will make Shabbat prayer services an enjoyable and meaningful experience for you.

Shabbat morning services begin at 10:00 AM, with Torah reading at 11:00 AM, and is followed by a social Kiddush buffet luncheon, including a hot gourmet cholent, and a spread of delicious dishes and freshly baked desserts.

The event is always capped off with Torah and Tea for women, and the Men’s Group weekly farbrengen with L’Chaim.

BLT – BAGELS, LOX AND TANYA

Join friends for a morning of bagels, lox and Tanya (Jewish mysticism) on Sunday, February 23, at 10:00 AM. Partake in a delicious spread of bagels, lox, cream cheese, and freshly brewed coffee as you learn from the Holy Book of the Tanya, and the Gates of Trust. Nourish your Mind, Body and Soul with BLT at Chabad of Nashville.

Chabad Chicken Soup Squad Winter 2025

All about town people suffering from the common cold, strains of flu, or maybe a strain of Covid, and are looking up and feeling a bit apprehensive.

Never fear: The Chabad Chicken Soup Squad is here to the rescue. Chabad is presenting the Winter 2025 Chicken Soup Squad, as various local chefs prepare authentic chicken soup, and a dedicated team of volunteers who deliver fresh heartwarming chicken soup to those under the weather, or are not feeling well. This chicken soup broth has earned rave reviews -it’s the original Jewish penicillin.

For anyone who would like a free quart or two of this unique chicken soup broth, or would like to volunteer with delivering this soup to those who are under the weather, please call Chabad’s Chesed desk at 615-646-5750, or email chabadnashville@gmail.com.

@ Micah

Congregation Micah - an inclusive, innovative synagogue exploring and celebrating Jewish life - is committed to building community and repairing the world! We offer creative and diverse ways to live a Jewish life in Tennessee and beyond, using the rich beliefs and practices of Progressive Judaism as our foundation. Visit our 30+ acre campus or access our virtual programs from our website, www.congregationmicah.org. Like us on socials: Facebook, and Instagram @MicahNashville; sign up for our e-blasts; learn and pray with us in-person, or livestream our service on our website, YouTube, or Facebook. In our tent, there is room for everyone!

Weekly Events

Sanctuary Shabbat Services: Fridays at 6 PM

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sacred space, the authenticity of our intentions, and through the power of music and song. Join us in-person or virtually for services this month that will be as diverse as they are engaging, as moving as they are participatory. Come early and schmooze with us starting at 5:30 PM! Light refreshments are served.

Saturday Morning Torah Study: 9 AM on Zoom

Deep conversations about the text with thoughtful and caring people led by the clergy.

Mah Jongg: Tuesdays from 12:30 PM- 3:30 PM

Join our players for an afternoon of fun in the social hall! For more information, contact Paula: pgkwn@comcast.net.

Schmooze & Views: Thursdays from 10:30 AM- 11:30 AM

At Micah, we keep politics off the pulpit but not out of the building. Share your views in a round-table discussion on current events facilitated by Rabbi Flip and Dr. Bob Smith.

February Events

Shabbat Shira - The Soundville Sessions: Friday, February 7 at 6 PM

Join us as we celebrate Shabbat Shira (the Sabbath of Song) in community- Micah Style! Cantor Josh recently released a double album called the Soundville Sessions featuring Rabbi Flip, and many other talented Nashville musicians. The album reflects the diverse catalogue of liturgical Jewish music Cantor Goldberg has composed over the years specifically for Shabbat. We will also be celebrating the consecration of our first-grade students as well as the brit mitzvah of Rosie Hauser. Our Chai Society (high school) students will help give a special blessing to our consecrates. Don’t miss this musical and meaningful shabbat!

Micah Reads: Monday, February 17 at 7 PM on Zoom

Education Director Julie Greenberg leads the discussion on “The Hebrew Teacher” by Maya Arad.r.

Women’s Circle: Friday, February 21 at 12 PM

Rabbi Laurie invites guest Megan Barry to speak on her newly published book, It’s What You Do Next, for this special edition of our Women’s Circle. We will be reading the book in preparation for the discussion. If you need assistance getting a copy of the book, please reach out to Rabbi Laurie in advance of the meeting. All are welcome. Bring a friend. See our Micah Events page for registration information.

Micah-Nections Late Night Shabbat and Dinner: Friday, February 28 at 7 PM

Unwind from your week, unlock the magic of Shabbat, and experience the power of community with our social group for young adults in their 20s and 30s. Moving music, delicious dinner, delightful drinks, and deep discussions await at this late-night Shabbat service. RSVP Required.

@ Sherith Israel

Musical Weekend with Dov Rosenblatt

February 15-16

An entire weekend of Jewish music, including Kabbalat Shabbat, Friday Night Dinner with Zemirot, Shabbat Musaf, and Motzash Open Mic Night featuring musicians of all ages.

For more information, visit www.sherithisrael.com

Community Beit Midrash with Torah Mitzion

Wednesday evenings at 7:30 pm in the Shul library

2/5 Fruitful Conversations

2/12 Fruitful Conversations

2/19 Let’s Shatter Some Myths

2/26 Let’s Shatter Some Myths

Save the Date:

Sherith Israel Annual Cholent Contest Shabbat, March 1, 2025

Sherith Israel Annual Fundraiser Sunday, March 2, 2025

Chief Cantor of Munich Germany, Chazzan Chaim Stern Weekend residency in Nashville Shabbat March 21-22

For more information, visit www.sherithisrael.com

At Our Congregations…

@ The Temple

Exploring the Prayerbook

Every Friday from 5:00-5:40 PM before Shabbat Services

Start Shabbat with a little study each week. We will explore the prayers of our Shabbat Service and discuss, and discover how these ancient Jewish texts still speak to us today.

Join us in person or via zoom at https://www.templenashville.org/virtualprogramming.html

Shabbat Schedule for February

Our Shabbat Services will be held in person at The Temple. You can also watch via zoom from https://www.templenashville.org/virtual-programming.html Friday, February 7th ~ 6:00 pm –Social Action Shabbat and following services, Temple’s Chikkun Olam team, is making samples of their award winning kosher hot chicken to go with our Oneg Friday, February 14th ~ 6:00 pm- Family Shabbat with Birthday Blessings and K-2nd grade Shabbat Friday, February 21st ~ 6:00 pm- Jewish Disability Awareness & Inclusion Month Shabbat with Haley Fried and Clare Clarke talking about Dream Street Friday, February 28th ~ 6:00 pm – Blue Jean Shabbat

Chevrah Torah Study

9:30AM on Saturdays

Join us for our weekly Torah study on the portion of the week, led by the clergy. You can join us in person at The Temple or via zoom from https://www. templenashville.org/virtual-programming.html

Tot Shabbat for Families with Young Children

February 8th at 4:00pm- Tu B’sh Tot Theme

For families with children up to age 5

Tot Shabbat offers families the chance to celebrate Shabbat with their young children in a creative way!

Women’s Torah Study

February 6th, 13th, 20th, 27th

10:30 AM on Thursdays

Ongoing weekly women’s Torah study led by Patty Marks.

Available in person at The Temple and via zoom from https://www.templenashville. org/virtual-programming.html

Lunch with the Rabbi

January 9th, 16th, 23rd, 30th

Lunch at 11:30AM

Program12:00-1:00 PM

$15 per person for lunch

Engage with Rabbi Danziger and guests in a discussion of current and important issues from a Jewish perspective.

RSVP on https://www.templenashville.org/form/Lunch-with-the-Rabbi or by calling the Temple at 615-352-7620

Available in person and via zoom from https://www.templenashville.org/virtualprogramming.html

Monday Mah Jongg with Canasta

Join Us for MAH JONGG Mondays at The Temple!

February 3rd, 10th, 17th, 24th

1:00pm

Drop in for Mah Jongg. We’ll have coffee and water. Bring your friends, a card, and a set and have some fun. Mah Jongg cards and sets are available for purchase in The Temple Gift Shop.

