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Hurricanes, holidays & hope

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Less than a week after we sent our last issue to press, Hurricane Florence pushed her way into our lives, forever changing Southeastern North Carolina.

There was no mention of the storm in our Fall 2018 issue, because we had no idea what was in store for us. I’m sure many of you were probably as blindsided as we were. We expected some damage and some flooding, but not to the extent that we saw in some areas, like Duplin, Jones, Pender, Onslow and Craven counties, specifically. While Florence took it easier on some places that were devastated

by Hurricane Matthew in 2016, she really slammed others.

I experienced the devastation firsthand, as I’m sure many of our readers also have. The homes of my parents and my older sister were destroyed by flooding.

These were both homes that were spared during Floyd in 1999, but Florence wasn’t so forgiving. I also lost special keepsakes from my teenage and childhood years, and nearly all of our Christmas decorations, which were in a storage building at my parents’ house.

Of course, these are all things, which can be replaced. I’m thankful to still have all of my family, friends and pets with us.

I’m also thankful for the countless individuals who have come to the aid of those of us who were negatively affected by the storm. I don’t know what many of us would have done without them.

Two of the more well-known contributors to hurricane relief efforts are hometown heroes who have made themselves into icons — basketball star Michael Jordan and music legend James Taylor. You can read all about the donations of time and money that these two stars gave, out of the goodness of their hearts. It certainly ignites hope to know that we’re not forgotten, even by those who have made their millions and moved on to other parts of the world.

Hurricane Florence also brought two

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Of course, the storm has devastated many livelihoods, especially those in agriculture. One industry you might not think of right away that’s been dealt a tough blow is the oyster industry. This shellfish crop was affected both by the storm surge and high winds, and the subsequent inland flooding.

Moving away from the hurricane and into the holiday season, check out our photography spread of Christmas events throughout our region, and take a look at some funky new holiday traditions in our Snapshot on page 45. In this issue’s “Folk” column, I also take a look back at Christmases past, and how things have changed.

We also talk about another upcoming winter holiday — Valentine’s Day — and provide some tips for a date night for you and your sweetie on page 33.

One of the most fun features this issue is about stepping into the past, via relics of a bygone era. Antique stores throughout Southeastern North Carolina are plentiful, and there are some really great deals and priceless treasures to be found, if you know where to look and what to look for.

If there’s an ongoing theme for this issue, it’s that amidst the chaos and destruction caused by Hurricane Florence, there is light and goodness to be found.

As I write this, Christmas is looming, and then, beyond that, we’ll welcome a New Year, new hopes and new dreams.

I pray that you all have a blessed holiday season, a wonderful New Year’s celebration and a sweet Valentine’s Day. Winter is coming ... and that’s not necessarily a bad thing.

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Contents

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Our Readers Respond

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James Taylor “Carolina in My Mind”:

Check out what folks had to say

James Taylor puts his influence

about our Fall 2018 issue.

behind hurricane relief.

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Michael Jordan

The basketball legend made a surprise appearance in his hometown.

His mission? Helping others.

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Farewell, Old Friend...

The Surf City swing bridge made its final bow on December 4.

Check out a few of the touching goodbyes we found on social media.

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Oyster industry after Florence

Florence was the costliest storm in N.C. history — but it how did it affect the growing oyster industry?

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Take a step back in time

Antiques provide a glimpse to the past.

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A Taste of the Holidays

Fun Christmas events create a winter wonderland.

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SnapshotTop government leaders visit in wake of Florence Government officials promise post-Florence funding.

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SnapshotRomance can come alive on the N.C. coast Top tips to make your honey happy.

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SnapshotTopsy-turvey trees Upside-down Christmas trees are just one notso-traditional tradition.

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From New Year’s drops to concerts to special movie showings, we’ve got your winter social calendar covered.

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Folk: The ghosts of Christmas past Family celebrations change, ready or not.

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Memories of Vernon Park Mall I just read your article, “In the good ol’ days ...” My family moved to Kinston just as I was starting high school (North Lenoir). I have many wonderful memories of the Kinston mall (Vernon Park Mall).

My first job (other than babysitting) was as a waitress at the LunchBox, located in the Roses Department Store. It was a great place to get to know the managers and employees of the other stores, as they came to have lunch. Hilda, the manager, was a lovely woman

and a great influence on my life.

I worked there off and on from age 16 until I completed college (Atlantic Christian in Wilson).

For the rest of my family, the 11th commandment became “Thou shalt not leave Kinston, N.C.” I, however, left, married, traveled the world, raised a family. But I remember those early years, when I would come “home,” visiting the mall.

Other connections for me to the mall — Mike Stout is my brother-in-law and Stout’s was a fixture there for years, selling jewelry.

And I know Mike Ingalls as he owns and manages the lovely place where my mother currently lives, Herritage Elite. Mike and his wife Lori are dear people.

After 40 years away, I have returned with my husband, as we have retired in New Bern. The next best thing to a good mall is a vibrant, walkable downtown!

Thank you for your article, and for the memories.

Lois Ann Wasson Atkinson New Bern

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yers outside the state and neighbors of the hog farmers cause farmers to go out of business. If they can make millions of dollars this way, what will keep them from going after the chicken, turkey and cow industry, because their output has a bad odor also?

If that was to happen, and animal farmers went out of business, the grocery store shelves and cold storage units would be empty, and the abundance of food we have been used to all our lives would be over, all because of the love of money, I believe.

If they can get by with that, I wonder when they will get people in public places to sue people who use the restrooms and leave a bad odor in them?

Rev. Paul E. Hargett Salemburg

EDITOR’S NOTE: Thanks to all of our readers for writing to tell us your thoughts! We love your suggestions, and may even use them for a future feature in SE North Carolina, so always feel free to contact us. Contact information is below!

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fter Hurricane Florence delivered a wallop to Southeastern North Carolina, both President Donald Trump and N.C. Governor Roy Cooper visited the most storm-ravaged areas to talk with survivors, and promise federal and state funding for recovery.

Trump visited New Bern and Cherry Point Marine Corps Air Station a few days after the storm made landfall near Wrightsville Beach. There, he held a press briefing and also handed out meals to survivors. According to the New Bern Sun-Journal, he also saw some of the worst damage firsthand, near the Neuse River Bridge, along East Front Street from Union Point Park and through the Historic District.

Boats and debris littered the side of the roadway.

“To the families who have lost loved ones, America grieves with you, and our hearts break for you. God bless

you,” he said. “We will never forget your loss. We will never leave your side. We’re with you all way. And to all those impacted by this terrible storm, our entire American family is with you and ready to help. And you will recover.”

The governor, of course, visited New Bern and other heavily damaged areas multiple times over the months since the hurricane. Soon after the storm hit, he toured rural Duplin County, seeing some of the most damaged neighborhoods, like Chinquapin, the Northeast community and Wallace. He also made trips to Lumberton, Pollocksville, Swansboro and other hard-hit areas.

During a visit to Duplin County in mid-November, Cooper promised that he would do his best to ensure that the areas that need help most will receive state and federal funding.

