The Best Times December 2014 by Johnson County

Volume 32, No. 12

December 2014

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INFORMING & SUPPORTING JOHNSON COUNTY’S 60+ ADULTS

Ho-ho-ho! Bread makers don’t loaf during holidays!

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Tree-mendous times arrive! Volunteering at Holiday Shop Keeping healthy while celebrating

Advice helps in picking, caring for holiday trees. Page 2 Christmas Bureau spreads holiday cheer to needy. Page 22 Jingling sleigh bells should cause no jiggling bellies. Page 24

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It’s time for tree-mendous memories By Dennis L. Patton

hen it comes to the Christmas season, most of us have strong opinions about what type of tree will take center stage in our homes. A live tree has the right feel, look and smell of Christmas. Live trees are a renewable resource that helps promote American agriculture. Artificial trees are made from plastic. For some families, allergies or a hectic holiday traveling schedule make a real tree difficult to manage. So the plastic tree is the best choice. For those who do purchase a real tree, wandering through a couple of tree lots dreaming about what could be, and the fun of putting up and decorating the tree are among the happiest moments of the Christmas season. There is something about looking at tree after tree for the one that is just perfect. Each person has different needs when picking out a tree. Finding that “just right” tree is in the eye of the beholder. Size matters Before loading up the family and heading to the tree lot, there are a few details that must be worked out. Most important, the size of the tree must be determined. How tall and wide can the tree be for your location? Keep in mind that trees look really small in wide-open spaces. Once indoors, they have a habit of suddenly growing too big for their designated space. Location in the home In addition to size, it is important to think about where the tree

will be located. In very few instances is the tree viewed from all sides. In many homes, the tree is placed in a corner or along a wall. This is important information in the selection process. The tree with a bare side may be the best choice, as it will fit nicely along the wall taking up less space. It is difficult to find a tree with four good sides, but often two or three nice sides will do the trick. Christmas tree care After making your purchase, the next step is taking proper care of the tree. Before placing the tree in the stand, cut off about 1 inch of the trunk and immediately place in the stand with warm water. It is important that the tree has a constant supply of water while in the home to maintain freshness. If water uptake slows, use hot water to increase uptake. Additives such as bleach, aspirin or other products are not needed as the tree only needs water. How long will the tree stay fresh? There are many different species of live trees on the market, each with its own strengths and weaknesses. Most trees will remain fresh for three to four weeks. After that point, the needles will start to dry, and the tree will often shed. Keeping the tree out of heat drafts also will increase the life of the tree. Christmas trees are the center of holiday decorating and festive activities. What is really important is not whether the tree is real or fake, but that love and family joy surround the tree. Dennis Patton, horticulture agent at Johnson County’s K-State Research and Extension Office, can be reached at 913-715-7000 or dennis.patton@jocogov.org.

Let’s recycle trees after Christmas

he Johnson County Park and Recreation District will be accepting post-holiday contributions of discarded natural Christmas trees at three locations from Dec. 26 through Jan. 31. Collection sites are: • the parking lot at The Theatre in the Park in Shawnee Mission Park, with a separate entrance at 7710 Renner Road, Shawnee; • the Heritage Park Marina parking lot, 16050 Pflumm Road, Olathe; and,

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the north side of the parking lot at the Marina at Kill Creek Park, 11670 Homestead Lane, Olathe. Note that the Shawnee Mission Park collection location is a change from past years and that participants will now need to enter through the theatre entrance, located north of the park’s main entrance. Trees will be collected during regular winter park hours, which are 7:30 a.m. to 8 p.m., except at Shawnee Mission Park, which opens at 6 a.m. in the winter.

No yard waste will be accepted - only Christmas trees. Wrappers should be removed from the discarded trees as well as any remaining decorations; particularly “icicles” and decorations made from mylar, shiny plastic, or aluminum. There is no charge for the disposal of trees. The program is open to anyone regardless of residency. For additional information, call the John Barkley Visitor Center at Shawnee Mission Park at 913-8884713.

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Volume 32, No. 12

December 2014

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the editor’s view

Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa .... By Gerald Hay, editor The Best Times

THIS & T HAT The Best Times, a monthly publication of Johnson County Government, is mailed without charge to Johnson County residents who are 60 years of age and older. Subscriptions are available for $15 annually for those who do not qualify to receive it. If you are interested in receiving The Best Times, call 913-715-8930. Mission: The Best Times is a monthly magazine provided for all Johnson County residents age 60 and older, publishing articles that inform, challenge, support, entertain, and persuade. Contributions to support the mission of The Best Times should be made payable to The Best Times and mailed to the address below, or online at www.jocogov.org/thebesttimes.

Publishing of letters from readers, opinion columns, or advertising does not constitute agreement or endorsement by this magazine or Johnson County Government. Interim Director of Public Affairs and Communications: Jody Hanson 913-715-0423 email: jody.hanson@jocogov.org Editor: Gerald Hay, 913-715-0736 email: gerald.hay@jocogov.org Circulation & Advertising Sales: Che’rell Bilquist, 913-715-8920 email: cherell.bilquist@jocogov.org

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On the Cover

Deb Bozarth, left, and Frank Carter, right, were among the retirees in the holiday bread-making program at Johnson County Developmental Supports to help a local disabled woman for the holiday season. Cover story photos by Paul Andrews

any of you have heard the phrase, “Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus.” It’s the title of a very well-known editorial in The New York Sun from 1897 that has since become holiday folklore. A father had told his 8-year-old daughter, Virginia, to write to The Sun and ask if Santa really existed because “If you see it in The Sun, it’s so.” The writer at The Sun affirmed for Virginia that there, indeed, is a Santa Claus. The editorial also brought attention to larger issues behind the question of Santa’s existence. It addressed an age of skepticism and a questioning of the things humans cannot perceive. It pointed out how tiny we are in relation to the ability to grasp ultimate truth and knowledge. Most importantly, the writer highlighted the importance of love, generosity, and devotion to our faith, pointing out how much they add to our lives. That was a strong message then and now in the observance of all holiday seasons with the hope of peace on earth and good will toward all. Even before Thanksgiving, the sounds and sights of the coming Christmas season have been everywhere. To be sure, there are many, many people who understand that Christmas isn’t about buying and giving gifts but rather about celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ and all the wonder that entails for the Christian community. Hanukkah is not a major Jewish holiday but grew in importance only over the last few generations, largely to accommodate Jewish children who saw their Christian counterparts celebrating Christmas. Families celebrate Hanukkah for the mystery and wonder when the oil lasted eight days, long enough for the Jews to survive the onslaught of their enemies. Other religious celebrations in December are important in their own special ways, including Pancha Ganapati (Hindus), Bodhi Day (Buddhists), and Kwanzaa (African-American) to name a few. The spirit of the season from all faiths calls on us to remember the less

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fortunate among us, to “love thy neighbor,” and to practice the Golden Rule. We must hug our loved ones more often, smile and laugh frequently, donate to good causes, volunteer to help the needy in our community and our local charities. We must savor what we have, what we’re given, and prepare to launch a New Year that promises a firmer commitment to make our families’ lives and our communities better and safer in 2015. That’s one thing that this holiday season of religious celebrations brings out in our diverse midst: a once-a-year sense of togetherness. We must remember to live up to their good will the other 364 days of the year — the true meaning of the holiday season. “Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus” turns out that, more than a century later, humans are still trying to tackle many of the issues The Sun addressed 117 years ago. Sometimes it seems as though some people today can be more skeptical and cynical than ever. I believe it is important that every now and then we take a step back to recognize and be grateful for the good in this world, giving life its highest beauty and joy. Maybe it’s thanks to tradition or faith or Hallmark Channel movies, but the majority of us approach situations from a different frame of mind during the holiday season. Rather than focus on the negative, we find ourselves more willing to take a break and enjoy the events and circumstances before us. We accept things as they are, even though we cannot fully explain them. To that end, Santa Claus becomes a never-ending story from generation to generation. He was, quite possibly, the perfect illustration to emphasize the larger points in the century-old editorial, because he is so directly related to the holiday season. Santa was an idea, a jolly symbol of kindness, agelessness, and timeless harmony. He has had many global names, spoken many languages, and has appeared different in many ways – by race and ethnicities throughout the world since he was a wee elf. He helps in the creation of memories, bridging young and old, and remaining timeless, or as the editorial in The Sun concludes: “No Santa Claus! Thank God! He lives and lives forever. A thousand years from now, Virginia, nay 10 times 10,000 years from now, he will continue to make glad the heart of childhood.” Finally, The Best Times wishes Happy Holidays, lovely words, to all, especially Virginia.

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Johnson County Area Agency on Aging Paid for by Old Americans Act funding

AAA hosts Aging & Disability Resource Center

he Johnson County Area Agency on Aging hosts your local Kansas Aging and Disability Resource Center (ADRC), where residents can turn for information, assistance, and a single point of entry to public longterm care support programs and benefits. ADRCs provide unbiased, reliable information and options assistance to persons eligible for the Medicaid Home and Community Based Services (HCBS) for Frail Elderly, Physical Disabilities, and Traumatic Brain Injuries waivers,

Medicare enrollment for 2015 ends Dec. 7!

eniors and their families are reminded that the open enrollment period for Medicare Advantage or prescription drug plans ends Sunday, Dec. 7. This is the deadline to join, drop, or switch health care and drug plans for 2015. For detailed information and assistance regarding Medicare options, visit www.medicare.gov. To reach a customer service representative call 800-633-4227 (877 486-2048 TTY). The SHICK (Senior Health Insurance Counseling for Kansas) program of the Johnson County Area Agency on Aging can also provide advice regarding options and processes. Just call 913-715-8856 to schedule an appointment with a counselor.

as well as assessment services for persons considering a move to a nursing facility. There are 11 walk-in centers statewide, including the Johnson County AAA, where the focus is on options counseling, functional assessments, and information regarding local resources. The AAA-hosted ADRC in Johnson County is at 11811 S. Sunset Drive, Suite 1300, Olathe. To connect with the ADRC, call toll-free 855-200-ADRC (2372).

Wishing you all the joys of this special holiday season 2014! --From the staff of the Johnson County Area Agency on Aging, hosts for your local Aging & Disability Resource Center

Protect personal information to fight against healthcare fraud

rotecting your personal information is the best line of defense in the fight against healthcare fraud and abuse. Every day, consumers get ripped off by scam artists. Medicare and Medicaid lose billions of dollars each year. You can make a difference! Here are some ways to take an active role in protecting your health care benefits: 1. Treat your Medicare, Medicaid, and Social Security numbers like a credit card number. Never give these numbers to a stranger. 2. Remember, Medicare does not call or visit to sell you anything.

3. Do not carry your Medicare or Medicaid cards unless you need it. Only take it to physician appointments, visits to your hospital or clinic, or trips to the pharmacy. 4. Record doctor visits, tests, and procedures in your personal health care journal or calendar. Save Medicare Summary Notices and Part D Explanation of Benefits. Shred the documents when they are no longer useful. Learn to detect potential errors, fraud, and abuse. If you suspect that you have been a target of errors, fraud, or abuse … report it immediately by calling 1-800-8605260.

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Johnson County Area Agency on Aging Paid for by Old Americans Act funding

Stay tuned to local media if winter weather cancels Meals on Wheels

everal local television and radio stations will announce any closure of Johnson County Senior Dining Sites and suspension of Meals on Wheels delivery because of inclement weather. Meal delivery is cancelled during bad weather or if road or weather conditions are hazardous. Listen to the following radio stations: • KCMO AM-710; • KCMO FM-94.9; • KMBZ AM 980; or, • KLTH-FM 99.7. or, watch the following TV stations: • WDAF TV 4; • KCTV-5; • KMBC TV-9; or, • KSHB TV-41 for Neighborhood Center closing and cancellation of home-delivered meals. The Central Olathe Office may also be contacted at 913-715-8896 if there are questions regarding meal delivery. “Blizzard meals” “Blizzard meals” were delivered to

Meals on Wheels clients in the late fall, and will be replenished as needed during the winter. The meals consist of shelf stable food items, and may be used if hot meals cannot be delivered because of severe weather or other emergencies. When clients who usually receive a home-delivered meal are notified that the meal will not be delivered, the “Blizzard meal” will be waiting in their pantry. If you are a Meals on Wheels recipient, keep a supply of other food items on hand in case of bad weather or another emergency.