Golden Lunch Bunch

Will meet at Temple from 11:30-1:00pm on February 4th: Joanna Brichetto

February 18th: Sarah Swenson

RSVP to Jewish Family Service at 615-354-1686 or via email at helpinghands@ jfsnashville.org

3rd Annual Temple Talent Show

Unleash Your Inner Star!

Performers of all ages are welcome to show off their talents in this just-for-fun Shabbat afternoon show, followed by a brief Havdalah service and treats!

Saturday, February 1st at 4:00pm

Join the talented members of The Temple for an unforgettable show!

Sigh Up At: templenashville.org/talentshow

The M Factor

Join Jewish Family Service and The Temple for a screening of The M FactorShredding the Silence on Menopause Sunday, February 9th from 10:00-12:15 at the Gordon JCC

Followed by an information and empowering panel discussion.

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Light breakfast will be served.

Sign Up At: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/m-factor-shredding-the-silence-onmenopause-tickets-1142940849849?aff=oddtdtcreator

Murfreesboro Bagel Shabbat Brunch with Rabbi Danziger

The Temple is coming to Murfreesboro for Bagels & Fun!

Saturday, February 15th

10:30am

Linebaugh Public Library - 105 W Vine St

RSVP to Sheri at sheri@templenashville.org

Temple Together Cooking Class with the Jewish Cowboy

Saturday, Feb 8th at 6:00pm at Temple

$20/person

Menu Inspired by Tu B’Shevat Farm to Table RSVP by Feb 4 at https://www.templenashville.org/form/TTCookingClass

Temple Together is for people 35-50 years old

Dinner & Movie with the Temple’s Chai Society for those 65+ “The Way We Were”

Sunday February 16th

at The Temple

6:00pm (doors open at 5:45)

RSVP by February 12 at https://www.templenashville.org/events

Online Conversation with Dr. A.-J. Levine

February 4th

February 11th

February 18th

At 7:00pm online only

The Temple in partnership with Rev. Charlie Curb Center for Faith Leadership at Belmont University, host these discussions on her lasted book and its lessons.

Jesus for Everyone- Not Just Christians by Amy-Jill Levine

Join us via Templenashville.org/ajlevineseries

For links to the following online services or programs, please email office@westendsyn.org or visit our website calendar for more information https://westendsyn.shulcloud.com/calendar

2/1- Sisterhood Shabbat “Women of Faith: Strengthening Our Bonds” – 9:30 a.m.

West End Synagogue Sisterhood is delighted to invite the community to its annual Sisterhood Shabbat. This cherished event celebrates the invaluable contributions of women to Jewish life and community while embracing the spirit of togetherness and spiritual reflection.

Sisterhood members will lead the service, showcasing their dedication, talents, and commitment to the synagogue and its mission. The morning will include Torah readings, prayers, and thought-provoking reflections. This year’s theme, “Women of Faith: Strengthening Our Bonds,” highlights the power of community and the important role women play in preserving and enriching Jewish traditions.

Following the service, a special Kiddush luncheon will be provided, offering attendees an opportunity to connect and enjoy delicious kosher cuisine.

2/5 – The Sandi Goldstein Learn & Lunch Program for ages 60+ – 11:00 a.m.

Reservations required, catered lunch following the presentation.

Speaker: Michal Eskenazi Becker - Chief Impact and Planning Officer at Federation Lunch catered by Goldie Shepard at 12:00 p.m. Cost: $5.00

RSVP 615-269-4592 ext. 11 or office@westendsyn.org.

2/7 – Tot Shabbat – 5:30 p.m.

Friday night Shabbat services for Families with Young Children led by Nili Friedman & Sharon Paz. RSVP to spaz@westendsyn.org.

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2/8 – Kid’ish Club – 10:30 a.m.

Inviting all 2nd – 7th graders for Kid’ish Club Shabbat morning from 10:30-11:30 a.m. Kiddush lunch to follow.

2/8 – Todd Rubin Bar Mitzvah – 9:30 a.m.

2/9- World Wide Wrap – 9:00 a.m.

Join us as Jews throughout the world to pray and wrap Tefillin in solidarity with Israel on Sunday, February 9th, beginning at 8:30 a.m.

2/9 Congregational Community Kindergarten Tu B’Shevat Program hosted by Beit Miriam@WES-9:30-11:30 a.m.

Celebrating Tu b’Shevat thru music, special nature projects and fruit tasting.

2/12 – Women’s Torah Group (on Zoom) –11:00 a.m.

Rabbi Joshua leads our Women’s study group. We have just begun learning the book of Joshua.

2/13 – Men’s Torah Group (in person) –12:00 p.m.

Join us for our Torah class for men followed by a pizza lunch. We are currently reading the Book of Ezra.

2/14 - West End Congregational Family Shabbat Dinner – 6:00 p.m.

Join us for a congregational family friendly Shabbat dinner. For more details, check the website. RSVPs are required.

2/19 – The Sandi Goldstein Learn & Lunch Program for ages 60+ – 11:00 a.m.

Reservations required, catered lunch following the presentation.

Speaker: TBD

Lunch catered by Goldie Shepard at 12:00 p.m. Cost: $5.00 RSVP 615-269-4592 ext. 11 or office@westendsyn.org.

2/19 – Tu B’Shevat Beer Tasting with Trent Rosenbloom – 6:45 p.m.

RSVP on ShulCloud. Suggested Donation: $10

2/21 - 20s/30s Shabbat Happy Hour6:00 p.m.

Kabbalat Shabbat Services at 6:00p.m., followed by hors d’oeuvres and signature cocktails.

2/21 – Potluck Shabbat – 6:00 p.m.

Join us for an intimate Shabbat dinner experience in the Sukkah with delicious food and fabulous company following Kabbalat Shabbat services. RSVP to spaz@westendsyn.org and plan on bringing a pareve or dairy dish to share with friends.

2/22 - Elan Michaeli Bar Mitzvah & Birthday

Shabbat – 9:30 a.m.

2/22 – Kid’ish Club – 10:30 a.m.

Inviting all 2nd – 7th graders for Kid’ish Club Shabbat morning from 10:30-11:30 a.m. Kiddush lunch to follow.

2/23 – Music & Me for Families with Young Children 3 and under - Sunday, 10:30-11:30 a.m.

Inviting all parents and children 3 and under for a morning of music and movement with singer /song writer, Brett Fromson, on Sunday, February 23rd, from 10:3011:30 a.m. Please email Sharon Paz at spaz@westendsyn.org to rsvp.

At Our Congregations…

Learning Opportunities

Talmud on Tuesdays

Rabbi Joshua leads a lively Talmudic discussion at 7:30 a.m. in person and on Zoom every Tuesday, immediately after morning minyan. Come and join us!

Torah Study on Thursdays

Come join us for breakfast and Torah study at 7:40 a.m. following morning minyan

Jewish Ethics on Fridays

Between Kabbalat Shabbat and Maariv, every Friday we study together a portion of Pirkei Avot and we delve into the world of Jewish Ethics.

Religious Services

Shacharit (in person)

Our minyanaires are always looking for more people to strengthen the only egalitarian minyan in town! Sunday services are at 9:00 a.m. and Monday-Friday at 7:00 a.m. Thursday minyan is followed by breakfast.

Maariv (on Zoom)

Join us for daily Maariv at 6:00 p.m., Sunday-Thursday.

Kabbalat Shabbat (in person)

You are invited to join us every Friday for Kabbalat Shabbat at 6:00 p.m.

Shabbat Morning services (In person and on Zoom)

Please join us every Saturday morning at 9:30 a.m. Great davening, insightful learning of the Torah portion followed by a yummy (and nutritious!) kiddush lunch following services! •

Community Listings

B’nai B’rith Social Unit

Bring together long-term members of the Nashville Jewish community and people new to Nashville who are ages 50+ for fun social, educational, and service programs.

February 9: Super Bowl party

March 2: Progressive dinner

April 5: Havdalah and dinner

May 5: Kentucky Derby party

For more information, contact Gil Fox at gsfox3@comcast.net

East Side Tribe

Thursday, Feb. 6: L’chaim Time!