“We are not going to forget you,” he told a group of survivors at WallaceRose Hill High School. “I’ll take these stories home with me.”

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Above, President Donald Trump delivered meals to hurricane survivors during a trip to New Bern. Below, Governor Roy Cooper did the same while visiting Wallace in October.

SE PICKS: Memorable Hurricanes Florence- 2018 N.C. Death Toll: 39 • Total Damages in N.C.: $17 billion • Significance: Caused record flooding and property damage.

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Fran- 1996

Floyd- 1999

N.C. Death Toll: 19 Total Damages in N.C.: $163 million Significance: The only Category 4 storm to ever hit North Carolina, Hazel caused death and destruction from the Caribbean to Toronto, Canada.

N.C. Death Toll: 6 Total Damages in N.C.: $2.4 billion Significance: Arrived just weeks after Hurricane Bertha, and unexpectedly caused wind damage and deaths as far north as Raleigh.

N.C. Death Toll: 51 Total Damages in N.C.: $3 billion Significance: Caused heavy flooding throughout Southeastern North Carolina, what was known then as a 500-year flood.

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Basketball’s all-time great provides hurricane relief to hometown Story: Abby Cavenaugh Photos: Evan Pierce/Charlotte Hornets The greatest basketball player of all time hasn’t forgotten his Southeastern North Carolina roots. Not only did Michael Jordan donate $2 million to Hurricane Florence relief efforts, he made a surprise visit to his hometown of Wilmington a few days before Thanksgiving.

Jordan handed out Thanksgiving meals at Lowe’s Home Improvement, and stopped by the Community Boys & Girls Club to gift children with free Air Jordan sneakers.

He was wearing Tar Heel blue in honor of his alma mater, the University of North Carolina, and talked about his years playing basketball at Laney High School in Wilmington and his time spent at the Boys & Girls Club, where he later gave out the soughtafter sneakers that bear his name.

“I can give money all day long, but at some point, you want them to understand you’re human,” Jordan told the Associated Press.

While in Wilmington, he was able to meet with — and get hugs from — some of the hurricane survivors who directly benefited from his $2 million donation.

Stephanie Parker was one of those survivors, and said she wasn’t sure how her family would’ve made it through with-

“You really want to trust that money goes to the right people,” Jordan said. “And when you see it goes to the right people, it makes me feel good that I did the right thing.” out the generosity of people like Jordan and the American Red Cross.

“It means he hasn’t forgotten,” she said. “It means we are important.”

When Jordan made his $2 million donation back in September, he split it evenly between the Red Cross and the Foundation for the Carolinas Hurricane Florence Response Fund.

“You really want to trust that money goes to the right people,” Jordan said. “And when you see it goes to the

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Basketball star Michael Jordan, a native of Wilmington, made a surprise appearance just before Thanksgiving to hand out free meals to hurricane survivors at a Lowe’s Home Improvement store. While there, he not only gave out meals, but plenty of hugs, handshakes and selfies.

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“If I can bring a smile to their faces, especially during this time, I’m willing to do that without a doubt.”

Left, NBA great Michael Jordan gave out Air Jordan sneakers at the Boys & Girls Club in Wilmington on Nov. 20. Right, the children had quite a reaction to their early Christmas gifts from the hometown hero.

Below, Michael Jordan posed for photos with many fans and hurricane survivors during his surprise visit to Wilmington just before Thanksgiving.

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right people, it makes me feel good that I did the right thing.”

James Jarvis, executive director of the Cape Fear Chapter of the American Red Cross based in Wilmington, said the organization set aside a $50 million budget to help people affected by Hurricane Florence.

Jarvis said that at the height of the storm, more than 20,000 people were housed in shelters in 172 locations. The Red Cross provided 1.3 million meals and snacks, and has given more than $3.8 million to help families in the recovery process.

Jordan has visited the Wilmington area periodically since he headed to Chapel Hill for college.

In addition to becoming a star at Carolina, he led the Tar Heels to the NCAA Championship with a dramatic game-winning shot.

A two-time College Player of the Year and first team All-American, he was the third pick in the 1984 NBA Draft. Jordan also helped the Chicago Bulls win six NBA championships, won five NBA regular season MVP honors and made 14 All-Star game appearances. He’s won two Olympic

gold medals, one as part of the “Dream Team” in 1992.

In March 2010, Jordan became the majority owner of the Charlotte Bobcats, the first former player to become the majority owner of an NBA franchise. The team changed its name back to the Charlotte Hornets at the start of the 2014-15 season, bringing the buzz back to the city and fans statewide.

Jordan still has family in the Wilmington area, and his nephew attends the University of North Carolina at Wilmington. He’s reportedly returned to the area to film commercials for some of the brands he endorses, including Gatorade, Hanes and Nike.

The Nov. 20 trip to Wilmington, however, was about more than self-promotion. In fact, Jordan’s goal seemed to be solely to help others. There were no appearances, other than the star handing out pre-packaged meals to hurricane survivors and giving his pricy sneakers to children at the very Boys & Girls Club he grew up attending.

“If I can bring a smile to their faces, especially during this time, I’m willing to do that without a doubt,” he said.

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Farewell, Old Friend...

On December 4, the Surf City Swing Bridge faded into the sunset, as the new high-rise bridge onto Topsail Island officially opened. In our Fall 2018 issue, we paid homage to this old steel magnolia who’s greeted many of us on our way to a day at the beach. Here’s what some of you had to say on our social media feeds.

Renee Taylor Wilkins via Facebook

For many, many years crossing this bridge would stir several different emotions! Mostly, it would bring feelings of joy, excitement, and peace.

This past summer, every time we crossed the swing bridge, I would feel a sense of sadness. The next trip down to our favorite island will be different with the opening of the new high-rise bridge, but no doubt Topsail will remain our favorite place to be!

@topsailchamber via Instagram

Today, December 4, 2018, we say farewell to our beautiful swing bridge. 63 years of memories for so many people. “Memories are timeless treasures of the heart.”

Barbara Wilson via Facebook

I wish they could keep the bridge at Topsail and place it as a walkover bridge for the town.

Robin Pate-Edwards via Facebook

It’s a landmark. They should open it and keep it opened.

@topsail_beaches via Instagram

Goodbye, old friend! You will be missed. New bridge opened this morning (Dec. 4).

The end of an era!

@_joebyrd via Instagram

It truly was the bridge to paradise.

Those of us who’ve crossed it will forever hold it in our hearts and in our memories. The new bridge will forge new memories for future generations. Imagine your first real look at Surf City being a bird’s-eye view. Those people will celebrate like we did, hearing that familiar hum and knowing we were home.

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Jessi O’ Neal via Facebook

The iconic Surf City swing bridge took its final turn, but not before these two beautiful people got married on it!! Kyle (Sumer), you’ve been like a brother to me since I can remember— I am so happy for you and Katrina. If anyone is going to be the last person on that bridge, it deserves to be you!!