A Salute to Royals Special Season!

Eating is so much more fun with friends!

Join old friends and make new ones by lunching at one of the six SENIOR DINING SITES available in Johnson County. The Nutrition Program of the Johnson County Area Agency on Aging, 913-715-8888, serves nutritious meals Monday through Friday at 11:30 a.m. for those 60 and older, and offers fellowship, recreation, and educational programs. The meals are provided through the Older Americans Act. A donation of $3.00 is requested. To reserve a meal, just call the center of your choice by 10:00 a.m. one day in advance. Menus for meals provided through the Nutrition Program are available at http:// www.jocogoc.org. We hope to see you there soon! De Soto Neighborhood Center De Soto Community Center 32905 W. 84th St. • 913-585-1762 Gardner Neighborhood Center Gardner Community Center 128 E. Park • 913-856-3471 Lenexa Neighborhood Center Lenexa Senior Center 13425 Walnut • 913-888-6141 Merriam/Shawnee Neighborhood Center Merriam Community Center 5701 Merriam Drive • 913-677-2048 Overland Park Neighborhood Center Matt Ross Community Center 8101 Marty St. • 913-648-2949 Spring Hill Neighbors’ Place Spring Hill Civic Center 401 N. Madison • 913-592-3180 CHAMPSS Program Senior dining at select Hy-Vee’s 913-715-8894

The staff of the Johnson County Area Agency on Aging saluted the tremendous efforts of our hometown team this season by sporting blue in “Royal” honor of an always-to-be- remembered baseball season! Our sincere thanks to the team members for the incredible memories you gave to all of us. www.jocogov.org/thebesttimes •

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Johnson County Area Agency on Aging Paid for by Old Americans Act funding

Get your home in seasonal shape for Old Man Winter

Recruiting for volunteers

rom cleaning behind you’re your fridge to inspecting your furnace, here’s how to get your home in seasonal shape as we continue to prepare for fall and the upcoming winter season. Clean behind the fridge Pull the refrigerator away from the wall to vacumn the condenser coils. Use a long, narrow brush to clean dust off bottom-mounted coils. Inspect your furnace Save time and buy a winter’s supply of furnace filters now. To get maximum energy savings, change filters monthly. Schedule an annual checkup for your furnace now. Check all windows and doors Install storm windows and doors. Inspect and repair any loose or damaged windows or doorframes. Install weather stripping or caulk around windows and doors to reduce drafts and save money and energy. Inspect the laundry room Check your dryer’s exhaust tube and vent for built up lint and debris. Make sure the exterior vent is closely tightly when not in use. Secure the cracks Before critters start seeking shelter from the cold, inspect the perimeter of your house for cracks or holes where they could enter and seal them well. Detector check Test your smoke and carbon monoxide detectors to make sure they’re working propertly (you should do this once a month), and change batteries in all of them at least twice a year.

Checklist provided courtesy of S. C. Johnson, A Family Company

Helping older adults to live in the community with independence and dignity. Information & Referral . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 913-715-8861 Senior Health Insurance Counseling for Kansas (SHICK) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 913-715-8856 Volunteer Services line . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 913-715-8859 Commission on Aging meetings will be held from 9-10 a.m. the second Wednesday of each month in Room 1070/1075, Sunset Drive Office Building, 11811 S. Sunset Drive, Olathe. There will be no meeting in December 2014. Regularly scheduled meetings will resume on January 14, 2015. The meetings are always open to the public. For more information, call 913-7158860 or 800-766-3777 TDD. AAA programs are funded by the Older Americans Act and state funds through the Kansas Department for Aging and Disability Services, Johnson County government, agency matching funds, and individual participant donations. Johnson County government does not discriminate on the basis of race, color, national origin, sex, religion, age, or disability in employment or the provision of services.

Brandy Hodge, Human Services volunteer coordinator (left), and Katie Baker, Area Agency on Aging Meals on Wheels volunteer coordinator, joined 60 other exhibitors showcasing their products and services at the 2014 Business Expo sponsored by the Shawnee Chamber of Commerce in October. The Johnson County Human Services booth sported a Kansas City Chiefs football motif to profile the Meals on Wheels program, and to seek volunteers to help sustain this critical delivery program serving homebound seniors. If you would like to additional information about joining our cadre of dedicated volunteers, please contact Brandy at 913-715-8866 or email Brandy.Hodge@ jocogov.org .

Kansas Legal Services

To schedule an appointment with Kansas Legal Services, contact the center you wish to visit. Be sure to provide the name of the client, not the name of the person making the appointment.

Funding for Kansas Legal Services for older adults (60+) is provided through the Older Americans Act and private contributions. Clients are not billed for services, but contributions are gratefully accepted. To apply for Kansas Legal Services, call 913-621-0200 or a central intake line at 800-723-6953. Roeland Park Community Center

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Hoe-hoe-hoe: Wish lists for gardeners

By Dennis Patton

he Thanksgiving meal is behind us and the rush for Christmas and holiday shopping is upon us. This is in addition to decorating the home for a festive touch and attending events that come around with the season. Whew, I am just exhausted thinking about it. It is for this reason and more that my time in the garden tends to take a back seat. I consider December a good time to take a break and focus my attention in other areas. Like many of you I will be purchasing gifts for special people in my life. It will probably not come as a surprise but many friends are gardeners. Oftentimes we struggle to find that perfect present. But when it comes to making purchases for fellow gardeners it could not get much easier. There are a number of gift giving ideas that are sure to please. Like most hobbies, gardening has a myriad of tools and gadgets that make it enjoyable. One of these items may be just the gift for that special person. A few minutes at a nursery or garden center is sure to give you a few ideas. If browsing the shelves is not your idea of holiday fun then let me make a few suggestions. Tools are a great gift. I know most gardeners could use a new trowel, sharp set of hand pruners, or even a sturdy saw. These items wear out, becoming dull and past their prime. Hand tools can range from $5 to $50 or more, depending on the item and its quality. Become a little more adventuresome and there are all sorts of special tools for the job. Many times we just don’t splurge on the latest and greatest, but these novelties make the best gifts. Reference books are another great gift item. The book lover could get lost in a gardening section as there are so many titles to choose. Books can be divided into a couple of categories. There are the coffee table books full of beautiful pictures and inspiration. These books whet the appetite and start the creative

juices flowing, or cause one to daydream, lost in all the possibilities. The other main type of book is what I call a reference book. These books are short on pretty pictures but have “the meat” or information. Reference books range from topics on different plants, to the basics of landscaping or problem solving. Books not only help the gardener learn but also pass the long winter days and nights. Who cannot resist curling up by the fire or wrapped in in your favorite blanket sipping a warm beverage and dreaming of the upcoming season? In fact, dreaming, as real gardeners know, is all part of the fun and enjoyment of this hobby. Another great gift idea is to purchase a membership to one of the area’s local botanical gardens. The Kansas City area is blessed to have two excellent facilities to visit for outings during the season. Memberships to either Powell Gardens or the Overland Park Arboretum and Botanical Gardens offer free admission and other member discounts. In addition to a membership gift, schedule a couple of outings with friends during the season. This way you are not just giving the membership but also your gift of time. What a great way to spend time with special friends. What better way to show how much someone means to you than an outing to a beautiful garden, lunch, and time to catch up on life. This gift makes it much more personal than just another possession to pass along. Actually, the thing many people would really like is time to keep and renew friendships. How often have you said something like “it has been way too long” or “we need to get together?” Schedule that time now before it has passed. If the more impersonal gift fits the bill then gift cards make an excellent choice. Local nurseries and garden centers, or even mail order companies have gift certificates. These can Continued to next page

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Holiday wish lists are easy to fill for gardeners

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then be redeemed for merchandise that is handpicked by your gardening friend. I know that when I am given a gift card from a friend I try to find something special so that I can remember the thoughtful gift. These plants or pieces of garden art then sometimes take on that person’s name in the garden. Every time I tend the plant or look at the art piece I think about them. People often ask why I have a pineapple in my front yard. Well for two reasons, one it is the international symbol for

hospitality, and two, it was purchased with funds given to me by our Extension Master Gardeners to celebrate a work anniversary. That piece has lasting meaning. Enjoy the holiday season. A gardener may be the easiest person on your list. There are so many things to choose from, either by following your own imagination or my short shopping list of suggestions. Dennis Patton, horticulture agent at Johnson County’s K-State Research and Extension Office, can be reached at 913-715-7000 or dennis.patton@jocogov.org. Your Hometown Medical Equipment and Supply Store.

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cover story

No loafing during the holidays! JCDS volunteers make, sell bread in adopting a senior citizen

By Lurena Mead

he fall leaves have been bagged, blown away or are blanketing the beds of our gardens. The winter holidays have arrived with thoughts of cozy fires and time spent with family and friends. The holidays represent a special time to most residents, but not all of them. Many senior citizens find the holidays to be a time of loneliness. Holidays elicit excitement for the 24 individuals that participate in the Johnson County Developmental Supports (JCDS) retirement program. JCDS, an agency of Johnson County Government, provides daily services to more than 500 individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities, through a broad array of community-based programs and supports. More than 200 people attend the JCDS work program at the Mark D. Elmore Center in Lenexa. Nearly 10 years ago, the retirement program was created to serve individuals that were aging and no longer wanted to work, such as Deb Bozarth, 65, and Frank Carter, 66. Both had been in JCDS services for more than 30 years and six years ago decided the program better met their needs. Individuals in JCDS services are often on the receiving end of goodwill. Residents of Johnson County eagerly volunteer, donate needed items, and do special things to benefit JCDS clients. These service participants are gracious “receivers,” but also understand the importance of being “givers.” Believing that it is better to give than to receive, Bozarth and Carter along with the other folks in the retirement program decided to adopt a senior citizen for the holidays. For several years JCDS had been working with an agency in Missouri in order to adopt a family for the holidays and two years ago decided to keep it local by contacting Sylvia Terry, executive director of the Shawnee Community Center which offers an “Adopt a Family” program. This year, she assigned JCDS with a 60-year old woman who has a disability and provided JCDS with the woman’s “wish list.” Not having an income of their own, JCDS retirees were then faced with the issue of how to raise the money they would need in order to purchase the gifts. Two years ago, with the renovation of the JCDS facility, raised-bed gardens were built in the outdoor space around JCDS. The KC Garden Club donated its expertise in getting the gardens up and running. During the gardening season, members in the retirement program enjoyed getting “down and dirty” with their sowing, tending, and reaping, which in the end, resulted in lots of zuc-

Deb Bozarth, left, and Frank Carter, right, were among the JCDS retirees in the holiday bread-making program to help a local disabled woman.

chini. In fact, the harvest was so plentiful; they didn’t know what to do with it all. Since the JCDS retirees had agreed to adopt the senior, but didn’t know how they would raise the funds in order to fulfill their senior’s gift list, all it took was one glance at the “harvest basket” and the answer was right in front of them … zucchini bread! The group of industrious folks and staff baked nearly 40 loaves of bread and sold each loaf for $6. During the past few weeks, the spicy smell of seasonal bread has reinforced belief in the residents of the JCDS community that it is better to give than to receive. To the retirees, there is never a shortage of ways in which each and every one of them can make a difference. In their special holiday project, the retirees prove they’re never “too old” or “too disabled” to do something which reinforces the true meaning of the holiday season by helping others in time of need and spreading goodwill in the community. With the profits from the selling of zucchini bread, they raised enough money to purchase everything on their new holiday-adopted friend’s wish list including slippers, pajamas, and a colorful sweatshirt. Retirees also threw in an additional treat or two! Each JCDS retiree was able to participate in baking, shopping, and wrapping the gifts. Carter, who is also an artist, was thrilled to be able to express his creative side with a little mixing and stirring. He said that during the holidays, everyone needs to know that someone cares about them. Bozarth agreed. “Helping someone to have a Merry Christmas makes me feel good,” she said. Lurena Mead is community relations manager at JCDS.

