February 8, 2018

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Jacob kahn Temple Israel Youth Director f you have spent any time at Temple Israel in the past 50 years, it’s inevitable that all discussions will find their way to including two seemingly innocuous words: Spaghetti Dinner. A long-standing tradition, Spaghetti Dinner is more than just an event that has raised tens of thousands of dollars for the Omaha Temple Youth Group (OTYG) and philanthropic causes for over a half century; it’s an event that has bound a congregation and community together. It’s also the inspiration

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of this year’s theme: Celebrating Past Pastas. Whether you’re 14 or 88, just mentioning the event brings fond memories of meatballs, a metal statue of an Italian chef, and bidding wars over Gretchen Radler’s famous rugalach. “It was 1963 and I was a freshman when I first did it,” Gary Kaplan, a former OTYG member and Temple Israel President reminisced. Back in the 1960s, OTYG members would auction themselves off to the congregation for things like babysitting and yard work. “The best job you hoped to get bought for was to serve one of Mike and See celebrating past pastas page 3

Catching up with Omaha BBYO

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Jacob geltzer Omaha BBYO/ Teen program Director Omaha BBYO is off to a great start this New Year! We recently attended

Mid America Region’s Winter Regional Convention in Kansas City, Kansas on Jan. 18-20, and had a blast with 140 teens from Omaha, Kansas City, Minneapolis, and St. Louis. The theme for the weekend was MARLypmics, and had a very similar vibe to the actual Olympic Games. We started Friday evening off with a presentation of the torch and that’s when the real fun began! Chapters from across our region competed in a variety of competitions to show off their chapter’s pride and competitiveness. Competitions included a spelling bee, talent show, relay races, scavenger hunt, and so much

more. We ended the weekend on Sunday at the Matt Ross Community Center where we had our AZAA Basketball tournament. Mother Chapter AZA #1, the Omaha AZA Chapter, fought hard and made it all the way to the championship game, but lost in a hard-fought battle. Omaha BBYO had a great time at Winter Regional Convention, and we look forward to seeing all of our regional friends again in St. Louis for Spring Regional Convention on March 28-31. February is also another big month for BBYO. Over Presidents’ Day See omaha bbYo page 2

annette van De kamp-wright Editor, Jewish Press In the Fall of 2018, Jewish Family Service produced a video titled What I Wish You Knew. In it, high school and college students look directly into the camera and talk about the challenges they face. They address the difficulty that comes with finding a trusted person to talk to, moving beyond the stigma of

mental illness, how to make teachers and parents understand that certain behaviors have a reason and that there might be more going on beneath the surface-if only you take the time to ask. There are challenges for them as well as for their friends, family members and teachers; without interruption, they remind us all that there are many sides to their stories and that, most of all, it is time to listen. The video is educational, enlightening and sobering. As a society, we haven’t done a stellar job really listening to our youth and the very real challenges they face. “My generation is trying to keep the dialogue open,” says Logan Miller, who is one of the youth featured in the video. He’s remarkably comfortable addressing either the camera or an entire room full of people, as he did recently during a Jewish Family Service event at Temple Israel. “I love my friends,” he says, “and so I share my story and my experience with them. We have to change the dialogue, we have to move past the stigma and separate illness from character. Having a mental illness doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you.” It was Patty Nogg who first brought the idea for the video to Karen Gustafson, Executive Director of JFS. When a family member, whose daughter had participated in a similar video sent it to her, she immediately knew it was a powerful tool. “The Friendship Circle of West Bloomfield, Michigan brought people together from each high school through their initiative, UMatter. They created a video with the aim to fight depression and teen suicide and then showed it at a citywide gathering. As soon as I saw it, I called Karen and told her all about it.” As soon as Karen saw it, she was deeply touched: “I thought, we need to do a video like this with our kids. We can make this happen! See What I Wish You Knew page 2


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