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Carolina in His Mind: Music icon James Taylor donates millions of meals for hurricane survivors

Story: Abby Cavenaugh “I’m gone to Carolina in my mind,” the famous song by music icon James Taylor goes.

Though he’s long since become one of the music industry’s most favorite sons, Taylor hasn’t forgotten his roots. Not only does he sing about Carolina, he also put his money where his mouth is. After Hurricane Florence devastated much of Southeastern North Carolina, Taylor partnered with the Food Bank of Central and Eastern North Carolina to provide one million meals to those most affected by the storm.

In a Facebook video posted to his page, Taylor said he was at his home, “with Carolina in my mind, and with a simple request for you, wherever you are.”

“We’ve all been hearing heartbreaking stories about the people impacted by the hurricanes hitting our coast this season, storms that have destroyed homes and communities throughout the Southeast,” he said. “While the devastation from Hurricanes Florence and Michael seems overwhelming, my wife Kim and I and some of our friends are determined to do whatever we can to help. We are inspired by the resilience of people in Florida and in the Carolinas, neighbor helping neighbor, and by people from all parts of the country pitching in to do their part.”

Taylor went on to say that he grew up in North Carolina, and has extensive family roots in New Bern, an area that was especially hard hit by Hurricane Florence.

After Hurricane Florence devastated much of Southeastern North Carolina, Taylor partnered with the Food Bank of Central and Eastern North Carolina to provide one million meals to those most affected by the storm.

The Food Bank of Central and Eastern North Carolina serves New Bern, in Craven County, as well as 20 other counties that were severely affected by the storm, providing needed food and supplies.

On October 16, Taylor and the Food Bank of Central and Eastern North Carolina launched the James Taylor Million Meals Challenge for Hurricane Relief.

The goal of the campaign was to raise one million meals by Oct.

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30 (just two weeks).

Upon hearing the challenge, North Carolina organization Curtis Media Group joined the challenge with a donation of their own and a call to action to their listeners to help meet the goal.

“We are delighted to participate in this effort and thank our listeners for their response to the need,” said Don Curtis, founder

and CEO of Curtis Media Group.

In his video, Taylor said, “If you contribute, we will match your donation dollar-for-dollar.

We will be so grateful for your gift.”

Jessica Whichard, spokesperson for the food bank, said, “In the wake of Hurricane Florence, the food bank is responding to immediate needs across our service area. Food, water, and supplies are stocked and being distributed from our six branches to our network of partners. Shelters and community meal sites are closing and as urgent needs on the ground continue to change based on people’s access to their homes, the Food Bank continues to support with food, hygiene items, and cleaning supplies.”

As of Oct. 30, the food bank had surpassed its goal for the Million Meals Challenge, distributing more than 3 million meals worth of food — the equivalent of 4.3 million pounds — into affected communities.

As of Oct. 30, the food bank had surpassed its goal for the Million Meals Challenge, distributing more than 3 million meals worth of food — the equivalent of 4.3 million pounds — into affected communities. Three of the food bank’s branches, in the Sandhills,

Wilmington, and New Bern, are in the heart of the areas most devastated by Hurricane Florence.

The Food Bank continues to serve 27 counties with disaster relief food and supplies.

“We are incredibly thankful to be part of such a generous

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community that can come together so quickly to help when North Carolinians are in need,” said Peter Werbicki, president and CEO of the food bank.

“Thanks to the challenge led by James and his family and friends, we are able to continue serving people in urgent need, for the long haul.”

Although he was born in the Boston area and grew up in Chapel Hill, Taylor’s connections to Southeastern North Carolina go deep.

“It’s just home on so many

different levels,” Taylor said in an interview with WCNC in Charlotte in 2017. “My father’s connection to North Carolina is profound. His forebears, in the mid-1700s, settled and founded the town of New Bern on the coast, and then a branch of the family headed west, and settled here in the western part of the state. So it just means a lot to me, and there are a lot of memories associated with it.”

NEW BERN ROOTS

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mariners from Scotland. They were among the first to settle the town of New Bern, which was the colonial state capital.

Isaac Taylor was born in Scotland in 1762. He sailed to Wilmington with his brother James in the 1780s after the death of their parents. Using the inheritance from his parents, he settled in New Bern, married and began a prolific career as a maritime merchant. “Being a savvy businessman and a respected citizen in town, he greatly prospered — accumulating ships, retail stores,

although he died at the age of 45.

Alexander’s great-grandson, Isaac M. Taylor, became a successful doctor, as well, eventually serving as the dean of the medical school at the University of North Carolina in Chapel Hill.

His son, James Taylor, is the singer we all know today, famous for singing “Carolina in My Mind,” as well as “Fire and Rain,” “You’ve Got a Friend” and countless others.

Isaac Taylor’s historic home on Craven Street in New Bern is marked with a plaque honoring James Taylor, as well as his famous forebears.

Although Taylor planned no publicly-known visits to Southeastern North Carolina following the storm and his successful Million Meals Challenge, it’s clear that the state has a special place

in his heart.

“It’s a beautiful part of the world,” he said. “I just feel a profound connection.”

For more about James Taylor, including upcoming tour dates and information about the release of his book, “Sweet Baby James,” visit www.jamestaylor. com.

The Food Bank of Central & Eastern North Carolina is a nonprofit organization that has provided food for people at risk of hunger in 34 counties in central and eastern North Carolina for more than 35 years. In fiscal year 2017-2018, the food bank distributed nearly 70 million pounds of food and non-food essentials through these agencies.

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Oyster industry working to rebuild after Florence Story: Trevor Normile As over a million people fled its path, Hurricane Florence bared down on North Carolina’s coast. It caused $17 billion in damage and killed 39 people in this state alone.

Florence officially made landfall as a Category 1. Ruthless as it was, it was a different hurricane when it struck North Carolina’s growing oyster mariculture industry.

Mariculture is aquaculture farming done directly in the ocean, and can include anything from fish to seaweed. In North Carolina, it mostly means soft shell blue crab, hard clams and the rock-steady oyster.

But even those hardened bivalves had a rough time in one of the worst storms to ever hit the state. Since oysters are grown in the ocean, the farms, which have been growing in number in recent years, experienced Florence before it downgraded. Then they took a sip of the runoff from the massive flooding.

“I’ve been through a number of storms; this had more of a devastat-

ing effect. Other storms had been more concentrated, but this was just so widespread,” says Chuck Weirich, a sea-critter scientist who works with N.C. State University’s North Carolina Sea Grant program.

He knows his stuff too. Weirich holds a doctoral degree from Clemson University and deals with outreach and support to the industry, as well as applied research, among other things.

Right now, the best estimate is that the state lost about $6 million in clams and oysters due to Florence, in an area that stretched from Dare County to New Hanover County.

“It was really widespread,” he says.

Oyster farmer Tim Holbrook, who was looking forward to his farm’s first harvest after a two-year growing stage, was one of the growers who was hit hard by the storm.

“The eye of the hurricane, the northeastern quadrant, is the most powerful part of the storm. That hit my farm,” he remembers.