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Volunteers needed for Hanukkah project

anielle and her husband have six children. When her husband suddenly lost his job last winter, Danielle faced a dilemma with Hanukkah around the corner. “I didn’t know how to come to grips with seeing the sadness in my young children’s faces,” she said. “I am a stay- at- home mom, so my husband’s income is what we live on.” Danielle reached out to Jewish Family Services for help just in time to be part of its Hanukkah Gift Project. It made a world of difference for Danielle’s family. “This program has benefited us so much, being able to wake up each day and have a gift to give the kids meant more than words can explain,” Danielle said. “It allowed us to enjoy the holidays and not be so saddened or depressed because we couldn’t do anything ourselves and we didn’t have to explain to our kids that there would be no holiday.” This year, Hanukkah begins at sundown on Tuesday, December 16, and JFS needs your help for its annual Hanukkah Gift Project to be a success. JFS will assist more than 350 individuals and families who continue to struggle financially, especially older adults and families whose top bread winner may be unemployed. Affording even the bare necessities is

difficult for them let alone, purchasing Hanukkah gifts. JFS invites individuals, families and organizations to adopt a family or a Bubbe or Zayde for the Festival of Lights. If you cannot adopt someone, you CAN make a difference by donating gift cards or making a financial contribution to the Hanukkah project. Monetary donations may be made on line at www.jfskc.org/ donate or by mail. Please make checks payable to JFS Hanukkah Project and mail to JFS, Attention: Hanukkah Project, 5801 W. 115th Street, Suite 103, Overland Park, KS 66211. All donations are tax deductible. Once you adopt an individual or family, JFS will provide you with a “wish list” of items. All items should be delivered to JFS’ Overland Park office by the week of December 1. These gifts will be wrapped at a community wrapping party Monday, December 8 from 5:30-7:30 p.m., in the front lobby at the Jewish Community Campus. The wrapping party provides a great opportunity for children and teens to help out and earn community service credit. Volunteers are also needed to help deliver gifts December 12-14. For more information about the Hanukkah Gift Project or to volunteer, please contact Taly Friedman, director of Volunteer Engagement at 913-730-1445 or tfriedman@jfskc.org.

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kitchen table money talk

Home is where the black ink is

By Gene Meyer

f you thought buying your first home was scary, brace for more potential sticker shock for your possible final one. Entry fees for continuing care retirement communities – those are the ones offering increasing levels of medical care as we age – often start in the low six figures in this corner of northeast Kansas and can jump higher than $400,000 for roomier quarters. Monthly fees for community amenities and maintenance run a couple of thousand more. Industry projections suggest the costs could continue rising maybe 3 percent a year for the foreseeable future. Many of our homes don’t cost as much. Even so, the units are filling up, reports Deborah Messmer, sales director for Tallgrass Creek in Overland Park, which already has nearly filled a third residential complex it opened in November. There are many reasons why many of us are willing to bite such big financial bullets, Messmer said. One is that home-owning costs and continuing care costs aren’t directly comparable. We don’t

always count meals, community activities, transportation and other amenities as home-owning expenses. Another, more pragmatic, reason perhaps is that even though home real estate and equity values only recently are recovering from the Great Recession, trends in home prices in and around Johnson County are more or less matching continuing care trends. Numbers of homes sold in the Kansas City area dropped 2 percent from year-earlier levels in September to 2,525 units, the Kansas City Regional Association of Realtors reports, but average sales prices rose just less than 5 percent to $192,335. Homeowners’ own individual experiences may vary widely from those averages, of course, but “the market is keeping pace,” said David

Cooper, president of Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Kansas City. “In my experience, questions of downsizing and what to do with furniture and other possessions can be bigger issues,” Cooper said. Again, that is not universally true, though. More aging Americans than in the past are financially ill-prepared for retirement. As many as a third of those 50 or older may be stuck in homes that may not fit their housing needs, according to a study released in September by the Harvard Joint Center for Housing Studies and the AARP Foundation. The problem for many is debt, the study reported. Nearly 40 percent of those of us who are 65 or older are still making mortgage payments, about double the number in 1992. Our incomes

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Concert at JCCC features New Horizons Band

free concert by the New Horizons Band is set for 7 p.m. on Tuesday, Dec. 2, at Johnson County Community College’s Yardley Hall, 12345 College Blvd., Overland Park. The New Horizons Band is a program of the 50 Plus Department of the Johnson County Park and Recreation District in conjunction with the University of Missouri - Kansas City’s Conservatory of Music and Dance and Meyer Music. The band is a group of music-loving adults age 50 and

older who meet about once a week to practice. New Horizons has been in existence for about 15 years and currently has about 45 band members. For anyone interested in joining the group, the band meets for practices weekly on Tuesday nights beginning at 6 p.m. at the Roeland Park Community Center, 4850 Rosewood Dr. Beginning band lessons are also available. For more information about the band or the upcoming concerts, call 913-826-3160.

Wildlands event set December 6 at Mildale Farm

ansas City WildLands, in partnership with Johnson County Park and Recreation District, is again offering the public an opportunity to remove invasive red cedars and take them home to decorate for the holidays! The event will take place from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. on Saturday, December 6, at Mildale Farm, a JCPRD site, located at 35250 West 199th Street, Edgerton. A minimum donation of $15 is being suggested for the trees, which have a range of shapes and sizes from “Charlie Brown Specials” to trees suitable for a mayor’s Christmas tree. Proceeds from this event will be used to benefit future conservation efforts throughout the metropolitan Kansas City Region. As part of this event, haywagons will take participants to the tree site and back to their cars. Those who would like to participate should bring hand saws, rope, sturdy boots, and work gloves. Chainsaws and axes are not permitted. KC WildLands volunteers will be on hand to assist with loading trees. For those who would like to cut their own tree, volunteers will point out trees which can be cut. A fire, hot cider, and cookies to help warm up participants will also be available. For more information on Kansas City WildLands or to volunteer at this event, contact Linda Lehrbaum at 816561-1061 ext. 116 or linda@bridgingthegap.org, or visit the group’s website at www.kcwildlands.org.

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Birdwatching trip takes wing in December

isit the yearly celebration of “Eagle Days” at the Squaw Creek National Wildlife Refuge through a birdwatching trip being offered by the Johnson County Park and Recreation District. Always a participant favorite, the trip affords a close-up view of the national bird. The trip will take place on Saturday, December 6, and will include a special presentation including a close-up look at a mature Bald Eagle, a tour of the refuge, and a chance to look through spotting scopes to view this amazing bird.

Holiday Homes to go on tour during day trip

day trip to Kappa Kappa Gamma’s annual homes tour is being offered in early December by the 50 Plus Department of the Johnson County Park and Recreation District. Participants in the Holiday Homes trip will visit four homes in Prairie Village and Mission Hills. Each will be sparkling with seasonal decorations created by local floral designers. Travelers will also have a chance to stop at their gift and gourmet shop for party foods, baked goods, and gift items. Participants will also enjoy lunch at Tavern on the Village. The trip will leave at 9 a.m. on Friday, December 5, from Antioch Park 6501 Antioch Road, Merriam, and return at approximately 5 p.m. that day. The cost is $59 per person and includes lunch. For more information or to register, call 913-8313359.

It is not unusual to observe 150 to 200 bald eagles on the refuge and surrounding area. Other wildlife such as ducks, geese, and deer have also been observed in past years. The trip will depart from the north side of Antioch Park, 6501 Antioch Road, Merriam, at 6:45 a.m. and return around 2 p.m. Transportation by small bus is provided. Participants must provide meal expenses for lunch at a stop after birding. Be sure to bring binoculars! The cost is $47 per person for one seven-hour trip. Preregistration is required by 913-831-3359.

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library connection

Check it out: Library offers investment resources

By Fran Dennison

ohnson County Library (JCL) helps you learn to manage your investments. All you need is a library card! JCL circulates a large collection of books and eBooks on general investment guidelines and practices. We also have good books on real estate investing, annuities, commodities, futures, and mutual funds. The Library subscribes to some serious investment research databases that you can access on-site or from your home or smart-phone office. You can analyze stocks with ValueLine, Standard & Poor’s Netadvantage, and your mutual funds with Morningstar. S&P Netadvantage also gives daily stock prices for all three exchanges: back to 1984! Also available: Mergent Online and Mergent Web Reports, two databases cataloguing bond info from Mergent (formerly Moody’s).

The Wall Street Journal database on the Library website gives you an investment edge through your tablet, phone, or computer. Click on the database, type in your card and PIN and start reading before your competitors have their paper editions.

Fran Dennison is a reference librarian at Johnson County Library.

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The Central Resource Library also carries more than 25 paper specialty investment newsletters/newspapers, including Barron’s, Investor’s Business Daily and The Wall Street Transcript. You’ll also find Richard Russell’s Dow Theory Letters, and Timer Digest. All of the 13 Neighborhood Libraries have meeting rooms and wireless internet connections available at no cost to users. Skyping in to an investor conference, or gathering your investor club, has never been easier. If you are courting investors with a new product, use our MakerSpace 3-D printing software and hardware to generate your prototype! Classes are available for novice Makers. JCL means business! For a group tour, demonstration or to reserve a conference room, call 913-826-4600. See more resources online: http://www. jocolibrary.org/research/business.

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Mr. and Mrs. Claus By Bobbie Palagi Smith

y mother made most of her clothes on her light blue Singer sewing machine (circa l966) and meticulously stitched her own name label in the collars. I did not inherit her creative ability. The only garment I made was sewn inside out, and even Mom wondered how I did it. After Dad retired, my parents moved back to their hometown in Montana. They traveled to Omaha and then Kansas City every Christmas. One year, Mom crafted Christmas stockings for my husband, two sons, and me with our names embroidered on the tops, and Santa’s, snowmen, candy canes, and reindeer stitched on the stockings. Another year, Mom told me they were bringing a special surprise. She said she and Dad had worked on Mr. and Mrs. Santa Claus dolls for weeks. They were made of bleach bottles. “Oh, Lord, what am I going to do with them?” I thought. “Bleach bottles!” When I picked Mom and Dad up at the airport, they were almost childlike with glee. “Oh, wait until you see Mr. and Mrs. Santa,” Mother

Life with... whispered. The minute we got inside, Mom and Dad gave us their gift wrapped in tissue paper. They couldn’t wait for us to unwrap it. Mr. Santa Claus looked like Dad except for Santa’s wispy white hair and beard and big belly in his red suit. Mrs. Santa Claus was delicate with white puffy hair, Dresden blue eyes, and pearl buttons on her red dress. She looked a lot like Mom. Both were exquisite without a hint of their bleach bottle origins. The Clauses stand on our fireplace hearth every December. Dad died in l990, and Mom died in 2009. Every Christmas, I look at Santa and his wife and think of my parents. I love you, Mr. and Mrs. Claus.