A very casual neighborhood happy hour with East Nashville’s meshugganah mishpachah

Sunday, Feb. 9: Tu BiShvat Wildlife Walk With East Side Tribe

Come join us for a light stroll in Shelby Park to celebrate our version of Arbor Day! All ages are welcome.

Friday, Feb. 21: February Potluck Shabbat!

Join us for our monthly potluck Shabbat dinner in a community member’s home. Everyone is welcome!

Find all of East Side Tribe’s programming at eastsidetribe.org

Rutherford Haverah

The Rutherford Haverah, aka Jewish Murfreesboro will be holding a “New to the Boro” event on February 18th at 2pm. Register for the event by going to https:// newcomer.jewishmurfreesboro.com . The address of the event will be provided upon registration.

Widowers & Widows Social Group

This group is for widowers and widows who have lost a spouse recently or in the distant past. We are not a grief support group. This is not a dating service or a meet/ meat group.

We are a group of adults who have experienced a similar loss. We enjoy coming together to do things as a group rather than “going it alone.” We meet for lunch on the second Monday of each month at various Nashville restaurants.

For more information contact Gil Fox at gsfox3@comcast.net. •

Learn more about the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville at www.jewishnashville.org

Winter/Spring Art & Music Classes at the Gordon JCC

By CARRIE MILLS, GORDON JCC CURATOR OLDER & ADULT PROGRAM MANAGER

The Madeline Pargh Arts and Crafts Center (MPACC) at the Gordon JCC is offering a variety of art and music classes this winter and spring.

Ceramics & Mosaics

With the kilns now fully operational, the center will soon announce a schedule of ceramics and mosaic workshops.

Ongoing Art Classes

Oil Painting with Rhonda Polen Wernick

Rhonda Polen Wernick, an accomplished artist and author of two painting

technique books, has been teaching at the JCC for over a decade. Her oil painting classes provide expert instruction in technique and composition.

Watercolor with Kim Lane

Kim Lane brings 40 years of teaching experience across three continents, having taught at the high school and community levels as well as with senior programs. Her approach focuses on hands-on learning, encouraging creativity and confidence in her students.

Songwriting with Grammy Winner Steve Leslie

The JCC is also offering a six-week Beginning Songwriting Course led by Grammy-winning songwriter Steve

Leslie. With songs recorded by artists including George Strait, Kenny Rogers, and Darius Rucker, Leslie has built a career in songwriting, mentoring, and music education.

The class will take place on Monday evenings, April 7, 21, 28, and May 5, 12, and 19, from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m. The cost is $595 for non-members and $535 for JCC members. Registration is open from January 6 through March 31. For more information about the songwriting class, contact steve@steveleslie.com.

We are excited to welcome new and returning students to our creative community. Registration for all classes is now open at nashvillejcc.org/artsandcrafts. •

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…so that it’s not just a fairy tale.

SEVEN (7) SIMPLE THINGS THAT NO ONE EVER TELLS YOU ABOUT SEARCHING FOR YOUR “Happily Ever After”

By LORETTA SAFF

1.SUCCESS ONLY COMES WHEN YOU HAVE A PLAN! Otherwise, you can end up wandering and grouchy like a Publix shopper who forgot the grocery list.

2. LEAVING FULL-TIME WORK IS ONE OF THE TOP TEN MOST STRESSFUL TIMES IN LIFE. Yep, it’s right up there with Parenting, except no one’s calling you Mommy or Daddy and asking for a snack every two hours.

3. HAVING A PLAN IS NECESSARY. BECAUSE YOUR WORK WON’T REALLY BE OVER. You’ll still be working hard. Figuring out your future takes time, patience, and knowing where your glasses are at all times.

4. PLANNING WILL HELP YOU AVOID THE DARK SIDE –because there really is a Dark Side. No, not Darth Vader, but the siren call of endless streaming series, the alcohol cabinet, and eating chips and salsa in your sweats.

5. WAITING TO SEE HOW YOU FEEL WHEN YOU GET THERE WASTES TIME. Leave the improv to the comedians. Start now to PLAN something about something so that if you want to volunteer, you can tell them you don’t want to drive carpool.

6. YOU’LL LOSE ROUTINE AND CONNECTION WHEN YOU LEAVE YOUR FULL-TIME JOB. With PLANNING you can avoid naming your houseplants after former coworkers just for company.

7. WHAT YOU THINK MIGHT BE, JUST MIGHT NOT BE. Family is busy, travel is harder, and no one warned you about the knee pain. PLAN ahead by making a Curious List.

In case you didn’t get the message. Reread #1. You’re welcome. It’s important to have someone telling you the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth. So, since I take my job seriously and it’s February - cold and possible snowy – take some time to PLAN. •

Loretta loretta@coachingwithloretta.com

A Rabbi and a Doctor Discuss Love

By RABBI MARK SCHIFTAN AND DR. FRANK BOEHM

Frank: Loving and being loved are the most important human emotions of life and a feeling that can enrich lives in countless ways. Uttering the words, “I love you,” are clearly the three most powerful words one can communicate to another person. Yet there are types of love that differ from one another. There is the instant love, the romantic and evolving love, the love of stranger and neighbor, and the love of oneself. Each of these originate and are expressed in dissimilar ways.

Instant love is the love, one feels the moment one holds a newborn baby for the first time and the feeling a newborn child feels for its mother and father. It could also be a grandchild that evokes that instant feeling of love. It is interesting that the first love mentioned in the Bible in Genesis 22 is parental love. “Then God said, take your son, your only son, whom you love - Isaac- and go to the region of Moriah.” Instant love is a feeling that translates into a world of action. Humans and animals alike will sacrifice their lives to save and protect the life of their child. It is a sacrifice that we make without thought or consideration. It is a pure act of instant true love.

While evolved love may have its origin with a growing friendship, it often begins with “chemistry” that we may confuse with a true and enduring love. Many call that lust. That lust then evolves into what some term an obsession which often

takes over one’s entire life. One is consumed with intense feelings for another person and a desire to be with that person as much as possible and to have that person become an integral part of everyday life. As time moves on and with the proper person that obsessive feeling evolves into what scientists say is a long-term attachment. It is this long-term relation that we then call true and enduring love. This true love also involves the elements of respect, pride, and trust.

Mark, you have had to deal with all types of love in your profession as a Rabbi. How do you view the issue of love of the neighbor and the stranger?

Mark: Within the Hebrew Scriptures, in the central book of the Torah, and within the portion of Leviticus known as the Holiness Code, we reach the ultimate pursuit and challenge to all of humankind: To love your neighbor as you would love yourself. The words are easy to read, yet excruciatingly difficult, at times, to achieve.

To love you neighbor as yourself, means that we are commanded to love someone in our lives, despite their faults and failings, to be able to overlook their shortcomings and to try to ignore those things within them that infuriate or exasperate us. In short, we must be as forgiving of them as we are of our own selves. This is much easier said than done.

But what about the stranger in our midst, those who are different from us, those who look differently than us, or who speak a different language than us, who come from a different culture or faith or

background than us? What of the foreign born or the immigrant to our shores?

On this the Bible and Jewish tradition are clear: We are commanded to love the stranger among us. As we read in the Book of Exodus: You shall not oppress a stranger nor wrong him, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt (Ex 22:20) The commandment to love the stranger is the single most referenced instruction in the Torah. Tradition records that similar instructions regarding the treatment of the stranger occur no less than thirty-six times in the sacred text.

This tells us much about the need to extend both the definition of our love for others created in God’s image, as well as the inclusion and embrace of that love. The Exodus story, the journey from bondage to liberation, from slavery to freedom, is not meant for us to enjoy and cherish alone. We retell the story at Passover each year to remind ourselves to treat others — even those who are different from us — with compassion, empathy and love. We who have known the bitterness of being treated harshly because we were the outsiders, we have a sacred obligation to treat others better than we were once treated, because we know how difficult life can be for those excluded or ignored.

Frank, you mentioned the importance of the love of oneself. Can you expand on what you mean by that? It sounds like it could lead to idol worship, with oneself as the idol to be worshiped above and over God.