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“It’s been catastrophic here. I had a major loss, but I’m hopeful that there might be enough insurance and other seed money.”

Holbrook is a native of High Point, but grew up fishing for recreation and commercial purposes.

Three years ago, he began his own farm off Masonboro Island, near Wrightsville Beach.

He’s an energetic proponent of oyster farming in North Carolina, an industry he sees as a vital economic stimulus for coastal areas, one that’s particularly environmentally sustainable — many sources of animal production come with waste and greenhouse gas production. Oysters just kind of hang out, filtering the water.

Holbrook’s farm, which is studied by the aquaculture program at UNC Wilmington, functions not unlike a finishing operation for other forms of animal agriculture. He gets baby oysters, called “seed” oysters, from a hatchery and raises them to adulthood in floating cages.

Tim Holbrook works at his oyster farm at Masonboro Island near Wrightsville Beach. Holbrook is confident that the state’s oyster production will continue to grow despite a hard hit by the hurricane.

Chuck Weirich, N.C. Sea Grant.

Photos/Tim Holbrook North Carolina oyster farming more than doubled in 2016 and again in 2017. That year, value was estimated at $2.4 million. It’s still far behind Virginia, which clocked $15.9 million in 2017, but lease applications continue to grow “exponentially.”

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The result is a high-quality shellfish, he says, calling it a “white table cloth” oyster, because “if you were to eat my oysters in a restaurant, you would have a white table cloth ... oyster farms in North Carolina are growing a very highquality product.”

Thanks to Hurricane Florence, however, about 95 percent, a million animals alone, were lost.

“For me to continue, it will require a little bit of relief insurance money, grant money, because basically I’ve worked two years for free.

It would be hard for me to dive into that again.”

North Carolina is undergoing what appears to be a boom in oyster production. According to numbers provided by Sea Grant, about 1,800 acres of public trust waters were leased for shellfish as of 2017.

Those acres were being used by about 280 lease holders.

Compared to, say, soybean acreage in North Carolina (about 90 million, according to N.C. State University), that’s a small amount.

But oysters are also far more valuable. Farm gate value (in simple terms, the value before added costs such as shipping) of oysters from 2005 to 2015 hovered between $200,000 and $500,000, with about $480,000 harvested in 2015, according to Sea Grant.

Then, in 2016, it more than doubled to over $1 million. In 2017, it more than doubled again, to $2.4 million.

If anything, that’s an underestimate, Weirich says, because production is measured in bushels, even though many, such as Holbrook’s “white table cloth oysters,” aren’t sold that way.

Potential growers are catching on. Applications for public water leases have “increased exponentially over the last couple of years,” Weirich explains.

“We’ve seen a pretty substantial increase, mostly from oyster pro-

The National Weather Service reported shortly after the storm that Florence poured 8 trillion gallons of water onto North Carolina. duction.”

Right now, he estimates that about 50 or more of those farmers rely heavily on oyster production for their income. Of the lease holders, 40 are reporting losses so far from Florence.

Right now, Weirich says he is working with NOAA to put together a damage assessment of the aquaculture industry for the governor and Department of Commerce.

Wind and storm surge caused the losses, the scientist explains. Many floating shellfish cages and bags were carried into marshes, whereas bottom cages were tilted and filled with sand.

The infrastructure also suffered, because of damage to the gear in which the animals are grown, as well as seed stocks, which growers like Holbrook rely on for their infant oysters.

Then came the runoff.

The National Weather Service reported shortly after the storm that Florence poured 8 trillion gallons of water onto North Carolina. All that fresh water has to go somewhere, so it ran to the sea, lowering the water’s salinity.

Whereas fish could simply swim

away, oysters are sort of stuck wherever they moor down.

Satellite images after the storm showed massive aprons of runoff from the state’s waterways, probably containing soil, silt and sewage from inland. But it was the fresh water and coastal sewer discharges that hurt the oysters, according to Shannon Jenkins, section chief for the Division of Marine Fisheries (DMF) Shellfish Sanitation and Recreational Water Quality Section.

“We did, for the most part, get all of the anticipated impacts, with the exception of the Outer Banks and parts north,” Jenkins explains.

“I would say the effects were more widespread than recent hurricanes ... I seem to think it caused more wastewater treatment plant overflows and discharges than most of the recent storms.”

Closures also lasted longer, in general, than most recent storms.

After the hurricane, two of DMF’s water processing labs were put out of commission. About a week after Florence, DMF was finally able to begin resampling the water. In areas where there was no extreme flooding, the state began opening up, bit by bit.

By October 27, water quality had returned to the safe zone for shellfish harvesting.

The reason shellfish can’t be harvested sometimes is because they are filter feeders. They suck in water, digest the stuff inside, and send clean water back out into the ocean. One of the things that can halt harvesting is the presence of fecal coliform bacteria, an indicator that oysters aren’t safe to eat. Some areas, which were affected by sewer discharges, were left closed longer.

“Inland flooding is not much of a problem; we’re looking more at local sources. By the time bacteria gets here from inland, you’ve got die-off,” Jenkins explains.

He added that while coliform tests don’t necessarily discern what

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creature the bacteria came from, animal waste from inland farms isn’t believed to have affected the crop.

“A lot of people bring up hog farms, they’re not really an issue when it comes to shellfish,” he says.

Nutrients from farms and sewer discharges can contribute to fungal blooms, which cause fish kills in rivers, but it was coastal sewers and fresh water that hit the shellfish population. In fact, it’s not uncommon for DMF to halt harvesting because of rain, even as little as one or two inches.

“Think about all the rain, all that water over the state and into the oceans [during Florence], causing lower salinity than the oysters are used to.”

Oyster harvesting conditions have now returned essentially to normal, but Jenkins says some are still hesitant to partake in what is becoming an increasingly profitable aquaculture industry in North Carolina.

Considering the serious health concerns of flood water exposure, it’s not unreasonable. After all, an oyster’s job is to eat up all the bad stuff in its environment.

“I can understand the pushback from the public,” Weirich, of Sea Grant says. “I was in the Gulf during the BP oil spill [in 2010], it took a long time for people to regain confidence.”

Ultimately though, he explains, the water testing by DMF indicates the animals should be safe to eat now. Jenkins agrees.

“Floodwaters, whether or not they’re from here, the Cape Fear River, wherever, can have some bad stuff in them. And it’s impossible to test for every bad thing out there,” Jenkins explains.

“We got a lot of questions, are oysters safe? As long as you’re getting them from a reputable buyer or a restaurant, they certainly should be safe.”

So that’s good news for consum-

“I still believe, after the losses from the hurricane, there is a future in this industry. I’m grateful to be a pioneer in it, to lead the way for other people to find a business that is sustainable.”

Still, he says, the USDA has been “very proactive” in working with adjusters to help get farms back on track. He adds that he hopes the governor will step in to help realize the value of shellfish farming.

“The opportunity in North Carolina for mariculture is unlimited,” Holbrook says.