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Christmas program is scheduled from 1-3 p.m. Saturday, December 6, at the Lanesfield Historic Site, 18745 S. Dillie Road, Edgerton. Participants will Enjoy stories from storyteller Jo Ho, see a Christmas program presented by local schoolchildren, enjoy free refreshments, practice penmanship, and make their own ornament to take home. A visit from Santa com-

Call 913-893-6645 for additional information. Another free event – Christmas @ KidScape – will take place from 2-4 p.m. Saturday, December 20, at Johnson County Museum 6305 Lackman Road, Shawnee. It will feature a holiday celebration with a Christmas craft activity and a tour of the popular exhibit. More details are available by calling 913-715-2550.

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Assisted living lifestyle eases challenges of living at home and maintaining a home

ou may have grown accustomed to your home, but you and your circumstances change, and sometimes living at home presents challenges that a move to assisted living can address. Assisted living helps you do the things you can use some help with, while giving you more opportunity to enjoy what you like to do. They say you can “Bloom where you planted.” If you love the home you have lived in for so long and can get by there with a little help, stay and enjoy it. If the daily challenges of being alone and managing the maintenance of a home have gotten to be difficult, pack up those few choice pieces of furniture you love, take a lot of pictures of everything else, and don’t think of downscaling, think of right-sizing and doing the right thing to meet your needs for this time in your life. Change is a natural part of life…moving out of your childhood home, moving into your first apartment or home, moving to a larger home or apartment, and moving into assisted living. It’s a new experience, a new choice, maybe a new adventure. Since you have to live somewhere, it’s really the living that matters, finding a place you like, and making it your own, a place you can call home. If you decide to be at assisted living, and bloom there, here’s a look at what assisted living offers: • You can choose your own one or two bedroom suite or a studio suite in a homelike environment with no checkout time. • You can get great meals, help with cleaning and laundry, and no home maintenance at all. • You will find staff available every day to guide and

assist you. • You will never be without socialization opportunities and activities which are optional but planned and available to you every month. • You will have access to gathering areas offering couches, fireplaces, gardens, atriums, games, libraries, TV, and places to visit with friends and family. • You will enjoy fine meals in dining areas, which may offer entertainment during or after mealtimes. • You can stay active and stimulated engaging in activities and chats with neighbors in pleasant surroundings. • You can take advantage of transportation to medical and shopping malls, and outings to cultural events. • You can arrange assistance with medications, bathing, housecleaning, and health monitoring. • You will be in a supportive community that knows how to quickly access medical care, nursing, or other services and information you need. Assisted living benefits seniors who want a simpler lifestyle without the worry of maintaining a home. It benefits seniors who want the companionship of other people their own age. And, it benefits seniors who need some minor help with a few activities, such as taking medications or bathing, and perhaps even need more help later. If you are a senior who wants to remain as active as possible and might enjoy these benefits, check out the many assisted living facilities in Johnson County. Take a few free tours for fun. Picture yourself there. Be open to the possibility that an assisted living residence might be a new place to “Bloom where you are planted.”

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ssisted living offers an intermediate housing option between independent housing or retirement facilities and nursing facilities. The cost of living independently includes mortgage or rent, taxes, insurance, utilities, yard maintenance, trash removal, home maintenance, meals, transportation, and the variable cost of assistance with activities of daily living. People usually move into Assisted Living Facilities (ALFs) because they need more services than are available in their own homes and for the additional level of security provided by the guaranteed availability of these services. However, some services are offered through Johnson County to assist seniors at home with activities of daily living (bathing, preparing meals, shopping, housekeeping, transportation, managing medications, etc). Seniors can receive these services based on their functional or financial need, and may have to pay a sliding-scale fee based on their income. A minor home repair program is also available in Johnson County, which can help persons with limited income with minor plumbing, electrical, carpentry, furnace and a/c work, and accessibility modifications for ramps and grab bars. Regular yardwork is mostly private pay, except for occasional seasonal volunteer efforts. People with a strong family support system and some in-home services may be able to live independently without assisted living. Your options at home are to qualify for aging programs, public benefits like home and community based services through Medicaid (KanCare), hire private home health agency help, or advertise and find your own assistance.Finding your own assistance takes the most effort, but is usually the most affordable. Staying at home with assistance requires identifying the right balance of care and having the money to pay for it. For information about your options call the information line at the Johnson County Area Agency on Aging at 913-715-8861. Assisted Living – Enjoying the Living Assisted Living Facilities (ALFs) are facilities that pro-

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e of the choices and options? vide housing, meals, personal care and support services, social activities, some supervision and health care services. They vary from smaller facilities that accommodate a few dozen occupants to larger multi-level apartment like buildings with a hundred or more residents. Services may include housekeeping, laundry, transportation, and assistance with most activities of daily living. Board and Care Homes offer similar services on the smallest scale, usually in ranch style homes for one-five persons. Like Assisted Living facilities, they may also specialize in a particular intermediate care for persons with Alzheimer’s disease or dementia. ALFs are not nursing facilities that provide intensive 24hour skilled care.Unless the facility is part of a Continuing Care Retirement Facility which provides for this care too, you have to move once your care exceeds what is provided at the facility. It is a good idea to ask a facility about the limits of their care, so you can know what to expect and plan ahead for additional care. Assisted Living – Paying for the Assistance About 5 percent of Americans have private long-term care insurance which covers assisted living. If you have a long-term care policy, check with the policy provider to understand what the policy covers. Most people pay for Assisted Living out of their own pockets, and the cost can be $2,000-$5,000/month based on level of service needed, with the average cost running closer to $2,400-$3,400/month. Medicare does not cover assisted living. Veteran’s Aid and Attendance benefits may apply to some services in assisted living for qualifying veterans. See http://www.va.gov/GERIATRICS/Guide/LongTermCare/ Assisted_Living.asp or contact the Kansas Commission on Veteran’s Affairs 10107 W. 105th Street, Overland Park by calling 913-371-5968 or visiting www.kcva.org for more information. Medicaid can cover some services, but not all of the

costs, at assisted living facilities that are “enrolled as Medicaid providers.” Medicaid is for people who have less than $2,000 in savings and a fairly limited monthly income.About 25 percent of assisted living facilities in Johnson County participate as Medicaid providers, and Medicaid only helps with services, not room and board, for those people who have applied and qualified for Medicaid. Medicaid in Kansas is called KanCare, and Aging & Disability Resource Centers (associated with the state’s Area Agencies on Aging) can advise you regarding the process. Senior housing choices are based on location, cost, and services. You have to call and compare to find the best option for you. In Johnson County there are over 30 assisted living facilities. You can get a complete list in Johnson County by calling 913-715-8861 or see Assisted Living and other housing options in the Aging & Accessibility Directory online under the Health tab and then under Senior Services at http:// www.jocogov.org.

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KABC offers useful and informative publications

ansas Advocates for Better Care was founded in 1975 as Kansans for Improvement of Nursing Homes with a mission of “promoting quality long-term care for residents of licensed adult care homes.” KABC is a 501(c) (3) non-profit organization, funded by members, contributors and grants for special purposes. They offer information and assistance related to long-term care in Kansas, and provide the following publications you can order online at www.kabc.org or by calling 1-800-5251782. • Consumer Information Report. Over three dozen facts for any Kansas licensed adult care home (nursing homes and assisted-living type facilities). • Facility Comparison by County. Compare recent inspection deficiencies of all licensed adult care homes for any Kansas county. • Assisted Living & Adult Care Homes: Negotiating for Good Care 2002. Topics: Admission requirements, Nego-

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mental wellness

2015 resolution: Having a positive mental attitude

By Carol Roeder-Esser

s the New Year approaches everyone starts to think about making resolutions. A very common goal is to “be happy.” But what does that really mean? Abraham Lincoln said “most folks are as happy as they make their mind up to be.” Maybe the biggest part of being happy involves our attitude, how we think and talk about our life and the things that happen to us. Are we living in the present or worrying about what might happen in the future? Being optimistic, not pessimistic. Viewing the glass as half-full, not half-empty. An article by the Mayo Clinic states that researchers have found the following health benefits from positive thinking: • increased life span; • lower levels of depression and distress; • greater resistance to the common cold; • better psychological and physical well-being; • reduced risk of death from cardiovascular disease; and, • better coping skills during hardships and times of stress. The research isn’t clear on how positive thinking influences these health benefits, but one theory is that having a positive attitude enables people to cope better when experiencing stress. Another thought is that positive people tend to live healthier lifestyles and take better care of themselves.

If the goal is to be happy or at least happier, it’s possible that changing our perspective on life can move us in that direction. One good place to start is by making sure our selftalk, what we say to ourselves about ourselves and our life, is more positive. Being kind and gentle with ourselves when we make mistakes makes it easier to be kind and gentle with others. Focus on what you love, not on what you hate. Accept what’s happening this moment and stay present to it. Pay attention to what you say to other people. Are you complaining or criticizing? Is that what you want to hear when you talk to someone? Smile to yourself for no reason. Take time to enjoy the sunset, a piece of good chocolate, a hug from someone, sharing a laugh or good memory. Give a compliment or words of encouragement. Pay attention to what you’re grateful for. Having a positive attitude doesn’t mean you should pretend nothing bad happens. But when the bad happens, we tend to focus on that negativity, and not give the same focus to the good things that happen. Everyone faces challenges and obstacles that make it hard to be upbeat and positive. When those challenges and obstacles occur, you can control how you react to those situations. By positive thinking, you can often come up with workable solutions for how to cope. Some people have even discovered that the challenges were also opportunities that they would have missed if they hadn’t taken the time to look for the positive. Carol Roeder-Esser is a mental health program specialist at Johnson County Mental Health.

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Christmas Bureau plans Holiday Shop By Linda Cheney Kaut

ohnson County is one of the wealthiest areas in the United States, but it also is a place where poverty exists. Just ask Jill Cline Evans, executive director of the Johnson County Christmas Bureau. This non-denominational United Way agency in Merriam provides holiday assistance to local residents. Last year alone the Christmas Bureau helped more than 12,500 people. “I think the real message,” Evans said, “is there is poverty in Johnson County and what are we in Johnson County going to do to help our neighbors? Especially kids. Forty percent of those we serve are under the age of 10.” People of all ages can find help at the Johnson County Christmas Bureau Holiday Shop, which is open this year from Dec. 5 to 13 at the Great Mall of the Great Plains, 20700 W. 151st Street, Olathe. Clients who are pre-qualified get an appointment to walk through with a volunteer and choose from all kinds of items. Some of the volunteers are those who once walked in to shop. “I always say what we’re really dealing with is hope,” Evans said. The Christmas Bureau traces its roots to 1960, when the Shawnee Mission Chapter of the American Association of University Women started an adopt-a-family program. That program was converted to an actual holiday shop during the late 1970s. One person who was involved early on became a longtime volunteer for the Christmas Bureau. She is the late Ruth Keroher, who lived in Overland Park. She died last year at the age of 105.

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Keroher attended the Christmas Bureau’s 50th anniversary celebration four years ago. The agency recognized her contributions last year by establishing the Ruth Keroher Volunteer of the Year Award. The first award was presented last year to Jim Rourke, 68, Olathe. “I just really enjoy doing this,” Rourke said of his role picking up and delivering donated items. “I’ve been pretty fortunate in my life. I need to give something back.”

Rourke said he appreciates that the Christmas Bureau does so much to help children. “I can’t imagine little ones not getting something for Christmas or not having food on their tables.” The award this year was given to the Gerner family, which is headed by Jim Gerner, 79, and Marj Gerner, 74, Shawnee. The couple collects items throughout the year and serves in the shop’s personal care department alongside their four children and six of

their grandchildren. “The purpose of it is to make the holidays better for people suffering from low incomes and other situations,” Jim Gerner said. “It’s to make things better for them at a very important time. It serves a great purpose.” The Gerners and Rourke are among the agency’s 3,000 volunteers. More volunteers are needed. So are donations. One of the greatest needs is for food, such as canned fruit and peanut butter. The agency also could use gifts for ages 11 to 18, especially boys, Evans said. She is already thinking about next year. “Our goal for 2015 is to try and find a permanent home where we can warehouse our goods and have our office located there as well. We really need our own space.” For more information about the Christmas Bureau, call 913-341-4342 or visit its website at jccb.org. Linda Chesney Kaut, a former newspaper reporter, is a freelance writer from Spring Hill.