Frank: Mark, of all the different qual-

ities and descriptions of love that we have discussed, the love of God seems the most difficult to explain and expound on. In my discussions with friends about their love of God, I received numerous answers, and I suppose that most of us have a variety of ways to describe how they come to the place of loving God. In that regard, I have my own way of describing my love of God.

The God I believe in is within my human form, embedded in the DNA that God created, and this God helps direct me on a path of goodness and righteousness speaking to me through a Still, Small, Voice. Many religious leaders from different religions have explained that the path to a meaningful and spiritual life could only be possible if one genuinely loved God. It seems, therefore, that I had only to love myself and that act alone would put me on a path of true understanding, spirituality, and love of others. This love of myself and therefore also God, involves feelings of trust, respect, and pride. I have come to a point in my life where I feel that I have been a trusting and respectful person and that I can justify a feeling of pride in how I have conducted my life. Therefore, I feel love for myself with this love resting on the premise that I also love God. I do not believe this is narcissistic, rather it is the God within me that has created who I am. It was not me alone. •

Rabbi Mark Schiftan can be reached at mschiftan@aol.com

Dr. Frank Boehm can be reached at frank.boehm@vumc.org

Building Community Through Tradition: Nashville’s B’nai B’rith Social Unit

By BARBARA DAB

B’nai B’rith has a long history of social justice advocacy, support for Israel, and helping to shape public policy. But it also has a history for bringing people together to just enjoy being Jewish. Nashville’s B’nai B’rith Social Unit was created in that tradition about 30 years ago when a group of couples at The Temple decided to join the storied organization. Gil Fox is one of the original members of the group. He says the group began as a havurah for couples but was in need of greater support. “It was sort of drifting, so somebody suggested we talk to B’nai B’rith about forming a group that really gave us a purpose.”

At the time, the group was made up of young couples, including Fox and his late wife Joyce, looking for social connections and support raising families. And so began Nashville’s own B’nai B’rith Social Unit. Over the years the group evolved as people grew older, couples divorced, or people passed away. But Fox says today there about 96 members ranging from native Nashvillians to newcomers,

some as recently as last month. Members belong to all five of the area congregations, and some are unaffiliated.

Monthly programs include picnics, tours of Jewish Nashville and the Nashville Holocaust Memorial, theater parties, and holiday celebrations. There are also service projects such as sponsoring Hanukkah parties for local assisted living facilities, book collections for Book-Em, and more.

Fox says one of the byproducts of the group is helping to welcome newcomers to Nashville, especially during the past several years of skyrocketing growth. “Over the years we have worked hard to try to integrate newcomers into the activities here in the community.” He says members new to town met many people from across the Jewish community, some of whom have become the best of friends and becoming family.

Today the group’s membership does tend to be empty nesters and retirees, but Fox says they are open to everyone and hope to attract younger people who will carry on the B’nai B’rith tradition in Nashville. “In the last year or so, it has

improved considerably. We have a membership vice president who is very good at talking to people and we’ve had a very nice increase in our membership.”

To learn more about Nashville’s B’nai B’rith Social Unit, contact Gil Fox, gsfox3@comcast.net, or Joyce Levin, joylevin8@gmail.com. •

Jewish Community Mixes and Mingles with Tennessee State Legislators

By BARBARA DAB

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ust as Tennessee’s state legislature began its 2025 session, Nashville’s Jewish community members and legislators got to know each other a bit, over hors d’oeuvres and drinks at Sherith Israel. The reception included performances by two local middle school musi

cians, some text study by Rabbi Joshua Kullock of West End Synagogue, and even the blowing of the shofar by Rabbi Saul Strosberg and Jason Sparks.

This session the legislature is expected to take up several bills aimed at combatting antisemitism and hate crimes, and strengthening some of the civic ordinances recently passed by Metro Council. •

Local Rabbi Unveils Course Decoding the Talmud

Chabad of Nashville’s six-week course Decoding and discovering the Talmud: Inside the Story, Substance, and Significance of the Book that Defines Judaism

Chabad of Nashville — This winter, Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel of Chabad of Nashville, will offer Decoding the Talmud, a new six-session course by the acclaimed Rohr Jewish Learning Institute (JLI). The course aims to demystify the intricate world of the Talmud, the monumental classic that has shaped Jewish learning for centuries.

Despite being one of the most essential texts in Judaism, many Jews struggle to explain what the Talmud really is. When asked about the Talmud, they find themselves at a loss for a clear answer. For a new learner, the Talmud can be intimidating and inaccessible, remaining a closed book for the masses.

Decoding the Talmud aims to change that.

Beginning, Wednesday, February 5 at 7:00 PM, students will meet its main characters, explore its dynamic history, and engage in authentic Talmudic study. They will learn the key terms, logical principles, and historical context required to decipher the text of this 1,500-year-old work and discover how it has survived and thrived, continuing to fill Jewish study halls to this day.

As Dr. Leib Moscovitz, Professor of Talmud at Bar Ilan University, explains, the course addresses a critical need: “The Talmud is a difficult work, one which is extremely different from modern works of the law, yet at the same time, it has exerted a decisive influence on Jewish life and practice throughout the generations.”

Dr. Moscovitz further highlights the importance of this course: “Decoding the Talmud seeks to open the door to this remarkable work for students of all ages and backgrounds. As such, it makes an

educational contribution of the highest importance for anyone who is and who should be interested in understanding and appreciating the Talmud.”

“The Talmud is the beating heart of Jewish scholarship—maddening, fascinating, even addictive. It’s a world of self-contained logic where questions are more important than answers, and no premise goes unchallenged.”

Rabbi Shmuel Phillips , author of Talmud Reclaimed, noted, “The chance to partake in an introductory course in Talmudic literacy is an opportunity that should be grasped with great enthusiasm!”

Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel says the course invites local Jewish community members of all backgrounds to explore effective Jewish wisdom for Decoding and discovering the Talmud. “Everyone is welcome; you don’t need any Jewish learning background to fully appreciate this course,” he says. “Students will learn the

Inside the Story, Substance, and Significance of the Book that Defines Judaism. Decoding the Talmud is a goldmine of wisdom form the sages.”

This course was developed by The Rohr Jewish Learning Institute, which is the adult education arm of Chabad International, and its JLI classes are offered at over 1699 locations in more than 900 communities worldwide.

Chabad of Nashville is the local affiliate of the Jewish Learning Institute, and is dedicated to serving the Jewish community of Nashville and Middle Tennessee. It offers a wide range of educational, social, and spiritual programs for Jews of all backgrounds.

To register for this new course “Decoding the Talmud”, go to myjli.com and select the city you are seeking to take this groundbreaking course, For mor information please call 615-646-5740 or go to chabadnashville.com •

Dive Into the Benefits of Water Fitness at the Gordon JCC

By GUILERME PASSOS, ASSISTANT AQUATICS DIRECTOR

Water fitness offers a full-body workout that combines cardio, strength, and flexibility training; all with the added benefit of being gentle on the joints. Exercising in water reduces impact, making it ideal for those with arthritis, recovering from injuries, or simply looking for

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Public Schools that helped their senior leadership better understand how they can create an improved experience for, and attract more, Jewish students. Your generosity helped us be prepared to do what was needed at a moment’s notice and be prepared for the future.

And it wasn’t just the crisis situations that we faced. Federation was there for lovely community-wide celebrations for Yom Ha’atzmaut, or the JCRC Community Seder. Or the somber remembrance of October 7th at The Temple. Or the incredibly successful Women’s Philanthropy Event in

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But at that service those soldiers come up and sing Hatikvah, and they face the 700 people who are standing and supporting them.” She says the bonds formed return to Israel with the soldiers.

When asked about the long-term success of the program, Newman says they do hear from participants who have returned to their lives. “We have one that came on the second journey here and he was a medic and experienced horrific sights and experiences; rescues that were horrific. In August he is taking his medical exams. He went back, he started medical school, and he still works for the elite 669 unit, but he is graduating.”

She adds this soldier is now married to a former paratrooper who is studying to become an attorney.