“I was very inspired several years ago about the prospect of oyster farming. It was like no other business I’ve ever been involved in; oyster farming is very collegial.”

And, he says, it’s sustainable.

How many industries leave the environment cleaner than they found it?

“I still believe, after the losses from the hurricane, there is a future in this industry. I’m grateful to be a pioneer in it, to lead the way for other people to find a business that is sustainable.”

SE ers. But it’s little comfort to people who, like many other North Carolinians, are facing uncertainty and loss due to Hurricane Florence.

“We had several nurseries in the state that took a big hit,” Weirich says. “Some of them very well might get out of the business.

We’re hoping to get some federal and state assistance in here to help them out.”

Will production take a hit? Yes, Weirich says, but it’s hard to say how badly.

“There is, we’re not able to predict that, but I’d think there’s going to be a dip ... I don’t think there’s going to be a huge dip, but the jury’s still out.”

Still, Holbrook and likely many others are keeping their chins up, despite the challenges. Right now, the farmer explains, insurance companies don’t have enough adjusters who know how to appraise oyster farms.

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ife isn’t like it is in the movies. Or a Nicholas Sparks novel. (Thank goodness, or else the love of your life would meet an untimely demise.) As Valentine’s Day draws near, you might be contemplating a special, romantic place where you and your sweetie can celebrate your love.

Sure, there are restaurants that offer “deals” and florists that provide expensive and extravagant flower arrangements, or you can just grab a box of chocolates from Walmart if you’re in a bind.

However, if you look deeper, you might find the perfect getaway is actually closer than you think. After all, there’s a reason Nicholas Sparks sets all his romantic novels in Eastern North Carolina.

In the Wilmington area, it’s hard not to be seduced by the gentle lapping of the Cape Fear along the Riverwalk, as lamps dimly light your path. You might run into a few tourists along your romantic moonlight stroll, but you’ll also likely find a quiet place to enjoy the scenery and steal a kiss. Plus, the breeze off the water is a good chance to snuggle closer.

If you prefer the salt air to set a romantic mood, any of Southeastern North Carolina’s public beaches are a good bet. Most do not charge for parking until March or April, so it’s an economical choice, too. Let Mother Nature provide the soundtrack to your love story with the crashing waves and cry of sea gulls to serenade you. Take a walk handin-hand, or snuggle up with some blankets and just watch the waves.

On Bird Island in Brunswick County, there’s a remote mailbox on a deserted section of beach, which was put there 30 years ago by a man and his girlfriend in hopes that others would share their stories of love. The Kindred Spirit Mailbox may be the perfect place to write your own love letter or poem, and leave your story for others to enjoy.

For those who prefer to be a bit more adventurous, there’s a ziplining park in Fayetteville. What’s more romantic than watching your significant other scream as they fly through the trees? But seriously, the experience will likely bring you closer to each other. You can learn a lot about a person as they zip across an 800-foot line over a waterfall. (Visit www.zipquest.com for more info.)

A traditional date night may be more your thing. Goldsboro has some options that might tempt your tastebuds. After all, don’t they say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach? The website visitgoldsboronc.com suggests The Laughing Owl in downtown Goldsboro, the Village Steakhouse & Pub and Carl & Chelle’s Grill Room. New Bern’s most romantic restaurants, according to Trip Advisor, are The Chelsea, Persimmons Waterfront Restaurant and 247 Craven.

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The Marsh Harbour Inn Bald Head Island The Marsh Harbour Inn is described as “a place to reconnect, a place of romance, and a place of inspiration.” It overlooks the marina and features decks and porches to “bask in ambiance of a seaside village.”

Reachable only by ferry, you’ll feel secluded from the “real world” here. www.marshharbourinn.com

The Aerie New Bern The historic StreetWard home, built in 1882, is home to the premiere bed and breakfast in New Bern. The Aerie features a total of nine rooms, each with private bath, modern amenities and tasteful decor that reflect the home’s late-Victorian heritage. Across the street, the Aerie Guest House offers two guest suites for added intimacy. aerienc.com

C.W. Worth House Wilmington This historic bed and breakfast offers seven guestrooms that balance Victorian charm with modern-day amenities. “As you step through the gate, the spacious Southern porch invites you to slow down, relax and enjoy,” the website states. www.worthhouse.com

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Take a step back in time: Local antique shops provide stroll through the past

Story: Annesophia Richards & Abby Cavenaugh Photos: Abby Cavenaugh Some folks buy their home furnishings, décor items, dishes, toys and knick-knacks from big box stores or online shops with free shipping. And then, there are others who feel the need to furnish their homes with items that have a story — and a soul.

That’s what drives many to antique stores, flea markets and yard sales for that extra-special purchase that will last a lifetime. There’s no way we could highlight all of the antique stores that can be found in every nook and cranny of Southeastern North Carolina, but we chose a few in hopes of shedding some light on the treasures you can find, if you know where to look.

Antiques of Old Wilmington proprietor Thomas Richardson believes that most folks’ fascination with antiques stems from an appreciation of the craftsmanship behind each item and the memories that each piece evokes.

“People love the quality of days gone by, but it’s also the nostalgia. When they’re looking at antiques, it brings back fond memories of their grandmother’s home, or their great aunt’s jewelry, or of good times past. They simply like the idea of having a souvenir from better times.”

Jeff Lovett, co-owner of Southern Heritage Folkart & Antiques in Kinston, agrees.

“There are pieces that speak to

“People love the quality of days gone by, but it’s also the nostalgia. When they’re looking at antiques, it brings back fond memories of their grandmother’s home, or their great aunt’s jewelry, or of good times past. They simply like the idea of having a souvenir from better times.” you, in a soulish, spiritual type of way. You can see the love that the original owners put into it.

They drew a family together.

Back then, you didn’t go out and buy a bowl. You carved it out of wood, and then repaired it over and over. You wouldn’t ever throw it out.”

He points to one piece he and his wife, Karen, have in stock in their spacious, yet jampacked Queen Street store. This particular wooden bowl had a triangular piece missing. It had been replaced with a corkboard.

Others have been repaired with large staples, Karen Lovett says.

“That’s the kind of authenticity we love,” she adds.

Like each piece found in an antique shop, each store is also unique and has its own story.

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ANTIQUES OF OLD WILMINGTON If you’re ever in a nostalgic mood, take a walk along the river in Wilmington’s historic downtown district. Better yet, stop over at Antiques of Old Wilmington, the oldest established antique shop in the Port City.

Established in 1982, the store sits one block off the Cape Fear River in a 100-year-old brick building. As you enter the 3,000-square-foot first floor, look upwards and you’ll notice beautifully restored original tin ceilings highlighted by one of the largest antique lighting collections in the Southeast. You’ll soon feel yourself stepping back in time as you stroll through a wide array of treasures, from home furnishings and décor to vintage jewelry and collectible Fenton glassware.

Proprietors Mark Smith and Thomas Richardson moved to Wilmington in the early 1980s to invest in the restoration of the historic district. Purchasing the building at 25 South Front Street and opening an antique store seemed like an ideal way to combine Richardson’s background in real estate with Smith’s childhood interest in antiquing.