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grandparents as parents

Your grandchild’s personality By Shirley Carson

ow well do you know your grandchild? If you are doing the parenting of your grandchild, are you excited to get to know him or her as a unique person; someone you will only begin to love and appreciate in the few years he or she lives under your roof? Your grandchild no doubt possesses a combination of traits that surprise and intrigue you. Her strongest traits are often those you find yourself trying to tone down – especially if those traits are opposite from the ones you were born with. For example, if she is super-energetic and you, like me, are more calm and quiet, you may repeat “Settle down, please!” several times a day. On the flip side, you may try to cultivate those traits that come less naturally to your child. If you are extroverted and have a shy grandchild, you may urge him impatiently to let go of your pant leg and join in with the other children. While he may remain naturally shy, he eventually is likely to learn that joining other kids – even when he feels uncomfortable – can lead to making new friends. For this reason, your grandchild may express opposite traits, depending on time and place, expectations and experience. He or she may be bold and adventurous at times, yet exercise caution and good judgment when needed. But what characterizes your grandchild most strongly? Would you say he is mostly adventurous or mostly cautious? So what influences your grandchild’s personality? How a child uses his/her traits – whether those will be strengthened or subdued – will be influenced throughout

childhood by three or four factors: • Relationships. Your relationship with your grandchild has a greater impact on him than that of any other person, so do all you can to nurture him. Also seek to help him develop mutually uplifting relationships with siblings, his other grandparents, and others. • Education. Be involved in your grandchild’s education to ensure that your her classroom is suited to her makeup. Be sure her teacher understands her personality traits, builds up her strengths, and encourages her to overcome weaknesses. • Environment. Make sure your household provides your grandchild a rich environment. I am not talking about material things, but rather appreciation, encouragement, and support of his interests and passions. • Early childhood trauma. This is especially important to consider if you are raising a grandchild who has been abused or

neglected. You may have difficulty separating his or her innate character traits from those that have evolved out of fear of punishment. If your grandchild has a compulsion to clean or organize his or her room, their preference for keeping their room neat could either indicate his or her innate love of order or stem from fear. In a healthy home, a child’s strongest traits generally will follow him or her from infancy to adulthood. Some kids truly do love to line up their things in organized ways, from their shoes to their toys! Those strong, innate traits are likely to impact both you and your grandchild on a daily basis.

A child’s strongest traits will affect: o How he or she relates to other people; o How he or she deals with problems; o How he or she organizes his thoughts and carries out tasks; and,

What interests and motivates him or her. In other words, becoming familiar with your grandchild’s personality will go a long way toward helping you to understand why your grandchild acts the way he or she does. At the same time, the more you get to know him or her, the more you will find that your grandchild cannot be stereotyped and summed up by one personality type. Yet, children often reveal strengths and weaknesses in clusters that seem familiar. And familiarity can breed greater understanding. Shirley Carson, RN, is a retired nurse and great-grandmother. Since raising her three oldest grandchildren, her desire is to encourage others who are parenting their grandchildren. She lives in Olathe.

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to your good health

No jiggling belly with jingling sleigh bells

By Lisa Taranto Butler

t’s that time of year again. Just as soon as Halloween leaves us floating in “fun size” candy bars, here comes Tom Turkey with a load of marshmallow sweet potatoes and pecan pie. No wonder by the time New Year’s arrives we’re waddling in weight gain from weeks of calorie loading. It’s not that bad, but for some of us the holidays can stretch our will power and our waistbands. We know our regular health habits will be challenged by a list of social functions and a myriad of “Pinterest” treats. So why not plan ahead? Check out these easy ways to enjoy the fa-la-la-la of Christmas without falling flat by New Year’s Eve. Ramp it Up! Don’t plan to be a lump during the holidays or skip working out. In fact, plan to eat healthier and exercise more often or more intense during this crucial time. That way you can indulge a bit without feeling guilty. Write It Down During the month of December, write down the healthy choices you make-like how many minutes you exercised each day, how many steps you walked, that piece of pie you passed up, and the chair yoga class you took. Make a game of it. The more you track your accomplishments, the more you will see yourself in a healthier holiday light. Get Your Shut-Eye Buying, wrapping, decorating (and more buying) can leave us feeling exhausted and anxious. Losing sleep one night can change the way our brains respond to high-calorie junk food the next day. When we don’t get enough z’s, we experience a sharp reduction in activity in the frontal cortex of the brain where consequences are weighed and rational decisions are made. So basically, if we are sleep deprived, we tend to eat mindlessly. Make sleep a priority in your holiday health plan. Take time to relax each night before bed and wake up feeling refreshed. Eat Breakfast It sounds so simple, and we hear it all the time, but many of us still don’t treat breakfast as the most important meal of the day. Fuel up with healthy foods in the morning to conquer the hustle and bustle of the day and keep yourself from over-eating in the evening. Don’t Drink Your Calories Sipping mint mochas and spiced eggnog can have you tipping on the scale, but don’t forget how calorie laden alcoholic drinks can be. Stick to low calorie cocktails like dry white wine, straight liquor and non-calorie drink mixers such as diet tonic, soda water, and plain old H20. Lighten Up The Party Potlucks are plentiful in December and so are the casseroles and decadent desserts. Make sure there is at least one healthy choice at your family function by bringing a low-calorie dish. Scour the internet for healthy recipes or check out

magazines for lightened-up versions of your favorite treats. Share them at parties, and who knows, maybe you will spark a healthy new trend in your holiday gatherings. Healthy Food Fast Busy days and event-filled nights may require finding food on the go. Many fast food chains offer healthy choices that won’t weigh you down. Taco Bell lets you order your favorite items “Fresco Style,” meaning they replace the cheese and meat sauce with a fresh salsa made of tomatoes, onions, and cilantro. Check out the grilled sandwiches and wraps at burger joints, but nix the creamy sauces, you’ll do better with mustard or ketchup condiments. Forgive Yourself Being healthy during the holidays is no easy task. Setbacks occur when we make rushed or emotional choices. But just because we fall off the wellness wagon doesn’t mean we have to weigh down the sleigh. Plan for a few failures and learn from them. Recharge with a new attitude and get right back on track. Reward Yourself Set mini exercise goals like taking a new exercise class, walking as fast as you can to the end of the block, or increasing your weights. Small successes will keep you focused and merry. Then, reward yourself with something non-food related like a new dress for that holiday party or a one-hour massage to relieve some seasonal stress. To keep the sleigh bells jingling and your belly from jiggling, make and stick to your holiday health plan. A few simple ideas can keep you slim and trim right up to the New Year, and you won’t need to make any unrealistic resolutions for 2015.

Lisa Taranto Butler is triple-certified by the American Council on Exercise as a personal trainer, lifestyle, and weight management coach, and group fitness instructor. She is the owner of FitChix KC in Leawood.

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County libraries serve as warming centers

he Johnson County Department of Health and Environment, in cooperation with the Johnson County Library, encourages citizens who need a warm place during cold weather to visit one of the Johnson County library branches. All of these facilities will be available during normal business hours. Libraries offer many services in addition to a warm place to rest and restore. You can read books, magazines and newspapers, or access the Internet. Library hours vary by location. Call 913-826-4600 to check hours of operation for your nearest library branch, or visit the Library website at www.jocolibrary.org Serious health problems can result from prolonged exposure to the cold. The most common cold-related problems are hypothermia and frostbite. When exposed to cold temperatures, the body begins to lose heat faster than it can be produced. Prolonged exposure to cold will eventually use up the body’s stored energy and result in hypothermia, or abnormally low body temperature. Warnings signs of hypothermia are shivering, exhaustion, confusion, fumbling hands, memory loss, slurred speech and drowsiness. Seek medical attention quickly if you have these symptoms.

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he fall season of Animals Tales Storytime sessions concludes with two final programs during December at the Johnson County Park and Recreation District’s Ernie Miller Nature Center in Olathe. Animal Tales Storytime is for ages two to six. All children must be accompanied by an adult. The program will feature stories, songs, and surprises. Participants will also get to meet a special animal friend at each session. December sessions begin at 10:30 a.m. on Wednesdays and include a program with the theme “Winter Weather” on December 3 and another called “A Visit With Santa” on December 17. The cost per 30-minute session is $2 per person, including adults, payable at the event. Advance registrations are not necessary for this program. Ernie Miller Nature Center is located at 909 N. Kansas-7 Highway, Olathe. For more information, call 913-7647759.

Frostbite causes a loss of feeling and color in affected areas. It most often affects the nose, ears, cheeks, chin, fingers or toes. Frostbite can permanently damage the body, and severe cases can lead to amputation. The risk of frostbite is increased in people with reduced blood circulation and among people who are not dressed properly for extremely cold temperatures. At the first signs of redness or pain in any skin area, get out of the cold or protect any exposed skin—frostbite may be beginning. A victim is often unaware of frostbite until someone else points it out because the frozen tissues are numb. If you detect symptoms of frostbite, seek medical care. If there is frostbite, but no sign of hypothermia and immediate medical care is not available, proceed as follows: • Get into a warm room as soon as possible. • Unless absolutely necessary, do not walk on frostbitten feet or toes—this increases the damage. • Immerse the affected area in warm—not hot—water (the temperature should be comfortable to the touch for unaffected parts of the body). • Or, warm the affected area using body heat. For example, the heat of an armpit can be used to warm frostbitten fingers. • Do not rub the frostbitten area with snow or massage it at all. This can cause more damage. • Don’t use a heating pad, heat lamp or the heat of a stove, fireplace or radiator for warming. Affected areas are numb and can be easily burned.

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inside story

Arts council offers ‘Senior Moments’