“These people have had amazing experiences with us and have been able to go on and do phenomena things.” But she adds, it’s the little things that mean

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a low-impact fitness routine. The natural resistance of water helps build strength, while the soothing properties promote relaxation and stress relief.

At the Gordon Jewish Community Center, our water fitness classes are designed to provide a well-rounded workout that’s both fun and effective. One of our standout instructors, Kim Lane, brings a wealth of expertise and energy to every session. With

November featuring guest speaker Eve Barlow. It was incredible seeing all the folks across the community that came out to the Bridgestone Arena to celebrate Jewish Heritage Night with the Nashville Predators. And to cap off the year, Mayor O’Connell hosted the community to light the city’s menorah to celebrate Hanukkah.

Before I came to work for Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville, I knew I loved this community. I have had so many touchpoints over the years myself, whether it was being a part of Nashville Limudim program over 15 years ago, being an Athens AZA BBYO advisor, serving on the Personnel Committee of my shul, blowing shofar on the High

the most in terms of living day to day. “The stories we’ve gotten back is, ‘Now I can sleep at night,’ or, ‘Now I can get along with my family,’ ‘Now I can hug my children.’”

Nashvillians Dr. Gene and Ruthie Saks spend much of their summers in Vail and are members of B’nai Vail, and not only learned about B’shvil Hamachar, but they also met some of the soldier participants. “I was very impressed with how this special program in Colorado gave these former Israeli soldiers the tools necessary to carry on with full, meaningful lives. After being there, and meeting with them and seeing what they do, I thought there could be no other place other than the facilities at Camp Ramah to do a similar thing.”

Saks says it is not often institutions in the US can provide services to the Israeli army. So, his next move was to broach the idea to Wally Levitt, CEO of Camp Ramah Darom. Levitt agreed.

“Our 185-acre campus in the North Georgia mountains is the perfect setting

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These feelings also have an impact on a woman’s relationship with others. She says she thinks discussions like the JFS event are important to include men as well. “It would seem to me that any man who is in a relationship with a woman of this age, it would be good for them to know all of this too.”

Barton says conversations around women and aging highlight the disparity between the sexes. “It’s sort of, at times, a razor’s edge. Because we don’t want to say we are governed by hormones, which would lead men to say, ‘Well they’re not fit for certain jobs.’ But we want men to realize that they’re going to have issues to deal with their hormones and we are too.”

She also stresses women should not only focus on the negatives of aging and loss of fertility. “They don’t have to worry about getting pregnant. They don’t have to worry about some of the same things. It can be a time of more freedom as well as a time of loss.”

Barton also points to the film’s dis-

a background in fitness and movement science, Kim combines her knowledge with her passion for joyful movement. Her classes start with a warm-up focusing on mobility and functional movements. The session builds into a long cardio/strength set with simple patterns and choreography, engaging both the body and mind, and concludes with a cool-down to enhance balance and flexi-

Holy Days, being on the board of Akiva, or helping my friends create a Kosher Hot Chicken Festival. At the time, I had no idea how much Federation had to do with many of these moments –the truth it is woven through the life I have experienced here in this community, enhancing and sustaining my life whether I knew it or not. So, after 20 years, I really thought that I understood what was going on. But the reality is that my time at Federation has not only made me more grateful for this Jewish Nashville, but it has also introduced me to so many of the wonderful people who support this community that I never knew before. And it has made me both love it more, and has given me a

for this program. Our campus has ample hotel rooms and indoor meeting spaces and a kosher kitchen. Plus, we are surrounded by the beauty of the National Forest and even have a waterfall right on our site.”

To help fund the program at Camp Ramah, Saks reached out to his friend in Vail, Mikki Futernick who also believed in the value of the program, particularly the techniques for dealing with PTSD. “Soldiers in an army were the last forms of PSTD, that the medical world dealt with...except for Israel! The techniques for healing are different than trauma from a forest fire. Israel has discovered several new techniques which have proven to be successful in a short period of time.”

Support for what is now Friends of B’shvil Hamachar is growing in Nashville. Steve Hirsch, past president of The Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville, says he is grateful to the soldiers who have sacrificed in defense of Israel. “They are also fighting on behalf of all Jews, including those of us in the

cussion around hormone therapy but says the first thing a woman should do is talk to her doctor about all her symptoms and feelings. “See if there’s anything that can be done medically, but in addition to talk with a mental health provider about what’s going on and the consequences.”

The panel’s moderator is retired educator and JFS board member, Lynn Heady. She agrees the film’s work to bring menopause out of the dark is long overdue. “Our medical issues are usually put on the back burner and men’s issues are a little more in the forefront,” she says. For example, the film’s trailer discusses the use of testosterone for women and the difficulties women have accessing it. “For men it’s so easy to get and there’s no charge. But it is not approved for women. And yet one of the doctor’s [in the film] says that is one of the things that has a high incidence of helping.”

Heady says she was happy to be asked to participate in the event and says JFS is the right organization to bring this to the community. “The breadth of what they do for the community is just so amazing. They don’t leave anybody

bility. Kim’s approach ensures a dynamic, inclusive workout that’s perfect for participants of all fitness levels.

Join us at the Gordon JCC and experience the benefits of water fitness for yourself. It’s not just a workout. It’s a way to improve your health, reduce stress, and connect with a supportive community.

Learn more and view our full schedule at nashvillejcc.org/waterfitness •

deeper level of respect and gratitude for this community.

A community member who has lived here her whole life told me the other day that she had lived through many important historical moments in her life, and she believed we were in one of those moments right now. And it was critical that we, as a people and community, rise to meet the challenges of this moment. And I couldn’t agree more. What we saw last year was the start of meeting this moment, but we have a lot more to get to where we need to be. I have confidence that we have the right people at the right time here at Federation, and that this community can work together to meet this moment. •

United States who are currently experiencing a renewed wave of antisemitism under the guise of ‘anti-Zionism’ and ‘anti-colonialism.’” And Adam Landa, whose children attend Camp Ramah says, “It sounded like such a mitzvah to be able to participate in a small way to provide these soldiers with some relief… and to do so at Ramah Darom made it even more special.”

The first cohort of IDF soldiers to come to Camp Ramah will arrive in mid-February and their final weekend will coincide with the annual retreat of the Southern Region Men’s Clubs. Levitt says in addition to the seed funding from the Saks’ and local donors, there is still a need for more support. “This includes airfare, ground transportation, food and accommodations for 10 days. We have successfully fundraised to cover most of the cost of the program but still have a little way to go.” To donate to the Ramah Darom cohort or learn more, visit www.ramahdarom.org. •

out. If there is an issue, they’re willing to tackle it.”

Lipsitz says when it comes to finding reliable, accurate information, social media and the internet can be problematic since many so-called experts also have products and services they are selling. But she says the film does accomplish its goal of destigmatizing conversations around menopause and women’s aging. She also cites the Menopause Society as another valuable resource, with information and current guidelines and research. But at the end of the day, she says it is most important to find a doctor who is both interested and informed about the topic. “Many people understandably want to keep going to the doctor they’ve always gone to.” But she says women should feel empowered to ask questions and make sure they are getting answered, and if not, they should seek out a menopause certified practitioner.

The M Factor film and panel discussion is scheduled for February 9th at 10am at the Gordon Jewish Community Center. To learn more or to register, visit https://zurl.co/EqXHA •

Lifecycles

B’rit Mitzvah

Julia Reese Ginsberg

Henry Sadler

Ethel Ress

Julia Reese Ginsberg will become a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, February 1, at 11 a.m. at The Temple. She was born on February 6, 2012 in Washington DC. Her parents are Jessica and Andrew Ginsberg. Her grandparents are Elaine Korn and the late Jeffery Korn of St. Louis, MO, Steve and Eileen Hamburg of St. Louis, MO and Ronald and Anne Ginsberg of Savannah, GA.

For Julia’s mitzvah project, she made hundreds of friendship bracelets that she sold at the Temple Purim Carnival and to friends and family to raise money for Graham’s Foundation, a charitable organization that supports the families of preemies. Julia was a preemie so this cause is very close to her heart. She donated over $1,000 to Graham’s and was able to tell her story and present her donation at Graham’s annual fundraising event in Nashville.