“My father was involved in the restoration of properties on Capitol Hill in Washington, where I’m from originally, and I’ve been hitting antique shops since I was 11 years old,” Richardson says. “So I guess you could say I got the bug when I was young.”

Although the Wilmington area isn’t known for antiques, Smith and Richardson are able to keep an impressive amount of inventory in stock due to their mutual love of travel. The two men bring things in from all over the country, concentrating on smaller items for the tourists that make up the majority of their customers. The store’s downtown Riverwalk location attracts visitors searchWINTER 2019 | WWW.SENCMAGAZINE.WORDPRESS.COM | 35

ing for unique souvenirs, many of whom return yearly to add to their collections.

“We’ve tried to change with the times,” Richardson says.

“We went from oak and pine furniture to a lot of mahogany, and now because of the tourism in Wilmington, we’ve created collections of Fenton glass, bookends, cameos, the kinds of things people can easily put in a purse or suitcase and travel with. We were even fortunate to be featured in the New York Times’ travel section as a ‘Must See Shop’ in Wilmington.”

For those new to the art of antiquing, Richardson advises

to first see what kinds of pieces draw you in when you enter a shop. Practical items that customers can use and enjoy such as jewelry, bookends and kitchenware are great starting points.

“Just walk around and see what strikes you, then concentrate on that item and try to learn as much as you can from it. Always buy what you like, never for an investment,” says Richardson. “Make it an investment of enjoyment.”

THE IVY COTTAGE Growing up in a military family, Andrew Keller spent many years of his childhood living

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overseas. He accompanied his parents to various flea markets and yard sales in search of items to furnish their homes as the family moved across Europe. In the process, he learned to respect fine craftsmanship and the hard work that went into vintage furniture in a culture where things are passed down and repurposed instead of being thrown away.

After returning to the States and attending school at UNCW, Keller found himself working as a truck driver for Wilmington’s Ivy Cottage. With over 100,000 items in inventory, this Wilmington landmark is now the largest consignment store in the

“There are pieces that speak to you in a soulish, spiritual type of way. You can see the love the original owners put into it.

They drew a family together.”

— Jeff Lovett, shown at left, with wife Karen

Southeast. Recognizing Keller’s knack for antiques, the owner started taking him along to various auctions, as well as teaching him the art of consignment and antique “picking.” So when the chance arose to purchase the business several years later, Keller seized the opportunity.

Originally opened in 1998, the Ivy Cottage currently has 34 employees and over 9,000 active consigners. Three buildings and a warehouse spread across an entire block, each housing a variety of items such as antique furniture, vintage jewelry, pottery, Depression-era glassware and other collectibles. Although

the majority of core customers are locals, the store also sees frequent visitors from Raleigh and waves of tourists during summer months.

“When I bought the store in 2013 we had an older customer base, but that’s really changed over the last few years,” Keller says. “If you come in on the weekend there’s a lot of new families with children looking for older pieces, probably because of nostalgia and because it lasts longer.

“For instance, a lot of expecting mothers come looking for antique pieces that they can repurpose into changing tables,

which is a new trend for us. So we still have the old clientele, but those are the ones usually bringing the items in to sell, and then the younger generations are buying it.”

For Keller, the draw of antiques lies in their uniqueness.

Just like his many customers, he appreciates the time that went into hand making each piece, and the excitement that comes from constantly learning and seeing something new.

“You never know what’s going to walk in the door. Some days you might just have a bunch of pottery, then the next day we’ll get in an antique scrimshaw

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piece made of whalebone. It’s really the thrill of the hunt.”

SOUTHERN HERITAGE FOLKART & ANTIQUES Jeff Lovett started out as an antique “picker” — a job he loved, and which he did for over 50 years.

“I knocked on doors and bought stuff,” he explains. “I did that all over the East Coast.”

Over those decades, he developed an expertise in finding authentic, high-quality antiques from all over the world, from 150 A.D. onward.

Wife Karen, who owns Southern Heritage with her husband, says that the two got interested in antiques when they were in college. In New York state, they found what she calls “this old dump with wonderful bottles.” The bottles had been stored in boxes, but the boxes had disintegrated, and thus, the bottles formed a sort of wall.

From then on, the Lovetts would find or buy antiques and then sell them to dealers.

Once they retired — Karen used to be a school teacher — the couple knew they wanted to open their own

antique store.

“We knew this is what we wanted to do,” Karen says. “We bought this building just as downtown was starting to revitalize.”

The couple originally searched for a historic house in Wilmington, but then discovered the perfect home — and storefront — in Kinston. “It seemed like a great opportunity,” Jeff says.

And so, it was. The Lovetts have operated their shop for 10 years, with no signs of slowing down.

In fact, if anything, their inventory is growing.

When asked what might be the “holy grail” to add to their collection, Jeff responds, “Well, we try to go with the flow of what sells.”

“We like diversity, too,” Karen adds.

Their spacious shop includes artifacts from American Indians, the Far East, Africa, even a few prayer shawls and yarmulkes from early Christianity. On a recent Thursday afternoon, Jeff told a customer about hand-carved wooden boxes that the shop has for sale, which were used by shaman to carry differ-

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ent medicines. Another prized item is a club used by the Iroquois, circa 1700.

“A boy would be sent into the woods, and he would find a strong tree and carve it away, carve it into a staff,” Jeff explains. “The end would have an eagle on it, and when he became a man, this would be his club.”

“We’re looking for things that are authentic, that have a story,” Karen says.

“We like to get stuff that we know will passed down from generation to generation,” Jeff adds.

Over the years, Southern Heritage has built up a loyal clientele, the Lovetts say. And then there are those who are just passing through. Dealers and collectors are other regular visitors to the downtown Kinston shop.

“We have a lot of stuff that is hard to find,” Jeff says.

Prices range from a few dollars up to $300 or more, he adds. “We just want more of the finest stuff we can get.”

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A Taste of the Holidays Story: Abby Cavenaugh With the Christmas holiday season upon us, Southeastern North Carolina is buzzing with town Christmas tree lightings, festivals, and homes and businesses decked out in their red-and-green best.

Here, we take a look around the counties that make up Southeastern N.C., and share some of our favorite moments and scenes that are making the Christmas 2018 season one to remember.

Winterfest in Jacksonville created a winter wonderland for children — even though temperatures were nearing the 70s and rain canceled the sledding and ice skating after just a few hours. The Coastal Carolina Christmas Craft Show in New Bern allowed shoppers to conceivably get all their gifts in one place, with a variety of creative creations that probably left many a wallet much lighter.

And then there were town tree lightings and festivals. No doubt, it’s a busy holiday season — and one we’ll always remember for years to come.

Above, Santa Claus visited with children at Jacksonville’s Winterfest on Dec. 1. Photo by Jacksonville Recreation and Parks. Below, A Carolina Christmas Craft Show at the Craven County Fairgrounds on Dec. 1 featured Christmassy decorations, including hand-painted and decorated gourds (left) by Lisa Jumper of Artistic Expressions in New Bern, and decorative wine corks by Leilani Nichols of Washington.