is a holiday party in December and a summer picnic for members. hen Herman Gerber, president of the Senior Arts The Senior Arts Council has six to nine exhibits each year, Council, was a young man just out of high school primarily in Johnson County galleries. This year’s season ends he faced a career dilemma. with the “Senior Moments 2014” exhibit at the Tim Murphy “I couldn’t decide whether I wanted to be an Art Gallery in Merriam. The exhibit features 50 pieces of art, artist or a Certified Public Accountant. I loved art but I also including works in watercolors, pastels, acrylics, oils, mixed liked accounting and bookkeeping,” Gerber recalled. media in woods, and photographs marked for sale ranging He chose art. from $65 to more than $500. Gerber earned bachelor and master degrees in art educa“This year we had eight exhibits preceding “ Senior tion at the University of Kansas. He taught visual arts at North Moments 2014” which closes December 6 after a month-long Kansas City High School and J.C. Harmon High School in run,” said Bryce Moore, Prairie Village, who is the council’s Kansas City, Kansas, then second vice president in was director of visual charge of the Exhibits arts for the Kansas City, Committee. Kansas School District. “Besides being in art He retired in 1997 and galleries we also try to subsequently joined the have an exhibit each year Senior Arts Council. at one of the area’s retire“Most of our members ment or assisted living are retirees who took up communities. This year painting as a hobby or it was Aberdeen Village like I did to continue their Retirement Community interest in the arts. Some in Olathe,” Moore said. of our art is hobbyist and “Most of our exhibits run some is at a professional for a month. Our largest level. I focus on watershow is at the Endres Art colors. I teach classes in Gallery in Prairie Village watercolors two hours evin July where we have ery Thursday morning at the Bristol Hill Methodist judges and prizes.” Church in Kansas City, Like many council Members of the Senior Arts Council, from left to right, include Bryce Kansas,” Gerber said. members Moore didn’t “An artist continues to Moore, Dave Smothers, and Herman Gerber. join until his retirement learn all his life. Every time six years ago. you do a piece you learn. You may turn out something that’s “I did pencil drawings when I was growing up but I didn’t really great. The next time it may be really bad and you cut it get serious about art until I retired. That’s when I got into waup in pieces, paste them on a board and call it an abstract,” he tercolors. I started by taking classes at Johnson County Comsaid with a laugh. munity College and lessons at Ross Community Center. Now I Gerber, who lives just across the county line in Kansas probably average 15 or more pieces a year,” Moore said. City, Kansas, occasionally judges area art shows. “We’ll soon begin working on locations for next year’s The Senior Arts Council was founded in 1977 in Roeland exhibits. We’ll stay mostly in Johnson County again but we Park by a group of seven artists, all friends, who wanted to might try scheduling an exhibit in a Missouri gallery somepromote and share their artistic work. Their mission was to time. We like working with Dave Smothers at the Tim Murphy increase understanding of the contributions that experienced Gallery in Merriam so we plan on being there every other year artists make to the community. or so. Dave’s enlarging the gallery, almost doubling the space The council now is comprised of 60 local artists, 50 years available for art works.” of age or older, with various levels of expertise working in a The gallery, named for Tim Murphy who was curator for wide variety of mediums. The goal remains the same: en15 years until his death in 2012, is on the third floor of the courage and develop the talents of members and promote and Irene B. French Community Center, 5701 Merriam Drive. exhibit their arts works throughout the Kansas City area. Smothers, assistant director of Merriam Parks and Recreation, Council meetings take place at 1 p.m. the last Monday succeeded Murphy as curator. of each month unless that day falls on a holiday at the Roeland For more information about the Senior Arts Council, call Park Community Center, 4850 Rosewood. Annual membership Moore at 913-642-1447 or email bbarm66@kc.rr.com. dues are $25. Meetings include a business session followed Joe Henderson was a federal court reporter with The Kansas City by a social intermission with refreshments and a program that Star for 40 years and is now a freelance writer. He lives in Overland includes demonstrations, lectures, and workshops. There also Park. By Joe Henderson

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book review

Recalling growing up on Kansas family farm

By Arnold Bauer Reviewed by Barbara Watkins rnold Bauer’s memoir of growing up on his family farm in northeastern Kansas is a moving story that focuses on his childhood years in the struggles of the Great Depression and drought in the 1930s, the war years of the 1940s, and the demise of the farm in the 1960s. Time’s Shadow: Remembering a Family Farm in Kansas (University of Kansas Press, 2012) is a poignant account of a world we have lost. For those of us who grew up in that era, it brings back many memories. Bauer is a retired professor of Latin American history at the University of California Davis. Time’s Shadow was recognized by the Atlantic Monthly as one of the five best books of 2012. He believes we can learn “something fundamental” from the experiences of the settlers: “Their struggle and the very harshness of the landscape itself impelled a commitment to family, community cooperation, and fair play.” It was no place for the faint hearted. More than 60 percent of the early homesteaders failed. His focus is primarily on the 160acre family farm, extended family members, and the local school, church, and community. He relies on letters, diaries, old photo albums, shared stories, and eyewitness testimony. Bauer has a sense of urgency in his message. The eyewit-

nesses are dying and he is nearing 80 himself. If these folks don’t tell their stories, they will be lost and forgotten. Most people didn’t travel very far in those days; they were very self-sufficient. On their rare trips to town, they bought “coffee, sugar, tea, the odd spice or sweet,” shoes and overalls, and occasionally treated themselves to a black walnut ice cream cone on a Saturday night. Almost all of their food was locally grown and seasonal. Having a good water source was vital. The importance of water was underscored in the mid-1930s when Kansas was challenged by the Great Depression and then, even worse, devastating drought. “Crops dried up, animals died of thirst, and soon the winds whipped up the dry, plowed soil into towering dust storms.” When Bauer asked his father later about the worst years of his life, he replied, “the thirties.” And the best times? His father answered, “The thirties ... when you children were at home and we all worked together.” That era had enduring effects on many of us. Like Bauer, I can’t bear to throw things away, especially food. As they emerged from the Depression and drought in the late 1930s and

early 1940s, farm families bought reliable cars and visited their local friends and relatives more often. “Having company” was their primary entertainment. There was also a sense of connectedness in discussing shared interests and problems. The children had a good time playing together outside, catching lightning bugs, playing hideand-seek, or simply lying in the grass, looking at the stars. Gas rationing at the beginning of World War II in 1941 reduced the opportunities to visit, but by then the farms had electricity and radios and they could listen to the war news. In the 1950s, the younger generation left the family farms in large numbers and with less help available, their parents began to sell their farms. In the 1960s, the changes continued. Unfavorable terms of trade and the increase in farm size led to a “precipitous decline” in the rural population and the dying of rural towns. Now family farms are nearly all gone. They have been replaced by big farming operations, involving huge machinery, genetically altered seed, and many chemicals. His family’s “new world” dreams lasted a scant century, from the 1860s when our people homesteaded ... to the 1960s when circumstances they didn’t anticipate and barely understood swept them into the dustbin of history.” He holds fond memories of a life that had provided the “rewards of independence, self-respect, and a multitude of simple pleasures.” Barbara Watkins is an avid and accomplished gardener, birder, and director of outdoor excursions with friends. She lives in Lawrence.

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Good health in a can or freezer

By Crystal Futrell

ave you ever wondered if frozen or canned produce had any health attributes? Wouldn’t it be nice if they did? They’re inexpensive, usually go on sale, and have amazing shelf life. Well, there is good news for all you wonderers. According to Alice H. Lichtenstein, director of Tufts’ HNRCA Cardiovascular Nutrition Laboratory, “For the most part, frozen vegetables and fruits are processed close to the point of harvesting, and ... have the same level of nutrients as fresh.” Lichtenstein also states that because of this short time between harvesting and processing, some frozen vegetables may even be more nutritious than fresh: “Fresh fruits and vegetables — more so than frozen or canned — can vary in quality, depending on when they were picked relative to when they are available to purchase and the conditions under which they were transported and stored, the length of storage time and the conditions under which they are displayed.” This means that nutrients in fresh produce diminish during lengthy transportation times and when improperly stored and handled. So in some instances, frozen/canned produce can be healthier options over fresh since their nutrients have been protected by their

processing and packaging. Lichtenstein did remark that while canned produce is still a healthy option, there is some nutrient loss due to its processing. “They may be a bit lower in the nutrients that are destroyed when heated during the canning process. However, in some cases they are good options because they have a long shelflife, contain no waste and are ready to use directly from the can.” When choosing either canned or frozen produce, it is important to avoid purchasing items that contain any additives. Many canned and frozen goods will have added salt or sugar to boost their flavor profile. And while this may be a tasty addition to some, these additives diminish their healthy attributes. The best way to locate any additives is to find the ingredients listing on the back of the product. This list is usually near the nutrition facts panel and is always in itty bitty print. But, this list is the only way to find out if you’re consuming more than just produce. And, the difference between the non-additives and the added salt/sugar/

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syrup products is significant. For instance, the sodium (salt) content on one brand of canned green beans is 440mg per serving while the sodium content on a “no salt added” variety is 4mg per serving. That’s a huge difference, especially if you’re trying to monitor your sodium intake. If you can’t find products that don’t have additives, you can strain the canned produce in a colander then rinse in cold water to remove up to 40 percent of the additives. One of the biggest complaints about using canned or frozen produce is that it doesn’t taste as good as fresh produce. I cannot argue with this statement. When purchased when it’s in season, fresh produce is a healthy, delicious pleasure. But when fresh produce is out of season, its flavor tends to be sour and off, plus it’s usually more expensive! My recommendation to folks is if you love the flavor of fresh produce, then enjoy the different varieties when they’re in season and only if you plan to eat them raw. But, if you’re making a dish that requires out of season produce, or if you’re planning to cook the produce anyway, try using canned/frozen produce. You’ll save some pennies, and you won’t sacrifice the nutrients. For a listing of in season produce, check out the following website: http:// www.fruitsandveggiesmorematters.org/whatfruits-and-vegetables-are-in-season Continued to next page

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Healthy recipe: Try veggie chili

New to canned/frozen produce? Try this veggie chili recipe that incorporates a variety of produce in all its forms.

3-BEAN VEGETARIAN CHILI

Serves 10 onions (fresh or 1½ cups frozen) red bell pepper, seeded green bell pepper, seeded can of carrots, drained tablespoon olive oil 15-ounce can kidney beans (use no salt added variety or drain and rinse regular variety) 1 15-ounce can garbanzo or pinto beans (use no salt added variety or drain and rinse regular variety) 2 15-ounce cans black beans (use no salt added variety or drain and rinse regular variety) 1 tablespoon ground cumin 1 tablespoon chili powder 1 teaspoon oregano 1/4 teaspoon red pepper flakes (optional) 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper (optional) 1/4 cup hot pepper rings from a jar 2 1 1 1 1 1

8 cups low-sodium vegetable juice 1 14.5-ounce can of tomatoes 1. Cut all fresh vegetables into small wedges. 2. Heat oil in your largest pot over medium-high heat. Add garlic and chopped vegetables. Sauté for five minutes. 3. While the vegetables are sautéing, open all the beans and the carrots. Toss in a colander, rinse, drain, and add to sauté. 4. Add the remaining ingredients to the pot and bring to a simmer for 10 to 20 minutes. Source: Adapted from Lickety-Split Meals by Zonya Foco, RD

Program focuses on fall prevention

alance and mobility training meant to reduce the fear of falling are at the heart of a free wellness program being offered by the 50 Plus Department of the Johnson County Park and Recreation District. The Fall Prevention program will help participants learn to take steps to prevent an injury which could result in a decline of movement or independence. The 60-minute program is scheduled at 5:30 p.m. Wednesday, Dec. 3 at the Sunset Building, 11811 S. Sunset Dr., Olathe. For more information, call 913-831-3359 or visit the district’s website at www. jcprd.com.

Good health can come from a can or a freezer Continued from page 28 It’s important that we have options when it comes to produce because it is recommended that we consume 3 to 6 ½ cups per day. How much you need depends on your age, activity level and gender. But, instead of doing the math, just keep it simple with this strategy: Fill half of your plate with colorful fruits and vegetables at every meal and snack! Everyone knows that we can’t be truly healthy unless we eat our fruits and vegetables. They contain essential nutrients (vitamins, minerals, dietary fiber) and other healthful substances. Studies show that people who eat generous amounts of fruits and veggies as part of a healthful diet reduce their risk of getting a chronic disease, including stroke, heart attack, and certain cancers. Eating fruits and vegetables

instead of higher-calorie foods can help you lose excess weight and maintain a healthy weight. The water and fiber in fruits and vegetables will add volume to your dishes, so that you can eat the same amount of food with fewer calories. Most fruits and vegetables are naturally low in fat and calories, yet are filling. Since it is recommended that half of our plates consist of fruits and vegetables, it makes sense logically that half of our grocery bill be reserved for fruit and vegetable purchases. Investing in canned and frozen produce is a great way to stretch the grocery budget while making sure we’re getting all the fruits and veggies we need to maintain, restore, and enjoy a healthy life.