Julia is in the 7th grade at University School of Nashville. Julia likes traveling, Taylor Swift and pasta.

Evan Joshua Ward

Evan Joshua Ward will become a Bar Mitzvah on Saturday, February 8, at 11 a.m. at The Temple. He was born on October 5, 2011, in Cincinnati, Ohio. He is the son of Michael and Marni Ward. His grandparents were John and Maxine Hirsch of St. Louis, Mo., Henry Ward of Tenants Harbor, Me., and Celia Ward of Washington, D.C., all of blessed memory.

A seventh grader at Currey Ingram Academy, Evan enjoys Jiu-Jitsu, playing with his dog Oakley, building Legos, hanging out with his friends, reading and playing games.

Evan’s mitzvah project is to make and sell dog treats to support High Forest Humane Society. It’s a rescue group in Hohenwald, TN where the family rescued their beloved, late dog Robie.

Rosie Hauser

Rosie Hauser will become a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, February 8, at 10:30 a.m. at Congregation Micah. She is the child of Laura and Jared Hauser, the sister of Evan and Seth Hauser, and the granddaughter of Elaine Speicher of Freeport, N.Y.

A seventh grader at the University School of Nashville, Rosie enjoys math and playing French horn and trumpet in her school band. She is on the USN mountain biking team and swim team. Outside of school she takes ice skating and piano lessons.

For her mitzvah project, Rosie will be collecting pet food, toys, supplies, and monetary donations for the Nashville Humane Association.

Henry Sadler will become a Bar Mitzvah on Saturday, February 22, at 10:30 a.m. at Congregation Micah. He is the child of Bailey Seils and Max Sadler, and the brother of Jack and Kate McGuire and Matilda Leppert.

A seventh grader at Franklin Road Academy, Henry loves wrestling, playing baseball and is a great mathematician. He also loves learning about geography.

Sophie Newman

Sophie Newman will become a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, March 8, at 9:30 a.m. at West End Synagogue.  Sophie was born on March 2, 2012, in Austin, Tex., to Lisa and Simon Newman.  Her grandparents are Susan and Michael Clewner of Kingwood, Tex., and Linda and Fred Newman of Pittsburgh, Pa..

A seventh grader at Meigs Magnet Middle School, Sophie loves playing soccer and is on the NUSA club team and the Meigs varsity team. She also enjoys attending Nashville SC matches, spending summers at Camp Ramah Darom, playing cello, and spending time with her dog, Rosie.

For Sophie’s mitzvah project, she is volunteering with the Community Resource Center (CRC) to collect feminine hygiene products and put together kits for people that need them. One in every four U.S. teens cannot afford feminine hygiene products. Access to feminine hygiene products should be the least of any girl’s worries.

Obituaries

Mark David Hiller

Condolences to the family of Mark David Hiller, who died on January 3. He was the husband of Sonja Hiller; brother of Roy Hiller (Charlene) and Richard Hiller (Susan); father of Robin Barajas (Gary); grandfather of Cara Ferrier (Russ).

Tributes may be made in Mark’s memory to the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research or to Congregation Micah.

Phyllis Esther Hurwitz Goldoff  (Tzipporah Esther bat Eliyahu v’Fraidl)

Condolences to the family of Phyllis Esther Hurwitz Goldoff  (Tzipporah Esther bat Eliyahu v’Fraidl), who died on December 18, 2024. Phyllis passed away the day after her 90th birthday.

She was predeceased by her husband, Bernard Jerome (Jerry) Goldoff (z”l); father, Albert Hurwitz (z”l); mother and stepmother, Alice Sall (z”l); and brothers, Harold (z”l) and Norman (z”l). Phyllis is survived by her sister Rena; children, Andrea Dorlester, Donna and Erik; grandchildren, Jonathan Goldoff, Emmett and Daniel Dorlester; and great-grandchildren, Sanorah and Kori Goldoff.

Condolences to the family of Ethel Ress, who died on January 12. She was the mother of Arnold Ress (Leslie); grandmother of Emily Grove (Daniel) and Joshua Ress (Sara).

Tributes may be made in Ethel’s memory to Congregation Micah.

Charlotte Seloff

Condolences to the family of Charlotte Seloff, who died on January 16. She is survived by her loving children, Sharon Seloff (Moises) Paz, Eileen Seloff Rosenblum, and Herb (Diane) Seloff; grandchildren, Raanon (Erica) Gal, Sivan (Yehoshua) Krupnick, Tamar (Daniel) Hyman, Jacob Seloff, Jeremy Seloff, David (Dani) Paz, Aliza Paz; and 14 great-grandchildren, Judah, Maayan, Leora, and Adena Gal, Moshe Tovia, Tehillah, Rena, Liba, and Levi Krupnick, and Meir, Naftali, Avigayil, and Shlomo Hyman, and Sunny Paz. She is also survived by her brother, Ned Davis (Mickey) in Sarasota, Fla., sister, Ellen Davis Dansky in Nashville, and an aunt in-law, Marsha Brody in Chicago, Ill.

Donations may be made to the General Endowment Fund at West End Synagogue, the Morris and Sylvia Davis Family Designated Fund for the West End Synagogue at the Jewish Foundation (801 Percy Warner Blvd. Nashville, TN 37205), the Religious School Enrichment Fund at West End Synagogue (3810 West End Ave.), or the charity of your choice

Craig A. Smith

Condolences to the family of Craig A. Smith who died on December 25, 2024, at the age of 66. He is survived by his beloved wife, Leslie Kirby; his children, Rose Novick, Samara Kirith, and Eli Kirith; his grandson, Elio; and a loving community of extended family and friends.

Craig earned his BA from Dartmouth, and his PhD in psychology from Stanford. After postdoctoral work at UC Berkeley, he joined the faculty at Vanderbilt University in 1988, where he remained for the rest of his academic career. He was an award-winning instructor and mentor. He taught his students to see and juggle ideas, and he demonstrated this with literal juggling while recapping the course on the last day of classes each semester, including his very last teaching day just a few short

weeks ago. He loved to support and inspire learning, whether about psychology with the students in his classroom or about the world with Eli at any place or time. He did groundbreaking and highly renowned research on emotion, breathing life into understanding how human’s understandings of their situations evoked emotion, and the way these emotions helped people to cope. After his cancer diagnosis he learned to apply his research to his own life.

Craig loved music – playing it (he played multiple instruments, most recently learning to play the saxophone), listening to it (the longer the guitar riffs, the better), and especially listening to Samara sing.

Craig found flavor in so many things. He loved to cook, and was always finding new recipes that would appeal both to Eli’s simple palette and the rest of the family’s more adventurous one. He sought out chances to eat the hottest hot chicken and had a wicked hot sauce collection. He was an excellent mixologist. Craig relished playing games and watching sports. He loved exploring the world, visiting 36 states and 20 countries with Leslie in their over 25 years together. Craig was active in the Jewish community and devoted to Jewish learning. He loved reading the weekly Torah portion and studying commentaries, often listening to podcasts on his commute. His latkes were legendary, and his acting out the ten plagues each Pesach was not to be missed.

Craig’s life was defined by his kindness, intelligence, humor, curiosity, fearlessness, stubbornness, and quiet strength. He showed his love through his service and was extremely proud of his family and always happy to see them shine. He was a mentor to many, a passionate advocate for what he believed in, and a constant source of support and encouragement to his family, friends and students.

Condolences may be mailed to Team Kirith, 41 School St, Old Orchard Beach, ME 04064.

Craig loved the life of the mind, and his dedication to teaching, learning and exploring that life touched many, personally and professionally. In order to continue that impact, a scholarship fund has been established in Craig’s honor. Those who wish to further commemorate Craig’s legacy may do so by making a contribution to the scholarship fund: https://shorturl.at/AwvTL

February in the GJCC Galleries: X-Payne, Nadine Shillingford, Jilah

The Janet Levine March Gallery will show works by Xavier Payne. Payne known professionally as X-Payne, is an acclaimed artist and illustrator based in Nashville, Tennessee. He holds a BFA from Watkins College of Art and has made a significant impact with his vibrant, 90s-inspired works. His art blends Afrofuturism and Black pop art, drawing from cultural and historical themes. In 2022, he was named Best Artist of the Year by the Nashville Scene. X-Payne continues to captivate audiences with his bold and imaginative creations.