Both artisans create pieces by hand that are one-of-a-kind. Photos by Abby Cavenaugh.

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Above, Children in Jacksonville enjoyed the snow, courtesy of a machine, at Winterfest in Riverfront Park on Dec. 1. Photo by Jacksonville Recreation and Parks. Below, the Christmas at Twilight event in Wallace in November featured a tree lighting (left) and live entertainment, which caused 2-year-old Brystal Wells to break into her own one-person dance party. Photos by Abby Cavenaugh.

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Above, The Onslow Winds Jazz Ensemble performed a collection of holiday tunes at Winterfest in Jacksonville. Photo by Jacksonville Recreation and Parks. Below, The town of Warsaw held its Christmas tree lighting ceremony in late November, drawing a big crowd. Photo by Trevor Normile. Left, clockwise, These hand-painted chicken gourds were a big hit at the Coastal Christmas Craft Show in New Bern. They’re created by Lisa Jumper of Artistic Expressions. Photo by Abby Cavenaugh. More sledding and snowy fun at Jacksonville’s Winterfest. Photos by Jacksonville Recreation and Parks.

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For the past 20 years, Santa Claus has prepared for his climb down millions of chimneys by rappelling at Chimney Rock State Park near Asheville.

Each December, a rockclimbing Santa scales the 315-foot-granite at the famous rock. General manager Mary Jaeger-Gale started the tradition to pay homage to the area’s outdoor adventure lifestyle.

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That actually is an upside-down Christmas tree, found on display at A Christmas Shoppe in downtown Wilmington. Apparently, upside-down trees have become all the rage over the past couple of years.

According to an article in Country Living magazine, this topsy-turvy way of displaying a Christmas tree may date back as early as the seventh century. “Legend has it that Boniface, a Benedictine monk, used the triangular shape of a fir tree to explain the Holy Trinity to pagans in Germany,” the article explains. “It was subsequently hung end-overend in celebration of Christianity.

The shape also recalled that of Jesus’ crucifixion.”

Flipped trees were not uncommon in the 19th century, when many lower-class citizens simply did not have room in their homes to display a traditional tree, so they hung it from the rafters, freeing up valuable floor space.

It’s not a bad idea for those of us with cats and dogs who like to bat at the hanging ornaments or chew on the fir spindles. If it were suspended from the ceiling, they’d have a tougher time getting into it.

There’s also a lot more room to place gifts underneath a suspended tree. More presents can’t really be a bad thing, can it?

Upside-down Christmas trees give a fresh take on the holidays, that’s for sure. They definitely draw attention, and cause people to do a double-take.

Evidently, the trend of upsidedown trees made a comeback in 2016, when London’s Tate Britain

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hung a Christmas tree with golden roots upside down from its ceiling.

Last year, the trend built steam, with more and more businesses like shopping malls and hotels flipping their trees for a new decorative twist.

It’s a conversation piece, even if it may draw some controversy. There are those who believe it’s sacrilegious, spitting on the centuries-old tradition of a right-side-up tree.

Others may think it’s just plain tacky.

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As part of this tradition, a pickle ornament is placed somewhere on a Christmas tree. On Christmas morning, the first child to find the pickle will receive an extra gift, or more traditionally, can expect good fortune in the next year.

It’s said to be based on the German Weihnachtsgurke, or Christmas Pickle, which is the final ornament to decorate the tree.

Krampus It’s not just a holiday horror movie. Krampus is part of eastern European folklore — a really frightening way to keep the kids in line.

Krampus is described as a “half-goat, half-demon” creature who, during the Christmas season, punishes children who have misbehaved, compared to Saint Nicholas (our modern-day Santa, of course), who rewards well-behaved children with gifts and toys. You’d probably rather take a lump of coal than deal with this guy.

The tree that restarted the trend — at the Tate Britain in London, December 2016.

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Goldsboro • Tickets at www.goldsboroparamount.com

Originally constructed in 1882 as an office building and armory in downtown Goldsboro, the Paramount Theatre operated from the 1920s through the 1980s. In 1993, the renovated building reopened, but was destroyed by a devastating fire in February 2005. Thanks to community support, it was rebuilt and reopened in 2008, hosting musical artists, theatre and movies ever since.

• The Malpass Brothers, Jan. 11, 7:30 p.m.; $22-25. Growing up, Christopher and Taylor Malpass soaked up the music of their granddad’s jukebox in his country store. Today, they promote classic country artists they treasure, while also creating their own new country and bluegrass music.

• “The Color Purple,” Jan. 20 at 3 p.m.; $5. Based on the novel by Alice Walker, this epic film spans 40 years in the life of Celie (Whoopi Goldberg), an African-American woman living in the South who survives incredible abuse and bigotry.

Rated PG-13.

• “The Diary of Anne Frank,” Feb. 8-9 at 7:30 p.m., Feb. 10 at 3 p.m.; $13-15. An impassioned drama about the lives of eight people hiding from the Nazis in a concealed storage attic, told through the eyes of young Anne Frank.

• The Platters, Feb. 13, 7:30 p.m.; $24-28. In 1955, the original Platters crashed through the racial divide in the music industry, paving the way for African-American artists to reach superstardom. The Platters today — Wayne Miller, Adele Galinda “DD” Grey Martin, Lance Bernard Bryant and Kenny Williams — continue to captivate audiences.

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New York City has the Times Square Ball ... Raleigh has the giant acorn ... and here in Southeastern North Carolina, Mount Olive drops a giant, lighted pickle on New Year’s Eve. Mt. Olive Pickle Company, Inc.’s Pickle descends down the company’s 45-foot flagpole at the stroke of 7 p.m. EST, which is also midnight Greenwich Mean Time. In the last several years, thousands have turned out to watch the lighted, three-foot-tall pickle drop into a perfectly preserved redwood pickle tank. Video screens mark the countdown from 6-7 p.m. The Harmony Boys will perform from 5:30-6:15 p.m., and then deejay L.J. Manley will lead the crowd in line dancing. Free refreshments — hot chocolate, cookies, and of course, pickles — are also served. Another part of the Pickle Drop tradition is the canned food drive for the Food Bank of Central & Eastern North Carolina. Those bringing canned food or who make financial contributions can win door prizes. Remember to come early. Everything’s over by 7:05!

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by British playwright Catherine Johnson, based on the the songs of ABBA. The musical celebrates women’s empowerment, along with the themes of friendship and love, beautifully expressed through ABBA’s classics like, “Super Trouper,” “Dancing Queen,” “Take a Chance on Me” and the title track.

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Patti LaBelle

7:30 p.m., Wilson Center, Cape Fear Community College, Wilmington • Tickets: $48-125

R&B singer Patti LaBelle has made herself into a music icon over the past five decades, starting out with her group, Patti LaBelle and the Bluebelles before launching an extremely successful solo career. The two-time Grammy award winner has racked up dozens of honors throughout her storied life in music. Still touring at the age of 74, LaBelle has shown no signs of slowing down. Her live performance should be an event in which audiences will hear well-known hits like “Lady Marmalade” and “New Attitude,” as well as a few surprises.