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‘Tis the season: Yearend tax tips help those in retirement

A SALUTE TO

JOHNSON COUNTY’S

VETERANS in cooperation with Americans Remembered

By Scott M. Dougan

he holiday season is here, and as we get ready to spend time with family and friends it is also the time to make some strategic financial moves before yearend. With proper planning, Boomers and retirees can take advantage of these tips to ring in the New Year with significant tax savings: Consider a Roth IRA Conversion— If you have recently retired and have lower income to report than in previous years, now may be a good time to consider a conversion. You can convert small, partial amounts over a multi-year approach to stay within a comfortable tax bracket. Utilize a Health Savings Account (HSA) – You may be eligible for a onetime rollover from a traditional IRA into a health savings account. The converted amount does not have to be claimed as income on current taxes, and the HSA will provide future tax-free income for any qualified medical expenses. You must have an eligible health insurance plan, and can only convert up to the annual contribution limit for 2014. Max Out Contributions. At age 50, contribution limits to qualified retirement plans will go up to allow “catchup contributions.” This includes up to $23,000 to most 401(k) plans as well as $6,500 to a Roth IRA or traditional IRA for you and for a spouse. Income limits will impact your options, so be sure to speak with a tax professional to identify the best strategy for your unique needs. Correctly Calculating Required Minimum Distribution. If you turned 70 in or before the first six months of 2014, be sure to correctly calculate required minimum distributions for all qualified retirement accounts. Taking a withdraw late or for a lesser amount than required will result in a stiff 50 percent tax penalty in addition

Al Lemieux Mission Korea, Marines, rifleman in 5th Marines, lst Marine Division, sergeant, 1950-1954. Served at capture of Punch Bowl above 38th Parallel, Combat Action Ribbon, other medals. to regular income tax on the amount that should have been withdrawn. Qualified Charitable Distributions (QCDs). This provision allows anyone with Required Minimum Distributions to gift part or all of the mandatory withdraw to a qualified charity without claiming the income; plus, the charity receives the full amount. This provision expired at the end of 2013 but historically has been approved by Congress as a last-minute offering at yearend. And, while there is no guarantee that it will actually happen, you could still benefit from gifting as if the provision is already in place. If the QCD is not reinstated, you’ll have to claim the distribution as income on your return and claim the contribution to charity as an itemized deduction. By considering these tips as a part of your total financial plan, you will be well on your way to keeping and enjoying more of your hard-earned money in 2015. Note: Information is not intended to provide specific legal or tax advice. You are encouraged to consult your tax or legal professional for guidance on your individual situation.

Buell Hoyt Overland Park Cold War, pre-Vietnam, stateside, Army Special Services, 325th Base Post Office, sergeant, Played baseball on Army base team at Fort Leonard Wood. Served six years active and reserves. Dave Walker Lenexa Cold War, pre-Vietnam, Army Medical Corps, stateside, E5, medical lab technician at Yuma Proving Grounds. Served from 1961-1963. Jim Martin Overland Park Korean War, Fort Chaffee, AR, Army Medical Service Corps, pharmacy officer, first lieutenant. Served 1953-1955.

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Phil Feehan Overland Park Korea, in country 19531954, Infantry, 45th Inf. Div., 180th Regiment, F Company, Purple Heart.

The Best Times features veterans each month. Some vets outside Johnson County are featured when their family members are Johnson County seniors. To suggest a vet’s name, including yours, contact Gary Swanson: call 913-744-8282 or email gswanson@kc.rr. com.

December 2014

When making a donation: Be a cheerful (and smart) giver!

By Sandi Weaver

mericans are thankful in November when reuniting with family at the Thanksgiving table. We are givers in December throughout the holiday season. Take these three tips below, and you can give even more. Do you drop a $20 bill into Salvation Army’s red buckets when you’re strolling the Plaza? Or do you nod “yes” when the grocer asks if you want to donate $2 to their store’s weekly charity? To give even more, write a check and put that in the red bucket, or charge it on your debit card later, or donate using your credit card on Salvation Army’s website. Why? So you can get your tax deduction. Your cancelled check image or debit charge on your bank statement, or your credit card statement, is your documentation for taxes. For example, if you drop $20 in cash into the red bucket 10 times over this holiday season, that’s $200. If you and your spouse together have over $74,000 in pensions, social security, wages, and other taxable income, you likely pay taxes at the 25 percent tax rate. If you write a check instead of giving cash, you’ll save $50 in taxes if you give $200 and take the deduction. Then you can add that $50 onto your next check into the red bucket. Will you give $1,000 to your favorite charity by year’s end? Stop that! Instead, review the holdings on your investment statement on your taxable account. Choose the investment with the highest gain, in percentage terms. Donate shares of that one to your charity instead. Why? Your charity doesn’t pay taxes, but you do. Let’s say you bought Exxon at $30 per share years ago. A share is now worth $100. Your gain is 233 percent. If you sell 10 shares of Exxon to raise the $1,000 to donate, you’ll pay taxes of about $140 for federal and state taxes. So if you write a check you pay about $1,140; if you give the shares you pay $1,000. One of our retired clients often makes a charitable gift of Commerce Bank stock, a former employer, in December. On their 2012 return, they took a tax deduction of $3,048, the amount of their donation.

Their cost in the stock was $246. If they had sold those 85 shares, rather than having us transfer them to their church, they would have had a capital gain of $2,802 and extra taxes of about $560. The higher the gain you have, the more taxes you save. If you give to your charity weekly or monthly throughout the year, now is a good time to make arrangements to stop in January, and make a one-time gift in 2015 instead, using an appreciated investment. Finally, don’t make the Internal Revenue Service one of your charities! Make sure you get your deduction from the IRS. Find your marginal tax rate on the summary page on last year’s tax return. If your tax rate is 25 percent, and you gifted $1,000 this year, then you’ll save $250 on your taxes. That’s a real savings so follow the rules. If you gift less than $250, the IRS requires that you keep a copy of the check or credit card statement. Get a receipt from your charity showing your name, the amount and date. If you donate more than $250, that receipt must state if the charity gave you any goods or services in return for your contribution, and if so the receipt must describe those along with a good faith estimate of the value. The IRS denied a $25,000 deduction for a taxpayer who didn’t get proper documentation in 2012. Ouch! Be mindful to get that receipt, particularly if you’re giving to smaller charities with a small staff who may not be aware of the IRS rules. One of our clients, a retired banker and executive, supported a smaller church in Kansas City, Mo. for a time. They assisted financially with their experience and also by donating appreciated investments. The Statement of Contributions from that church needed to state something similar to “No goods or services were provided (other than intangible religious benefits) for the tax-deductible value shown above.” Watch for that sentence, and don’t lose your deduction. Sandi Weaver is president of Financial Security Advisors in Prairie Village.

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Your Chairman Chairman Ed Eilert Phone: 913-715-0500 Email Ed.Eilert@jocogov.org

Your Commissioners C. Edward Peterson 1st District Phone: 913-715-0431 Email Ed.Peterson@jocogov.org

Jim Allen 2nd District Phone: 913-715-0432 Email Jim.Allen@jocogov.org

Steve Klika 3rd District Phone: 913-715-0433 Email Steve.Klika@jocogov.org

Jason L. Osterhaus 4th District Phone: 913-715-0434 Email Jason.Osterhaus@jocogov.org

Michael Ashcraft 5th District Phone: 913-715-0435 Email

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John Toplikar 6th District Phone: 913-715-0436 Email John.Toplikar@jocogov.org

The weekly public business sessions of the Johnson County Board of Commissioners begin at 9:30 a.m. on Thursdays in the Johnson County Administration Building, 111 S. Cherry Street, in downtown Olathe. Live coverage of the meetings is viewable each week over the Internet through the county’s main website at www.jocogov. org.

Thoughts on being a senior citizen: I have arrived!

By Don Rinck Sr.

have earned the right to old age – which is a gift earned by years of work, worry, raising a family, and making mistakes. I sometimes take note of what my body has become, wrinkled, balding and gray, mini beer-belly, scars and aching joints. This gives me the license of old age and to be known as “senior citizen” and to: • Walk a little slower and wobble, have warts, and hair in my ears. • Wear slightly larger clothes than normal and white socks with EVERYTHING. • Say “yes,” “no,” “maybe,” or “ask me later,” and not explain why. • Quit raising my children after they turn 40, and ask them to take care of ME. • To not trade my family and friends for more hair and a flatter stomach. • Take two days instead of 30 minutes to mow the lawn and to eat a couple of extra cookies. • Order a Happy Meal at Mickey-D’’s or buy that extra roll of duct tape that I might need. • Go to bed at 9 p.m. or stay up till 4 a.m. playing on my computer. • Get up at 4 a.m. to have MY TIME without conversation. • Stare at the full moon

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Old Days” were good, simple, and times were really enjoyable. • Die in dignity without some bugle-mouthed politician telling me I can’t. Just give me my space, respect for my knowledge, and my pain pills for one day you might arrive at the same station in life that’s called old age, and you too can wear your badge of “senior citizen” with all the warts, bald head, sagging boobs, ear hair, wide rear end, and sketchy memories of your childhood. Have a great life of ordinary miracles that comes from laughing, getting angry, watching people, and wondering what God thinks of this world He created. Finally, smile all the time – it makes people wonder what you’re up to. Don Rinck Sr. is retired and a resident of Mission.

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SERVICES PROVIDED Computer Training For Seniors SenCom (Senior Computer Users Group of KC) is offering three-hour computer workshops sponsored by Shawnee Parks and Recreation. Workshops are hands-on, senior paced, with plenty of help. They are held at 6535 Quivira. December offerings include: Beginners Computer Workshop, Computer Maintenance, and Internet Basics. To register for a class call: 913-6315200. For more information about the group and meeting times call: Teresa at 913206-7017, or visit us on the Web at www. kcsenior.net. Johnson County Home Service Plumbing Co. Free service call for any plumbing in your home with this ad! Servicing Johnson County for over 50 years. JCHS is a division of Reddi Root’r Systems. Trust earned the old-fashioned way! Angie’s List Super Award winner. Member Better Business Bureau. www.jocoplumbing.com or 913-439-1700. Swalms Organizing and Downsizing Service. Reduce clutter and enjoy an organized home! Basement, attic, garage, shop, storage rooms—any room organized. Belongings sorted, boxed, and labeled. Items hauled for recycling, items donated, trash bagged. For before-and-after photos, please see www.swalmsorganizing.com. Over 20 years of organizing experience, insured. Call Tillar: 913-375-9115. Doggie Day Care and Boarding at All Things Dogs KC. Pets are not caged and they stay in a home atmosphere that’s on two acres fenced. Call Kim at 816-7191339. WRITE YOUR LIFE STORY WORKBOOK. Learn how to start, organize, and finish writing your life story. Order: www. angelinyourinkwell.com and click on Buy Here. Or send $15 plus $5 shipping to Carol Newman, PO Box 480835, Kansas City, MO 64145-0835. Questions: call Carol 913-681-1168. Complete Residential Services. Electrical, plumbing repairs, interior and exterior painting, driveway sealing and repair, expert textured ceiling or wall repair. Free estimates and references available. Call Rich at 913-522-8325.

CPR Computing. For all your computer needs. Virus and spyware removal, Windows repair and installation, upgrades, software and hardware training, new PC consultation, and networking. Call Rich Armstrong at 913-522-8325. Fast, friendly, and very affordable.

Glen’s Installs and Handyman Service. 25 years as experienced owner/installer. No job too small. Windows, doors, bathroom and kitchen remodeling, electrical and plumbing repairs. Home 913-764-0520; cell phone 816-260-5024. References available. www.glensinstalls.com. Learn to Re-Direct Anger. Got “healthy” anger? Make your anger work for you instead of it getting in your way or being isolated. We teach the tools. Anger Alternatives 816-753-5118 www.anger. org.

MG Home Repair and Improvement. All around the home repairs. Carpentry, lighting, plumbing, concrete repairs, deck and fence repair, power washing, staining and sealing, interior and exterior painting. Experienced, quality workmanship; senior discounts; free estimates; insured. Call Michael in Shawnee, 913-486-9040. Adult painting classes now forming. Have fun while making new friends in a small creative painting environment designed for all skill levels. No prior experience necessary, contact Carole, at 913-8251307. Visit my website at caroleabla.com. Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management and transportation to the elderly and disabled in their home, assisted living or skilled nursing facility. We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at 913-341-2500 and speak with Laurie, Debbie or Gary.