The JLMG2 Gallery will feature the art of Nadine Shillingford. Shillingford is a Nashville-based artist who works primarily with charcoal on paper but also enjoys creating mixed media pieces using mediums such as acrylic and reused materials. She was born on the island of Dominica but has considered Nashville her home since 2013. Shillingford has a doctoral degree in computer science and is a cybersecurity data analytics engineer. Her work can be seen in exhibits around the Nashville area and beyond. She is an author and teaches art classes on demand, and enjoys spending time with her daughter, Hailey and listening to audiobooks.

The Sig Held Gallery will feature the art of daughter and mother artists, Jilah Kalil and Golda Siegel. Kalil was raised in Miami, Florida, and has been a resident of Nashville since 1986. She has always been fascinated by light and how it

is reflected on surfaces in the landscapes surrounding her. She first experienced how the light dances on the surface of the water as a child when looking at the Atlantic Ocean in the early morning or late afternoon, and then later, watching the light shift through the trees as an adult in the rolling hills and smoke hazed mountains in Tennessee. Her attraction

Kalil & Golda Siegel

to capturing light and studying chiaroscuro began first with her painting, and then through photography. She pursued art initially at Boston University School of Fine Arts, and continued at Savannah College of Art & Design, graduating with a BFA with a major in photography and a minor in painting.

Kalil embraces photographic techniques that inspires her to find ways to move beyond the traditional photograph and into painting, allowing for a dance of emotion between the light and the artist and the image. This collection of images is an exploration of, interaction with, and observation of the landscapes surrounding her, both natural & man-made.

Golda Siegel recently moved to Nashville from Miami, Florida. She lived there her husband since 1959 as a mother of three children, financial officer for her husband’s business, while following her passion for art. As one of the first female graduates from Wharton School of Business, she always had a strong mind. But her father, who started his own business for marketing research, uncovered her creative side, which is

something she pursued from throughout her career. Siegel’s artistic endeavors began with fibers & fabric, from weaving and punch hook pieces to quilting, always with an eye towards the colorful. After moving to Nashville, she moved into paper arts, with collage as her medium of choice. Her work is an immediate reaction to what she has read & what she sees, using contemporary materials to convey her vision.

The Senior Lounge Art Gallery will feature the art of Pamela Dove.

The House Gallery will feature the annual Under One Roof exhibit. Under One Roof is a city wide, collaborative art project bringing together 30+ local organizations in Nashville to create an art exhibit based around a Judaic theme steeped in social unity and justice.

The Artist Reception will be held on Wednesday, February 15th from 6 -8 pm.

The exhibitions are free and open to the public. Attendees will be asked to sign in.

For more information, contact the GJCC at 615.354-1699, Curator Carrie Mills at carrie@nashvillejcc.org. •

Contemplation, by X-Payne

Collage #1, by Golda Siegel

Ocean Rocks, by Jilah Kalil

Fashion #3, by Nadine Shillingford

FEBRUARY 2025

Registration now open!

Financial Aid available for Jewish Overnight Summer Camp

Many of us remember those summers at camp that inspired our connection to Judaism – the singing after dinner or Havdalah on the edge of the lake at sunset. The Jewish summer camp experience creates community for life, not just for a summer Year after year our children return from camp with stories, memories and friendships. For many of them it is the first time they’re surrounded by all things Jewish. Overnight Jewish camping is wonderful way to introduce children to the joy and celebration of Jewish traditions.

The Jewish Federation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee realizes the importance of building Jewish life and makes financial assistance available on a need basis for students to attend Jewish summer camps. If you know someone who could benefit from this information, please share it. Contact Becky Gunn at the Jewish Federation at becky@jewishnashville.org or 615-354-1624 to request information on summer camp opportunities, to request a scholarship application, or to send completed applications.

All inquiries are confidential. The deadline for submitting applications is March 15, 2025.

of Greater Nashville

MARY AND HARRY ZIMMERMAN YOUTH EXCHANGE ENDOWMENT FUND HIGH SCHOOL AND COLLEGE AGE STUDENT INCENTIVE GRANTS

Over thirty years of research on the impact of the Israel Experience has shown that teens are at a critical time of development when they are shaping their patterns of adult Jewish identity and loyalties. An Israel program can enhance or complement a formal Jewish education. It can also a ect those who may have been deprived of a rich Jewish life. Positive moments and memories are central factors in the development of a rming group identification. The purpose is to strengthen Jewish identity

The next generation’s commitment to the Jewish people can be greatly a ected by the experience of being in Israel as a teen. The Jewish Federation of Nashville realizes this benefit and encourages families to consider sending their young people to Israel by o ering incentive grants. These grants are available to 9th-12th graders as well as college students through the Mary & Harry Zimmerman Youth Exchange Endowment Fund. Programs that may qualify for partial scholarship grants include March of the Living, JCC Maccabi Xperience, NFTY, Ramah, USY, Volunteers for Israel, High School in Israel and BBYO

For more information please contact Tania Bukengolts, o ce administrator at tania@jewishnashville.org or at 615.354.1668.

of Greater Nashville

Camp Davis

Camp Davis Summer 2025 should be the best one yet in our 95-year history! Our traditional camp model offers a fun and balanced camp day for your kiddos while our Sports, Art, and STEM specialty camps provide a more tailored experience. We’re excited to announce the addition of Candy Science, Camp Davis Spy Academy, and Adventure Park Camp along with the return of the renowned Fashion Camp, Dance Camp, and Advanced Robotics with RoboThink! Golf and Pickleball are also new additions this year to our specialty camp tracks. We hope you choose to spend your summer at the J with Camp Davis! Please check out our website www.campdavisnashville. com for more info and to register!

Montgomery Bell Academy –Summer Camps

Montgomery Bell Academy offers more than 100 different camps and classes for boys and girls ages 4 and older.

MBA is home to the original and most popular All-Sports Camp in town! This camp for boys in rising 1st-6th grade runs Mon-Fri from 9am-3pm throughout June. Lunch is included with the camp and before-care and after-care are available as well. MBA also offers weekly camps for baseball, basketball, dodgeball, football, golf, lacrosse, rifle, soccer, squash, tennis, wrestling, and more.

In addition to sports camps, MBA offers a full summer of Enrichment Camps. MBA is even the largest provider of LEGO® camps in Nashville! Other popular Enrichment Camp options include 615Science, Bloxels Video Game Design, Cardboard Land, and Little Explorers Camp.

MBA also offers a great selection of Coed Academic Prep Classes with courses for debate, language, math, study skills, and writing.

For more information, please visit www.montgomerybell.edu/camps.

Belmont Youth Art Programs

Kids Are at Camp, You’re at Sperry’s!

Sperry’s invites you to celebrate the peace and quiet with an unforgettable dining experience. Whether you’re toasting to a quiet house or reconnecting over a romantic dinner, our timeless steakhouse ambiance and expertly crafted menu make the perfect backdrop for your evening.

Start your night with a handcrafted cocktail or glass of wine from our extensive list. Then, savor every bite of our tender, perfectly cooked steaks, fresh seafood, and delectable sides.

Don’t forget to end the meal with our signature Bananas Foster, prepared tableside for the perfect sweet finale.