Visit cfcc.edu/capefearstage/patti-labelle/ for tickets and more information.

A wintry mix of entertainment WWE Live Championship Jan. 6, 7 p.m.

• Crown Coliseum, Fayetteville

New Bern Polar Express Dec. 21-23, 5, 6 & 7 p.m.

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Tickets $10-25 A one-hour tour aboard the New Bern Trolley filled with caroling, Christmas lights and a visit with the Conductor and Santa’s Elves.

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Tickets $15-103 See your favorite WWE Smackdown stars at their first appearance in 2019. Scheduled to appear are: AJ Styles, The Miz, Charlotte Flair, Becky Lynch, Daniel Bryan, Samoa Joe, The New Day and The Bar. Many more may be announced! Details and ticket information at www. crowncomplexnc.com/events/detail/wwe.

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• Feb. 9, Hotel Ballast, Wilmington This year’s event marks the 20th anniversary of the Cape Fear Gala. The 2019 theme, “You, Me Love the Sea,” will feature local survivors of heart disease and stroke. The red carpet will begin at 6 p.m., including a silent auction and cocktail reception. Enjoy a gourmet dinner, live auction and musical entertainment beginning at 7:30 p.m. For more information, to purchase tickets or donate an auction item, contact Ashley Miller at 910-538-9270 or Ashley.miller@heart.org.

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• Feb. 23, Kure Beach Help support local Special Olympics athletes by participating in the 5K, 1-mile walk or by taking a chilling plunge into the Atlantic Ocean. Live music, vendors, food trucks and games are also a part of the fun! its-go-time.com/polar-plunge/.

Carolina Chocolate Festival Feb. 2-3 • Crystal Coast Civic Center, Morehead City

Tickets $2-9 This festival was started by the late John Green, who wanted to partner local non-profits together, and enjoy chocolate. The event features numerous vendors providing chocolate cakes, cookies, ice cream and more.

There’s a 5K race, hourly pudding eating contests, chocolate spa treatments and much more. More at www. carolinachocolatefestival.com.

don’t drop the ball this new year’s eve Noon New Year’s Eve Party • 11 a.m., Cumberland County Public Library (East Regional and Spring Lake Branches) The celebration begins with crafts, coloring, games and free play. One minute before noon, the countdown will begin. Registration required by calling 910-497-3650. All ages welcome.

Blueberry Drop • Starts at 5 p.m., downtown Burgaw The first ever New Year’s Eve Blueberry Drop will be held in downtown Burgaw, presented by the town and Pender County. The official Blueberry Drop will be held at 7 p.m. EST, which happens to be midnight Greenwich Mean time. There will be a chili cook-off, live music and a countdown. www.townofburgaw.com/blueberry-drop-new-years-eve-celebration-2018-12-31.

New Year’s Eve Gala • Starts at 7 p.m., Thalian Hall, Wilmington Celebrate 2019 in regal fashion at Thalian Hall. This dinner and a show includes a live performance of Mamma Mia! After, dance to the sounds of a deejay, sip cocktails and welcome 2019 with a champagne toast at midnight. Tickets are $160. www.thalianhall.org.

Island of Lights• Starts at 9 p.m., Kure Beach/Carolina Beach Celebrate 2019 island-style with this family-friendly event featuring a night full of activities on both Kure Beach and Carolina Beach. Enjoy dancing to the sounds of a deejay, and a raffle at Kure Beach Oceanfront Park. A beach ball drop at midnight signifies the start of the New Year.

Fireworks show afterward. www.pleasureislandoflights.com/the-new-year-celebration.html.

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Then, along came Hurricane Florence, leaving record flooding in her wake, and destroying lives and property in the process. My parents will likely spend this Christmas season in a tiny camper provided by FEMA. I’m not sure they’ll even have room for a tree. The family celebration is moving to the mobile home I live in, which is slightly larger than a camper. Only slightly.

This is the kind of devastation we didn’t think about when we evacuated for the storm. I never in a million years thought that houses in my parents’ neighborhood and many other neighborhoods across Southeastern North Carolina would be completely destroyed. After all, Floyd in 1999 was supposedly a 500-year-flood, and we were all told it would never flood that badly again. Man, that 500 years went by quick.

My mobile home, on the other hand, I was fully prepared would be a pile of rubble when I returned. After all, the first thing I heard on the radio after packing my car to head to the shelter was, “catastrophic damage to mobile homes expected.” I looked up at the trailer as I drove away, thinking, “I wonder if anything will be left when I come back.”

Turns out, it was completely unscathed. Not even a water leak, or mold, barely a tree limb down. Instead, my parents’ sturdy brick house, which I grew up in, and has stood tall for more than 40 years, is now a shell of a home. All the floors, cabinets, walls, appliances, furniture, clothing — that’s all now rubble in the landfill, I suppose. The same is true throughout the entire neighborhood of Northeast, between Wallace and Chinquapin, and other communities in our area.

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been 1996 or 1997. My twin sister decided to give my grandparents a poem she’d written in college called “Christmas at Granddaddy’s.” After the poem was read aloud, silence settled over the room. We all knew that those Christmases at Granddaddy’s were a thing of the past. Everything had changed.

I can’t remember exactly what, but that year, nothing happened like it did in the poem my sister had written. And it was never like the poem after that, either.

Now, here we are again, only this time it’s Christmas at my parents’ house that’s been forever changed.

Florence flooded my grandparents’ house, too. It’s scheduled to be bulldozed. I try not to think about it. I thank God they aren’t here to see it.

I realize this is depressing. But there is hope in the destruction. My parents are still here. I didn’t lose any family members or friends to the storm, and I know some people weren’t that lucky.

Holidays will never be the same, for many of us. But, maybe, somehow, they’ll be better.

Perhaps next year, those who were displaced by Florence will have brand-new, state-of-the-art homes that are bigger and better than what they previously had. At least that’s what I’m praying.

Back when I was a kid, we had ginormous family gettogethers at my great-grandparents’ houses, and then, my grandparents’ houses. Now, the family has shrunk, it seems.

So, we’ve started new traditions. Whereas there used to be semi-chaotic opening of gifts for everyone at Mamoo’s and Papoo’s (as we called them), now we do the Dirty Santa at my aunt and uncle’s house, and everyone only gets one gift.

When we were growing up, our Christmas trees were always real, and we always covered them with silver, glittering “icicles,” which were actually shiny slim pieces of paper, I guess.

Now, we use plastic “icicle” ornaments.

Time marches on, and things change, devastating hurricane or not. It didn’t take a storm for our holiday traditions to change. But the storm definitely has changed them, again.

After Christmas comes a New Year, and new beginnings.

Let’s all pray that 2019 will be a year with many blessings in store — and no hurricanes.

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