Thanks for your LAWN business! I look forward to your lawn needs in 2015. Any “Handy Man Needs” this winter call Kurt @ 816-896-7354. Prescription Drug SAVINGS! See www. LSRXCare.org/99622. Patient Advocacy Group helps those qualified to save on name brand drugs. I can help, if you are uninsured, or have Medicare Part D, Obamacare or private insurance. Join us and save! Call Beth at 913-787-5917. Larry Laney Construction Co. Specializing in Kitchen / Bathroom Remodeling and Home Renovation. Finish Carpentry, Painting, Electrical, Plumbing, Drywall and Tile . I’m an Honest, Hardworking , Dependable and Very Skilled Licensed Contractor, Insured with References . Call Larry at 913-963-3434.

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your December classifieds SERVICES PROVIDED Nook N’ Cranny residential home cleaning service. Dependable and specified to your needs. Call Mary Pat Mayer cell at 786-2236540 References available upon request. Budget Tree Services, LLC: Trees trimmed, shaped or removed. Shrubs shaped or removed. Fence rows cleaned. No job too small. Licensed, insured. 913-568-7386. Free Estimates. BudgetTreeServicekc.com. AM/PM Technology DAY/NIGHT PC, Apple and Android Service (including computers, tablets and smart phones.) We come to your home. Same low rates and senior discounts for all services. 913-385-2676. For 19 years we have been the #1 resource for helping seniors in Johnson County to install new PCs, get rid of viruses, resolve e-mail issues, repair equipment, set up wireless networks and handle related issues. To learn more, schedule a visit or ask for free advice, call Joe, John, Doug or Patrick at 913-3852676. “We speak English.”

Senior hairstyling; haircuts, perms, color, roller or blow dry styling. located at 5909 Dearborn Dr. Mission, Ks. Between Martway and Johnson Drive. No steps. Front door parking. Call Carol at 913-341-8757. If no answer leave a message. $5 off first visit. HANDYMAN PRO, LLC - Repair, Remodel, Renew. Bathrooms, painting, decks, yard work, sheetrock repair, grab bars, ramp building. Call Tom for free estimate. 913-4887320. Handymanprokc.com. Mister Green Landscaping & Lawn Care. Family owned and operated. Let us help you get ready for winter. One-stop for all your lawn needs!*Leaf clean up*Gutter cleaning*Tree trimming & removal*Bush trimming**Retaining walls*Drain solutions*Mowing**Irrigation winterization & repairs**Landscape*Trim bushes*Yard work. FREE ESTIMATES, SENIOR DISCOUNTS, QUICK SERVICE, 10+ years’ experience, licensed & insured. 913-707-2551.

Cleaning “Maid Simple.” Residential house cleaning. Reasonable and dependable. Johnson County area. Call Denise Carter. 913-563-5883. Free estimates.

HOUSING Time flies! Start planning now to get more than you pay for in an affordable, faith-friendly home. Now accepting applications for our waiting list: Olathe Towers and College Way Village. 913-782-6131. Equal Housing Opportunity. All faiths or beliefs welcome. Downsizing in your future? Consider renting a Shawnee duplex. Like home, only smaller. New paint, carpet, appliances. Two bedrooms, one bath, garage, storage, laundry room, deck, landscaped, walking path nearby. Maintenance free. $900 month. Seasoned citizen landlord next door. Call 913-268-4381 to visit.

ITEMS WANTED RESIDENTIAL LIFTS. Buy, sell, trade. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts, elevators. Call Silver Cross at 913-327-5557.

your December calendar All classes and events require registration unless otherwise indicated.

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December 1 Personalized Letter from Santa. Call 913-642-6410 by December 18 with name, address, and any particular information to personalize the letter from Santa. $5 per letter. Movie Monday: “While You Were Sleeping.” 12:15 p.m. at Lenexa Senior Center. Optional lunch at 11:30 a.m. Call 913-888-6141 between 9-10 a.m. 24 hours in advance for lunch reservations Quick Cable Cowl. 6:30-8:30 p.m. Shawnee Civic Center. $30 Learn to use circular needles and add chunky cables to create a quick project.

December 2

Retirement Tax-Planning 101. 6:30 p.m. Extension. *Tuesday Tunes with Betse Ellis. 6:30 p.m. at Olathe Public Library. Free. *Concert-New Horizons Band. 7 p.m. at Yardley Hall, 12345 College Blvd. Overland Park. Free! For additional information, please call (913) 826-3160.

December 4 *Chapter Chat Book Club. 1 p.m. Southridge Presbyterian, 5015 Buena Vista Street, Roeland Park. $5/$6. Participants bring their own book, “The Time Keeper,” by Mitch Albom. Come prepared to discuss. Call (913) 826-3160 for more information.

All Aboard! Model Railroad Display. 6:30-8:30 p.m. Olathe Public Library. Free.

AARP Smart Driver Course. 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Towne Village Leawood, 4400 West 115th Street. $15/$20. 913-491-3681.

Finding Purpose in Advocacy. 10 a.m. Alzheimer’s Association Education Center, 3856 W. 75th Street, Prairie Village. Call Kelly Jones at 913-831-3888 for reservations. Use your experience to become a strong advocate for good public policy.

AARP Smart Driver Course. 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Johnson County Government Campus, Sunset Building Room 1945, 11811 South Sunset Drive, Olathe. $15/$20. 913826-2859.

December 6

*Mayor’s Tree Lighting. 5:30 p.m. Merriam Marketplace. *Christmas Open House. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Mahaffie Stage Coach. Enjoy music by the Shady Grove String Band, make an ornament and string popcorn. Enjoy 1860s living history. $2 donation suggested.

50 & Beyond Potluck. 12-2 p.m. Sylvester Powell. Free. Register and bring your favorite food dish to share with the group.

Senior Cinema: “Happy Christmas”. 12:15 p.m. at Lenexa Senior Center. Free popcorn, beverage and movie. Call 913-477-7100 for reservations.

December 9-10

China Painting. 9 a.m. Roeland Park. Three 3 hour classes $46/$51. No painting skills necessary. Call 913826-3160 to Register.

December 6-7 All Aboard! Model Railroad Display. 6:30-8:30 p.m. Olathe Public Library. Free.

December 9 Fish Tales. 2:30-3:30 p.m. Uncle Buck’s at Bass Pro, 12051 Bass Pro Drive, Olathe. Call 913-831-3888 for reservations. A Reminiscence and discussion for individuals with earlier stage dementia who enjoy the outdoors. 50 & Beyond Matinee: The Giver. 12:30 p.m. Sylvester Powell. $1. Popcorn, coffee and water provided. Genealogy 101. 1:30 p.m. at Matt Ross. $23/25. Learn the process of recording your ancestors. Participants will receive reference material to assist in research. Register one week in advance by calling 913-642-6410.

December 10 Plaza Lights & Dinner at Brio Tuscan Grille. 4:30 p.m. Matt Ross. $18, includes transportation, guide and ornament. Depart from Antioch Park. Dinner reservations at 5 p.m., cost of dinner not included. Register early; seating is limited.

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December 11 Bingo: Frosty and Friends. 1:30 p.m. Roeland Park. 1-2 hour event $5/$6 at door. Includes 12 games, food and prizes. Call 913- 826-3160 for reservations. *Holiday Bingo Cookie & Ornament Exchange. 1:303:30 p.m. Irene B. French Community Center. $3/3 cards. Bring one dozen favorite holiday cookies and a wrapped ornament for exchange.

December 12

Winter Blast Pickleball Tournament. 9 a.m.-5 p.m. at Jewish Community Center, 5801 West 115th Street, Overland Park. $20. You must be 50 by registration deadline of December 5. Call 913-642-6410 to register.

December 13 Holiday Marketplace. 9:30-11:30 a.m. Roeland Park. Gather family and friends for a festive holiday morning! Refreshments, Santa, holiday crafts and a special shopping just for kids! Children will be able to shop Santa’s marketplace for the perfect gift (all $10 or less) for any member of their family. Call 913 826-3160 for more information. Paint & Pop: “Elf Legs.” 9-11 a.m. Shawnee Civic Center. $25. Use acrylic paint to create an 11x14 canvas. Holiday Tea Party. 12:30-2 p.m. Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop. $5 ages 5 and up. Enjoy tea and refreshments. Make an ornament. Register by December 12.

December 17

Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol. 5:50 p.m. Sylvester Powell. $63/person, includes transportation, backstage tour & ticket to the show.

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*Book Munch for Lunch Bunch. 11:30 a.m. at Sunflower Café, 111 S Cherry, Olathe, lower level of Johnson County Administration Building. Sponsored by Olathe Public Library. Bring/buy your own lunch.

Transitions. 9:30 a.m. Alzheimer’s Association Education Center, 3856 W 75th Street, Prairie Village. Support group for family members who have lost someone with Alzheimer’s or another dementia. Call 913-831-3888 for reservations.

December 19 Country Dance Party. 7:30-10:30 p.m. Shawnee Civic Center. $5 at door. Dance the night away in smoke and alcohol free environment.

December 23

Scrapbook Crop. 8:30 a.m. Roeland Park. $11/$12 for 8-hour session. Gather your scrapbooking tools for a day of uninterrupted social interaction, and artistic inspiration. Call 913 826-3160 to Register.

50 & Beyond Matinee: It’s a Wonderful Life. 12:30 p.m. $1. Popcorn, coffee and water provided. Preregistration highly recommended.

December 31 Noon Year’s Eve. 11:30 a.m. Roeland Park. $15 for 1-2 ½ hour event. Celebrate the New Year at noon! Enjoy a catered lunch followed by a balloon drop and 12 games of bingo. Bingo winners will be awarded prizes. Everyone welcome! Call 913-826-3160 to register.

FACILITY LOCATIONS BLUE VALLEY REC.: Blue Valley Recreation Activity Center: 6545 W. 151st St., Overland Park, KS 66223; 913-685-6000; www.bluevalleyrec.org. CENTRAL RESOURCE LIBRARY: 9875 W. 87th St., Overland Park, KS 66212; 913826-4600 and Press 3 for all Johnson County Library reservations. EXTENSION: Johnson County K-State Research and Extension, 11811 S. Sunset Drive, Olathe, KS 66061; 913-715-7000; www.johnson.ksu.edu/classes. INDIAN CREEK: Indian Creek Branch Library, 12990 Black Bob Road, Olathe, KS 66062; 913-971-6888. IRENE B. FRENCH: Irene B. French Community Center, 5701 Merriam Drive, Merriam, KS 66203; 913-322-5550.

NEW CENTURY: New Century Fieldhouse, 551 New Century Parkway, New Century, KS 66031; 913-826-2860. OLATHE PUBLIC LIBRARY: 201 E. Park St., Olathe, KS 66061; 913-971-6850; to register, 913-971-6888. PRAIRIE VILLAGE: Prairie Village Community Center, 7720 Mission Road, Prairie Village, KS 66208. ROELAND PARK: Roeland Park Community Center, 4850 Rosewood Drive, Roeland Park, KS 66205; 913-826-3160. SHAWNEE CIVIC CENTRE: 13817 Johnson Drive, Shawnee, KS 66216; 913-631-5200.

LENEXA SENIOR CENTER: 13425 Walnut St., Lenexa, KS 66215; 913-477-7100. MAHAFFIE STAGECOACH STOP AND FARM: 1200 Kansas City Road, Olathe, KS 66061; 913-971-5111. MATT ROSS: Matt Ross Community Center, 8101 Marty St., Overland Park, KS 66212; 913-642-6410. MILL CREEK: Mill Creek Activity Center, 6518 Vista, Shawnee, KS 66218; 913-

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