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Belmont’s youth art programs hosted by the Watkins College of Art and the O’More College of Architecture and Design help kids and teens develop creatively as they cultivate artistic skills. Led by outstanding artists, designers and educators, these programs explore the artistic process with emphasis on problem solving, designing, communicating and creating. Young artists will have the opportunity to work with high-quality materials, in college-level studios. The R.O.Y.G.B.I.V. Multi-arts Camps for ages 9-11 are inspired by weekly themes: Under the Sea, Mysteries of Space, Enchanted Ecosystems, and Heroes and Villains. Campers spend half of the day exploring 2D art mediums and the other half exploring 3D art, and every kid leaves with a portfolio that expresses their creative investigation of the week’s theme. The Studio Series Camp for ages 12-14 delves into specific a media or artistic discipline each week. This summer camp is offering classes in Drawing and Illustration, Mixed Media and Printmaking, and Photography. They also have a pre-college experience, Summer Studios, for ages 15-18, led by college faculty and industry professionals. Teens are invited to explore creative majors of architecture, fashion design and merchandising, fine art, graphic design, interior design, and photography. After each camp session, all youth will display their work alongside their peers in an art show open to all our artists’ families and friends. Learn more at: https:// www.belmont.edu/watkins/communityeducation/youth-programs.html. Continued on page 24

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table experiences for girls in rising kindergarten through 7th grades. Registration is now open, and the most popular camps fill up fast, so don’t delay. Also not to be missed are Harpeth Hall’s special two-week summer camp offerings. Our theatre intensive features two weeks of creativity, collaboration, and fun as campers learn acting, singing, and performance techniques and bring a full-stage production of Finding Nemo JR. to life on stage. In addition, Harpeth Hall’s STEM Summer Institute is a two-week premier program where girls use the engineering design process to solve real-world problems. Imagine creating hand-washing stations for communities in need in Kenya or designing environmentally friendly irrigation systems for use by small-scale farmers in Tennessee. The STEM Summer Institute brings together middle school and high school girls from schools throughout Nashville to address local and global issues for

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Dr. Bradley Krock D.C.

Active kids participating in sports and summer camps often face physical demands that can strain their growing bodies. From running and jumping to throwing and tumbling, these activities can lead to minor injuries, muscle imbalances, or misalignments in the spine and joints. Chiropractic care offers a natural and effective way to help kids stay active, healthy, and pain-free throughout their busy schedules.

Chiropractic adjustments can address spinal misalignments, which may result from falls, repetitive motions, or poor posture during activities. By restoring proper alignment, chiropractors can enhance joint mobility, reduce muscle tension, and improve overall balance and coordination. This not only helps relieve discomfort but also optimizes the body’s ability to perform at its best.

Regular chiropractic care can also help prevent injuries by identifying and addressing issues before they become problematic. For example, if a young athlete’s gait is uneven or their posture is affecting their movement patterns, a chiropractor can provide targeted adjustments and exercises to correct these issues. This proactive approach can reduce the risk of sprains, strains, and other common sports-related injuries.

Moreover, chiropractic care promotes faster recovery by enhancing blood flow, reducing inflammation, and supporting the body’s natural healing processes. This means kids can return to their favorite activities sooner and with greater confidence.

Whether it’s soccer, gymnastics, or summer camp games, chiropractic care helps keep active kids at the top of their game— supporting their health, performance, and enjoyment of all the fun summer has to offer! Dr. Bradley Krock D.C., M.S. https:// krockchiropractic.com/ •

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Meet Dr. Krock

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Dr. Krock, graduated with his Bachelors and Master's Degree from Mississippi State University then went on to Logan University in St. Louis to obtain his Doctorate of Chiropractic. He specializes in addressing headaches, neck pain, extremity dysfunction and lower back pain. He employs personalized chiropractic care, combining his expertise with a compassionate approach focused on patient-centric healing. Dr. Krock's dedication lies in tailoring solutions to alleviate discomfort and improve the overall well-being of his patients, ensuring they receive individualized care for their specific needs.

Kvetch in the City

By CARRIE MILLS

choose men like I choose shoes, they may look good, but they don’t fit.

Years ago, I asked a few close friends, after reading a suggestion in some new age self-help book, to tell me what they thought were my character strengths and weaknesses. One friend replied in her assessment on my weaknesses, that I

I’ve noticed lately that shoes, figuratively and literally have been popping up in my dating life again, just when I thought I had a handle on it.

The last NYC date I went on, was with a slight Italian man who reached out to me on Hinge. We met up at a café on 6th Ave in the Village. Immediately, I realized he may be on the tense side, as he didn’t smile, his foot was tapping non-

stop, and all he could muster upon meeting was, “Oh, you look like your photo.” I took that to mean, hello.

After ordering a cappuccino, I asked what he did for a living which he refused to say, alluding to the fact that he was successful in some part of the fashion business and he didn’t want to tell me, because, as he said, “You never know what people’s intentions are.” Oy. Okay. No conversation there.

He then went on to tell me about his past love life, which, mind you, I had not asked about, however, I’ve learned to let people reveal what they want to reveal. He went on to mention his last relationship was with a Jewish woman, and that they broke up after October 7th. He said they had differences of opinion. “On what?” I asked. He said he didn’t believe Israel has a right to exist. To which my face must have made so many crazy expressions at that point, far more than any amount of Botox allows, that he looked at me and said, “I guess the date is over.” To which I nodded. However, before I could even begin to put my coat on, he went into a whole tirade of reasons why he believed what he believed. I tried to counterpoint pretty much everything he said to no avail since he was so worked up. I then asked him, “What else are you passionate about?”, to change the subject while I finished my coffee and put my

a minute to consider his offer and said, only if they are high end. To which he now made some remark implying I was being a snob, which quickly snapped me back to my senses, and all the inner work I’ve done on myself these last 20 years, and I hurriedly put my coat on to leave. He said, “The ball’s in your court, you have my number,” as I ran out to the street as fast as I could and quickly erased all his contact from my phone.

Which is when I thought to myself, take yourself out on a date and stop looking for one on the internet. So, I immediately found a theatre playing the Bob Dylan movie. The movie brought back of flood of memories of my life pre-Nashville, having played Folk City in my younger days and having been a staple in the Greenwich Village folk scene.

Movie over, I was now on the Upper East side, just twenty or so blocks from my son’s place so I decided to walk home. One of the great things I love about NYC. Walking. Which is how I then ran into a man in a cowboy hat, fur scarf, out with his two cute dogs on the corner of my son’s block, as we both stopped to look at 3 firetrucks wildly approaching a building across the street. He looked at me and asked me if I saw any fire, which neither of us saw.

And before I stood up, he said, “Let

With a quizzical look on my face, I asked why. He said he wanted to guess my shoe size. To which I replied, “Would you like me to get on a scale so you can guess my weight?” Which apparently amused him since he quipped, “You’re funny.” And proceeded to tell me he

At this point, if you think I’m mak-

Now, I have to say, the date was over pretty much ten minutes ago, however, hearing someone say they wanted to give me shoes, all my old character weaknesses came pouring in. I actually stopped for

Conversation ensued and quickly turned into him asking me if I was married. When I said no, he quickly asked if I was single to which he blurted out that I was cute. Suffice it to say, I realized that in this day and age, you don’t have to wear false eyelashes, big wigs, high heels, and can be well over 50, wrapped up like a winter mummy and still be picked up by men on the street.

Not that I was looking for to be picked up by anybody, mind you. My first thought was, I think this man is either drunk or maybe a little cukoo. However, since his two cute friendly terriers, were so endearing I gave him the benefit of the dog. When I told him I want to move back to NYC, he boldly offered me one of his three bedrooms in his apartment in a gorgeous prewar building on the corner and that I was welcome to move in with him. I wondered for a moment if that’s where the realty app called StreetEasy got its name. Who knew that was the way to find a home in NYC? I was familiar with the building he stated he lived in, and, I have to say, second time that day, my old character defects started having their way in my head, because closely behind bad shoe decisions in my life, comes fantasy architectural/home dreams and I actually let myself entertain the insane invitation for one second.

He then, and I’m not kidding, looked down at my sneakers and made a comment about my shoes, since he claimed he was a Polo player in the past and my sneakers caught his attention. Seriously, two men, two shoe comments and two dogs all in one day. Too crazy.

At that moment another man with, yes, two pedigrees stopped to say hello to him. I saw my moment to slip away and said I had to go. To which he gave me his name and said I should come to his apt later, the doorman would let me in, while alluding to me not wearing much clothing when I showed up. Yikes!

And while that day, a lot of things came in twos, matching up with two strangers was not one of them. However, I know one thing that I can still count on that does. Shoes. Shoes that fit… that is.

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