HAKOL LEHIGH VALLEY The Voice of the Lehigh Valley Jewish Community
MARCH 2014 | ADAR I/ADAR II 5774
A community of superheroes
What’s your Purim? By Susan McNamara Temple Shirat Shalom and Annabel Williams JFLV Marketing Intern
CONFRONTING ANTI-SEMITISM A seminar for teens and parents. See page 3.
Thanks to our 135 amazing volunteers and the generosity of our community, the Jewish Federation of the Lehigh Valley raised $69,000 on Super Sunday! Together, we do extraordinary things. See more on Pages 16-17.
Former POW recalls ‘that vacant time’
BASEBALL & JEWS Find out about the IronPigs’ plans for Jewish Heritage moments Night. See page 7.
By Jennifer Lader Editor, HAKOL
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MARCH 2014 ADAR I/ADAR II 5774
Centerpiece becomes conversation piece
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What is the best birthday gift you ever got?
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Family plants roots, and a tree grows in the Lehigh Valley
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Adult Bat Mitzvah journeys within Judaism
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A simcha in Israel: Mother of Bar Mitzvah shares lessons learned
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BELIEVE IT OR NOT Spring is almost here; see our special section. Israel’s ancient and historic trees
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A Jewish wedding in France: Now the ceremony can take place
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No. 365 com.UNITY with Mark Goldstein 2 Women’s Division
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LVJF Tributes
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Jewish Family Service
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Jewish Day School 18-19 Jewish Community Center Community Calendar
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Sidney Parmet of Allentown calls the late winter of his 20th year “that vacant time.” Not for himself, but for his mother. That’s because he was then, 70 years ago, officially “missing in action,” last known to be with his army company in Italy. In fact, as late winter melted into spring, Parmet’s captors transferred him to a prisoner of war camp in Germany. Although his family name means “parchment” and his great-grandfather was a scribe in Russia, Parmet has never written down his story. However, he has done extensive research of the people and locations involved. The Congregation Brith Sholom member shared his story in a recent interview at his Allentown home. Parmet and his older brother Morton were born in Pottsville. Their parents, Benjamin and Anna, had met in New York and moved to Pennsylvania. Benjamin had family connections here, his cousin being Dr. David Parmet, deliverer of babies in Allentown. Benjamin also knew the anthracite region because of his peddling trade, including
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Pottsville in Schuylkill County, and was quite willing to live there. In Pottsville, Anna opened a millinery shop and hired a Catholic woman to look after the children; Parmet claimed to have been “a spoiled brat” by the time he was five or six years old. That soon changed because, attending public school, he “had many fights from being Jewish, from the anti-Semitism.” Sadly, Benjamin died before Parmet became a Bar Mitzvah. After that, he said, “I used to do bookwork that my mother couldn’t handle too well.” World War II broke out around the time Parmet graduated from high school and he enlisted in an Advanced Specialized Training Program with the intention of becoming a dentist like his brother Morton. However, the program “disbanded because they needed manpower instead of doctors and dentists,” Parmet recalled. After all, “it was a war.” After a number of stops, his unit shipped out in 1943, travelling across North Africa as replacements for American troops in Italy. Referring to the 45th Division that conducted the original offensive on Naples, Parmet said the American forces had many casualties and withdrew to an area near Rome for a rest, just below Monte Cassino. “That’s where I come in,” Parmet said. He had become a “B.A.R. Man” – operating a Browning Automatic Rifle, which he said was “like a machine gun.” To reach Italy, his unit climbed into amphibious boats called LCIs – Landing Craft Infantry – and made a surprise landing in Italy that was therefore fairly easy. However, they landed at “three plus one” – three days
Sidney Parmet
after Anzio, the battle for which was, Parmet said, “a debacle.” According to the official U.S. Army website, Italy “in the next four months would see some of the most savage fighting of World War II.” “We were vastly outnumbered,” Parmet recalled. “The only thing that saved us was our artillery. The Germans had the high ground and could open up on the ships. This was the thing that made Anzio such a devastating experience. “It felt as though the whole German army was coming down on us,” Parmet said. He later learned that the German General Kesselring, part of the Wehrmacht – Germany’s regular army – led the charge. The American unit was able to hold the front despite, Parmet said, “constant shelling for a month” by securing themselves in a cleft of a rocky area. In all, 60,000 Allied soldiers and 50,000 German soldiers died in Italy during the war. One day, Parmet made his way with 31 others of his company to a battered unit on this front, where there were
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Purim is a holiday of sweetness and joy, a time when we reflect on the power of an individual and the victory of the Jewish nation in the face of destruction. Purim is a time for celebration and for the giving of food gifts to friends and family. Mordecai, one of the Purim heroes, instituted the practice of Mishloach Manot, as it says in the Megillah: “Mordecai ... enjoined the [Jews] to make the 14th day of the month of Adar ... feasting and joy, and sending portions one to another, and gifts to the poor.” In keeping with the theme of Purim in March, many special events and activities will take place across the Valley. The sisterhood of Temple Shirat Shalom has put together a fundraiser in which every family of the congregation will receive a gift from other congregation members for a small donation by the senders. On Saturday, March 15, Temple Covenant of Peace will present its annual Purim play based on the famous musical “Annie.” Congregation Brith Sholom will hold a Megillah reading for kids and adults -- full costumes encouraged. Chabad of the Lehigh Valley and other congregations will host “adult only” parties on Saturday evening. Chabad’s party will feature a havdalah service and Megillah reading, followed by hors d’oeuvres, open bar and lively music. Congregation Keneseth Israel’s Megillah reading will be followed by light snacks and desserts for adults and is BYOB. Live music will be provided by Allentown’s local band, Just So. Costumes are optional. Temple Beth El hosts “Shushan ha-BEER-ah.” This adult party will include the Megillah reading, karaoke, snacks, dessert and beer. On Sunday, March 16, Chabad will host a Purim Bubble Mania party for families, which will include Mishloach Manot, the Megillah reading, a masquerade, buffet and a play/Purim shpiel by the religious school students. Jewish Family Service will hold a special adult Purim brunch for Jewish singles ages 50 to 70 at Congregation Brith Sholom. Also at Brith Sholom, families are invited for a megillah reading and ice cream bar. The program will include the joint religious school with Bnai Abraham Synagogue. The JCC of Allentown will host its annual Community Purim Palooza that afternoon, featuring games, a moon bounce, face painting, arts and crafts and more. Come in costume! That evening, Congregation Sons of Israel will hold a Woodstock Purim, featuring Michael Rosman, Flame Throwing Juggler, along with a costume contest, tie-dying and live music by “The Sons of Israel.” For details about these events and more, see the Community Calendar on page 30. Visit www. jewishlehighvalley.org for updated information about all Purim events.